From how we dress and what we eat to how we talk and even what we allow ourselves to feel; we humans need to internalize a lot of rules if we are to properly function in our societies.
But as you probably know, it can be tricky to rationalize if our actions are acceptable or not.
Recently, Reddit user IPlayBongos was browsing the platform when they came across the question "What feels illegal, but isn't?" in one of the subreddits they follow. "I can't remember which one now, but it was a post that had ... one funny answer (I think it was ... about feeling guilty to leave a supermarket without buying anything.)," they told Bored Panda.
"I thought there must be so many other things that feel this way in life so I just went to r/AskReddit to see what people can come up with."

IPlayBongos reposted the same question there and it instantly caught the eye of the 35.6M-big community. So even though it's not technically an original idea, the Redditor did correctly identify the immense potential of entertainment it possessed. And we're really glad they decided to seek more replies because of the nearly 9K comments IPlayBongos has received, many pinpointed the exact circumstances our moral ambiguity kicks in.
Since we at Bored Panda had such a blast going through the discussion, we decided to compile the most interesting ones and bring you in on the fun too. Enjoy!
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A hundred-billion-dollar corporation paying absolutely zero in taxes whilst also owning several billion-dollar businesses.
And receiving subsidies, causing local businesses to shut down, polluting the local environment, destroying the job market...
But the trickles! They go down! And wealth creation tides and boats! All the boats!!! With the trickling!!!
Technically true. Because every single cent in taxes levied on a business owner is paid by the consumer. Every time taxes are raised or imposed, it's YOU that pays them. Think about that the next time you go to the polls.
This is the first one on the list that I've actually agreed with. It should be deeply illegal.
Speaking maybe about a day later, now this is simply the first one on the list.
Load More Replies...Congressman and congresswomen,all lawyers, made sure their masters stayed rich do they could get donations and great jobs after leaving Congress.
You don't understand tax law. And also don't understand that's its likely you have a job there because of that law.
What all the people fueling your rage on this issue fail to mention everytime is that a "billion dollar company" references the amount money it is worth on the stock market. It's not like said company is sitting on a pile of money worth billions. It may have absolutely $0 in actual positive money on hand and completely deal in turning one resource into another which is where it's "value" comes from. Also, the corporation exist as a taxable entity independent of the owners and operators. (Ie. The evil rich ppl you want to get). The CEOs and owners who shift their money overseas and use other loopholes to avoid taxation are the real enemy. The corporationa they own and manage are just cogs in the machine. So they distract you in your ignorance getting you all fired up and trying to take down middle American businesses for them with corporate taxes while they continue to sip drinks on their yachts with their actual money safely in the markets and in offshore accounts.
You seem to have a funny definition of "the middle American business" and how much net worth they have.
Load More Replies...Tell me you don't know anything about taxes without telling me you don't know anything about taxes: Billionaire businesses prepay their taxes because of the amount of transactions that happen throughout the year. Imagine a team of CPAs going over trillions of transactions to calculate taxes for an entire year throughout the course of the few months given to them after November whole keeping the books balanced at the same time for Dec through April. The reason those balances are 0 on their tax forms is because of prepaying. The reason for your w-2 showing a negative number on your taxes is because that return you're getting comes from taxes you paid that they're paying you back for... as in the individual pays next to 0 percent tax of they're a W-2 employee, and the business has to pay half of your taxes for you on top of that.
Bringing your baby home from the hospital the first time. I remember thinking “they’re really going to let me just walk out of here with this fragile infant and no experience?!”
I drove 25 miles per hour all the way home from the hospital. People behind me were not happy, but I was so afraid to drive with her in the car that first time.
It used to be moms got to stay in hospital for a week so we could teach them so much about the basics so they wouldn't be freaked out as much about going home. No one was at the moms every 5 minutes about breastfeeding either. It was their CHOICE. They got left alone about it. We even had an entire class about baby formula and bottle feeding. Heresy! There used to be so much help, but not anymore. It costs too much money.
I wanted help from the lactation consultant but she couldn't be bothered because she was heading out for vacation. We ended up using formula which caused my baby to projectile vomit because she needed sensitive formula until my milk came in. She did much better on human milk than powder/liquid made in a factory, but I understand not all women can nurse and not all want to. It is absolutely a woman's choice.
Load More Replies...I agree, my wife was clearly terrified, so I manned up and did the whole "it'll be fine, we got this covered", but was actually c**pping myself too.
"I would say most of the answers were driven by some expectations that should be fulfilled by some societal measures, but it somehow feels wrong if they are not," IPlayBongos said. "Like in the supermarket example above, it just feels strange to go inside a store and not buy anything because if you leave empty-handed it feels awkward to just pass by the cashier and simply say bye to them or to just slip out around so many paying customers."
Or consider another scenario: you're talking to colleagues during a coffee break and your boss rolls around. "Even if he doesn't say anything and you're perfectly ok joking around on your break, it somehow reminds you of your duties and the fun dies down."
"One of the top comments was a guy who uses a wheelchair, but still can stand up if needed," IPlayBongos added. "It makes perfect sense to use a wheelchair even if you're not completely disabled, but maybe it's also the fault of pop culture and the infinite gags about faking a disability that we feel like wheelchairs are strictly for people with serious disabilities and others are fakes."
The Redditor said it was actually one answer that they did not expect to hear and that is precisely why they like the platform. "There's always someone who faces completely different challenges than you and it is eye opening [to hear about them]," IPlayBongos said.
Asking someone for the money you lent to him/her.
My dear old dad used to say not to lend more money than you're willing to lose. Solid advice, I don't lend money to anyone besides my mom. I never expect her to pay me back because she's mom and has only ever asked twice to borrow money.
Especially when you're told you're cheap for asking for it! Like "What, b****?! I'M the f'n cheap one?!"
I know a few people who think SAYING they are going to pay you back is the same thing as actually doing it
My aunt used to say if you wanted to get somebody out of your life forever, loan them money. You can guarantee they will avoid you until the end of time because they're gonna assume, rightly, that you're gonna want to ask for the money back. I myself got rid of some real a**holes just by loaning them $20 and they dropped off the face of the Earth
They like to make you feel guilty, because if they wanted to borrow money from someone who disliked them enough to ask for it back, they would have asked the bank.
The quickest way to get rid of someone that you don't want in your life anymore is to loan them money. There's a high probability they'll dodge you the rest of their life.
If they couldn't take care of their own money what makes you think they'll take care of your money?
Don't lend money, only give it away and expect nothing in return. You can be pleasantly surprised if the other person insists on paying it back.
Don't lend money... give it or don't part with it. Loaning is a curse for both of you
It feels illegal getting out of my wheelchair. I’m not paralyzed but it helps to have a wheelchair, but people always think I’m faking a disability when I get out of my chair.
With all the disabled parking vigilantism and overall disbelief that someone is ill coupled with the general stupidity of the public in regards to chronic illness/injury - this does not surprise me at all.
I have something that will keep you happy and healthy!!! Are you ready.... MIND YOUR OWN F**KIN BUSINESS. This the secret to a good life.
Load More Replies...I used to repairs wheelchairs and other durable medical equipment for a living. The amount of sh*t that people with any and all levels of disability have to put up with is unendingly maddening. Minor disability? Lazy or faking it. Severely disabled? Dismissed and condescended to. Or they’re heroes for living with a disability! Most people I knew had a simple outlook: Hey, my legs don’t work, and that sucks, but I manage. I don’t need your pity or your judgement, just a little help sometimes.
That's mostly what I've heard, so I try not to bring any attention to these sorts of things unless they do first. Basically they just want to be treated like a normal person unless they physically cannot do a thing themselves. I will make the exception and hold doors open or reach high up things though, they seem a little appreciative of that. (Ask first before reaching, though)
Load More Replies...Yup. That’s what the media does. You can only have a wheelchair if you have the most devastating of problems. You cannot possibly need one if you’re, say, an 87 year old man who just isn’t supposed to stay standing for an hour.
Yup. I'm right there with you Don't Look. I had a heart attack at 55. First thing that the cardiologist says to me the next day in the hospital is, "There are two kinds of heart attacks. The first kind is when you have a heart attack, it scares the crap out of you and you start getting in shape after your heart attack and running half marathons. . . . you didn't have one of those. Your heart is Damaged." --- so I'm a perfectly healthy 'LOOKING' 57 year old who can't walk very far at all cuz I get out of breath when I brush my teeth.
Load More Replies...People think a wheelchair means you can't walk but it also means you can't walk for long distances. We always get one for my mom when going places in Japan like theme parks, but Japanese people are kind and polite. At the Ueno Zoo they let just skip past the line for the pandas.
I understand the feeling. I use crutches off and on because I have rheumatoid arthritis and Still's Disease. Some days my pain is manageable, some days it's not. On the days my pain isn't well managed, I use the crutches. I often wish I had a wheelchair, my house has the accessibility.
To Insert etc. I am sure you have exhausted all means locally ie: if you live in US you contacted county health programs, checked Craig's list.... If you have a go fund me page, I would be willing to contribute a bit and probably many here would also. Many bits could equal a wheel chair.??
Load More Replies...Whilst recovering from chemo, I used to push my wheelchair whilst my Dad walked beside me. The chair was there for when I got tired, as I had two flights of stairs to climb to get back to my apartment, and no lift! Don't remember too many funny looks, but it must've looked a bit weird.
There's a Parking Nazi at my local grocery store, he accosts me every time I park in a handicapped space. He says I don't look disabled and I shouldn't use the space. I don't use a walker or wheelchair (yet) but sometimes use a cane. People are so ignorant: most disabilities aren't visible to the naked eye 🙄
I second this! I have a handicapped placard, i have cancer but am in 30s and look fine. Some days i can walk from back of lot, some days i utilize the front spots but when i do i get dirty looks. Im not explaining to judgemental strangers that my tumor pushed my lungs into a ball. I do hate it when people without the placards park in the spots and have called parking authority on them if belligerent.
Your employer will tell you you're not allowed to discuss your wages but legally you are and you cannot be fired for it
It may be legal to discuss your wages with fellow employees, but I bet you're two to one if you do it and you tell your boss that they'll figure out a way to fire you.
If you sign a contract saying you can't, then you can't. Otherwise, f**k em. Everyone start discussing wages. Get that reform ball rolling!
Contracts that codify illegal acts are unenforceable. But in an "at will" state they will make up an excuse and fire you anyway if they think they can get away with it.
Load More Replies...I have no idea where this weird idea comes from. I have been in full-time work for over forty years and I have never come across this. We have always openly discussed our earnings and still do. Is this something prevalent in the US, I wonder?
It's been at every company I've worked at in the US. Which is upsetting considering there are old labor laws on the books making it illegal for companies to discourage discourse on compensation.
Load More Replies...You can be fired for it where i live. They have you sign paperwork stating that you accept that they can fire you for no reason. Same batch of paperwork where you agree to follow safety standards (and then find out they make it almost impossible to follow safety standards, even moderately punish you for wasting company time, but since you signed the paperwork you can't sue them if you get injured because it's "your" fault since you signed the paperwork...)
Walmart did something like this for me, the reason they cited was that I kept my work 36" from the conveyor instead of 30" but I actually left because peak season ended at the same time my benefits were going to kick in.
Load More Replies...I remember in my early days I was told that several times. Being young I believed it
Be careful with this one. Some employers actually codify their wages and benefits in their policy manual. It may not be illegal, but it could get you fired for violating company policy. There is no legal expectation for privacy or free speech in a company workplace. It's their space and their rules. Discussing pay with coworkers is not protected speech if specifically prohibited in their written policy.
The explanation one of my older jobs had for this was that since they were a multi-state contractor (work from home) who had multiple clients, positions, and employees from multiple states, they didn't want anyone talking about their wages except with the manager, at least not on the clock and in front of everyone. But it was pretty obvious that employees from different states were paid different based on, like, taxes and minimum wage laws.
Calling in sick when you're actually sick.
Also making your voice sound a little strained and raspy to really highlight that you're super sick, even though you are super sick but has nothing to do with your tonsils 😂
This is a red flag. If your workplace is like this, start looking for a new job.
Same here. Always having to make sure your illness sounds serious enough to warrant leave.
My first job, I tried to call in sick, was told I would be fired if I didn't come in sick. Came in with a fever (husband had to drive me to work because I couldn't actually focus enough to drive), and got called in for a discplonary meeting for the fact that I had even tried to call in sick. They also got upset that my husband had hung around all day (because we couldn't afford gas money for him to drive home and then back to pick me up again, and also we were worried I might collapse and he wanted to be there) and were completely paranoid that he was going to try to rob the place. The whole meeting had a very chastising and accusatory tone while they tried to intimidate me. I quit that day and had to deal with the typical "your generation just doesn't understand and doesn't want to work" attitude from a lot of people.
It's like that with everything. "I mean ffs that's typical of your mother to go and die on a Tuesday!"
I don't even have the option. If I call out sick the place I work will literally just close for the day because there's no one else to come in and the other person there can't be expected to do it alone as it's just too much for one person.
U.S legislators are allowed to trade stock in and sit on boards of private companies while passing legislation affecting those companies.
In many countries, including the UK, this is either illegal or very tightly regulated.
THIS!!!! It's called insider trading and applies to everyone except these idiots.
Umm, they are not idiots, but those who keep voting for them may be.
Load More Replies...Nancy Pelosi got rich after getting elected to Congress thanks to her influence & insider trading.
They even took down Martha Friggen Stewart for it but Congressmen and Senators nope not illegal for them!
Load More Replies...That is so wrong on so many levels. How in the world can congressman senators and people like that make unbiased decisions when they own the companies that they're making the decisions about. It's not right.
And why does Congress get to exempt themselves from laws that apply to everyone else? And determine their own raises?
Load More Replies...The things I would like to say about this contain many obscenities. So I will just say it should be criminal..
This is illegal in the US. When elected, you are supposed to put your finances in a blind trust and it is prohibited by law from sitting on the board of directors of any entity where they could make a profit. There is a loophole to allow them to serve non-paid positions so they can be on the board of charities or humanitarian groups. In 2019, Rep Chris Collins was convicted of violating these rules and doing insider trading resulting in a prison sentence. He served 2 months then Trump pardoned him. Who would have thought an ex-president who attempted to overthrow a democratic election would pardon a friend for violating ethics laws?
There is no requirement for this. There was a law passed making it illegal in obamas first term, then reversed his next. Congress can insider trade all they want
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Walking out of a store without buying smth
Yep. I would just kinda anxiously nod at security at the exit and fear they'll stop me, thinking I might've shoplifted something. :')
A lot of stores are deliberately designed to make it awkward as hell to walk out without buying something.
I was once trapped in a Walgreens that had an "enter only" door, and they put up a barricade making it so that you had to walk through the registers to get to the exit door, and there was a line leading to the registers. I was there for a vaccine and was never intending to buy anything, but I basically had to in order to get out.
Load More Replies...I try to get a soda or something....or my favorite go-to is walk out slowly while looking confused like "they didn't have it" and making sure that I show both my hands. Sometimes I elaborate by taking out my phone to show that I haven't hidden anything in my pockets.
Never bothered me none. I've walked out of plenty of stores without buying anything.
If my anxiety is particularly bad the day I can't find anything to buy, I will buy a pack of gum or a candy bar. LOL
Walk into a dollar store with a backpack and watch how quickly they fall over themselves to require you to leave your bag at the front. It's a phenomenon you won't see anywhere else.
Nah, I just walk out. If someone gives me a look, I cheerfully say "Y'ain't got it, I'll be back".
Driving next to a cop at the speed limit
Or in front of. Heck, I get nervous driving behind them because I had a cop use his rear speed radar and some questionable and unsafe driving tactics to goad me into speeding, just long enough for him to drop behind me then pull me over. He ultimately fined me for doing 70 in a 60, saying he could've nailed me for 75. Judge threw it out in court after hearing about his shenanigans on the highway. Apparently he had a habit of using unorthodox and unsafe maneuvers to trick people into breaking a traffic law just so he could ticket them. I still had to pay admin fees but that was nothing compared to the $300 fine itself.
Wait, they have a rear radar??? Wtf! I honestly didn’t know this.
Load More Replies...How is this possible? I've never seen a cop do the speed limit in my life...
Driving over the limit behind a cop who is also speeding (without sirens, I hasten to add!).
I slow down instantly even if I'm at the limit...can't trust it. Lol
You actually shouldn't drive right alongside any car for any stretch of time. I'm pretty sure there are laws about it but it depends on where you are of course. Either way, it is dangerous and pretty inconsiderate of those behind you who may want to pass.
We had a patient who was a cop and he told us how they sometimes messed with people by driving 20 mph in a 40 mph speed limit. Or for metric folks, 30kmh in a 50knh zone. It didn't matter the speed limit, the drivers would never drive faster than them, no matter how slow they went.
Or, even passing a cop at the speed limit...some cops will go too slow deliberately, to try and make people speed...not me, I'm not getting a ticket for nobody.
Being a 30-something male and taking your 4 yr old niece to a kid's live musical. My partner and I took my niece to the Frozen live musical today. Because we purchased tickets at late notice, I had to take a seat in the row behind my (female)partner and my niece. The stares I was getting from the other audience members because I was a dude sitting by myself at a kid's musical... I felt like I should've been in prison.
9/10 though would do it again, the Frozen musical was great!
So stupid. So us woman are allowed to enjoy music, theater etc for kids because it's cute but men aren't? Stupid people
We can: cook, do laundry, dishes change diapers and get the children to practices and events, but musicals are off limits. We can't show sadness either, it is a sign of weakness.
Load More Replies...I think it's pathetic men can't go to Disney/ kids oriented entertainment events just because they like the show. I seriously don't get why people judge so much. I had a male friend "borrow" my kids to go see a disney on ice show because he'd feel weird without having kids with him. He's just a normal guy who loves disney on ice. He's completely embarrassed by this. I wish I could tell him he was being ridiculous but I can't and I hate it.
Try being one of two grown men who assumed the Beauty & The Beast attraction at Disney's Magic Kingdom was some sort of dark ride, only to find out it's a kids fancy dress attraction. Never felt so awkward and so misplaced in my life!!
Oh, I love reminding my husband of a similar thing that happened to us because he cringes so hard every time! We went into what we thought was a Little Mermaid ride but it was actually a photo meet and greet. We ran in as the park was due to close and we wanted to get the last ride as we’d not been on it. We rounded the corner and ‘Ariel’ was sat there with 2 photographers. They looked a bit confused but then jumped right into the spiel and sat us down and took photos. We both felt awkward as we’re not good at small talk. When the pics were taken we went around the next corner and were back in the park. I was so confused wondering where the ride was. It turns out we’d just sprinted in to see Ariel!
Load More Replies...Just as well, people get nervous when a man hugs his child 0.01 seconds longer then they think, but if it's a woman, no issues at all!! (Single dad of 3 children here) -- So sick of getting stares at the store while I am there with my 12 yo daughter trying to help her choose a dress for a school dance!
We wouldn't be so hyper aware of this if there weren't decades of gross pedos out there that people trusted around our kids.
I don't feel comfortable being by myself like that. Like dude, I want to watch the new Disney movie, too. And while I have no problem going to see any other movie by myself, I wouldn't even think of watching a kids movie w/o my wife. No matter how bad I want to watch it. Men are just perceived as. sexual predators. Y'all forget you yell at us for being children all the time.
Same. I go on daddy-dsughter dates with my 8 year old. I get some seriously villainizing looks. Like I'm there doing something less than wholesome. I'm there, with my kid, to teacher her what she should expect from a partner, and to not settle for less than what you want.
Sitting at the restaurant, not liking the menu, and leaving.
German restaurants usually have the menu posted outside so you can read it before you enter - don't you have this in the US? It saves everyone a lot of trouble, especially if you are vegetarian.
It feels super wrong. I’ve only done this once recently. Reminded me that I really appreciate when they have a menu in the window or something.
Wait... I'm not supposed to stay and order something I don't want (or perhaps even like), then leave a negative review of the place? What madness is this?
Or, here in the US, not having large print or braille menus available. it's the law. If they aren't available, the menus have to be read out loud which is frustrating for everyone. And yes, it takes time, especially, if is a place we haven't been to before.
in Greece we always look at the menu posted outside before we enter - it's expected and normal. If you are looking for something particular and it's not on the menu why would you go in?
@Tamsin Far ...I do wish we had that here in the US, it would save a ton of time. In our family we have carnivores, pescatarians, vegetarians and vegan ...the vegan always gets the "they have salad so you'll be fine". Its nice to find a place that does grilled cauliflower or portabella something on the menu.
Most restaurants have the menu posted outside in the U.S. too and you can always ask for one from the host at the door. If you come into the restaurant, sit down, and then leave, the table must be stripped and cleaned before it can be resat. It's a waste of my time as a server and simply isn't polite. Please read the menu before you sit down!
Foods better at home. I don't care what the restaurant is. It's the same old same old at any restaurant. Same old menu. Cooked the same way every time. They change things up rarely. We're adventurous in my kitchen. Never get the same thing twice. No food snobbery. No uniformity or perfection. Just delightfully delicious chaos. And before anybody says anything. We don't care how y'all do it up north. Down south. In Texas. Or anywhere. My kitchen. My law. Absolutely no food snobbery allowed. Not in my kitchen. Not at my table.
Telling your barber that you don't like the haircut
Just tell them you don't have the money to pay them, they'll put it back for free. /Jk
Load More Replies...Had a "Master Barber" tell me once that the difference between a good haircut and a bad one is about two weeks.
On a military base, one of our Warrant Officers got an AWFUL haircut, and didn't say anything about it to the barber. It was bad enough we were all like "OMG!!!" and covering our mouths in horror. He just said "what can I say? It's not like she can put it back on"
Umm... you're in the military. Just have your Warrant shave his head. No one would be the wiser.
Load More Replies...My hairstylist in Dallas was always a wreck when I came in. Not because I would get mad if she did something I didn't like, but because I'm more likely to cry. There were/are still a few DONT EVERs, but I make that oh so clear. One time we (its not just on her) had a color accident. She was ready to cry. I was bowled over laughing. I could eventually, for years, until I moved away, just relax enough to close my eyes while she worked. I'm lucky enough to have found a stylist like that where I now live. Saves on the Ativan! For both of us.
I have went back the next day and got them to fix it, got a different hairstylist and didn't like it, went back a THIRD time and got my original hair stylist and finally loved it.
I'm not falling for this one, I got to go back right there next time lol
Coughing in public places
It has gotten worst since the pandemic started. It's like before people had the decency to cover with their hand or arm. Now though? Nope, just sneezing and coughing all over the place. I wear my mask in close knit popular areas because people are just nasty now...I mean before, not AS bad, but now? EWW!!
Load More Replies...Hubby has a cough he can't get rid of. Not contagious, been to doctors, scans show lungs are clear, several rounds of meds, still has a cough. Sitting in the restaurant the other night and the table near us had a problem with his coughing. Told them it wasn't covid and he wasn't contagious. The guy glared at hubby for his entire meal. He also told the waitress that they should call the police because he was about to hit hubby for coming out in public and spreading covid. Manager came out and checked hubby's temp, normal. We showed our vax cards to her and explained that it was just a cough, he was negative for covid. The other guy started yelling that we were lying. Since they were done, manager asked them to pay and leave.
Especially back in 2020. Man, you let out a measly grunt or try to clear your throat, you get an intervention in 2 seconds flat
I just look at the person glaring at me while I cough and say "I'm a smoker. It's not covid, sorry"
My husband would have been kicked out of everywhere. He smoked and had undiagnosed COPD. He died from lung cancer 14 years ago.
Load More Replies...In the past you coughed to cover a fart, now you fart to cover a cough.
At least people are attempting to cover their mouths now. Don't know how many times in retail people just coughed in my face.
I have asthma, which makes me cough from time to time. The way I see it if people don't like it to bad.
Big companies buying up a whole bunch of housing in some city and renting it out to visitors.
It’s something they used to do as a perk for new hires, visiting contractors and probably potential investors. They still do it in many places. Some companies prefer to just give those people an allowance and they can stay where they want.
Load More Replies...Here in Colorado (US), we have a huge problem with foreign investors buying all of the mid-priced homes and then renting them out (not AirBnB, just regular year-long leases). People in the lower end of middle class are completely priced out of every buying a home.
That's when the government needs to step in and stop so many foreign investors purchasing residential homes. (Let 'em buy shopping malls and other commercial properties). The government's first responsibility should be to its own constituents.
Load More Replies...Florida. I have a friend who son has been trying to buy a house in the Orlando area for 3 years since they live and work there. They say it is almost impossible even though they have a good down payment.
This really irritates me because when a corporation buys a huge block of homes, it drives up the price of other homes, whether it's rent or mortgage. Maybe they'll learn when they price themselves right out of the market 🤔
The greed of corporate gentrification in New Orleans is pushing out the folks who've lived there for generations.
Our housing market in Arizona is up 97% and these dumb asses don't realize we are out of water
Ticket Bastard; legally scalping tickets but if YOU can't even resell your own at face value at the venue
Not liking dogs. People treat it as the worst thing in the world if you aren't deathly allergic and just don't like dogs.
Then the assumption that not liking dogs suggests we're mean to them.
Load More Replies...I like dogs. I just don't own any dogs or animals of any kind. I barely take care of myself so it's better if they just visit and then go home with someone who will take care of them.
Thank you for your responsibility!! Too many people don't take the wellbeing of the animals into consideration.
Load More Replies...I don't mind dogs, they're adorable. However, I like cats more...sorry.
Dog people will say: if you don't like dogs you're a monster. If you don't like cats you're justified, because 'cats are evil'😑 I don't hate dogs. I just prefer cats. I had some unpleasant encounters with dogs. I don't really blame the dogs but the irresponsible owners, that don't train them. But still, a cat will ignore you at worst.
Cats are only evil if you don't take the time to learn how to read them. Dogs are just easier for people to read.
Load More Replies...Ppl try to force dogs sometimes. 20 min ago I was leaving a building at my campus, this huge dog comes out of nowhere (I'm scared of them lol) and I told her I was afraid of it but she was like OHHH HES FINE and walks to me. That's not okay in any circumstance. A fear is a fear, even if you aren't afraid of it.
So disrespectful! I'd never do that, always keep my dogs close (not always on leash, though) to me when strangers walk by. But some peope don't bother letting me know they're afraid and if dog comes a little too close for their comfort, they suddenly explode in anger. I mean, i try to accomodate everyone but i can't see inside people's heads.
Load More Replies...I know it is not the proper analogy, but same is true for the case when you don't like kids. You are a true monster for not liking kids. Well, I don't, but that doesn't mean I want to hurt them, I just don't want them in my vicinity. I prefer quiet and calm around me. And no worries, not intending to have them.
I like small dogs. As a child I was traumatized by a very aggressive German Shepard
Bad owners, I am so sorry. My childhood companion was a huge female German Shepherd. She kept the bees away, and the traveling salesmen in my rural area never got within 100 yards. Mom had her under voice commands. That dog was never aggressive towards children. Only dogs that ever bit me were under 30 lbs lol
Load More Replies...Having fun at work. Your boss walks around the corner and everybody scatters in the most totally not suspicious way.
Ditto. But it sounds like we have amazing bosses, not everyone does lol
Load More Replies...My old job was working as a cleaner in a hotel and I have never had so much fun in my life! If my manager at the reception couldn't hear us screaming with laughter, obviously once the guests had left, he thought something was wrong. In fact my manager once tried hiding in one of the rooms behind a bed in the creepiest room to try scare us but we had a 15 minute break and he was there that long he got cramp and couldn't get up. Funniest thing ever when we had to drag him off the floor while he was screaming at us for taking too long. I also once knocked a tube light out when flinging a bag and caught it which my work mates thought hilarious and just left me stood there holding this light up and couldn't move or the whole thing would have come away while they died laughing at me. Probably not funny to read but seriously best job ever
The district manager was...unpleasant at Kohl's. Because I just smiled and waved, and didn't blatantly say hello, and didn't look busy (even with nothing to do), I wasn't hired from seasonal to part time, even though I exceeded far and beyond their wants for the sales for that quarter past my coworkers. These starting out jobs have never listened to me about not being a morning person anyways. I have a feeling I dodged a bullet
I started working a job in a mod yard in Alberta. After 2 weeks, our team was leading production for the yard and catching up on the backlog. But we were laughing and singing while doing it. Management started threatening so we started leaving.
Our boss would just assume we were talking about him if we scattered. 😆 Responsible fun is encouraged.
I work from home. I see no smiles! (A slight change of a Bruce Almighty quote.)
Actually my boss has no problems with us having a little bit of fun at work as long as the job gets done.
Bringing reusable grocery bags to a different grocery store than the one the bags are branded as.
I feel completely the opposite - I am always worried that they will ask me to pay for it again if I use it in the shop it came from. No problem with one from another store :).
Use a permanent marker to put your initials on the bottom, or on the inside.
Load More Replies...Using the Morrisons and B&M bags I bought in England back in Germany makes me feel like an illegal alien.
My problem is solved. Mine are all from the art company my brother has worked for since 2001. The bags have the company logo on them.
Former grocery store cashier here: We literally do not care at all which bags you have, as long as they're not obnoxiously big.
Using the other genders bathroom when yours is occupied
I have tried looking up laws in the US concerning this, and found NONE!
Load More Replies...A few years ago I was waiting at a women's single seater when I noticed the men's room was unoccupied (one of those indicators on the door lock). I pointed it out to the woman in front of me and she gasped "That's the men's!" My response was "They don't store them in there. There's a water closet (toilet) and lavatory inside just like the women's room. So you're not going to use it?" She looked horrified. I went in and was out before she got to use the ladies room. Dumb, dumb, dumb.
The way I see it if I got to go I'm going to go. If the women's room is crowded and the men's room is empty I'll just go in there.
Long line for women's restroom coupled with urgent need, my husband scouted then waved me over to men's room. Felt a little criminal walking out but infinitely better than soiling myself.
i know some people use the handicapped ones all the time because they are cleaner...
Um, is that a problem? In the public bathrooms I go to, they always have 1 handicapped stall, and if there's nobody waiting to use it then everyone just uses it like it's a normal stall. Are you not supposed to use it?
Load More Replies...I would argue that most public restrooms should be unisex simply so that we don't have any unused toilets due to a gender imbalance in a crowded area
In a overcrowded future Earth, Isaac Asimov envisioned unisex bathrooms. They were called "the P & S".
Load More Replies...I can't remember how many times I've used the men's room because the line for the ladies was a mile long.
OMG. Especially when I was pregnant. My husband would check inside, let me in and then post himself outside.
Card counting in a casino. It’s totally legal within the law, but the security and management will make you feel like a criminal for doing it.
They would be banning you from doing math in your own head, right? Loads of dystopian sci fi novels tell me that's "thought policing."
Yeah. I worked as security for a casino and there were a few people I was asked to escort off property for counting cards. Totally not illegal and that's the worse they'll do to you. Tell you to leave and stop taking their money. That's no fair, taking the casinos money. Tsk.
They can't prosecute you for it, but they can make you persona non grata. Just don't get caught.
You're playing the game, just at a higher cerebral level than most.....I can't count cards but next time I go to Vegas, I'd love to sit at a low wage table and start mumbling 3 ACES, TWO KING, 3 QUUEN, 4 JACK.....Yeah yeah we're good. THEN WATCH THEM REACT
The idea that noticing which cards have been played is against the rules always struck as absurd.
Card counting won't help you with a multi-deck shoe that almost all casino's use now. By the time you could even begin to capitalize on a favorable count, they reshuffle. People having an exaggerated belief in the effectiveness of card counting actually helps the casinos. Secretly promoting that belief is stealth marketing for casinos.
Not remotely true. 6-deck shoes have been standard for decades and there are absolutely crews this very second who are counting cards. The famous MIT crew(s) operated through the 1990s into the 2000s. Plenty of places use the CSM but plenty don't.
Load More Replies...As a blackjack (among other games) dealer, I would just not recommend it. While no, it isn't "illegal" to count, it is heavily frowned upon. If you get caught, while you might not go to jail, you will get banned. Casinos talk to other casinos. Even those that aren't sister properties. You might be pre-empted banned. Then where will you be¿ Just to for the original purpose--to have fun.
It might be legal but if they catch you they will toss you out on your ass and might even ban you.
Just don't look like you are...keep it in your head not on the table....
Purchasing an item with no bag, and leaving the shop with it under your arm
Did this yesterday. I always keep the receipt in my hand just so I can wave it at security if they should stop me. In almost half a century, nobody ever has! LOL
And let it visibly move in the breeze of my fast pace
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In the Netherlands this is a very normal thing i feel like most people here do it
Yea my 'purse' is a backpack & when I'm done shopping I'll throw groceries right in there. Lol i like the looks i get because i know i already paid
How about having to prove to some door checker that you DID purchase something! I have no reason to prove to anyone anything, think I stole it, call a cop!
Watching a video on your phone at full volume in a public place, I've done this a few times on accident and I wanted to crawl out of my skin and [pass away].
Depending on volume level it feels like it should be along the lines of disturbing the peace.
Load More Replies...Starting a vid by accident is one thing. Watching one? That's a choice.
Yeah gonna be honest, it's so so rude when people do that. If it's an accident then of course it's fine but some people do it at full volume in quiet places for a while at a time, it's awful
Add to that having your phone on speaker in a public place. I fail to see how that is preferable to the alternatives.
when you THINK your headphones where plugged in or the volume was super low but you were wrong - the shame...the cringe
Once on an airplane the woman infront of me was listening to music from her phone speaker and it was very annoying
When people come into the restaurant and play their own music loudly from their phone. It's SO RUDE. Nobody else wants to hear your awful music man.
Taking time off work always feels illegal. Even if it's paid time off I've earned.
Not solely. If you work in a shitty place that has a love affair with the Bradford Factor, can happen in UK
Load More Replies...Seriously gotta get over this one. And if you work someplace where they make you feel bad for taking time off, fond another job.
I have no problems asking for an extra day off once in awhile. After all I have no problems with working overtime so the way I see it having an extra day off once in awhile is a perk to sacrificing personal time to cover for someone being sick or something.
He'll no! For me I have to work to earn it. When gained enough, I use it.
Depending on the work and scheduling. My current job, I work from home (self employed). So taking a day off is no big deal. But I used to work night security. My post was supposed to have 3 people, 8 hour shifts for a rotating 24hour period, 7 days a week. We had a guy quit. As the other person there was 55+, I volunteered to cover until a replacement was found. Ended up doing a month and a half of 16 hour shifts. Made for REALLY long shifts. But it also made for a really nice paycheck. Especially since my boss was reimbursing my fuel to and from as a thank you. It sucks for the first week. After that, you adapt and it feels normal. My first day off after that actually felt illegal. I ended up driving up the hang out with the new guy because I was bored.
I only ever felt that way once, I had an accident at work and suffered a shoulder injury which put me on short term disability for several months, including the busiest time of the year. I felt a bit guilty for not being there to help with the workload.
The first time driving a car after you've got your license
I have my licence for more than 28 years now and it STILL feels weird.
I just got my license and I'm 37 and it feels weird to drive now. Before I didn't care and now I drive extra careful
Load More Replies...I backed into a car the first day, so I probably should have waited lol
I totaled 2 vehicles the first time I drove on my own, I had just gotten my license.
I so remember this. I kept thinking I was going to get pulled over any minute as I shouldn't be in the car on my own, most nerve racking journey ever- worse than my test.
My parents would not let me drive solo for months after I got my license.
My father had me drop him off at work so I could use the car, alone for the first time, and I got lost.
First time driving a car after you've got your license and you're ALONE.
My dad had a tendency to go to a store and eat and drink off the shelves. Then go pay for the wrapper at the end. Always thought we'd get arrested for that.
This technically is actually illegal. Until you pay for the goods, you do not own them and the shop owner/manager has the right to withdraw any goods from sale. By eating or drinking the produce before you pay for them you are taking away the owner/manager's right to exercise control of their goods.
It depends on where you live. Most if not all stores I worked theft prevention in would not consider this activity illegal. To break the law, the item (ingested or not) must leave the building. Once a shoplifter has stepped outside of the entry door, they can be arrested. I know many establishments absolutely hate it when people eat the food in their stores but it is not illegal. It can become a hot button issue only if you eat produce which is sold by weight. Anyone can be trespassed AKA barred from a store for any reason the management decides. So although something may be legal, you can be trespassed if you piss off management.
Load More Replies...I hate this. When I worked checkouts we used to regularly get parents puttting wrappers through as they had given the kids the contents to keep them quiet on the way round. The only problem was that I saw far to many people who arrived at the checkout and then couldn't pay - forgot wallet, card declined, not quite enough cash - fortunately never had to have the argument about paying for the thing they'd eaten before their other shopping. The absolute worst though is those that eat things that are paid for by weight on the way round, like grapes - felt like we should weigh them on the way in and charge them for the weight they gained before they left!
I agree, I would never inconveniece the staff like that. In addition, in my country, this is really uncommon and other customers would give you the stare of dissaproval.
Load More Replies...The grocery I worked at back in the day called it 'grazing'. Someone comes in, goes to the fresh produce section first. Other end of the store you'll find banana peels, empty grape trees (whatever you call the stem section), etc... on the floors or shelves. I hated it.
When I was little my mom would do the SAME exact thing. I was always like "DON'T DO ITT." I was so scared we would get arrested. She would pay for the wrapper/box at the end but it still scared me.
I only do that with like a bottle of water. And I always grab two of them so they don't have to scan the one I drank out of. I live in Phoenix area so sometimes it's just damn hot and I can't wait until I'm done shopping. :)
Walking into a store with a mask on, your hood up, all with sunglasses
This is not illegal but it is shady, First the mask thing is nothing, everyone is wearing or not wearing masks right now, However when you walk into a store with your hood up and sunglasses on inside a store it possibly could put the staff on notice that you - might - be there to steal. I know it's not fair but they don't know you, they've never met you so they have to go with their instincts.
Bah, that's rarely the guy that steals. That's the distraction. It's the normal dressed guy who then steals while you're watching the guy "dressed" to steal.
Load More Replies...My young adult son has severe social anxiety. He's been a "hoodie-up" since he was 13-makes him feel 'safe in his space'. He added the sun glasses a couple years ago with the mask as his anxieties became more debilitating. He normally only goes to places that know him with me, or another family member. Yday he decided to go to a never been to before discount store next to one we were at and check out something for a project. He went in, looked at the item that was in front of store near cashiers, in front of everyone.... a minute later as he was leaving he was stopped by store manager and another employee and searched him in front of everyone. I have no idea when he'll be able to leave the house again.... or even his room. He gets that he looks shady and it makes him stand out. But without his 'cloak of invisibility', even if it's only in his heart and head is important to him. He is SUCH a good person. Mental health is hard. Protecting your business is hard too.
I feel this 100% momma! My 15 year old son has the exact same debilitating anxiety. He usually will only go into stores with me and will have his hood up and looks down. He's an amazing kid too! Sending love your way!!
Load More Replies...Pre-pandemic: mask, sunglasses hood=going to rob the bank Pandemic: mask, sunglasses, hood=going into the bank
I worked at a bank when the pandemic first hit here in Texas, and it was the weirdest feeling to tell people that they needed to put ON a mask and obscure their face to enter. It wasn't made any better by the fact that we had had our annual security training the week before the whole masking thing went into effect.
Load More Replies...Right now, walking into a store with a mask on, definitely. I didn’t get sick at all in 2021. I think I’m going to stick with how that went.
Mask and sunglasses will just blur your vision. And depends on the store. Try pulling it in a bank.
I am very light sensitive. When it is bright out I wear sunglasses everywhere. I am also extremely nearsighted. These are prescriiption glasses. Without them I am relatively helpless. So, yes, I wear my sunglasses inside so I can see and I wear a mask because it is the right thing to do these days. There is no criminal intent.
Yeah. At on time if you walked into a bank wearing a mask they would call the police. Now if you walk into a bank not wearing a mask they will call the police.
Breaking off a banana from the bunch in the store
I always buy the singletons, in different stages of ripeness. That way each day I have a perfectly ripe banana.
You wanna know how weird I am? When I've eaten all the bananas and there's one left I feel guilty because it looks lonely. XD
Local small family owned grocery store has a bin for single bananas. They also have a small bin right by the front door with apples pears and bananas in them for children (and children at heart, I asked them) to take one to munch on while shopping.
I only buy one banana at a time, otherwise they get too ripe before I can eat them. I like them on the green side unless I'm making banana bread or muffins.
Mom always sent me for four. Felt guilty every time I had to take one off.
As I was going for a banana once at a store, the woman next to me called the singles “orphans” and now those are the only ones I choose. 😆
Going to a concert after covid. After the last 2 years of avoiding crowds and people it just feels wrong.
What do they mean "after" covid?... it's still happening... one of my coworkers has been living her life like normal even after mask mandates were lifted... she just tested positive smh...
Yeah, as a person with a compromised immune system, the lifting of the mask mandate is terrifying! If I catch COVID, I will die. I’ve started having panic attacks when I need to leave the house, just because people seem to have collectively decided that the pandemic is “over”!
Load More Replies...Get back to this question after a year or two. We are still not 'after' Covid. Media doesn't like to talk about it anymore, but it doesn't mean the virus went away. Just take a look at Shanghai right now.
I work in an intensive care unit so I know it's still around. But I hear you Chris D.
Load More Replies...It may never go away completely. Everyone who wants the vaccine has gotten it. Everything is open, and everywhere is busy. The real threat is hospitalization, which is below a normal flu season here in the US. Most people with positive tests are asymptomatic, or with maybe bad cold symptoms. Yes, it's still there, yes people may get sick. Shanghai is an outlier, and IMO, the result of overdoing the lockdown. Clearly thats not working for them. Went to the O's opening game, full house of 43000, and no outbreak. We have to live our lives.
Easy for the not-immunocompromised to say. Eh **** them huh
Load More Replies...I WORK at concerts. BIG concerts. In FLORIDA. So now I'm just constantly sick, for freedom, yay.
I'm still uncomfortable going anywhere with other people without a mask. Haven't eaten in a restaurant since Feb 2020.
Covid is just the new flu, its never going away but its not what some people make it out to be. I have gotten covid multiple limes, both of my 40 year old parents have gotten covid and are fine, both of my 70 year old grandparents got covid and are fine, even my 98 year old great grandmother got covid and was fine.
And my brother died! He was in his 40 too, what do I do with this now? Immunocompromised people like me f**k them right?! WTF
Load More Replies...After Covid 🙄 Some of us are still trapped indoors shielding over two years on and my carers company have just had an explosion of Covid positive carers, six at the same time positive. It's still here and will be for a long time 😔
Getting a haircut from someone other than your regular hairdresser
It doesn't feel illegal but it does feel like cheating on them. LOL
Kind of like petting a doggo other than yours :)
Load More Replies...Before Covid, I seldom got the same person twice in a row, let alone anyone on a regular basis. Had to either schedule an appointment or wait a long time. Nope to both. Cut my own hair now. Do it rather short as I've been losing it anyway. Won't do the bald look as I don't have the head shape to pull it off. Most men don't. The Yul Brenner head is rare. Also takes more effort to keep it shaved. Nope. Don't even like taking the time to shave my face.
Ooooh, my husband did this & paid the price (I'm licensed). Got a haircut by some other chick & not only did she do it super unevenly (she wasn't experienced in men's hair), but she ended up cutting him not once, but TWICE!!! Paid $50 for something he could've gotten for a back rub. LOL
Not so much illegal, it feels more like we're going to end up in stylist divorce court arguing over shared custody of my hair.
Your regular hairdresser: how could you betray me like that? Is it because they give you a free coffee?
"What haircut could they do that I couldn't?"
Load More Replies...I had 1 barber i liked. He moved shops. His new shop is a pain to get into and out of. So, I now cut my own hair. And my wife has started having me trim hers as well.
In any case, we always pay the price of this. Your hair will never feel or look the same as with your regular hairdresser. My husband has the same barberess since at least 15 years and once, while she was on vacation, took a barber in the same shop because he had a TV interview and needed to look good. He had a different cut and I didn't recognized him! Never again.
Leaving the office on time
On time? Shoot, I aim for leaving EARLY every day! I have a life, and work is just something that lets me keep the life I live. Work is not my life, and it shouldn't be for anyone. Yeah, we need to, to earn keep, pay our own way, have nice things. But never let it take over your life. That is when you tend to stop living.
My father worked for the county in their vehicle repair section, working on engines and such. He used to go over the clock a bit if the stuff was close to done. Did that for...5 years? When he found out he wasn't getting paid that extra little bit, the MOMENT the clock struck his time to leave, he dropped everything and left. Didn't matter if he had one screw left to put in or anything stupidly small like that. He quit giving a crap lol
I worked at different places where you had to work til the last minute and then they expected to clear the workspace for the next day. In both cases we were never done before 15minutes after our paid time. They and more companies also expected us to be in at least 5 minutes before hand.
I've worked for a company like that, too, and yeah, no. Fúck that. You want me to be there early? You're gonna pay me early. Otherwise, I'll be there on time. When I'm off the clock, that's MY time. And THEY cannot tell me how to spend it.
Load More Replies...Had a conversation w/my hubby about this the other day. Work was swamped, & my manager acted like he was mad that I didn't stay over to help. I'd already been there 8.5-9 hours. (But ofc the company only pays OT after 40 hours for the week.) It's not my fault the company can't seem to hire anyone who will work more than 3 weeks w/o quitting. It's not my fault we're short-staffed, just like everyone else in the country. It's not my responsibility to stay late, & cover for the 3rd shifters who don't show up. And I shouldn't have to feel bad about leaving at my scheduled time off. I'm 42, twice as old as most of the kids who work there. I have joint issues, foot problems, & back problems. I'm in physical pain every night, after working just my own shift. I just can't physically do the extra anymore. I put in my time. It's the young kids' turn now. Let them do the extra-even though no one should have to, really. But me, I'm leaving when I'm scheduled to. And I'm not gonna feel guilty about it.
As soon as it's time for me to clock out and leave I am out the door. My boss knows this and doesn't even say a word.
I dunno. Feels more illegal to work a full shift and have your boss literally stop you at the door and say you have to stay longer to cover for someone else you never agreed to cover for. And then being told you could not have a job if you don't submit to their demand.
I've never had one TELL me I HAD to say. But they will sure as hell make you feel guilty, and like you're a bad person and a bad worker. But I do not care. Not one bit. When it's my time to go, I go. Periot.
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Pulling your pants down when you have 2 pairs of pants
some dudes walk around with one of their pants down to their ass and even though there is another pair of pants under it, I always find it disgusting
What's disgusting is when their pants are way down low and they have some loose underwear underneath.. 😫🤢🤢
Load More Replies...I've worn sweats over shorts to run to the store when it's cold out. Shorts because the house was hot to make it more comfortable for friends. Came back and pulled my sweats off in front of the friends and they acted like I was doing a strip tease.
One of my kids does this after scouts. She leaves the building and pulls off her uniform pants in the parking lot. Since the uniform shirt is long, it looks like she's getting naked until the pants are a good bit off.
Maybe dress pants under your regular pants or other way around so that you can quickly go to a entirely different venue?
Being at a red light next to a Police officer
i've always resented that i feel paranoid, not safe, when i see a police officer too close to me.
Taking the hotel freebies
You're paying for them anyway. Do you honestly think the owners are coming out of pocket to restock them?
Why wouldn't the owners be coming out of pocket to restock them? Do those tiny shampoo bottles magically reappear out of thin air when you remove one, like a never-ending box of tissues?
Load More Replies...I used to think this felt illegal. Then I noticed the quality of the stuff went sort of south so now it’s just pointless.
Smuggling your own (non-alcoholic/hot) snacks into the cinema.
I would rather buy the overpriced snack that pay $25 a ticket. Many theaters depend on the concession sales to stay in business
Yeah, as much as I hate it I'll spring for the snacks (most of the time). Just cuz Hollywood is a corrupt hell-hole doesn't mean my local cineplex should have to suffer for it.
Load More Replies...Theatres don't make money from the tickets, they make money from the concession.
See, it’s against the rules which our minds do associate with being a legality. But I do not find it okay to spend $3 for a box of crunch.
Most theaters I've been in will toss you out of the theater if they find you bringing your own food in. (funny bit was, there used to be a Krystal next to the theater. I saw the theater manager bitching out the Krystal manager for all the empty burger boxs in his theater)
I'm a big, big movie fan and I love the cinema, however... Seems like hypocrisy and a death spiral to complain about a loss of business yet continue to charge a massive markup for concessions (and lower the capacity of seats by installing lay-z-boy recliners) "to stay in business." Also seems to me that business would tick back up if they'd stop charging $20 for one soda and one popcorn. That stuff is super cheap. They can handle it. Therefore, to the point of this entry on the page, I have decided that I will pay their stupid price for popcorn and soda, but I'm bringing in my own m&ms or twizzlers. Seems pretty fair, especially when I can watch the same movie in my living room.
Driving with the interior light on
You’re a noob. You’re too young to have any truths.
Load More Replies...Watching the next episode of a box set without your significant other.
Singles' version: starting an episode of a series (where continuity is not a big issue), realising you don't like it, and skipping it to watch the next one. It took me decades to realise I could do that!
A collection of every episode of a TV show, organized into a group (set) of boxes, with each box typically containing one season worth of discs/episodes
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Doing nothing on New year's eve
Me too - the next day is the worst - it's my birthday.
Load More Replies...I've been doing nothing on NYE for the past 5 years. My cat is afraid of fireworks, so we stay with him.
For the sake of dogs and cats everywhere, more people should do nothing on NYE!! Or at least not make all the noise! More pets go missing every six months at July 4th and NYs in the US! Those poor scare little ones!
Using a bathroom for disabled/handicapped people.
As we saw with Roy, it's not recommended. You might end up on a bus to Manchester.
HahhHahaaa! Just remembered that scene!! I‘m disabled! 🤣
Load More Replies...Yeah but you don't have to have a wheelchair to be disabled.
Unless you are disabled, you shouldn't be using them. They are specially designed and fitted to be accessible by people with a range of conditions and impairments that you don't have. Those people can't physically use the other bathrooms. You may see someone using those facilities that appear perfectly able-bodied. They usually have hidden disabilities. One of which might be the necessity of using those facilities urgently. If you are blocking them because you are selfish, then you are an ass.
I’m disabled have many disabled friends. We all agree. If it isn’t being used…use it. If there is a long line and I’m waiting like everyone else, use it. I am certain there are people who will protest this but then eople will protest nearly anything
Load More Replies...It's really, really irritating to have to wait for someone who can use any of the other unoccupied stalls but is using the only stall that can accommodate my walker. I get it- I have invisible chronic illnesses. If it weren't for the walker, you'd never know. But if there is a normal stall open and you're only using the handicapped one because you like the extra space, I will for damn sure look you in the eye as you come out.
Pouring in milk before the cereal
My SON! His room is in the basement and he pours his milk, takes the cereal box to his room and then puts in the cereal-he says it gets soggy if he puts cereal in first. He doesn't want to come back up for seconds, so he takes the whole box ;/
Load More Replies...I very rarely eat cereal and refuse apologize that when I do, milk first is 1000x better. I don't want soggy gross cereal so I'll add some at a time to my portion of milk. There seem to be so many cereal purists in the world and I feel more milk first people need to stand up for ourselves.:)
I hate soggy cereal. Freaking hate it so bad. To the extreme that i not only pour milk first but i only add a few spoonfuls at a time. Is that so wrong?
I always did it this way. I don't understand what the big deal is. Why does anyone care how you eat your food? Someone called me a psychopath for this. Not appreciated.
I fill up the biggest cup in the house (think super big gulp size) to the brim with ice and then fill it with milk so the milk is ice cold but doesn't get watered down because the ice to milk ratio is super high on the ice and less so on the milk and pour a sprinkle of cereal (like a hand full or so) into a bowl and then pour ice cold strained milk over it and eat, and repeat until I'm satisfied. Very ritualistic but totally worth it. No soggy cereal...coldest milk possible...the colder the milk the longer it takes for the cereal to get soggy, also I've noticed. The warmer the milk the faster it soggy's up the cereal.
I have a friend who does that. Nothing wrong with it. She wrote a story about a panda who had no milk for her cereal (they resolved this by going to an Italian restaurant and asking for a latte) the panda poured the milk before the cereal and I suggested that the ending should have been that they did it in the wrong order and had to get more milk
Also, one time a footballer (Gaelic football) came to our school after winning the all-Ireland (big football tournament). When he asked if anyone had any questions one of the sixth class kids (11 and 12 year-olds/sixth graders) asked if they did milk or cereal first. The footballer said that he usually had porridge.
Load More Replies...This is fine if you're low on milk you need to get the milk to cereal ratio correct
Revealing spoilers of a movie or show.
Oh, but I always want to! It's just they are like "Shut up! No spoilers!"
Load More Replies...I remember some smarty yelling spoilers to folks standing in line for Avengers: Endgame and getting the crap beat out of him by several of those folks standing in line. Illegal? Maybe not. Stupidly dangerous? Oh, yes.
My old room mate got mad at me for spoiling the first Hunger Games movie by saying Katniss survives. I was like...there's 3 books. Next are you gonna be shook that Harry Potter doesn't die in the first movie?
Every once in a while a big spoiler becomes a massive meme, for some reason. Yup, I'm looking at final fantasy 7, avengers endgame, citizen Kane, the sixth sense, and especially harry potter (where the meme *was* to spoil people)
When we got out of covid lockdown in Melbourne: going outside, going out to a restaurant/bar, having friends in your house. Now it’s just not wearing a mask at the supermarket
Reading a book completely in a book store then not buying it.
I did this once because I was waiting for a custom mug to get done from a t-shirt/ personalised items shop. It was a rather short book and I was getting it for Christmas anyway
I feel guilty looking through a magazine to see if it has an article I want before buying it!
But you were buying something so I don’t see a problem entertaining yourself while you waited. Or buying a coffee at a bookshop cafe and reading while you’re there. But not buying anything and just reading seems wrong to me.
Load More Replies...Well, if you can commit yourself to go to a book store 40+ times so you can read a book that costs like 20 bucks, then go for it. But it looks super cheap and petty.
If you can't afford to buy the book, go to the library instead.
That should be illegal. Like going to a shop, buying the book, reading it and then returning it. Makes you an a*****e.
Calling customer care.
I love doing it, it's done because something is unjust and you want it put right. What's wrong with that?
I like to do this when there has been a very helpful employee, someone who has gone above and beyond to help me. I don't think employees here "thank-you" nearly enough and employers rarely hear about it when their employees do good things. They always hear about the bad.
Staring at someone through binoculars from your house
I used to do this when I was kid cause I thought I was all cool and sneaky. Goddamn, younger me.
Well, as long as you didn’t turn into a peeping Tom, then you’re good 😂
Load More Replies...Depending on if you get caught or not and why you're doing it there may be something illegal there.
There's an old story of an actual incident about a woman who called the police on her next door neighbor for indecent exposure, claiming he was walking around naked inside his house with the windows open. Police arrive to find him undressed... but the lady lived a quarter mile away and was observing him through binoculars. No charges.
Load More Replies...Karen doesn't agree. Karen is a very nosey neighbor and doesn't mind her own fu'king business.
I always remember Disturbia when I read something with binoculars.
Driving barefoot
In all 50 states, there are no barefoot driving laws that prohibit this particular practice. Maybe outside of the US? Plus, I was told it is safer to drive barefoot than it is in flip flops or ridiculously high heels.
Driving barefoot is about the same as any internal infraction while driving. It’s illegal to have obstructions inside the car. If you get pulled over, then the obstruction can be findable. Bare feet can be considered an obstruction.
after turning 18 or 21 in some places and being able to just do anything, without anyone's permission, with your own car that can take you wherever you please. Still feels weird
lol not if that's all you've ever wanted your whole life and have been looking forward to that day because your insanely overprotective parents wouldn't let you do anything on your own...this might've gotten a little personal but fr
i feel you i just got 18 but im still not used to it tho
Load More Replies...Driving on german Highways with a speed of 200-250 km/h
Not similar in the slightest. America can't have nice things because it doesn't do them properly ie. Gun laws & safety and speed safety. The Autobahn is safer than American highways and other systems in Europe. The Autobahn works in Germany, but wouldn't work everywhere.
Load More Replies...Turning right at a red light.
It's illegal in Montreal. And it just results in really weird crossings for pedestrians. Lots of scatter crossings but also where one side and cross and another can't, and lots of advanced cross for pedestrians.
I hope you're taking into account which side traffic drives on.
Load More Replies...Drives me crazy when someone from another state drives on the local roads on mine and doesn’t turn right on a red. It’s not that hard to look up local traffic laws - especially if you are going to be on local roads.
Only if there's a sign prohibiting it. otherwise, as long as you come to a complete stop, it's not.
Load More Replies...Using conditioner first
2-n-1s don't do either job well. Conditioner cleans like shampoo but it doesn't strip off as much oil, which is needed for healthy hair. Just use conditioner!
Load More Replies...Facebook stalking
Don't have an account with them. Now you can't stalk and you get bonus happiness points for not letting Facebook stalk you.
Facebook actually has a phantom account made for every non user based on what they do on the internet, and all their known information
Load More Replies...Actually, what’s frustrating there is that you can use FB as evidence (social media accounts can be subpoenaed) BUT often times the evidence is thrown out because it’s considered weak. (You can tell a lie on social media thereby making anything you claimed moot.)
Taking someone’s shopping cart with their groceries in it, while inside the store.
Changing your daughter's diaper on the front seat of your truck in winter at a gas station feels like child abuse even though the men's room doesn't have a place to do that.
Trust me, it’s much cleaner doing that in the car. Public bathrooms are no places to change a child.
Load More Replies...Being handicapped and needing to exercise your “head of the line” privilege, or any other accommodation, always feels very illegal to me. I try really hard to not be that person, but sometimes my pain is just too much and I need to get my stuff done fast. The dirty looks people give (even the employees) are enough to make me want to never leave my house again.
You can always go in front of me. My mother is disabled and she is treated awfully for needing a mobility scooter or help in the store or using services that are available to her. It is almost to the point that she would rather stay home and have me go. I like to take her with me so she gets out of the house (plus we have a good time) and I make people feel bad if they make her feel bad. You don't owe anyone an explanation for using the services you need and you can have my place in line.
Load More Replies...When you go and check somebody’s profile on this site or others and go check their old posts
Yeah it feels like stalking or snooping through someones private information.
Load More Replies...Knew someone who said her foster parents told her it was illegal for women not to wear a bra.
Wow, I can relate to that. My mother got me to wear one when I had absolutely nothing to show (at the time). Same mentality.
Load More Replies...Buying a shirt at a store and then wearing that shirt to the same store the same week.
When your parents tell you you can do something while their gone I always feel like a criminal doing like did I hear them wrong and im gonna get in trouble?
I know right? My parents tell me to eat whatever and when I touch the snacks that are meant to be eaten once in a while I feel so nervous
Load More Replies...Feeling guilty at leaving a bad marriage because of what job he had, using cloth diapers when everyone else didn't, marrying my soul mate because I got a 2nd chance at love. The list is longer but someone pointed those out to me specifically as to not feel guilty. It's hard but I've done it; working on the list.
Because of the job? Why, what was wrong with it?
Load More Replies...Being 39 and pregnant. I'm sorry me having a baby isn't what people expected. Honestly neither did I but that's not the point. I'm happy to be blessed and if you're going to have a problem with that then I don't want you to be a part of my life!
Years ago, I left the eye doctor after having my eyes dilated. I entered a grocery store wearing my sunglasses. A customer approached and loudly berated me for wearing shades indoors. Some people!
LOL I know you can't but you should have taken them off that person would have backed the hell off in .2 seconds once they saw your huuuuuuge pupillsss @.@
Load More Replies...Changing your daughter's diaper on the front seat of your truck in winter at a gas station feels like child abuse even though the men's room doesn't have a place to do that.
Trust me, it’s much cleaner doing that in the car. Public bathrooms are no places to change a child.
Load More Replies...Being handicapped and needing to exercise your “head of the line” privilege, or any other accommodation, always feels very illegal to me. I try really hard to not be that person, but sometimes my pain is just too much and I need to get my stuff done fast. The dirty looks people give (even the employees) are enough to make me want to never leave my house again.
You can always go in front of me. My mother is disabled and she is treated awfully for needing a mobility scooter or help in the store or using services that are available to her. It is almost to the point that she would rather stay home and have me go. I like to take her with me so she gets out of the house (plus we have a good time) and I make people feel bad if they make her feel bad. You don't owe anyone an explanation for using the services you need and you can have my place in line.
Load More Replies...When you go and check somebody’s profile on this site or others and go check their old posts
Yeah it feels like stalking or snooping through someones private information.
Load More Replies...Knew someone who said her foster parents told her it was illegal for women not to wear a bra.
Wow, I can relate to that. My mother got me to wear one when I had absolutely nothing to show (at the time). Same mentality.
Load More Replies...Buying a shirt at a store and then wearing that shirt to the same store the same week.
When your parents tell you you can do something while their gone I always feel like a criminal doing like did I hear them wrong and im gonna get in trouble?
I know right? My parents tell me to eat whatever and when I touch the snacks that are meant to be eaten once in a while I feel so nervous
Load More Replies...Feeling guilty at leaving a bad marriage because of what job he had, using cloth diapers when everyone else didn't, marrying my soul mate because I got a 2nd chance at love. The list is longer but someone pointed those out to me specifically as to not feel guilty. It's hard but I've done it; working on the list.
Because of the job? Why, what was wrong with it?
Load More Replies...Being 39 and pregnant. I'm sorry me having a baby isn't what people expected. Honestly neither did I but that's not the point. I'm happy to be blessed and if you're going to have a problem with that then I don't want you to be a part of my life!
Years ago, I left the eye doctor after having my eyes dilated. I entered a grocery store wearing my sunglasses. A customer approached and loudly berated me for wearing shades indoors. Some people!
LOL I know you can't but you should have taken them off that person would have backed the hell off in .2 seconds once they saw your huuuuuuge pupillsss @.@
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