There’s nothing wrong with being weird.
Originally, weird used to mean ‘having the power to control destiny’ and later ‘unearthly’. In a sense, the term has a positive meaning and should be treated as such. After all, folks tend to gravitate towards unique things more than the same ol-same ol; being weird makes folks seem more authentic and empowering; above all else, it fuels creativity and leads to a more unorthodox approach to problem-solving.
But, somewhere along the way, the idea of being weird got skewed by humanity’s ignorance and so here we are—burning bridges and building walls when it should actually be the other way around. And so here we are, seeing yet another thread discussing the weird aspects of American culture.
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How they pretend to be Christian while doing the exact opposite of what Jesus would do in every situation.
Religiosity is dropping in every developed country except the USA. Jesus and guns baby!
Including the USA. The percentage of people who identify as "religiously unaffiliated" is rising and could one day become a majority, according to a recent Pew survey.
Load More Replies...Excuse me! That is magat conservative republican behavior, not everyone!! trumpty dumpty created the web of lies and hatred that is still rampant, unfortunately.
The rise of the chrstian right started way beefore Trump.
Load More Replies...This isn't just in the USA. It's everywhere in the name of every God. :(
It's a problem with people in general, and not unique to Christians.
Load More Replies...Some of the nastiest abuse I copped from so called Christians, when I left my abusive husband...the vindictive comments came out...'you deserve to lose your children,' etc..awful hypocrites
You should've said they deserved to lose their place in Heaven.
Load More Replies...Until recently this "special brand" of christianity was a purely American specialty. Unfortunately it has since spilled over to other countries. Recent developments like Uganda re-introducing the death penalty for homosexuality were heavily influenced by American missionaries - some of the more extreme evangelical sects are very active in Africa and gaining momentum there.
Depends on what part of the country. When I lived in the southeast, people brought Jesus or the devil, into the most random conversations. Even people who didn't go to church. In the northeast, it's the opposite. Not many regularly go to church. Most of those that do, don't talk about religion outside of there.
Religion is evil when a person or state uses it as a means to justify their actions. This applies to all religions.
Literally had this discussion with my dad yesterday, saying how many times I read on Reddit of (mainly) American Christian's/ catholics being religious but not nice to others- from being awful to wait staff in restaurants to cutting off their adult kids and or being nasty to them for becoming atheists to well generally being not nice to people in all customer facing roles. The hypocrisy is hilarious.
Also we are so focused on women (people) getting pregnant and having babies that we take away their bodily autonomy and try to restrict birth control but then we don't provide maternity leave/pay (in some situations) or childcare benefits so mom has to go to work to pay for food and childcare but then when she can't afford the childcare and has to stay home we also don't want to give her snap benefits or free lunches for the kid because then she's leaching off the system , you guys I just can't with this backward a*s country and their hatred for women and mothers in particular. Sorry for the run on sentence but it irks the p**s out of me.
Republicans are not pro-life, they are anti-woman. All the laws to protect a fetus, but once it's born, no assistance for health care, education, childcare etc. The great George Carlin once said, "Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers".
He was wrong. They're just anti-women and don't care about the children at all. "An Alabama woman was imprisoned for ‘endangering’ her fetus. She gave birth in a jail shower." https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/oct/13/alabama-pregnant-woman-jail-lawsuit
Load More Replies...Right? They say they're "pro-life" but any new programs designed to benefit poor and working class families are decried as "woke" or "socialism" and shot down. No to parental leave, no to nationalized healthcare, no to food and housing subsidies. It's disgusting.
Ohio votes on reproductive rights next month....the amount of woman against it is astounding to me. I fear for the future of women in this country
I ask this, and other, questions more than I should have to, yet never seem to get any kind of answer: Exactly WHAT is the republican endgame? WHY Wild West unrestricted gun possession and open carry? WHY outlaw abortion but ignore the already viable life that is the mother, even if she’s only 10 years old? WHY anti-abortion but also anti-already born child? WHY massive tax breaks for those who already have more than enough and don’t pay their fair share and decide to close down social safety net services and shift the burden of providing tax revenue for other public services on the middle class—-which is disappearing? Why deny climate change when it is very painfully obvious it exists? Why? Why? Why? I ask these questions of those who propose and support these things that make no sense at all, and every damned time, all I get is crickets.
The Republicans have no endgame. The Republican crazies are like toddlers- the only thing they want to do is say no to everything. If a Democrat so much as suggests something, the answer is NO. If the government tries to do anything, the answer is NO. They aren't politicians with an agenda, they're toddlers with a "we're better than everyone else and if you disagree with us we'll just throw a government-sized tantrum" worldview. Don't even try to reason with the crazies, they have no reason.
Load More Replies...And accessible too- no point in having legal abortions if the most vulnerable who need it most can't access it
Load More Replies...I heard that you have to pay for contraception in the USA. It's free in the UK (Spain also offers free birth control pills and subsidizes other forms of contraception. Several other European countries offer free or subsidized contraception). This in itself would make a massive difference.
I cannot imagine you have to pay for contraception. Think about the young girls... Too young to be a mom yet. Oh man. Oh woman.
Load More Replies...To me, this is about power and control. If you force up to half of the population to dedicate their energy and resources to raising children, they don't have as much time watching what politicians are up to. Makes your life easier in terms of who to woo for their vote, because you only have to advertise to the needs of a smaller interest group. With other unwanted groups, you might follow additional tactics of criminalizing them as a whole and ship lagre percentages of them off to for-profit prisons, for example. Win-win. The logic of this makes me throw up in my mouth a little every time I think about it.
Unfortunately this misogyny is getting strong in more countries, not only in US.
This I'm gettin' tired of seein'. A woman is actually a PERSON! If they want to do something stupid, fine. Plenty of education out there before they hit breeding age. But if a grown, adult woman, old enough to join the military, decides she doesn't want to give birth to another politician, that's her choice, no ifs, and, or butthead asshats trying to get votes sayin' "it's a life". Horsepucky! You gonna adopt it? Pay to raise it outta YOUR pocket? Make that woman go through the pain of childbirth because you are "just" a politician, but get to pass stupid laws! Women are their own person. Don't pass stupid laws on them.
Guilt is put on the consumer, not the corporations. The customer has to tip because servers don’t make a livable wage. The customer has to recycle and watch their carbon footprint because the environment is deteriorating. The customer has to eat better because cows are being slaughtered and chickens are trapped in cages. 100% of the world’s problems are caused by giant corporations, not the average person.
Yes and no. When I see a line of cars idling their engines in a fast food drive thru that are being driven by obese people, I think some personal responsibility should be taken. If people weren't such shallow, selfish, lazy, idiots, their would be no market for unsustainable consumerism.
Being a politician is all about creating a problem first and then offer a solution. Which will create another problem somewhere else...
1000% THIS!!! I'm in Australia, not America but the same applies. My sister composts every scrap of food waste, recycles everything, uses responsible products, doesn't own paper towels, etc, etc. But I go to work in the medical field & discard a small mountain of single use plastic every day. I recycle what I can, but for the sake of sterility, these plastic items must be used. Somedays I wonder what's the point of recycling if no one is looking into how much the medical field alone needs better options than just pumping out kilos of plastic every minute. And yes, I know the plastic is absolutely necessary to safeguard the sterility of medical items, I just think research should go into a more eco friendly type of packaging for us.
Oh, well ... this is blame shifting. There is not one industry, not even one company, that just acts however they feel to, disconnected from employees and customers. It's just that they're more organized, they collect the demand and criteria from the customers, translate into mode of production in the broadest sense - including any- and every-thing - and then, do so. If customers would demand a reliable, say, certificate that states that child labour isn't involved in the production of their stuff, companies would deliver ... to the exact amount of required goodness and proof thereof that provides the max revenue. It's not all on us customers, sure so, of course or even of coursest, but it's neither all on the companies. If a significant minority demands something the majority don't care about, even that is provided by our beloved corporations - see vegetarian and vegan products and how far they've come the last 20, 30 years - that is proof that customers' demands are at least somewhat
Recently, the r/AskReddit community brought up (again) the question of the weirdest things about American culture. The post garnered 1,800 upvotes and generated a discussion consisting of 3,200 comments before being taken down by the moderators.
These days, it’s become quite a common question to discuss online. In fact, it’s so common that Bored Panda has covered it on a number of occasions, mostly from the perspective of what folks from outside the US find weird about the global superpower.
And that last term is key here—global superpower. Some speculate it to be the key as to why there are so many discussions revolving around America out there. And it doesn’t seem to matter what aspect of it is: culture, psychology, sociology, political or religious climate. Anything goes.
We're fine with whatever level of violence and gore you want to put on TV, as long as there aren't any female nipples showing!!
What is wrong with women’s breasts/nipples? People celebrate the AR-15 but demonize women’s breasts. Why???
I have no idea. They're literally vending machines for infants and they pay us with pain. That's their entire purpose.
Load More Replies...I can t understand that one. Here almost all girls go top less in the beach.is the most normal thing and we don t stare . You can note when someone is from USA because they stare like if they never seen a nppie
USA... the most sexist and also the most prude country in the world
There's plenty of competition for that title. Does the US have official "morality police"?
Load More Replies...Not only nipples, all the beeeeeep, when someone says something like s**t, f**k, c**p, or other "bad" words. So annoying and so useless.
This was really annoying on The Walking Dead. It was so gory and violent but heaven forbid anyone swears.
Load More Replies...I live in the USA and I have never been asked what I feel is appropriate for viewing on TV. It is not Americans, it is someone or someones that have made that decision. Why do you think so many of us pay for streaming services to watch TV from other countries.
The Republic of Gilead (USA) keep pushing for this immature censorship. Yet didn't God create the beautiful human body? If so, why the shame? It wasn't like that in Roman times.
Absolutely - breast feeding gave the entire mammalian kingdom a huge evolutionary advantage.
Load More Replies...MIL was watching movies with us. Scarface chainsaw scene..no comment, Porkies nudity/sex? "Disgusting"
As an outsider (UK) I think all the right wing Christians are weird as f**k.
I can't agree with the OP because I don't think f**k is weird at all. It's those right wing "Christians" who think that.
Load More Replies...From what I can see, US right wingers who claim to be Christians are no such thing. Jesus taught peace, love, and forgiveness.
If Jesus returned today, those KKKristians would crucify Him.
Best bumper sticker I've seen on this.."Jesus was a socialist"
Load More Replies...As an American, I agree. I'm in my 40s BTW. It always weirded me out. Even in the 80s.
I am also an American in my 40s and it always weirded me out, too. Friends not being allowed to sleep over at my house because they'd miss Sunday school and church. Friends not being allowed to sleep over at my house because my mom and her (7+ years) partner weren't married. Being forced to go to religious classes when I stayed at friends houses. It all seemed weird and very controlling.
Load More Replies...I am sorry you live in a country with so many people with conservative, un-social ideas... Keep your voice up for as much as possible. We need you. In my country these extreme conservatives are there too, luckily not that much amount of society but they creep me out. Political parties that don't want women to work, vote, etc...
Load More Replies...As an American, I have always agreed with your statement. I have known that since I lived down south back in the eighties and nineties.
I’m from America but I think our pharmaceutical ads are really f*****g weird and annoying
USA and NZ are the only western countries that allow direct-to-consumer pharmaceutical marketing.
We got advertisements for drugs, that can be taken without a doctors order, too (Germany)
Load More Replies...Prozac and Rogaine were the first two I remember. There was a time ads for prescription drugs were illegal. Sometime in the early 90s that changed. "Ask your doctor about..." became the catchphrase.
It makes sense when you consider the lack of universal health care and general small amount is PTO. Americans often can't afford to go to the doctor or take time off work to get better. So they rely on self medicating and the pharmaceutical industry is right there to take advantage of it.
Sadly that's dangerous, and create a lot of bacteria resistance because ppl get a cold (virus) and get antibiotics . That not works buddy .
Load More Replies...They should be outlawed and the money was spent on advertising should go to reducing the price of the medication.
A weird concept - "tell your doctor what to prescribe, obviously you know better than them after having seen this commercial..." Even more weird is the fact that, judging from the still unchecked opioid epidemic, this actually seems to work, at least for the pharmaceutical companies.
I suspect that my doctor earns enough to afford a TV, so I don't have to mention those commercials because he's already seen them.
Load More Replies..."THIS AWESOME DRUG WILL MAKE YOU JUMP AROUND AND SING!!! but also kill you in horrific ways if you're one of the few people sensitive to side effects"
If the drug companies can afford to advertise, they can afford to mark the price down by a large margin.
agreed. usually they go something like: here's our product. but also the side effects may include rapid vomiting, constant chills, massive amounts of pain, and in many cases a slow horrible death. Also, people will go up to the doc and ask for something they saw on tv, when it #1 isn't right for them or likely anybody else, and could possibly make their condition worse. you should not take unnecessary meds.
General curiosity and human flaws aside, the idea behind America being a point of discussion in a lot of places can be traced back to just how influential its culture is on the rest of the world. Following World War II, the US promised “to build a new world,” one that functions as a huge global village of organizations that would unite nations and thus push back any ideas of conflict. This in turn meant that any idea of kicking your neighbor in the shins would essentially mean you’re shooting yourself in the foot. And nobody likes that.
A lot of the world thus agreed to it—who would be against things like freedom and free flow of information and culture? Soon after everything from news agencies to Hollywood studios to the rock and roll scene started seeping to the rest of the world. Some call it coca-colonization or Americanization.
We make the most dimwitted people among us our leaders.
Or... the voters are even dumber. Our education system is pretty terrible.
I've seen a political slogan "If you think I'm dumb, you should see the people who voted for me".
Load More Replies...To be fair, this happens in almost every country. In America it's often more pronounced because there's only two major parties in politics.
And an electoral system that favors the minority party.
Load More Replies...I think we have the dumbest and most ignorant Congress in the history of this country right now!
Not all of them, but the dumbest for some reason are also the loudest and the news media loves a spectacle so crazy people like MTG, Gaetz and Bobo grab headlines like crazy while the rest are quietly doing their jobs in the background.
Aldai Stevenson: In America, anyone can become president. That's one of the risks you take.
That's how you end up with a twice-impeached, four times indicted ex-president. Because you chose con man who' had never been a public servant in any capacity, and whose hobby is sizing up women to judge who's "hot."
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Celebrating a holiday to give thanks for the things in life you already have, and then the next day fighting people over a new appliance for a 25% discount.
After they jacked up the prices by 10% a month before...
Load More Replies...and it's spread here to the UK now.....as my father used to say "America sneezes and we (the UK) catch a cold"
I do my best not to leave the house at all on Thanksgiving weekend.
The number of people who are willing to blindly vote for a candidate that obviously does not have their best interests in mind.
To be fair, the whole US electoral system with it's heavy emphasis on the President rather than the party is weird.
It's an old prototype that needs to be updated. Sort of like the Windows 1.0 for modern democracy. We updated a few times but we're running Windows 3.11 when most of Europe is running Windows 11.
Load More Replies...American right-wingers don't mind being miserable as long as "THOSE PEOPLE" are doing even worse.
Someone who used to be a friend (we drifted apart over her political views) voted for trump and became a massive trump supporter just because her dad who had died before he went into politics liked the guy. When I asked if her dad agreed with the political idea trump had/ has she said no, but still became a massive trump supporter because she thought her dad would have been. Turns out dad like his hotels and golf courses... She herself, before he started his political campaign had totally opposite political views to him and changed almost overnight. It was sad to see how blindly she followed him, all because of her dad liking his hotels/ golf courses. Makes me hate trump even more for causing us to go our separate ways. As a Brit it's crazy to me how you only have 2 parties and how you have to be a millionaire to run for president
Don't know why this got downvoted. I think many people rethought friendships after Trump announced his candidacy. And, yes, the cost of all political campaigns is ridiculous.
Load More Replies...Some people don't vote their interests. They vote their bigotries.
Closed primaries are designed to go against thus common sense approach
Load More Replies...I'm going to guess that this is definitely not unique to the US. Maybe worse here than some places, and probably not quite as bad as some.
IN North Carolina for years the farmers voted for Jesse Helms. Most of the policies Jesse created hurt those farmers.
Again, add the UK to this insanity (although every member of the main & 'opposing' (supposedly) parties don't have our best interests at heart. If they do (they did in 2017/19) they are torn to shreds by RW MPs and Corporate MSM. As they say, "If voting made a difference, they'd never let us do it."
But it came with a drawback of sorts. The US has led the world into creating a kind of Western culture on an economic, cultural, and even political level. However, while it exported so much, it imported very little, creating a one-way street without reciprocity. Think visa regulations, educational exchanges and the like. Becoming the center of the world naturally started drawing discussions about the elephant in the room.
The weirdness factor is another point of attraction. As mentioned previously, being weird ain’t a bad thing—being weird makes you unique, helps you stand out and, in the words of Marcus Buckingham and Ashley Goodall, “sameness is not worth following”. Weirdness brings out creativity and authenticity in humans, and it also triggers something in others that makes them come closer.
Gun culture and the Second Amendment
We already have restrictions on arms. You can't walk into a Walmart and buy an M60 machine gun because they are classified as a "weapon of mass destruction". All most of us want is for assault rifles to be classed the same way. It's not a huge thing to ask and it was done before in 1994 with the assault weapons ban.
Didn’t know that and I really don’t care. Here in the UK if you have a gun it’s a rifle for shooting birds or rabbits and it’s licensed. The police can knock on your door whenever they feel like it to check your license and can enter to check that you have a secure gun cabinet. If you don’t they take the firearm away. It’s really that simple. The Second Amendment in the US doesn’t really have restrictions as such because machine guns weren’t a thing when it was written. Individual states are allowed to maintain their own regulations of weapons of mass destruction but they are still way more readily available than they should be. You probably noticed that I hate guns. I just don’t see why people who haven’t had a full psychiatric evaluation should be allowed to buy them.
Load More Replies...I've met someone who argued with me until he was flustered, spitting, and yelling that his 2-year-old child took "HIS gun seriously and knew not to touch it" so that's why it was perfectly ok to leave it out in the open, loaded and chambered. Naw dude, this is how your 2-year-old shoots you on the couch after you've passed out drunk again...idiot....
It's bizarre that they would rather accept daily mass shooting incidents than gun control. Children can get bulletproof inserts for their schoolbags, and go through active shooter drills at school, and school shootings are common. The leading cause of death for children and teens in the US is gun violence. Think about that. Guns are the leading cause of death for their kids, and they won't vote for gun control.
That's because, even with all their "save the children" posturing, they really don't care about the children outside of how many votes it will get them. It's a shameful irony on their part that an unborn child is worth more to them than a child that is living.
Load More Replies...There are many reasons for owning guns and depending on where you live they can be necessary example Alaska. You absolutely need a gun in some parts of Alaska or you could be become a bears lunch.
It made sense for a struggling newborn republic in 1791. Today, not so much.
The second amendment to the US constitution isn't the problem. Its original purpose was to enable the citizenry of the US to provide national self-defence in the absence of a standing army. You can tell that by the way it begins "A well-regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State". The problem is modern interpretations of that part of the US constitution, in particular the clause "the right of the people to bear arms" being misinterpreted to mean that every individual should be allowed a firearm without meaningful regulation - contravening the "well regulated" part of the constitutional amendment.
yes it served it's purpose for the times of the founding fathers ...no way could they have foreseen the future,I think it would have been reworked if they knew ... that's just my view as an outsider (UK)...it often takes an outside view to look at something objectively 👍
Load More Replies...According to multiple sources over several survey years, there are more guns in the United States than there are people. Gun ownership in the US accounts for approximately 46% of all firearms in the world. I'd say that's a f**kton of guns. Fun facts available at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Estimated_number_of_civilian_guns_per_capita_by_country
And thats because 200 years ago somebody got high 🤷🏼♂️😁
Load More Replies...The ultimate in selfish righteousness. Gun obsessive people think their kids deaths is just the price a culture has to pay to keep its guns.
They want to save unborn babies, but it's the children now that are killed because gun crime is rife
Load More Replies...I don't think guns are rare in the world (eg Switzerland); it's just the number of shootings.
There's also the purpose behind the purchase of guns. In many other nations guns are bought for hunting. To use on animals. With the thought of using the guns on a human as abhorrent. In the US, often the whole purpose is to use the gun on another human "for home protection". From the moment they purchase it, and long before, they have imagined a scenario where they end someone's life. Obviously not universal, but enough of them. It becomes an easy step from imagining to actually doing it.
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For a country built off the backs of slaves and immigrants, there is so much hatred toward immigrants.
Funny thing though! Those who hate immigrants are, like it or not, known as 'anchor-children' of immigrants who fleed whatever country they left behind. Now, the only people who can express their discomfort are the Native American-Indians. Don't believe me? Look for the YT video: 'Native American confronts anti illegal protesters' Just look an listen
My canned response when someone demands they "go back where they came from"..."Oh...so what tribe or percentage native American are you?".."I'm not" ..."Then get the f*** out"
Load More Replies..."BuT ThAt wAs a LoNg tImE AgO. EVeRyThInG iS EvEn NoW! If AnyTHiNg WhItEs ArE OpPReSSeD!"
Did you know that people who use screen readers struggle to make sense when people write in this format? Just thought I'd mention it as you seem a very reasonable person judging by your comments.
Load More Replies...The ones chanting "F-R-E-E-D-O-M" are the ones most anxious to take it away from anyone who's not like them.
For me as European I see all but the native as immigrant over there
Just curious, does that mean you vote for the far right in Europe ?
Load More Replies...No one should ever discriminate against them just because they are immigrant. It's basic human decency. These people don't know what the immigrants had to go through in their countries and if they had they would have ran away with their tails tucked between their legs.
Health Insurance yet we still have crappy healthcare. 591$ a month WTF! That’s more then my car payment and insurance.
With stupid high deductibles that a healthy person will never reach so basically Americans are being forced to pay outrageously high rates for nothing more than major medical and if you're lucky, one wellness visit each year.
Bad health insurance was a major motivator for me to exercise every day and eat a good diet. Taking care of one's health increases one's odds in an expensive healthcare industry.
Load More Replies...America - kids can go hungry at school because we don't want tax dollars paying for that. Veterans can't get the care they need because Republicans spend that money on tax breaks for billionaires. We gladly give billions in corporate bailouts but nothing to feed/cloth/shelter/heal our most vulnerable. We pump all the food with ultra-processed and high amounts of sugar to ensure maximum obesity and illness. We don't care about PEOPLE or what is moral or ethical in America. We care about making rich people richer. If we keep you sick you spend more on healthcare (which they of course insurance companies keep trying to give less and less and charge more and more), you spend more on medications, you spend spend spend. That feeds Wallstreet and corporations & fails all of humanity because capitalism is designed solely to benefit the rich by exploiting and raping the other 99% of the country. Oh and of course it keeps people in s****y jobs to get the healthcare.
What is the weirdest thing about this to me is that it's mostly poor or lower middle class white people from certain parts of the country voting against their own interests. I don't get it at all. Do they not think they need healthcare? Do they all think they're going to win the lottery? Why? Can someone explain why?
Load More Replies...I pay $1800 a month for a family of 5 and have to dish out so much for a doctors visit, not preventative health but like getting testing and getting a z pack for the flu is like 200 out of pocket... and they only cover like 5-10% of it....it's ridiculous. F*ck you Aetna!
We pay 860 a month for my husband and I and our daughter. No prescription coverage and never meet our deductible. Also pay a ton out of pocket on top of our premium. Blue Cross Blue Shield isn't the best either! Our health care/insurance in America disgusts me.
Load More Replies...What I don't understand is that everybody complains about health care costs in the USA. So why not just vote out candidates who oppose Medicare? And protest for the sacking of anti-medicare professionals.
They want better health care but they do not want to pay for it.
Load More Replies...The UK is slowly heading this way. The NHS is being torn apart & sold by successive Govts, mainly to the USA private healthcare companies. Bad pay too, with nurses and Doctors striking due to frozen below inflation pay and mass loss of staff.
I thought my €138 per month with €385 own risk per year was already alot
Kind of depends on how much you make, wouldn't it.
Load More Replies...They make it overly complicated because the majority of us won't bother to file the extra paperwork. Our healthcare system is infested with parasitic costs and that is the best metaphor I have for it.
My husband's and mine is 2500/mo with a $6000 deductible and a 20% co-pay. The only hospital that is covered is 45 minutes away. I went to a urgent care a few months ago because I had a really bad sore throat for a few days and my husband just finished CAR-T cancer treatment and it's extremely important that I get tested for anything that could jeopardize his health. Insurance rejected it, and I had to pay $572. I can't tell you how infuriated I am.
It’s akin to the allure of scary and disgusting things: disgusting things capture and retain people’s attention more effectively. It’s one of many of evolution’s tricks to help us stay away from harmful stuff. But it’s one that folks can enjoy, despite the very obvious deterrent that is ew, that’s disgusting, kill it with fire. But you’d watch that fire with awe. Humans are weird.
And so it all perpetuates itself: we talk about the elephant in the room and we talk about weird things because we can’t but talk about it. If anything, it provides insight into the other. And from an educational standpoint, understanding the other only increases our chances of understand the world. Oh, and surviving. Can’t forget about that.
In all things: Money before people.
When money talks, ethics walk. Along with morals, personal honor, sympathy, and community spirit.
The old saying "the love of money is the root of all evil" kind of makes the American people basically evil, does it it not? They love money above all else, and will sacrifice their own grandmothers if they thought they'd make enough money out of it.
There is a difference though - we in Europe have social markets using parts of the income for the support of people that are out of work, old or sick. In the US there isn't such a net in that sense
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Tipping. For everything. For the smallest things. For people simply doing their jobs.
"But I have to buy a new yacht ! " (ceos everywhere)
Load More Replies...Tried to order cake online for pick up. The website forced me to add a tip and there was no way to opt out. No cake for me.
In Europe, tipping is not one bit required, but you can tip if you want to
Not always. Some service personnel in some places will be quite offended if you attempt to tip them.
Load More Replies...Could be worse. Most of China is driven by the bribe system. You want your kid to sit near the front of his classroom so he can see the chalkboard? You have to bribe the teacher to move him. You need a permit approved by a government agency? You have to bribe them. To get any official to do their job, you have to bribe them first. It is a corrupt culture from top to bottom.
It's because either they're working for big companies who are greedy and won't pay them enough or they're working for small businesses who are barely staying in business while the big companies loom over them, and can't pay their workers much. That or the boss is just greedy too. It all sucks- just raise the minimum wage to something liveable.
As an Australian, it annoys me that (in the US) the total bill for a meal is meaningless. You have to add state tax AND a ridiculous tip, which used to be 10% but is now expected to be at least 20%! In Oz, the final bill is ALL you have to pay. If the service was truly excellent, then feel free to add an OPTIONAL tip, directly to the waiter.
I refuse to use DoorDash or GrubHub because they expect me to tip them BEFORE they provide a service. F*ck that. So, I drive to our preferred pizza place and pick up our order. The girl behind the counter literally takes four steps, grabs my pizza and takes four steps back to hand it to me. AND EXPECTS A TIP. Girl, you high.
From the UK and not used to tipping for everything. First time in NY at the Hilton Hotel. Man rushed up and the foyer and moved our bags about 6 feet, for no reason. Then put his hand out. Husband just handed him a dollar. Porter held it up and looked at it, said Jesus f…..g Christmas! Every time we walked through the hotel he pointed at us!
Being puritanical about sexual themes but glorifying violence in media
Well, the Puritans were quite a sexually-repressed, violent group of people. They did not hesitate to use violence to "carry out God's plan", whatever they happened to think that was: assaulting and tormenting old women they thought were witches, burning Native Americans alive, persecuting Quakers, etc. They'd fit right in with today's GOP.
dear USA, here's our puritans...your welcome,love from the UK 😆😆😆
Load More Replies...Not to mention the porn epidemic with young men who now aren't turned on by regular women.
If they didn't glorify violence they wouldn't have anyone willing to kill people in other countries that have different views on sex.
Being able to fight and die for your country before being allowed to purchase and drink a beer. I hate alcohol, and I didn't serve, but still, this is pretty silly, and I think it actually contributes to alcoholism by making it taboo (and therefore cool) in your teen years.
Yep! U can legally murder people for ur "country" and (supposedly) vote who will run it, but not capable of deciding if u should smoke or drink
At 18 they don't even know what they're defending.
Load More Replies...While unfortunately child soldiers have been observed in many authoritan countries, especially in times of civil unrest, it is at least officially internationally banned to use minors as soldiers - well, nearly internationally, as out of 196 UN countries, only 195 signed the UN convention on children's rights. Can you guess which one did not (yes, of course: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Convention_on_the_Rights_of_the_Child)? While there are some regimes that send minors into war, the USA are the only country really to do so officially.
They know that more mature people are not that easy to trick into dying for them
The only good thing about US legal age is you have five years of driving experience under your belt before you're allowed to drink. In Europe, both happen at 18.
In Austria you can smoke and drink (beer, wine) from 16 ☺️
Load More Replies...My brother joined the army at 17. They helped him become legally emancipated. This was in the 2000s, not during a draft or something. He came back, barely old enough to go to a bar, but already a binge drinker with issues. So many issues. As a mom, I have no problem letting my teens have a beer or two occasionally, learn how to drink responsibly at home. I have also made it clear that I would not be happy with them joining the military. They can find another way to get a scholarship, or join a trade. Trades often pay well, and don't require killing people who've done nothing to you or yours.
The drinking laws in the USA aren't that clear-cut. In some States its legal for someone under 21 to consume alcohol as long as you are at home on your own property. In some States you can go to a bar if you are under 21, but only if you are with your parent or legal guardian.
In Texas they raised the age of enjoying adult entertainment (strippers, party lines, etc) to 21. Federally they're fine, but honestly you want them to be 3/4th through college before they see a pair of tits? Blows my mind.
From a foreign perspective - guns. Every country has them but it like seems like a religion in the US.
In other countries guns serve a purpose, from sport to guerrilla warfare, but it seems in the US they are owned to feed the fantasy of the owner one day getting into a shoot out like in the films.
Almost every citizen in Switzerland owns a gun, but their gun culture is not like the US. They don't proudly carry them around with them, nor have they made themselves the center of their worship; in other words, think it's fine to simply shoot someone if they step on their property. They know how to live in peace there. Not sure what happened to the US psyche, but there is something basically very wrong with it.
It is a religion here. That's exactly what the problem is; gun-nuts place the 2nd at the same level as other rights like literal religious beliefs or voting. I wish they would address how the "well regulated" part of 2A shows up in practice in a way they also support. We also have too many guns floating around in this country.
"Well regulated militia" is the phrase. Nowhere does the Second Amendment say that every person should have a weapon - just that "the people" should not collectively be denied the right to bear arms.
Load More Replies...Democrats also own guns. It's not a strictly conservative thing.
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Load More Replies...Definitely true! They've took away the right to terminate a pregnancy in very many states, but won't protect the children that are in school learning wtf is that all about? At least tighten gun laws idiots and secure your schools. When this happened in the uk and Australia, it only happened once. Simply we put huge fencing around every school and you couldn't get into any of them without following a set of instructions. It's never happened again! 198 and 74 dead this year disgusting. This country is fooked
Every country has them, but it's only in the US that you never know if the ordinary chap you cross on the sidewalk is not armed to the teeth and with a permit to carry and conceal.
This is a result of the Revolutionary War and our founding fathers putting in the 2nd Amendment to the Constitution. Do a Google search for Faneuil Hall in Boston and the date 27 April 1775. This is the day General Gage ordered all weapons seized that belonged to colonists under the guise of "safe storage." Gage did this as the revolution had begun and he didn't want the colonists to be able to take up arms against the British. THIS is why we have the 2nd Amendment and why gun ownership is held so dear to Americans and why the Supreme Court works so hard to keep that in place. It's not about violence, but about being able to protect ourselves from a tyrannical and dangerous leadership that doesn't have our best interests in the forefront.
The government does not need physical weapons. They have social media
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Absurd costs for medications and even routine doctor visits.
Everyone just shrugs, like paying $600 for a 30 day supply of pills is normal.
Big pharma calls the shots and the government has never had the courage to stop them.
Congressmen are not likely to turn away all the money they receive from pharmaceutical lobbyists. Congress works on bribes.
Load More Replies...I have Reumatoid Arthritis and in Denmark it's of course free to get bio-meds treatment. But even so we're informed on the cost of the medication. Here it's around $500 every 2 weeks. The EXACT SAME medication in the US cost $5000 every 2 weeks. Something is clearly very very wrong
I knew i was in for it when the business office called to discuss finances before the doctors office called to set up my appointment. $8000 a treatment , 4 treatments.
Load More Replies...My doctor prefers i use gummies ( no smoking for me ) rather than opoids.
Load More Replies...So many lawmakers are scared about reducing the insulin medication price as if it will crash the whole pharmaceutical industry......ah, of course, they will lose much of their funding *sigh*
One of my meds had to be changed to a slow release one. My out of pocket is now $500.
Hi. What happens in the US if you go to the doctor and she says “you need to take X pills”, and the patient says “I can’t afford those therefore I won’t be taking them.” What happens. Is there another way to get the pills? Or does the doc says “oh dear. Bye then”
First you explore taking the generic version which is usually cheaper, but if you can't afford the meds, you aren't taking them. You and your doctor can try to come up with makeshift solutions, but anything that isn't 100% life and death (for example anti-depressants, wanting to change from from instant release to xr meds, anti-nausea meds for chemotherapy (true story), medically needed breast reductions for pain, wanting to switch to a more expensive drug that has fewer side effects) are usually considered elective by insurance companies and are either partially covered or uncovered. For some conditions, usually physical disabilities, nonprofits exist to help pay for medications and hardware like braces or prosthetics. It sounds dystopian but you're pretty much sol without insurance or bad insurace. My insurance pays for my epilepsy and adhd meds with a 60 dollars a month copay (without it, they're around 400 dollars), but I'm still out of pocket 40 bucks a week for physical therapy.
Load More Replies...Some people think that higher taxes mean less money in general, but it's quite opposite. We pay something like 20% of our income in taxes, but that buys us the security too. Like we have KELA (Social Insurance Institution) that helps with medical costs. They cover 40% of prescribed medication costs and if you reach the limit of 590€ during one year, they cover everything except 2,50€ fee per med packet.
And even after all the social outrage at it, the laws have not been changed, so it continues to be perfectly legal for it to happen again and again and again
All the celebraty worship that we engage in by far.
You haven't seen kpop, cpop and jpop stans ( or stans of pretty much any asian celebs). Before anyone calls me out for 'racism', I'm asian.
I'm not asian, but a long-time fan. And I've seen how much more stressed idols are becoming recent years, because they have like literally no personal life. They are mobbed when in public, their hotels get broken into and their personal information shared.
Load More Replies...what's that bit in bible about "worshipping false idols" etc 🤔... quite bizzare in America atleast and a supposedly more "Christian" society
Yeah some fans get really weird about her. I’m a swiftie but I don’t act like she can do no wrong
Load More Replies...And it's the tax payers that pay for these stadiums that they get to use, and yet, we gain nothing for it. We just get to keep shelling out more and more money if we want to enjoy an event at the stadium our tax money built.
Don't include all of us in that celeb "worship". Many of us don't give a hoot about these people.
People b***h about roads being bad, schools being bad, etc but then vote down levies to fund them.
Also wanting everyone to have decent healthcare coverage that doesn't cost a fortune somehow makes you an evil communist.
A 2% charge on our taxable income gives us 'Universal Healthcare' here... I didn't realise we were an 'Evil Communist Country' Doesn't feel like it, feels more like the freedom country Americans shout about but don't have.
I'm in the U.S. and 2% of my income is tiny compared to the high percentage of our tax dollars they WASTE on other c**p. I wish they would just do universal healthcare already but too many large health companies have our congress in their pockets :( (angry/sad face)
Load More Replies...Whenever universal healthcare idea is raised our politician scream "how will we pay for it?" But every year an increase for the military budget just gets increased with no thought at all about how it will be paid for. Democrats are guilty of voting the increases as much as the Republicans.
How will we pay for it? By giving to the national health system the money we've been giving to private insurance companies. And take the huge profits built into those rates to provide expanded coverage. It's easy. Every other first world democracy had been doing it for decades.
Load More Replies...My ABSOLUTE favorite was those who voted DOWN a tax increase on any income OVER $400,000/yr . These are the idiots who make under 13,000/yr.
It's because no matter how much we r taxed, it's never enough money. Until they learn how to start responsibly spending our money, I will continue to b*tch about raising taxes
Government's mismanagement of funds has created these problems, not a lack of taxation.
I disagree with this one. We already approved taxes for those things, policies are reflecting those taxes to other things. In California for instance, school funding is already huge, yet the results are not. Bad government, not lack of funds, is the issue. https://www.hoover.org/research/despite-128-billion-budget-californias-k-12-education-system-continues-fail-grand-scale#:~:text=California%20will%20spend%20about%20%24128,Pennsylvania%2C%20Illinois%2C%20and%20Tennessee.
If we at all really thought the money would be spent well on education and roads, and not squanderd way on stupid decisions, then yes, we would be willing to pay more in taxes for it, but the allocations for education has become a joke - It is all about increasing the budget and passing standardized tests instead of paying teachers or smart electives, or after school program They frequently end up, wasting it on frivolous things. I wouldn’t be mad if it was going to education . it’s red tape it’s politics it’s BS and it’s happening constantly. I’m in Tempe, Arizona, and the same thing with the roads they “fixed” a bunch of unbroken sidewalks so they Could put the slant of the wheelchair access in a different spot on the street making it even more difficult to see people In wheelchairs . It’s poorly executed ideas and it’s consistent garbage like this that bums me out so bad
The poor are obese. In most other countries when you see abject poverty you can see people starving with their ribs poking out
Poor folk in the US have to buy shelf-stable high calorie food. Lots of pasta, bread, canned food. Often theylive in food deserts where they have to travel long distances (not easy if you’re poor and there’s no public transport) to get to any kind of decent grocery store. Plus added sugar in everything. Please don’t judge too harshly. The stupids are drowning everyone who want to make things better.
I didn't think this was meant as a dig against poor people, more at the very issues you mention.
Load More Replies...Because food stamps only go so far, and it's more expensive to eat healthy in the US. They have to make those benefits go as far as they can
I wish every county office gave courses to food stamp recipients in shopping for and cooking healthier food/meals. Most people aren't aware of how to do this and make very simple, high fat, low nutrition meals because that's all they know. And community gardens need to come back so people everywhere can grow food.
Load More Replies...In most countries poor people does not starve like that any more. And unhealthy food are way cheaper then healthy food almost everywhere.
More people live in India than in the Americas and Europe combined; also in China. It's not the number of countries that matters, but the number of people. Not that either nation is suffering famine (for all that too many live in poverty), but then again neither do most people in either India or China have ready access to the sort of junk food that we in the "developed" nations find on our supermarket shelves. I think you'll find that worldwide, most food available to most people is generally healthy. That minority of people on this Earth who live in rich nations - well, our poor suffer not just from poverty, but from an unhealthy food supply as well.
Load More Replies...This is changing unbelievably rapidly. Ultra-processed food is fast becoming the only food that many people can afford in most countries. This has taken effort and planning on the side of the industry, but they're getting there.
Not only in the US. Processed food is cheaper in a lot of industrialized countrys which (in combination with low education) leads to poor people consuming more junk food on average.
I don't know if it's the same in the US but in Québec the "welfare" check/money is on the 1st of each month but in grocery stores the specials on meats, fruits and vegetables are always near the end of the month. The specials on the first of the month are always "junk" food, chips, sodas, easily fried frozen foods.
Because unfortunately, cheap sugar and flour ladden food causes weight gain And the folks who are buying boxes at grocery stores for the benefit of poor people are being encouraged to buy that cheap, gross and anti-nutritious food that gets fobbed off on people who don’t have a choice and what they’re getting. And also unfortunately, diet, rich in breaded goods, top ramen, pasta and rice, which are all cheap to produce, don’t provide nutritional benefit or energy to help people get motivated or to exercise so it’s all just a horrible cycle. It’s really sad when you’re on social media and somebody’s telling somebody else who’s really hungry that they should get top ramen and that’ll feed them enough And to not be asking for food. We do have food pantries out here with fresh produce for offer some places, but it really bad poor neighborhoods. It can be very dangerous to go into to distribute it . A lot of it has to do with education as well. We grew up with the food triangle that says that we should be eating a lot more garbage than we should be and if you’re not educated, or on what is healthy and how important nutrition is you’re going to buy garbage thinking that that’s a place to save money on.
My family got food pantry assistance for a few months and wow, the c**p we got. The grocery stores donate their expired bakery goods, so we’d get 3 dozen donuts, 2 pies, and a cake or 2. In one week! Not even kidding. If we got meat it was expired freezer burned stuff. I could go on and on.
Load More Replies...Simply the fact that fat doesn't equal fed. Genetics play a role in obesity, and so does the fact of slow metabolism and high-calorie cheap food.
Sugar is the problem, not fat. Sugary drinks especially.
Load More Replies...Try to buy a meal-sized salad at any fast food place. Then compare that cost with what you can get off the dollar menu.
Giant truck culture.
Yeah. My dad has a truck but that's because he needs a lot of tools for his job. I don't get why people have these giant a*s trucks for no reason . You're just burning up fossil fuels for nothing.
For a lot of people (especially men), it seems to be a status symbol when they have a big truck just because. However, it just makes you look like a loser if you constantly complain about how expensive it is and how much the fuel costs. Having a big truck only makes sense to me for people who need them for work or who actually have money.
Load More Replies...They're kinda useless. They don't have much carrying capacity, which is the entire purpose of a pickup truck, get crappy gas mileage, and have terrible off-road capacity.
So this is just silly, and more of a taste thing. How are large truck culture different from muscle car culture, or low rider culture, or street racing culture. It's what vehicles people like. Do some of them look pretty and silly, yes. But I also think low riders, and bouncy cars look stupid.
It is necessary if one is in the construction industry. But so many of them are all tricked out and customized. There are too nice to be hauling construction materials and tools in. Many of the owners live in dumps. Their truck takes priority over their house or their kids.
Do you know how hard it is to find a small pickup truck with a small cab but a bed big enough to carry a 4x8 sheet of plywood or 8 foot 2x4s? I don't need it to go off-roading or to tow an RV or ride 5 feet off the ground. I just need it for picking up art and woodworking/furniture supplies.
I live in a medium city in Germany, we have one Dodge Ram cruising around that stands out in every parking lot like a bonfire, it doesn't fit in the spaces and always has its butt sticking out so everyone has to go around it
There is one “parked” outside my apartment building right now that is so comically large barely 2/3 of it fits in the parking spot and the rest is blocking the lane. Vehicles of this size should not be allowed for private use.
that showing blood and gore to children is simply entertainment but a women’s breast is taboo
Of course, because all children are exposed to death and bloody violence from the moment of birth and never, ever see a woman's breast. Obviously, I mean how could they? It's not like women's breasts feed babies, is it? (who, me, sarcastic? Never!)
And God forbid you show two adults of the same gender in a committed long-term relationship.
My confusion is 2 women hugging = natural, 2 men = creepy
Load More Replies...I'm not for censorship in general, but I wouldn't let my kids see violence and gore when they don't have the capacity to understand the difference between fiction and reality. However, I would never censor a naked body!
What I also hate is showing horrible power plays and power imbalances in relationships, even in stuff aimed at children, feeding unhealthy beliefs about the gender roles etc, but heaven help us - what damage might they suffer if they see some pubic hair???
Load More Replies...Hey I have the game in the picture! It's the one that comes with the kinect.
I regard a women's breast as anything but definitely not as a taboo......OMG, I think I have just created a »taboob«...who's in??? 🧐
The size of food portion given in restaurants.
I usually have to get to-go boxes, once at a restaurant I got a burger and a salad and I was already almost full by the time I finished my salad since it was so big and I had to take the burger home
True, but I actually like the concept of taking home leftovers instead of sending them back to the kitchen to be discarded. This concept is only slowly taking hold in Europe, to my observation. (Might of course also be the case because portion sizes tend to be smaller there.)
Load More Replies...I once split one pizza between 5 people when I was in the USA. One piece was at least the size of half a pizza back home.
A large pizza has 8 slices, the extra-large has 12 slices. The large pizza's not much for 5 people.
Load More Replies...I, too, live in Connecticut and I always have leftovers when I go out to eat. One restaurant meal always turns into two meals for me, and with what restaurants charge, it turns into a decent value that way. When I travel to other locations (I'm looking at you, Midwest) sometimes I even eat three times off a restaurant meal! I actually love this about American portions - since we can take our uneaten portions home. In Europe, where this isn't the norm, meals are smaller and more reasonable (I have found).
And how the leftovers are packed? Single-use plastic containers?
Load More Replies...So is that right. Restaurants always allow you to take home leftovers?
Here, in my neck of the woods, yes! Only exception is buffets
Load More Replies...We split a breakfast from the local diner between three of us... with an added side of sausage. But have you ever seen a full English?
hey hey hey..now ten now then....you cannot compare our full English with American portion size...a full English isn't a daily occurrence, maybe once every few weeks or months and not three times a day... often a full English will be the only meal of the day (maybe a light sandwich in the evening).... also a full Monty is usually made up of only 1 or 2 of each ingredient: sausage, bacon egg,hash brown, tomato etc...is it a big meal yes but most of us usually go for the 1 of everything option because we know it's enough
Load More Replies...I really like it - for the price of one meal, I can get 2-3 days worth of meals from it.
I always make sure my entrée is something that will reheat well, then fill up on salad, soup, dessert.
Um, I have no idea what folks are talking about when it comes to this. I live in Connecticut in the USA and it is really annoying how little we get for our money now at restaurants. And the fast food joints around us are even getting in on the act. A mcdonald's big mac is now the size of a double cheese burger and a double cheese burger is the size of a single cheese burger.
Sugar in everything
And they usually source the sugars from the cheapest available item. This is how HFCS (high fructose corn syrup) became a substitute for cane and beet sugars. Unfortunately, it is not metabolized in the same way and the research is only beginning to show the disastrous results of that in human bodies.
Big tobacco bought most of the big food companies, and with their history of addictive products they went about making their products as addictive. Sugar does play into our dopamine system, so sugar salt and fats are all too prevalent in our food.
They think the world revolves around what's going on in America
We know it's not all of you, but in any social media you're the only ones who never start their comment by saying your nationality.
Load More Replies...It bothers me when Americans say their country is the best in the world. Canada is pretty great too. A lot of other places are pretty great too.
I'm American and I've never once said "this country is the best in the world".
Load More Replies...I live in the UK - you'd think the only town was London.... The above is similar.
When it comes to world events, America is only a bit player like the rest of most of the world. They are so much in debt, that if China or whoever ever called in that debt, the US economy would crash and burn within a week. The debt is totally unsustainable in the long run. All countries run on a credit basis, but the US is just above and beyond the norm, by trillions upon trillions of dollars.
We shoot ourselves in the foot with who we elect, acting like were free when it's really just a corporate tyranny and not democracy.
"But I've never thought they would eat MY face!" cried the woman who voted for the Leopards Eating People's Faces party.
Those who do not learn history are condemned to repeat it. Those who block teaching history plan to repeat it.
You can basically only vote for two evils in the US. Different evils sure - but both are bad in the end due to too much ideology behind them
Upvoted to negate ur downvote. U have every right to express ur opinion regardless of the fact that I also agree with u :D
Load More Replies...Took a lot of blowback from people when I said I liked Ralph Nader. This was his core argument, politicians and USA are brought to you by these Corporate sponsors...
But countries with multiple parties and proportional representation don't suffer the effects as much.
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We banned most cigarette advertising decades ago. But I cannot watch a football game with out seeing every alcohol ad a million times.
I can't watch sports in Australia any more. The amount of gambling ads just make it unwatchable.
In Denmark, it is not legal to advertise cigarettes, alcohol or medicines that require a prescription
Just sayin', but anyone who smokes tobacco is or gets addicted. By no means everyone who drinks alcohol is or gets addicted....
Ah, but cigarettes can kill you whereas booze will just make you an offensive a*****e.
But if you drink and drive booze can kill you and others faster.
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Bragging about working ourselves to death
This isn't just endemic to the US. Doesn't Japan have the same issue?
I don't know every American but out of all the Americans I know (as an American) . No one brags about this. No one I talk to brags about this either.
Load More Replies...Aussie here. It's like a crazy brag. "I don't know if I could handle not working" Puhlease?!
Same here! Except I'm 8 mos pregnant so my days of napping to death are going to come to a screeching halt in about a month LOL
Load More Replies...Speak for yourself, this is too generalized. I would hope "us Europeans" can add some nuance to their ideas about USA and all their inhabitants.
Load More Replies...I used to have respect for your commenting, but what in the world is this shitshow? 😂💀
Load More Replies...Misunderstanding their own history.
Not necessarily just 'misunderstanding ' it, also being taught only certain aspects and having some parts being left out.
Or leaving them out yourself because they deny the narrative you're fabricating.
Load More Replies...you mean first nation peoples...not native Americans 🤔...the OP was correct 😆😆😆
Load More Replies...This is universal, tbf. When you're the highest monkey up the tree, all the rest see is your butt. As they say.
Wich History u talking bout? In my opinion most things that called history in the US is like 500 years ago. That's the middleage in europe - and before that they have almost no history because they wiped out everything native to America. History is more than 500 years back - its like thousands of years and just since America was "discovered". Another thing is so many rich ppl in the states build ?castles? Like wtf? Got nothing to do with real castles where some walls would be like 1000 years old...
Being misinformed about our history is more to the point. Also, the whole "whitewashing" of history. Pulling down a statue of Stonewall Jackson (etc.) will never negate the effects of slavery, so in a generation there will be no reminders.
Making 14 year olds famous “actors” and “singers” and, if they’re girls, immediately sexualising them.
With Brittney Spears, her people touted about how it was HER decision. SHE'S STILL A 14-16 yo GIRL! U CAN tell her NO!
And then all the parents that complained when their kids were dressing like them...who bought them the clothes?! Who allowed them to wear them?!
Load More Replies...Kids sexualise themselves these days, sadly. Until the world wakes up to how we're being force fed illusions by big business so they can all be billionaires, we can only blame ourselves.
I assume kids refers to 4-12 year olds? In that case, parents are largely responsible for clothing choices and most kids don't dress up provocatively willingly. I think the ped are to blame for their mindset.
Load More Replies...How we have such a stigma around sex and can't show nudity on TV, yet there's this total acceptance of brutal violence. My fiancé is Dutch and the relationship with sex in the Netherlands seems *so* much more open and healthy, whereas they aren't as desensitized to violence. Makes much more sense to me.
Countries where there is age appropriate sex and relationship education in schools and easy access to birth control have lower rates of sexually transmitted disease, lower rates of teen pregnancy, and older age at first intercourse. There's also data showing that in those countries, young people are more likely to report that they felt emotionally happier and content about their first sexual experience.
There's a great video, "Let's Talk About Sex", that compares the perspectives of teens from the US and the Netherlands on sex. It's quite thought-provoking. You can watch it on YouTube at https://youtu.be/6TsEBgyanb0
Load More Replies...I don't think sex education is even taught anymore. I had it in 6th grade (1962!) and it did NOT explain anything much. A movie showed a couple laying in front of a fireplace and then showed them with a baby! I asked my friend, "but what happened?". She didn't know either. We didn't dare to ask questions - too embarrassing. Even though there were no boys in the room. Maybe they learned stuff in their rooms.....
Yeah, it's super dumb. I grew up in a small town in the Midwest, and the only sex-ed I got said that abstinence was the only reliable birth control and we talked about STDs. THAT'S IT
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The fascination with college sports.
I feel like people care a little bit too much about sports anyway
Philomena Cunk said it best, "One day we invented theatre for stupid people, called sports" Im not judging, I follow the NBA, we all need our escapist distractions. But letting sports dictate your mood and days is very much too much...
Load More Replies...I was once into watching football and basketball. But then I graduated from high school and the ra ra mentality just seemed so juvenile. I cannot understand adults who devote their entire weekends to watching sports. Seems a waste of time, even from an entertainment perspective.
Better to be crazy about college sports than about politics or religion. At least college sports have the virtue of being completely unimportant, so you can afford to be irrational.
College sports are the exploitation of young men and women who would like an education that would have otherwise been difficult to achieve.
The truly talented athletes have a good chance of becoming professional athletes for a major team. That means a very high income.
Load More Replies...Sitting here on Saturday afternoon and there is NOTHING on regular TV but college football. Disgusting.
Civil wars and riots have been started and gangs formed over soccer teams elsewhere...
It's the same in my country but I think this is a way where people can let of steam and if it does not harm people than it's at least one of the healthier ways of entertainment... I understand that it must be frustrating that children are thought that their future is dependent of it though.
Simultaneously over sensitive and violent.
I think we're talking news media here, not people. The news American media reacts violently to the smallest provocation.
I don't understand what OP is trying to say with this one. This makes no sense
I think they mean "Asking to be treated with kid gloves, but treating other with an iron fist".
Load More Replies...What? I do not recognize this character trait in the Americans I have met and know.
I agree with this one. I think the need to be politically correct in all terminology, never to offend anyone, etc. is limiting free thought and ideas. It's gone too far. Let people speak and understand what they are TRYING to say. Don't immediately jump to the worst conclusion because you've gotten all tangled up in their terminology.
Television ads for prescription medication
It actually is kind of humorous as death is almost always one of the side effects. And the speech is sped up to make it like an "Oh, by the way..." footnote.
Load More Replies...still waiting on the side effect list that has spontaneous human combustion and head spinning around and puking green goo like linda blair in the exorcist
Side effects may include death. Yeah that's a pretty important fact to know.
Infant male circumcision. Only 30% of males are circumcised on the planet. The vast majority of that percentage is religious circumcision. Most of the rest is tribal practices. America is this sole weird country that on a large scale just randomly does it and no one can really say why. I remember when I was a kid and learned that the penis naturally comes with a foreskin and all the penises I’ve seen in my life were operated on. It felt like my own country was this weird foreign place I no longer understood.
Let's just call it what it actually is: Infant Male Genital Mutilation.
The doctor that popularised widespread circumcision in the US marketed it as a way to prevent masturbation in teenage boys. It's broad usage therefore has religious origins. Once it became widespread other parents didn't want their kid to be the odd one out and and hospitals found they could charge some more money for it. Cue flawed studies to try and back up the hygiene aspect which when replicated outside the US were not valid.
The worst things in America and the world all have religious origins.
Load More Replies...Make it illegal until the age of 18 years (for non medical). Let people decide themselves and stop cutting on healthy babi penises.
A quote from a man who for medical reasons had a circumcision when he was 30... " I wish to GOD my parents would have done this when I was an infant". Said to my brother who shared a hospital room.
Load More Replies...Honestly this one makes me sad, can you imagine if we mutilated our little girls? But somehow it’s okay to mutilate our little boys!!!!
I never actually knew what it was before now, but I remember a long, long time ago I’m pretty sure I remember my younger brother being circumcised and I thought it had to do with health or something
There are rare instances where it needs to be done for a medical condition. But mostly it's done for religious, tradition or cosmetic reasons.
Load More Replies...I get the voices against circumcision, but hear me out, please. I worked at a daycare many years ago. I worked with the 1-year-olds, 99% of them in diapers. I would come in after naptime change diapers and continue with these kids until their parents picked them up in the evening. So I get this one boy up on the changing table and take off his soiled diaper and think I see a cotton ball stuck to the end of his uncircumcised penis. I tried to gently wipe it away with a baby wipe. Nope, that wasn't a cotton ball it was either a bacterial or yeast infection so terribly bad inside the foreskin that it was blooming out. Of course, I immediately called in my manager for her to see and take the reins on dealing with the parents. I was barely 18 at the time. What I was told after the fact: Mom and Dad were in the middle of a horrific divorce, fighting over all 3 boys. Dad didn't know that that area needed to be cleaned differently than his own circumcised self and all 3 boys ...
Parents should look after their children. Some won't, that's for sure. But circumcision of baby boys kills some and mutilates others. Hear me out, please: why subject baby boys to the risk of death just because some parents aren't adequately educated? Isn't it better to put effort into educating parents rather than subjecting baby boys to the risks of circumcision?
Load More Replies...Yeah in other countries people fight to get female genital mutilism out of their system and it will take so long. I am always glad I grew up without these genital mutilism habits being normal. But male genital mutilation should also not be normal. It should only be done in case there is a medical reason in my opinion.
as a european i always found this practice so bizarre and it had been shocking for me since i heard about it for the first time. id never let anybody do anything with my baby unless it was for serious health reasons and it was inevitable. even if it's a routine operation there are risks on many levels
Glorifying politicians. Apparently, we believe their lies every time.
Several years ago I watched a movie about a man who had the same name as a politician who was the incumbent but had died. The man ran for the same office and won because, in my opinion, people just vote for the names they recognize instead of taking the time to actually research the candidates. This is why, again, my opinion, we have politicians that are over 80 running this country with the majority of them completely out of touch with the struggles and hardships their constituents are constantly dealing with.
"The Distinguished Gentleman" a film on political lunacy
Load More Replies...An ex orange agent with tiny hand and wearing a toupee, married to a woman who probably he bought from some ex-communist country springs to mind! I don't want to say his name, because I would get sooo many thumbs down from his mentally unstable followers. Oh, this particular individual I just described, live in a particular country in America, which country? Take a wild guess
The most successful politicians are often the best liars. Also, so much that goes on in poltics is hidden from us, it's difficult to know what we should support.
The commercialism of everything. Everything is an ad. Everything is to get you to buy something.
That's a picture of London - Piccadilly Circus to be precise. The red double decker bus is a bit of a hint that it's probably not the US. The aluminium statue (behind the camera) is of Anteros, not his more famous brother Eros.
Anyway TDK is a sh%t Japanese band, all their tapes are blank...
Load More Replies...If every single quarter every stupid corporation can't merely continue making a great profit, but has to beat their previous quarter profit at some point it ends terribly, right? I mean they've taken the pensions away, they've reduced or eliminated health care, changed 401ks to discretionary, they've switched to hiring part-time to reduce/eliminate benefits. They've increased workloads instead of replacing staff, huge layoffs every single year, and cut corners all over the place. They fight all efforts for reasonable wages, fight all efforts to reduce climate change, fight all efforts for good, all in the name of profit. So now we kill the planet, kill our workers, and children are raised by daycares and after-school care no one can afford so that 2 parents can work to barely afford rent. They decimated the middle class, increased crime & homelessness, workers are burnt out and we do it all so EVERY SINGLE QUARTER the company can improve their profit. Pretty sure it all ends badly.
And yet the accompanying photo is of London. Another bang up job, BP!
This one should be scrapped. It's way worse almost literally everywhere else except probably Antarctica.
Tipping. America is one of the only countries where tipping a large percentage of a bill at a restaurant is not only accepted but, if you don’t tip the waiter around 20% or whatever, you’ll get shamed for it. And even beyond that, tipping is now starting to creep into, for example, tip jars at pick-up counters where there’s no wait staff and tip jars at some retail outlets and such. It’s a weird, uniquely American custom that as I recall started around the Great Depression with rich patrons tipping wait staff to get seats or food more quickly. Then the restaurant owners realized they could get away with paying the waiters next to nothing and letting them live primarily on tips, and ever since then there’s been a constant assumption in the US that whatever you get charged on the menu you just add the 20% or so to what you pay. It started as a total scam to underpay employees and employees to avoid paying taxes on cash tips and it just continues mainly due to social inertia to this day.
Cash tips ARE taxed. In fact the IRS (US tax authority) assumes a minimum amount of tips and servers have to pay it EVEN IF THEY DON'T RECEIVE THAT MUCH.
Well, if you report significantly less in tip income than we expected (less than 10%, usually) at the IRS, you would get audited. And examining the restaurant's records would tell us if you had been reporting honestly. I once audited a waitress who only reported half of what would be expected at that restaurant. Turned out that made sense because she had been working as a cook (no tips) for six months to fill in for a regular cook who was in the hospital. If adequate records are kept, servers don't pay taxes on tips they didn't receive.
Load More Replies...People who don't tip to "send a message" to the corporation r just cheap BS'ers. All u r doing is screwing the person that served/helped u. If u wanted to send a message, u wouldn't take the Uber, eat at the restaurant, use that delivery service. U would get off ur lazy butt and do it urself. But u refuse to give up ur luxuries, so u make urself feel better about not tipping, by convincing urself u r doing "good" by not tipping
On the other hand, I'm the customer, not your employer. It's not my business topay your wage in tipping, from my taxed income, after you don't pay any kind of taxes.
Load More Replies...It's still a scam to me! Pay a liveable wage, and cut portion size massively. The tip culture is very aggressive in America and very wrong!!!!
Utterly ridiculous; just pay a living wage, or get out of the business you can't manage.
We don't mind tipping folks that deal with the public and people like you, because we know they've probably dealt with a dozen rude people.
Cheese in a spray can
I feel the same about spray can 'cream', ugh.
Load More Replies...Hmmm, I don't know about this one. A Philly cheesesteak, with the spray cheese from the can, along with all the regular fixings, so f*****g great!!!! 🤤🤤🤤
LMAO It's really not that bad. When I want a snack, I'll have crackers, put some canned cheese on them, then add a piece of salami. Very salty, so eat in moderation, but oh, so good.
All the stuff on this list, this is most offensive! How DARE YOU insult my beloved nonsense cheese product in a can?
EEEEK never seen that - THANK GOD we don't have that heresy here - Vision of horror
Sending photos of yourselves as a Christmas card
The narcissistic Xmas card (& the irritatingly smug “Round Robin” letter) is in the UK as well.
Maybe this was born out of sending Christmas letters to family that are spread out across the country (or countries) I'm making myself sound old, but before the internet, we'd send family photos, and a letter that was a bit of an update on the year, to family we didn't have the chance to see. It was a way to share how the kids have grown, of someone graduated, got a new job, if someone got a new pet, etc. this is back in the day that you had to get your photos developed for you so people weren't capturing every moment of their lives on camera and posting them on social media (that wasn't invented yet). Not to mention that once the internet and email became a thing it was annoying as heck to go get photos scanned and put on a disk so you could send them that way.
Yeah, we don't share photos of our kids on the Internet so many family members don't know what they look like. And I love reading everyone's letters!
Load More Replies...I like these as a way to keep in contact with people you normally lose contact with, a way to keep people up-to-date. When you don't talk that much or live far away. I love getting cards and seeing how my old friends and family have grown since I saw them last
i like getting pictures of friends at christmas...the u.s. is very spread out...it's an opportunity to see each friends who are not nearby....
Not unheard of in Australia. My mum used to send one to family when I was younger, usually with a letter about what we had done that year. It was for family that we couldn't see as often as we would like, so they knew how we were going. I don't think it was a bad thing. It wasn't as staged as ones I see on American tv though (and definitely not in Christmas sweaters, as it was summer).
Yeh it's common here in Australia too, I love it. I get fresh photos of my little nieces and nephew all jazzed up and looking happy, my fridge is overrun and still, bring it on.
Load More Replies...People like getting them. They really do. I stopped sending years ago and I still get unsolicited complaints that I’m no longer sending them out. People miss my Xmas card w pics of the kids in it. They sincerely do. And likewise since I stopped sending I miss getting the ones who have stopped sending to me since I don’t send. I get only a few now and I cherish the few I get. It’s a nice gesture is how I receive it. But everyone is different.
The "temporarily down on your luck millionaire" mindset that allows people to politically support millionaire and billionaire politicians who do not represent their interests. More like -we're all one hospital visit away by cause of a serious accident to being millions in debt.
Fry from Futurama said something like "One day, I may become rich - and then people like me better watch out."
The fact that our politicians are pretty much exempt from insider trading laws doesn't help either.
"do not represent their interests" The mental gymnastics people play with this one are amazing! Back in the day conservatives were saying (among a multitude of things) that Colin Kaepernick could represent the interests of the average black person because he was rich. Right around the same time, or shortly after, these same conservatives came together under the Trump umbrella because, somehow, he represented their interests. Didn't make a damned bit of difference (still doesn't seem to today) that he's rich and they're not.
I went to look at some show houses, was asked for $15, no it wasn't for charity, but for the building company, yeah, eff that.
14-16 to get a job, drive, and take college courses 18 to vote, buy certain legal drugs, and join the military 19 to buy tobacco and be exempt from most curfews 21 to buy alcohol 23 to rent a car and book a hotel room
What!? I didn’t even know that you had to be 23 to rent car or get a hotel room, that’s ridiculous
While being 21 to buy alcohol and 18 to vote or join the military is the same nationwide. The others vary by state. For example, California has no age curfew, and you have be 21 to buy tobacco or rent a car. And, Most states actually require drivers to be 17 or 18 to get a full driver license, while you have to be 21 in Indiana.
I'm not sure where this list comes from, but it's not quite accurate for the whole of the US. Maybe there are some state or local prohibitions on tobacco purchases, but in every state that I have lived in it's 18 years old. And yes, there are often extra costs to renting a car for anyone under 25; the rental agency may require the purchase of additional insurance and charge a higher insurance amount. I have no idea where this "rule" about needing to be 23 to book a hotel room comes from. I booked rooms at age 18 without any trouble.
You must be 21 to buy any kind of tobacco now due to the large percentage of teenagers that were using vape. Nevermind there is always at least one store in every town that will sell to anyone and kids always find a way to get tobacco and alcohol well before the legal age.
Thanks for this update. 👍🏼 I did not know that the law had changed. I quit smoking many years ago, so I wasn't paying much attention.
Load More Replies...In MA, you have to be 21 to buy "certain legal drugs" and also tobacco. In reference to booking a hotel, when I was 18, my dad booked me and my husband a hotel room in Florida as a gift. When we got there, we went through SO much trouble to actually be able to stay there because apparently you had to be 21 as there was mini bar in the room. To resolve this, they just removed all the alcohol but maybe that's why some places you have to be 21+ to book a hotel room.
I know things have changed drastically in the last few decades but I didn't know a lot of this. I was able to rent a car and book a hotel when I was 18. I took my first university course when I was 13 and my fiancé was living in the dorms on campus for his first year of university when he was 16. (These things were in the 90s btw)
UK: 16 = minimum age to enlist in the armed Forces, marry with parental permission (changed in 2023); - 18 = to vote, buy alcohol, buy cigarettes, book a hotel room, and Eng/Wales changed the legal to 18 to marry without parental permission; - 21 = to hire a car.
The fact Americans forget how freaking huge and populated America is. Which means living in different areas and states can mean a completely different lifestyle, cultures, priorities, and issues but no one wants to think about that when they can’t figure out why they have different viewpoints.
Also how they exaggerate opposing viewpoints instead of just being realistic. But I think that’s human nature, not USA.
Also, the people in metropolitan don't remember that there are just as many people who live in rural areas and vice versa.
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I don’t understand the point of this one. Americans forget that the culture is different in different parts of the US. I’m not following what the point of that is and I’m not agreeing that it’s true. I think we all know how different the values are in all parts of the US. Completely different views in different parts. I can’t see a majority of Americans NOT realizing that.
The dichotomy between the love and hate for the rich/elite.
I do not hate them, I hate that they have been programmed to regard any tax or sharing of their success as socialist. Most feel that if you are successful, you got there by a LOT of help from those below you.
Load More Replies...I don't exactly hate the wealthy. I dislike how they act. How they treat people who aren't wealthy or who are in the service industry and how out of touch with reality they are because it's not their reality
Well, when Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk are the poster children it's pretty hard not to consider them ALL douchebags.
It's usually not love, but envy. Often, from that envy comes dislike or hate. The rich/elite are in a different world and lifestyle from me; and my main feeling about them is "Meh". I'd rather spend time on my own life.
What you do as profession being a personality or making it a big deal. Our pride of self-independence (or faux self-independence, really - other cultures create “meaning” together, are more willing to help others. US Americans are highly competitive and believe in making your own meaning (probably, hence, acting like your job is a way bigger deal than it is or getting “lost in work” to not have to examine your life.) Our views on masculinity. There is a lot of research that guilt is largely US American. And finger pointing - probably both going back to our “independence.” Something either has to be our fault and burden or squarely aimed at someone else…vs accepting the totality of life and relationships and circumstances.
I feel like the classes don’t mix much in USA. I have very small sample to judge, but a few relatives who live there only make friends from the same middle class neighbourhood who all live in identical houses all doing similar jobs. It’s not exclusive to USA, I noticed this in many countries with huge disparity between the richest and the poorest and it’s sad. In my country people from all classes and backgrounds would be in same friends group, actually asking someone what they do for a living is way down the line when forming friendships.
I like asking what someone does for a living. I can either relate ( as in I have some knowledge about the job)... or even better I can learn about what they do. I will also ask about hobbies, but it is easier to get people to talk about their profession. I have to admit i would not give the same respect to a ceo as I would a maintenance person ( the person who really works for a living gets my admiration).
Load More Replies...Have you looked at customs and etiquette in different countries? For example, in Europe, it is considered rude to ask what someone does to earn a living , and even more rude for someone to boast about his/her work success. Some other countries have a culture of work-life balance.
Load More Replies...the notion that other countries, including western europe, are not or less classist makes me snort..i will agree that americans openly discuss their work, which is considered taboo in western europe...while some people probably do this as a way to show off, for most people, it's just another conversation point...and i don't really know people who chose friends based on their profession...and, i've worked all kinds of jobs, high and low, in the u.s....although written as if OP is actually from u.s., it sounds like you just have a chip on your shoulder that you want to blame on your circumstances, rather than do some self introspection on why your life is not going the way you want it.
You are the second person here who claims discussing work is rude or taboo in Europe. Where are you guys getting that strange idea from? It's not true
Load More Replies...We love getting our free refills and love the drive throughs for food and drink.
There are 39 grams of sugar in a 12oz can of Coke, which is 6.5 teaspoons of sugar. Visualize that. Sugar is mainly to blame for the rise in obesity rates and the health problems that accompany it. Go ahead and refill that soda, just keep this fact in mind when you wanna go back for more.
Load More Replies...I longed for free refills when I went overseas. but I also lost some weight
Could you explain to me that if there is free refill, someone would buy a size larger than the smallest one? I never understood why there are different sizes than.
"Firstly, the marginal cost of refilling soft drinks like coca-cola is very low. The stores will buy drinks in bulk. The cost of filling up a drink is merely a few cents. So they don’t have significant costs to fill up drinks. Secondly, it offers an attractive advertisement. “free drink refills” might attract a few customers into the store who otherwise wouldn’t come. If you gain a few more customers spending $5-$10 this easily makes up for the few cents extra cost. Thirdly, Fast food stores like McDonald’s are not exactly the kind of place people like to spend a few hours relaxing. Also, cola is not like drinking beers. You feel pretty full with all the carbonated soda in your stomach. Overall, it’s a cheap but eye-catching extra the fast food shop can advertise with limited costs to itself."
American here: Americans who despise everything about america.. Somehow we are the most racist, misogynist, terrible poverty hating nation in the world whose human rights have not improved since "bad thing example from 100 years ago". This opinion being largely held by middle class white people.
It isn't a matter of being the MOST, it is a matter of not living up to our own principles.
European countries are far more racist than Americans - witness Italy and Greece with the recent influx of immigrants from Africa - Lithuania hasn't responded to helping immigrants /refugees from Africa because they are far more racist and economically unstable than the more educated western European countries.
Load More Replies...My pet peeve (American here) is when people equate criticism of the USA with "despising America". We want our country to be better because we know we're capable of it. But we can't do better unless we acknowledge what needs to be fixed. To just blindly say "were the best" is some jingoistic NK nonsense.
The Americans that the OP is criticizing are the ones who are confident enough to recognize their country's problems and love it enough to want to fix them.
Being anti-American. I'm not saying you need to tattoo the flag on your calf, or ride a bald eagle to work or anything. But a lot of Americans lately are so anti-American, they're basically foaming at the mouth for their own country to fail. I can't understand that viewpoint, I want the country to improve and I think it can. But I also acknowledge that currently, it's still a pretty damn good place to live despite its flaws. Idk, I just dont understand that pessimistic view, it doesn't help anything or anyone to wish failure on a nation you're part of. Millions are trying to get here right now to make their lives better. Check your privilege.
I'm an American that moved abroad. Seeing how other countries live, especially work-life balance, more simple lifestyle, health insurance that doesn't cost an arm and a leg...I'm never moving back. I served in the military so I've been around and seen both sides. My humble opinion is that it's not the greatest place to live. People love what they know and most will never leave mainly because of friends/family and comfort. People that are clamouring to get to America are desperate and are sold the American dream. They still believe it's there....
Agreed regarding being sold a 'dream'. Here in the UK we currently have many, many would be migrants trying to make the short hop from a bloody amazing country (France) with an open and honest approach to immigration, excellent social structures pretty much across the board and with a population that is broadly reasonable to genuine asylum seekers. Why, oh why then do these asylum seekers make the perilous journey to try and get to this country (UK) which is hostile to asylum seekers, with infrastructure that can't even supply it's own population with basic needs - housing, healthcare etc - and then won't give the majority of them even the basic necessities. I mostly like the UK but frankly, if I was younger and had the opportunity, I wouldn't live here. That wasn't the most coherent argument / statement but I hope you get my gist, also I'm quite drunk so get over it.
Load More Replies...As a European, it’s frustrating that certain things that are common in many other countries (universal health care, greater employment rights, paid maternity, etc.) which would almost certainly improve the lot of the majority in the US are dismissed out of hand as “communist”, socialist” or “un-American”.
It seems to me that the Republicans and MAGA people are the ones yelling the loudest about patriotism and protecting Americans freedoms. Yet they are the ones all armed to the teeth ready to destroy the country with a civil war. They are the ones controlling women's bodies, imposing their narrow brand of morality on the entire country, and removing books from our schools. I believe in fixing broken things. Yes our government has issues, let's fix the government, not destroy it.
So you're trying to stop people complaining about the injustices and inequalities they see in their everyday lives?
I think this is a misread of people who are critical of America's shortcomings and hypocrisies, and want America to live up to its ideals. I move in a lot of circles of people who are very critical of America, and none of them want it to fail. We want it to improve.
The huge glaring part you're ignoring is that the people reading bored panda are the people who know this. It's like telling a handicap person that they need to be okay with making buildings more accessible.
Load More Replies..."It's a nice place to visit but I wouldn't want to live there" comes to mind. I've lived both sides, and trust me, I wouldn't move back! I prefer being paid a living wage, having universal healthcare, free uni (in Scotland), free prescriptions (again, Scotland), having the right to practice any religion or society I want and not get vilified for it (Pagan) and every other perk that I can think of.
Not always a nice place to visit . Gun culture , climate of anxiety and anger are two things keeping many foreigners from being enthusiastic visitors.
Load More Replies...I'm not American, but my guess is it's a reaction to the constant chest beating that the US is not just the greatest country, but the greatest country in history.
The problem is that being “American” has become synonymous with “making America great again” which is synonymous for racist, racist, b******t. I am proud to be an American. I am not proud of the MAGA b******t and those with likeminded views of maga have stolen the flag and patriotism for their push. If I put a flag sticker on my car - that means I’m a trump loving republican. Bc when I see a flag I also see a trump sticker or worse a decal of trump holding an AR.
Is that the way the rest of the world sees us? If so, that's pretty sad. Most of us are not like those MagaHats.
Load More Replies...Maybe, but the biggest complainers don't seem to want to do anything to fix it.
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The most American thing seems to be hating America.
That's a ridiculous comment. Disagreeing with issues or not liking certain aspects of life, your national culture, or your country's sociopolitical character does not equate to hating it. Debate, criticism and disagreements are part of life-blind worship without thought is cultish and ignorant.
I had a poster in the 1960s that read, "My country right or wrong; when right to be kept right, when wrong to be put right". I don't think it would sell well today...
Load More Replies...I hate this item being repeated over and over in this thread. And the act of expressing disapproval on what's going on in your country is the basis of democracy itself.
I don't understand this statement. How is pointing out what is wrong "hate"? Do you hate your kid when they do something wrong? Do you ignore it and act happy because you love them? There's a LOT wrong here. There's also a lot right.
I don't hate America at all. It's not perfect here. It's also pretty great. I try and make it better with the means I have. Caring about where you live is a good thing. I want everyone to be safe and happy. I dislike crime. I don't get self loathing Americans. Anyone here who has half a brain knows we have problems like anywhere else.
Can anyone really blame us? America is no longer the "great country" it once was. And an orange clown with a combover that's nothing by a lying hypocritical conman, isn't going to fix it
Yes it is. It's not perfect but we continue to improve. The pendulum swings back and forth but mostly forth. Trump is yesterday's news. Let him slip futher into obscurity. Don't get hung up on the negatives. Also look at the positives.
Load More Replies...I don't hate America. Not at all. What I strongly dislike is where people here in the UK speak about American things as if they are normal over here, without realizing they are American. Until they become adopted here. For example I have heard young people say, "I'll take the fifth," only to have to be told, No, that's American it doesn't work here. Or they might ask, "Do you remember your school prom?" No, we didn't have a prom because we were still English/British and we had a ball not a prom. Calling chipped potatoes "fries" instead of chips... The list goes on, but it's certainly not hating America.
Why wouldn't I love myself? What a dopey a*s statement.
Load More Replies...Interesting. Hating the direction it is going while it watches Fox and believes all of their lies, and hires the most criminal immoral, unethical, and psychopathic narcissist to ever hold office while also supporting him AFTER he allowed hundreds of thousands of people to die of Covid because he LIED about it to protect his election. Hating the fact that Republicans gave BILLIONS in tax breaks to billionaires and millionaires and then slashed programs that help the most vulnerable. Hating the fact that Republicans fight to keep minimum wage below poverty, fight to keep kiling our planet, fight to be able to lie as much as they want, fight to REVERSE AN ELECTION, etc. is DISGUSTING. HATING that America has become a dangerous place where ethics are no longer relevant is terrifying and if you think none of the above is the problem,.... you are the problem.
They're just a bit boring to me. Literally nothing to to learn with these articles. Everyone knows about the 'weird parts' of American culture. I guess these are just made for US vs. the world debates in the comments. Too bad it's not about other parts of the USA culture (like Cajun tradition / American Creoles in Louisiana / Native Americans / what the f people do in Montana / Jewish orthodox in NY etc) For such a big and diverse country it's a bit boring that we are only talking about very well known facts like guns, healthcare, tips, christians extremists etc
Load More Replies...I’ve lost track of how many times BP has done a post like this
I'm downvoting these from now on. I encourage anyone else who agrees to do the same.
I'm French, and I side with the Brit and the US fellas on this one. It's easy to do these listicles on the USA, try China, Russia, any Middle Eastern or African country next time.
Load More Replies...Come on bp. LEAVE US ALONE DAMNIT. WE GET IT AMERICA AND AMERICANS SUCK LEAVE US TF ALONE. ITS LIKE YOU DECIDED ITS OK TO BULLY US. WE ARE NOT THAT BAD AND THEY ARE ALL SWEEPING Generalization ABOUT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING IN ONE OF THE BIGGEST CONTRIES ON EARTH. F**K THE FUCKITY F**K OFF. We get it you think we suck but this only fosters a sense of resentment on both sides. We know our issues 10000x better that you do and you making us feel bad don’t fix a damned thing. For cultural things if you want it I be just like ur home stay home, for structural serious issues help fix them or shut the hell up. Ur just being mean a*s bitches at this point.
We hate Americans for being Americans, we hate men for doing anything, we hate women that do math, what is it recently with those weird a*s articles? They're nothing but mean!
51) The US is the only country that BP is able to find with any faults that need to be pointed out on almost a daily basis. Weird, huh?
So freaking repetitive BP. Should call you “Blatant Pandering” by now. Even if you enjoy these kind of posts, this is getting so far past deja vu and SO boring. Maybe Boring Panderer
Wow, getting downvoted for staying an opinion about stereotypes. This site is so hate filled.
Load More Replies...I’m waiting for the “57 Shocking Facts About Lithuania Which Will Surprise and Arouse You” list.
They're just a bit boring to me. Literally nothing to to learn with these articles. Everyone knows about the 'weird parts' of American culture. I guess these are just made for US vs. the world debates in the comments. Too bad it's not about other parts of the USA culture (like Cajun tradition / American Creoles in Louisiana / Native Americans / what the f people do in Montana / Jewish orthodox in NY etc) For such a big and diverse country it's a bit boring that we are only talking about very well known facts like guns, healthcare, tips, christians extremists etc
Load More Replies...I’ve lost track of how many times BP has done a post like this
I'm downvoting these from now on. I encourage anyone else who agrees to do the same.
I'm French, and I side with the Brit and the US fellas on this one. It's easy to do these listicles on the USA, try China, Russia, any Middle Eastern or African country next time.
Load More Replies...Come on bp. LEAVE US ALONE DAMNIT. WE GET IT AMERICA AND AMERICANS SUCK LEAVE US TF ALONE. ITS LIKE YOU DECIDED ITS OK TO BULLY US. WE ARE NOT THAT BAD AND THEY ARE ALL SWEEPING Generalization ABOUT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING IN ONE OF THE BIGGEST CONTRIES ON EARTH. F**K THE FUCKITY F**K OFF. We get it you think we suck but this only fosters a sense of resentment on both sides. We know our issues 10000x better that you do and you making us feel bad don’t fix a damned thing. For cultural things if you want it I be just like ur home stay home, for structural serious issues help fix them or shut the hell up. Ur just being mean a*s bitches at this point.
We hate Americans for being Americans, we hate men for doing anything, we hate women that do math, what is it recently with those weird a*s articles? They're nothing but mean!
51) The US is the only country that BP is able to find with any faults that need to be pointed out on almost a daily basis. Weird, huh?
So freaking repetitive BP. Should call you “Blatant Pandering” by now. Even if you enjoy these kind of posts, this is getting so far past deja vu and SO boring. Maybe Boring Panderer
Wow, getting downvoted for staying an opinion about stereotypes. This site is so hate filled.
Load More Replies...I’m waiting for the “57 Shocking Facts About Lithuania Which Will Surprise and Arouse You” list.
