People Are Sharing Pics From The Most Tasteless Weddings They’ve Been To Or Seen Online (New Pics)
When you think about it, weddings are a perfect toxic cocktail that gives a chance for anything to happen. Ongoing tension, sleepless nights, bridezillas, tantrums, and even though everyone seems to be walking on eggshells… they’re still wearing army boots.
A fraction of these crazy weddings that basically feel like you’re watching a season of GOT end up on the notorious corner of Reddit known as r/WeddingShaming. It turns out, this is the ultimate online destination for roasting wedding themes, brides, grooms, decor, dresses, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors, buffet, flowers, or the lack of this stuff. The community’s description speaks for itself: “You name it, we shame it!” so without further ado, I leave the stage to the collection of weddings that will raise not only a brow but the hair on your head.
Psst! After you’re done, check out our previous posts from r/WeddingShaming here, here and here.
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Came Across This On My Feed. Really Not Sure If It’s A Joke Or Not But Felt It Fit Here
The application fee suggests yes, but mankind is forever searching for its new lows, so maybe not.
Load More Replies...The $100 application fee was the bacon bits on that entitlement salad. *chef's kiss*
LOL! Someone with 8 years of experience doesn't need bullshit fake ass "exposure". They're already considered an expert in their field. And I doubt anyone is dumb enough to cater for 200 for not just free, but several hundred dollars in the red (considering the OP wants free food on top of the "application fee")
Lol, it needs to be a joke. Nobody is that entitled, right ? Right? F**k...
Hey you will get exposure because there is no other way to get that it's not like we have Facebook Twitter tic toc
I Can’t Decide If This Is Tacky, Or Brilliant. I Wouldn’t Have Been Able To Pay Enough $$ For Someone To Be Willing To Distract My Mil
Ok these are trying to solve their problem in a nice way, avoinding to offend anyone.
I actually support this idea. it keeps out any and all drama, it doesn't offend anyone and it gives MIL exactly what she wants. attention
I would seriously consider working this gig. I could use $1k and it could be a hoot.
I think this is ok. It doesn't sound like the mil is very nice, and they're trying to avoid hurting her feelings and causing drama.
Indoor Fireworks Before First Dance
Was the dj playing Disco Inferno by any chance?
Load More Replies...Well, that seemed to go just as well as I thought it would.
To find out more about surviving one heck of a wedding that ends up in the miscellaneous collection on r/WeddingShaming, we spoke with the Redditor Peedidhe who shared a screenshot of an invitation with a caption “I went to the wedding where the bride and groom hated vegetarians.” The image featured a rather rude remark on vegetarian guests: “We will be having a buffet style. It should accommodate all ways of eating, even those who chose wrong and lack taste buds—yes, I am talking to you, vegetarians!”
The Redditor told us that the menu consisted of turkey, ham, beef taquitos in eggroll wrappers, and plantains. “I ate a lot of plantains,” they added. They commented: “Honestly, it's their wedding. If they don't want to cater to vegetarians, that's ok! But... like to acknowledge that you don't have vegetarian food instead of pretending plantains are dinner.”
My Cousin Sent This Along With Her Wedding Invitations… I Will Not Be In Attendance
Trying too hard to be edgy will alienate your best friends.
Load More Replies...It’s rude but if my best friends sent me this, I would laugh because I have very dark humour.
Same, I absolutely love this invitation. I wouldn't ever use it because most of my family wouldn't appreciate it, but it's definitely something I'd send to my close friends.
Load More Replies...While I appreciate some humour, they tried too hard. It's just sound stupid.
I'd be fine with this, but then I'm hard to offend. At least they're not making any outrageous demands of anyone. Wouldn't want my grandmother to receive this, though.
I don’t think the person posted it because it’s offensive. It’s cheesy and dorky / cringe.
Load More Replies...Love the way the request for money is the only sentence without a profanity.
Maan, I'd only send a gift which would be a box with a note inside: "f**k off & enjoy"
The humour on this one failed so hard. Seriously, what horrid people.
Meh, I think it's funny. Also I think it may be Australian and they just use swearwords differently and are not so easily offended.
I don’t think anyone got offended, it’s just cringy and embarrassing how they tried so hard to be offensive and edgy.
Load More Replies...Plantation Weddings Were Contentious Enough Already
That's vile and disgusting, I just can't even imagine the balls someone has to do this.
Load More Replies...WHAT the actual f$&@?!?! This is wrong in so many ways. This one pisses me off.
As possibly one of the whitest people ever, I want to unsee that too. Where are those people handing out unsee juice?!?
Load More Replies...Where did they find a photographer who would agree to do this? How are they BOTH ok with this?!
The most shocking is the groom who is black himself agreed to this horrible idea
Load More Replies...Why would a Black man agree to do this? His family must have been mortified. She should be ashamed of herself.
Asking as a European who has never been to the US: do those pretty trees with the hanging moss exist outside of plantations as well? I've seen them a lot in wedding photos and I absolutely love them.
Yes, because Spanish moss is a tropical and subtropical plant https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spanish_moss
Load More Replies...Couple Cancels On Photographer Within 90 Days Due To Photographer's Facebook
"We knew the rules from the start but we don't think rules apply to us!" Aah yes, you must be affiliated with the party of law and order.
That's just the trumpist, I mean, "patriotic" way of thinking...
Load More Replies...This is all so ugly, but the term for liberals repeatedly includes a slur against learning challenged individuals that is so unacceptable. The photographer was fortunate to escape having to work for these base cretins.
Um. I agree with the problem with that particular word. Maybe when you're critiquing the use of that word, don't end your comment with 'cretin'.
Load More Replies...Yes, because it's incredibly patriotic to support a racist, misogynist, homophobic jerk who treats others like s**t. It's so heartwarmingly American to insist that you can treat others like s**t, but be mortally offended by literally everything. You should be so proud that your kind stormed our Capitol, punched and tased police officers, and destroyed property with the intent to interfere with the democratic process and, possibly, hurt and kill civil servants. F*****g wrap yourself in the flag and be everything that American does NOT stand for. Assholes.
Anyone who used the word libtard really shouldn't criticize someone's values.
Peedidhe agrees that wedding planning in such chaotic times may indeed be a challenge for the couples. “As someone attempting to plan a wedding in these crazy times, people are getting cast in all sorts of unflattering lights because they don't want grandma to die because she thinks vaccinations are bad.”
According to the Redditor, the pandemic has created a pressure cooker of love, resulting in lots of proposals, and also a pressure cooker of expectation because weddings are supposed to be a certain way. If it was up to Peedidhe, weddings would be planned with guests as a priority. “I think weddings should be planned for the guests rather than for the couple, but I understand weddings that are planned for the couple. It's a celebration of love, and ultimately whatever makes you happy is the most important,” they said and added jokingly: “even if some people have nothing to eat.”
Wowzas.. Father Is More Interested Than The Aesthetics Of His Wedding Than A Life Long Relationship With His Daughter
A crap father with a crap fiancé. Poor child having to grow up with such selfish people. Good on the grandparents.
at least the child will grow up knowing someone loves and cares about them.
Load More Replies...That is so messed up. I want to see the comments that roast him in that AITA thread
The light text under the post links to the original. The top comment is that this is fake.
Load More Replies..."even if they didn't attend the wedding I wouldn't let them take my daughter"? So, what, he'd rather leave his own child with a random babysitter than his own parents? I hope the grandparents take custody of the poor girl, because he sounds like a horrible father.
I hope the younger's mother is the custodial parent and Ex, daughter, and grandparents can all have a lovely day someplace fun instead of being subjected to the drama of an "exquisite" wedding between two soulless people.
Load More Replies...If I was the oldest daughter I would also refuse to go. This guy will regret it years later, but the irreparable damage would have been done alread. The youngest daughter will never forget this treatment.
It says oldest daughter and fiance got along. That js not a good sister, to not defend her innocent sister for simply still being a kid. Sadness all around.
Load More Replies...I stopped reading at "and (she) have exquisite tastes". Not if she's marrying this guy, IMHO.
Okay so you pick a lady you've known for three years over your own goddamn child? You absolute scum.
When you already have kids, a childfree wedding is no longer an option. Your life isn't yours anymore. it's your children's. If your other half cannot accept that then that isn't the right half.
Sorry no. I adore my kids but I still have my own life . Just like my kids have theirs . Also, while I personally can’t imagine not inviting my kids to my wedding of course a child free wedding is an option. What if you wanted to elope to Vegas ? What’s concerning in this for me is that the fiancée doesn’t care for young children and is already not getting along with a little girl .. the dad is a d**k to marry someone like that.. the wedding for me isn’t the issue … however this idea that having a child means you no longer have your own life IS a problem for me
Load More Replies...I can't believe the nerve of his parents! They can't just abandon their own child like that! /s
Heh heh, I see what you did there. Doubt that guy would get the irony, though.
Load More Replies...How do you marry someone who doesn't love your child as much as you? That is absolutely disgusting
Well, in fairness it might be a wee bit unrealistic to expect an incoming partner to love a child as much as their parent who has known them since birth. As long as they genuinely like and care for them and want them to be part of their life - with love hopefully coming along in time that's not unreasonable. Though if they can't be happy with my child around then bye-bye. I couldn't marry someone who didn't want to do right by my child, who didn't enjoy my child's company and want to be there for them. As for the wedding, he has children so childfree is simply not an option.
Load More Replies...Cringe Cake Topper, Not To Mention The Fondant
But apparently bride is aware and is willing to marry him anyway.
Load More Replies...I hate any wedding topper that makes one of them look like they forced the other one to get married. If you hate your husband's hobby this much it won't get better after getting married
Same for him ignoring her even on the cake for his hobby.
Load More Replies...My best friend and his wife are big gamers and they did a photoshoot story where they were both dressed up and then the groom is sitting down playing and last his wife joins him. It was cute and fun. If both bride and groom are ok with it I don't see the problem. It's cute.
The problem is that they both aren't participating. If they were both gaming it would be cute
Load More Replies...Same, assuming both parties were happy with it, why should anyone else have an issue?
Load More Replies...How he managed to get a girlfriend in the first place is a miracle with that as his half of the cake topper. Also why would she put up with that?
That's a lot like the one I picked out for my wedding cake because it's funny. A couple doesn't have to enjoy all the same things. If your looking for that hire a mad scientist to make you a clone of yourself.
Load More Replies...Animal Abuse! What A Nice Way To Celebrate Love!
Yeah, and nobody should be allowed to get any animal unless they prepare for owning one!
Or helping to get them owned, if you mean using them at weddings. I've seen weddings where they take litters of puppies, kittens, etc. from local shelters and have bridesmaids hold them instead of boquets of flowers. They usually all get adopted, and it's a lot cuter and more fun than boring ol' flowers.
Load More Replies...People treat fish like objects :( it's so sad, they're intelligent animals and need good care.
I don't understand. Are they decorations or party favours? Either way, totally unacceptable.
Since there are several rows I assume they are party favours
Load More Replies...I think I've told this here before, but when I was home from college one summer (in the 90's) my Dad's law firm had a party at our house. In the center of each table was a fishbowl with a Beta inside it. (My parents did not know about this part ahead of time - they just left it to the caterer) As they were cleaning up after the party I asked the caterer what they were going to do with the fish and she told me they planned to flush them down the toilet. :( I was SO pissed off!! I kept one fish for myself and found homes for as many others as possible, but unfortunately I was not able to save them all. We made sure that they did NOT flush any of the fish in our house at least, but we couldn't keep every single one. It was awful. The Beta I did adopt was with me for a long time and he went back and forth to college with me every year. He was a great pet. It should be against the law to use live animals as decoration!!
Please don't ever flush fish. Sometimes they survive and wreak havoc on ecosystems. Same with aquatic plants.
Load More Replies...If you wonder what’s up with these wedding hosts for behaving this way, you’re not alone. The bridezillas, tantrums, family dramas and whatnot have been all over the media lately, and they are grabbing our attention like nothing else. The audacity, the rudeness, the ego…
The corner of Reddit known as Wedding Shaming was created precisely to share such instances. According to the sub's moderator Luna, “There’s something about weddings, whether you’re invited or not, that just brings out the worst in people.” That’s not to say like all weddings are real-life dramas, but there’s a lot of elements in many of them. Luna believes that the group is akin to a reality TV show, and you can’t argue.
Shame On That Couple! Don’t Do An Uberpool On Your Wedding Day
I Went To A Wedding Where The Bride And Groom Hated Vegetarians
This is not even funny for non-vegetarians. I would skip that wedding.
The wink emoji doesn't help make it funny. In fact, it makes it more obnoxious.
Load More Replies...Im vegetarian and i think everyone is being over sensitive. take a joke not everything has to be offensive and an outrage. People just like to feel offended about everything these days.
I don’t think it’s funny but I don’t really care that they’re douches about eating animals. It’s standard. I’d be more worried that there wouldn’t actually be options since they won’t just be straightforward about what they are.
Load More Replies...I will never understand why people care what others eat. As long as a vegetarian/vegan/gluten-free/etc person is not being rude or demanding about food, let them eat what they want!
I'm vegetarian and I ABSOLUTELY HATE PEOPLE LIKE THIS. What do you expect us to do, go "oOohi have no sEnse Of taSte bEcAuse thE rItUaL to beCome veGetaRian reQuires You To cuT Your tongUe oFf"
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Load More Replies...I can't process meat well. It literally makes me ill. You're asking me to be sick because you think you know better. All that besides, if you think meat tastes good with zero seasoning on it, fine, but otherwise the thing that makes that meat taste good are the seasonings (aka herbs/plants and salt). So, in reality, we like the tasty stuff, you like the stuff that has to be fixed to taste good.
I Paid For The First Slice After It Was Announced On The Day We'd Be Helping To Pay For Their Cake!! Apparently Didn't Count For The Second
I hope it's not very common thing. People have totally confused wedding and "party to rip off your friends and relatives". Traditionally guests give a wedding gift and gets some food in return. "Dream wedding" is not something everybody is entitled to. If you can't afford it, you just need to lower the expectations. People have all kinds of dreams but not necessary money for that and wedding is no different. I would rather save for future than leach off someone else's money. I had my wedding at the time and it was all planned to fit our own budget.
Load More Replies...They're watching a tv to see how many slices of cake each guest took??!!??
just poop in a box and send it back to them and say here is your cake back
And ask them to reimburse you for the shipping
Load More Replies...But no matter how popular it may be, the group has also received a fair share of backlash. In fact, some claim it promotes mockery culture, even hate speech. But Darlene Lancer, clinical psychologist and the author of “Codependency for Dummies” and “Conquering Shame and Codependency” with whom we talked a while ago assured us that wedding shamers are not considered to be a hate group.
Darlene further explained that “Ironically, public displays of extravagant and ostentatious weddings may also be fueled by shame where the emphasis is on impressing other people of the family’s wealth and status.” Such behavior can be a compensation for not feeling adequate or sufficiently respected.
Fake Unsuccessful Wedding Shaming. Technically Not A Wedding But
This is sad. I hope people move on, don't cling on and waste time on someone who doesn't feel the same
Very. I hope she is seeing a therapist or getting some sort of support to help her move on.
Load More Replies...She has serious mental issues. The ex dodged a bullet; it's obvious why he's her ex.
I’d Be Tripping All The Way Down The Aisle!
I agree! From a style balance point of view it should go on the other arm. The balance is off now
Load More Replies...I'm actually impressed by how well the brown legging side matches her skin tone.
I don't see why this is bad, I think the outfit is pretty cool, especially if she made it herself.
And saying it's "for my wedding day" and not her "wedding gown" implies it's for partying at the reception.
Load More Replies...And They Say Romance Is Dead
Unfortunately, I'm placing bets that they're gonna have up to 6 kids. They look like Trump-loving Southerners. Now, I love the South, but I have to admit that idiots are free-range here.
Load More Replies...I wonder what it must be like to be so obsessed with Donald that you put this kind of thing in what should be a joyful announcement. SAD
Especially considering that he would likely be disgusted by them.
Load More Replies...The idea of having politics be your entire personality, to the point it eclipses what should be one of the happiest moments of your life is so sad. And this is politics as opposed to values; I could see a person who values animals asking for donations to the ASPCA in lieu of gifts or a veteran asking for a moment of silence at a wedding for those who served, and I respect those, but those are about what you value (which is generally long-lasting, as one hopes a marriage will be) as opposed to ephemeral (an election).
And the fact that the tattoo was censored unless it’s something that can ID him, like a memorial or his kid’s face/name.
Load More Replies...Someone Get Op’s Cousin Back On A Bus To Alabama
Perhaps she's renowned for causing a scene? He should have said no of course but he might have been caught off-guard. It's 100% not a nice thing to have done at all, but in the scheme of things? I am not sure it's really worth letting it ruin the honeymoon. It's giving the cousin too much power and space in her own head. It's letting the wedding be more important than the actual marriage - and it's not. One day it will be a dinner party anecdote "remember what your awful cousin did darling?" with guests laughing at her behaviour. It's a small part of the wedding and she's letting it fester and spoil what should be a lovely time in her life. Only she is going to be hurt by this and, like it or not, her best option is to laugh at the cousin and let it go. She still got married to the man she loves, she will still be the one living with him day in and out. Not the cousin.
Load More Replies...Sounds like something is going on between those cousins. My husband would have never gotten out of his seat for that crap.
I didn't think the couple's first dance had to be the very first dance of the night, just a special commemoration of their first time dancing as a married couple. Maybe that's my misunderstanding though.
My understanding is that it is the first dance of the night, which is also as a married couple. When my sister got married she begged us, her sisters and their partners, to join her and her husband on the dance floor after 30 seconds - she hated the idea but got pressured into it. I didn't have it at my wedding at all. Actually there are 5 of us and she's the only one that did.
Load More Replies...Who cares? This is the person you married and you will always be together. Dumb *ss's are always going to exist. Psycho *itch will never change. Just remember, she's a cousin. There's always one Psycho in every family. Be thankful she's the one and you know.
Cause he wasn't allowed to marry his first cousin. He got the first dance.
Boohoo. Don’t worry about the wedding. That is the past. Your marrage has more priority
Sharing This Very Normal And Appropriate Groom Outfit I Came Across On Twitter
Again the same question as before: If he is not willing to put more effort into the wedding, how much effort will he put into the marriage?
i'm pro wearing what you're comfortable with for your wedding, but i cannot handle the socks and crocs lol
If bride was wearing casual clothes too, I wouldn't say a thing, but like this? And he has to wear shittiest pair of Crocks I've ever seen. This marriage probably will not last.
It will last on paper but definitely not internally. She wanted a husband. The title. That's all.
Load More Replies...Bride Posts Conversation With Her Mom. Don’t Worry - She Got A Roasting In Comments
It seems like just above these messages she was talking about some other unrelated financial burden, but still her biggest concern is having her dream wedding, budgeted with money that was never there to begin with. Financial red flags...
What is the point of having a hugely expensive “dream wedding?” It’s ONE day. Getting married is awesome but like, thousands and thousands of dollars being the norm is so unreasonable
Load More Replies...Wedding is not important, but there are many who are too focused on wedding instead of marriage
You'd think the grooms would object to a wedding that neither the couple nor the family can afford, but somehow brides like this always manage to guilt-trip the poor guy into blowing everything on the wedding and having nothing the next day.
Load More Replies...I will never understand the need for a big expensive wedding but then add the fact that they expect to have someone else pay for it and get upset when they dont.
My parents paid for my sister's wedding, but my mother sewed the dress and baked the cake, and me and a few cousins decorated the venue. My sister was 21 and a student at the time. If I had gotten married now (I'm not going to) I wouldn't expect my family to pay for anything at all.
Entitled much? It's not the wedding but the marriage that counts. I see trouble ahead for this woman.
i know this isn't the point but babe check your other 198 texts
I agree with her mum's comment over rethinking the budget.. I don't think she's being out of hand at all.
Repeat After Me: Global Tragedy Is Not An Appropriate Wedding Theme
What does this person expect? Maybe something like a Japanese POW camp in the Philippines after the Bataan death march or a Nazi concentration camp? The worst might be a scene from Stalingrad.
Leningrad blockade would be the worst imo. How crazy this wedding theme is!
Load More Replies...Maybe they should have said a "40's theme" because that could be very nice. But WW2 sounds like they want bombs and dirt and holocaust survivors.
A 40’s wedding would be adorable! But WWII? Is the cake going to be fake brains? Will the first dance music be screaming soldiers?
Load More Replies...Is it really "ww2 themed wedding" or did I read it wrong? Hopefully they mean 1940s themed wedding.
Has no one been to any of these restaurants?
Load More Replies...Anne Frank's secret annex. I'm sure the Diary mentions the food they ate. This bride is crass and ignorant.
the union jack standing in for the confederate flag is........ not the best decision
I’m assuming they’re British. WW2 effected lots of countries
Load More Replies...If you're going to model your marriage ceremony after World War II, why not imitate the most famous WW2 wedding of them all? Hitler and his girl friend got married and then promptly killed themselves. Might this possibly appeal to you? Can't be more authentic than that.
I’m assuming by the flag that they’re British- so Blitz decorations? Rubble and sandbags?
Couldn’t Have Chosen Any Other Day?
Yea, she knew exactly what she was doing... Retaliation is appropriate in this situation.
Her sister is clearly a narcissist. I bet she'll announce her pregnancy on the sister's 23rd
Yes, your sister wants to steal any attention away from you. No retaliation. Just know this and stay as far away as possible and expect nothing from her. And depending on your mother’s response… well… as long as you know where you stand. I chose to stand far FAR away.
On your 21st and 22cd annaversary? Did she have her bridal shower a year after the engagement? That's a long time, is that normal?
The Groom’s Idea Of Dressing For The Occasion
This guy 100% snuck upstairs to play Call of Duty between the ceremony and reception.
She knows who she married ❤️ And ppl mad. I wish them the best and hope it lasts forever!
This is a pet peeve of mine. I see it at formal occasions all the time where the girls dress up fancy and boys don't give a crap. Bugs me to high heaven. If I spend an hour getting ready for this event the least my date could do is wear a tie.
Really. REALLY? Like I get having personal choices and all that but you can’t even put on dress pants?
As long as they're the happiest. People judge on everything and anything. BP users really like to snap judgement as quickly as possible eh
My Friend Went To A Wedding Where They Had A Guy Handing Out Martini Olives In A Bathtub Full Of Olives
Hope he doesn't confuse olives to his own olives when the tub gets emptier. Get a martini with fungus!
Umm… It’s A No From Me… Serial Killer Themed Center Pieces For Halloween Wedding
I’m pretty big on both dark and inappropriate humour, but I’m gonna say this is a bit much.
Same, we originally were going to have a Halloween themed wedding, and while I am pretty dark and twisted this is just too much
Load More Replies...You'd think such a serial killer fan would know how to spell execute. *snorts*
I laughed so hard, I spit up my tea on my table, and started choking. My cat isn't even concerned . Troux - you owe me some paper towels, please.
Load More Replies...My daughter's wedding was horror movie-themed, but this is sick in my opinion. Real life psychopaths are not fun or funny at all.
Definitely would love a horror movie theme. Fun and playful. Totally opposite of what this couple was going for.
Load More Replies...I would leave. That is so incredibly offensive. I suppose we can't expect anything better from someone who uses comic sans. I'd like to think the use of the word 'execute', spelt incorrectly, was an attempt at humour, but I doubt it.
Wow! Really? This is beyond disturbing. I've been to a Halloween wedding but this is just in bad taste.
This is highly disturbing. we might want to put this couple a on watchlist.
Oh yeah, one day they'll murder someone and a true crime youtuber will say "Police found that the couple were obsessed with serial killers... so obsessed I fact, that it was the theme of their wedding"
Load More Replies...The flowers and skulls looked good together and would have been fine for a gothic, dark-themed wedding. But as soon as you go adding serial killers it becomes tasteless and downright disturbing. Between them, those men ruined thousands of lives. Why on earth would you want pictures of people who raped and tortured others at your wedding?
Received An E-Invitation To Watch His Wedding Livestream 1 Hour Before His Wedding. I Was Not Feeling Generous
Mine would be "Sorry, I didn't read your text until the next day..."
Load More Replies...My husband and I met playing a multiplayer video game. In this game you could have a game wedding officiated by one of their employees. I toyed with the idea of getting married by this one chapel in Vegas, they offered a live video of the ceremony, and I was considering inviting all our game friends who were at our game wedding to attend.
“Without Sounding Like I’m Expecting Something?”
This is why you grab two witnesses and a judge and to he** with the rest. Everyone is angry at you equally! (True story, alas. My fam was livid we went to a judge. His fam, too. They still bring it up. After thirty flippin' years.)
Yeah, I got told off by my husband's uncle for not having a big 'all family included' wedding. Just not my idea of fun. Small and perfectly formed thanks. The telling off was delivered at my father-in-laws wedding as well so that was fun. People wonder why I'm less than keen on weddings... and family...
Load More Replies...There's no proper way to expect gifts without inviting them. unless you want to look exceptionally greedy.
If you have to ask - you are not thinking deeply enough. What else would someone think - other than you want more stuff?
I would send them a card that informs them about the wedding but which is not an invitation.
Ahhhhhhh ha ha ha ha ha ha. Your not good enough to be invited but we want your money
It is very very wrong to expect a wedding gift from people not coming to the actual wedding. It’s greedy and will piss everyone that gets it off
My Elderly Parents (Grandparents Of The Btb) Are Afraid Of Catching Covid During The Pandemic! But I Can't Understand Why They Don't Want To Come To The Wedding!
My niece postponed her wedding twice due to COVID concerns. Either you want family to be safe, or you're a selfish brat.
This. This so much. Your niece is a better and more aware person than all of the twatwaffles in this post combined.
Load More Replies...I fail to see why it is so difficult for them to understand the situation and logic
Because they'd have to think further than from wall to wallpaper. They'd have to think about what consequences their actions might have for others, but clearly, they're incapable of that, as "someone else" isn't "me me ME".
Load More Replies...When you get married during a pandemic you should expect a lot of people won't put their lives on the line to attend.
I didn't attend one wedding and two christenings since pandemic started and i didn't even think that i have to explain why! It's very obvious
Load More Replies...For a while I was collecting news stories for an article I was writing on CoVid spread at family events. Namely, weddings. When you read or hear these stories of multiple family members dying or being ventilated because of the virus, you’ll find quite often they’ve attended a family wedding or holiday/birthday event. There is some sort of bias that causes some people to think they’re safer with family than the general public. It’s completely illogical.
Yeah, my good friend got really sick with covid along with 12 other guests because he attended his wife's family birthday party. Fortunately, no one died but could have been deadly for any elderly guests
Load More Replies...I'm still never going to understand these covid weddings. Like why do you just have to get married right now? Are they afraid if they don't secure their partner in a contract they're going to lose them somehow?
Some "Interesting" Guest Fashion Here
I just hope they didn't enter a church, dressed like that. Even as an atheist, I would find that extremely disrespectful
The church itself doesn’t need respect. People need respect. And everyone here seems to be happy. It’s just that the chick in black looks like she’s about to start her set in the strip club.
Load More Replies...Why cover the eyes if it's from Vogue? BP censorship makes no sense.
The sparkly one between white and purple may look nice as well, although it looks as if it didn't fit her figure quite right.
Load More Replies...A gazillion seasons of sex and the city - and People forget that it’s fiction.
That's the wedding of Italian supermodel Giorgia Gabriele. Those are her model friends after the ceremony. They were not part of the wedding. The bride's dress had a 9m (27') long train. (not sure whose identity they were hiding because the image had already been published in Vogue magazine). Screen-Sho...26-png.jpg
This is what happens when you & your friends big each other on IG & don’t realise that this does not translate into the real world, the girl in black looks cheap & the other two look like extras in the club in scarface.
Not As Bad As Some, But Definitely Up There
Well, they clearly know their guests. What I don't understand is: why no apple watches?? You shouldn't even see one under the cuffs.
Who cares what shoes are worn on the dance floor. I was happy to rock flip-flops after wearing heels at my ceremony lol
The Father Of The Bride Couldn’t Find Anything Nicer To Wear For Their Special Dance
Wow really surprised and disappointed at the comments. Some people want people to be comfortable at their wedding and dress how best suits them. Perhaps, like my wedding, we took family photos "dressed up" and then people changed into comfortable clothes as it was outdoors and very warm. If the people getting married aren't complaining I don't see why anyone else would.
You don’t know that the people in the wedding are okay with this though. If everyone else is dressed up and he’s not, he’s breaking the social contract.
Load More Replies...Ill never get it when someone doesn't make an effort to look nice at a wedding. My niece got married in a big beautiful white dress and her husband wore old torn up jeans and a TANK TOP. 😱 It looked ridiculous
Maybe he has Alzheimers and this was all they could get him to put on.
Person I Went To High School With Held The Super-Spreader Event Of The Year And This Is Her Apology Post
So the miracle they're praying for is that they can still go on a honeymoon, not that their wedding doesn't result in a death. Got it.
Yup. Honeymoons are important. Apparently the rest of us have lived a good life and so we're OK.
Load More Replies...And folks this is why we still have laws and rules in place. People like these cannot be trusted to make the right decisions. In fact, they are the majority. Good folks that choose not to do something because it ain't right and not because it's illegal are few and far between.
Well, sadly there are plenty of people that only follow legal "rules" instead of common sense during a pandemic. Covid rules in the UK were lifted and barely anyone even wears masks anymore. Not like they did here anyway while rules were still in place... The least they could've done in that situation was making sure everyone gets tested and shows a negative test before attending.
Load More Replies...People have died of Covid after being guests in weddings. Selfishness and lack of accountability from the organisers and foolishness from anybo6whodecided to attend a busy venue in the middle of a pandemic.
Simple if your scared of COVID stay home. You cannot shame or blame people for something you choose to attend. And if anyone of the people here making comments about how wrong people are for having weddings during covid check yourself because if you went anywhere pre covid with a cold/cough/sore throat/runny nose you could have spread something that made some one else sick or possible killed some one. Self righteousness is not a virtue
"nothing we anticipated"/"knew it was a risk" . . . dumb and dumberer got married - and killed some guests?
Anyone Want A Wedding Cake? Found It On Facebook
Bad? This literally looks like it was carved from the petrified ancestor and progenitor of all cheesekind
Load More Replies...I make cakes. I can't figure out if she rolled with too much powdered sugar and didn't kneed her fondant enough so she got cracks.. or if this is an old cake with mold (but fondant shouldn't mold) It also looks like an attempted geode.. It's either a crazy good cake, or a moldy one.
Bridezilla Calls Passive Aggressive Dibs On A Public Use Area In My Neighborhood Where We All Walk, Atv, And Camp. No Permit, No Contact Info, No Restrooms Or Trash Facilities, And Definitely Not Enough Woods For A 50+ Person Blowout
This is going to be a disaster. They expect the guests to pee behind the trees?
I would be camping there. Right in the center. There's a pretty popular hiking trail near my home. It's relatively easy and ends at a pretty spot. We especially use it when guests come and want us to show them some of the forest. Walking along it one weekend we came upon a wedding right in the middle of the trail. This is not a road. This is a two person wide (sometimes less) trail. I know we passed people coming back on the way to them, too. They had the nerve to look pissed off.
I would shout "This is a public space, Buddy!" out loud while walking past them.
Load More Replies...I'd have gone and camped there just to piss them off. Then blast Metallica on my Bluetooth speaker the whole weekend. Morning and night.
I would immediately organise the local community to find a 100 reasons to be right there all weekend, with dogs (wet dogs), frizbees, BBQ'd fish, water-guns, nerf-guns, tennis-balls (for the wet dogs) and a live steel band on a truck!
They Had Their Wedding In A Tire Store?
They probably just signed a contract to be married, and had a funny mini wedding here! There appears to be no preist, so that could be the case :)
Found In An Oklahoma Wedding Resale Group. I Hate It Here.
If they just didnt include the last line, this would have been a beautiful sign
Ikr, I was reading it and I though, "That's quite nice actually, what's wrong with thi... oh."
Load More Replies...Well, That Was An Unexpected Escalation
Yes, That's The Groom Wearing Crocks And Shorts
I am seriously hoping that's just the lighting or a shadow lmao
Load More Replies...This is the fourth photo of a man being totally disrespectful at a wedding. Why do women marry these jerks.
Maybe it's the best offer she got, or he's good in the sack.
Load More Replies...I feel like this must have been a fairly casual backyard sort of wedding, or at least that's what the female guests seem to be dressed for. The guys have taken casual way too far.
Bride Or Groom Wants Guests To Sit On Blankets Opposed To Chairs
The wedding is held on the grass; No chairs so you're out on your ass; Also bring your own food; We know that it's rude; But we're broke and have no class!
Hmmm... Grass you say? I can only come up with 'Glass' & 'brass'. I guess I'll have to Pass. I'll go back to the back of the class. As my rhymes are running sparse, I'll admit this is a farce, I know full well that you mean 'a**e'.
Load More Replies...I feel sorry for any elderly or disabled or pregnant folks (or even those just wearing a skirt or certain types of pants) who show up at this wedding that would have trouble getting seated and standing up again... Not to mention it's really uncomfortable. What a bad idea.
Wouldn't it be cheaper to hire chairs and not be stuck with a whole lot of cheap blankets? At any rate, any cute rhyme would clearly have to include ',grass' and 'a**e'.
This blanket is for your ass so you don't have to sit on the grass. I don't care about you or your clothes so leave me alone with complaints about those. Cheers
This blanket for you, to place on the grass. Don't think we're cuckoo, it's to protect your ass. Or some such lame limerick.
Found One In The Wild, Lads. Worn. That Poor Bride...
They absolutely can but that's not the problem. Usually only the bride wears a white dress but apparently this MIL wanted to look like a bride too.
Load More Replies...Having Lavender As Decor Is More Important Than A Bridesmaid’s Allergies, Obviously
Uhhhh this isn't bad. Allergies were never disclosed until plans have been made and the bride offered to accommodate. Bridesmaid really expects someone to change their whole wedding based on her allergy? Nope.
ESH. Bridesmaid shouldn't expect the wedding to change for her and bride shouldn't underestimate someone else's legitimate health concerns. Best thing they could do is have a trial - have bridesmaid be 6 feet away from the flowers for a day to see how she reacts.
Load More Replies...You know, like Persayus, the Greek hero who beheaded Mahdoosa.
Load More Replies...I think that the bride made an appropriate offer but that the bridesmaid would be justified in not coming
She's being ridiculous, you did the right thing in trying to accommodate her....at your wedding
I Wonder What The Full Story Is Here
A Wedding Photography/ Videography Agency I Used To Work For Suddenly Shut Down. They're Refusing To Refund Clients Or Pay Open Invoiced For Their Subcontractors
Well if they went bust I doubt there is even money left to pay staff let alone contractors and refund clients. You can sue them and if whatever assets being liquidated can cover their liabilities, you get your refund. That is a very big if though and it will probably take months for the proceedings.
If they've filed or declared bankruptcy, then they can't issue refunds, in law, either side of the pond, most countries, but that doesn't mean the lawyers won't issue them, or 'part thereof' once the assets have been assessed?
Guests Will Have To Pay For Their Seat Because Bride And Groom Aren't Rich
OK, the tone maybe is not the most fortunate one, but in lots of countries there is the tradition that guests give money instead of gifts, so a young couple at the begining of their life does not go into debt. People have some good time, pay for some meals a bit more than at a fancy restaurant and in the end everybody gains something.
Still, the audacity! If you don't have the money, why are you still having a wedding? Just go to the city hall, register your wedding, then have a nice dinner just the two of you and be done with it. However, they didn't do anything illegal technically. And if they have been brazen enough to ask the prospective guests to pay, the guests should be allowed to say 'no'.
Load More Replies...You kinda had my sympathy until the "mainly me being the bride" part... your entitled ass deserves what it can afford...
If someone can’t afford a big venue, have the wedding in a park; it will still be beautiful. Don’t hit up guests!
… but not like the park in a subsequent example. Just a couple hours.
Load More Replies...Groom’s Sister Is Told Prior To Wedding That Her Dress Choice Is Inappropriate. Sister Replies She Will Never Speak To Her Brother Again If He Goes Through With The Wedding. She Is Uninvited From Wedding, Then Shows Up To Wedding In This Off-White Cocktail Dress
Groom should call the police and have them drag his sister out of the venue!
I see no issue here.Ok, she made a bit of drama, but ended up coming. Maybe she changed her mind regarding her brother, we don't know. Her dress looks fine and appropriate for a wedding attendance.
She does, and it's a lovely dress, but wearing white or off-white to someone else's wedding is frowned upon. Plus, it says she was uninvited but showed up anyway.
Load More Replies...From A Bridal Facebook Group: Praying With All The Single Women Find A Man
I don't see this as shameful TBH. She is attempting to be kind to every girl in her own way according to her own believes.
It's fine until the "wait on the man" bit, which is part of purity culture, and THAT is the issue I have with this. Purity culture is disgusting and damaging. I know she's trying to be nice, but intentions aren't always good enough, like here.
Load More Replies...Not everyone wants a man. Not everyone needs a spouse. This is super cringey.
Even according to the Catholic Church, not all women are supposed to get married. I hope the bride at least made sure that all her bridesmaids had vocations to the married life before she did this.
Load More Replies...I think that's rather nice, despite being an atheist myself, she made every flower count, and made every 'maid feel loved and lovable, good on her!
Ahhh Yes. Huddling With “The Boys” And Chugging A Beer While Your Bride Waits For Your Answer
ive seen this before in a lot of weddings, its a staged fun part, nothing malicious.
Mil In A Lovely “Taupe” Dress
Yeah - pictures can sometimes lie about colour (remember the blue-black/white-gold dress) but I don't see how this dress could be taupe in any light.
Load More Replies...Taupe is a brown-grey colour. Are they referring to a few of the stones in the neckline or what?
Fundamentalist “Influencer” Buys Wedding Dress At Her Sister’s Appointment
Not sure why this is bad. Unless she made the whole shopping experience about her, but we don't know with this info.
It just seems like extremely obvious advice. Also, it's a bit tacky that she regrets her change of taste, but she doesn't regret that she was shopping for herself while she was supposed to be helping her sister.
Load More Replies...Plus shopping for the bride's dress is a special occasion. How hurt was her poor sister when she had to make it about herself
I don't see anything wrong with that. Stupid thing to do, but whatever.
Supposed To Be Funny, Just Looks Like Someone Has Issues
This is very common, it's known as a 'save the date' flyer, so people can start planning while the couple may still be finding a venue.
Load More Replies...When my dad told his mom he'd proposed to my mom, she replied, "Well, if that's what you want, we'll learn to live with it."
Should my son (who is also perfect) decide to marry, I'm going to do everything I can to get along with the person he chooses. I'm sure I will, because like I said.. . he's perfect. I trust his personal decisions.
I honestly, honestly hope that's the kind of humour they're having and everybody is fine with that because damn, that sucks hard otherwise.
Groom Isn't Vaccinated And Bride Doesn't Want To Tell People Coming To Her Wedding. But Sure Mob Is The Awful One Here /S
Be sure groom has great life insurance policy that doesn't exclude COVID.
Are you an adult tho? Because if you were you'd be responsible enough to let pepole know some are not vaccinated!
Uninvited Guest Rsvps Under His Dad's Name
Or possibly all three were invited on one invitation but only he can attend
This isn't super weird. i've seen situations where one person is invited to a wedding or christening and they kind of deputize another to go in their place to make sure the family is represented. If you have to rsvp online, this would be the only way to do it. of course i would also call and explain
Frankly, I Feel Bad That The Bridesmaids Proposal Side Of Etsy Is So Cute, But The Groomsmen Proposal Side Is Just Littered With… This
We gave our groomsmen engraved beer mugs with their names on them. They used them at the wedding and at home. My brother brings it to every Christmas eve party. Give them something they will treasure
I don't understand "proposing" to your bridesmaids and groomsmen. Why not just call and ask or see them at the engagement party and ask them then? I just don't get it.
Coworkers Inviting Themselves To My Friend's Wedding
"I did not receive my invite. -Because you are not invited. Now f**k off."
Saw This At My Wedding Planner’s Office. Daddy Looks Like He Wants To Murder The Wedding Party
Lady In The Fur Stole Is The Brides Mum. She Could Have Worn Literally Any Other Colour...
As she is the bride's mum, I'm sure the bride had most likely seen the dress well before the wedding.
Unless mom did a switch (I’ve read about ppl who lied about they were going to wear), the bride might have been OK with it. When my SIL married my brother, I was the only bridesmaid. She kept picking white dresses for me! I had to explain that in the US, it’s a BIG no-no. Apparently, in her home country it’s not an issue (UK, if anyone is wondering). 🤷♀️
Load More Replies...My brother specifically asked two social acquaintances he was on friendly terms with to be his door attendants at his wedding. They were both bouncers from a club he frequented in his early 20’s and he offered to pay them, though they both accepted to do it for the food and drink. Their job was to quietly stand at the sides of the entrance and smile and pass guests off to valets. Unless a guest (mostly from his rowdy work and social realm) showed up in inappropriate attire or a wedding crasher arrived. Then they were to refuse entrance. My “black sheep” aunt returned to her hotel because she arrived in a practically pure white evening gown. That created a lot of drama that our family kept my bro/SIL shielded from until they returned from their honeymoon. Our aunt sent a written letter requesting the return of her gift. Petty.
I would literally make my mother change her dress or not attend the wedding.
Yeah, and? You are attending the wedding, you are supposed to know what the bride looks like, no matter the dress color.
"When in Rome, do as the Romans do." Have you heard this?
Load More Replies...Interesting Wedding Guest Attire At Luxury Resort
What’s The Problem With Uneven Numbers
Well there's no rule about matching numbers so invite your 5 best friends and let hubby have his 4.
I had uneven numbers because my sister, who was in the process of becoming a nun, decided a week before my wedding to rejoin society. I had to scramble to find her a dress, but I was very excited to have her join us.
I Know It's "Off White", But It's Not Okay To Dress Like This For Your Son's Wedding
Right?? My colors wore red, black and white. My mom wore, dark red, floor length, sleeved, modest gown. Luv you, mom! MIL didn't attend. She tried to say I didn't invite her. My husband mailed the invite himself. Yay me for making him do it - I could see that shite coming a mile away. 13 years later, we love each other. :)
Load More Replies...it seems some people have a tradition where only the bride is allowed to wear white clothes. I know, it does not make sense.
Load More Replies...There is a questionable amount of women wearing white to their sons weddings… It reminds me of my sister’s wedding, her new MIL was practically bawling the whole time, it was awkward and everyone mentioned it. Turns out she IS a crap mom who raised a selfish cheater, who would have guessed it wouldn’t last? All of the people who attended, apparently.
Seen On Facebook. Oh Dear Oh Dear…
Um, don't start planning and spending until the funding is in place.
Well, if you don't plan then you don't know how much to save, so maybe plan but don't spend until funding is in place.
Load More Replies...Am I the weird one wanting to cover the wedding costs between my partner and I ONLY?
Nothing Says Love Like A Sports-Themed 'Dragging The Groom To The Altar' Cake Topper
Am I The Only One Thinks This Is Tacky?
Not really tacky if just for them and the photos are taken away from guests/wedding staff. Reminds me of boudoir photo shoots but with more fabric.
I like a little tacky, here and there, but this could have been done better.
Nothing shouts Commitment more than a quick Knee trembler in the alley.
I feel like that would ruin the dress, frankly :/.
Load More Replies...Look At The Beautiful Bride! Oh Wait, That’s Just Her Step-Mom
Apparently, (I'm not sure is this is true) but it is Tre cool ( The drummer for Green Day) and his wife at his daughter's wedding
The drummer from Green Day has a daughter who's old enough to get married? When did I get so old???
Load More Replies...I’m not sure what’s going on here. The top picture is a musician and his wife. The bottom is her daughter and her new husband. 4 different people.
I’m more offended by the open collar and no socks on the chad than the MiL dress.
Something is wrong with both of them, the bride's stepmother and the groom.
An Obnoxious “Depression Streak.” How Understanding And Compassionate. /S
I think asking in a kind, gentle way would be fine but accept whatever answer is given
No. Be fine with whatever she shows up on the day.
Load More Replies...First you should help her with her depression then worry about her hair
Depression sucks! I shaved my hair down to less than an inch all over during a depressive cycle. It had always been long and past by butt until then.
I had a pixie cut for several years. Did everyone assume I was depressed?
Influencer With Over 1m Followers Polls Followers Asking If Wearing White Is Ok… Wears White Anyways
Hmmm, I don't know about this one, because it is white but doesn't look like a wedding dress, she doesn't look like she is or is trying to stand up the bride. The bride looks far more glamourous.
They Say No Shame But There’s So Much Shame In This
Let Us Not Forget: Kurt Cobain Wore Pajamas To His Own Wedding
Rock stars and junkies live by different standards than the rest of us.
How come the bride looks transparent? Is this just a bad photoshop work?
Have Strangers Pay To Watch Wedding
If strangers want to pay to see your wedding, why not let them? Nobody is making anyone do anything they don't want to.
Yeah this was actually asked for by the ones that will pay
Load More Replies...The Dress My Mother Wants To Wear To My Wedding... It’s Not White It’s *crystal*!
It's not bad it doesn't look like a wedding dress. I would approve it
The bride is allowed to decide how her guests should dress. It is her party anyways. Unless the mother also pays for the party, she better follows the rule. On the other hand, the bride is allowed to NOT invite anyone who doesn't follow her rule. Just uninvite the mother. End if story.
Load More Replies...“Second Bride” Came Across This Browsing A Dress Rental Site
I know some people play tambourines by hitting them against their hip/butt, but I'm not sure why anyone would think the dress would cushion that. So... maybe euphemism?
Load More Replies...The Last Dress Is Basically A Wedding Dress? Most Of The Comments Were Commenting About How Only Her Beach Outfit Was Appropriate
Is this for going as a guest? The two on the left. As the bride? Top right.
To answer the post tile: No, it is not "Basically A Wedding Dress" .
A Year And A Half Is Not A Significant Amount Of Time In This Brides Mind….oh And “Bad Vibes”
Funny thing about "socially acceptable" rules: Not everyone knows them, and your point of view about them is biased.
That’s usually for guests, but I think it’s ok to give a member of the bridal party a +1
Load More Replies...I'm really glad that I don't plan on getting married. And that nobody invites me to weddings.
I am getting married. Really exited. Im not batshit crazy tho. There is no dresscode, not expecting anyone to pay anything and im not excluding anyone bases on the age or looks. We just invited people who are close to us.
Load More Replies...I know someone who I won’t name who's grooms dinner is on the first anniversary of his grandfather's death
i dont see whats wrong with number 4 its just a bit of fun, weddings dont have to be super serious
I once went to a wedding for my cousin(hes way older than me ofc) this was when i was younger. I have a huge family, and obviously there would be a lot of kids attending. The menu had all these fancy dishes for adults, and under kids it just said "chicken nuggets" I kid you not, just straight up chicken nuggets. We snuck in some food :))
I made it to #12 at the time of this writing (the dad who won't take his daughter to his wedding). I really hope these are trolls and not describing real situations.
Wow some of these are really abominable. And these people are tying the knot and possibly procreating. God help us.
I'm really glad that I don't plan on getting married. And that nobody invites me to weddings.
I am getting married. Really exited. Im not batshit crazy tho. There is no dresscode, not expecting anyone to pay anything and im not excluding anyone bases on the age or looks. We just invited people who are close to us.
Load More Replies...I know someone who I won’t name who's grooms dinner is on the first anniversary of his grandfather's death
i dont see whats wrong with number 4 its just a bit of fun, weddings dont have to be super serious
I once went to a wedding for my cousin(hes way older than me ofc) this was when i was younger. I have a huge family, and obviously there would be a lot of kids attending. The menu had all these fancy dishes for adults, and under kids it just said "chicken nuggets" I kid you not, just straight up chicken nuggets. We snuck in some food :))
I made it to #12 at the time of this writing (the dad who won't take his daughter to his wedding). I really hope these are trolls and not describing real situations.
Wow some of these are really abominable. And these people are tying the knot and possibly procreating. God help us.
