As promising as dating apps can be, using them often feels like a constant cycle of matching and ghosting. One moment, you're hitting it off with someone, the next you're wondering how can a person be this delusional.
So we at Bored Panda decided to dig deeper and figure out what keeps us in this limbo. Below, you will find a list of people explaining why they got unmatched, and it perfectly illustrates the chaotic reality of modern dating.
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It’s interesting how the men spewing this kind of c**p are generally the least attractive people, decrepit. Don’t concern yourself sir, not interested.
They hope that they can bring the other person's self-esteem low enough to stand a chance, I guess?
Load More Replies...Will people ever stop seeing themselves and the others as products to sell with an expiration date ? Such a rude and disrespectful way of considering relationships.
So this guy finds older men attractive? Why is he looking for women then? I'm sure there are a lot of men over 40 on those dating apps.
Hahaha I got asked out way more often in my 40s than my 20s. And by younger fellas, too.
No wonder. You look gorgeous! Either way my dating time has expired then.
Load More Replies...With age he won't put on weight, he won't age, he won't have sagging skin, aches and pain?
OH GOD NOT THE REMOTES 😭 i have trouble finding them when in they’re stuck in the couch there’s no way i would look on top of the facking fridge 😭😭
Just out of curiosity how tall are you? I'm 5'8" and my wife is around 5'10". And I think my 12yr old daughter is probably going to end up calling me Dobby. Fortunately I can climb
tall? TALL PEOPLE?! TALL PEOPLE TO PICK ME UP AND AWKWARDLY BRIDAL CARRY ME THROUGH A DOOR?! YES PLEASE
To a point. A couple inches max, is fine. But if u r naturally a couple inches taller and then wear heels on top of it, that's too much for them to handle
Load More Replies...Meanwhile I don’t think I’ll even be taller than my 5’5” mom :( edit: it’s also hilarious because all these dudes are like Aw heck naw, and for me (a pansexual girl) the only physical trait that I’ll simp for is height.
I have a few friends who are 6ft-plus women. But unfortunately they're not on the market (either married or in long-term relationships, usually with men who aren't as tall as they are). But then I'm 6ft-1 myself (was 6ft-3 in my younger days) - I'm now 65 and widowed. As a church organist, I attended the wedding of the daughter of one of these tall women. The photos are hilarious. All of the bride's family towered over the groom (including the bride's younger sister, who must have been about 12 at the time).
As dating coach Hayley Quinn explained to Bored Panda for our publication on the best Tinder profiles, you can never know if you will hit it off with someone you matched on a dating app because most will have people seeking a mix of relationship styles.
"If you are looking for something casual, Feeld app specializes in offering explicitly casual connections: as you may imagine profiles are more 'visual'. On the other hand, a platform like Match has a huge amount of criteria you can search for online, making it better adapted to people seeking meaningful connections. The trick here is to really identify what relationship you're seeking, then clearly communicate that through your profile and opening messages," Quinn explained.
Tinder is either full of incredibly boring people or way too exciting people.
Load More Replies..."If it doesn't scan, it's free, right?". If it's the first time the joke has been made, yeah, she has no sense of humour. If it's been the opening line for the last 30 matches, all the humour has been drained out of it, and - unlike in retail - she doesn't have to grin and bear it
Load More Replies...Then she should have changed her own text if it bothered her...
Load More Replies...One of my favorite students described herself as being "five foot three ... in four-inch heels."
if i ever to decide to have a child i am now naming it megatron hands down
If the guy doesn't understand the pure awesome in this then the unmatch is a blessing in disguise
Parent: Megatron, bedtime! Kid: NO ONE COMMANDS MEGATRON! Parent: then it pleases me to be the first.
Thanks! I don’t want to date someone with the grammar skills of a day old Turnip anyway.
A day old Turnip would still have better grammar skills than the person who unmatched the poster
Load More Replies...OMG, many years ago. My mom and dad divorced after 17 years of marriage and mom started dating about 5 years after. I remember the first guy she let us meet. Was helping her finish setting the table and asked if she wanted me to get the cutlery. Dude asks " what's cutlery". I got a dirty look from mom when I replied, table tools, you know eatin irons.
The dating coach thinks that being unique is very important in online dating. "With so much choice it's too easy for people to become banner blind and not realize what an amazing option you are," she said. "In terms of quick fixes make sure your profile is a cliche-free zone ('looking for my partner in crime...') and that you always state things specifically rather than generally."
"For example, saying, 'I like to travel,' is nowhere near as attention-grabbing as, 'already googling my first post lockdown trip to Thailand. (Sidenote: do you like Thai food?)' Finally, ensure you write your profiles in a way that's conversational and informal: a fun hack to help you with this is to dictate your profile first, to get more of your personality into it."
*them having a while romance novel going on in the youtube comment section as people just surreptitiously read the drama*
I don’t like YouTube, do you have some paper and a stamp?
this is a scammer. Anyone can chat on any platform. Trying to move you to another platform is so that they don't get a TC violation when they ask for/solicit money. In our country it's whatsapp. As soon as you match someone attractive they say "hey can we move to whatsapp" and after that the money requests start.
That went in the best direction it could have possibly gone. Hilarious! (I truly do not miss the days of online dating.)
They did, but maybe they didnt want to share their #
Load More Replies...When they want to talk off a dating site, 9 times out of 10 it's because they are a scammer/catfisher.
also: if he's so touchy about his time in the service, he shouldn't have put it in the bio. Sheesh.
Or he did and realized that he'd never be as funny as her.
Load More Replies...I served under him and Lieutenant Mime during the Battle of the Funny-Dumb, back in '26!
"fluent in sarcasm" means "rude" ; "sapiosexual" means "I read only novels" ; and "looking for someone likeminded" means "I vote republican", so I swipe "nope" on these.
Rachel needs to Google that. Let's hope she doesn't actually think that song by Alanis is really about irony.
Load More Replies...Using a form of humor (sarcasm) doesn't mean you actually have a sense of humor. One is outer; the other is inner.
With so many dating websites and apps out there, it has become normal to use online dating to meet someone—there are about 40 million Americans who do so.
And even though eHarmony claims that 27% of young adults are using online dating sites (which is up 10% from 2013), new findings suggest it's neither better nor worse than getting to know a person in real life. At least in terms of success rate.
If his logic was only locked onto to the illogical speed in those movies, anyone would be too smart for him.
Having compatibility in intelligence is just as important as other types of compatibility. Explaining why you like shooting holes in old books with your shotgun is just as frustrating as trying to explain partial derivatives when the other party doesn't have the tools to comprehend what you are saying.
Why is Steve on Bumble when all he has to do is be like "I have a blue puppy that likes to play" and everyone would be like "fantastic!" I'd give him a first date to play Blue's Clues.
Bruh when ever I’m texting the group chat with my friends I have to avoid having my feet in frame because they are all ridiculous. Most of us have adhd which brings us into conversations about toe jam on toast and such they are that type of weird not foot fetish weird, they will just point out my feet and make a big deal.
They must be gluten intolerant. (Joke about intolerance, don’t at me if you have celiac)
Nice! Multigrain bread and Everything(those bagel ingredients) buns are also good for many things.
Load More Replies...So many choices, I would be trying to work out if croissant is bread or if ciabatta is better than toasted bürgen and I'd have a melt down and stop online e dating
Am I the only one who thinks there's only one kind of "bad" bread, and that's the green and fuzzy kind.
My girlfriend for all four years of college spent much more time on the phone with my mother than she ever did with me. I did not find out about these calls until years later. So weird.
One study, published in the journal Psychological Science, claims it's actually impossible to figure out whether or not people who have the same values and character traits will fall in love. "Attraction for a particular person may be difficult or impossible to predict before two people have actually met," Samantha Joel, a University of Utah psychology professor and lead author, said in a press release.
"A relationship is more than the sum of its parts. There is a shared experience that happens when you meet someone that can’t be predicted beforehand," Joel explained.
Probably didn't recognize them if they were 17 when they know each other (and the teacher has 30 kids every year) and close enough in age now to be showing up in each other's filters
Load More Replies...Yeahhhhhh, as a retired teacher, I'd unmatch a former student within NANOSECONDS. *SHUDDER*... shudder to infinity.
It is possible she did not recognize him until he asked her about the essay
A lot of people will abandon you after you've been in their drawers.
I suppose it’s more of a personal tutorial rather than asking Google
I started singing that and I checked the comments hoping someone wrote it!
Load More Replies...Think of it as a Case Study interview to determine potential life partner match...or just a brilliant move to get some help setting up IKEA stuff for free
Ha ha. I remember the irritation and fury when people chanted "1940" to Rangers fans
Well it's about breaking out of one's condition innit? 🤣🤣
Load More Replies...This one, I completely understand. She has no way of knowing if you were stalking her or what.
The paper, which used speed-dating data, confirmed what online dating skeptics have been saying for years: computer-based algorithms can't predict if two people will feel that indescribable connection, that special something. Yes, computers might be able to predict how much someone would desire someone else, or how much they would have in common, but they probably can't pinpoint exactly what makes two people fall in love (yet).
All sorts of different intelligence and styles. He may be looking for a 160 IQ genius woman that's an engineer who's style is just more "Hey ya'll...watch this" then proceeds to automate the entire house with drones...
Load More Replies...Yeah, I'd unmatch for that, you sound like a know-it-all. If you were a guy, this would be gatekeeping "REAL fans of carbonara know...."
Liking to eat something is completely different from liking to hear about it.
I probably would’ve too that’s negging on some thing that they enjoy it doesn’t speak well to your character on a first impression that you would disparage something that somebody liked enough to put in their profile
Load More Replies...Even when it comes to spaghetti sauce, we live in a post-truth world.
The hecking name means charcoal burner's pasta or something. It's called miilunpollttajan pasta in Finland at least so very much worker food. Edit: actually saying just carbonara and not pasta alla carbonara means he's into charcoal burners so maybe her occupation wasn't right
Carbonara actually does have an interesting history. There are two main theories (beside it's lower class origin, which is par for the course of pretty much every Italian dish). One is from a profession: Carbonari were Coal delivery men. Also there was a secret society called "I Carbonari" who were revolutionaries. Almost impossible to compare to modern politics, in the US or Italy. The smart money is on the profession of coal handlers.
New names to call things. Thank you :3
Load More Replies...He like bbq sauce and only BBQ SAUCE. To him, you are just a mere tomato guzzling peasant. Discrimination, me thinks!
It depends, if you like it like with chips or weeners then fine. If you are those people who drown everything in ketchup, it's valid.
burgers yes, weiners not so much, but I agree with the rest of this
Load More Replies...ever played chess with an australian? Check, mate ;)
Load More Replies...Ah chess. A minute to learn, a lifetime to be constantly reminded I'm horrible at it. Castle king side.
Hey, I married a chess nerd (champion and everything)! Still together, hit 15 years back in May. Their loss. Lol
You're lucky. If you had ended up marrying her, you'd be known in chess circles as Fool's Mate.
Oh well, anyone fancy a crab leg meat sandwich? I’m vegetarian myself but somehow I just enjoy making sandwiches out of crab legs my friends always waste on dinners. Making it, not eating it. Then they eat it too. (Ok now I’ve just realized, it seems like all the food they order at restaurants, none of them are purely vegetables. Is this normal, vegetarians people with non-vegetarian friends)
Most likely would forget it and go like 'the same procedure as last year, miss Sophie? -- the same procedure as every year, James.'
After they ran the numbers, the researchers were surprised to discover that they were unable to predict even one couple that was a match. "We found we cannot anticipate how much individuals will uniquely desire each other in a speed-dating context with any meaningful level of accuracy," Joel explained.
"I thought that out of more than 100 predictors, we would be able to predict at least some portion of the variance. I didn't expect we would find zero."
Wrong person - th guy who dumped her is in recovery
Load More Replies...I can't drink, for medical reasons. When I was still in the dating scene, I can't tell you how often it happened that I'd get matched with someone, we'd start talking on the phone, I'd invite them over for dinner, they'd ask what kind of wine they should bring, and I'd say, "Makes no difference to me, if you want some, bring some, but I can't drink." Suddenly they can't wait to get off the phone, but they still insist that "of course we'll get together on Friday!" *This* Friday comes and goes with no further contact, *next* Friday comes and goes, and that's when it dawns on me that somehow, "I can't drink, so bring whatever you want" apparently means, "You disgusting alcoholic, how dare you!" *Eyeroll*
"Makes no difference to me." There are better ways to answer the question authentically and without getting prejudged..."something that would pair well with a XXxX type of dish. I dont have a lot of opportunity to keep much in the house." Then let them know while youre opening then bottle for them about the medical reasons...
Load More Replies...His loss, but I'll add this perspective. I've always been a one-glass of white wine drinker, maybe two if I'm on vacation or it's a celebration that goes on for hours. In the early days, many of my friends were heavy drinkers, blackout drunks, etc. So now they're in recovery for the rest of their lives. Some are cool if people drink around them, and some struggle. If we go out, I feel lousy ordering a drink in front of them, so I get iced tea which is fine, but sometimes I would have really enjoyed a glass of wine with my dinner. Maybe people are projecting they'll have to make a sacrifice they're not willing to make.
This one is though. I don't think any of them were in the wrong really and I understand the unmatch. I have a love hate relationship with alcohol, it has created issues in the past and I have decided the best action is to stay sober. I'm mostly fine with people drinking around me (get-togethers, parties, after work etc) but I do secretly feel very uncomfortable when I go out in a more close/intimate setting with my partner (or a close friend) for dinner for example and they drink a couple drinks and get tipsy while I sip on water. And I can understand that someone who drinks want to be able to drink in those situations and the other persons discomfort could bring them down. I wouldn't date me if I was a drinker and if I was dating now I wouldn't choose someone who found beer/wine to be their first important question.
Way to go, OP! You dodged a bullet with that one ... Unless I'm misunderstanding things
My response word-for-word: That is frickin' great! Happy for you :) How about we meet up for coffee? I know a place with good coffee and killer deserts, well, killer for me anyway :) XD
You certainly want people like that to unmatch. Do not need that in your life.
It’s so bizarre. Asking how much someone makes never crosses my mind when dating. It’s rude and if that’s the most important thing, go be a sugar baby.
Right?? I would never...unless you're getting married or living. together.
Load More Replies...The only people who need to know your salary are colleagues looking for a payrise and the tax dept!
Well, your spouse should know roughly, when you're sharing expenses, but it shouldn't be why they're with you.
Load More Replies...*Record Scratch* ... Kanye West's Gold Digger starts playing.
🎶 Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger. But she ain't messin' with no broke *****🎶
Whoa, the second that question came up, it was time to run. Unless you are OK with her spending your money.
"Yeah, honey, the Love Boat. Wanna climb on board? We're expecting you!"
Probably would have unmatched rather than even answered. Clearly not someone worth your time.
Ultimately, it all boils down to trial and error.
"In the world of online dating, there's going to be some people who are excited to meet someone tomorrow, others that are just dipping in and out of the app when they're watching Netflix!" Quinn said. "By asking someone for a date, or a phone number, sooner rather than later you may do a good job of filtering out people who aren't on the same page as you."
If someone on a dating app told me they would pay me to take a day off work to go see them , I would be the one unmatching first.
We’re living in hard times, he re-evaluated his monthly budget and it just wouldn’t have worked lol
I will never understand the guys who are intimidated by a woman who has a good career and makes good money. Would you rather have someone who is listless, going from one minimum wage job to another (have several in my family like that)? Do you really them to be solely dependent on you? I feel like if you are threatened by a female who makes more than you, you are probably too immature to date in the first place.
Don’t think she’s a gold digger, I think she was telling him he couldn’t afford her
Load More Replies...I talk to my friends on email. They don't like it much.
Load More Replies...What about the TikTok?!!? If you don’t use that you might as well just accept your fate and buy a bath robe, curlers for your hair, and 100 cats.
...and here I am, not even knowing what Hinge is ... 👍🏼
Load More Replies...I think it probably was a good idea not to move forward, but just unmatching without a polite message is weird. How hard is it to send a quick message saying, "I really enjoyed getting to know you but I think it would be unprofessional for us to continue."?
Load More Replies...Yeah but he may have a strong rule about not dating coworkers.
Either someone played with his profile or he's so far in the closet that his aß is chilling in Narnia
*WHEEZE* not the chatting over google docs my little sister talks with her school friends that way 💀💀
Oh god, that's sending me back to primary school. Making chats on shared documents in the middle of class.
Load More Replies...I'm pretty sure that's a different person in those two pictures, and one is up there as James and the other is Jacob, so I'm not even sure this is really real. It feels more like "I found this pick up line on Google and I'm posting it as myself for BP"
Oh no. Feeling urge to do it. Can't wait for monday to chat with colleagues on shared doc
We have a £1K tabby. We had to pay that much at the vet to help him recover after we adopted him. Totally worth it. We all love him. He is part of the family.
Right? It's not about where the pet is from, it's about giving them what they need. We adopted a puppy (no idea, brindle probably not-pittie. Plott hound, maybe?) five years ago. At age two she developed severe allergies, and it's been a long battle to get her stable. Testing revealed she's allergic to... outside. This dog has consumed our retirement contributions in vet bills for the past few years, but she is loved.
Load More Replies...Stop downvoting Monkey Mummy. Having paid for an expensive doggo is not a crime. Bit stupid but still not ban worthy. We had a fairly expensive breed dog when I was a kid because my parents honestly thought they were regulated. Our baby went blind because of bad genes at two years old and we reported that the parents were carriers for the gene. We got yelled at and the same dogs were used to breed more puppies because they were dog show champions. one fourth of the puppies went blind and they just kept doing it and selling them at a premium.
Your comment literally explained why that should be downvoted. You perpetuated puppy farms and unethical breeding.
Load More Replies...Even this number is probably extremely generous. I bet it'd be somewhere in the ballpark of 0.0001% or fewer.
Load More Replies...You could use a buddy- don't you wanna pal? (Yes I do, yes I do!) Girl, the way I see it, your daddy should be leaving and you should stick around- and kill him!
Wouldn't that have been his opportunity to take you on a date to experience it?
That beautiful sound is my favourite song from the musical.
Then you don't know smash fans. The guy is lucky he didn't say jigglypuff or Kirby because she might have hunted him down and slashed his tires for such an offence.
Load More Replies...Smash Bros has an absolutely insane fandom, they take it WAY too seriously.
I used to main little Mac so I know how you feel. =D (now I main incenaroar
Load More Replies...I just realized I haven't played Smash Brothers since high school. . . Over 20 years ago. Feeling a bit old but damn, didn't realize how old that game was
She was imagining what your bedsheets smell like. She’s not wrong.
I'm literally eating bacon in bed right now. I think this guy might be my soulmate.
I don't get it -- did the guy accidentally bump the unmatch button while he was driving? Or, did he see the OP from afar and then unmatch?
I choose to believe it's the latter, for humor's sake.
Load More Replies...He made it to the shop, went in and saw her, and decided he didn’t want to continue. F-ing Coward.
Call me old school, but ghosting ppl particularly standing them up on a date is just rude. At least send a text or something, wuss.
Smart ah. Go to bar. Text. See who picks up phone. Cut or run
That is the "most likely" explanation in your opinion?
Load More Replies...Whoa whoa whoa! As a man, I'd like to say, I also enjoy an elegant joke or two about turgid members. 😂
Load More Replies...Nope. When I finish one, I pick up the next one from the stack. If people keep writing books, I'm never going to catch up. 😄
I have 'go-between books'. After i finish a really good book and I feel like I need to have like a cool down time period before I start another one, I re-read one of my old favorites that I've read a million times. Like comfort books I guess. Say hi to some old friends before reading a new book
Load More Replies...As someone who normally is in the middle of reading anywhere from 10-20 books at a time I'm never not reading a book or twelve.
Maybe they thought they were being stalked
Load More Replies...I don't consider them to be in the same genre to be comparable. Star Wars is more science fantasy were Star Trek is more science fiction. Now there is a lot of fairy dust thrown around in Star Trek (Tachyon particles) but Trek is closer to reality. Easiest example is the flip phone. Hand held ultrasound and cellphone combination is like a Tricorder. Obviously the tablets from The Next Generation. For Replicators we have 3D printers. The closest thing from Wars is robots. So now we can all get along because the only thing they have in common is sharing half a name. Join us next week in Star Talk, we will be discussing which intellectual property benefited the most from the lose of it's original creator.
I also don't think they are same genre. Only common thing I find in two of them is space and aliens. For me themes which Wars seem to be based on is more political and for trek more explorative. If I have to compare Wars I'd compare it with The Expanse on Amazon. Then there's BSG which I think is more about survival. I might be wrong on all of this points but this is how I see them.
Load More Replies...I am very proud to say I watch any Star Trek I can but have not watched a single Star Wars movie.
Well, we can be proud of weird things, sure.. I, for one, am proud to have never made a cake with fondant.
Load More Replies...Now and want to see before and after pics. Must have been a dramatic change!
Noooooo. Why did you do that? Imagine how hyped he would have been and all the questions he would have been dying to ask. This opportunity doesn’t happen everyday. Tut tut
Some employers don't allow staff to connect with patients on social media
Let's hope OP had the decency to tell the guy that before dropping him like a hot potato, if that was indeed the rule at her workplace.
Load More Replies...You shouldn't wear shoes in bed/on the bed though. Gets your bedding really dirty, really fast.
Load More Replies...Who wears shoes in bed though. Yuk. I say you dodged a bullet.
I would unmatch you too. Dealt with that kind of negativity in my last relationship, don't need another mom, thanks.
I was sort of involved with what turned out to be a total AHole of a guy a few years ago.. after I told him I didn’t want to have contact anymore he said he’ll keep talking about his dog because he knew I would continue talking to him then… wrong! As absolutely gorgeous as his dog was, I wanted nothing to do with the owner..
Load More Replies...FM stands for Football Manager; a video game. Proudie is a gamer who streams and has a YT channel regarding Football Manager. Guess not everyone is into gamers.
Thanks for the helpful info!
Load More Replies...If you can't add to the convo in SOME way or another then you get unmatched. I swear 90% of the time my matches do the same s**t. I try to actually spark a conversation and get met with....Ok...or when I say how's your day been treating you they respond with...fine and then nothing else......Girl you matched me and said hey first like WTF?
Not saying this should be the norm and likely (who am I kidding, definitely) gonna get downvoted, but as a guy who has had enough experience with this to NEVER want anymore, I get where he's coming from. Not saying that all Chinese girls are like that, but you'd be surprised about the people you match with on Tinder.
Online dating is wild, but most of these were unmatched for having a sense of humour?? I have a bf, but if it ever ends, l'm doomed.
Exactly what I said. They seemed to get mad and unmatch when I was impressed with the comebacks/responses.
Load More Replies...Are these real reflections of the dating world? These people cannot construct a coherent, grammatically correct sentence with accompanying punctuation. This is embarrassing.
If you can understand and comprehend what they're saying, I don't see an issue. If you can't, and you really do want to know what they are saying. Then just ask, lol. But I think we both know you already know what's being conveyed.
Load More Replies...I think these posts are a prime example as to why people are having such a hard time dating these days, most people make snap judgments in the moment (no one is at their best all the time), rather than spending time to get to know someone. They treat dating like they are picking something off a menu, thinking they can pick "just the right person".
I think you've got it 100%. If everyone on these sites considered every single match as a real possibility, they'd have a few serious relationships and eventually settle down. Instead, half of them unmatch or stop talking after the slightest indication of a difference of opinion or unaligned interests - which honestly is what makes most friendships or relationships interesting - and then eventually give up on it altogether. It's a shame.
Load More Replies...Back in the day when I spent way too much time on icq I was chatting for a while with this Canadian guy who was in the navy or something. One day he sends me pics of his biiiiig muscular arms and chest and asks me if I find him handsome. I tell him that I honestly find him to be too muscular. He blocked me right there. Lol. So his big-o-rexia was hurt by some rando girl on the other side of the planet. Talk about a fragile macho-ness! 😁
I was just saying today how I find super muscular guys unattractive. My husband said I had nothing to worry about. LOL.
Load More Replies...I matched with a girl one time who was vegetarian. I'm most definitely not a vegetarian but she knew that and otherwise seemed nice enough. However, she got really mad at me when she mentioned eating fish and I was like "wait, i thought you were a vegetarian". By definition, that makes no sense. To start with, I was genuinely confused. But then she started talking down to me, so I sent something sarcastic about how I never knew there was such a thing as a plant-based fish and she blocked me 😆
Honestly, many of these are funny; some are even witty. Did a sense of humor die at the same time proper spelling and grammar disappeared?
Online dating is wild, but most of these were unmatched for having a sense of humour?? I have a bf, but if it ever ends, l'm doomed.
Exactly what I said. They seemed to get mad and unmatch when I was impressed with the comebacks/responses.
Load More Replies...Are these real reflections of the dating world? These people cannot construct a coherent, grammatically correct sentence with accompanying punctuation. This is embarrassing.
If you can understand and comprehend what they're saying, I don't see an issue. If you can't, and you really do want to know what they are saying. Then just ask, lol. But I think we both know you already know what's being conveyed.
Load More Replies...I think these posts are a prime example as to why people are having such a hard time dating these days, most people make snap judgments in the moment (no one is at their best all the time), rather than spending time to get to know someone. They treat dating like they are picking something off a menu, thinking they can pick "just the right person".
I think you've got it 100%. If everyone on these sites considered every single match as a real possibility, they'd have a few serious relationships and eventually settle down. Instead, half of them unmatch or stop talking after the slightest indication of a difference of opinion or unaligned interests - which honestly is what makes most friendships or relationships interesting - and then eventually give up on it altogether. It's a shame.
Load More Replies...Back in the day when I spent way too much time on icq I was chatting for a while with this Canadian guy who was in the navy or something. One day he sends me pics of his biiiiig muscular arms and chest and asks me if I find him handsome. I tell him that I honestly find him to be too muscular. He blocked me right there. Lol. So his big-o-rexia was hurt by some rando girl on the other side of the planet. Talk about a fragile macho-ness! 😁
I was just saying today how I find super muscular guys unattractive. My husband said I had nothing to worry about. LOL.
Load More Replies...I matched with a girl one time who was vegetarian. I'm most definitely not a vegetarian but she knew that and otherwise seemed nice enough. However, she got really mad at me when she mentioned eating fish and I was like "wait, i thought you were a vegetarian". By definition, that makes no sense. To start with, I was genuinely confused. But then she started talking down to me, so I sent something sarcastic about how I never knew there was such a thing as a plant-based fish and she blocked me 😆
Honestly, many of these are funny; some are even witty. Did a sense of humor die at the same time proper spelling and grammar disappeared?
