Join the Fun!

16-19 Or: How I Learned To Start Shaving And Escape The Neckbeard

Final score:

588points

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Raine Soo 4 years ago

I would not have realized that this was the same person. He now also has a haircut that suits him.

133points

Age 14 To 19. Lost Some Weight And Gained Some Confidence Along The Way

Final score:

572points

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Raine Soo 4 years ago

Wow! Your current self is hot!

127points

The ‘Ugly Duckling’ subreddit is a community of over 116k ‘enthusiasts’ who “turned into butterflies” over the years. The subreddit celebrates late bloomers, positive personal changes, and motivational transformations.

Being a late bloomer is nothing to be ashamed of. It can happen at any time. And the process can be drawn out or happen nearly overnight, just like with Neville Longbottom’s actor Matthew Lewis who ‘Longbottomed’ and caught a lot of us unaware of what just happened.

Scott Barry Kaufman writes on Psychology Today that a lot of human traits (including physical attractiveness) are under genetic control and can take “decades” to emerge.

16-20. Does This Count?

Final score:

567points

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varwenea 4 years ago

It counts. Yes, you count. ;)

126points

12 - 24 Even My Family Doesn't Recognize Me These Days, It's Nice

Final score:

562points

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Hannah M 4 years ago

Staring at the camera like that probably didn't help... 😂

114points

Life Begins At 40! 25 --> 40

Final score:

506points

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aussie snowdropper 4 years ago

please dont be offended but you look like Claire Dunphy

65points

“There is one way of becoming an early bloomer, but there are an infinite number of ways of being a late bloomer. Also, the more complex a trait, the more ways that a child can become a late bloomer for that trait. This means that the most appreciated abilities in society, such as creativity and leadership will rarely fully present itself at a young age, all at once,” Kaufman explains.

He adds that even though society tends to celebrate child prodigies, being an early bloomer is no guarantee that you will continue to be successful. Dedication, hard work, and moving towards your goals step by step are just as (if not even more) important as talent.

13 - 25

Final score:

492points

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Janine B. 4 years ago

Wow, pretty smile!

52points

Left-13, Right-34

Final score:

479points

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Miss Cris 4 years ago

She looks like a teenager in her thirties!

113points

Age 17-24, Was Bullied A Lot Growing Up

Final score:

454points

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Janine B. 4 years ago

I feel you. Gladly it made me a better person. Be kind everybody.

62points

#10

12 And 29. Still With The Short Hair And Glasses, Some Things Never Change

Final score:

454points

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Sean Montgomery 4 years ago

Awkward duckling, but not an ugly one.

83points

#11

11 vs. 28, Lost That Baby Fat And Learned How To Smile

Final score:

447points

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Perfumista Perfumista 4 years ago

learning how to smile is always a big help

5points

#12

Left 12, Right 24

Final score:

436points

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Dorothy Parker 4 years ago

Again, not an ugly duckling to begin with.

199points

Sean Montgomery 4 years ago

Totally agree

12points

pepper 2015 4 years ago

Cute for a 12 year old, not sure why is it considered ugly?

13points

Rosie Hamilton 4 years ago

I am suspicious of this one. He is no ugly duckling at all and I wonder if he just joined in on this for the attention.

11points

922Terry 4 years ago

Whoa! Gorgeous

13points

Hannah Williams 4 years ago

Definitely can agree

1point

Roxy Eastland 4 years ago

Errr, you grew up? Some of these posts are just people wanted to share a photo of themselves to get told how good looking they are.

11points

Thenatural 4 years ago

Granted..a handsome dude...but looks like he knows it!

8points

Ivana 4 years ago

Damn dude.....That jaw line though.

5points

BIG FOOT 4 years ago

Looks like he got plastic surgery

0points

pebs 4 years ago

A perfectly normal young boy, why should he named as ugly duckling?

4points

GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago

You were cutie as little guy too!

4points

Melody Lanzatella 4 years ago

Nope, not an ugly duckling...just a kid.

3points

Id row 4 years ago

Why do I feel like he spends more time getting ready than me, a female?

3points

WildBerry 4 years ago

Cause he's one of those types. You can tell

1point

🌺🍍🌼🌻🌼🍍🌺 4 years ago

wait, but like, where are all these hotties? WHERE ARE THEY??????

3points

WildBerry 4 years ago

cruising the gay bars

3points

Louloubelle 4 years ago

Yeah, tweens are just awkward looking. Puberty can make just about anyone look better. But god, that chin. Wow!

3points

Troux 4 years ago

Wait, can we go back to puberty and try again?

3points

Karen Morana 4 years ago

I hope he is as pleasant in personality as he looks in handsomeness

2points

Johanne Trudeau 4 years ago

Cute kid!! But really except for a few in this list not many were ugly ducklings

2points

Ray Martin 4 years ago

However... please don't ever pose like that again.

2points

Aahzmandus Pervect 4 years ago

24?!?!

2points

Susan Miller 4 years ago

A HOT model now!

1point

Miss GigglesAndTears 4 years ago

Wow, glowup on a whole new level

1point

Sharon Hyatt 4 years ago

He should be a model !

1point

Nan Cresdee 4 years ago

Wowza!

1point

kaci 4 years ago

holy s**t i just choked he is hotttttt

1point

Linda Matheny 4 years ago

Holy s**t!!! You must be a model!!!

1point

June Dominguez 4 years ago

Wow! Wow! And wow!

1point

Allison Woodfill 4 years ago

Cute kid. Handsome man

1point

Carole Strawn 4 years ago

Everyone is a bit awkward looking at that age but you had the good looks even then. You just needed to grow up. Very handsome now.

1point

Ashley Wright 4 years ago

Model pose

1point

Laura Deckers 4 years ago

What a sweet 12 year old.

1point

Mike Proco 4 years ago

GQ model !

1point

Granny 4 years ago

You could see the handsome man in the before

1point

Isabella Vega 4 years ago

Hot 🔥🔥

1point

Patty Leaton 4 years ago

still look good

1point

Laila Hernandez 4 years ago

not really an ugly ducky...

1point

Silvia 4 years ago

Very, very nice :)

1point

Amy Kosh 4 years ago

I think often it's how we see ourselves as well... maybe others might not see an "ugly duckling" in someone but we can't know how they feel when they see themselves.

1point

Jude Bennett 4 years ago

Hot now.

1point

Daniel Jagiello 4 years ago

Handsome kid

1point

AnimeObsessedTeenager 2 years ago

Lookin like Chris Hemsworth over there tho

0points

Meme master 3 years ago

tom cruz

0points

Heather Reynolds Atwood 3 years ago

HELLO HOTTIE

0points

Viv Hart 4 years ago

Just a bit overweight at 12, but what a hunk at 24!

0points

Dean Garner 4 years ago

Looks like he wasn't a wanker when he was 12

0points

sharron lynn parsons 4 years ago

Growing up, into eye candy, hot !!!

0points

922Terry 4 years ago

Because when we grow up we can change with little recognition of what came before. I know I have. No one recognizes the grown up me.

0points

Irene Carlyle 4 years ago

woof!

0points

Danielle 4 years ago

Hello! 😍

0points

Mary Hurst 4 years ago

Wowzer

0points

Jeannie Carle 4 years ago

No kinda "ugly",

0points

Carolyn Legg 4 years ago

Movie star looks

0points

Shirley-May Josob 4 years ago

So hot!!!!

0points

NWB 4 years ago

hell!!!!!

0points

Flo 4 years ago

O..............K

0points

JENAVIVE RIVERA 4 years ago

dang..

0points

rachel carter 4 years ago

Looks like a model

0points

Jackson Allinder 4 years ago

At 12 you look like a Kyle

0points

Martha Higgins 4 years ago

Du bist sehr hübsch, damals und heute.

0points

Lisa Greene 4 years ago

Dang!

0points

Ann McNeil 4 years ago

Oh .........!!

0points

Hans Bass 4 years ago

Night and day! Great!

0points

I'm not a Robot 4 years ago

I almost dropped my phone ...

0points

Mandira Basu 4 years ago

Wow

0points

Shelby McClain 4 years ago

Sooo attractive

0points

Monika Piekarz 4 years ago

Always RIGH

0points

Thalia Lovering 4 years ago

He wasn't ugly!

0points

ERIN W. 4 years ago

DANG!

0points

Shawna Rachelle 4 years ago

You can't compare puberty with adulthood!!

0points

AliJanx 4 years ago

Day-ummm!

0points

BTS WORLD 4 years ago

Wowww hot guy.....

0points

Brandi VanSteenwyk 4 years ago

Hubba Hubba Honey!!

0points

SBW71 4 years ago

wow. Hot!!

0points

Jessica 4 years ago

yea man you just grew up

0points

Aria Whitaker 4 years ago

Hubba hubba!!

0points

Lily Mae Kitty 4 years ago

well, damn.

0points

varwenea 4 years ago

Holy yumminess. That is quite a masterful transformation.

0points

Boopie Dew 4 years ago

DAMN!

0points

Tala Koala 4 years ago

To begin with, bad teeth and pale skin with dark hair ... don’t see why people are mystified how the kid was ugly when it’s obvious, lol. He looks good as an adult though. It was worth the money to get the jawline sculpted. He looks fantastic, versus the people above who got plastic surgery and are still dogs, haha. I’d be curious to see what the eyebrows look like now, they didn’t do him any favors as a kid, but maybe on an adult they wouldn’t be so overpowering.

-1point

Ninja Nonna 4 years ago

Cute kid, handsome man.

-1point

Jane W. 4 years ago

handsome then, handsome now.

-1point

Carole Reid 4 years ago

Hot! Hot! Hot!

-1point

Nastassja Abercrombie 4 years ago

Hot damn!

-1point

Toea Muresan Iulia 4 years ago

no way

-3points

#13

2015 - 2019. Basically, I Cleaned Myself Up And Started Over!

Final score:

435points

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Boopie Dew 4 years ago

You look younger, did you age backwards. Glad you're doing so well now.

105points

#14

Then: 320 Lbs, Face Always Red, Angry At Dad, Ready To Die For Punk Rock. Now: 250 Lbs, Skin Healthier, Love My Dad, Punk Rock Is Pretty Ok But Being An Adult Is Pretty Ok Too

Final score:

410points

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Janine B. 4 years ago

Oh the lovely teenage hormone "balance".

60points

#15

13, 15, 20 And 27 Years Old

Final score:

409points

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Miss Cris 4 years ago

Looks interesting and happy in all pics. It's beautiful to see how style is changing, too.

69points

#16

(Spoiler Alert) I Didn't Peak In Highschool Lol

Final score:

409points

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🌺🍍🌼🌻🌼🍍🌺 4 years ago

wha- but- HOTNESS

57points

#17

Age 12 To Age 26... Still Feel A Lot Like The Kid On The Left

Final score:

405points

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Anna Neemus 4 years ago

This doesn't count as an ugly duckling. Dude was fine before.

130points

#18

11—>30 Braces Were Good To Me

Final score:

387points

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Miss Cris 4 years ago

Pretty face in a 80's hair.

37points

#19

19 To 20. I Would Like To Thank My Dermatologist

Final score:

384points

POST

Jumilicious 4 years ago

Never an ugly duckling, but you sure are glowing now. Happy for you!

86points

#20

A Slight Change

Final score:

381points

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Janine B. 4 years ago

OMG, that's cute! 😂

69points

#21

17-24, Went Through Horrible Cystic Acne, Lost 50 Lbs, Got Braces, And Dropped An Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend

Final score:

378points

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Boopie Dew 4 years ago

No, she says she was with someone who made her feel badly about her self worth. And she believed him. Sometimes it happens slowly and you don't know you're being abused until its too late. She got self confidence once she was out of the relationship and then worked on herself. Total respect.

134points

#22

4 Years Later (16-20)

Final score:

366points

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Vivi 4 years ago

Not the same person.

90points

#23

Age 15 To 21. Lost Some Weight, It Sucks My Eyes Didn't Get Bigger

Final score:

361points

POST

spirit wolf 4 years ago

Your eyes are great the way they are.

294points

#24

12-27. Lost A Chin, But Gained A Smile

Final score:

345points

POST

True Blue 4 years ago

I liked her old hair colour but still pretty in both

48points

#25

Age ~11 To 20 - I Owe A Lot To Contacts, Braces, Filling In My Eyebrows, And My Hairline Somehow Growing Forward

Final score:

343points

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Perfumista Perfumista 4 years ago

Don't you wish when you were younger that you had a clue how you'd turn out? Beautiful.

71points

#26

Mother’s Day With My Momma 2014-2018

Final score:

342points

POST

Toea Muresan Iulia 4 years ago (edited)

Momma is cool

78points

#27

10 Year Different. Ages 13 & 23

Final score:

334points

POST

Sean Montgomery 4 years ago

Not really an ugly duckling transformation as you were never ugly.

51points

#28

From 17 To 18, I Don't Even Know

Final score:

331points

POST

Raine Soo 4 years ago

Dude lost the guyliner.

86points

#29

Always Felt So Geeky In High School. I Even Went Through A Period Where I Wanted To End My Life In Middle School Because Of My Weight And Look. Now I’m In My 30’s And Feeling The Most Confident I’ve Been In My Life. Big Thanks For Braces And Lasik

Always Felt So Geeky In High School. I Even Went Through A Period Where I Wanted To End My Life In Middle School Because Of My Weight And Look. Now I’m In My 30’s And Feeling The Most Confident I’ve Been In My Life. Big Thanks For Braces And Lasik

Final score:

328points

POST

Raine Soo 4 years ago

It's so nice to have you with us today.

127points

#30

16 vs. 46. Took Awhile To Get Here, Lol.

Final score:

326points

POST

Janine B. 4 years ago

That pic actually made me giggle.

53points

#31

13-21 Puberty Really Hit Me Hard And Shot Me Up To 6ft8

Final score:

312points

POST

Boopie Dew 4 years ago

thats a pretty tall shoot up!! Awesome

53points

#32

From 18 To 23. A Completely Different Person Now

Final score:

310points

POST

B 4 years ago

Hope you still like Rammstein tho...

62points

#33

7 Years Can Make A Crazy Difference

Final score:

292points

POST

Janine B. 4 years ago

He had to grow into his body. Nothing wrong with his teenage self.

75points

#34

Found An Old School Photo (14/29)

Final score:

290points

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Miss Cris 4 years ago (edited)

Beautiful in the old photo! And very nice natural hair colour, if I had it, I'd keep it forever.

70points

#35

12 vs. 20. Had To Stop Riding The Bus+change My Classes In Middle School Because I Was Bullied So Bad For "Being Ugly"

Final score:

288points

POST

Ann Rii 4 years ago

You were never ugly.

221points

#36

3 Years With A Lot Of Time In The Gym And Taking Care Of My Skin

Final score:

283points

POST

Kim 4 years ago (edited)

Do explain the first photo 🤣

75points

#37

Me, Early 20’s Looking Troll Man To More Normal Looking Dude In His 30’s

Final score:

282points

POST

Troux 4 years ago

Guy on the left looks like a young Andre the Giant. Inconceivable!

47points

#38

15 To 23. No Makeup For A Better Comparison

Final score:

275points

POST

Dorothy Parker 4 years ago

Beautiful now, cute then.

109points

#39

Nearly Two Years Of Hard Work And Dedication. I Won’t Ever Stop!

Final score:

271points

POST

PericDeric 4 years ago

Breh those abs

48points

#40

My One Regret Is Losing The Hat

Final score:

269points

POST

Sean Montgomery 4 years ago

You were never an ugly duckling, but definitely better fashion.

55points

#41

7 Years Apart

Final score:

265points

POST

Anna Neemus 4 years ago

Did she get a nose job?

60points

#42

15 → 26, From Strange Genderbender To Recognizable As A Woman

Final score:

259points

POST

Paper A 4 years ago (edited)

It's okay to be gender queer, you being more comfortable with your body and style now, that's the win here. 👍

82points

#43

18 vs. 23 Just A Late Bloomer I Guess

Final score:

253points

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Lily Mae Kitty 4 years ago

cute in both

43points

#44

18 To 24

Final score:

243points

POST

Boopie Dew 4 years ago

So cute then so handsome.

84points

#45

21 vs. 29.. Losing 100lbs Has Definitely Helped!

Final score:

242points

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Ann Rii 4 years ago

Such a pretty smile in the before picture

33points

#46

One Year Transformation. 23 To 23 (Almost 24 Hahaha). What A Gym Membership, Self Love And A Skincare Routine Can Do For You

Final score:

236points

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Jumilicious 4 years ago

Before and after morning coffee :D You look great. Awesome smile!

56points

#47

Grew Into My Face A Little(19 vs. 26)

Final score:

236points

POST

Boopie Dew 4 years ago

yes u did!

33points

#48

18 To 23. Puberty Hit Me Like A God Damn Freight Train.

Final score:

225points

POST

Hannah M 4 years ago

Is it just me or does he look a bit like Elijah Wood in the first one?

83points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

See Also on Bored Panda

Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#49

11 To 21. Wear Your Sunblock, Folks

Final score:

213points

POST

Bunny Wood 4 years ago

Look at those eyes!!

38points

#50

14 To 20, Lost Weight, Took Care Of Myself And Stopped Cutting My Hair

Final score:

212points

POST

Jessica 4 years ago

aww the classic deep part comb over emo style lol

30points

#51

15 > 21. A Lot Has Changed (For The Better).

Final score:

42points

POST

Bunny Wood 4 years ago

Smokin!

3points

#52

From Being The Weird Kid To Owning My Weirdness

Final score:

41points

POST

Dorothy Parker 4 years ago

Beautiful then and now. The weird parts are what keep us from being vanilla.

12points

#53

13 -> 22, Got Myself Bigger Glasses

Final score:

40points

POST

ADHORTATOR 4 years ago

Yeah, it's the glasses :-)

18points

#54

Puberty Was My Best Friend

Final score:

40points

POST

DDmaybeandor 4 years ago (edited)

Yes, but you were so young in the before pictures. You were adorable! So what if you were plump? It makes me sad that you felt ugly at that age.

6points

#55

13 vs. 24, I Looked Like A Brown Peter Griffin

Final score:

39points

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La Petite Morte 4 years ago

That's a sad level of self awareness. You look great and happy in both pictures.

0points

#56

16—>22

Final score:

39points

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Boopie Dew 4 years ago

Sometimes its just about growing into yourself

8points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

See Also on Bored Panda

“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#57

12->25. Took Some Time, But Im No Longer A Cabbage Patch Kid. Cheers To Glowing Up, Everyone!

Final score:

39points

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Boopie Dew 4 years ago

the tween years aren't kind to most people.

8points

#58

16 vs. 25. It's Always Crazy To Look Back Every Once And A While

Final score:

39points

POST

Alyssa Fry 4 years ago

Those MUSCLES OH MY GOD

16points

#59

Brace Yourself For A Couples Edition (11-23)

Final score:

38points

POST

Janine B. 4 years ago

Aw. :)

7points

#60

Sometimes Wish I Still Had That Hat. (11-24)

Final score:

36points

POST

Hooked 4 years ago (edited)

No regrets, you have a blouse now ! You look great.

7points

#61

You Don't Have To Be Young To Glow Up. I'm 36 On The Left And 25 On The Right

Final score:

35points

POST

ruthenium the ruther 4 years ago (edited)

You got 30 years younger. And you look great!

5points

#62

23-33. Went From Eating Pizza Everyday To Just Every Other Day.

Final score:

35points

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Ann Rii 4 years ago (edited)

I wish I could eat pizza even once a month without gaining weight.

12points

#63

Think I Was About 14 Or 15 Referred Too As The Ginger Owl. Highschool Was Bitter Sweet

Final score:

35points

POST

Hooked 4 years ago

Not an ugly duckling at all, but in all fairness you are gorgeous now.

7points

#64

I Was Told That This Might Be Appreciated Here. The First Picture Is Me In My Duct Tape Dress At 16. The Second Picture Is Me Now, At 21 After Losing 100 Pounds, Cutting Off My Frizzy Hair, And Actually Putting Effort Into My Appearance

I Was Told That This Might Be Appreciated Here. The First Picture Is Me In My Duct Tape Dress At 16. The Second Picture Is Me Now, At 21 After Losing 100 Pounds, Cutting Off My Frizzy Hair, And Actually Putting Effort Into My Appearance

Final score:

34points

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DDmaybeandor 4 years ago

Awesome before, and awesome after! I love the duct tape dress and what it says about you too.

4points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

See Also on Bored Panda

French Diver’s “Jewels” In Tight Swimming Trunks Become Talk Of The Town At Olympics

#65

2010-2020. Never Really Took Care Of My Health Nor My Looks Until Well After High School. Thankful For The Gym, Healthy Eating, And Some Good Ol' Makeup!

Final score:

34points

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MiniMaus 4 years ago

You are so beautiful.

4points

#66

13 To 19 Y/O...5heads Where Y’all At?

Final score:

34points

POST

Ann Rii 4 years ago

Looks like normal growing up

6points

#67

I Guess You Could Say I've Changed A Bit Since I Was A Good Charlottle Loving 12 Year Old. I'm Now 25 And Can Still Laugh At My Tiny Brass Knuckles Necklace.

Final score:

34points

POST

Boopie Dew 4 years ago

Its funny to see what we liked when younger.

3points

#68

Thank God For The Orthodontist, Me At 10 & 18

Final score:

33points

POST

Ann Rii 4 years ago

Such beautiful eyes

10points

#69

October 2012 (Age 20) vs. October 2018 (Age 25). Freshman Year Of College Was...not My Best :-/

Final score:

33points

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Anna Neemus 4 years ago

Unflattering make-up and clothes don't count as ugly.

14points

#70

12-23 Puberty And Private Dentistry.. And Let’s Not Forget Fake Tan And Makeup Get A Lot Of Credit Here!

Final score:

32points

POST

Krista Daniel 4 years ago

What is private dentistry??

6points

#71

15 To 22, Traded In The Braces And Acne In Exchange For A Healthy Dose Of Self Confidence And The Ability To Smile

Final score:

31points

POST

Fionn O'Donnell 4 years ago

ooh, and a nice nose ring too

1point

#72

13 vs. 21. Lost The Glasses And Stupid Fringe

Final score:

30points

POST

Friedlander Rosenzweig 4 years ago

Cute to beautiful!

2points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

See Also on Bored Panda

Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#73

I’m Thankful Braces Exist (12 Yrs To 20 Yrs)

Final score:

30points

POST

ML 4 years ago

WOW

3points

#74

12-20. Losing Weight And Learning How To Do My Hair Helped A Bit

Final score:

28points

POST

Nancy Jeckells 4 years ago

photo on right is filtered or something, doesn't look real !

3points

#75

Age 10 - 18! Thank God For Braces (My Teeth R Straight Now, I Swear)

Final score:

28points

POST

Anna Neemus 4 years ago

Wish she would have smiled.

2points

#76

11 vs. 26: I Suspect That I Might Be Benjamin Button

Final score:

28points

POST

Kitten claws 4 years ago

Gorgeous!

2points

#77

14 - 21 R.I.P Bushy Eyebrows, Big Nose, Greasy Hair And... Coontails?

Final score:

25points

POST

Ann Rii 4 years ago

There was nothing wrong with your nose...

7points

#78

13 To 20 (My Mom Gave Me That Haircut)

Final score:

24points

POST

Carla Yvonne Noomen 4 years ago

You were a sweat little girl, with a lovely smile..

5points

#79

12-18. Most People Can Tell I’m A Girl Now.

Final score:

24points

POST

Anna Neemus 4 years ago

I don't get the non-ugly ducklings on this post.

4points

#80

Age 17 On The Left, Age 34 On The Right

Final score:

22points

POST

Janine B. 4 years ago

That's far from being an ugly duckling. Cute in both.

13points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

See Also on Bored Panda

“This Breaks My Heart”: People Stunned—And Angry—After Woman Buys Lost Luggage From Airport

#81

12>22 First One Is Cringe Pure, I Know. I Was Bullied A Lot Back Then Haha, Felt Like I Needed To Change

Final score:

22points

POST

Janine B. 4 years ago

Kids are cruel. There's absolutely nothing wrong with her teenage self.

11points

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Biljana Malesevic 4 years ago (edited)

I don't like the word "ugly" in this context at all. These people were never ugly. Some of them were somewhat overweight, some had acne (didn't we all, at some point?), some had glasses and now have contacts, some just learned to use make up and fixed hairstyle... Are overweight people, people with freckles and people with glasses ugly? Are we automatically beautiful if we put ton of make up or lose like 10 lbs? While I think people absolutely should make changes on their appearance if it makes them feel good, I simply don't how this was put.

81points

Dorothy Parker 4 years ago

Excellent response. My thoughts too.

22points

Tracy 4 years ago

Thank you. You phrased that much more eloquently than I could have.

11points

Luisa Vasconcelos 4 years ago

And is sending the wrong message to all the kids reading this, that are actually looking like the old picture

10points

Beans 4 years ago (edited)

I agree! I was a a chubby kid and I felt hideouts growing up. In hindsight I wasn't at all. But stuff like this didn't empower me, it made me paralysed. It made me feel like I didn't deserve to have a place in life or to do things like go swimming etc unless I lost weight or looked pretty...or glowed up etc. Even if I did all that I wasn't 'hot' like those people. It's taken a long time to accept the way I look. This feeling still persists for me. Thank you for saying this.

5points

E Menendez 4 years ago

And, most of the time, it was just getting to the other side of puberty. Sorry, you looked like a twelve year old when you were twelve that didn't know right away how to dress and groom to accentuate your good features.

4points

Pearl_TheRapperLOL 4 years ago

Hey Rok-dumbas$ nobody thinks you're funny so could you do me a favor and shut up?

3points

Chez 4 years ago

100% agree. I was a mash-up of some of those before photos. Looking back I realise how skinny I was, when I actually thought I was overweight (I am now, 3 kids later, but it doesn't bother me as much and I'm working on it). Also, what irritates me about posts like this, is how many people feel it's okay to comment on the photos and say things like "lose the dark makeup and then you'll be pretty" or similar. It's not up to any of us to judge anybody no matter what they look like.

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Emy Loves 4 years ago

I don't like "ugly duckling" either! I wish people would learn to love and accept themselves as they are. I get that we all try to look our best...hair, clothes, makeup etc., but it's the fact that so many people put so much emphasis on looks, and judge others based on it, that is very disturbing to me.

2points

Denny Wilkerson Corsa 1 week ago

agreed - many of these were cute kids, teens, or young adults who lost weight, started wearing makeup, and the like.

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Monday Fuss 4 years ago

My word exactly,I just didn't have the energy to type it all down, lol.

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Cosmo 4 years ago

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austinwww 4 years ago

Biljana Malesevic easy

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MiniMaus 4 years ago

I never got over the bullying as I was an ugly kid. Bad clothes, bad haircut, acne. Even now that I've changed I still have confidence issues. Don't bully, people. It can affect someone their entire life. I'm 62 now.

30points

Felix Feline 4 years ago

Same. Even a teacher commented that I was awfully ugly. I'm told that I am now quite good-looking, even model good-looking, but I look in the mirror and I don't see that at all. All is see is the child everyone called ugly looking back at me.

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Deson 4 years ago

Just turned 60 myself and yes the bullying can affect you your entire life. Had the acne, the voice that cracked during puberty, and only 5 foot 4 inches guy. Naturally I was a target for every bully in the school. Didn't help that the school had a "Boys will be boys" attitude.

2points

Emy Loves 4 years ago

This makes me sad! I hate bullying more than anything in the world. I'm sorry you all are still hurting. I was severely emotionally abused for years. But I promise, you can change your insecurities with practice because I have managed to overcome mine. It just takes the right amount of repetitive thoughts, such as: I am responsible for my own feelings. No one can ever hurt me unless I let them. I am worthy, beautiful and special. Some people like me, some people don't and I'm ok with that. It's none of my business what others think of me. I accept me completely the way I am. I love myself....and so on. Also, Joe Dispenza(neuroscientist) has a quote "A memory without the emotional charge is called wisdom." So become wise! Learn to love and accept your one-of-a-kind selves! It's doable! Best of luck :)

2points

Liz Butt 1 month ago

Bullied at school because I was skinny and ugly. I had spots on my face. All self inflicted because I squeezed my pimples. I didn't like myself at all. I am definitely more confident and happy with my appearance now. It's not all about the looks. Looks fade over time. I would prefer someone who is plain with a great personality and who makes me laugh than someone gorgeous with nothing up top.

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Mimi777 4 years ago

I was an ugly duckling growing up. I was bullied for having a big nose. I was called so many different names from Pinnochio to Big Bird. I had numerous people make comments like “if you didn’t have a big nose u would be so pretty” or “I would date her if she didn’t have a big nose.” It was all throughout my childhood and partially into adulthood. I had very low self esteem. I had depression. I had no confidence. I saved up money from age 16 to 24 to get my nose and chin done. And it changed everything for me. It raised my confidence and self esteem tremendously. I’m finally happy with how I look. I’m 28 now btw.

15points

E Menendez 4 years ago

If that made you happy I am happy for you.

8points

GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago

I was at a bar one night and a guy I went to high school with came up to me and said, "Hi." I had hair down to waist. He said, "Wow! You remind me if that fairy tale...I can't think of it." I said, "Rapunzle?" He said, "No. The Ugly Duckling! You were so ugly in high school but you are HOT now!" I almost punched him. I told the bartender he was taking care of my bill and I ordered the most expensive drinks I could think of. Top shelf all the way!

11points

Anna Neemus 4 years ago

I just hate how people who weren't ugly posted. Being overweight or having a bad haircut doesn't make you ugly. I don't get some of these.

7points

JamezyJamez 4 years ago

Most of these before pictures are of 12 year olds! They're not trying to be sexy. Their parents are still buying their clothes. They could care less about fashion or attracting a mate. I work at a school for kids aged 12-18. They always start out awkward and stocky and then they hit growth spurts and puberty and then they start thinking about girlfriends and boyfriends and clothes, change their hairstyle, etc. And the ones who come back and visit after graduating and heading to college have gone even further in defining their image and self. It's great and I'm happy for them. But please don't call a 12 or 14 year old ugly, nobody peaks at 12, they're kids, they're not even aware of the mountain to summit.

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Ivana 4 years ago

I saw some of my childhood photos and realized I peaked at 5. I was so damn adorable in them overalls holding my "My Little Ponies" birthday gifts. I am still attractive, but I will never reach that level of cuteness again. My husband was an 'ugly duckling' growing up. Then he hit 17 and suddenly women were interested and he thought they were just messing with him. Took him years to feel confident. Kids may look a little awkward growing up but it doesn't make them ugly and it is important to teach them positive body image because it strongly impacts your confidence as an adult. Confident people are often more successful so let them grow into their own, teach them healthy habits, and do your best to make them feel comfortable in their own skin.

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Katherine Boag 4 years ago

I also feel bad for people who post 'before' pics when they were 11 or 12. You weren't 'ugly', you were a CHILD.

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Oskar vanZandt 4 years ago (edited)

I think the majority of people in this post felt like ugly ducklings because they weren't... just pre-pubescent. Do wish that people in general wouldn't feel under pressure to conform... the 'abs thing' really gets to me. Men without washboard abs are perfectly fine, as are women without sylph-like frames. (PS primary school and high school sucked for most "non-conformist" folks- kids are *rseholes).

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Allison Chambers 4 years ago

Who else was always beautiful?

1point

John Bell 4 years ago

Whole Lotta IG filters

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Kim Bush 4 years ago

Everyone is taking the "ugly" duckling reference so literally. You do realize that phrase was taken from literature, right? The ugly ducklings turning into beautiful swans, that is the point of the whole story. Why be surprised at the term still being used when it is decades old and engrained in our psyche.

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Julie BT 120 4 years ago

People care way too much about what they look like, don't forget to work on the inside too

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Roberta Langston 4 years ago

Good luck to all.

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♥Kitty♥ 4 years ago

I wish I had a glow-up instead of a glow-down :(

1point

Sunny Topia 2 years ago

These peeps were being mentally abused by those people who are jealous of their looks. They are actually already beautiful or handsome... -_- those bullies... ughhh...

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Irene Walton 4 years ago

Love these!

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Viv Hart 4 years ago

I was a happy teen, missed 3 years of schooling due to operations post-polio, joined a class of 14 y.o.'s at age 17, wearing a back brace. Was never teased or bullied, we had a super crowd in our class, always up to mischief. Am still friends with at least 5 of them, including my secret hero, who now knows it, 50 years later!

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No You 4 years ago

This makes me excited to get older and when I’m finally the person I want to be I can do this too

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Another loser 4 years ago

im so happy for these people that they made it so that they are comfortable with their appearance!

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Carol Taylor 4 years ago

they went from being ok teenagers to O.M.G. smouldering hot adults..so if you have/know any teenagers that don't think they are fitting the mold then please tell them, it WILL get better...just keep telling them it will get better..

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sharron lynn parsons 4 years ago

This post was very interesting, it shows some young teens, that did change themselves for the better, positive attitudes, for positive improvement, teen years are very difficult for most, home life and school, can have an incredible impact, however, to see how many teens, simply need to grow and change in appearance !!!

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Jaybird3939 4 years ago

It just goes to show, not everyone hits their peak in High School. I think a lot of kids bloom later, even after college. I hope some see this and realize HS is not the be all and end all of their lives.

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Billy the kid 4 years ago

Its a shame that if you dont look gorgeous or if you wear braces or dont wear the top notch clothing you get bullied for that. Kids can be really cruel in school if you are not better than them. But you are the better one because your beauty is on the inside. Those that bully because they have the fashion clothes make up... are the ones that have no security. Take that away from them and what have they got? hmmm. My grandkids 4 + 10 go kick boxing. My daughter was bullied at school as well as myself so we made sure that they know how to defend themselves. I recommend this for those that get bullied.

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Steve Cruz 4 years ago

Instead of "Ugly Duckling," perhaps "IT GETS BETTER." Most people were awkward teens.

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Soodney 4 years ago

Yall beautiful. It's just the beauty standards back then and now.

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Mshauri Mazuri 4 years ago

They were not ugly, they were just kids.

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kjorn 4 years ago

what's great with that it's most of them would understand the value of acceptation and know what's like to be look differently or even bullied.

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Rosemari Ferreira Gebbran 4 years ago

I mean, teenage have teenagers face, round nose, round cheeks, that's that. They're no ugly before, they just change. In a new 10 years picture they will look even more different. No ugly before, no ugly after.

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Beuska 4 years ago

Weightloss, aging, a good dermatologist, and a good hairdresser is the key :) ;)

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Shinobi Shabby 4 years ago

Alot of nose jobs

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Camil Gagnon 4 years ago

I used to bee a cute kid, but puberty wrecked my body. I developped skin problems, including severe acne and dermatitis. I also had chronic digestive and respiratory issues. So going through highschool was hell and I was basically treated like I was a disabled leper. I'm 38 now and I've never been sicker. Some people never bloom.

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Cecilia Bivald 4 years ago

“We judge you for how you look so it is a good thing you changed! Now we can wonder in how you conform to current beauty ideals whilst thinking about how ugly you looked before” Loosely translated

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Stannous Flouride 4 years ago

A lot of folks commenting here seem to be unfamiliar with Hans Christian Andersen's tale "The Ugly Duckling." The odd-looking young bird is raised among ducks and looks different so is picked on and rejected by the other ducklings but in the end it is discovered that he looked different because he's a majestic swan. It's not about the duckling being ugly, it's about how it's wrong to bully someone based on the differences or looks and how it feels for that being. And in the end it's about how we're all capable of change. You're right, most of these kids were not ugly, just geeky and undeveloped. But don't forget how little it takes for a vicious pack of teenagers to turn on anyone who is different. What changes most in all of these pictures is the person's self-confidence.

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Karen Hansen 4 years ago

So basically, lose weight, cure acne, get contacts. Got it!

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Gabriela Karabinosova 4 years ago

Sooo finding style and taking care of yourself is the hidden secret? :D

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Mumof1 4 years ago (edited)

UGLY is an ugly word and should never be thrown around at people. Most kids are awkward. It takes time to gain confidence. If I thought my kid had ever bullied another I would be mortified. Treat everyone with kindness - the way YOU would like to be treated.

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miguel rodriguez 4 years ago

I was ugly as a kid and still ugly in my 40's 😝

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Jonathan Armstrong 4 years ago

Sorry for taking us away from 69 cments, but I want to see how many downvotes one post can get. That's right, I want to be downvoted. Let's get it done!

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Pearl_TheRapperLOL 4 years ago

Whoever went through and decided to dislike some of the positive things, I don't know what to say to such an idiot.

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Steven Campbell 4 years ago

To the people who look the same as they did as a kid, especially if you still have a thick waist and glasses, your hot! To all those who did change for "the better", remember how you started!

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Z. O. E. 4 years ago

People don't realize that age and maturity happens throughout life (if you allow it) and part of that means your face will change. Some, people have lost weight and that's ALL YOU! Great job on that! But the changes our bodies make throughout life is going to happen and it's always up to us if it will be a better loom or worse!

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23AClark 4 years ago

I'm happy for all of you. You've achieved what you wanted, and you look wonderful. However, I didn't see you as "ugly" before. Most if you were going through puberty, and it's not always an easy thing to go through. It takes time to mature physically and for most, mentally and emotionally as well. It's a trying time. But eventually you achieve what you wanted, to be stunning. Some may want a little extra help, but all in all, you look wonderful.

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Emy Loves 4 years ago

In all honesty, I think every human being is beautiful because I have the ability to see the whole person and not just their "shell". If their insides need help though, that is ALL that truly matters. I know so many women who I think are so pretty but they are miserable on the inside. Looks are overrated. There will be those who can honestly say these before pictures were that of an ugly duckling (terrible word!) AND the after is an ugly duckling as well. Why? Because beauty is an opinion. If more people would realize that only THEIR opinion of themselves is all that really matters, then crud like this would never be an issue for anyone. If you don't realize your own worth, please learn it. Stop placing your value on what's on the outside, and instead, what is on the inside. (of yourselves and others) And if you feel the need to post pics, then be prepared for the negative reviews because like I already stated, beauty is subjective.

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Aaliyah tartt 4 years ago

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE

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Brett Connor 4 years ago

The high school years, hormones, etc.. are a Mind F for sure. And I'm sure everyone here has the story of one of those Class re-unions when so and so showed up and they were (not the same) ha ha! many kids keep growing even after the high school years.

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m. b 4 years ago

All of you: flatzering handsome and cute! Had a few changes myself and although its not the best, im happy. But seriously, you guys remind me to work out again. Love y'all.

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yxkb 4 years ago

Orthodontists - some these pictures are good example why their work is important. Big beautiful smile is something that makes every person more beautiful.

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khag 4 years ago

yxkb -

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Paula Hannon 4 years ago

Okay being chubby as a kid does not make you ugly and who amongst us didn't have to grow out of an awkward stage, what an asinine list.

-1point

Leslie Parker 4 years ago

Wow. Talk about reinforcing the “ Pretty vs Ugly “ BS. And then in the same list of Bored Panda articles grouped together you headline some statements that represent people’s feelings of unfairness “ Pretty people have an easier life”. No small wonder that social media is filled to the brim with “ augmented “ photos of people who believe that’s what others expect. Reality, Bored Panda, is that there is a “ myth “ of what we are trained to believe is beautiful, and then what the real truth is: All of life is is wonderfully beautiful.

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Ben Smith 4 years ago

Jealous much?

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Daria Z 4 years ago

I'm really happy for them, all of them look awesome! 😍 I was an ugly duckling too and grew up into a pretty... ugly duck 🙈

-1point

Rosie Hamilton 4 years ago

Ducks are lovely! If that is your photo you are perfectly fine. We are all too hard on ourselves.

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Shopper East 4 years ago

How shallow. ;)

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no_name 4 years ago

Oh how I love this objectification that sometimes appears here. First "pretty" people turning "ugly", then "ugly" people turning "pretty". Shall we not? There're personality traits which are more important than this. And what gives us right to judge anyone just because they started or stopped caring about how they look? Each business is their own. I was bullied when i was younger solely because of my looks and I never got over it. And I despise people who put this crap before everything else. They're no better than all those bullies and on certain level they're even worse.

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lammemineshaft 4 years ago

no_name yes

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fogharty 4 years ago

What a f*cking offensive headline and column.

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Jim Ellington 4 years ago

Why do so many of these transformations involve losing weight? I thought curvy was considered beautiful nowadays.

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Jim Ellington 4 years ago

And so many of the females "improved" their look by wearing makeup. What message does that send to young girls?

-3points

thepinkrobot 4 years ago

A lot of these are pretty much just fatphobia in action. "Ugly"? No. Some were fat and now they're not, that doesn't reduce or add attraction except to a society that values thinner bodies

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Philipp Blum 4 years ago

50% of these are angle and better photography skills.

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Biljana Malesevic 4 years ago (edited)

81points

Dorothy Parker 4 years ago

Excellent response. My thoughts too.

22points

Tracy 4 years ago

Thank you. You phrased that much more eloquently than I could have.

11points

Luisa Vasconcelos 4 years ago

And is sending the wrong message to all the kids reading this, that are actually looking like the old picture

10points

Beans 4 years ago (edited)

5points

E Menendez 4 years ago

4points

Pearl_TheRapperLOL 4 years ago

Hey Rok-dumbas$ nobody thinks you're funny so could you do me a favor and shut up?

3points

Chez 4 years ago

2points

Emy Loves 4 years ago

2points

Denny Wilkerson Corsa 1 week ago

agreed - many of these were cute kids, teens, or young adults who lost weight, started wearing makeup, and the like.

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Monday Fuss 4 years ago

My word exactly,I just didn't have the energy to type it all down, lol.

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Cosmo 4 years ago

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austinwww 4 years ago

Biljana Malesevic easy

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MiniMaus 4 years ago

30points

Felix Feline 4 years ago

19points

Deson 4 years ago

2points

Emy Loves 4 years ago

2points

Liz Butt 1 month ago

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Mimi777 4 years ago

15points

E Menendez 4 years ago

If that made you happy I am happy for you.

8points

GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago

11points

Anna Neemus 4 years ago

I just hate how people who weren't ugly posted. Being overweight or having a bad haircut doesn't make you ugly. I don't get some of these.

7points

JamezyJamez 4 years ago

6points

Ivana 4 years ago

4points

Katherine Boag 4 years ago

I also feel bad for people who post 'before' pics when they were 11 or 12. You weren't 'ugly', you were a CHILD.

3points

Oskar vanZandt 4 years ago (edited)

3points

Allison Chambers 4 years ago

Who else was always beautiful?

1point

John Bell 4 years ago

Whole Lotta IG filters

1point

Kim Bush 4 years ago

1point

Julie BT 120 4 years ago

People care way too much about what they look like, don't forget to work on the inside too

1point

Roberta Langston 4 years ago

Good luck to all.

1point

♥Kitty♥ 4 years ago

I wish I had a glow-up instead of a glow-down :(

1point

Sunny Topia 2 years ago

These peeps were being mentally abused by those people who are jealous of their looks. They are actually already beautiful or handsome... -_- those bullies... ughhh...

0points

Irene Walton 4 years ago

Love these!

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Viv Hart 4 years ago

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No You 4 years ago

This makes me excited to get older and when I’m finally the person I want to be I can do this too

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Another loser 4 years ago

im so happy for these people that they made it so that they are comfortable with their appearance!

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Carol Taylor 4 years ago

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sharron lynn parsons 4 years ago

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Jaybird3939 4 years ago

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Billy the kid 4 years ago

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Steve Cruz 4 years ago

Instead of "Ugly Duckling," perhaps "IT GETS BETTER." Most people were awkward teens.

0points

Soodney 4 years ago

Yall beautiful. It's just the beauty standards back then and now.

0points

Mshauri Mazuri 4 years ago

They were not ugly, they were just kids.

0points

kjorn 4 years ago

what's great with that it's most of them would understand the value of acceptation and know what's like to be look differently or even bullied.

0points

Rosemari Ferreira Gebbran 4 years ago

0points

Beuska 4 years ago

Weightloss, aging, a good dermatologist, and a good hairdresser is the key :) ;)

0points

Shinobi Shabby 4 years ago

Alot of nose jobs

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Camil Gagnon 4 years ago

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Cecilia Bivald 4 years ago

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Stannous Flouride 4 years ago

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Karen Hansen 4 years ago

So basically, lose weight, cure acne, get contacts. Got it!

0points

Gabriela Karabinosova 4 years ago

Sooo finding style and taking care of yourself is the hidden secret? :D

0points

Mumof1 4 years ago (edited)

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miguel rodriguez 4 years ago

I was ugly as a kid and still ugly in my 40's 😝

0points

Jonathan Armstrong 4 years ago

Sorry for taking us away from 69 cments, but I want to see how many downvotes one post can get. That's right, I want to be downvoted. Let's get it done!

0points

Pearl_TheRapperLOL 4 years ago

Whoever went through and decided to dislike some of the positive things, I don't know what to say to such an idiot.

0points

Steven Campbell 4 years ago

To the people who look the same as they did as a kid, especially if you still have a thick waist and glasses, your hot! To all those who did change for "the better", remember how you started!

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Z. O. E. 4 years ago

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23AClark 4 years ago

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Emy Loves 4 years ago

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Aaliyah tartt 4 years ago

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE

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Brett Connor 4 years ago

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m. b 4 years ago

All of you: flatzering handsome and cute! Had a few changes myself and although its not the best, im happy. But seriously, you guys remind me to work out again. Love y'all.

0points

yxkb 4 years ago

Orthodontists - some these pictures are good example why their work is important. Big beautiful smile is something that makes every person more beautiful.

0points

khag 4 years ago

yxkb -

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Paula Hannon 4 years ago

Okay being chubby as a kid does not make you ugly and who amongst us didn't have to grow out of an awkward stage, what an asinine list.

-1point

Leslie Parker 4 years ago

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Ben Smith 4 years ago

Jealous much?

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Daria Z 4 years ago

I'm really happy for them, all of them look awesome! 😍 I was an ugly duckling too and grew up into a pretty... ugly duck 🙈

-1point

Rosie Hamilton 4 years ago

Ducks are lovely! If that is your photo you are perfectly fine. We are all too hard on ourselves.

1point

Shopper East 4 years ago

How shallow. ;)

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no_name 4 years ago

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lammemineshaft 4 years ago

no_name yes

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fogharty 4 years ago

What a f*cking offensive headline and column.

-2points

Jim Ellington 4 years ago

Why do so many of these transformations involve losing weight? I thought curvy was considered beautiful nowadays.

-3points

Jim Ellington 4 years ago

And so many of the females "improved" their look by wearing makeup. What message does that send to young girls?

-3points