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Say please and thank you. Make eye contact when having a conversation. Respect other people’s personal space. And please, never ever speak loudly on your phone when in a small, shared space.

Social norms are incredibly powerful. They let us know that we might not want to speak and behave the same way around our bosses that we do around our best friends, and they help us travel via public transit without infuriating all of our fellow passengers. There are plenty of unspoken rules that make our lives simpler, but there might be some that you disagree with as well. Just because society tells you something is right or wrong doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to question it.

Reddit users have recently been sharing examples of things society considers to be bad that are actually perfectly normal, so we’ve gathered a list of their most spot-on responses below. From circumstances we all experience to harmless behaviors that shouldn't carry any moral weight, this list is full of reminders that sometimes society’s rules are just arbitrary. Enjoy devouring this food for thought, and don't forget to upvote the replies featuring things you’d like to normalize as well!

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45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Assisted suicide. If your pet does not have a good prognosis your vet will recommend putting them to sleep. Why do we make humans suffer to the bitter end? Sure, we give them medicine to make them comfortable, but why extend that timeframe if they nothing left to do? They made their will, they said goodbye, now they wait and run up a bill for their family to pay?? If you have terminal illness, you should be able to die with dignity.

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Lord of the laserprinter.
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Run up a bill to die, what an American sentence.

DuchessDegu
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's NOT the point of the post. Even with free healthcare people should be able to decide if they've had enough

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Yes yes
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely! My death is my right and not the other way around. So many people in agony and yet make them shameful and criminalized for choosing to end their own suffering. This is so hypocritical...

Bla Blubb
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My gramps had severe cancer in the stomach (i don't know the details, i was 10 at that time). He only told us when he collapsed. After that, he had two weeks left to life. He couldn't even lift a finger and was in such excrutiating pain that even the morphium did not really help. He begged to die, and we couldn't help him. No one could. It was really awful. He was not the greatest person, not at all. But this kind of suffer i wouldn't even wish for my biggest enemy. Every dog would have been put to sleep in an instant. He had to suffer two weeks! That's why i support assisted suicide completely. He could have gone far sooner without so much pain. I think going by will is far more humane than letting someone suffer just because.

Karin Jansen
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's so awful... Why not help the poor man? This form of euthanasia (when a person is suffering without hopes for healing) is totally normal in my country. I honestly don't understand why you wouldn't help 'speed up' the process a little and avoid someone going through all the pain you just described.

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Snorky The Pig
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because the modern medical industry loves it! They suck out all the gold they can and don't care about our pain. American medicine is not a hospital with doctors trying to help people anymore (don't know if it ever was.) It is a business, a corrupt corporation, with the exception of a select few good hearts.

Anne Reid
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And even if the wishes are made clear, they still ignore them! My husband & I (he was a cop, I’m an EMT, so we’ve seen terrible things) both made out our end of life orders. He got terribly sick suddenly. I signed NEW orders not to resuscitate at the hospital, as he went into organ failure. Went home to take care of our pets & get a bit of sleep. Woke up to a phone call…they’d been doing CPR for an hour! I had to drive there and sign MORE papers to get them to stop. It was a Christian hospital, they shrugged.

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Aldhissla VargTimmen
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep, I often say we are more human to animals when it comes to this.

Paul Macdonell
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And....many times the pain is not controllable by medication.

Powerful Katrinka
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or they withhold sufficient medication because... reasons. That's what the doctors did to my mom, and none of them could give us an explanation. She was begging my father to smother her.

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Mickysixxx
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With the right stops in place I 100% agree. Just gotta make sure it can't be taken advantage of by people with nefarious motives

Junebugjump!
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There should be no stops. We should just be able to say I'm done. I own my body and can make decisions for it. Depressed, mentally ill, even then. You want a permanent solution, here you go. Why should anyone else's opinion matter?

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The Darkest Timeline
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It has to do with bad-faith slippery-slope arguments along the lines of, “If we allow assisted suicide as an option, we’ll start telling grandma to off herself just to save money on care.” I guess if your thought process is that juvenile you might reach that conclusion but it’s a lot more nuanced than given credit for. One thing is for sure: if profit weren’t a part of the healthcare industry, that argument would lose any value it does have.

Ovata Acronicta
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need your post to be higher. It's all about people getting up in their feelings and creating these bad-faith arguments. It can sometimes be pure selfishness: I don't want my grandma deciding to end her life although very little of it is now worth living, because *I* will miss her. But a selfless act is to give up that decision and feeling, understand, and support the person who desires MAID - with that decision made, the quality of life can be enjoyed until the decided end, a nicer end than what terminal cancer will bring upon her.

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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Mom died of pancreatic cancer in 2011. I took care of her at the end on home hospice. She was too good a person to suffer like that at the end. I planned to give her all the morphine that was left at her 7am med time. Just to end her and the families suffering. She died at 6:30am

Riley Quinn
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And, if we didn't have a bunch of yellow-bellied legislators kowtowing to the fanatical religious mobs, we would have our dignity. This won't happen until the US government follows the Constitution and kicks religion out of politics.

Robert I
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are correct, SEPARATE RELIGION AND POLITICS! and tax churches!!!

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K- THULU
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Luckily, the laws have just come into effect in my state..... I've got cancer and it's actually a great comfort to know I have that choice if I need it.....

Id row
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Society: "They're suffering, it's the humane thing to do." Me: "Oh, ok. My grandmother is suffering from a terminal illness and is in a lot of pain, can we put her to sleep?" Society: "yOu MoNsTeR! yOu wAnT tO mUrDeR yOuR gRaNdMoThEr?!?"

Rhonda Wandler
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Canada it is legal now, done in a controlled setting.

Karin Jansen
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same for the Netherlands, in cases where there is 'uitzichtloos lijden' (which means something along the lines of suffering without any hopes of recovery).

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Burnt Bagel
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You should be able to die with dignity if you want period. The government should have absolutely no say in it.

BoredDisneyPrincess
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every time this subject comes up, I like to recommend Terry Pratchett's essay "Shaking hands with death." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90b1MBwnEHM&t=1999s

Cathy Lemay
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have a friend who did choose this after a diagnoses of an inoperable brain tumour. I would choose this myself if I knew my situation was similar. Honestly, my cats have had a better end of life than so many of my family members. We have a very good support system in our province...thank goodness.

Miss Frankfurter
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Canada we have MAID. Medically assisted intentional death. It is monitored and a process, just to be sure. But you don’t have to jump through hoops either. For instance, if you are diagnosed with ALS, you know your future. You can, at any point notify the program and discuss everything that is your wishes. There is a further process, but you get to choose when you’ve had enough.

Chris Landrum
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read somewhere that like 80% of our medical expenses is spent on the last 20 years of people's lives?

KM
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BTW, I've been a German citizen and American citizen. Healthcare is better in Germany, prompt effective care. America make an appointment 2 months out and wait for doctor to write an order for the x-ray I need..good luck. We are better not to know better. In Germany doctor visit same day lab work and X-ray, then return to the doctor and get results and prescriptions needed for my condition. All within 2 hours out the door. American pride, keep our heads deep in the sand because only the rich people report nothing is wrong with the system and they're always right. How do you know the other systems don't work? Have you lived in Germany on their system? I have, I am American. I know, I did it. But, whatever you do believe the news over me. The news people that report only negative stories because that's all we want to hear. Even if, it's something that happens infrequently, we want to believe that over the norm. We want to believe the worst of others over the honest truth. Yep, I said it!

R Dennis
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a degenerative muscle disease (think MD meets ALS). Not fatal per se, but eventually bedridden and completely dependent upon others for everything in life. It also hit me 10 years earlier than the "early" cases. I am in America and have some really good insurance... but I will not suffer through that point. Even without debt, I will make that decision for myself when the time comes. The amount of hoops and tricks I need to have dignity at the end of my life is appalling.

Paulo Freitas
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thissssss, Im passionate about this topic, i rather die swifly and in peace, that having to spend the rest of my life in a bed not being able to move, or slowly wasting away untill i finaly die, and don't you f*****g dare to bring religion in to this argument, religion means s**t in a secular country.

Cindy Olson
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My living will doesn’t allow lifesaving interventions- they can’t even feed me if I forget to eat. They’ll force us to suffer vs allowing nature to take its course.

Amanda Lalonde
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandmother did this because after the cancer treatment didn't work she didn't want us(the family) to have to watch her deteriorate before she passed. My dad got upset at first but once I was able to get through to him he understood.

Manny_Flawz
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who watched his friend of 46 years die a slow, miserable death from cancer, I agree.

Lena
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait ur family has to pay your hospital bills once you're dead?

Jacqueline Quackenbush
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I Feel The Same As I Do About Drugs. Decriminalization Not Legalization. Get The Government And Attendant Agencies Out Of It All Together. Sweden (Or Maybe Switzerland??) Has An In Home Suicide Pod. Normalize That To The Point That Every Home (Including Rentals) Comes With One And Maybe We'd Be Getting Somewhere??

smugdruggler
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Less tough when you've watched someone you love die from cancer.

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John G
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my great aunt finally died she had been bed ridden for at least 5 years. She wasn't coherent and didn't know what was going on. She was probably less than 80lbs when she finally died. I remember family saying s**t like, "She must still have work to do on earth". Really? She's going to magically get up one day and Rambo or something.

BeaBea
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can't because "dYiNg is BaD" ....(said no dead person ever, BTW) No, because what if they "FiNd tHe cUrE fOr iT neXt mOnTh, oR nExT yEaR" No because it's"UnEtHiCaL" "JuSt tRy tHe TrEaTmEnT, YoU miGhT sUrViVe"

Remi (He/Him)
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Grand uncle died of lung cancer that metastasized into his bones. He was in excruciating pain in the end, but what we all know is that some sympathetic nurse or doctor disabled the limits on his morphine pump. He held on until he could see his grandkids and then medicated the pain away. I wish these kinds of things wouldn't need to be done in secret

Adam Zad
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's more profitable to treat than to cure.

Elizabeth Huérfano
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could upvote this a hundred tomes!

Rider
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Assisted suicide for terminal illness and life in prison without chance of parole. Educate and counsel then let them decide.

Elchinero
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What states allow this? Asking for a "friend".

Powerful Katrinka
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

9 states (CA, CO, HI, ME, NJ, NM, OR, VT, and WA) and DC legalized Medical Aid in Dying (MAID) via legislation 1 state (MT) has legal Medical Aid in Dying (MAID) via court ruling. This is a good resource: https://euthanasia.procon.org/states-with-legal-physician-assisted-suicide/

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DAN COOK
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some states allow you to euthanize people but there is certain criteria that has to be met first

paola gallegos
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some states in the us allow assisted suicide. Nevada is one of them.

Robert I
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend of mine just did exactly this. It is possible in some states. It should be allowed every where. Esp for dementia, Alzheimer's, or just plain old age. Racking up huge costs in Old folks homes with money that could go to the family is ridiculous

emin kılıçaslan
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weirdly I was just talking about that with my dad. This guy Hisashi Ouchi is the extrem of people try to make you save no matter how bad your wellbeing is, well at that point, his case was more of an experiment.

Katie Howerton
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish we could have it. I watched my dad struggle at the end and not get the care he needed at the nursing home and watch him die as a shell of himself. I hope by the time I'm ready to die it's legal so I don't have to suffer like he did.

Jon Hodges
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"...if you have terminal illness..." Totally agree on this. Unfortunately there are now many notable cases of medical assistance with completely treatable and otherwise non-deadly things like depression. This is sick and terrifying.

Becky Jacinto Diaz
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not all depression is treatable. There is a portion of the population (myself included) that is considered treatment resistant. Ive suffered for 20 years with debilitating depression and Ive tried everything available to me besides ECT (that will be my next course of treatment) Ive been on at least 40 different medications, ketamine, microdosing, bufo toad medicine and many more alternative treatments. Unfortunately I just dont respond to treatment or it stops working. Ive been almost catatonic at points and i know people who are much worse off than I am. My dr’s say I may need to just accept this is how my life will always be. I’m not looking to die yet but honestly theres no way I can live the rest of my life this way. Im not living, Im existing.

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Ana Sabana
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful american health system…

Hailah
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Prolonging their lives only prolong their indignity AND suffering. What's to say they don't feel pain, emotionally or physically. They're vegetating and that's it.

D Peterson
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it's because many people are not happy unless they are telling others how to live (or die.) Also it comes from religion & the church. Apparently suffering is supposed to be good for us & gets us into heaven. BS! Another way reason to control everything. We're not asking them to die, we just want the right to make the decision to live or die for ourselves.

Shoshana Sherrington
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you saw someone about to jump off a bridge you'd try to stop them or you'd be an awful person. Someone would have to be truly terminal for me to entertain this as a moral thing. And it should not be medicalized, that is the opposite of do no harm. Everyone knows painless ways to commit suicide but if we start letting doctors lethally inject us I fear where we go from there

Nicola Koh
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2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the irony is that many people wouldn't have to choose an "unnatural" death if modern society wasnt obsessed with extending life by any means possible, no matter the cost or actual benefit

Jaekry
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see this sometimes, a cat or dog, just so so tired and in pain. Even paralyzed sometimes. Can't eat or drink, or play. That's not a quality of life. When I suggested it might be better to let go, all hell broke loose. I was the devil and a murderer. Like what?? Are you ffing blind? That's it's hard, I get it, but they are just being selfish at one point.

Celeste Grant
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was really sick I thought a lot about the right to assisted suicide. It's very hard to know where to draw that line. But we should be talking more about it. The government in the U.K. tried to pass an assisted death law but it wasn't successful. I do think that people are helped to die; it's just done at the very end of life to prevent suffering with increased pain meds. But in places like Switzerland you can pay to end your own life i if you fit into the very strict criteria- I think it's the Gravias clinics if anyone wants to know more.

SaraJean
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Death with Dignity campaign, it is legal in California, Colorado, the District of Columbia, Hawaii, Maine, New Jersey, New Mexico, Oregon, Vermont, or Washington. Wish it was everywhere.

Jenny Fullerton
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Assisted Suicide is Legal in my state of Victoria Australia and I am grateful that our politicians has the good sense to allow it to happen .

Peeka_Mimi
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thankfully in Colorado Dr assisted suicide is legal if you're terminally ill.

Illustrious G
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who has cared for injured wildlife, oftentimes the kindest thing to do would be to give the animal “the gift of death”. Why can’t we extend that kindness and HUMANITY to, you know, humans?

Catherine Wigorski
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Canada you don’t qualify for MAID if you have Alzheimer’s or Dementia

BoredPandaSucks
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I say even without terminal illness, if you are just ready to go for any reason, you should have options that won't leave you for someone to find a horrific "surprise" one day

wyngerd
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ohh must be USA it says "bill for the family to pay".

Edgar Rops
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Pets don't make wills. Nor have any other rights and obligations under law. It is one huge slippery slope that one. Too much room for abuse.

Crocodile
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You missed the point. Would you like to suffer painfully for days. Because if you have a deadly disease or problem the doctors probably won't do much except keep you as long as you can while you writhe in horrible pain while friends and family observe you in that state which hurts them too. They would be traumatized and not be able to do anything to help they feel guilty and helpless. All because of you, your stubborn, arrogant thought process and refusing to be euthanized. Also sometimes it's not your decision it's the family's or doctor's decision.

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KM
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No thank you! I don't want to drugged to death. I hate the way drugs make me feel. Also, if you're I'll why would a doctor try to keep you alive if they could just drug you to death. Hospitals don't get paid very often by the dying, they can just drug you to death. So much more affordable able than trying to keep you alive. Just killem, so much more affordable. They're on a ventilator? Just euthanize them, breathing trials to get them breathing on their own. That takes lots of time. Tell the patient it's hopeless and euthanize them, it's cheaper. Look that one doesn't look happy..maybe it's time. I just can't watch them suffer any longer. Ok, so now we put you to sleep, if having you around bothers us. Look!! It looks like she's suffering. Just give her the shot. Nope. There are many people that wish they were dead. Not me. There are people that would like to be killed. Not me. Drugs no thank you. Life is pain, a pain that I have lived with many decades. I'm okay.

KM
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I'm not going to make it easier for any institution to euthanize me. I'll die, I promise, but not by being euthanized by you. We will all die and that's fine. Dignity comes from the person you are to the end. If I die while pooping, well, that's how I came into this world. I'm not arrogant enough to think everyone should die with their boots on. I know how the cycle of life runs. We come in and exit, not with our ego issues, but by the grace given to us. It's not easy, but it shouldn't be..

Junebugjump!
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What institution would do this to you? Are you creating problems that aren't there?

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    #12

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Cultural appropriation. The spread of a culture to people groups who are outside the originating culture is a good thing.

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    Mulberry Juice
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as they aren’t mocking or insulting the people and their culture, there shouldn’t be a problem

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    #13

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Talk about your salary. This literally just exist so that the working class doesn't talk about unbalanced wages and starts to question their bosses

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    Icecream Sarang
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pssssstttt Americans: It’s actually illegal for companies to forbid you from talking about your salary. Violates your right to Unionize or something obscure.

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    #14

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Using social services. It is what they are there for, and you helped pay for them.

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    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “I don’t want my tax dollars being used to pay for lazy people! Just get a job!” - Most, if not all Republicans.

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    #15

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Men having emotions

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    Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men having emotions other than anger, women being angry or being unemotional. It's like men are only allowed to be either angry or unemotional and women must feel some feelings but it must not be anger.

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    #16

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Being lazy, there is nothing wrong with spending the whole weekend just playing video games and watching movies! As long as you don't neglect your kids or pets during that time who cares what you did on the weekends or after work!

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    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess if you don't live with anyone else and you aren't neglecting other responsibilities that you have, then there's nothing wrong with it.

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    #17

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online sex education for people younger than the age of expected sexual activity

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    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some girls get their period at 8 or 9. Should at least start teaching kids about puberty then. Even if one kid starts puberty later, they will be around kids who go through it earlier and all kids should know about it.

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    #18

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Politicians changing their minds when presented with new information.

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    #19

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Failing. Failing does not mean you are a failure. Just means you tried something and it didn't work out right. It is very possible that "Those who never failed also never tried." is true.

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    Colin L
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always tell my students "making mistakes isn't failure. How will you learn if you can't make any mistakes?"

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    #20

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Doing things (like going to a restaurant) alone

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    SuperChicken
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's wrong with going to a restaurant alone? Let alone, doing things alone?

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    #21

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Piracy for incredibly old movies/games etc. If its no longer available, then it should be encouraged if anything.

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    AndThenICommented
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny- I never thought of games and movies not entering the public domain. Something to think about

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    #22

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Admitting you were wrong

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    #23

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online **One example** of something that society considers to be bad but is not inherently so is aging. While aging is often associated with decline and loss, it can also bring wisdom, maturity, and a greater appreciation for life. It is often how society views aging and the cultural attitudes toward the elderly that are negative, not the process itself.

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    Henrik Schmidt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're not allowed to age now? What the hell else are you going to do?

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    #24

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Poverty. Have you noticed how most people treat those who make little money? Yes, there are some hard-core slackers who don't want to work, but most people work their asses off to make a living, and it's not because of laziness, but because of social or health reasons. It is worth remembering that one day you make fun of the poor, and the next day you are begging for your own bread. Be kind!

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    DebB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop blaming the poor. They get blamed for many social problems.

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    #25

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Not tipping workers who do basic stuff like handing me a cup of coffee or a takeout bag. It’s okay to not want to pay 20% for just handing me stuff I bought.

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    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The issue is that at least in the US, they have set up a really crazy system where people like e.g. waiter has been allowed to "setup their own business inside a restaurant" rather than being paid staff by the restaurant owner. They are paid so little that they must rely on being able to be paid in tips, so you are basically making them work almost for free if you don't tip them, and that is not fair either. I like the european model more where the pay for the waiters are determined in advance and added to the price of the meal, so they don't have to gamble on your mercy.

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    #26

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Voluntary celibacy. People act like you're missing out, or wierd just because you don't want to have sex.

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    #27

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Breastfeeding in public

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    Premislaus de Colo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breastfeeding in public should be banned, but only after eating in public is banned, because that's what breastfeeding actually is - giving food to your child.

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    #28

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Not working 24/7 or participating in the “hustle culture”

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    SuperChicken
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to work for someone, who would frown on us whenever we leave on time. He thinks that we're not being "loyal" if we didn't stay late. A hostile work environment, too. Thank goodness, it didn't take long for me to find a different job, where it wasn't as stressful. We did some overtime, when need be, but not all the time.

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    #29

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Not having kids. Stop asking people, you never know what they’re going through, and it’s nobody’s business.

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    SuperChicken
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As I've said before, having children is not for everybody. For some, it might be as personal as having some medical issues. Really, it's nobody's business.

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    #30

    Cutting off your parents/family if they're toxic.

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    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your relationships are your choice :) it's not for anyone else to say

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    #32

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Talking to yourself.

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    Snorky The Pig
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it normal to have imaginary friends too? Asking for a friend.

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    #33

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Having disagreements. Totally normally to disagree with people. It’s even more normal to disagree with your friends and still remain friends.

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    Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I beg to differ. I am not going to stay friends with people who have different opinions on women's and LGBTIQ-rights or are racist.

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    #34

    Being comfortable enough to relax and find enjoyment at home. You shouldn’t need to constantly leave your home to find enjoyment. It’s not bad to spend those staying home without going out shopping, to restaurants, to special events etc. there’s nothing wrong with relaxing at home

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    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i try to never leave the house. seriously, i love it here.

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    #35

    Taking things that have been discarded but are perfectly good.

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    Marion Goriak
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I lived downtown, it went like this: Good stuff - laundry room. Less good? hanging around the dumpster for the divers. Only total garbage went in the dumpster. I live in a small town now - Good stuff - posted to town facebook page. Less good? donate to thrift. Only total garbage sent to landfill. Reduce, reuse, recycle, love your mother Earth.

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    #36

    A lack of professional ambition.

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    Tuna Fish
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One million upvotes. Yes I am smart and educated, that does not mean I want to live a life of ladder climbing that is just a vicious cycle of stepping on other people to make some owner stupid rich. My life is for me to live. F**k everyone and everything else.

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    #37

    Free healthcare

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    Diana Pahule
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer to call it getting more value for my taxes.

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    #38

    Cursing and nudity. Especially in US. You people are so prude

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    JoMeBee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drives me insane that sex and nudity are taboo but guns and violence are A-OK in the US...

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    #39

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Knowledge, apparently. Seems like educating others and speaking on a topic you are certified to speak in is an offense to them somehow, so they think you're speaking down to them if you disagree with them.

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    ForThePeople
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is common, especially in the USA. If you are not a conspiracy theorist who believes in every stupid thing known to man, you are a sheep

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    #40

    Sensitive straight guys

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    SuperChicken
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The stupid machismo image that society led many of us to believe that men are not "real" men, if they're sensitive🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

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    #41

    Helping others and gaining nothing from it. I don't mean like charity work but if I come across someone in need that might just need to talk to someone I don't mind being that person. Have a few friends that are baffled by that idea that I don't need anything in return to help.

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    RedPepper
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people think that human relationships are purely transactional. Sad.

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    #42

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Providing help to pedophiles so they don't commit crimes.

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    Ches Yamada
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pedophilia does not mean someone is automatically an abuser. We need to stop harmful media portraying every single person out there with an illness as a criminal. For this, it needs to be treated, but people who have it *won't* get help if they're afraid they will be destroyed by word getting out that they have said illness. There are far more people with this that never harm any children their entire lives than those who do. This is backed by scientific research and studies, but the moment anyone tries to say not *all* these people are monsters, they're vilified themselves. We need to let them get help. Maybe one day we can track down something, somehow, that stops this, and we need to try to help those that have it to do that.

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    #43

    Abortions.

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    Ari (they/them)
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is probably going to get a lot of replies/backlash but this needs to be said: People deserve the right to make choices about their health on their own. They don't need a government/society telling them that they can't be free to make their own decisions. (btw, parents make most*, if not all decisions regarding their child's health). *edit-typo

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    #44

    Being single.

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    i_like_boats
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    all of my friends date, but I don’t need to! Poetry and novels instead!

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    #45

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Showing affection.

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    Katie Lutesinger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not a tactile person or one for showing a lot of affection, but one day when a friend gave me some really sad news I just went over to her and held her hand, and later on she said just how much that meant to her.

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    #46

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Not going to college.

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    Mickysixxx
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never went to college but I live in Australia lol

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    #47

    Talking about nightmares/suicidal thoughts. "oH donT sAY thaT"

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    Samuel Pelatan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, it can be tought to ear. Maybe when talking about heavy subject make sure the person you are talking to can manage them ?

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    #48

    Social welfare… lots of countries, developed ones with real economies are quite happy with it. Yes, higher taxes, but if those funds actually take care of real needs, most gladly pay.

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    Mickysixxx
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in Australia and I have no problem with my tax dollars helping out people that need it. Believe it or not the way the economy works you need poor people. If you want to avoid inflation you need a certain percentage of people not making money otherwise if everybody is making the same amount and doing well then the money isn't worth anything. Rich people sook about helping poor people without realising its the poor that make them rich. We need a better system

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    #49

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Making mistakes. I've f****d up a lot in my life, A LOT, but I've learned from it, grown, and become a better person than I would have been if I'd never made those poor choices. Making mistakes isn't bad, choosing to not learn from them is. Edit: this got more traction than I expected, so let me explain. I'm a recovering alcoholic. I did a LOT of damage to my family and friends during my drinking days. The fact that I realized it was wrong doesn't magically absolve me of that, nor do I think it should. But I grew from those mistakes. My wife is the first one to point out that I'm a better person/husband/father *now* than I ever was before I developed a drinking problem. I'm a firm believer that it's important to offer people hope that they can grow from their poor choices, because if we can't then what's the point of stopping them if we're equally awful forever either way? Edit 2: no, I never killed anyone drunk driving, I was just an emotionally absent, angry, rude, selfish, unhelpful a*****e who blew an insane amount of money (that we didn't have) on booze. Before my drinking problem, adequate was good enough for me. I was an adequate son/husband/father/friend for most of my life, and when I was drinking I was an awful one of all those things. Today I strive to be the best I can be of all of those things, but without my low point in the middle I would have stayed on my "this is good *enough*" path for my entire life. And if anyone else out there is struggling with alcoholism, just know that there's hope on the other side.

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    Mickysixxx
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I made heaps and have made a career out of it now. I was expelled from every high school I went to and ended up in a behavioural school prototype (run by Christian youth workers and we did a school certificate equivalent from TAFE). The biggest one was getting charged with armed robbery as a 17yr old (I held up 3 guys with a pipe). I admitted to the crime and had it downgraded to robbery in company with a 3yr behaviour bond but no conviction recorded. Fast forward 20yrs and I have now studied and become the Aboriginal and Family Liaison in a school for at risk teens. I have completed studies in Youth work, Agriculture, Horticulture and Training and Assessing so I teach the students Cutlural Education and Horticulture were they receive a Certificate II in Horticulture when they leave school. Turns out it does take one to know one lol

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    #50

    Atheism, according to a recent poll.

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    Liam Walsh
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What recent poll? Atheism is not ipso facto bad. People can do bad things under all sorts of theories, ideologies etc. Not believing in a god telling you what to do or not to do doesn't make a person automatically a moral-free zone.

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    #51

    Governments providing basic healthcare and welfare

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    Colin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Torn here on the welfare because I've seen generational welfare where parents are teaching their children not to work because they can get free money. I agree basic welfare should be provided but it shouldn't be a career.

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    #52

    Asking for help

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    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asking is one thing. Being heard is another. Need both.

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    #53

    Being shy or quiet.

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    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or being shy or quiet, but then labeled as “stand-offish” or “snobby.”

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    #54

    Not having a romantic relationship

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    ForThePeople
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Single should not be an insult. Neither should gay. Grow up, people.

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    #55

    As someone working in the conservation field two big ones for me are • Cutting down trees • Using herbicides The lorax and save the rainforest got everyone all f****d up on that first one, and now most of our oak woodlands are giving way to late-successional forests, or becoming homogenized with no canopy gaps. That's great habitat for some stuff, but a lot of animals depend on the structural diversity and/or composition of disturbance-based forests. For the second one, people equate any herbicide use with blanket spraying used in agriculture. Invasive species are a huge detriment to biodiversity, and the scale of the problem is often not really solvable, or at least not efficiently, with non-chemical means. The longer I stay in this field, the more I learn that armchair naturalists and true treehuggers are some of the worst allies. They have just as bad a grasp on nuance and ecology as loggers and farmers in a lot of cases.

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    Icecream Sarang
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes for hunting, as well. Controlled sustainable hunting is beneficial to an ecosystem.

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    #56

    Talking yourself up. I feel like every time I try to compliment myself I get hit with an eye roll and a “wow, how very humble of you” In reality I have low self esteem, and I’m just trying to give my self positive words of affirmation to help boost my low self confidence. I don’t see what’s so bad about that

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    bloominglymphnode
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is also perfectly fine to share what we're struggling with. I will put in a lot of effort to help someone who shares their struggles.

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    #57

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online GMOs. If we want to feed 9+ billion people without destroying the Earth, and exacerbating the 6th mass extinction, we are going to need GMOs.

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    Mickysixxx
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GMO means we can grow drought resistant crops, we're gonna need them

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    #58

    Women choosing not to have kids.

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    #59

    Not being married or having children by a certain age. Dedicating time to yourself for self care, mental health and overall wellbeing. For some reason people think that’s wrong and that you should work until you die. The whole live to work concept is daunting.

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    #60

    This may be controversial…. Men. Yes, there are some really awful men out there. Contrarily, there are some men in my life who have shown me great companionship, men who I have incredible relationships with. And by relationships, I mean strictly on a friendship level or family. There are also men who I have dated who I have the utmost respect for as well. Just because things don’t work out doesn’t mean it is solely because of him or his gender. It’s a two way street. I am always taken back but the outright disdain for men online. Imagine if the script were reversed. Imagine trying to walk this world a decent man when you are constantly being beaten down. I just think males and females make a great team when they work together. Are there bad men out there? Yes. Are there bad women out there? Also yes. Being s****y is part of human nature.

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    Mick Casey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This ^^ I fully agree. We need women's rights more than ever but that doesn't mean we can beat down men.

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    #61

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Skilled labor or working in the trades. Mental health care.

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    #62

    Caring about your own mental health.

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    Mickysixxx
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its a double edged sword unfortunately. When your suffering from, say, depression, you're much less likely to seek help without outside influence because you feel you deserve to feel like s**t because your a s****y friend/partner/parent/whatever. In saying that YOU are the only person that can help you in the end. You have to go to your appointments (change therapist if you don't like them, and you don't like anyone atm), take your meds and put on a brave face. So much easier said than done

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    #63

    Casual consensual safe sex

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    #64

    Being comfortable and happy being alone.

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    #65

    Customizing your body the way you want. This includes getting hormone supplements, hormone replacement therapy, birth control implants/IUDs, vasectomies/hysterectomies, tattoos, and any other form of elective implant, cosmetic surgery, etc. As long as you’re provided with—and fully aware of—the risks and side effects, you should be able to have anything you want done, even if other people consider it “ugly” or “detrimental” or “harmful” or “mutilation”, or whatever other negative terms they want to throw at you. Freedom of expression and bodily autonomy are human rights.

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    eeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .......As long as you are of an age to understand the consequences, sure.

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    #66

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Sticking around through hard times. Sometimes it's not toxic, people are just flailing cause they need help, and if you help you may find a very loyal and worthwhile relationship.

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    Mickysixxx
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just called being a mate, jerks kick you when your down

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    #67

    Using “swear” words.

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    Katie Lutesinger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not according to the f*****g BP censor, though. :p

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    #68

    Autism

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    Arcana
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...As a high functioning autistic I totally agree, we need more support

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    #69

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online Still living with your parents in your 20's/30's.

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    Mickysixxx
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No thanks, I love my mum but I am not moving back

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    #70

    Being ugly

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    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I`m not sure what is meant by this one. But if this means not conforming to the accepted norms of what is considered beautiful, then I agree.

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    #71

    Critical thinking

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    #72

    Sex work Universal basic income Recreational drug use

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    Ches Yamada
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just want to try something that might help my illness and anxiety! But people whine that it's "bad" - well, why can I kill myself by drinking, smoking regular cigarrettes or eating then?

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    #73

    Psychedelics

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    LillieMean
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a lot of researched information about this and research is being done on test subjects even at the moment. Psychedelics combined with therapy have given good results in the treatment of many mental health problems. For example, drug resistance depression and traumatic stress symptom disorder. According to studies, mushrooms help alcoholics recover. Certain forms of epilepsy remain under control, as does Horton's headache. psychedelics have relieved the fear of death in terminally ill patients. psychedelics have been needlessly demonized. I'm not saying that they are suitable for everyone and you shouldn't take them alone but in the company of someone who is clear-headed. Because they are illegal there are many risk factors.

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    #74

    Zipper merging on the highway

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    #75

    Sex before marriage.

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    #76

    Having unpopular opinions

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    #77

    Low grades in school. We equate it too much to intelligence. And this is coming from a teacher who got straight A’s I advanced classes. I can comfortably say my brightest students sometimes had the lowest grades.

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    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good grades don’t equal smart. Bad grades don’t equal stupid.

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    #78

    Being vulnerable. Swallowing your feelings/not talking about them is not healthy at all and many still think that's something people should always do.

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    Tess
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being vulnerable around the wrong people is not a good thing. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable around the right people is definitely a good thing.

    #79

    Putting yourself first

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    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s good as long as you’re not stepping on others to do it.

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    #80

    Divorce

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    Icecream Sarang
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ehhh yes and no. There are relationships that can’t work. Shouldn’t work. But, sometimes people really are just to blasé about it. I know people who keep getting married and divorced and just shrug it off. Ok, why keep getting married if you’re just going to get divorced? That’s what dating is for!

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    #81

    Nuclear Energy, it’s just steam. Coal generator plants produce more radiation than nuclear ironically.

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    #82

    Anything that goes against capitalism...

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    JoMeBee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe (hope!) that this changing based on the current state of affairs eg mega corporations, government subsidies, employee dissatisfaction, etc

    #83

    Failing on tests and exams. Failing is natural and its part of the process.

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    Rod McCabe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is possible to make no mistakes & still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life. --- Picard to Data episode S2E21, Peak Performance (July 10,1989)

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    #84

    Short people

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    In America, still living with your parents in your later 20s or into your 30s. If you are working hard and helping out a dent in a few bills, I don't see the issue.

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    IamMe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As prices rise, I see this becoming more and more common. Either the kids having to move back in with the parents, or elderly parents having to move in with the kid.

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    #86

    45 Common Things Society Labels As Bad That Are Actually Fine, As Shared By People Online MSG.

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    Sunshine Lady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is proven to be bad for the metabolism, causing overeating and development of addiction to it. If you consume MSG on a daily basis, nothing else taste good at some point. It just makes want more and more, it's self explanatory why it's not ok.

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    #87

    Pirating eTextbooks.

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    #88

    Socialism

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    XenoMurph
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most nations have some policies and economic safety nets that could be considered socialist.

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    #89

    Talking about salary

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    #90

    Being trans

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    Guys wearing skirts or dresses

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    V
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women and girls wearing pants/shorts/trousers. Just let people wear the style of clothing they feel comfortable in!

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    #92

    The real affects of sugar and fat Way back when, there was some scientist that discovered the devastating affects of sugar, and he tried to pitch it out. Then the sugar industry hired a more well known scientist to pitch that fat was the issue that was causing a severe increase in heart disease in the US. The sugar industry also paid the government and even managed to change legislation and food guides of what americans should eat. They really downplayed fhe affects of sugar so that they would keep making money. Interestingly the rate of heart disease skyrocketed after the sugar industry did this. Today, we know a lot more about the affects of sugar but still uplay fat far too much.

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    Alex Bailey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but not quite... "detailed in Science, our own examination of the historical events in question shows this alluring tale of industry meddling is based on a highly selective and profoundly flawed interpretation of the history. The long-deceased Mad Men–era Harvard scientists who stand accused of having been “paid off” to “shift the blame” to fat were, in fact, already on record in support of low-fat diets as a way to fight heart disease for nearly a decade before the sugar men came calling. In adopting this stance they were in sync with the dominant nutritional paradigm of the era".

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    #93

    Masculinity. And I say that as a feminine gay man.

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    #94

    Sex work

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    DebB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's one of the oldest professions yet society continues to condemn it

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    #95

    Socialistic policies. You're more leftist than you think.

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    #96

    Communism. Collective ownership of the means of production and shifting the economy toward collective good would do so much for people's lives but years of cold war propaganda has shifted the narrative to communism bad. In the US we can only choose between two corporate parties now and there is no real left. Yayyy

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    DebB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Communism as a concept is okay but it never works in reality. Socialism, however, has worked in some places

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    #97

    Zipper merge!

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    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But isn't this the road rules? - at least it is here in Australia.

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    #98

    The LGBTQ community lol

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    JoMeBee
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why "lol"?? Pretty sure the marginalized and persecuted thousands (millions?) don't think it's lol...

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    #99

    MSG. It is delicious, low-calorie, and relatively easy to acquire. It got a bad rap from a racist a long time ago and has had trouble shaking off the bad PR.

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    Johnnynatfan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This list would be a third shorter if it didn't repeat so much.

    #100

    Being conservative

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    Snorky The Pig
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as you don't push your beliefs onto anyone else.

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