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Have you ever witnessed a person change so drastically that it's hard to recognize them? Sometimes this change can be for the better – they might become a braver, more successful, happier version of themselves. And other times... Well, some folks become something they once fullheartedly hated.

That's what we're going to discuss today – our listicle is full of examples of the latter change type. While some of these stories are sad but rather simple and even kind of realistic, others are absolutely heartbreaking. So, let's jump in, shall we?

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#1

Person watching a movie on a laptop, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming the very thing they once hated. Here's something not political:


**Streaming platforms.**


They initially existed to out-compete cable and allow you to access movies and TV shows without ads for a small amount of money per month instead of hundreds.


Now, there are 1,000 of them, they all cost way more, the one you have never has the content you want, and they serve you ads regardless. They are literally just becoming cable TV channels. .

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Giraffe Sitter
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2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They’re worse than cable channels because at least those you can record on a DVR, skip commercials, and keep indefinitely.

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    #2

    Young woman leading a protest with a megaphone, symbolizing real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. People who kept talking about freedom of speech elected a guy who actively punishes people who exercises their speech.

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    WindySwede
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "My speech, not your wrong speech, obv.."

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    #3

    Man comforting upset boy on porch, capturing emotion in real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Anyone with generational trauma. Growing up I used to always swear up and down that I'd never be like my dad, or his dad, and, well, sometimes I find myself being a f**k of a lot like my dad.

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    Ellinor she/they/elle
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why some people decide to not have kids. To stop the generational trauma and heal themselves instead of passing it down again.

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    You've probably heard the phrase “You have become the very thing you swore to destroy.” If you haven’t, you will definitely read it in today’s article. Well, a version of it. After all, today’s piece is a listicle of people who embody this phrase. 

    To be more specific, it’s people sharing stories of people or companies that ended up being someone or something they used to hate and advocate against. Or, in the words of the phrase, something they once swore to destroy.

    #4

    Close-up of textured biscuits neatly arranged in a yellow tray, illustrating real-life stories of transformation and change. Graham crackers. They were created by a preacher named Sylvester Graham as part of a diet designed to be as boring as possible (Originally they were unsweetened, plain crackers). This was part of a larger movement of bland dieting. Apparently people thought this would suppress the desire to [pleasure yourself] lol.

    Now they’re used in s’mores 😈.

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    #5

    The White House with green lawn and fountain, symbolizing real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Probably many politicians. There have to be some that get into politics to fix things and make the country better for everyday people, but the system either beats them down and they leave or they slowly become twisted leaders only out to make money at the people's expense.

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    Austzn
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The system does corrupt but the individual still has to choose to play. I personally knew someone who went into some local politics with good intentions like that only to go down the dark side of far-right politics. It was crazy watching this in real time. He got expelled from his elected position and is now in prison.

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    #6

    Older man with white hair and glasses wearing a red plaid shirt, representing real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. George Lucas acknowledge he became the Hollywood machine he fought when making Star Wars.

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    Tabitha
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    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny, isn’t it? I have known people who, when they were employees, hated a*****e bosses or company owners. But when they became the bosses or company owners, they started acting the exact same as the a******s they used to hate—-nd there was NO trying to tell them about it either. They would not believe you.

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    Originally, the quote was said by Obi-Wan Kenobi to Anakin Skywalker during the Duel on Mustafar. All of it was in the 2005 movie Star Wars: Episode III – Revenge of the Sith. It isn’t the only thing from the Star Wars franchise that became a part of public consciousness and speech, but it is the most important one for today's topic. 

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    Nowadays, the phrase, or the screenshot from the movie, is used as a reaction to someone or something acting and/or becoming something they once hated, or, in the quote's words, "swore to destroy." Well, maybe in real life the "destroy" part is less realistic, but we can't write it off completely, can we?

    #7

    Hands holding a rosary over an open book, illustrating real-life stories of people transforming into what they once hated. As a Christian, I saw all those so-called Christians hating on gay and trans people, hating libs, hating whoever. Drove me nuts considering love is the central tenant of Christianity. Over time I came to really hate all those people giving Christians a bad name, which created a crisis in me.

    Fortunately for me, the situation ultimately destroyed my belief in God altogether so now I am free to hate people all I want.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still believe in a higher being, but cannot imagine Them being so petty.

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    #8

    Group of young people using digital devices, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Everyone who said "don't believe everything you read on the internet" 30 years ago.

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    Austzn
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truth; when my MIL first got online she thought everything was curated like a library and it was all 1 source so I foolishly attempted to show her the difference between academia publishing peer reviewed research papers and what she was reading because, "it was more interesting". She was reading blogs, opinion-editorials, and would not believe it. Went MAGA eventually, who would have figured? HAHAHA

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    #9

    Person using laptop with Google search page open, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated Google.

    onarainyafternoon asked:

    Why has Google search become literally unusable in the last couple years? It's like anything somewhat specific I'm looking up is just flooded with completely irrelevant links. It's so frustrating.

    Ian1732 replied:

    It's because of Prabhakar Raghavan.

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    Bec
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was a bit concerning when they decided to remove the, Don't be Evil, ideal from their mission statement.

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    People switching up so much in their behavior can be due to various reasons; you know, as always, context matters. Yet, at its core, a lot of times, these switch-ups are a consequence of people's inability to keep their word.

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    You can always rationalize breaking promises in plenty of ways – from overconfidence and forgetfulness to disrespect or exaggeration of the promises in the first place. No matter how you justify it, it doesn't change the fact that those who do it often or on a grand scale aren't people whom you want to put your trust in.

    Yet, it's easier said than done – sometimes it's not that easy to notice an untrustworthy person before it's too late. Well, let us help you, at least a little bit. Apparently, there are certain signs to look out for that can give away that a person might tend to occasionally break promises.

    #10

    Young child wearing a Burger King crown eating fries with an adult, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Kids who swore they’d never be like their parents, then one day hear themselves say we have food at home.

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    Mel in Georgia
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Because I said so!" Every child hates to hear that, yet every parent eventually resorts to saying it.

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    #11

    Laptop on wooden desk displaying ChatGPT webpage near window and plant, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming what they hated. OpenAI was founded as a nonprofit to make sure that AI would not benefit just a big corporation like Google but would instead benefit all of humanity and be developed safely.

    Instead OpenAI has become another big corporation and has pushed Google and the other players into a race to ship AI products as fast as possible regardless of negative impacts, and has never delivered any tangible safety technology.

    OpenAI’s non-profit board tried to fire Sam Altman but the for-profit wing had become so strong (the employees didn’t want the drama to make their shares lose value in an upcoming funding round where they could lose shares so a lot of employees threatened to quit, and Microsoft, which owns a large stake in OpenAI, threatened to just replicate OpenAI inside Microsoft outside the control of the nonprofit board) that this failed.

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    Ashtophet
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, did anyone ever think that AI could just be free open source? Of course it was commoditized and weaponized!

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    #12

    Man in an orange prison jumpsuit sitting on a stool behind bars, representing real-life stories of personal transformation. Robespierre was against the death penalty once.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Robespierre was a despicable SOB who deserved everything he got. He turncoat left and right and was George's inspiration for Littlefinger.

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    For instance, they might be a person who often overcommits to things. They take on more things than they can handle, which inevitably leads to breaking some of those promises. Granted, it's not always intentional – in some cases, it can come from people's desire to please others or an overestimation of their own capabilities.

    This can come from their inconsistent prioritizing of tasks, as these people tend to juggle tasks without properly deciding what's most important, which ends up leading to not finishing what they take on.

    Or they simply procrastinate. They keep pushing away the tasks, as they feel not ready for them or believe that they'll have time to finish them later. And while sometimes they're successful in fulfilling everything, at other times they fail to deliver.

    #13

    Volunteer gently holding a dog at an animal shelter, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Austin Pets Alive, a large animal rescue org in Texas with designs on expanding nationwide, recently outed themselves as being pro-life for pets, and confessed (inadvertently) to being a puppy mill.

    The leader actually believes that if every family that wanted to buy a pet came to her instead of a breeder, there would be no pet overpopulation.

    But realizing that people buy so they can get soecific breeds and puppies and kittens, she has spent 30 years taking pregnant dogs from city shelters (and tax dollars for the honor of doing so), letting them give birth, and selling the puppies.

    That's just being a breeder. With an infinite supply of new moms, all paid for by the state.

    In a way it's brilliant in its pure, impressive level of evilness.

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    Grumpy old man
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. They suck. Im from Austin. I rescue from legit shelters

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    #14

    Facebook app on smartphone screen with a blurred Facebook logo in background, illustrating real-life stories concept. Facebook.

    helm replied:

    Facebook was never made with good intentions.

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    Bec
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The creator's intentions were never 'good', but most users joined so they could keep up with friends and family. Now it's all rage bait, data collecting ads, and lots of sh1t no one asked for.

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    #15

    Computer screen showing McAfee antivirus alert warning of five viruses detected, symbolizing real-life stories of unexpected changes. Is nobody going to say McAfee?


    Drogovich said:

    Even the founder of McAfee later said that he hates what they turned his antivirus into and starred in a commercial where he blasted the PC with a [weapon] because he couldn't uninstall McAfee

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    Pferdchen
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another old timer early adopter story: I recall calling McAfee for support and the call being answered and handled by John McAfee!

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    Essentially, promise-breaking might not be a malicious act, but rather one that stems from people's poor decision-making, poor self-esteem, and inability to prioritize their work.

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    That leads us to the conclusion that while sometimes people becoming something they once hated might be a moral failing, other times it's something more sad than wicked. And while it's reasonable to call out people who end up in this situation, it's always best to think about what could have made them become like this.

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    Do you know any more examples that would fit this quote? We're always eager to hear what you have to say in the comments!

    #16

    A diverse group in a meeting room discussing real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. The friend who swore they hated meetings, became a manager, and now books five “quick syncs” before lunch.

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    Ashtophet
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meetings are a great excuse to not get work done

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    #17

    Smiling woman with short blonde hair wearing a silver dress and earrings, representing real-life stories of people changing. In 1981, I watched Emma Thompson as a student performing a comedy monologue she wrote herself, which was a superb parody of the sort of mock-modest, gushing speech you hear when you see a British actress receiving an Oscar for Best Leading Actress.

    11 years later, she gave an almost identical performance onstage at the Oscars when she received the Award for Best Leading Actress.

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    #18

    Man speaking into microphone on podcast set with The Joe Rogan Experience sign, illustrating real-life stories of personal change. Joe Rogan.

    itsfish20 replied:

    I like when he was just the host of Fear Factor. Could have ended with the show and the world would be much nicer

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    JL
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go back further. He was entertaining on NewsRadio, could have stopped there.

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    #19

    Woman sitting outdoors with a microphone, representing real-life stories of people becoming the very thing they once hated JK Rowling.

    As a struggling immigrant queer middle schooler in the 90s and early 2000s, Harry Potter was my saving grace and educator in more ways than one. My English improved, I understood a clear sense of right and wrong and morality rooted in character versus bloodlines and power structures. Acceptance and platforming of various creatures and humans against a common enemy etc. Uplifting the marginalized and inclusive etc. "Love" being Harry and his friends greatest weapon etc.

    Fast forward to today, and now with her reputation and oppression of Trans people, she's become the very amoral, opportunistic, alienating and exclusive "bad guy" she once warned against in her writings.

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    Mel in Georgia
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she's so freaking smug about it!

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    #20

    Person holding smartphone showing dating profile of Emma, representing real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Dating apps.

    Built to help you connect and fine better matches. Destroyed any chance of connecting and finding good matches lol.

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    George Costanza
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Destroyed any chance of connecting and finding good matches lol." How?

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    #21

    A man in a black blazer and graphic t-shirt speaking on a dark set about real-life stories of people changing. Elon Musk becoming what he thought George Soros was.

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    Nova Rook
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soros is a h*******t survivor. Musk is a Neo N**i who has promoted hatred of jewish people and platforms Nazis.

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    #22

    Man and woman smiling and waving at a podium, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Republican Party said they wanted to balance the budget and reduced the national debt. They have voted over and over to increase it. They also were advocating for a smaller government intrusion on society and personal freedom.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Republicans haven't balanced the budget since FDR. Had you done a little research you would have known this.

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    #23

    A diverse group of people sitting in a church pew, sharing real-life stories of becoming what they once hated. Baptists and other evangelical religions.

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    LooseSeal's $10 Banana
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be clear, not all Baptists. There are plenty who subscribe to a faith grounded in indiscriminate grace, mercy, and love. Southern Baptists just get all the press.

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    #24

    Screenshot of Microsoft Windows Task Manager showing a not responding error with options to end process or cancel. "Task Manager is not responding.".

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    #25

    A business meeting with four professionals discussing real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Small government conservatives.

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    #26

    Smiling woman holding open sign, symbolizing real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. A lot of self owned businesses. .

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    Lee Gilliland
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This you cannot help. In order to be and stay in business there are regulations you must obey and entitlement you must bow to.

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    #27

    Man with glasses and beard holding microphone at event, illustrating real-life stories of people becoming what they once hated. Everyone becomes what they swore to destroy

    Only Gabe Newell is forever.

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    Mel in Georgia
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had to look him up: Gabe Logan Newell (born November 3, 1962), also known by his nickname GabeN, is an American video game developer and businessman. He is the president and co-founder of the video game company Valve Corporation. He went on to develop the digital game distribution service Steam. Not sure why he is "forever" unless that's referring to him being against game developers' efforts to use anti-piracy technology.

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    #28

    Colorful vintage van painted with peace and hippie symbols parked in a sunny urban area, reflecting real-life stories transformation. Hippies.

    blart_institute replied:

    I know a millennial who self identified as a hippie. She grew up poor and had family living in Native American Reservations so she had a vocal distrust of the US government and the military. But then when her husband joined the military for the money now she’s making American Flag crafts that say things like “proud Navy Wife” and it was shocking to see her change her mind so quickly

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    Bec
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very specific to that person

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    #29

    Man wearing glasses and a black and beige leather jacket smiling during a discussion about real-life stories of change. SNOOOOOP DOGG.

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    Dread Pirate Roberts
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How has he become evil? I'm genuinely asking because I haven't heard that kind of news about him. Can someone enlighten me please?

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