Let us just put our stylish rose-colored glasses on and we’ll get this party started. How do we look, Pandas? Awesome, that’s what we wanted to hear!
The [insert decade of choice] holds a special significance for many of us and probably many of: it was (arguably) a better time, the people were friendlier, life was simpler, and the future seemed far brighter. Or maybe we were all just a tad more naive. That’s where the ‘Pics that make you reminisce’ Twitter page comes in. A social media project with a following of over 115.6k internet users, the account shares nostalgic photos of products, toys, and content that remind you of what the (recent) past was like. Most of the stuff featured here is from the past few decades, and it's reminded us to get back to work on our Time Machine.
However, it doesn’t matter if you were born in the ‘50s, ‘60s, ‘70s, ‘80s, ‘90s (hello there!), 2000s, or even the 2010s: nostalgia for our childhoods/the best years of our lives unites us all. And everyone’s nostalgia is valid. The things we miss are, at their core, the same. All that’s different is the shape and form, but the spirit remains the same. Scroll down, upvote your fave pics from the past, and tell us what you miss the most from your childhoods, Pandas!
Suzanne Degges-White, Ph.D., Licensed Counselor, Professor, and Chair at the Department of Counseling and Higher Education at Northern Illinois University, was kind enough to answer Bored Panda's questions about nostalgia, how much reminiscing is 'too much,' and how we can learn to be more grateful of what we have in the present. You'll find Bored Panda's full interview with the professor about the 'super power' that is nostalgia below. Don't miss out, check it out.
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"Nostalgia has the 'super power' of helping us feel better about the 'now' by connecting us to positive feelings from the 'then.' Nostalgia can help us feel better about ourselves and more in control of current situations if we're able to channel that positivity into concrete actions or a reframed mindset about the present. However, when we begin 'living in the past,' we may be inviting into our lives less than optimal mental wellness and potentially compromised physical wellbeing, too," Professor Degges-White, from Northern Illinois University, explained to Bored Panda that there are certain pitfalls that come with reminiscing about the past too much.
"When we succumb to memories of how things 'used to be' and refuse to address the 'what is,' we may find ourselves overwhelmed by our current conditions and less able to manage current challenges," she said.
"It's often memories of home and the people who surround us that keeps us able to deal with significantly concerning or dangerous conditions. For instance, letters from home can be a lifeline for those who are engaged in warfare far away from what they consider 'home,'" the professor pointed out how being reminded of home can help people in very tough situations.
Don't they still have glass marbles? Aren't all marbles made of glass?
"It's when we become stuck in our memories of people who have died, places or times in our lives when things were 'easier' or 'better' that invites in the negative effects of nostalgia. When we are unable to make decisions about a current challenge or get stuck in memories of better times from the past, we can sink into a state in which we kind of 'tune out' of the present and ignore very real threats or opportunities in the now."
According to Professor Degges-White, the very first step towards gratitude is 'waking up' and looking around you in order to recognize all of the things in life that you appreciate.
"It's also helpful to step outside yourself and see how others might see your life. Gratitude can start with the basics—enough food to eat each day, a job that pays you enough to keep a roof over your head, people in your life who care about you and to whom you matter. Recognizing that not everyone in life has been as fortunate as you have and acknowledging your accomplishments is the best way to begin. Making a 'gratitude list' really does help us see our lives in a whole new way if we are committed to acknowledging the way our lives have been touched by success."
We still have the PS2 neon green controller with the duel shock ( somewhere in the house) . I hated it, I blame it for all my Lara Croft deaths -.-
The professor also opened up to Bored Panda about a personal experience that directly links to feeling gratitude. "I once received a letter from a friend who shared with me all the ways that she envied my life—from the mundane, that I had a station wagon, to my parenthood status, I had a baby girl, this friend listed ways she felt I'd been luckier in life than she had," she recounted.
"While it's clear that my friend was going through some difficult times in her own life and the letter might not have been driven by any positive motivation, I was able to respond to her with a note of gratitude and appreciation for helping me step back and recognize all of the things in life for which I should feel gratitude. It was a big twist on the construction of a 'gratitude list,' and perhaps it is helpful to seek the perspective of others who care about us in the ways they see our good fortune in life. But if you ask a friend to do this, be sure to return the favor in kind."
We’re going to wear our hearts on our sleeves for a bit here. Truth be told, we sometimes wish we could travel back in time and be kids again. Life can get very hectic when you’re an adult. And we’d love to completely detach from all of the anxiety, just for a little while.
The war, the pandemic, the economic difficulties—all of these are making us look back to a time when things weren’t this bad… or at least when we weren’t aware of it all so much.
Being taken care of by your family, only having to worry about school or what you’ll do with your friends for fun, was a blessing. It’s nice to reminisce, but it’s also vital not to get too stuck in those feelings: you wouldn’t want your quality of life to drop in the present just because you long for the past. And we probably wouldn't want to go back in time if it meant that it wildly changed the future: we wouldn't want to lose all the friends and loved ones we've found along the way.
I have never seen the white-gold version, always the blue-black and never knew what the hell are they talking about when claiming it is white.
Same, It's always gold with pale blue or white.
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Still gold and white, I see. If I really focus I can make it black and blue, but it takes considerable effort.
Same. I can see the black and blue through tilting the screen or playing with brightness but at first glance it's always white and gold.
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Anyone else see blue and gold? I that isn’t supposed to be one of the color combos but it’s what I see.
When this first happened, I could swear it was white & gold (in the shadow). All I see is black & blue now. How times change...
me too! I looked away a second and after it was blue an black and has been ever since
Load More Replies... Like where would the black be? It's gold and white. Maybe an off white with a tinge that could be a bluish undertone but more of an off white / grey. Where would the black be? And can you not see the gold?
Personally, I think there were TWO different pictures of TWO different dresses. And some people were just trolling to set the world on fire. I distinctly remember black and blue. But THAT one is clearly white and gold.
I see the two. At the beginning I saw white and gold, then blue and gold and then black and blue
If the image was zoomed out you'd see that the dress is white w/ gold strips. It's seems to be at the edge of well lit room where it's darkly lit, the light contrast is throwing you off. Try blocking off the edges of the image and imagine a white and gold dress in a poorly lit room.
It's both!!! Because of certain lighting and exposure it'll show the dress as white and gold or blue and black :))
When I first saw this on here it was blue and black, now it's gold and white
Interesting, yestereday it was white & gold (had a really relaxed day), today it is black & blue ( I'm stressed out!)....
Here is a youtube about the blue and black dress. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AskAQwOBvhc
I’ve only ever seen white and gold - is this a prank that I’ve just not figured out? Anyway - edit to add link https://www.livescience.com/50842-dress-debate-color-perception.html
I have seen it both colours, depending on what device someone showed it to me on :)
Is BP participating in this conspiracy? I’ve looked at this list a couple times now and sometimes I see white and gold, and other times I see blue and black, like they are switching the picture on us….
Okay people. Wars have been fought over the correct color of this dress. Neither side has ever won.
Can someone explain this then. I always thought someone was pulling a prank bit if I am to take the comments legit maybe they weren't. I defo see black and blue?
The first time I saw the dress on here it was blue and black. I had to go do something and so sign off. Now I’m back and it’s white and gold.
It's a white & gold dress, but either the white balance of the photo is off, or something else happened, that made the white look tinted blue in the photo.
I can see both, I remember when it first changed colour on me , I was scrolling and it changed in about a second to blue and black from white and gold. I freaked out and everyone at work thought I was lying, lol. It was trippy.
it is white and gold for me but most of the time its blue and black
I see a gold and darkly shadowed white (maybe blue? still looks overly white though)
Honestly depends on the photo for me. This pic is white and gold to me but I have seen some pics that look black and blue
No, no, no, that's not how you do nostalgia. I refuse to reminisce about something that happened less than 10 years ago!
I'm going crazy-how can people see gold and white but some see black and blue-
Dudes i s**t you not. I looked at this post three times now. The first and second i saw gold and white and now i see black and blue wtf
Gold and white, when I turn down my phone brightness it's black and blue.
Child and adolescent therapist Kemi Omijeh, a member of the BACP, previously explained to Bored Panda that our childhoods are the foundation of who we are as adults. That’s part of the reason why we frequently revisit our childhoods in our memories: our past influences our present.
"If we’ve had a difficult childhood, it can be hard to feel nostalgic, instead it will feel like something we need to get over in order to move on," she explained that not every person will have fond memories of the past. We tend to feel nostalgic for the times when we were happy. Similarly, we shy away from memories that make us feel bad.
Noises not included, so here you go: WOOOOwwwwwwwOOOWwwww
These evolved into 'shag' bands ... yep lots of fun having a 12 year old in a shop shouting out ''Mam, can I have some shag bands!!!'' at 100 decibels ..I still wince over that :D
"Nostalgia can also be a good coping strategy for times of low mood and challenges," therapist Kemi told Bored Panda. However, there are limits to how much we should allow ourselves to reminisce about the ‘good old days.’
Only a marketer would think, "Tops aren't macho enough. Let's call this thing L-Drago Destructor and watch the money roll in" 😂
"If we end up comparing it to our experiences today and feeling like nothing is as good as it was, then this will inevitably affect our mood and our ability to do what we need to do," she warned about the downsides.
“We can become stuck in our nostalgia; in which case it might be best to seek help from a counseling professional to help you process your past in order to enjoy your present,” she said that it’s perfectly fine to seek outside assistance.
Some people can end up reminiscing about the past so much that it affects their day-to-day. The therapist shared her thoughts about helping someone curb the habit of daydreaming
I remember dragging my screaming Daughter away from these every time, there was always a queue of kids waiting to play and all she wanted to do was press buttons as she was too little to play it properly .. yes thank you McDonalds ...
I have seen these in Target. I am sure they still sell these.
"Identify your patterns. Think about the times you usually daydream, is there something about that situation or those times that mean you’re daydreaming? Do something about it if that is the case. Set a time limit, use a timer if it ensures you stop," she told Bored Panda.
"Write down the biggest thought or feeling as a result of the daydream. That way you’re not just stopping daydreaming. You are doing something positive as a nice transition from stopping daydreaming to doing something,” the therapist suggested.
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"Finally, turn your daydream into a visualization or goal exercise. Your daydreams could be a communication about your innermost desires. Could you begin to plan how to achieve those desires?" she said that daydreaming and thinking about the past can help us become more aware of our wants and needs in the present.
Glad to see I'm by far not the only old fart who was a bit disappointed with this list 😆
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What about the lemmings? If someone knows where to get those games let me know!
There is a lemmings game in available for iPhone. :)
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Most of these are under 10 years old. I was hoping for 80s and 90s stuff or older!
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So anyone remember the Indian Jones and the Last Crusade PC game? I remember playing it in either late 80's or early 90's but noone else seems to remember it :/
Us. We played all together as a family because we only had one PC at the time.
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Back in the 80's we had a commodore 64 DOS. Does anyone remember a game called 'Jumpman Jr.'?
Most of these things were "after" my time. I remember my son buying pokemon pogs.
Hey, don't downwote that "first" comment in this post. It definetly belongs to this same category in this context :D
HAHA ... you are so right. I am going to go upvote it and your comment.
Load More Replies... Glad to see I'm by far not the only old fart who was a bit disappointed with this list 😆
Load More Replies... What about the lemmings? If someone knows where to get those games let me know!
There is a lemmings game in available for iPhone. :)
Load More Replies... Most of these are under 10 years old. I was hoping for 80s and 90s stuff or older!
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So anyone remember the Indian Jones and the Last Crusade PC game? I remember playing it in either late 80's or early 90's but noone else seems to remember it :/
Us. We played all together as a family because we only had one PC at the time.
Load More Replies... Back in the 80's we had a commodore 64 DOS. Does anyone remember a game called 'Jumpman Jr.'?
Most of these things were "after" my time. I remember my son buying pokemon pogs.
Hey, don't downwote that "first" comment in this post. It definetly belongs to this same category in this context :D
HAHA ... you are so right. I am going to go upvote it and your comment.
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