“What’s Something Subtle That Instantly Gives You Bad Vibes About Someone?” (40 Answers)

What about how they treat insects? Kill a small animal and you a monster. Smash a spider that ended up in your house just trying to live his little spider life and suddenly you're a hero.

Character is how you treat those who can do nothing if you mistreat them.

Some animals can do more for us than some people can.

I treat animals so well I sometimes treat myself to some of them

Absolutely agree. Animals also know. One of my dogs knew an acquaintance of my partner didn’t like dogs. She would deliberately sit next to him to make him feel uncomfortable, whilst staring at me. We both enjoyed it.

"I'll pray for you." Which is the least possible amount of effort you can give that will amount to nothing.

Me and my wife had a stillborn child. And one of my then Co workers said that it was gods will. Took treenfull grown men to hold me back.

What is the issue with someone saying they'll pray for you. I'm not religous but isn't that just like someone saying they hav eyou in their thoughts?

“Have you found Jesus?” Did you lose him again?! Dammit, I keep telling people not to leave his cage open!

... and after a serious operation that saved their life, they thank their god, but not the doctors.

The opposite also. People in a service position who treat customers poorly.

It also gives you a gauge of how smart they are. Treating service people badly is simply a dumbass move.

Yup. The second someone does that around me, there’s a good chance my view of him or her will change. The only grace I am willing to give that person is if it’s obvious he or she is having a bad day and is receptive to feedback about his or her behavior. Otherwise, I definitely have less respect for that person in the long run knowing that he doesn’t care about how he treats people he considers beneath him. We’re all equal in the eyes of God and I would think most of us have the common sense to regard other people as being equal to us!

I have always treated service positions as just that - it's a SERVICE. These people are literally basically doing me a favor! Cook my food, bring it to me and I don't have to do the dishes either? Awesome! Thanks! Airline employee can get me water and tell a jagoff to stfu so I don't have to - heck yeah. Nobody should be entitled to f-all. Folks tend to forget that.

I was at the pool one time with my little siblings and this dude was blasting music that had a bunch of swear words in it. Not swimming, didn’t bring any kids with him, surrounded by other peoples’ young children, just sitting there in a pool chair playing his music really loud. Why? What inspires people to do this?

There’s a reason earphones and earbuds were invented. You can make yourself deaf all you want, just don’t drag the rest of us into it. BTW, your taste in music sucks, and is definitely NOT shared by the entire neighborhood, many of whom work the night shift and/or have babies who need to sleep, FFS!

When you pull up next to me at a red light and your stupid music and blown out speakers proceed to blow my eardrums out and drown out my audio book. Respect for Personal space comes in all five senses

That's what headphones and earbuds are for.

I wonder what the OP means by "doing something subtle", because blasting music in public is the exact opposite of subtle.

an "I run over cats for fun," person is so far beyond an "I like other animals," person that I can hardly express it with words

I love cats more than dogs. But then I think that's obvious.

When I was sn ignorant young person I hated cats because I had been brought up around dogs and just could not conceive of a cat being loving or affectionate.as a level 7 crazy cat person,now, I cringe so hard remembering things I used to say.in conclusion, some cat-haters are just ignorant.it doesn't excuse nasty comments but they are not necessarily lost causes.

I am a cat person but I love dogs! I just personally think cats are a little easier to take care of at the moment

I mean, cruelty to animals is actually a clinical diagnostic criteria for Conduct Disorder (essentially the childhood version of Antisocial Personality Disorder). It's okay to have an opinion on a favorite or least favorite animal, but wishing them harm is a yellow flag for potentially something more. So yes, if someone brags about disliking an animal that much, I'm definitely instantly suspicious.