What do you do when you have a gut feeling, pandas? Do you brush it off and hope for the best? Or immediately follow the inexplicable sensation telling you not to do something?
It can sometimes be difficult to determine what’s a gut instinct versus what’s simply nerves (or even bad leftovers). But it’s best not to ignore what your body tries to tell you. You just might end up saying “I knew it” later down the line.
Redditors have been recalling times when their instincts were spot on, so we’ve gathered some of their best stories below. From having a feeling that a partner is cheating or that it wouldn’t be wise to hitch a ride with that seemingly friendly stranger, enjoy reading all about these times when people’s intuition was on their side. And keep reading to find a conversation with writer Susanna Newsonen!
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That he was the one after a disastrous first date.
He picked me up and we went to a local walking park. After returning to his car it wouldn't start. We both had to walk home and just as I said well at least it's not raining the heavens opened, I was soaked through by the time I got home
I got back home not expecting to hear from him again but he rang me when he got home and started the conversation with "I bet you've never been that wet on a first date before" we both laughed it off and been stuck with eachother since.
Haha, I put a huge dent in the passenger door of his brand new truck by bumping it closed with my hip, he laughed and called me Buffalo Butt! We've been married 40 yrs!
That's such a acool story to tell about a first date. I'm happy for you!!!
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I confronted my bf that he was cheating on me. He repeatedly said “I haven’t been with another woman since I met you.” I know, I said. I continued with the allegation. He kept insisting “no other woman since I met you.” Over and over until.
It clicked.
He stopped talking. I saw it in his eyes. He knew I knew.
We were talking about men, not women.
Mine is milder than a lot on here, but when I put on some shapewear and it made my insides feel funny. I had had a tubal four years before, and my husband and I had only had sex once in the previous few months (depression on my part), so he and my sister kept telling me there was no way, especially since it had only been about three weeks since our one-off. Next morning I puked and took the damn test. My surprise caboose is 7 now, and I finally got one that looks like me, lol.
don't know if I'd refer to someones choice to be sterilised failing as "sweet"
Load More Replies...Why do people question when women know they are pregnant? Like don't they think we can feel the difference in our bodies?
Ever hear of the show "I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant"?
Load More Replies..."...since it had only been about three weeks since our one-off"? This is confusing.
They had sex once about 3 weeks prior, which is early to know about a pregnancy.
Load More Replies...This happened to a family member. We said she got her tubes tied in a slip-knot!
Tubal ligation. Sometimes the Fallopian tubes grow back. I guess that's why some women have them removed entirely to ensure that doesn't happen.
Load More Replies...To learn more about the importance of trusting your gut, we reached out to philosopher, poet and writer, Susanna Newsonen, who was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda.
"Humans have survived in the 'wild' for hundreds of thousands of years, and that is thanks to our instincts," she shared. "It's only our modern society that has devalued the idea of gut instinct in preference for pure brain power. The reality is that you need both. The good news is that the brain and the gut are constantly communicating with each other. The bad news is that the brain doesn't always agree with the gut when it over-rationalizes situations and, as a result, the gut isn't always listened to."
Suffered from chronic lower back pain for years. Went to the doctor who flippantly told me to fix my posture.
Went to a chiro who told me to come in weekly for "adjustment."
Gave up for a while.
Went to another doctor who took an x-ray and told me there wasn't anything wrong with me.
One day I went to the doctor for a hernia who had me take an MRI. Was told the MRI would be like 20 minutes, ended up being 45.
Doctor sits me down and says, "Yeah, that's a hernia all right ... but did you know that you have degenerative disc disease? The discs in your lower spine are some of the worst I've ever seen."
Blew my mind that it took like 15 years of chronic lower back pain to get diagnosed for something that went on a doctor's wall of fame.
My youngest had complained about back, hip and knee pain for years,causing them to have to miss more and more school as they got older. Finally, I was able to get them in to see one of the best orthopedic surgeons in the state, thanks to a referral from one of his patients. Turns out my child has scoliosis which should have been diagnosed years before. By the time he found it, the growth plates had already closed. Now they will have problems for the rest of their life.
Stuff lime this makes me so angry. So much suffering without enough attempt to find the reason.
Load More Replies...Poor guy. I know exactly how he felt. I went 9 months of awful bone pain and doctors telling me it was an autoimmune disease of some kind. Come November of 2023 I'm in the emergency room with pain off the charts. Turns out I have stage 4 breast cancer that among other places , I have cancer in every bone in my body. Talk about dropping the ball. Yeah thanks for nothing doctors!
I'm SO sorry Renee, hope you are staying strong and on the mend. I've seen stage 4 get better
Load More Replies...My husband had backpain for years and the doctors wouldn't even do a scan, not "economically viable" (UK NHS) some 20 years later he had other issues, weight loss etc. and they were looking for cancer (which he doesn't have thankfully) and from a scan found out he had AS (ankylosing spondylitis) finally on medication and mostly free from pain.
Had an incredibly similar experience which turned out to be kidney disease. Also please, everyone, as the daughter of a radiologist, do not see a chiropractor without prior medical advice
And if the medical advice is “see a chiropractor”, then stop going to that doctor.
Load More Replies...That scammy. Chiropractor would have eventually paralyzed you. Complete pseudoscience.
I have doctors like that. One amazing dr for 28yrs retired and now I'm stuck w/a primary doc who doesn't treat s**t and another who was letting my transplanted kidney basically die by giving me meds I didn't need Our systems have all but failed
Very similar! I have the same thing and chiro made it worse!! Now I just deal with it with some exercises...nothing short of a rod in my spine will fix it.
My sister (62) started having walking issues. After a very short distance she had to stop and rest a few minutes, her legs aching. An xray revealed many spine problems, but our family doctor suggested an ecocolordoppler of the legs and a cat scan. Turns out she has a serious arterial condition with many damaged and blocked blood vessels. She'll undergo vascular surgery, and is already taking specific medications. More than 40 years of heavy smoking, and high cholesterol, finally presented their bill
So, all of those people who were supposed to help just shrugged it off for all those years. I can't even imagine being in such pain for all of those years
it happens so often. and yes for years, so much lasting pain 😞
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I'm a supply chain professional. In the very early days of covid's impact here in the US, myself and many people like me saw what was happening in China and other places and knew, for certain, that there was a massive supply chain shock and crazy inflation coming.
It was extremely obvious and predictable, months before it hit full force. I kept waiting and waiting for someone in the government to talk and do something about it, but no one did. Then it happened.
Then, I heard countless outlets from the wall street journal to Bloomberg to John oliver talking about it and pointing out these factors and causes, that me and hundreds of people like me, were fluently aware of and saw coming clear as day, months ago.
That was when I really lost faith in the system, and I didn't have that much to begin with.
The very first time I heard about a mysterious disease in China, I knew that we were in big, big trouble. Then watched in disbelief as the Trump administration pretended that nothing was happening.
Most of us watched in TOTAL BELIEF when the Trump administration did nothing. Nothing about that was surprising.
Load More Replies...They all knew it, enabled it and profited from it. These people have no interest in the well-being of the people, they are only interested in money and power, do not buy into their lies and/or promises, it's all b******t
Our health minister, a doctor herself, bashed a scientist on the radio because he tried to warn everyone for the virus from China. She said it was just a simple fever
Suggestions to have bleach shots, tho... And a few believers really did it, as far as I know
Natural selection? If these "people" are adults, I don't feel sorry for them.
Load More Replies...I wasn’t as prepared as I’d like to have been but we did have reasonable stocks of dried foods like pasta and lentils etc. What I did do right was persuade hubby we needed a chest freezer asap and we got a decent amount of frozens in in time. That and living in NZ where our government shut the borders and with a few lockdowns our country bought itself some time to wait for the vaccines to be perfected. Still pisses me off no end the people who complained about the great job our government did that ensured we lead pretty normal lives while the rest of the world burned.
They didn't just do nothing, they actively discouraged people from protecting themselves and threw out quack remedy suggestions which some poor fools fatally tried.
Load More Replies...In January 2020 I went to an lung specialist for I had a sudden shortness of breath. It was my first time having this symptoms and I asked them "How about this new virus from China?" They said "It's so far away, I don't think we have to worry in Europe... 2 months later Covid hit hard in Italy...
When I woke up and read the news regarding the Brussels airport bombing in 2016, I just knew my father had to have almost got caught up in it.
My father has been awful close to being a victim of several terrorist attacks (was supposed to be at the WTC on 9/11, was in London during the subway bombings, was sitting 2 blocks away during the truck rampage in Stockholm). So when I read the news, I called him. Turns out he was on an inbound flight about to land, and they got redirected to amsterdam.
And before anyone asks - yes, I'm sure he's not secretly some terrorist mastermind!
Not quite so close, but my weekly commute to work was through Brussels airport, so when I saw the news story I knew exactly where it was. It was only a few months after my contract finished. Similarly the IRA bomb in Manchester city centre was about the time I would have been walking across the bridge, except I was visiting my parents that weekend.
So he's either super safe to hang out with or super dangerous to hang out with.
It's fine to be next to him, but being in the same city away from him is dangerous.
Load More Replies...After our trip to Europe was due to end in 2014, we decided to stay longer, and changed our flight - from MH17!
Next time I travel, I'll contact you to know where your father is going to be, to avoid that place like the plague. He is either extremely lucky or extremely unlucky, but the poor man sounds like a dangerous travel companion.
I'm the same, except with natural disasters. I've yet to be in an avalanche and only narrowly missed the boxing day tsunami (last minute family illness so we cancelled that trip) but otherwise, you name the disaster I've been in it 🤦♀️
"This is a big shame as your gut instincts know more than the brain does," Susanna continued. "The brain has processed everything you've ever experienced, but it's your gut that's the expert in knowing how you actually felt in those situations. That's why it's so important to listen to it. It's driven by your past experiences and the feelings around them. This makes it an excellent guide in deciding whether to do something or not. In my experience, your gut instinct is very often right, especially when it comes to making decisions based on how you want to feel."
Told my parents for years as a kid I didn’t like my grandmother and felt something very off about her… found out when we were older she did some pretty horrible things to my sister… My mom still talks about how intuitive I was as a kid and she wishes she listened to my gut back then. Smh.
Especially with something that comes across as a gut feeling about a relative or " family friend"
Load More Replies...Kids are way more intuitive than adults, listen to them!
So, they didn't listen either to you or to your sister. What wonderful parents! Lots of the horrible things that happen to kids are 50% the perpetrator's fault and 50% the imbecile parents' who don't listen to their children. So many people should be spayed before they procreate!
Good for OP for speaking up! I hope the grandmother faced the consequences of her actions and repented. I also pray the family is safe from her now.
Repent? I don't care what she feels. I hope she rots in prison.
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Suspected my wife was cheating for months, then I found the plan B pill instructions on our car, I've had a vasectomy for more than 7 years.
But did she know you had had a vasectomy? I've heard a few stories from the other side where they have been trying to get pregnant and the wife of many years was not .... Informed... That the husband had has one?
he found (instructions on methods to remove fetus) in his car, he had a vasectomy (he can't reproduce...) so she cheater
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When an ex-friend got busted for sleeping with a student. I always thought it was inappropriate how she acted outside of school. She would text students on weekends using her number and not a classroom app. She claimed it was for questions about homework, projects, etc. She then invited students to come and watch her perform for a shadow cast of Rocky horror where she played Janet, so she’s in her underwear 70% of the show. Fast forward a few years after all this and I get a message with a news article of her being arrested for f*****g a student. Worst part I had friends that still supported her saying it’s not really a big deal since he was 16-17 and the she of consent is 16. She’s in a position of power and umm ewwww.
In the U.K. the age of consent is irrelevant, if you are a teacher or lecturer then your students are completely off limits (quite rightly), you are in a position of power and as such you aren’t legally allowed to have a relationship of any sort with them. If you do have a relationship then you’ll be on a fast track to losing your job and a possible prosecution.
Same in the State of GA in the US. In fact, IIRC, relationships are also banned for some period of time even after the student has graduated.
Load More Replies...Ppl who go to laws first disgust me... This is not a law thing this is a morality thing. The laws allow for child brides in some effed up countries...
Age of consent is 15 where I'm from but abusing power and being that unprofessional would still be bad enough. I don't know if it is forbidden, since I stay out of such relationships, but it certainly is immoral.
As far as I know, the age of consent only applies if there's only a few years difference between the partners. 16 and 20? Fine. 16 and 40? Somebody is going to jail.
Thankfully he had the good sense to turn you down. You're missing the point. Yes, you would have consented to sex with this man if the opportunity had presented itself, but he was in a position of power and trust so therefore would have been abusing that if he'd took you up on the offer. He most definitely would have been taking advantage of you regardless of how much you wanted him, as he was a grown man, and you were a teenage girl who he owed a duty of care to. Lots of teenagers have crushes on older men and women, especially teaches and coaches, but that doesn't make it OK if the adult acts on it.
Load More Replies...Susanna also opened up about some of her own personal experiences where trusting her intuition was the right move. "The biggest one was canceling my wedding four months before it was due to take place, as I knew the man I was about to marry wasn't the right one," she told Bored Panda.
"On the outside, I portrayed the perfect image and on the inside, my gut was shouting hell no. And it was right. Now, in hindsight, I realized I was in an emotionally abusive relationship where he constantly tried to control the narrative as well as what I did and even how I dressed," the expert explained. "Needless to say, it wasn't a healthy one. But for some reason, because I was so deep in it, I didn't see it then."
Big town hockey coach on local tv always gave me the creeps for some reason. Then years later he was charged with molesting players.
A great uncle that everybody loved, and was my mom's favorite, gave me the creeps, even as a kid. Turns out, death bed confession, he had relations with his teen step daughters. I still haven't told my mom my creep feelings, since she's still processing it all.
When ever I was a kid and Rolf Harris was on TV, I would burst into tears and run out of the room to get away from him. I've always been perceptive.
1) I had a teacher that creeped me out. My mom signed me up for guitar lessons with him (he offered). I went to one lesson and refused to do a second. A few years later, he was found in the act with a 15-year-old. 2) I worked with a guy who was really creepy and tried to force himself on two people (that I knew of). Much later, he tried the same thing with a shuttle driver, but this time the victim pressed charges. I found the name of his lawyer and gave him all the details I had. His plea went from "not guilty" to "guilty" really fast. And, yes, he worked with teenage hockey players.
"Somehow, four months before the wedding, some alarm bells of my gut feeling started to go off. I couldn't sleep, eat, or focus - and I knew something was wrong," Susanna continued. "Eventually, in a random conversation with a friend, I burst into tears and said I couldn't marry him. Finally, I was listening to what my gut was telling me. I canceled the wedding and freed myself of his demands. It was the best decision I ever made."
I read the Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time which made me think I was on the spectrum. I brought it up with my mom who was shocked to hear that I knew. I learned I was diagnosed as a child but my parents didn’t know how to tell me.
Wish OP's parents could have told them. It's easier to learn how to work with something that you know about, not be puzzled and feel that you're the odd one out.
Honestly if ur child is diagnosed with something TELL THEM. It stops a lot of potential pain and struggles to fit in etc. They're just gonna think they're something wrong with them and that they're failing life or something. Let them know. Please.
Why "please"? It's their f*****g obligation! That information belongs to their children, and they have the right to know.
Load More Replies...I was diagnosed with ADD when I was in 3rd grade. My parents never told me what the medicine was for, just that I HAD to take it. Every day! No matter what! I accidentally threw it away one day and I was walking around at recess convinced I was going to die or explode or something since I didn't take it. They took me off of it because of my increased anxiety. If they had actually told me what it was for, I might not have been so anxious!
Oh sheeeet! ....... I was diagnosed at 49 (not a typo). My mum would flippantly say thru my adult years "we thought you had autism as a child". But they never had me tested. Bit sad as a kid I missed out on help to ease my way in the world. Not to mention understand myself better to set me up for less failure in relationships and workforce. I still struggle.
you're not alone there,found out about myself in my early 40's, what a weight lifted...was good to finally find myself,I still struggle too (53now) just be kind to yourself 👍
Load More Replies...Definitely tell them. Kids on the spectrum have difficulty communicating well and interpreting other people's social cues. But, they can see patterns easily. And they WILL detect that people are doing some things different for them than they do for other students.
I don't think they told anybody. They must be the kind of people who think problems magically disappear if you don't speak about them. They probably left OP struggle at school without doing anything about it. It makes me feel so furious!
Load More Replies...Can't understand why parents, friends, etc just cannot f*****g figure out how to be upfront and honest. Why do so many people think kids are so fragile and unable to process difficult information?
For a while there was the worry of labels and how a label affects I self identify. I think labels are great. But naming something kind of takes some power away from it.
Load More Replies...Oh this happened to me too. I spent my whole life thinking that I was different, and then I suspected autism when I found out what it actually was, but I knew my parents would have told me if they thought I had it. Nope, I was diagnosed at 5 and had to find out MYSELF by finding old emails about it on the old family laptop. A week later they brought it up for the first time ever. I don't know if they knew that I went on the computer, but thye must've because why else would they randomly tell me more than 10 years later? edit: I also used to go to the special ed class in my school which is partly what made me suspicious, but they always had that book there
I know this isn't the same thing, but I was very shy and awkward in junior high. I had ONE friend, but my mom didn't like her, because her mom was living with a man who was not her husband. I learned years and years later, when my mom came to one of my therapy sessions, that the school nurse had told her to let me be friends with the girl, as she was a bit tougher and could protect me from bullies.
I " know" one of my kids is on the spectrum, as he struggled in school. But no one bothered to check and I got poo pooed if I even mentioned there was a problem.
Ellen Degeneres. I’ve always kinda been wary of her. She’s just always rubbed me the wrong way. I was a hater of her for a while. Turns out I was right.
Thank you for using wary properly. For some reason I've seen a lot of "weary" when they mean "wary" from the context clues. It makes me weary.
That one, and using reign when they mean rein. You "rein it in,' not "reign it in."
Load More Replies...There was an episode where her wife Anne was on the show was asked how was Ellen at home (or something like that) by Jennifer Anniston. Anne looked at Ellen with a scared look before she answered. Being in an abusive relationship before, I knew this look immediately, it is when the person knows whatever they say is going to wrong.
I always instinctively hated Rolf Harris for reasons I couldn't explain. Decades later... vindication.
I have a hard time hearing, so I thought her name was Ellen Degenerate for years on end. Not entirely wrong on that on lol
Me too. Never could understand why she was famous in the first place. As an LGBTA+ ally, I thought I should watch her sitcom but it's triteness had me bored before half a season was over. I never did get to the coming out episode. And her interview show was also just... meh.
These two boys from my middle school wanted to drive me around town and take me to some places. I had a weird feeling about it, so I declined. They were pushy, but I eventually blocked. A week later, a girl was sexually abused badly by the same boys.
There is a legal difference between rape, sexual assault & sexual abuse. We don't have enough information to know it was rape in this case.
Load More Replies...Good for OP for saying “no!” That big got pushy told her everything she needed to know, it seems! I hope the young lady they did harm got justice and she will never have to see those boys again if she doesn’t want to see them. I hope those boys repented over their coin and received justice to the fullest extent of the law!
We were also curious to know if Susanna had ever regretted refusing to listen to her instincts. "I do remember ignoring them - ironically again at a wedding scenario," she shared. "One of my best friends was getting married in Dubai but with only a few months' notice. I was living in London, UK at the time, so it was a scramble to try and get myself organized."
"Eventually, I realized I had a very important work meeting with a senior member of the company on Monday morning, and the wedding was planned for Saturday evening. With the time difference and flights available, I couldn't find a way to make it to both," Susanna continued. "Stupidly, I ignored my gut feeling to go support my best friend on this day and instead followed my brain to focus on my career path. I missed the wedding and have regretted it ever since. I left the job a year later, so it wasn't the right one for me anyways. Thankfully, my friend was super understanding and we're still very close."
I had a lot of suspicions that my ex was cheating. It started out small, like she was just starting to close herself in more. I thought it was stress and depression so I gave her space and she only wanted more and more space. She never wanted to talk to me about it and any approach I made was met with hostility. One day I went to check her PC for something and noticed her login wasn't the same. For the 5 years we'd been together, it was always the same and that's what gave me the first gut feeling. I went onto my PC and tried logging into her FB to; 1.Maybe see if it would answer what's going on with her or 2.see if that password has been changed too. Turned out all her passwords were suddenly changed. I didn't wanna believe that it might be cheating so I thought I'd at least be transparent and ask her why she decided to change everything. She was shocked, angry and fumbled her answer which really made my feelings even worse. We were quite open with each other and had an open door rule with accounts and what not as she'd been cheated on before so she wanted to know she could "make sure" I wasn't doing anything suspicious. One day I saw she left her PC logged in as she went to take a shower. So I took the opportunity to use our original policy and see what she'd been up to. It didn't take me long to find a bunch of conversations between her and a guy she'd met playing GTA RP. When she got out of the shower and saw me sitting in her chair her face looked a bit worried. So I started by asking her "so you and Avery huh?". My only regret is that I tried to make it work after, in an attempt to save the house. Should have told her to pack a bag and gtfo before I show everyone her explicit conversations.
Noticed the formula here.....Showers + unlocked device = cheaters mystery solved
Yea I found out my ex was planning to meet her ex on a day I had planned to be out of town when she was in the shower
Load More Replies...Having been in a relationship with someone who cheated on me for pretty much the whole time, when I finally confronted her with irrefutable evidence, I wasn't upset or angry about her infinitely, I was angry and upset she'd wasted my time for so long. Please people, don't cheat, just break up.
During the pandemic, I was diagnosed on a video call with Multiple Sclerosis. It's a tricky diagnosis to get in many cases, since it's a complex temporally and spacially oriented diagnosis. The day I finally had the badge of Dx that opened the door for aggressive treatments was truly a good day. While other doctors told me "nah, it's not MS", i was integrating risk and accumulating brain and spinal damage. And I knew it. Turning that corner brought tears of relief, if Im being honest. Followed quickly by those of dismay, naturally. .
I've been in too many situations with doctors, and mechanics even, where I knew what was wrong, they just needed to test for it, and I was instead given the run around that they will check other things instead, only to MUCH LATER find out that I was right from the beginning! It's very frustrating to have to fight to have a voice in one's own health care (or vehicle maintenance), when it's MY body (or car) that I live with every day and am in tune with!! I know what it's supposed to sound like and I can feel out where the issues are, and I think most people can!
I'm lucky my Dr listens to me when I give her a set of symptoms. I'm usually right that there is a problem.
Load More Replies...I had a history of a DVT and one day had similar symptoms. Called my GP and asked for an ultrasound order. Was told an office visit was required. Fine. I'll go to urgent care- it's closer and almost certainly faster (this doc was famous for always being behind in the office). An US was reluctantly phoned in, and I was right - it was another DVT. My DVTs did not present normally, so a test was the only way to know. My docs see me maybe 2-3 times a year, but I see me every day, and I KNOW when something is off. And I have a proven track record - I rarely cry wolf. So they listen to me now. But you should never have to prove something before you are listened to.
God bless you! I went through the same exact scenario as your own . The only difference us I have stage 4 Breast cancer with Mets to bones, liver, lymph. After 9 months of my complaining about how much pain I was in constantly. I too felt a relief in finally knowing what the source of my pain was , but felt completely defeated because at this point it isn't about saving my life, it's about buying some extra time. I hope the best for you in managing your illness.
All women of certain age can relate to this. You knew when you had a yeast infection (down there). But in the old days, you had to a prescription to get the medicine that you, the doctor, and every other woman knew you needed. And the office staff at doctors' offices would say "you'll need a visit to confirm the diagnosis. I can fit you in a week from Wednesday." SCREAM! I found a doctor who would give me a refillable prescription. Was faithful to him for years. When they made Monistat over-the-counter, he said, "I guess it is over between us, huh?"
Whenever the doctor says no to something, tell them you want it noted in your visit summary or charts or wherever that they are declining to run xyz test.
My mom was diagnosed shortly before I was born. Took long enough!
I’m glad OP got what he or she needed! May God help OP in navigating the treatment process!
I slipped on ice and my neck hurt like hell afterwards. My doctor refused to even examine me. Finally, in frustration, he wrote out a prescription for massages. Fortunately, I didn't go because I discovered two years later that I had fractured one of my cervicals quite badly.
As a kid i told my brother that pressing the button harder made the planes in ace combat 5 accelerate more, he didnt believe me, years later i found out the ps2 had pressure sensitive buttons and i was right.
Susanna shared that she had also ignored her gut a few times while working in the corporate world. "The peer pressure to fit the norm is something else, and even when my gut was telling me not to do something, my colleagues convinced me otherwise," she noted.
"It didn't lead to anything destructive, but it did lead me to feeling disappointed in myself as I knew I wasn't living my truth. Don't ever let others tempt you out of listening to your gut instinct," she told Bored Panda. "If it's a no, it's a no for a reason (even if you can't yet articulate it and it's just a feeling). You should never feel the need to justify your decisions based on gut feeling. You can just say, 'I just feel this is what's best', and leave it at that. If people can't comprehend that, it's their problem, not yours."
She told me she broke off all contact with the other guy so that we could focus on us and our relationship. She went to the kitchen to get some wine while watched the netflix Lemony Snicket and forgot her phone the couch. It lit up with a message from the other guy, with the text preview saying "i love you so much baby we'll get through this". I already knew, but it was nice to get the evidence that I knew.
A series of unfortunate events. There's both a tv show and a movie.
Load More Replies...Perhaps, but since this submission was posted to this article and this specific ask, it's safe to assume she was still cheating and that text was enough for her partner to call it off.
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My brother asking me for money to buy a car and me telling him he can't drive and he's going to hurt somebody or end up in trouble. He told me he'd buy the car one way or another. It wasn't even 24 hours before he was in jail for driving without a license under the influence of d***s.
But that kind of common sense is part of intuition
Load More Replies...I mean sometimes when a gay guy is down bad he's just got to get in jail.
Load More Replies...When Susan Smith, of South Carolina, claimed a black man had stolen her car with her two sons in the back seat, I could TELL she was lying.
One of the more interesting facts about that case was how police began to suspect her. She said something about the traffic light pattern and the intersection of the supposed car jacking/abduction and one of the cops basically said, "The signal at that intersection doesn't use that pattern." Kudos on the police work.
Load More Replies...I've read too many stories of people stealing cars and finding kids in the back seat and they always return the kids. "Oops, alright we gonna put you out here by the door to wait on mommy."
There was a dude who did a similar thing in the late 80’s or early- to mid-90’s. He shot his pregnant wife who was riding in the passenger seat and blamed “2 Black guys”. The cops were all too happy to arrest any and every Black male who happened to be in the vicinity and it ruined some of their lives
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Susan_Smith According to the South Carolina Department of Corrections, she will be eligible for parole on November 4, 2024.
We also asked the expert for advice on how people can get better at following their own instincts. "Slow down and listen. Often we're so busy and our days are so full, we barely have time to listen to others let alone to ourselves," Susanna says. "Don't underestimate the value of connecting to yourself and your inner voice. This is what is going to best guide you in your life and lead you to your happiest, most fulfilling life."
"No one else can tell you what's right for you because only you know what's best for you. Learn to listen to your gut because it will know what is best," the expert continued. "The more you practice it, the easier it will get. And even if your brain might be saying yes, try to high pause on all the rational thoughts and ask yourself, 'How do I actually feel about this?'"
When I was a kid I was watching the news with my parents and they were interviewing the lady who killed her kids by drowning them in a car (horrible story in the 90’s) and I blurted out “she did it.” My parents go super mad at me and said I shouldn’t say things like that, blah, blah, blah. Sure enough. She did it. I could just tell somehow. My family still talks about it. They think I have some gift. I was just sad someone could do that to their kids. Edit for spelling.
I told my husband the same thing. Yes, it was Susan Smith...may she rot in hell.
friend of mine's mother tried to unalive her, her husband, and their three kids (one being mu friend obvi) one of them only 3. she failed and was sent to jail bc one of the older two had been recording on snap by chance when it's happened. she never told me, but I it from a local news article. (she doesn't know I know). it's tragic. the father passed but the kids and her were fine. she's in jail now
Load More Replies...I saw the interview when she said someone had abducted her children. I had a sudden sick feeling and I knew she had killed them. I told my husband and he looked at me strangely. Sure enough it finally came out thar she had done it. The certainty of that realization was incredible. I just knew.
My mum and I got that feeling together a few times. The murderer while being interviewed during pretending to help for the search for 2 missing girls (UK) both said aloud "He did it." Sure enough. We also called it that the (then) DoC Catherine was pregnant about 10 days before the announcement.
I've always known when missing persons are already gone. It's this wave of regret or sadness that hits me when I see their picture on the news or in a social media post. Sometimes it's intuitive, but other times it comes from a colder, more practical side of my mind, like if they've been gone for too long, or if they were using water crafts. Either way the sadness is heavy but brief.
Ok, The first time I saw Susan Smith on TV, I thought she did it. I was in England when those two girls disappeared and I picked out the guy that I thought did it and I was right. I knew OJ did it. BUT I was working in Atlanta during the Olympics and I was SURE Richard Jewel did the bombing in the park. He was completely innocent, but the number of people who thought he was guilty drove him to an early grave. I keep my opinions to myself now. There will be time after the verdict to voice the disgust we have for the perpetrators.
My mom knew when she had that weird "bday party" at the grave of her kids. She was shooting silly string all around and my mom said no grieving mom would do that.
In this particular case, I think more people instantly thought she was responsible than didn't think so.
Thats a coincidence. I watched her on television, crying about her kids and I could tell she was lying. Her voice sounded forced, not with real grief.
June 1994, San Francisco, Candlestick Park for the Giants game. Walking with a couple of buddies in the concession areas waiting for the game to start. Instead of the PA system, announcing the pregame festivities, announcements, etc., The news broadcast of the white bronco making a run for the border was playing. When the O.J. Simpson story first broke days before, we couldn't believe that the Juice could have had anything to do with it. My friend looked at us as we stood there listening to the police chase of the Bronco and said, "You know, that's not what innocent people do.".
I know, right? I never would have come to the same conclusion...
Load More Replies...He was the ONLY one with Motive Means and Opportunity. Of course the f*****g glove didn't fit, it was leather that had been soaked in blood and had shrunk as leather does when it gets wet! All the evidence pointed to only one person, OJ! May he and his a*****e attorneys rot in hell.
OJ's attorneys did their job. The ones who let him go free were the police who mishandled evidence, and the prosecutors. People who think OJ's attorneys should have just tried less hard basically don't believe in the adversarial justice system and think the state should decide who goes to jail and just hold sham trials for show.
Load More Replies...It’s because of the moment I found out OJ was a suspect in his wife’s killing that I look at things far, FAR more cynically. I think it was the “That was the LAST person I’d have suspected!” that caused me from then on to look at the least-suspicious person. I’ll bet this is true for many others, too. 😕
Yeeaahhhh… this one doesn’t count. Errybody thought that same thing
He was right! I firmly believe O.J. Simpson would have cooperated fully with the investigation had he been innocent.
When I was in highschool I thought my stepmother was cheating on my dad. Me and a friend rode out bikes up to the mall and as soon as we walked in I saw her and some guy sitting across from each other right in front of the food court. My stepmother was so shocked seeing me her eyes got as big as pie plates. As they were walking away he put his arm around her and they were whispering something to each other.
"One of the easiest ways to not listen to your gut instinct is when you start to listen to everyone else around you," Susanna added. "It's easy to fall into this trap because it's a very noisy world - from our friends and family offering well-intended advice to society and social media pressuring us with their shoulds. When it comes down to listening to your very own gut instinct, learn to ignore all that outside noise and fully reconnect with your inner voice. It's that voice that will know what is best for you."
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Scott Peterson. The day he spoke about his wife with all her family supporting him, I told my husband, "He killed her".
For both of the commenters here trying to say he DIDN'T do it. No one and I mean NO ONE does the things Scott did afterward if they are innocent. 4! cell phones. Changing hair to blonde. Also, the affair with Amber Frey. Whom he told he would be a WIDOWER 2 weeks before Laci died. His car was stuffed with around ~15k in cash, viagra LOL and tons of survival camping gear etc. THESE ARE NOT THE THINGS AN INNOCENT PERSON DOES. And this is just the tip of suspicious things ol Scotty did. "I watched some crappy true crime person who wants to make money on youtube by rehashing old crimes" does NOT mean they get to rewrite history.
I feel bad for Amber. She truly thought he was a widower and when she found out the truth immediately ended things and testified against him. To this day she says she regrets starting a relationship with him.
Load More Replies...There's actually very little evidence that he did it. I watched one of those true crime shows and there's very little in the way of actual evidence. I'm not saying he didn't do it, I'm just saying that you can understand they wouldn't want to arrest him without something iron-clad.
I’m half way through watching this. I’m on the fence, but why was he disguised trying to get in to Mexico with a fake passport?
To Sven, doing that would make him look more guilty.
Load More Replies...It sure looks like he killed her. He had such a flat effect when he was pandering to the cameras during tv interviews.
Yup. The same goes for Drew Peterson; both men isolated themselves but did not display genuine emotion or act in ways characteristic of people who are truly grieving. That neither of them got law enforcement’s or medical professionals’ help after discovering that their wives had died should have been a big red flag immediately in each case! Drew Peterson‘s law enforcement colleagues also didn’t trust him and neither of the women’s families liked the men, as I recall!
Cycling home from work with a friend, the route took us from a downhill stretch on a main road and then through a smaller side street busy with shops, cafes and nose to curb parking. As we swung off the main road my spidey senses went off and I hit the brakes even though the path was clear, my friend continued at speed until a black BMW turned right in front of him. I barely managed to stop and would have crashed too if I hadn't braked earlier. Friend was a little bruised, bike was ok, new BMW had big scratches right across the front of it.
People have just stopped paying any attention while driving...feels like everyone thinks they're the only one on the road anymore. Who cares who's around you right? Idk maybe I'm just super careful but I always know where everyone is in my mirrors front back either side and the cars behind and in front of all of em. I have to do this because I can see people flying up behind cutting through traffic or something and making sure I give them a space to come in ( or if I'm in a mood and the traffic is set right I'll block em from keeping it going as long as I can) like really how far u getting. People here pass in middle turning lanes that are used even and fly around any time they can on the one main way through the towns. It's ridiculous.
I wish we could have more cops patrolling the streets and highways. There been quite few times I wish police were around when people were speeding and get pulled over. Or do other stupid driving things.
Load More Replies...Plus, we all know in Germany that BMW usually do not get sold with a working blinker. At least, this is how we explain why BMW drivers usually never use one. 😜
Yup! If something doesn’t seem right, it probably isn’t! Good for OP for being safe and I’m glad his or her friend got out OK, too!
I suspected that an allegedly close friend of mine was the one spreading lies about me behind my back. She was the kind of girl who would always say I was her best friend, I was her sister, etc. but would rarely contact me unless she needed something. Found out people knew things about me I'd only told one or two others in confidence, so I made up something about myself and told it to only her. Rest of our friends learnt it and confronted me about it and I had my "I knew it" moment. Never spoke to her again. Edit: the "thing" I made up - a different girl in our friend group had cheated on her boyfriend with another guy in the friend group whom I'd been texting with but it never went anywhere serious as I found him a bit sus (he told me he was in love with me 4 days into texting). I told the snake friend that we were dating and told her not to tell anyone because I wasn't ready for people to know. Around the time the other girl's boyfriend found out about her and the guy, my snake friend told everyone about me and the guy implying that I'd also been cheated on. Not only that but she heavily implied that I deserved it because...she had a crush on that guy EVEN THOUGH she had a boyfriend. This all sounds like high school drama but sadly it happened mostly in our early 20s. I'm not friends with any of those people anymore.
I had a "friend" exactly like this. No idea why I was the only target of her rumour mongering. We weren't even close and I had never said or done anything that would warrant such horrible behaviour towards me. It took me a few years before I even figured out she was the one spreading ridiculous rumours about me. Finally during my third year at uni I heard from an old high school buddy that I had apparently: gotten knocked up, had no idea who the father was, and had given myself an abortion with a coat hanger. Anyone who knew me even a little would have known there was no chance of any of that happening, which is how the rumours were all eventually traced back to her. F*ck you, Marissa.
I will never understand the human need to spread rumors. Or this love of being petty that goes hand in hand with it that and these BP posts of "Look how I took petty revenge on this thing! Isn't it glorious?!" I'll just never understand what motivates this type of behavior. "Guys look how insecure I am that I'm willing to make things up about this person! Isn't it wonderful!?" Indeed, F all the Marissas.
Load More Replies...Friends like this exist, I stopped talking to mine the moment I heard her backstapping me. Figured she was doing it to me, as she was to so many other 'friends', sadly probley for attention on her part. Warned her many, many times she will lose friends doing this, and if i ever had solid proof she was as nasty about me behind my back, as i had heard her say about others, our friendship was a lie.I was fed up with being hurt, told her we are done, never spoke to her again.
Ha, this is how one of our WAGS caught out who was selling her stories to newspapers (English football) - got dubbed Wagatha Christie.
Yep, I, too, had a snake friend. People who had known me for longer than they had known him were suddenly cold with me ... after he himself told me that he had spent time with them. After I cut him off, one of my best friends confessed to me all the lies he had told her (and she hadn't believed him but she didn't want to cause problems).
There’s more context, but my ex-husband’s ex-girlfriend (who I love like a sister and has helped me so much) sent me screenshots of him trying to cheat with her very early in our relationship. He also texted her that he missed her a few days before we got married. I always knew it. Edited for more clarity so that people don’t mistakenly think I’m the biggest nitwit this side of the Internet: I suspected that something was going on for years, but had no evidence and was repeatedly called crazy, insecure, jealous etc. Divorced his a**e nearly 6 years later, got in touch with his ex (that’s the long story I didn’t want to get into), and then finally saw the screenshots. Had I seen them earlier, I’d have hightailed it out of there. He also faked a text from her, later in our marriage, begging to take him back — just to make me feel like s**t. Had my suspicions about that text too, and she confirmed it was fake at the same time she sent me the (real) screenshots.
I’m glad the ladies were able to form a solid friendship in spite of the terrible circumstances they experienced!
The day I confirmed my ex had secretly turned into an alcoholic was pretty rough. Long story short, she showed up to my house stumbling and then it clicked…all those times I thought it was alcohol in her breath it was—I had just been gas lit to believe other wise.
You're not my ex (we lived together), but i feel you. I was the alcoholic. I'm ashamed every day. He wasn't a good man, but he didn't deserve what I put him through. Be well in future relationships. Edit: I got engaged last night to a man I'm completely honest with. He supports me in all ways, knows my history, and life is healthier.
Lee, I feel you on that, I am the alcoholic, I've been sober and learned a lot about myself. My ex cheated but I also don't think she deserved what I put her through. Congratulations on your engagement. Stay true to yourself.
Load More Replies...I’m glad OP was able to confront his ex and hope both are doing better now. 💔
The Prince Andrew BBC interview reaffirming my suspicions.
briefly met him in 1988 when he and fergie toured the uss nimitz where i was serving. he walked through my work area and a few of us were introduced to him. shook his hand. at first, i thought it was cool. now, not so much!
was his hand sweating? as allegedly he has non sweatyitis from serving in the Falklands conflict in 1982
Load More Replies...…some of these aren’t even remotely intuitive; they’re just common sense.
He was married and she was way too young and being coerced - don't slutshame victims of paedophilia.
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When i was 8 i looked at my mom and asked her if she was pregnant, she said no, and i asked if she was sure and she doubled down. i then said, “well you should probably start going to the gym you’re getting kinda fat.”
About a week later she announced in front of the whole family that she was in fact pregnant. she just didn’t wanna tell me before everyone else lol.
it sounds like she already knew then. which is a good thing because at least it probably meant she found the comment funny rather than hurtful
I have a friend who found out this way; the oldest child knew before her parents found out they were having the youngest sibling. The expecting parents found out around two weeks later that their oldest was right and the family welcomed the youngest one about nine months after that!
Respect, who's she? But really it's incredibly rude to call anyone especially your parents fat, even I knew that
When my neighbor was mauled by her pet, which she continually plastered on social media in various outfits. won't say what kind of pet but you can guess.
Oh yeah, chicken are dinosaurs after all. Imagine all that T-Rex rage concentrated in that small body.
Load More Replies...I bet it was a velociraptor, did you see what they did in that documentary, jurassic park?
Canada** Goose.. named after John Canada, the ornithologist who differentiated their species from other species of geese
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Load More Replies...Went out for my wife’s best friend’s birthday in 2022. Met best friend’s friend, Ashley and her husband, Brian. I generally have a bad judge of character but I marked Brian as a scumbag within minutes of meeting him. I have a terrible poker face, so my wife wasn’t happy that I clearly wasn’t having a good time hanging with Brian. Anyway, about 8 months later it’s revealed that Brian took the profits from his business for sports betting purposes and was in the hole over $1 million. Brian convinced ashley to quit her job when they got engaged and now she’s severely behind her prior career prospects and moved back in with her parents at 35 because she and Brian had to sell the house immediately as Brian allegedly owed some people who work outside the confines of the law a nice chunk of change.
Much less scandalous than some of these other ones, but for me it's definitely Blue Bunny's Bunny Track ice cream. When I was a kid I would absolutely demolish the stuff. There was a little tiny grocery store near my home and I'm pretty sure my parents were the only ones buying it to keep it in stock there. But then one day I see on the shelf a variety called "Bunny Tracks Premium." It had caramel and peanut bits in it, a total violation of all things holy in my opinion. As time went on, the store would stock less and less of original Bunny Tracks and more of the imposter variety. Child me was convinced that they were phasing out the original and replacing it with this affront to God and soon the premium variation would be the only one you'd be able to find. My parents probably thought I was insane but here we are, many years later. Original, unadulterated Bunny Tracks no longer exist and the variation with the caramel and peanuts it's just labeled as standard Bunny Tracks. Anyway Kemp's Moose Tracks is my one true love now.
Dad got caught sexting a hooker on my mom's birthday. I knew he was an adulterer, but it was nice to finally get confirmation.
For me it was my mom. I accidentally found some very intimate photos of her and her boss. I knew she had cheated before but I was kid thn bt now I had evidence so dat was a great year
When I forgot to knock when I went in my managers office. Found out why someone had the job title of "Head CSR".
I don’t think the word “communism” means what you think it means.
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A lighter heated one, I had a suspicion my sister in law might be pregnant, and at that dinner she surprised us with the ultrasound!! Later in the car on the ride home I just said “I knew it!!” We just celebrated the baby’s first birthday.
Funnily enough, my mind had automatically corrected jt to that. I looked back when I saw your comment and realized it said lighter heated and not lighter hearted
Load More Replies...there was a woman at our stableyard where I knew before everyone else. I didn't know specifically WHAT I just knew she was acting odd. I asked the adults, don't you think Sarah is acting weird? they just said, not innacurately, "she always acts weird" then about a month later, she announced she was pregnant.
When I was pregnant, my co-worker knew before I did. She is the one that convinced me to take a test actually.
Sometimes you just "know" with pregnancy. Idk what it is. I had thought a few months ago that my aunt might be pregnant but I didn't have any proof. Turns out she is, but she would have barely known/not known when I had that thought.
When I was a kid my friend's neighbor was working on his car door window and I don't remember what he was doing at the moment exactly but I said "I'm going to laugh if your window falls through your car door " and wouldn't you know it? Not a minute later the window falls through the car door, stuck between the ground and inside the car door. I still don't know how it happened. But I knew it was about to happen. He said I jinxed him.
I predicted the day one of my parents would pass. As soon as their partner called, I just knew. It wasn’t scary or overwhelming, it just was. That was one of the times I was sad to be right.
This happened when my Baba passed. My mum called me and it was obvious that she had been crying and was trying to steady her voice. I somehow already knew what she was going to say, even though my Baba hadn’t been ill or anything (she’d caught pneumonia but it hadn’t been that bad until her last day on earth. She was only 75.)
Brother in law overdosed. Everyone else was convinced he was done with d***s but I just knew he wasn't.
He could have indeed stopped with d***s. But then do d***s again and think they can use the dose they were used to, which their body can't handle anymore
I don't know but at the time I just felt like buying Put Options right before Coronavirus hit and it surprised the F**K out of me, I was shaking seeing $2,000 worth of Options turn into $100,000 within 2 days. It was crazy! l m a o 🌝.
Recently discovered/learned about covert narcissism. It explains many, many abused things about my relationships from others. First from my parents and now from my missus of 20yrs. It’s like I knew I wasn’t feeling right for all my life. Like something wasn’t right. I knew there was nothing wrong with me but I wasn’t out of the hole. Until recently that is. I’ve broken down almost every day this week at this crude reality. But relieved that “I knew it” wasn’t all in my head Edit: yep, I’m getting therapy for this and other things I’ve been dragging around for decades.
“Covert narcissism is one of two types of narcissistic personality disorder that is characterized by hypersensitivity and defensiveness. People with covert narcissism are self-conscious, socially insecure, and introverted, which means their narcissistic actions are usually more subtle.“
SM? Sado Masochist? God I wish people would stop using abbreviations they are no longer necessary thanks to every phone having a full keyboard
Load More Replies...I remember asking this popular girl out to a dance, miraculously she had said yes, so at home I looked up how to do the best romantic dances, and practiced for hours. When I arrived she had come with a date, and totally blew me off, and proceeded to ignore me the entire night. It took all night to realize that she was f*****g with me in the first place, that I should've realized it earlier, but.... I'm not too bright.
What an asshile. Sadly this is common and has been around since the dawn of time.
That a person at work, who almost constantly worked from home even when they should have been in the office was not working at all and was also using the company card as their personal piggy bank. They had to go on leave and it all came out. I don't normally suspect people to not work when WFH, but they never seemed available and only responded to messages between 10 and 11pm.
You’d be surprised at how easy it is to feign work being done. I just walk around with a clipboard and pen and go “hmmm” at various things around my store, it works wonders.
Load More Replies...When my best bud, who was suspiciously perfect, took his own life.
I knew my old best friend killed that girl when I heard the bull s**t story she gave the cops when she was hiding from them.
Ex was cheating. Don't ask me how I found out for sure, but I knew it before. My son is an adult now, and I finally told him why I'm mad to this day at his mom. He was less than a year old. He kept on and on about why I'm still so mad at her because i sheltered him and blah blah blah... Sometimes, things are better left unsaid. Can't un-ring that bell. Now he's mad at her. And it shows. Still wasn't my fault, though, and we (my son and I) have a great relationship.
I say it to myself a lot. Mostly because I’m an observer and a good listener. So there are usually hints of a marriage is in trouble, someone is pregnant, or someone is cheating.
I found an account here about three years ago that I suspected belonged to someone I knew. I definitely hinted that I knew it was them, especially near the end of the relationship, but I never outright told them. I know they knew for a specific reason I don't want to go into but they just acted like nothing happened. I figured it out for sure because they have a niche hobby related to something very specific and I found a comment right before they deleted it in a relevant subreddit. I thought "disco." That's when I knew for sure There was also a f*****g filthy R4R account that belonged to the same person but because of what was on it I never said anything at all. It would have been humiliating for them. Like this was not a normal R4R, I'll just say that.
I knew it might be them, but then I knew it was them because they said something that hinted it might be them. In the end, there was a dirty B2B account that looked like it and it was humiliating and so they ended up disappearing. None of this is normal.
OP found an account on Reddit. OP believed it was someone they knew. OP even hinted to this person that they had found their secret Reddit account. It was never confirmed. The Reddit account posted about a very niche hobby that the person also shared which confirmed OPs suspicions. Also OP found a NSFW account which they believed belonged to the same person.
At 12 years walking with Lil sis around town, get approached by a dude with a camera. He wants to take our photo so he can draw us. He also needs our number so he can contact us and give us the photo. I told the creep to f**k off and took my sis home. Weeks later, the dude gets arrested for stalking little girls and having images of the cp he took himself.
I was with my dad, riding under a train overpass, and noticed a train stopped overhead. I'd never seen a train stopped there before, and told my dad "the train is stopped because [name of a teacher my mother worked with] jumped in front of it." My dad dismissed the notion and we went home. Five minutes after we walked through the door, the phone rang. I said "That's [name of principal]. Calling to tell mom [teacher] died." I was right on both accounts.
Quite a large number of people (friends, family, people I watch/read content from, etc.) who I've suspected are closeted transgender have come out of the closet as transgender. It's to the point that nowadays I don't bother voicing my thoughts on who might be as I don't want to scare them deeper into the closet if they are.
I knew my parents would get the divorced, at least that's the reason I now give for cutting up their wedding photos as a child. I will point out that I cut everything when I got my hands on a pair of scissors, plants, my hair, clothes, bedsheets, basically anything without pulse. I seriously blame my parents for not locking up their scissors.
I was walking home in the evening after dark while pregnant. I usually make sure I keep my head up to be more aware of my surroundings, but had a bad day at work, so I was looking down. It was my turn to cross at the intersection, as I had used the pedestrian signal. Almost halfway across, I randomly looked up and jumped backwards for some reason, as a car plowed through the red light, maybe a foot or two in front of me. I don't know what made me look up and jump backwards at that very second.
I feel like for a good few of these, people didn't understand the question!
My best friend was dating this girl that everyone in our friend group thought was just wonderful, but there was something about her that rubbed me the wrong way, i just couldnt like her no matter how i tried. When my best friend told me he wanted to marry her and asked me what I thought of her, I told him that I had tried my best to like her, but I just couldn't. I told him he was making a mistake. He got angry with me and cut me out of his life, as did all our friends who liked her. Fast forward 6 months, they get married and within three months, he caught her cheating with him in their own bed. He was devastated, and came to me to ask how I knew she was bad for him. We patched our friendship back together, and now he listens to me when I give opinions!
At 12 years walking with Lil sis around town, get approached by a dude with a camera. He wants to take our photo so he can draw us. He also needs our number so he can contact us and give us the photo. I told the creep to f**k off and took my sis home. Weeks later, the dude gets arrested for stalking little girls and having images of the cp he took himself.
I was with my dad, riding under a train overpass, and noticed a train stopped overhead. I'd never seen a train stopped there before, and told my dad "the train is stopped because [name of a teacher my mother worked with] jumped in front of it." My dad dismissed the notion and we went home. Five minutes after we walked through the door, the phone rang. I said "That's [name of principal]. Calling to tell mom [teacher] died." I was right on both accounts.
Quite a large number of people (friends, family, people I watch/read content from, etc.) who I've suspected are closeted transgender have come out of the closet as transgender. It's to the point that nowadays I don't bother voicing my thoughts on who might be as I don't want to scare them deeper into the closet if they are.
I knew my parents would get the divorced, at least that's the reason I now give for cutting up their wedding photos as a child. I will point out that I cut everything when I got my hands on a pair of scissors, plants, my hair, clothes, bedsheets, basically anything without pulse. I seriously blame my parents for not locking up their scissors.
I was walking home in the evening after dark while pregnant. I usually make sure I keep my head up to be more aware of my surroundings, but had a bad day at work, so I was looking down. It was my turn to cross at the intersection, as I had used the pedestrian signal. Almost halfway across, I randomly looked up and jumped backwards for some reason, as a car plowed through the red light, maybe a foot or two in front of me. I don't know what made me look up and jump backwards at that very second.
I feel like for a good few of these, people didn't understand the question!
My best friend was dating this girl that everyone in our friend group thought was just wonderful, but there was something about her that rubbed me the wrong way, i just couldnt like her no matter how i tried. When my best friend told me he wanted to marry her and asked me what I thought of her, I told him that I had tried my best to like her, but I just couldn't. I told him he was making a mistake. He got angry with me and cut me out of his life, as did all our friends who liked her. Fast forward 6 months, they get married and within three months, he caught her cheating with him in their own bed. He was devastated, and came to me to ask how I knew she was bad for him. We patched our friendship back together, and now he listens to me when I give opinions!
