People Are Telling Their Darkest Secrets To This Twitter Account, And Here Are 50 Of Their Juiciest Confessions (New Answers)
There's a Twitter account (that can now also be found on Facebook) which offers people the chance to anonymously reveal their secrets, and with 535K followers, it has become a viral online sensation.
Titled Fesshole, the account is the brainchild of Rob Manuel. Those of you that are well-versed in internet culture might know him from creating 'B3ta', a meme design website that famously sued Coca-Cola after they ripped off one of its viral animations for a TV ad.
Anyway, the "sins" on Fesshole range from the clumsily awkward (messing up a handshake) to the hilariously outrageous (hiring someone because they share your love for pro-wrestling), and, I guess, their popularity shows that in the age of social detachment, a little gossip can go a long way.
Continue scrolling to check out Fesshole's latest content, and don't miss out on the chat we had about secrets with Dr. Michael Slepian, the Sanford C. Bernstein & Co. Associate Professor of Leadership and Ethics at Columbia Business School, spread out in between the pictures.
However, if you go through the entire thing and your curiosity wants more, fire up our earlier publication on Fesshole.
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I see nothing wrong with this at all. They wouldn't take care of her give her to someone that can and will
To begin with, Dr. Slepian said when we keep a secret, we often mean to protect something. "Perhaps we believe that it protects our reputation, or our relationship with someone. And yet, our secrets tend to harm our well-being, and can harm our relationships too," the author of The Secret Life of Secrets: How Our Inner Worlds Shape Well-Being, Relationships, and Who We Are told Bored Panda.
"When we choose to be alone with something, especially something important, we tend not to develop the healthiest way of thinking about it. It often takes another person to get the help that we need. Even a short conversation with a trusted person can offer so much. Emotional support and fresh perspectives can easily be offered by your confidant, but are hard to find on your own. This is why we often want to bring others in. We know that another person can prove helpful, and that having a conversation about the secret would be a healthy thing to do. To have a secret from everyone is to be alone with that thing, and we don't like to be alone. Your desire for help and social connection is in battle with your fear of how others will respond. When we let fear win, we hold the secret tight."
I had a 6 year old foster kid who was obsessed with wanting glasses like her older sister. Alas, she didn’t need them. :/ While her older sister walked around trying on various frames for her new glasses, she was trying to be supportive. I couldn’t bare to see her disappointed, so I told her to pick out whatever frames she also wanted. She was over-the-moon elated! We bought her “glasses” as-is without a prescription… just a clear lens. They were a hideous pink cat eye style. She wore them EVERYWHERE! And anytime she would get complimented on them, she’d tally up those compliments, “See? Another compliment!” It was ridiculously cute! :)
I always want to ask Alexa to end the simulation {like the Matrix} but don't. I'm afraid if it does life might be worst then it is.
With Edy Moulton-Tetlock, a doctoral student in management studying organizational behavior, Dr. Slepian asked more than 800 online participants to describe their personal secrets, using his list of 38 common categories of secrets as their guide.
The participants described more than 10,000 secrets, including both those they had shared with someone ("confided secrets") and the ones they had kept all to themselves ("total secrets").
The data revealed that confiding a secret predicted improved well-being. That's because the participant received social support and because the act of revealing the secret seemed to minimize the amount of time the person spent thinking about it.
Not siding the racist person but this ain't cool bro/sis or whoever you are
I'm not saying this was bad of you, just consider checking first if there is any medicine or other important stuff inside the bag. If it wasn't: well deserved
Not to mention passport, driver's license, credit cards...
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With all this petty revenge. I’m scared to get old or have dementia. People will harm me or treat me like c**p for accidentally (or because my mind is messed up) offending them.
Just don't be a racist douche canoe and you'll probably be fine.
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So the devil DOES wear Prada (or carry it I suppose). Yes I know that's cheesy but so is a pizza and most people tend to like it.
Good! I hope a crab now carries it around and shows it off to all the fishies!
While I definitely want the racist to get what she deserved, what the author of this post did was still wrong
I don't think she'll connect the two. I think she'll think someone who is a different color from her stile her purse. Lesson will not be learned.
I agree 100%. Doing that didn't prove anything to the woman, and it might've even played into her bigoted beliefs. ("Some no-good [fill in racial slur here] must've stolen my bag — you can't trust any of 'em!") Would've been a lot better for OP to just tell the woman exactly what they thought of her ignorant views, and then turn their on her for the rest of the event.
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I snort laughed at this. And more that so many will miss the meaning! <3
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nah, thats not cool. you just throw a 1000$ Handbag into Water. thats property damage and thats a legit Crime. who knows what was inside the Bag, much Money, important Papers like the Passport, Drive License and other things. what if someone would do the same thing to you. you just went too far with that, whoever you are and tbh i hope they found out that it was you who did it and you got your right punishment. if it were me you would be sorry for the rest of your life.
I’m sorry, but blatant racists kind of have to take what they get. They earned it, you could say.
I mean considering saying all races are equal is considered racist now adays, unless I get a full account of what the supposedly racist act was before I believe it.
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No not cool, I don't care how awful a person is you don't throw their stuff away you don't destroy their personal property
It's the same entitled attitude that encourages looting and rioting
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This made me picture a huge hermit crab kicking it at the bottom of the bay, lugging around their new Prada house.
Awe...you made a nice and very expensive home for the fishies....How sweet! LOL
Let's just hope they didn't have medication in there or you could go to jail for murder...
this is destruction of others property there is no excuse for that, it's not yours don't take it
I should've done something similar to that racist b!tch who lives across the street. I'll keep this in mind.
No this was just wrong. If she had any sort of medication in there she would have died, i..e inhaler. Also, I do wonder if she really was a racist just based on what you heard. Two girls once eavesdropped on my convo I had with my husband. He had a co worker that faked disability and made him work extra. All they heard me say was the word 'disabled,' and my rant on what a horrible person he was and they got upset.
thats actually not cool. a 1000$ Handbag got thrown in the Ocean? and even with all the Stuff inside. no that went too far. what if someone would do the same thing to you. thats just an a...hole move.
Women's party prior to one of them becoming a bride - female equivalent of a bachelor party.
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Think the police would look the other way if it was reported stolen and then spotted on another passenger’s arm
I hate pointing this or defending a racist but just b/c she's a racist scumbag doesn't mean she's a thief scumbag
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Too bad. Now the racist b***h is going to have to replace it by shoplifting another one.
Anyone who buys a purse that costs$1000 doesn't deserve a purse that costs$1000.
Dr. Slepian's research suggests that someone who is more secretive tends to be less extraverted and less emotionally stable, but more conscientious.
However, we also need to be aware of what it means to be "unloaded" on.
"When another person confides in us, this can be a boon but also a burden. When someone trusts us to the point of revealing a secret, we understand this is an act of intimacy, and often feel closer to the person as a result."
And yet, Dr. Slepian explained that if the secret is something we find troubling or surprising, we might find our thoughts returning to it again and again.
"The secret can weigh on our mind. And if the secret implicates someone you know, then you'll have to keep the secret from them, which will bring its own burden," he added.
While Dr. Slepian thinks it's possible for people to live like an open book, sharing everything with the world, he wouldn't advise it.
"There is a class of secrets that most everyone agrees is okay to keep. People often call these 'white lies,'" he clarified. "If you are just arriving at the party, and your friend asks you how their outfit looks, but it is too late to change, then most people agree that saying something positive is the kinder response ('You look great!'). If the truth needlessly hurts someone's feelings, holding back is often the more compassionate choice."
I don't like the taste of beer, wine or spirits, I'm more than happy with a soft drink or juice. I've done it to stop people asking "but whyyyyyyy?" I don't drink and "just try this one".
There's no exact formula that tells Rob Manuel which submissions he needs to feature on Fesshole. His choices are based on simply going through the list and reading them. Everything depends on his judgment of what he thinks is funny or interesting. So if you send Rob something and it doesn't appear on the account, don't sweat it. There are other online "priests" you can share your secrets with. Like the subreddit r/confessions.
This is why I have a Furbo camera… so I can talk to my animals. My cat is too smart! When he wants my attention… he triggers the camera, so I’ll check on him and have a little chat with him. :)
My brother-in-law, who is a right know it all, fitted his fridge freezer into his kitchen work tops. For years my sister-in-law complained nothing was ever cold and the freezer took an eternity to do basic freezing......he'd left the Styrofoam encasing the whole of the back.
Well you told him. It on him should of listened sometimes that is what it takes and you can have a laugh about it
Shame on you! Think of all the jobs you're stealing from people with REAL interpretive dance degrees! :)
That is really sweet and you'll treasure your time together. I know a family whose son's forced their father out of the business when he got older because he did make mistakes and they were frustrated, then when the older brother got older, the younger forced the older brother out too... karma
Well, you have to vent somewhere, and doing it in private, with others in the same shitty boat, is the best and most supportive place.
If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times... Humans should have hooves!
I'm torn on this one. One one hand, it feels wrong to go that long without telling him you've cheated on him, but on the other hand, telling him could cause a permanent rift in your relationship, so keeping it secret is best
Gross misconduct is gross misconduct. It doesn't matter if it was her birthday or not.
What I got from this story is more in the line "B.S jobs" than working "smarter"...
Have to be honest. Real D**k Move, whoever the f**k you are.
That was not OK. Every minute the bowel is left exposed increases the risk of infections and complications. Your embarrasment is rather unimportant compared to your parients health.
Some of these were sweet, but most are either sad or horrible (or both): Stealing! Yaaaaaaay!!!
While I understand the urge, I just can’t get behind the theft and destruction of personal property some of these blithely retell.
My SO accidentally tripped me when I was 7 months pregnant. It was totally an accident and I said I was fine. My water broke and the baby died. They think these two events were unrelated. I understand there were a series of events that caused her death and not just this, but they would most certainly blame themselves. I never even told our doctor that I know why my water broke.
I have a confession. When I was 22 I got my first full time design job with a marketing company. Shortly after I was hired, I discovered that the guy who sat at my computer before me (and no longer worked there) had left himself signed in to his ebay account. Because I was a very dumb young adult, I thought it would be funny to order something ridiculous and have it sent to his house. I ordered a blow up doll. Ha ha now at 39 it makes me chuckle but I do feel a little bad.
Most of the stories are by one guy, so I guess, his life is so boring he fantasies about the life of 100 others summed up in his imaginary life.
Sorry the guy is not one person, my fingers was faster than my head.
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I talk to my grandmother sometimes. I tell her about work and life. She died in 2003. I also still sleep with a stuffed animal. I am thirty six years old.
None of these are juicy. “My biggest secret is I love my dog” ….great.
Some of these were sweet, but most are either sad or horrible (or both): Stealing! Yaaaaaaay!!!
While I understand the urge, I just can’t get behind the theft and destruction of personal property some of these blithely retell.
My SO accidentally tripped me when I was 7 months pregnant. It was totally an accident and I said I was fine. My water broke and the baby died. They think these two events were unrelated. I understand there were a series of events that caused her death and not just this, but they would most certainly blame themselves. I never even told our doctor that I know why my water broke.
I have a confession. When I was 22 I got my first full time design job with a marketing company. Shortly after I was hired, I discovered that the guy who sat at my computer before me (and no longer worked there) had left himself signed in to his ebay account. Because I was a very dumb young adult, I thought it would be funny to order something ridiculous and have it sent to his house. I ordered a blow up doll. Ha ha now at 39 it makes me chuckle but I do feel a little bad.
Most of the stories are by one guy, so I guess, his life is so boring he fantasies about the life of 100 others summed up in his imaginary life.
Sorry the guy is not one person, my fingers was faster than my head.
Load More Replies... I talk to my grandmother sometimes. I tell her about work and life. She died in 2003. I also still sleep with a stuffed animal. I am thirty six years old.
None of these are juicy. “My biggest secret is I love my dog” ….great.
