30 Of The Most Wonderful Things From The Pre-Internet Era, As Told By Members Of This Online Community
The internet in its classical sense is only thirty years old, yet now we have no idea how to live without it. But life was also pretty good in the days before the internet! And in this life, there were a lot of really cool things that we now miss so much.
Actually, the word "we" refers mostly to people who remember those times well. When Facebook was just a collection of photos of your classmates and Amazon was just a kind of parrot. When Pacman was the big game of the year and Michael Jordan was just a budding rookie.
There is an incredibly popular thread on Reddit with 45.5K upvotes and over 17.2K different comments answering just one simple question: "People old enough to remember life pre-internet, what are some less obvious things you miss about that time?"
Bored Panda made a selection of the most nostalgic and warm memories of those wonderful times of cassette recorders, Bird - Magic rivalry and the Back to the Future movie. We guess you guys aren't ready for that yet. But your parents are going to love it.
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Leaving home and just being gone for the day. No cell phones. If there were cameras, it was really different. You used them to take pictures of things or had people take pictures of you. But there was no social media to preoccupy your mind. It was just doing something. And whoever you were with, was who you were with.
Technically, we can still do this. We, as a society, have to put our foot down and create our boundaries when it comes to being contacted. Not available. Too bad, so sad.
Can't. I'm a parent. If my kid is in the hospital, I need to be aware of it so I can haul a*s there to be with her.
Load More Replies...Once read this somewhere: A smartphone is like a d**k. Nice to play with when you’re alone, but absolutely rude to bring out at the dinner table 🤷♀️
But I love cell phones for texting. I hate talking on the phone. I can text & they can text back at their leisure.
I'm an introvert. I need to talk directly to someone though. I might be on the autism/aspergers spectrum(currently seeing a doctor for all this stuff). Texting in real time is near impossible. I have a very hard time communicating through writing as my brain will over-think every word as im typing or writing(English class was hell). It makes it very very hard to respond to people in time and I get overwhelmed texting with anyone for more than the simplest of things. It's so much easier for me to just speak, my brain and mouth have a much better relationship than brain+hands.
Load More Replies...I still live this way tbh. If I’m not working or running an errand generally my phone gets left in the car or turned off and in my purse
And you didn't see the photos until they were developed. That was an exciting time, waiting :D
And you also didn't see your mistakes until you got them back. That's why I was never good at photography because my mind would literally edit out stuff that was glaringly ruining the picture.
Load More Replies...I used to just read a book to occupy my mind. Sometimes when I was hanging with my friend, we’d both just read books together. Not that much difference for me.
You don't have to be glued to it 24/7. When I'm away on vacation or even just going out on a weekend, if it's not an emergency, your message or phone call can wait.
Before the internet, facts were "curated" in the sense that information came from people with expert knowledge and was distributed by journalists or teachers who were held accountable for accuracy of information. The internet has allowed crazy people to spout rubbish with hardly any filter.
The snake oil saleman has not left the soap box. He simply found a stage. Its stil your job to make your own decisions about information presented to you.
That's true but it's hard when both sides have their own news. The left has their news and the right has their news. It's even worse if people are getting their news from Facebook because they're just getting a bubble of information that they want to hear. I blame this for the reason the US is so split. Not completely obviously but a big reason. The news used to just be the news.
Load More Replies...I have a nonprofit client who says there was a downside to this too - the powerless had fewer means to make their voices heard, which meant that the powerful dominated the narrative to a much greater extent. And the powerful tended to be sexist, racist, etc.
This.This.This. After January 6, a lot of the tech companies increased their censorship...sorry, "filtering of misinformation" The left cheered because it was directed at Republicans/Right-Wingers. Within weeks it was being applied to people on the left who were critical of the Democratic party and/or the US Government. Censorship just gives more power to those that already have it.
Load More Replies...Worse, people are intentionally ignorant. No lie is so outrageous nor truth so solid that they cannot be embraced/ ignored when it fits in with a person distorted world view.
Uh, no. False information has been put out there since we've been printing books. One easy example is history textbooks in US schools. Yellow Journalism is another. And there shouldn't be a filter. Filters (read: censorship) give power to a small group of people to decide what everyone is allowed to see. it does nothing to ensure that what's being put out is truthful.
Look at the lies about Colombus(explorer) and John Smith (Pocahontas).
Load More Replies...Snopes has always been around since the start of the internet and they take pride in their research into correcting misinformation. Too bad the right thinks correct info left wing propaganda or something
SNOPES?? If you think they are the bastion of truth you need to rethink that. They had to retract 60+ articles because one of the founders was caught using fake sources as well as plagiarizing other writers
Load More Replies...How I miss knowing for certain that whatever Walter Kronkite said could be relied on as the truth, at least as it was known at that moment—-and he was never above making a correction of a previous report if the facts he had at the time weren’t correct.
I was in college when the internet really was getting traction. While researching papers, the professors would not allow any information collected from the internet unless it was from a specific journal or university because, "Anyone can put anything on the World Wide Web." I still feel that if you haven't left your home, or even your seat, your "research" is probably flawed or at the very least incomplete.
Facts are still curated by people with knowledge - they just don't bother talking to all the morons.
Whilst that IS true, it is also true that you are able to get MORE information, more in depth knowledge on current affair than ever before. Those who read 'The Daily Mail' before are now simply members of Facebook anti-vaxxer groups. But for those with an interest in news you can actually look at source material for those same stories and confirm that vaccines are safe and worthwhile. More information is available but people will only look as far as their own biases..
When you used to play outside and the only curfew you had was when it started getting dark outside.
But sometimes the twilight held some wonders too, like fireflys and a slightly improved version of hide and go seek, and the thrill of lingering a few illicit moments longer...
The adventures we had. We’d look for pop and beer bottles so we could return them for change to get treats. I’d always find cash on the railway tracks I guess the workers lost from their pockets. One time I had to battle a prayer mantis for a $10 bill, which was a fortune.
I am Gen Z, and it would be nice to be outside unsupervised without getting kidnapped
If it helps, there's no evidence that there are more predators out there per capita now. It's just that we're so much more aware of them. I remember talking to one old lady who said "in my day we didn't know the word 'paedophile', we just had a dirty old man in our road."
Load More Replies...Less than 1% of kidnappings are non custodial. https://safeatlast.co/blog/child-abduction-statistics/
Kids in my neighborhood still play in the street. I stopped and a feeling of nostalgia came over me and a smile on my face when I heard one kid say “CAR” watched them move over wait for the car to pass then continued playing in the street. Warms my heart that that phrase is passed on 💕
There was also more.crime.back then because people thought it was safe. News didn't report nearly what they do now, so everyone thinks it's worse now, but it's not. Crime on a mass scale (like bombings and school shootings) is, but personal scale has gone down. (Though, this was before the defunding of the police, so I'm not so sure now.)
Simplicity. I don't even know how to describe it. Like my days were filled with playing outside or swimming or reading in tree out front.
I'm old; I certainly recall pre-Net days. Life was just as complicated then, even without instant access to information and communications via pocket phone, tablet, laptop, whatever. Organizing one's life on paper could be tedious, as was communicating on landline phones or slow mail -- and don't forget to cultivate your memory! Now we store notes on devices, not pocket notepads or loose scraps of paper. Loose your "little black book" of names and numbers, and you are stranded. Yikes.
I was really fortunate not to have to worry about social media growing up. I remember playing outside long hours with friends, enjoying nature, reading books, and playing pretend. Social media can be so toxic to younger people if they feel constantly obligated to check it and compare themselves against their friends. I’m a grown-a*s adult and there are days when I wish there was no social media just to simplify.
I miss the days where going to the beach wasn't a "trend" it was just an activity to do
The Saturday morning cartoons and sitcoms I watched.
Don't forget Schoolhouse Rock! Conjunction Junction, what's your function?...
And Friday nights, T.G.I.F.! If I remember correctly the line up was Step by Step, Boy Meets World, Family Matters, and Full House...something like that lol but Friday nights/Saturday mornings was the best TV!
The content for kids has gotten so much better, though. Cartoons actually treat kids like they're smart and impressionable, not like back in the 80's when every cartoon was just a long-form toy commercial. I'm nostalgic about those older cartoons, but trying to watch that stuff as an adult shows you how the writing was just nonsense. But everybody can watch and enjoy a modern cartoon. They make them now where they're good enough adults can even find them funny
The original Tarzan came on every Sunday afternoon. My sister and I would bring our Barbie cases out in the living room and play while we watched it. In black and white of course.
gi joe, transformers, mask. underdog, space ghost, hong kong phooey. we had the best toons =)
Scooby Doo is the greatest cartoon series ever made, I expect no argument on this matter :)
For me it would be less negativity. Back then I was less aware of what was going on around the world outside of where I lived but now it’s almost instant coverage of the bad things happening everywhere.
This is a double-edged sword - if you have too little awareness of what’s going on in the world, you won’t be motivated to help put it right, but if you hear too much about it, you get burned out. You have to learn to find that balance.
The internet has definitely changed something inside people. The anonymity of keyboard contact with random people has unleashed incivility on a massive scale. I have shut down all of my social media accounts because of it. I also believe that people are forgetting the social contract of being polite in everyday life.
Everybody's naked and disfigured... Nothing's shocking.
Load More Replies...It's like everyone is a moody teenager now at all times. You can't ask the most simple questions without a snarky response. It's like nails on a chalk board.
I miss buying my weekly trash mag for all the news/gossip, now, it's constantly in my news feed
To some extent but on the other hand too much 24hr news is mentally taxing. There’s very little I can do if Russia decides to nuke Ukraine short of trying to force my elected representatives to act in an appropriate manner so what good does it do me worrying every waking moment.
Load More Replies...I thought it impossible to be unaware of current events, esp. major ones in our 24/7 info cycle. So, I was stunned when Jordan Klepper interviewed two young MAGA women who had absolutely no knowledge of the Jan 6th Insurrection. They weren't downplaying it (like Fox), they didn't know anything about it!!!!
I miss having an attention span of more than three seconds
I often find that the problem is..... sorry, forgot what I was about to say.
I have lost the ability to sit through most movies because of this :(
I literally can’t sit down and read a book anymore, and I used to read voraciously. I’m considering getting a simple e-reader, thinking that maybe it’s tablet form will trick my brain somehow, but it won’t have access to the internet. Just books! I struggle to admit I’m addicted to my phone, and to the easy access to millions of snippets of information. I miss diving deeply into a subject.
I've started reading things on paper again, just to regain my longer attention span. No popups!
Not being accessible to my boss 14 hours a day.
if you don't answer....the texting and email floodgates open....
Load More Replies...I'm accessible to my boss from 9am to 5pm, Monday through Friday, that's it.
That’s all he pays you for so there’s the problem.
Load More Replies...I'm accessible to my boss for 8 hrs a day, mon-fri. I can count on one hand the amount of times she has contacted me outside those hours in the last decade, and always with an apology for disturbing me. I'm off on my five week summer holiday in a bit and I can't wait.
Then it rings 24/7 and if you turn it off there was Hell to pay the next day. I quit that job as my doctor said it was literally killing me. I actually have a job now where people care about me as a person.
My country is better about this. An American YouTuber in my country is kind of jealous on behalf of her pre-leaving-America self.
I was a teacher. When we all got email addresses, I used to check constantly. That lasted a few weeks. Then I gave myself a cut off time...no checking after dinner. Any parents' questions could wait until tomorrow.
In the 90s, as the youngest journalist on the staff, I got stuck more with the police scanner over the weekend than the more senior writers... So just made a party of it with my friends, and we would go chase domestic disputes and firetrucks together.
Privacy. When you left work or school it was over for the day. There were no further interactions unless they were close friends. Hanging out. Teens and young adults spent a lot of time away from home with friends, at malls, movie theaters, parks, arcades, etc. Dating. You met someone at school, work, at a party, at a bar, or through friend. Money. Cash was king, debit cards didn’t exist, and many businesses didn’t accept credit cards (fast food, for example.) Planners and Address books. Write it down! Appointments, birthdays, addresses, phone numbers, reminders, etc. Photo Albums. Taking the time to buy film for a party or special occasion or just because and having 24 photos you could take (with no way to see the final photo until you took it to be developed.) Road maps. Going anywhere you haven’t been before? Better stop at a gas station and buy a map. Shopping. Go to the store and see what they have. Do the local stores not have what you need? Try looking in a catalog, maybe you can mail order it. Music. On the radio and on MTV. Buy records, cassette, or CDs. Make mix tapes to create your own playlists. If you don’t record it off the radio or buy it there is no way of finding it again. There was so much “not knowing” which made the world seem so much bigger and exotic. Now everything feels noisy and petty.
This is really well written and absolutely true! You learned about life through living it, not watching it.
I can’t imagine being a kid today. It would be so horrible to leave school, yet have to worry about what is being posted about you on social media. It makes it so much easier for bullies. I think that’s why the number is teen suicides/ mental health issues have emerged.
I am a kid today and it is horrible with social media.
Load More Replies...Yes, you had to go to the bank at lunch on Friday’s and stand in line to cash your paycheque or you didn’t have money for the weekend.
"There was so much “not knowing” which made the world seem so much bigger and exotic" Love this.
We went to the mall the other day to walk around because it was raining. I was so happy to see groups of teens hanging out there. I didn't think they did that anymore!
MTV?! You young whippersnappers don't even know. When I was young, and after we put Dino out, we'd sit around a stone pit (couldn't afford fire yet) banged rocks together and grunted in 5-part harmony. Now THAT was music I tell ya! (Yep, I'm old...)
I Miss the christmas catalogs jc penney sears Montgomery wards , where you could put an x by the stuff you would like to have . Not a gift card that has no meaning or thought behind it
My formative years were the 1980s. I remember like yesterday going to study in Paris my junior year of college. I got off the plane with no cell phone, no internet, a Let's Go Paris book, and just a hostel address written on a piece of paper I'd stuck in a French dictionary. I did not know a single person in all of France.
I had $500 of cash stuck in a money belt. The belt was tight and sweaty but that money had to last me for at least a month until I could find a part-time job with my lousy French. My "credit card" was my father's credit card numbers written down on a piece of paper. He told me I could only use it to buy a plane ticket home in an emergency.
I remember standing in the airport and having this powerful emotion of being 21 years old, scared shitless, but in absolutely completely control of my own destiny. There was absolutely nobody who could come rushing to my aid if I needed it. I was 100% on my own.
I'm actually very thankful for that experience. I found the hostel. I found a job. I made friends. I learned French. I made it all on my own which was just a big boost in life confidence.
I have no doubt if I'd had a cell phone I would've called my parents on Day 2, told them it was too hard, and been on the next plane home. But I had no other choice but to succeed.
For all the anxiety inducing thoughts this post has given me, ironically it also feels exciting and great.
The anxiety is palpable in this post, and so is the excitement.
Load More Replies...Pish posh. If you’d wanted to go home, you could just as easily have used a pay phone. You can’t put this on cell phones.
This was ruined more by ridiculous amounts of inflation, and rising crime rates, rather than having a cell phone. Places with high rates of ice cream consumption tend to have higher crime rates, but that doesn't mean ice cream causes crime.
"There was absolutely nobody who could come rushing to my aid if I needed it. I was 100% on my own." "My "credit card" was my father's credit card numbers written down on a piece of paper. He told me I could only use it to buy a plane ticket home in an emergency." 😒🙄
I did that, too. I had a six-month student work permit for England. My mom didn't think I would last that long, but I did.
Now just a minute, nobody that ever lived has been convinced they adequately control their destiny. Me, I'm happy to control my Sonic character...
Had a similar experience but I was 15, headed for a small (tiny) town in Iowa that was not showing in the maps my parents had at home so we had to order a map of Iowa to see where I was going to spend a year without my family, friends, not knowing the language and just a few dollars until I started getting monthly letters from my parents with my monthly small allowance. Good times. I’m from Spain, by the way.
Going to the library to research things. I loved getting a big pile of books on a table, taking notes, getting photocopies. It was an experience in itself.
Also, not being available to everyone all the time. I hate that almost all apps show people when you read their messages or are online. No one needs to know that I read a message and didn't reply for two hours!
There is nothing like browsing stacks. You think you know what you want but can really find a treasure you didn't know was there.
i grew up in a very small rural town. not much for a library. when i moved to St Louis at age 18, i couldn't believe their libraries. so many books, it was overwhelming
+1 to your also comment. I wish people could get beyond the need for "immediate contact". Some of us just want to enjoy a nice afternoon or movie or what have you. It doesn't mean we're being rude.
I loved to read and explore new areas to learn about already at a young age. And from the age of ten and about 5-6 years onward I went to the library once or twice every month. I read so much weird stuff. And also, at some point I started to borrow cds there and.... WOW! That's when I started to realise that I truly deeply loved hard rock/thrash/black/death metal. 🤘 my dad "showed" me rock from the 60s and 70s. The library "showed" me metal. ❤
Libraries. My love of them started early. I loved exploring all the nooks and crannies of my town's old library.
I remember rummaging through encyclopedias and books searching for s particular bit of knowledge that would bother me at the time (like when you brain suddenly goes "hey, what's the capital of Brunei?" And you just gotta look it up). I was fun tho, first you had to decipher in what kind of book or encyclopedia section you'd encounter such info.
Library research was a skill. Now the real skill is sifting between the truth and fiction in the search engine returns.
I have never quite figured out the math error behind my belief that I spent my entire childhood in libraries. I obviously did not, but it was where I wanted to be then, it made me who I am today, and I wish I could go back to the magic of that time.
Living in the moment. Memorizing peoples phone numbers. People were less flaky. No manufactured drama over likes and dislikes.
My dad recently stopped having his landline phone. I was actually really sad about that because my parents divorced when I was very young and I learned the number to my dad's pretty fast and it gave me some sense of security that I knew his number by heart and thus would always be able to call him. That is all gone now. I still remember his number and I just can't use it anymore. My dad doesn't know how important his number was to me.
My mother died nearly 20 years ago... I still know her telephone number and itch to call it some days.
Load More Replies...Still have several phone numbers from my childhood memorized! I recently learned that my husband doesn't actually know my cell phone number so if he ever lost his phone and needed to call me, he'd be screwed.
I feel this. My childhood home had the same number since 1967. It was the number I grew up with. My mom passed away in 1999,and my dad (who passed away last year) kept the number until he cancelled his home phone service in 2014. I still remember my grandparents number(they've been gone over 30 years).
Riiiiiight!? I actually lost a long-time "friend" because I didn't like or comment on her kids' pictures🙄 B***h, I haven't been on Facebook since 2009!
I always got my friends drunk and tattooed my phone number on them somewhere. I never had to remember theirs because they would always call me.
This one made me laugh. I don't know my two daughter's phone numbers.
I memorised some numbers so well that decades on I still know them. If I were lose my mobile I'd have no idea what any of my friends' numbers are.
Being at a party and folks not checking their phones. In the good old days you had to interact.
Even in a restaurant, heads are down when there is good company all around the table.
I like the restaurant game of "phones in a stack and first person to pick theirs up gets the check".
Load More Replies...I notice a lot of these favor the extroverted. As an anxious person, having a lifeline line a phone let's me go out more, do more. I know I always have a retreat to my phone to disconnect for a little of my anxiety gets bad, or I can text my partners for a bit of encouragement. I don't have to get anxious about how in getting home because i can look up the transit routes, or just get a car service of I have the cash. It has helped me do more of the things people keep saying they miss here, not less.
I love to go up to strangers in waiting areas and ask one, "Are you texting that guy over there, because you both have the same dull look in your eyes..."
And parties were fun! My house in teh 80's seemed to be the party house. My would would call me work, asked to talk to me, and then she would ask, are you bringing friends home tonight after work for a party? She loved to hang out with us, and party with us! And they all loved her too!!
If I'm at a party and everyone is on their phone that means the party sucks. You just need to go to better parties. People take out their phone when they are bored
Bored or anxious or depressed or worried or waiting for an important message or....
Load More Replies...Being at a party when my parents thought I was someplace else. I guess you can do that now but landlines made it easier.
And sometimes, you took the party down the road. You could ditch whoever you didn't want to see at the first party, and those people couldn't necessarily trace you.
The Sears catalog. That was how I found out about all the cool new toys.
As a teen I used to circle all the silver jewellery I wanted! Remember the best friend necklaces? Ahhh the 90’s!
Load More Replies...The Christmas catalogs!!!! Nor only Sears, but I remember J C Penny's as well!!
I'd spend hours daydreaming over the toys in Penney's catalogue.
Load More Replies...when my grandma passed away a year ago, we found Sears catalogs from the early 1900's. they were so interesting to browse.
My mom told me that my grandmother would ask her and her sisters what dress did they want from the Sears catalog then make it for them.
Sears could have been what Amazon is today, if they'd jumped at the chance to use internet commerce early on. Instead, they're mostly irrelevant.
In the 80s, we made our Christmas wish lists by circling items in the Sears catalog. ☺
video rental stores. i have such good memories of going to our local Mr. Movie with my dad, renting a sci-fi flick and getting candy at the checkout. streaming is cool and all, but i do miss video rental stores, mainly for nostalgic reasons.
Copy of Rocky Horror Picture Show up a little and to the left of their shoulder.
Load More Replies...There’s nothing like the smell of a video rental store. I can smell it in my mind right now!
I worked in a video store in high school..it was around 1985-87. I had the best time. Part of my job was to bring home movies and watch them so I could recommend them to our customers. I wound up working in the film industry after high school and still do to this day.
Seems like all of us video store employees share a common nostalgia and love for the job. It was my favorite place to work, by far. And those free early rentals and discounted snacks made for some great parties!
Load More Replies...This was the best bribe my mom had. "If y'all behave while we run errands we'll stop at the video store on the way home." Quiet kids every time.
"Netflix killed the video store" Sing it to the tune of "Video killed the radio star". The first music video that was first showed on MTV. When MTV was just music and not shows of overacting wannabes.
This ended due to people being tired of what felt like exorbitant late fees, which started the creation of things like Redbox and Netflix, which actually started without a need for internet.
A lot of people blame Redbox and Netflix for the downfall of Blockbuster, but as a past employee, I know it was Blockbuster's bad business decisions. They wasted so much money on so many stupid things too.
Load More Replies...Te best was reading the back of the b-movie vids! The ones that were so bad they were good.
The best thing about those early stores was the complete absence of logical decision making since the only thing you had to go on was how cool the picture on the cover looked.
Being in the moment. There was little temptation to be stuck in front of a screen or a phone all of the time.
TV had a schedule and wasn’t in demand, so if something you didn’t like came on you usually went to do something else, like go outside, read a book, or whatever. Life didn’t revolve around screens, and everyone was better off for it.
It sadly seems to take far too much self control to do those things these days.
Tv being on demand imo means more freedom as you can watch what you want when you want instead of adhering to the schedule. Back in the day life *did* revolve around screens becausr if there was a show you were into, most people had to be right there when it aired (getting a tv and vcr with the option to be able to record live tv on vhs wasnt always a possibility for people due to cost and tech saaviness to pull off. plus it was technically illegal)
I remember when I was a kid, I wished something like streaming existed where you could just tell the tv what show you wanted to watch, and it would somehow make that possible. I thought I just made the idea up, but now it's a reality and living in the future is sort of awesome.
Load More Replies...People blame screens too much. Set your own boundaries. No one is forcing you to look at a screen all the time.
Being in the moment sure was a lot easier back then. No wonder there are so many meditation apps available today.
If you have difficulty being "in the moment" losing the interwebs probably wouldn't matter. There are probably other reasons for lack of focus. It's not really a new thing. Just newly embraced.
Of course I also remembering pacing around the house a lot during puberty....
Reading the newspaper and magazines used to be just about one of my favorite things.
Now it seems pointless to clutter the house with so much paper when I can access all of it online - but of course I don't. I pick and choose just a few articles, I don't really browse the way I would before and I encounter a lot fewer new or enlightening things.
Getting the Sunday New York Times and then going out for brunch and reading it with your friends/dates was such a treat.
I used to get so excited when my favorite magazines came in the mail, I'd immediately sit down and leaf through them and see what was worth reading right away and what could wait.
I miss getting the comics in the paper because I used to read them with my grandfather when he was alive. But I like the convenience of being able to read a news article and share it with a friend quickly and electronically across the country or the world. So I guess I see the best of both worlds. But I do miss getting what my grandpa called the funnies and reading them with him.
I still get them. Partly to support actual journalism, partly to get my attention span back and partly to give my eyes a break since I have to be n a screen for work all day.
I miss looking at the sunday papee. The comics and the way the paper is divided into special sections. I used to read the parade magazine
My dad still gets newspapers delivered on weekends which means I get one Samurai Sudoku a week to complete :)
The newspapers in this picture are Swedish. It drives me crazy that I can't read the entire headline of the second one - "We have s e x with our"... the rest of the headline is covered.
Dear goodness I do miss this. Shame that the venture capitalists bought up all the newspapers, fired everyone, and sold off all the equipment and real estate for quick profits.
Yes, I loved magazines - cutting out recipes to try and interesting articles to share with friends.
This is gonna sound dumb but... getting lost. Like, it was bad a lot of the time too but sometimes not knowing exactly where you were going led to unexpected and awesome consequences.
I sometimes make myself be lost. I do have my phone with me, usually, but I won't check google maps to see where I am. Sometimes it's nice to just explore and be in the present. Sure, my anxiety will go bananas while I am lost.... but when I figure out where I am/how to get to my destination, I feel like I conquered something bad in my self. And that feels good! :)
I mean, yeah, you can just put down your phone and go on a drive. And then when you're done and you don't want to be lost anymore, you can turn your phone back on! I don't really see the complaint with this one, since having optional gps is probably a safer way to do things, without any real loss of fun. It's not like we didn't have roadmaps back in the day, either
Load More Replies...We always take a different road back than the way we came just to see the different scenery. Sometimes, it leads to fun adventures!
my husband and i call this "Adwenture, Intwigue" 🥰
Load More Replies...1977, I was 19 when I rode my 400cc motorcycle from Biloxi, Mississippi to Limestone, Maine. Every morning, over coffee, I’d unfold my map and open my atlas to plan the day’s route. All the responsibility was mine and it was a great adventure.
My dad took me on a trip from Massachusetts to Maine and it was great on the motorcycle. We went through all kinds of weather cold and rain but we had a great time. We also took the motorcycle to the keys and that was great I should have known better but I got such horrific sunburn. LOL but I really miss my motorcycle trips with my father. That was seriously the only bonding time we had.
Load More Replies...This. I lived in Europe as a kid and loved to just jump on my moped to just cruise for hours without a set direction, often visiting places I've never been before. I sometimes still did it once I drive a car, but less. Now I live on an island and can only go in circles lol
I was a Girl Scout co-leader in the early 2000s and got lost with a bunch of middle-school scouts. I had a cell phone but no GPS. We were in a park and got off the trail . We knew about where we were (knew we had to head south to hit the trail) but had to navigate with the sun and shadows! Great fun!
When you bought new music you just had to hope it was good. The single might be popular but otherwise unless someone had it you just bought it and hoped for the best.
I can't count the number of times I bought an album because of a great single and it was c**p. But then again sometimes you were surprised and found yourself loving the whole album. Sometimes there would be some obscure song at the end if you kept letting it run that wouldn't be listed on the album like a secret song. Or if you played a record backwards you would get a secret saying. Like ELO's fire on High if you play it backwards it says the music is reversible turn back.
At some record stores they had booths where you could listen to the LP before you bought it.
Yeah, I remember that, only with CD's! I often did that, because my pocket and babysitting money was too valuable to buy a CD that turned out to be not my cup of tea. So I took a listen, and sometimes I fell in love with an album, other times I came to the conclusion I only liked that one single.
Load More Replies...Me neither. Paying for like ten tracks that were c*** when you really only wanted three.
Load More Replies...Yup Columbia house lick the little stamp and mail it in, wait... run to the mailbox everyday hoping your cd's we're there.. I miss the good ol days
Then play the whole album / cassette and really start to like the "other" songs...
The instant win bottle caps / candy / chocolate bar wrappers where you could turn them back into the store and immediately get a free one. Now it's just codes you have to register on their website so they can get your info, i don't even bother anymore.
Walkers crisps (Lays?) used to do a giveaway with actual cash in little sachets - quite often you’d get £5 or £10 notes. Some people even claimed to have got £20!
Would be Lays here but with here being USA i dont think they ever did real cash for us cuz of rampant theft uad anyone known
Load More Replies...I only managed to win something one time. It was after drinking an absolutely awful soda and finding a "free soda" prize under the cap. Nuts.
I learned a valuable lesson years ago when I submitted my Publisher's Clearing house form. Years and years of being on the most pathetic mailing lists that would follow me regardless of my many moves. Ain't nothin' free.
I miss the goddamn toys in the cereal! If the kids choked on the toys, that's on the parents! Let us get joy from those sugary treats again!
Heffenreffer beer used to have little puzzles on the inside of their caps. They were fun to read and collect.
The smell of Encyclopedia Britannicas
Yes, that's one of the many reasons physical books are better than digital books
Load More Replies...About 10 years ago, I was in a café and heard a woman say "I can't even *give* my Encyclopaedia Britannica away". I said I'd like them and she brought them to my home! Now I'm ready for TEOTWAWKI :-)
PS I run a dehumidifier a lot to stop them going moldy, so I don't recommend snorting my copy.
Load More Replies...We had a cedar closet and one year I squirreled myself away from time to time and I read my dad's entire 1959 Encyclopedia Britannica. I was a weird kid.
I actually read the encyclopedias my dad gave us cover to cover, A-Z.
Dang! That sentence just took me back to doing childhood research for a paper!
Sitting down in the evening to read a book because there was nothing on tv. With today’s streaming services, there is so much more media being produced - and it’s all available at the click of a button whenever you damn well please. It can easily become an endless loop of what to watch next. I remember when there used to be 8 channels. You either had to watch “General Hospital” or find something better to do.
U.S., too - There would be the three main channels (ABC, CBS and NBC) and maybe some UHF stations. Those were the ones that had the best cartoons and old movies. In Boston, channel 56 had "Creature Double Feature" every Saturday!
Load More Replies...I'm going to start reading again. There was a time I had a book waiting to read when I had finished my current book. Now I'm watching the same reruns of whatever over and over. And, I'm going to go to our local library to get them. I use to spend quality time in the library. Getting back to basics is my new goal.
We lived in the country, and there wasn't cable out there. Also, we didn't have satellite TV, because it was really expensive. The only TV we could get was one local station, and it was kinda fuzzy. I remember when we got a 40 foot antenna and a signal amplifier, and all the sudden we could get 4 channels clearly. We thought we were living it up.
I kind of had the opposite problem, lol. I LOVED General Hospital, but it was only on TV 3:00pm-4:00pm & I usually didn't get home from school until 3:40pm.
Our daughter got us a wide-screen TV. We hadn't watched our old CRT TV in many months before that. It's been 5 years and I think I may have watched 24 hours of TV - binged watched two seasons of two shows. That was 8 months ago. When the granddaughters spend the night, they'll watch an hour of cartoons. Otherwise the TV just collects dust. And yes, I do have books and still buy books to read... and a couple of magazines. ;o)
Load More Replies...There was always something to do, whether it was a leisurely activity like reading or something practical like sewing or gardening.
You had to call someone's home phone number and talk to their parents first before you could talk to your friend
Video game cheat codes either spread by gaming magazines or by word of mouth. Sometimes that word of mouth was b******t. I'm looking at you Tomb Raider nude cheat code
I remember Nintendo had a hotline for when you were stuck in a game. You'd call them, explain where you were and they'd help you progress.
Up down left right R1 R2 L1 L2 up down left right ---The only cheat code I ever bothered to learn by heart. Flying cars, GTA San Andres.
The only one I still remember was for the Commodore Amiga 500+ PC, James Pond 2: Robocod...you had to find 5 objects in the first level and get them in order of their first letters to spell the word 'earth'. You'd get invincibility which would last for most of the game.
RSVPing mattered. If you said you were going to be there, you made sure to be there. None of this facebook invites that everyone blows off without any form of social repercussions. If you said you were going to go and didn't go, you were the a*****e and everyone knew it.
Not sure how this changed. Ill roast the hell out of you on FB for missing my party.
FOMO. As in "I RSVPed for your party but this notification has told me about something that might be cooler...or some internet / social media rabbit hole that has sucked me in."
Load More Replies...Let your yes be yes and your no be no. Keep your word. A handshake was your bond.
Missed my 10 year reunion because they decided to do Facebook invites and I didn't have Facebook (still lived at the same address with same phone# though so they could've tried another way). Missed 20 year reunion last year because 2021
This is sad, and the organizers are out of touch with reality
Load More Replies...When my (now 16yo) twins were in elementary school, we invited both of their classrooms to a birthday party at Chuck E Cheese. I was so disappointed when we only received about 10 RSVPs, thinking that what we planned as a big party would now only have a handful of kids attending. That is, until the party started & at least 40 kids showed up! I was thrilled with the outcome, but shocked at how few people let us know whether they'd be there!
Oh god, can you imagine if this etiquette was the same and the Area 51 thing happened? My god, that would have been so bad lmao
That is a result of people making it ok to be rude and self centered.
Rudeness can be traced throughout history, but it's different now. Can't quite put my finger on it, but it just feels more callous.
Nah. Before cellphones my bestie would show up late or not at all. Now she at least announces her being late (we are in our 40ies, I never blamed her, I've got the memory of an elephant and she of a goldfish)
People would forget things you did that where maybe not the smartest..
My brother, who's been dead nearly 30 years, is still "that boy".
Load More Replies...Pfft. Sure. My mom never let anyone forget anything. At a funeral for a former classmate she very loudly recounted how the deceased cheated in home ec buying clothes from a farmer's wife passing them off as her own creations & mom was offended the deceased had won a class award for best sewing. This was 30 years later & it haunted this woman literally to her grave. Trust me, Internet or not there is always someone who is going to remember your maybe not the smartest choices.
I couldn't help but think of John Mellencamp singing Small Town - so I listened to it again.
No, nobody ever forgot the dumb stuff we did. It was just harder sharing pics and vids
Or, you know, since you might have been the only thing to focus on for a while, you could have been given an embarrassing nickname. This is a two way road. Sure, people can remember you online, but there's waaaaaaaay more stuff, so you're likely to be forgotten.
The effort that people made to stay in touch. Now, it is effortless, but people don't bother with anything but social media.
Back then, when people made appointments, they make effort to turn up for the appointments at said time. Now, it isn't uncommon to get a text that say 'Will be late' and turning up an hour later. Or just plain not turn up.
Those people would have been late anyway, and at least now you have the option of telling them you're not waiting.
Load More Replies...I moved every 3 to 4 years due to being in a military family. It was extremely difficult to keep in touch with my friends after each move due to the expensive cost of long distance phone calls. The internet and social media (IM services, myspace, fb) made keeping in touch a lot easier and u have been able to get back in touch with childhood friends
When was the last time you wrote a letter. Not a complaint to a company, but a genuine letter, keeping in touch with someone far away?
My dear friends and I make it a point to send each other letters, or little 'update' notes inside cards. In the U.S. stamp price now 55 cents for one reg. letter or card. But it's worth it. Getting mail & seeing a card or letter, not just bills, is so nice. And, letters can be read at our leisure, maybe while sipping tea or coffee, or, reading part of it now, finishing it later. Not like texts. :-)
Load More Replies...Once people were preferring text that was disheartening. They just seem cold and it's hard to read tone and context. I don't mind it so much anymore, and emojis help to show tone. But it's still annoying people just don't want to talk on the phone with people. It didn't take much to let a phone call go to voice mail if you didn't feel like talking to anyone.
However, I like that most of our conversations are permanent if we want them to be. I ready my mom-s & grandmother's letters & my uncles letters from Viet Nam. It was so nice. Once we started only talking on the phone, all of that was lost. Now when someone dies you can memoralize their post & see their past photos & posts. Although make sure anything NSFW is deleted before you die.
If it wasn't for the internet I probably wouldn't stay in touch with anyone because I hate calling.
The class reunion is a good example of this. You actually went with a sense of wonder how others turned out (even that guy who got the Enterprise rental car), and you could choose how much of your life to disclose.
I remember setting aside an afternoon each week to write letters to friends. Seems so quaint now.
News only being on at 6pm. That was it. Now we have 6 hours of local news and 24 hours of cable news. Not being bombarded all day with "news." And when you saw "Breaking News" on the screen you knew some serious s**t went down.
Edit: My old brain interpreted "pre internet" as "when you were a kid". So yeah cable news was a thing ore internet. But you all know what I mean. When I was a kid local news was noon for 30 minutes and 6pm for 30 minutes, then Network news was 6:39 for 39 minutes. I think local might have had an 11pm too but I don't remember for sure.
Turns out that there's still only about an hour of news every day, they just add 23 hours of bu115hit.
Noon news for 30 min Parents watched the 5pm local news over dinner and 5:30 was Dan Rather. Then they watched the 11pm news before Carson came on
I stopped watching local and cable news because it was too repetitive, and lacked journalistic integrity. I'll stick with online news articles because I pick up on their biases easier.
Innocence. The ease at which even a kid can gain access to the scariest of content (or super serious content) is such a drastic change from the 90s early 2000s.
I will say specifically the amount and variety of porn available at a click to kids who definitely should not be viewing it is frightening. These aren't just booby pics in a magazine.
Well to be fair most kids just don't for a long time. I grew up with the internet and didn't watch porn with masterabatory intentions until I was like 13. I has seen i but, just out of curiosity. I dunno I don't see it as having taken my innocence, I just wanted to see how all the pieces fit together.
Load More Replies...I don't know about that. My godmother had a huge selection of VHS tapes in the 80s so when she babysat me I had access to all of them and most of them were horror movies or adult content but I grew up pretty good I think.
Just gotta teach your kids earlier about what's going on. Or make a super secure lock that only you'll know.
I gotta say, innocence please. Kids see plenty of f*cked up sh*t at home or at their friends' homes. The sh*t I was exposed to as a kid pre-internet....
Yeah, the Internet sure has a way of destroying innocence. I need weather-proof boots, so I naively searched for "galoshes". Next thing I know, I'm on a porno site (the Nazis had a thing for galoshes). I had to put Parental Controls on my own darn computer!!!
Mix tapes.
I still have a tape player. And I can make mix taoes on it. AND I have a few tapes that hasn't been opened yet. Some day I'm gonna make a mix tape of all my fav music of all time and I'll give it to my kids to hear. They won't be able to just skip the songs they don't like. Lol.
Like they can with CDs or mp3. I don't have a tape player anymore. Just a CD recorder and a mini disc player and recorder. Which I don't think they even make mini discs anymore. But I still have a lot of empty ones waiting for me to fill up.
Load More Replies...I found a bunch of my old ones in the attic, made during middle school. Fun memories.
I miss the little crackle you'd get from records. I'm not old enough for those, my years were the very end of tapes and the very start of discs, but whenever I hear a recording with that crackle, it relaxes me to no end.
I have a mixtape with Madonna songs from my childhood that still works. Even while I rewinded it with a pencil a lot when the tape got stuck in the cassette player again... I still have a player, so I could listen to the tape if I wanted to. However, it's more something I keep and cherish as a childhood relic.
I have a double tape player and tons of cassettes with titles from every genre that I recorded. Would never want to be without them.
The absolute absence of push notifications.
Life just waited for you like a good person.
Unless someone very gossipy liked to call your house and "push" whatever notification they wanted you to have.
Nope. I only receive science article notifications on my PC. None on my phone. I'm not Pavlov's dog.
I love the idea that "Life can just wait for you like a good person." I want to figure out how to use this on a regular basis
I can't even handle all the notifications. All that dinging will drive a person batty. Turn.them.off!
Yep. The option to turn them off is pretty much right there. Like, every single time they try.
You can turn them off either through your phone or through their settings. Not difficult!
Before the internet, people with crazy ideas lost confidence when they could not find others who agreed. On the internet, you can easily find at least 100 people who will agree to something, even a totally crazy idea. As a hold-over from the olden days, the 100 people who agree with you seems like a lot.
Are you implying that the world is not controlled by cannibalistic pedos? /s
There’s positives and negatives to that. Back then, “I’m gay” was considered crazy.
Now it's "I'm a furry". The niches can be much smaller
Load More Replies...Pretty sure L. Ron Hubbard didn't have too many issues finding followers without internet. Actually, there are several of the biggest known cults in the U.S. that definitely had no problems finding people to believe their ideas before internet
On the other hand, great things have been shared, people have been helped. The internet is just a tool. It can be wielded for good or bad, just like a pen, gun, baseball bat, automobile, airplane, etc. It's just a lot of information at once, and the speed of moving to new applications & upgrades is just crazy. I remember when I knew EVERY menu or option on my computer.
Yes, I miss those days when people with crazy ideas were called 'crazy people'.
Because it wasn't possible to call someone or go somewhere with your idea?
Playing kickball with all the neighborhood kids on the block. Using addresses on the sidewalks as bases, having to run home cause the street lights came on, then mom inviting friends to come have dinner with us after.
Being old enough to ride our bikes to the mall or beach without a big kid riding herd on us. Parents trusting us to do the right thing.
Now they can’t trust anyone bc of all the pedos around the corner waiting
Load More Replies...We lived in a more rural area. All my friends lived 2+ km's away. Spent a lot of time on my bike.
I wouldn't get punished as a kid, my bike would get punished. Sure I could still go out still but couldn't use my bike which was worse than not being allowed out at all
Load More Replies...Having to wait for movies. It was more of an event to go see a film. Kids being kids. The Arcade. Travel before everything made it Instagram. Meals before everyone took photos of it. MTV played music. Being home on time to watch your favourite show.
I remember when MTV debuted. They had been advertising it like crazy and we couldn't wait for it to start. The VJs (video jockeys) knew about the music scene and played some of the best music videos ever! It was all about music television and I have some really great memories of that time!
And tv shows. You had to wait for the show each week. And the only way you knew anything about the upcoming episode was by reading the tv guide summary of the ep. There were no spoilers unless a writer or actor did a magazine article and they might give something small away but it was usually very vague. So you'd get the tv guide (which was a book back then) for the next week as soon as it came out and you'd be so mad if you saw it was going to be a repeat. Ugh...nothing was worse than finding out you'd have to wait 2 weeks to see the next ep! Oh and tv shows used to be 22-24 episodes. It was like a school schedule with summer's off. Sept/Oct would come around and all the new seasons of tv would start.
I was a soap watcher and summers were always when the big event happened. I hated that the cliff hangers were usually on Friday so you had to wait 2 whole days to see it again! Soap Opera Digest had those snippets of spoilers so you were always so excited to see what was really going to happen. I watched Days of Our Lives and NBC hosted the French Open and Wimbledon coverage. I would get so mad because it would pre-empt the show for 2 weeks. Don’t get me started if it was an Olympic year….
Load More Replies...I loved being away from tech completely. It was pure freedom to go "exploring" in the woods. No one to call you or get in touch with you. It was just assumed that the dog and I would make it home at some reasonable hour, typically before the sunset for the day.
I never take my phone when I walk the dogs. Often run to the store without it.
Not quite pre internet but pre everyone having computers, smartphones etc.
You could be unavailable. Full stop. And it wasn’t an issue that you didn’t see that email or get that text or whatever.
I kinda miss that ability to just not be contactable
It's more than that, though. It's not just turning your phone off anymore that'll do it because the people who aren't cool with it will make sure you and everyone else knows what an unreliable assmunch you are. Back then, nobody gave a major s**t if you didn't respond within the day, or the next. It was understood, things take time. But not now. Now people expect everything to be almost instantaneous, including texts and calls and emails. So no. Turning the phone off doesn't really accomplish what the OP said they miss.
Load More Replies...Making plans was an adventure, especially if you and your friends all relied on public transportation. Look up the movie times in the newspaper (or later call moviefone), decide on a time to meet (and tell that one friend who's always late an earlier time), walk our your house and check the bus timetable (that's hardly accurate anyway), and then hoping nothing happens en route since you had no way of telling your friends if you're late.
Even school excursions- we had a couple in high school where we had to meet either at the train station or the final destination and if you missed the train there you couldn't guarantee you could catch up with the group later. (My brother missed one such thing and then decided he wouldn't be able to catch up, so just kept going on the train, on his on little adventure lol)
**The blissful ignorance**. When the Space Shuttle Challenger exploded it blew us away. It was such a devastating thing that it dominated the news for years. Now there's a disaster every other week. I honestly didn't want to know that these kinds of things happen in our world. It forces us to grow up, think and act differently very fast. Also **Urban Legends** are quickly debunked today, taking away from the enjoyment of the mystery of it all.
in my lifetime (pre internet) conflict in Ireland, riots in Toxteth and Brixton, recession in the 1970's, power cuts, IRA bombing Hyde Park and Brighton, Harrods...Cambodian famine, the Berlin Wall, the Falkland's crisis, war in Afghanistan, the Yorkshire Ripper, Chernobyl disaster, attempted assassination of president Reagan, Mt St Helens, AIDS, Indira Gandhi, gets assassinated, mad cow disease, war in Iran/Iraq, Exxon Valdez oil tanker spills 240,000 barrels of oi, Thatcher- closing down industries, Thatcher de-regulating the financial sector allowing a huge debt to build up, Thatcher and the coalminers, Thatcher takes away free school milk, inflation, Greenham Common, Hungerford, Hillsborough....this is just off the top of my head- all of it on the news and in the newspapers- kidnapping, murder, shootings. muggings etc etc. there is a disaster every minute of the day- the internet hasn't created this world- it reflects it far faster than News At Ten or Granada Reports ever could
This post could play out like "We Didn't Start the Fire" by Billy Joel....
Load More Replies...When you half wonder if you could explode your stomach by eating pop rocks and drinking Coca-Cola at the same time alas Poor Mikie.
Bike riding in the neighborhood and staying out till nightfall. Playing Tag, hide and seek, and having Nerf wars. Not to mention communicating via Walkie Talkies haha
It used to be a lot harder to bail on things. You'd have to call the person at home and tell them yourself, or at least leave a message if you wanted to be risky. Typically if you were gonna bail you'd give at least 24 hours notice. Nowadays people can let you know they're bailing last second since you're always reachable.
You could be the cool guy that remembered s**t. Like who was in what movie or the themes to TV shows. Now IMDb makes everyone that guy and it’s not special. There’s a lot of little things like that.
Then someone pulls up a cite that the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor, and you lose all credibility.
The Germans didn't bomb Pearl Harbor. It was Japan.
Load More Replies...Not True. If you have to pull your phone out then you are NOT that guy. Therefore, that guy still exists.
Good point- I think my dad is still that guy, though his memory is starting to fail.
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People just stopping by your house. You would be just sitting there drinking beer or scratching your a*s and boom, someones at the door.
I'm not a fan of people not calling before coming by. Years ago, I just started seeing this guy and he showed up on a Saturday morning without calling. I told him next time to call because he may not like who answers the door next time. (not that I was seeing anyone else but he got the message). I also don't like when invited people bring uninvited people to my house.
Oh good lord no. Im a British person living in Australia where people still do this! Argh! It was definitely not the done thing to show up uninvited in England and I hated this so much when I moved here. Let me have my uninterrupted pyjama time!
I'm Australian and I don't think this has happened to me for 15 years- wait, when I lived near my brother he would, but that's about it.
Load More Replies...People still do this to my mom and dad. I had to house-sit for them recently, and the constant flow of people was wild. It drove me crazy.
Reading a real newspaper everyday
The ability to start over. I moved a lot, every move I could reinvent myself, bookworm, punk, preppie, I got to try out lots of aspects of my personality and my past wasn't a factor.
I also miss patience. I get annoyed at TV ads now, radio makes you listen to the WHOLE song, even when you sooner like it..... I'm far too comfortable with instant gratification.
Living in a small town with only one TV and radio station so you couldn't flick around channels to find something else if you didn't like what was on.
Well, TV ads have always been annoying. I'm never staying at a Choice Hotel ever again because they keep running that commercial with the annoying song "Oh what a day.."
I miss the debates about random unimportant facts or details. You really had to know your stuff and/or be persuasive to win an argument. There wasn't the ability to just instantly Google something to get the answer, you actually had to go find it in a book or an encyclopedia. I vividly remember many times when people would argue or debate on something, go home and research it, then come back the next day to resume the debate.
Sometimes they went home to check, discovered they were wrong, and returned to admit it. Now people can always find something to validate their argument.
No, I knew people who would still argue even if there was evidence they were wrong. They would just claim they read something that supported them, and would clam up on their "source".
Load More Replies...I remember a pointless argument where I convinced my girlfriend that arachnids didn't have 8 legs because some sea spiders had 10-12 legs. About a month later I answered a random call only to hear her shout "SEA SPIDERS AREN'T ARACHNIDS!". She was so excited she'd found a nearby telephone box to call me. Today that'd take one 15 second google.
I lived in Garland, TX before the world wide web took hold. I remember buying the very first Wolfenstein sample disk at a grocery store. In it, there was an address to send a check or money order to in order to get the full version. Apogee Games was the distributor, and they had their office in Garland at the time. I rode my bike way across town and went to their office with cash in hand to buy the game. All the guys were there packaging their game into sleeves getting them ready to ship. I got to talk with them for a few minutes and got mine handed to me by John Romero. I have been a huge fan of his ever since. This all happened in 1985 I think.
I found out that the games Wolfenstein and Doom were programmed in an apartment complex down the street from my childhood home. They all rented apartments there and they each chipped in for an extra apartment where they did all of their coding and design work. Later they rented offices in Mesquite near the local mall. Seeing their Ferraris was a great experience because I always wanted to be a programmer and they were the shining example of success. I haven't made it as far, but I feel I have been fairly successful as a programmer.
EDIT: I didn't get the timeline much wrong, it was 1987. When Wolfenstein 3D came out, I had already graduated highschool and had a job/car. I was mainly wrong about the game itself. It was distributed by Apogee, I had to ride my bike to get it. ID built the next few Wolfenstein games. Sorry about the confusion, I was a lot younger (50 now) and I've been drunk and stoned more than once since then :)
It’s a floppy disk (sorry if it’s a joke you never know)
Load More Replies...I currently teach game design at SGHS. It would be an interesting bit of trivia to know which apartments you referred to. They're probably right down Broadway or Belt Line. Would you mind sharing? Thanks.
I didn't look far, didn't go past Wikipedia to be honest, and they have starting in 81. More than one version was released
Load More Replies...The rollercoaster of emotion and the gamble you took any time you bought an album. Is this going to be amazing? Did I just waste 20 bucks? Why is it taking so long to get home!?
Pink Floyd, Led Zepplin, Steely Dan 'Reelin' in the Years', and having to wait until the albums were released! And so many great, now classic albums pre-internet.
Pink Floyd, steely Dan, The who and the grateful Dead are my favorites and I can listen to most of their albums whole they're so good. Many of them had conceptual albums that were a story listened to all the way through. Like tommy or the wall
Load More Replies...I was a teenager when I received my very first paycheck. Straight to the record store I went, and spent nearly all of it on music... vinyl.
Linkin Park "Hybrid Theory" theory was the first CD I bought myself because I enjoyed the only two songs they played on the radio. I was ecstatic to find out I loved ALL the songs on it. Also then, I like Eminem and bought a few of his CDs, but I didn't like all his songs on his CDs and that was OK because I could burn my own greatest hits CD from them.
I was maybe 14 when I finally purchased a cd with my own money that I had gotten for Christmas. My first cd purchase and my mother was pìssed off I bought Marilyn Mansons Portrait of an American Family because she had heard the rumors and warnings to parents about him 🙄 the 90's were fun
If it was an artist I loved, I bought the album. I must be older because they weren't 20 bucks.
Having the music channels on at house parties.
I miss my video game magazines. The thrill of getting one in the mail (often multiple because I had several different subscriptions) to read up on the next thing coming out, strategies for games that recently came out, and just the fun articles about related material were some of my favorite memories.
You used to get a game and pay a certain amount and that's it. Now they want you to pay for extra skins and players and options and it's just too much.
As a kid I was poor and frequently bored, and I discovered you could call airlines, ask them for travel posters, and they would mail them to you free of charge. Big, beautiful, full-color posters of exotic destinations. My room was completely covered with these free posters, and this is probably part of the reason I love to travel today.
I used to do something similar. I loved cars as a kid (still do) and my Dad would buy me car magazines that often had adverts for prestige motor dealers. I would write letters to them telling them how much I loved Ferraris, Lambos, Astons, etc and a few weeks later I would get a poster tube in the mail with all these cool, huge posters and keyrings.
Load More Replies...It would be nice to see a list about ways the access to internet/cell phone has made lives better. So many articles wax nostalgic for the older days. Personally. I love the access to instant information, fact-checking, ease of communication.checking on family members, appointments, online ordering... I think moderation is key.
I finally got a smartphone a couple months ago, and yes it is nice to be able to look things up on the go, check on the cat via a webcam, or send a quick text with a photo to an out-of-state relative. Moderation is indeed the key. As my awareness of what the new phone can do grows, I'm noticing the potential to lose a certain feel of engagement with life. I don't want to let that happen!
Load More Replies...I miss having a shared frame of reference with everyone. When we only had 4-5 TV channels, you could guarantee you'd all be watching the same shows each evening, have the same information about the same issues and, in a way, a sense of national conscience. Now there is so much media available I struggle to find commonalities with most people outside my immediate peer group.
That's a really good observation. There are so many more options available for so many more things these days! Not just media but clothes, cars, home decor, lifestyle, food, recreation, and on and on. So many choices can be liberating, but also divisive.
Load More Replies...It was nice not having to listen to some loudmouth idiot's phone calls in the middle of a restaurant.
I miss my husband. He was jovial, encouraging, and kinder before his job was automated. Now he struggles with temper, wastes time on tech learning curves, and has lost interest in building models and handcrafts around the house. He's an architect. I think tech kind of ruined our lives.
These are kind of annoying and pointless- no one is forcing you to be on the internet all of the time, you can still have/do all of the things on this list
True. And folks can turn off push notifications and ignore their devices if they really want some peace and quiet.
Load More Replies...Talking to the Operator when you made a phone call. Yes, I am that old.
Not all major incidents/events came with associated conspiracy theories, correct or otherwise. There simply wasn’t a large platform like the internet to allow exponential spread.
The idea the earth is flat has existed for a long time, and the moonlanding being fake or the murder on jfk are all events people had conspiracies theories about, which spread far enough for people to believe even today.
Load More Replies...i can't relate to 90% of these "positive" memories. we were observed by neighbors, school was a boring chore, information was painfully scarce, good books rare, superstition and false information plentiful ... and the rest i read here is a simple lack of self-discipline and/or -management.
If you feel that good books are rare, it is a comment on the holes in your education and on how little time you've spent in libraries.
Load More Replies...As a kid I was poor and frequently bored, and I discovered you could call airlines, ask them for travel posters, and they would mail them to you free of charge. Big, beautiful, full-color posters of exotic destinations. My room was completely covered with these free posters, and this is probably part of the reason I love to travel today.
I used to do something similar. I loved cars as a kid (still do) and my Dad would buy me car magazines that often had adverts for prestige motor dealers. I would write letters to them telling them how much I loved Ferraris, Lambos, Astons, etc and a few weeks later I would get a poster tube in the mail with all these cool, huge posters and keyrings.
Load More Replies...It would be nice to see a list about ways the access to internet/cell phone has made lives better. So many articles wax nostalgic for the older days. Personally. I love the access to instant information, fact-checking, ease of communication.checking on family members, appointments, online ordering... I think moderation is key.
I finally got a smartphone a couple months ago, and yes it is nice to be able to look things up on the go, check on the cat via a webcam, or send a quick text with a photo to an out-of-state relative. Moderation is indeed the key. As my awareness of what the new phone can do grows, I'm noticing the potential to lose a certain feel of engagement with life. I don't want to let that happen!
Load More Replies...I miss having a shared frame of reference with everyone. When we only had 4-5 TV channels, you could guarantee you'd all be watching the same shows each evening, have the same information about the same issues and, in a way, a sense of national conscience. Now there is so much media available I struggle to find commonalities with most people outside my immediate peer group.
That's a really good observation. There are so many more options available for so many more things these days! Not just media but clothes, cars, home decor, lifestyle, food, recreation, and on and on. So many choices can be liberating, but also divisive.
Load More Replies...It was nice not having to listen to some loudmouth idiot's phone calls in the middle of a restaurant.
I miss my husband. He was jovial, encouraging, and kinder before his job was automated. Now he struggles with temper, wastes time on tech learning curves, and has lost interest in building models and handcrafts around the house. He's an architect. I think tech kind of ruined our lives.
These are kind of annoying and pointless- no one is forcing you to be on the internet all of the time, you can still have/do all of the things on this list
True. And folks can turn off push notifications and ignore their devices if they really want some peace and quiet.
Load More Replies...Talking to the Operator when you made a phone call. Yes, I am that old.
Not all major incidents/events came with associated conspiracy theories, correct or otherwise. There simply wasn’t a large platform like the internet to allow exponential spread.
The idea the earth is flat has existed for a long time, and the moonlanding being fake or the murder on jfk are all events people had conspiracies theories about, which spread far enough for people to believe even today.
Load More Replies...i can't relate to 90% of these "positive" memories. we were observed by neighbors, school was a boring chore, information was painfully scarce, good books rare, superstition and false information plentiful ... and the rest i read here is a simple lack of self-discipline and/or -management.
If you feel that good books are rare, it is a comment on the holes in your education and on how little time you've spent in libraries.
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