Many of us have experienced the desire to present ourselves in a more favorable light to our significant others, bosses, and friends. It's natural, and there's no harm in it. Human pride can be a powerful motivator, leading us to act or speak in ways that may not truly reflect who we are. Some of these moments have been captured on the subreddit 'Not Like the Other Girls' in some funny and entertaining posts.
The subreddit has a thriving community of 860k members who share posts where people attempted to appear cool but came across as cringy. We've gathered a collection of our favorite ones so without further ado, let's dive into this cringe-fest and have a sneaky chuckle. Don't forget to upvote the ones that brought you the most laughter.
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Been Seeing This Woman's Tweets A Lot
At times, we tend to think of ourselves as smarter, funnier, kinder, and paradoxically, even more modest than we truly are. This is called the Dunning-Kruger effect. But in psychology is it known as the Superiority Illusion.
Golden Skin Shimmering In The Summer Sun
This Probably Doesn't Fit Here But
In 1995, McArthur Wheeler robbed two banks in Pittsburgh in broad daylight wearing no mask. He was identified from security cameras. When police asked him about it, he said he rubbed lemon juice on his face. It supposedly should have worked as an invisible ink. He tested it before the robbery by putting juice on his face and then taking a Polaroid picture - it showed no face. Let's just say this man is as good at robbery as photography.
"I'm Not Like Other Girls I'm Sick In The Head"
Some Of You Honestly Just Use Nlogs As An Excuse To Flex Your Inner High School Bully, It’s Nasty And Awful
Rude and hateful words coming out of a mouth just really ruins a face too
She’s Got Like 6 Days To Eat All Of That
Then she should know better than to put tomatoes in her fridge. 🍅
A few psychologists, Justin Kruger and David Dunning, were so intrigued by McArthur Wheeler's funny robbery story that they held a social experiment with psychology undergraduate students. They performed problem-solving tests using logic, analysis of grammar, and assessment of whether jokes were funny. Surprisingly, the results revealed that those who scored the lowest overestimated their performance. In their research paper, Dunning and Kruger wrote that "…people who are unskilled in these domains suffer a dual burden: Not only do these people reach erroneous conclusions and make unfortunate choices, but their incompetence robs them of the metacognitive ability to realize it." The phenomenon subsequently became known as the Dunning–Kruger effect, sometimes called ‘the unskilled and unaware effect.’
It is also interesting that the Dunning-Kruger effect involves smart people underestimating themselves.
Found In The Wilds Of Instagram
A short time ago, Bored Panda taught me that Colleen Hoover is the last author in the world that I would want to read. We are not the same.
Okay Then Make Friends With Girls Who Want To Do This???
Me too, but then again I have girlfriends who would all rather do this so that solves that problem, but I also have girlfriends who would rather get their nails done which is fine and they can show me after or maybe I will go with them just for shits 'n giggles, who knows? It's like we're people.
Found One Out In The Wild
Unfortunately, the Dunning-Kruger effect is part of being human. The good news for us is that it can be remediable. "Paradoxically, improving the skills of the participants, and thus increasing their metacognitive competence, helped them recognize the limitations of their abilities," Dunning and Kruger wrote in their paper.
Tell Me You're Insecure Without Telling Me You're Insecure
A Facebook Gem Shared By A 14 Year Old Girl
Did You Win? Do All The Men Like You Yet?
Perceiving yourself to be better than you are is also linked to optimism. It is considered by many to be one of the most desirable traits to have. We just don't want that negativity. However, according to Leuven University’s Vera Hoorens and colleagues, it can come at a price: "It may make you look naïve, and you may be in for disappointment when your sunny predictions fail to materialize."
Someone Actually Made This List On Twt
Apparently Only This Girl Wants To Get A House
Found One In The Wild
Another pitfall linked to optimism emerges when you become ensnared by the hubris hypothesis. According to the above mentioned Belgian scientists, it involves "comparing yourself favorably and explicitly with other people. This leads others to believe that you hold disparaging attitudes toward them because you’re letting them know that you think of yourself as superior. It’s a particular form of pride in which the claims you make about your worth come at the expense of acknowledging that of other people."
Found On Facebook
Women shaming, degrading and abusing other women. If men were doing this, we'd be horrified.
Im Not Like Other Girls Because I Love Harassment And Have A Real Womb
She's right tho, if she's OK with being objectified and sexually assaulted then she's NOT like other girls.
Lots of hallmarks of it being a male cosplaying as a female online to justify their awful behaviour. If they have to double down on 'evidence' that you are a certain type of person, chances are they aren't actually that person. The nail in the coffin is the last part where they apparently know what it is like from a male perspective and slam women as being a different group to what they are.
Thank you. No woman would be fine with having her a*s grabbed constantly at work by her superior, c'mon. And even if you would, for whatever reasons, most women wouldn't and your tolerance of abuse (cause that's abuse) makes it easier and "justifiable " for those men to reiterate their behavior.
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If someone random touches me I will legitimately punch them in the face
This just can't have been written by a woman. No woman would say this.
I used to agree, but there are women out there who actually BELIEVE their only "purpose" in life, the literal only reason they exist, is to birth children and be a man's "mate". Not even his partner or his equal, but basically his walking baby factory. So, nowadays, I WOULD believe this was written by a woman :(
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Way to set your gender back generations. Congratulations, you're part of the problem.
As an aside, I'm a woman with a womb and a vagina and I've been trying to have said womb removed since I was 11 years old. Anyone know any good OBGYNs in the SoCal area? XD
WDYM an actual women with a vagina and womb? 💀 Do other women have cereal boxes for private parts? 💀
She means she is a biological female, and not a trans guy in a dress.
Load More Replies... what the actual f**k? just because you like it doesnt mean other women like it, why wont you just wise up and realize the world doesnt revolve around your huge ego. i kinda feel bad for her because she doesnt know sexual assault when she sees it, but comments like this...just gets rid if all sympathy for her.
Five bucks says sockpuppet for a neckbeard who wants women to embrace being assaulted and objectified.
Her society is very anti women, no? I have worked in kitchens with male chefs too AND in … I don‘t know what it is called. With mechanics (a very male dominated firm) and NO ONE, not even once! catcalled or grabbed my a*s or whatnot. That would be considered sexual harassment and unprofessional. You can loose your job for stuff like that here. And this is not new here. It‘s been like this for at least 30 years (probably more but I am not that old yet, so I cannot testify). Men are not animals. They are able to behave like adults. They are not little school boys who do not know better. It‘s your societies education and upbringing that makes your men behave like that! Teach them better! (Yes I know I am generalising . I know there are good and bad in every society. But some societies seem to have more of one then the other)
I was sorta understanding... like she wants to be "complemented"? until the whole okay-with-boss-sexually-assaulting-her thing. That.. I really just can't.
oh, shes so right! if ur employer and coworkers sexually assault u, ur gonna wanna take it as a compliment and not be concerned! this is what I;ve been doing wrong this whole time😶🌫
Yeah, totally get why being assaulted by your boss would be a compliment. I'm embarrassed for her.
If anyone dares touch me or make a gross comment... 😡💥
She defines herself as a womb and a vagina. Stop drinking the kool-aid.
I Drink Beer, Not Fruity Drinks!!
So it's not positivity or negativity, arrogance or modesty that matters. It is the fine balance between all those things. Keep scrolling to see all those 'not so modest' people, as featured on r/notliketheothergirls. When you're done, feel free to delve into our previous posts about the subreddit here, here, and here.
Not One Of The Kardashians
Do they have a mold where they make Kardashians? I can’t tell them apart 🤔
Stumbled Across Someone's Ig Story
So Cute And Quirky !!! Gross, Men Have Feelings? 😩
Just Why
That’s bcz everyone else made smart life decisions. Xoxo, me, who once forgot my sneakers on a hike and regretted it immediately.
Party Bad
I’m Not Like Other Girls I Make Bone Broth
Not Sure If This Has Already Been Posted But 🥴
I Can’t Even-
She eats while doing cardio? And on top of that she exercises wearing a turtleneck, hair down, wearing earrings and a necklace that don't even go with each other? Mmm, that sounds...odd.
Just Saw This On Twitter
Anti-vaxxer that won't use birrh-control? Her gaggle of future children are doomed
Mascara Trend Nlog
So Brave - Inspiring
#differentbreed
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Real feminism is letting women do what they want (as long as it's not hurting anyone) without shaming them for their choices.
THIS! Everyone has different priorities and interests, just because you do something doesn't mean everyone has to be that way.
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Aaaaaaand I only made it to #10 this time. You know, instead of attacking each other, maybe we can accept the different people like different stuff and move on.
i’m reminded of that comics post from a while ago. perfect solution: https://preview.redd.it/l9nlm90frmx51.jpg?auto=webp&s=57af6abcef83777cc2870b5d02ea4f3380bfe250
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I think any posts that contains the phrase "We are not the same", where the post isn't either satire or a joke, immediately disqualifies the author from being taken seriously.
As it should, its 2023 we shouldn’t be pitching anyone against anyone. We all like what we like and live and learn at our own pace. Life isn’t a race nor a competitive sport
Load More Replies... I am honestly confused these days. I was a tomboy as a child in the 80s/90s, and I didn't have ANY female friends growing up; all my friends were boys. I don't hate or dislike other females. I ended up having what were then-considered "stereotypically male" hobbies/interests like playing video games, chasing insects, and watching football. I tell people that when they ask about my childhood and I get called a "pick me girl". Am I? I don't understand the term, exactly, and I don't know what I'm doing/saying wrong :/ I didn't hate the other girls or feel superior/different from them... I was just a weirdo regardless of what my gender/sex were/are XD But in all seriousness, I don't really understand what a "pick me girl" is and whether or not I am one.
Lakota, I can assure you that that is not a pick me girl - actually it sounds fun (side note,what kind of video games do you like to play?) And anyway pick me girls aren't self-aware lol so you're a step ahead. Pick me girls are ones who deliberately shun other women and try really hard to get male attention by slagging off their own gender and attempting to be "one of the guys". ACTUALLY being one of the guys is absolutely fine, of course. But these girls who go around saying it all the time can be compared to the "nice guy" thing - if you have to constantly tell everyone around you that you are one, then you're not one.
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to be different. The problem is only when you try too hard or you think you're superior to others because you are not like them.
this! if i'm a girl that simply prefers jeans over skirts, that's fine. but if i'm a girl that prefers jeans and then puts down girls that like skirts, that's when there's a problem.
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I'm me. I'm a combination of my experiences, choices and tastes. I don't go around bragging about them. Whatever for?
This entire post was toxic and disgusting, the fact this is becoming common place in thinking is why i don't actively try to date, it may be self defeating but i may compliment a woman and be genuine but there goes my job.
Why is this titled "people* when clearly the *author* is only targeting women?
H. Pearl Davis needs to delete her account, three terrible entries on this list
Girls. Ok. Please just be yourself. You don't need to broadcast how you are to the world to be noticed by anyone. Just be who you are and those who have the privilege of being around you will see it and appreciate you for you. Forget those who can't appreciate you, and enjoy those who can. But no one needs this kind of social media post to be noticed by anyone.
random question: are you sure you're *constantly* jon?
Load More Replies... Real feminism is letting women do what they want (as long as it's not hurting anyone) without shaming them for their choices.
THIS! Everyone has different priorities and interests, just because you do something doesn't mean everyone has to be that way.
Load More Replies... Aaaaaaand I only made it to #10 this time. You know, instead of attacking each other, maybe we can accept the different people like different stuff and move on.
i’m reminded of that comics post from a while ago. perfect solution: https://preview.redd.it/l9nlm90frmx51.jpg?auto=webp&s=57af6abcef83777cc2870b5d02ea4f3380bfe250
Load More Replies... I think any posts that contains the phrase "We are not the same", where the post isn't either satire or a joke, immediately disqualifies the author from being taken seriously.
As it should, its 2023 we shouldn’t be pitching anyone against anyone. We all like what we like and live and learn at our own pace. Life isn’t a race nor a competitive sport
Load More Replies... I am honestly confused these days. I was a tomboy as a child in the 80s/90s, and I didn't have ANY female friends growing up; all my friends were boys. I don't hate or dislike other females. I ended up having what were then-considered "stereotypically male" hobbies/interests like playing video games, chasing insects, and watching football. I tell people that when they ask about my childhood and I get called a "pick me girl". Am I? I don't understand the term, exactly, and I don't know what I'm doing/saying wrong :/ I didn't hate the other girls or feel superior/different from them... I was just a weirdo regardless of what my gender/sex were/are XD But in all seriousness, I don't really understand what a "pick me girl" is and whether or not I am one.
Lakota, I can assure you that that is not a pick me girl - actually it sounds fun (side note,what kind of video games do you like to play?) And anyway pick me girls aren't self-aware lol so you're a step ahead. Pick me girls are ones who deliberately shun other women and try really hard to get male attention by slagging off their own gender and attempting to be "one of the guys". ACTUALLY being one of the guys is absolutely fine, of course. But these girls who go around saying it all the time can be compared to the "nice guy" thing - if you have to constantly tell everyone around you that you are one, then you're not one.
Load More Replies... There is nothing wrong with wanting to be different. The problem is only when you try too hard or you think you're superior to others because you are not like them.
this! if i'm a girl that simply prefers jeans over skirts, that's fine. but if i'm a girl that prefers jeans and then puts down girls that like skirts, that's when there's a problem.
Load More Replies... I'm me. I'm a combination of my experiences, choices and tastes. I don't go around bragging about them. Whatever for?
This entire post was toxic and disgusting, the fact this is becoming common place in thinking is why i don't actively try to date, it may be self defeating but i may compliment a woman and be genuine but there goes my job.
Why is this titled "people* when clearly the *author* is only targeting women?
H. Pearl Davis needs to delete her account, three terrible entries on this list
Girls. Ok. Please just be yourself. You don't need to broadcast how you are to the world to be noticed by anyone. Just be who you are and those who have the privilege of being around you will see it and appreciate you for you. Forget those who can't appreciate you, and enjoy those who can. But no one needs this kind of social media post to be noticed by anyone.
random question: are you sure you're *constantly* jon?
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