Toxic Women Unveiled: 45 Pics From A Group Dedicated To Calling Out ‘Nice Girls’ (New Pics)
InterviewThe popular internet term nice guy refers to a social stereotype associated with young adult males who think that acting like a caring and empathetic gentleman makes them entitled to women's affection and romantic interest.
However, we would like to show you that such wishful thinking isn't exclusive to just one gender and introduce you to the so-called nice girls. So we invite you to take a look at the content we gathered from a subreddit of the same name, as it perfectly illustrates their peculiar ways.
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Nice Respectable Girl Can't Find A Man
Doesn't sound "judgey" to me, just making an assumption. A faulty assumption but not judgemental.
Load More Replies...Not so much an answer but, a third-degree taunt!
Load More Replies...I prefer fries or onion rings, myself.
Load More Replies...It's not even that the first person doesn't drink or smoke or goes to church, it's that they're a judgemental whiner who claims to be Christian but is more than likely a terrible person based on that one tweet.
They talk about deserving a man like an incel talks about being entitled to sex after holding a door.
Load More Replies...Umm
Why does this keep getting posted with different guys in the picture and 'answering'? This is the fifth guy I've seen in this same format. Same girl. . . .always different guy. I believe the first time I saw it was with an MMA fighter, second with Axel Rose, then it just all blends together. This IS the first time I've seen it without a verified guy in the response.
This is the original. It became a meme, so people change it
Load More Replies...For the people complaining about this one, check the dates. If someone tries to pick you up on a years old post, you would think he is a stalker too
Given that she didn't tag him, it's hardly unlikely that it took him, or someone he knew, two years to point it out.
Load More Replies..."[This subreddit is meant] for all the self-proclaimed 'nice girls,'" the moderators of the online community write in its 'About' section.
"For the women who complain 'guys are only interested in sluts.' For women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. For the women who hold others to the highest possible standard, but have no standards for themselves."
Not Sure If This Counts But
Suddenly, I feel like running to the bakery for honey buns. And for those who may ask, yes, I will share.
I might have sat next to her to get better acquitted. Wonder what she might have though of that. I'd be arrested by now!
Well if you get arrested, at least you're better acquitted.
Load More Replies...I think what she says is fair. It may be full of herself, but he admit that he stared and it is ok for her to say her piece to clear the air. She.may have been so embarresed and self-cringe by his responce for all we know. She should maybe have offered, but too many men would think that litteraly means "f**k me".
You've got a valid point, unfortunately some people do assume that if somebody is nice it's an invitation for something more intimate. There have been a lot of assaults committed because of this belief. Definitely not a down vote worthy comment
Load More Replies...If You Can't Handle Me At My Worst
If you can't handle me at my worst... you probably have healthy boundaries.
As I said to Bev "If you can't handle me at my lowest point then we will go out and have some fun to cheer us both up"
Putting them on the stove and forget them till the water evaporates... never happened to me, but my sister did that once
Load More Replies..."It's too burnt and frozen at the same time." Lenard, Big Biang theory.
This Can Fit This Sub And R/Niceguys Equally Well
She'll get attention of her own! My gorgeous pals always did and their tales would delight me. Though I don't buy the idea the cartoon jock thinks that!
Load More Replies...... as long as "men" and "women" is, like in those cases, used in the meaning of "all of them, no exception", none of these are true. Do women prefer self-proclaimed Alpha-dudes with half a brain? Yes, some. Do men try to make out with women way above their market value? Sure, some. But ... all people I didn't regret knowing were NOT like these. It may even be the reason not to regret knowing them, and them not acting like this shares a reason. Now, how could've, eh?
it's not saying everyone is like this. It's just a representation of "the grass is always greener" Each person wants someone who is in love with someone else. Green wants pink but pink loves blue. Purple wants green but green wants pink. Blue has pink but wants purple. If each of the characters would look at what they have in front of them then they would find they have a lot more than they realize.
Load More Replies..."This sub is not for female incels," the moderators clarify, adding that, "this place is not for crazy girls," either.
"This subreddit is not a women-hating subreddit," they finish off, warning everyone to refrain from making sexist comments or just being a bigot in general because it will not be tolerated and earn them a ban.
He Shall Find A Hook-Up
Exactly. People like this should be required to wear clown shoes so we can easily identify them.
Load More Replies...With some people, "Goodbye" is the only really worthwhile thing they have to say.
Just Your Typical Nicegirl
Honey- it says press any key to continue. Help me find the "any" key.
Load More Replies...This is like that clip about a girl breaking with his boyfriend because he's texting with a girl called Madre and saying he loves her 😅(Madre =mom in spanish).
Right up there with "Who the he** is 'Amber Alert' and why is she texting you at 2 a.m.????"
Ooh! I've got 5:30a, 5:35a, 5:40a, and my favourite side-hustle: 6:30a.
Is She Missing Anything Else?
Daddy’s little princess doesn’t understand she’s not considered royalty by anyone else.
Missing anything else? Yes, a nice big cup of reality...or realitea, if at a cafe.
But she's still got her sense of entitlement!
Load More Replies...My thoughts exactly, now you get the "honour" to pay for a prostitute to go on a date 😂
Load More Replies...Hokuloa what language is this if I may ask? I think this is my new favorite word.
Load More Replies...We got in touch with the people taking care of this online community and asked if they believe there are levels to the nice girl syndrome, or is it more like a 'package.'
"It's an honest mix," the moderators told Bored Panda. "Some are extremely immature, some are extremely toxic, and others are just jerks."
But it's not just the nice girls that the members of the subreddit are fed up with. "Repost bots are the current most hated thing. These are generally accounts that have been around 4-6 months; they suddenly come to life and will repost a post from 2-5 years ago, with the exact same title, attempting to farm karma."
Does This Count?
Mo and Austin are the only things on the list that I think can even be remotely spun as reasonable, and I doubt they are
Load More Replies...On the upside, if they move in together no girl is ever allowed. Remind her of that and kick her a*s out. Rules are rules
I was thinking something similar. Like, aren't most/all of her friends girls? By her own rules, is she not allowed to have her own friends over?
Load More Replies...Rules!? If a man put this paper in front of me I would laugh. Then run away as fast as i can
That was exactly how I read it after I got to "you can never get mad at me ever again." I'm guessing it went down at Honda and that's why it's the only place she needs to be in attendance.
Load More Replies...Queen Of Clowns
Her comment roughly translates to: "I'm going to do whatever I want and then blame you for not accepting me as I am." What a clown.
Load More Replies...I'd like to see how it would be if a man told a woman this same thing. (I'm a woman, not an angry man. Don't downvote.) Also, there is never an excuse to cheat. If you don't want to be in a monogamous relationship, tell your partner and leave. Don't go behind their back.
Well, it's the reality in some places. Here in my country(Brazil), women are expected to forgive their cheating partners. Men aren't, tho. I dont agree with that one bit, btw, but it does happen.
Load More Replies...Let's not be sexist, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," applies to women as well.
One of my (ex)buddies stole my girlfriend. They cheated on me for about a month before I found out and broke up with her. They got together and she then began cheating on him after awhile. Bumped into him at a bar later and he tried to explain that he was sorry but he thought that she was the love of his life...but now she was cheating on him and how much it hurt. My response, "once a cheater, always a cheater...karma is a biitch!" I walked away and never looked back.
Load More Replies...But, but, but it's not my fault I cheated...it's our fault, we must strive to be better together...while I'm banging all of your co-workers and friends!!! /S
Load More Replies...My Friend Sent Me This Screenshot
ah the one that can't take the direct hint...aka the blunt honest truth...
And she STILL won’t accept the blunt honest truth. Time to block and run.
Load More Replies...If this was a guy not taking no for an answer there would be an uproar. Let's not forget that women can be stalkers, too.
Yeah the double standards in this are just bizarre, you would think especially most women know the importance of accepting no by now
Load More Replies...i've had crushes on a few male friends over the years. built up the courage, asked them out. they very kindly declined. i never brought it up again and we continued to be friends for some time after. i never asked them again, they'd said no. if they ever changed their mind, it was up to them to say something. no point in pressuring someone.
Why would you want to date someone who so clearly doesn’t want to date you?
Physically Cringing
Ah, so there's also a female version of this. Also, she called him stupid in the end (baka). Why? That's the opposite of what you should say to someone you want to date, disregarding the other weirdness.
Cause she thinks it is cute.....like when a anime girl says this to show affevtion towards someone
Load More Replies...Guys doing this is already weird, but most of the ones I've seen COULD be considered cute by the right person. But "giggles my books juggling" is pure nonsense, or stands for something that I feel like I'm ok not knowing
perhaps a typo? Change one letter on the word "books", and it make sense, no?
Load More Replies...I will never understand this kind of communication! Its so cringe 😬
you don't need to understand it. some people are cringe and that isn't an issue
Load More Replies...I mean, men and women are the same species. IDK why it's shocking when we both do the same stupid s**t.
Load More Replies..."We'd like to add that you should always read the rules first and foremost before you post," the moderators said.
"Remembering the human is also extremely important." And that goes beyond just reposting.
Hey....can I Ask Why Have You Decided To Unfollow Me?
You can have all the good looks in the world and still be unattractive.
Never Thought This Sh*t Would Happen, Like What The F*ck
It only took her 23 minutes to let the crazy out. You have to appreciate what a tremendous time saver that is.
IDK, getting a guy's phone number by eavesdropping on his conversation seems pretty crazy to me. She showed her crazy only 7 minutes in.
Load More Replies...I don't think most guys wouldn't WANT to find someone like her.
He Was Genuinely About To Leave The Library To Go See Her Too
TBF, he's the one in the library, she obviously needs to be there herself, lol.
Load More Replies...Why are people talking like they have mashed potatoes in their skull
"Fair enough, I'll see you around" The only response for a drama hook.
Was this one of those girls that "test" their partners by saying the exact opposite of what tgey mean?
According to writer Raluca Popescu, the notion that you have to be nice to everyone in order to be loved and accepted is basically a mission impossible and a completely useless task to even try in the first place.
"This idea is based on a deeper one that says 'you are not good enough," Popescu explains. "So you have to do things and be in certain ways to be loved. Things and ways that almost always do not reflect the real you."
"If you are a nice girl how could you say 'no' when a colleague asks for your help with that report that's his responsibility?" Popescu asks rhetorically.
"You don't have kids waiting for you at home so you spend on two extra hours to help. And he will take credit for it. But you don’t mind, you are so nice, you are happy you could help."
(Ex)gf Hit Me With A Car And Then Sent This
She sent this AFTER ramming you with a car? You are both remarkably nonchalant about that
been on this particular rollercoaster beofer...never ever fails to make me want to puke
Is this the same ex-girlfriend from the other crazy car accident post above?
iMessage has autocorrect that would make these seem more real.
I Think This Is Abuse
"Yay, I love making people's anxiety worse!" Men or women, people can be so awful
Ugh, I sympathize with your boyfriend. You, I wouldn't even want to be within 100ft of...
Her Getting D Tonight Is Ok But I Guess Men Can’t?
Yeah, i think he's bi... but for f**ktard, it's the same as be gay. So yeah, homophobic
Load More Replies...weirdest way to call someone a slur 😭😭 at least commit to it
Load More Replies...POST: "May never have own again...." ME: Um... ouch? WTF happened to that poor guy in college POST: "...but I've been with men." ME: Oh. Still... you have your own.
"If you are a nice girl you are the one who always seems to attract the 'wrong men,'" the writer continues exploring this character. "Only there are no 'wrong men' as there are no 'perfect men' either (I hope you've realized this by now)."
"However, if you look at your past relationships you will find a common thread: they were all based on at least one key factor. This factor assured the impossibility of the relationship to ever turn into a fully committed one."
From A Nicegirl On My Facebook
People who make nasty comments and then follow it up with that emoticon are immediately disqualified in my books.
No. No, no, no. “If he doesn’t get angry and beat you from time to time, he doesn’t really love you.” Yeah, that sh!t doesn’t fly either and nor should it. You’re either a loving, good woman or man or you’re a mentally unstable trash monster in this context. No excuses folks. Be better
No, he just doesn't stick his d**k into crazy -- a very good rule to follow.
If she doesn't go psycho on me, I know she may be the one. You, on the other hand...
If she- or anyone, for that matter- only likes you for… what’s down there, they don’t actually like you.
She Is Cursed
People are a spectrum. Not everyone is designed to be monogamous. The sooner we talk about this the sooner loyal people will stop being cheated on.
My Ex’s Reply When I Told Her I Was Going To Break Up With Her For Cheating On Me
Keep documenting, you might need it later to show to the police.
I hope he saved this message as proof when authorities have to be involved (At this rate, it could very well happen).
Funny way of showing she 'cares' about him if she cheats on him. That's a big nope from me
Hmm
What in the name of da rainbow sparkly unicorn T-shirt on Lucifer
Load More Replies...I think we found the ex gf’s post from a few posts above. Hit the op with a car.
Lmao okay that’s kinda funny idk my sense of humor is very warped
This key factor that she talks about can be any a variety of things, from him being married to a huge age difference and him having some type of addiction.
"As a rule of thumb, you choose a man that for some reason is unavailable to fully commit to a relationship. You stay with him as long as that barrier is there so you have something to fight for. This way you hide your own fear and easily 'blame' it on him. The mindset is: 'If he only did this or that...'"
Ironic
Maybe to illustrate the dizziness one feels when reading this....
Load More Replies...I hate this. You are not an amusement park ride, you don't need a 'you must be this tall' sign. Some of my friends are absolutely fantastic guys, and I've watched them get shot down solely because they weren't tall enough.
i’m 6’3” too! not really relevant but i thought it was a fun piece of information 💀
I mean I like tall guys but I don’t date like only tall guys. I think a person’s personality is more interesting than physical traits :P like if they’re tall that’s like a bonus to me but if they’re not that’s just fine and I still love them just the way they are <3
This looks like it was printed on a tortilla. A really funny and accurate tortilla.
There's a meme somewhere with a girl's profile that said, "If your height starts with 5 swipe left" and some guy responded with, "If your weight starts with 2, I will" Of course, teeth were gnashed, there was some sackcloth and stuff.
It's common for dank memes to have a distorted format.
Load More Replies...A Rare Daily Double Of Nice Guy And Girl
Great, these two searched and found each other: Male incel stumbles over female incel. "I always end up friend zoned!" and "Men are trash!" are a toxic concoction.
These two should get married so they’re not making anyone else miserable.
Load More Replies...Decent men are real. They're just out buying honey buns to share and spread joy (there's a honey bun post here with my name on it). Speaking of, the bakery is about 20 minutes from closing and I'm still stuck in dang traffic XP
Nooooooo! Want me to blast the way for you?
Load More Replies...Sounds Like A Really Great Relationship
I'm AFAB and I don't even have a partner but I'd never even DREAM of treating someone like any of these posts! How awful.
Popescu says she has thought a lot about how women can overcome the nice girl syndrome. She thinks that once they realize that they might be suffering from it, they should consciously choose to act and think differently.
"Just be curious and open about it," she advises. "Don't take yourself too seriously. Laugh when you catch yourself acting automatically as a nice girl."
"There is a beautiful, authentic you underneath the mask. Do yourself and the world a huge favor and let it shine!"
Basic Questions And Got Sas Back
you can use me if you need proof!!!!!
Load More Replies...Is there something wrong with me or are the first texts purple and the bottom ones blue?
they are, it's supposed to be like that
Load More Replies...My partner's severely dyslexic (as are a couple of my friends) and in the end you get used to it.
Load More Replies...My Ex’s Responses When She Broke Up With Me And I Quit Responding To Her
Even though she broke up with you she's acting as if your cheating on her?
Well, yeah. She's "irreplaceable". He's supposed to stay single & lonely the rest of his life, pining for the one who got away, not move on with his life! Who does that?
Load More Replies...Would be scary if that's her sober side....
Load More Replies...I read it that she thinks he’s going to cheat because he had the temerity to interact with a woman, and is preemptively nuking the relationship.
Load More Replies...Good Thing She’ll Probably Never Have A Wedding!!
I absolutely hate women like that. Men have feelings just like everyone else and can cry. Shitheads like her made my fiance never tell me when he feels bad until he becomes miserable!
I hate anyone like this, not just women. I thought this was written by Andrew Tate for a second.
Load More Replies...I love the emotion gatekeepers who decide things are gay. It speaks volumes about their character.
I'm 67, I cried the second I saw my daughter wearing her wedding dress
And there is nothing wrong with that :D.... let your loving tears flow :]
Load More Replies...Yeah, if that’s your hill to die on, prepare for a delightful life with the Andrew Tates of the world. Bon chance!
We should honor her sacrifice on keeping those idiots away from women with more empathy
Load More Replies...Or… isn’t it great that man can show that they have emotions too. Not gay (although that shouldn’t be an insult). Keith crying on Pottery Showdown when they make something amazing makes me have a tiny crush on him.
How dare a man show any sign of emotional happiness at his own wedding!
If you are interested in other ways this syndrome manifests in people, fire up our earlier publications: 40 Examples Of ‘Nice Girls’, A Female Equivalent Of The Toxic ‘Nice Guys’ and 35 Times People Didn’t Let The “Nice Girl” Act Slide, And They Got Shamed On This Group.
This Trend Is So Weird To Me
At least she advertises all her faults upfront? lol
Load More Replies...The rest already sounds far more like a bully than a partner, but "I hate working, pay my bills." and "I am always right."??? I already feel sorry for the baby she's gonna birth - in difference to a guy, the poor thing can't just run away from her blatant narcissism.
With a different font (or letters not all in caps), you could've read "flick" as it was intended.
Nicegirl Doesn't Know Why Boys Won't Date Her. Gee I Wonder Why?
Ah yes, tumblr 'feminists'. (Read: misandrists). As a woman I apologise for this lady and would like to assure my fellow pandas that these kinds of people are both delusional and very rare in real life
Reddit also has/had (I deleted mine a a little over a year ago) an absolutely insane misandrist group under a 'feminism' guise. Reading some of their posts made me feel like I'd entered an entirely new dimension of insanity.
Load More Replies...Well, you think they're all ugly and should die. So it's only logical they don't like you.
Good luck finding a guy then, you will absolutely need it because if you think we all should die, allow me to reiterate that you will NEVER find one.
Wow, is there a i4i (incel for incel) hook up site out there? That might be the startup of the decade for someone who's talented that...
I wonder if she also refuses to use anything men are involved in - like keeping sewage, electricity and water running or the roads that were build mainly by men to name just a few things
In this case it's safe to assume she is a lesbian. But it's safer to assume she is a human praying mantis. Either way, stay safe, don't date her.
And Breaking Worth 40$ Isn't Cruel?
I don't care if we've been dating for 3 weeks or 3 years, you do this to any of my games, it's out the door with you. I won't say I'd prioritize my games over my girl but breaking games is heresy in my book.
It doesn't matter if it's a video game or anything else. Deliberately breaking your partner's stuff is such a sign of disrespect that there's no hope for the relationship. If they stay together, it'll only escalate.
Load More Replies...I am a woman myself and I'd chase her with the shards though the neighborhood until she buys a replacement. Nobody f***s with our dear videogames!
I don’t play video games but I can assure you she admitted to a crime, on social media.
I used to date a gamer. It was certainly a reason why I didn't believe we were compatible. He literally did sit for hours playing, even if I was visiting from out of town. But I never broke his property, just reevaluated how we didn't click. I hope he either found a gamer partner who would enjoy doing that with him or someone who doesn't mind it.
There's a difference between a gamer and just being glued to the screen like an anti-social dreg. I know because I am guilty of being stuck in my RPG games (especially if they are brand new) but even I know that I need to socialize and see people occasionally. Heck, I might even meet fellow gamers in the flesh so why not.
Load More Replies...Intentionally breaking anything that belongs to the other person in the relationship is inexcusable, not just a game.
This is an act of violence. 100% guarantee that she will escalate to physically injuring him, and it won't take long. RUN BRO.
You absolutely do NOT compare something that isn't abuse to actual Abuse. I've absolutely no time whatsoever for anyone who falsely claims "abuse" or lies about it or any form of violence. It's ridiculous females like her who make it a lot harder for the True Victims of physical and mental abuse to feel that they can come forward, report it and they'll be believed. It's such a serious accusation and it could ruin the accused persons life.
I think that this girl might end up trying to kill/give away her future SO’s pets, because from her drastic logic ‘oh he’s choosing his dog over his girlfriend’. I’ve actually met one girl who tried to dump BF’s cat at the park. Was busted when said cat found its way back home and the girl was angry.
Call Ya Mom
WOW, there are seriously a lot more controlling psycho b*tches than I ever realized.
She's Not Like Other Girls, She Has Intellagince
To be honest 60 guys a weekend is quite an impressive archievement on it's own, respect for the woman that can score such numbers (given it's based on consent)
Works out to be about one an hour - two an hour if getting some sleep! It's always the math! 8-)
Load More Replies...I will go out on a limb here and say that she is not telling the truth when she says she spends her evening reading books.
Ah, Of Course
Uhh… okay? We’ll stay away…. Real far away…. From the BOTH of you
she looks easy to beat up ngl if she didn't have that knife anybody could make her dumbass run laps away from them
If the knife is her boyfriend, that’s probably not going to end well.
Careful idiot... those are SHARP and have been known to sever tendon and bone.
Found One In The Wild On Bumble
Going to Brazil, France, Jamaica, Liberia and San Marino to practice that Spanish...
Only to show the white flag and surrender after having been to Argentina
Load More Replies...Interests: makeup and photography. I put on makeup and you take pictures of me.
Load More Replies...Sooo many women on dating apps that 'Love to travel' The large percentage translate into 'I want you to pay for my vacations'
That's how I interpretted her comment. She really said she wanted a travel companion "to plan OUR next trip".
Load More Replies...I think she needs to practice her English before she worries about another language!
I Understand The First Two But Going To The Gym And Having Friends Is Bad?
But SHE would still want to hang out with her friends, of course.
Yup, I ain't it. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm off to the gym and then having drinks (most likely non-alcoholic ones) with the boys.
“If you consume alcohol or exercise or have a friend” so basically they’re into corpses.
Ex Gfs Last Message I Ever Read. She Really Went Out Of Her Way To Take A Stab. Never Responded. Blocked Out Identifying Info
I apparently said medicore as a kid, since I read it a lot before hearing it spoken
Funny how all those ex,partners spend so much time thinking about their ex and need to reach out just to say stupid stuff like this. Why do you even care what your ex' life will be like from now on? It's an ex for a reason (you seem to be the reason). What do you care if he/she has a ton of great partners or not. He/she is not part of your life anymore. Spend your time focusing on your own sh1t. Looks like you need it. A lot!
Don't use being bi as an excuse to have a threesome tf... and on the last day of pride, how awful! I hope both of them have nothing to do with LGBTQIA+ because these sort of people give us a bad name...
A Girl's List Of Red Flags
How to eliminate every living man on the planet. Can you imagine- need you to go through this list.
Load More Replies...What's the problem with Kajaks, tennis players, salads, omelette cooks and people called Andy...? What a bizarre list!
Does kayaking mean something else now? I'm so confused.
Load More Replies...This seems like a young teenager’s list. Something that years ago would have been in “my dear diary.” Only now people barf this kind of drivel onto their daily stream.
I didn't understand alot of this. I'm feeling really old right now.
Load More Replies...Androids as in the phone or androids the artificial human beings? Maybe it's both?
A few of these make sense, like bad breath/never changing their toothbrush/lying, or may be personal dealbreakers, such as incompatible fetishes, but the rest? She might as well just get herself a blow-up doll and a vibrator (although that might be too close to android!).
boys that are good at tennis for no reason? when they sing along unironically w the radio? guys that order a salad on the first date? **biking to class**. ok, she's not finding anyone.
The only thing I agree with is the dirty fingernails bit. It drives me insane
And the stinky breath. And the toothbrush thingy.
Load More Replies...Coming From A Basic “Alt” Girl On Tiktok
He was a skater boy, she said "See you later, boy", he wasn't good enough for her ... Emo/goth/punk people look great, I totally agree to that, but there's more to love than looking good!
Omg that freaking song... can I make it any more obvious?
Load More Replies...I would bet money on that she either 1. doesn't dress like that normally. 2. Is wearing alt styles only because it got popular for a bit, or 3. Doesn't actually like anything about any alt subcultures but wants an "excuse" to wear lots of black and showing off. Which is fine, but it sounds like she's just as basic as the girl she's jealous of
Alt? Here is is sort of the opposite to a soprano voice. I am missing something here.
Girl Wouldn't Leave Friend Alone
No shortage of delusion in this list - no shortage at all!!
Load More Replies...Ok but I love you can be platonic as well, not saying it was here but just a reminder
she is just hurting and lashing out. the guy could have been more supportive, I have had this happen more than a few times with a set of sisters I have known from high school. One will call and unload on me once or twice a year, then cry for a bit and soon she will feel better and be her old self.
It's scary how far these fly in the opposite direction once rejected.
Ok, this one I don't see that bad. Saying you love someone DOES NOT mean they want a relationship with you. I have platonic female friends that I would have no problem helping them through it. I wouldn't think I'm the "rebound guy", I'd be there to help a friend (no matter how close our friendship was, or even if you thought it existed). It's called being a decent person. Even if I wasn't the biggest fan of them, I'd still try to listen and help.
So Much Easier Than Communicating
just a guess that they are not rigged with a fire suppression system, just a stick on the wall smoke detector. just a guess...
Load More Replies...That's not even funny. Grow the f**k up you don't need attention all the time what the hell. Nice example
That’s a fire hazard! She could’ve dropped the paper or she could’ve burnt herself or she couldn’t extinguish the fire on time! You don’t just randomly light a fire near anything flammable especially indoors
Aw Yes, Because It Definitely Happened In The Real World The Other Way 'Round. Wasn't A Movie Or Anything
Well, this is true and hardly makes the person pointing it out 'toxic'. Fascinating how the bottom of the barrel really needs to be scraped to 'prove' that women are 'as bad as men'.
Excuse me, she's an adorable little furry and loving her is absolutely possible - because we all know someone who loves fluffy creatures like that!
But were you considered ugly and was he told to give you a chance because you were nice? It's not a matter of if someone is better looking than the other but that women are often told to give men a chance because they are "nice" while the reverse is very rare ime.
Load More Replies...Somebody should tell her about us Furries, because "Beastress" would get a lot of dating requests
But I feel like a lot of creepy furries would send her creepy DMs, I feel bad for her :( a decent furry who loves her for who she is not just what she is would be good for her tho
Load More Replies...Totally off-topic, but I absolutely love that drawing, they both look awesome! and Belle(or would she be considered the beast?) looks adorable!
Here we have a old fairytale about a boy looking for a wife befriends a talking rat and eventually marries her, then she asks him to chop her head of and it turns out she was a envhanted queen.
Really? I've had so many girls try and set me up with their fat friends who have hearts of gold.
I'm fat and my heart is questionable at best, but I've never struggled for male attention. Body types just aren't that important and you should avoid dating anyone who thinks it is anyway.
Load More Replies...Marilyn Didn’t Really Say This But What The Hell. Let’s Roll With It
Why don't we change it to "It you can handle my worst, you deserve my best."? We can all be horrible occasionally, everyone has a bad day, but for the people we love, we should do our very best to ensure they feel happy and loved, and do our best to make the relationship worth it.
Alternatively, we should do away with this phrase altogether; you are not responsible for your friends' mental health, especially when they are detrimental to your own. Helping your friends when necessary is great, but if they refuse to get help for themselves from professionals, then you aren't obliged to be their therapist. Speaking from experience.
Load More Replies...Technically speaking, Socrates committed suicide, but he said a few things worth listening to. And apparently only people who give bad advice get murdered.
In the immortal words of Socrates, "I drank what?"
Load More Replies...I hate how superficial and narcissistic women have spun this quote to mean something Marilyn never actually meant. People actually take that quote completely out of context. MM didn't mean that people should put up with her BS or any other kind of toxicity. She was talking about how hard it was for her to be famous and to find someone she could relate to and maybe even run to for a bit of consolation after having a generally crappy day. She didn't have anyone like that. Nobody cared about her feelings. All she had around her were people who demanded that she be The Movie Star 24/7/365. Every now and then, she just wanted to be Norma Jean with someone and have a hug.
Well This Girl Sure Is Salty Lol
Huh... as a short girl, I can say that me and my short friends always lamented over tall girls and how unfair it is to have such long legs and torso.
As another short girl, I can confirm this 😅
Load More Replies...I'm short but what actually makes me successful with men is that l don't go around bashing about other women's body. She should try it. And some proper spelling.
I never trust a person who says they are nice, regardless of gender. All you can do is TRY to be nice, TRY to be kind. Both are geared towards works done for others, it's up to others to bestow the descriptor. TL:DR - the only thing the OP knows about 'nice' is how to spell it.
Another One
Are these relationships that are lived so much through a screen lacking the hit of oxytocin that brings true happiness and love? Is this why we're seeing so much of these attempts to dictate how it will play out, rather than genuinely just living it and seeing how it goes?
Yeah long distance relationships without meeting for years can suck. Had one during the Covid years. Was super toxic and difficult to maintain. I broke things off. We finally got back to the same place last year and he wanted to give it another try. But I realised over the years that he was a narcissist POS and downright refused to try out again. If it was any other person, I would have totally given it another go cause I firmly believe that long distance relationships seriously lack a lot of relationship essentials and raise the chance for several issues.
Load More Replies...Does This Count As "Nice Girl"?
Because girls can't be both intelligent and wear dresses with heels. 🙄
And they can't be blond either... as soon as they become intelligent, their hair colour changes automatically...
Load More Replies...Isn't this a cropped comic from Adam Thots where the two girls date in the end, with a fake headline? The designs seem familiar.
You probably didn't expect a reply this late lol. No it isn't btw while the designs are familiar the art style and general comic are very different
Load More Replies...It looks like losing a fake tan, and becoming less bleach-blonde.
Load More Replies...Miss Nurse from Animaniacs would disagree. She wore tight clothes and heels, and had multiple degrees.
and the smaller her boobs get apparently. yes bp I said boobs deal with it
I think it’s meant to be interpreted as a fake tan, not anything racial
Load More Replies...This was originally posted on DeviantArt by a user called Sortmid, it's a fetish known as "debimbofication" or "reverse bimbofication". When it was posted it caused a lot of controversy. It's commonly known as "Blonde picks up a book".
Sounds pretty yikes, I really can't stand those kinds of kinks
Load More Replies...“So Don't Lie To Me, Champ”
New workout routine: Run 10 kilometers a day for a week till you're far enough away from her
It's been 15 minutes since you left. And eternity before you should go back.
Those Damn Unattractive People Staying In Loving Relationships
Because real men know not to go for looks alone, sunshine. Being attracted to your partner is important but personality and compatibility matters too
Ik a woman though but personality and how they treat others are more important then looks to me on a guy. I don’t care about heights, I don’t want no ‘supermodel look’ with shîtty personality.
Well That Escalated Quickly
Ariele Is Feeling Some Entitlement Here. Lol
I mean, she was an idiot to do all that just to get a man in the first place
I mean all she really wanted to do was be a human in the first place which did happen so-
Load More Replies...You know, he doesn't actually know you did any of those things, right?
Shared By A Woman With A Military Boyfriend
True dat. I was in for 8 years and got cheated on three times.
I hope these soldiers serve their country well and serve the poster divorce papers or a nice break-up note as well. Of all the people to cheat on...
B******t! I was with my husband while he was active duty for over 20 yrs (33 yrs strong now). Cheaters cheat, the military hardships are just an excuse for cheaters.
And the absence of their spouse gives the cheaters more opportunity to cheat and less chance (they think) of getting found out.
Load More Replies...My father and brother-in-law were military husbands. Neither of them got cheated on. Some women aren't sexual vampires and need someone 24/7 or they feel they don't exist.
Yup... With a previous wife, I went from married to single after returning from a deployment a day earlier than expected...
"Put Your D**k In My Mouth!"
"The man who lives in my house..." Is she talking about her father or brother?
I deny my wife sex all the time. Sometimes I'm just not horny. Sex is a two-way street. Both parties have to want it.
What if a man wrote something like this! He would be called a predator.
Ooookey, I was reading the top and was thinking what the hèll. And I thought the comments would tell her how delusional and nasty her post was.. that didn’t happen. How can you defend that type or behaviour no matter how a person look? She describing rape. And commenter agree with her??!!! What a fûcked up world we live in FR! Disgusting. How would it sound the other way around huh? Is a male write the same about a female. Should not be different.
My Ex
When people purport suicide ideation for attention & manipulation, the perfect response is, “interesting. How you gonna do it?” Or, “Ok. Nice knowing ya. Should I come to the funeral? Cos I’m gonna be rather busy these next few months.”
Yikes…… someone send the suicide hotline number. Though this just screams as “cry for attention”.
If something like that happens to you - Call the cops on them. They're a danger to themself and it'd be "failure to provide help" if you do nothing, which is considered a crime (at least in germany).
I'm sure this is attention seeking. But what's really sad... is, you never know.
Alert the professionals, hopefully she'll learn not to clown about such subjects
My 32 Y'o Friend Posted This Unironically With A "So Me" Caption
The I'm not like other girls phase isn't all that bad to have in your teenage years when you're trying to figure out what person you are and want to be by separating for everyone else. It's less good when you're a grown adult still trying to be quirky
That's a very heavy label to put on someone.
Load More Replies...I’m So God Damn Sick Of Seeing These On My Facebook Because Of People I Went To High School With
Ah, fat shaming! These people sure know how to advertise all their red flags
"One Mistake Shouldn't Separate Us Forever :-("
Don't know why, but all of a sudden this quote from "The Last Boyscout" comes to mind: "I had to roll her in flour to look for the wet spot."
F**k around and find out, usually only the first part of that statement is fun...
Tells Me That We’re Done, Then Gets Upset When I Listen To Her
Sorry hun, I don't play that types of manipulation games. Now go on make some other guys life misrable as a result of your dilutional ideas.
What’s the deal with people breaking up with their partner and get angry when they respect it?!!
They try to play "hard to get". My ex was also lile that, that's why she's now my ex 😅
Load More Replies...Just Rp With Me
I don't shame people that do, but some things should be handled with care, don't just throw such things in if you don't know how they'll react
Load More Replies...The app looks like amino, I think, and that is full of chat bots and crazy people who do things like this
It's weird how so many people like the idea of doing their relatives and then make jokes about Alabama
A firecracker alright but only for a dude who can thrive on that kind of crazy.
A Girl I Know Had This On Her Insta Story. Imagine A Dude Uploaded This
No. To say 'we're still having sex even if you say no' is full on rape
Load More Replies..."But I want them to try harder!" is sadly enough how "nice girls" often think, they think no is only valid when they're not on the receiving end
Load More Replies...A Girl I'm Meant To Be Going On A Date With Later Just Posted This
Floyd Mayweather Weighs Under 150, Go On Ahead Ladies
That's 68kg. That's not light, this is absolutely average for a height of around 1.70-1.75m (for the Americans, ~8.5 bananas). That's what I weight, and I am not a man and not a walking skeleton either!
I am American and I absolutely hate the way we measure things, we just haaaad to be different so now kids don't understand the metric system even though it makes perfect sense! I mean like come on football fields! Really?!
Load More Replies...Happened Almost A Year Ago. She Took 10 Years Off My Life
Oh goth, not this again. Why do people think this stupid romcom plot actually works?
Because Cheatings Okay Right?
NAH, I'd rather leave. And don't be surprised if yours leave too...
Seems like this might be from a woman who is just trying to point out exactly how ridiculous this is when men say it.
I hope so because it sounds bad no matter the gender
Load More Replies...I've seen toxic men talk exactly like this, so let's hope this is satire...
Always Knew This Girl At School Was A Little "Unbalanced"
I came into this world screaming and covered in someone else's blood, I'm happy to leave the same way.
No, I'm not in the least confused. My course of action is quite clear to me.
Nearly 8 Years Since I Have Talked To My Ex
Holy
You say I look like a prison inmate and then assume I have never been kissed?
All Because I Said “We Should Hang Out”
i think the one in red just said they wanted to hang out and the one in blue person took that as them wanting to date so when the one in red went out with someone else the blue one got mad even though they werent dating
Load More Replies...How Tall Are You?
The height question was always the most nonsensical one to me. I don't know how much 6ft is because I ... quite frankly don't understand the American measurements, but my fiance certainly isn't. And that's great this way, because since we are the same tall, I don't need to claim on his head to kiss him. I am close friends with a couple with a height difference of like 40cm, and the poor dude has to pick up his husband every time he wants to kiss him because bowing down so hard is uncomfortable for both. 😂
Sorry, but I'm an American...how many dishwashers is 40cm?
Load More Replies...My 5'11" friend is married to her 5'4" husband and they are couple goals!
Friend's Ex Girlfriend Sent This To Him... Ex
Here is an idea. I will treat you like an adult and assume you are being truthful with me. If you say "fine', 'nothing', etc..., then I will assume you are fine. Otherwise that would either make you emotionally immature, manipulative or a liar right?
I heard every one of these from my ex and I can promise, this is TRUTH
Ah, the truth of it alright. But I've never had number 5.
Load More Replies...Nearly Every Cliche From This Sub, Nice
The Very Next Tweet Lol...come On
TBF, she isn't with Tom Hardy, and a lot of people enjoy sexual fantasies that aren't what they would want in an IRL relationship.
I think you missed the point Deb. She posted how she can't watch Tom Hardy without thinking about sleeping with him and posted 3 days later that women aren't that shallow. She just seems vapid, not a bad person.
Load More Replies...A woman might in fact not be with a man because of how she feels about his looks. But she may be with him because of how he feels about hers.
Can we stop shaming fantasizing like this? If it's just in their mind, it's only their business
I Think I'll Reconsider
People who actually have depression, traumas, anxiety, etc.don't have need to shout it to the world at every opportunity.
Just came here to say I love Emma’s shoes, And Mel B’s. Buffalo right? I’m happy they are popular again so I might have a chance to buy similar😍
Note Ex Gave To Me With My Hoodie When I Asked For It Back
The Girl Who Shared This Was 16 And Pregnant, Btw
Girl I Used To Talk To, Glad I Dodged That Bullet A While Ago
Seems like you're reading uo the insult dictionary. Would you like some help? You'll need it.
are we talking about the same kind of girl that gets offended by a d!ckp!ck?
So a girl WITH clothes on , a bra, is the same as sending a nakd pic of your d!ck? If DP was taken with underwear I agree with you though.
Load More Replies...A Wild Nice Girl Appears
Please feel free to rub one out. Better than forcing someone to have sex when they don't want too.
Some people just need that kind of attention, if you're not going to give it, why forbid them helping themselves?
Load More Replies...It really depends on the situation, whether ignoring them is right or not. Some people are really attention addicted nacisists, who will do anything to get their next "fix". They'll whine, cry, insult you, provoke you or whatever other kind of manipulation will do the trick, and if you do anything but ignoring them, you are basically rewarding bad behaviour and will only get more of it. In a relationship, you shouldn't be so tied toghether that you are not allowed to do anything on your own, and your attention shouldn't be on your partner all the time.
Load More Replies...Your Insecurity Is Showing
Looks fade over time, even if you’re hitting the gym all the time. Real relationships have a deeper connection than how ripped your abs are. But go ahead and be as shallow as a puddle in a desert.
Those other girls just come with extra pounds of respect and personality
Men are more cautious because we don't want to go for just looks. We also want mental stability
Why Do They Think It's Funny To Be Emotionally Abusive?
Actually nice people don't play emotional games though
Load More Replies...Nice Guy Comment On Nice Girl Post!
Facebook Trash
I mean, she's partly right. In many cultures breasts are regarded as being for feeding babies, and when they find out how obsessed adult men in the West are with touching and sucking them the response is stunned silence followed by a lot of laughing and questions about how babyish Western men are. So, if the argument is 'love my body how it is', fair enough. The last line isn't helpful, though, is it?
Yeah. I just find funny how obsessed other men are with them. But by Lord, if they are ever used for what they are actual there for! Then it suddenly becomes disgusting.
Load More Replies...I wouldn't be surprised if that's one of those people that claim they have a "belly pouch" and call people that hit the gym fatphobic.
Attraction has many facets. I find nice fatty breasts very attractive. I do not find belly fat attractive. I can't force my mind to feel otherwise, nor do I want to.
Ok, this has been shown as good on here before though... I agree with it
Because beauty standards don't alwaes make sense, many of them are quite old and hard to trace back
Ex-Friend Of Mine Shared This, She's Always Demonising Men Despite Being A Serial Cheater/Abusive
True Love
Does this imply that I used to love the pervert in my class who ruined my reputation in front of the principal?
It does not. It's saying that wanting to occasionally kill someone is a side effect of loving someone, it's not saying that one is needed for the other.
Load More Replies...Dumped By Her Boyfriend Because She Slashed His Tires To Make Sure He Couldn’t Cheat On Her
The Classic "All I Want In A Relationship Is Food And Praise"
This Is Totally Socially Acceptable You Guys
I don't think this belongs here, this isn't bad behavior, it's just an over exaggerated comic strip.
Based on reality. I've witnessed this very type of behaviour.
Load More Replies...We've Got A Live One!
Eh? How is this toxic? She's just saying every time she feels like she's met someone that she has chemistry with it turns out they're more attracted to someone else within a fortnight.
Conclussion: Sex and gender doesn't matter, humans can be arseholes in general.
That's what i always believe, i mean lots and lotsa people have proven it in my life. Men, women, old, young, they can be such a******s. Except cats, cats i can tolerate 😂
Load More Replies...Ah, so Bored Panda DID listen to the last weeks complaints of tending to always make the women the good guy (just an overall note to recent developments on the site and comments). Let's see if this is actually interesting now that the rules are reversed.
Oh, of course it's one of the articles the app won't load! Off to the website we go, because they still haven't found out how to fix this bug
Load More Replies...Can we put all of them on an island with the "nice guys"?
Bad things seem to be happening a LOT lately, BP!! Blink twice if you are in danger!
So what the article is telling us is that there are just as many horrible women as there are men. As if we didn't already know that the entire human race is a f*****g dumpster fire.
Wow. Reading Bored Panda complain about toxic WOMEN is kinda like reading the Biden demand a wall on the Mexican border. And on the same day I found their article about how cute babies are?!
Can we all just agree that every demographic includes a small minority of toxic jerks?
Just wow. SO glad I'm not young anymore and having to deal with any of this. From either gender.
Plenty of ‘men are idiots because…..’ articles out there, nice to see that the fairer sex has its share of the idiots too 😀
A few of these are quite obviously between children, which made me look through them in a slightly different light. Concluded that they're nearly all from children, even if they're aged over 18.
The biggest lie told to kids is that "adults" are any different. Adults are just kids with bills.
Load More Replies...Conclussion: Sex and gender doesn't matter, humans can be arseholes in general.
That's what i always believe, i mean lots and lotsa people have proven it in my life. Men, women, old, young, they can be such a******s. Except cats, cats i can tolerate 😂
Load More Replies...Ah, so Bored Panda DID listen to the last weeks complaints of tending to always make the women the good guy (just an overall note to recent developments on the site and comments). Let's see if this is actually interesting now that the rules are reversed.
Oh, of course it's one of the articles the app won't load! Off to the website we go, because they still haven't found out how to fix this bug
Load More Replies...Can we put all of them on an island with the "nice guys"?
Bad things seem to be happening a LOT lately, BP!! Blink twice if you are in danger!
So what the article is telling us is that there are just as many horrible women as there are men. As if we didn't already know that the entire human race is a f*****g dumpster fire.
Wow. Reading Bored Panda complain about toxic WOMEN is kinda like reading the Biden demand a wall on the Mexican border. And on the same day I found their article about how cute babies are?!
Can we all just agree that every demographic includes a small minority of toxic jerks?
Just wow. SO glad I'm not young anymore and having to deal with any of this. From either gender.
Plenty of ‘men are idiots because…..’ articles out there, nice to see that the fairer sex has its share of the idiots too 😀
A few of these are quite obviously between children, which made me look through them in a slightly different light. Concluded that they're nearly all from children, even if they're aged over 18.
The biggest lie told to kids is that "adults" are any different. Adults are just kids with bills.
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