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I’m all for giving others the benefit of the doubt—being understanding, forgiving the occasional misstep, and letting things slide when possible. After all, none of us are perfect, and if I can show a little kindness in this cruel world, I’ll gladly try.

That said, there’s a definite limit to how far any judgment-free zone can stretch. 

These Redditors know exactly what I mean. Recently, they shared the things people do that instantly make them unattractive, and honestly, they’ve made some pretty solid points. Scroll down to see their takes, and feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!

#1

Man in sunglasses and plaid shirt posing casually by railing. Be unkind to animals, the less fortunate, or customer service workers. It’s a literal deal breaker for me.

ETA: Pretentious snobs that attempt to hijack completely unrelated posts to push their beliefs or politics under the false pretense of “humor”.

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Myoviridae
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, the baseline for human decency. If you violate that, then you are definitely "unattractive" to me. (and also not not someone I want to know or associate with).

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    #2

    Sleeping pug on the floor, its wrinkles emphasize its relaxed and unattractive yet adorable appearance. Treat animals badly. You can tell alot about a person by how they treat pets.

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    Liz The Biz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who are cruel to animals and just nasty cowards who pick on things that are smaller than they are to make themselves look big and hard.

    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like my dad who threw my dog across a room because he knew if he did anything to me, I'd have his a*s arrested.

    DC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did the dog survive? Recovered? And, did you punish Dad for this? Towards peoples' lifes' end, many aren't able to communicate anymore - that's the latest chance to not forget who applied cruelty and violence on a helpless innocent creature, just saying ... whatever you make of it, ...

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    DC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those may be the worst, but the second place doesn't come in much later, that's the ones who treat pets like the family members they are, but don't care the least about other animals. Decent people often are surprised about how many of these most obnoxious people exist and come off as if they were totally normal, sane even.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please clarify. I don't have the same positive feelings for animals that I do for people, but I still treat them kindly. Am I an awful obnoxious person because of that?

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if they don't care for them like regular vet appointments

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    #3

    Person littering by throwing a plastic bottle from a car window into a forest area. Litter.

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    Nicola Mawson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tell people they dropped something

    Liz The Biz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A girl once stood near my garden drinking a bottle of soda. When she'd finished she dropped the empty bottle into my garden. I gave her the bottle back and suggested that she took it home and drop it in her own garden.

    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at the zoo and saw a kid who was clearly about to throw his empty drink bottle into the tiger enclosure. I said "how would YOU like it if people threw garbage into your bedroom?" Fortunately his mother stopped him.

    Mike Loux
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anything tossed out of a moving car should be returned to the owner, and inserted rectally.

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live on DNR land and people use it as their personal dump

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    #4

    Man smiling while looking at a smartphone outside, wearing a denim jacket. Use their phone on speaker in public.

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    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was on the bus with this guy who was watching videos on his phone at full volume, and got incredibly annoyed. Then, whew, I got off the bus... and ended up sharing the bus stop with a second person watching videos on their phone at full volume. I'm currently under arrest on suspicion of murder, but I'm pretty sure it'll be ruled justifiable homicide.

    Alger G. Nava
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a Heavy Metal station on favorites and use it at full volume right next to the person who is on speaker.

    Kathy L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would upvote this 100,000 times if I could!

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not so bad if it's on a decent volume and in a place where there's already people talking and other commotion. But it's the crappy mumble rap that's usually blaring from phones. I believe the type to listen to that garbage music are the type to not use earphones.

    Noltha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you know any app that can make echo in real time to annoy such bad person?

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually only in my office but I do it because I am usually taking notes at the same time

    #5

    Man sitting outside in a garden, wearing a patterned shirt. Not accept responsibility for their own actions.

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    Ellinor
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh wow, so you've met my mom then !

    Sergio Bicerra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if the guy in the photo sees this and shouts 'Hey! What did I ever do??!!'

    Nina
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, a lot of men under patriarchy do this

    Campy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jack Nicholson in As Good As It Gets, playing a novelist explaining to a female fan how he writes women's characters and dialogue so well: "I think of a man, then I take away reason and accountability" All the the men in the theater laughed, and all the women scowled, thus proving his point.

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    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *my grandfather has entered the chat*

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    #6

    Man in a wheelchair on a city street next to parked scooters. Mock someone who's disabled.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if you can't see the disability, doesn't mean someone isn't. So just treat everyone with respect

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using mental disorders to insult others and calling people "r******d". I've had the best, intelligent conversations with my Intellectually Disabled daughter.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is almost there. It is ok to mock someone who is disabled. It's not ok to mock someone *because* they are disabled. I take the p**s out of Ryan all the time, because he's a lovable idiot, not because he was blown up and now missing a limb and can't walk or speak properly.

    Kathy L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people vote for azzholes who do this.

    #7

    Hands under running water from a faucet, illustrating unattractive hygiene habits. Lack of personal hygiene is such a dealbreaker to me.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shower? I took one last week!

    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooh, is that my favourite cologne? Ten Day Hiking Boot Old Spice is SO sexy.

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    Kurt Hartman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I take a shower the 31st of every month

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    #8

    Dog in a stylish black and red handbag, carried by a person in white pants, on a city street. * Treating animals like they’re accessories.

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    Multa Nocte
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or abusing or abandoning them.

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or incorrectly using them as "service animals"

    Deborah
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Animals are living beings who deserve respect. You shouldn't buy a little dog because you think it's cute to carry it around in a fancy handbag. I do have a small dog, I do carry her, but that's because she's my service dog and can't do her job if she's on the floor.

    Deborah
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just to clarify, she's carried when we're out somewhere and she's working. She gets plenty of free time to just be a happy little dog, outdoors and in.

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    #9

    Person holding notebook, taking notes from someone pointing at a menu, depicting unattractive behaviors. Being rude to servers in public.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom does this. It's embarrassing to no end.

    Lowrider 56
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So did my ex-wife. It almost made leave her there to eat alone.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it's stupid because it's so counter-productive.

    Untamed Snark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if you are having a really bad day, it doesn't take any effort to say please and thank you. You don't have to be their best friend, but be polite.

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Service workers have to be polite to you, or risk losing their jobs. Taking advantage of that to abuse them is the mark of a crappy human being.

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife was a server. I cannot stand this. If the food is wrong, they take it out on the server like they were the ones cooking it

    censorshipsucks
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find this confusing. Server = computer that stores lots of stuff online that you can access remotely. Waiter = person who brings stuff to your table. (No need to gender it).

    Patrick Casavant
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah indeed. Computer geeks should have found an original name to use instead of using a word that already was in use. Go figure. --- server noun 1. a person or thing that serves. 2. a computer or computer program which manages access to a centralized resource or service in a network. "the software runs on a variety of Unix servers" --- server (n.) late 14c., "one who serves" in any capacity, agent noun from serve (v.). Especially "an attendant at a meal" (mid-15c.). By 1580s in sports. The meaning "that which is used in serving" is by c. 1600; the computing sense is by 1992. ---

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    #10

    Woman adjusting purse strap outside a building in a gray coat. Have zero interest in other people, but expect everyone to be fascinated by the minutia of their lives.

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    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi, it's me, the most interesting person ever. Aren't you lucky you met me? Now, let me just tell you all about my trip to the supermarket today. I needed to buy some milk. I actually did think about being naughty and getting strawberry flavoured milk instead of regular milk but I talked myself out of it by noting that it was twice as expensive. So I grabbed the regular milk which was hard to get to because there were only a few bottles left and they were pushed waaay up to the back of the shelf. But then - get this - just as I was on my way out I decided on a mad impulse to also buy some frozen chicken tenders. I had to choose between Southern style, chilli and garlic 'n' herb but I picked Southern. Then at the checkout - this is where it gets really crazy-

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, I'm invested now. I need the rest of the story!

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    Mike Loux
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if I have zero interest in other people, but am totally OK with other people having zero interest in me?

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who are not interested in others are themselves never interesting.

    #11

    Young woman outdoors with shoulder slightly exposed, representing one of the unattractive things people wish others would avoid. The least attractive thing someone can do is treat others with disrespect or disregard their feelings. No matter how charming someone may seem, when they show a lack of empathy, it completely diminishes their appeal.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, when people look at you strangely for caring or getting angry for showing concern for others.

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    #12

    Man in red shirt adjusting stove knobs in a bright kitchen, sunlight streaming in. Acting like a child that needs a mommy to handle basic household tasks or life in general.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Act like a child, society will treat you like one

    n75mk9nk2n
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Act like a child who has generational wealth, and you'll buy major companies just to destroy them, or even get elected President!

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    HolyDiver
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course BP puts a man in the picture as an example.

    Jake Bertz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meanwhile like half of women have daddy kinks.

    #13

    Couple in bed with patterned lamps, wrapped in blankets, sharing a tender moment. Be unfaithful to a spouse.

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    Liz The Biz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends on the situation. When your spouse is nothing but kind and considerate then it's a no-no. On the other hand if your spouse is violent, controlling, abusive and you meet someone who actually treats you like a human being then it's justifiable.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get out of the abusive situation first, then start a relationship with someone else.

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    #14

    A crowded theater audience sits in red seats, watching a film together. Be rude, or act entitled.

    Went on a date. She went on a her phone in the cinema and started scrolling Insta for half the film. She was actually a very good looking woman but that was... *ugh*.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thinks the world revolves around her because of the way she looks. Beauty fades

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those types of people stop appearing so pretty. After they start acting selfish and snotty, they just look like cold-hearted ice queens wearing a mask of make up.

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    #15

    Person in a blue shirt standing against a rusted metal background, related to unattractive things people do. A one upper. Or someone who always has to make things about them selves. I have this thing where I can instantly identify them and subsequently not be able to respect them or their opinion right away.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post was good but mine would have been better

    Doctor Strange
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes its not about trying to one up, or trying to make things about themselves but trying to relate. Someone tells a story, I will sometimes tell a story about a similar experience that I had. Not because I was trying to make things about me, but because I was trying to demonstrate that I get it, that I went through the same thing. Its an attempt to connect.

    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. I do the same thing all the time. You have a friend who died? So do I, so I know how horrible it is. I'm sure as hell not bragging about how my pain is the painiest pain that ever did pain while yours is the equivalent of a papercut.

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    Eve Mraz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not always about one-upping though, sometimes it's trying to relate to the other person. You suffer from depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation? So do I, and I'll help you get through it because I've gone through it before too. You used to cut yourself? So did I, but I don't anymore and I'll help you heal.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These people are so annoying. Let people vent, rant and get stuff off their chest. I don't mind it when people want to add in their own experiences, as it makes me feel less alone in a situation. Sometimes it gives me a better perspective on the situation that it could be not as bad, or not as dire as it is in my head. But when the line is crossed where I'm told I shouldn't be stressed at all because they have it apparently worse and dealing with it, then I'm checking out of that conversation.

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time I see this sort of point, it makes me anxious, because it makes me overanalyse conversations - was I actually one-upping someone when all was doing was trying to relate?

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One-upper or one-downer. No one can be smarter or dumber, fatter or thinner (at some point in their life), richer or poorer (again, at one point in their life), luckier or unluckier…you get the idea. They not only try to be better, they also try to be worse. Just depends on which will get them more attention/sympathy/praise, what the f**k ever. They’re also masters of the backhanded compliment. “Oh, you’re down to 125 lbs? Wow! 125, yeah. That’s what I weighed when I gave birth to my daughter” (that 125 weight represented a loss of 20lbs for someone who was 5’5” tall, as opposed to the backhanded complimenter, who was barely 5’ tall and 100lbs dripping wet).

    Mike Loux
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We used to call those people "toppers." Nowadays, that word has a much different connotation.

    #16

    Man with a backpack in a forest, showcasing one of the unattractive things people wish others would stop doing. Have a lack of empathy and understanding.

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    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I meet so many people like this. They say they're successful because of all the wonderful things they did and everyone who can't do what they did is a loser. They have a complete lack of empathy for people who can't achieve what they did, even if how they got what they have is because of luck, parents, or family money. They always claim they "worked hard" for what they have and everyone who isn't in the same financial bracket as them is lazy and unworthy. Their attitude is they've got theirs and to hell with anyone else. They're almost always Trump supporters, too.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, it’s always way easier to hit a home run if you get to start on third base, when most of us aren’t even in the same state as the ballpark’s parking lot.

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    #17

    Person exhaling a thick cloud of smoke outdoors, highlighting unattractive behavior. Smoking is f*****g gross.

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    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree, smoking is a deal breaker for me. However, my cousin smokes and I was complaining about it to my sister who brought me back to reality really quick. She said something along the lines of we all have our vices. I, for example, eat too much sweets. It's not "healthier" than smoking it's just more socially acceptable. So I remember that every time I get irritated with smokers. Unless you're smoking in my home, in a no-smoking area, or purposely blowing smoke on me (unless I've been a Karen and lectured you about it lol!), then what you do is your choice!

    Deborah
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your eating too many sweets doesn't affect the person standing next to you. They will never gain wait or rot their teeth because you are eating sweets. Getting cancer from exposure to someone else's smoke is a real thing. Triggering someone's asthma from second-hand smoke is a real thing. There's a big difference between vices that affect only you and those that affect anyone nearby.

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    Vicki Perizzolo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And DO not leave your butts around!!

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's an addiction. That's what you should react to.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you smoke, don't do it around me. I'll still hang with you, though. But the moment a smoker disrespects my air and ability to breath it's game over for them.

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    #18

    Person biting into an apple, highlighting unattractive habits. Chew with their mouth open like they’re auditioning for a cow documentary.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That Michael Cane line in Miss Congeniality comes to mind every time. 'I was distracted by the half-masticated cow rolling around in your wide-open trap.'

    beccabootie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In defense of some, I have known people with severe breathing problems who have to chew with their mouths open. Make sure of the cause before condemning.

    #19

    Person wearing a colorful windbreaker, standing against a stone wall, embodying unattractive fashion choices. A constantly negative attitude.

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    Nina
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It really gets tiresome. If someone is almost exclusively negative about things and can't find the bright side of things, it just sucks energy. Am not talking about someone depressed who is seeking to recover, but people who just seem to exist in a miserable state.

    TheElderNom
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have coworker like that and he really sucks the energy out of me. Funny thing, his sister is also a coworker and she's the complete opposite.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who go around acting like they're too cool for everything and no one can look at them.

    BSellen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really need to work on that.

    #20

    Happy couple in stylish coats, standing close together against a lush green background on a sunny day. When they have no sense of physical boundaries.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't invade my personal bubble

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait to be invited, then be a good, well-behaved guest.

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    beccabootie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In defense, make sure that the person invading your space does not have a hearing problem. They may need to be close to understand. I know this because both my mother and husband had very bad hearing and people would keep backing away from them when conversing because of close proximity.

    #21

    Two people having a serious conversation at a table, highlighting unattractive behaviors in communication. Being rude to someone who doesn’t deserve it.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "A gentleman is never unintentionally rude."

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    #23

    Group of people sitting at a wooden table, smiling and chatting in a casual setting. For me, it's when someone constantly interrupts in conversations. It feels disrespectful and dismissive.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So rude. It's a sign they are not listening to a word your saying because they're too busy thinking of the next thing they want to say. I know someone who does this all the time. I just let her talk. She calls it having a "conversation". Last I checked a conversation is at least a 2 way interaction. So, really, she spends 30+ minutes talking at me.

    HardBoiledBlonde
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone talking but nobody's listening.

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is rude. They hijack conversations and talk over you

    Kathy L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If certain talkative people could shut up for five minutes and let the other person talk, we wouldn't have this problem.

    #24

    Man in a gray jacket standing with arms crossed by a decorative fountain, showcasing unattractive behavior in public spaces. Spit on the ground

    🤮🤮🤮.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The reason public spitting is illegal in most cities is because of the possibility of disease transmission—-something that should be considered immensely valid after recently having gone through a worldwide pandemic that killed millions.

    Verena Fiori-Jambor
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, what does the photo have to do with the topic?

    #25

    Woman appearing frustrated, sitting with head in hand, expressing unattractive behavior in monochrome setting. Saying they’re interested in you but never have time for you.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interested in the thought of you but not the effort

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    #27

    Woman expressing anger with clenched fists, highlighting unattractive behavior. Overly critical or judgmental of others! Let ppl be themselves.

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    Liz The Biz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was growing up my mother was like this. Everything I did and everything I liked was met with negativity and criticism. I felt like I was on trial all the time. Over time it really grinds you down, especially when all you're doing is trying to please them.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know I have been judgmental myself, and I’m trying to stop, because it dawned on me that we outsiders never get the full story from all sides, and lacking that context can make our conclusions extremely biased toward whichever side we relate to the most, or tells the most convincing story, which could all be a lie. I’m trying to reserve judgment until I have more concrete facts.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really depends on what you consider "overly".

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless it is harmful to them or others and they need that kick in the rear. Sometimes people need to hear the harsh truth

    #29

    Woman using a smartphone outdoors, highlighting unappealing behavior in social settings. Being on their phone during a hang out.

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    Kurt Hartman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes i like to take pictures. oh wait! I thought you said "during a hanging". My bad.

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    #30

    Person standing alone by a window, partially obscured by curtains, illustrating unattractive habits. Disrespect my time.

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    Kathy L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what the U.S. work system does to everybody.

    #31

    30 Unattractive Things That People Wish Others Would Stop Doing Lying to avoid responsibility.

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    #32

    Poor hygiene. Disrespecting boundaries. Chaotic, unruly energy. Seeking someone’s constant attention.

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    #33

    30 Unattractive Things That People Wish Others Would Stop Doing Show off wealth.

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    #34

    30 Unattractive Things That People Wish Others Would Stop Doing Be the type that's quick to get angry. Not frustrated, I mean the type that can go from 0-80 in a split second over somebody telling you your haircuts s**t for example.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Frustrated people I can understand. Angry people scare me.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who consider any opinion that disagrees with their own to be a personal attack, even if the other person said it nicely and with no ill feelings or malice, and/or was simply stating their opinion—which everyone is entitled to have—-simply as a conversation starter, without wanting to get into a vicious fight about it.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anger is bad when misused. It's a great tool when you learn how to employ it.

    #35

    30 Unattractive Things That People Wish Others Would Stop Doing LIE. Why the f**k is LIE not one of the top replies? And don't you f*****g lie to me about this s**t either.

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    #36

    Play the victim and sympathy card.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you are as far from being the victim as possible—in fact, you’re the perpetrator (in way too many cases).

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    #37

    30 Unattractive Things That People Wish Others Would Stop Doing Constantly talk about themselves. Have zero manners. Have poor hygiene. Have a miserable personality. Or they have no consideration for others & zero social awareness.

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    #38

    Chew tobacco.

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather someone chew tobacco near me than smoke a cigarette.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But they better not even think I’m going to kiss them (if we’re on a date or any other scenario where kissing could happen).

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    #39

    Only talk about themselves on dates.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Real easy way to not get date #2

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    #40

    Not respecting someone’s boundaries.

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    #41

    Take everything personally.

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    Sooploosh MacSchnibble
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was directed at ME wasnt it?!! HOW DARE YOU!!

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    #42

    Chewing their food like a gorilla.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember: You absolutely MUST remove the wrapper BEFORE eating something in a bag, or can, or cellophane, or plastic, or foil, or cardboard, or whatever. It’s the food inside that’s meant to be eaten, not what it’s wrapped in. OK? Alright. You can go back home to the Monkey House now.

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go eat outside with the other buffalo

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    #43

    Be careless.

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    #44

    30 Unattractive Things That People Wish Others Would Stop Doing When people act like someone they’re not just to fit in or impress others, it feels super inauthentic. I just want realness, you know? It’s like, just be yourself. Trying too hard to be liked actually pushes people away.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Posers. Oscar-winning performances. That’s how innocent people end up getting fooled into falling for someone who’s only going to start abusing them once they’re entrenched—-or rather, stuck—-in the relationship (baby-trapped, financially taken over, isolated from their support group, etc).

    #45

    Complain endlessly.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    #46

    Ignore others’ emotions intentionally.

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    #47

    Ignoring common sense.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The phrase "common sense" is dead. It used to mean "I have facts and logic for what I say." It now means "I have no facts or logic for what I say, but I will abuse you if you expect them."

    #48

    Always seek pity for trivial problems.

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    #49

    Yawn loudly without covering.

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    Katie Kins
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have this problem, TBH. I cover my mouth but sometimes it just catches me off guard. I'm always tired.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get the automatic urge to stretch at the same time.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing this person is blessed to have never experienced real exhaustion.

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    #50

    The least attractive thing someone can do is confidently mispronounce "charcuterie" as "shark coochie" and then double down, insisting, "That's how the French say it!".

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never once heard it pronounced like that and I will forever pronounce it like that from now on

    leendadll
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My G-Ma love to call hors d'oeuvres "whore's ovaries"

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL! We call them horse doobers. I like yours better!

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    Aud (she/they)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or pronounce "hors d'oeuvres" like "horse divorce."

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misusing and mispronouncing words they don’t know the meaning of, just to try to sound smarter. Never works, especially when they get around to trying it on someone who has a much better understanding of the language.

    #51

    Criticize strangers for their clothes.

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    #52

    Refuse opinions.

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    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This could go both ways. If they are asking for opinions then ignore them that's ones thing. If they're unsolicited opinions then I can't really blame them for refusing them.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, sometimes those “unsolicited opinions” can turn out to be honest and heartfelt warnings from people who actually have your best interests in mind, that you probably should pay heed to instead of immediately dismiss. So maybe entertain opinions, and give more weight to those coming from people who truly care about you, and have valuable experience and education in whatever subject or plans you’re talking about.

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    #53

    Overreact to jokes.

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    #54

    30 Unattractive Things That People Wish Others Would Stop Doing Low self esteem can manifest in 1,000 unattractive ways.

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    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes a product of the way you were raised or your peers (high school and middle school kids can be brutal)

    Grm Moore
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you dislike sad people? Low esteem can be be cause they are constantly told they are rubbish by bullies.... post 45 should be deleted.

    Liz The Biz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Low self esteem is often down to the way you are treated.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are presently being treated, or were treated at your important milestones, or how you were treated for far too long, especially during your childhood by people who are supposed to care about you. That s**t stays with you for a very long time. To the people doing it to you it was just Tuesday and immediately forgotten, but to you it’s in your memory forever.

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    Doctor Strange
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This says it way better than I ever could. It definitely applies to this: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-fitness/201001/you-dont-need-love-yourself-first