Sometimes parents want to be 'relatable' and 'cool', so they use meme references and words like 'lit' but these things don't cut it. All these desperate attempts do is just embarrass their kids. However, if they try something really ridiculous, it brings them even more shame. They end up on the subreddit /r/InsaneParents.
The online community describes itself as "a weird place where you can post those crazy parents who post in those woo-woo anti-vax groups on Facebook and do things harmful (directly and indirectly) to their children. We want to be a place where people can come and both get support and laugh. So this sub is a mixture of both the heartbreaking and the hilarious. Come and join us. Especially if you have your own stories to tell or your own social media content to post." Below you will find some of their most popular posts.
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My Mother Dearest, Whom My Sister And I Just Let Back Into Our Lives, Talking To My Sister About Her Daughter (My Niece). Behold The Kind Of Person She Is
Your sister has the right answer. Your mom is a piece of work. You never call children names.
Bored Panda has already published two posts about the subreddit (here and here) but it looks like there's no shortage of insane moms and dads; people keep posting more and more parenting horror stories. Even though the subreddit was created relatively recently, in 2017, it already unites over 1.2 million members, with thousands online at any given moment.
It's normal for parents and their kids to have different views and opinions. In fact, they can be used for growth, too. Vicki Broadbent, founder of Honest Mum and author of Mumboss, is one of those parents who are open to learning from their children as much as they want to teach them. "They've taught me a lot from feeling more confident when I've been trolled online, to how to create a TikTok video!" she told Bored Panda. "My kids aged 10 and 8 respectively are both creative, empathetic, resilient, and strong-willed little humans. We base our relationships on open conversations and trust. I think the art of listening has been lost somewhat, and rather than being didactic as a parent, we need to practice listening more (and really hearing) to others' points of view, before sharing our own views.
Guilty Has Punished
Broadbent acknowledges that parents have the responsibility to inform, protect, and guide their kids, however, she thinks that children who feel endlessly chastised and forced to conform will do the complete opposite. "You have more chance of persuading your children to do the right thing if you are calm in the way you present your opinions."
"Encouraging children to talk to you honestly without judgement means they will always come to you when they're in trouble. It's also healthy they learn that no one will ever always agree with one another. Another lost art is that of debating!"
When Rebekah Tayebi, a clinical therapist and family coach, looks at toxic family systems, one thing that becomes really evident to her is seeing that the children are more attuned to the needs of the parents. That means, the typical parent-child relationship is inverted and there's confusion about what appropriate boundaries should be in place.
"The hard part for children in these environments is that which is like so many of us, is that we might start to mirror the dysfunction that we're seeing," Tayebi said. That's the reason why it's so important to start to catch negative patterns in the moment and try to eradicate them.
I Feel Like This Applies A Lot For The Parents On Here
"Parenting is hard, there's no manual, we're all simply trying to navigate our children through choppy waters and this ever challenging life to be kind and strong," Broadbent concluded. "We also want them to have fun. Childhood is precious. I also think showing my own children my own vulnerabilities has encouraged greater empathy in them and they've understood early on that I'm a real human being not a womb on legs."
What some parents apparently forget is that they need their kids just as much as their little ones need them. When Broadbent had a big operation on her thyroid, for example, she was amazed to find just how much her children can support her during a difficult time.
I don't know, maybe some of the parent-child relationships we see on r/InsaneParents are beyond saving. But I hope they can at least act as a reminder for the rest of us to cherish ours.
I Decided To Finally Go Vaccinated Behind My Anti-Vax Parent's Back!
Insane Parents
Should've Stayed At Home
Yeah and school was because i was born too dumb...SoRrY eVeRyOnE
Essential Oils Don’t Work
Those people should be charged with murder, manslaughter or child endangerment (whatever it comes under).
An Insane Mom
Insane Parents
Father Tries To Say He Put Me Through College. My 1k Monthly Loan Payments Say Otherwise
Yup, sounds like something my ex did. My grown daughter called him out infront of everyone he knows. It was awesome. He didn't want to be a part of her life not the other way around.
Insane Parents
Insane Parents Destroy Their Child’s Art Tablet For... Not Getting Up On Time
Is Violence The Answer ? I Don't Think So
What a disgusting piece of garbage, you just don't do that and you don't brag about it either.
Never Thought My Mom Was That Insane But I Guess Jesus Is Anti-Metal Straw. Sorry If It Doesn't Seem Serious, I Can't Take Anything Seriously
Hypocritical, Awful And Abusive
"every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"
Raised By Insane Parents Feels
That’s exactly how I feel, I’ve been lucky and I don’t even know anyone who has had covid. But this isn’t even my top 10 worst years of my life.
My Mother Blamed Me For Her Suicidal Tendencies. I'm 15
Because His Kid Didn't Do Homework?
what the f**k? i feel sorry for both kid and doggo, won't be surprised if kid will hold grudge on parents for eons...
Check Mate, Religious Insane Parents
Maybe I can get all those years of rent back from my parents. They're religious nutjobs.
Poor Kid
Abusing Child Support
Lady Tries To Blame Vaccines After Her Son Contracts Hiv
My Dad Charges Me $300 A Month For Rent And Refuses To Let Me Move Out. After Spending The Weekend With My Boyfriend, I Received This
What the actual, she needs to get out of that house and away from that nasty piece of crap.
Using Your Daughter’s Entire College Fund To Pay For Your Crappy Pyramid Scheme Products
This Was By Far The Worst Incident. I Was In 2nd Grade, 7-8 Years Old And Just Went Through Some Of The Worst Trauma Of My Life And My Mom Was More Worried About Going To Vegas Then My Health
Children Aren’t Slaves, Apologize When You’re Supposed To
Found It On Facebook
My Moms Response When I Came Out To Her. Haven’t Talked To Them For Two Weeks Now
I am so mad right now... she worked up all her courage and she get's this :(
I Didn't Want To Give My Jehovah's Witness Dad My Password Because I Was Texting A Girl And He Smashed It With An Axe And Then Beat Me. That Was 5 Years Ago And Today I'm Happily Living Together With That Girl
I Definitely Hope I Can "Indoctrinate" My Children Into Believing In Human Rights
Just A Cold
You just endangered hundreds of people and at least a few will die. You belong in prison.
Imagine Being A Pos Who Not Only Pulls Their Kid Out Of School Due To Not Wanting To Vaccinate Him But Also Broadcast His Misery In An Attempt To Get People To Side With You...
Parents "React" To Their 6 Year Old's Report Card For Views
I Don't Understand How Scientology Came Into Play
Oh, the ignorance is terrifying. I hope some of those 73 comments set them straight.
You Should Be Grateful
This Was Not Posted In A Joking Way
Thats devastating to do to someone. Not only physically but mentally and emotionally.
“A 5 Year Old Is Perfectly Capable Of Fending For Himself”
I think the father should be packing the bags and taking the child. She is not right in the head if she truly thinks what she did was fine. Isn't there laws about this kind of thing.
Since he's only the fiancé, the "mother" will accuse him of kidnapping, he'll go to jail and she'll be the victim.
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"a 5 year old is perfectly capable of fending for himslef". NO, HE'S NOT!
Exactly. I don't even think my parents started leaving me home alone until a few years ago (I'm almost 16 now), and even then that only happens occasionally.
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Divorce her, get custody of the kids. Just show the courts this message and its an easy win
Uh the law is on daddy's side!! 5, are u frigging crazy? I was pg with twins yet wouldn't leave my 8 year old alone to run to the corner store.
Depending on the kid, leaving an eight year old alone for a few minutes could be okay, but not WITH THE OVEN ON, jfc. Like, I was pretty trustworthy as a kid so my mom could’ve left me for like 15 minutes. But with the oven left on! And not as a five year old!
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Wait one holy hell - she can't get her child to school because it's too hard to leave the house, but she can get her was to the mall for a craving? Did I read that right?
my parents wouldn't leave me at home alone until I was 11 and never for much more than an hour, I'm 12
I started babysitting other kids when I was 11 1/2.
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WTF. I wouldn't leave the house with the oven on even if there was NOBODY home. If something happens and you're late getting home, you could lose your whole house. There's no real reason not to just wait until you're home again to start the oven. I cannot *imagine* being the sort of person who would leave their 5 year old alone in the house with the oven on.
Holy crap.....she is bloody crazy!!! He could get burned, scared, injured in any manner and would be all alone crying and terrified and all because she has to run off to the mall for a craving!? It's not hard to take your kid out while you're pregnant. I hope he left her and took the kid.
Yep, you earned the right to be not only a SINGLE, but also childless and I hope the authorities take them away before it's too late. You are too dumb to pour pee out of a boot.
Wait, what the frick, Lady? I could hardly even read all this garbage! Also, you wanna talk about abuse, Susan? Fine then, let's talk.
So the oven catches on fire- no worries- my 5 year old son can handle that...said nobody who deserves children
Get that 5-year-old out of there. Did she really see no wrong in what she did? You can't leave kids alone safely for any length of time... I know that from experience.
Oh my f*****g....wtf!? Hope he takes son and new child away from this b***h
(to the tune of that would be enough) and if this child shares a fraction of your mind, you will go to hell.
When I was 5, I could stay home by myself. But I DID live in the suburbs, so I guess it is different. AND I could use the microwave and technology by myself.
That m**********r should NOT have another baby if she going to treat a helpless FIVE YEAR OLD by himself. Especially with chicken nuggets that could possibly burn him or set fire to the house! 🔥
The father should have taken full custody of the child already and used the messages as evidence. Whats most frightening is they're bringing anotger child into the world.
I hope the father sued for full custody of BOTH children. Used this text as exhibit 1. If she did this,, what else has she done?
I was left alone a lot when I was that age, but I was pretty independent and knew how household things worked and I often made my own breakfast.
Um I’m pretty sure it’s ILLEGAL to leave minors unattended if it was a ten y.o that may be fine but not completely but 5 YEARS OLD? that’s fricken crazy?! And with the damn oven on? This women smh
Lock the, call the police and get a lawyer. This is child encouragement
Please tell me he filed a report on this lunatic and started plans to get him and his kids as far away from her as possible!
DCFS stat and take the newborn once its born too. Tell the doc to sterilize that bitch as well
I hope that he divorced her , got custody and found a wonderful step-mom!
I think he just needs to take these texts to the court and have her labeled as a dangerous parent. That poor 5 year old. What would have happened if there had been a fire? Is she even concerned about that? She should not be responsible for a self-sufficient (unfortunately forced on him) 5 year old than she should be for a newborn.
This is interesting. I grew up in the '90s in Eastern Europe and being left alone, even going to school by ourselves was considered normal. He'll, half of my childhood would be considered illegal today. Not that I had an epic childhood, but sometimes I do feel like people are a tad overprotective these days. (Ok. Nothing except the tv was on if I was left alone. That part is crazy.)
I hope the father receives custody of both of the children. they would be safer and happier
immediately get custody of your child...she is an unfit mother...she admitted that she has done this before...
She is guilty of child endangerment and neglect. Any court would award custody to the father.
This is just a selfish woman who should have never created another person let alone two. These poor babes don't have a freaking chance with their mother.
OH MY GOD.....i hope he left and got custody of both kids. save your messages for court buddy
He didn't know she is this dumb before he married her. Make her go work 6 days a week and you stay home with those poor kids. Maybe you should get her a babysitter to watch after the one that is still unborn..
No he didn't. The father was at work, leaving mommy dearest at home (8 months pregnant, but stay at home mom anyway) to take care of their eldest. She decided to leave their child home alone with the oven on while she took care of a pregnancy craving. The father came home early before the house burned down, or the kid escaped/injured himself, but he did not then subsequently abandon his son like the mother did. She is completely in the wrong here. Dad is not to blame since he was at work, therefore he couldn't have known what was happening (she even says she did it behind her fiancé's back, which completely absolves him of anything that happens to their son while he's not there to take responsibility), and there is nothing to suggest he leaves their son alone again once he's returned home and found his fiancée has vanished.
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Update: I’m Immunocompromised And My Mom Refused To Let Me Isolate. Now I Have The Coronavirus
A Question That Came Into One Of My Local Radio Stations
Spare The Rod
Yeah spanking always seemed a tautology of a punishment: *smack* "how many times do I have to tell you [name]?! *smack* We. Do. Not. Hit. People!" *smack*
Glad I Have A Good Relationship With My Parents
Idiot
How can anyone not see that giving a kid this age alcohol, caffeine or sugar is just giving them an early start on addiction?
My Fiance's Mom When We First Started Dating
Imagine Posting This And Being Proud Of The Anger That You Just Took Out On This Kid's Form Of Entertainment
A Friend Of Mine Who’s 27 Years Old
You could have fun with this and hide some weird and random stuff in your bin.
Her Brother Died Of Measles, But She Still Won’t Vaccinate Her Child Against It
Breaking A 7-Year-Old's Heart On Christmas
And Guess What She’d Have Blamed Her Son’s Autism On If She Did Vaccinate?
"i did all the right things. Had a natural birth, DiDn'T vAcCiNaTe, breastfed on d e m a n d for a year, fed a healthy diet..." Your's truly, -Seeking Sympathy 2020
My 5yo Child Is Enrolling In School And They Say I Can’t Come And Breastfeed Him. I’m Being Discriminated Against!
Sick woman. Your child will be fine. You are still breastfeeding to meet your own needs, not his.
The Mother Steals And Sells Her Daughter's Pet Snake While Her Daughter Was Out Of Town
Hope she got her snake back and reported her mum for theft.
It Sure Is A Mystery
Got Shot In An Armed Robbery? Sounds Like A You Problem. In My Day We Just Died
Yes....the crime of daring to be shot in the arm by a robber The audacity
Actual Disease Denial Or Pettiness?
My Mom, 13 Minutes After I Asked Her To Stop Trying To Encourage My 78yr Old Grandmother To Go Out Without A Mask
The Nerve Of This Mom
I'm The Bad Guy Now, Apparently, For Asking My Father To Make Sure His Whooping Cough Vaccine Is Up To Date Before He Snuggles Up To My Son Who Is Due Soon
Mother Wants Daughter To Get Plastic Surgery Because “Ugly People Go Nowhere Nowadays” Link To Article In The Comments.
What a despicable person, that girl is gorgeous. If anyone is ugly it is the mum due to her ugly attitude.
Idk If This Interaction With My Dad Counts
I Was Taking A Test
The Irony
I hear this all the time. It is IMPOSSIBLE to catch the flu from the flu shot because it is NOT a live vaccine. It is a coincidence and not only that the flu vaccine doesn't cover all the strains of the flu so whilst you may be vaccinated against Influenza A and B doesn't mean you are vaccinated against influenza C and D.
Anti-Vaxxers Holding Their Kids Medical Hostages.
This Guy Is 20 And In University
This seems to be a way to avoid the girl. I assume a 20 year old university guy will be more technically knowledgeable than his parents.
Jesus Take The Wheel
When Your Parent Goes On A Drunk Tirade And Destroys $2,000 Of Your Property
She’s Literally Killing Her Son. This Page Is Full Of Insane Parents Thinking They Know More Than The Doctors
Imagine Encouraging Or Even Allowing Your Children To Dress Up Like This On Halloween
How Dare People Spend Their Own Money On Things?
No Poison For You, Sweetie. Just Meningitis
you know something is wrong when your child misreads the word "vaccine" for "poison"
Back At It Again With Another Veggie Insanity Photo!
My Mom Is Withholding My Unemployment And Took The Grant The Cares Act Gave Out To The Students (I’m Staying With A Friend Rn)
Surely this is paid into your bank account where your mum can't touch it.
Glad You’ll Have Fun, Clever Mom
As someone with severe arachnophobia that affects my eating habits, this is terrible. If someone tells you their phobia, do not take advantage of that. Do not ridicule them, do not ‘prank’ them, do not make them feel bad for having that phobia — because, guess what? Phobias are meant to be irrational fears, something you can't control.
My Dad Has Been Convinced That Michelle Obama Is A Man For Years. I Love Him, But Wow
My Friend Just Sent Me This. Her Stepmom Took Her Stepsister To Get Food Without Her, And Then When She Went To Go Get Food By Herself She Grounded Her
My Sister Is 1.5 Hours Away In The Start Of A Bad Storm, But That Clearly Doesn’t Matter
My Mom's Reaction When I Sent Her A Picture From A Post On This Sub
I Was Granted Emergency Custody Of My Daughter And This Was Her Mom's Response When She Found Out
I Was Kidnapped By My Mom And My Life Was Hell For 2 Years Because She Was A [Crappy] Parent And Lost Custody Of Us
![I Was Kidnapped By My Mom And My Life Was Hell For 2 Years Because She Was A [Crappy] Parent And Lost Custody Of Us](https://static.boredpanda.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/5f92cb1a5faf6_60hb00k7geb41__700.jpg "I Was Kidnapped By My Mom And My Life Was Hell For 2 Years Because She Was A [Crappy] Parent And Lost Custody Of Us")
I, Bi And Closeted To My Family, Went To New York With My Boyfriend And My Mother Had Some Concerns
Very Normal Thing To Do With Your Dad
My Dad Thinks He Is Entitled To My Money (Which I Don't Have Much Of) Because "It's Christmas"
I Literally Did All My Chores When I Was Asked And I Was Still Grounded, I Actually Can’t Anymore
27.7k People Believe This Is The Potato Drawing Out The Fever And Not Oxidizing... These Poor Kids
A Girl With Over 125k Followers Posted This
I Was Getting Strep Throat, My Dad Was 2 Hours Away At His Girlfriends House, He Refused To Take Me To The Doctor (Im 17 And Cant Take Myself) And Was Teasing Me, This Is A Message From His Girlfriend, I Drove 4 Hours To My Moms House So I Could Go To The Doctor
Crack Is Healthier Than Vaccines
I Just Want To Cry And Scream At This Point
So This What I Have To Endure Through This Pandemic. Not Sure Which Is Worst.... And Yah She's An Anti-Vaxx
*facepalm* so viruses can travel as electronic information and then reform on the other side in a physical way? Dear God wonkavision has come to life XD
Stop Talking About Your Children’s Genitalia, You Weird Bastard
How much time is spent looking at your daughters ' genitalia? They should be removed from that home.
My Mom Thinks Im On Drugs Because I Left The Toilet Seat Up And Got A C In One Class
I Go Through This Almost Every Week
Wow, Passive Aggressive Much Mom?
"Mom, I've accepted Jesus into my heart." "That's wonderful, honey!" "Psych! April Fool's, you lunatic! Don't contact me ever again."
This Stuff Messes Kids Up
Insane Parents
No, There’s No Literature. The Nurse Just Wants Your Child To Survive
Shared By My Dad... Who Encouraged My Older Sister To Kill Herself
I Refuse To Believe Anyone Can Be This Brainless
I've said it before and I'll say it again - this is why I hate when people are pushing the "Everyone should respect their parents" idea. Yes - there are many great parents and they deserve recognition, respect and care. But there are also, unfortunately, many parents like these and their children deserve support and understanding when they decide to stop seeing them and cease contact. If you're in that situation - I admire you, it's immensely tough to stand up to your parents and even harder to actually cut them out of your lives. May you find better people to have around who'll make your family. Because blood doesn't make a family. Love does.
I'll type here what I typed below: The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
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I don know what to say. I live in a situation like this, but I'm scared to share because I'm worried somehow I'll get in trouble. all I can say is: Other kids in this situation, they may make you think that you're a failure, that you're useless, that you deserve whats happening to you. it's not. it's really not. never forget it.
Dear Pineapple and flowers, Thank you for reaching out. Just like you said to all those other kids, you do not deserve this. This is not your fault. The abuser is at fault, the abuser is responsible. You have done nothing wrong. You deserve love and respect over and over again, only love.
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I really hope and pray for the best for everybody stuck in such situations at this present. It should be a no brainer that we all deserve basic human decency and respect, yet it upsets me deeply that we still haven't overcome this type of behaviour. If it's anything, this random stranger on the internet cares for you, supports you, is proud of your accomplishments, understands your pains, and most of all, loves you. Sending good vibes and best wishes towards everybody's way. PS: I don't think it was a good decision to read this entire article in one sitting, lol.
I did all I was told to do. I still got beat. Some parents are too damaged as people to be good parents.
This isn't the exact quote (I'm paraphrasing) but it's in the bible for those "Christian" parents. The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
Aaaaaand now I feel like a rockstar parent. I had a few doosies from my own childhood. 'You're ruining my marriage' when severe depression was making it difficult to get out of bed in time to do my morning chores and make it to the bus stop on time. This was said while basically shoving me out of a moving car down the street from my school. And 'I hope you got that out of your system' when coming out that a friend of mine had been more than just a friend. Then there was that time when my step dad called me a whore when I went home for Christmas. Fun times! I remind myself of how these, and many other incidents, felt any time I feel myself loosing my patience with my own kids. Abuse causes lifelong damage and I refuse to perpetuate that cycle.
This is one of the most horrific articles I've seen on Bored Panda. It's not about parents who "went too far" or "got shamed." Many of these examples are abuse perpetrated by parents onto their children.
We drank the foam off our parents beer as kids and I didnt even like drinking at my friends as a teen. Didnt drink more often till like 36.
Big difference between disciplining children (i.e. teaching them manners and good behaviour) and abusing children. Physical discipline is unnecessary - just a bit of common sense and communication with your kids. Most people these days seem too afraid to even raise their voice to the kid, and then wonder why the children turn out so awful and uncontrollable (which doesn't help the kid at all in their future lives).
The two worst kinds of parents are authoritarian and absent/permissive. You get the screaming, bullying abusive and inconsistent in the authoritarian and the absent, inconsistent, "shrug" neglectful from the permissive. There is a vast field of positive between those two poles.
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This is quite possibly some of the most f’d up s I’ve ever seen posted here
This is so sad & painful to read. I lived in a broken home, my Dad used to beat me from the age of 3 upwards, I remember he was drunk the first time around Christmas. Afterwards, he quit drinking but it wasn't the alcohol that fueled his violent outbursts. I was told I was worthless, ugly, lazy, the black sheep of the family, etc. I was punched in the stomach, kicked, dragged by the hair & he tried to smother me with a pillow on one occasion, then tried to buy me something because he felt bad afterwards. I was only 14 & had nowhere to go. Honestly I blotted a lot of it out but now getting therapy as an adult in my late twenties & no longer see my Dad.
Laura, I hope telling your story helps. I'm so sorry that man was your father. I always wanted children, and it kills me to think he had the greatest opportunity a human being is lucky to have and he hurt you. I wish you a lifetime of love and support and kindness.
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The way I see it, all these parents who are doing these terrible things do not deserve their children. Children deserve loving parents who will give their all and do everything in their power to support them above all things.
These are all horrid in their own ways.....but #19 (the dog that was put in a shelter as a punishment to a child not doing well in school) absolutely made me tear up. How can people be this cruel and controlling. Go get psych degrees everyone....they'll always be a use for them with this brand of nutbags around!
Never thought I’d hear of such evil, stupid, and moronic parents! It really makes me want to be in law enforcement, the illegal kind.
My boyfriend’s mom is one of those people who constantly posts/shares hateful and prejudiced content on Facebook especially stuff related to LGBTQ people. One of her grandkids is gay (my boyfriend’s niece) she threatens her with taking away her inheritance when she dies if she doesn’t go to church with her..
To everyone else who's suffering abuse at the hands of a parent/guardian, I want you to know that you don't have to be grateful that it's not worse. I'm aware that many of my stepmom's actions don't even get close to some of the things I see here, but that still doesn't make her a good person: she tried to punish one of her kids for having suicidal thoughts, and is very backhanded about how she supports my transgender (FTM) stepbrother. (I'm also a closeted FTM, and she's one of the very reasons I'm closeted.)
It is so unfortunate that too many damaged people are not self-aware. Instead of seeking help, they go on to have children and to pass that damage along to the next generation. My family was the same. I am 57 now, and in the decades since my childhood I have learned: that I have to be responsible for healing myself, and for finding my own love sources; that my parents were also damaged and abused as children; to have compassion for my parents' suffering without denying the real pain and anger that I still feel; to thank my parents for giving me life itself. Without life, none of my journey would have been possible. I wish ultimate love and calm, a life free from abuse and toxic relationships, and a fruitful uplifting journey to all of us: children who suffer beyond imagination.
We need licenses to have a dog, but any idiot can reproduce. Maybe one day we will change that.
So... some of these are fabricated for shock value and noted on original posts on Reddit.
Allthough there are probably plenty of people like that, I bet more than half of these are fake
Wait what? There's no woman bashing is there? I saw dysfunctional parents in this thread, mothers and father's, and I know of parents who do this kind of s**t i dont see it as fake anecdotes, and I genuinely didn't see any gender agenda? (Omg I love how that rhymes though as a side note: gender agenda)
Load More Replies... I've said it before and I'll say it again - this is why I hate when people are pushing the "Everyone should respect their parents" idea. Yes - there are many great parents and they deserve recognition, respect and care. But there are also, unfortunately, many parents like these and their children deserve support and understanding when they decide to stop seeing them and cease contact. If you're in that situation - I admire you, it's immensely tough to stand up to your parents and even harder to actually cut them out of your lives. May you find better people to have around who'll make your family. Because blood doesn't make a family. Love does.
I'll type here what I typed below: The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
Load More Replies... I don know what to say. I live in a situation like this, but I'm scared to share because I'm worried somehow I'll get in trouble. all I can say is: Other kids in this situation, they may make you think that you're a failure, that you're useless, that you deserve whats happening to you. it's not. it's really not. never forget it.
Dear Pineapple and flowers, Thank you for reaching out. Just like you said to all those other kids, you do not deserve this. This is not your fault. The abuser is at fault, the abuser is responsible. You have done nothing wrong. You deserve love and respect over and over again, only love.
Load More Replies... I really hope and pray for the best for everybody stuck in such situations at this present. It should be a no brainer that we all deserve basic human decency and respect, yet it upsets me deeply that we still haven't overcome this type of behaviour. If it's anything, this random stranger on the internet cares for you, supports you, is proud of your accomplishments, understands your pains, and most of all, loves you. Sending good vibes and best wishes towards everybody's way. PS: I don't think it was a good decision to read this entire article in one sitting, lol.
I did all I was told to do. I still got beat. Some parents are too damaged as people to be good parents.
This isn't the exact quote (I'm paraphrasing) but it's in the bible for those "Christian" parents. The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
Aaaaaand now I feel like a rockstar parent. I had a few doosies from my own childhood. 'You're ruining my marriage' when severe depression was making it difficult to get out of bed in time to do my morning chores and make it to the bus stop on time. This was said while basically shoving me out of a moving car down the street from my school. And 'I hope you got that out of your system' when coming out that a friend of mine had been more than just a friend. Then there was that time when my step dad called me a whore when I went home for Christmas. Fun times! I remind myself of how these, and many other incidents, felt any time I feel myself loosing my patience with my own kids. Abuse causes lifelong damage and I refuse to perpetuate that cycle.
This is one of the most horrific articles I've seen on Bored Panda. It's not about parents who "went too far" or "got shamed." Many of these examples are abuse perpetrated by parents onto their children.
We drank the foam off our parents beer as kids and I didnt even like drinking at my friends as a teen. Didnt drink more often till like 36.
Big difference between disciplining children (i.e. teaching them manners and good behaviour) and abusing children. Physical discipline is unnecessary - just a bit of common sense and communication with your kids. Most people these days seem too afraid to even raise their voice to the kid, and then wonder why the children turn out so awful and uncontrollable (which doesn't help the kid at all in their future lives).
The two worst kinds of parents are authoritarian and absent/permissive. You get the screaming, bullying abusive and inconsistent in the authoritarian and the absent, inconsistent, "shrug" neglectful from the permissive. There is a vast field of positive between those two poles.
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This is so sad & painful to read. I lived in a broken home, my Dad used to beat me from the age of 3 upwards, I remember he was drunk the first time around Christmas. Afterwards, he quit drinking but it wasn't the alcohol that fueled his violent outbursts. I was told I was worthless, ugly, lazy, the black sheep of the family, etc. I was punched in the stomach, kicked, dragged by the hair & he tried to smother me with a pillow on one occasion, then tried to buy me something because he felt bad afterwards. I was only 14 & had nowhere to go. Honestly I blotted a lot of it out but now getting therapy as an adult in my late twenties & no longer see my Dad.
Laura, I hope telling your story helps. I'm so sorry that man was your father. I always wanted children, and it kills me to think he had the greatest opportunity a human being is lucky to have and he hurt you. I wish you a lifetime of love and support and kindness.
Load More Replies... The way I see it, all these parents who are doing these terrible things do not deserve their children. Children deserve loving parents who will give their all and do everything in their power to support them above all things.
These are all horrid in their own ways.....but #19 (the dog that was put in a shelter as a punishment to a child not doing well in school) absolutely made me tear up. How can people be this cruel and controlling. Go get psych degrees everyone....they'll always be a use for them with this brand of nutbags around!
Never thought I’d hear of such evil, stupid, and moronic parents! It really makes me want to be in law enforcement, the illegal kind.
My boyfriend’s mom is one of those people who constantly posts/shares hateful and prejudiced content on Facebook especially stuff related to LGBTQ people. One of her grandkids is gay (my boyfriend’s niece) she threatens her with taking away her inheritance when she dies if she doesn’t go to church with her..
To everyone else who's suffering abuse at the hands of a parent/guardian, I want you to know that you don't have to be grateful that it's not worse. I'm aware that many of my stepmom's actions don't even get close to some of the things I see here, but that still doesn't make her a good person: she tried to punish one of her kids for having suicidal thoughts, and is very backhanded about how she supports my transgender (FTM) stepbrother. (I'm also a closeted FTM, and she's one of the very reasons I'm closeted.)
It is so unfortunate that too many damaged people are not self-aware. Instead of seeking help, they go on to have children and to pass that damage along to the next generation. My family was the same. I am 57 now, and in the decades since my childhood I have learned: that I have to be responsible for healing myself, and for finding my own love sources; that my parents were also damaged and abused as children; to have compassion for my parents' suffering without denying the real pain and anger that I still feel; to thank my parents for giving me life itself. Without life, none of my journey would have been possible. I wish ultimate love and calm, a life free from abuse and toxic relationships, and a fruitful uplifting journey to all of us: children who suffer beyond imagination.
We need licenses to have a dog, but any idiot can reproduce. Maybe one day we will change that.
So... some of these are fabricated for shock value and noted on original posts on Reddit.
Allthough there are probably plenty of people like that, I bet more than half of these are fake
Wait what? There's no woman bashing is there? I saw dysfunctional parents in this thread, mothers and father's, and I know of parents who do this kind of s**t i dont see it as fake anecdotes, and I genuinely didn't see any gender agenda? (Omg I love how that rhymes though as a side note: gender agenda)
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