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Did you know that most of us use mind tricks from time to time, even if we are not aware of it? It’s normal and it helps us maneuver through life. Knowing how to properly behave, what to say or simply being able to understand our emotions and ways of acting helps a lot in life. And there’s nothing wrong with that (as long as you don’t use that knowledge for evil purposes).

There are many psychological tips and tricks laying around offering us help to shape our inner psyche. If you can use psychology to your advantage, then why not do so? That’s why we want to share the best psychological insights presented by “Psychology Peers”, an Instagram page spreading knowledge to 118K of its followers.

So, prepare a notebook because, we believe, you’ll find something valuable in here.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to think that depression is deep sadness. Then I found out that, at least for me, it is actually a lack of joy and pleasure. You barely feel any pleasure from any activity you usually enjoy. Everything is dull and grey. You surprise yourself when you laugh out loud. It is like you are emotionally numb all the time. You don't look forward to anything. You just lie there on your bed, thinking of a lot of things you can do for fun, but end up not doing anything because you couldn't be bothered.

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To find out what an expert has to say about these facts and why it is important to learn psychology, Bored Panda reached out to Ronald E. Riggio, a Professor of Leadership and Organizational Psychology at Claremont McKenna College. He is also the author of more than a dozen books and research articles in the areas of leadership, assessment centers, organizational psychology and social psychology.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This includes family members! Even if it’s yo’ mama. If mama is toxic/triggering/detrimental to your wellbeing, then she’s got to go!

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We first asked the professor why it is important to understand human behavior. R. Riggio explained that the only way we know one another is through our behavior. "We behave in certain ways, and others interpret that and draw conclusions about us — what kind of person we are, whether they want to continue interacting with us, etc. So, we need to better understand our own behavior and how it affects others.

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It is also critically important to study our own behavior if we are engaging in self-damaging patterns of behavior (e.g., not taking care of ourselves, abusing substances, abusing or using other people for personal gains, the list goes on and on). That is why psychology is such a popular topic and subject of study (psychology is one of the most popular college majors). We all want to understand more about our own, and others', behavior in order to make sense out of our social role and increase our knowledge and effectiveness in life."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Confidence is not knowing that you'll win. Confidence is knowing that you'll be okay if you don't.

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Are you curious about how psychological facts can help us maneuver through life? R. Riggio shared that our perception is inherently biased by our own belief systems, lifetime experiences, and what we have observed. "For example, we are quite protective of our image of ourselves. We like to believe that we are good, smart, and kind and that we possess a host of other positive qualities. We use self-protective biases to help guard our often-fragile egos, and maintain a positive view of ourselves. By studying psychology, we can learn more about these systematic biases and how to not be fooled by them. Psychology helps us to be honest with ourselves: own up to our mistakes. Review and critique our own behavior. Second, we must realize that the situation and our psychological makeup are responsible for our actions and outcomes."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ahh, all the catholics ever - they have to force you into their sky daddy fairytale to not feel like idiots

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did that with my mother, step father and my sister. So much stress gone since then..zero regrets

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Ronald Riggio is sure that we can become more successful in life by learning about psychology. "We can gain self-insight that can help us to become a better person. In my work in organizational psychology, we use psychological knowledge and methods to make conditions better at work, and by studying and assessing work behavior, we can increase job performance, job satisfaction and engagement of workers, and have huge effects on the organization's functioning and on making organizations better, and more rewarding, places to work."

If you'd like to learn more about how psychology can benefit your life, check out Riggio's blog posts on Psychology Today here!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So when people give me crp about being in my 40's and single, I can just tell them it's because I'm too smart? I find this acceptable.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mom always told me, "chin up, things could be worse". So I held my chin up and sure enough...

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Didn't knew it had name but I have this. Nothing goes right in my favor without something else going double wrong against me.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always expect the worse in every situation (be it an activity, a dinner with friends, etc. anything that gets me out of the house). I can only be pleasantly surprised. Every time I was over cheary or expecting positive things, I was disappointed.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TIL. This is me, 100%. When I experienced happiness, I'd have this kind of thoughts, just to prepare myself mentally so that it wouldn't impact me badly when the bad thing happened for real. Honestly, I think my username is because I'm trying to convince myself that I'm happy.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've read probably an unhealthy amount of Supernatural fan fiction, and in 90% of them, I'm pretty sure Dean Winchester has this.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every time something bad happens. Even if you are not happy. But when all the time everything is bad you dont see the difference.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, until my childhood comes back and tells me otherwise, I'm going with my experience.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

some people afraid to be happy because they think it's not fair to other people who are less happy

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mother just told me last week to be carful, things are going too good for you right now so that means something really bad is coming.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is an inevitability. There is nothing pessimistic about this. The key is to enjoy the good times when they come and learn to cope with the bad times when they come. Up and downs if you let them. Avoiding anything negative is setting yourself up for great failure and disappointment and probably loneliness since many folk equate misery and drama with people.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The odd thing about happiness is that it can sometimes be the cause of anxiety, and if you don't experience that feeling often, it can even cause some confusion, and doubts about how to handle it and behave in the right way. It is kind of how falling in love can be tricky, you are happy but confused and insecure at the same time. Happiness can give rise to all kinds of dilemmas resulting in hard questions like: "Is it ok to show that I am proud of my achievement, or will it make me come of as an arogant prick?"... or "will I look stupid by celebrating an achievent that most people take for granted?". Mediocracy can be much easier to handle for someone who is more familiar with that, and as our brains are lazy. In many cases we prefer to deal with something we already know and can do without much effort as it is much easier, than being confused by something new.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stress is your body assuming you're being stalked by one of those pesky saber-toothed tigers...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doesn't make it hurt any less, even if it was the right one :(

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was caught napping during work-time and explained this to my boss, his response was anything but polite. He wasn't convinced that I was sleeping only for the sake of the company.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This data is skewed because people that tried and failed were still too busy hiding under a blanket in their bed, cringing and kicking the blanket as the thoughts of it all reply in their minds on endless repeat.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That being said, there is something really soothing about a rain storm, but only if I can use it as an excuse to stay under a blanket with a good book all day.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Higher fish content diets and the constant sound of the ocean drowning out the voices of your enemies. Of course it is better for you.

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