Folks In This Online Group Are Surprised Some People Actually Want To Do These 30 Stupid Things
InterviewThere are only a few things in this reality that are truly infinite: numbers, the universe, and human stupidity, just to name a few. But it never stops people from trying to measure it. Or at least ponder the prospects.
Take stupidity, for instance. Redditors recently shared some of the stupidest things they think people can actually do. And, yes, much of it is off the chart, but just like the scale, you can come up with infinitely appropriate measures to match its level of stupidity. And you can rate all of these stupid things in our curated list below!
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Fight against free healthcare. It’s never made sense to me. You can be from any political party, have billions or nothing, live on the streets or a mansion… but you’ll still need healthcare. So why don’t we want our taxes to pay for that?
And yes, the level of care and waiting times and blah blah blah. Nothing is perfect when you first start. But work on improving it as we go and 10-50 years it’s great. We could all have healthcare for free that works or we keep arguing and have this same discussion in 50 years while some people suffer.
Edit: And when I say “free”, obviously our taxes pay for it. But it becomes part of the budget like education and military.
Everyone—-no wealthy shirkers, damn it—-having the same percentage of tax allocated for a national health system is way more fair and equitable than the flat rate we all have to pay for employer sponsored healthcare. Think of it this way, if 1% of everyone’s taxes goes to healthcare, then the wealthy pay more, which may not seem fair but is actually equitable. Now at work, the lowest paid employee is paying the same flat rate, let’s say $200 a month, for employer-sponsored healthcare as the highest paid employee, which appears fair but is not equitable. That $200 is a much higher percentage of the lowest wage employee’s income than the highest paid employee’s income. If you’re still scratching your head, just run some numbers on both scenarios and you’ll see what I mean.
America would have more than enough but they spend more on military than anyone else in the world ;-;
The cruelty is the point. Some people would rather risk going without for the pleasure of watching people who are different from themselves suffer. It's that simple.
Some people, like in the US, just enjoy seeing those around them miserable and in trouble and/or they've diluted themselves enough into thinking that somehow they are more deserving of care than others cuz they have a larger bank account.
I think it is more a case of "I don't want to pay for someone else's Healthcare!". For some reason people cannot understand how taxes pay for things shared by all us. Of course we already are paying for others' healthcare. This is one reason medical expenses are so high. We have to subsidize indigent care or those without insurance.
Most people in the US want free healthcare. It's just that our government is enslaved to money and insurance.
because ignorant people scream about SOCIALISM!!! "Why should my money go to pay anyone else's medical bill?" Like they have no concept of how insurance works.
Yeah... I've had this 'discussion' plenty of times... and the wait times are ALWAYS the first thing to come up... and I tell them - "Well, this way, at least you're waiting for **something** that will help you... instead of instantly or never getting ANY help because your privatized bill is a thousand times more than you can afford." The response I get is usually some unintelligible grumbling... then someone calling me a commie...
Go to Vegas.
I'm from the UK and it seems like half the people I know wanna go to Vegas for their stag do, or get married there. Like it's the mecca of America for an amazing time out but to me it just looks like the worst aspects of America. All gaudiness and financial ruin with no substance.
There's lots of places in America I'd love to see like New Orleans, Alaska or Yellowstone Park - but Vegas is just absolutely one of the things I think I'd absolutely find boring and awful.
It's expensive, either really hot or really cold, and you get the added bonus of a city that chronically smells of a bubbly septic tank if you do visit during the sweltering season. As a former resident, it's a shít hole. People go there under the advertised idea that you should be that awful party animal you've always wanted to be. Then the people that really take that seriously, they end up spending everything they have on gambling, drugs, and alcohol and they're stuck in Vegas. So it's a city mainly built around a citizenry of addicts that keep feeding their addictions and I don't know how any "normal" people enjoy living in junkie refuse.
I live in Vegas so: 1. It's never 'really cold'. You must be anemic. 2. "chronically smells of a bubbly septic tank". It does not smell. You must have Hyperosmia. 3. In regards to the rest of your comment, as a former resident, how do you know these things? Of course there are those people that engage in those things, but are you saying you personally know/knew that many people that did? What kind of friends do you keep?
Load More Replies...My husband and I went right before our wedding, just due to timing issues. We are not big gamblers, but we had a blast! We stayed off strip. Our pool had a waterslide and a shark tank. It also had a nice hibachi place in it. We went to the mob museum, the body exhibit, and zip lining. We enjoyed the street entertainers, had our picture taken with a million bucks. We only went on the strip to see a comedy show and go to Gordon Ramsey's. Totally worth it for us. We live in a small town. We would never get a chance to dine like we did at home. Staff were super friendly. We swear til this day, there is a different Coca Cola for rich people, cuz it was great! On the last night, I still had some money in my gambling budget, but wanted to get packing for the morning flight. I started betting max credits, which I never do. I hit for $750. Cashed out immediately. We would do it again in a heartbeat.
It is kind of like going to the circus. You go because the place is a spectacle. And the food is really good and affordable. But onece in a lifetime is enough.
Load More Replies...I don't get the point of them. Usually there's a lot of penis shaped decor. No thanks.
Load More Replies...I lived there for 2 years and don't even like having a layover in Vegas anymore. However, if you do go, a helicopter tour of the Grand Canyon is an unforgettable experience.
Vegas is amazing on the eye for the first few days but 3 days is about my limit... - you can pick up a show (Cirque du Soliel was good) - get a little drunk whilst getting free drinks playing roulette (an easy game to lose slowly at ones you've sussed it, can work out cheaper than buying drinks from the bar) - marvel at the hotels along the strip - get an awesome buffet ...but then you start seeing it for what it is, which is about the right time to head out and it's ideally situated to start a road trip to the east to the Hoover Dam, the Grand Canyon, Sedona or to the west to Death Valley, Yosemite park (checking out the giant redwood in Mariposa grove) and onto San Fransisco. We went east then west and had a fantastic time.
As an American I agree, but Vegas is one of my favorite places to go
I loved it. I don't gamble and I went in July. There's something for everyone. Looking for any excuse to go back and would seriously consider moving there as well.
Yes!! There are alot of places in the US that I would like to visit but Las Vegas isn't one of them. It's just not my preference but many people like to go there and have fun and that's great!
2theface said:
Gender Reveals.
VisibleConfusion12 replied:
Especially over the top ones that alert everybody in the tri-state area.
G-Unit11111 replied:
I'm in California. My neighborhood had to evacuate in 2020 because we were directly in the path of that huge fire in San Bernardino that was caused by one. My hatred for these parties amplified immensely after that.
It's really weird the obsession some people have over revealing the types of genitalia they believe their future child will have and already attempting to define that person on said gonads.
When did this become an "event". I remember these are private with just the parents and siblings....or you know just waiting for the surprise.
The person credited with creating the gender reveal did so because it was the first pregnancy of hers that reached the stage where the baby's sex was detectable in an ultrasound & she wanted to celebrate that with her family (earlier pregnancies had ended in miscarriage before that point). It was a simple party for family, and the "reveal" part was a small cake with pink frosting inside. She talked about it on her blog & it went viral, a fact she regrets. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/jun/29/jenna-karvunidis-i-started-gender-reveal-party-trend-regret
Load More Replies..."It's a baby" is the only thing you need. If it's not a baby, be concerned
But I can just buy a cake. And then I can eat cake and not have to fuss about some pointless party
Load More Replies...It's a boy! Yeah!...It's a girl! Yeah!..So WTF is the deal with which sex the baby is if everyone has the same reaction? This isn't some Medieval type s**t (or England still) where you want a boy in order to have an heir to the throne. You should be more concerned that the baby is healthy.
Tbh I'm all for celebrating your future child and creating special moments with family and friends, cutting a cake with pink/blue frosting is acceptable but blowing up fireworks is not. Fire hazard people
That I should be more grateful for my horrible life just because “others have it worse.”
People have told me that quite often, but all that tells me is that my problems don’t f*****g matter.
That's called invalidation. Telling someone that their problems or feelings don't really matter cuz someone on earth probably has it worse off. It's a great way to make someone feel lonely, judged, and unaccepted, my husband is learning.
I hate this way of thinking. My eldest daughter was suffering badly from depression and anxiety, I finally managed to convince her to speak to our doctor. He was wonderful and understanding and got her set up with a referral to the local mental health team. After her call with them they basically told her "it doesn't sound that bad, other people have it much worse than you". I was beyond livid. I have always lived by the motto that everyone is entitled to their own pain, regardless of size/depth/reason. There are people who don't have arms, that doesn't stop someone else's broken one from hurting, just because "at least you've got one", and the same vice versa, just because you don't have an arm to feel physical pain in, doesn't mean you don't hurt for your loss.
Yeah my 'therapist' spoke to me twice, got a rough understanding of my extremely rough abusive childhood and everything I was going through at the time and then basically said" I don't think we can do anything to help you, so this will be your last session with me. Good luck, I'm sure it'll all work out fine!" It took me nearly 3yrs of begging my doctor for a referral and 6months on a waiting list for those appointments just to hear that. If my bf hadn't came to pick me up after I would have likely done something very bad, never felt so awful and defeated in my life. That was 5yrs ago and I'm still in a very bad place but refuse to go back to therapy because i can't face going through something like that again. Why do these people go into a profession like that when they completely lack empathy? 😕
Load More Replies...or they are minimizing something that matters to you. It is really horrible to think someone's else's misfortune should make you feel better ...
Pain can only be measured by the person experiencing it. And I say this as someone who has suffered with extreme chronic pain for the past 25 years. I'll be the first to sympathize with your migraine, toothache, labor pains, etc. My pain has nothing to do with yours, so there can be no comparison. No one has the right to judge your pain tolerance, and this applies to physical and emotional pain alike.
Same like if you voice your displeasure about a screaming kid in your vicinity and other people go " YoU wErE a KiD oNcE, tOo." Yeah, I was. And I probably pissed off a lot of adults too back then.
Or when someone reminds you that someone else is in more pain than you are. That thinking does nothing to reduce my pain. It just tries to invalidate my pain or tries to make me feel guilty for talking about my pain.
Did BP change the title? "35 Folks List Decisions Made By People That Are Stupid And That They Are Going To Regret Right After" is what it is now, and most of these don't seem to fit right. Like, I don't think people regret saying "others have it worse".
Yeah I think this post has wandered off a bit. Still reading to see if it rights itself.
Load More Replies...ignorant ppl say that. i have my health issues, fully aware others have it worse doeesnt mean i am not in pain or important. I especially hate "you're too young for that kind of medical issue"...there is no age to medical issues
I can't agree with this enough. During Covid, I worked in a hospital, and my entire job was working side by side with Covid doctors. I hated it. I had panic attacks daily, i was miserable, I was scared... People would say "you should be happy you at least have a job!" So then on top of everything I felt guilty. Worst 2 years of my life. I ended up leaving that job specifically because Covid burned me out.
Ok-Strawberry5238 said:
Lying about not eating before any anesthesia procedure specially outpatient procedure. You can aspirate and die even w a little bite of food or a sip of a drink (sip of water and meds usually ok). But go ahead.
swagglepuf replied:
Eating yes, a sip of a drink no. My source is 12 years in surgery, 5 years in private practice.
We routinely have people take medications the morning of surgery. Either prescribed or medications they have to take daily. So no a sip of water isn’t going to kill you in surgery.
Also there are facilities that allow people to drink just water up to 4 hours before surgery. These policies are put in place by anesthesiologists that work at those facilities.
Don’t lie about recreational [illegal substances], no one gives a f**k what you do. They need to know so they don’t give you wrong s**t that will react and kill you.
I have had huge problems when I have not consumed water before surgery (unable to start an IV). I would never drink right before but I will drink a few hours before.
I recently had a procedure and made sure I told the anesthesiologist that I am a heavy THC user. THC tolerance can also translate into a Propofol tolerance. They were happy that I told them and no issues at all waking up during my procedure. It's 100% legal for me where I live and people need to educate themselves about their own drug interactions.
they have change the rules on this over the years, my first surgery it was no food from midnight the night before - didn't matter what time the surgery was, then it was X number of hours before surgery, then no drinking X number of hours, then 2 hours, they are learning, the drugs are changing. They are realizing people need fluids in them if they are going to get an IV in them. People have emergency surgery daily without any dietary precautions - it is for planned surgeries that they want ideal conditions.
Also, if you're told you can take your regular medications and you take multiple meds, be sure your medical team knows what you're taking. They may want you to skip, for example, a blood thinner...for obvious reasons.
Had to have scan 2 weeks ago, no food or drink 6 hours beforehand, had to get up early to grab some breakfast but the real killer was the drink, it was a damn hot day and I wouldn't taken someone's arm off for some chilled water.
Bored Panda reached out to one Redditor who took part in the now-viral AskReddit thread. In their response, Reddit user Active-Sorbet-2756 shared a more specific approach to questionable decision-making by talking about their roommate. Specifically, their roommate once lost their keys and had to go out into town when OP was not at home and so there was no way to lock up the apartment. So, the roommate left anyway, leaving the apartment completely unattended. This was besides that other time he threw the key into the garbage after moving out.
"It’s been years since we lived together and thinking back, much of what he did seems kinda tame now," elaborated OP. "Besides the key thing, he’d often approach random dogs on the street to pet them, doesn’t matter if it’s a stray or a dog with an owner walking them."
"I think the worst he did was he once drove me and my girlfriend downtown going 60mph in a 30mph zone all because he was super proud of his trashy car and wanted to show off. Only had it for another 3 months until his brother wrecked it. Never sat in the same car with him ever again."
Galooiik said:
Exploring those small, tight a** caves. Extremely stupid.
bad_apiarist replied:
But just think of the rewards! Deep down at the far reaches there are dank, nondescript rocks to see! Rocks! No other way to do this other than to visit any other type or part of any cave anywhere.
Then there's the glory of discovery. You could be the first to know there's more rocks further down. And you could be famous like the great cave explorer... uh.. hmm...
otterpr1ncess replied:
Don't forget the blind, creepy bugs and fish!
dstroyer123 replied:
There are older and fouler things than Orcs in the deep places of the world.
And you could end up down there for some archeologist to find in 10,000 years! You'll be famous (posthumously).
I don't think this is stupid, most of them are trained explores.
Best case, you get killed by a Balrog. Worst case, you starve or suffocate. So, win?
Atzkicica said:
Forgiving people who are totally unapologetic unchanging abusers. Nope.
gabdelacruz replied:
You know what's more annoying? A person that tries to convince you to forgive someone just because "he's a family/relative", even if they totally don't know what horrible things the offender did to you.
paraworldblue replied:
People like that seem to think family is a sacred bond, but it's not. If someone doesn't deserve that bond, you're not obligated to maintain it. Forgiving abuse just for the sake of "keeping the family together" hurts the entire family.
You won’t see a bald eagle forgive abusers! No sir, they know who deserves a second chance and who doesn’t.
Load More Replies...I've always thought that argument was weird. I didn't ask to be born into a family with this person! And I owe them nothing just because we share some genetic material. Know what else I share genetic material with? A banana.
Or making an a*****e into a saint because they passed away. No. My ex was still an abusive f**k.
Yes, just because someone isn’t alive anymore, it doesn’t negate the fact that they were a horrible person when they were alive.
Load More Replies...Life is short. Some people deserve a punch in the mouth. Make the world a better place and give it to them.
“Just for the sake of the family” also hurts everyone more in the long run. Best to cut an abuser off immediately than do it later, regretting not doing it sooner.
And then they tell you that this person is always there if you need help, but never was. Yet them demanded your help every time.
Ahhh yeah... I get this STILL from friends who ascribe to old-school ways of thinking (and FUNNY enough... oh, they DIDN'T get abused and mistreated! So of course there's no way something awful was happening to me... oh no... it must be me just exaggerating)
There's a difference between forgiving and forgetting. In my opinion, if someone has been abusive, or terrible, no matter if they're family or not, it is good to cut them out, and not allow them to have influence on you any more. But holding onto that hurt and dwelling on those bad things can have a negative effect on you. You're not forgiving them for their sake, you're forgive for your sake, to release the past and live freely. But you are not forgetting what they did, and you are not letting them do it again.
Yes! Forgive. If you are also going no contact, then don't bother telling them you forgive. If you are staying in contact, forgive and hold them responsible/have consequences. Forgiveness is not a free pass.
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subtect said:
Buy that shiny newer version of a thing you already have.
The_Iron_Gunfighter replied:
Never buy new things until yours is broken or the upgraded version is tangibly superior in ways that matter.
gamedude88 replied:
Or the item no longer has security updates.
This is jus a waste of money (unless your job involves tech I guess). I buy flagship but two years after release. I pay a third of the price and get specs that are better than most of the current ones.
I fully support this, but planned obsolescence is real. Making things last just doesn't make as much money. I get non-flagship phones for this reason, because they're less likely to brick after 5 years.
Load More Replies...Yep, more proof of our not-so-far removal from our kin, the apes. "Oooh, me like shiny thing. Other monkeys are attracted to me for having new shiny object."
Not me, sitting here with a 2015 iPhone 6s and a 2015 iMac, both of which I bought used and refurbished. What? They work perfectly fine for my purposes.
this pisses me off as a diehard apple fanboy. F*****g disabling a phone after 2-3 years, effectively, because the apps stop being made compatible with older OSes, and stopping software updates ... meantime it is perfectly usable.
I bought my first smartphone in november. A fairphone, for they're all supposed to be good by now, but it will remain repairable a lot longer than any other, and it is produced having less negative impact, or being a bit of the change I'd love to see everywhere. TBH, I find it a handy, but boring device and almost never play arund with it. Navi, I would open upon getting lost, or in a hurry - but not as standard feature whereever I am. Before - Nokia 6300. Built like a tank, but has ONE flaw preventing me from starting it.
And people wonder why Apple's market cap is 2.84 trillion. And most phones in the landfill are also probably iPhones.
My google 2XL's battery is weak now, might have to upgrade. Phones are crazy expensive, but it doesn't seem so when you pay monthly.
Ok[Phalis]-ist28 said:
Riding a motorcycle without leathers. A million things can happen so fast and there you are, sliding down the pavement leaving a meat schmear.
ArtRepresentative634 replied:
My stepdad, who is a former EMT, was diving on the freeway and a couple on a motorcycle went past him, then got loose or the tire lost traction, they fell and slid in front of him, he slammed the breaks barely missing them.
Went into EMT mode to help them. They were both wearing helmets at least. Guy was wearing a jacket and pants, Lady was in a tang top and shorts. Needless to say, she lost A LOT of skin!
Someone once told me that protective clothes can't protect you from a broken arm or so. That might be correct, but it might protect you from a severed arm.
It takes 30 cm of asphalt to tear away demin clothing. Imagine skin.
Load More Replies...I’m not one for road rage but confess to yelling (in my car or on my bike where they can’t hear me) every time I see a brain dead idiot riding a motorbike with their helmet on but zero or limited protection for their body. Even jeans only provide minimal protection against road rash. I KNOW it’s hot, restrictive, and takes time to gear up properly but if you aren’t willing to do what it takes to protect yourself, you shouldn’t be on a bike in the first place.
Google "the Road Rash Queen". Honestly, the ones wearing a helmet (but nothing else) confuse me: if I was gonna have that much road rash, I wouldn't want to survive
Her story is horrifying. One of her breasts was ripped off, in addition to massive amounts of skin. So many surgeries and physical therapy... horrible story.
Load More Replies...Not exactly the same, but my Mum was a passenger in the sidecar of her boyfriend's motorcycle many moons ago (when she was a teenager). They were sideswiped by a drunk driver. He was killed and she was completely naked by the time they found her, every stitch of clothing being ripped off by the road. She spent three years in hospital recuperating and learning to walk again. Scary stuff!
I always get the shivers when i see such people... i really see their skin on the road. Many of them need to speed, too. I don't know what they want to show off.
My dad worked in the ER and had all these horror stories of motorcycle crashes. Turns out a helmet and leather jacket doesn't do you much good when you're going 80 mph and a truck slams into you.
Karneveus said:
Drive after consuming alcohol. All my friends hate drunk driving and talk against it. They tell their parents that we're smarter than them cuz of uber....and yet I seem to be the only one in my friend group who refuses to drive after having drinks at a bar/concert/friends house.
VisibleConfusion12 replied:
Someone I know has gotten in 7 accidents in 3 years, 6/7 were caused by drunk drives
If you wanna be AWAY from drunk drivers just don’t drive too much at night.
I never had problems with that, so I had to google the german law. It says: If you were caught with 1.1 per mille or more, your license will be revoked for at least six months and up to five years. In particularly serious cases, the court can also decide at the hearing that you are no longer allowed to drive for life. This is without an accident.
Load More Replies...When I was in Jr. High my dad, a doctor, told me a story of some guys who drank and drove. One boy had his head out the window. The driver swerved by a telephone pole. The first guy lost his head. This was the story that my dad used to tell us not to drink and drive. He commented that the driver now has to live with the fact that he killed his friend.
In my country, many decades ago, they had a 'drunk driving' campaign. Problem was that most people didn't perceive themselves as 'drunk' despite being impaired. It's now rebranded as 'drink driving' and the alcohol limit has been lowered to the extent that not even the smallest official measure of any drink will keep you under it. Driving 'over the limit' is rare (compared to before) and is considered shameful whether you are caught or not.
I'm curious what the limit is set to? Do you know the blood alcohol content?
Load More Replies...Just wanted to add a comment on the last line. Don't kid yourself, lots of folks are on the road in the early hours of the day coming back from parties or having "slept it off" somewhere and they're still legally drunk. My late hubby never had a licence, so he wasn't a road menace, but he admitted to going to work many times still feeling the effects of the night before.
The general rule of thumb is that you process roughly one standard drink an hour if you're a man and slightly less for a woman. So if you've had a dozen drinks it'll be at roughly 12 hours before they're all out of your system. If I had that many I'd probably add a buffer of an extra couple hours on top because "did I keep an accurate count?"
Load More Replies...I am one of the drivers who have had a DUI. When I was 24. I have never since driven impaired. They broke me from sucking eggs, I'll tell you that. Man, that's a lot of money.
My best friend's parents were hit head-on by a drunk driver who fled the scene. They spent 6 months in ICU. Mom lost all the fingers on one hand, Dad has horrific scarring on his legs. They were f***ing lucky.
We asked Active-Sorbet why he thinks his roommate did what he did on the regular, and he speculated that he just probably didn't know any better.
"Some of my friends and I thought it was probably because he was from a big family and his parents were always busy with keeping the household afloat. He was homeschooled for many years because his parents moved a lot for work and didn't really teach him things that are common sense to most. Social norms were an issue for him, he’d always get in people’s space, strike up conversations with randos on the street just minding their business (we live in an introverted culture) and do weird things and then say 'that’s how people where I come from do it' though we all had doubts about it."
OP did try to talk to broach the topic of appropriateness with their roommate, explaining the cultural and social background of where they lived and how society functions. However, after some time, they came to realize that they couldn't "parent" the roommate as it started weighing down on them mentally. Let alone when nobody else bothered to do anything about it either.
GooglePixel69 said:
Own exotic pets like tigers, wolves, bears or chimps.
Psychological_Tap187 replied:
when my seven pound house cat looks at me when she is angry it terrifies me. Can you imagine that look but from a tiger???
jittery_raccoon replied:
Venomous snakes. The snake people are both fully aware how dangerous the snakes are and also overconfident on their ability to handle them.
BECKYISHERE replied:
I own great black backed seagulls, magnificent creatures but they could take your finger off without thinking with the pressure in the razor sharp beak, ya gotta be real careful handling them.
Tame is NOT the same as domesticated. Tame still has wild in it, and could turn on you at any moment, while domesticated has had all the wild bred out of it.
And if you're not careful, you can still be bitten or scratched by a domesticated animal.
Load More Replies...I can get on this train. Humans have no business owning instinctually wild animals. If you do, that should be an exemption from public health care. You brought a wild beast into your home, it might tear your face off and eat you. Just like smokers understand they may die from cancer, you have to just deal with it when you get mauled.
Yeah, but at what point do you stop this? That's a slippery slope you're starting to climb down here
Load More Replies...Not only is it dangerous, but it’s cruel. No, your tiger does not enjoy being your house cat.
About 20 years ago an acquaintance of mine became the first case in my area of New York in decades (maybe ever) to be hospitalized for a specific snake bite. He nearly died as the staff scrambled to get him proper care and the right antivenom and although he survived he had lasting damage. The biggest thing that saved him was that he went to the hospital about 10-15 minutes after the bite. Because this idiot had to own venomous, and illegal, snakes he nearly died.
Well, at least he got himself there instead of calling 911 and endangering others
Load More Replies...I saw on TV a man had a tiger in his apartment in Harlem, NYC. He was lucky enough it didn't eat anybody.
I saw that one. The people in the apartment underneath were literally rained on with tiger pee. There was a whole series Fatal Attractions on this.
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JasonMontell2501 said:
Cheat on their spouse.
IRBaboooon replied:
There's an actual culture around this that I hear a lot in music, and it's stupid af. Artists have romanticized cheating and for the life of me I can't understand why.
I regret to say that I was unfaithful one time. I cried for days after the fact, I was so shocked and angry at myself that I would do such a thing, but also so very sad that my marriage had deteriorated to the point that I was that desperate for affection and companionship. I didn't tell my then-husband what I did (it wouldn't have accomplished anything and he didn't need that hurt), but I did finally ask him for a divorce. I regret it more than anything else I've ever done.
Motown, especially in the later years was SO bad about romanticizing cheating. People treat Stevie Wonder like he was a Saint. Part-time Lovers? There are plenty of Rock and Country songs, too, so I don't mean to make this about "black music," but Rock and Country always seemed to at least have a balance between cheating, getting cheated on and regret. So much soul/R&B makes unfaithfulness seem like a cause onto itself: Me & Mrs. Jones ... I Don't Wanna Be Right ... If That's Your Boyfriend ... Saving All My Love For You ... She doesn't have to know ... It Wasn't Me ... O.P.P. ... Down Low ... Unfaithful ... Creep (by TLC) ... Secret Lovers ... YUCK!
Yes, like Destiny's Child's song, "Jumpin' Jumpin'" says "Ladies leave your men at home... Fellas leave your girl with her friends" The older i get, the more lyrics like these bother me because they are making it seem cool or hot to cheat on your SO.
Nothing wrong with a girl's/boy's night out. But since we're in the genre, Dilema, by Nelly and Kelly. They tried to make a cutsie song about cheating? What the actual F was that about?
Load More Replies...Tell your spouse/SO the truth and break up instead of cheating. Break ups hurt but being cheated on is painful for years.
Carinis_song said:
Have big expensive weddings.
What a waste of money, time, and the stress! Don’t forget about the stress.
F all that noise.
OurEvanlyFather said:
We had a big a*s expensive reception and a very short, sweet and to the f*****g point ceremony. I thought it was dumb but it was important to my father in law and he was the one footing the majority of the bill, hosting, and paying for the wedding planner (the latter being key). He’s also the kind of person who will spend extravagantly on flashy status items, but won’t offer to help with student loans, medical bills, down payments, etc. Is it how I would have done it if I had to write the check? Hell no. Was it the goddamn best party any of the 250 guest had ever been to? Hell yes.
Total waste of money. From what I've experienced the couple always says they didn't get time to hang out with their friends. Keep it small, private and enjoy it!
But, but, but....the dress of my dreeeeams is half off at only $5000! This is my special day and if I wanna spend money I don't really have on one piece of clothing that I'm NEVER gonna wear again...you should call me an idiot. 🤣
Load More Replies..."Life is hard enough as it is. You know what we should do? Start the next chapter of our lives together with a huge amount of debt!" Yeah,ost people don't think very far into their future.
If it's your special day, you should be able to break the bank as much as you want(as long as you can afford it) if a couple wants a small backyard ceremony with only close friends and family, that is totally ok! But if you want A big, fancy wedding, you should!! ( but seriously, only go crazy if you have the money for it)
My husband felt this same way until we had a big-a*s expensive wedding (courtesy of my wonderful parents). For months after the wedding he would say, “Now I understand why people do that.” We had the best time, all our guests had the best time, and we still have amazing memories five years later.
My sisters were married in my parent's back yard. A cheap, small wedding. Then each one took what they saved and used that to help with the house down payment. Smart girls.
barefootgodzilla said:
Spelunking underground caves.
mockity replied:
Going anywhere that requires you to breath in so your rib cage will fit and hope that you’ll have room to breathe/get free/see sunlight again in the other side. No thank you.
Caryria replied:
I watched a BBC series with Rufus Sewell where he gets swept into an underground cave system and the only way out is through a tight gap that he has to get on his belly to wriggle through. He starts squeezing through and gets stuck and has a full on panic attack. I was literally on the verge of having one with him.
Southafricafootfaery replied:
Nope nope, just your comment almost gave me one!
Times like this I'm glad I'm chubby so this isn't a hobby for me lol
Lol me sat here eating crisps thinking nope I can't get my bum in there
Load More Replies...Caving is the ultimate nope for me. It even beats out skydiving, and I'm petrified of heights.
Read a story a few years ago about a young guy that climbed into a tight space in a cave head first. He got wedged in upside down and every breath made him slip down further until his ribs got caught on some jagged rocks. Nothing anyone did could help him so his family were brought in and stayed with him until he died roughly 2 days later. He most likely died of some sort of stroke or heart attack because of all the blood rushing to his head, they could never recover his body and had to seal off the entire cave system with him still in there. Truly horrific..
That is horrific! I really wish I hadn't just read it. I'm going to have nightmares tonight!
Load More Replies...In this day and age I figure take drones with you and use them to explore the squeezes before you'd even go in. At least that way you'd know if you can turn around or if it dead ends.
You know, Luray and Carlsbad are great to visit. That’s about it for me and caves, though.
brickbaterang said:
Climb mountains that literally use dead bodies as landmarks.
VisibleConfusion12 replied:
“Can’t wait to be the next landmark on Mount Everest!”
foxsimile replied:
"Feeling cute with my new green boots! Might climb Everest idk."
Can I wear my green boots? Maybe take off my parka if I feel warm?
Load More Replies...Yeah, Everest. Let's tour this frozen shithole! Ever see pics of the summit? Yeesh. And like stated, the frozen dead bodies of those who came before, like green boots.
Remember the saying, "Every dead body on Mount Everest was once a highly motivated person. So maybe calm down a bit."
10% of those who climb Everest die. And you can't remove them because of the exertion involved in dragging a body.
Sometimes you hear in the news that another has died on this or that mountain, and then I think that he must have felt it was worth it and so I don't feel sorry for him.
At the same time, there are many people, including completely untrained ones, who've climbed Everest successfully.
I really don't understand why they still let people climb it, when so much can go wrong. Or at least have entrance requirements, like be certified from other climbs or something.
Because money. And because it's something people decide for themselves. It's called freedom. And yes, true freedom means that you should be allowed to risk your life as long as it doesn't endanger others. Which is definitely the case when people decide to go to Nepal and climb Mount Everest. All consensual adults, all definitely able to make their own decisions. And no reason to prevent them from the consequences. Plus, Nepal and Tibet are very poor countries who desperately need the money they get for the climbing permits. That's why they won't limit them.
Load More Replies...Book author Mark Manson explains that there are essentially 3 key reasons why people tend to do dumb things: [1] people's emotions derail their decision-making, [2] people's perception of time (avoiding future-proofing) details their decision-making, and [3] how people perceive is often derailed by status.
"I think it’s definitely several things that can add up," added OP. "Back in school it was all about status and proving yourself just to fit in. Some people never grow out of it because they keep hanging out with the same type of toxic people and perpetuating the cycle."
"Then there’s people like my roommate who was just never told these things by his parents and doesn’t know any better so he learned many things through getting into trouble. It’s maturing and understanding what the right thing is and why it matters that actually solves the problem in a lot of cases."
"Way back when a couple of my friends kept saying I should confront my roommate about the stupid things he does and talk to him about it. I mean, it worked to a point until I personally got tired and stopped but I don’t think it would have worked if he wasn’t willing to understand and do something about it."
I_Like_Cheetahs said:
Free solo climbing is incredibly stupid. I don't care how long you've been climbing, climbing without ropes is incredibly stupid.
nwhtnh replied:
So many renowned free soloists have died from a fall. I'm all for doing what you love, but watching documentaries about these other-worldly free climbers and then hearing about their deaths is just sad
I was reading up on this and Alex Honnold had a scan and showed no activity in his brain amygdala region (Thus, no fear response?) Here's the link - really interesting. https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/what-neuroimaging-can-tell-us-about-our-unconscious-biases/#:~:text=In%20a%20functional%20magnetic%20resonance,others%20wouldn't%20dare%20attempt.
I used to climb ... but, not like this. BTW, recently watched a movie (aptly called) "Fall" ... even as an ex-climber it scared the "yahoo" outta me. Give it a watch.
Oh my god yes I’m a rock climber (I don’t free solo) and the number of people who say “oh have you seen free solo I can’t believe people do that” when I tell them I climb like 90% of the climbing community thinks free soloing is dumb
Load More Replies...I think the risk is part of the appeal to those climbers. The fact that there's a real risk to die makes the climb feel like an accomplishment if they survive. It's part of the adventure. It's just like people who are not mountaineering are constantly calling mountaineers on Mount Everest bad people, because they can't and won't help others when they can't descend. But those are usually not used to the high altitudes and just don't understand that this is the risk those people knew about and not just accepted but embraced when deciding to ascend those mountains which have a death zone. They do not expect rescue and the risk is part of the attraction.
I firmly believe that there are people who lack fear. I've seen people do things in perfect calm that any rational human being would at least be extremely nervous about.
I had to watch a documentary for a class in high school. I decided to watch free solo. I only got through half of it before I turned it off and wrote my paper on it
As stupid as it is, I get it. Acknowledging that any wrong move will likely result in death gives you a hyper focus and feeling of connection between your mind and body that is hard to explain. The feeling is insanely good, and I can see how it can be addictive. I have been whitewater kayaking for many years and have been in several must-make situations. I'm happy with very calculated risks now that I'm older, thankfully.
TheUnstableSteak said:
Getting an eyeball tattoo.
Do whatever the hell you want, just don't come to me crying, because you lost your eyesight. Nah, I don't feel sorry for you, that was your own damn fault!
Qwerty-331 replied:
I’m going to add, doing extreme body modification and then complaining about how:
- You can’t eat or speak properly (I saw the latter from someone who had his lips cut off).
- Nobody wants to be around you.
- Your kids hate you/your family is embarrassed by you.
- You can’t get a job.
- You’re not welcome in public places.
- You’re flat-out banned from privately-owned spaces such as restaurants.
I mean, COME ON. Cry me a river. Express yourself freely, fine, but be prepared to live with ALL the consequences.
Took me a second to parse that first sentence. "OK, it's kind of a weird choice, but do a lot of people get tattoos of eyeballs? OHHHHH, they mean ON their eyeball, gotcha."
As long as they're not bigoted or gang-affiliated or otherwise offensive, I don't understand refusing to hire people with tattoos.
If anything, having tattoos should make you more employable, it shows you can sit for hours while someone jabs you repeatedly with a needle, which is honestly more pleasant than any corporate meeting I've attended.
Load More Replies...Some look OK but some go way to far I've seen quite a few story's of people cutting off there ears,nose,lips etc to look like aliens or lizards
I don't mind tats and standard piercings. But gauges start to bother me. Not so bad in the ear if they're not huge, but the people who gauge their mouth or nose... oh no way. And the more extreme stuff like cutting off the ears or nose... I mean, I have to question their mental health. I'm sure people will defend them saying it's perfectly sane, but really?
Load More Replies...Really? Is that a thing? Cutting your lips off? I'm genuinely curious. I've never heard of it.
Guy who wanted to beome a black alien did this, among other things. I had to google it. I don't think it's a common body mod, but still, dayum.
Load More Replies..."Boo hoo hoo, I can't get an office job because of my throat tattoos." Decisions have consequences. Obvious ones. You are not the exception to this.
Depends what the tattoo is. Being rejected simply for HAVING neck tattoos is an antiquated notion
Load More Replies...At first I thought this was about a tattoo of an eyeball. I was very confused by the losing your sight bit.
For the last 4 or 5 months about 6 or 7 different times my work supervisors/leadership have talked to me about taking a supervisor role.
My wage is the same as the wage of the supervisor role they want me to take. Inconceivable.
EDIT: Since this is getting quite a few comments, I will address some of the questions that appear the most.
I work in IT (specifically IT networking and am currently a NOC tech for those that care for details).
My current job is as a contractor for a U.S. Federal agency (it's not the one you are thinking of...no not that one either, stop guessing). On top of that, I'm a sub-contractor, so I get paid more than my co-workers (I don't why it's like that).
Wages are capped based on the contract with the government, and while these companies do not tell the employees what the cap is (because they can, and do, pay below the cap and keep the difference), we can sometimes figure out where the cap is. I know I'm currently at my wage cap which also happens to be the same (slightly less) than the cap of the supervisor role.
Why not take the role for my resume and get a better job in a year? I did 10 years in the military and was a supervisor for some of that time. I was miserable. Can I be a good supervisor, sure. Do I like being a supervisor, no. Also, in IT, a person can focus on being a technician and continue up that path in a career and never move into management (my current plan) and make a decent living.
It's not just that. If you're a supervisor, you're responsible for the work of others. You should be paid commensurate to your job responsibilities.
Load More Replies...The problems with moving into management don't always come from below. It's the increased exposure to upper management, who will s**t all over you. S**t rolls downhill. I had no idea what my poor managers put up with from their bosses until I became one.
There are a lot of people who don't want to be the boss. It's particularly hard if you are promoted above your peers. Just ask any Army sergeant.
It's the CIA. Otherwise, you would specify. I was born in Washington DC, and my father grew up there. The phrase "I work for the government" is famous for being what CIA agents will say when asked where they work. Nowadays, it could also be the DIA, which most Americans haven't even heard of.
Department of aggyculture? Department of edumacation?
Tell them sure I'll take the supervisor role, DOUBLE my salary, also I ain't working more than 40 hrs week.
Visit a country in active conflict or an area with high crime where people go missing because you want to "see history as it's happening"
Edit #1: I posted in a later comment but I'm not referring to reporters or photographers. The people I'm referring to were minimum wage workers who wanted to see the violence that they saw on the news in person so they drove several states over. They wanted to be part of history in the making.
Edit #2: For those who think I'm lying because minimum wage couldn't give you 2 weeks off from work to travel this is not a story from last week, this was many years ago. Back then you could buy your own house on minimum wage if you lived with your parents rent free and saved up every penny for less than a year. The world was a different place, most people don't have this luxury anymore.
Edit #3: It wasn't a relaxing beach they visited. This was a place where there was bulletproof glass in fast food restaurants so the workers wouldn't be shot.
My male coworker and his Boyfriend once went on holiday in a muslim country, where being gay was still forbidden. I never understood why they picked that country of all the possibilities.
The thrill? I'm just guessing. I'd never willingly go someplace like that.
Load More Replies...In any emergency area, you may end up needing help. Don't make it harder for people who have it very hard.
I don't think of it as, "oh, Honduras is the murder capital of the world, I wanna go!" No, I thought of it as a chance to experience new people, new jungles, new culture, and learn that I'm allergic to the bites of a no-see-'em fly. I appreciate life enough that I'm willing to enjoy it to the fullest, learn as much as I can, and not spend my whole life being afraid.
Sure, but be smart about it. You woulnd't go to an active war zone to experience life. Some places you should just stay away from, or do some very careful planning on how to navigate it along with accepting the risk of things going bad regardless.
Load More Replies...Unless you really need to do smth wholesome, like save somebody's life if it is precious for you, or affect things, so things which are should be known, be known...
I had to ask a friend recently, one I'm pretty sure is gay as a goose but keeping it hidden for his mother's sake, why on earth he's going to Florida of ALL places for a vacation (we live in Toronto, Canada). His reaction when I mentioned the idiot in charge down there was a little scary. He just sluffed it off and laughed. If I prayed, I'd be praying for him!
Floridian here. It’s not just normal scary, it’s throw-an-alligator-through-a-Wendy’s-drive-thru-window scary. That happened. Look it up.
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Fun-Teaching-2038 said:
Get a BBL.
slavetomypassions92 replied:
Brazilian butt lift. I’ve read some absolute horror stories about the recovery and botched procedures. Any plastic surgery operation can be botched obviously but BBLs are known to be especially dangerous.
BrightFireFly replied:
Especially because eventually the big booties are going to go the way of the big boobs of the 90’s..people should not alter their bodies just to fit the current trend.
The_Crystal_Thestral replied:
I have only seen one that was done well. They tend to look like diaper butts.
Was with a woman who had butt implants which I wasn't aware of until the middle of "the act". Generally I'm not hung up over things like this, but apparently my body doesn't feel the same way. Feeling the edges of the implant and the sudden realisation of what I was feeling caused the wee general to sound a retreat.
"The wee general" is my go to euphemism from now on.
Load More Replies...I saw one stat that the risk of death from this procedure is 1 in 3,000. Seems like bad odds to me.
The highest mortality rate of any plastic surgery. The risks are insane.
Load More Replies...I think it's fine as long as you travel to Mexico to have it done. That's where all the experts live. All down the same alley too.
I always wanted one. Luckily, I never got one. More than 100 symptoms have been associated with breast implant illness, including headaches, fatigue, and gastrointestinal problems.
I don't really get the hype about having a GINORMOUS butt (as an extremely flat girl I think it looks kind of strange, but then again people probably think I look strange)
One more than one occasion in the US, we've had stories of women going to someone's DIY surgery basement* to get injections of Fix-A-Flat** in their bottoms. *Yes, a literal basement. **Yes, literally the automotive tire repair product. Before you ask, yes, they did end up dying from it.
Did something happen to boobs from the '90s that I hadn't heard about? Do they mean the implant recalls?
Not that I'm aware of, but google Chesty Love, that'll send you down the rabbit hole of ladies who went too big on implants
Load More Replies...Manson suggests several tactics on how people can make better decisions:
- writing ideas out helps people look at them more objectively. You begin questioning yourself why you thought that way and what your assumptions for thinking were;
- since bad decisions are often emotional ones, tackling anxiety is a good way of dealing with it altogether. This means doing that which is not automatic or comfortable for us;
- identify and work on your weaknesses. Even knowing is half the battle, so whenever you're making a decision, keep in mind how your weaknesses might affect it in the long run; and
- in turn, create an environment that would tackle those weak spots, compensating for whatever damage they might cause. Don't want to get tempted with junk food? Don't have it at home. Can't meet deadlines? Promise folks you'll do it and now you're gonna have to worry about disappointment on top of it all.
Sensitive_Anywhere54 said:
Partaking in the Running of the Bulls and Bullfighting, cruel to the bulls and dangerous as f**k to the humans partaking in it, those 2 activities are about as high risk/low reward as it gets.
RudelPudel replied:
And the bull NEVER wins. If it dont fight: get stabbed If it does:get killed during If it wins: get stabbed after.
BEEENG replied:
It's not common but some bulls do win. In that case they are cured and taken back to the farm where they will live the rest of their lives chilling and making offspring. [There's a Wikipedia article about it too].
Big note that I dislike the bull fights a lot. Also the meat from the bulls is sold and eaten so I guess at least it isn't completely wasted.
The atrocities they do to the bulls are horrifying. Chillies in the eyes and a**s to make the bull constantly irritated due to the agony, vaseline smeared over the eyes to blur vision, etc etc etc. Heart breaking that it continues.
It's disgusting. It might be tradition but it's cruel and it should be outlawed.
rodeo is just as evil. They electronically shock the bulls balls to p**s it off.
I personally think toreadores are scum. Saw a picture where the bull had pierced one of his horns under the man's chin and up through into his mouth. Made me smile.
It’s also dangerous for the people, Once I went to a bull jumping thing (while I lived in texas) and one of the clowns had been chased by the bull when the clown jumped over the fence he thought he was safe but someone had left the gate open so the bull ran back in and pinned the guy’s leg it shattered and they had to stop the show to call an ambulance,
Running with the bulls is an out of this world experience. I know. Later I found out that the first three or four bulls in the "Run" are old hands at the run, they have done this time and time again, their job is to flush out anybody who should not be there and has slipped through the filters when the police remove anybody who is drunk or under drugs or too young or looks like they will be trampled. After that follow the arena bulls and seriously you do not want to be standing in front of a urinated off fighting bull. Then the last four our five bulls are again old hands at the game. All in all if you take the arena out of the equation then the bull run is something you can tell the grandkids.
IzzyIsOnReddit said:
Smoking.
Graceland1979 replied:
Health hazards aside ( I know “aside”, right?!?). You’re literally burning money. I saved thousands of dollars a year when I quit. And back then a pack was three fold cheaper than it is today. So dumb.
daniboyi replied:
Gotta give smokers one praise.
They are 100 % honest that what they are doing is s**t and they know it. They are not about to tell you that it is a good thing and that they wish they never started. AT least every smoker I know freely admits that.
Drug-users on the other hand, they won't admit s**t. They go on about 'not having a problem', but one can clearly see when they haven't gotten their addiction-fix within the last day or so.
I've never been a smoker, but I do like them much better than Vapors. For me, it seems like they are trying to be the "cool kids".
I successfully use a nicotine vape to quit smoking cigarettes. It's been a year this month, and it's the best thing I ever did for myself. My body and belongings do not smell like an ashtray. I can breathe. I've regained about 1.5 octaves at the top of my vocal range. My lung function has improved incredibly and I've reduced my risk of additional heart attacks by 50%. After one year. I'll never go back.
Load More Replies...I just checked, and a pack of cigerettes in my area runs around $9-$10. Even one pack a day would be $3,285 a year.
Yes, but generic cigarettes are a lot cheaper and just as good. Mine are around $4.00 a pack.
Load More Replies...Naah, the vast majority of smokers are perfectly happy to remain so. Some may _say_ they wish they never started or that they could stop (but can't), but that's not quite the same thing. (I speak as a low-volume smoker of several decades.) I also drink, ride motorcycles far too fast and engage in several potentially hazardous sports. Life's too short to not do the things you enjoy.
Your first statement isn't true. In 2017, the CDC reported that 67% of smokers wanted to quit. As of 2015, 3 out of 5 smokers had quit. I smoked for 40 years and quit a year ago this month. Best thing I ever did for myself.
Load More Replies...I would have no problem if they banned cigarette smoking, but weed is legal here in Canada too, so they would have to ban smoking weed as well. As far as I’m concerned, don’t open Pandora’s box.
I smoked regular cigarettes for over 20 years, then switched to vaping. I only use a tobacco flavor juice, and the smallest unit possible because I do feel a bit pretentious using it. But I don't want to quit, I like it. And my doc says that while vaping isn't healthy, it is a LOT healthier than american cigarettes. Plus I can do it indoors, which means no standing out in the rain to poison myself...
Yeah, unfortunately I am a long time smoker. I just really enjoy it. But I do smoke way less than I used to. I used to smoke in my house. I haven't done that in a decade. It makes a big difference. And I live on the east coast of central Florida (USA). It gets hot as hell here! That will get me back to AC fast!
I did math on drugs ,smoking and drinking and results were to exspensive for my broke butt
There's always someone to 'look down on' isn't there? Non-smokers look down on smokers.vapers, smokers look down on alcoholics and they look down on drug users. Drug users look down on those using heroin. You are no better or no worse because of your addiction type. Those addicts who are scummy were like that before their addiction, it simply makes people desperate enough to be unable to hide it anymore..
I'm sorry, are you calling addicts scummy? Cos that's very rude! (To keep it clean)
Load More Replies...I did enough to my lungs working on the ramp for the airlines, sucking down those jet exhaust. (Koff, gasp, wheeze)
Wear uncomfortable shoes because they look good, only to take them off later and walk around barefoot while holding the uncomfortable shoes.
Or when people complain about those types of people rather than appreciate the opportunity to giggle at someone's poor, harmless, choice in ridiculous footwear.
I cannot giggle at them because I know how bad shoes hurt the feet and the back of those wearing them. I had a colleague (just turned 30) who constantly complained that her back hurt, but when I tried to tell her, that the 12 cm heals that she wore all day at work might have something to do with the pain she cut me off.
Load More Replies...You can damage you’re toes and ankles wearing high heels, also lots of women had to take off their shoes when fleeing the world trad center because they were wearing heels and couldn’t walk well with them on
This is dumb. You dress for the occasion. OF COURSE you don't wear uncomfortable shoes when you walk your dog or go hiking or work in the garden or whatever. But go to a dinner or a party for a reasonable amount of hours where you can both stand, walk around and sit is not painful if you weer good stilettos. There is a BIG difference in quality and comfort. High heels are not just high heels. When I was in my 20's I could wear four inch stilettos for 14 hours while walking a lot with no problem at all. I could actually even run and climb fences in them. Now when I'm in my 40's I'm a bit more sensitive, so I wear them for occasions, going to dinner or events or parties and it's fine. If they're truly painful and uncomfortable for you from the start, then don't wear them. But for many of us they are fine - and we feel great because they fit our aesthetic and style and make our feet and legs look amazing while they elevate and complete our entire look.
And you're literally not doing what the poster said. They said wear them and take them off and carry them around, not wear them the whole night. The worse example are the girls who do this but expect their boyfriend to carry the shoes for them.
Load More Replies...Yep, went to an event wearing heels, left with the heels stuffed into my purse and my boyfriend carrying me. Super fun.🚫👠
Well, I guess if you're carrying them more people see them...I think it's idiotic anyway.
Letting your cat roam around all day, killing birds, s******g in other people's gardens and then crying a river when the cat gets run over by a car or killed by a predator. Keep your moggie inside, m'kay?
And get them spayed or neutered, FFS! Also, take them to the vet for their shots and checkups too. If you can’t afford all that, you should wait until you can before adopting a pet. Any idea how many cute little kittens are put to sleep in kill shelters, along with the older cats? Too goddamned many, that’s how many. If you get them fixed, they won’t make any surplus kittens to be in those shelters in the first f*****g place!
How dare people let their cats have the freedom they desire. Let's lock them all up and complain when they naturally don't have the same sleep schedule and massive amounts of energy from being permanently trapped
I complain about the zoomies because it's kinda funny and the cats frankly do act like a******s. I love them no less. Dingleputz (not his real name) kicks the stairs deliberately for food because he's learned the zoomies wake me up. Kicks them so hard he ends up flying down them if he's not already on the bottom. Serves me right for laughing at him struggle to round the corners with no carpeting.
Load More Replies...I disagree. I had a cat who we loved very much that got hit by a car. We tried many times to keep him inside but he would just escape or be miserable. Sometimes it just isn't an option to keep them in. edit: We couldn't keep him in because he would climb through some vents to get out
I loathe people that don't keep their cats safe. My back neighbor's cats keep getting killed in front of my house. I've tied many notes to their collars to let the owners know the cats are crossing a certain very busy street. Her response was to drop off jam and a thank you note.
1. You shouldn't keep cats indoors ... it's cruel. Basically it's like a cage. A cat is a roaming animal. It's as bad as keeping a human in a single house and never letting them go to the shop or a park or even the garden. It's not a good thing at all. 2. Spaying/neutering does not stop them fighting or eating birds, it DOES stop them marking territory, but only if they have not got into the habit yet. 3. Run over, you just need a decent wall to keep them in your property. They will climb it, but at least it gives them a hint. Particularly if there's no tree next to the wall. If there is a tree, they'll get out. 4. You eat chickens all the time so stop with the bleeding about birds. It's hypocritical. At least a cat kills birds out of instinct. You have tons of choices. You do not have to eat birds. Cats are programmed to do so. 5. My observation after having cats for 50+ years is that they kill pigeons and doves, which are slow birds. I've never seen a cat with a mynah, an eagle, etc
Of course cats don't kill large bird, so your comments are stupid. They do kill small ones, like sparrows, blackbirds, blue tits etc. The ones that are already under population pressure from humans. Chickens are bred by humans in vast numbers, to be eaten by humans. Wild birds are not - so your comparison does not hold up.
Load More Replies...My cat's an outdoor cat, but he can't get to the road as our back garden is totally fenced - though he does manage to get into other gardens - but they don't have access to the road through their back gardens either. A lot of cats will try everything to get outside if you try to keep them as indoor cats, then they get lost and can't find their way home.
LOL no it's not nature. Tell me where domestic cars are native Animals???
Load More Replies...Um… no. I like my cats, so I wouldn’t do something so cruel to them. Their territory is what a cat IS, and keeping them prisoners to make sure they don’t die while living their life is a very odd and very, very selfish choice. When they die, they die - sadness but no rivers cried, it’s the way of the world. So no, that’s a big fat no from me.
My cat just sleeps in my bedroom the whole day and then sleeps on top of my face at night
My neighbour kept letting their cats out and they would pee on my lawn. Then my dog would roll in said pee and need a bath that he hated.
MrGoatReal said:
"The customer is always right."
Just a straight up f*****g lie.
CSWorldChamp replied:
“…in matters of taste.” The full quote is “the customer is always right in matters of taste.”
Kauske replied:
It should be 'make the customer feel right while giving them the same consideration as every other customer.' It's 100% perception, don't bend over backwards, just make them think they made you do so and the pushy ones will be satisfied.
“The customer is always right in matters of taste” simply means if someone is hellbent on buying the ugliest s**t in the store, you let them think they’re making a great choice, because they’re going to spend their money buying it in your store. It has nothing to do with negotiating a lower price in a fixed price store. It’s all before the purchase, not after. It has absolutely nothing to do with placating a loud, obnoxious, nasty, threatening, violent, a*****e who just wants something for nothing and has decided to be the squeaky wheel that some managers will give the grease. Well, squeaky wheels can also fall off and roll away, which is what managers should do with such a******s. Roll them away, empty-handed.
Exactly. Or, if they want ketchup on their filet mignon, you give them ketchup for their filet mignon. As long as they pay, the customer is always right and can have what they want.
Load More Replies...Not the case everywhere. Japan will literally tell you you don't know what you're talking about, else why did you need my help to find it?
Management in the US created a monster with that policy. I blame the current abuse of customer service employees partly on that.
The customer is the one with money in their pocket. No need to argue about who's right.
While all of the submissions felt like (anti-)winners here, Active-Sorbet shared their absolute no-no that they wish more people would stop doing:
"Someone in this list talked about drunk driving. I think I would extend that to improper driving (drunk, reckless, raging, etc.). It’s just dumb when someone rushes past you twice your speed and then the two of you meet at the next red light. Overtaking someone can be dangerous for everyone involved and the amount of gas they waste every time just adds up to an insane amount. Drive safely!"
Keep scrolling, as there's more where that came from, and why not share some of your takes on the dumbest decisions people make in their lives in the comment section below!
JonPepem said:
Probably quite unpopular, but getting black out drunk. If you drink and go beyond being tipsy, what are you doing? You are literally poisoning yourself without letting your body recover. Not only that you are increasing your chance in being in a life threatening situation. Like whats the point? Sure have a drink, get a bit tipsy. But why are you getting drunk? Whats the point?
comemerrydol replied:
I believe people just miscalculate. Like, they aim to be in that tipsy state that makes some social situations more relaxed/agreeable, but even that already clouds judgement a bit and makes easier to cross the line and get real drunk.
Enpyxo replied:
Nah Bro. Here in Germany it’s s culture to get black out drunk, the less you remember from the last eve, the better.
krukson replied:
That was basically every party when I was in college. But the sad part is that it's been 12 years since I graduated, and yet some of my friends still meet every Friday to drink till they pass out. And they have families and all.
I have been truly drunk once in my life. I only did it to see what it was like, and I hated it. Not just because of the hangover, but because it dulled my senses, my awareness, and my self-control. I hate not being in control of myself, my words, and my actions. I hate not being 100% aware of my surroundings. I hate not having my senses dulled and my reaction times slowed. Never did that again. I know my limits, and if you think I’m a lightweight, so be it. If you think that’s a bad thing, you can go f**k yourself right into the drunk tank, loser.
I love your comments. Please keep being you! (Also, haven't touched booze for 2 years & was a very light drinker for several years before that; partly for those same reasons.)
Load More Replies...My problem was that after a few beers I always thought it would be a great idea to do shots. It was *never* a good idea lol
Hard before beer, friend! Although that's not much better. TBH I'm not sure it's ever a good idea to do shots. Do yourself a favor: sip and savor. (I just made that s**t up on the spot! I'm a goddamn national treasure.)
Load More Replies...It's not always a (conscious or active) choice. I can choose to have that first drink, but that first makes it far more likely that I will "choose" a second, and so on. Some people say drinking none is easier than drinking one.
There is a saying that first the man takes a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes the man
Load More Replies...Wow. I feel so naïve. I always thought people accidently got black out drunk.
I can't comment on others now, but when I was young and stupid my friends and I would drink a lot because it was almost competitive. It wasn't that we were trying to get blackout drunk, it was more "I can drink as much as you".
Strange how this is celebrated and yet you can kill yourself doing it but meantime another habit bad for health (that takes decades to affect you) is banned in the places people go to damage their health with booze and drive home risking theirs and others lives to potentially take out their anger on those at home. Yeh, booze is great - not..
I made the mistake of being blackout drunk one time about three years ago. I'm missing a few hours of that night. I regret it.
Couldn't do it if I tried anymore. Reflux does me in long before drunkenness can
I used to get pretty damn drunk (shots) when I was younger. But then you grow the f**k up and realize that being out of control and hungover sucks! I still drink, just not as much and no shots!
Sleep around. I used to be impressed by my guy friends who had been with a ton of girls. I had been with a healthy number for a single young man but I knew guys who seemed like they always had someone new and my dumb young man brain was impressed by this. Looking back I now realize that having repeat customers was actually more impressive than their line of one and dones. IME developing a reciprocal, increasingly synchronized sexual dynamic is actually much healthier and more fun than stringing beads of one night stands on your conquerer’s belt. Oh and less of a literal public health concern.
Long ago, I saw a movie/TV show/something, made back in the “swinging sixties”, where there were neighbors in a Manhattan apartment building. One was a stereotypical family man with kids and an office job, while the other was a stereotypical single airline pilot who always had a different beautiful woman on his arm. Funny enough, turns out that while the married guy always envied the single guy for his revolving door of girlfriends, the single guy was always incredibly envious of the married guy for the long term love, stability, and children he had. Of course, that was just a story, and I do know (from past experience, unfortunately) there are plenty of people out there who spend their lives perfectly content with hookups but nothing long term. However, as most of us mature, the temporary loses its appeal, and we want something more, something deeper and more permanent, a solid foundation that we can build our lives on. So we find the ONE person to commit to, settle down with, and build that life together.
I did my sleeping around (purely for my low self esteem) from about 17 to 19, and then got with my fiance at 20. I am 37 now and we're still together and soulmates.
Load More Replies...For a long time I believed I was missing out on fun casual sex by being in relationships all the time, but over the years I learned that I'd much rather build up a bond with a guy. I need to get to know someone before I can sleep with them. Hookups are awkward and I'd be left feeling insecure.
I don't sleep around but I also don't judge people who, as autonomous beings, for doing what they want with their body, assuming they're not hurting anyone else. It's not for me so I don't do it but you do you.
Have sex. Don't have sex. Why are you bragging one way or another? Sex is great. and mostly private.
It wouldn't be a problem if those guys were fun loving free love spirits and hippies who just enjoy sex. But sadly most of those guys are dorty liars and deeply misogynistic, sprouting their alpha male BS and permeating double standards for men and women, s**t shaming their partners on one hand while pestering and funnily also slutshaming those who don't agree to have sex with them. Sex is a healthy and funny activity if done safely between two consenting adults. But that's not what those guys do.
hipopper said: Get face tattoos. yeahgnarbro replied: Unless it's the traditional Maori moko. EliseTheBees replied: There’s a woman I keep seeing who’s got tattoos of my name on her face and many other places on her body (obviously for someone else) and it’s just so weird to me.
Outside of cultural tattoos or covering up of scars/blemishes, I just almost never see face tattoos that look good. I will say that some of the really small, delicate ones I've seen on some girls' faces are cute and pretty, but they're the exception rather than the rule.
Why is it suddenly cool if it's a moko? And are other traditional face tattoos, such as Inuit, not appropriate?
My area has a few Native American tribes and women with traditional face tattoos. It's seen as quite common place now.
eXgam3 said:
Buying NFTs
mixmaster7 replied:
“Sorry, I was busy right-clicking on that Beeple video and downloading the same file the person paid millions of dollars for.”
Emu1981 replied:
What makes NFTs worse is the fact that you are not even buying the item in question but rather you are just buying a blockchain link to said item. At least with crypto like Bitcoins you are buying something with perceived value (the particular blockchain link that represents the coin).
For what it is worth, I still sometimes kick myself for not buying some Bitcoins back in the early days when they were worth basically nothing just for the "lulz" at the time.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you didn't run out and buy a NFT after looking it up
Load More Replies...If the world suddenly loses power, your Bitcoin will be worthless. You won’t be able to buy any food or medicine with inaccessible Bitcoin. But you can with something valuable you can hold in your hand. Tangibles are much better than intangibles. Buy some gold and/or silver and stash it away for potential hard times.
" At least with crypto like Bitcoins you are buying something with perceived* value (the particular blockchain link that represents the coin)." *emphasis on perceived.
Theme parks. I don’t want to spend an hour waiting in line standing next to people, hearing their c***py opinions and stories. Just to have a minute and a half of thrill. I have more fun walking on my own.
Let's see. We're paying for the privilege of going inside to spend more money on overpriced junk, play rigged games, and eat overpriced, crappy food. Hard pass.
Went to a theme park last year, the fast pass was the only thing that made it worth it. The whole visit was a gift from my mother for us and the grandkids so my a*s felt hella guilty walking by people (I'm ok now, I've healed)
I went to knotsberry farm last year and waited an hour to go on a 2 minute ride that I didn’t even enjoy
Went to Disneyland once, for about three hours. Easily spent 45 minutes waiting for a simple carousel. At least I didn't have to pay!
Jenny Nicholson will disagree. Lol (Her channel on YouTube is awesome btw).
ecsa0014 said:
For the average person, vote against their own best interests.
aceshighsays replied:
The hate for others supersedes their own interests. we do not make logical decisions...
bad_apiarist replied:
That's not the only example, nor is it limited to the political right. For example, for decades liberals over-regulated and NIMBY'd nuclear power into either de facto or overt banishment in years when there was no real alternative .. which meant more oil, coal, and gas... air pollution, global warming, disasters and accidents killing hundreds or thousands a year, etc.,
Liberals sometimes champion environmental measures that increase pollution, like some paper recycling programs that sound good but actually produce more toxic waste, consumes more water, lead to more carbon emissions etc.,
Then there's ideological purity tests that create discord, fragment the base, and let the conservatives win... ultimately sabotaging political goals.
I would love to be able to vote for someone who supports all my issues ... but it's not going to happen. Unfortunately, you have to choose the issue that is most important to you and vote accordingly. Politics is not a la carte.
Aka don't make the 'perfect' the enemy of the good.
Load More Replies...It ended up being a failure so.....like....maybe they figured that out ahead of time ? Just sayin'.
Load More Replies...Our own best interests are for US to decide not you asshat. But go ahead keep thinking your way is the only way, a certain Adolf used to do that.
Nah - nobody votes "against their interests." Their interests (or priorities) just don't align with yours. I'm pretty liberal, but this "voting against their interests" thing only seems to bother other liberals.
Go out clubbing. You spend hundreds of pounds on a night out, usually at a point in your life where you can’t afford it. You get crammed into a dirty, sticky room full of drunk people who may be on drugs as well. Music plays so loud that it becomes borderline impossible to communicate with anyone so the social element is gone and you don’t even get to pick the songs that are deafening you. To cap it all off you have to spend money on pre-drinking too because without it the overpriced alcohol the club sells is so watered down you’d need to consume an obscene amount just to get a basic buzz going. Then to cap the c**p-tacular experience off you usually need to pay for a taxi home who will charge you a premium specifically designed to take advantage of drunk clubbers. A s****y experience where you’re taken advantage of again and again and get nothing in return. It’s just sad. Call me weird but when I was in my teens and twenties I put that money into hobbies and moving out into a place with my partner. I feel like I had a far better experience than the friends and classmates who went the clubbing route and still live with mum and dad and spend all their time bitching on social media about their lack of money.
I wouldn't do it now, and I didn't go to the club every weekend, but I had fun when I did it.
I had a lot of fun clubbing with my friends. Dancing all night! I actually miss it a lot. Meeting people... talking (well outside where the cool kids are)
I was always the designated driver in my "young and stupid" years. I had an absolute blast remembering all the stupid s**t my drunk friends did, and then tormenting them about it later.
Did the clubbing from 18 to 22. Gave it up. Had more money, and was a lot happier. Same with wild parties at people’s houses. The kind of parties I started going to were at the homes of married friends, and usually had a variety of people of all ages, babies to great grandparents. Maybe beer or wine, but I never was much of a drinker, so I usually drank soda. No real dancing, but oh the conversations! Real conversations, not pick up lines and b******t. Stories about old times, the old neighborhood, events, news, philosophy, art, music, you name it. I always went home from those parties feeling so happy. I always went home from clubs and wild parties just wanting a shower, because people smoked like freight trains inside in those days, and I (a non-smoker) always ended up with a thumping headache and smelling like the bottom of a dirty ashtray, which would keep me from being able to sleep.
Broad-Flight6400 said:
Ride their bicycle on a busy highway with no bike lane.
icrushallevil replied:
A bicycle on a highway??? Is that a thing?
Shockingly_Weird
I live southeast Saskatewan. The only places there are bike lanes are in big cities like Regina or Saskatoon(in fact I’ve only ever seen bike lanes in those two cities).
People on bikes usually ride on the side of the road or on the sidewalk. It’s not uncommon to see people on the side of the highway riding their bike when you’re going to the next city/town over.
dpatt711 replied:
Well in the US technically any public way is a highway. If we narrow it down to US or State routes, those are still very common for bicycles (many are regular two lane roads with no access control).
Confusion over the terminology, particularly for non-USians. In Europe we have motorways (autobahn, autostrada, autoroute, etc.) where bicycles, pedestrians and a whole host of unsuitable vehicle types are excluded; some specific non-motorway roads may also have similar restrictions, but will always be signed as such. Any other road, cycle lane or not, is open to any sort of traffic, including bicycles; even if there is a dedicated cycle path nearby a cyclist is still perfectly entitled to use the road, although occasional 'entitled' car drivers sometimes seem to believe otherwise.
We don't have pavement that is designated solely for the use of an engine powered machine in the US because our roads/highways, for the most part, have a shoulder (added space on each side of the road) and often two lanes for each direction of traffic so there's often space for everyone to share. People in the US that bítch about this just don't like that they have to slow down to be considerate of those around them, "Your safety and well being is infringing on my right to be a self absorbed àsshole!"
Load More Replies...In my country bikes aren't allowed on motorways but they ARE allowed on 'A' roads that have the exact same speed limits etc - really dangerous. But I feel the biggest problem is people refusing to use cycle lanes and weaving through heavy traffic that often can't see them. NB it's never 'the kids' it's always the professional looking types wearing lycra..
People who think they are smart, but are incredibly ignorant and hard to work with but they pursue leading roles.
So at my job there is a guy that joined 8 months ago and is still not integrating as they should. They have 20 years of prior experience in similar field but are totally ignorant mostly.
Communication with them is hard since their English is broken and half of the talk is arguing since they want to be smart in every meeting.
Leading people are not seeing this as problem, he is considered as Senior expert and possibly be given a leading role. I told my superior I am going to leave if that happens.
I used to want to go to burning man till I found out that there are no showers and no food vendors allowed.
To survive you basically need to camp and/or bring your own RV with all the amenities you need. And figuring out how to drive your rented RV through the narrow mountain roads to get to the camp site does NOT sound appealing to me.
It also costs several thousand dollars so yeah, I think anybody who goes to burning man is kinda stupid.
It’s on my bucket list. I just want to see it myself. I’ll get there, in my own RV. Hell, a camper would suit me just fine, as long as it’s air conditioned/heated (campgrounds should have hookups for electricity and water), has a stove and fridge, and a shower inside it. My Laurent’s had one like that back in the early seventies, and a VW camper van with a stove, fridge, and the extendable roof (which you could sleep in) after that. No shower though, so something like that would be a hard no for me. And it will just be me. Hubby has no interest in Burning Man. I may be the oldest person there, but I do want to check it off the list, and move on to the other stuff.
There are no campgrounds/accomodations/hookups at burning man, just miles & miles of flat, windy, usually desserted desert.
Load More Replies...Some tik tok challenges like ‘the Kiki challenge’ and ‘blackout challenge’ lots of people have died doing the blackout challenge
I'm going to regret asking this but... What's the blackout challenge? What happened?
Load More Replies...Some tik tok challenges like ‘the Kiki challenge’ and ‘blackout challenge’ lots of people have died doing the blackout challenge
I'm going to regret asking this but... What's the blackout challenge? What happened?
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