Hey Pandas, What Is Something You Have Always Wanted To Ask The Opposite Gender? (Closed)

Never? I need more context PLEASE

If there's a normal toilet AND some a*****e hasn't peed on the seat AND it is not a public toilet (e.g. a friend's house, family member house, etc) I always sit to pee. It makes less mess. However, if it's a public toilet, the risk of contacting a pee puddle or a poop smear or some other grossness doesn't make it worthwhile. ALSO, probably TMI, but the thing on the front often touches the porcelain which grosses me out.

Easy. Business acquaintance that you want to get money out of : handshake. Business acquaintance that you barely know and don't give a rats about, nod. Buddy/friend : two hand handshake, high five, or hug. Also, the hug must have two pats to indicate how long it lasts. More than two pats is gay. <- humour

Alphas are normally the most "beta" people you will ever meet. Best to ignore them.

Honestly, the periods. I don't think I could handle a portion of that pain, and here we have girls and women who put up the s**t of daily life while dealing with that.

As a guy, I do not care if gay guys change in the same room as me.

This is the issue with the trans lobby. Gay people were never allowed, or invited, to switch locker rooms when it became legal. The decision was, and should be IMHO, based on biology and not psychology. Whilst I sympathise with those affected, I feel very strongly that one should accommodate the majority. Maybe there should be more "non-binary" areas, but I don't believe it's right to make him comfortable at the expense of making the females uncomfortable.

What kind of administration allows this? I mean, he may not be attracted to the girls, but they may be attracted to him, and that puts him in danger too. Plus, the girls deserve not to be put in that situation to begin with. What about their comfort? Not to mention the slippery slope of other people being creeps and trying to exploit the situation. That whole thing is absurd all around.

Should be fine, he's not attracted to you, so he won't harass you.

As a man, no i don't care if there's a gay guy changing in the men's locker room. It's the men's locker room. But this raises the point that so many people are happy to ignore while pandering to the smallest minority of the population, the fact that YOU are uncomfortable, does not give you the right to make anyone else uncomfortable. If the only solution anyone can come up with is to trade the comfort of one for the discomfort of someone else, or likely the discomfort of many then you haven't found a appropriate solution. You've just created new problems.

I would feel weird with a gay child in the locker room but only because the idea of naked children being around naked men is creepy. him being gay has no bearing. But him being a minor does.

Administration should have a firm handle on this.

As long as he's not making a big deal out of it and/or keeping me completely ignorant of it, I think the gay guy should stay in the men's locker room. If he is making himself a flagrant spectacle and sexually harassing his male peers...then he should be escorted off the premises or restricted to a single bathroom environment. In no case should the girls/women have to welcome him to their environment.

Unless I’m actively seeking a sexual relationship with someone, it doesn’t enter my head. Not my business and I’m puzzled why some people are so keen to tell me when it’s entirely irrelevant to our interaction. It’s not like I go to the grocer’s shop and say “Morning! 2 lb of oranges please and I’m heterosexual” 🙂

To be nice to EVERYONE nd you will find yourself with friends and don't worry about popularity. Just find a few friends you have things in common with and you will enjoy high school

Well, if you're not familiar with the male form, then you're not going to want to contemplate our changing of clothes or showering. In my experience, the towel fights and such you see on TV are as much a myth that girls' sleepovers always include pillow fights.

Makeup done right, yes. Overdone makeup, NO no NO. I don't want your make up to rub off on me when we hug. But a girl without makeup in the morning... ooofh dead gorgeous 😘

Bc I'm scared to go alone idk why it's just how it is. Nice to have someone to talk to but it could also be cuz I'm an introvert. And Ginny Weasley almost died in the bathroom so yk....

Bras have two or three "settings" in their hooks, this is useful for fat days, for when the bra starts to get old and stretched, and also means that the manufacturer doesn't have to make bras with back sizes one centimetre difference, they can make one size that can accommodate three centimetres difference. If you had multiple hooks at the front, it wouldn't work. It's not difficult to do them up at the back, and many people do them up at the front at waist level then turn them round to the back and raise them to chesties height, then wriggle arms into the straps

I think beards are similar to how women style their hair.

It's not about gender - it's about people and who they are. Some I like, some I can't stand, and that goes for males, females, gender, trans, whatever - one just clicks with some and not others. Partly it's to do with common interest - and in the UK, sport's a pretty common ground. Depending on age and situation, discussing girls too...

This person does not speak for my set of chromosones.

Yep. Can't explain why. Probably a nerve thing. Who knows?

I gave my husband the choice of Cupcake or Porkchop as a nickname. He chose Porkchop. Lol! Of course I was kidding though, we're not the cutesy nickname kind of people.

That girls/women are catty with each other, or on the opposite end, that there's a "sisterhood". There are bad and good women. It's not an all or nothing situation.

it can be cool but most of us dont care, we 100% make fun of oversized lashes though

Annoying, mostly. Squishy bags of flesh that get in the way of stuff.

Most of the time, it's us girls that want to see it coz we think it's funny.

What's wrong with a long shower? Also not only men do it I do it as well and it is SO relaxing. Sometimes you just need to let the inner kid out and make potions while pretending you are a water-bender

I like matching sets, but it can get expensive and it's hard to manage the laundry logistics of things.

Not all women are comfortable expressing their emotions because they've been taught to act like "little ladies" all their life and to remain "pleasant" in society. The ones who do just don't give a damn. They're past caring what others think.

My best guess? They think it looks good. Women dress for themselves and the people they want to impress, not random people. It's not their responsibility to cover up, it's yours to not stare.