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One day, you tune into social media and notice a trend that is seemingly everywhere. You enjoy it for a couple of days, and then you observe that trend "going out of style" and there's nothing you can do. No matter how much you love it, it's done.

The only thing left for you in such a situation is to reminisce about it by enjoying the old content, without getting anything new. So, today let's take a look at what kind of trends like that disappeared that people would love to get back. And maybe we can manifest some of them back into the spotlight.

More info: Reddit

#1

Young man with headphones and glasses focused on laptop, exploring why a good trend slowly disappeared online. Forums and message boards with geeks and passionate experts solving every issue known to man for free and with a thorougness and competence that any company or group could only dream of today.

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Array Index Out of Bounds
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My programming language (AppGameKit Studio) has a great forum without any trolls or haters!

Papa
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are a few centered on the software I use at work that are also very good.

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Austzn
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still find useful forums like this to this day.

JohnGalt
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Visited a Linux forum lately? While there are some RTM tools on there, most people are very helpful and can fix darn near anything.

Nova Rook
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I ran a series of forums in the late 90s to about 2010. Amazing communities and people. Facebook pulled away a lot of traffic.

Panda Cat
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loathe Facebook, especially for that kind of thing.

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Ursula S.
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sincere questions, how does one find forums and message boards nowadays? Is Reddit considered a forum? I loved the “old” days when it was easy to find people with similar interests.

Glix Drap
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, but there is always one àreshole who makes disparaging comments about new people asking sensible basic questions.

Papa
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my experience new people disparaging or ignoring the advice they get from knowledgeable people is much more prevalent.

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Panda Cat
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Listserv. We really got to know each other. I hosted a few and visited many and not just in the US.

Tim Douglass
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not that they aren't out there, but that the Internet community is so much larger that the signal to noise ratio has pretty much reached the point of uselessness. It takes a lot of hunting around to find a good forum, and then you generally have to hang out in it for a considerable time before you can get any attention to your problems. Social media also had the effect of wiping out a lot of text-based forums and the love of the WWW had already pretty much destroyed usenet.

Earonn -
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved my American and even the German Tolkien forum (die Grüne Hölle, for those who remember [adds Elrond "I was there" meme])

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    Hands with red nail polish typing on a laptop keyboard outdoors, illustrating a good trend slowly disappeared in technology use. Punctuation! Paragraphs, and full words written out!

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    Uncle Panda
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kinda funny that's not a sentence.

    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm wondering if they're trying to be ironic.

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    Austzn
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    tot sus what you think chat 🤣

    #3

    Holiday greeting cards displayed on a rack with festive decorations highlighting a good trend slowly disappeared over time. Imma gonna probably get downvoted to hell on this one, but I really miss getting tons of Christmas cards in the mail and hanging them up for the season. 


    It was such a nice little thing wishing you well and it felt good to celebrate relations that way.

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    Caroline Gavelfält
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love cards, but even more I miss Letters! It was so much more personal and thought through to receive a letter in the post from a far away friend then whatsapp or messenger that are just rushed these days

    Daya Meyer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, handwitten letters! Decorated with stickers and drawings and small gifts... How I loved coming home from school and enjoying these! Reading the text several times, feeling the paper between my fingers, admiring beautiful stamps! Oh yes, I miss real letters.

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    Bianca
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love christmas cards. Each year I write up to 15 cards for friends and family. Oftentimes they are handmade (diamond painting, cross stitching or with papercraft). They all love to receive them, but sadly I receive in the best of cases 1 or 2. And often they tell me, how sad it is, that no one writes cards anymore. Emails are simply not as great as real cards.

    Earonn -
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to write 20 or more Christmas cards each year. And then, one year, I checked in who wrote back, or just even sent a message. And stopped sending them cards. Now I get 6 or 7, but at least I'm not nice to people who don't give a s**t.

    Lost Panda
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We still have New Year's Cards in Japan, but either I don't know enough people or a lot of people are stopping that as well...

    Hugo
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember when the postage was affordable? And the cards, too.

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pm me your address and will send you one from Spain

    Little Bit
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love sending and receiving cards and letters. I would love to have a pen pal but I wouldn't know how to go about getting one

    Lady Eowyn
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I almost downvoted this for the "imma," but I always enjoyed getting lots of holiday cards.

    DrBronxx
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like getting them, but I absolutely loathe writing them. We stopped sending them this past Christmas. We weren't receiving many anyway.

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    We are sure we don’t have to explain to you what a trend is – if you opened this article, it’s likely that you are online enough to know what it is. 

    Back in the day, whole decades were possible to be described by certain dominating trends. For example, the 1980s can be defined by big hairstyles, shoulder pads, leg warmers, and all things like that. You probably already have an image in mind. And that's just the fashion.

    #4

    Hand holding smartphone displaying popular social network apps, illustrating a good trend slowly disappeared in social media use. ‘Social media has made people too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it’ - Mike Tyson.

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    Pedantic Panda
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was always comfortable with disrespecting people and punching them in the face/biting their ear/rãping them.

    Enlee Jones
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're a convicted r@pist who deserves more than a punch in the face, Mike.

    G A
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Served his time. Unlike Trump.

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    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't condone the violence, but I do agree that people are too comfortable disrespecting others. HOWEVER, it's not like that never happened before social media, and I still see people being outrageously rude in public.

    Kenneth Smith
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get what he's saying though. I don't condone the violent implications, but what he's saying, that people have come to understand that disrespect carries no consequences, is a valid point. Our society rewards assholery and accountability is step one in fixing it. Violence, just to be clear, is not.

    Bill Swallow
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Rule #1: If you don't want to be treated like a jerk - Don't act like a jerk."

    PunchinelloTX
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not taking advice from a violent criminal, thanks.

    K Ma
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The man has no personal insight. At. All.

    Scott Rackley
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not social media, it's anonymity

    Felicia Baxter
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    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's fine to have social media, it's fine to like social media, it's not fine to make it your entire life and personality

    Nova Rook
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BP think a violent quote from a rapist is cool.

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    #5

    A woman speaking to a masked waiter while food is being served, showing a scene of good trend slowly disappeared. Manners was a good trend - I would like to see them return.

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    Olive Moon
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While growing up, I was taught to offer my seat to anyone elderly, pregnant, or clearly uncomfortable standing. e.g. Waiting for a table at restaurants, buses, subways, trains, etc. No one seems to do this anymore. I find this really distressing—and a very sad symptom of our 21st century society.

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    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not so much using manners, it's knowing HOW to use them. Don't just say excuse me while shoving your way past someone. Don't say excuse me, and expect that person to instantly move out of the way. You say "Excuse me, please" as a way to alert someone you are waiting to get by, and you be patient and allow that person to do what they need to do to give you safe clearance to go past. It actually doesn't normally take that long. When someone does something kind for you, you say thank you, and they should say "You're welcome." This hatred for "you're welcome" is illogical and overly thought. It just means acknowledging the thank you. It's not that deep. You're welcome to help. You're welcome anytime. You're welcome to be thanked. I hope that provides better clarity.

    DrBronxx
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this is just something that people complain about, and have done since the beginning of time. I think a lack of good manners has always been around to a certain extent, (in the same way that good manners have also been around to an extent) but we just start to notice it more as we get older. Maybe it's age or experience, or maybe our circles are widening, allowing for more of what we're not used to. Whatever the reason, I don't think the situation is actually as bleak as all that.

    Fire Singer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I think it's just that we can see bad behavior so much easier now. There's youtube and tiktok and facebook and all those videos get shared around like crazy of the "Karen's going crazy" so it seems like poor manners is way more rampant than it actually is. In my opinion at least.

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    #6

    Close-up of two people holding hands, symbolizing a good trend slowly disappeared in relationships and connections. Racists being embarrassed to air their venom.

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    Beak Hookage
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This and other nasty behaviour markedly went up in 2016 and again this year. F*****g enablers.

    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you sure they were ever silent? I recall racist jokes were thrown around a lot in school.

    Wild Cream
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember a lot of pretty racist jokes from my childhood too. What I don’t remember is the level of hate we’re seeing today. They were “just joking” back in the day. Now they’re fully serious. They say the same racist things that would have been racist jokes a few decades ago, but now they’re saying them with a completely straight face.

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    Strings
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This, I disagree with. I would prefer we allowed it more: let the idiots self-identify right up front. Banning racial slurs hasn't made the hate go away: it's just better hidden

    XenoMurph
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But now that they are no longer ashamed, it's out in the open. People are getting racist abuse much more openly. More more aggressively. That's not a good thing. Better when they were hiding in their basements, where they should be.

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    HighNMightyBigshotBossOfWorld
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s always been there, it’s just being recorded and going viral now. And on top of that a lot is f racists not thinking they are actually racist, because it doesn’t sound as vile as the so called “real” racists. There are for the most art two types of white people, the non-cross burning racists and the cross-burning ones. The first group thinks they are better than the second group, they fight with each other about whose worst, while ignoring Native and Black people telling them both groups are a problem. When only 4% of Black people benefited from DEI we just have one group of racists thinking they are better than another group of racists, while simultaneously doing nothing about systemic racism.

    Ian Webling
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6Kbs7yM0xE

    O. Puntia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    where did you go to school??

    Then, the 2010s reek of street style, subcultures, inclusivity, and consumerism in fashion. Like you can get a pretty firm image in mind when asked about the decade's trends. 

    Yet, when it comes to the 2020s, this task becomes a tad more difficult – there are so many trends everywhere that it’s hard to pin down which ones are the most influential. Granted, the decade is far from over, and maybe in the next couple of years this question will be solved, but as it is right now, it’s a plethora of microtrends. 

    #7

    Two women watching TV with concerned expressions, reflecting a good trend slowly disappeared in entertainment choices. I'd love for them to bring back TV shows that were 20 episodes in one season, take the summer off. And start a new season right away in the fall.

    Those were the days.

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    Caroline Gavelfält
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not 6 episodes and you have to wait a year and half for the next season.

    DrBronxx
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind waiting that long, as long as it's good. It's just like waiting for a movie, but the movie is several hours long, with more depth of characters and better developed storylines. I think Stranger Things is a great example of this - amazing show with wonderful production value. One or two missteps, sure, but over all great experience. Can't wait for the final season.

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    Tabitha
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or they end the season of an actual GOOD show on a cliffhanger, then leave us hanging by cancelling the show so there’s NO next season at all to complete the story arc. The other end of the spectrum are the shows that jumped the shark a couple seasons ago, and never seem to end, even though they’re virtually unwatchable. They cancel the quality stuff but keep cranking out the s**t stuff.

    Daniel Atkins
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hated that this happened to My Name is Earl.

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    Michael Largey
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There used to be 39 episodes in a season and the summer taken off. Those were the days.

    Juls
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    20? Bring back 32 episodes a season!

    Zaach
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The very funny British panel show 'QI' has about 16 episodes each year - each year they cover a letter of the alphabet; I think they are on V now

    Earonn -
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yes, guys, check out QI, you find some of it on YouTube (mere clips, but my!)

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    Luke Branwen
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And WEEKLY RELEASES. This whole "binge release" trend ruined TV shows.

    Rachel Reynolds
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like filler episodes with character development. Let them go to the beach or badly plan a surprise party or solve a weird mystery.

    DrBronxx
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, I like shorter seasons with higher production value and tighter storytelling. I can't stand filler episodes.

    Huddo's sister
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favourite series was 40-42 episodes a season!

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    #8

    Two women enjoying a movie in a theater, smiling and clapping while a good trend slowly disappeared in the background. Staying quiet while watching movies.

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    Caroline Gavelfält
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and not seeing the lights from someones phone

    Beak Hookage
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one time I called someone out for being on their phone during a movie, she actually got INDIGNANT and even said "how dare you". I'm still pissed off about it.

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    O. Puntia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a child, I had the impression that I would be offered free d***s by strangers far more frequently than the “zero” times that it actually happened!

    Kzincat
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why my husband and I haven’t gone to the movies in years.

    Bianca
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or standing up when the credits are still rolling.

    #9

    Two translucent wired game controllers side by side, representing a good trend slowly disappeared in gaming technology. When companies weren't afraid to make electronics FUN.

    Everything was translucent and came in, like, seven different colors. Atomic Purple Game Boys, kiwi green iMacs, the see-through landline phones...

    Now my options for a $1,000 phone are black, slightly-less-black, and sad beige.

    I miss when our tech had personality.

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    Bill Swallow
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And CARS that came in colors other than black, white, gray, Gray, GRAY, gRay, grAy, or graY.

    Wild Cream
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately those are the colours people buy 😅 Black/Grey/White followed by red and blue all sell FAR better than fun pretty colours.

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    Boris Long-Johnson
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not sure that’s fair on the colour scale - my mother just bought an electric pink iPhone.

    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least there's phone covers. But I do miss the transparent electronics.

    Juls
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world is turning beige. Gray scale, muted, earth tones, but not the fun ones. Blasé. Been looking for a nice bright purple, quality bath towel for my husband. Been looking for years.

    Huddo's sister
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen numerous fun electronics recently (mostly from Asian shops) because kids bring them in to school. Last week I saw a watch that had a cover over the face, which looked like a cat, and it had flashing lights.

    Igor914624
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can include cars in this too. They used to be really colorful, with Yellow, Green, Purple and Orange. Now all you can find it Black, white, and silver.

    Lady Eowyn
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Consumer Cellular now offers a Barbie flip phone - pepto-bismol pink.

    DrBronxx
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    N64 controllers - my favourite all-time controllers. I remember being excited to use them, loving using them, and now I look back on them fondly.

    me like greek stuff
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nintendo begs to differ *pulls out pokemon controller*

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    Why’s that, you might wonder? What’s so different about the current decade that it seemingly cannot hold down any trends for a longer time? Well, it has to do with the fact that the lifespan of trends decreased significantly.

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    There are a few trends from time to time that take months to completely fade out, but others, more commonly, last only about 3-5 days, especially if they’re most popular on fast-paced platforms like TikTok. 

    #10

    Elderly man in a suit speaking at a podium during a conference about a good trend slowly disappeared. Politics aside, after Obama was elected there was a nationwide trend to improve your public speaking and articulation skills and people made a concerted effort to appear more educated.

    We’ve now backslid into anti-intellectualism and poorly articulated thought processes again.

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    Array Index Out of Bounds
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social media has people abbreviating every other word. Lazy-speak, I call it. Sure, this was necessary back when texts were limited to 127 characters, but come on. Many these days can't spell or use correct grammar. Not to mention punctuation.

    Serena Myers
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't let us grammar freaks get started on they're/there/their/loose/lose/of instead of have etc! And as for "And I was totally, like, basically, like, and he was like, totally, like" 😝

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    DrBronxx
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just finished watching The West Wing, and it reminded me why people get passionate about politics. Then I went back to watching actual politics, and I was reminded that The West Wing is more of a fantasy than The Lord of the Rings.

    Nikki Sevven
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anti-intellectualism stems from poor self-esteem. Some people think that putting others down elevates them. They are wrong.

    Cee Cee
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Listening to the so-called leader of the free world struggle to put a simple sentence together is seriously worrying.

    Nova Rook
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The American President is not called the leader of the free world and Americans who want to use that term should f**k off.

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    Austzn
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also around that era in politics the Republican party suffered a coup and became the party of these anti-intellectual types this speaks of. I knew it was a bad sign when "primary" became a verb and the justification was the entire "right-wing" party of the US wasn't hard enough to the right, and that brings us to 2025. 😒

    Peeka_Mimi
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have noticed that MAGATs not only lack critical reading skills, but are by and large functionally illiterate. What's worse is to paraphrase Asimov, we've devolved into a society that thinks, 'my ignorance is as good as your knowledge.' I had some man try to "educate" me that my sunscreen caused my skin cancer. It's the opposite. I wish that was the stupidest thing I've ever heard, but that was just a stupid thing I heard today.

    Michael Largey
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Public speaking isn't the problem in the US. It's public listening.

    AnnaB
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you think our current president won?

    Jeff Hunt
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obama was the first president to stay strictly on teleprompter. When his successors went off prompter, they quickly sounded like the idiots they are (were). I think future politicians will stay on prompter so as to avoid displaying their incompetence.

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    #11

    Two women hugging in a group setting, showing support as a good trend slowly disappeared among friends. Empathy being considered a positive. So many people now just can’t understand another’s suffering, don’t want to, and hate you for asking them to.

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    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not only understanding, but calling people "too sensitive" or telling people to "mind your own business", or even "Calm down" when showing any kind of empathy and willingness to help someone. Just something I've noticed. It's like people get really angry or upset that someone acknowledges another person's need for help.

    Juls
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many virtues being labeled negatively in the US these days. Being educated, being empathetic, being kind, believing in science or facts, being against fascism... Basically, unless you are a walking bag of di*ks, you are labeled "woke" and "soft."

    jonesnori
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think lack of empathy was pretty common back in the day, too, especially if you were being asked to empathize with someone at all different from you.

    Ravenkbh
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    I just appear empathetic so i can hug girls

    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ewwwwww. I hope you don't mean minors.

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    #12

    Children playing on a playground with climbing frames and swings, enjoying a good trend before it slowly disappeared. Kids being able to safely play outside and instead of calling the police, neighbors would keep an eye on everyone. My brother and I grew up outside and rode our bikes around the neighborhood. Neighbors would always ask us if we needed anything and told us to be careful. Once a neighbor was outside washing his car and pointed out an unfamiliar truck that had driven around the block a few times. He walked us home. Another neighbor was an older lady who brought us bottles of water when she saw us out and we chased down her dog for her a few times.

    Now, everyone freaks out when they see unsupervised children even if they’re doing nothing wrong.

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    Tabitha
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m 64. When I was what they now call a “free range” child back in the day, if I did something I wasn’t supposed to do, like cross that one busy street I wasn’t told not to cross, my parents knew about it before I even got home, because one of the extended neighbors saw me cross it and immediately called my house to let my parents know. On the other hand, once when I was walking home from school, a guy in a small white car pulls over near me, opens the passenger side door and says, “Hurry up! There’s an emergency at your house!” I said I didn’t know him and I’m not coming with him. He keeps driving next to me as I try to speed up and get away, and as I passed a neighbor’s house, the lady who lived there—-who knew my parents and I-—came rushing out her front door with her German Shepherd on a leash, yelling at the man to stop bothering little girls. He sped off with his passenger side door still open, and the lady ushered me to her kitchen and gave me milk and cookies. Then she and the dog walked me home because she wanted to be sure he didn’t come back, told my parents what happened and how I was doing all the right things, but the guy was being persistent about trying to get me in his car. The neighborhood grapevine went out with a description of the car and the guy, telling parents to be on the lookout and be sure their kids don’t fall for his lie. I never saw him around where I lived ever again. That’s how neighbors used to look out for us kids. No calling the police on our parents, just making sure we could play and walk or ride our bikes around the neighborhood with no one bothering us or threatening us. Like stand-in parents when our real parents aren’t there or aren’t available.

    Kzincat
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brothers and I were also free range. I grew up across the street from a park. The street was relatively busy, so I wasn’t allowed to cross myself. One time my mom didn’t hear me calling that I was ready to come home, so our neighbor came across to walk me. And, we had the “come home when the street lights come on” rule.

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    Daya Meyer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in a small village. One pub, No church, no shops, 450 inhabitants. We were leaving the house at any (day)time, looking for some friends and the only rule we knew was: Come back when the street lights are switched on. If we did something bad, everybody knew the next day.

    jonesnori
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This changed partly because news of rare bad events are more widespread, but I think also because, at least in suburbs, fewer people are at home and able to look out for others' children.

    Sue User
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ues, i just read a story about a guy on his honeymoon. At the beach, fast storm come in, lighting strike. Getting dtruck by lighting - rare. At the beach on your honeymoon ? But now we all know about it.

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    Earonn -
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IMHO, kids are way safer outside than people think - and way less safe inside their family than people WANT to think. Sometimes I think people focus on the "stranger danger" as a mechanism to avoid thinking, let alone doing, something about the abuse within families.

    Like 15 years ago or so, when a viral thing would happen on the internet, it was likely that the authors would end up on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, a checkmark that would only increase their popularity to the point that they might be discussed for years to come. Now, when things of a similar kind happen online, people talk about it for a couple of days and then forget about it. 

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    One of the reasons behind these short-lived trends is that current media offers so much content that it’s natural for some of it to drown and not even reach its peak as others do. If it manages to go viral, pretty soon something new and more exciting will take away people’s attention, because with such a broad choice of content, there’s no way that something else won’t come up. 

    #13

    Customer support team wearing headsets, engaged in calls as a good trend slowly disappeared in office environment. A company answering their phone.

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    Caroline Gavelfält
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes! actually get to speak to a person instead of going through 45 different options and then to be told go to our website, goodbye......or even worse the chat bot help line....

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously. My husband was trying to get help and finally said something to the effect of "I want to speak to a f*cking person now!" And he was connected. He's always trying to deal with these stupid phone messages but never one with a person on the other end, and sitting on hold for literally hours trying to connect to one, and he got frustrated. I told him to do it, too!

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    Daniel Atkins
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when the phone system just hangs up on you. Not send it to voice mail just well that didn't work goodbye.

    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My local Hydro company ( the only one around here) absolutely has no phone agents. You have to email a "Call Before You Dig" request and wait, wait, wait for a reply. I don't even think you can pay your bill down at the headquarters anymore.

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A doctor’s office answering their phone. I just had a bad experience a couple of days ago. If I didn’t have to be stuck at work all the time, I’d just go there in person every time I have a question.

    Little Bit
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No matter what time of the day you call, my doctor's surgery can keep you on hold for anything up to an hour before cutting you off. Ever now and then a recorded voice suggests that you "phone at a less busy time". So when exactly is this "less busy time"?

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    Not-a-Clue (she/her)
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But they are experiencing an unprecedented number of calls! /s

    Marco G. TerradiSiena
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ABSOLUTELY. Now only bot and "Artificial Idiocy"

    Little Bit
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't you just hate it when you've been on hold for ages and a recorded voice tells you that "your call is very important to us". Well if my call is that important to you, ANSWER THE DAMNED PHONE!

    Little Bit
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find the bigger the company, the worse they are. I work for a small family business and I actually get into trouble if I don't answer before the second ring. Many of the bigger companies with hundreds of employees take forever to answer the phone and that's if they answer at all. And don't get me started on utility companies and banks. The customer is last on the list of priorities there.

    Olive Moon
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember, back in the dark ages, when windows came out, you could call their support and get a real person fairly quickly. And their support team were really amazing!

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh lordy, this! I love Consumer Cellular, it's so easy to talk to a human.

    Sue User
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MTD ( mae lawnmowers ) and Waterboss. Loyal cutomer because they take the time.

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    #14

    Young girl reading a book by the window, reflecting a calm moment as a good trend slowly disappeared from daily life. Kids getting hooked on reading, like when Harry potter became famous.

    boredproggy , freepik Report

    Daya Meyer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got hooked on many books long before Harry Potter. The library next town was a great place.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Books were a big thing in my family. I started reading young and still read a lot.

    Earonn -
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kids were hooked on reading. You should have been there in Germany, when the Neverending Story was released! There's surely many reason why they stopped (and none of it is the kids' fault - they don't choose not to get into books). I just wish we had such a craze again in general. An honest craze for adults and children alike, like 1977's Star Wars. :)

    Nova Rook
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister watched that all the time and I have the song forever jammed into my brain as a result.

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    Apatheist Account2
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One didn't judge a book by its author.

    Huddo's sister
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This still happens. Currently I have students hooked on Percy Jackson, Harry Potter and other books. Young adult and children's books are still big business, that's why so many B-list celebrities 'write' them. Mind you, not all of those I deride. Ahn Doh is fantastic for example.

    Nova Rook
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived next to a kids bookstore during the Harry Potter book years and there would be a big line of parents and kids all dressed up waiting to get in to buy the books at midnight. That was a wonderful trend. Having said that, read the first book myself and wasn't a fan.

    Olive Moon
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a learned behaviour. Ditch the screens for young children, and read to them. You have somewhere to go with little ones that are going to grow impatient? Bring books.

    Little Bit
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kids were brought up exactly the same. I read to them daily, taught them to read and have always encouraged reading. My eldest daughter is just like me. We always have our nose in a book. My youngest daughter says that reading doesn't interest her (not that she's bad at it - she's consistently top of the class for reading). We all enjoy different things.

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    #15

    US presidents debating issues instead of having the equivalent of a rambling diss track with each other.

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    Nichole Harris
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At this point I just want presidential debates to be cage matches! 🤣 That would be AWESOME 🤣

    Bill Swallow
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give them each a bat'leth. Or a Lirpa. I have the soundtrack.

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    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought the Canadian election debates have been pretty decent. Maybe one out of the 4 party leaders would misbehave, but that makes it a clear contrast of who not to vote for.

    Of course, the current average attention span is shorter than it's ever been (only 8 seconds!). That suggests that people simply cannot focus on one thing to keep it relevant for a longer time; they crave something new more and more often. 

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    This leads to a “landfill” of dead trends. The worst part about it – some of them were actually pretty good, worthy of more attention than they were given. That’s what we’re delving into with today’s list – dead trends people online would like to see back.

    So, check it out, upvote if you agree with the provided takes, and suggest your options in the comments!

    #16

    Young woman walking outdoors on a sunny day, wearing a long coat and jeans, with a good trend slowly disappeared vibe. Leaving the house and not being reachable. A good "hey I’m going out, talk to you when I'm back." No Life360, read receipts, and constant texting. Just pure freedom and vibes...

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    Apatheist Account2
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until one gets lost, has a breakdown, thinks one is being followed, falls over...I don't follow social media on my phone, but it's very handy to have these days. One doesn't have to respond to the communications of others.

    g90814
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. My phone is there if I need it, but I don't have my face in it hours per day. I sit in front of a computer all day instead.

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    Nikki Sevven
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. Turn off social media notifications. 2. Set boundaries for people who think you should be available 24/7. 3. Make use of the "do not disturb" function of your cellphone, excepting anyone who needs to contact you in an emergency.

    Chilli
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a woman I do not want to be unreachable when I'm alone in public especially when it's getting dark

    Peeka_Mimi
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have had to tell people that I am resting now please stop texting me. That's insane.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a landline. I'm out, you can't get me.

    Brian Garcia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty classic...growing up always made sure I had a couple extra dimes for a call from what where plentiful pay phones. And back then you never had to ask where someone was...I know you're home 'cause that's the number I called!

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    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like that today I can customize the rings for each contact so I know who's calling. That way if I don't want to talk to my mom I can just not answer. I know caller ID was a thing, but when I had a landline that was an extra cost feature.

    Brian Garcia
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good buddy of mine had his wife set to the song "Too Late To Apologize"...don't think it was by accident!

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    Lee
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't follow any social media other than occasionally checking messages on family chats etc. unable to unplug completely as on call 24/7, 365

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The off-button is right there...

    Faelwolf
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just turn off the phone!

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    #17

    Two girls wearing safety goggles, observing a chemical reaction with curiosity, showcasing a good trend slowly disappeared in science learning. Citizen love of and interest in science.

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    Mel in Georgia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just trust in our public institutions in general. Some mistrust may be warranted, but when you automatically jump to "experts can't be trusted," society really breaks down.

    Tabitha
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thing is, they jump from “experts can’t be trusted” right to taking the utter (and often dangerous) horseshit that an uneducated and unqualified celebrity, talk show host, blogger, influencer, Fox News propagandists, any brain dead sycophantic republican, and that f*****g idiot in the White House pulls out of their a*s as the absolute true gospel.

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    Earonn -
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Science managed to fight of the anti-intellectualism especially in the USA, but now it seems, the dumbfucks won. OTOH, there are so many great books being written about science these days, my , I wish we had as much choice when I was young. So clearly there's a market for them.

    #18

    Hand passing house key over a small model home, symbolizing a good trend slowly disappeared in real estate transactions. Housing affordability.

    Intrepid-Artist-595 , freepik Report

    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know there's been a lot of videos and posts of people breaking down the comparisons of owning a home in the 20th century and owning a home in the 21st century. However, they use one example, of one region and usually still includes a 2 person income. What may have been affordable in one area, may not have been affordable in different area. The era matters, too. It's too easy to say "People were just buying homes in a single, meager income, working in retail or something low-skilled." No, people were struggling back then, too, but we didn't hear about it so much and so publicly, as there was no social media to hear about others struggling.

    Hellcaste's Wife
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They also didn't have credit scores that determined every single thing in their lives. Because of COVID, or credit took a hit. We can't buy a house that would have a $1200 mortgage, so we pay $2200 a month in rent. It's ridiculous.

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    #19

    A couple sitting on a couch watching TV together, enjoying a good trend that slowly disappeared over time. 7am and 6pm news and nothing more.

    Edit: I know there was other times slots but you get it.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could get my local channels on Roku. I know I can set up an antenna, but the weather around here would make the reception be s**t. I’m in a rural area near a small farm town, and the nearest TV stations are 35 miles away in the only slightly larger small town that’s the county seat. I would love to watch the news at 6pm and know what the hell is going on in my area, but we cut the cord years ago, and our local stations evidently don’t have the money or viewership or whatever it takes to be live streamed.

    Brian Garcia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So we cut the cord and have C*X (San Diego area) just for Internet. We got YouTube TV and for us at least it includes local programming (e.g., local news, PBS, etc.). And I get it, thought about going antenna for local, but we're in a bit of a valley so minimal direct signal.

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    O. Puntia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wake up every morning to see the status of Trump ... one day I will be happy ...

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I miss the ease of watching local news.

    Orion Red
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    then an hour of m.a.s.h reruns, the same fifty or so episodes over and over, with bank commercials that had cd rates.

    Little Bit
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think in the past the news was more matter of fact and people paid more attention. These days they go on about the same subject, day in, day out to the point where people just stop taking notice. Not only that but the standard of journalism has gone rapidly downhill and we have to contend with fake news.

    Ace
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh? Is somebody forcing you to watch news channels 24/7 ?

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    #20

    Close-up of a car's rear light turned on on a city street, illustrating the good trend slowly disappeared in traffic safety. Turn signals when changing lanes.

    95jw85so84bs , bilanol Report

    Jumping Jellyfishes
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can get pulled over and cited for not signaling a lane change in many states in the US.

    Papa
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is that not true for all states in the US?

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    Caroline Gavelfält
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or even just to look before you actually move, no more indicate and move as one movement......

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is becoming all too common where I live. I've almost been side swiped I can't even say how many times because people just assume putting on their blinker means they're free to go wherever!

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    Ace
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly? This is something that has not really changed in the 40+ years I've been driving (in various different countries, too).

    The Camera Man
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just liked when signal lights weren't optional on half the cars on the road. ;)

    Robert Trebor
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, the turn signal is often a signal for the guy in the other lane to speed up to block you.

    Cee Cee
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hate drivers not using their indicators. I think the worst offenders drive Audis closely followed by BMW drivers.

    Brian Garcia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In SoCal...BMW was first, rapidly being overlapped by Tesla. Lever on the left...really not that hard.

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    DrBronxx
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This really depends on the country you live in. Use of turn signals is not a problem where I live.

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    #21

    Two young girls sitting on grass outdoors, smiling and focused on their phones, showing a good trend slowly disappeared. Spatial awareness. Most kids don’t seem to acknowledge other people/carts in grocery stores and their parents are mostly to blame. I used to go out of my way to avoid but now it’s frogger-time.

    WOD_are_you_doing , pvproductions Report

    marianne eliza
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find the bigger problem is adults. Here in the USA, we drive on the right. Should be the same for shopping carts.

    Papa
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    . . . and not just when you're moving with your shopping cart. Don't leave your cart blocking the aisle while you decide what you're buying.

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    Fire Singer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've noticed this with the few neighborhood kids who play in the street. I have ZERO problem with that, love seeing kids outside, but when I was a kid and a car was coming down the road one of us would yell "CAR!" and we'd all scuttle off to the sidewalks. Now these kids stare at me coming down the road like I'm the one in the wrong place and they barely step aside so I can drive past. I have to swing wide on most occasions because they don't move at all!

    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find this is the case with some older people. Just today, I had called out "Excuse me, please, I need to get by with this rack." a couple times to 2 elderly ladies busy texting. They didn't move and were taking up the aisle with their carts. And another lady blocked a row with her cart while she was looking at something, then got annoyed she had to move her cart. It's the younger folks who are more willing to get out of the way. I'm not just even noticing this today. Of course there's always exceptions. This is everyday. ( For context, I work in a store and have to put away merchandise.)

    Auntriarch
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The older I get, the more I see old people displaying bad manners. It's not just that they can't hear or see. It's downright embarrassing.

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    Earonn -
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't know, the stupid young woman who thought she and her friends can walk 4 abreast on the pavement and I'll jump into the streets because they're so young and pretty and cool will probably feel the bruise for a few days (to make that clear - I did nothing more than getting my elbow out a bit and bracing for impact. She basically impaled her side on my elbow because stepping behind her friends was out of the question). I see it tons, but can forgive it when it's clearly a tourist being amazed by a pretty building or trying to find their way.

    #22

    People casting ballots at a voting station with American flags, showing a good trend slowly disappeared in participation. Democracy.

    Potential_Sun6667 , freepik Report

    Randy Sanders
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    5 months ago

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    We are a REPUBLIC in the US. Vast difference. Please look it up.

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The People’s Republic of China is also a republic, not a democracy. ‬Haiti is a republic. Chile is a republic. Somalia is a republic. Cuba is a republic. Germany is a republic. Iran is a republic. And they are all different. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_republics In fact, Venezuela is a republic. Its official name is the Bolivarian Republic of Venezuela. What’s your point?

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    #23

    Facebook app on a smartphone screen showing low ratings, hinting at a good trend slowly disappeared in social networking. Social media before advertisements when it was just actual friends that you knew in real life and their albums of drunk photos from the weekend.

    Pleasant_Detail5697 , Shutter Speed Report

    Caroline Gavelfält
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yep instead of them listening to you and showing adds that they think are helpful. I had 4 miscarriages a few years back and Facebook thought it would be a good idea to bombard me with IVF adds while I was still bleeding..

    Bill Swallow
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... How about starving advertising in general until it's small enough to dr0wn in a bathtub?

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🏆 If I wasn’t already happily partnered, I’d ask you to marry me!

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    Billo66
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maps and Calendars and email all tied in to ads. I drive past a furniture store and I get an add for a sofa.

    Cee Cee
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah Google kept asking me to rate a couple of local restaurants. Couldn't understand why as I'd not patronised them. Then it dawned on me they were both by the bus stop I used to get home. Turned off location after that.

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    Firstname Lastname
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tried scrolling for a few minutes on Facebook. Had to go at least a half dozen posts before I reached something that wasn't an ad and was an actual friend. Not worth my hassle.

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The minute business people realize they can make money off something, they ruin it. They cater to the lowest common denominator, and every single thing becomes a nag to buy something. Business (unregulated) is a cancer cell, eating humanity.

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    #24

    Person using a smartphone with a map app inside a car, illustrating the good trend slowly disappeared in navigation habits. People being present and attentive while driving.

    tonyMEGAphone , Rahul Himkar Report

    ILoveMySon
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Much of this is due to screens which I believe should be stopped by the manufacturers.

    Fire Singer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% agree! That's why I still drive a 2006 car. Most my family has new cars with all the screens and gizmos and stuff and I watch them struggle with them every time they're in the car! Just to get the radio to work is a whole process now. Until they get rid of them I won't be "upgrading" my car until it literally stops running.

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    Nova Rook
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Feel like drunk driving is way down at least.

    #25

    Three people wearing vote badges examining papers at a table with a transparent ballot box showing a US flag, reflecting a good trend slowly disappeared. Politicians being able to vote for legislation across the isle without fear of being labeled a RHINO or DHINO cuz it made sense for the American people.

    Tommysfatt , Mikhail Nilov Report

    Ace
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aisle? No idea about the presumed acronyms though,

    UKGrandad
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The acronyms are spelt incorrectly. They should be RINO/DINO - Republican/Democrat in name only.

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    Billo66
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There goes Gilligan, getting voted off the isle again.

    Billo66
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im going to block off the seafood section at the grocer and say, "Sorry, this is Gilligans aisle." :)

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    Orion Red
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    rino / dino. republican in name only / democrat in name only

    Michael Largey
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about voters keeping such politicians in office?

    Papa
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about when there doesn't seem to be a better option?

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    #26

    Tar and feathering politicians.

    Are_mods_thin_skinnd Report

    Tabitha
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And running them out of town on a rail.

    Auntriarch
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've got better use for feathers, how about an alternative, maybe tar and sand, what do you think?

    Zaach
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry but people usually do not survive 'tar and feathering' - the tar is heated to make it pour

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    #27

    Pre-Reagan trend of access to free/affordable with a part time summer job public university education and government job training programs.

    Turbulent-Ad6620 Report

    Scott Rackley
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather have pre-Reagan mental health facilities

    Papa
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the person who wrote this entry didn't see the ones about the lack of communication skills.

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    Olive Moon
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While the composition may not be stellar, the message is clear. The pre-Reagan days when access to free and affordable systems were in place for those that needed a helping hand. Part-time jobs were available, especially for students trying to get an education. And University and job training wasn’t completely out of reach for someone striving for a better life. This was part of the American Dream, and this has been absorbed by billionaires.

    MissN
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure uni would matter much if you can't type a proper sentence. This is hard to read

    Queencat523
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read it a few times and still unsure what it's about. Access to free/affordable what?

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    Mistress Kupo
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly, OP missed out on the university education part...

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    #28

    Three children cleaning a beach, collecting trash in yellow bags, showing a good trend slowly disappeared in environmental care. Beach clean ups.

    Depressy-Goat209 , EyeEm Report

    superfluous
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They still do this, it's just that the rude people by far outnumber the ones who clean up. Which goes back to manners -- cleaning up after oneself.

    Randy Sanders
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We didn't have a beach near us, but we went to an old lady's house to do her landscaping when I was in Boy Scouts. Trimmed bushes and planted her flowers too. Every week on Saturday.

    Brian Garcia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    San Diego North County Coastal...still very much a thing between multiple organizations. Have a couple labs and our local dog beach crew takes care of cleaning daily. I don't like the litter, but I can b***h or simply help clean, I choose to help. Those on the careless side unfortunately likely aren't going to change.

    Billo66
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I love to see people who care about our planet. What I don't like is when they post it all and brag about all the good work they do. It seems like they just did it for attention. Or maybe just awareness, and that's ok. It just seems charity and discretion should go hand in hand. Help someone because thhey need help, not so you can say "look what I did" Regardless, it is appreciated.

    Earonn -
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why should they not put it out? Our society would be much different - and better - if news outlets would only report about the positive things that don't change our lives. People think that there's way more crime than there really is because it's in the news all the time. Imagine if they thought that there's way more good behaviour! Many people just follow others, they would behave better because "that's what everyone does". Also, if someone does something good, yes, they have the right to talk about it.

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    #29

    Man wearing a tin foil hat while working on a laptop, symbolizing a good trend slowly disappeared in online discussions. Conspiracy theorists uses to be seen as nut jobs, now every person has at least once conspiracy theory that they believe to be truth.

    No-Cauliflower-4661 , sheremetaphoto Report

    Nikki Sevven
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A litmus test for the probability of a conspiracy theory having any truth: (1) If it involves a LOT of people keeping a secret, it's probably BS. (2) If no one is making money from the theory, it's probably BS.

    Andrew Keir
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're all suckers for something being 'revealed', it's a go-to word for people creating clickbait. Unfortunately, if someone wants to make money, just write a book about "Secrets being revealed" and you'll need the National Guard to keep the queues in order. If they're not in LA that week ... You don't need to 'reveal' any 'secrets' in fact, just woffle on about how the government / named political party / the rich / whoever , don't want you to know this. The folk who buy these books don't read very fast ...

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    Billo66
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone knows foil doesn't work. You have to use Velostat. /s LOL

    Panda Cat
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s special fabric available on Amazon, earthing plugs full of clay, too many bed tools to make you safe when you sleep. The fabric is actually kind of pretty.

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We used to mock people who were blatantly ridiculous. We didn’t treat their bullshǐt as worthy of a real conversation. Nobody took them seriously. I miss those days.

    Beak Hookage
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The conspiracy nuts are in charge now. We're so boned.

    Michael Largey
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But they don't think it's a conspiracy theory precisely because they believe it's true.

    Lady Eowyn
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have a conspiracy theory that I believe to be true.

    O. Puntia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    2 people can keep a secret ... if one of them is dead/unliving/ex-alive

    XenoMurph
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't belive ANYTHING unusual or non mainstream?

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    Nathan Lewis
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ugly sonic was never real. it was just a marketing stunt to get people invested in the movie.

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    #30

    Person pointing at financial chart with pen, analyzing good trend slowly disappeared data next to calculator and laptop. Lower interest rates.

    Ld_squared , RDNE Stock project Report

    Ace
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmmm, well, right, yeah... Swiss mortgage rates haven't been over 2% or so for the last 20 years, so it's not, you know, everywhere.

    Hugo
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish interest rates would keep pace with inflation. Better if inflation were somehow kept below interest rates.

    Panda Cat
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Higher tax rates on the wealthy and their wealth. Reagan did a number on that, too.

    Daniel Atkins
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interest rates are controlled by the Federal Reserve (In the US). But it is to curb inflation. The individual banks cannot change it. here is an article explaining it in more detail. https://www.investopedia.com/ask/answers/12/inflation-interest-rate-relationship.asp

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Banks and corporations in general being expected to obey certain laws and rules; being regulated and overseen; and facing real consequences if they sçrewed up.

    Papa
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoever wrote this apparently wasn't around in the 1980's.

    O. Puntia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't borrow ... don't pay ...

    #31

    Hand holding a microphone emerging from behind a red curtain, symbolizing a good trend slowly disappeared. Being earnest in comedy. I love my fair share of ironic humor but I'm so tired of "the joke is funny because it's not funny" being absolutely everywhere.

    chloe-and-timmy , freepik Report

    Billo66
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stephen Wright was the master of that. There can be only one.

    Luke Branwen
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But the WORST thing in comedy are those "comedians" whose whole bit is: "I'm politically incorrect! I'll tell you the TRUTH we're not allowed to say anymore! Watch it before the wussies who are offended by everything cancel me!" [Proceeds to spew blatant transphobia for an hour and half]

    Auntriarch
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. It's up there with Schrödinger's arsëhole. Jimmy Carr saying pretty foul things but of course he's only joking and I have no sense of humour if I don't laugh. Pub Landlord who doesn't seem to realise that most of his audience think he's telling it straight. I grew up with people like that and it wasn't funny then and it isn't now.

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    StrangeOne
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I love Randy Feltface. Such refreshing comedy.

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    #32

    Two people playing a dance arcade game with illuminated arrow pads, highlighting a good trend slowly disappeared in gaming. Dance dance revolution.

    Twostepsfromlost2 , freepik Report

    Mel in Georgia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually loved playing that (at home). It was great exercise.

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