The world isn’t divided into introverts and extroverts—it's a continuum, and most people actually land somewhere in the middle because they have traits of both personality characteristics. That means that when you hear someone talk about skipping out on plans because they’re exhausted, having their ‘social battery’ drained, and needing some alone time, you’re bound to relate.
That’s where the massively popular ‘Introverts are Awesome’ social media project comes in. It shares some of the most witty and relatable memes about what it’s like to be introverted. We’ve collected some of the best ones to share with you, Pandas. Scroll down to check ‘em out! And don’t forget to upvote the ones that made you say “same” or “mood.”
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At the age of 45 I have a job, not a career and I'm absolutely fine with this.
Same here. It's my personal achievement to get along and feel good and healthy. It's enough.
Load More Replies...So glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. Some people will look at where you work and think about how long you've worked there then ask "So, why aren't you a manager yet?" Not everyone goes to work to kiss the higher up's asses, schmooze and want to have all the responsibility of the runnings of the whole business. I just want to organize stock and sort things. Sure, I could use more money, but doesn't everyone? I got enough to be happy with.
I'm an extrovert, but the older I get, I notice a little introvert in me. This makes complete sense to me
Also is true for the opposite... invalidating your own struggles because they may seem small compared to what others are going through. I used to do this and it was never helpful, never made me feel better, and was only a sad coping mechanism to keep myself from dealing with my issues. Once I finally was able to let go of that kind of thinking, it was like a tremendous weight being lifted from my body and soul. Also, in my experience, having empathy and compassion for one's self can vastly increase one's empathy and compassion for others
I have a lot of health of problems and my friends will stop themselves from complaining to me because they think I have it worse. I always say our experiences are all relative, there will be things in their lives that I wouldn't be strong enough for. We all have our troubles and we all need to sometimes lean on the strength of others.
Load More Replies...I like people's expression when they brag about having worked 10 or more hours and you ask them " oh, I'm so sorry, what a terrible job. are you looking for something better?"
This is so incredibly true and valid for anybody. Ever since I moved to the United States for my work/research and family, I noticed this weird trend where some people brag about how long they work and how overwhelmed they are. It seemed like it was almost a badge of honour if you were pushing burnount by working ten hour days, driving little Jimmy to his piano lessons, making dinner, and heading the Parent Teacher Association meeting. I felt pressured and still feel pressured to overperform. As someone who has had burnout before and is nearing it again, please take care of yourself. Resting is not something bad and I truly wish U.S. culture would understand that.
So true! I once told a manager that I wasn't feeling well, and that I might need to leave early. She started with the "Well *I* worked through blah blah blah the other day!" I simply said, quietly and calmly, "Your experience does not invalidate mine." And walked away. You (not YOU, Butterknife, but you in general) are not some kind of hero for coming to work sick. It's bad for your health, and the health of everyone around you. And it's not like your loyalty or dedication mean a dàmn thing to the company. I totally understand not being able to afford to take off. But coming in sick because you think it shows loyalty or dedication to a company that could care less, is just stupid. If I need to stay home, or leave early, I do. And to héll with work. Worst case, I can have another job just like what I've already got, in less than a day. I gotta take care of ME, first. No one else is going to.
Load More Replies...If I have built a mountain and see someone struggling to build a hill, I'm going to tell them how I built mine, how hard I worked, the troubles I had...... because then if they come across those troubles while building their mountain, they will know how to deal with it and get through it better faster and better and hopefully easier and smarter then I did
I think that's cool providing they asked for advice, and that it wasn't dispensed in an unsolicited manner 😀
Load More Replies...My spouse does this, oh I mowed the lawn last year and I reply oh I've done everything else, but I know you're tired spongehole!
Never occurred to me, to belittle someone in that manner. Now, I do have an issue with people assuming things, you may have heard the phrase: 'You would not understand...' Now, add in the context where they are describing a situation, such as the one in the OP. It sounds like some kind of suffer-bragging, to say you do understand, in fact, you have had it even worse...
I'd like to see and article titled something like "Hey Extroverts, leave the introverts alone!"
More like “Hey extroverts s**t the f**k up no one asked”
Load More Replies...I'm an extrovert, way more extroverted than the average. I always try to treat introverts the way I think they prefer: Patience, not forcing them into social situations, not burning their social batteries, etc. It's because I feel like an outlier and I wish people would consider that interacting with society which is less extroverted than me is sometimes confusing and tiring. I often feel like many, many people are more closed-off, more distant, than me, and so, so often I feel like everyone hates me. It took a long time to explain it to myself that just because people are not as open and enthusiastic about every interaction as I am, it doesn't mean that they hate interacting with me. So I try to imagine what it must feel like for introverts on the other end of the spectrum. Their social preferences might be the direct opposite of mine but I appreciate that their needs are the outlier in society, just like mine.
I am the most introverty introvert ever, but I like you and your philosophy. I would happily spend my social capital interacting with someone like you, who has put genuine thought into differing needs. You sound like a great friend to have 😊
Load More Replies...Actually I'm kind of happy for them to keep on being their extrovert selves. It means I can get away with the whole nodding and smiling thing when I'm not up to being chatty.
I dislike how the article is saying it like being introverted is an issue
Or even, 'how to create your own energy instead of needing other people's.'
The project has been up and running for over 11 years now, all the way since 2012. It has been a huge success. At the time of writing, the ‘Introverts are Awesome’ project had 1.2 million followers on Facebook, as well as another 105k loyal fans on Instagram.
It’s easy to see why IAA is so popular. For one, the content is incredibly relatable, whether you’re an introvert, an ambivert, or an extrovert with lots of introverted friends. The memes tackle a lot of issues and ideas that unite all of us. We all have a lot more in common than we sometimes like to admit.
Amen! This *is* the list! The be-all and end-all!
Load More Replies...HA! As if those sociopathic monsters are capable of feeling sympathy!
Load More Replies...That's why they said "being paid a living wage".
Load More Replies...And to have decent educated children, who can continue in your living and selfbeing.
THIS!! It's NOT that people "don't want to work"!! It's that people are tired of being run into the ground for pennies, while the rich sit on their àsses and only get richer! They're tired of being fed some gaslighting búllshit about how working yourself to death makes you such a good, loyal, dedicated, valuable employee, while NOT getting valued! They've started to realize that they're being gaslighted by big corporations who couldn't give half a shít if their employees have a roof over their heads or food on their tables, or health problems that they can't afford to fix! And they're taking a stand against it! I for one, and glad about this. In the short run, yeah, a lot of places are understaffed. And that sucks. But maybe, just maybe, in the long run, if enough of us stand up, we can make a change for the better!
I thought everyone did this.... but, yes, I do have GAD; I just didn't think this was a sign of it.
I do this and have GAD. It is a sign of it and, no, not everyone does it. However, it is more an anxiety thing than an introvert thing. These lists on BP frequently muddle the two.
Load More Replies...You're right. But social and other anxieties can absolutely affect your social skills and cause you to be more introverted.
Load More Replies...Add IBS to the pile. Me: Already ready, prepared, ready to go 30 minutes before leaving time My bowels, 2 minutes before leaving time: Yo. Toilet, now.
Hah, yes, sadly! Not amusing, is it? Though mine seem to be just determined to ruin my sleep at the moment!
Load More Replies...I do this everyday. I also count the number of hours I'll be able to sleep if I fall asleep right now.
Me: leaves home an hour before I need to just in case and sits in my car reading when I get there wa-a-ay too early.
My da; leave by 8;30. Me; get up at 4;30, do all tho steps, then panic 4 hours later, unknowing if you actually did any of those steps
I function in fifteen minute periods even if the thing doesn't take fifteen minutes. Like 15 to wake up, 15 for breakfast, 15 to dress and wash, 15 to walk to the bus stop...
I do this to the point if i KNOW i don't have something the next day, but still feel like it, I call up my aunt to tell me " I DO NOT HAVE TO GO OUT OR DO ANYTHING" so i can relax
Absolutely this. Need the rest of the day to mentally prepare (and by that I mean over-think every possible eventuality).
Yes, and the closer it gets the worse the anxiety and the more frequent the 'do I really have to go?' And 'Please, please can they cancel on me.' thoughts happen.
Which is anxiety, rather than just being an introvert. I do this and I'd not call myself an introvert. I sit more in the middle. These memes act as if introversion is a guarantee of anxiety and it's not. I have a very introverted friend who has no anxiety around it. They are very comfortable in themselves. They need the time alone but have no problem saying that.
Load More Replies...This has nothing to do with being introverted. This is social anxiety.
Remember, there's a total difference between introversion and social anxiety. Sometimes they go together but not always
It’s actually quite difficult even to estimate the number of people who might be introverted. Verywell Mind notes that introverts make up between 25% to 40% of the entire population of the world. Meanwhile, more than half of all people are thought to be ambiverts—also known as extroverted introverts (hi!) or introverted extroverts (hi again!). Introversion and extroversion lie on a scale; they’re not binary.
That is 100% okay! I put my son to bed then lay in his bed for a while because his dad talks so much! I do not always have the stamina.
Oh hells yes. My husband just does not get this. I am a major introvert with social anxiety who works retail. I need hibernation time. He is an extrovert who works from home. He does have lots of calls and stuff but he needs to talk when I get home. Sometimes this clashes.
Yes! Had this problem. I need quiet to recuperate and my husband needs to chatter. He knows that the only useful way he can get to chat to me is to give me my space first. It might seem selfish but his need to chatter can wait, my need for silence and downtime cannot. If I get that then he can chatter away to his hearts content and I'll be present for it! I used to hide in the bathroom having very long showers until we got ourselves sorted!
Load More Replies...Too much social interaction creates something like muscle-ache in your brain or 'mental dehydration of the mind.' Turns the usual fresh flowing stream of thoughts into some sluggish goo that oozes ever more slowly through the pipelines of your brain until one of them finally blocks off completely. Time alone helps to clean and 're-hydrate' the mental pathways.
That's absolutely okay. This needs to be more generally known so that we, the talkative bunch, don't get on your nerves.
I like the talkative bunch - takes the burden off me. My husband knows that I need peace to recharge and lets me have my space.
Load More Replies...Omfg sound gives me sensory overload so easily when I'm upset it's the wost
It's harsh lights, noise, talking, quick movements of people and things rushing past. It's not a dizziness, but a sort of disorienting, light-headedness, and a sense of detachment. You don't hear what people are saying. There's a weird disconnect from your eyes and ears. Sounds seem more muffled and the light becomes muted, so it looks like glares from above but the room looks greyish or dull. You feel like your wading in water.
People just think I'm rude or antisocial. But I only have so much battery for socializing and once it's drained I'm done. It's hard to explain to extroverts - i.e.. my entire family.
You're absolutely right, It's totally ok to need some alone time. However, if you don't want to be bothered, please voice this need to decompress. Not everyone can see you need it. This was, I think, one of the hardest things to teach my son. Speak up and tell the teachers, me (mom), siblings, etc. that you need time to decompress BEFORE you get to the point of blowing up. Makes life so much easier on all of us
It's a landline! Turning that off used to mean we could disconnect from the world for a while in a way that is different from silencing our cell phones. 24/7 connection is not always positive.
I have no friends, only people who call me when they need something (help with pc and technology mainly). No problems to solve, no calls
Sometimes I imagine what it would be like if everyone in the city was my friend and what that would be like. Then I reflect on what happens when I have more than 2 good people I talk to. I'd end up alienating, ghosting, unfriending on social media and make enemies of an entire city of people, and they would all know my dirt. Nah, I'm good.
I do not need a call every day, thank you very much.
Load More Replies...Ooh ooh I know teacher it’s (wait his calculator says syntax error am I stupid why did I not. Check my work god dammit)
sometimes my son says "processing. processing.processing" which from a scene in Seinfeld.
I have problems with losing my words, sometimes the whole point of something I'm trying to say. It happens with my family, my friends, but it's worse when I'm talking to someone I'm not used to or have just met. I've said this sort of thing many times, except I say "I'm not being stupid, I've just lost the words (or point) I'm trying to say". It took more than a few years to actually own up to it, instead of babbling on, trying to get back on track. Don't know why why this is, but it made me feel very uncomfortable for a long time. I feel like my brain is stuttering.
I do too, but I end up saying all the words to describe the word I'm looking for. You know, a red, wooden, cow house found on a farm. One of the persons in the conversation will nod and say barn? nods all around. Yes! Barn! It's kind of like a game show.
Load More Replies...Someone who’s introverted isn’t necessarily shy or anxious in social situations. They certainly can be more reserved or quiet, but it would be wrong to say that all introverts are shy. It’s a very common misconception. Broadly speaking, introverts tend to focus on internal thoughts and feelings, instead of external stimulation.
If it's after work and I have my sweats on already, I'm not going out shopping at Target honey, you have fun by yourself. Get me a Snickers.
I'll go but I'm not changing back into regular clothes
Load More Replies...It's a constant struggle, trying to find clothes that are comfortable and slutty. That also have pockets.
I definitely have my living room clothes and my "climb out from under a rock and go to town" clothes. Retired me has a lot less laundry to wash so there's that.
I hear that, David! Retired me is hard put to generate a decent load every week...
Load More Replies...I have always dressed for comfort over style. It was the way I was raised and there was never anyone to show me a different way.
I'm heavy. When my son was in the hospital for a long time (30+ days, nearly died of sepsis - he's nonverbal so I need to be there all the time), I stopped wearing comfy shirts and knit pants which was my go to for years because my underwear would strangle me overnight and was wearing comfy knit dresses commando because I could sleep in them comfortably. With pockets, of course. And now that's all I wear.
Minty fresh toothpaste in my opinion - zaps me back awake. Though it doesn't appear to work its miracle in the morning sadly.
Load More Replies...It’s a sleep bubble. You have a finite amount of time to get from sofa to bed. Do not do anything in between, such as get changed. If you stay within the bubble, you will fall asleep. But once it’s popped, there is no hope. You will be wired and it will take hours to finally fall asleep
Getting up from said couch requires a flood of some chemical stuff that activates the body and mind, so you can safely climb the stairs and do what needs to be done in order to make yourself ready for bed. So, now you are lying in bed, with all these chemicals still raging through your body and mind ...
this is why you should get ready for bed and THEN watch something
So true! I did exactly the same and living my best life!
Load More Replies...I think that on the couch you focus on something else, like the TV, and drift off. In bed you focus on falling asleep and then the pressure is on because you only have X amount of sleeping time left before you need to wake up!
I only ever sleep for 10 minutes on the couch and wake up feeling refreshed. Sleep for 8 hours in bed, struggle to get up.
My brain requires 5-7 business days to adjust to the experience of waking up (7-10 days if I was in a dream)
Agreed. I'm just utterly shite in the morning! Even was as a child. Need a good hour of silence and slow sipping of a cuppa.
Load More Replies...And then once you get past age 60, the first two hours in the morning is enduring the pain and stiffness of arthritis. You eventually get moving but at the end of the day, your joints scream "I have had enough!". And then you look forward to being back in your cozy bed, knowing full well at the end of the eight hour lack of movement you have to go through it all again.
Me too. I’ve had morning stiffness for over 30 years. Damn arthritis! Then an annoying coworker ask you to smile in the morning. Leave me alone!
Load More Replies...However, introverts can be very social! They also take risks and are not quiet: these aren’t traits that extroverts can claim for their own. In short, introverts are energized by being alone or with a small group of friends while extroverts get their energy from socializing in large groups of people.
thank you, I like to be hydrated in the suffering of daily life
My orthopedic doc told me drinking lots of water is what helps the joints get lubricated.
I’m an introverted extrovert who drinks a ton of water. My life is very complicated.
Na, I don’t wanna go to your party, I’d much rather hang in my den, playing apex and cuddling with my cats.
Yeah. From a woman’s point of view, you reach the age where going to a party, with music that’s way too f*****g loud so you know you’re going to end up with a thumping headache, where you’re going to get cornered and hit on by obnoxious men who don’t know the meaning of NO, and who will continue to try until later in the party when they’ve devolved into a bunch of obnoxious sloppy drunks puking on the patio, just ain’t fun anymore. In other words, you grow up and become an emotionally mature adult. That’s when the quiet and peaceful ME time becomes of paramount importance to you. So you hang out in your den with your cats, play Apex, and do whatever else you want, at your own pace, with no one screeching in your ear to do this do that. Lock your doors, turn your phone off, and retire into your precious Inner Sanctum Santorum. Ahhhh, heavenly!
Load More Replies...Never been to a nightclub and I have NO regrets. I can already imagine what I'm missing out on. 0, nada, nil, zip, zero, no f***s given. Literally and figuratively.
Many years ago my then-friends wanted to drag me into a club. Still outside, I decided the music was too loud so I went home. Best decision ever.
Load More Replies...Learn to play the piano and then get into synthesizers and composing computer music. It will fill up days of your life! The best attention addiction to have.
That should be the definition for the dates I make up in my head because I'm too lazy/anxious to actually do it.
Load More Replies...I wouldn't date a woman who'd date a guy like me... so yeah!
Load More Replies...Everyone is hallucinating. Join me in my mental breakdown from too much nostalgia.
Like with most things linked to people’s behavior and psychology, both nature and nurture have a hand in whether someone is more introverted or extroverted. Our biology, as well as our environments while growing up shape how we react to the world around us. The people closest to us and our lifestyles affect us quite a bit, no matter where on the introversion-extroversion scale we were born.
I prefer outdoors. No such thing as bad weather, only inappropriate clothing. 😊☀️🌧❄️🌪😯
Load More Replies...Oh God yes. I once quit a job because it was practically required and expected for me to eat lunch with my coworkers every day. Nope nope nope, not even if you are paying me for it.
I used to go and eat in the car when I had an office job. Just.. everything shut up for 30 minutes and let me have my sammich.
A cellphone and earphones. I wish people would respect that it's okay to have earphones in and listening to something on my cellphone and not have to interact with anyone. DO NOT TOUCH THE EARPHONES.
I worked in a busy company as a Receptionist/Administrator & politely requested my co-workers that I spend lunch alone without any disruption. I made a joke out of it as I knew it sounded strange but it really was something I needed. They took offence and/or mocked me. In the end, my mental health took precedence & it made a huge difference to my day & work.
I eat lunch late. Everyone goes back to their desks and then I get up and go eat. Sometimes I eat at my desk with headphones on. I couldn't care less what people think of that.
I used to hate when people talk about work during break, even when they are not talking to me.
I get sick and tired of the endless line of people that see when I am clearly trying to eat my lunch (and catch up on the news) in peace want to come "chat because you are eating" or "just a quick question won't take long". Especially annoying when they do it while they are waiting for their food zapping in the microwave and then more join the queue and decide they will 'just wait here and chat to you" until the previous person is done, none of them doing any work while waiting and taking up my break with their chatter then go off and have their full lunch break on top of that. Meanwhile muggins here has had to try and eat and keep working, and answer questions throughout, and be constantly interrupted (difficult to eat normally when people keep expecting complex technical answers so just shoving food in or giving up because you lose your appetite) and then they comment "how come you don't stop for lunch it's much better for you to disconnect from work properly for a while".... >.<
I have never been a big lunch eater anyway, so I used to just run errands on my lunch hour. Saved me having to run them after work when the stores are packed because everybody else is running theirs too. No crowds in Walmart at lunchtime, but from 5pm to 7pm, good luck. Now I work from home, managing the office for the company my husband and I started, so I can run errands anytime I want—-and not in a suit and heels!
My son's name is Alex as well and I can confirm he does too.
Load More Replies...I ate random unsatisfying snacks today because I was hungry but too lazy to cook something and also too lazy to go somewhere to eat and too indecisive to order online.
When did we lose the ability to take after ourselves or has no one ever managed it and previous generations were just better at hiding it than we are?
My cooking skills are gone. They were nothing to be proud of. Lots of frozen food. I like Amy’s. Vegan. Pretty tasty.
This is me but instead of arguments it’s just my normal pieces are trying to convince the rest of me that I will be okay no matter what happens.
For me it's mostly regret. I should've said this! But you didn't!
There are quite a few different types of introverts, though many people have a mix of traits from each type. For instance, social introverts prefer spending their evenings at home instead of going out for a night on the town. They also like being in smaller groups of friends or strangers, instead of being surrounded by tons of people they don’t know.
Yes. Introverted isn't necessarily shy. I may just happen to not care about your cousin's friend's coming out. And I may just happen to enjoy silence.
I may be introverted but I hear and see everything and nobody knows I exist - it's brilliant!
Or you get labeled a cop for just observing and absorbing the vibes. I've had that happen. Then the dude proceeds to tell me he is a felon and has a gun in his tent. -- Didn't need to know that, don't care, just wanted to sit her around the fire pit on the beach and drink a beer and 'absorb the vibes'
If he thought you were a cop, why on earth would he tell you that??
Load More Replies...I'm a professional observer and absorber of vibes. I've made a career out of it. Now if only someone could pay me for this skillset...
Gotta observe everyone to know how to approach them so u don’t screw up. Haha. I’m ok.
It's funny, whenever I've started a new job and I'm learning, people get convinced I'm shy and quiet. So they're shocked once I figure out what I'm doing. I am NOT shy or quiet.
Then you get to make a friend's "tough guy" boyfriend cry when you give him the exact right present (just because it was in the sale as you were passing) for Xmas
Aye, but replace the first day with an hour and the next day with a month.
Any time I have to go to an event, for a few hours, I need a few days to recover. If the event lasts all day and part of the evening, I need an entire week to get the battery inside working again. It's not just you. People are tiring. Pretending to be interested in what they are saying, is tiring.
A friend of mine expresses it as "all peopled out". I totally agree with her.
Got back from visiting friends three weeks ago. Still hibernating.
"I read something funny and wanted to share it with you" is no less valid than "I wanted to tell you about everything I've done lately."
does anyone else save and collect memes to one day show your loved ones like a happy little meme dragon or is it just me?
I must admit...I to am a meme dragon, I have it all backed up too. Lol
Load More Replies...My oldest online friend died last year. I knew him since 2006. We exchanged memes all the time, and since he's been gone I miss him and his memes and I no longer have anyone else to share memes with. We used to do "meme slams," where we would share memes as fast as we could. The rules were that you had to share a meme that was somehow related to the meme that the other person had just shared.
Introverts have no fear of admitting they know nothing about a topic so that is why they say nothing in a conversation. Extroverts will have something to say about every subject, even if they know nothing about it.
Thinking introverts, on the other hand, do exactly what it says on the tin. Verywell Mind explained that they are very introspective, creative, and spend a lot of time thinking. Next up are anxious introverts who feel very nervous during social interactions. Meanwhile, inhibited introverts are serial overthinkers.
I’m an introvert and kind of the opposite. If I know I have a social occasion coming up, I worry about it (dread it), count down the days….i make it a bigger stressy event than it needs to be. If someone knocks on my door on a Saturday morning and says let’s go get brunch… 🤷♀️. No time to turn it into a huge ordeal in my head. 😊
I had this conversation yesterday and my BF asked me why I have to prepare mentally for everything.
I would find myself in the mood to do something, and do it by myself, after inviting one or two others (that I could handle being with at that time) to come along, and have them be busy/ not want to. Alone is my go to for outings unless I am catching up with friends, one at a time.
Not just mentally, but we have life, and need to do other things, not just hop when someone requests.
This sucks for me! I am an introvert but I also do not have a thyroid and rely on synthetic so the hormone balance has been hard to get "normal". I need planning to prepare but I can't plan because any little thing can throw my hormones off balance and I can go from fine one day to extremely fatigued the next.
Something I just learned, there's a lot of people in the world who don't think in clear pictures. For some, it's black and white and perhaps just outlines. Some people cannot imagine motion images, just picture montages. Never knew that was a thing. Well... I did know there are people who don't have much of an imagination for things they've never actually seen before. But it does make me a bit better knowing there are people who may not be able to remember me at all because they don't have a picture of me in their mind.
as someone who looks like a real-life version of the "Anime villain" {used to say anime main character but my husband pointed out that most of the villains usually look like me so.... tada} I Enjoy being an NPC, but...Iam that NPC that everyone likes and has no idea why
I'm just the quirky side kick. Lets just hope I dont get killed off before the end of the movie.
I could be so easily killed off as a character and nobody would miss me. 😕
I keep their promises for them. The last numskull who called me a liar is still confused about the ensuing silence. 🤣
Load More Replies...Them: I’m never speaking to you again! Me: I’m really looking forward to that.
Most people are ambiverts and how they behave in a certain situation will depend on the context. If they’re feeling emotionally drained, they might choose to spend a cozy evening inside, reading a book. Or they might go out to meet their friends to shake things up a bit. Whatever they choose to do, ambiverts are nothing if not flexible. They adapt to the situation as needed.
Oh lol I thought it was all good until I read six meals a day. It’s actually three with major snackcidents
Throw in a scented candle and some plants and this is perfection.
To do nothing in. You don't need a belt with yoga pants.
Load More Replies...how are you cramming 6 meals in 14 hours? thats a meals like every 2.5 hours
I would love to have no social obligations, I do love my friends though lol though they understand if I cancel or don't show up last minute. They all know I struggle with being out and social
I like to hang out with my plants, it's better than socialising 🤷♂️
I like to hang out with my cat and a book. And occasionally BP.
Load More Replies...Introverts are NEVER lonely and NEVER worry about being a burden. They are alone by choice.
Could be wrong, but it's this more like a trauma thing, instead of a "natural" introvert thing?
I feel this. Being a burden is one of my biggest fears. When I got Cancer, I thought about not telling anyone.
And you can't get to where you are heading because everyone stops to greet them. In the beginning you stop, do a lame smile and wait. Eventually you just keep walking on. "Meet you at the cinema"
Holy s**t, that's my sister exactly. She's the super popular gal, and I'm the awkward af older brother.
This is what happens when an introvert gets adopted by an extrovert.
It's my mother in law. She's 80 and has a considerably more active social life than I do.
It’s specifically this propensity for adaptability that makes ambiverts so powerful. Research shows that ambiverts tend to be more capable salespeople than extroverts because they know when to be more reserved and when to turn their charm and charisma all the way to the maximum. When you’re so flexible, socially, you can relate to all kinds of people.
I do this so much! I’ll literally just sit and stare off into nothingness for a while
I'm late because I do 8 laps around my house like an idiot with anxiety looking for things I haven't forgotten but thought I had.
I used to do this after work. Sit down for a minute before making a cup of tea, and come to a few hours later, still sitting on the edge of the kitchen chair
Answer with: I was just about to get in the shower. That means 'yes I am' and 'you can't come over' at the same time!
Read about a lady who opened the door wearing a jacket or a hat. If was someone she liked she said "I just came home" and let them in. If not she said she was leaving.
Especially if you say you are coming over! But if you are close, and i am in slob mode, i will just say screw the mess, let you come and tell you I am so tired you need to tell me the best stuff first as I might fall asleep on you but that you are welcome to take a nap with me!
I'm always at work. Even middle of the night and everyone knows I don't have a night job.
90% of grocery shopping is hoping I can get it done without pissing off anyone with my slowness and trying not to have an anxiety attack at the checkout.
The other 10% is when you're pregnant with gestational diabetes and your blood sugar drops making you feel pukey and unhinged just as that old lady deliberately rams you from the front again, snatches the loaf of bread out of your cart, and gives you that hard "I dare you to say anything" stare, so you start beating her with said loaf of bread and get escorted from the store.
When those blocking the aisle don't move when asked, I shout "Charge" (having made a weird face and crouched over the trolley, when I could walk using a trolley). I do this from a wheelchair now. Also useful when trying to exit a lift into a crowd. When they turn round, smile and wave.
these types of "jokes" i guess we're calling them, are not funny for over exaggerating. where the hell do you shop where 90% of your time is waiting for people to move? if you're there for an hour you're spending 6 minutes shopping and 54 minutes waiting... c'mon, come up with a better joke than this.
Which of these memes did you relate to the most and why, dear Pandas? Do you consider yourself introverted or extroverted? Or are you an ambivert like most people? We'd love to hear from you, so if you have a moment, scroll down to the comment section and feel free to share your thoughts with all the other readers.
“You’re too quiet.” “Don’t really have anything to say.” “What’s wrong? You shouldn’t be this quiet, something must be wrong.” “SOMETIMES I JUST DON’T WANT TO TALK.”
we have the right to free speech, we should also have the right to free unspeech! Rights for non-speakers!
Load More Replies...Yeah, I’ve had like, FAR TOO MANY times when people are going like: “Oh, why are u so damn quiet?” ,“Why don’t you talk more?”, “Why are you so anti-social/unwilling to reach out/talk?” , usually with a bit of: “Food tax pls!” ,”Hiiii! How you doin?” , “What u doin?” , AND DONT GET ME TALKING ABOUT THE MILLIONS OF EXCUSES TO MAKE ME FEEL BAD JUST PURELY BECAUSE EVERYONE HAS MILLIONS OF FRIENDS IN THE F*CKING GRADE! I.JUST.DON’T.WANNA.FLIPPIN.TALK!! IM SICK OF ALL OF YOU TRYNA GET ME, ONE OF THE ONLY INTROVERTS IN THIS SCHOOL TO TALK WHEN ALL OF YOU HAVE YOUR STUPID LITTLE MOUTHS GO “Blah,Blah,Blah” ALL DAY LONG AND GET NEARLY THE WHOLE FORM IN TROUBLE BECAUSE OF SOMEONE BADMOUTHING OTHERS!
I was a good student, except I always got notes saying, "Laura doesn't participate in class enough," and "She reads alone too often," and such. Thankfully my mom ignored those notes because she knew I was just fine.
I thrive on being alone and am rarely lonely, BUT I can be a chatterbox when I'm in company (for a limited time until I feel drained), and it's fuelled by anxiety - feeling rude if I don't converse.
My employeer is starting 5 mental health days a year in Jan. 2024, plus the other PTO and sick days we already have. It's a no questions asked kind of policy. Get your head right. Pretty cool of them.
That sounds so nice. We have to earn sick time. One hour for every forty. And I'm out of PTO because I had to use it for being sick. The sick time I had saved up was used and they had to use PTO and remaining personal holiday after because I had to miss so many days. And I don't get more PTO till the start of the next fiscal year in April. I don't know where you live but my country, the US, really needs to offer unlimited sick days in every company. We can't control when we get sick. They don't want us to come in when sick but we get in trouble if we miss to much time. We are living in an Orwellian dystopia. Sorry for the rant. Edit: just saw your name. I'm guessing you live in the US well. Sorry, sometimes I don't notice things.
Load More Replies...Do they not understand that if employees are content they're going to be more productive!
this is why we have PTO. I take off regularly for things that are just sitting at home and staring at the wall. I saw a spider last time.
That's one of the things I loved about being self employed: you're not my boss, you're my client. As such, I am not asking you for the day off - I am informing you that I will be unavailable.
I need this. I have several chronic health issues and on my good days, I would love to go out and get things done, not be confined to my desk at work
Classical music ✔️ cats ✔️ ferrets ✔️ goat ✔️ phone ✔️ tablet ✔️ tasty beverage ✔️ peanut butter and spoon ✔️ comfy bed ✔️ BEST DAY!!!
There's nothing I love more than being in my recliner, eyes closed, headphones picking up a great album, and getting lost in the music.
I literally have my albums less than a foot away from me as I type this
I learned in high school I have to have something distracting on in the background, music, tv, something. I need to keep that part of my brain busy so the other part can study. It’s like when you give a baby a toy while you’re changing them.
Holy cow I thought I was the only one who did this lol. I cannot do things like draw or my diomond pictures if it’s quiet, or else I’ll just zone out and my mind will make the sounds for me, which, I mean, ty, but, NOT RIGHT NOW BISH-
Load More Replies...I wonder if there's a correlation between introversion and ADD. And if it's because others don't understand so people shut down.
Load More Replies...I've caught myself daydreaming about something entirely different while reading 2 pages. I went back to reread what I thought I missed. Then I noticed I still recognized what I thought I didn't read. It's a weird ability.
My sisters and I asked so often to put some music on when making homework, but mother always refused, she said we wouldn't be able to study well. But the voices of some of us learning out loud was far more disturbing than music could ever be
Me, when my coworker starts ask me questions about how to do something, and I haven’t even made it to my chair or put down my bag yet.
Or when I’ve got one ear on the phone and someone is shooting questions in the other, then has the gall to get pissed off when I ask them what they needed. I can only pay attention to one of you at a time, and the person on the phone came first. You need something, you either wait until I’m off the phone, or you f*****g well write it down and leave me the note. Because I will not have any idea what you were trying to say. Because I wasn’t listening to you, I was listening to the person on the f*****g phone!
It's a kaleidoscope of sounds, whirling at varying speeds, pitches, cadences. If I can't get away, I pull out my earphones, plug in, and drown out the noise.
I only discovered this recently, after 65 years of not noticing, that it's the tone of those voices that gets to me. It only takes one person screaching in my ear and I'm out of there. In the past, crowds have always had at least one person with a horrible-sounding voice. But just recently I was in a crowd where everyone in the crowd happened to have a mellifluous voice and I quite enjoyed it. Either that or I'm going deaf.
I get this from calling customer service that's one big room and I can hear all the other techs asking their customers questions.
I have had such a bad day before that I made a bowl of warm beef stew...... I said down and {I sometimes have shakes in my hands} and I dropped it......I had a bad week, going to the hospital, and doctor app, I'm a really sick guy, and my husband wasn't home yet....When I dropped that stew I FLIPPING LOST IT, I stopped next to the bowl and started full-on blubber crying, like snot drilling drooling crying like a baby, and I did it for an hour till my husband got home and by then the dog had even eaten all the stew from the floor and I was still crying then i started laughing at him when he asked if I was ok, and I told him ".....Fi.......I DROPPED MY STEW" ....... ...... Im a 38-year-old man....
Someone did this to me at work. I bought a pre-packed sandwich, the guy brought his own from home in foil. He ate mine thinking it was his!!
Someone posted this scene without the laugh track once and it comes across completely differently.
I'm so close to putting a sign on my door warning neighbors not to disturb me from 12-1 since that's my lunch time, and I really, really like my lunches.
They aren't actually adults if there's too much drama. They're 35 year olds who haven't grown up yet.
Load More Replies...Yes and no. Teenagers need more sleep than people often realise (and if might feel like you want to sleep away the morning!) but if you are constantly tired... could you be depressed? That can often feel like being tired all the time. Too many expectations by family and school? There are a lot of burdens on teens.
Load More Replies...Socializing was difficult as a childless adult because uncommon in my generation. Adults with kids didn't want to hear about my escapades any more than I wanted to hear about their kids. I relied more on venues than specifically people my own age.
My friends are all having kids now and I'm very scared for this to happen 😞
Load More Replies...The best meet and greet is in a hotel where you all meet for a drink and then one hour later everyone goes and takes a nap!
I mean I can talk for hours about sustainable farming, construction, cars, video games, guitars, music, boats, business, lots of stuff. Plus actually listen to other people and respect their opinions. Somehow I feel like I am more interesting than when I was younger, but maybe younger me would find me boring.
Load More Replies...And this, ladies, gentleman, and my non-bianary friends, is the day my parents found ✨ ONLINE ✨ SCHOOL ✨
Luckyyyy! I wish my parents found one for me, but they don't want to( plus I already go to a "school for smart kids" and they don't want to lose the chance to the graduate title. I would trade everything for not having to get out of the house at 7 AM
Load More Replies...I'm like that with just being at home. I spent a great deal of time (and money) creating a beautiful, comfortable & serene environment. My books are here. My favorite snacks are here. Why TF would I want to leave?
That sounds like clinical depression. There are meds for that. I did that for so many years.
That’s an unnecessarily negative way of saying your parents took proper care of your physical needs and the household as a whole, leaving you with sufficient mental bandwidth to read a lot.
Excuse me? Kids in abusive households can read as well, it's a way to escape reality for a little bit.
Load More Replies...pretty sure about 80% of the brain goes into retirement after school, it's just like "I'm too old now"
I used to read slot. 4 books at any one time, One in the lounge, one in the Bedroom, one at work, one in the car.
I've been reading the same book for weeks, something I could've popped off in a day or two. Granted, it's by Richard Feynman, but still.
But then you gotta tell everyone goodbye. I wish it were acceptable to slip out the back.
It’s so hard for ppl to understand this. I can be at a party, talking and laughing and simultaneously feeling completely drained and just want to be at home, on my couch, with my dogs.
When I'd visit friends I'd sneak looks at my watch and after an hour I'd think - have I been here long enough? Is it okay to go now?
If I had a dollar (inflation) for every Irish goodbye, I could afford someone to type these comments.
But where? Probably to their nest for their babies as a snack.
Load More Replies...Think it through, Daniel. Then the feathery b@st@rds will expect you to converse and socialise with them.
And where are we going, Daniel? To a kinder, quieter place where there are no people!
What is this glorious contraption and why is my house not filled with them?
Exactly what I was wondering! I want this so much. Edit: found something similar - https://www.mybobs.com/furniture/living-room/sectionals/p/20046363?https:%2F%2Fad.doubleclick.net%2Fddm%2Fclk%2F521997298;329630681;z=&yoReviewsPage=17 - only $4000! 🙄😠
Load More Replies...That thing won't fit in my house. I need a bigger house to accommodate such a comfy looking couch.
Life is meaningless without a couch like this. Ok, I found it. It's a Sunset Trading Cloud Puff 4 Piece 132" Wide Slipcovered Modular L Shaped Sectional Sofa. And it retails for a very affordable $15,530.00! :\ Extra sections can be added for, well, extra.
Once I got settled in that I don't know if I would ever find my way out again m I think would need a butler.
omg this happens nearly every day for me. my whole day replays and i cringe
I STILL rerun embarrassing memories in my head from elementary school, let alone all my other fuckups... Why, brain, why?!?!
I feel this, I usually overthink commenting here way too much because I’m way too afraid I might say something stupid or upset someone
Don't worry about upsetting someone. I can 100% guarantee that you'll offend someone on BP at some point, likely unintentionally. Internet people can be very sensitive. Just don't live your life for them.
Load More Replies...Yo, no need to call me out like that! The number of times I deleted whole paragraphs....
This is, once again, a symptom of ADHD and other conditions, not of being an introvert.
One can be both an ADHDer and an introvert. They're not mutually exclusive.
Load More Replies...A bit of random trivia I just learned this month. Dark humor and higher intelligence go together well, so celebrate the fact that it IS you!
I've been told, a few too many times in my opinion, that besides my dark humor, I can be astounding. Astounding in the sense that people are astounded by the turn my brain made and that I said it out loud.
Revealing a small part of your true self is an excellent way to determine who isn't worth knowing.
Ok funny story. WAAAAAY TMI, but here goes...I was talking to a few friends of mine and one had their new BF there with them. We were all talking about nookie, the backdoor kind. Dude pipes up and asks what happens if you get poo on you, I said, baby wipes take poo off a babys a$$, they can take it off you. ( We are all in our 40's btw, so this was hilarious to us. )
Not just at party, cafeteria, canteens, get togethers... Everywhere 😮💨
Only if there are not pets or plants. Other times I'll just be avoiding drunk male OAP family friends who think they are god's gift. Usually in front of their wives. The wives smile when I end up having to throw said drunks onto a sofa (or out through a door) "Sit. Stay!" Glad most of those people are old enough to have died now.
Love this .. i work as a social worker. Tell me your life story/ problems i can handle that. But i hate small talk. Or whining for attention
To answer or not to answer, it’s the question. Ha nope go f**k yourselves
"Whether 'tis nobler in mind to endure the slings and arrows of outrageous social interaction, or to take arms against the pain of calling, and by opposing end it." -Introvertilliam Shakespeare
Load More Replies...And keep watching while having an inner debate whether to answer or not. Then the ringing stops and you've lost the chance to talk, because calling back is even more difficult than answering.
I have to much anxiety to not answer if I know the person. I mean what if it's a emergency, I know it's my parent from upstairs but still....
It takes me a looong while to remember how old I am. I’m only 15, IT SHOULDNT BE THIS HARD
"Hello, I have depression and panic disorder, money problems, stuffy nose, haven't slept in three days, my back itches but I'm too embarrassed scratch it here, too tired to function and having my fifth mental crisis in an hour..."
Takes a while because you're trying to think of something interesting about yourself that wouldn't be considered weird..... I just ask what do you want to know? Buys me some time to figure out if my interests are normal or not.
My interests include studying (for school) and watching tv alone. That's not weird, right? RIGHT?
Load More Replies...Oo, I want the book on the right. I just rlly do. I dunno what’s in it, but I wanna READ IT.
I just want to have it handy when some a*****e annoys me. Just plunk that big baby down and tell them it’s my job description—-or better yet, my To Do List for today—-the pages are all full, and there’s no room for whatever it is they’re asking me to do.
Load More Replies...My biggest problem. I will be overthinking if I should have even made this comment.
My cat is a pretty good level of this for me. She likes cuddles but for a while at a time and then she goes away. She is often satisfied to sit/sleep quietly on the arm of my chair. Which is kind of like how I like my IRL friends. We can talk/visit some but we are also comfortable just being around each other in silence. TLDR: I prefer animals and people who do not expect constant high energy output from me.
I really want friends that I can just sit with. Sitting and watching tv alone is my favorite activity, so having someone that would join me in that would be great 😔
Load More Replies...Just give me some scritches and move along. No need to take me from the box.
Some of these r very neurodivergent so I'm sat here thinking "am I neurodivergent or just an introvert?? I didn't think I'm an introvert. Is this normal human behaviour??"
There are introverts, neurodivergent people, people with anxiety or other mental health issues etc - these memes pick at a lot of these and blur the lines a little too much. Introversion is not a guarantee of anxiety! That can be a problem for many personality types.
Load More Replies...As usual, BP, a number of these have nothing to do with being introverted. Being an introvert is not the same as having depression or social anxiety, and it's definitely not the same as being neurodivergent.
i want to leave a comment but that means someone might read it and then i have to suffer that anxiety of a notification that someone replied and I dont know if they likes my comment or are going to yell at me for something they misunderstood.
I have all the notifications go to an email I never check. Totally alleviates that anxiety. Now I only see someone responded if I happen to go back for some reason. I say my piece and leave.
Load More Replies...Most of these entries aren't exclusive to introverts. I'd say also people that reach the age or the opinion of not giving a flying fig what other people think of them. Dressing for comfort, early nights, staying in, for instance. When I was a teen I was shy and self conscious. As I got older I became more comfortable in myself. For me, it came with age and experience.
Time management instructor: Think of Extroverts as waking up every morning with an empty hand and they get one quarter for every social interaction they have, leaving their hands full of money at the end of each day. Now imagine waking up with a hand full of quarters and each interaction costs one quarter...
I'm an introvert because nobody shares the same interests as me. Say, what's your opinion on the unification of quantum mechanics and general relativity?
Some of these r very neurodivergent so I'm sat here thinking "am I neurodivergent or just an introvert?? I didn't think I'm an introvert. Is this normal human behaviour??"
There are introverts, neurodivergent people, people with anxiety or other mental health issues etc - these memes pick at a lot of these and blur the lines a little too much. Introversion is not a guarantee of anxiety! That can be a problem for many personality types.
Load More Replies...As usual, BP, a number of these have nothing to do with being introverted. Being an introvert is not the same as having depression or social anxiety, and it's definitely not the same as being neurodivergent.
i want to leave a comment but that means someone might read it and then i have to suffer that anxiety of a notification that someone replied and I dont know if they likes my comment or are going to yell at me for something they misunderstood.
I have all the notifications go to an email I never check. Totally alleviates that anxiety. Now I only see someone responded if I happen to go back for some reason. I say my piece and leave.
Load More Replies...Most of these entries aren't exclusive to introverts. I'd say also people that reach the age or the opinion of not giving a flying fig what other people think of them. Dressing for comfort, early nights, staying in, for instance. When I was a teen I was shy and self conscious. As I got older I became more comfortable in myself. For me, it came with age and experience.
Time management instructor: Think of Extroverts as waking up every morning with an empty hand and they get one quarter for every social interaction they have, leaving their hands full of money at the end of each day. Now imagine waking up with a hand full of quarters and each interaction costs one quarter...
I'm an introvert because nobody shares the same interests as me. Say, what's your opinion on the unification of quantum mechanics and general relativity?
