Welcome back to the introverted side of the internet! With introverts gaining more recognition and acceptance in society, our consumption of introverted memes has never been so high.
While these memes are funny, they also ring true for many of us. But it’s important to remember that despite social awkwardness, introverts possess unique talents and strengths that often go unnoticed.
So, let’s celebrate and embrace our introverted nature and never underestimate the power of quiet reflection and solitude. To aid in this self-reflection, we have collected the best introvert memes from Instagram's account, introvertsays.in.
We believe that embracing introverted qualities can help us appreciate and grow in our individuality. Therefore, dear Pandas, it is time to reflect, laugh, and maybe even grow a little.
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Wait, that actually makes sense
I believe this is more of an insecurity issue and not about being an introvert. Just because people get their cup filled by being with people that doesn't mean that they are super confident and don't have insecurities or anxiety or always like to be the center of attention. Just like being an introvert means that you have no confidence, hate people, get super anxious about dealing with people in any way (social anxiety), never leave the house or be in bed all day (depression) being an introvert is defined as *they feel more comfortable focusing on their inner thoughts and ideas, rather than what's happening externally. They enjoy spending time with just one or two people, rather than large groups or crowds." All of these memes do not represent introversion and more represent awkwardness, anxiety, insecurity, depression, and just being human
Yep, that is what just being human represents: awkwardness,anxiety,insecurity and depression. Lmao you had me in stitches lol.
Load More Replies...Oh I don't get sad, I get murderous impulses when that happens!
Load More Replies...me when im watching only murders in the building and my moms adhd butt doesnt wanna pay attention but she asked me abt the plot literally seconds later
It’s so much better watching with someone, and then having deeper conversation than the average extrovert could give you
Unexpectedly Relatable Energy
I can't stand it. I'll buy a soda or a candy bar or a hand sanitizer or *something*. I know its not wrong, but I can't do it.
What happens if you’re in Louis Vuitton or Gucci or Pandora?!
Load More Replies...Haha yeah is so awkward I feel like everyone is looking at me and there is a spotlight somewhere on me.
Why does this seem like a crime when it isn't! I feel so guilty and start sweating & end up buying anything!
OR when the security alarm goes off for no reason as you leave and you feel as guilty as hell and feel everyone is looking at you, the security guard goes "It's Ok"
Idk why but I feel guilty and that everyone is watching me if I leave the store without buying anything.
I often talk myself out of going inside stores unless I am absolutely certain there is something I will buy. Sometimes it's not even about seeming suspicious, I simply feel guilty for walking in a store and not buying anything.
Wait, that actually makes sense
I love how you assume that the cow doesn't have it's own problems. For all you know that cow could be contemplating going over that cliff.
3 step plan for this level of peace. 1. buy a tent 2. Go hike to somewhere remote 3. relax and enjoy the scenery and peace
Sounds really nice intend on buying a tent this spring and going camping this summer. Somewhere way in the Boonies if I can find a good place.....
Load More Replies..."It's what's gonna happen AFTER the vacation is over that's bothering moo..."
Some common misconceptions about introverts and introversion are that introverts are shy, aloof, or uninterested in social interaction. However, this is not always the case, as introverts can be sociable and enjoy spending time with others, but they also need alone time to recharge. Additionally, introversion is not the same thing as being socially anxious or having social phobias.
To learn more about the subject Bored Panda got in touch with Dr. Jonathan Cheek, a Professor of Psychology at Wellesley College. On this subject, he commented: “shyness is social anxiety, non-anxious introversion is introspection, preference for solitude”. So the difference between introversion and shyness is that introversion is a personality trait that refers to someone who prefers to spend time alone or in small groups and is often characterized by a more inward focus. Shyness, on the other hand, is a fear of social judgment or embarrassment that may or may not be associated with introversion.
Well, that escalated quickly
Because it is "fun" (by a really misguided definition of fun, that only fit certain types of people, who cannot imagine that somebody else may feel differently from themselves)
Load More Replies...Hello my name is Winter and i have an agreement with the school that i shouldn't be made to do this torture... I mean exercise.
Pro tip: If you want to make sure nobody tries to make conversation for the rest of the event, read the room then say something that will make you an outcast or weirdo. 'Hi I'm Donkey Boi, and for the past few years, I have been preparing my fallout shelter for the inevitable destruction of our planet', or 'Hi I'm Donkey Boi and in my spare time I collect hair from the neighbourhood cats to make sustainable and environmentally friendly hats.'
Peak mood energy
Roses are red, The sky is blue, Whoo shoo, My eyes are heavy, I'm tied to my pillow.
Roses are red/ I'm going to bed/don't turn on the light or shake the bed/ make sure if you pee you don't do it loud/ and for heaven's sake / we've lived her so long/ I am sure you can pee in the dark!/ when the dog gets up/ and walks across my tummy/ don't call out/ don't tell him be quiet/ Just let him keep walking/ it's so much faster! Roses were red/ I am now in the bed/ not the one I started in/ but at least now/ i can sleep/ while you and the dog / keep watching TV!
Wait, who taught you this?
I'm fairly introverted, but I don't do this. I wait for a bit, and if it takes them too long to decide what they want I go up and say "Excuse me, could I just...?" Because I hate shopping and want to go back home to my couch as soon as possible.
I read the backs of products I'll never buy while I'm waiting like this XD
Yeah lol "shift out of the way you d**k" and then somone gets thrown and cause a battle in shop LMAO xD if would be mad if people just did that. Of course people would rather read something boring as f**k cause there's not much else ya can do.
Load More Replies...I do this all the time like I go to great extent to try to focus on nothing particle that I need, while rushing the person in my mind. Lol. Because well idk really.
It’s especially funny when you’re doing this but the other person is also doing this because you’re standing in front of what they need, and then you shuffle awkwardly to switch places without admitting what you were doing . :D
Some times the people behind you don't know you are secretly waiting for someone in front to move and they pick up something while there waiting for you to move and then you end up with a load of people pretending to read ingredients. Because no one realises no one shuffles xD
Load More Replies...I just go find something else on my list and then come back later for the blocked item. That generally works, except when you're dealing with Mr. I Smoked Five Joints Before I Came To The Store, who's still standing there staring at the same box of Cheez-Its twenty minutes later.
The question is, are you introverted or just shy? Someone can know if they are an introvert by paying attention to their own energy levels and preferences. Introverts may feel drained after prolonged social interaction and find comfort in solitude, but they are not necessarily fearful of social situations. On the other hand, shy individuals may avoid social situations due to fear of being judged or embarrassed, even if they enjoy being around others.
According to Jonathan M. Cheek, shyness tends to reach its peak during adolescence, around the ages of 13 or 14, before declining in the early thirties.
Plot twist: I did not see that coming
Me every time I feel like I did something special to help my boyfriend x3
Wait, this actually makes sense
Been known to walk around the block in the opposite direction to avoid this type of torture.
This has happened to me I do not even look at the person I just go about my way it is way to werid. And then I think about it later.
I purposely walk as slow as possible so they have no choice but to walk ahead. Not today satan….
Have done this one to but then I go a different way unless there only one way out then I fall back and go to look at something or something. I know I'm werid.
Load More Replies...Well, that escalated quickly
Anyone want to have an argument with me here so the good folks have something fun to read?
its ok - my friends won't do much harm, just a few memories and maybe a soul
Load More Replies...why is this so true?cuz its like 1 am rn where i live and im just..... yea
To determine whether you are introverted or shy, consider your own preferences and feelings in various social situations. Are you uncomfortable in large groups or social settings because you prefer to spend time alone, or are you afraid of being judged or embarrassed? Answering these questions can help you understand if you are introverted or shy.
Not mad, just impressed
If a relative calls my mom, I usually disappear until she's off the phone. I'm just being polite.
The phone ringing is a good excuse to hop in the shower until I become a lobster.
If I ever showered the length of time my mother talks on the phone, I would be dead.
Load More Replies...My partner does this to me with his mum when he gets tired of talking. And it's always when I'm cooking and trapped in the kitchen, so I can't run away! I love my MIL to bits, but that bird can chirp!
Well, this is Phil Mitchell from Eastenders. Is there any more context from this photo?
Well, that escalated quickly
That's too funny because I rarely leave the house and this morning I brought the garbage out to the road wearing an oversized, thick bathrobe with a hood on it that goes to my toes. Husband says it looks like I'm wearing a sleeping bag, but I feel like that puffy penguin in the pic, lol.
Hey! You makin' fun o' me? What? Yeah! You makin' fun o' me? Boy! Do I wish I had a bathrobe like that! I need it, gotta walk 3 apartments away to get my mail!
I totally relate to this! I haven't left the house for exactly two weeks.
Plot twist no one saw coming
Yeah on a normal day at work cause no body else wants to lift a finger some days......like ugh come on ppl your killing me here
Introverts can thrive in environments that tend to favor extroversion by finding ways to balance their alone time with social interaction. This can include setting boundaries, finding quiet spaces to retreat to, and engaging in activities that allow for solo time but also provide social opportunities.
Some strategies that introverts can use to manage their energy and recharge after socializing or being in stimulating environments include finding quiet spaces to be alone, engaging in quiet activities like reading or journaling, and prioritizing time for self-care. It is also important for introverts to set boundaries and communicate their needs to those around them. Additionally, introverts can try to schedule alone time before and after social events to allow for adequate recharging.
Well, that escalated quickly
Thank you! Was getting annoyed with all these implications that introverts must be depressed.
Load More Replies...If I feel good for more than a day I start to question it and fall back into depression.
Wait, that actually makes sense
mine is "in that argument you had 3 years ago- here's what you should have said"
Why dose this happen it sucks so much and then my brain never shuts off.
Only 50? I get through all of them, from kindergarten to college. There ain't 50
Wait, That’s Actually Genius
Me concerning most jokes most likely dark comedy is my route even about myself it helps me cope.
I'm a comedian mine says. But then gets serious and analyses everything
Mood: 100% relatable vibes
I always pretend I'm still working on the problem so that the teacher thinks I don't have the answer yet
this doesn't work cuz my teacher just says do it with the class then
Load More Replies...TABLE!!! GRAB A BRUSH AND PUT A LITTLE TABLE!!! HIDE THE SCARS TO FADE AWAY THE TABLE!! WHY'D YOU LEAVE YOUR KEYS UPON TH--
That won't work. They like to call on people who look the most unsure of the awnser that are not paying attention. It sucks when you can't stay visibly focused for more then a minute
Load More Replies...Well, that escalated quickly
I have always HATED group projects. Some people are just too lazy to do the work and others do such a horrible job that it would be better if they had done absolutely nothing at all. If I have to keep writing three-page emails describing where they messed up their APA formatting in both body and reference list (when we have the freaking format book), then clearly we're in two different leagues. Eventually I'm forced to just fix the c**p myself to save time... time which I will inevitably need to fix their overall s****y contributions. No thanks.
In college one time there was a group project in one of my friend's classes and the professor said they had to credit who did what part of it so that is one section was bad he would know who's grade to drop, and my friend was in a really sh*tty group where he was the only one who did anything, so at the end, instead of crediting the others for work they didn't do, he credited himself only.
Load More Replies...I aways hated this because I had to communicate with people and my communication is fine but it seems like even when I didn't say anything no one can agree.
When the people you'd expect would choose you, not only have already found other teammates but haven't even considered you as an option
Load More Replies...Can’t believe I just read that
I do this with my dog and sitting there with him is always better than the other thing I was supposed to do.
Ohhhhhooo this makes me feel so uncomfortable like I feel like I should move cause I feel like they may be uncomfortable or something but then makes me even more uncomfortable. It so awkward for me.
Poor Keanu! Every time I see this photo, I can't help but wonder what's making him look so sad. 🥺
I might be wrong, but I think this is shortly after he lost his girlfriend and baby. The pic makes me sad too.
Load More Replies...if they start to walk your way just bolt before they see you..
You just snap your fingers, jump up and exclaim: "Oh! I forgot!" Then run.
Plot twist: didn’t see that coming
Or when they get off topic, and u cant finish your story. Lol
Load More Replies...It is a difficult one, sometimes showing that you can relate to how people feel by showing that you have been there yourself, especially if we are talking abot having made a certain mistake, can make you apear more human and hence more relatable. That is part of why having dry alcoholics helping people who still strugle with alcohold is so effective. But it is important that you keep it short, preferable a single sentence so you don't steel the spotlight, and never ever try to one-up them, as it might make their problems seem silly and insignificant, while it is still a big issue for them.
The interrupting is definitely the rude part, but the "oh yeah I have a similar story" is one of the only ways I know to relate to people.
Load More Replies...I always let them finish their story and go "ANYWAYS" - and continue with my story.
This can make people who are neurodivergent feel like they never want to socialise again :( How about saying 'Yeah, and what happened to me was ...'. You validate them and yourself :)
Load More Replies...Every. Damn. Time. I always roll my eyes and stop paying attention to them
I mean - this is a thing that is introverts do to connect with people. Particularly those of us who are neurodivergent
Didn’t See That Coming
my fake laugh is terrible so im glad i cant relate, my fake laugh sounds like a goblin mated with a sheep and they fed the baby a diet of helium, sugar and cocaine
Wait, that actually makes sense
Try smoking, it's a great escape, but on the flip side, I actually feel more comfortable talking while smoking with other smokers...PSA: don't start smoking just to have an escape route. Figure something else out.
Yeah and your just staring at the wall or floor and some unknown person comes up to you to to talk to you. "Oh hey........" Yeah slowly makes there way to the other side or someone more interesting for them to talk to do all attention is off me 😅
Plot twist: it actually works
Yes, picture inaccurate. It should be someone crying
Load More Replies...*looks around-realization sinks in* Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu........
The worst is when your not even an adult, you're just the teenage authority figure over a bunch if screaming children
Well, Didn’t See That Coming
why would u become a waiter if u were an introvert tho???😂
Load More Replies...Also me: looking away as soon as the waiter looks in my general direction
Yeah I have never ever called a waiter even when my drink was empty and it been awhile actually happened. Once or twice.
And slightly waving every time they look in your direction, but not enough for anyone to notice
Well, where's your little Ronco Pocket Air Horn? Spoze you could blow that champagne flute.
Why is this *not* an invitation to ask the customer if he wants the bill?
Wait, this actually makes sense
usually i just hug people or say "i'm here" or "you're gonna be ok"
Wait, that actually makes sense
You can Google it? Maybe there's am answer like with the AITA Reddit thing
Before Reddit, instead of AITA, we used to ask the opinion of someone we trusted instead of broadcasting that mess for the whole world to see.
Load More Replies...Regretting everything I said for the day. I really don't belong to this planet.
Wait, I actually relate to this
I like to keep my menu open with my finger on my selection in case I forget the words, but then the waiter thinks I am still deciding because the menu is open and doesn't come. Have closed hand in menu before to reopen to spot, despite rehearsal.
Lucky... my friends are socially awkward too, so we just end up fighting for ten minutes over who's going to order
Load More Replies...Yes I end up either taking awkwardly to long or picking one of the things most appealing I seen first. Ugh I hate it.
How can you forget to rehearse?? I'd have been rehearsing for days prior
Haha. I used to call someone and if they didn’t answer I’d immediately panic. I always got nervous when I had to leave a voicemail. I would start laughing or mess up my words and didn’t know how to end the message. Like literally just ok thank you bye and hang up. So to fix that I started calling people and if they didn’t answer, I would hang up, write out what I wanted to say on the voice mail, and then call back from a blocked number so they wouldn’t see that I called twice. This was before the visual voicemail thing where you can see what message came from what number.
Plot twist: I’m actually awake
I recently got my hair dyed for the first time in my 40 years of life. I was too shy/introverted to ask the prices first. OOF. Let's just say I'm never getting my hair dyed again.
Yeah, mine is never right - hairstylists just won't get it short enough. I gave up and shaved it all off again lol
That was me at CVTec I didn't get the haircut I wanted and felt awful but I was their first male client^^"
Wait, that’s actually relatable
Whenever I read or remember old situations I say out loud ‘Ouch’
If you ever need to make a new account, it could be Lizzie the iconic frog.
Load More Replies...Oh this is me all the time. I swear I say the weirdest things and sometimes I stumble on what I say and it just come out not the way I intended but then it like okay......what do I say from here.
I have to delete old conversations longer then 3 months old so I don't have myself for being cringery and annoying af
When you read an old conversation and realize, "it's me. Hi. I'm the problem it's me"
This hits different, not gonna lie
Well, that’s oddly satisfying
Last weekend, I slept from 3AM Saturday until 11AM Sunday. It was glorious.
No sleep needed Just being in my comfy bed with a book No humans needed !
Well, That Escalated Quickly
Cyclops does have a pretty good looking hinder here I must say…..
Load More Replies...My mom tells me that I can cure my insomnia by turning the TV on and falling asleep to the TV. She doesn't understand that I will WATCH the TV and not sleep.
I have YouTube playing on a tablet and turn the screen off when I find myself with my eyes closed more than open. Works like a charm. Just watch familiar things though, not new stuff.
Load More Replies...This why I can't have the tv on when going to sleep then I can't sleep cause then it's all interesting then sleep and I need sleep.
I put the tv on sleep noise, and the iPad on forensic files. Because if I fall asleep, I've seen every one of the forensic files hundreds of times. I feel safe, because I know they get the criminal, and Peter Thomas has a soothing voice.
I CAN NOT fall asleep with the TV on because I start paying attention to the show on tv.
Big Mood Energy
If you have time for a video call, you've got time to write an email
Video call ?? That means I gotta get dressed, brush my hair, clean up my mess a little bit. And pray my connection doesn’t go thru ! Fuckety, fvck fvck !
Naw, this is an opportunity. Now when you don't answer, they KNOW it's because you don't like them.
Big mood but make it subtle
I think these days this is a lot about not intimidating someone. With most people I've noticed we're doing this thing where you reply to each other's messages after a few minutes even if we see they're texting right at that moment. This is so that the other person can actually say what they want to and not rush into getting their point across because usually they don't end up doing it right when that happens. Thinking a bit about what you're typing and having some time to read your message again and reflect on whether what you wrote is what you meant or not can be a life saver. So when I see someone is texting me, I allow them to think about what they want to say so they won't give up on saying whatever they were planning on saying. Getting a text of "nevermind" feels bad so that's how they can have some time to process their thoughts instead of seeing you online and realizing you're waiting for their text so they give up cause it takes them too long of a time and they feel bad for making you wait.
Feel sorry for people like my mom. She's stuck with a total introvert as a daughter and I do that sort of thing. In fact I kind of stay off Facebook because I don't want to get into a long chat. She's not an introvert; that's my inheritance from my dad. I love her though and try to force myself out of my shell.
No way I’m the only one thinking this
I totally lucked out in life. My husband and I have been together almost 20 years (since I was 17 and he was 20) and we are both introverts. It's the best thing in the world to have a partner in crime who is also willing to pause the TV and remain silent, pretending that nobody is home when there is a knock at the door... and who will also giggle in victory with me as we watch them walk away 😁. Don't get me wrong... we do the human-interaction stuff when we have to (ironically, both our jobs involve a lot of "people" skills)... but we sure love to avoid it whenever we can! We didn't even want kids... two dogs suit us just perfect!
Wait, I’ve definitely done this before
And to avoid getting out of bed (as I am Currently doing)
Load More Replies...My phone only charges overnight and in the car. Then again, I'm on computer most of the time.
Funny-Relatable-Introvert-Memes
Because you suddenly forget everything about anything that feels not ok the second your there and just want to leave.
The last time I went to the doctor alone I had a panic attack.
Load More Replies...My friend once went to the doctor and the dcotor criticized her for not drinking enough milk… She’s milk intolerant. That’s gonna stay with her the rest of her life 😭
By all accounts I got my s**t together. Money right, car right, homes right but I can't advocate for myself at the with the doctor. I got questions if I go to the doctor with somebody else for them but for me nope, I'm good. Me, can't walk with a pulled quad Dr: Would you like some pain meds for your leg and a note to get out of work. Me: (he thinks Im a malingering junkie) I'll be alright it hurts but it's not too bad I can suck it up then I'm in pain for the next week and a half Me: wrist hurts for 3 months straight but only when I move it. It will be better in a few days, it's fine
Funny-Relatable-Introvert-Memes
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I had a convo with someone that went like this...me: wassup.... them: nm hbu.... me: nm hbu...., weve been a loop for 3 days now
Load More Replies...Men in relationships, is this annoying? I do it to my boyfriend but I’m not sure if he likes it or not…
Another "introvert post" about social awkwardness, anxiety, sociophobia, immaturity and everything but introversion.
I just wrote a long a*s comment trying to explain the same point that you so beautifully explained in 1 sentence! I
Load More Replies...Please do not get mad or down votes as I am not trying to be mean or rude. As an extrovert that suffers from social anxiety, iI am genuinely curious and want to educate myself more on this topic. I have always thought of being an introvert as being more reserved and prefer being with themselves or a small group. The definition of interverts that psychology uses is :An introvert is a person with qualities of a personality type known as introversion, which means that they feel more comfortable focusing on their inner thoughts and ideas, rather than what's happening externally. They enjoy spending time with just one or two people, rather than large groups or crowds... I feels that a lot of these memes and other introvert posts they are describing more mental health issues like social anxiety, general anxiety, and depression. Like I mentioned above, I am an extravert, but I also don't like being the center of attention. I also have social anxiety, and I related to a lot of these because because of that. I have also had depression in the past and can relate to posts that seem to be about that. So, wouldn't these all be better off as memes about social anxiety?
Yep, exactly. I'm an introvert but I don't suffer from social anxiety and I'm not shy. It drives me nuts when those three things are conflated.
Load More Replies...all the introvert posts are all about deppresion or social anxiety. I relate to both, but could they just change the title or something?
Once again, the internet demonstrates it has absolutely no idea what introversion is.
does anyone else ever feel terrible when you have to say no to the little girls selling girl scout cookies at the grocery store?
If you live and work in another country, with a language barrier, life can be blissfully peaceful. No one to criticize or judge you, not too much mindless small talk. If you don't have a sincere connection with folks, they leave you alone. I’m an INFP teaching in China
Another "introvert post" about social awkwardness, anxiety, sociophobia, immaturity and everything but introversion.
I just wrote a long a*s comment trying to explain the same point that you so beautifully explained in 1 sentence! I
Load More Replies...Please do not get mad or down votes as I am not trying to be mean or rude. As an extrovert that suffers from social anxiety, iI am genuinely curious and want to educate myself more on this topic. I have always thought of being an introvert as being more reserved and prefer being with themselves or a small group. The definition of interverts that psychology uses is :An introvert is a person with qualities of a personality type known as introversion, which means that they feel more comfortable focusing on their inner thoughts and ideas, rather than what's happening externally. They enjoy spending time with just one or two people, rather than large groups or crowds... I feels that a lot of these memes and other introvert posts they are describing more mental health issues like social anxiety, general anxiety, and depression. Like I mentioned above, I am an extravert, but I also don't like being the center of attention. I also have social anxiety, and I related to a lot of these because because of that. I have also had depression in the past and can relate to posts that seem to be about that. So, wouldn't these all be better off as memes about social anxiety?
Yep, exactly. I'm an introvert but I don't suffer from social anxiety and I'm not shy. It drives me nuts when those three things are conflated.
Load More Replies...all the introvert posts are all about deppresion or social anxiety. I relate to both, but could they just change the title or something?
Once again, the internet demonstrates it has absolutely no idea what introversion is.
does anyone else ever feel terrible when you have to say no to the little girls selling girl scout cookies at the grocery store?
If you live and work in another country, with a language barrier, life can be blissfully peaceful. No one to criticize or judge you, not too much mindless small talk. If you don't have a sincere connection with folks, they leave you alone. I’m an INFP teaching in China
