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There are certain times in all of our lives when it’s understandable to be a little demanding: when planning a wedding, when having a baby, and maybe even when it’s your birthday. But as you’ll soon find out, some people use getting married as an excuse to turn into absolute monsters.
Below, you'll find pics that put some of the worst bridezillas the world has ever seen on blast, as well as an interview with Shay Yellin, Editor in Chief of Bespoke Bride. Be sure to upvote the demands you find most egregious, and if you’re ever planning a wedding of your own, please remember not to burn any bridges on your way to the aisle!
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#1
... Human Trash Bag
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I remember this on Reddit, the OP cut that awful excuse of a friend out of their life and if I remember correctly, many of their mutual friends were so angry they didn't go either.
ButFirstCoffee 2 years ago
I wonder how long the marriage lasted. I'd like to have the comments of the spouse.
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OmBoyGanesh 2 years ago
According to OP, the wedding got cancelled and groom dumped her. All info in the Reddit link under the image.
CanadianDimes 2 years ago
I don't understand this 'all focus must be on ME' mentality. You're getting married. You aren't winning a Nobel prize. Do you expect your guests to not speak or look at each other? Is everyone meant to stare at you in rapt silence the whole time? What about your partner - y'know, the person you're marrying? Should they get no attention?
Heather Resatz 2 years ago
There was another bridezilla story I read about a woman who wanted to enforce silence at her wedding to make sure that all attention was on her at all times .. I mean, wtf??? What is wrong with people???
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Mrs Irish Mom 2 years ago
Wow i cant believe this is actually real, what a piece of sh!t, shes better off without her in her life 🤯
mooshoflove 2 years ago
Right?! I was hoping it was some kind of disgusting hoax! 100% sociopath, no doubt.
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Kate Jones 2 years ago
"It's not like you knew her." Wow, that was the most selfish and brutal thing I've read in a while. Like losing a baby and getting asked questions about it is a form of attention any woman wants to get. I'm petty so I'd forward this conversation to every she knew in the wedding party and any guests. Then never talk to her again. She can ruin her own damn wedding.
Shyla Bouche 2 years ago
Yeah, that was what slapped me in the face, too. There are no words for someone so selfish.
Load More Replies... Well then 2 years ago
My son died at birth and the most hurtful and infuriating thing said to me was "It's not like you knew him" by numerous people 😡 or when they call him it. He has a name, a whole death certificate, and a tiny casket. He was born the day after my birthday. You never get over it, it just becomes apart of you.
Bookcat 2 years ago
So sorry for your loss. Besides being hurtful, those comments make no sense - you got to know and love your son over the months before his birth, so certainly you knew him! The loss of him must have been SOOO hard for you. I wish you well on your journey of healing.
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LH25 2 years ago
"It's not like you knew her"????? Yeah, that would be the final friendship ender for me.
Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 2 years ago
Who needs enemies when you have "friends" like this... Good riddance!
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#2
“Lose Weight If You Want To Be My Maid Of Honour”
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Good on OP for standing up for herself and refusing to attend the wedding. I'll never understand the mindset of brides who put their wedding aesthetic above having those near and dear to them involved in their wedding. When I (hopefully eventually) get married, I couldn't care less what my friends look like as long as they are comfortable, happy and by my side. I'm a wheelchair user and know other wheelchair users who have been refused to be in the wedding party because of being in a wheelchair- if any friend of mine did that they wouldn't be my friend any longer!
Just me, myself, and I 2 years ago
I married in 1981 and very casually. $100 wedding dress (had the train removed), told my sister who was my only attendant to pick any dress she liked. Don't care about the color or style. So we went thru the formalities and had a rip-roarin' reception (open bar, lots of food) at the same place. The woman who oversaw everything that happened at the venue later said with a shocked look on her face "everyone seemed to have a great time". Umm, yeah. What sort of events do you usually host?
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BetterBitterButter 2 years ago
What's the obsession with people looking "perfect" in the photos? What's perfect? Wouldn't you want your loved ones by your side and nor just what fits into your definition of pretty?
Just me, myself, and I 2 years ago
To me, perfect is having family and friends in the photos, no matter what they look like or how they're dressed. I think all my friends are gorgeous, no matter their "flaws"!
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I'm always someone who tries to play devil's advocate, especially because I'm very overweight. I want to try and see it from their pov. Finding a store that will have my size would be costly and difficult. The style would also have to be something that worked for my size so everyone would have to bend to something that looks okay on me. I can see why that can be a problem and as a fat person I have be aware of that. That being said...I would hope that someone who was my friend would feel it's more important to her that I'm up there beside her than if the clothing fits some kind of aesthetic. It's sad that so many people only care about social media approval. They want to sell the idea that they're princesses who got their happily ever after and they want to sell that lie on social media. And seeing something that isn't perfect reminds them it's not real. I don't want to be friends with someone who is embarrassed of me to the point they don't want me to 'ruin' their photos.
Michael Largey 2 years ago
The ugly weight that's dragging you down and need to lose is that cousin.
Pam Belcher 2 years ago
My nephews fiance asked me to be a bridesmaid. I was thrilled when she showed me a pix of the dress she liked for us girls. It was beautiful and flattering. Went to the bridal shop to get measured etc and was shown a completely different dress that I did not like at all. Being a full figured gal it was just not flattering on me. I told her I did not like the dress, that it didn't look good on me. She says "If you were really my friend you would have lost weight". I was no longer a bridesmaid.
Tushar Roy Mukherjee 2 years ago
If you are obese, please lose weight for your health's sake.The wedding ? Don't go. And if you are fat, call the bride up and tell as many profanities as you can recall.
Bonnie Edwards 2 years ago
My MIL was shocked when I didn't make the effort to lose weight just for my wedding. I have a lot of trouble losing weight. My philosophy. If my husband fell in love with me, at the size I was/ am, then why do I need to lose weight just for photos?
#3
Bridezilla Tried Ripping Off Bridesmaids
Robert Trebor 2 years ago
Embezzling money from your friends for your wedding sure sets a good foundation for a marriage.
RafCo (he/him/ele) 2 years ago
It is, but hard to prove with it anything in writing. But maybe there are emails
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Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
What the hell? If you can't afford your wedding dress, lower your expectations or cut other expenses. You're only gonna wear it once anyway. Who the fudge cares?
Just me, myself, and I 2 years ago
Wore it once and then donated it. Why the heck would I give up closet space to something I'll never wear again? Let someone else enjoy it, either at their wedding or as a Halloween costume.
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hitex 2 years ago
I paid for my bridesmaid dresses as the bride instead of giving a bridesmaid gift. No one wants to pay for their bridesmaid dress!
Sadie Parkes 2 years ago
I don't know anyone in the UK/parts of Europe who make the bridesmaids/groomsmen pay for their own outfits.
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I’m sure you’re all familiar with the idea of a “bridezilla”. This term was coined by Boston Globe writer Diane White in 1995 when she was writing an article about difficult brides, and the name just stuck. By 2003, a show called Manhattan Brides, which was later renamed Bridezillas, began filming, and they’ve appeared in popular culture ever since. Movies like Bride Wars (2009) depict women planning their weddings as selfish and ruthless, but we all know that most brides-to-be aren’t actually anywhere near that unreasonable. Planning a wedding can be extremely stressful, and it’s understandable to want things to be perfect.
Unfortunately, however, there are some brides out there who seem to have tunnel vision when planning their big days and have no problem steamrolling all of their loved ones along the way. So to learn more about how common it is for brides to become extremely demanding when wedding planning, we reached out to Shay Yellin, Editor in Chief of Bespoke Bride. Bespoke Bride has been voted ‘Best for Bridal’ by Cosmopolitan Magazine and listed as one of the UK’s top 10 wedding blogs, and lucky for us, Shay was happy to answer some of our burning bridal questions.
#4
Holy Smack, A Silent Reception‽
Phoebe Bean 2 years ago
I'll happily give her the silent treatment... what's wrong with brides??
Elizabeth Tayler 2 years ago
What an incredibly stupid idea. What exactly is the point of the reception then, to have a room full of silent people gazing at you in admiration? What a pathetic ego trip.
Monday 2 years ago
You can't have the attention stolen from you by someone else if there's no one else!
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Nikki Ty-Tomkins 2 years ago
I think the bride has a lot of problems. And I sense a sort of "bossy meanness" ... first demanding the guests wear yellow, which any seasoned couturier knows is a difficult color for most complexions. And second demanding silence ... uncomfortable silence. Where did she get these weird notions? I pity her husband. I suspect a rocky road ahead ...
Colleen Glim 2 years ago
Yellow makes me look like I’ve got some horrible liver disease
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CatWoman1014 2 years ago
It’s like some of these brides want to be worshipped or something. The need for attention is tacky and so odd to me.
juice 2 years ago
Amy’s answer: “Silence: Congratulations! You are on the verge of attaining legendary Bridezilla status. Yes, there are many flags flying over this unusual affair (and they're yellow, of course). I hope your fiance is paying attention, because if you are this self-centered now I can only imagine what the dynamic will be like later, for instance if you choose to have children. Somewhere along the line, you seem to have gotten the idea that a wedding is for the bride alone, to serve her whims and fancies. No. Public weddings are family events and should celebrate the joining of two families. Your fiance's job is not to support you regardless of how dumb your ideas are. That's not how marriage works. Let's start with your request that all guests must wear yellow. I have yet to see a man's yellow outfit that didn't bring to mind a giant banana...
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Michael Largey 2 years ago
Any guest who gives in to her demands is indeed entitled to wear yellow.
David Smith 2 years ago
Advice to groom - you are right! To save anguish and money in the future end it now!
#5
Fiancé Is In A Bridal Group On Facebook And Came Across This One
Helena 2 years ago
Never once thought about my wedding as a kid. I really do not get these kind of people.
Cathelijne Van 2 years ago
I thought about it when I was little, and found it very stupid and absolutely something I would never do! Married this year for 20 years 😝
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Jack S 2 years ago
Ah that makes more sense. I was sat thinking "what about happy husband, happy ... " Then I got nothing to ryhme with husband that made any sense.
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Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Hopefully the poor fiancé saw sense and didn't get a second job but saved himself $80k and dumped this selfish woman!
Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 2 years ago
I get the impression that the poor fiance is more like a necessary evil to her to get her dream wedding, like the celery stick in the Bloody Mary or something
Steve Robert 2 years ago
I just can't believe this is real. And if it is, this guy should run faster than Bolt from this abomination!
Taryn Pirelli 2 years ago
NGL I don't understand people who literally spend a lot of their life dreaming about a wedding day. I get it is a special day but to the point of just having big dreams for a single day seems odd to me.
Cathelijne Van 2 years ago
But why aren't we talking about a culture that puts this in the head of little children??
censorshipsucks 2 years ago (edited)
Disney. It's disney's fault. I even call it the Disney Effect. White horse, white dress, all that kak. It's disney. https://insidethemag...dding-Dress.png
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censorshipsucks 2 years ago
IKR in SA that would get you a 2 bedroom house and a garden.
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Bro Needs To Find A New Bride
flippin berry 2 years ago
What nonsense. Anyone who wants an aesthetic wedding should know that having a mysterious groomsman with dreads is the ultimate WORD on aesthetic.
Sherman 2 years ago
HELL NO! As someone who has had dreads multiple times in my life & one time I had them for over 10 years... I'd literally murder her before I did that! They take so much work & patience.. it takes YEARS sometimes to get your dress to a length you want & to get them locked up real good... usually you end up starting them when they're little shorties so it can be literal years before you are actually satisfied with them... cutting them off for SOMEONE ELSES WEDDING IS ABSURD! I'd be like "okay... pay me $40,000. That's my price. Either pay me, deal with the dreads... or I won't be there as a groomsman.. I'll just be a regular guest cause your wife is whack!"
GlamourGhoul 2 years ago
Sorry but no sex is good enough to spend the rest of your life miserable.
Llama_flower93 2 years ago
Just hire some models. It's obviously what these brides are looking for.
According to Shay, it’s extremely common for brides to be particular when wedding planning. “Many of the brides we've worked with at Bespoke Bride were extremely demanding,” she told Bored Panda. “We actually think it's quite normal and reasonable for brides to become unreasonably demanding. Let's face it, it's the BIGGEST day in life for many brides. They have very specific dreams of how this day will look, so if it's not perfect - they can easily get unreasonable.”
We also asked Shay if she could share any experiences of working with particularly difficult brides. “On our Bespoke Bride shop - we sell lots of DIY wedding accessories that can easily be downloaded and printed at home,” she told Bored Panda. “These are very affordable items ranging from $4 to $6. Once we had a client bride that wanted us to re-design the entire item according to her very specific demands. We tried to help and do a few edits, but the more we did, the more she wanted us to edit again. We did a LOT of work for $6!”
#7
I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December
Megan Curl 2 years ago
These are making me more and more depressed about the general horribleness of some people.
Helen Bennett 2 years ago
These are the posts that stuck out because they were unusual. I am telling myself. What drama would there be in talking about the tens of thousands of weddings where everything went well, everyone had a good day and a long and happy marriage happened next? (Just keep telling myself that.)
Load More Replies... Shark Lady 2 years ago
The best friend isn't in the wedding party because she is native American and won't match with the other women.
Michael Largey 2 years ago
"I've had this planned since I was in diapers." Your plan and diapers share more in common than just a timeline.
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I remember this. The bridesmaid was the cousin to the groom. The bride first was 'understanding' and said she "knew she wouldn't be able to lose the weight as she had just had a baby" then she saw the post and all the hate the bride was getting and chucked OP out of the wedding and made the groom block his cousin and the brides mum phoned her up and gave her lots of abuse. Poor groom was apparently being controlled by the bridezilla, sounds like OP had a lucky escape.
Dutchman Callypso 2 years ago (edited)
This is not even about the wedding anymore, this is just typical behavior of a control freak. "I want my day to be perfect so please do my bidding and become mindless copycat drones for my special day." Why even bother to be friends with people when their uniqueness is your inconvenience... I'm not even commenting on the $500 part, that's just straight up delusional...
#8
Entitled Bride Wants Bm To Wear Wig To Wedding
Megan Curl 2 years ago
This was where I had to stop reading this entire post. I’m just too disgusted.
N Miller 2 years ago
It's the "keeps making comments" bit that gets me. A single "have you considered a wig for the wedding?" is not actually unreasonable. Or a coordinated headscarf to match the dress. Heck, if it's that big a deal, the bride should offer to pay! But she should accept that "no" is also a reasonable answer. And making continuous comments is just passive aggressive and not a good look, regardless of how much make-up she uses.
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago (edited)
I agree! Myself, if I were OP, I'd literally buy a doll wig and fasten it to my head with elastic 'round my chin and wear it like a child's party hat. I am terribly petty, though XD
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Montanavanna 2 years ago
What a lady douche. You kiss that bald head and thank the stars your friend is still alive. What is wrong with people?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
No no no OP, don't suck it up, see your 'friend' for who she is, a nasty entitled b***h and drop her sorry a**e and tell her she either accepts you as you are or you can no longer be friends. As that bride is not your friend is she makes you drop big money on a wig for one day and on top makes you pay extra for makeup. If she loved and respected you she would either offer to buy you a wig if you wanted to wear one for the wedding or respect your choice to go bald to the wedding. Don't conform to her awful ultimatum!
Elizabeth Tayler 2 years ago
Wear a silk scarf wrap, they look beautiful & so will you. Or tell her to pi$$ off because she's being an insensitive a$$hole.
ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago
I was thinking it would be pretty to have all the bridesmaids wearing silk scarves, but if she doesn't want to change, then screw it.
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Shannon K 2 years ago
Nah I'm telling you what you don't do! You don't buy that wig, you don't pay that extra for makeup and you most certainly don't go to that bitches wedding! Bald is beautiful and fighting cancer is brave, therefore you are beautiful and brave and you deserve so much more than to be treated like sloppy seconds!
LynzCatastrophe 2 years ago
Honey, take whatever money you were going to pay for a wig and makeup and go buy yourself a present. Going through cancer is bad enough, but to be subjected to the nonsense of a bridesmaid is extra.
Benita Valdez 2 years ago
The only thing I could maybe, big maybe, think would be ok to ask is wearing a scarf but even then, it feels shītty to me to ask. If it was my wedding, I'd just be ecstatic that she would be able to be a part of it. I just don't understand how people can be so self absorbed and callous
#9
Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event
Brittania Kelli 2 years ago
I need to get away from a society where people feel entitled to other's money because they 'need' to throw a lavish wedding. It is a party. If you're getting married so that you can have an Insta perfect party and not because you and your partner want to celebrate your love with your closest friends and family DON'T GET MARRIED!
Jungle Empress 85 2 years ago
My thoughts exactly. You said it better than I could have!
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Enlee Jones 2 years ago
Friendly reminder to all you c#%ts—It’s not the responsibility of other people to pay for your wedding.
Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
Remember when brides weren't this entitled and they planned their dream weddings for years, saved money to make it happen, and didn't shame their alleged friends online for not contributing financially?
Kate Jones 2 years ago
You're right- you do need to get away from society. Because you're insane.
Lance LaRocque 2 years ago
They left out the best part. She has a very young kid. No mention of taking the kid with her for 2 months. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.theknotnews.com/bride-wedding-guests-1500-per-person-33062/amp
Deborah Barron Brown 2 years ago
I want to understand the men in all this. These marriages are doomed.
When it comes to dealing with challenging brides, Shay says, “You have to be extremely calm and supportive of ‘unreasonable’ brides, even if it's tough and can sometimes make you sick. When you understand the basic psychology behind it - that this is the BIGGEST day in their lives, it makes it easier to deal with. If there are items or things that you really cannot provide - you must come up with a smart answer that details all the reasons why you cannot provide them with the item or service. And most importantly - do it diplomatically, with lots of ‘I'm so sorry!’”
#10
I Mean... Sounds Kinda Like A Racist/Colorist Bride Here. Thoughts?
Jason Boyd 2 years ago
Also, yellow and dark skin is an awesome combo! I'm pink as, verging on blue after winter - I'd look like the Ukrainian flag!
Monday 2 years ago
Yeah I was just thinking that yellow looks waaaay better with darker skin. Just look at how amazing Lupita Nyong'o looked in that yellow dress in Little Monsters.
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Allison B 2 years ago
Dark skin and yellow look gorgeous together! My pale pink self however does NOT look good in yellow or orange.
Beck 2 years ago
I have olive skin. Yellow makes me look i have been puking for days.
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RafCo (he/him/ele) 2 years ago
You know who photographs well wearing yellow, black and brown people. You know who doesn't, pale people. Bride didn't want you looking better than anyone else in the photos. You'd have looked like a super model in a professional shoot.
Sheena Leversedge Wood 2 years ago
dark skin looks much better with yellow than white skin. sounds like the bride is just worried she'll look better in the colour scheme than everyone else.
#11
Wow
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
An update from Reddit from someone who saw the original post on Facebook: "She actually goes on to comment that people DID send this to her fiance, she said she was hacked, he bought her story about being hacked, and he was "currently making [her] some eggs" as an apology for believing it was her in the first place. Talk about manipulative & crazy. This poor child." I truly hope that delusional man finally saw her true colours before the wedding (how was she going to explain after that that she actually didn't want the daughter at the wedding?) and realised she wasn't hacked and did write it.
Praecordia 2 years ago
Seems like she tricked herself into having the baby at the wedding. Stupid people will eventually reveal themselves.
Load More Replies... Helen Bennett 2 years ago
Freakin h. My stepdaughter was a lovely part of our wedding and came and sat on my husband's lap while we signed the register <3 She was my only bridesmaid (and despite tender years was amazing when I had a stressed-out wibble-out before we headed over to the registry office) and it was perfect. There was never any question in my head when he and I first got together, that she was part of the picture and always would be. To get together with someone and want to cut their children out is just wrong.
RafCo (he/him/ele) 2 years ago
My son was our ring bearer. He was 7 and cute as a button in his little suit. You sound like an absolutely fantastic person. You're step daughter is very lucky to have you in her life. Just as my son is lucky to have my wife.
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Froynlaven 2 years ago
A 3-year-old needy as f......? Can't believe she doesn't have her own job and her own apartment yet
Sherman 2 years ago
Omg. Yet another one that I know isn't fake but wish it was. I'm a step mom. I wasn't sure that I was up for dating a man with kids but we had such great chemistry & I had never ever ever felt so comfortable with anyone in my life. So after some time I met his kids & I knew the moment that they were excited for me to go to the park with them that I could 100% see myself being in their life & Vice versa. But my now husband & I talked about it endlessly because I didn't want to come into their lives just to leave & I didn't want to waste his time either... you have a choice dude. There are plenty of men out there that DONT HAVE KIDS! Why do you think that you're more important than his literal child? If you can't see yourself being a step parent, then stop wasting peoples time & go find someone who doesn't have kids. There's no shame in that! But there is shame in acting like this! Better to walk away than turn into a step mom from hell who abused their step kid!
#12
Op Is Getting Thrashed In The Comments
Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 2 years ago
I hope the groom-to-be also got rid of a lot of weight before the wedding and by that I mean the bridezilla
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Again like the first post- I will never get this desire to place aesthetics of my wedding over my friendship if people who obviously mean a lot to me being my bridesmaids. Hopefully this bridesmaid also sees her friends true colours and makes a run from the friendship instead of round the block!
JoJo Anisko 2 years ago
Imho, people who put aesthetics over friendships are Not. Good. Friends.
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LynzCatastrophe 2 years ago
Gee, one of my really good friends, who I've asked to be a bridesmaid, has put on a lot of weight in a short amount of time. I hope she's OK! I need to go check on her.
She-Ra 2 years ago
Some people are just the worst. I lost weight for my best friends wedding. Not because she asked or expected it, but simply because I wanted to and being her moh gave me an incentive. She ordered my dress and it didn't fit, it was too small. I knew she was panicking but we had months to go and I assured her that it would fit. Wanna know what she said to me? She said, "I don't want you putting yourself under that pressure for me, I can order you another dress. She was willing to buy me another dress and be out of pocket to make me comfortable. I said no and the dress fit me on the day. I felt amazing and was delighted with my weight loss. I needed it. She's a top tier friend.
Shay also provided some words of wisdom for brides who are in over their heads when wedding planning. “We totally get the brides who become overwhelmed with stress when planning their weddings, even the most ‘unreasonable’ brides,” she says. “We know how stressful it can get, but you need to always look at the other side as well. Wedding vendors will do their utmost to provide you with your wish, but it's not always possible to get EXACTLY what you want. You need to accept that and find creative ways to change your dream just a little bit.”
If you’d like more wedding planning insight and tips from the experts, be sure to visit Bespoke Bride’s website right here!
#13
But Her Wedding Is More Important Than Op Dying /S
Damitria 2 years ago (edited)
Frankly, at that point you will not be around to care. What are they going to do? Post on Heaven's Facebook and berate you for it? Besides, in the afterlife you hold all the cards. Let them say something - pretty sure hauntings trump gossip any day.
HelluvaHedgehogAlien 2 years ago
Yeah, if the afterlife existed I really believe it would be consisted of floating around and playing pranks on people :D
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Nicola Roberts 2 years ago
I am aware of funeral for a small child where they played Twinkle Twinkle little star. I wasn't at the funeral but I heard comments later where people criticised the song because it had meaning to them and their children, just like the OP's so called friend. Is this not the same as don't call your child Mary after your mother because it's my name....? It's not but feel free to name your children Nicola. There were four Nicola's and two Nicholas' in my class at school so I'm not the precious about it!
Colleen Glim 2 years ago
Use the songs you like. And then haunt her for the rest of her miserable existence!
LH25 2 years ago
If the bride-to-be thinks that mutual friends won't be thinking about the one they lost no matter what music, she's a word I can't post here.
Dutchman Callypso 2 years ago
OP is DY1NG and they care about the MUSIC on the funeral??? How about, a person you know and like/love won't probably be here a year from now?? And you care about F*CKING MUSIC???? If people around me acted like this about my de@th, I'd just empty my savings and go live the year on a deserted island.... better no people than this kind of people... FFS... I don't think I'm gonna make it to the end of this article...
Anne S. 2 years ago
There was an episode of ER where Mark Greene dies and they have the have the Hawaiian version of "Over the Rainbow" playing. That song (original or otherwise) never meant anything/didn't ring a bell with me....until that single episode. Silly, I know. Point is, a song, an experience, etc, resonates differently with everyone. If you try any tip toe around everyone's feelings for something I can guarantee you will only do once (in this lifetime), nothing will be planned. Pick the music that define you and forget about everyone else.
Brittania Kelli 2 years ago
Did how you want to die! You won't be around to hear them complaining!
#14
I Paid For The First Slice After It Was Announced On The Day We'd Be Helping To Pay For Their Cake!! Apparently Didn't Count For The Second
Mrs Irish Mom 2 years ago
Yeah no problem and can you please give me back my €200 wedding gift asap and i will send you the £3.66 asap
Weasel Wise 2 years ago
Wtf is wrong with some people?! A reception is basically throwing a party for yourselves, you invite a bunch of people, expect them to shower you with gifts, and also expect them to pay for the food and treats that you bought? Is it just me or are some people dull as fūck?
Apachebathmat 2 years ago
Just dont have a cake! Me and my husband don’t like cake (yes, we are monsters) so weren’t going to pay a fortune for something we didn’t even want, nobody even missed it
Ebony Bradshaw 2 years ago
I would've told just like this.... As the old saying goes as long as I owe you you will never go broke then I would've hung up and blocked her from my phone
#15
Cb Bride
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Why are so many woman so fixated on this matching everybody look and vision of this wedding. I get wanting to have a lovely wedding and everyone looking their best, but so many of these brides seem to have forgotten that the wedding is one day and the marriage is so much more important. Also lol at the bride being shocked that all the 7.5" heels look like hooker shoes, what did she expect?!
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
I literally don't understand the obsession with having your entire bridal party/group of bridesmaids look as if you went to the planet Kamino and ordered a batch of Clone Troopers to be delivered to your wedding (sorry, Star Wars joke.) I've now read instances of brides wanting heights to match... hair color/styles to match... even skin tones to match! I do not understand it. Why wouldn't you want the individuals who you deem important enough in your life to be bridesmaids to stand out AS individuals?!
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Montanavanna 2 years ago
As someone who is 5'3 having to wear 7.5" heels would disqualify me from participating. Tha ks for the offer but I ain't about to break my neck to look good in your wedding photos.
Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
Listen... wild idea: since you already think you're more important than anyone, use a small stage or platform. You can literally put a whole step between you and the bridesmaids and no one will be taller than you. Problem solved, feelings not hurt, unrealistic expectations avoided.
The Other Guest 2 years ago
If they were True Friends™ then the short girl would grow 3" and the tall one would shrink by the same amount. Much easier to match heights that way /end sarcasm. Seriously, though, what exactly was the bride expecting them to do? If I were the short girl I'd buy a pair of Herman Munster-esque platform boots for the event.
Well then 2 years ago
I mean leg lengthing surgery does exist but I suppose she would have needed to have started that by now as it's quite a lengthy process 🤔. And the taller one could ride one of those little knee scooters they give you after foot surgery 🤷🏽♀️. Just a thought
Load More Replies... Well then 2 years ago
Whew! It must be a defective gene for some people. As soon as that ring goes on their finger something short circuits in the brain. Is she going to insist all of the groomsmen be the same height as the groom, too? Are some of them going to have to wear lifts in their shoes or go barefoot?
This isn’t the first time we’ve covered brides with extreme demands here at Bored Panda, so we looked back at a previous interview with Amber Peterson, Community Manager of Planner’s Lounge, to gain more insight on the topic. When it comes to what brides are allowed to ask of their guests, Amber says, “I think brides can ask whatever they want from their guests, but do not be surprised if that means they opt out of your celebration. Asking for a specific colored attire might mean that guests have to buy something they will never wear again, and for some people, dressing in a way that makes them feel bad about their appearance.”
#16
Looks Before Friends Always Offends
Cathelijne Van 2 years ago (edited)
Again how come that girls get the idea that this day is about aesthetics? And that the day is only about you? That is just so not the point. And you are going to be so unhappy when you think that. Because there will always be something that goes wrong. There will always be someone complaining about something. A wedding is about a happy day for everyone attending..
Montanavanna 2 years ago
Absolutely agree! My bridesmaids were all sizes and the dresses did not work out like I wanted, our ring bearer was running around in a diaper and shoes for some of the pictures but none of that matters. What I remember is how much fun we had celebrating love that day.
Load More Replies... Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Basically "I'm trying to find a way to tell my long standing, loyal, generous friend that I want her money but don't want her as a bridesmaid because she'll look awful in the dress I've picked and I'm too selfish to pick a different dress for her" Poor friend deserves a friend who loves her for who she is, not this sorry excuse of a human. Wish someone could reach out to this poor woman and she found some friends who love her for all she is. These posts are making me so so angry!
Sonja 2 years ago
How do I tell the only person left supporting me and being happy for me that I want all that but not her herself because she's ugly in a way that doesn't reveal the reason no one else is willing to support me, which is obviously because I'm a selfish, shallow cow who care more about 'aestetics' than friendship? What a nasty Bridezilla. And there's no excuse of 'social pressure ' on women that could make this right.
Agamemnon O'Neill 2 years ago
Why not just hire a group of models to be your wedding party? Who needs friends!
Sarah Louise Cashman née Bartlett 2 years ago
So being a bride for a day turns you into a cruel, self centered, shallow b!tch cos nobody's allowed to enjoy the day but you? Crikey!
#17
Stolen Off Facebook But Though It Applied Here
GoGoPDX 2 years ago
That was the best reply! It was very polite and professional yet still a great burn.......love it.
Load More Replies... Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I would love to see any lawyer take on her case thinking they would win! Imagine dropping a photographer because they have personal opinions and thoughts and support black rights. I just hope it was a big deposit and the donation will make a lot of difference!
Monday 2 years ago
Stories like this is why I would have made a terrible lawyer. I'd totally take the case and drag it out as long as I could just to take more money from the racist bride.
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Channon Doughty 2 years ago
All love matter sets my teeth on edge. I mean, of course all lives matter, it's just that WE ARE NOT TREATING BLACK LOVES AS IF THEY MATTER AT ALL. Simple concept.
JayWantsACat 2 years ago
Once again for the idiots: Black Lives Matter doesn't f*****g mean ONLY Black Lives Matter. It's essentially Black Lives Also Matter. It's a movement that came about from cops murdering black folks. And f**k off with "BLM is a scam" or whatever you tell yourself to validate your hate. BLM isn't the organization itself anyways, it's a social movement. But we all know it isn't about lives mattering or concern about scams or whatever to you, is it?
Lisa M 2 years ago
Yep. The bride clearly doesn't get it. At best, it's due to privilege and ignorance. (But I daresay giving benefit of the doubt is unwarranted here.) Like, no one's arguing whether all lives matter hun, but I don't have the time or the crayons to explain it to you.
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Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
Poor attorney probably got yelled at when they told this person the contract she signed is binding, so...
#18
Found This Bridezilla On Facebook. It Was Someone Who Had Been Trying To Get Along With The New Bride Because She Is Friends With Her Fiancé, But This Was The Last Straw:
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I would call her bluff and send this to her fiancé and ask if it's true as I bet he has no idea bride is being so rude to one of this friends! The poor woman isn't even in the bridal party and she wants her to change her hair colour and hide tattoos or she doesn't love the couple. Some people really do go on a power trip when they get married!
Jack S 2 years ago
I'd have just been like "yeah fam that's cool." Then I'd rock up with my tattoos on full show and have my hair in the wackiest style that really accentuates the colour.
Load More Replies... Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
The more of these I read the happier I am that I don't have any friends who would be so extra about their weddings.
Michael Largey 2 years ago
All these bridezilla posting have the same theme "Day ruined for bride - life ruined for groom".
Julie Schulz 2 years ago
Wait, so this lady isn't even in the wedding party and the bride is asking her to change her look? I'd tell her to RSVP me as a big, fat, no way in h*ll will I be attending.
TwirlyGirly 2 years ago
Yeah I know you want your wedding to be a "perfect day" and that your theme is more important to you than the comfort of your guests, but those issues are not my problem. However, I just had an idea for a solution that will satisfy both our needs: I'll return the wedding gift I bought for the two of you, then use the refund to pay for the makeup to cover up my tattoos, and a stylist to temporarily hide the vibrant colors in my hair.
LynzCatastrophe 2 years ago
Literally starting this with my sister. She's only in the beginning stages of the bridezilla territory but she's already picking at me on my hair. I've had blue hair for well over a decade now, it's what I consider normal to me. She wants it changed. And my tattoos. Mine are all colours, hers are not.
In reference to a bride who wanted all of her wedding guests to wear the color yellow and stay silent, Amber previously told Bored Panda, “Some couples don’t care if their guests look bad, but they will be in your wedding pictures for the rest of your life, so I would prefer that everyone looked and felt their best! Dictating how loud they can speak is not only unrealistic, but insulting! Most people know how to behave at a wedding, and if there are specific guests you are concerned about acting out, maybe do not invite those guests.”
#19
Cb Bride Uninvites Guest For Not Producing Free Centerpieces
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Guest has saved herself heartache there as I guarantee even if she had have been given adequate time to make them, she would be paid for that mountain of work as it's "just wood and paint, probably only cost a few £'s!" Those choosy beggar types never take artists time and materials into proper account!
KieLeaHar 2 years ago
If she HAD made them it would have been one of those; ‘consider it your wedding gift to us hehe 😜” god, I hate those kinds of people!!
Load More Replies... Kate Jones 2 years ago
I would copy all of this and paste it in the break room. Someone like this should be shamed. Seriously this whole thread is causing me to become irate. How can someone not realize how ridiculous this is.
JayWantsACat 2 years ago
The bride saying the co-worker gave her short notice about not being able to make the centerpieces when she literally just asked her to make them is some god-tier delusion and insanity.
DarkViolet 2 years ago
I hope that the coworker printed out that conversation and posted it at work or on Facebook. Bet you even money that hardly anyone would have shown up at the wedding.
#20
This Was An Interesting Read Today…
Lisa M 2 years ago
Lol. If she realises it "sound"s selfish, why else does she think that would be the case, other than it IS selfish?!
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Kat Hoth 2 years ago
Red Flag WARNING!! *hint* it's the woman posting about her soon-to-be step-children. Sorry, I'd advise this man to run away as fast as he can.
Lisa M 2 years ago
Translation: Why does he want to be a loving father to his children by having some special moments with them on such an important occasion, while I should be able to be the toddler having a tantrum if I'm not the only object of everyone's attention the WHOLE TIME? Who does he think he is, and who does he think he's marrying... bloody including his children and behaving like a caring father?!
#21
She Wants A Deposit From Her Bridesmaids
Arie Lendra Putra (陈维文) 2 years ago
not quite undestand all the wedding post that bridesmaid need to pay by herself. in our culture , if you're asking somebody to be your bridesmaid, you need to paid and provide all the cost.. this including dress, makeup, accomodation, etc. even you gave her a reward in red pocket afterward for all the hassle.
GoGoPDX 2 years ago (edited)
It depends here. I have been in 6 weddings, and 3 I paid for my bridesmaid dress, and 3 I didn't. It seemed to have a lot to do with funding and budget. That being said, the ones I had to but were very affordable, and my choice. I paid foe my bridesmaid's dresses, but still let them choose. I live in the US, and there are many, many different traditions from many different cultures, so these things can vary.
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Julie 2 years ago
I've never heard of bridesmaid's paying for their own dresses. Is this an American thing?
Christina R 2 years ago
Yes, it's an American thing (and the matching shoes).
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Jill Rhodry 2 years ago
The deposit will be added to cost of the dress - what exactly is the deposit for?
“While the wedding is about the commitment you are making to one another, it is also about the gathering of your friends and family, and you should consider their fun and comfort,” Amber went on to explain. “Your wedding is only one day, and you do not want to make the people you love miserable in order to celebrate with you and your partner. If you are unbearable during your wedding, people will remember that for YEARS to come. Be considerate.”
#22
Seen On Fml
Michael Largey 2 years ago
Consistency? So all the bridesmaids have to be toxic egomaniacs too?
Beck 2 years ago
When I see a bunch of perfect, overly-makeupped, long haired, perfect teeth, people in a pic it looks so fake to me. Like 5 perfect people smiling seriously looks fake. Nothing against them, but just boring.
Rocky 2 years ago
Righhhht!! All I see is money and privilege. There is no genuinity to it. Comes off like factory created, one of the machines of society at work.
Load More Replies... Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
Do a Halloween wedding, have everyone dressed the same and wear the same face mask. LMAO
Sheena Leversedge Wood 2 years ago
news flash she's not your best friend. and you are definitely not hers.
#23
Can't Believe People Didn't Want To Spend $1,000's On Her. The Nerve
OmBoyGanesh 2 years ago
She thinks eloping and excluding everyone is a punishment? They’d all be grateful to not feel any obligation.
Julie Snelling 2 years ago
And the good luck keeping up with our lives bit like the world revolves around her unbelievable.
Load More Replies... Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
It's not just $2k, though. It's $2k each, so likely $4k as a couple plus both getting time off (and losing your vacation days for your own holiday), finding childcare, all the extra expenses associated with the trip when there, possibly a passport, dress/ suit etc etc. Some people might not be allowed the time off work, Hawaii is an expensive place too! 7 people willing to come is a lot, was she seriously expecting all 150 people to drop everything and fly to Hawaii for her wedding?!
Sonja 2 years ago
And add to this: she not only still expects gifts, she's also complaining that the gifs aren't expensive enough!
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Caro Caro 2 years ago
To elope would be the best bc you just lost the few friends you had left.
Libstak 2 years ago (edited)
My niece had a destination wedding, she tracked down excellent group concessions on flights and accommodation. Paid for pre wedding dinner and wedding dinner for all guests. She also made it clear that due to the expense of attending they did not wish to receive wedding gifts. For those that couldn't attend she held a post wedding reception in her home town redressed in wedding gear so everybody they loved could have photos with them.
Con O Cuinn 2 years ago
Depending where you live, destination weddings can be almost cheaper. I had two friends get married in the same year, one hear in Ireland and one in Portugal. I ended up spending the about the same on each, despite spending 4 nights in Portugal vs. one night in a hotel in Ireland.
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Michael Largey 2 years ago
People really should RSVP in a timely manner. Mine would have gone out by return mail and have "F**K NO!" written in large letters across the bottom.
#24
Bride N Groom Requests No Perfume On The Women And The Men Are Free Labour, On Top Of Paying $360 A Head
Damitria 2 years ago (edited)
People shouldnt wear overpowering purfume/colonge at a crowded venue. Not because of the reason given but because you never know who has an allergy. On another note, all other request by bridezilla is nuts! Pay to be labor...no thanks!
LH25 2 years ago
I agree with the no perfume/cologne, but like you said because of allergies. Not because it will compete with the scent of her flowers.
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Channon Doughty 2 years ago
I had a fragrance-free wedding, but I have an extremely rare, highly reactive airway disease which cannot tolerate any fragrances. I had to, or risk coughing my way down the aisle or just losing consciousness from lack of oxygen. Her reason was just silly
UpupaEpops 2 years ago
I'm totally behind the perfume rule though. I get a massive headache just from walking into a drugstore. I wouldn't want to be popping Advil like it's candy while my eyes are leaking on my own wedding. But then scent-free flowers for the same reason.
Lisa M 2 years ago
I understand the fragrance thing, it's just not something I would think of mentioning because most people I know or come in contact with don't wear overpowering scents, & I don't wear any perfume, just in case, because at work I sit in a room with people most of the day & know that could impact them. As for the setting up and packing up requirements in addition to the $360... Either I wouldn't attend or I wouldn't participate in setting up or packing up. Actually, I probably just wouldn't attend, as I'd never leave other people to do all the work. BTW What are you getting for the $360?!!!
Glenn Charbonneau 2 years ago
I will be happy to help you set up, be please be advised that my labour costs will be $100.00 per hour. I will need to have the first three hours paid up front.
Amber also says it’s important to keep your guests in mind when wedding-planning. “A wedding is a large-scale party you are hosting to celebrate your love, and your guests are invited to celebrate with you. Guests should be treated with the same respect and love you expect them to give to you as the engaged couple,” she noted. “This means making sure they are having fun, and are comfortable and at ease. This is the first event you are hosting as a married couple, so be gracious and welcoming!”
#25
Some People Can't Afford It
RagDollLali 2 years ago
Plus, by not going you could eat all that beer and cake on your couch in sweatpants!
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 2 years ago
Wait a minute. They said "IF you're buying us gifts, the requirement to buy us gifts above $250". But if I'm not going to buy you anything at all, the price requirement wouldn't apply, right?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Beer, cocktails and cake are all good but not worth $250. Even if I was going to spend that money on a gift, I wouldn't now after being told that's what is expected of me. Sounds like the bride and groom will have lots of beer, cocktails and cake to enjoy on their own!
RafCo (he/him/ele) 2 years ago
I'd spend the money, but I'll choose the currency. Let's see 250 Ugandan Shillings is roughly 6 cents. I bought you this used mini golf pencil.
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RomanceRadish 2 years ago
There will be people there?! Thanks for the warning. (Buys beer & cake to eat on couch).
Susan Reid Smith 2 years ago (edited)
One of the nicest gifts we got was quite modest and very well thought out; small rubbermaid containers with lids. We use them all the time!
UpupaEpops 2 years ago
Who tf invites someone to a wedding 1.) On Facebook messenger 2.) One month away from the event? I just got one of those save the date things for next year.
Miles Mawyer 2 years ago
This is the kind of wedding that you go to anyway, but bring a dollar store gift.
#26
Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts
mooshoflove 2 years ago
They make me feel dirty for being a human. Why can't I stop reading?!?! 😰
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Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Imagine the brides shocked face when people just don't turn up to her wedding because they don't want to be told to spend AT LEAST $400 on a gift!
JoJoB 2 years ago
Who puts designer purses on their wedding registry? Thus groom needs to RUN!
Julie Snelling 2 years ago
The whole point of a wedding list used to be to buy things for someone's new house because couples didn't live together before marriage. And they were presents for both of them. How did it become about cars and Gucci purses.
Sad Quokka 2 years ago
I'll graciously accept slightly lower amounts than $400, but please consult me first!!
Moezzzz 2 years ago
Why on earth would anyone consider gifting purses and clothing as a wedding gift? I thought the purpose of giving gifts at a wedding is so that the new couple can help furnish their home together? Or a modest monetary gift? I mean, if you received even $25 per guest or couple, that could end up being a lot of money (or, maybe thats just alot of money to ME). This is ridiculous
GlamourGhoul 2 years ago (edited)
The cheek, the nerve, the audacity the gall and the gumption!
#27
This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"
Steve Robert 2 years ago
What is wrong with these women? And why would any decent man want to marry them?
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
"I copyright THIS ENTIRE YEAR! You can't have your birthday this year because *I'M* having a birthday this year!"
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Belynda Young 2 years ago
I hope her friend decides to have her wedding the same month, maybe the weekend before or after.
GlamourGhoul 2 years ago
Wait until she finds out other people will have her same wedding day, birthday and even death day. Bye Felicia.
Susan Green 2 years ago
Look, it’s MY birthday in August!! So if any of you also have a birthday in August, I suggest you change it to another month ok.
I usually love attending weddings, but this list is making me hesitant to attend any more any time soon… I don’t want to be belatedly charged for eating cake! Keep upvoting the pics you find most shocking, and feel free to share any personal experiences you’ve ever had with bridezillas in the comments below, pandas. Then, if you’d like to check out another article featuring outrageous bridezilla stories, look no further than right here!
#28
Bridezilla Won’t Have Non-Vegan Family Members At Her Wedding
Hyrule26 2 years ago
Imma go stand outside the venue eating a chicken leg, anyone got the address?
AppletreeChild 2 years ago
who's gonna tell them how many animals die dayly to protect their precious soy fields?
Bored Retsuko 2 years ago
To be fair, the soy fields mostly serve to feed livestock.
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El Howard 2 years ago
My spiritual leader The Dalai Lama says it's okay to eat animals if they are already dead, just not okay to have them killed just do you can eat them. Seems like a semantic argument, but honestly, if it's a choice between eating the meat and letting it rot, then eating the meat doesn't make you a "murderer". You know what really upsets me? People that kill animals then DON'T eat them!
Patricia Stilwell 2 years ago
Yah, the ones who put the dead animals' heads on the wall. Along with the crime scene photos.
Load More Replies... Just me, myself, and I 2 years ago
I can see all family and friends writing them out of their lives. After all, these honorable vegans wouldn't want to stand next to, talk to, or communicate in any way with someone who eats meat!
Biscuitbot 2 years ago
I've been downvoted (-24 at current count) for politely explaining a potential thought process and expressing my own non-harmful opinion. But there are tons of comments lauded for mocking the killing of non-human animals. That's whacked.
SlightlyTarnished 2 years ago
another reddit post, which just equates to a guy in his parents basement making sht up.
Samyan Elrod 2 years ago
hmmmm i would have agreed if they didnt say murderers, i think just making different options for them would be hard? or if they're the very pro meat ppl who act all weird around vegans? idk
#29
Bridezilla Would Accomodate Her Heavily Pregnant Bridesmaid — Forced Her To Pull Out Of Bridal Party
Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
How dare you get pregnant 33 weeks before her big day anyway? (sarcasm, don't hurt me)
Bridgit Gilmore 2 years ago
You would actually go as a guest? Wow. You are a bigger person than I am (no pun intended.)
Ione Decep 2 years ago
I would've smiled and nodded, then day of, had one of the best men provide a chair for to sit down for the ENTIRE wedding.
MajikDraygon 2 years ago
I kept reading the first line as: sexy bm (bowel movement) experience. I was like "WHAT??"
Patricia Stilwell 2 years ago
It took me a longer reading to let go of that same BM definition. Bondage and Masochism also flashed through my mind when I read scary.
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 2 years ago
Yep, you could have stopped at 5'7", but no ...
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You’re Not Invited, But Send Money
UpupaEpops 2 years ago
Not that it makes it more appropriate but this is a Covid wedding, right? Please let it be a Covid wedding.
Michael Largey 2 years ago
Let's be fair here. Haven't we all attended weddings which we would have paid darn good money not to?
#31
Bride Demands 30k
You Should Do Nothing with the Fence 2 years ago
"...a month traveling, bar hopping, swinging, and more in Europe..." Height of COVID. I have no words.
Brittania Kelli 2 years ago
They are. She said swinging around Europe, and her thing underwear is a 'prize' as well. They are most definitely prostituting themselves for honeymoon funds.
Load More Replies... Sad Quokka 2 years ago
I am so generous. Give me lots of money and this wedding will be for you. You will be so happy giving me lots of money and you will have such a good time...
Moezzzz 2 years ago
Did she say "swinging"? As in swapping partners with strangers? During her honeymoon?
Lisa M 2 years ago
I mean, for $1500-$2500 donation it does say that the prize is a night with the newly married couple.
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Photographer Job Needed! Here Are The Requirements For This Bridezilla!
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
She forgot one: 'must be gullible' as no sane photographer would agree to those demands!
Wang Zhuang 2 years ago
Hahaha must be willing to work for free, with no breaks and bring your own food. How the hell will they have time to eat and drink if there are no breaks? GTFOH
ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago
Correction: must be willng to *job* for free. Speak English, man!
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Crop Tops Over Family Everyday, Am I Right?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
"I wouldn't want to wear a crop top but I want my bridesmaid too, but think you'll look awful in it. So instead of finding one of the thousands of dress options that would work and suit you, I'm not asking you to be bridesmaid and instead just want a photo with you, hope you don't mind" is effectively what this nasty bride is saying. If I was the friend I would either say that I don't mind wearing a crop top and call her bluff and say I'm more than happy to if it means being her bridesmaid, or dump her sorry a*s as a friend knowing she's putting a crop top over my friendship.
UpupaEpops 2 years ago
Am I just very old-fashioned and conservative or do crop tops look taky for a wedding?
ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago
I think it may depend on the design; a little skin showing on the midriff doesn't have to be off-putting.
Load More Replies... Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
Crop tops at a wedding? Ew. Also: someone get her a grammar book as a wedding gift.
ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago (edited)
Amid literally 18 other mistakes...she's an idiot in all sorts of different directions.
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Lisa McCourt 2 years ago
Oh honey, no worries. I am totally comfortable with my body and will gladly wear a crop top for you!! So sweet of you to be concerned about me:) I have to say, I am a little worried about you, babes!! I did not know you had such low self esteem:( Girl, you should never worry about what others think about you!!!!!!! THIS IS YOUR WEDDING!!!!!! You can rock a CROP TOP if you want to!!!!!!!!! GO FOR IT GIRLIE!!!!!!!!! We will be proud to stand by you no matter what you look like!!!!! LOVE YOU BABE!!❤️❤️❤️
Heather Talma 2 years ago
I mean, at least use correct grammar and punctuation in your bullsh*t.
#34
Not Even Sure If This Belongs Here But It’s In An Engagement Group So 🤷🏼♀️
Mim“the Swede”Sorensson 2 years ago (edited)
Word. I’m not sure how this freak even navigates in adult society.
Load More Replies... Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
"This is my territory"? No. No person is someone else's "territory". No one has to ask the SPOUSE for permission before they talk to someone.
Nicole Weymann 2 years ago (edited)
I've started this comment over about thirty times now - I just can't find the proper words about how absurd this is. "My territory": did she mark him or buy him? Just how does she expect this to work? Does he have to wait for her before asking a female cashier for small change? Does she expect him to come home from work to let the mailman ask him if he's allowed to address the wife for a signature (because "vice versa")? At what point do you ask for sexual orientation so as to impose the proper adressing order? Of simply put: That world between her ears must be quite a quixotic place.
Just me, myself, and I 2 years ago
Maybe she marked him like the b i t c h she is by peeing on him.
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Amy 2 years ago
I recently lost a friend because of this c**p. His girlfriend decided she didn't trust him to be around me or even talk to me, and he went along with it to keep her happy. Nevermind that I'm happily married and was definitely not trying to "steal" him, and my husband was totally fine with our friendship.
#35
Bride Insecure Of Fiance's "Womanly" Teenage Daughter...yikes
HelluvaHedgehogAlien 2 years ago
Yeah, the daughter will start a scene. VERY UNDERSTANDABLE, since this woman here is an idiotic pinch-spotted daemon, and it’s an insult upon the forms of daemons
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
I love the insult "pinch-spotted daemon" and I want to know more about them XD
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Wang Zhuang 2 years ago
Dear groom, why oh why would you marry a woman who is jealous of your daughter's "womanly" body?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
A 17 year old woman with boobs?!? What a shock! No one in their right mind is going to think it's his girlfriend unless the bride is also young! Also getting married but has never met the guys daughter!? Unless it's because she lives far away abroad etc, that's shocking. Hopefully the groom realises that this woman is not someone he should be marrying with these red flags!
Gwyn 2 years ago
Hmmm you got me thinking. Maybe the bride and daughter are close in age?
Load More Replies... Kate Jones 2 years ago
I feel sick reading this. There's just something about it that reminds me of those women who blame their 9-year-olds for being molested by their husbands because they 'led him on'. I don't know why I immediately thought this, but it was something about the way she felt threatened by a 17 year old's body in pictures with her father.
Bored Retsuko 2 years ago
Yeah, it's (internalised) misogyny at it's worst. Now a girl can't be in a pic with her dad because her boobs are so threatening.
Load More Replies... Allison B 2 years ago
When I was 17 I was already in the DD range and by the time I was 20 I was in a K. My back has been in pain since I was a teen. This bride is horrible and creepy! It's not the teens fault she's busty! Ugh.
Maisey Myles 2 years ago
What do you do? Call off the wedding since you don't deserve this man and you are a B***h
Lori Harper 2 years ago
Boobs at 17?? (perish the thought!) I had them at 13...what is her point?? Is she insinuating hubby-to-be has incestual thoughts about his daughter??
#36
Entitled Bridezilla Removes Bridesmaid For Developing Anxiety After A Traumatic Incident, And Still Expects Her To Pay!
The Other Guest 2 years ago
Some of the subreddits have bots that automatically "comment" a copy of the original post, in case the OP makes changes later. It remains even if the original is deleted. I'm guessing the mods pulled the original post for some reason or another & BP had to use the bot's copy.
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Patricia Stilwell 2 years ago
I think you were remarkably generous and considerate in light of your personal situation. NTA given the reaction and "sympathy " you got for your trauma. Your reaction to the poor treatment you got was entirely justified. You don't need that kind of friend in your life.
and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 2 years ago
I wonder what the traumatic event was? In any case that’s really s****y of the bride.
ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago
It sounds like an assault. Regardless, this post definitely has a place here.
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Sounds Like A Good Deal 🤥
ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago
I always have my food refunded at restaurants when I'm finished, as I'm no longer hungry and don't need it.
Donna Cheung 2 years ago
I want restaurants/ schools/ landlord etc. to sign a contract and refund me when I die, because I have no use for the food/ degree/ home anymore.
Dutchman Callypso 2 years ago
Just get married in casual clothes and stand two feet apart from each other. Then you can cut the photos if needed...
nooneimportant 2 years ago
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahhahahahhahahhahahhahahahahhahahahahhahahasostoopid
Michael Largey 2 years ago
How about other contingencies? If you both die, you won't need the wedding pics either. So what if you both drop dead? In fact, consider that my counter-offer.
#38
Disappointed Her Guests Aren't Paying For Their Honeymoon In Full
and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 2 years ago
Hey, nobody’s commented here yet! [insert witty original comment]
Ebony Bradshaw 2 years ago
So do these people realize they agreed to marry each other???? The nerve of people making the decision to get married and expecting everyone else to pay for it here's a few suggestions for these delusional brides to be.... Don't set a wedding date until you've saved enough money for all of your wants and needs, plan to get married at home or the courthouse so you can have money for your honeymoon and most importantly remember you made the decision to get married so you shouldn't expect anyone else to pay for it. Why would I pay for your honeymoon when I can use that to take myself somewhere nice and relaxing after having to deal with you and your stupid expectations for your wedding and honeymoon
Kate Jones 2 years ago
What I love the most about these messages is how, at the end, they always say something like, "only nice responses, please," or "no negative comments." As if you have the right to dictate how I'm going to respond to your batsh!t demands. You do not exist in a bubble. Welcome to real life. You don't get the right to live among human beings and then expect to only have positivity around you, especially when you're asking for something from those same people. These people are ridiculous.
Julie Schulz 2 years ago
Hubby and I paid for our own honeymoon and I was a full-time college student at the time. What is with these people expecting others to pay for their stuff?
Gwyn 2 years ago
I got $100 from my grandma and I was super grateful for it. We couldn't afford a honeymoon so we weren't planning on going anywhere. We at least got one night at a nice hotel in a nice town near us. Now 25 years nature's and still going strong. It's all about priorities.
Margot Moser 2 years ago
Same as my husband and I, 55! years ago - one night in a luxury hotel and then back to our own little apartment. We couldn't have been happier - and still are.
Load More Replies... ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago
I remember, all the way back in '99, we knew there would be presents, but we were FLOORED! ALL our china place settings! Enough money to pay for our (already planned and booked) honeymoon to Italy! THEN a washer and dryer when we got back! I could never have dreamed of so much. I wish these people could also have never dreamed of so much.
Shyla Bouche 2 years ago
If it's people you love, and you can afford a really awesome gift, it's fun to surprise them with something they'll really appreciate. When it's expected, it's not fun, and it's not really appreciated.
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 2 years ago
Gee, where should they go? I'm sure a suggestion comes quickly to mind for many of us. BP won't print it ij full, but it is definitely considered part of the traditional honeymoon.
#39
Bridezilla Thinks Photographers Spare Time Should Be Used To Edit Her Photos
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
For context, the post was made less than a month after Halloween, so certainly within the time frame of when most photographers would be still editing the photos and not like June etc
Squirrelly Panda 2 years ago
So, basically thinks a photographer should have zero life. Just take and edit photos, nothing else ever. Sounds like some horrible managers.
Load More Replies... Kat Hoth 2 years ago
So she was posting this garbage in less than a month? Bridezilla seems to think she's the only client of this photographer.
LH25 2 years ago
And that the photographer shouldn't have an actual life.
Load More Replies... Carro Marxsson 2 years ago
"Am I in the wrong for being upset about it?". For self help memes in general? No. For people posting whatever they want to on their own Facebook walls as opposed to being your robotic full time slave? Why yes. Yes you are.
Michael Largey 2 years ago (edited)
I can believe she has a legitimate reason for wanting those photos as soon as possible. Because by now the groom may be trying to claim that the wedding never took place at all.
Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago (edited)
Just ask her politely. She's providing a service, she won't be offended if you ask about her end of the deal you made. "Hey X, how are you? I don't mean to rush you or anything, I was just wondering if the pictures turned out well? When do you think you could send them to us? Thanks in advance!" See? Wasn't so hard.
Patricia Stilwell 2 years ago
You'd have to be an adult to think of that response.
Load More Replies... Matthew Daubenmire 2 years ago
So your Doctor is at home, only thinking about you? The cops are waiting for her to leave her house, to guard only her.. Wow
#40
Bridezillas Beware, You Are Not Safe From Being Virtually Murdered
cerinamroth 2 years ago
Jeez, anyone got the cousin's email address so all the money and flowers can be sent to her instead? I went to a wedding three months after having our first child and I was like a deer in the headlights. My life was upside down, my emotions were upside down and my body was still gigantic. But I loved my belly because I was still processing the fact my tiny baby was not in there any more but outside in the world, where she needs everyone's protection, not just mine. I wasn't ready to be in big groups of people at that point but I am proud of myself for making it at all. I hope the cousin steers clear and focuses on herself and her baby and kicks this piece of trash family member to the kerb permanently.
Bridgit Gilmore 2 years ago
Easy. Email her, "because I'm a shallow, attention seeking, biatch, I don't want a post-pregnancy body in my wedding photos. It just wouldn't fit my vision of perfection. I'll get someone I couldn't care less about but that fits the dress and the vision, to stand in for you."
#41
Choosing Beggar Bride Tries To Get 80 Hours Of Work Done Free
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Good on the OP for standing up to her friend, so many would be like they had to say yes and do it for free and spend a fortune (and be expected to give an actual gift on top as it's "just flowers")
Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
When influencers become brides. Do it for the exposuuuuuuuure! The cringe I just cringed.
Kate Jones 2 years ago
I'm so tired of these people. Not that it would matter but they don't even try to ask nicely it's just, "well yeah you need to do it for me for free, obviously." It makes me want to find out where these people work and ask them for free stuff the same way they ask. I've never in my life asked for a favor and been as rude about it as some people are. I wouldn't even ask my mom to do this without paying her, nevermind a stranger who I'm HIRING.
#42
Bride Gets Rsvps From Wedding Guests And Only After The Fact Tells Everyone Who Said They Were Coming That They Need To Pay $75 Per Plate
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I'd be leaving a sweet voice note thanking them for thanking me for my RSVP but that sadly something has changed and I sadly won't be attending anymore. If they ask why, I'll site the charge.
Montanavanna 2 years ago
I would tell her ok here is the money I would have used on a gift to pay for our plates. It is gift or food honey as 150 is still a lot to budget and I would not spend a dime more.
Ouching Tiger Limping Dragon 2 years ago
It's an acronym for a French phrase that basically just means you're responding to the invitation, letting them know if you're coming to the event or not. That way the couple can plan accordingly.
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Bridezillas Dress Shopping > Employees Health And Safety
cerinamroth 2 years ago
My word, the pandemic really highlighted which people had never heard the word "No" in their lives before. In fact, that was my main takeaway.
Michael Largey 2 years ago
You wearing a mask may be the only way to get the groom to say "I do".
#44
Well, That’s Just Tacky. Maybe I’m Alone In Loving My Husband Enough To Have Considered It Our Wedding
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I hope the groom listens to the sign and let's Emily enjoy the wedding all by herself as that's what she seems to want to do!
Tucker Cahooter 2 years ago
"Featuring Bailey"...makes it sound as if he is just there to make up the numbers
Michael Largey 2 years ago
Weddings in our family always feature Bailey's . Because we're Irish and love to drink the stuff.
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Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
Depends on the couple I guess. Maybe it's an inside joke and he had a good laugh. Fingers crossed.
#45
“How Dare She Have A Wedding A Week After Mine!!” She’s Getting Ripped Apart In The Comments As She Should
Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago
I'm sorry, her wedding is a small family gathering. How is that interfering with your wedding the weekend BEFORE?
Michael Largey 2 years ago
She might ask her friend if the friend - who has a wedding going herself in that time frame - will still have time to be in her wedding.
#46
You Know It’s Gunna Be Good When They Post Their Bs Behaviour As “Group Member”
Kel Jones 2 years ago
So you broke a contract because your makeup artist was not the same person as you, and now you want your money back?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
She shouldn't and you don't deserve it back and I'm glad it's 50%! Who cancels a makeup artist because they have a child out of wedlock, I'd bet good money that she'd be also angry if she deserted the child because she got divorced/ not married too- what else is the woman meant to do! Also sounds like she is a skilled makeup artist for not just blindly doing what she was asked to do but explaining why the contour wouldn't look good. Her pettiness has lost her money and a hood makeup artist!
Sonja 2 years ago
I read it that she is childfree on top of not wanting to marry. But I guess both is possible. What some people don't understand: in a desk job it's literally your job to watch your mails and respond. But as a handyman you can't drop everything to answer mails. That's not the job. I bet she'd throw a tantrum if her makeup artist tried to respond to mails while doing her makeup. This is so ridiculous
Load More Replies... Kate Jones 2 years ago
I don't understand why people don't understand the concept of NON-REFUNDABLE. Especially if YOu are breaking the contract through no fault of her own.
Reenzy Bennington 2 years ago (edited)
Why am I reading these? Update: oh my god, I'm only halfway through this post.
#47
Bride Wants Bridesmaid To Cut Her Hair
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
The wedding was during Covid so wouldn't it have been a shame if it was delayed and everyone's hair grew and none of them would cut it just for someone else's wedding day!
Samara Messer 2 years ago
If its only hair,, why is it so important that its the same style? I might ask each bridesmaid to have their hair done nicely, which has been the case whenever I've been in a wedding but would never ask them to dye it,, cut it or make any permanent changes. Yikes!
#48
Wow, Entitled Much?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
It's an 11 year old with braces! I'm 99.9% sure that no one will notice/ care that she has braces and anyone seeing photos won't notice or care either! I bet the bride is just trying to cause a riff between the groom and his ex wife and is now angry that it hasn't worked!
Elizabeth Tayler 2 years ago
I actually think she's right, seems kinda suspect. Why did the appointment have to be right before the wedding? But overall it's just a kid with braces, won't ruin anything.
Irenesaurus Rex 2 years ago (edited)
I would totally wait 2-3 years for my daughter to get braces, just to ruin my ex-husband's new wedding pictures, like any rational person would!
nooneimportant 2 years ago
yes the child grew teeth in misaligned just to screw up your wedding
#49
Bride Wants To Know If It's Alright To Take Away Their Mother's Individuality
Benita Valdez 2 years ago (edited)
I'd dye my hair bright red the day before the wedding if I was a guest. I haven't died my hair in about 13 years but I'd do it for this oh so important and special occasion. Some people have such nerve with their requests
#50
Beggar Bride Asks Stranger To Be Bridesmaid Because She Gives Expensive Gifts - From Wedding Shaming Fb Page
#51
Cb Asks To People Pay To Be In Her Wedding
Kate Jones 2 years ago
Why do you think anyone cares? You're not a movie star. I have no interest in being a 'cast member' in your insane, spoiled brat wedding, you delusional person. You are not a celebrity and even then I wouldn't care.
#52
Y I K E S
Wang Zhuang 2 years ago
How about they not be part of ANY of your wedding party? That would be my choice
Michael Largey 2 years ago
Interestingly, she has exactly the same numerical requirements for wedding party IQs.
PandaGoPanda 2 years ago
Hey, I'm a size 14 but I'm prepared to stand there and compliment you all day.
#53
This Karen Takes It Up A Notch
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Who spends their life savings on what is essentially a party? Also how rude could the bride be, if that was sent to me I wouldn't be rushing to buy anything from the registry!
Michael Largey 2 years ago
You have my absolute assurance that I will not show up without a gift.
Lady Miss Pie 2 years ago
Why would anyone in their right mind spend their LIFE SAVINGS on a wedding?!
Ouching Tiger Limping Dragon 2 years ago
I thought you were supposed to bring the gift to the wedding, anyway?
#54
Fuming Because Her Bridesmaid Dyed Her Hair One Year Before Her Wedding
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Hopefully the only chopping is the partner chopping her for a better partner who doesn't throw a paddy about someone else's hair a year before the wedding! I'd love to read the rest of the post!
#55
Kindly Refrain From Upstaging The Bride On Her Big Day — Oh, And No Admission Without A Gift Of $75 Or More
You Should Do Nothing with the Fence 2 years ago
Sorry, got kinda distracted w/ the creative grammar and spelling. Half a face of makeup could be fun though since she didn't specify which half.
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
SERAMONY. NO ACCEPTANCE. ....but seriously, with the ubiquitous nature of spellcheck and AutoCorrect, HOW do things like "seramony" still slip through?
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Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
For a wedding planner, her grammar/ spelling is awful! Also I would love to know how many guests turned up as I certainly wouldn't be going after getting that message! Even if I was going to spend $75+ on a gift, you don't dictate how much and I would not turn up in a ponytail and with no makeup etc. only thing I agree with is the no white!
Kat Hoth 2 years ago
This is a list from a professional?!?! I recommend she get Grammarly, even the free version would help her immensely.
#56
This Bridezilla Was Completely Slammed In The Comments And For Good Reason. So Ungrateful!
and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 2 years ago (edited)
Tbh I think the issue is not so much the price as it is the thought that went into it… even if you can’t afford something nicer you can put in a little time to make a card or a handmade blanket or something. If you just swung by K-mart and grabbed some cheap towels, that doesn’t really say that they care about you and put some time into selecting or making something you like.
Samara Messer 2 years ago
I was a bridesmaid 8 years ago. The bride registered for a lot of expensive gifts including a large flat-screen TV, a $500 juicer and $200 bathrobes.. Most gifts on the registry were unaffordable so some people bought her gifts off registry. She was so salty about it and complained non-stop about who spent what on her etc. Some bridesmaids could afford to put more toward the shower, some less. She was mad about that too and yelled at me via text how this or that bridesmaid spend hundreds and how I and another bridesmaid did not. Till this day she still firmly believes she lost friends just because they were jealous she was getting married. She refuses to acknowledge her behavior had anything to do with it.
Michael Largey 2 years ago
Won't now-defunct K-Mart towels be valuable collector's items in the near future? Oh, wait. How silly of me to use the word "future" in connection with this marriage. Sorry.
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Wow, if I knew my best friends were judging our friendship over my material gifts instead of the actual friendship, there would be no more friendship!
#57
Found On A Hacks Page. This Must Be A New Trend. I've Seen A Couple Of These Now! Just Tacky!!!
Tucker Cahooter 2 years ago
Well at least this guy got awarded "special guest" and his name is in a similar font size to the bride, so he's a bit further up the hierarchy than Bailey (the one who just "featured" in Emily's wedding, like he was just doing a cameo in a movie). Still won't be considered an equal though
The Other Guest 2 years ago
Yup, if I were either Bailey or Dale & saw a sign like that, I'd turn around & walk out the door, never to return.
Load More Replies... Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Like the other one of these, if I was the groom and this is what the bride used I would not turn up and let her have the wedding on her own she so desperately wants! If they don't see it as a red flag that they see this wedding as a big party for them and not the start of the marriage for the two of them together, I feel sorry for them.
Kate Jones 2 years ago
Way to devalue your husband on a day where you're supposed to become partners.
Michael Largey 2 years ago
A guest is someone who's around for a short while and then leaves. So, yeah.
Nikki Sevven 2 years ago
This trend is disturbing. It's all about the wedding and not remotely about the actual marriage.
#58
Another Bridezilla Who Thinks She Owns A Year
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Yes you are wrong, is she going to moan at everyone else getting married that year!? The same weekend I would be annoyed, but months later and even a different season is nothing!
Margot Moser 2 years ago
After I, as eldest daughter, set my wedding for the end of December, my younger sister met a fellow who wanted them to marry before moving far away from our family home. My mother worried that I would be upset but I wasn't. I was happy; my sister was happy. Who gets all hung up on trivial details?
ROSESARERED 2 years ago
I turned 50 during covid, locked down, the night before my celebration...out for dinner with 25 family and friends, all cancelled. Can I have a year to celebrate my birthday, because it was cancelled due to the pandemic. Get a life woman, it's one day
freakingbee (they/them) 2 years ago
i'm ashamed that the brother's wedding is on my birthday😭cause it's the same year as the bridezilla's wedding😒
#59
I Feel Sorry For The Next Photographer She Contacts
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
How dare the photographer not be sitting on her phone at all hours ready to respond in mere seconds! I bet if she had have done the bride would accuse her of not being busy enough and therefore obviously not very good! Sounds like she just wanted to pick a fight in hoping that they photographer would apologise and offer a discount?
#60
Imagine Thinking Your Rushed Marriage Is Worth More Than Your Friend's 10 Year Relationship...?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I hope everyone does take the friends side and the wedding is light on guests! The bride needs all the extra space for her ego!
LH25 2 years ago
Committed != married. Look at how many married couples split up. Cheat on each other. All that stuff.
ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 2 years ago
Huh, I never thought about it. It must bug me too, since I never use it.
Load More Replies... #61
How Dare You Want To Make Your Own Clothes?!
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
How does she think all the other dresses will be made? By robots?! If someone told me they were hand making their dress for my wedding I would be honoured they'd want to spend time and money like that, as handmade dresses usually cost a lot more than shop bought and take a while to make!
Mark Bayliss 2 years ago
My wife made her dress for our wedding. I was a beautiful dress but literally fell apart as we walked into our room at the hotel - which was nice!
#62
Bride Upset That Nobody Gave Her Cash At Her Engagement Party
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Do people even give engagement party gifts? I'd bring a card maybe saying 'congratulations' but I've never heard of giving gifts!? I bet her text was super rude too but she's shocked that she got rude texts back!
Con O Cuinn 2 years ago
If there's an engagement party, often people give gifts but not like at a wedding. For example, for my cousin I gave her €150 for her wedding but for her engagement party, I gave her and her now husband a pair of tankards since they both like craft beers worth about 30-40
Load More Replies... The Other Guest 2 years ago
Ah, yes, yet another bridezilla who dreamed of their wedding day their entire life, but didn't bother saving up any money to put towards it since OBVIOUSLY their friends & family would be delighted to fund it all.
Just another idiot 2 years ago
I don't understand how this happens so much. They all say "I've been planning this my entire life blah blah blah". If that's so, how did you not "plan" to pay for it??? Did they always expect the charity of others to cover the cost of the wedding/honeymoon? If well. What do I know? Just look at my username LOL.
#63
Yikes!!!
Nikki Sevven 2 years ago
How are there still people in 2023 who don't understand that post-processing exists?
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
How did she think she would hold the bouquet?! I have a tattoo in roughly the same place and you would not see it if I was holding a bouquet normally!
Shark Lady 2 years ago
If she's holding her bouquet normally that tattoo won't be visible in pictures or while walking down the aisle.
#64
"Fly To Central America For Our Wedding, But Don't Stay, As We Want The Island To Ourselves." Found On A Wedding Forum
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Unless they buy up every room/ villa, they have no way of stopping them.
#65
Bride Wants My Photographer Friend To Learn Another Photographer's "Style" And Basically Give Her A Discount For A Wedding That's In A Couple Of Weeks
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Bride is so busy she doesn't even have time to spell the word photographer! Sincerely hope the friend said "no"!
Sonja 2 years ago
Her photographer cancelled on HER but she doesn't get the deposit back? Oh my I wonder why. Surely it's not the bride beeing an absolute monster making insufferable demands and somehow fake-cancelling the contract to send a message to Ashley and surely it's in no way Ashley just saying ok and not getting she was supposed to grovel and cave but just accepting the cancellation. Suuuurely that's not it /s
Upstaged75 2 years ago
She DOES get her deposit back on January 15th. It says it in the post.
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Cb Wanted This Mua To Basically Reduce The Price In Half And Pay For Travel Expenses Too
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Why not find a makeup artist based in that location? Also $1000 for 12 people and travelling 4.5 hours seems more than fair imo!
#67
Bridezilla Wants To Kick Someone Out Of Her Wedding Party Because She’s Pregnant
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Why would you pick someone you don't like to be in your wedding party anyway? Why not ask someone else you actually like? Bride sounds tacky as hell!
Arwen 2 years ago
What even are groomsmen? Here the groom has a best man but that’s it. What’s a groomsman and why do you need equal numbers with bridesmaids?
Beck 2 years ago
Groomsmen are the grooms sidekicks like the bridesmaids are for the bride. They stand up UT the front with them. There are usually equal number bridesmaids snd groomsmen.
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 2 years ago
I understand the association the bride is trying top avoid. Who wants pregnancy connected with marriage?
#68
Bridezilla (Yellow) Is Mad That One Of Her Bridesmaids (Purple) Will Be Pregnant For Her Wedding. Her Mother Is Green, Bridesmaid Is Purple, Other Family Member Who Is Pregnant Is Red
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
So the bride is angry people aren't putting their lives on hold for her wedding day? The entitlement is off the charts there!
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
Wait, hol up. She ASKED SOMEONE to "WAIT A COUPLE OF MONTHS" to get pregnant?! Just because her wedding was coming up, she dared to think she had ANY RIGHT to tell someone else when to get pregnant? I've seen some pretty bad ones on this list, but this one, for some reason, absolutely makes my blood boil. And I've never even been pregnant. Just the sheer audacity of telling a friend/family member "Hey, could you hold off on getting pregnant for a couple of months? My wedding is coming up!"
Sonja 2 years ago
I didn't ask her NOT to get pregnant but I did ask her to not get pregnant... I can't decide what's worse, that she thought it was only unreasonable to ask not to get pregnant at all or that she thought asking her to wait till after the wedding was not asking her to not get pregnant
#69
Bride Tries To Force Friend To Do Photography For Her Wedding, Insists That He Pays Her For The Privilege
Damitria 2 years ago
How the f**k does someone think its ok to demand someone pay to work for them? Just how?
WonderWoman 2 years ago
Why do other people feel the need to jump on that bandwagon and text the people??
Load More Replies... The Other Guest 2 years ago
Is OP supposed to be taking pics of just the guests, or of the actual wedding in lieu of a properly paid photographer? If the latter, then heck yeah pay the $50 & then charge the bride $75/shot to get her precious photos.
mooshoflove 2 years ago
LOL that would be funny --- if the bride didn't have a potentially threatening crowd of supporters....
Load More Replies... Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Yes to that malicious compliance! Hopefully they all learnt their lesson but I bet not. Also who the hell is going to pay for photos taken of them at a wedding, when 95% of people attending would most likely have a pretty decent camera phone to do it themselves!
Anya Is a ghost 2 years ago
How… do you not know that YOU pay the person? (Directed at op’s “friend”)
Just another idiot 2 years ago
Why??? This just reinforces the bride's entitlement and, she's sure to tell everyone she knows that you payed her for the privilege to take photos. Now all her friends and family will expect the same and not just from you but, other photographers as well. I'm sorry if I seem harsh. I don't mean to be. I believe your craft is important and you let them devalue your art/work. I may have misunderstood something, it happens more than I like to admit. If that is the case, I apologize.
Timbob 2 years ago
Went to a wedding years ago where guests were given throw away cameras and told to shoot whatever they thought was cute and interesting, and return the cameras to the bride or groom. (Not sure if there was a professional photographer hired.)
Upstaged75 2 years ago
This was extremely common back in the days before cell phone cameras. Not so much any more.
Load More Replies... #70
Guest Unable To Attend Destination Wedding Due To Mental Health Concerns. Bride’s First Night Abroad Ruined To Re-Do Seating Charts
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Wow, no "oh gosh I hope you're okay, if you need anything you know where I am, I totally understand I'm sorry you can't come but we can catch up when I'm back..."?! Just a moan about the complication /s of having to rework the table setting (which minus 2 guests is not going to be that hard! What a lovely friend the bride appears to be!
KieLeaHar 2 years ago
oh please 🙄. it’s ONE person, not an entire group of people dropping out. not sure why stationary mattered? was it a gift? this one needs to wake up to herself and i’m glad her (hopefully) former friend told her why she wasn’t attending in written form… proof to show others when they confront her on ‘ruining her BeSt FrIeNd’S wEdDiNg!’
#71
Come To Our Wedding And Pay $700 To Stay In The Guest House But You’ll Be Sleeping On The Pullout Couch Because You’re The Only Singleton. Also, Did I Mention You’re Cooking For Everyone?
Dani M 2 years ago
Definitely. Gives others a chance to drop out as well. thats just crazy
Load More Replies... Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Tell the truth, ideally to all guests that you didn't volunteer to cook for them all just so they don't get told a lie by the bride that makes the friend pulling out look bad
Michael Fernandez 2 years ago
It’s often said that “No” is a complete sentence. I’d add that “Lol no” is also a complete sentence.
The Other Guest 2 years ago
For those interested in what Prudence had to say (third letter down): https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/03/dear-prudence-boyfriend-dump-me-for-younger-woman.html
#72
Imagine Thinking Everyone Has Been Waiting Their Whole Lives For You To Get Married So Therefore They Should Happily Spend Nearly $300 On A Dress To Be A Part Of It
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Wow, I'm very sure that none of your wedding party have been counting down the days for 36 years to see you get married!!
Shark Lady 2 years ago
If you want her in the wedding why not offer to pay the difference. In the UK it's normal for the bride to pay for the bridesmaids dresses.
#73
From A Facebook Group I’m In. She’s Getting Dragged For Being A Selfish Friend In The Comments
Nikki Sevven 2 years ago
How can you decide to marry someone you've only known for months? None of these people should be getting married.
Sonja 2 years ago
Again, I am conflicted. Who on earth plans their wedding smack along with another whole being fully involved with the other wedding? Those is just so insane for me. If I was a maid pf honour or a bridesmaid, the last thing I'd want is having my wedding planning on top of the other. I see all those people bashing the brides for 'saving the year' but that's not what happens here. The brides announce their weddings, planning is ahead and another person who is in the wedding party just hops on the train. If that was me, I'd never do that! My friend circle is close, so are our families. No one would want to participate in two weddings in a row. In those cases, I'm fully with the brides. No you don't get engaged at other people's engagement party or wedding. No you don't decide to get married and expect them to get dress shopping together! No you don't insert yourself into an ongoing wedding planning while being in the bridal party, making everything about your second thought wedding.
(Anti)Social Penguin 2 years ago
I don’t understand why someone, other than the bride and the groom, should be fully involved in a wedding. You can ask for help and people can help you, your bridal party should to their part (if you are not asking for absurd things), but no one, and absolutely no one, should put their life on hold for your wedding. As a matter of fact, not even you; before and after that day you have a life to live - you have obligations, you have rights (limited by other people rights), you have a whole full a*s adulthood to manage. And before assuming I don’t know what is means… been there, done that, paid the price.
Load More Replies... #74
This B*tch. The Comments Were No Better, It’s No Wonder My Area Is The Second Highest In The Country For Covid Rates
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago (edited)
I'm normally sympathetic to peoples' traumas, but I'm VERY curious how both OP and her mom have "PTSD" that doesn't allow them to wear masks. What could have possibly happened to give them "PTSD" in regards to wearing a mask? They were both kidnapped and gagged?
Michael Largey 2 years ago (edited)
"PTSD" in this context stands for "Prevaricator Trying Selfish Denials".
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#75
Invited 225+ People During A Pandemic And 4 Of Her Bridal Party Contracted Covid...but All She Cares About Is That People Are Cancelling During A Rise In Cases. Your Wedding Is Not More Important Than People’s Lives
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
How dare a pandemic that killed thousands of people and caused long term illness to many many more impact on your wedding! Be thankful you are still alive and your family is too! I get it's upsetting but in the scheme of things you're lucky you're allowed to go ahead! Many other countries banned weddings at that time!
Benita Valdez 2 years ago
Oh man I can totally relate to this poor bride. I mean how devastated was I when I had to completely change my travel plans in May 2020 because of covid. And the cherry on top was that my dad had the absolute nerve to get covid and die. Can you imagine the audacity of pulling that stunt? But seriously, I can't imagine being this entitled. People like this infuriate me; I'd trade for her situation in a heartbeat and be out the money instead of my dad.
A girl 2 years ago
I made it three years without contracting covid. Feb 2023, attended a giant wedding. Close family, had to. We tested positive 3 days later. TG my MIL (86, frail) didn't get it.
Beck 2 years ago
No one in my whole house had covid until earlier this month. Me and one of my sons got it. Not bad, though.
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Bridezilla Wants To Drop Moh For Not Answering Over 2 Years Out From Her Wedding
Kate Jones 2 years ago
Why do some people think having a maid of honor means you suddenly get a slave who is at your beck and call? Oh I understand...she thinks she's paying her which is why she says the MoH will be 'demoted' as if it's a paying job.
#77
Bride And Groom Ask Friends For Free Labor And Food And Then Demand That They Buy Special Clothing To Wear At The Wedding
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Simple, either tell the bride you won't be buying the outfit and if she wants you in it she buys it or you don't go.
#78
Saw On Twitter; Finally Standing Up To The Government For The Brides!
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Because a wedding is worth risking the actual lives of your grandparents. None of my grandparents are alive anymore so will be never at my wedding but if Covid had have put them at risk, I'd either delay the wedding or have them watch at home and throw a celebration party for them to attend when it was safe! No wedding is worth risking lives for!
LH25 2 years ago
And then they will whine that their grandparents had the gall to die during their "wedding year".
Load More Replies... Upstaged75 2 years ago
Actually yes, the government DOES have the right to tell you what to do. That's how it works. And it's not like they're forcing you to perform hard labor - they're trying to keep people from dying.
#79
Bride Thinks This Cake Should Cost Less Than $200
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
I think that quote is pretty damn reasonable! The amount of work and materials going into that is absurd!
Benita Valdez 2 years ago (edited)
For fun I used to make fondant cakes for friends and family. It's alot of fůcking work, time and skill and I had to stop because too many people complained that I wanted a little more compensation than just some of the ingredients (complaints were mostly from the not so close friends). I'm not a professional but I worked really hard to get to the point I was at and the lack of appreciation for my hard work just killed the joy for me. I also have a decent amount of medical issues which made it harder on me to make them but it used to bring me so much joy and I was just crushed; said to hell with it all and just stopped. I barely even just bake anymore.
Con O Cuinn 2 years ago
I don't think this belongs here. I'd be shocked too. It's a cake, not a used car
#80
Bride Doesn’t Hire Photographer Because They Want Someone With A Larger Social Media Following
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
"I won't get enough likes and upvotes if we use your services, sorry!" How utterly disgusting.
Sheena Leversedge Wood 2 years ago
a great response would have been. don't worry. I wasn't planning on using your pictures on my social media anyway, as what you described isn't the sort of thing that impresses people online.
#81
Bride Looking For Cheap Photographer/Videographer That Meets All Her Demands…
Sonja 2 years ago
The American wedding industry is ridiculous. This would be way over budget in my home country. You'd just go to the next best photo studio and hire them for half that price for a nice set of wedding pictures. But then, here those aren't glam shots or something. Just nice family pictures with a bit of touch up for a pretty picture book. They don't look Hollywood but they'll be fine. Maybe a video of the ceremony if you want to splurge and pay that full price. And hundreds of pictures taken by the wedding guests themselves.
Upstaged75 2 years ago
For f**k's sake Sonia, just stop posting a stupid paragraph on each of these. We get it - you encourage bridezilla behavior and think it's reasonable. Get over it already.
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Her Registry Also Includes 100k+ For A House Down Payment
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
Are the ushers going to be asking everyone for their bank statements to prove their net worth?!
Kate Jones 2 years ago
Another person who thinks their wedding is a lottery ticket. Oh and just FYI- a dowry is from the bride's family, not the groom's.
#84
Is This A Rude Bridezilla Trait?? Saw This On Betchesbrides
Kate Jones 2 years ago
This is confusing. You're sending out thank you cards for gifts you haven't received yet? Why else would you ask to include a gift receipt?
Anya Is a ghost 2 years ago
*buys the person who sent it a bakugo giving the finger sticker/ figure* I don’t care.
Sonja 2 years ago
If that's a bridezilla depends on the registry. If it's affordable and reasonable, then it's not a bridezilla. If it's ridiculously overpriced and limited, then it's a bridezilla. People always claim that gifts are about the gesture. But some people use that as an excuse to gift litterally trash no one could use. I wouldn't mind someone gifting me flowers made from newspaper or some homemade cookies or even just a nice greeting card with a well thought out greeting inside. No one needs to gove me expensive gifts. But if you give me something that's utterly thoughtless and useless, something you didn't put in any effort, then that's not a nice gesture and it shows clearly that you don't care for me, no matter how much it had cost.
Upstaged75 2 years ago
A gift registry is not the law. It's a suggestion. You should be thankful for ANY gift that someone takes the time to get for you.
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#85
😂
Alexandra Davis 2 years ago
No, no there isn't. I'm also very sure that no one will notice her nails and if they do, will not care or see it reflecting on your wedding. I wish I had the life where worrying about someone else's nails was causing me upset!
#86
Karma’s A Bi*ch
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Paul Mitchell 2 years ago
Extreme narcissism on display here. It should be a warning for the potential grooms to run for the hills.
Seabeast 2 years ago
People tend to marry those that they have a lot in common with, so the grooms may very likely be just as narcissistic, in different ways.
Load More Replies... Dani M 2 years ago
I´ll admit it first: i loooove the uhinged selfish stupidity. I lap these posts up. It´s like weddings wake up the most selfish, entitled cores of these ppl. Fun from a safe distance.
Beck 2 years ago
Me too. I took about 45 min to read just this article and loved every minute of it.
Load More Replies... Monday 2 years ago
My plan to just sign the wedding contract thingy with a witness present and then go home and eat pizza with my new husband is sounding better and better.
Mila Preradović 2 years ago
I was walking with my bf through our neighbourhood, we walked past a borough building, I was 4 months pregnant, and we said -why don't just walk in and get married? Legally we had to wait for 28 days, so we set up the saturday in 28 days, signed the papers and took his best man and my m.o.h. (because you must have 2 witnesses - law here) with their spouses for lunch. Best ever. 😁
Load More Replies... Nikki Sevven 2 years ago
The thing I can't fathom is how do women like this find men to marry them?
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
I am assuming that they are insanely PHYSICALLY attractive (because they are ugly as tar pitch inside). But this behaviour would result in an immediate DUMP from me.
Load More Replies... Seabeast 2 years ago
What is up with this "I've dreamed about this day since I was a little girl" thing? Do these women have so little going on in their lives that all they had to look forward to was a wedding? Is the groom just a prop in their fantasy? I don't remember ever having had wedding fantasies when I was a girl. ___ Maybe this is a business idea for someone. Stage perfect weddings for those who have always dreamed of having one. Hire perfectly matched attendants and guests. The future spouse is also hired on the basis of physical perfection. Of course it's not a legal wedding in any sense of the word, but the person buying this service gets the perfect wedding they've always dreamed of, with no pesky real-life people to disrupt it.
Julie Schulz 2 years ago
I remember pouring over the wedding dresses in the JC Penneys catalog (yes, I'm that old) and thinking how beautiful they were and I remember thinking that when I grew up I would get married but I didn't plan the day out or have some grand vision. We I got married, I worked within our budget and tastes. We had a nice wedding and reception and didn't break the bank.
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Aubrie Allen 2 years ago
Just hire models to be in your wedding party is all you care about is how your wedding photos look.
Ruth F 1 year ago
Better yet, do it in front of a green screen then fill in as desired afterwards.
Load More Replies... nooneimportant 2 years ago
The "Lets spend tens of thousands of dollars for 4 hours and struggle to eat and heat for the next 40 years" Thread.
D Bhuvadia 2 years ago
Some of these cannot possibly be real, can they? I know excrement of an excuse for humans exist but some of these are unbelievable. The entitlement is off of the scale. Just imagine the success rate of their marriages.
Julie Schulz 2 years ago
I want to say there is a study that related wedding costs with divorce rates and the higher the costs, the likelier a divorce. But I could just be imagining that (too lazy and tired to google it).
Load More Replies... Paul Mitchell 2 years ago
Extreme narcissism on display here. It should be a warning for the potential grooms to run for the hills.
Seabeast 2 years ago
People tend to marry those that they have a lot in common with, so the grooms may very likely be just as narcissistic, in different ways.
Load More Replies... Dani M 2 years ago
I´ll admit it first: i loooove the uhinged selfish stupidity. I lap these posts up. It´s like weddings wake up the most selfish, entitled cores of these ppl. Fun from a safe distance.
Beck 2 years ago
Me too. I took about 45 min to read just this article and loved every minute of it.
Load More Replies... Monday 2 years ago
My plan to just sign the wedding contract thingy with a witness present and then go home and eat pizza with my new husband is sounding better and better.
Mila Preradović 2 years ago
I was walking with my bf through our neighbourhood, we walked past a borough building, I was 4 months pregnant, and we said -why don't just walk in and get married? Legally we had to wait for 28 days, so we set up the saturday in 28 days, signed the papers and took his best man and my m.o.h. (because you must have 2 witnesses - law here) with their spouses for lunch. Best ever. 😁
Load More Replies... Nikki Sevven 2 years ago
The thing I can't fathom is how do women like this find men to marry them?
censorshipsucks 2 years ago
I am assuming that they are insanely PHYSICALLY attractive (because they are ugly as tar pitch inside). But this behaviour would result in an immediate DUMP from me.
Load More Replies... Seabeast 2 years ago
What is up with this "I've dreamed about this day since I was a little girl" thing? Do these women have so little going on in their lives that all they had to look forward to was a wedding? Is the groom just a prop in their fantasy? I don't remember ever having had wedding fantasies when I was a girl. ___ Maybe this is a business idea for someone. Stage perfect weddings for those who have always dreamed of having one. Hire perfectly matched attendants and guests. The future spouse is also hired on the basis of physical perfection. Of course it's not a legal wedding in any sense of the word, but the person buying this service gets the perfect wedding they've always dreamed of, with no pesky real-life people to disrupt it.
Julie Schulz 2 years ago
I remember pouring over the wedding dresses in the JC Penneys catalog (yes, I'm that old) and thinking how beautiful they were and I remember thinking that when I grew up I would get married but I didn't plan the day out or have some grand vision. We I got married, I worked within our budget and tastes. We had a nice wedding and reception and didn't break the bank.
Load More Replies... Aubrie Allen 2 years ago
Just hire models to be in your wedding party is all you care about is how your wedding photos look.
Ruth F 1 year ago
Better yet, do it in front of a green screen then fill in as desired afterwards.
Load More Replies... nooneimportant 2 years ago
The "Lets spend tens of thousands of dollars for 4 hours and struggle to eat and heat for the next 40 years" Thread.
D Bhuvadia 2 years ago
Some of these cannot possibly be real, can they? I know excrement of an excuse for humans exist but some of these are unbelievable. The entitlement is off of the scale. Just imagine the success rate of their marriages.
Julie Schulz 2 years ago
I want to say there is a study that related wedding costs with divorce rates and the higher the costs, the likelier a divorce. But I could just be imagining that (too lazy and tired to google it).
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