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You're single and want to make a stronger first impression than the millions of other people on dating apps. Or you have a private practice — maybe you teach yoga or offer financial advice — and there are also a bunch of folks providing identical services. You need to stand out from the crowd.

But take a step too far and your desperation will land on the subreddit r/NotLikeTheOtherGirls. This online community with 832K members is constantly sharing examples of unique individuals who appear to be thinking that they're better than everyone else.

So to remind ourselves to keep our feet on the ground when our heads are in the clouds, let's take a look at how cringy and desperate you look when you don't — below you will find some of the recent 'stars' of the subreddit.

#1

That Burn Though

That Burn Though

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DforDory
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does she know where to find the ice in the kitchen for this 4degree burn?🔥🔥🔥🔥

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#2

The Whole Package

The Whole Package

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#3

Not Like Other Grandma's

Not Like Other Grandma's

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#4

This Probably Doesn't Fit Here But

This Probably Doesn't Fit Here But

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Eva Kašu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree. Everything that appears feminine is considered as weak, BUT consider that majority of women are just stupid. Just like majority of men.

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Stardust she/her
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through that phase when I first got depression because I thought that my “third eye” was open and I was the only one who knew how bad the world was

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the shrimp whisperer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

damn this was me at 6 years old i hated other children for being happy cause i thought i was smarter than everyone else dont ask why cause i dont know honestly

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talliloo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

was a teen in early 70s and went through the i don't want to be like the other girls. then, one day while i was in the middle of one of these moments my mom started to laugh. when asked why she was chortling so much she told me: for all of you teen girls who want to look and/or be different from the others you all look the same - long hair, the clothes, etc. if you want to be unique then step of that box and be what you want to me not what you thi nk you should be. the next week i cut off my butt length hair & permed it and started making some of my own clothes so i would have my own style. been that way ever since. i like me.

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the shrimp whisperer
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

// Tangentially related PSA: so i thought i was trans for a while because i simply didnt like being female. i thought guys were cooler but i didnt particularly want to date them. so i concluded: if i want to be male, why cant i just be? PRO TIP: being trans isnt disliking your gender. being trans is when your body or AGAB (assigned gender at birth) doesnt match your actual gender. if you dont have gender dysphoria (i'm not transmed, this is just statistical) and have acted like your AGAB of your own free will for most of your life... you most likely arent trans, you just don't like yourself. and thats something you need to address and running from it won't help. HOWEVER. TRYING THINGS IS GOOD. and DO NOT THINK that you get to decide whether someone ELSE is trans based on this. this is for YOU to decide. and no one gets to choose their gender. not cis people, and not trans people. don't do what looks cooler. do what feels right. love yourself and being feminine/masculine isn't bad.

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laura lee
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It needs to stated at times especially when you're younger bc a lot of guys believe the stereotypes. It's easier to say "you're not like other girls" then explain why they are idiots for believing in and perpetuating negative stereotypes in girls and women.

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David
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the real problem is that 'not like other girls' is a phase for you. So many women buy into all the clothes / looks / etc that "society expects" and then complain that society expects them to keep doing it. Be your own person and get on with life.

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Dr_Atlas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through a not like other girls phase too... probably because I wasn't a girl at all

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Ryan Gentilcore
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guys go through the same thing, please don't blindly throw the "society sees women different" card everywhere you think of it

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HarperTheCentaur (they/them)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uhhh, what? The "not like other girls" phenomenon is literally directly caused by the cognitive dissonance that girls develop as a result of internalizing misogynistic stereotypes. What on earth are you talking about? Yes, you can argue that men sometimes experience something similar, but it doesn't change the fact that, for teen girls and women, they go through this phase because they grow up hearing "girls are vapid and stupid and only care about looking pretty". And then these girls think to themselves, well, I'M not like that, so I guess I'm not like other girls.

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#5

The Book I'm Reading Has A Main Character Who Is Like The Other Girls

The Book I'm Reading Has A Main Character Who Is Like The Other Girls

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#8

"I'm Not Like Other Girls I'm Sick In The Head"

"I'm Not Like Other Girls I'm Sick In The Head"

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David Martin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We may judge this woman based on her tattoo, saying she suffers from poor taste; Dahmer himself, however, may disagree

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#10

Im Speechless

Im Speechless

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Ches Yamada
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never liked tampons. Never used them. This b***h, ugh... why do they freaking sell pads if "no one" uses them?

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#12

I’m Not Like Other Girls I Make Bone Broth

I’m Not Like Other Girls I Make Bone Broth

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#13

‘I’m Not Like The Other Girls Because I Believe In Modestyyy’

‘I’m Not Like The Other Girls Because I Believe In Modestyyy’

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Casey McAlister
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I hear about nipples "disrespecting marriage" and can't help but imagine a woman going down the street while her boobs scream " Marriage is a scam! Your husband is a gold-digger! Your wife is a cheater! Wake up! Get a divorce!" at unfortunate strangers, because she forgot to put on her bra that muffles those sounds.

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#14

Because Instead Of Educating Them, We Should Make Fun Of Them!

Because Instead Of Educating Them, We Should Make Fun Of Them!

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Ael
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Goth doesn't need gatekeeping, , so p-o. everyone, you think you'd enjoy 'being a goth'? Go on, try it. Do it your way. And if it doesn't work out, you can stop doing it. It's not a contract for your soul.

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#15

If Everyone Else Wears A Sweater, You Def Gonna Be Freezing Wearing This

If Everyone Else Wears A Sweater, You Def Gonna Be Freezing Wearing This

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#18

I Hold A Ps4 Controller, I’m A Real Gamer Girl™️

I Hold A Ps4 Controller, I’m A Real Gamer Girl™️

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SheamusFanFrom1987
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dear all men/women/whoever in general: All games ARE games and whatever you play, you ARE a gamer despite what bozo up there said. You may not play the same games as me, but you all deserve a seat in the great mead hall of Sovngarde nonetheless. I shall see you there down the road.

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#19

First Post Here, I Just Hate Book Shaming In General

First Post Here, I Just Hate Book Shaming In General

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Meeliasi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's wrong with reading for fun? I don't need Kafka to add to my existential dread.

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#20

She's Not Like Other Moms

She's Not Like Other Moms

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Allison Riley
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes and without a C-section some people wouldn't survive childbirth. It's a medical procedure it makes no one more or less special for having one.

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#21

Can We Please Stop With This C**p Already??

Can We Please Stop With This C**p Already??

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Ches Yamada
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah but see... vanilla is a good flavor. If you're out there claiming you're lobster butter pecan walnut raspberry swirl, you're not a forever flavor for most.

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#22

On A Facebook Group For "Boys Only"

On A Facebook Group For "Boys Only"

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Stardust she/her
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m a girl who prefers pants over dresses but acts a bit girly otherwise. My father thought that I was trying to be a boy and would constantly make fun of me for being a boy which sucks because I don’t think he’d accept if his kids were trans :(

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#23

No, It's Embarrassing To Put Down Other Women At A Party

No, It's Embarrassing To Put Down Other Women At A Party

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Ael
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...and still you need guys hitting on you to feel valid, lassie.

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#24

This Girl Always Playing This Victim

This Girl Always Playing This Victim

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then you should have more empathy and sympathy. Or just, you know, be a normal human being.

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#25

Hugging Your Friends Is Weird?

Hugging Your Friends Is Weird?

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Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hugging is a sign of bonding, hon. Bonding, not bondage. That's a different relationship.

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#26

Does This Belong In This Sub? Apparently Being Bi-Curious Isnt A Thing Anymore

Does This Belong In This Sub? Apparently Being Bi-Curious Isnt A Thing Anymore

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Samuel Pelatan
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, i mean questionning your own sexuality is great. But i don't get why you would brag about it. But tbf the post is confusing, she says she wouldn't date a girl, not that she doesn't love/ is attracted to girls. She could be closeted for her own reasons (like Compulsory heterosexuality). But it's kinda odd to call yourself straight then :/

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#27

Oh No

Oh No

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Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Andrew Tate isn't right about anything. He's a s**t stain in need of wiping up.

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#28

Title

Title

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Susan Green
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So you’ve got a guy with an anger problem, who likes to destroy things?

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#29

Found In The Wilds Of Tiktok

Found In The Wilds Of Tiktok

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Meeliasi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, might be overanalyzing here, but basically parent is saying: "my daughter is not adhering to classic gender stereotypes. HOW TERRIFYING!". Jesus. How strange.

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#30

Guys She's A Tomboyyyy 🤩🤩😜😜🤪

Guys She's A Tomboyyyy 🤩🤩😜😜🤪

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kath morgan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean if they are really flopping right out there maybe get a female supervisor to have a quiet word, but the whole “married woman” bit is too much.

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