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50 Women Who Were Called Out Online For Their Delusional Behavior (New Pics)
Emotional intelligence is underrated. Behaving like an entitled, toxic, hypocritical, immature, and manipulative human being is something that doesn’t give a damn about gender. In pop culture, so-called ‘nice guys’ and ‘nice girls’ are folks who pretend to be kind, only to show their true colors the moment things don’t go their way. They can’t take ‘no’ for an answer, say, when they get rejected by their romantic interests.
The ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is a popular online forum where people share some of the worst examples of people being disingenuous for the sake of approval and love. Scroll down to check out how these individuals communicate online so that you know what red flags to look out for. Oh, and keep in mind that this is all about calling out toxic behavior. There’s no room for sexism here.
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#1
Nice Girl Found In The Wild
Emilu 3 months ago
I love how she's like "don't message me" and "I love seeing someone's colors" when she's the only one talking. Lmao.
Saltypepper 3 months ago
I would be pizzed at justin for giving my number out with out even asking me if it was ok. .
WalterWhiteSavannah 3 months ago
This is why I always found finding a new relationship so hard. I'm not all smooth and composed like this lady so I probly come across weird. 🤔
Emilu 3 months ago
Just dump a heap of "lmao" in there and you'll be right.
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ohjojo (you/your's) 3 months ago
WOW! Maybe there's still time to transfer schools or move out of the country.
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
The numbers of "lmao's are a bit too high. As the level of insecurity ....
The bad news is that emotional intelligence (abbreviated as EQ or EI) doesn’t come naturally to all people. The good news? Like any other skill, you can learn and develop it.
The Harvard Business Review explains that there are 4 main components of EQ. These are:
- Self-awareness: identifying your emotions and how they affect other people
- Self-regulation: managing your emotions and behaviors to control your disruptive impulses
- Social awareness: being empathetic and understanding the emotions of others
- Social skills: the ability to build and maintain healthy relationships through teamwork, inspiration, influence, conflict management, etc.
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#2
This Person Broke Up With Me For Breaking Up With Them
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Sincerly, I had the same feeling, as someone expects from a rejected job-candidate.
#3
We Had One Date. All Of This Was Texted Over A Span Of A Couple Of Days
Uncle Panda 3 months ago
It's only item #7 and I'm beginning to fear for the future of the species.
Emilu 3 months ago (edited)
Wow, that escalated quickly. "But I am a ~*~*~unique snowflake~*~*~". Also "I need your help so let's be frenz" ❄️
Schnitzel 3 months ago
Why don’t people just block and delete these nut jobs?? Why keep the texts rolling in?
HBR notes that individuals who have high emotional intelligence understand the links between their emotions and behavior. They also handle stress well, remaining calm, cool, and collected when things get tense. Meanwhile, they’re able to effectively use diplomacy and tact to handle difficult people.
On the other side of the scale, people with low EQ:
- Get upset very easily
- Get overwhelmed by their emotions
- Often feel misunderstood
- Have problems being assertive
#4
Unreal, I Can't Escape Them
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Hey guys, can I have £20 to feed my three chipmunks? Alvin, Simon and Jeremy? (Theodore died. The neighbours cat got him.)
Purple light 3 months ago
Poor Theodore! But at least the owners of the cat don't have to beg for cat food. 🤣🤣
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Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
Transactional s*x, aka p**********n. Easier ways to find a hooker than Tinder
#5
Started Talking For About A Month
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
I've seen more realistic demands from gunmen with hostages stuck in a house surrounded by cops.
Stannous Flouride 3 months ago
Yeah, she completely forgot the $10 million in small bills, an uninterrupted drive to the airport and a fueled jet. (Doncha hate amateurs?)
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Jaya 3 months ago
"if there's an emergency please contact me a week before", lol. Although I have to say, as a person with anxiety who's always worrying about all the things that could possibly go wrong, I would very much like to know about emergencies one week before they happen so that I can mentally prepare 😄
#6
Whole Grown Beautiful Woman Demands Dinner
Michael Largey 3 months ago
And you exclude a bar when you worship someone who turned water into wine.
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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Quicker and easier to have a simple drinks date at a bar or coffee shop, to see if there is any attraction/ interest than be stuck in a restaurant for a couple of hours having a meal.
Caffeinated Ape 3 months ago
Plenty of bars do good food, anyway. Or at least they used to, I haven't been to one in ages, and never for the drinks in fact now that I think about it! Man, now I want a nice hearty pub meal.
Crystalwitch60 3 months ago
You,d love our Cotswold village pub here where I live then ,my 24 yr old daughters worked there since she was 16 ,well nice food
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Sly Schlang 3 months ago
They are allowed to, but only in a nice restaurant . To check the way you brake the bread and turn water into wine. Then next date you have to walk on Walter or something something.
Load More Replies...“We are all having emotions all the time. The question is whether you are aware of these emotions and the impact they have on your behavior—and other people,” Margaret Andrews, the instructor of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership, former associate dean at Harvard University’s Division of Continuing Education, and executive director at the MIT Sloan School of Management, told Harvard Business Review.
Andrews added that people with strong self-regulation can take a deep breath during stressful situations, remain calm, and think before speaking or acting. On the other hand, individuals with low EQ, who can’t contain their impulses and negative emotions, “often set off a chain reaction of negative emotions in others.”
#7
Back Story: We Talked A Few Years Ago. Never Dated, Because Of The “The World Is Always Against Me” Behavior You’ll See Below
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Jesus, some people! Where anyone meet this kind? Asking for myself to avoid ...
Mike F 3 months ago
At 5:10am! Someone's still hammered from the night before.
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#8
I’m Legitimately Curious Could I Have Handled This Better?
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Predators learn to isolate their prey. Separate them from the herd.
michael Chock 3 months ago (edited)
Yup. 100% social-emotional manipulation right there.
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Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
China has not so many red flags as this chick. No matter how good she is bed, OP guy hopefully got already rid of her.
#9
Thought This Brief Exchange Was Amusing
Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
Transactional s*x = p**********n. Nothing against s*x work, but there are more efficient ways to procuring than dating apps
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
WTF? It would never even cross my mind to ask a man to pay for something like getting my nails done, pedicure, haircut, makeup. That stuff is what I call “maintenance.” I pay for the things I can afford with my own money. If I can’t afford it….I go somewhere cheaper, do it myself, or just skip it. I thought that was just what normal people do.
Crystalwitch60 3 months ago
Erm basic is NOT going to get your nails done at a sodding salon ,it’s learning how to do it yourself !! 🤷♀️and MOST DEFO NOT expecting a man to pay for it ffs 🤦♀️
Jeremy James 3 months ago
It sounds like they're talking about shots of IV d***s after shooting up together on the first date, "if you haven't finished [the baggie.]"
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
The first red flag, she is going as a routine, to make her nails "done", in some ugly last-tik-tok-fashion.
Broadly speaking, ‘nice guys’ and ‘nice girls’ are incredibly insecure. So, they resort to manipulation and pretence to get what they want.
Usually, they pretend to be nice (hence the name), kind, caring, and empathetic to create the illusion that they could be great people to date. When, in reality, they don’t have confidence, emotional intelligence, or genuine respect for others’ boundaries. In short, getting into a relationship with them would be a major mistake.
#10
Sorry For Asking About Your Interests I Guess?
The Other Guest 3 months ago
"Music is such a huge part of my life but I'm not willing to talk about it at all you rude little bugger."
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Oh, the first red flag of a person. For me, sure. I'm asking a simple question, like your music taste. If you are gonna turn in Shakespeare, I'm out. I have no patience for overthinkers.
Ell Bee 3 months ago
I realize it's just a figure of speech, but it always strikes me as strange when people say, "If I were honest..." or "To be honest.." or "Not gonna lie..." I get distracted from what they are saying because I take it too literally and wonder if they are not usually truthful and honest.
Earonn - 3 months ago
Well, looks like you have to learn about figures of speech and how communication works. It's fine, happens to the best of us.
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BK BigFish 3 months ago
"I am such a snowflake I can't even begin to describe how unique I am!"
Ryan-James O'Driscoll 3 months ago
Thinks her music taste is so unique others can't comprehend it.
winterwidow87 3 months ago
I was like this when i was 15 and i thought i was special for listening to Korn and Linkin Park. Thank goodness i grew up.
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Tara L. 3 months ago
The "I'm hardcore" comment was 🚩 but not the rest. I myself like so many different genres & artists I can't pick just one favorite. It depends on the mood I'm in. I don't see how that's delusional, I guess that guy can't handle someone who likes lots of different kinds of music. How boring is he?
#11
After Opening With Saying Her Greatest Strength Was Kindness, Then Saying My Flannel Shirt Was The Ugliest Outfit She’d Ever Seen, She Hit Me With This
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Why the "haha"? Why not the Oxford Dictionary link, which explains the mean of kindness?
Featherking 3 months ago (edited)
In my experience, it's only viciously, cluelessly mean people who ever actively describe themselves as "kind" without being asked and out of context. Most of them don't know the actual meaning of the word, just like they don't understand "honest". They think it means "socially incompetent with a lack of filter and a burning desire to declare one hundred percent of their malicious opinions to the whole of the population at every waken moment". The Oxford Dictionary is needed by quite a few people.
Load More Replies... tresgatos72 3 months ago
Given her rudeness here, I'd be willing to bet her "style" is trashy and low-class.
#12
Wanted Me To Be Obsessed After 2 Dates…
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
All you had to do was tell me you were going out, where you were going, the exact time, also full contact details of your friends and their known associates.
Michael Largey 3 months ago
You forgot the finger prints and the DNA test results.
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Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
"I have issue with that at all" ... here, have you translated, for the men, who didn't know this before. If a woman disapproves something you have done at the most slightiest, but says after that "I have no issue with ..", or "Sure, go for it ..", or "Whatever, it's fine ...". It's time-to-say-good-bye, because she is a passive-aggresive manipulating idiot, not worthing your time.
Crystalwitch60 3 months ago
It works for woman who’s men do this as well!
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Lowrider 56 3 months ago
That's a red flag for sure! If you were to get in a relationship with them they would just wind up trying to control every aspect of your life!
KatSaidWhat 3 months ago
Ok, so tell her you are going to XYZ and wait for the message asking YTF you aren't where you said you would be.
It’s not always obvious that someone’s only pretending to be the caring, mature, ‘genuine’ person they appear to be. Sometimes, you don’t pick up on the (not-so) subtle red flags. Other times, you want to believe someone’s better than they really are.
Red-flag behaviors that indicate that you might be stuck in a toxic relationship include things like your partner not supporting you, hostile communication, extreme selfishness, not caring about your needs, and a constant environment of hostility, envy, and jealousy.
#13
"Long Time Listener, First Time Caller"
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Can you pass my test though? What… is the air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
To be fair, you deserved all of this, after you didn't say BYE, after, she mentioned her priority her nails to be done. Guys, you are going on Tinder and other shallow apps, and you are surprised, that there are gold-diggers there, who doesn't give a fck about you, as a human being. And is vice versa.
michael Chock 3 months ago
It's so stupid that everyone expects an instant spark, even before meeting. If you are so shallow that everything you are is wrapped up in a short profile, never meet people, live online.
Tropical Tarot 3 months ago (edited)
I didn't get interested in my wife until we had known each other for several months. The partner before her was a friend for about 8 years. Still is actually.
Load More Replies... Lily bloom 3 months ago
This could very well be a scam for her to get as much money out of him before (never) meeting. First it's for her nails, then she needs gas money, her hair needs to be done, also her elderly autistic cancer ridden veteran rescue mutt needs emergency cash for reasons.
Laserleader 3 months ago
I admit, I did test the man who would be my husband... I asked him questions I knew the answer to, and waited to see if he would lie. He never did. Couldn't keep a secret either.
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
What’s with all these women who want a man to pay for them to get their nails done? Am I missing something?
Robyn Hill 3 months ago
She failed MY test of being able to use proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation . . . so there.
#14
Does This Qualify?
#15
I Thought I Blocked Her…
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
So, one of the few things my ex actually was correct about was apologies/amends. It is NOT about how YOU feel or what YOU want when you are apologizing to someone for your poor behavior (or something you did, etc.) it is about how the OTHER PERSON feels. They do not HAVE to accept your apology or even your extended olive branch, and that is okay if they don't. Deal with it. It's not about you. It's about THEIR hurt. YOU hurt THEM. He was also correct about intentions - I used to say "but I didn't MEAN to hurt you when I said xyz!" - it didn't matter what I intended or what I "meant" when I said what I said - if I hurt him with what I said, then it doesn't matter what my "intentions" were. He is still hurt by what I said. I cannot force him to feel (or not feel) one way or the other about what I said. tl;dr - Gray Text is making it about THEM because THEY want to feel better after an apology. They're forcing an apology because they don't like feeling sh!tty.
Emilu 3 months ago
Good on you for being able to reflect and acknowledge that he was right (in this, anyway).
Load More Replies...According to Healthline, toxic partners are very controlling, dishonest, disrespectful, and pile on physical and mental stress.
They drain you, cut you off from your other social relationships, and make you feel as though you’re walking on eggshells.
Something’s very wrong if you feel like you can’t talk about serious issues with your significant other in an open, honest, healthy way.
#16
She Seems Pretty Nice
The Other Guest 3 months ago
If she didn't want to go to a museum, why offer it as a choice? Oh, right, it's probably some stupid "test" which he apparently failed.
#17
Am I Crazy?
Jeremy James 3 months ago
Do we have a paleoanthopologist or a prehistoric archeologist in the house who would like to weigh in on this?
Featherking 3 months ago
I don't think they'd waste their time on this one.
Load More Replies... Emilu 3 months ago
I know this is meant to be funny etc, but I cannot put into words how much it annoys me when women claim "I'm wombyn; pay the bill!/Provide for me!/Let me otherwise pick my belly-button lint while you do all the work!" It's so gross. Puts feminism however many decades behind.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
As female myself, this kind of sh!t infuriates me to no end. Women have been demanding (rightfully so!) social equality and rights for decades, and then some women are just like "nooo I need a MAN to take caaaare of meeeee I don't want to be responsible!!" UGH. I generally loathe "extreme" feminism itself (sexism is sexism; misandry is JUST as abhorrent as misogyny) but yeah, the attitude of Gray Text is absolutely horrid. And I don't think it was meant to be funny - I think Gray Text actually feels that way!
Load More Replies... michael Chock 3 months ago
Most early cultures, women were providers right along with the men, including Viking women who raided along with the men. If people want the classic Nuclear family, raise the wages and tax the wealthy.
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
She wants a MAGAt man? Well, those guys are having trouble getting dates, so she might be in luck. She just needs to go looking in places where a lot of them hang out. She should try a megachurch.
Apatheist Account2 3 months ago
Misandrist, you mean. One can't be sure which is which gender.
Load More Replies... Petra Peitsch 3 months ago (edited)
RUN! My guy .. Just RUN! Edit: Also speaking about how much somebody earns on a casual dating app, is for me -as a european- very strange. But, I assume, that's from USA. In most european countries, people know, how much a person is earning roughly, just knowing their profession. Sure it varies from country to country, but there is a from-to limit, what is public, and anyone eager to know, what in a specific profession one can earn, may easily look up.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
I'm from the US and while I don't use dating apps and never have, I would say it is ALSO very strange here to ask someone about how much money they make when you are talking on a dating app (or any other casual online conversation.) That is not something that Americans generally talk about unless one is a gold-digger who wants to be "provided for", or the earning party wants to show off their mega-huge salary and drops "soooo I make $300k a year..." XD
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
Tradwife culture doesn't allow for spa days and nails and hairdos, though! The true tradwife life is having children (preferably dozens), caring for them, sewing your own clothing and theirs, and being the Happy Homemaker who cleans, cooks, does laundry, etc. XD What she ACTUALLY wants is to be a cared-for, pampered pet whose every need is taken care of and she doesn't have to lift a finger! XD
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Michelin Stars Only
Michael Largey 3 months ago (edited)
Her first dates are at restaurants rated with at least five red flags.
Smeghead Tribble Down Under 3 months ago
Blurgh. I would ten times rather have pizza than fiddle-f.arty Michelin ''food''.
Emilu 3 months ago
Least she showed her true colours so purple text person gets all the pizza.
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KatSaidWhat 3 months ago
Since when did "thoughtful and aligned" start meaning michelin stars?
As per Verywell Mind, toxic significant others deplete your energy and make you feel devalued. These individuals blame you, disrespect your boundaries, and undermine your confidence.
You feel like you always have to cheer them up. Meanwhile, you’re constantly exhausted, angry, tired, and depressed. If you’re chronically unhappy after spending time with your romantic partner, you are not in a healthy relationship.
#19
“I Make A Lot Of Money More Than Others.” So That Gives The Right To Ask A Rude Question
Moira 3 months ago
If you are already making "more than a lot of people", why are you searching for someone above that? I mean, can't you be the main breadwinner?
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
“Dating for the purposes of marriage”….see, I have trouble with that concept. You have to know someone very well for a long time to know if marriage would be a good idea. And dating is pretty artificial; you’re both being your best self, and NOT getting to know each other.
#20
Glad I Dodged A Bullet
Laura Lawson 3 months ago
'All y'all'. Tell me you're from the South in the USA without telling me you're from the South. 🤣 I actually love that phrase for some reason!
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
Why are all her friends participating in this relationship?
#21
Bpd “E-Girl” Update
michael Chock 3 months ago
Bekah needs a live feed of your life to be comfortable in a relationship.
Featherking 3 months ago
I think Bekah needs a good psychiatrist and professional support. I'm not even trying to be flippant, I need mental health care myself so I'm in no position to be making derogatory jokes. This girl needs help.
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Sara Shamsabadi 3 months ago
The way she spells her name should have been all the sign he needed lol
Crystalwitch60 3 months ago
Cars dangerous ? no lol it’s the people driving em lol decent drivers means cars ain’t dangerous 🤦♀️😂what ever that thing is on, I don’t want any lol
The ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is incredibly well-known. Created in the autumn of 2011, over the years, it has amassed a following of 1.2 million members.
The moderators stress the fact that you should never include anyone’s personal information in the posts you share on the sub. What’s more, there’s absolutely no space for sexism, racism, or any kind of intolerance.
#22
An Interaction I Had With A Girl One Time…
Emilu 3 months ago
To be fair, she hasn't cheated yet -- necessarily -- if she can't find anyone 😂
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She Already Knew I Was Going To Be Watching A Movie
Lily bloom 3 months ago
Eh, if he really did say he'd be there and she got excited in anticipation, then he just flaked? I'd be upset too
Nikole 3 months ago
Yeah this one might be acceptable. If he said he was going to see her and then was like, “JK I’m going to watch a movie instead,” that’s pretty shítty.
Load More Replies... Roni Stone 3 months ago
Regardless of the did he/didn't he question going, there is NO reason for this kind of text bombing. It reeks of control and is painfully passive aggressive.
#24
All Men Suck
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
I'm reminded of the horse joke in the movie "Lucky Number Slevin": "The first time somebody calls you a horse, you punch them on the nose. The second time somebody calls you a horse, you call them a jerk. But the third time somebody calls you a horse... well, then, perhaps it's time to go shopping for a saddle."
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S Bow 3 months ago
oh Nathaniel, leave those appliances alone. As smart as they're becoming, one of these days the toaster will come after you in the bath when you're least expecting it.
Load More Replies... Laserleader 3 months ago (edited)
I know someone who says all men just wanted to use women, and they lie, manipulate and victimized her all the time... and then she tells about how she is using a guy in one state and hasn't told him its to get access to her daughter in another state that she was accused of kidnapping from the father... so yeah.
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
🏆 It shouldn’t be this much work to find a partner.
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According to the moderators keeping the community running smoothly, so-called ‘nice girls’ are women who complain that men are supposedly shallow while hypocritically focusing on their looks themselves.
They are also women who “hold others to the highest possible standard, but have no standards for themselves.”
#25
Can Anybody Make Sense Of This?
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
She is just your basic idiot. Bored, thinking can bring someone down to her level.
Lowrider 56 3 months ago
Im glad I'm married and dont have deal with some of these whack jobs!
Tropical Tarot 3 months ago
Yeah l. I see what you mean about social media sites, like Bored Panda, being full of bloody lunatics.
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A Nice Girl
Jerusalem Cat Syndrome 3 months ago
No, they meant "you're a scared pus*y".
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One Of The Worst Profiles I've Seen
Caffeinated Ape 3 months ago
Given the rest of the profile, that actually would be a very surprising thing about her!
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
Ah yes, she attended a JC in Sonoma County/NorCalifornia wine country. No wonder she expects men to buy her a farm.
Julia Ford 3 months ago
I was just going to say that! My sister has a farm there!
Load More Replies... tresgatos72 3 months ago
From what I've seen in my half-century+ of life, people who say they are angels (or are named Angel) rarely are.
SheamusFanFrom1987 3 months ago
I'd build her something: A padded cell to match her kind of loco... -_-"
Who are some of the worst ‘nice guys’ and ‘nice girls’ that you’ve ever interacted with, Pandas? How did they try to manipulate? How did they react when you rejected them? Were there any subtle red flags that showed their true colors? What do you think could help them become more self-aware, emotionally intelligent individuals?
If you feel like sharing your thoughts on this sensitive topic, you can do so in the comments at the very bottom of this post. See you there.
#28
Apparently Wanting Someone With Substance Is "Too Much"
#29
She Wasn’t Feeling It Because I Didn’t Pay For Her Shopping Spree
#30
Crazy Ex Regularly Hits Me Up With Life Updates
tresgatos72 3 months ago
A female dog, from the looks of it, and who needs to be spayed.🙄
Load More Replies... Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
‘Give this man some babies?’ WTF. Half these women seem like they came from the pages of a bad 16th Century Xtian/Lubavicher parable
Nikole 3 months ago
I’m just picturing her stealing infants and handing them to him. “Jesus, Shannon! ANOTHER ONE?! Where are you even getting them from??”
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#31
Seemed To Take Rejection Well, Till She Posted Me On “Are We Dating The Same Guy”
Jerusalem Cat Syndrome 3 months ago
Sounds like she's lying through her teeth out of spite.
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#32
What Is She On Tinder For Then
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
The grammar hurts more. I would have been failed at my English-class on grade 4 with this "performance" ....
Emilu 3 months ago
I think you mean "womens", at least based on her messaging 😂
Load More Replies... Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Yes, all animals,everything really, I live in a germ free protective bubble.
Crystalwitch60 3 months ago
Ah the inhuman kind ,can spot them a mile off they hate all animals !! Which she clearly does , but puts it as she’s allergic ,cos she thinks it sounds better ,that animal hater , anyone as hates animals is inhuman !
#33
So Her Value Is At $15?
michael Chock 3 months ago
Why would she WANT her value to be a dollar amount? If anyone wants to date me, first date can be free, I'm priceless.
Crystalwitch60 3 months ago
Think you mean cheap lmao he must have found her on a street corner 😂
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Food Stamps Apparently
#35
Girlfriend Loses Her Mind Because I Didn’t Get Her Food That She Specifically Told Me Not To Get
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Bro, you'd be better paying 50 bucks for a pro every time, you need a quickie, than dealing with her sh.it.
Olive 3 months ago
Where are you getting a pro for 50 bucks a pop? Asking for a friend ...
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Green Bubble Hate Is Real
Brettargh 3 months ago
It’s because he doesn’t have an iPhone I think. He can’t FaceTime her. Pretty ridiculous!
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Tried Getting Me To Pay For Her Broken Nail After Hookup
KatSaidWhat 3 months ago
Honestly, what is this paying for mani s**t that is coming up so much?
#38
Interesting Start To The Weekend
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
If he doesn’t want to date her because she’s an OF girl….he has a right to that preference. And she needs to accept that and move on.
Richard Henderson 3 months ago
Probably just her way to get subs for the OF. I had a girl on Reddit DM me to “carry on that conversation we were having”. There was no conversation.
#39
This Chick Went From 0-100 Over A Misinterpreted Phrase
#40
We Knew Each Other For 2 Days…
#41
Figured This Belongs Here
Featherking 3 months ago
This one isn't even crashing out; this is a perpetual firestorm.
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SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
She’s crazy, AND she can’t spell or use punctuation. I’m beginning to think at least half of the population didn’t make it all the way through elementary school AND has a cluster B disorder.
#42
I Think I Dodged A Bullet
Emilu 3 months ago (edited)
Again, you need to go read the full story for this one. It's too long for me to type out/I'm lazy but general gist is grey text bubble's dog died and she blew up on green text bubble and ghosted him. Grey text bubble was "so nice" to green text bubble, and so she wanted another chance. And you can see how it ends above. 😆
#43
Imagine What Life Is Like With This Level Of Entitlement?
Emilu 3 months ago (edited)
Okay, this needs both pictures for context. Her greeting is (quote) "Your cute. But young though. Would you be willing to relocate in the future?" He responds with "that's a pretty serious expectation for a literal introduction, don't you think?" Her response that isn't shown in the above picture is "Babe I'm close to 40, this biological clock might wxpire, might already be expired. I ain't got time to f**k around. Just spent 4 days in an rv with a dude to tell me he doesn't..." and the rest is in the screenshot.
#44
Am I Crazy? I'm 37, She's 33. I Feel Like I'm Crazy
Emilu 3 months ago
This one needs the extra context as well. JFC, BP. She asks why he never said that he was at the brewery, he thought she might still be getting ready, she says "u never thought to at least check?" and he replies with "I got caught up talking to the couple next to me. Next thing I know it's 6:30... maybe she's still getting ready... then you messaged me." Her response? "Lol yeah I don't trust that". Him: "I can video chat you from the bar where I'm still at lol". So I guess the assumption here is that he was supposed to call her at 6:01 asking her where she was and begging her to come to the bar, etc.
#45
Is This A Nice Girl
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
It's not baldness, it's a solar panel for a s*x machine.
Uncle Panda 3 months ago
You're not bald, your head just grew taller than your hair.
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Uncle Panda 3 months ago (edited)
On campus, I came around a corner and almost ran into one of the highest ranking officers, who was bald-bald. He was notoriously gruff and literally barked at me and my mop o'hair, "That looks HOT!" in a defiant sort of way. I popped right back with a strong but sincere, "I bet a man like you knows a lot about hats." He had a surprisingly rich and hearty laugh. And, hopefully, a poor memory for faces.
tresgatos72 3 months ago
Some of the handsomest men I've ever seen were bald or balding. She's a twätwaffle.
SchadenFreudian Psychology 3 months ago
He needs to date someone more like me. I find bald men attractive. (Not looking right now just to be clear…my partner is balding! 👨🏻🦲 ❤️ )
#46
We Talked For A Few Days And Then The Mood Changed Very Quickly
#47
Probably The Most Down Bad I've Ever Seen A Girl
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Is alc alcohol in this context? Booze? Or am I missing something?
Jeremy James 3 months ago (edited)
Alkaseltzer? Alchemy texts? Is that what the kids are doing these days?
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Apparently Communication Is Racist
Featherking 3 months ago
"What we've got here is a red flag the size of the Atlantic. Reccomendation: run fast, run far."
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#49
I've Known This One My Entire Life
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
My sister - who will be 50 this year - cannot fathom that sometimes I put my phone down on the table and do other stuff in my house without checking my phone every 5 seconds. She literally argues with me about me leaving my phone on silent most of the time - she's like "What if there's an emergency??" - we live NEXT DOOR to each other; if there was truly an emergency it'd actually be faster to run over to my house (there's no backyard wall between the houses, they're on one big lot now) and if there was an emergency, why would she call ME and not 911/the police?! She's exactly like this person - goes into a rage (or a passive-aggressive snit) if you don't respond to her texts within 3 minutes. She literally will copy-paste "HELLO???" or just "???" and send it 20 times in a row like a p!ssy teenager if you don't text her back immediately. I actually grew up more "techy" than she did, and I'm STILL not glued to my phone 24/7 XD I don't get it!
Emilu 3 months ago
I'd block her, honestly. That s**t infuriates me to no end. Sometimes I need DND on and to just not talk to anyone to recharge. If someone did that to me on one of those days I'd probably end up smashing my phone out of anger at them, and that's not fair on my poor phone. 😆
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#50
Nice Girl Implying I'm A Moron Apparently
Laserleader 3 months ago
This seems like an honest mistake, and neither seems to be dissing the other... no red flags.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago (edited)
::stares at her keyboard:: I guess H and M are SORT of close to each other XD
#51
Think I Found One
#52
Posted This On R/Tinder, Felt That It Fit Here Too
#53
Is It Just Me Who Immediately Swipes Left When Someone Uses These Prompts?
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
I am not sure about these heights, how many bananas is 6 foot?
tresgatos72 3 months ago
*singing* "Six foot, seven foot, eight foot bunch. Daylight come and me wan' go home." 🍌
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Said We Shouldn’t Be Friends Anymore Because I Opened Up That I Felt Left Out During A Gathering
#56
Dodged A Bullet On This One… Went On Two Dates And Told Her I’d Text Her The Next Morning… Started A New Job That Morning And Forgot. Tried To Own It
#57
We Went On Two Dates A Few Years Ago
#58
I Just Wanted To Know If I Was Getting My Money Back…
Giraffe Sitter 2 months ago
Is there a button I can press to block this person from my reality?
#59
Matched With A Girl Yesterday. I Told Her I Had A Cat. She Asked Me To Get Rid Of It. I Don’t Even Know Her And Never Met Her
tresgatos72 3 months ago
Ok, anybody who wishes harm on innocent animals deserves the biggest whammy Karma is capable of! 😡
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
Pets are a package deal with their owners. I'll die on this hill. You either accept them as a package deal, or if your allergies truly are too severe, you end things since it's obviously not going to work out. You don't ASK THE PERSON TO GET RID OF THEIR PET. Antihistamines exist, jfc. One of the few things my now-ex did "right" was deal with his allergies - I had a GSD and a cat when we met, and he is allergic to both cats AND dogs. I vacuumed daily, got an air purifier with a good HEPA filter, brushed/groomed both animals, and he took antihistamines. Over time, he actually developed a tolerance to the cat and no longer had allergic reactions to her. We had two cats together when I finally escaped (for other reasons) and I allowed him to keep my beloved longhair tuxedo boy, because the tux actually loves him more than he loves me and the CAT will be happier with my ex than with me X'D But yeah, there are tons of things you can do if you're not-severely allergic to animals.
Bianca Van Deventer 2 weeks ago
Why must the poor animal always get condemned because a delusional idiot is bitter??
#61
Profile Said She Was Afraid Of Elevators And Nothing Else
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Imagine showing an interest in a woman! That is so outdated!
Featherking 3 months ago (edited)
It's soo 2024. Come on, be hip and work on not giving one single fυck ever.
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
If you put it on your public profile, you cannot get angy that someone brings it up or tries to talk to you about it XD
#62
Weird Girl Matches With Me, Gets Mad When I Compliment Her, Then Says She Wasn't Into Me Because I'm White. (Nothing In Her Bio Saying She Didn't Like White Guys.)
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
I'd be over the moon with "I think you're kinda cute", seeing as I have a low self-image and my ex used to tell me I physically disgusted him XD
BrownEyedGrrl 3 months ago
My ex felt sorry for me because I'm so ugly no one else would ever want me. Then why did every one of his "friends" hit on me?
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#64
My Ex Was The Ultimate Nice Girl, This Was Her Last Messages Before I Blocked Her
Giraffe Sitter 2 months ago
That’s really efficient, cramming in that much crazy in just under 30 minutes.
#65
Thought This Went Here
#66
Saw Some Unhinged Dating App Conversations And Thought I Would Share…
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
I also bless the homeless when I pass them and they are grateful, also my farts smell of roses.
tresgatos72 3 months ago
A "triply ordained dually accredited activist reverend doctor"?? For what? The Church of Neverending Bullshït?
Sly Schlang 3 months ago (edited)
How can I join ? This sounds like the perfect faith for me 🤭
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Drop Bear from Hell 3 months ago
I work with a woman like this.....is a low level government worker but claims she has more integrity, skill and qualifications than upper management. Very difficult, argumentative and will go on random rants about all sorts of things. I have to wonder if she is bi-polar....
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
She's a doctor AND a bestselling author and still expects someone else to pay for her $10 kava? (ALSO HOLY SH!T HER DRINK COSTS $10??? oh and after googling it, it's a freaking "psychoactive beverage" and can cause some really bad health issues and damage to your organs with long-term or heavy use.... nice.)
Kalikima 3 months ago (edited)
Sounds like any other alcoholic beverage.. lol
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"Your Not 6'8 Prove It"
Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
So I reckon now every man on dating apps has to be over 6’2”, but under 6’8”?
#68
Update To (Am I Crazy?)
#69
Ftp Here. Got This One Yesterday. Didn't Even Bother To Answer My Questions
#70
From A Friend In A Small Town
#72
This Is The First Time I’ve Seen This Sentiment Coming From A Woman And Not A Nice Guy
Michael Largey 3 months ago
I consider myself to be a 10. A binary one, granted, but still a 10.
#73
I Don't Think The Person (My GF) Who Sent Me This Is Bad But I Sense Immaturity And Not Niceness. Am I Reading Wrong?
#74
When You Don’t Meet Someone’s Hidden Expectations…
Went out with a girl from Bumble. The plan was to meet in the afternoon at a cafe and then go for a walk along the river park. We did exactly that but also extended the date into getting boba and then after some dinner. Went to Chinese restaurant she picked out because it looked very traditional in her opinion. After we got the food she pulls the waiter over and talks somewhat aggressively with him in mandarin. I ask her if everything is okay and she goes "Oh yeah I had just had to tell them that this food is not real Chinese food" lol.
After dinner I tell her well it was nice meeting you, I gotta go home and get to some work that needs to be done, and suddenly her whole mood changes. While walking to the train station she says nothing but suddenly pulls me aside and goes "I want you to know I'm very angry with you. How could you just abandon me for the evening and leave me to suddenly have to make my own plans, it's very rude and you ruined my evening now". I apologize and tell her I haven't experienced this situation before and that since we hanged for over 4hrs and more than what we originally planned I thought this was a good time to end it, but maybe it's some cultural difference or something.
Anyways I get home and she suddenly sends me this angry text lol!
#75
I Was Dreamin Good Too
#76
The Dating Pool Is Filled With Piss
tresgatos72 3 months ago
Must have a pet dragon or unicorn and be able to change water to wine. 🙄 Sheesh.
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Gavin Johnson 3 months ago
Met my partner via PoF, I got very lucky, she was the first message I received through the app, we chatted, met, it worked, six years on, love her to bits. I look at these people and count my blessings again, there are some real fruit loops out in the big wide world of online dating and they’ll rip you to pieces if you don’t play the game the exact way they want to. Good luck out there daters!
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 months ago
For every people moaning again and again about the lack of women-bashing posts compared to the men-bashing posts, this is for you ! Enjoy <3
Uncle Panda 3 months ago (edited)
In either case, I always feel like I need a shower. This edge of humanity is just so bleak.
Load More Replies... Uncle Panda 3 months ago
It's just so 'cking sad, and somehow even sadder when it's a woman. Part of me marvels that we continue to exist as a species while the rest of me wonders if we should.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
This is why I am a wolf :p ((note: no, I'm obviously NOT a wolf, nor am I so delusional that I believe I am; I don't even pretend to be one IRL or wear ears and a tail ... well, unless it's an event or Halloween ;p But I "cosplay" as a literal wolf online because sometimes humanity and humans make me ashamed to actually be one myself.))
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
It wasn't so long ago that, in the US at least, women weren't allowed to vote (until 1920), weren't allowed to own property (until ~1900), have a credit card in their own name (until 1974! jfc), divorce her husband if her husband didn't want a divorce (South Carolina didn’t legalize divorce until 1949!); hell, there were laws against women wearing PANTS up until the early 1900s. So many women fought and suffered for so long and so hard to ensure that women today have EQUAL RIGHTS and are not viewed as inferior to men in terms of legality/rights/opportunities. And yet so many women on these dating apps seem to want to regress in a very specific way - they want to be "taken care of" and have the man pay for everything. That's a kick in the heiny and a spit in the face of every single woman who fought for women's suffrage and for gender equality. Most infuriating of all is that these women would probably proclaim themselves superior to men in every way - except being self-sufficient.
Emilu 3 months ago
It's revolting, isn't it. It puts feminism (*proper* feminism, not neo-feminism, where women want more than men get) decades behind.
Load More Replies... sweet emotion 3 months ago
When did "pay for me to get my nails done" become a relationship standard? And shouldn't the men be firing back with "pay for my new car floor mats"?
Caffeinated Ape 3 months ago
A fun thing to do with all of your red flags is stitch them into a nice fashionable cape so you can at least look stylish while you're warning people off. /s
Otto Katz 3 months ago
You know what I think? I think I'm so fǔcking glad I'm so fücking old and married that I don't have to deal with any of this shĩt! How do any of you young people put up with this crãp?? So glad that when we were out looking for spouses none of this dating apps were around to get mixed messages on, that we were either introduced by mutual acquaintances, or family, or worked with them. Or even matchmakers! This is so much bullsħit!
Emilu 3 months ago
I'm not exactly a young person (mid 30s) but this is why I won't actively look for dates any more. If someone who I find appealing asks me out I'd say yes, but I'm not someone that *needs* a partner; I'm content enough with being single that, from the selfish point of view, I will only date someone if I think that doing so will enrich my life further.
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marianne eliza 3 months ago
Geez this went on and on. Gave up. Besides, most of them were repeats of the SOS.
Gavin Johnson 3 months ago
Met my partner via PoF, I got very lucky, she was the first message I received through the app, we chatted, met, it worked, six years on, love her to bits. I look at these people and count my blessings again, there are some real fruit loops out in the big wide world of online dating and they’ll rip you to pieces if you don’t play the game the exact way they want to. Good luck out there daters!
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 months ago
For every people moaning again and again about the lack of women-bashing posts compared to the men-bashing posts, this is for you ! Enjoy <3
Uncle Panda 3 months ago (edited)
In either case, I always feel like I need a shower. This edge of humanity is just so bleak.
Load More Replies... Uncle Panda 3 months ago
It's just so 'cking sad, and somehow even sadder when it's a woman. Part of me marvels that we continue to exist as a species while the rest of me wonders if we should.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
This is why I am a wolf :p ((note: no, I'm obviously NOT a wolf, nor am I so delusional that I believe I am; I don't even pretend to be one IRL or wear ears and a tail ... well, unless it's an event or Halloween ;p But I "cosplay" as a literal wolf online because sometimes humanity and humans make me ashamed to actually be one myself.))
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
It wasn't so long ago that, in the US at least, women weren't allowed to vote (until 1920), weren't allowed to own property (until ~1900), have a credit card in their own name (until 1974! jfc), divorce her husband if her husband didn't want a divorce (South Carolina didn’t legalize divorce until 1949!); hell, there were laws against women wearing PANTS up until the early 1900s. So many women fought and suffered for so long and so hard to ensure that women today have EQUAL RIGHTS and are not viewed as inferior to men in terms of legality/rights/opportunities. And yet so many women on these dating apps seem to want to regress in a very specific way - they want to be "taken care of" and have the man pay for everything. That's a kick in the heiny and a spit in the face of every single woman who fought for women's suffrage and for gender equality. Most infuriating of all is that these women would probably proclaim themselves superior to men in every way - except being self-sufficient.
Emilu 3 months ago
It's revolting, isn't it. It puts feminism (*proper* feminism, not neo-feminism, where women want more than men get) decades behind.
Load More Replies... sweet emotion 3 months ago
When did "pay for me to get my nails done" become a relationship standard? And shouldn't the men be firing back with "pay for my new car floor mats"?
Caffeinated Ape 3 months ago
A fun thing to do with all of your red flags is stitch them into a nice fashionable cape so you can at least look stylish while you're warning people off. /s
Otto Katz 3 months ago
You know what I think? I think I'm so fǔcking glad I'm so fücking old and married that I don't have to deal with any of this shĩt! How do any of you young people put up with this crãp?? So glad that when we were out looking for spouses none of this dating apps were around to get mixed messages on, that we were either introduced by mutual acquaintances, or family, or worked with them. Or even matchmakers! This is so much bullsħit!
Emilu 3 months ago
I'm not exactly a young person (mid 30s) but this is why I won't actively look for dates any more. If someone who I find appealing asks me out I'd say yes, but I'm not someone that *needs* a partner; I'm content enough with being single that, from the selfish point of view, I will only date someone if I think that doing so will enrich my life further.
Load More Replies... marianne eliza 3 months ago
Geez this went on and on. Gave up. Besides, most of them were repeats of the SOS.
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