When people think about bad habits, it’s often smoking and similar unhealthy behavior that comes to mind. But sometimes, something way less detrimental, yet far from praise-worthy, too, can get on people’s nerves.
Members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community recently discussed bad habits that way too many people have. Their examples ranged from annoyances, such as lacking basic elevator etiquette, to more peculiar things, like nasal spray addiction, showing just how diverse bad habits can be. If you’re curious to learn more, scroll down to find more examples on the list below.
Bored Panda has reached out to the OP and he was kind enough to answer a few of our questions. You will find his thoughts in the text below.
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Just absentmindedly being in the way. Like just standing in a place without awareness of their surroundings. I work in a grocery store and it’s enough to make me go mad. I understand you’re weighing your options but sir/maam, you are taking up the entire aisle doing it pls pick a side.
Playing loud music or videos on their phone without earbuds in a community space like a library.
Grown adults littering like 60’s 5th graders. Extra points for doing it out of a moving car with people behind you.
The OP shared that the reason he decided to pose this particular question was watching a video about car repairs—that’s when he learned that almost 75% of people don’t maintain their car.
“There may be no proof of that number but still, it blew my mind how many people neglected their vehicles; I learned the hard way to take care of my car,” he told Bored Panda. “It made me think about other bad habits that are surprisingly common.”
Getting offended when someone makes a mistake. You're not going to die if some random stranger on the net doesn't know the difference between their, there, and they're.
Also getting offended by someone's personal preferences. So what if some people prefer iPhone over android, DC over Marvel, or cream in their coffee. There's nothing wrong with that. It's not like they listen to Justin Beiber.
Grammar. The difference between knowing your sh*t and knowing you're sh*t.
Commas save lives. Let's eat grandma!!! Let's eat, grandma!!!
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Or (I'm prepared for the downvotes) liking a well done steak! If I enjoy it just as much as you enjoy your rare one why are you so offended by it!? Lol
im not offended by it but i probably will share my opinion lol
Load More Replies... As someone who gets paid to correct people’s grammar, y’all need to just get a job as a tutor or something. Then you can have a healthy outlet for your desire to correct people’s grammar instead of annoying everyone on the internet.
Whilst I agree with the comment, please remember poor use of grammar, punctuation, homophones, poor spelling, etc, can make it significantly harder for some people to understand what is being said. I'm dyslexic, and they're/their/there mistakes cause me to stumble when I'm reading, as does to/too/two. Mistakes can also make it harder for people who don't have English as their first (or second) language, and for people who use technology to have text read to them. .... What am I trying to say? Try your best to make your text understandable by as many people as possible, but don't worry about it too much. (And I am seriously hoping I haven't made any mistakes in spelling, grammar, punctuation, etc.)
I teach dyslexic students. Often it is they who are getting their/they're/there etc wrong in the first place. As someone with the issue you will be aware that using proper grammar requires both decoding and encoding skills which are two of the biggest challenges for students with reading and writing issues. Additionally, the technical rules that make up grammar and syntax can be especially difficult for dyslexic students to commit to memory. One in ten people are dyslexic, many are profound and would not be able to produce a paragraph as well written as yours. I appreciate your point but if you struggle with reading it, there are many who will struggle with writing it and will make these mistakes. We need to accept that. We need to accept that ability varies massively and manage the best we can ourselves.
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The iPhone thing is so true! I had a Motorola and was perfectly happy with it. Then after 3 years the screen cracked. I was just going to buy another android or samsung phone because I don't need anything fancy and I don't want to spend a lot of money on something I don't really need. Yet, my siblings kept pressuring me into getting an iPhone.
I personally take the approach to be offended if the other person actually intended to offend me. Otherwise I usually chalk it up to incompetence, ignorance or arrogance and work with that. Sometimes it’s a simple misunderstanding of the situation my me or them. Not worth getting upset over.
and what if this person likes justin bieber not me just asking for a friend
Correcting grammer is the internets ways of saying my dad could beat up your dad
Insulting someone's grammer is lame. Correcting someone's grammar wirhout malice is ok in my book. *Grammar 🙂
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OP immediately contradicts the entire post with that last sentence.
The opinions of others have no effect on me unless they include hostile behavior and firearms.
Being offended by something is a personal choice of the person that gets offended. You can choose to be offended or not. Even when someone is intentionally trying to rile you up, it's your choice how you react. Unfortunately, we live in an age when people are choosing to be offended by damn near everything. If it's words, ignore them or don't listen. If it's other people's personal life choices, it's none of your business. The being offended culture and cancel culture go hand-in-hand and have gone too far.
" It's not like they listen to Justin Beiber." i dont know if this was meant to be sarcastic or not, but you just contradicted yourself.... grow up.
I struggle with this. Most of the time it’s “don’t correct blatant errors on social media” for fear of being labeled a ‘grammar nazi’. In what world did knowing the difference between there, their and they’re become synonymous with genocide? I use semicolons correctly; apparently, this means I’m a psychopath. ETA I mean I use semicolons in my OWN posts and have been accused of being a psychopath! I don’t go around telling others where THEY should have used them.
To be fair the people I know who struggle with this are dyslexic. One of them is my spouse and I have to correct his written work a lot. Dyslexia made it hard for him to learn grammar as his is quite profound. That isn't going to change no matter how many times he is corrected as he literally can't see the difference (I did try before learning more). One in ten people are thought to have a form of dyslexia so do bear in mind you are very likely correcting people with a learning disability and they can have poor self confidence already and it won't help. Many were treated like idiots at school when in fact they are often smart, they just don't have a brain wired the same way. No, you aren't a psychopath but what do you really hope to gain from correcting people for whom you know nothing about? If you believe you are teaching someone it is rather condescending and if it is personal irritation, that is really your problem and not theirs.
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Not using their turn signal.
Almost killed by a guy yesterday because he wasn't signaling and wasn't looking where he was going. I'm running two headlights, two tail lights, and spoke lights on my bike and he still missed me by inches. And he wasn't signaling so I thought he was going straight through.
Car-related habits are not only why the OP started the thread, but also what he considers to be the worst of them all. “I think the worst habit that a lot of people have is bad driving. Not only is it frustrating but it is dangerous; yet it's so common. People don't seem to understand how deadly a car crash can be,” he pointed out in a recent interview.
As for the bad human tendencies that surprised him the most, the redditor said he was taken aback by people’s hygiene-related behavior. “I think the most shocking response was when someone stated that not washing hands was a bad habit and someone else agreeing and stating that they worked in a doctor's office and most of the doctors didn't wash their hands. Ick.”
Kids are talking to their parents, trying to tell them something they think is exciting or interesting Parents *staring at phone* ~mumble some kind of half assed response I know we’re all on our phones but if your little kid wants your attention you need to put your phone away and give them your time.
Poor appreciation and respect for other people's time. If you agree to meet someone or agree to attend an event you should be making every effort to be on time. Also stop double booking.
Be on time, not early nor late. Especially when going home to someone. If in a public place being early is fine. 👍
Stopping with their shopping carts in the middle of the grocery aisle and walking over to the other side while they browse the shelves. Move your f*****g cart out of the way so the rest of us can pass through.
I started ramming them a while back. Gives me some sort of dirty little satisfaction :D
Still continuing to drive while on a cell phone despite the dangers and fines associated with it.
Waiting to talk instead of listening.
Being checked out during social interactions. Phone in hand, not really listening, not present.
not washing your hands after going to the bathroom (look it up it’s acc scary how little ppl wash their hands after going to the bathroom)
Basic elevator etiquette. When an elevator door opens the people inside get out before those waiting to get in enter. Super simple. Amazing how many adults are unaware of this simple social norm.
Tailgating. Count out a 2-5 second following distance at highway speeds, folks. That ain’t it and you’re making traffic *much worse.*
Tailgating isn't a 'bad habit', it's highly dangerous. Top Tip: The pic doesn't show 'tailgaiting', it shows a traffic jam. In slow-moving traffic, it's perfectly fine to reduce the distance between yourself and the car in front. That said at speed/on the freeway it can be deadly.
No manners and bitter behavior when they are a customer/client.
Responding with defensiveness rather than curiousity to the unknown.
Interrupting.
"Knock knock" "Who's there?" "Interrupting cow" Interr.." "Mooooooooooooooo" 😅
Chewing with their mouths open. I hate eating out in public because the sound of people smacking their food is all I can hear.
Stopping. In. Doorways.
Like b***h! Do you want to get ran over? I will run over you.
Just kidding. I will silently get annoyed and let it secretly ruin my day.
In the same category, people who stop when they reach the top of the stairs, escalator, moving walk way, or exit a bus, train, or elevator. You might not know where you are going, but move to the side. There are people behind you that need to move into the space you are currently occupying. Move.
Materialism: buying stuff just for the sake of buying it, not because you need it.
I think a lot of people have this huge empty hole in their soul that they constantly try to fill with more and more stuff.
Smoking. It’s been known long enough that it [harms] you and can harm people around you too. Too many people still start the habit.
Well it's not exactly an easy thing to fix. There are many socio-economic factors, plus many people try cigarettes but not everyone gets addicted the same way. I, for example, became much much much more dependent than an average smoker and it was a looooooooong and hard struggle to finally kick the habit. And the urge to smoke a cigarette comes back periodically - Less and less frequently, and it's less and less intensive, but I expect that random urges for a cigarette will oxcasionally pop up for the rest of my life.
Oversharing on social media. Privacy has become so rare and it is not helped by the fact that most products/services also require your personal info
Oh yeah, my mom pisses her facebook friends off by constantly oversharing. Well, if she had an actual outlet, she might not feel the need to 🤷🏽♀️
Peeing in pools, or in bodies of water while surrounded by other people.
Social media/phone addiction. How many of us do anything without our phones now? When’s the last time you left your house without it? The last time you forgot your phone or lost it, how anxious did you feel? Every time I try to slow down on my usage, I do good at first and then I have a day where I could be doing anything else and I still go to my phone and waste the day away. I’ll absentmindedly pull it out while I’m watching tv too. Or playing video games. Here I am at work on it again.
My phone broke earlier this week and I had to go about half a day without it. Yes, it was a huge inconvenience as far as contacting people was concerned, but there was something really blissful about my walk, because I wasn't stopping to take pictures to show anyone anything, and no one was interrupting my thoughts so I had to be 100% just in my moment. It's nice to take a break, but with society now, still gotta have it around.
The number of people who don't brush their teeth twice a day is deeply upsetting.
I'm one of these people. Not because I don't think I need to, it's just that dental hygiene as a whole is something I've always really had to struggle against my depression to get done. It's a bit better since getting an electric toothbrush and some prescription toothpaste.
Lying.
Probably the biggest shock I got from the real world once I started adulting is how much people lie and try to manipulate. It’s disheartening
I don't believe OP has never said they liked a gift when they didn't, told a friend they look great just to make them feel better, said they like a dish someone has cooked when it's actually not great, made an excuse to get out of a social/family function they didn't want to go to, etc. 'Lying' is not a binary thing. It's not OK to try and manipulate people, but everyone 'lies'. The only question is 'to what extent?'
Insulting another person’s intelligence the second they feel insecure about their own. So basically, projection.
Drinking little to no water daily. Then they think that grumble in their stomach is hunger pangs, so they eat more salty food. And sometimes take ibuprofen for their dehydration-induced headaches. Can’t imagine that’s amazing for the kidneys.
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I hate with all the passion people who throw firecrackers! It's like a most stupid trend in my stupid country that whole freaking December and January, stupid a******s are throwing firecrackers of really big size and noise level all over the areas where people live, not parties, just areas where people live right under our windows! They do that day and night, and stupid parents even buy them for children (until someone loses a finger or worse) to "play". After each stupid explosion to make things worse, scared barking of all dogs in area then screaming of frightened small children. And no one reacts to stop that madness! Most stupid, most annoying, most polluting, most horrible and stressful thing ever invented!
Not moving over for emergency vehicles is high on my personal list!
The ones that are personal choices that don't effect others are ok with me. If you want to bite your nails, have at it.
EXACTLY. They might be bad habits, but as long as they don't affect me, go ahead. The same way, l'll try to be the most considerate possible to you in a public space but don't you dare to lecture me on binge watching series or eating too much pizza or picking ingrown hairs (totally made up examples, of course)
Load More Replies... I'd add engine idling: if you're not moving, switch it off - leaving it running doesn't exempt you from parking regulations. Also scraping someone else's car while parking and not bothering to say sorry. Both make me seethe.
this! there's someone who lives across the road from me, and every day at about 5am they sit in their car for 30-40 minutes, shining their headlights into my house. i don't know, due to the distance, if their car is running that whole time or just has the switch on, but it's rude either way!
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How about the copious and intrusive ads on BP that cause the page to reload 29 times.
How about people who sit on gym equipment for hours playing on their phone? If you want to play on your phone, go home.
"30 Bad Habits That A Shocking Amount Of People Have" - Should it not be "shocking *number" or *numbers? Unless you mince those poor people for a roast dish, but then that amount of pulpeople no has habits
For most of these, I just thought, "Oh, ffs,grow up, you wänker "
I hate with all the passion people who throw firecrackers! It's like a most stupid trend in my stupid country that whole freaking December and January, stupid a******s are throwing firecrackers of really big size and noise level all over the areas where people live, not parties, just areas where people live right under our windows! They do that day and night, and stupid parents even buy them for children (until someone loses a finger or worse) to "play". After each stupid explosion to make things worse, scared barking of all dogs in area then screaming of frightened small children. And no one reacts to stop that madness! Most stupid, most annoying, most polluting, most horrible and stressful thing ever invented!
Not moving over for emergency vehicles is high on my personal list!
The ones that are personal choices that don't effect others are ok with me. If you want to bite your nails, have at it.
EXACTLY. They might be bad habits, but as long as they don't affect me, go ahead. The same way, l'll try to be the most considerate possible to you in a public space but don't you dare to lecture me on binge watching series or eating too much pizza or picking ingrown hairs (totally made up examples, of course)
Load More Replies... I'd add engine idling: if you're not moving, switch it off - leaving it running doesn't exempt you from parking regulations. Also scraping someone else's car while parking and not bothering to say sorry. Both make me seethe.
this! there's someone who lives across the road from me, and every day at about 5am they sit in their car for 30-40 minutes, shining their headlights into my house. i don't know, due to the distance, if their car is running that whole time or just has the switch on, but it's rude either way!
Load More Replies... How about the copious and intrusive ads on BP that cause the page to reload 29 times.
How about people who sit on gym equipment for hours playing on their phone? If you want to play on your phone, go home.
"30 Bad Habits That A Shocking Amount Of People Have" - Should it not be "shocking *number" or *numbers? Unless you mince those poor people for a roast dish, but then that amount of pulpeople no has habits
For most of these, I just thought, "Oh, ffs,grow up, you wänker "
