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Lainey Molnar is an artist that creates thought-provoking illustrations exploring and challenging societal norms surrounding femininity, body image and more. From motherhood to freedom of choice, she tackles a variety of themes important to many.

Molnar is Hungary's first personal blogger. She's been involved in the fashion industry and women's empowerment projects for quite some time already. However, in her blogging days, she received a lot of hate and harassment, so that's when she decided to create a comic-style avatar as a representation of herself to help her process what she's been going through as a woman.

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It honestly doesn’t impact you in any way if gay people get married or not. Just let them be happy

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11 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“I think gay couples should be allowed to marry. They should suffer just like us heterosexuals”" - American national treasure, Dolly Parton. I agree fully, marital suffering should be universal :)

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly, like if you have a point of view, it impacts YOU, not the people around you. Keep your opinions to yourself. They keep their opinions to themselves. Especially regarding the religion part - they don't even follow your religion, so why should they have to abide by your rules? (Coming from a religious person here)

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. Why try to control someone if it doesn't affect you.

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Gabriela Cink
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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Marriage has nothing to do with religion. Like you can marry and don't be religious. It is law construct where you get additional rights to part of your parter privacy and ownership.. more or less... IF THIS PERSON AGREE and understand it then it is no-one else's business.

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah. If gay people are against your religion, then that's your business. Leave other people alone.

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Akaki Iremadze
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it is a full distortion of any logic, religion affect society and marriage is social construct, it is not a matter of choice, so gay people cant get married because marriage as it was invented by society excludes it, reinvent "marriage" is a bad idea, any experiments with gender and mariage is bad idea

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally agree. It's stupid to impose your beliefs on someone else. Besides, everyone deserves to be as unhappy as us straight people are!! Lol

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I have mixed feelings about the "you can't have cookies because I'm on a diet" one. On one hand: Yeah, don't rub it in that you are not on a diet. On the other hand: Your being on a diet doesn't dictate what I eat, thanks! I am not on a diet and can eat whatever I want (within reason, obviously). Why is she holding the plate of cookies if she's on a diet?

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Epona: That's the point - it's not meant to make sense, it's meant to be a comparison of how ridiculous the 1st statement is :)

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When we asked Lainey about her source of inspiration, the artist revealed that her own experiences, as well as a variety of content creators, inspire her for new illustrations or comics. The artist has also shared that she has a long list of illustration ideas on her phone and she picks the one that makes her feel inspired at the moment of drawing.

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I shouldn't posted my love for real skin textures here! Lol LOVE IT!!!! ❤️🤗👏👏🥰👏

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We were wondering if the artist has noticed some change in the messages she's trying to convey. "I believe the one thing that came up in a lot of my illustrations lately is double standards when it comes to women and men and how deeply they are embedded in society as the norm," Laney shared. "Like when a man has body hair, it's completely normal, but when a woman doesn't shave her armpit hair, it's suddenly 'unhygienic'. Or when a man puts himself out there firmly, he is called assertive, but a woman is called bossy. There are so many little things that add up to a system where women swim against the current and we don't even realize. My illustrations are a straightforward way to call these out and make people think."

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, but you have to understand that woman's skin is magical. Men cannot handle themselves if there is too much skin, an they will lose interest if there is too little. /s

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According to Laney, the biggest misconception about women's bodies and mental health is that women's worth lies in "how they look or how their bodies are shaped". "We are conditioned from an early age that only petite princesses find their happily ever after and how good girls and decent women don't take up much space and are always well groomed, put together, and overall do everything in their power to match the (unrealistic) beauty standards. So much of what we do, even subconsciously - like sucking our bellies in, constantly fluffing our hair - is this constant chase of the ideal. It's a system that serves nobody and it needs to go."

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11 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s just this one guy edit : I mean in like all of the comics he says something sexist or insensitive

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is absolutely true. Dude, you're not competing with other guys, you are competing with my love of sanity, peace, and freedom.

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Lainey is currently working on launching a podcast and building "a tiny little empire" of community to help women worldwide "redefine femininity on their own terms, so we can all be free to express ourselves and make life choices the way we want them. There is no wrong way to be a woman, you do you!"

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From experience I can say that gender doesn't have an impact on competence, it depends the most on the individual and can't be limited to a group as big as "women" and "men"

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone should have a window breaker cuz I guarantee you that lake or river you drove your car into doesn't care which reproductive organs you have (or don't have).

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If you'd like to see the previous parts, make sure to click here, here, here, here, here and here! Let us know your thoughts by commenting and upvoting your favorite illustrations!

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It really annoys me when people say "behind every great man is a great woman". Why should women have to be behind while the man is in front?

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Periods vary between people ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ mine isn't that bad most of the time

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11 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bruh. If you bring up my period when I'm upset, prepare your a*s for my size 10 steel-toed boot. It's going in dry.

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My parenting style has evolved to "If we don't need emergency services, it can wait. Mommy needs 5 minutes."

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t know how to be kind with myself at all. There’s a battle going on in my head everyday between 2 sides. The side that believes that I’m a narcissist and a s****y person and the other side who thinks I’m fine. The wrong side is winning

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11 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The ridiculousness of the perceived weight issue was fundamental to the plot line. It was deliberately highlighting the very point you're trying to make by comparing it with real life.

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