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Usually, dating isn't as easy as most of us wish it was. It's already difficult enough to put yourself out there and open up to someone new, but even after that, you still got a mission to figure out the person's true intentions and whether your feelings towards each other truly align.

Recently, Twitter user @AfroFlytina asked fellow women to spread some much-needed positive vibes by sharing stories of what helped them figure out that their partners genuinely love them. The post has quickly gone viral and it currently has over 77k likes along with more than 17k quote tweets.

Image credits: AfroFlytina

Image credits: Francesco

Without further ado, Bored Panda invites you to read through some of the most heartwarming stories we managed to happen across in this viral thread. And if you've got one of your own, feel free to share it down in the comment section!

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Artime Silk
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"It was the first time I truly felt seen". Wow. What an amazing person in general. Mental health is never given the credence physical health is!

Bob Belcher
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Chew ice. I read that here on BP and told my wife. She had one a few days later and I brought here a cup of ice. It works.

Xan Maranya
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It worked for her. The great thing about this guy is he said, "Let's find what works for you."

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M Calad
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4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so beautiful! I experienced something similar with my boyfriend. I passed through some difficulties in my personal life at the same time we were dating. I was experiencing unexpected repetitive "anxiety attacks": sudden intense crying episodes that could last for minutes or hours. Very tough. I was talking to him on the phone and suddenly got one. I also hung up and explain my situation in a text message. He texted back saying to give him the chance to be there for me and asked me if there was anything that could help me to feel better. How wonderful! He even witnessed some bad attacks and just held me and hugged me without saying anything. Just was there for me. He is a wonderful man.

Mazer
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4 years ago

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Melissa Love
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine loving someone wholeheartedly and you find out from people around you that your partner is a filthy liar and cheater,I was in this situation few weeks ago and I must admit it was a very hard time for me. l heard rumors from close friends that my spouse is cheating on me,i couldn't believe cos of the love I have for him, but my friend suggested that I should find out and clear my doubt then. I tried some videos on YouTube. All efforts are abortive. Until I came across this hacker, l can call him my Messiah because he saved my marriage literally. Contact him if you’re also facing this traumatic experience.via email: fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text or call him on +1- (423)641 1452 or on WhatsApp +1(470) 777-2098

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    BluEyedSeoulite
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's amazing how just quietly helping out makes a world of difference

    Chicago Dog Lover
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The night my mom met my dad, she saw him take a new mom's trash out. Decided then and there to date him.

    Theo C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's so forking sweet of him

    Amanda Gotte
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boyfriend helped me clean up my depression messy apartment, pack and move this week all in 2 days without complaining once. He constantly reassured me everything would get done and made sure I ate, stayed hydrated and took my meds through it all. I already knew he is the love of my life, but that made me know without a doubt he will do literally anything for me.

    Wednesday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a beautiful gesture. Such a simple thing speaks volumes.

    Enamelcamel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a real, live, grownup thoughtful human being. You LUCKY WOMAN, you!

    Cosgrove Penfold
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    4 years ago

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    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a bigger green flag to me, than some of the grand gestures on this list

    EP
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    #relationshipGoals

    Melissa Love
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    4 years ago

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    My relationship was in a mess a few weeks back, I kept on complaining and was steadily worried if my husband was cheating on me. till my sister referred me to this hacker who had helped a friend of hers spy on her cheating fiancées phone of every information available including deleted ones and also photos. although I finally found out he wasn’t cheating...if you have same issues like me, contact my helper Gmail on fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com or contact him on watsap  +14707772098and You can text or call him  +14236411452 

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    Caro Caro
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thoughtful and considerate. Another keeper.

    Chrissie Mörbe
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds really nice, but he prepared everything in one minute??

    Miss Cris
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it was easy for him. I hope he kept doing it every time needed.

    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All you see is he bought some flowers and candy. You missed the part where he attentively listend to her and realized what her favorite flowers and candy are. Then he made sure to buy those items because he knew she liked them. He then listened to her vent instead of just telling her how to fix the problem like most men do because men naturally want to solve problems. Then he drove all the way to her house with her favorite things. There's a lot of little details and those are very important in a relationship.

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    Mickie Shea
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Noth'n like the right snacks to seal marriage.

    Melissa Love
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have every reason to do what I had to do, if you were in my shoes! I couldn't take it any longer. I had spent over a thousand dollars on medication and he couldn't stop it. he was a drug addict i realised a bit late through his text messages and recent call records to different hard drug dealers. he had gotten to the point of selling them for a living and i noticed he is always spending lavishly and never thought of our kids and I thought that was enough until he brought a woman to our bed while i was away to satisfy his sexual urge. I got all the information i needed from him through the great services of fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text or call him on +1- (423)641 1452 or on WhatsApp +1 (470) 777-2098 i won't have known if i didn't take this good step. I ended it when we got to court with the concrete evidence I got!. I am happy to live a life without him unnecessary acts

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    Miss Cris
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd like to know whwt does it mean !

    Floofy Samoyed
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love you is the translation and the language is Igbo

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    Dorothy Parker
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two of the sweetest smiles. Very special.

    Theo C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OH MY GOD THATS SO SWEET

    Melissa Love
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    4 years ago

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    I emailed the hacker company twice because I suspect my husband is cheating on me with no response and this makes me worried, Well I finally cried to Mrs Kate who gave me more updates about Mr Fred on his private wizard from youtube. I was told to contact the hacker and his terms and Conditions were very. I haven't cheated on my clients before and I will never do it. him. I have full details of my husband's Facebook and also his cell phone and I found out my husband is loyal and doesn't cheat on me and the babies. Email the wizard and get more info about him for a legit job too. Contact his email here fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text or call him on +1- (423)641 1452 or on WhatsApp +1(470) 777-2098 He would surely help

    Melissa Love
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    4 years ago

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    Imagine loving someone wholeheartedly and you find out from people around you that your partner is a filthy liar and cheater,I was in this situation few weeks ago and I must admit it was a very hard time for me. l heard rumors from close friends that my spouse is cheating on me,i couldn't believe cos of the love I have for him, but my friend suggested that I should find out and clear my doubt then. I tried some videos on YouTube. All efforts are abortive. Until I came across this hacker, l can call him my Messiah because he saved my marriage literally. Contact him if you’re also facing this traumatic experience.via email: fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text or call him on +1- (423)641 1452 or on WhatsApp +1(470) 777-2098

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    Caro Caro
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To make that much effort is true love!

    Dorothy Parker
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's so much effort. Truly a fine man. What did she do so he realized she loved him?

    Melissa Love
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He suddenly developed a cold attitude. He always has an excuse when you ask him to do things, he starts ignoring my calls and Just when he texts back it's usually one word replies or vague answers. Something will always come up when you try to plan a thing in advance, ex you ask him to do something and no matter how random of a time you asked him he responded back saying Oh I can't I have plans or we'll figure out something and then not respond like you never asked him a thing! At this point, no one needs to tell you your spouse is cheating big time, but you can remotely access a phone and other PC's through the help fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and call or text on +1- (423)641 1452 or on WhatsApp +1(470) 777-2098

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    anjiniazhar Report

    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww, that's adorable. He was trying to boost your confidence with subliminal messaging!

    Tracy Baparam
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My hubby does this with me. I fall asleep and he carry's on talking to me. Tells me how much he loves me and what I mean to him and even kisses my forehead. He tells me about it the next morning. Btw, he also take pics of me while I'm asleep. His phone if full of pics of me looking like I'm passed out. Once I said that I looks ugly in some of those pics, he said," You don't see yourself like I see you, to me You're always beautiful."

    Tati
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!! my hubby has taken some not too pretty pictures of me and refuses to get rid of them... saying the same thing your hubby says...

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    yeciye
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How did you ft if you were in different cities? Ah, facetime, right.

    SoozeeQ
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At first, I read it as "fight every night",. I'm thinking, "why are they together, if they fight every night?" Eventually, like you, I realised they meant facetime!

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    Klas Klättermus
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it only me who thinks this guy sounds like an absolute creep? Sure he might try to use his mindcontroll for good now as far as she has noticed, but still...who knows what's to come

    Night Owl
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww, he wanted you to have sweet dreams :D I hope it worked

    Mickie Shea
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it Fk or Ft? First sounds better than the latter.

    Melissa Love
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    4 years ago

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    After downloading some spy app which none worked on my cell phone, I almost gave up on finding out why my spouse keeps late at night and also receives calls at odd hours. Someone recommended a professional hacker so I thought I should give it a trial. OMG! It worked like magic! To cut the long story short, all thanks to fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text or call him on +1-(423) 641-1452 or on WhatsApp +1(470) 777-2098 who hacked into my husband's cell phone. Now I read all his text messages without his knowing about it. I also listen to all his phone calls now. Thanks

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    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that's a grand gesture! Well done that man.

    Neil Bidle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonderful gesture, horrible that the healthcare system there made it necessary

    Mark Kelly
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That wouldn’t have to happen here in Canada

    R De Backer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great human but sad you both live in a country where it’s necessary to have your own insurance or through employment making being ill a hazard and possibly bankrupting experience for the persons that have limited financial means or bad employment conditions…. Most of Europe is better at safeguarding their population from being financially ruined due to health issues.

    Melissa Love
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    4 years ago

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    I caught my husband so many times through his chats and all about cheating on me and when i told him he always claims that he has changed and all..right now he hides his phone from me and i still guess he is cheating cause i could not break into his phone any more so i was referred to a hacker named Scot who i ran to for help and this hacker was able to break into his phone and proved me with the access to my husband phone without my spouse knowing about the hack..right in my phone i have all my husband phone daily activities in my phone i got to read all his chats, text, calls, whats-app, Facebook, and many more this hacker is really great thank you. Did you find this review helpful? contact him via fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com or on whatsap+14707772098 and You can text or call him on+14236411452

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Crawl back in your hole, POS.

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    Karen Lawyer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope he's still staring and please nobody burst my bubble.

    Melissa Love
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I caught my husband so many times through his chats and all about cheating on me and when i told him he always claims that he has changed and all..right now he hides his phone from me and i still guess he is cheating cause i could not break into his phone any more so i was referred to a hacker named Scot who i ran to for help and this hacker was able to break into his phone and proved me with the access to my husband phone without my spouse knowing about the hack..right in my phone i have all my husband phone daily activities in my phone i got to read all his chats, text, calls, whats-app, Facebook, and many more this hacker is really great thank you. Did you find this review helpful? contact him via fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com or on whatsap+14707772098 and You can text or call him on+14236411452

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    Bullseye106 Report

    Dorothy Parker
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that is a man who's aware! So happy they're married.

    Amina Hays
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Their children are going to be beautiful.

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait aren't u supposed to get ur hair wet in the shower?

    Kimberley Gayle Thomas
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Black Woman, it's an inconvenience unless it's done on purpose. Our hair takes hours to dry. 24hrs for me if I don't do anything to it.

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    Nadine Bamberger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't need a one time grand gesture, it's in the little everyday things :)

    Melissa Love
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    4 years ago

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    This is my advice to anyone who wants to hack a phone, make sure you pay for the right hacker like Fred. I wish I knew this sooner, I would not have spent so much on different spy apps. It took sometime before I finally found a way to hack my wife’s phone without having access to it. I mentioned my fears and insecurities to a friend and she recommended this guy to me: Fred hacker, This guy provided a service that allows me to monitor her calls and conversations. I haven’t decided on what to do yet. I don’t think I can continue in this marriage. She is cheating on me contact him on fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text or call him on +1423)641 1452 or on WhatsApp +1(470777-2098 jdbiuhi

    shep ona
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    4 years ago

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    Aw, I want to marry a nice gay boy too!

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    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, he was definitely into you

    Karen Lawyer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm seriously impressed! I dated a few guys (not at the same time) that said they would quit of their own free will but I found out later they lied. To actually do it is fan-flippin-tastic!

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, nicotine can be a very rough habit to break. Kudos to him for choosing health and BONUS - you!

    Melissa Love
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    4 years ago

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    This is my advice to anyone who wants to hack a phone, make sure you pay for the right hacker like Fred. I wish I knew this sooner, I would not have spent so much on different spy apps. It took sometime before I finally found a way to hack my wife’s phone without having access to it. I mentioned my fears and insecurities to a friend and she recommended this guy to me: Fred hacker, This guy provided a service that allows me to monitor her calls and conversations. I haven’t decided on what to do yet. I don’t think I can continue in this marriage. She is cheating on me contact him on fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text or call him on +1423)641 1452 or on WhatsApp +1(470777-2098

    NoWayNoWay
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    4 years ago

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    Wonder if he ever asked her to give up anything.

    Kay blue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She didn't ask him to quit, she told him that she didn't want to be with someone who smoked so HE made the decision to quit.

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    R Carson
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SWEET-or possibly creepy depending on how it works out.

    Connie Martin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Coming out of a 5-year relationship with a narcissist, I'm sad that I'm suspicious of all of these gestures. :(

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    Tobias Rieper
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i am all for showing as a guy i think its important but there is such a things being too emotional

    Brendan
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    4 years ago

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    A bit too much, maybe? I'm in favour of showing your emotions, but really?

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    Brandy Grote
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. And when he had his surgery, I was right there for him too. I still think he does more, tho! He'll come in the room I'm in, just to check and see if I need anything. Sigh, just him....

    Omi bub
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. Whenever we go somewhere new he automatically scans the room for the chair that will be best for my back and makes sure I get to sit in that chair (carrying it across a restaurant if nessesary)

    Calypso poet
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you have to go to the ER and/or have surgery you know! My husband brought me food after my appendectomy because they didn't get my solid food order in soon enough. And then when you have foot surgery and need someone to help pull you up off the toilet...😬

    Oogiebogieaugiedaddy
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    4 years ago

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    Good Lord, it's been 6 years and he still ties your shoes . Are you paralyzed?

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    Debbie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the best kind. When you can go on caring for someone after a breakup.

    Blake Ingram
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex girlfriend and I are like this. We are still really good friends over a year after we broke up.

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    Unnamed Hooman
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To whoever downvoted this (I upvoted), true love can be platonic. It doesn’t have to mean romantic love.

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    T J R
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had/have that. We were engaged, but one day we realized that our love wasn't a husband and wife kind of love. We ended the engagement and have remained the very best of friends for over 30 years now.

    Maik
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can relate. My ex-ex GF is my soulmate. We broke up 14 years ago and we've been best friends since that moment, without missing a beat. We love each other without romantic expectations and enjoy ourselves greatly. There's nothing I wouldn't do for her and she's demonstrated always the same about me. Love is not a finite container that has to be assigned to a single person.

    Mark Kelly
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, some people are just better as friends

    Mickie Shea
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The concern is why aren't you together, now?

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    PLATONIC LOVE YISSSSSSSSSS

    AzKhaleesi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This love appears real and pretty deep so I'm curious as to why a divorce happened.

    Tango
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    seems like you already have

    Andy Flyer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you're not together because....... ???

    Bisexual Tiger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sometimes you're love for each other is truly platonic.

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    Soo Bogusi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the city worker was there, why did the guy have to climb down instead of the worker?

    Calypso poet
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also who has too much going on to care about their car keys going down the sewer? I cal BS on this one. Plus women like her have 300 things attached to the keys so they aren't falling into Stephen King's It territory sub sewer systems your BF goes crawling in!

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    TheWickedOne
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    4 years ago

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    He didn't know you, how could he love you, lmao

    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Without her knowing, not without knowing her. I think you might have read it wrong

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    Rens
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's how I knew my man loved me, he listened and paid attention.

    Omi bub
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed listening & thinking about what I need/ would enjoy much more romantic than grand gestures

    Night Owl
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sounds so great! I wish to meet and get together with (or at least become friends with) someone like that too

    Miss Cris
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can ask for it and also do it yourself. :)

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    Dorothy Parker
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So cute together. She was so trusting! Anything could have happened.

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    trinidadianni Report

    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's very thoughtful

    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best idea I've ever had. Listen to my wife and daughter. If they mention they really want/like something I save a note in my calendar a month before their birthday or Christmas.

    Miss Cris
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's nice of him. And useful. All commercials do it for every client, also the names of pets and family members.

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait thats actually a genius idea. I have crap memory maybe this will help.

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    Mark Kelly
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, you shouldn’t marry someone just to take care of them

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    GlassHalfWay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think anyone in a relationship who wants to make it work, will ask the other if they're happy, what bothers them, etc. Sometimes you don't know unless you ask.

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    Rens
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've survived decades of abuse, worked very hard on managing my mental health and everything I have had to overcome after my life imploded 3 years ago. He was unhappy with me because I didn't go to him first when I needed help; I was so used to being let down, so having someone who WANTS to be there for me is a priceless treasure. He makes me feel safe and cherished, no-one has ever made me feel like this before. That's love.

    tiari
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, I am a person that tries to solve problems on my own first. That sometimes includes talking to persons I know for sure can help me. I would be really uncomfortable if my boyfriend pressured me into always talking to him first (by being emotional when I don't).

    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a potential red flag. Could be ok, but not if it one of many 'you only need me'

    CultOfBambi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree - I was in exactly that situation too, with an emotionally abusive partner who had a complete meltdown, yelling at me for not going to him first when I got the call about my mother's stroke. I had told a co-worker who was with me when I got the news and saw how upset I was. It can be controlling behaviour, depending on the person. I would definitely consider it a red flag. NoWayNoWay needs to back the fuq off.

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    nicole Leyva saro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once I dated a guy who told me he didn’t wanted to offend me but that he wouldn’t come to me with his problems, and seeing how we had only been dating for like a month, I told him it was ok, I’m a very privated person and I didn’t feel comfortable with talking to him about my problems yet either... and he got mad! Like? Didn’t you just say the same to me??

    Caro Caro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, doesn't have to be, just very caring. It can be a thin line sometimes but this is sweet.

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    Ann Coffman
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love that! That feeling of complete peace and contentment. Blessings to you both!

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    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It certainly seems like they had a lovely time in Cotonou!

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    Dina Simoné
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats so cute. My husband never leaves the house without giving me a kiss. Those small gestures mean a lot.

    Nicki
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here, I always get a kiss and an "I love you". Even after 22 years of marriage!

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    Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i took this for granted. years before i learned how to 'tuck myself in' after he passed. together for over 40 years, didnt realize how loving that gesture was, every night.....

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    Lizzy innit
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    4 years ago

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    This is what I want when I’m older I won’t except any one dating me till this s**t happend

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    Gay_Forg
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    4 years ago

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    Joe Blow that's kinda funny ngl

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    Thay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww and now im crying! So happy for you

    Ari Trionfo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was homeless when I met my boyfriend. He let me stay with him for months until I saved enough money to rent a room. We got so used to being together all the time that I still spend most of my time at his place

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    Dina Simoné
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I respect a man who cares about the vagina

    Omi bub
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    New cyclist here- the pain is real!

    Jennifer Norton
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look, he may know the right words but this may be the way he worded it to make her laugh. Big picture here people.... he cares about her. I personally find this endearing 100%

    Lynn Morello
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not knowing the context for the sympathy note, makes it an awkward yet funny view point.

    Wednesday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably her period/menses/menstrual cycle was kinda rough - or he was being funny and pervy at the same time..

    Mickie Shea
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using the correct words. So important . . .

    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm gonna be perfectly honest here when it said cycle gifts I right away thought she must like bicycles

    tiari
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    4 years ago

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    I would be concerned a little bit if my boyfriend didn't know what my vagina was 😅

    Auntriarch
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    4 years ago

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    Dear goodness what shape is the saddle!?

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    hickchick727 Report

    MalP
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    kep him! My man is gruff, won't show his feelings. But I was in the hospital for 42 days...He was there EVERY SINGLE DAY. All this while moving us into a new house, getting our 5 yr old in a new school, etc. Love him to bits still. Even the little things, made me iced tea so I have fresh after being away for a week.

    T J R
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex wouldn't come to the hospital while I miscarried OUR baby. Afterwards, he called me to say that he was glad it happened because he already had a kid and didn't want another one.

    MyCatsTheRealPanda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad he is your ex! You deserve better than that.

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    Ari Trionfo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Within a week of starting to date, my boyfriend had to drive me in a blizzard to the ER. He sat for hours with me until I stabilized, and gave me the bracelet he always wore, which I now never take off

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    Markus Holstein
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like your guy is caught in a toxic relationship. If you disagree just picture the above scenario with genders reversed

    Ari Trionfo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have BPD and my boyfriend has learned about it to better help me. He understands that sometimes pushing away or creating distance is a way of protecting myself if I feel like he may leave, so at those times he knows to remind me that he loves me and we're all goos

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    Soo Bogusi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You shouldn't lose weight just from not taking vitamins. I hope you see a doctor.

    Anne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read this as she meant to lose weight (on a diet) but forgetting to take the vitamins (to make up for the lack of nutrients due to restrictions in the diet.

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    Mark Kelly
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you losing weight you have more issues than not enough vitamins

    Markus Holstein
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vitamins are a scam. Unless you have some kind of condition that e.g. limits your ability to absorb nutrients, a balanced diet is all it takes to get all the vitamins you need

    Mark Kelly
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    4 years ago

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    Unless you are an old lady then you don’t need vitamins you should be getting all your nutrition from regular meals if you eat regular meals and fruits and vegetables

    Lea S.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not an old lady but my body doesn't produce enough hemoglobin. I was feeling really badly for a few years; I couldn't get healthier no matter how I tried. I saw a trainer three times a week, I was on a super healthy meal plan. Then I was finally tested and was told I needed iron pills. Should I take the iron and listen to him (I'm in wonderful health now) or listen to you?

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    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does he find them?

    Theo C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HE WAS THE ONE WHO STOLE THEM AND IS REDEEMING HIMSELF FOR HIS CRIMES dun dun duuuuuun

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    Mieke Mcdonald
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be very suspicious......., but then again, I've been bitten badly by people I trusted with my life! I don't trust anyone easily anymore......... I'll trust you immediately if you have 4 paws though.....

    Spring Fisk
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He probably checked all the p**n shops in the area. Musical instruments are huge in these stores.

    Omi bub
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You sure he's not stealing them? (joke!)

    Neil Bidle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I'm with the "this sounds suspect" group

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    Callmeroseyy Report

    Soo Bogusi
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    4 years ago

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    Hope you have gotten counseling for the abuse in your life so that you'll be a better mother.

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    ScarlettMusicZM Report

    Mieke Mcdonald
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, me too. I had a "helicopter"- husband, always checking up if I'm ok, I'll go with u etc, until I realised he's not checking on me, he's checking UP on me........ I was young and stupid, loved it at first, until I grew up and realised what a narcissist and controlling man he was. Left him after 30 years of marriage, with nothing! My clothes, and my mothers car...... 10 years later, am still battling to get him out my life, he's still trying to control me (he can't), and makes it even nastier. Confused it for love like in forever!

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    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He doesn't let you be angry or sad?

    HoneyBun Arts
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they mean that they try to help them to not be angry or sad.

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    Alphabet Soupy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would absolutely melt if my partner did a presentation of our future together!!! I’m a v organized person, love planners lol

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    creativeassbae Report

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is very nice but lock down in 2017? or am I missing something?

    PiscesMama
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LDR means long distance relationship, not lockdown relationship…

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    Nizzle
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    4 years ago

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    gondola rides are hugely over-priced. i can't tell if he loves you, but he definitely has deep pockets.

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    BeinMEaint_eZAY Report

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    El muerto
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that is fear, not love...fear of being dumped. if you have to change people to love them, is really love for that person, but person you made them into

    Rue Dragon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it's not. Maybe the bad habit was leaving his clothes on the floor. That's not changing someone you love.

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    HoneyBun Arts
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now all i want to do is fix the your.

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    HowOddAud Report

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    solis__jessica Report

    Soo Bogusi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone is an alcoholic, going sober cold turkey can kill them. Benzodiazepines (Ativan, Xanax, Valium, etc) and alcohol are the only 2 addictions that kill by quitting cold turkey. You can be a heroin addict and go cold turkey and you'll feel very sick but you won't die. A true alcoholic needs to be de-toxed in a medical facility to come off of alcohol.

    Emma Byrne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, going cold turkey from alcohol can kill. But it is possible to reduce alcohol consumption over a period of time until you can stop. It just takes a lot of planning and time.

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    Mieke Mcdonald
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once an alcoholic, tread carefully. Not all relapse, but boy oh boy, it's a constant steep, narrow, slippery slope. I really hope things work out for both of you.

    El muerto
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    4 years ago

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    this is not a romantic tale...this is jus the second act in a play many of us, have been in.

    Soo Bogusi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    El muerto - you're right. I also find it odd that she says 'approximately 5 months'.

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    Ellie Rosser
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you love hime because he was prepared to put other people's lives at risk to visit you?!

    Anne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he wasn't allowed because they were not married. So he lied ("strong armed") to security to get in.

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    Soo Bogusi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Food poisoning usually causes vomiting and / or diarrhea. I wouldn't want anyone 'comforting' me then.

    Vivian Orr
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So it’s ok for ur BF to break the law because he doesn’t agree with it??? 🤨

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    Kerry Brown
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been there haha it wasn't love!! Just drunken crap (I'm talking about me myself when i thought i had the same kind of moment, special at the time for me but not so much for him, it wasn't love on his part)

    WildBerry
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for saying the truth about being drunk since Milli Blue thinks it's a 'beautiful story'.

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    Soo Bogusi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had to get drunk for it to happen. Not good.

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    tiari
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    4 years ago

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    He prayed for your anxiety? Don't you normally pray for thing you wish for?

    Ellie Rosser
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't be a douche-it is very clear what the OP meant.

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    Chucky Cheezburger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This...doesn't shine in a good light on the O.P. Sounds like they are more into thier S.O.'s wealth and what they can get from them.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with you; it bothers me that all she talks about is money. And the "fake dive" for her wallet? Yikes.

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    May
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Money is your love language?

    Dina Simoné
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand that when you grow up in foster care, you wish for safety and someone to take care of you, but you just mentioned financial things. Love is when emotional needs are met.

    El muerto
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i guess for many, love is what you get out of it.

    Will Lanni
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow so much judgement in these comments. I'm about to downvote all of you. You don't know this person's love language, nor the deep meaning of security, joy, and love that this demonstration of commitment via finance has to the OP. Disappointed in you all.

    Alphabet Soupy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In her defense, a LOT of Americans are raised to believe in the “Prosperity Gospel” basically, that if you are a good Christian you will be rewarded financially, so she seems like she truly can’t believe her “blessings” aka she can’t believe her luck. It is really aggravating that so many good people turn materialistic bc they equate money with spiritualism/godliness or whatever. This county is ruled by the almighty dollar, for certain.