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I basically agree. I mean if it's a woman not involved with anyone who can't consider herself as having a partner I do think it's different. But if she is actually in a comitted relationship the partner should always be Allowed to have opinions. It's ultimately her decision. Definitely. But the partner should be allowed to say how he feels about it. Isn't communication a big part of a relationship? I hate when it seems like having an opinion is considered the same as making the decision or as we need to get a permission from our partners to get an abortion.

I think what you describe above most people consider a healthy relation between 2consenting adults.

I agree that it couldn’t be two years in the child’s life (example). It would have to be a window just like for a woman.

Yep agreed shouldn't be right before the birth either. In Australia it's generally the first trimester you can have an abortion no questions asked. Men should also have that time frame to decide.

No. That is the equivalent to people who is against abortion saying "they should keep their legs closed". Women need abortion. Men should have one too.

That's hardly a comparison.

That is what woman haters say to women who want to abort. Lets not be that way.

This is what someone who has no real come back says to someone with a valid point. They attack the person.

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Perhaps I phrased it badly, as I ment it is 100% a woman's choice. Why does that make me a woman hater? I would hate to live in a country where abortion is considered a political issue. It is not. I don't really buy in to it being a choice, it is vital that women can access this safely when needed. But a man can not 'encourage' a lady to get one, nor can he refuse to support a child he did not want. This might seem unfair, but he did not have to have sex, and the child s rights trump his. I don't really understand how my comment was taken as hating women, nor can I see how I gave the impression that I in any way have a negative view of women who need to abort. I think that people who protest abortion should have the right to legally challenge a system - even if I find their opinions abhrant. However protesting outside clinics ought to have a prison sentence as standard. It is unacceptable.

you're saying a child's life trumps the father's but that's literally what sexists say when a woman wants to have an abortion. that the child's life trumps her choice. so are you going to make up your mind whether it's the fetus's life that matters or it's parent choices ? its just double standart to say that only the woman has the choice to rid herself of the baby, lol. is it a dickhead move to make a baby and dip - absolutely ! but it's only fair to be able to do so if the woman can make the choice to yeet the baby. and that's coming from somone who absolutely hates men and wishes they never existed lmao. we should be fair sometimes, regarding of our biases.

What if they use protection and she stills end up pregnant?

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It happens. But if he had used protection and she gets pregnant and keeps the child, yes he must continue because the child is more important

So, if a man uses a condom and it fails he has no say? If a woman uses birth control and it fails she still has final say? Lol

Yeah Im such a c*nt for saying this but I do feel that any contraceptive is reasonable. I wouldn't judge people who chooses one over the other. Wearing double condoms+ the pill for example is not something that "works" for everyone. When I say work for everyone I basically mean not everyone want's it that way.

Do not double up on condoms - it increases friction on the two condoms and they are more likely to fail.

Yeah, I was about to say... Maybe she meant a male condom and a female condom? Seems like that would have the same problem. If you're using a condom + diaphragm + birth control bills and still get pregnant you should probably just accept it as an act of god.

What do you mean..?

Stealthing is the abhorrent practice of a guy putting on a condom while she watches, then slipping it off a split second before coitus.

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Less than 1%. That’s the number for rape.

B******t. I was with you up until that point.

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Please do some research on the percentage of abortions that occur from rape. It is not as high as everyone would want you to believe. At least in the USA.

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Did I say anything about rape? What about women who trap men by getting pregnant. You live in a bubble where you believe everything is black and white. Also, starting a comment with F off really just shows you want everyone to listen to your opinion but, God forbid they have their own.

….and hemorrhoids and so many other medical conditions it’s unbelievable. A woman has to take all that medical risk. And of course in this economy she still has to work to survive in this world. And not to mention when said baby IS born our government does not provide any paid time off after that baby is born like many other progressive countries do. If she’s lucky she may have a few days paid off from her job but many women especially minorities work in low minimum wage jobs without proper healthcare and can’t afford these costs. Oh and let’s talk daycare, have you any concept of the cost of daycare? It can basically force a woman to get a second job. My point? Don’t lecture women on how men should have a say or a consideration in a woman’s choice to safe and legal abortion unless you have every intention of putting up with extra cost of a child. You’re pro life when a child is in the womb yet once that child is born, it’s like f*ck it. Without a social safety net of

Healthcare, daycare and better paying jobs….then women are forced to make sections for her that affect her body not yours medically and also affect her financially. A woman doesn’t want to have an abortion and use it as contraception because it’s an emotional roller coaster of emotions to bare. But, it should be her right to safe legal abortions in this country protected as a right to autonomy over her own body. If you don’t want to be a father, then get a vasectomy.

You know what I suggest? Watch a real up close delivery of a baby. It’s not all roses. You can be in labor for days waiting to get dialated at a certain point so that the baby’s head pushes thru. And not all women can do it safely. Do you know what an episiotomy is? It’s a surgery that the doctor has to perform because when a baby comes out of the birth canal, the baby’s head splits the mothers vaginal opening all the way down to her a**s. Some women pass out from the pain. In 3rd world countries there are women who don’t get that episiotomy to fix that tear and they are shunned by communities because they smell like $hit. Without an episiotomy you can develop a fistula where the a**l cavity leaks. It’s horrible. Look up the Fistula Foundation to help support women like that if you’re interested…even Amazon donates proceeds to it if you’d like. All I’m saying is birthing a child is a painful surgical procedure and not all women take an epidural in their back to the pain away

And that’s just a natural childbirth. A cesarean section or C section is prone to hernias, infections on the suture line and of course my favorite that I personally experienced…your body parts after a C section are never quite put right back the same after the procedure. And of course a woman later on life after having babies are more than likely going to develop osteoporosis. Brittle bone disease, happens when the baby takes minerals out of a woman’s bones just for the baby. Think! Safe legal abortions are not just a right but can save a woman many hardships. It should be between a woman and her doctor. I don’t think men quite grasp the difficulties of pregnancy unless you spill it in all it’s gore.

Could be. But for a majority of women it isn't in itself (even if you want the child) and comes with a lot of risks. And if you didn't want to be pregnant to begin with it's absolutely not a highly satisfying experience at all.

I'm a nurse, no one who gets raped and falls pregnant, is refused a TA.

That is absolute Republican propaganda like late term abortions.

Really? Are you including morning after pill in that? I personally don't because it prevents fertilisation so it is a kind of contraception rather than abortion. I took it once, it was really not nice. The situation was I was in my late teens with a long term boyfriend. We had talked through contraception, and both agreed me being pregnant was not ok with either of us so we agreed that I would go on the pill and he would use a condom. One new year's Day after a heavy night partying, he apologized to me in the morning because the condom the night before had split. I'd drunk too much and been sick, which called in to question the effectiveness of the pill. We were kids, so we did the sensible thing of going straight to a doctor for advice. We had been doing the pill plus condom method because I really did not want to either be pregnant or get an abortion. This is why I took morning after pill. It was horrible and I felt really bad. But it was definitely right thing to do.

The people I meant were young teens that were either on the pill or used condoms but sometines skipped it and basically thought "eh, what the h*ck, if I get pregnant I can always have an abortion." I really dont think anyone I know now that we are all adults would do the same thing they did back then. I totally understand why you chose to take the morning after pill. I did not mean the morning after pill and it also seems like a very unfortunate situation but you were responsible. I really don't think you should feel bad. It's not your fault it broke.

Oh I also remember a couple of young teens that actually went with the old "pull out" method while knowing the risks.

And the old pull out method doesn’t protect either person from getting STD’s either.

Teens are odd ( as was I) I remember a group of girls I had carefully taught sex education to, who all aced the having understood test at the end. Few months later a girl comes in with contraceptive rod and tells everyone it protects from STD's. Education is fantastic, but sometimes......

Thanks, that's kind of you, I really ment I felt physically bad - it unpleasant.

You were being responsible after making some regretful decisions. You shouldn’t feel bad. A teen mother has SO many disadvantages in life. Your body isn’t quite developed for having a child and having a child so young would’ve made difficult for you to financially care for the baby. Don’t regret your decision.

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Sperm contributor doesn’t have to be pregnant for 40 weeks and then give birth. Sperm contributor gets no say. None whatsoever.

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Hey Charlie, save some puss eh for the rest of us.