Some live by the saying, “You don’t know true love until you have a child.” But for some people, like actor Ray Romano, “Having children is like living in a frat house – nobody sleeps, everything’s broken, and there’s a lot of throwing up.”
Parenting has satisfying and difficult moments, and this new list from Bored Panda’s series of articles is still about the latter. You’re about to see images of vandalized walls and scratched cars – just children being children but giving their moms and dads a tough time in the process.
We also spoke with Marion, a mom of two and owner of the blog site Not So Perfect Parenting, to get some firsthand insight.
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Don't Bring Your Kids When Shopping For A Phone
Looked Out The Window To See A Squirrel Taking One Of The Easter Eggs I Had Hidden For My Kids
She Drank A Worm
I ate a worm for $20. to anyone who's interested, they taste like unseasoned rice
Parents face a laundry list of struggles daily. For Marion, the biggest hurdle is finding a way to include her children in her plans.
"My time is now a more precious resource, and for me to do anything without my children in tow is a major organisational feat," she told Bored Panda. "And that every conversation with me, as a parent, is through a lens of how something affects Me AND my children. They are the centre of my universe. Not me."
My Kid Bit My Washing Machine, And Now It Leaks
I Lost My Aldi’s Quarter. Luckily My 4-Year-Old Found It And Is Keeping It In A Safe Place
Spent A Pretty Penny Going To The Aquarium. This Was The Fish My Son Was Most Interested In
Who Needs A GoPro
The camera has to be water-resistant if the parent let the kid take it into the pool, right? Right???
And someone took a picture of the kid rather than taking the camera away
Load More Replies...Are the parents truly having a bad day like the title of the post suggested, or are they humble bragging?
I feel like there are several places this could have been avoided. This is the product of a series of decisions.
People have their reasons for choosing to become parents. For Marion, it's more about the journey to personal growth.
"Parenting for me has been an internal journey as much as external. It's a chance to forgive myself, learn about self-compassion, and continuously improve."
Grabby Grabby
My Friend’s Kid Did This To Their Pantry
"OK, Kid, your supper will now be one randomly chosen can from the pantry, until the bare cans run out."
Pulled Up To My Local Bar
He Wants Something To Make His Hair Grow Back Before School Tomorrow. Triplets And Beard Shavers Don't Mix
The triplet boys found their older brother's beard razor and decided to see what would happen. Chaos and calamity ensue.
Anna, a mother of two, had an "easy" time with her firstborn, Brynn. However, she had the opposite experience with her second daughter, Sophie, whom she described as "a good baby until she wasn't."
When dealing with Sophie, Anna admits to being more lax to avoid meltdowns. But ultimately, she chooses to rely on common sense.
"Everything I've read says I should be patient and consistent," she told Parents.com. "But patience and consistency are two things you have the least of when your child constantly pushes your buttons."
The Result Of The Kids Brushing Their Teeth. Apparently There Was Some Roughhousing And My Youngest Escaped Into The Safety Of The Shower Behind The Glass Door. They Found A Way In
Oh, goodness. When we were kids, we were playing in the house. We had a porch that got glassed in and turned into a big room, but we still had huge windows between the former porch and the rest of the house. One of the kids vising didn't realize there was a window and ran RIGHT through it. Very expensive window. My parents weren't mad at all because they were just glad the kid survived without a scratch!
A Large Coffee With A Shot Of Crayola, Please
PS5 In For HDMI Replacement. Kid Said “I Pushed The Cable In A Little Too Hard”
It is a simple fixing but i says a lot about the kid, must have force his a*s out doing that
Surprised My Daughter With A Fishing Trip. It Lasted 15 Minutes
I Just Found My Son In The Bathroom Like This. "Like Sonic!" No Words. Yes, It's Hair Dye
Other parents find workarounds through compromise. Rachel is a mother of two whose ten-year-old son had been diagnosed with ADHD and autism. She ran into trouble once when her child reluctantly signed up for a recorder concert.
Rachel did get her son to push through with the performance but agreed to have him wear a soft polo instead of a button-down dress shirt.
"I had to balance how much to push him with how much he was struggling and whether it was because of his diagnosis or just defiance," she said.
Left My Teenage Son With The Pizza
He's old enough to know he's being an a*****e. Your fault for allowing it.
Grandparents Bought This Terrifying Doll For My Daughter. Now My Wife Has To Suffer The Consequences
We bought our daughter, then 2, a very beautiful porcelain doll with angel wings and a halo. She stood at 3 ft. Our dog didn't like her and ripped the wings off. When I say that doll was possessed and moved on her own...dark closets didn't work. The doors always opened on their own. We sold her to an old woman at a garage sale. We told her the stories. She didn't believe us. I hope she's still alive!
I Asked My Son To Put The Drinks In The Fridge
This Is Pure Torture And They’re Just Feeling It
Jen is in a bind with her youngest daughter, Emma, whose fidgety behavior has caused problems within the family. But the mother of five girls also found the upsides to help her deal with the situation better.
"For instance, we have her sit at the end of the table at a restaurant because we know she's going to want to pop up to go to the bathroom. Plus, we all find value in it: She's also happy to jump up to get more crayons or napkins or an extra menu."
You Hated That Planter Anyway
10-Year-Old Son Broke A Double-Pane Window With A Ping-Pong Shot
Kids Took Off With My Hair Brush. Later On, I Found It Like This
Sometimes The Simplest Answer Is The Correct One
Daughter Stole My Keyboard To Play Minecraft And Left A Replacement
My Son Vandalized Our Bathroom And Blamed It On A Monster
A monster called Liam, apparently. Monster was trying to frame your kid. They're like that.
In some cases, children act up with only one parent. Writer Pamela Brill experienced this with her daughter, who is much more relaxed when with her father.
Brill initially thought she was the problem. However, according to UCLA child development specialist Karen Dudley, the child is more fussy with her mother because she feels most secure around her.
"The primary caregiver is generally the person with whom a child feels most comfortable expressing his strong feelings," Dudley told Brill in an interview.
Chaotic And Messy
It Was Too Quiet. Thankfully, It Was Cornstarch This Time. Last Time, It Was A Pound Of Butter
All Day My 45-Year-Old Husband And 12-Year-Old Son Have Been Playing "Last Hit" (Hit Each Other And Run). I've Begged Them To Stop, Or At Least Go Outside
The kid tripped on the stairs and ran into the wall. We have company coming tomorrow.
My 6-Year-Old Swung On The Gate Once
Got Bit By A 3-Year-Old
Tore The House Apart For Over An Hour, Had Enough, And Went To Make My Son Breakfast
Finally Found My Missing AirPods! It Turns Out My 4-Year-Old Daughter Got Ahold Of Them And Put Them In The Toaster
Daughter Left The Garden Hose Running Outside All Night And It Managed To Flood My Basement
Dudley explained that a child's misbehavior could also result from their brain's rapid development.
"A toddler's memory is improving, so he will remember what he wants more often," she said, adding that young children at this stage are still learning about developing relationships with other people and how far they can test certain limits.
Thanks Kids, I Really Appreciate It
Digging Through The Car For Change To Buy Gas
Work Of Art
My Daughter Found The Sharpie In My Car. RIP Resale Value
At Least No Carpet Damage
My 3-Year-Old Son Decided To Microwave Our 3DS
4-Year-Old Put Cupcakes In My Dress Shoes
He's Smiling In The Photo, But 10 Seconds Later, When I Had To Sponge Him Up Really Hard Before It Got Dry, People Thought I Was Torturing Him In The Bathroom
Lesson learned. I'm buying the cheapest kinds of eyeliners that are not so waterproof.
My 12-Year-Old Defeated The Car Today
My 4-Year-Old Made My AirPods For Mother’s Day By Cutting The Cord Off My Headphones
One Of My Kids Broke My Glasses
Got My PS5 Less Than 24 Hours Ago. I Love Having Kids
When a child begins to push those boundaries, Dudley advises against constantly giving in. However, she also stressed the importance of giving notice of the sudden shift in dynamics.
"Every moment of play is your child's work, so you need to give her forewarning of change."
My Son Loves White Chocolate
While Moving My Daughter Out Of Her Apartment, A Couch Was Dropped On My Head
I like the use of the passive voice... not "she dropped" but "it was dropped".
I Asked My 10-Year-Old To Clean The Baking Tray
If you struggle with your parenting journey, Marion has some important advice: "Don't underestimate the power of resting." It also helps to ask for assistance when needed.
"The mess will always be there. If people judge you for the pile of dirty dishes and unwashed laundry, then they aren't your people," she said.
"Also, if visitors come by to see the baby, ask them to do some errand or small house task that you won't have the energy for as well. This used to be the way a village worked and is the way humans evolved.
"Our modern societal expectations of everything looking perfect and a mother doing all the things is evolutionarily unsustainable."
It's My Daughter's Birthday And I've Made Her A Cake. It's Been Cooling Down In The Fridge. Let Me Just Check On It Real Quick
Raising children is a journey filled with challenges and growth, something all parents can relate to. It's crucial to understand that personal struggles are part of the parenting experience. Marion, from 'Not So Perfect Parenting,' highlights the vital role parents play in navigating their path alongside their children. Parents often face difficult days, managing children's unpredictable behaviors.
If this resonates, you might want to explore more about handling these challenging moments by checking out how parents endure trying days.
Kids These Days
Granddaughter Drew Me Some Artwork
Sounds About Right
I started wearing glasses pretty young and I remember I was given an entire demonstration on handling the glasses before I left the opticians. From how to wear and remove them to how to clean the lenses using the piece of cloth that comes in the case. Such a demonstration is useful for young kids cause they can easily damage the expensive glasses or themselves (accidentally poking themselves in the eyes) as a first time user!
My Kid Got Ahold Of My Recently Found iPhone 4S. Planned On Retrieving Photos And It's Going To Take A Few Guesses For What The Password Is
"Because My Phone Was Too Cold". That's Why My Kid Melted His Camera On The Heater Floor Vent
Yep, That's How Charging Phones Work
Brand New 65" Sony OLED TV vs. Matchbox Car
Kid Threw Change In My Air Conditioning Vents
Friend's Kid Found A Sharpie
That's a pretty mild marker attack. We got one of those big paper pad - you know the kind you use for meetings on a easel, We mounted it on the wall at toddler height - she colored there,
My Daughter's Water Bottle Is Not Dishwasher Safe
Mother-In-Law Sterilized My Daughter’s Bottles In A Pot Of Boiling Water
My Kid Painted A Picture And Wanted To Hang It On The Wall, So She Used Paint To Stick It On
My Son Just Restarted My 3000+ Stages Run On Mario Maker 2
My nephew once erased a career mode file on Top Spin. He was just playing on exhibition mode for a few minutes... Months of game just erased.
My Wife Wanted To Do Something Nice For My Daughter And Her Friend. She Opened The Container Upside Down. Wife Was Less Than Pleased
Ordered A Bag Of +100 Geometrical Chain Links For My Autistic Son To Replace His 1 Blue Square That He Lost
My 2-Year-Old Decided To Hit The TV With A Frozen Ukulele. Right Before The Super Bowl
4-Year-Old Unlocked The Door To My Office With A Penny And Let My 2-Year-Old In To Create This $4,000 Masterpiece
So Apparently, My 2-Year-Old Has Decided To Play Hide-And-Seek With My Border Collie's Favorite Tennis Ball. Throwing It Is Clearly Not Enough Fun
Neighbors Had A Party And Some High Schooler Tagged My Daughter's Playhouse
I Let My Daughter Pull The Car Into The Garage
Well then this one's on you. Also, stop building houses out of paper.
Toddler Threw His Christmas Present At My Christmas Present
He was probably upset that you got a big flatscreen TV for Christmas and he got a rock. Can't say I blame him.
I Discovered My Toddler Found My AirPods At The Worst Possible Time
One Of Our Kids Took Out A Half-Finished Bottle Of Orange Juice, And Left It On The Counter. In The Sun, Lid On Tight It Exploded This Afternoon. Some Of The Pulp Made It More Than Six Feet
Trying To Teach My 4-Year-Old Math. He Doesn't Believe Me Because It's Written On The Poster. Going To Be A Long Weekend
x3 and x6 have a few errors; x7 is mostly wrong.
My Kid Had A Party In The Back Of The Car Yesterday With The Mineral Sunscreen
Fingertips Stomped By A 3-Year-Old
I Can Thank My 4-Year-Old Daughter For This One
Got My Wife A Full-Size Mirror For Mother's Day. She Went To Clean Up A Space For It In The Bedroom And Our 4-Year-Old Broke It Trying To Hide From Our 6-Year-Old During Hide-And-Seek
The First Day Of Lockdown In My City And My Toddler Does This
My Boys Have Been Purposely Wearing Mismatched Socks For Over A Year Now Just To Play With Us On Laundry Day
Sharpies Should Be Hidden Somewhere Far Away
My 2-Year-Old Daughter Drew On My Vintage Tweed Chair With Gel Crayons
Changed The Baby’s Diaper And When I Was Done I Found Out My 2-Year-Old Son Had Found A Purple Permanent Marker And Did Artwork On My New Crate And Barrel Couch
Buying expensive furniture when you still have small children in the house is a bad idea.
My Son Was So Excited To Show Me The Art He Drew On My Car With A Rock
My Daughter Wiped Nail Polish On My Chair And It Looks Like Poop
My Daughter Said She Could Put Her Own Ketchup On Her Plate. I Won't Be Trusting Her With The Ketchup Bottle Again For A While
Hole In The Wall My 10-Year-Old Made Because He Couldn't Have His iPad
He needs anger management if he's taking temper tantrums at 10.
That's Some Red Sharpie. Don't Have Kids
And don't keep Sharpies in the house if you do have kids. :) As all these pics prove, they WILL find it.
My Beautiful Children (2 And 4 Year Old) Drew Me A Picture... On My Car... With Rocks
A Normal Daily Report From My 2.5-Year-Old Child’s Daycare
Not listening and putting stuff in her panties would be a problem for an older child. You really, really cannot expect a 2,5 year old child to "behave" in a way that they would not do this kind of s**t. At that age, they are simply cognitiveley not able to "listen". Of course, you have to set certain boundaries, but you just cannot expect impulse control or logic, or being still from a toddler. This is totally ridiculous.
The Etsy Shop Nailed It With Our Notes
"I Cut A Hole". My Son Put A Popsicle Wrapper In The Pocket Of His Brand New Pants And Zipped Them Shut. Then He Wanted To Take The Wrapper Out
He figured it would be easier to cut a hole in the pants than unzip the pocket.
So close enough to take a photo of him cutting the hole but not close enough to stop him.
I Have COVID And Was Sleeping My Fever Off This Morning. My Kids (2 And 4) Got Into The Toothpaste. Where Do I Begin?
I Grabbed My 2-Year-Old's Christmas Present From The Closet And It's Completely Full Of These Little Grubs
I bought this doll at my local Walmart, and there was no sign of them when I bought them. Nothing else it was stored with, has them, and the box is still sealed. Pitched the box after cleaning the dolls, probably another 20 in there.
My Kid’s Fresh Nike Kicks Arrived Today
Daughter Ate The Center Of A Birthday Brownie
My Daughter Purchased Almost $400 Worth Of V-Bucks And Other Stuff On Fortnite (I Can't Afford This)
Why would you save your card if you know that a kid is playing on it?
Got My Daughter A Penguin To Track For Christmas. He Passed Away. And The Kids All Thought It Was Hilarious
Just Enjoying Breaking The Heirloom
And what is this piece of jewellery still doing within reach of your daughter, after she broke it twice already?
Not How I Wanted To Spend My Birthday. I Had To Take My 7-Week-Old Daughter To Hospital With RSV, She's Now On Breathing Support And Will Require It For A Couple Of Days
When I was young, some of these would have worried me, made me wonder if I was failing as a parent, whatever. I'm an old man now. I have two things to say about this. 1. They're just things. Someday you'll wish you had fewer things cluttering up your house and your life. Things break. Things can be replaced, or you can live without them. Things get messed up, scratched, whatever. 2. Someday kids grow up, move out. When my youngest son left home, the house was too clean and too quiet. Made me feel really old and sad.
OMG what's with all these helicopter parents nowadays that demand to ALWAYS have an eye on your kid? They're kids, they do s**t and learn. We learned these lessons too when we bruised a knee or worse when we didn't have our eyes open when we ran around the house or outside. Jesus.. Let them kids be kids.
Exactly, some are like "my kid left the room for a second and knocked over a plant" and the replies will ask why the parent wasn't constantly watching them
Load More Replies...Every single one of these is yet more reasons for why I never want kids
This is why I never understood why a lot of landlords don't allow pets, but kids are ok.Some pets can be destructive, but did you meet a toddler?
It's a miracle anybody has children ever. I just don't understand it. Anybody considering whether they do or don't just look at these first.
Send all of these parents some books on how to parent! While genuine kids being kids can be funny, most of these are kids being kids in a way that shows parents are not being parents due to negligence or leaving dangerous things or permanent markers within reach. If you have antiques, put them in a room that stays closed. Markers, pens, scissors, etc. go out of reach. DOH
When I was young, some of these would have worried me, made me wonder if I was failing as a parent, whatever. I'm an old man now. I have two things to say about this. 1. They're just things. Someday you'll wish you had fewer things cluttering up your house and your life. Things break. Things can be replaced, or you can live without them. Things get messed up, scratched, whatever. 2. Someday kids grow up, move out. When my youngest son left home, the house was too clean and too quiet. Made me feel really old and sad.
OMG what's with all these helicopter parents nowadays that demand to ALWAYS have an eye on your kid? They're kids, they do s**t and learn. We learned these lessons too when we bruised a knee or worse when we didn't have our eyes open when we ran around the house or outside. Jesus.. Let them kids be kids.
Exactly, some are like "my kid left the room for a second and knocked over a plant" and the replies will ask why the parent wasn't constantly watching them
Load More Replies...Every single one of these is yet more reasons for why I never want kids
This is why I never understood why a lot of landlords don't allow pets, but kids are ok.Some pets can be destructive, but did you meet a toddler?
It's a miracle anybody has children ever. I just don't understand it. Anybody considering whether they do or don't just look at these first.
Send all of these parents some books on how to parent! While genuine kids being kids can be funny, most of these are kids being kids in a way that shows parents are not being parents due to negligence or leaving dangerous things or permanent markers within reach. If you have antiques, put them in a room that stays closed. Markers, pens, scissors, etc. go out of reach. DOH
