31 Inconsiderate And Disgusting Things People Have No Reason To Do In Public, Yet They Do
While it's natural for us to have individual habits, it is important to consider the impact that our actions may have on those around us. After all, we often work, travel, and go shopping surrounded by other people, so why not make these random encounters at least bearable? There's plenty of nonsense in the world that's out of our control already. No need to contribute to it.
So, let's begin our quest of becoming a considerate passerby by taking a look at one viral Reddit post. Created by a now-deleted user, it asked everyone on the platform: "What is something people do in public that gets under your skin?" In just days, the post has received over 5,000 comments, many of which detail our annoying behaviors. Here are the most popular answers.
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People who litter
The most annoying thing ever. When I see it happen and if the situation presents itself, I take it and throw it in their cars.
Speakerphone calls.Seriously, just hold the phone to your ear. No one wants to listen to your conversation.
People who watch videos at full volume on speaker are worse. I was chilling after work one day, sipping on my beer and this guy at the other end of the bar, like 20ft away was watching Seinfeld reruns. I could hear EVERY WORD.
And I'll bet it was not a bit more entertaining than it was in its heyday.
Load More Replies...I'm a bus driver. It's not allowed to use your speakers onboard our vehicles. On average, we have to tell people this at least twice a day. Once I had a passenger, either a paralegal or an attorney, discussing the legal problems of someone in great detail, including personal information. I stopped the bus, walked over to him, grabbed his phone, and pressed call-end! Then, I explained to him that first of all, speakers were prohibited, and then that it was a definite NO-NO to discuss such matters outside of the office for obvious privacy reasons. (There were about 30 people on board) As the name of the law firm was on his bag, I also reported him to the company. (They at first wouldn't believe me, until I recited the details I overheard. I wonder if my passenger is still employed there)
I'm an old Southern lady. There have been a couple times I've been in line with someone on a call on speaker. So I insert myself into the conversation! Give advice (throw in my 2 cents) with a polite southern drawl and a few "southernisms" your granny used to use. They generally give me strange looks until I say "Let me talk to them, honey" and reach towards their phone. That's when they walk away or hang up. So much fun! And the other people in line get a kick out of it too.
or talking loudly in public spaces esp. closed ones like buses... i really dont want to know what happened in your life. and of course listening to music without earphones...
Super-disrespectful, too, to the person on the other end. Who wants what they are saying to be broadcast to all in the store or restaurant?? Privacy, people.
Speaker phone is great when both hands are required for a task. I prefer this method when making appointments and marking my calendar for example. But I'm doing it in my space, not out in the public space.
I can sorta understand those who use speakerphone calls. When I try to talk with the phone to my ear, my ear, cheek, something touches the screen and ends the call. This is super irritating when you've been on hold for a long time.
Then take the call later when you're not in public or use earbuds or text messaging instead.
Load More Replies...My mother in law's mother in law moved in with them and she only takes calls on speaker. Family movie night? She answers the phone and loudly talks for 30+ minutes while we sit and wait in silence. She does the same when she's in her bedroom. And she talks sh*t about everyone on the phone too.
IF I'm alone, I use speaker because if I don't, holding the phone against my face mutes it.
Sorry to offend your sensibilities. I'm not thrilled about using the speakerphone in public either. Unfortunately I'm hearing impaired and have little use of my fingers. I can't hear on the phone and I can't use hearing aids. Sooner or later my ENT will find an answer…I hope.
There are so many of these people that there is a special word for them: Idiots.
I was on a bus and a woman was buying something on speakerphone. She was giving out all her card information, and the other was repeating it back. I turned around to suggest she was not doing herself any favours, but was struck dumb, and turned right back again. She was in a bank teller uniform, and deserved any trouble she got.
I've noticed people on speakerphone are always shouting and cursing someone out
Use earbuds, text messaging, or take the call later when you are no longer in public and disturbing other people.
Load More Replies...My phone's speaker is crappy, and I can't hear people on the phone unless I have it on speaker, or if I have headphones plugged in. I almost never get calls anyway, but if I do, I usually have it go to voicemail, unless I have headphones plugged in already.
Speaker calls are fun....I get involved with the conversation. People can get mad, dont care. If you loud enough I join in. You don't want me involve just don't be loud and take your call privately.
I seriously don't understand why people use phones that way. So so stupid. Guess I'm old.
The only times I use speakerphone are when I'm outside and there's multiple people on my end, like when my friend and I had to report a gas leak recently and we were by a busy intersection
OMG! This is one of my top 3 pet peeves! I don't even want to hear a one-sided phone conversation in a public place. I always turn off my cell phone ringer when I am in a place where people are a "captive audience," like waiting for my car to be serviced, in doctor's office waiting rooms, waiting in line at the grocery store, etc. This peeve comes right before the super-bass cars that rattle my car.
Worse in bathrooms... heard then more times than I would like
Unless they’re being extra loud, what’s the difference between this and two live people talking in person near you?
Sometimes I cant hear the person even with the phone on speakerphone against my ear. My phone is at max volume and at times I still have to put a finger in my other ear, while its on speakerphone to hear the person at the other end. Its frusterating as hell.
Incredibly rude. If I need to use speaker for any reason, I distance myself from others and, most importantly, ask for the p
Ask for permission from whom ever is on the other end of the call
Load More Replies...Sorry Autism, can't put phone up to ear. It causes sensory overload, but since I live alone my issues shouldn't bother anyone.
That doesn't make sense. How would the sound be clearer if you hold the phone away from your ear?
Load More Replies...There is actually a good reason for not holding your smartphone to your ear: You may accidentally activate any part of the screen with said ear, opening apps, muting your call, etc., etc.
What if you have hearing problems and you can only really hear a conversation well when using the speaker? In the grand scheme of things this is a little bother to anyone else that happens to be in the vicinity of the call...just ignore it.
I do speakerphone calls because I'm slightly deaf on my main ear. Left side doesn't seem want to work with me when I'm trying to understand what's my mother trying to ask me for. I sometimes pull up FaceTime, which then I can work on my native tongue while being surrounded by nosy people
If you are using speakerphone or FaceTime calls when you're in public then I guarantee that you are annoying others. Take your call later or use text messaging instead.
Load More Replies...I am guilty of that but I am usually looking something up, like a proposal, on my computer when talking to them.
That doesn't matter, take yourself to a private area for your call or use text messaging instead.
Load More Replies...When I worked at Starbucks I got written up because I was working window and some guy came through in a pickup and ordered a venti caramel macchiato. He's a regular turd when I open the window and charge him but when I came back and opened the window to give him his coffee, he was actively dumping all the garbage from inside his truck all over the drive thru. Receipts, kleenex, mcdonald's wrappers and tim hortons cups, all over the ground and he was doing this like it was the most natural thing in the world. I said, "what are you doing?" and he said, "they pay them to clean it up". I said I was going to have to clean it up and he shrugged, so I dumped his drink on the ground between the window and his truck and told him I was saving him a step. It was rural Alberta, so the situation was de-escalated by an even bigger guy getting out of an even bigger truck behind him and telling Litterbug to get moving. Bro had to call the store to complain, I still had to pick up the garbage and I got written up but I'd do it again just to watch his face as he watches me dump his fucking drink. Pissant.
People being oblivious to their position or how they are blocking an entire aisle.
And chatting, and look at you weird like you are inconveniencing them…
Groups that walk 5 wide on a sidewalk chatting away like they're the main characters
People that take up the whole aisle in the grocery store. Push your s**t to one side or the other so other folks can shop, you inconsiderate prick.
I’ve stopped shopping with my mom for this reason. If you tell her she’s blocking the aisle, she’ll say “I was here first” or “they can wait” or “they can go around.” I’m constantly having to move the cart and it pisses her off every time. Her inconsiderate behavior was taking a toll on my anxiety. I just can’t tolerate it anymore.
Watch Tik Toks or videos LOUDLY.
Coughing or sneezing without covering their mouths
If your arms are long enough, coughing/sneezing into your armpit works best! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .[Edit] Some Panda's recognized this as a joke (everyone knows arm length makes no difference). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I interact with a lot of kids in educational settings and some of them tell me I should use the crook of my elbow instead of reflexively using my hand (as I was taught). I'll tell them, "thank you, you're right" if it was said helpfully, but, if a kid is saying it as bratty little comment, I tell them about the armpit "solution". This gets a laugh from the other kids and makes them think twice before speaking disrespectfully to me.
Idiot drivers who change lanes way too sudden and not use their f*****g turn signals.
If you're waiting for me to back out of my spot so you can take it, that's cool, *but give me room to back out first for f**k's sake.*
Worst is when you’re just getting in your car and they start to honk because you’re taking too long, guess what you’ve just earned 5 more minutes of wait time
not letting people off the train before trying to cram themselves into a full car. just let people off and there will be more room!!! how do you live/work in the city and not learn this by day 3!?
Standing too close behind me in line. It will not make the line move faster, I promise.
That's what I loved about covid times, people not coming close. I'm glad the pandemic is pretty much over, but I sure miss that :/
Leaving their shopping carts out in the middle of the parking lot, rather than taking the cart to those designated spots the store puts out.
Let’s face it. It’s all the SAME PEOPLE committing each of these self-centered actions on this entire list.
Get to the top/bottom of an escalator and then simply stop in order to figure out where to go next. Like, the rest of us have no choice in our movement right now, we're going to pile up behind you!
That's actually dangerous if there are people behind you, and people behind them...
Spit
I once saw a girl spitting like every 30 seconds, like it was the coolest thing to do. I then told her that it's possible to swallow saliva in case she hadn't heard and that she won't die from it. At least she was confused enough to stop it for a bit.
Be rude to anyone trying to do their jobs. Times I just wanna slap the person silly and tell them to grow the f**k up.
IKR!? I’m sorry…. I can’t just let you buy alcohol without your id. Geez the looks I used to get and we were pretty strict about it. One time I let it slip due to my anxiety and a customer told my manager. 😭
Smoke near the entrance of an establishment, then I have to walk thru the smoke.
My city made a law in 2007: “no smoking within 3-7 meters of doorways/entryways” (some other areas too). It was amended in 2014 to include bus stops/parks/playgrounds/playing fields/public squares. It now includes e-cigarettes and vaping. Marijuana is legal in my city, which I don’t have a problem with… except for the horrible smell of it. I’m not judging any pot smokers, just the smell of their drug of choice.
Not pick up after their dog. I live in an apartment complex and I see dog s**t *everywhere* despite there being free baggies and trashcans. It's literally in the lease agreement and they need to start enforcing it.
People who don't leash their dogs. Regardless of their recall ability. When a dog comes running up to me and my dog, the owners always call out, "Oh it's okay, he's friendly!" Yeah, but you know who *ISN'T*? You know who is about to start s**t because a stranger just got up in her face? My cranky a*s 13 year old dog leashed by my side.
Also the cat owners that let their cats roam completely unattended outside. My dog has been attacked twice on our walks. Completely unprovoked ambush. I was scared she was gonna lose an eye.
Another one is when dog owners dont keep their dog on a lease in areas where they are required too. Im terrified of dogs. My grandpa died almost 6 months ago and i havent been able to visit him because you have to pass a field to get to the graveyard, people are supposed to have their dogs on a lease but nobody has, they end up running up to you and fighting with other dogs. I tried visiting him once but ended up crying and shaking when a women ignored my moms plea to please but her dog on a lease, i was so scared i was frozen. So please dog owners try to remember that even if you love your dog somebody might not. Thank you!
People who keep passing me and then slowing down so I have to pass them. I'm on cruise control going the same speed all the time. Pick a speed, we don't need all this lane changing!
People NOT washing their hands in a public restroom after using it. I work in a store and see if often. Disgusting.
Another user added:
This is how it is at all the casinos, where everything it touch - screens, cards, chips, etc. More than half of men do not wash their hands, even after using the crapper.
I would have thought that Covid had helped people be more vigilant about hand hygiene but I guess not as much as I would like to think/hope. I, like many other people, started carrying a small bottle of hand sanitizer in my inner jacket pocket near the start of the pandemic and I use it often and refill it as needed.
Saw some kids in the literal front row of a movie theater with their bright a*s phones on taking selfies the entire time. Like wtf who bought your tickets and why bother even going to the movie?
People can be so inconsiderate. Sadly I have a hard time speaking up sometimes 😞
Record strangers without consent
People who are obnoxiously loud with no consideration to the person(s) standing right next to them.
Oh no… my dad is like this 😂 One time in the movie theater my dad was laughing and talking at the same time during the movie. The guy in our row moved away from us. Poor guy
I dont know how to put it but not navigating a store correctly. You should navigate a store like you drive. Leaving the aisle you stop and yield to people on the main walkway. Stay on your side while walking and pull over properly and get out of the way if you need to stop and look. Check your blind spots. Etc etc.
I drive my mobility scooter around the supermarket and I am so cautious and careful, using the lowest speed setting, and the people around me are so inconsiderate! I try to keep a good following distance because if they stop suddenly, I can't stop as fast... Just like it is when you are driving a car and you try to maintain a good following distance, there's always some idiot who tries to cut in, in front of you!
Chit chat excessively with the checkout clerk at the grocery store when there is a line of people behind them
Walking slowly in the parking lot, in the middle, with cars waiting on you to stroll to your spot.
Where the heck are you supposed to walk? It's not safe to walk to close behind the parked cars because someone may back up into you, and that's nearly happened so many times to us. Just be patient. Not everyone is able to walk fast, and unfortunately malls and big box stores cater to cars more than pedestrians. There needs to be more safer paths to walk across parking lots.
Cyclists behaving like they are the protagonist of an action movie. Almost got hit by one while walking because he was making videos while riding his bike.
Cyclist, the only people that get to chose if they are car driver, pedestrian or cyclist when it comes to rules. Driving lane has a red light-just use the pedestrian way. /s
Having no situational awareness at all.
Is this in reference to a "normal" person just being a selfish a-hole? Or could this person have a neuro/mental disorder that impedes their situational awareness?
We have a girl that [watches TikToks loudly] in the bathroom at work. More than once I've thought about turning the light off on my way out
Meh. What someone wants to do in the stall is their business. They are distracted by their videos to be bothered to listen to me drop a log and piddle. I hate having listeners in the washroom trying to hear me if I'm done or not then asking when they "don't hear anything". S**t takes time. At least with a video I can listen to that, too. Doesn't bother me much. Better than a live phone call.
Lots of grocery and driving rants. I would like to add people using heavily scented creams, sanitizers, body sprays in public.
I well remember the Axe body spray craze. I could smell those guys coming from a mile away and with asthma and allergies, they were the bane of my existence
Load More Replies...One I would add is people who pull into an intersection when there's no space on the other side. Rush hour, heavy traffic. Instead of stopping before the intersection and waiting for space, they eat up that last 15 feet or so. Good job dingleberry, now you're blocking two streets.
Repeating for those in the back: what you do in your spare time is your business. You want to roll a joint or whatever that's on you. But please please PLEASE febreeze/change clothes before you go out in public. Some of us can't handle the smell. And if we don't know you're doing it we can't complain can we? 🙂
Mine would have to be people that get all bent out of shape over every little thing. And start making a scene in public to get everyone to look at them being wronged in some stupid harmless way that is totally blown out of proportion. Or calling the cops for ridiculous reasons. That’s probably the worst cause cops just show up and shoot or arrest everyone these days.
I'm going to add one after reading this Ableist AF list: Try to understand that Neurodivergent people exist and try to have a modicum of empathy.
I used to work as a cashier in a small grocery store in a small farming village years ago. Most of the farmer had the grace to at least wash their boots, or take their filthy overalls off before coming in, but there was one or two, usually pig farmers (ugh) who trailed pigshit all through the store and they stank to high heaven and left the stink in the store when they left. Then I had to clean it up and spray air freshener (which I almost hated more) around the store.
The "yelling my conversation" when you are in an otherwise very quiet transport carriage is awful
my dad always, and i mean *every single time without fail,* ALWAYS answers the phone on speaker, regardless of whatever background noise is going on. once i was mowing the lawn and he was outside, and he got a call. i stopped mowing so the other person wouldnt have to listen to the RRRRR in the background. He was FURIOUS saying "well i could hear it fine!" he wouldnt listen to logic or reason. just a typical stubborn male.
My mum too. And not telling you you're on speakerphone, so you don't know others may be hearing your conversation! It gets so frustrating. She claims it's because she can't hear properly, yet claims she doesn't need the hearing aids she was prescribed!
Load More Replies...Oh, man, I hate when I'm walking with someone and we go single file as we see someone coming and the people coming don't. I've started brush their shoulders as I walk by and saying, "It's either that or I jump into the bushes/street/whatever."
Why is it unreasonable to expect people to be a little considerate of other people? If the same activity caused the inconsiderate people inconvenience, they would get upset.
1. People who don’t keep left (in Australia). Keep left while walking, especially on stairs and escalators. 2. When you stop at a pedestrian crossing in your car, and the person waiting waves “no, you go”. Dude, I’ve already stopped for you! 3. People who let their dogs bark for hours a day, every day.
Most of this gallery boils down to either "won't get out of the way" or "is loud".
Here’s another one. Being late and not letting the person know at LEAST 15 MINUTES in advance. I’m fine if you arrive 15 minutes early or arrive on time. However I’m not gonna wait more than 15 minutes for you being tardy.
Lots of grocery and driving rants. I would like to add people using heavily scented creams, sanitizers, body sprays in public.
I well remember the Axe body spray craze. I could smell those guys coming from a mile away and with asthma and allergies, they were the bane of my existence
Load More Replies...One I would add is people who pull into an intersection when there's no space on the other side. Rush hour, heavy traffic. Instead of stopping before the intersection and waiting for space, they eat up that last 15 feet or so. Good job dingleberry, now you're blocking two streets.
Repeating for those in the back: what you do in your spare time is your business. You want to roll a joint or whatever that's on you. But please please PLEASE febreeze/change clothes before you go out in public. Some of us can't handle the smell. And if we don't know you're doing it we can't complain can we? 🙂
Mine would have to be people that get all bent out of shape over every little thing. And start making a scene in public to get everyone to look at them being wronged in some stupid harmless way that is totally blown out of proportion. Or calling the cops for ridiculous reasons. That’s probably the worst cause cops just show up and shoot or arrest everyone these days.
I'm going to add one after reading this Ableist AF list: Try to understand that Neurodivergent people exist and try to have a modicum of empathy.
I used to work as a cashier in a small grocery store in a small farming village years ago. Most of the farmer had the grace to at least wash their boots, or take their filthy overalls off before coming in, but there was one or two, usually pig farmers (ugh) who trailed pigshit all through the store and they stank to high heaven and left the stink in the store when they left. Then I had to clean it up and spray air freshener (which I almost hated more) around the store.
The "yelling my conversation" when you are in an otherwise very quiet transport carriage is awful
my dad always, and i mean *every single time without fail,* ALWAYS answers the phone on speaker, regardless of whatever background noise is going on. once i was mowing the lawn and he was outside, and he got a call. i stopped mowing so the other person wouldnt have to listen to the RRRRR in the background. He was FURIOUS saying "well i could hear it fine!" he wouldnt listen to logic or reason. just a typical stubborn male.
My mum too. And not telling you you're on speakerphone, so you don't know others may be hearing your conversation! It gets so frustrating. She claims it's because she can't hear properly, yet claims she doesn't need the hearing aids she was prescribed!
Load More Replies...Oh, man, I hate when I'm walking with someone and we go single file as we see someone coming and the people coming don't. I've started brush their shoulders as I walk by and saying, "It's either that or I jump into the bushes/street/whatever."
Why is it unreasonable to expect people to be a little considerate of other people? If the same activity caused the inconsiderate people inconvenience, they would get upset.
1. People who don’t keep left (in Australia). Keep left while walking, especially on stairs and escalators. 2. When you stop at a pedestrian crossing in your car, and the person waiting waves “no, you go”. Dude, I’ve already stopped for you! 3. People who let their dogs bark for hours a day, every day.
Most of this gallery boils down to either "won't get out of the way" or "is loud".
Here’s another one. Being late and not letting the person know at LEAST 15 MINUTES in advance. I’m fine if you arrive 15 minutes early or arrive on time. However I’m not gonna wait more than 15 minutes for you being tardy.
