Netizen Wonders “What Is An American Thing But Americans Think Everyone Outside Of America Does It?”, Gets 30 Responses
"We're all living in America," once sang the cult German rock band Rammstein, implying that the entire modern world is in fact Pax Americana, and that it is incredible to imagine a contemporary person who is not involved in American culture and customs in any way.
"We're all living in America" - that is, even the Japanese, far from Christianity, celebrate Christmas at KFC, with Colonel Sanders as Santa. "We're all living in America" - and every newly elected US President becomes TIME Person of the Year simply by the fact of being elected. "We're all living in America" - and the inflation rate in most countries of the world is unofficially measured by the Big Mac index.
The main country of the world unconsciously dictates its preferences to this planet, but it also plays in the opposite direction. It often happens, when Americans travel abroad for the first time, they are massively surprised - it turns out that there is a huge world beyond the stars and stripes, and its inhabitants not only don't follow American traditions, but even consider then weird and sometimes bizarre.
Do you want a good example? Well, not exactly perfect, since Tom Brady and Gisele Bundchen announced their impending divorce, but still - over the past ten years or so, Americans have gotten used to thinking of Gisele as "the wife of the great Brady", and almost the rest of the world, if any had an idea about the football GOAT, knew him only as "the husband of the incomparable Bundchen".
And so, a few days ago, a thread appeared in the AskReddit community, the author of which asked the question: "What is an American thing but Americans think everyone outside of America does it?" As of today, there are already over 22.4K upvotes and around 27.7K various comments in the thread, written by both Americans and representatives of other countries living or ever having lived in the USA.
Bored Panda has put together a special selection for you with the most interesting, unexpected and just incredibly popular comments from the original thread, so please feel free to scroll this list to the very end, mark the submissions you enjoy best and don't forget to leave comments in case you have something to add. After all, "we're all living in America"...
More info: Reddit
This post may include affiliate links.
no issue with violence shown to kids in tv and movies, while simultaneously losing your s**t if someone flashes a breast at any time
I have always been confused by this. It's not ok for there to be skin, but it's ok for gratuitous violence? I live in the US and I can't answer this one.
You have a constitutional right to bear arms, but it says nothing about bare breasts? 😜
Load More Replies...Staying at a really nice hotel in Northern Germany many years ago with my German girlfriend, we decided to have a sauna and of course everyone (about 10 of us mixed ages and sexes) was naked and letting all hang out, when an American couple of about 35 walked in in full bathing suits, both looked very flustered before falling over each other to get out of the door. Yes, we did all laugh !!! Never saw them round the hotel again !!
I am American and this confuses me too. Why should a nudity or sex (a normal, natural thing to enjoy) be considered taboo while depicting violence and killing be acceptable? Think of the society we would have if it was reversed.
The sons of our american preacher were allowed to plsy ego shooters but not allowed to public swimming pools and the daughters covered up for german standards (spaghetti straps over t-shirts and no knees visable)
I once saw a perfume advert where the girl was covered only with a long silk scarf. The UK version had it covering her lower area, leaving her visibly topless. Saw the same ad in Paris - and the scarf was only covering her chest. Different cultures, different morals, I guess.
My parents were not strict about what I watched as a kid. As long as I wasn't acting out violent or dangerous scenes they really didn't care. Though I must say that between the ages of 7 and 10 my favorite movies, which were very age inappropriate, were Barbarella, The Who's Tommy, Die Hard, Lethal Weapon, Beverly Hills Cop, 48 Hours, The Golden Child, any movie with Richard Pryor and/or Gene Wilder, any Dudley Moore movie and of course the Monty Python movies. I was also obsessed with the Twilight Zone, the Alfred Hitchcock Hour and any show that was on Nick at Night. I'm 39 and can tell you I'm mostly normal; I didn't even understand alot of things from what I watched so not like it affected me. Though it is odd that I knew what an iron maiden was but not acid (the drug) when I was a kid (from Tommy)
That was my list, plus Rocky Horror and Earth Girls Are Easy
Load More Replies...And it's not even breasts, the problem people have is with nipples. You can show cleavage, side-boob and under-boob, but if you flash one nipple you're arrested.
I am a kid, but I will say I am bothered by sexual content WAY more than violence and gore. I know that's not speaking for everyone tho
May be a matter of habit/culture. One exposed nipple or a naked body per se is not neccessarily sexual content (sauna, anyone?), wouldn't have shocked me much on TV as a child, unlike screaming, bleeding people and dismembered bodies.
Load More Replies...
Thinking everyone wants to live in America.
Why would anyone want to live in a plan with the highest health care costs in the world, the most shootings, the highest percent of the population in prison, the most expensive education system in thw world, way lower average life
"becauze our freedumz" and if you don't like it you can move and live in some left wing librul commie socialist fascist hell-hole and see how you like it there (obligatory /s/, because some folks will take this response seriously)
Load More Replies...Hahaha well many immigrants do at first. My parents applied to america around two years before they applied to Australia, and the green card got approved after we came here. And thank god it took that long.
Your family ended up in Oz? I'm Canadian, and that would be just as good as being born here. IMHO.
Load More Replies...In my country everyone wants their child to either go to US or Europe so that they can boast about it. Most of us prefer Europe over America for some reason
Canada is a pretty strong option too (I'm totally not biased 😅)
Load More Replies...As an American who travels a lot, I have not found this to be the case!
90 day fiance tv show would have us believe everyone wants to live in America but NO i would never
Well, not everyone, but unfortunately conditions in some countries south of the US are pretty bad. Many families are sadly risking life and limb to get to the Mexican border. It is common to have several thousand people crossing per day.
Gee - I wonder why that is. I mean, I'm sure the greatest democracy on earth would have happy to help it's neighbours establish stable, democratic societies.
Load More Replies...
Reciting the Pledge of Allegiance. It's alarming to me how many Americans I've met who think all countries do their own version of the pledge. It is a uniquely American thing.
As a very anti-nationalist guy, I can't describe how creepy and dystopian the "pledge" is to me.
I feel that way as well; I actually got sent to the principals office once in high school for just checking my watch and getting something from my bag instead of stopping what I was doing, standing, and saying the pledge. My principal just laughed and sent me back to class
Load More Replies...Once I was old enough to figure out that this was supposed to be me actually "swearing my allegiance," aka vowing my life like a knight to my king in the dark ages (I think I was 12) I started to just move my mouth silently. I was very relieved to find out that it couldn't be considered binding if I said it when I was not yet 18. I don't even want to think about how that could be attempted to be used against every single citizen ever.
'one nation under God' - why? what if you'r an atheist? or beleive in the flying spaghetti monster for all I care? Always looked like indoctrination to me, hoping that by having them say it often enough, kids would actually start behaving like it as well and not make protest or whatever.
For those who don't know the Pledge: "I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all." While living in the US, being German, I liked the pledge, I felt one with my fellow students. Reading it now, it sounds more like wishfull thinking than a pledge, doesn't it?
i don't get pledging alliegence to a FLAG. an inanimate object? that's weird! and i don't want to pledge alleigence to a person, either.
Load More Replies...We used to do that here in Germany - around the 30's and 40's
I have never thought this was normal even as a kid, and had gotten into trouble many times at school from refusing to do it. It just alway felt like a cult thing to me
In my country we have the national pledge told every morning in school but unlike the US, we don’t salute to the flag of our countyr
UK here, the price you see in a shop is the price you actually pay
Why do people keep stating that different states have different taxes?? Every country has different taxes and VAT rates on different products and it’s still easy for them to put the total price against the individual product. Laziness of shop owners at pricing just means more work for them at sale end.
No, in Australia we have GST (goods & services tax) it’s 10% there are no other taxes. GST is added to the price Before you get to the checkout so the price on the shelf is the price you pay.
Load More Replies...It's done that way in America because it causes a majority of shoppers to underestimate their total costs so they'll end up spending more.
Yep every time people visit me from outside the US I have to keep stating that they have to add the tax to the price they see. Its deceptive and really confusing. I still hate it and I have lived here a long time now.
Yeah, it depends. On a military base, there is no tax, but to have access to all the stores on base, you need a military ID. All the self checkouts require you to scan your military ID and the cashiers ask to see it.
It depends. Here in the US, there is no tax on ingredients to be prepared at home into a meal, or meals to be heated at home. Yes on food taken from a restaurant or grocery store, (because it's considered tax on the preparation of the 'meal'). Why tax is not included on the items on the shelf (hoodies, jeans, dress shirts) instead of at checkout I have no idea. perhaps because items are shipped from the factory to different states, and different states have different tax rates, so the labels would be wrong depending on which states they end up in. Just add your state's tax rate (mine is 6%) and you'll know the true cost. No big deal.
I prefer shopping somewhere where I don't have to think about any of that.
Load More Replies...I am in Canada, where, except for fuel pumps, all prices are shown without added taxes. It is by legislation so that the consumer can see how much tax is being paid as a separate charge. Our Federal sales tax used to be buried in the sticker price, with individual provincial (similar to states) taxes added extra(PST). That changed in the 1980's when the FST was replaced with the GST (Goods and Services Tax , similar to a VAT). Now in most provinces the 2 are combined to a HST (Harmonized Sales Tax)
mm-dd-yyyy
as an american, i refuse to use it this way. when i write the dates i do it dd-mm-yyyy. makes more sense.
The most stupid date format. The best choice is yyyy-mm-dd because, for example, files named starting with dates in that format will still be in chronological order when you sort by name. It's also an unambiguous format. dd-mm-yyyy is OK, and is at least the format used in much of the world. mm-dd-yyyy is just stupid. The items are not in a sensible order of unit size (middle, smallest, largest?!) and only one country uses it.
Honestly, dd-mm-yyyy in my mind makes a lot more sense because it is in order, like the 12th day of the 4th month of the 2022nd year.
Load More Replies...I wish people would just be consistent and all follow the same format.
we are consistent, the USA are definitely in the minority
Load More Replies...Drives me crazy!! It doesn't even make sense.Smallest to largest i.e Day...Month...Year ,so simple.
That's true we do assume that, but thanks to the internet more of us learn otherwise.
Flags on everything always seemed weird to me, flags on their houses, flags on their cars, flags at the beach, flags f**ken everywhere.
I'm American, flags everywhere to me is fucken weird. We make fun of it all the time "Oh look! an American flag! Good for a minute there, I thought we got lost and ended up in Germany!"
I do the same thing,but with Pret a Manger stores in London. They're everywhere! 'phew,don't panic, there's a pret!' 😂
Load More Replies...Now here in Canada, after the ridiculous trucker convoy bullsh*t, it seems an aggressive gesture when someone has a flag on their vehicle. It’s kind of sad actually what the nutters have done.
In Denmark if people hang out the national flag it means it's someone's birthday.
This varies greatly by area. Example: I live in a city in Massachusetts, and it's very rare that anyone in my area is hanging a flag. But if I go outside the city, suddenly there can be flags hanging everywhere. It's very odd.
Yeah. Every country has patriots, but they don't need to decorate everything they own with their flags.
The funny thing is, it's technically speaking illegal to use the flag for example in clothing, as it's not respectful. Tell that to the red-white-and-blue pyjamas and maga hat manufacturers, though.
It's illegal to use the flag as clothing, nothing wrong with a picture of a flag being on clothing
Load More Replies...
American college culture is the weirdest s**t on earth.
Frats, sororities, all of it.
Literally no other country is like that, anywhere.
We may not have frats and sororities in the UK/EU, but we certainly have the drinking and parties. xP (eg: Freshers Week in the UK, or Russefeiring in Norway, etc)
At least in Germany and Austria, fraternities do have a long tradition, although the concept is a little different to the US thing. They are usually conservative or even far-right all-male communities whose members and ex-members help each other out - which unfortunately gives them a huge influence in the universities and in society as a whole.
Load More Replies...College sports being shown nationally is madness. Over in the uk unless it’s results day or you the cast of a kids tv show legit nobody under about 20 is ever on tv.
When I was a Foreign Language Assistant in the UK - I worked with a teacher who taught my mother tongue, to improve the children's learning experience - there was one girl in Year 12 who had been a BALL GIRL in the Olympics the year before, and that was a huge deal, because there's so few ways you'd end up on TV and she was actually visible in SOME shots of the games.
Load More Replies...I went to a huge state university with an active sorority/fraternity culture, but I can count on one hand how many involved in that culture that I knew personally. I'd say people think it's more a part of college life than it actually is because of movies and media coverage.
The sheer amount of ad breaks when watching a tv show. In the US, there seems to be one every 10 mins, but here in the UK, you get a break halfway through a show and then in between shows and that's it.
It used to be that way in the US, then went to 10 minutes, now it's every 8 minutes.
Back when the breaks were kind of welcome, so you could get a snack or go to the bathroom—-until someone yelled that the program’s back on. Then you had to come running back to whatever room the TV was in.
Load More Replies...Only on public television sadly. On privately owned channel they can do what they want, and they sadly went the US way. I stopped watching TV years ago as I lived abroad and used streaming. I'm still in shock at the number of adds there is now. Before there would be just on break in the middle of the evening movie, and it would start at 20:50, so you could actually watch the entire movie before going to bed, now it's 3-4 breaks (and the most annoying break 5 mins before the end of the movie), and the movie start at 21:10, so no way I'm staying up that late to watch the end. And the length of the breaks got also a lot longer, before you had to run to use the bathroom during the break, now you have enough time for two people...
Load More Replies...And then they are all for medications and various supplemental plans to rip off seniors! It’s truly nauseating!
I remember how Walking Dead creators once announced: "The next episode will be 90 minutes long!" and fans online started cheering before they realized that it will be 60 minutes without ads.
it is sooo not like that in the UK. especially not on channels like ITV. You'll easily get like 4-6 ad breaks within an hour of tv. :/ the only channels you won't are BBC.
It blew some Americans minds when they realise we don't have ad breaks during sports matches, only at half time etc.
Circumcision. It is actually not very common outside North America & Africa.
If it’s not for a medical reason it should be illegal! If it’s illegal for cutting pieces out from a female genitalia it should be equally illegal to do it on a male
Well there really is a big difference between female and male circumcision, there's good reason the female kind is called female genital mutilation. That being said I do agree it should be illegal to circumcise male babies when there's no medical reason
Load More Replies...Circumcision is horrible. It has been proven to cause premature ejaculation in youth, erectile dysfunction in adulthood, and a host of other sexual function problems. The only reason we even do it is because puritan asshats thought it would reduce that evil evil masterbation.
Fear should never be the root of mutilation! Well, really nothing should. Fear of normal sexual behaviours.
Load More Replies...It’s something done unnecessarily without the boy’s consent - not cool.
Are you kidding!!! Everywhere that islam exists, men are circumcising. That’s not an American thing, maybe the bulk of it happens in USA, but there are literally a billion people doing it out of USA.
Yep, but they do it for religious reasons - while US americans do it for no reason :-D
Load More Replies...I was circumcised not for religious reasons, I don't hate my parents for it. I love my stubby little d*ck. I probably would have hated if I wasn't circumcised, they look like earthworms wearing a turtleneck. I've never had any penile problems either. I'm glad it happened when I was a baby too, so i dont remember anyway.
That has far more to do with p⁰rn and media than what it looks like...I mean, a circumcised still looks really weird.
Load More Replies...I'm personally glad my mom had me circumcised. So much easier to clean.
all of the Middle East really. Muslim and Jewish-majority countries, plus America for some weird reason.
Load More Replies...In Muslim countries this is very common for males. There are medical reasons for it too.
yeah but very very very rarely theyre actually needed medically
Load More Replies...
Having garbage disposal unit installed under kitchen sink.
'Drains are for WATER'! My hubby is a plumber. I can't tell you how many times I have heard this .. The rest of the world knows it's true
My dumbest American moment was when I moved into where I live now, which has no garbage disposal, after just always having one. The sink clogged and I damn near had a mental breakdown, how can I unclog it without a disposal? My partner just looked at me like I *might* be a complete moron, reached in and pulled out some noodles, magically fixing the sink. He will never let me live that down.
We all have had our stupid moments. I recently panicked because I forgot to add diapers in our regular online drug store order (we've got twin toddlers), because we might miss the next order I could have put in when we left town to visit my family, and then we might run out. It needed my husband to remind me that we could actually visit a store between the holidays. Wow.
Load More Replies...I have never lived in a home with one. I compost when I can by putting organics in a bucket and then in a pile of leaves outside.
I would absolutely love to have a drying cabinet.
Load More Replies...I've lived in 12 different homes in the UK, not a GD in single one of them.
Load More Replies...In my 39 years I have never met anyone with a garbage disposal. I honestly used to think this was like a 70's-80's thing until I came to Bored Panda
Fahrenheit
Once, the weather app on my phone had its settings changed to farenheit by my brother without me knowing so i ended up freaking out when i saw that the forecast for tomorrow would be 75 degrees
I think your house being on fire would have clued you in.
Load More Replies...This was the joy that Blojob and Rees-Muck wanted to reinflict on the uk not so long ago.
Load More Replies...Fahrenheit not Celsius, pounds not kilos, miles not kilometres, literally the entire rest of the world uses metric but not America they don’t seem to understand a system that uses multiples of 10 is easier?
It's not quite as simple as "literally the entire rest of the world uses metric". I'm in Scotland and we mostly use metric but exceptions exist: for example, beer is still sold by the pint in pubs, though in shops it's metric (often half litre (yes that's how we spell it here) cans).
Load More Replies...We started to convert to metric many years ago, then stopped. I don't know why?
Ten-gallon hats, cowboys swear by ten-gallon hats, won't give them up.
Load More Replies...0 - freezing water 100 boiling water - why is it so hard to understand in America ?
I have relatives in Ohio, they once thought it's very cold summer when I mentioned we had 39 degrees outside. Meanwhile, I felt like I was on giant frying pan when I went to work.
We should use Kelvin all along - Today we have 253 degree! Remember to dress as warm as possible and only use your car with winter tires!
I prefer the Fahrenheit scale; it's a good scale for humans. Zero is really cold and 100 is really hot. Simple and useful. Compare to Celsius: zero is chilly, and 100 is "you're dead". And metric thermostats step by 0.5 degrees - that's just silly to have a degree unit so large that you have to adjust by fractions of a degree. So give me Fahrenheit any day.
I feel like Fahrenheit should stay around, but like, only for measuring human temps (like body temps and the weather seem the most sensical) baking and anything else that requires temp doesn't require an understanding of how that relates to how it feels but how it relates to the idea of temperature or how water reacts, ect.
Load More Replies...
Having the waiter take your credit card at a restaurant. Most other countries bring the machine to you so you can pay at the table and at least reduce the risk of having your credit card information stolen...
Australia too ,or you pay on the way out.You never hand over your card!
Load More Replies...In the UK my supervisor told me on day one to never ever touch a customer's card unless it's absolutely unavoidable, and even then make sure to keep it in their sight at all times and give it back as soon as possible. He explained that with the right equipment it would take just one quick swing with the card for it to be cloned. So we wanted to make sure cctv always clearly showed that at no time we had anyone's card in a position where that would've been possible.
Perfect example: when I was a waitress here in the good ol US, I had a coworker who quit suddenly. Shortly after quitting, my manager was contacted by the FBI because she had committed credit card fraud by stealing card info from our customers. I don't recall the exact amount but "several counts grand larceny" was mentioned
Yeah, not just that but having to manually calculate the tip and the total you want to pay on the receipt. Canada has equally weird sales tax and tipping culture, and yet they've figured this out, why can't you?
Same in Canada. They bring the terminal to you and refuse to handle the card. I went to the US for a short trip, went to a restaurant, had to give the waiter my card, and two months later I had over $2,000 worth of charges just in time period following. We NEVER give our cards to anyone - for anything - anywhere!
In Canada they have the machines brought to you now, too. It's highly recommended you don't let anyone handle your bank cards, and definitely not allow someone to take them out of your sight. Just as well you also have to inspect the card machine to make sure there's no extra pieces added onto it that are used to steal information, like a fake cover or something put inside the card slot.
Yeah, I admit this bothers me. But since the integration of chips and chip readers into our credit card system (what tha **** took the US so long, I don't get), but I don't see it as frequently as I used to...
Wait ...how old is chip technology then? I know half of the tech that runs this country is still stuck in like the 80's so not surprised it's been around a while, just curious
Load More Replies...
Files for bankruptcy for medical bills...
This, while the US spends more per capita on healthcare than any other nation on earth. Universal healthcare, like in developed countries, could actually save money! But socialism.
Load More Replies...This one frustrates me almost beyond words. I spent much of my childhood in poverty because of this. At a young age, my dad had a pretty terrible accident, breaking most of the bones in his body, including his back. He spent the rest of his life unable to work, in and out of hospitals for numerous surgeries and procedures, and what started as binge drinking became full-time addiction to booze and pain meds. My parents filed for bankruptcy multiple times because of the medical bills, and collectors called nearly every day. I don't think our country will do better on healthcare in my lifetime, and I think it's pathetic and criminal.
I agree, Tamra. You are right. It's morally criminal and should be legally criminal. I'm sorry you had to live through that. I think the Millenials and GenZs will fix it. They're pissed and throwing the bums out the last few elections. It's going to get more and more every election cycle. I love watching that.
Load More Replies...OMG it's ridiculous. It cost me 2k to have a D&C after a missed miscarriage this year. And I had to go in beforehand and come up with a payment plan because my insurance didn't cover a dime.
I'm so sorry, Niki. It's terrible to have to navigate that kind of grief while having to figure out how to pay for everything along with it.
Load More Replies...The only country that has medical debt bankruptcy, the richest country in the world can’t get it together & organise national health care. They’re happy to get ripped off with outrageous Employer based health insurance that hardly covers the basics
No, we're not happy with that. We really really aren't.
Load More Replies...And if you have never been forced to do that because the wonderful caring Oncologist, who couldn't save your son, but is putting a lean on your home to pay his bills..I guess you need to keep your opinions to yourself. This entire thing is insulting, and pissing me off.
Having public bathroom stall doors that do NOT go all the way to the floor.
I like that. You can tell if the stall is occupied without having to knock on the door, or try to push it open, only to find it not locked and it is occupied.
We have locks that show whether the stall is occupied or not where I live
Load More Replies...don't mind a gap at the bottom, but don't want any gaps in or around the door where people can peek in! it's private time!
I cannot use the washrooms at Walmart where people stand just outside the stalls and you hear them talking to their friends about what the people are doing in the stalls, or what their body looks like. Like, give people their privacy and dignity.
Load More Replies...I am not that tall (female, 5’7) but so many stalls i us are so short! Like i feel uncomfortable that people can see me standing up in my stall and i could probs look in someone else’s. 😬
This is a big thing for places with high drug use. We keep them like that so if someone overdoses or loses consciousness on the toilet we can see that there is a problem and help them.
I never thought about that, but that is an excellent idea! One would not usually anticipate someone laying down on the bathroom floor for no specific reason!
Load More Replies...I hate when a little kid bends down and looks up you in the stall. Go away kid.
It doesn't bother me that the walls don't go all the way to the floor, it's the gaps on the side of the door that bother me.
As a german, it depends: can a adult man comfortably crawl underneath into your booth? then the door is to high.
The over the top customer service attitude.
On a trip abroad my wife thought that she upset the waiter somehow because he was generally neutral in his interaction.
It was generally neutral because it was a generally neutral interaction. No need for that customer service attitude!
So on this one, the US is being criticized because service workers are friendly? 🤔
People outside the US tend to view the behaviour of US service workers as fake friendliness, which is something a lot of people are wary of, in a "what is this person trying to get from me?" way.
Load More Replies...Where waiting staff don't have to be overly friendly because their livelihood is not based on tips.
One of the reasons Walmart failed here in Germany was that people were creeped out by the "hospitality" and thought of it as annoying
I found it disturbing when the waitress came to ask every two minutes if everything is ok and tastes good and if we need anything else. I have my mouth full so I give her thumbs up and a smile and she keeps standing there firing questions. We ate in fast food a lot because there you can just eat your meal in peace.
American customer service is part of our culture. I have a very friendly personality. I rarely have worked for a tipping job. I am just friendly. I have been to Mexico. I would say most vendors were much friendlier than I am used to. They were happy to offer me free beer and cocaine. That was a bit uncomfortable. Different culture. I have experienced very very friendly customer service in the Bahamas. I have never been hit on so many times. (Chubby lady in her 40's here) Different cultures. I visited the UK when Trump was running the 1st time. I have never in my life been asked so many times who I was voting for.... or been laughed at so hard when I wanted mashed potatoes with my fried chicken. Different culture.
This is because they all depend on tips so they try to be overly nice in hopes of making more money. I was a waitress for about 3 years and man did I act fake as hell just to make sure I got tipped decently.
If we don't do it, we'll hear about it from corporate. Nobody chooses this; it's literally required.
Identify as the nationality of their great grandparents.
It’s the melting pot idea. TBH, there’s nothing wrong with being proud of your background, but we’re all still Americans—-no matter how many generations have passed since our forebears got off the boat. Or the plane.
We care because to us, it's a reminder of where we come from. It also helps us understand why some families look different or sound different. Imagine having a blended family that eats weird combinations, has crazy traditions, and their accent is strange. It helps people bond, ironically.
Load More Replies...It's more the way it's expressed, I don't mind people knowing and rejoicing in their Irish ancestry (for example) but it's when Americans then say "I'm Irish" when they mean "My great grandparents emigrated from Ireland at the beginning of the 20th century". To other nationalities (especially to people like my partner, who really *is* Irish, born and raised) it sounds odd and a bit presumptuous!
Who in the whole wide world (except maybe other Americans) care that you are 25% Greek, 12.5% German and 7.25% Native American?
I am Korean because my grandmother’s cousin’s sister’s mailman’s son’s wife is from Korea /s
I'm gonna say it and folks are gonna be mad. It's because some Americans don't like American culture enough to claim it. They're always reaching for something more established to idealize so they feel a tie to something they find genuine and more cultured. Our smaller communities don't seem have this problem as much as the larger one.
because for rest of us there is a difference between: I am Polish/German/French/Italian and My ancestors were Polish/German/French/Italian or I'm American with XXX heritage. Especially when you (US citizens) claim to be 100% xxx but don't know a word in said language, never been there and even have audacity to correct Natives of XXX about their own culture.
I once got ripped apart on yahoo answers (remember that?) because someone asked a question about No Man’s Land (aka The Green Hills of France) by Eric Bogle, a Scottish so singer/songwriter who lived in Australia. Basically I’d upset Irish Americans who were not aware that there was a war going on in 1916; they were under the impression that any song referencing that year must be about the Easter Rebellion. They were Incensed that I’d dared to give factual information including the words 🤣🤣🤣
Load More Replies...i identify as the nationality of my great-grandparents. They were Ashkenazi Jews. I'm an Ashkenazi Jew. i'm never going to say that i'm Russian/Ukrainian (at the time Russia considered it Russia), but then again I doubt they would have considered themselves Russian/Ukrainian. and yeah, i'm an American Jew, but the Jew part matters more to me than the American, and I don't particularly care about America nor do i want to live here. I care more about Israel (although i am not Israeli). Nationality/ethnicity is complicated.
I think it has meaning between other Americans but outside the US, it seems a bit daft as no one in those countries regard you as a one of them
No joke I knew a girl who really thought every country lit fireworks on the 4th of July.
This is the point of social studies, kids. Don't be that person outed on social media.
Ha, ask someone educated in the US in the past 10-20 years, I bet they ask what are "social studies".....
Load More Replies..."Do you have fourth of July in your country?" "Yes, but we call it Tuesday."
July 4th 1776 King George III wrote in his diary "Nothing important happened today".
Reminds of when I was a kid in the 80’s and on a trip to Disney World, we stopped at a McDonald’s and the girl behind the counter actually said, “Y’all from Canada? Do you know Christine?” I’m still not sure if she was messing with us. I wanted to say, well I know “A” Christine…
Lol. I used to get that a lot when I'd tell people I'm from Montana, the 4th largest state landwise in the US. Also got asked if it was part of Canada a lot which cracks me up but I don't mind so much because II definitely have some good Canadian manners (raised fairly close to the border).
Load More Replies...Hey, this is like saying "thanks to my school bully, I learned to stand up for myself". It was mostly thanks to the countries' own strives, wasn't it? If ENGLAND made the decision, Charles would probably be Maharaja Supreme by now.
Load More Replies...
The first amendment. I just howled with laughter when some Canadian convoy protestor claimed he had first amendment rights, when the first amendment in the Canadian constitution actually provided for the government of Manitoba.
Many people forget that rights come with responsibilities, and have reasonable limits. Yes, you have the right to free speech, but if you incite violence with it, you have to pay the consequences of doing so. The worse the violence, the heavier the consequences. Most of us understand that, but the loud, rude minority seem to get more attention, and end up being the false and unfair stereotype of all of us.
To Best Behave: technically you are correct. The only real right anyone has is the right to die, everything else can be taken away. I’m not saying this to sound like some kind of hard a*s, but if people actually thought about what they could lose then maybe we would all take less for granted. Other note - the first amendment only protects you from the government shutting you down, if you insult a bunch of private citizens then that’s your problem.
Load More Replies...Here in America some have come to believe that freedom of speech means speech without consequences or responsibility. Of course you can say whatever you want, but you can't tell people how they can respond to your speech. If I have a problem with something you've said, I have a right to disagree with it. It drives me crazy everytime I hear someone claiming they've been "silenced" whenever something they've said gets a negative reaction.
Speak for yourself. I found it a proud moment for Canadians who still believe in our country and our values, and it spawned a worldwide movement. Many other Canadians agree with the convoy and their motivations as well.
Load More Replies...Here (Norway) it's actually IN the constitution, not as an amendment to it. §100, freedom of expression. With the common and fully reasonable limits of not inciting violence, etc. "No one may be held liable in law for having imparted or received information, ideas or messages unless this can be justified in relation to the grounds for freedom of expression, which are the seeking of truth, the promotion of democracy and the individual's freedom to form opinions. Such legal liability shall be prescribed by law."
Amendments to the US constitution are part of the constitution, so the first amendment (and all others) is IN the constitution, as you say it. Some countries rewrite their constitution periodically, the US amends theirs. The first amendment was approved before the Norwegian constitution was written. Many countries' constitutions, or rights/obligations are modeled on the US.
Load More Replies...It is funny being Canadian and talking to ignorant idiot people here who almost think they are Americans.
Yeah, it seems we have our right wing stupidos north of the border as well
Isn’t the first amendment a restriction on the government more than anything else?Being a hateful s**t and inciting violence still has consequences. See also terms of service
That's what most our rights are: limits on what government can do.
Load More Replies...Goes to show the very limited intelligence of some of the protesters. That being said Canadians are inundated with American news so...
Born and raised in the US (Massachusetts). When I went to Australia, I automatically assumed that the waiter would bring the bill over when they think we're done eating and just tell us to pay whenever we're ready. I sat at the table for a good 15min just browsing my phone with no food or drink on the table until I decided to call a waiter over. They told me when I'm ready, I can pay at the front counter.
Went to Brazil to visit my wife's family and we ordered some street food. I tried to pay upon order and my wife told me they take payment after we finish eating even if it's street food... After eating, we totally forgot that we haven't paid yet and just got up and walked away because we're so used to paying upon order. About 50metres of walking, I was like, wait... We didn't pay for the food. We rushed back to pay and the cooks had a good laugh about it.
apparently it's a whole 'what if you didn't like the meal' thing to keep cooks and street vendors honest sorta deal, at least, that's how it was explained to me.
Load More Replies...Depends on the restaurant. The upmarket ones will do as you expect but others will expect you to settle up at the counter.
In Australia most restaurants will being the bill whereas many cafes will get you to pay at counter when you’re done.
This isn't really a country thing, is it? I've seen people ask for the bill in the UK (Indian restaurant), Germany (any kind of real "restaurant", not bakery or fast food place), Poland (restaurant and café), Italy (ditto) and Lithuania. I've also paid up front in all those countries for take away or in Pubs (especially in the UK). I've never ever seen a waiter bring the bill before you let them know you're ready, though. They'd rather ask if you'd like a dessert or anything else, and thereby give you the window to say you want the bill without calling them over. OP's experience before leaving the country seems very isolated to me...
street food is almost always good. otherwise they'd go out of business very quickly.
Load More Replies...Actually a lot of places will ask for you to pay up front in Australia.
After seeing some of the ridiculous presentations of meals on here, I would order, view, reject and walk out. It's time someone stood up and said let's stop this craziness.
Immense portions in restaurants and then taking a slightly less immense (but still big) boxful of leftovers home. Calling the main course an entrée, when entrée means starter/appetiser.
YES!! It really annoys me when I hear Americans refer to the main as the "entrée". The clue is in the name.
Ah yes, getting annoyed at individuals because their culture picked up using a word for something that your culture doesn’t use. Americans don’t purposefully call it an entree “incorrectly” just to píss you off, friend.
Load More Replies...Ok, but I love having leftovers to take home. It really makes me feel like I got my money's worth if it lasts 3 meals lol
I tend not to eat very much at once so leftovers are a given for me. Sometimes I'll even order an extra item to go. I love leftovers so much, like, it's unreasonable lol. I feel like a dragon taking home my treasure.
Load More Replies...I am British and have been a chef for forty-odd years. The main course has always been called an entree in a classical kitchen. "At restaurants or formal dinners, the entrée is the main course, or sometimes a dish before the main course. Dinner features a hot entrée of chicken, veal, or lamb. There is a selection of appetizers followed by an entrée. Dessert will be served after the entrée."
I'm a British person and I've never seen that in any restaurant I've eaten in, or any formal dinners I've been to (and there's been a wide variety)
Load More Replies...Yes- as a non-American, calling a main course an "entree" never made sense to me either!
In American English, an entre is a main dish. In France, an entrée is an appetizer. We speak a different language.
I think maybe we Americans need to start working on being mutually intelligible.
Load More Replies...While it's true that portion sizes are really big, you can strategize around it (e.g.: split an entree with a dining companion, order an appetizer as a main dish instead, etc.).
Why though? Main meal is normally enough to fill 1 person who did not eat anything for lunch/dinner yet and that's it. How this huge portions thing happened?
Load More Replies...I was wondering myself. Looks like one of my cats got sick!😳
Load More Replies...Fell foul of the entree thing in the states... seriously it usurping means starter! Like to enter/ begin..,
And people wonder why so many American's are fat and obesity is a very prevalent problem there. Couple that with food attraction in stores (Everything is set up like trying to attract a toddler from colors and packaging of the food itself to the container) Cheap easy food also is rarely healthy.
I order off the kid's menu if they have one and I'm allowed. Smaller portions. Or if they allow sharing, take a friend and split the dish.
Hospitals connected to specific insurances (and you having to make sure you go to the right one, how do you even do that after a car crash..?)
I think that most if not all insurance plans will allow you to get emergency treatment at any hospital.
yeah, they treat you, but then slam you with a several thousand dollar bill once you get better
Load More Replies...Wait- so not only do you guys not have universal health care, even if you DO have insurance, you have to be worried about it not being accepted, depending on the hospital you can get to!?- FFS!
The whole healthcare system is Friar Tucked. People are every country's greatest asset. You look after the people, then the people look after the economy. If they're at home incapacitated or homeless through medical bankruptcy, that's a totally preventable situation that your government needs to address. These people have a right to a home and a right to a decent standard of living.
It’s ridiculous. I’m lucky enough to have union insurance and most places accept it. Didn’t have to go bankrupt for breast cancer and just $10 copays, while my mom had to take out two policies to cover cervical cancer with high copays to boot. The healthcare system of the US is so messed up.
Hospitals in the US are required to provide emergency treatment to any person who requires it. They legally cannot turn you away.
But they can charge you full price for everything which means that a broken leg could cost you over $20,000.
Load More Replies...A well-known hospital where I live, banned an insurance company and tried to replace it with their own insurance. Witch meant that any insurance payment went to the hospital as well as the premiums paid.
Free water at restaurants, and water just being brought to the table by default without you ordering it. I definitely prefer the American way. I literally always want water with my meal, regardless of whether I am also ordering something else to drink.
You can get water for free at any restaurant in the UK. You might just have to ask. Ditto much of the rest of Europe, I should think.
Ask for tap water though, or they'll swizz you with a bottle of perrier!
Load More Replies...It's a legal requirement for Australian restaurants to provide free tap water to customers, if asked.
Load More Replies...Water is free in NZ restaurants too, unless you specifically ask for bottled/sparkling/mineral water. Lemon, lime and cucumber are also free in water if you ask for it.
Generations of drought. Waiting for people to ask also cuts down on glasses that need to be washed, thus saving more water.
Load More Replies...In Australia they have to provide you free water if you ask, and some restaurants have started bringing it to the table when you're seated. We had a big thing a few years ago because of how hot it gets in summer.
My experience is that Americans don't often consider people outside of America. My American family are lovely people but they are insular patriots and they've never had a reason to think outside of America really. And to answer your question, most of it is monetary assumptions. They were blown away that we don't tip everyone for everything. They were also surprised they knew the exact amount they were going to pay for something before they hit the till.
I’m sorry your family are classic “Ugly Americans”, but most of us aren’t. We DO take other countries into consideration, and are good travelers—-not tourists, there’s a difference. Unfortunately, we don’t get the press that the uglies do, so people assume we’re all the same. We’re definitely not.
Honestly, as someone who lives in a tourist town in the UK atm, I can assure that people from ALL nationalities can be idiots (even fellow uk people). The amount of times people ask where Dracula's grave is is insane. (I've also been asked if I'm related to dracula since I'm half romanian. but I know that one was a joke at least lmao) There's literally a sign on the church now. But anyhow, I've met some wonderful tourists, including Americans, most of which are polite, but I think any country has it's "karens" - honestly, some of the rudest tourists I've come across have been "fellow" brits. Especially when it comes to littering. :/
Load More Replies...I must just be very fortunate, every last one of my American friends are truly kind, decent and generous people who will drop everything to help a friend in need. I’m know there are Americans who aren’t so great but I’m pretty sure every country in the world has their own variety of pickled idiot that we aren’t proud of, we need to stop painting every American as being the same, they aren’t
I feel like this is a particular group, and this does not represent the reality. Most of us know there is a different world out there.
Let's just say my family in the US are proud of being hillbillies, though they'd like it better if the got called mountain folk. They scare me. But the 'younger generation' (who probably average at least 40 years old) actively care about the rest of the world.
Load More Replies...Many of us have family outside of the U.S. So we definitely consider others. This is really just about tipping, which is obviously a terrible way to treat those who work in food service. Like me - I did - and it is awful. But dear Lord, having lived in Africa since I was 22, and spent part of uni in the UK, as someone from nowhere, we know. And with family that we know because three of my grandparents were immigrants, we know. We completely understand. Just because a few people don't doesn't mean that you can generalize to everyone.
From all of the horror stories that Bored Panda shows about Americans getting stalked/robbed/killed in foreign countries, no wonder why Americans say "Screw it I'm staying here". Plus the fact that traveling overseas is INCREDIBLY more expensive than ever.
I think it's wrong that you need to tip people because the companies don't pay enough to employees to actually get by with the pay
Load More Replies...When traveling abroad one can always hear Americans before they enter the room/restaurant. They seem to be desperate for attention just so they can show how American they are. The ones that claim to be "different" from their fellow Americans are usually the very worst to be around. Avoid Americans at all costs.
Yes, it's a problem. The U.S. is bordered by only two other countries and two big oceans...and it shows.
Drinking out of red solo cups in college. A friend of mine studied abroad in London and said her new friends asked if we actually used them or if they were “only in the movies.”
I though they were only in the movies until I saw them in a supermarket while on holiday.
I mean... they're just cups- and they're really cheap and kind of durable so they make for good disposable cups. You can also recycle them.
Load More Replies...I don't know about you, but I don't want to give out my nice glasses to a bunch of drinking college kids... or 8 years old with punch....
I only ever drill holes in the bottom, fill them with soil, and use them for germinating plants to transplant to the garden. They hold up well for multiple growing seasons, then get recycled when they break.
Those cups are used for any beverages, not exclusively alcohol. They also make several colors. I have blue, yellow, red, and clear in my pantry from various parties. I'm sure there is something comparable no matter where you are in the developed world. America can't be the only place that needs inexpensive disposable cups.
This is (from what I've been told by others outside the state) more of a Texas thing, but if someone asks how far away something is we tell them a time frame, not how many miles. This has been the standard my whole life, so hearing that other people don't do this is weird to me.
Happens in Mexico too... está como a 20 minutos de aquí (is like 20 minutes from here)
Load More Replies...I guess it's because miles don't really matter. 200 miles across Montana at 90 mph is much faster than 200 miles through New England at 45 mph.
200 miles across Montana at any speed is probably faster than 20 miles across the Los Angeles megalopolis.
Load More Replies...There is an old joke that a traveller asked some farmers near the road "how long until the next town" they said "I don't know" after the traveller walked about 100m the farmer shouted "IT SHOULD BE ABOUT 45 MINUTES". The traveller came back and asked "why didn't you tell me when I asked?" -"I had to see how fast you walked."
It used too to be how many beers before random breath testing - might still be?
Load More Replies...Canada here. If someone asked how far Montreal was from Toronto. I would say around a five-hour drive. What sort of monster calculator freak knows the mileage? If someone expected that s**t, I'd asked how come their phone doesn't have google.
The gas pump only turning on after you’ve paid. I was in the UK and filling up my rental at a somewhat rural station and was flabbergasted that I was supposed to pay after. I asked the guy if people ever leave without paying and he just shrugged and said “sometimes, but not often enough that it’s a problem”
I was so confused when I had to refuel my rental car for the very first time in the US. I thought the pump was broken, just realised after some time that I had to pay first. As it did not take my German credit card (I could not give a ZIP code) I had to walk to the rather dimly lit counter (evening) and then did not know how much I should pay up front. How am I supposed to know how much will go in?
Had the same back in august as I wanted to pay cash and not use a card. Gave the person $60 and after I filled up, went back and got my change.
Load More Replies...That doesn't make sense to me- what if you don't know how much petrol it will take to fill up and how much that might cost!?
People just guess. Most often 10 or 20 dollars, depending on gas prices.
Load More Replies...I like our South African way. We employ people to do it. They will also check your oil, water and tyre pressure, before washing your windscreen. They get a job in a country that has high unemployment and most of the time, a tip for the service.
They used to do that in the US. A little team of people would come out and service your tires, fuel, windows, oil, etc.
Load More Replies...There are still areas of the U.S. that you can pump before you pay, they are more rural areas though.
Yup, being able to pump first was the norm in most of the US just 25 or so years ago.
Load More Replies...You could pay after in the U.S. too, up until around 15 or 20 years ago. A spike in gas prices changed it. I still remember getting frustrated about it because I always paid in cash and how was I supposed to know exactly how much the tank would tank? And I didn't feel like going in twice so I could collect any change. Of course now I just use a card.
You have to put your card in before pumping, then it charges your card when you are done. Nothing wrong with that.
In Australia, that only happens at Costco, but it's heaps cheaper so that's ok. Otherwise camera surveillance is used for drive aways.
Load More Replies...It's unfortunate that the few bad uglies made pre-pay necessary in the US. 30 years ago (at least the areas I frequent), it was pump then pay. Of course attendants watched for license plates if instincts told them to.
In this area you used to be able to pump your gas then pay after, now you have to prepay or use a card. I assume because of gas thieves. But it wasn't always like that.
95% of the gas station I've been to in the US during the 15 years I've been driving have been "Insert Card or Pay Inside when Finished." You must live in NYC or something where no one can be trusted under any circumstances.
Calling the main meal an entrée.
Elsewhere (most of the world, including France from where the word comes), it’s the course preceding the main course.
Synonyms are appetiser, starter or hors d'oeuvre.
Edit: hors d’oeuvres are not the same as appetisers - I used the term as a generality to differentiate main from non-main courses.
Thanks to those who pulled me up on the specificity 😊🥂
English does have quite a few "borrowed" words. Sometimes words change meanings.
Yes, but the point is 'entree' hasn't changed meanings in most English speaking countries. In most other English speaking countries entree means the first (small) course and the three courses are entrees, mains, and desserts.
Load More Replies...Some American restaurants use the terms "starter" and "main" these days, thankfully.
If you go to places outside the US, even though you're right, they still call the main the entree. I speak French, as an American who grew up speaking both English and Quebecois - but it isn't just us.
the main course of a meal. "meat and fish entrées are served with your choice of pasta, house salad, or vegetable of the day" Similar: main course main dish main meal
The word has a different meaning in the US. We don't smoke f**s here or visit the chemist's.
It's so they don't feel bad when eating an insane amount of food. "I'm just going to have an entrée".
Credit. I mean, we can take a credit if we want to, pretty much everywhere in the world. But everyday's life in America seem to revolve around credit, from your student loan, to your health payments, to your mortgage, but also seemingly for all and everything and everyday's purchases, and all Americans I know always have half a dozen of credit cards they use to pay one another in a complex game of optimization. The very notion of credit score is also absent in most of the world outside of America. Take the example of France (where I live). Most people have a single credit or two, for their house payment and sometimes for their car. Everytime you want to subscribe to a new credit, they will look into your current credits and your taxable income to make sure you can afford it, and that's about it. No complex stuff. People have a single "credit" card but many (myself included) don't even use the credit feature, we opt for immediate debit. Much easier to track your current balance. I am a father of 3, well in my forties, with a house, a car, an e-bike, a rather "expensive" lifestyle because of the 3 kids. And I have a single (big, lol) credit for the house. Of course, some less fortunate may need to make more use of credit, but it's not in the general mindset : if you can avoid it, don't use it. People tend, as much as they can, to make provision for future purchases and then pay cash (or very short-term like 4 month).
where I live in Europe everyone just uses direct debit cards... ppl generally only start getting credit cards because they need it for a certain purchase or for a holiday in certain countries that aren't covered by the debit cards (for example... I don't own a credit card because my debit card has a world-coverage)... also in my country you don't build credit with your credit card... has nothing to do with it... it's just a different means of payment... you don't need a credit card to get a mortgage, or a car, or a house... just enough money on your bank account (both debit & credit cards are attached to the same bank account)...
Yup. I got my very first credit card for when I visited the States in 2014, because they won't let you rent a car with a debit card. I got rid of it as soon as I got back. I was 37.
Load More Replies...Credit cards offer extra saving via "cash back" or "points". The cost of those things are baked into the cost of what you are buying, so if you don't use credit, you're subsidizing the savings for those who do. Just be sure to pay it off every month !
I pay the balance evey month and utilize my points. It is "free money".😊
Load More Replies...We use a credit card for everything possible to get the free flying miles. Always pay it off every month and haven’t paid for a plane flight for years!
I'm not sure that's the entire explanation, but in most cases, you have to have decent credit to get a nice credit card. I have one, and I cannot get another, or anything else at all, because of my student loans.
Aaaand we're on to the next thing that just the US has: student loan / college debt
Load More Replies...I know we personally are in the tiny majority with zero debts; but most people in our income/age bracket will have mortgage, at least one car loan, at least one credit card, not to mention car insurance/health insurance/house insurance - everything to be paid on a monthly schedule, while getting paid weekly or fortnightly. Nightmare financial juggling right there, even when they're well-enough-off on paper.
Look at what our currencies are based on these days! No faith/credit = very low growth! There are at least two different Amazon cards that offer 5% cashback/discounts on every purchase! Add on the cards with big groceries or gasoline discounts, not to mention everyday purchases! Not to mention all the other added benefits of credit vs debit (security, price reimbursement, warranties, insurance, etc)! Dunno why it's so hard to check/pay a credit card bill (it's one click!), but some even fairly wealthy people prefer being naked with only debit!
Firstly in Europe any type of card both debit and credit can get bonus effects like extended warranties or cashback. On the other hand most of our credit cards do not have any shop specific discount benefits, they are not much more than the obvious - you have instant access to theoretical loan of money you do not really own at the moment. There is usually no benefit for using credit over debit, it is just fast loan that is always at your fingertips. Some banks only offer added warranties or insurance for stolen purse and documents from it for credit card but that is not very common yet. I had though seen recently that they offer blanket discount % for shops participating in the program but it is like -5-10% depending on the shop and only if you ask the shop staff so most ppl do not care as regular discounts are better and you cannot stack discounts.
Load More Replies...Debt is not taxable. Rich people use even use credit when they don't have to for that reason
Credit cards are terrible. Basically a culture of using money you do not have. Where I live we have a pay it later system with no interest. It allows you to put a payment off for 30 days (with a credit check as in past history of payments if it's a big purchase, not really a credit score) and you pay a nominal fee if you need to extend it another month. I never want a credit card if I can help it. Loans are stressful enough.
Credit Score was originally intended to be a very specific industry focused tool. This business has this credit score for this purpose. It was never intended for personalized use, let alone as a blanket 'credit for all purposes' thing. I look forward to the day the whole scam is declared illegal.
When I came to US from Canada to see a friend, after dinner when we were splitting the bill they asked if I could just venmo it over. And then I told them we don’t have venmo. And then I saw the shocked pikachu meme face around me.
So I’m gonna say venmo.
We don't have venmo because we can transfer money between bank accounts for free.
It is a phone app to transfer money from one person to another, no matter which bank you use
Load More Replies...I just use my bank app for transfers. No need for venmo or cashapp or whatever else is out there.
It does come in handy at times. My son attends college out of state and required immediate vehicle repairs. As a mother, I was delighted to use Venmo.😊
Load More Replies...Again, in NZ, we just do online bank transfers for free. We can even pay just using our cell phones, no cards or cash needed.
In Australia you can attach your phone number to your bank account so people can use your phone number instead of account details to send you money.
Up till last year we just payed in cash or via bank transfer. Now it's mostly via Paypal.
Even people who live here, don’t automatically have Venmo. I certainly do not.
Move around only in cars
Well, when everything is a hundred miles away with no public transit whatsoever, what ya gonna do?
Yep. Where I live, there’s virtually no public transport. There’s only really mediocre buses and they only cover a small portion of the area. Pretty much everyone HAS to drive :(
Load More Replies...I live in a rural area, and there's no public transport. I don't have a choice.
Same in where I live (Northern Finland) but we bike or alk and sometimes cross-country ski when it's winter
Load More Replies...Southern California suburbs. I defy you to walk to the market and back in August.
Same here XD I had a brief period where I couldn’t drive due to vision issues, so I had to ride my bike. (This was before the rise of delivery services.) Grocery shopping was a nightmare. And if I had to take my cat to the vet? I’m calling in a favor from a friend XD And yeah, going ANYWHERE by foot or by bike in the months from June to September is a nightmare.
Load More Replies...You mean New York CITY, what about the rest of New York STATE? You need a car.
Load More Replies...The auto industry and taxi cab unions have done everything they can to kill as much public transportation as possible in the USA while also stigmatizing it as much as possible. We only have it in a few cities like Chicago, Boston and NYC. Los Angeles has it, but to quote a native "it runs from where nobody lives to where nobody works".
Also if there is public transportation in most places it isn’t very reliable or comes frequently enough. I’m a med student in Seattle and it doesn’t make sense to take the bus. It can take 1.5 hrs to get to a hospital 10 miles away. The 10 miles is too far and not safe enough to bike and spending 3 hrs on a bus every day is wasteful when time is so valuable. Trust me….most Americans wish public transportation was more available and accessible!
Not true. Chicago has great public buses and trains and lots of people use them. It's very common for people who move to Chicago to sell their car within the first two years. If you don't need to go to the suburbs, it's often more of a hassle and expense to pay for parking and dig your car out all winter..
Load More Replies...again, a person who knows nothing about the US but what they have heard from other Europeans, in urban areas people get around plenty on public transportation, also people fly, the city I live in has 7 airports that are either in it or in the surrounding suburbs. The US is so large that there is rarely a homogeneous way of doing anything, this is something that Europeans don't understand about the US, our states are bigger than countries in Europe, Each region does things differently, yet Europeans learn about how they do things in one region and wrongly apply that to the entire country, sadly a lot of young Americans believe these misconceptions Europeans are putting out onto the internet
I'm American and do not own a car. I also live in Montana, a state that does not have a robust public transportation system. It's not common, but it can be done.
If you have enough people in your life that you can rely on to constantly be doing you favours, sure.
Load More Replies...At will employment.
For anyone who isn't sure. Definition from Indeed "At-will employment describes a working environment in which employers are free to terminate employees at any time, without cause, explanation or prior warning, provided it does not violate state and federal anti-discrimination laws. Similarly, employees can quit a job at any time without reason or notice."
At first I thought that the "You're fired!" thing in movies and tv shows was pure fiction. When I learned that no, sometimes you can actually be fired for no reason, no warning and no severance time, I just put it in the top of "Why I woudn't ever move there" pile.
I can't imagine how that would work in the UK. The whole country would be permanently on strike. The minimum notice period should be the salary interval - that gives you time to find another job, rather than relying immediately on the benefit system.
It took me about 3 tries to get tap water in Germany.
"Wasser bitte." "Mineralwasser? (sparkling mineral water)". "Nein, wasser ohne mineral." "Quellwasser? (spring water)" "Nein, wasser von den kitchen sink." "Leitungswasser? (tap water)". "Ja, danke."
That glass of water cost me more than a beer of equivalent volume.
In the UK, if you are licensed to sell alcohol then you must give a customer tap water if they request it.
" nein, wasser von den kitchen sink " lol, now granted that my German is extremelly limited, but i don't think thats how its Said lol.
That would be more of the used water, which goes down the kitchen sink. "Ein stilles Wasser, bitte" - as we don't really ask for tapwater (=Leitungswasser).
Load More Replies...It's the law in Germany that the cheapest drink must be without alcohol (so that you do not get drunk when you are just thirsty), often it's mineral water, but apart from that you need to make friends with the waiting staff first in order to actually get some free (tap) water.
Yeah, the service (waiter, cleaning the glass/table, and so on) still needs to be paid so there is like no free water in germany - except you go to the public water dispensers in big cities.
Load More Replies...First time i went to Greece it took me ages to get water. Having been told throughout school that the hydra is Greek for water that's what I asked for. As it's a more of a mispronunciation of the ancient Greek, no one had a clue what I wanted.
Have grape flavoured foods. I'm sure it exists elsewhere, but I've never seen it here in the UK. We have blackcurrant flavour instead, which is the 'purple' version in sweets and drinks.
grape is also very common in japan, but usually the flavour is white grape. specifically, shine muscat grapes.
Yes I had some white grape gummies in a bokksu and they were quite good
Load More Replies...I hate that fake grape flavouring, it’s gross (actual grape is fine!).
We had red current bushes when I was growing up in Ohio. Dad told me they grew in Europe and at that time you could no longer import them due to some disease they carried. Not sure if that's still the case. Now I live in Europe & black currents are everywhere... Currents have lots of seeds & they taste like you're eating grit imo. (Although I have one red current and one black current bush growing in pots, I'm not sure what to do with them!).
Free refills on sodas
I'd be happy to accept that system in my country, except that instead of soda I need espresso. Which is pretty much how a coffee machine works. I'll see myself out.
WHAT??? The bloody liberty! How dare those Americans give us free drinks after paying for the first! Fumin! 😉
Where are these free refills you people claim? I've never experienced them.
I thought PBJ sandwiches was a worldwide phenomenon as a kid!
maybe not a "phenomenon" but they are eaten elsewhere. I just tried it one day and decided "this is good"
PJB is soooo wierd. Jam on toast? Super good. Peanut butter on a slice of bread? Sure, can be nice from time to time. Combining the two? The flavours are just wasting a war of desolation in your mouth.
Idk why you're getting downvoted for having a relatively tame opinion. We also eat PB and honey or PB and bananas if you want to try other flavors of desolation war lol.
Load More Replies...I am a Kiwi, and I thought I invented them, until I started school, and found lots of kids brought them to school. They're possibly common to many countries.
I first tried it in my early 20's after chatting with an American internet friend- I actually quite like it!- once I realised the "jelly" pet didn't actually MEAN Jelly- it meant more like "Jam"
I am from Slovakia and I ate lot of them while I was pregnant... almost every day...
Drinking Root beer. My Brazilian friend told me they do not drink that, as it is the flavor of their toothpaste!
I love root beer. If it ends up on Dutch soil, and a store near by me. I buy it all. Every week 2 untill it is gone. No one else buys it.
Same here in Scotland. I got a taste whilst working in upstate NY and love it.
Load More Replies...If Colgate produced Root Beer flavored toothpaste (they did produce Vanilla flavored toothpaste in the 00's), they'd have a gold mine!
I love root beer, my late wife who was Scottish hated it, said it tasted like medicine
I suppose root beer could fall under the same category as salted licorice. You either like it or you don't.
This is extremely close, well done! Modern root beer is made from wintergreen and black licorice. It used to be made with Sassafras root until it was found to be carcinogenic.
Load More Replies...It's not my favorite soda(also I'm allergic to most sodas so I don't drink it often) but it's pretty good l. But a toothpaste flavor?? Ew!
American root beer tastes like our local cough medicine, the bad kind!
Seems to depend on the brand. A&W. Tastes vastly different than Pop's or 1919 brand.
Not commonly having a passport
I think this is a wee bit unfair. I have visited about half the countries in Europe, still loads more I want to see. I find it hard to imagine spending so long traveling to the other side of the world when so much is close by. So I think if i was American I might not leave America when there is so much variety. Who gets a passport unless they are actually planning to go abroad.?
Thing is, you might go 500 miles im every direction and still be in yout country. I go 500 miles east or west and i can be in 3 different countries. Where I live is kind of generalised to have your passport when reaching 18th (or legal age for being an independant human being),
Load More Replies...Right? My 71-year-old dad just got his first ever passport a few months ago -- he took mom on a cruise to Panama for their anniversary. They had barely been back for a week before he booked another this spring in the Med. We've created a monster, but a good one, I think -- the only group of people he hates are Astros fans! XD
Besides the size of the US a good portion of us do not have vacation days. Even good well paying jobs might be two weeks per year and that can get partially used up being sick, or having to take off work to take care of family. My point being passports are expensive and pointless for many in a country with awful leave policies.
A US passport (for a minor) costs $150. That's prohibitively expensive for a lot of Americans.
Why is that so surprising? European landmass has 40+ countries compared to a slightly smaller USA landmass with only one county. If you drove 3000 miles across the US, you'd still be in the same country. How many countries would you cross in Europe if you did that?
Pfft. Australia is very nearly as large (geographically) as the "lower 48'. We travel overseas A LOT. Living in a big country isn't really a reason. There are plenty of good reasons, but living in a big country isn't one.
Load More Replies...actually depends on the country you live... the Dutch also have Identity Cards that allow us to travel to all of Europe (except Belarus, Russia, UK & Ukraine)... most ppl I know that don't travel outside of Europe don't even own passports... (also ID cards are cheaper to get than passports...)
If you cannot afford to travel, spending money on a passport (also kind of expensive), doesn't make much sense. I would love a passport. But I have other priorities right now.
Shoes in the house
I am an American and never wear shoes in the house- my husband and I even take our slippers when we visit people because we can't stand wearing shoes in the house
This is another trend that is changing; in the last ~10 years, many people have adopted no-shoes-inside policy.
I'm Australian and myself and everyone I know grew up wearing shoes inside- it wasn't until I went to uni and met my Asian friends, that I learned about taking off shoes inside the house!
Growing up I thought baseball was as widely played as football (soccer) worldwide
honestly outside of the US the only other country I think it's as popular in is Japan tbh. Here in the UK there's Cricket and Rounders, but they're not super popular.
Hence everyone else's irritation at the use of the term "World" Series.
Ok, this is my very unpopular opinion, but football (soccer) is a lot older, more tactical and enjoyable than American football or AFL. But America and Australia took the name of the original game, had the audacity to then change it, proclaim that their (very distasteful) version was better, and then rename the original football to act like that their football is superior. It is honestly just pathetic.
The term soccer is from the uk. They used it to let people know if it was soccer football or rugby football.
Load More Replies...Smiling for a picture being taken of you, especially official pictures like ID photos.
I tried to smile for my passport picture. Big mistake. The Swedish police woman said that I should have a more neutral face. I answered, neutral like we did in the ww2 ? It was a very uncomfortable silence, but I have a small smile on my passport picture.
I've heard that the reason why you need to keep neutral face is if you need to identify when you're dead :/
Load More Replies...A friend of mine was a stoner as a young guy. He got stoned before taking his driving licence picture ''so cops will think that I have natural red eyes and a stoned face''
Funny though. It was my impression that this started with the US demanding biometric photos in passports if you want to visit and in those you are not allowed to smile. But I might be wrong there and probably it was not only the US but after 9/11 they stuck out as the country with the most obvious reason.
Pictures for Id card (and later on driver's licence) in Belgium have to be neutral for years. Which makes sense.
I mean you don't have to smile but you're allowed to. I don't usually smile in pictures anyway though
They don't have any, lol. We're so terrible that they can't find anything new to gripe on us and feel superior about, so they just recycle it in different ways.
Load More Replies...The highschools in the US always confused me as a kid. In my country we just study in the same classroom for every subject (except sports and computer) so I never really got the point of going around the whole school in order to attend your classes edit: i don’t understand in what way my comment was wrong as i have a few downvotes. I’ll only be able to rectify myself if someone tells me what I did wrong
You have not done anything wrong, you legitimately said something you find strange that people do in the US but not in other countries. Unfortunately there are some people on here who will vote down anything questioning how Americans do things
Load More Replies...Ah boy, BoredPanda can’t even go a week without bashing the US. Enough with these lists— they are plain lazy. You have freaking writers on your staff— use them!!
People keep thinking of the USA as a single, actually unified country that is the same wherever you go within it. Totally wrong. Our individual states have their own state governments and only loosely submit to the federal government in Washington DC. We are much more like 40-50 small countries with open borders and trade agreements. Geographically, the west, east, north, and south of the USA are ALL very very different places and the people that live in those places are not like people from any different area within the US. We are unified pretty much only when someone attacks us. Thats about it.
It'd be interesting then, to see the same kind of post/article but comparing states :-)
Load More Replies...They don't have any, lol. We're so terrible that they can't find anything new to gripe on us and feel superior about, so they just recycle it in different ways.
Load More Replies...The highschools in the US always confused me as a kid. In my country we just study in the same classroom for every subject (except sports and computer) so I never really got the point of going around the whole school in order to attend your classes edit: i don’t understand in what way my comment was wrong as i have a few downvotes. I’ll only be able to rectify myself if someone tells me what I did wrong
You have not done anything wrong, you legitimately said something you find strange that people do in the US but not in other countries. Unfortunately there are some people on here who will vote down anything questioning how Americans do things
Load More Replies...Ah boy, BoredPanda can’t even go a week without bashing the US. Enough with these lists— they are plain lazy. You have freaking writers on your staff— use them!!
People keep thinking of the USA as a single, actually unified country that is the same wherever you go within it. Totally wrong. Our individual states have their own state governments and only loosely submit to the federal government in Washington DC. We are much more like 40-50 small countries with open borders and trade agreements. Geographically, the west, east, north, and south of the USA are ALL very very different places and the people that live in those places are not like people from any different area within the US. We are unified pretty much only when someone attacks us. Thats about it.
It'd be interesting then, to see the same kind of post/article but comparing states :-)
Load More Replies...
