“Stir Drinks With Butter Knives”: 30 Life Hacks That Made A Difference In These Women’s Lives
Interview With ExpertWe all want to live better, more efficient lives and fulfill our potential. We all want to be happy and healthy, as well as have meaningful relationships and purposeful, rewarding careers. While luck is an undeniable factor in this, the rest depends entirely on us and the choices we make every single day.
In a series of insightful online threads, the members of the r/AskWomen community shared some of their favorite life hacks that apply to almost everyone. Most of these pieces of advice might sound small and simple, but you shouldn’t underestimate the gravity of their impact. Grab your notebooks and scroll down to see what they shared.
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Do small things with your non-dominant hand to become even slightly ambidextrous. Brush your teeth, pour a drink, use utensils, use your computer mouse, brush your hair, ect. I did this for a while and worked up to being able to write legibly with my left hand! Now I use both hands equally and it's kind of cool.
I've been doing this for years!! Now my left hand doesn't feel like a useless limb! 😎 Also try to clap with your non dominant hand on top, it feels really weird at first!
I'm left handed but can't use a mouse with my left hand lol
Load More Replies...I’m left handed living in a right hand world so I’ve had to learn to be ambidextrous.
Was about to post the same! Right handed people would be surprised to find how many things are right handed: rulers, scissors, door handles, most tools and so on…
Load More Replies...You learn this quickly if you injure your dominant hand/arm...I can even apply makeup with my left or right hand :)
I broke my right ankle and foot badly a number of years ago. I'm single. Lived in a city that had no public transportation and Uber wasn't a thing. I learned to drive very well with my left foot!
It's been decades and I never looked it up, but now I have! It's not illegal in the US to drive with your left foot. I couldn't imagine that it was, but... the US is a strange, strange place, so...
Load More Replies...I play all one handed or dominant handed sports with my left hand, I've always been able to write with it but was forced to focus on my right handwriting so while it's legible with my left it isn't as developed as my right. But thankfully I'm able to use both hands for any task
Years ago I did a lot of numeric data entry. I switched my mouse to my left hand to navigate more quickly and nearly doubled my entry speed. As a bonus, everyone hated it so no one touched my pc when I wasn't using it. I became used to thinking in terms of index finger or middle finger, instead of left click, right click. Ever since I was little, I always used my left hand to cut food. It seemed like a waste of time to switch between fork and knife while eating. It's funny that when I'm preparing food I cut with my right hand. When I was in school, I was so bored that I taught myself to write with my left hand and with my right dominant hand I learned to write backwards and upside down.
Hey backwards and upsidedown! Amusingly, I can write more legibly with my left hand if I write backwards and upsidedown. S's are a little weird, but I think that's to be expected since I don't do it often anymore lol.
Load More Replies...I've tried doing this, and it throws off my entire body! I get physically ill. I'm so weird.
I do gymnastics and I injured my right leg, and the training I had previously put in to do things with my bad leg came in handy
My savings accounts at my various banks are usually just filled with dust. I've never had any money to save. Recently, I've been trying to quit buying fast food and other quick meals because of how expensive it can get. When I feel the urge to buy a McDouble or something and when I successfully resist that urge, I put the general amount I probably would have spent into my savings. Makes me feel good so see that number climb. Also, I've started an automatic transfer of $5 two times a month from my checking into savings, because in my head losing 5 bucks isn't enough to make me nervous but it will add up quickly.
and disregard the nit-pickers. Any money saved is an asset.
Load More Replies...Every time I make a purchase with my check card, my bank moves a dollar from checking to savings. It adds up pretty quickly and relatively painlessly!
I wish my bank did this! I have to do manually myself, but I still do it!
Load More Replies...This - and the general idea of save what you can. I started investing kind of late in life. A 401K at an employer. They had a partial match so it helped to get me going. I put in a lot more than 5 bucks a month but even so - it felt like a drop in the ocean and not going anywhere. But then over time I realized it had built up to a significant amount. Which in turn motivated me to try harder to save.
Good job! Restaurants in general are rip-offs, fast food restaurants generally not very healthy
When you can’t squeeze any more product out of a tube container (hand cream, moisturiser, body lotion, etc.), cut it in half using scissors. You’d be surprised how much product can be still in there - sometimes a few days’ or even a week’s worth.
It's almost as if they're designed so you can't squeeze everything out 🤔
Load More Replies...They taught us this in esthiology school. Just be sure you cut the tube down far enough to get your fingers in there, then recap it with the rest of the cut bottle. I have got at least a few more uses out of hidden product. It is a game changer.
If the contents of the tube aren't super think you can hold it by the seam end and shake it like a packet of sugar a few times. It forces the contents to the dispensing end.
Especially the very expensive eye cream, I scoop it out with a Q-tip
I do this with my foundation. Always three or four more days left in the tube.
There are little tube squeezey things that are also great, especially if the idea of cutting open your products is daunting 😊
There isn’t one single ‘magic’ number for how many days it takes to build a habit. It depends on a lot of factors, including your genetics, your environment, how intensely you pursue things, and the difficulty of the habit itself.
Current research from Caltech shows that it takes roughly 6 months to establish a new exercise routine. Meanwhile, something like getting into the habit of washing your hands if you’re a healthcare worker, is easier. It takes weeks, rather than months, for the behavior to become automatic.
Bored Panda wanted to learn more about habits, so we reached out to Alan Castel, Ph.D., a UCLA psychology professor and the author of 'Better with Age: The Psychology of Successful Aging.'
Dr. Castel, walked us through why some people might resist making everyday changes, even if they're small and seem to require little to no effort.
"We often get stuck in a routine, often without thinking about why we have this particular routine," he explained to Bored Panda via email.
Always pee after sex.
Only after sex? If so, I am going to be holding this in for a long time.
I hate dry spells anyway, but with this rule I'm REALLY gonna hate them.
Load More Replies...I can't believe this is something that isn't taught in sex ed (granted I recognize that one is lucky to have sex ed these days, at least in the US). I had NO idea for the longest time.
Sex with a fuller bladder does intensify things...tried and true. Then, it'll be easy to go after, which is very important!
My first stab at solving any problem related to my body or mood is water. Hungry? Drink some water then see if I'm still hungry. Craving sweets? Drink some water first. Headache? Drink some water. S****y mood? Drink some water. Turns out half the time I think I'm hungry, I'm just thirsty. Turns out that filling up a bit on water makes me less hungry. Also turns out quite often when I'm pissy I'm just thirsty or mildly dehydrated. No, of course it doesn't solve every problem, but it costs me nothing to do it and it's just a good habit anyway. Also i try to never ever go to the grocery store hungry.
Never shopping hungry is a good tip. A good tip to save money is to do curbside pickup. It's much harder to spend money on spluge buys if you're not in the store.
And don’t go grocery shopping if you just smoked a joint!
Load More Replies...Be careful with this one. I did this religiously one summer and ended up in the hospital with a severe salt deficiency. It's about as fun as it sounds.
Yes, dehydration does weird things to us & can make you feel upset, angry or hungry, BUT! PLEASE DON'T IGNORE HUNGER and try to fix it with water! If you still feel hungry after a glass of water EAT. I'm talking especially to you - people trying to loose weight. Water brings basically zero nutrients & can't replace food - you'll end up ill because of various deficiencies.
No, when you think you're hungry you are hungry, you're just filling the space with water instead of food.
Not necessarily, the body can confuse mild dehydration as hunger. Also by the time you feel thirsty you are already dehydrated.
Load More Replies...Don't walk down the snack aisles in the store. Walk around the edges of the store - veggies, dairy, eggs, chicken, fish, etc.
Best one I've heard for saving money (when wanting to buy luxury things) ... Ask yourself if someone approached you with the item you want and the cash to buy the item. Would you take the cash or the item? If you'd take the cash, you probably shouldn't buy the item. Turns out I'd rather have a t shirt with Homer falling on a rubbish bin on the pocket than forty dollars. I regret nothing.
I usually compare the value of things to stuff I already own to estimate if they are worth it or not. For example, a shirt has the value of 4 sushi packs, a makeup kit has the value of an anime figurine, a laptop has the value of 5 Nintendo Switch consoles ... However, the result of this was that I absolutely never buy makeup. It doesn't bring me joy anyway, and for the 70 buck value that stuff has, I could buy a nice new videogame that doesn't vanish after 4 months because I rubbed it in my face.
I hear you on this. You're supposed to replace some makeup every 6 months? F that. I could buy so many switch games with that.
Load More Replies...If I see something online from a company I'm familiar with, I'll leave it up on my computer for a few days to see if I still want it a week later. It took me two weeks to decide to buy a new bathrobe, even though it was a bit overpriced. I have a vision disability, and it's difficult for me to shop in a department store.
I rarely want "luxury" items. I do like quality items for some things. Sheets for example. Not super high priced over hyped ones - just good quality. Also bonus when you can get quality at a bargain / used. I have a pretty powerful Denon amp, awesome Cerwin Vega speakers and a pretty good sub woofer and rear speakers - sounds amazing and can shake the walls - all from garage sales for pennies on the dollar.
If you want a large cost item, just make payments to yourself to cover it. It teaches planning and you still get what you wanted. Or once you get it saved, you may decide you want something different and save some of that dough you stashed.
And while you're saving up that money it's making interest instead of you paying interest on the loan.
Load More Replies...If you use an all-cash budget (after bills are paid) you will definitely wind up not spending nearly as much as you would if you used a card. It works.
"However, with small changes to these routines, we can begin better habit formation," the author of 'Better with Age: The Psychology of Successful Aging' said that even small changes can have lasting effects.
"This can be as simple as taking the stairs or walking more whenever possible, or limiting how much time we are on our phone/screen, or sitting at a desk, or the food that we eat," Dr. Castel shared what some of these small routine adjustments might look like. Of course, what someone prioritizes will depend on their current habits and goals.
For those who use shaving gel that come in aluminum cans: before you put it in the shower stall, use clear nail polish to make a thin coat all along the bottom rim of the can. Let it dry for a few minutes then put it in the shower stall. This will prevent the can from rusting at the bottom/leaving those rust colored rings.
It's not so good at de-clogging the blades, the 'soap' part of shaving gel washes out much more easily.
Load More Replies...Quite right, and this is how we know that aerosol cans are not usually made entirely of aluminium.
Load More Replies...OMG. Man here, I wish I'd known that when I was using shaving cream in steel aerosol cans. Those always rusted out at the bottom before the can was finished, not even in the shower, just on the handbasin and in the medicine cabinet.
Buy men's razors. They're more cost effective and they work better.
They do not work better. Usually they're exactly the same, just a different colour. Sometimes the women's versions may be on offer in multipacks and end up cheaper, so I always compare the prices of the same brand in both pink and black to see which is cheaper.
I think this varies depending on the product and country. I was using the men's razor and there is a real difference in price and performance. Still laser hair removal is the best
Load More Replies...I use a safety razor like this one. The razor itself wasn't that expensive and then all I have to buy are the blades. I also cut myself way less with this one. razor-657a...4-jpeg.jpg
That's my primary but I'll often run a regular just to make sure no rando hairs I can't see don't remain. Only takes a quick pass so those blades last forever. Takes a little experimentation to find the specific blade you like but once you do, they're like 5 cents each so who cares if you replace it every time or every fifth time or whatever.
Load More Replies...I have an old Mach 3 I use for "edging" but mainly use my wife's three blade Venus for face and manscaping. I also have a Backblade for the back overgrowth. A micro shaver for ear hair once a week. Becoming a middle aged man definitely requires more upkeep 🙄🤨
I disagree, women's razors are just as good and generally softer on the skin or easier to use without nicking yourself.
Or just say screw society's messed up beauty standards and save some coin while you're at it. Nuts to shaving.
I do as much as I can at night so that my mornings go smoother and I don't have to worry about rushing. Shower, set out clothes, get bag and purse together, make my breakfast shake, make my lunch, etc. It saves time and stress.
When I do this I say that Nighttime Cort is doing Morning Cort a favor. "Thank you, Nighttime Cort!"
Me too. It really does help me do things that future me will appreciate.
Load More Replies...Everything. I even choose which earrings I'm going to wear. Because I'm really not very good at mornings
Coordinating the jewellery with the outfit beforehand is so fun! My fave
Load More Replies...Trying to do stuff at night stresses me out more. Probably because nighttime is when I smoke weed, but trying to set myself up for the morning is a great way to end up taking ages to do simple tasks and getting no sleep. The same tasks will take mere moments in the morning, and doing them helps me wake up and remember how to be a functioning human being. Brains are weird, man.
Oh absolutely! I'm terrible at doing that on a daily basis cause I get pretty physically and mentally tired at the end of the day BUT any trip or big day, I will sort everything the day/night before. Then even if you don't sleep as long, you'll go to sleep quick and have a more restful sleep
Not so good when you have hot flashes during the night. I still lay out clothes, but a morning shower is a must. It also helps to wake up my brain.
"Changes in habits can lead to long-term benefits as often habits can remain with us well into older age," the expert told Bored Panda.
According to the psychology professor, we should all prioritize those habits that can improve our happiness and well-being.
"This can have big benefits," Dr. Castel said, adding that these habits can range "from being better connected with friends and family and engaging in exercise or other stimulating activities."
I do 10 of some sort of exercise every time I stand up at home. Usually squats or burpees, without really even trying I can do a few hundred a day and I've definitely noticed a difference in my body.
I need to do this... However, I also need to find that burning motivation. How on earth does one get that?
You don't need "burning motivation" you just need to develop the habit, and it really doesn't take that long. The best motivator i've found, tell someone your intention to keep yourself accountable for when you can't find that motivation, and keep an exercise journal, which serves two functions. 1) It offers "proof" of effort to that person you've tasked with keeping you accountable to your intention...but in short order it will become your motivator, because you'll see how you've progressed and that will keep you motivated to continue. The hardest part about getting into the habit of exercise, is that it takes MONTHS to have any substantial visual indicator that notes your improvement, especially since you look at yourself 100 times a day, you're less likely to track marginal improvements. But data...does not lie.
Load More Replies...Exactly what I was thinking! Another tip to add to my endless pile of tips that I will most likely never use, but thanks anyway haha
Load More Replies...I have limited mobility due to physical disability and am not able to be very active but I have a sunken lunge room and every day I do step ups. I started only being able to do ten with each leg leading. Now I can do 60 with each and occasionally can do tiny baby sized box jumps. I started with three and can now do forty. It’s the tiny things pulled together that help.
You inspire me... I wish you the best of health and thank you whole-heartedly for making me see that "the tiny things pulled together" really help. Thank you!
Load More Replies...Read all the comments now, and am so grateful for all the advice! Between losing my father, age catching up (mine), and looking after mom, things seem to be getting on top of me... However, if all of you can do it, then perhaps so can I? Maybe I can be fit again?
I heard of a similar method for working exercise into your life (works best for women): every time you get up from the toilet, do some squats (3/5/10, whatever).
@Abha Sarivastava, the burning motivation is when you really really really want to reach a certain goal. Something that's important to you. Think about your goal every time you need to do the necessary things to accomplish it. That's the drive that will make you reach your goal.
Learn the power of saying the word “no”. Set those boundaries for yourself. Life-changing.
Also, using vinegar and baking soda to keep drains clean
Yeah, this. Vinegar and baking soda neutralize each other and you end up with salty carbonated water.
Load More Replies...because vinegar and baking soda "fizzes" it has the psychological effect of a person thinking it's working/doing it's thing,more a placebo effect,use one or the other but not together (also lemon juice, even the cheap bottled stuff,works wonders for household cleaning especially limescale and smells better than vinegar)
Re: the drains - two plumbers have recommended to me that once a month I pour boiling water down each of the drains in my place, and follow that with cold water. It's incredibly effective at keeping said drains running clear.
It's also a very good way to crack pipes and ruin gaskets on the long run due to thermal shocks.
Load More Replies...Caveat: if your pipes have poor seals, baking soda plus vinegar will make a leak.
Vinegar and baking soda together don't do s*** for cleaning up anything. They neutralize each other, meaning you won't have an acidic or a basic substance anymore. It looks like they do something because when they are mixed together they fizz and they produce some kind of foam, but it's just plain water and CO2. The other product of the reaction is sodium acetate, which is a salt with no cleansing properties. So, if you mix the two substances, they won't do anything for your drains except for some placebo-inducing fizzy white-ish foam. However, you can indeed harm any rubber gasket if you use too much vinegar and you can irritate your skin if you use too much baking soda (the two substances must be combined in precise quantity to fully combine each other, it's called balancing the reaction).
sleeping with no underwear on. life changing!
deleting social media. if you like social media, use it once a week. i’ve been social media free for 6 months and it’s been wonderful.
tea. any tea. if anything, all the tea. tea, tea, tea. morning, afternoon, night. any tea you like. tea.
budget for pedicures, massages, hair cuts, waxing. if it’s self care, budget for it. taking care of yourself goes so far.
for my oily-haired besties, condition before you shampoo. yes, im crazy, and yes, it works. so soft.
walk everywhere. park a lil further, take the stairs, go the scenic route. helped increase my average daily steps SO much.
so many tips. being a woman is hard sometimes.
If she's gotten off social media, how did she post this?
This isn’t really social media, it’s more of an article site with a comment option
Load More Replies...I tried the sleeping naked thing and hated it. I turn into a furnace at night and skin tends to stick to skin. I'd wake up a gross sweaty mess, thighs stuck together and arms stuck to wherever they happened to rest on my body during the night. Wear cute PJ's and I wake up refreshed and hot but not sweaty.
Sleeping in jammies or part underwear is an absolute. Fluids at all times need to be changed, but I can get 4 days out of sheets in the UK if I sleep with nightware on
Why would you sleep with underwear? The body needs to breathe. Why sleep with anything? You've got blankets for warmth.
I just like that extra little layer of protection for my bits.
Load More Replies...Hell yes to the tea! I love tea, specially light and/or fruity ones. As someone with natural curly hair I definitely need a budget for it, it can get quite expensive. The condition before shampooing thing is called a prepoo. Us natural curlies (not everyone obviously) do this usually with oil the night before wash day to avoid/reduce breakage during the in shower detangling process, and also to make the shampooing easier.
first of all, upvote for tea. I'm off to get my fourth cup and it's only 11am. Secondly, thanks for the curly hair comment - I have straight hair, but my son's is super curly. I have wash process nailed, but not tried oiling prior to wash.
Load More Replies...I have slept "natural" for decades. It's actually sort of a pain when I'm in a situation where I'm sleeping at someone else's house (living room, wherever) and feel the need to wear something in case they walk in and I'm uncovered. I realize that's a first world problem kind of thing - I just mean it feels weird compared to what I am used to.
I think people sleep in underwear because they're copying ads or films. In real life, I don't know anyone who does that. So uncomfortable and unhygienic!
How is sleeping with no undies life changing? Less time to get in the shower in the morning?
Sleeping with underwear on can give women yeast infections.
Load More Replies...Some of us don’t have the patience to commit to cultivating healthy habits. We want the positive effects right now! And we’d prefer it if we could achieve them through a burst of effort rather than doing it slowly, over a very long period of time. However, that’s not how life works.
If you want to be healthy, you have to commit to a healthy lifestyle. That means changing your eating habits, getting plenty of movement, and ensuring that you get enough sleep. Exercising super hard at the gym one time or avoiding fast food for a week, while a good start, won’t be enough to make long-lasting positive changes.
When it comes to building habits, less is more. Many of us have so many things going on in our lives: work, studies, meeting up with awesome people, parenting, passion projects, etc. So it can be exhausting to think that we now need to free up however many hours of our time to work on our health, wealth, or new skills.
If you're unemployed/ working at home/ studying - get dressed and showered! It helps with your mindset and productivity a lot, IME. Also, drink plenty of water
I've worked from home for years, pre pandemic. I have the same routine I would if I had to go into an office. Get up at 5:30, have coffee catch up on news. Get in the shower by 7 and at my desk between 7:30-8. I don't wear work attire, it's yoga pants and t shirt but I'm always ready for an impromptu video call
Routines do wonders for mental health. So long as you're still flexible enough that involuntary changes don't wreck you.
Load More Replies...I always find that when I work from home I don't drink nearly as much water as when I am in the office, and I don't know why?!
I am the opposite. I have a 1 litre glass flask on my work desk (to refill halfway through the day). Unfortunately, as I am called from place to place in the day, I am not able to drink as much as I do at my comfy and peaceful desk at home, where my 1 litre bottle is replenished before lunch time (which is a much healthier and pleasurable meal than at the office).
Load More Replies...Sitting at my desk at home fully clothed and showered - and I'm unproductive AF
Load More Replies...This also helps if you are at home depressed a lot. First bit of advice my old psych gave. Makes you feel more 'normal' and actually does work. Exception is if you have always spent your time at home in pjs or sweats.
Yeah, I started using my music production room as home office. So... you never get home, in a way. Really stressed me. I now use 2 monitors, a slightly different setup for working. And I dress for work or at least have slight change of clothes when I stop working. Then I go chat with my wife. And when I get back in the room for my free time, it feels right.
I worked from home for 14 months during covid. I have a 45 minute commute, so while working from home I'd get up at the same time I did before, and started work at the same time I'd otherwise leave for work. I'd put in my 8 hours and stop for the day. I had an extra 1-1/2 hour at home every afternoon that way.
If you drop an earring or earring back while leaning over a sink, just put your hand over the drain as quickly as possible. Don't try to catch the item.
It's easier to cover the hole than it is to try and catch a tiny bouncy earring.
I got one of those little screen things that go in the drain. No more loss.
Even better any time you change earrings put a towel over your sink! Has saved me from loosing the backs of earrings many times.
In Spain, there are these thingies like a tiny colander that fits all drains. You can but them everywhere and they are very cheap. They catch everything you may drop and prevents it from disappearing down the drain. I can't believe they don't exist everywhere else.
Load More Replies...Close the drain or throw a washcloth over it if you're putting on earrings or contact lenses.
Stop buying shaving products and use cheap conditioner instead! It’s a closer shave somehow, and also moisturizes your skin.
Stop buying cheap disposable razors and get a safety razor. They are worth the money and you don't need shaving cream.
used to use a "cut throat" razor for years,damn good shave alas as I've got older my hand isn't as steady as it used to be,I find a single blade razor (even a disposable one, BIC) far better than any multi bladed razor...am now looking into a "safety"razor, thanks for advice 👍
Load More Replies...Rinse under water and tap against the tub/tiles every so often
Load More Replies...I've been doing this since I was about 24. It's so much cheaper, way closer shave & buttery skin after. I've been told more times than I can count how soft I am. Conditioner is the bees knees people. I use it to shave my lady area too & never get cuts. Plus it's nice that it goes on clear so I can see every little hair
Plant based dishwashing detergent works great too. Tried it once when I was out of soap. Clean smooth shave, no razor itch and soft skin. Now I use it all the time. Much cheaper too. By the way, it makes a great body wash. No kidding.
That’s why making small, deliberate, subtle changes to our daily routines is so powerful. It requires very little effort on our part. We slowly start to form the habit. And our efforts quickly compound over time. But this means having the patience to stick with it.
It might sound laughable to, for instance, do a single pushup today and then one more every next day. But the entire point is to form the habit. The point is to do whatever it is you want to do, no matter how good or bad or not in the mood you feel.
Once a week I boil water with a few splashes of white vinegar in my electric kettle, let it cool, then rinse it out. Ta da! No more scales! Just a sparkly kettle!
Or you can put one of those wire mesh balls in there and the rarely need to clean it. And don’t leave water in there if you’re going to away for more than a day.
If you live in a hard water area, it'll buy you a few days but you still need to descale regularly. Same for shower heads, washing machines and dishwashers.
Load More Replies...electric kettle is pretty much a standard household item in UK homes
Load More Replies...I remember my grandma and my mother doing this, it gets the lime from hard water out.
Germany: Dr Beckmanns reine Zitronensäure. Löst jeden Kalt. Aber nachher nochmal ausspühlen.
I learned that using salt & ice is great at cleaning coffee carafes. Put a couple of tablespoons of salt, throw in some ice cubes, swirl it around for a couple of minutes, it will be sparkling quickly & easily. I thank Waffle House for that knowledge
10 minutes of housework
10 minutes of f**k off time
I work harder and more diligently in the 10 minutes of work and still get to be a lazy a*s. (set a timer)
Every time I go from where I am into another room I take something that needs to go to that destination. It sounds stupid but it works also every time I get up I also complete one task. Getting up to go to the bathroom? Put some laundry away. Laundry gets put on the line with hangers on. It’s so much easier to put away instead of spending weeks in the basket and just getting used from there. Sheets folded straight off the line into their pillowcase and put away immediately. I hate housework.
I am inherently lazy so I once worked out how much time each task would take me. Once you realise it will take you less than 5 minutes to change your bedding, you get more motivated. Break tasks down into time slots rather than doing them all at once. Also adverts are a great time to do small tasks.
That doesn't really work for me but music does! A good singalong upbeat playlist stops me from getting into a funk (bored, monotone, sluggishness). And having a 'junk drawer' in the bedroom. Like all those random things from somewhere else in the house or stuff that's hard to put away goes into it while you put away all the big stuff and then empty it after.
You can't control what others think, say or do. You can only control you. Stop wasting time and energy concerned about things you can't change and focus on things within your realm of control.
"I can't control what you do, I can only control what I do." -Andy "Drew" Bernard
I feel the same about worrying. Will worrying change the outcome? No? Then let it go. If there is nothing you can do to affect something then there is no point losing sleep or clenching your bhole about it. Yes it's easier said than done but once you learn it it's freeing. I got stuck waiting for a train and a coal ship on my way to work once, making me half hour late. Was there anything I could do to change situation? No. Somehow that realization taught me how to throw all my stress away
"what others think is none of my business" also "I am not responsible for the actions of others" "I have the right to say yes or no for myself" "I have the right to speak for myself"... some of the best lessons I learnt in life, works wonders for self esteem and self respect along with confidence and will eventually reduce feelings of anxiety
"march to the beat of your own drum" is another,lol I got loads of these 😆👍
Load More Replies...I learned the Serenity Prayer when I attended some Al-anon meetings. Now I recite it everyday
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change Courage to change the things I can And the wisdom to know the difference
The same goes for any other habit, whether that’s practicing the piano or learning to juggle. Even a couple of minutes of effort, at first, are more than enough. Think of it this way. If you’re not the type of person who can do even a couple of minutes' worth of practice, you won’t suddenly become someone who’ll be able to dedicate hours on end to that activity.
Start small. Be patient. Slowly ramp up your efforts. By the time you’re putting in large chunks of your free time, things will seem easy because you’ve already formed the foundations of the habit.
Always keep an emergency outfit in the car. It’s saved me a few times.
When I was in the healthcare industry I always kept an extra pair of scrubs in my locker at work or stashed in my car. That saved my a*s count!was times!
During an emergency, not lockdown, teachers can't leave the campus until ALL the students are picked up. We have earthquakes and fires. I have a change of clothes in my car. (It always helps too to that unexpected stay over.) I've never had to use it for emergencies, but its come in handy for the 'stay overs'.
Load More Replies...I keep extra clothes in the car during wintertime. I drive mostly on two-lane roads through farmland. If I get stuck in a ditch, I may as well be warm while I wait!
And a pair of shorts, sometimes the morning starts out pretty cold, as the SUN warms up the day, I feel so overdressed and need to change into them
As a professional speaker, I found this tip essential. Also "quick fix" grooming supplies.
I sew my adjustable bra straps in place at the right size. No more straps always pulling looser and slipping off my shoulders
Most bras will stretch out over time, so that won't be a long-term fix.
The straps don't stretch as quick as the back bands. That's why you fit a bra to the first set of hooks. With a properly fitted bra it's the back band that creates support, the shoulder straps are just to keep the cups in place. If you have the feeling that your straps are holding everything up your bra is the wrong size. Sewing the adjustable clip on straps is exactly the right thing to do.
Load More Replies...Not sure. We tend to change size through the month, even if our weight is stable, and bras lose tension as they age. I wouldn't.
I use a little thing that goes in the back and hooks both straps together. I prefer that better.
I buy T-back bras so that I don't have to deal with the straps slipping off my shoulders.
I would think that would be painful and I don't want to wear a bra sewn on! ;)
To make sure I don’t forget anything for the gym (socks, underwear, sports bra, shirt, bottoms) during folding laundry, I place all the items on top of the pants and then roll them up like a swiss roll. I have a whole drawer of just rolled up workout outfits that allow me to just grab and toss into my gym bag with my shoes.
If my coworker doesn't want to forget her left over lunch in the fridge she'll toss her keys on top because she can't drive away with out them.
So...you spend time doing it after ironing instead of doing it when going to the gym. Hardly a life hack.
Please tell me you don't really iron your work-out gear. Surely nobody would iron their work-out gear?
Load More Replies...Which of these life hacks did you find the most useful, dear Pandas? What small habits and hacks have improved your daily routines a lot? What habits are you currently working on building? We'd love to hear from you, so scroll down to the comment section to share your thoughts.
Stir drinks with butter knives, I have a ton of them and they barely get used for anything else.
Today, I also learnt that some people have multiple butter knives! Anyone who has worked in an NHS environment, knows that there are never any teaspoons and so knives are a standard go to for stirring drinks.
You have knives? I had to rip a bit of foil from my sandwiches and roll it into a tube shape when I worked in a hospital! Less germy than using a pen though like one of my colleagues did.
Load More Replies...Alternate tip - I bought a pack of 24 long tea spoons at a local restaurant supply place. They are the stamped metal kind and were cheap but they work great. ALSO - haunt the silverware bins if you are in some place like goodwill. I have a particular two or three (Used to be 4 but - grandkids) eating spoons that are just the right size / feel / balance for me. I'd buy more if I could find them. Recently at goodwill I found a spoon that was almost a perfect match. It was 19 cents.
Silverware is one of the first things I look for at thrift stores, mostly because it's good material for making jewelry, like fork bracelets and such.
Load More Replies...I do this. Butter knives are plentiful in my house, but spoons are precious and must be rationed.
I also always have a good set of chopsticks lying about that I use for everything -- bloody perfect for mixing drinks!
Load More Replies...I don't get this. Why don't you use butter knives for spreading butter etc? And why can't you use a spoon for stirring?
I prefer chopsticks for this task. Much less likely to chip a glass or cup. They’re really useful for a lot of things in the kitchen.
Old Polish proverb says to never stir a drink with a knife. What do you do with the utensil after stirring? You lick it, right?
If you are up past your bed time, ask yourself if this thing would be worth getting up early for. If it's not, go to bed. If it is, set your alarm, then go to bed.
have you tried the "toe wiggle" trick? ... when your brain is overthinking and keeping you awake,try gently wiggling your toes randomly and focus on that until your brain is diverted then stop the toes, repeat as necessary...it works for me,it might take a few nights to adapt but it's worth a shot
Load More Replies...Here I am on BP at 5 in the morning. I failed the sleeping task yet again.
I've gotten in the habit of not looking at my phone if I get up in the night. This keeps me from getting distracted and helps prevent the light from disrupting your circadian rhythm. Don't check your phone even to check the time. Also, if your phone's "night time" function allows, suppress notifications, do it. That way if you do look at your phone, you're not seeing any notifications (which show up as soon as the mode it's disabled). This has helped me start sleeping better and longer.
Floss and stretch. Every night. Really. It's worth the 10 min it takes.
I keep floss by my computer/desk, on my night-stand, and in the bathroom - I find this will mean more flossing.
I've added a water flosser to my routine. I tried testing one vs the other but they each got out different things, so now I have to do them both before brushing.
I'm 1000% better at flossing regularly now that I do it in the morning instead of trying to do it before bed.
Floss looking into a magnifying mirror once. You'll never skip flossing again.
If you can't open a jar, tap the edge of the lid against something hard a few times. It forces air to break the seal so the next time you try it will work!
I use a bottle opener (like for beer or soda bottles) and lightly lift the edges of the lid until the vacuum seal releases. Then it opens right up.
Or smack it a few times with the handle of a butter knife. Set jar on counter, hit the 'corner' of the lid with enough force to put a slight dent in it, rotate jar a bit, repeat two or three times.
That's how my mom taught me! Now there's times my husband or son ask me to open jars lol
Load More Replies...Just turn the jar over, and whack it on the butt a couple of times. That helps break the seal without the worry of breaking the jar!
If all else fails (and I use the hot water trick first) I stab the top of the lid with a sharp knife and then it opens easily. You can easily reseal with foil or cling film under the lid if you're not using the whole contents
Turn it over and smack the bottom with flat palm. Does same thing...forces air to top and allows easier opening
Hit bottom of jar with heel of your hand or tap edge of lid with butter knife.
Have all your body measurements written in your smartphone notes. Feet length, standard bust-waist-hip, your height, wrist girth, finger girths, etc. Update them once a year, or when your body changes.
If you come across any clothes that fit you perfectly - write down brand and exact size, maybe also model name if that's something that the brand does have in stock at all times, like Levi's jeans.
This way, when you go online shopping, you can always check brand's size charts, especially regarding shoes, and increase your chances at picking right size. Don't forget to take fit into consideration - standard, oversize, slim, petite, tall...
Ever since i started doing this, my shopping skill improved immensely.
That also works if your body is consistent with size. I can fluctuate in belly size during the day, and my bra can be well fitted in the morning and by night too tight. Also dependant on weather.
You have to look at each article of clothing you are buying. You can buy the wrong size.
I will never forget buying a puffy jacket at Sam's marked as 2X, my size at the time. Ended up giving it to a coworker who is a medium. Fit her perfectly.
To get rid of static from clothes, dampen your hands (water, lotion, whatever) and run them over the insides of the clothes. Static gone.
I spread a little bit of lotion on my stockings (while wearing them) to prevent my skirt from ‘sticking’ to them because of the static electricity
I stopped wearing those horrible things. Boom! No static! LOL!!! (no judgement for those who do. I just HATE them soooooo much!)
Load More Replies...I've yet to find a anything that will keep the static away . It always comes back the second the water drys or the lotion wears off. I've tried keeping dryer sheets in my pockets and everything. Anyone want a high five🤣.. ⚡
I can't think of the last time I had a problem with static. Is it more common with certain types of clothes, or in certain place or from using a dryer?
It's the combination of certain clothes, mainly. I've stopped wearing synthetic clothes as far as possible, and I haven't had this problem for a long time.
Load More Replies...Here are some of my tips (you are welcome to ignore, what works for me may not work for you): I exercise in the morning before work. I used to be a night owl, but I hit my thirties and started running and now I wake up at 5 am and run 5k three times a week, fueled only by my own vanity and a genetic weakness for ice cream. Coffee maker with a timer. I never have to wait for coffee in the morning! I put dirty clothes in the hamper and the clothes that I could wear again go in a bin at the foot of the bed. Or a pile on the floor. Okay, so that tip might not be so good.
I'm nearly seventy and run thirty minutes every morning to stave off the aches and pains. It does work.
I'm only 52 and have long term lower back issues (permanent sciatica) ,I really really miss being active,I have days on end where I can barely shuffle to my front door,it really depresses me ....my doctor says I should go out for walks etc "oh really,i can barely make out it outside some days ! " .... sorry this is a proper moan isn't it ,I do apologise.... good for you for getting out and wishing you happy running,I'm genuinely happy for you 🙂👍
Load More Replies...I have that same pile but next to the bed in front of the nightstand. I'm glad it's not just me
I put dirty clothes direct into the washing machine (with today's dyes,fabrics and low temperature detergents not much need to separate everything like in the old days )... when machine is full I simply press play,cuts out the middleman of a hamper and dirty laundry piling up
For those of us non-runners, adopt a dog from your local shelter and go for a walk every morning.
Working out in the mornings does wonders for my energy levels and posture!
If I am only shopping for a few things I don't grab a cart or basket. Makes me less prone to buying things I don't need. Especially at Target. When I carry a basket I just throw in random dollar items and snacks (which adds up). If I only need an item or two I'm in and out!
No, you do the shopping walk of shame where you have to carry all your choices back to the front of the shop to get a trolley/basket
TIL it is called "the shopping walk of shame" :-P
Load More Replies...Don't take a cart at Costco. Once your hands are full you have to leave.
As a cashier, I can't count how many times I've heard from customers "I only came in here for a few things"
Aldi !!! gets me every time 😆... well played Aldi well played 😆😆
Load More Replies...impulse control is rlly hard for a lot of people, especially those with adhd
Load More Replies...I don't shop at target. I haven't in over 3 years. I haven't shopped at a Walmart in the same amount of time. It's becoming way to expensive to shop at the dollar store.
Keep the roll of new trash bags at the bottom of the bin (though maybe not in the kitchen bin if sticky liquid sometimes leaks out the bottom of the bag). I use this in my bathroom bin and bedroom bin (both mostly tissues and empty containers/TP rolls, so the bottom of the bin stays clean for the bags to be there). The bags are always where you need them!
I keep mine in a cupboard. Genius, I know. Also allows me to get one in case I need it for something other than trash without having to juggle a half-empty bin bag.
That is the correct way to do. What OP is suggesting is just rubbish, no pun intended.
Load More Replies...Why do you need a plastic bag for a trash basket of tissues and TP rolls?
Put a scoop of cat litter and one of washing powder in the bottom if your kitchen bin, it soaks up the nasty bin juices and stops the bin smelling too much.
I don't keep a whole roll in the trash can, but I do put several bags in there - old housekeeping trick.
Alternate version - I buy a big box of bags (two rolls) at Costco so they won't fit in the bottom of the bin and are in a storage room. But what DOES fit is grabbing two or three extra bags and tossing them in the bottom of the can. Then I only need to walk to the storage room once every three or four times I empty the garbage. Which isn't even a 'trip' if I remember to do it when I'm at that end of the house anyway.
Have a chapstick and tampon in most locations you frequent. For example: room, office, car, etc.
Why would you need them in a room? You're presumably in your house so erm...aren't they in the toilet anyway?
Chapsticks are awful and get you addicted. Put some vaseline on your lips before bed and you'll never have chapped lips again.
Keep one in every purse, at your work space, and in the car, should do.
Thankfully my workplace provides free tampons. We have to use clear bags at work and I'm typically in yoga pants all day.
Load More Replies...Would a tampon have worked for that Russian jar guy? genuine question.
Read the reviews 😅 https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://m.imdb.com/title/tt6342306/reviews&ved=2ahUKEwjq8uCa046DAxVaGDQIHUrfBPYQFnoECA0QAQ&usg=AOvVaw3VJ1Zzap2j4_mdrp7-WdzW
Load More Replies...When hosting a party in your home, put a few tampons and pads in the bathroom for your guests. I’m past the need for them but……
Cotton bud soaked in vanilla essence attached to your car aircon will make the car smell good for months for a low cost.
Oh, this is actually really smart! Like a low cost air freshener. I like it!
I hate vanilla essence , it gives me a real bad headache ( I know I could use any scent)
A open bag of cheap coffee (pads)....works against most smells, even wet dog.
You become what you practice, and you can change how you are, by changing what you practice. But you have to remind yourself to do it, otherwise you might revert to your old ways. If you regularly practice being depressed or angry, then you will become very good at it. But you can actively change that tape in your head, 'what you say to yourself or to others', and start practicing something more positive. By doing so, you will find yourself getting better at your new practice. You might even become good at it! For example, think of a simple thing that you do, like a negative word that you say to your self or others, write it down, and find a positive replacement. Also, I use to feel that being depressed was like me going to my safe place, but I realize that depression for me is any thing but safe, it's where I practice being numb. So I made a go to reminder list, of tasks that I have found help me to feel better. My list is always tacked onto my fridge so I don't have to remember that such a list exists. My list includes; take a shower, get dressed, go for a walk, eat something healthy, sweep the floor, do the dishes...etc. Other wise I just forget in the moment that these things help me to feel better and to reconnect. It's like going to therapy, in that, therapy reminds me to take care of my self. That's why I go, to be reminded, and to practice taking care of myself. When I am getting numb and not attending therapy, I forget to listen to myself. So I put, 'see my therapist' on my list too.
Basically, this is one of those, think positive thoughts and you won't be depressed anymore. Or hey go for a walk and you'll feel better! Gee, I wish I would have thought of that instead of being bipolar I and taking medications and going to therapy. If I would have known that then I wouldn't have depressive episodes anymore. Yes, I'm being sarcastic as f**k when saying this b.s.
I can see how this post would be taken in that way, but I honestly think that OP was sharing a reminder to "break toxic thought patterns" and "create a routine". Both of those things do significantly help with mental health. It has clearly helped OP and it has helped me for sure in my life. If we stigmatize ways of improving mental health then people will truly feel hopeless that nothing will work for them. I'm not suggesting this technique will work for everyone, but if I read your post while I was depressed I would feel hopeless that nothing will help me, vs reading OP's post would give me some hope that I can improve. Sometimes that's all it takes.
Load More Replies...This is the most important post on this list. If you constantly repeat your phone number, it comes to mind without thinking, the neural pathways are reinforced. If you constantly go to anxious/negative thoughts those pathways are also reinforced. Choosing to think differently will reinforce positive pathways, and slowly the negative ones will fade, like forgetting an old phone number.
Depresion can be an inbalance in hormonce. You can think positive as much as you want, it won't chance the inbalance!
This is a dangerous way of thinking about depression. It kinda means that you chose to be depressed, or that you are just too incompetent or lazy to start being not depressed. It gives the impression that depression is a choice not an illness.
Nothing is 100% choice *or* 100% no choice
Load More Replies...I dont think, this is how things work. For some - yes. But usually, people are depressed or angry involuntarily
In my experience, nothing is 100% choice, or 100% no-choice... just fluctuates in between
Load More Replies...This is ridiculously good advice. I highly recommend this. It's how I kept myself sane throughout a really tough time in my life. It's essentially giving you the "how to" for breaking toxic behaviors and thought patterns, also it's getting at "creating a routine". Both of these things help with mental health immensely.
Carry a swiss army knife in your purse.
In many countries this is illegal. I know the US encourages it, but carrying an offensive weapon is frowned on elsewhere. Personally I think they've gone too far in the UK for example, but I live in Switzerland where it's almost a crime _not_ to be carrying a Swiss knife.
It's a Swiss army knife, not a machete, nothing offensive about it.
Load More Replies...I have the Camping style Swiss Army Knife. I mostly use it for cutting ropes other campers have left tied to trees, and for the toothpick and tweezers it comes with.
UK knife law allows you to carry non-locking pocket knives with a blade length up to 3 inches (7.62 cm) without any need for a valid reason.
Load More Replies...I am not going to start wearing purse to carry my knife. Also, as a long time user of both knives and multitools, I would rather have a multitool in my purse than swiss army knife.
So you would be willing to start wearing a purse to carry your multitool?
Load More Replies...Meal Plan. I choose recipes/dishes I want to make for dinner over a two week period and make an ingredient list that I take with me when I go shopping. It helps avoid overspending at the grocery store, reduces the number of take-out dinners, and reduces the daily stress of asking myself "what are we making for dinner tonight?" I have a little chalkboard in the kitchen with the dinners listed for each day of the week!
But then you end up with today's food being something you fancied a week ago, not today
Yes, meal plans don't work for me. I can't "plan" to want pasta next Tuesday. I just buy what I feel like that day.
Load More Replies...I just say f**k it and eat whatever is leftover from somebody else cooking :-D
Load More Replies...I do that, too. I hate asking myself that question every day while looking at what's in stock. I have a notebook where I plan my meals for the week, then I grocery shop for this specific week every weekend. Although I have to admit this routine kind of become the only solution since my mother became sick, but it's working very well for us. It also helps us spend less.
I do this and it really helps. When I look at my mum's fridge it makes me anxious- full of so much stuff much of it going bad. She will buy things on special etc but always works out what to make from what's in the fridge, but having to search through everything to decide. Also makes it hard when my stepdad or their current housemate decides to cook. Even if she specifically says what to cook, or what to use up, they often don't remember what she says, or check the fridge and go out and buy ingredients, even though there are some in there to use.
I have a master list for the month. Every night is a different...theme? Like Monday is always fend for yourself, Tuesday is Mexican, etc. Wednesdays alternate between grilled cheese, and casseroles, and so on. To keep it simple every Tuesday is tacos except one week of the month it is a different Mexican dish. Thursdays is always breakfast, meaning omelets. But one Thursday a month it's pancakes or waffles. Then every week I sit down and use the master list to plan for that week. Most of it is ready to go so not much planning. Sundays are always different so I have to plan that. Then I compile the ingredient list, and shop online, picking it up on my weekly pick up day. I rarely shop in store anymore. We get variety while keeping it simple, and it keeps the bill down. And when I'm working, it's easy to stick to because it doesn't take much time to plan it out since it's mostly already planned.
I plan ahead for a lot of things, but not this. I want to see what is on special offer, what vegetables look fresher, which cut of meat is better value for money today, etc...
When changing baby diapers, I unfold the new diaper and slide it beneath baby's bum before starting on the dirty diaper. That way if there's any spontaneous peeing, the new diaper catches it!
Keeping stamps stored with my envelopes.
My son is 4th generation of my family to keep stamps in the fridge. I seriously grew up thinking that they had to stay "fresh" and didn't learn until I was embarrassingly old that my grandmother just kept them there so she'd know right where they were. Now we all just do it.
Little tasks first.
There have been times when I get totally overwhelmed with housework. I write down the jobs that need to be down on small pieces of paper then place them in my teapot. Then I draw one out at a time and conquer it. Perfect for people like me that suffer from depression and let things pile up
I park close to the shopping cart return at the grocery store so that I don't have that, "should I? shouldn't I? Do I have to?" conversation in my brain everytime.
I like to weigh risk vs reward on my decisions, like, the risk of getting hit by a car is worse than the 2 seconds I'll save dodging across the street so this reward isn't worth the risk. Additionally, a friend told me before she walks into a situation her kids made she thinks, "was this worth it?" And then when she sees the play room covered in tissues, she thinks the 5 minutes they were busy doing this freed her up to wash the dishes and was in fact worth it. It helps her manage her reactions/anger and I've found it helps me immensely! I'm sure it's helpful to people without kids as well.
I’m just saddened that this person wonders if it’s okay to not to return the cart! Just be considerate to others, it doesn’t need an internal debate.
I have to use a stick to walk, if I can manage to return the shopping trolley then anyone who is more mobile than I am can manage it.
Load More Replies...Actually, I prefer to park next to the cart return. Here's my reasoning: if someone is going to return their cart, they're probably going to return it completely to the cart corral. If someone isn't going to return their cart, it will probably be left somewhere away from the cart corral. Less chance of my car getting dinged by someone returning their cart, than a stray cart that wasn't returned. Additionally, by parking next to the cart corral, I've reduced the chances of my vehicle getting dinged by another car door by 50%.
I park next to the corral for this reason and also because the parking spots next to the corral are a little bit wider than the other parking spots.
Load More Replies...I wish shopping carts could be programmed to return to the store on their own
In EU, shopping carts often have a lock with coin slot. Nothing big, 1 or 2 euros, but they are returned to get it back. So while we can't program carts (yet), we can program people :)
Load More Replies...I park far, take my cart back, and collect the extras along the way. One Costco worker intercepted me with 6 carts, laughing: "but that's my job!" I told him, "but bringing them to the corral is ours, and it looks like we suck at it."
Keep a water bottle at your desk, sofa, or wherever you spend a lot of time, and refill it often! If refilling it is a chore (which it is for me), keep two water bottles on hand and refill half as often. This got me to drink a lot more water, which I often forget to do when I'm fairly inactive all day. I also sometimes add mint, cucumber, or lemon to my water to spice it up a bit, and iced tea is nice too!
Indeed, judging by your comments so far you clearly cannot imagine anything about anyone's life.
Load More Replies...Use an old toothbrush when cleaning corners/creases/grout. And once a month, get down on all fours and hand wash your hard floors. Mops and brooms and robots can't get into the corners well. So the extra effort is like a facelift for your home. It's amazing to see how much better a house looks after a slightly more detailed cleaning.
You are absolutely right. I always used to get down on all fours to wash my floors but my poor knees can't take it anymore and then there is the ordeal of getting back up LOL. It drives me crazy not being able to get into the corners and along the baseboards like I prefer to.
I do home detailing. My kit includes varying sizes of toothbrushes, cotton swabs and toothpicks.
I hold a strainer between my food and a fresh lemon when I'm squeezing for juice--keeps out the seeds and pulp. When hanging up clean clothes I always put them on the left. Therefore I know the ones on the right haven't been worn recently. Any clothes that don't move from the right side by the end of a season get pitched. I have a roll up for my toothpaste so I don't get frustrated with trying to get the last little bit out. I actually really use my phone's calendar. I keep repeating chores, personal reminders, appointments, and so on with proper alerts. I cancel subscriptions before they auto renew, take my trash out on time, and always know when my last dental visit was. I keep a shopping list in my kitchen. Add any cleaning, personal, or food items as they get low. Then I don't have to worry about forgetting stuff. This is easily the best thing I ever did for myself. Frees up so much brain space.
Thought is said between foot and fresh lemon. Need to go to specsavers.
There are shopping list apps. They have the advantage that you can share them with other people in your household, so they can add or remove items too. It also means you can add items wherever you are when you think of them.
Do you take your fridge to the supermarket to tick things off?
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I organize my closet by article type and then color. It makes it so much easier to both find and put away things.
I for one organize according to article type, warmth and pattern (to get matching clothes).
When you cook a frozen pizza, if you save the cardboard disc it was packaged in, after you remove it from the oven you can place it back on the cardboard disc and cut it without ruining a pan or cookie sheet.
This works best w pizzas you put directly on the rack. So, it goes from disc, to oven rack, back to disc and the only dish you have to wash is the knife you use to cut it! if you don't cut it, zero dishes!
There are people out there who don't already do this? And I have one of those long, rocker-style pizza cutters.
I just slip it right onto a plate and cut it there, so yeah. There are people out there who don't already do this.
Load More Replies...How about cutting the Pizza on your plate or wood board? There are even extra Pizza plates. How do you eat Pizza?
If you put it on the rack with some oven sheets, you don't have to clean the rack. Slide all off on your (heated) plate, use a pizza slicer and have dinner :)
Do wonder how you eat a whole pizza without cutting it, just start munching on the side and work your way through it? 🤔
Load More Replies...Shave a bar of soap and throw a handful of it into your laundry. Cleans up all the dark stains on the collar, sleeve and pants better than normal oxy wash.
I suspect this could create problems. Soap creates suds, usually washing machines don't cope well with that. Same as putting dishwashing liquid in a dishwasher...
You'd be surprised how many handfuls one bar will make once shaved up thinly.
Load More Replies...No longer thinking "I don't have the motivation to do that right now" but instead thinking "It is a matter of discipline and my will is strong enough".
Like exercising with a bad back and sciatic pain. Just not gonna happen.
Load More Replies...Have a dishwasher? Stop grabbing forks and plates as needed. Run the dishwasher when it's full. Empty it when you open it after its run. It's amazing how having an empty dishwasher for dirty dishes makes doing dishes so much easier. It takes three minutes. Do it, lazy. (That's my internal monologue) And take the trash out when the trash is full. Not a smush down or two. And instantly replace the bag. Same concept as the dishwasher. Things can't pile up if they have a place.
I am not sure I do understand. So the OP just uses dishwasher as a kinda utensils rack, and not removes all items from dishwasher after washing, instead just grabbing fork and plate leaving all other items IN the dishwasher?
She' s inventing basic use of a dishwasher: you put in dirty dishes, take clean out (wow!) and then you put dirty ones in again etc.. "..having an empty dishwasher for dirty dishes.." This one hope I got wrong. And she invented throwing garbage out of a house too.
Load More Replies...Why do you bother having a dishwasher then? It's not lazy to use it. It's practical and overall uses less water than washing dishes by hand
LPT FOR LAZY PEOPLE LIKE ME!! I don't allow myself to binge watch Netflix unless I'm doing something productive. If I want to finish that season of Grey's, I'm going to have a spotless room, laundry done, clean kitchen and 45 minutes on my exercise bike.
Or an episode after getting a workout video done.
Weight loss PT:
Drink a full glass of water before giving in to the soda craving.
Invest in a water bottle with a straw attachment, I don't know why it works, but I have always mindlessly been able to sip water when it's through a straw. And on that water bottle, if it has a carrying loop, attach a thick ribbon or spare purse/luggage strap through the loop and sling it over your shoulder. Frees up your hands and the combination of a straw and quick access, makes for a huge increase in your daily water intake.
For some reason my stepdad gets annoyed at my mum for doing things while watching tv. I don't know the last time I watched anything without either doing a job or something creative (psych encouraged this as a mindfulness activity)
Placing a small plastic basket by the side of my bed with the smaller belongings I need for the next working day. Things such as: Keys, notepad, badge, tie, belt, pens and so on. I'm never fully alert in the morning and the amount of times I'd leave without a pen or my badge is unreal. £1.99 for this plastic basket from my local hardware store and I make sure I put everything in there when I come home from work or before I go to bed. I always make sure to ONLY put these things in this basket so I know if the basket is empty, I haven't forgotten anything. I always try to do a double check of everything before I go anyway, but as I said, not always fully alert or sometimes in a rush and forget. I've had a massive improvement over bringing everything I need to work since I've put this in place!
which then gets all kinds of useless stuff in it as well
Load More Replies...Going to bed at 8:30 and rising at 5:15. As a lifelong night owl, I can't believe how this shift has brought me such a settled feeling, like I'm in step with life's rhythm. It also helps that I introduced this shift to accommodate working out at 5:45, which has also done wonders for me.
As a lifelong night owl any time I do this, even if it's for months, I continuously feel jet lagged and so sick. I'm just a night owl.
Yeah, it's hard to make your body work differently from how it want to. Like you I've done early mornings for extended periods, but they never get any better. That extra two hours of morning sleep always feels much more beneficial than two hours of evening sleep.
Load More Replies...i tried this for years. No matter how tired i am, around 9pm i wake up again. Going to sleep before 12 is of no use for me.
In short terms: if you think you are an owl, you may be wrong (same works for larks)
If you love red lipstick, but mess up your lipliner, get some good coverage face powder on your fingertips and dab it over the outer edges of your lips and redo. It goes on much better second time around.
Leave your money, especially cards, at home as much as possible. My debit card is red, so I call it "the devil". It leadeth me unto temptation. Just leaving the money at home cuts waaay down on mindless spending. But if you catch me mumbling about making sure the devil isn't on me, now you know what I mean.
Incredibly. They've even named the card after the wrong imaginary being. It's God, not Satan who leads one into temptation; it says so right there in the Lord's Prayer where God is asked to 'lead us not into temptation'. Satan doesn't come into it until after the sinner has succumbed to the temptations put there as a trap by God.
Load More Replies...But my debit card is also on my phone. Plus if I run out of gas, or need food, or need something in an emergency....this just doesn't make sense.
10/10 would recommend cloth pads. They are comfy, gentle on skin and easy to clean. The ones I got (hannahpad) have cute designs on them. Investing in cloth pads has saved me a bunch of money plus I don't have to take out the bathroom bin as often (and its not as gross). I'm now genuinely upset when my period ends because I'm not getting to use them.
Never in my life would I have thought I'd hear a woman say they're upset when their period ends....
Right. If she's that devoted to them what's stopping her from wearing them all the time? Or is it just a marketing ploy by the (named) manufacturer?
Load More Replies...I use cloth pads and they're fantastic. But this sounds like an ad. As much as I'm happy I made the switch to cloth, I'm never upset when my period ends. I mean, come on. They're comfortable and useful for that specific purpose but they're not so great you want to wear them all the time. I'm convinced this is an ad.
Happiness is a choice. We choose to focus on what we have rather than what we don't have, to focus on who we are rather than what we aren't, to focus on the good in the world rather than the bad.
Sorry, clinical psychologist here. Happiness is not usually a "choice."
This can lead to complacency. A lot of people are going without basic necessities right now, and in order to fix that, we HAVE to talk about what people don’t have and the bad things that are causing it.
yeah, sure. And depressed people would be ok IF ONLY they decided to smile more... /s
Home:
Put a toothbrush and toothpaste in the kitchen cabinet . Brush your teeth in the sink and go to work quicker.
Put a toothbrush and comb in the car.
Put a water bottle next to your bed for morning thirst.
Turn off the lights and lay down on the ground to relax before sleep. This clears your mind.
Load a song or video on YouTube on your phone, through WiFi, before leaving the house to save data.
Put phone in a small tray on nightsrand next to your bed so it doesn't fall.
See a good book at store - request the book from the library system for free.
Coffee:
Bring your own cup to sbux or philz for a discount. You can get any drink iced at philz. Sbux has a short size which is cheaper.
In- n-out has option for bun extra toasted and also fries well done.
"Put a toothbrush and toothpaste in the kitchen cabinet . Brush your teeth in the sink and go to work quicker." how, just how is this quicker than using my bathroom sink???
"Put a toothbrush in the car" - and use the car sink?
Load More Replies...Can a small tray not fall off a nightstand? My cat would like to prove you wrong.
If you have pets - keep an extra lint-roller in the cupholder of your car. Countless times my cat has ambushed me with a rub against my legs as I try to leave the house. When you get in the car, and realise your black trousers are now sprinkled with cat hair, having the lint roller right there is handy.
I keep a lint roller at work and share it with my office mates.
Load More Replies...I really dislike housework. The way I motivate myself is to pay myself each fortnight when I clean from top to bottom (live on my own so it doesn't get that messy). After I vacuum, dust, wash the kitchen/bathroom floors, I pay myself $60 by moving money from my general bank account to my travel account. Doesn't seem like much, but in a year that's $1,560 towards a holiday (and a break from housework).
Might have to start paying myself to be my own maid... It will probably work really well since I like cleaning and organising other people's spaces, just not my own :)
Load More Replies...Most of these are pretty useful for guys too! tho, im a femboy so im not sure if thats cheating or smthn
It's okay to do nothing. Just nothing. Stop guilting yourself for not being constantly busy or cleaning or being with people. It's ok to be single and happy. It's ok to go to the movies alone. It's ok to go to a sit down restaurant alone. Dress up sometimes even if you have nowhere to be.
If you have pets - keep an extra lint-roller in the cupholder of your car. Countless times my cat has ambushed me with a rub against my legs as I try to leave the house. When you get in the car, and realise your black trousers are now sprinkled with cat hair, having the lint roller right there is handy.
I keep a lint roller at work and share it with my office mates.
Load More Replies...I really dislike housework. The way I motivate myself is to pay myself each fortnight when I clean from top to bottom (live on my own so it doesn't get that messy). After I vacuum, dust, wash the kitchen/bathroom floors, I pay myself $60 by moving money from my general bank account to my travel account. Doesn't seem like much, but in a year that's $1,560 towards a holiday (and a break from housework).
Might have to start paying myself to be my own maid... It will probably work really well since I like cleaning and organising other people's spaces, just not my own :)
Load More Replies...Most of these are pretty useful for guys too! tho, im a femboy so im not sure if thats cheating or smthn
It's okay to do nothing. Just nothing. Stop guilting yourself for not being constantly busy or cleaning or being with people. It's ok to be single and happy. It's ok to go to the movies alone. It's ok to go to a sit down restaurant alone. Dress up sometimes even if you have nowhere to be.
