My 17-year-old self would be severely disappointed in the fact that I’m exhausted by 10pm every evening, and I only have about three sips of alcohol a year. But the reality is that many experiences that are exciting or enjoyable for teens and young adults are a lot less glamorous decades later. Why stay out late when I can curl up with a good book at home?
In honor of all of these things that we’re simply getting too old for, Redditors have recently been sharing what they find much less fun (or much more annoying) as they age. Below, you’ll find a list of their thoughts, so be sure to upvote the replies that make you feel less guilty about refusing to go to restaurants with loud music!
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People. Honestly, they're everywhere.
I once had an idea that since I don't like large numbers of people out bright sunlight, I could wear a black cloak and mutter. The cowl stops sunlight and people avoid me because they think I'm an insane cultist
I should do that, I can make my outside match my inside
Load More Replies...I’m about to the point of begging for an alien abduction. It would be a rescue mission.
There actually are more people than there used to be. Literally. And with more people comes more problems. Which has become sort of a motto, or mantra. "More People, More Problems.
Even Covid could not solve this problem, during Covid the mortality rate continued to get better, it's been getting better for years. So more people are living longer, and more people are being born. The worlds population is getting out of control.
Load More Replies...It wouldn't be so bad if people were more respectful of other people's space, not ramming into others just because they feel they don't have to move around or wait for someone to pass, and not putting their hands on other people when they pass.
Lockdown made a lot of people realise that, it seems they have also returned somehow more selfish. I would not be surprised if it causes some people to 'snap'
Noise. Anyone or anything that is too loud.
I hate it. Too overwhelming, I hate all that input. I can't focus on anything if there's too much noise
Agree, I can’t focus on anything, it just gets overwhelming when there’s too much noise.
Load More Replies...Well I'm 66 and last night I put on a Black Sabbeth album and cranked up the volume, fantastic.
THIS. if i cannot hear or be heard over the music and voices in a restaurant, i don't want to be there. i *also* take a custom set of earplugs to movies, restaurants, concerts, etc. Unapologetic about it too, bc i don't want hearing aids in 10 years.
Good for you! You damn sure don't want tinnitus either.
Load More Replies...At this time I live smack dab in the middle of a small town that is unfortunately surrounded be traffic noise, loud traffic noise , bypass on the west side, town main artery to the south side, a business route to the east, and a “ shortcut” from the north. All. I. Hear. 24/7. I’m looking for something farther outside this zone, which is an undertaking all on its own. And it is everything Loverboy says it is, plus pollution from exhaust and all those particles of tires, etc.
This is even worse for me because I have Phonophobia and I’m pretty sure Misophonia, I’m not diagnosed with that so I am unsure
B******t arguing with other people.
It makes me think of Keanu Reeves. He gave an. Interview about growing older, and said he protects his peace by refusing to argue with anyone about anything. He said “2+2 is 5? You are correct. Have a nice day.”
Especially when you know for a certainty that you're right! Arguing does nothing to convince them. They get free entertainment, you get exhaustion.
Load More Replies...Boy how I wish I was like Keanu because I’m guilty of the arguing and was cursed with a short, explosive temper. And I know it’s not worth my time and energy, nor is it right to do. The better half just keeps quiet and rolls on. But with a short temper it’s kind of hard for me to hold back although I do try my best. But when I succeed, (which I do sometimes) and continue to get pissed off, that’s where the explosiveness comes in. I’m hoping the older I get I can calm down some, and have an easier time protecting my own peace.
Not sure on this one, sometimes I just need to call b******t. I don't mind flat eathers thats a them problem. But anti-vaxxers, anti-maskers and one of my fav's on boredpanda "all men are perverts and bastards" don't spread that c**p around.
Cause u can't fix stupid so why try? Save ur energy for eating bacon&watching Witcher.
Well, maybe not Witcher after this season wraps up.
Load More Replies...I had to learn this with my nephew, he argues about everything and I quickly realized I was the idiot in the conversation no matter how right I was because I was the one arguing with him when I knew he wouldn't give in. I now just say as Keanu says, "You're right." and move on.
Putting up BS. I'm 64 and will retire in 8 months and also just filed for a divorce and hopefully that will be done before retirement. I'm done with it all. I have looked into buying a coop condo in a 55+ community and should have one secured within a couple of months. My employer seems to think they can call me for advice when I retire, no they can't because they have been very toxic and I'm almost done playing that game. My husband thinks he can treat me like c**p and not acknowledge anything important to me, I'm done with his toxic behavior. He's still in shock that I have the guts to do it but when I made a list in writing and he wanted to continue to be married I showed him a list I made of why I needed to leave and why I should stay and the should stay list was completely blank. He couldn't even argue because it was all true on reasons I should leave.
I am not too old to start a new chapter in my life and enjoy what time I have left.
Edit: Thank you all for the encouragement. We both meet with the attorney today and divorce will be final in 60 to 90 days. This decision has taken 15 years to put in place but someone did tell me about 10 years ago when the time is right I will move forward, the time is right at this phase of my life.
My friend found a lovely retirement community for artists and active seniors that has tons of classes and group activities. She also divorced her husband that just constantly brought her down. She was a movie hairstylist for 40 years and they even have a salon there she can do clients in for extra cash. I’ve never seen her so happy.
This can be done. I did it myself. Retired, divorced, moved in and SO HAPPY 😊. Good luck 🍀🍀
I'm another person who quit unhealthy marriage and work situation. No regrets re: either decision. Wishing you a happy future!
Load More Replies...Let your former boss call you at your consulting fee of $500 per hour, one hour minimum
Consider leasing a place in the 55+ neighborhood you think you might want to buy. 55+ places can be a real eye-opener. I'm not saying it's the wrong choice, just consider giving yourself some time to see if it's what you want after 3 to 6 months without committing by buying a home.
anything starting past 9PM
I wish it was socially acceptable to skip the bra part. Deffinately would make life better
Load More Replies...The other day I was so tired and went up to bed, as I laid there facing the window, realized it was still light out
Eating food that’s not delicious.
And I don’t mean eating unhealthily.
I mean, If I’m going to consume calories, it’s going to be delicious. Sometimes that means heating things up in the oven instead of microwave, or adding an extra ingredient that makes the dish.
I agree-food should be enjoyable . As I've got older, I've got far less rigid about meals: if I feel like eating a beef sandwich for breakfast and a bowl of oatmeal for dinner I will do.
The typical breakfast went the way of the dodo when my husband turned out to be diabetic. As much as I like eggs and sausage, I don't want that every day. So we just started eating anything we wanted for breakfast. Stir fry? Yes. Soup? OK. Salad? Sure. Baked chicken? Why not?
Load More Replies...Gonna brag a little bit, I love to cook because I want my food to taste delicious, and I make damn sure I get what I want xD So whenever I make ANYTHING it always comes out tasting really good because my imagination is the main ingredient, besides a dash of TLC. But by no means am I the master, that rank belongs to my mother 😌 Sometimes you just gotta say “oh why not?”, as well as put in that little bit of extra effort 🤷🏻♂️ On the other hand, energy is the key ingredient to that one, and I’ll admit not all the time do I have it; haven’t cooked in about 3 days 😅😅
This my take on relationships. I aint gonna bother if it aint good. Its my tip to everyone. Treat relationships as dessert if aint good dont have it.
I ate healthy for a long time because we didn't have healthy food as kids. It didn't always taste good, but it was "fueling the machine". Now, I eat whatever tf I want. Feel like fruit salad? Fine! Bag of Flaming hot Cheetos and a bottle of amarone as a midnight snack? Excellent choice! When you are young, life is long. When you get older, it's not.
My microwave was sitting in my locker for over a decade. Threw it out last year. The only time I use a microwave now is at work, as there's no other way to heat my lunch. But other than that, it's been like the times I grew up without one. Pizza pops taste better when cooked in an oven.
Those of us with severe digestive disorders are jealous of those who can enjoy a varied menu!! I sorely miss a good Caesar salad!! 😋
Caring for people who don't care about me
This one is hard. I have spent and life and part of my career as a caregiver. I'm not sure I can do that any more except for my wife of 30 years. I know she cares about me.
I don't think I'll ever be able to stop caring about others no matter what. I think this is the one thing that makes a human part of humanity. When I was homeless and an addict, if no one had given a c**p about me I probably would have unalived myself. Instead, many people came to me and gave me plenty of reasons to keep going. I've learned what people care and what people do not care. I will fight hard for the people who care until the end of my life.
It took me too long and many times of being sh*t on before my AHA moment.
Amen. Save it for the ones you love and you know, deserve it. You'll have more for them
Convincing people not to do dumb s**t.
Go ahead I don’t care anymore. Learn the hard way.
I love it when someone doesn’t listen to me and they do something dumb and I get to see them get in trouble or something worse
Schadenfreude is a thing. I don't really like it when something *really* bad happens when someone ignores advice, but seeing them bit on the a*s in a minor way cause a little petty joy.
Load More Replies...What about those who would bring innocents with them on their dumb s**t? Isn't one obligated to do something?
I feel that. Last year during high school (I'm not saying what grade) I did that with some friends. Yes they got into trouble (a lot but honestly I don't care anymore)
Nah, people learn from doing dumb s**t. I did. That's how we get wiser. As long as Long as no one is getting hurt and no children will get involved let them make their decision. Who knows? It may not turn out the way we think.
Not being comfortable. I'm done with that.
Give me a pilow and some legroom. A bench in the shower and a fluffy towel. Give me space to breath and live. Give me quality over quantity and I gladly pay extra for an upgrade.
I'm through with wearing high heels, makeup everyday, most jewelry, tightly bound hairstyles. I can barely tolerate jeans.
Here here give me sweats and stretchy leggings or yoga pants any day
Load More Replies...My doctor said, at my age, I should consider adding a bar to my shower. So, I did. Stocked it with Newcastle, Chardonnay, and Crown Royal.
I learned many years ago that there’s no excuse for not wearing comfortable shoes…
And a bench at an amusement park after all that damn walking with my kids. The bench is the best ride to me now that I'm older.
I've kinda of always been this way. All of my friends back in high school would tease me because of my "hippie" or laid back style. I was NOT about to be uncomfortable for anyone. It's possible to look nice and still be comfortable without looking like you can't dress smart. There are all kinds of styles now a days that are cute and comfortable at the same time.
Maybe I'm not old enough yet, I'm all for comfort, but I'll be damned if I'm gonna pay to sit on a plane in "premier" seating that costs $60 per person and all I get is 2 extra inches of leg room. I already paid $800.00 for the ticket. Maybe airlines need to be less greedy, take out a row or two of seats, and give everyone those extra 2 inches? Just a thought. I also have short legs though so maybe that is a huge part of it for me.
I've been living with this mindset for a few years. It's wonderful and empowering.
Going places without a bathroom nearby. Not necessarily "too old," more like "too IBS."
Yep - this is true. Going on holiday is an adventure. The great toilet tour is a thing
There's a long stretch of commute to get to downtown that has 0 place to get off the bus to use a washroom. Even downtown has developed a porcelain deficiency. The times I've been caught in a situation where I'm excruciatingly having to hold it in has been too many time. If there's no bathroom, that is clean, safe and open to the public I'm not going to that place.
Never stand between and old man and the nearest urinal. You could die.
Or between ANY woman and the ladies' room. The life you save will definitely be your own.
Load More Replies...Getting between an old man (me) and the bathroom is a great way to get run over.
This had been most of my life. Crohn's made it impossible not to. It is horrible.
This heat. I remember when I used to want to lay out, do beach activities, and swim. Now, I’m dreading having to go out in the sun and want to be locked away in my air-conditioned home
Another thing I am pretty sure I have is heat intolerance, I cannot stand being in the heat for at least ten minutes, I will boil alive, it’s even worse because I live in Florida
You can't even cool off in the water now... I hear temps are 99-100 in the OCEAN(?)
Load More Replies...Never thought I'd say this, but sometimes I enjoy winter and having my eyelashes clump up with frost.
Due to some of my medications heat is actually dangerous for me. I have to be careful.
Yep, heat is almost intolerable for me as well. Maybe while I’m looking for quiet I can also get the heck outta the humid , hot summers.
Fortunately I never DID like going out in the sun - now my skin looks YEARS younger than I am.
BS excuses. Stop trying to make up elaborate, unbelievable stories. Just tell me you forgot, or you overslept, or whatever. It's fine. I get it. But don't expect me to believe your convoluted, half-a*s ramblings. Grow up and own your shortcomings.
S**t happens. I've learned it's actually better to just admit you slept in. It happens to most people time to time. As long as you get right into your work all should be okay.
It called integrity. Better to have that than a rep for being full of s**t, and believe me lol people know when your full of it
Load More Replies...YES!!! Accountability! One of my team always makes all of these excuses when they mess up at work and I tell them “just say you’re sorry, make an effort to do better, and that’s all I need to hear” Like my gramps used to say to us “I asked for the time, I don’t need to hear how the clock works” when we’d over explain things to him 😂
I hate when someone tells a stupid, complicated lie instead of a simple truth!
And THEY know that you know that they're lying. Yep, experienced that one. It was sad to watch.
Load More Replies...Me too, doesn't help that my average body temperature is 93f, hypothermia level. When the temperature is 60f out I'm OK, warmer and I pass out constantly. No ac in north Sweden and I can't afford it. Love winter when it's below freezing and indoor temp is around 45f. I do put it on 55f if I'm having guests and accept the headaches that come with being too warm
Nuisance noise, kids whining , cars blasting , mufflers, lawn mowers …. Stupid people in public making noise .
We're really hoping we'll have enough money to buy a house in the middle of nowhere, whee the only sounds will be the rain, birds and buzzing of bees.
We live in the middle of nowhere and it's wonderful. No food delivery, 12 miles from 'town', but the peace & quiet far outweigh any inconvenience. I hope you reach your goal!
Load More Replies...I thought it was just me. I find myself with NO patience for undue racket. One of the neighbors has a 4 door Honda SUV, her loud kid manages to slam the doors at least 6 times every time they get in or out. Loud exhaust makes me crazy, too.
THIS. Our neighbors are out at all hours, even into the night (11 PM and later), revving up their muscle car, playing trumpet, or doing what sounds like construction. Seriously... 11 PM or midnight. Appealing to their humanity didn't do anything but frustrate us. And police won't do anything, so we just suffer the noise. NOISE! I feel like the Grinch but I'm trying to sleep at that time!
I would not be able to tolerate that. I live on a very quiet dead end street. Occasional lawn mower is about the only noise.
Load More Replies...It is why I carry 'in ear' phones, just to cut the harshness out and when it gets worse to listen to calming sounds instead.
Brings me back to the first year of quarantine... Tons of people bought fire works and kept seeing them off through May to September. Into the laaate night hours *fisty shake*
I've never liked that at any age. I feel the vibrations shake through me and set my teeth on edge.
Lack of sleep. All nighters were once manageable. Now I pull an all nighter and I am useless.
Seems like my body is trying to catch up on all the missed sleep from those all nighters.
All nighters. Loud as f**k neighbors 24/27/365 (how in tf can people live that way?). Stupid shift changes at work that totally f**k up your sleep schedule.
These days if I go and see a band, I take the following day off work to recover.
I can't even pull an all nighter anymore. I crash out by 11 on New Years.
Does an all nighter mean past midnight, cause yeah I'm useless staying up that late too!
Leaving the house
Way too many people outside. I want to bring back the garden hermit trend from 15th century England where I can get paid for being antisocial
What is this trend? Where do I sign up? Is there a wait list????
Load More Replies...Yeah, I hate when I have to go grocery shopping or a doc appt etc. It messes up my whole routine of staying in my house and makes my day weird. I don't like change.
This!!!! It's not outdoors I hate I very much enjoy being inside at my own house in my garden. I hate leaving my home space and having to interact with other people. Even if the destination is without people I will still have to get in a car or transportation and deal with the world outside of my home space and I hate it.....
Lockdown was no problem at all. The only time I left the house, aside from puttering or relaxing in the yard, was to go grocery shopping and check the company PO Box down the street. My husband is 8n pest control and was considered essential personnel (I mean, can you imagine no pest control?), so had to go to work, but I worked from home. I liked that time to myself. Don’t get me wrong, I love my husband, but you know, you can be really happy spending your life with someone you love with a heart and a half, and STILL crave time to yourself.
Chasing after people. Like if I ask you to hang out a few times and you’re always busy… come find me. Phone works both ways.
Yep. I've started doing this long time ago, with a friend I thought my best friend. 🤷♀️
Same! Several chances of trying to hang out, nothing. Then it was apparently shocking when I didn't RSVP to her baby shower. She only wanted me to be with her when it required me bringing her a gift.
Load More Replies...It's amazing how many friends you lose when you stop being the one to fight for the friendship all the time huh?
Try getting a serious illness. Crickets. Chirping. You find out who your friends are.
Strange how you stop ringing someone, then never hear from them, but they always took what you give them...lunches, car rides, clothes passed on etc. No more.
Worst "friends" we had...invited them to dinner at 7pm to eat at 8. They arrived at 11pm...because "we didn't want to get out of the spa pool". Food had been thrown out, we were in our PJ's watching TV. No food, didnt offer them a drink. After a cringe hour, they said they had better leave. I said that was a good idea as they had ruined our dinner that I had spent all day cooking and had to throw out as I couldn't keep reheating it. Never saw them again. 20 year friendship gone.
Sitting on the floor.
I sat on the floor yesterday (ikea build). Went to get up and decided nope, I live here now.
A pic of sitting on a wall by the beach since there aren't any pics of people sitting on the floor???
I can't sit on the floor. If I am on the floor, I need to call 911 and have some hefty responders pick me up.
I am tired of anime and superhero movies with teenage protagonists. I’m not saying the stories aren’t good, but I am f*****g tired of coming of age stories
not to mention these teenagers who aren't even old enough to drive are getting absolutly beat up by supervilllans who are way older than them. and at the end of the movie they are just happy and relieved instead of traumatized. the plot is amazing but i wish they would make it a little more realistic.
Shows usually have the protagonist(s) at around the same age as their target audience. Just sayin'...
Unless it's a magical girls show, then the characters are either way older or way younger.
Load More Replies...If it sells, it sells. Blame the buyers and watchers, not the creators lol Aside that, plenty of options are out there that aren't coming of age stories. Go watch those. Weird concept I know. I hate teenage protagonists too, but again, if I'm too old for BS then I'm too old to complain about something I can easily avoid. Oh, like this post lol byeee
I must admit I've been annoyed with shows with kids/children in them for ages and why do they always have some damn pet that runs off and they go after it
The kids always save the day while the adults stand around panicking...
Stupid a*s people and friends that still cause drama in their 50's!!! F*****g idiots
Or move anywhere with a Home Owners Association. Nothing like a self-appointed government to ruin your day.
All new housing in my area is hoa. No other choices unless you buy a used house which costs just as much as the new house but likely has a ton of things in need of repair. My hoa is s**t. Sick of it.
Load More Replies...I recently told my in laws they were all acting like 12 year old girls. It went down a treat. Don't drag me into your bitter divorce
Wait until you move to a retirement village or assisted living. It's honestly like junior high and high school all over again.
Hangovers, 3 days to go back to normal is too much now and not worth it.
Pointless anyway. I'd rather not waste time or money on alcohol.
Agreed. And people look at you like you are an alien when you tell them you don´t drink. F*cking annoying.
Load More Replies...I used to suffer from this all of the time. I've been 3 years 5 months and 26 days sober now! Best decision I ever made.
Just being tipsy makes me feel motion sick. Mom was right on this one. Getting drunk is not a good time.
If you have a hangover for 3 days straight, then you have bigger problems...
Used to drink people under the table. Now it makes me tired. I'll fall asleep under that table.
I gave up anything several years ago. I've been just fine. I won't say I don't have a beer once in a blue moon with food or a glass of wine with food but I'm not going out of my way to buy it. I don't have a need for it. And I don't like feeling bad. It takes way too long to get back to normal.
THC is the way to go...no hurting my liver and lungs...just a lil gummy. 💖
Work
I don't want to have to work past the age of 60. Seems like hell to spend the last years of my life like that
If you live in Murikuh and didn't get lucky with family or finances, you're working until you're dead.
Load More Replies...I bailed at 56, took my pension early, added SS a few years later and never regretted it for a minute. Working costs you money, transportation, clothing, lunches, office gifts for others, I was so lucky, but I didn't plan for this, it just fell into place. Also helped that I divorced the lazy AH who decided that I could be the sole provider and thought he could get support. He was wrong. He got nothing.
I have a job I love but they have a cutoff of 65. Once I turn 65 I have to retire.
It depends. If it's working for myself or the business my husband and I own, I don't mind it. If I'm working for someone else? Nope. I'm over that. It seems no matter how hard I try I can NOT make anyone else happy. I'll do my best and that all and if that isn't good enough they can FO. That's how I feel about that.
Concerts without assigned seating.
I'm not showing up hours early to get a good spot and then be *stuck* there the entire time without being able to sit or use the bathroom or else I lose my view.
Concert atmosphere tends to take away 20 years off my age, gives me a boost of happiness and energy like nothing else (ok, my knees and back are not soo happy the next day, but oh well...) . Rock/metal ones. I love that there are people of all ages, from 8 to 80.
agreed. i just take really good ear protection and closed toed shoes. i don't need beer spilled or other people stepping on me to ruin my fun.
Load More Replies...You go to see and hear them not to see the damn smartphone some a-hole is holding up in front of you
It's been a few years.. But I just disagree with this one, (granted I go to shows like pepper & dirty heads), but there's something about being around a huge crowd with elated energy. This is the only time my introvert becomes extroverted.
Skakespeare's globe theatre. Either stand or sit on benches for the whole play. I loved the play we saw. It was an amazing experience. However, I can't go again because my back can't hack the seats and my legs can't hack the stand
Isn't that how 11 people got trampled to death at a Who concert in Cincinnati in the 80's?
smoking cigarettes. I quit 5 days ago after 15 years. just woke up and went "you know what, nah."
This one hits close to home in it’s own way, it’s extremely difficult for me to quit smoking. I can’t do without a cigarette, it’s my biggest downfall. I’ve decided to try again when I’m good and ready, and I’m fully aware that won’t be for another many of years and I’m quite ok with that too 👍🏻 I know I’ll succeed when the time is right and I’m 100% mentally ready; I feel acknowledging that is a good start
Quit 3 yrs ago after smoking for 30 yrs. I occasionally have a craving but I don't smoke.
Probably the hardest thing I had to go through, but managed to quit smoking cold turkey after 13 years of smoking, this was 2,5 years ago. The first few months were terrible, my boyfriend can tell for sure. -.- but went through it and can't even think about smoking again. Few odd occasions when I drink and smell somebody's cigarette I would get tempted for a second but then realise it's not worth it going trough the beginning of quitting part. Walking helped a lot, and possibly crying too :D You guys can do it, I believe in you
My hubby quit 23 years ago, for 11 months - a stressful day at work and he was back to square one. Now he has COPD and has been in and out of hospital and investigations for the last 6 months but still has no intention of cutting tobacco or alcohol
Sometimes when I see people smoking, I just wonder , you’re really still doing that , besides knowledge the of all the health risks, how are you able to afford it?
16 years of smoking and while I did not quit, switching to electronic feels great. And so did my 66 years old mum after almost 50 years of smoking. Change is possible.
Knowing full well I need to quit and haven't. I've made so many promises to myself. Maybe I just need to stop promising myself or anyone and just do it. I've done it before and I never should have gone back, never.
The thing I hate about smoking is that smokers force others to smoke. If I get drunk, nobody around me does, but if I were to smoke, everyone in range gets to smoke too.
all of you trying to quit, keep the goal in sight: not being a slave to the cig, not smelling awful, not tasting awful, not being able to smell or taste food properly, risking fires everytime you flick a butt, and, best of all, money saved and health can return to normal. i used a patch after SEVERAL unsuccessful attempts. don't give up! each time you try again, you are increasing your chances. 20 years post-nicotine, my pulmonologist says my lungs are NORMAL. and have been normal for likely 15 years. 🎉
Skinny jeans
Have to disagree with this one. I live in my skinny jeans and it's a hill I'm willing to die on.
I'll never let go of my skinny jeans. I hate the big lose jeans with the rips and tears that are popular right now. High and tight for life baby!
I'd rather have skinny jeans over the mom jeans that are so popular. Those things don't look good on anyone.
True, but jeggings give you the skinny jean look while also being significantly more comfortable to move around in!
Load More Replies...What's wrong with skinny jeans? I love this list - you're too old for BS but you'll care about what pants someone has on? That's stupid lol
I read this as they were done with wearing them, not that they care what other people wear
Load More Replies...I am so HAPPY skinny jeans are finally going out of style. I'd almost given up on jeans entirely because finding not skinny jeans is so hard. Skinny jeans are the least flattering thing imaginable on my chubby legs, not to mention wildly uncomfortable.
I think they look better on us chubs than on very thin people.
Load More Replies...I’m never giving up my skinny jeans. My work boots and wellies go on much easier with them. Plus, I hate the feeling of the extra fabric on bootcut and flare jeans flapping around as I walk.
Anxiety. I need to get over this s**t already
Best advice I know for anxiety: Do everything stressful one tiny step at a time. Eat the elephant one bite at a time.
That’s actually pretty good advice, but having anxiety will only make it real difficult for us to do everything stressful one tiny step at a time. Anxiety tends to keep us from taking such steps, that’s what sucks :(
Load More Replies...I wish I didn't have anxiety. Every time I try to get over it I come into situations that makes me want to run away and hide. I'm SO over people treating me like I'm 10 years old.
If it's a clinical, medical anxiety, please go see your doctor. You might find relief with meds or talking to a therapist. If it is just regular stress, you might be able to push thru it and be fine. If you're not sure, see doc
Good advice, I was very reluctant to see a psychologist, One flew over the cookoo's nest was not a good role model but although they couldn't fix me they did stablize me. I now know when it's getting really bad, I have plans in place for how to reduce it and deal with it if I can't.
Load More Replies...Only if it's garden-variety anxiety, and not an anxiety disorder. You can't "just get over this sh*t" if it's a disorder.
I've had anxiety my whole life and the only reason I'm not upset about it is cause idk what it's like to not be this way.
I've had it pretty much my whole life and used a lot of drugs to get over it and since I got clean 4 years ago my anxiety is through the roof and now I really have a hard time. It was never this bad but pretty much it's really hindered me in being able to live a normal life.
Load More Replies...I’m tired all the time. In the beginning I slept 20+ hours a day, now I can stare at the ceiling now I'm 3am hoping I'll wear myself out. I have the tremors, if I don’t hold onto something I will fall down. The constant tension, those sharp painful intakes and having to remind yourself to breathe, so you don’t start hyperventilating, don’t want to go down that route. I know a portion of my food will come back up regardless of how much I eat(nicest way I could say it sorry), I’ve even bought up water. I tend to snack a lot because of this, it doesn’t help, the stomach acid is stripping the enamel off my teeth. I have a specialist dentist with no waiting room, that can stop when I need to scream at the corner of the room. If it gets bad I can’t remember basic stuff, I once cried my heart out because I couldn’t remember my name for a form. I was always highly strung and hyper-vigilant, but I'm 15 years and counting of extreme anxiety.
The news in general
Life is so much better when you're not paying attention to the news. If you think all the bad stuff that's going on is all reported to the news, not a chance. It's just a tip of the iceberg, the ones who bothered to report it to the news. Every now and then there's a good, uplifting story, but not often enough.
Yes! I'm tired of "if it bleeds, it leads" drama!
Load More Replies...Never any good news when all over the world there are also lots of wonderful things happening
stopped watching news 5 years ago.. haven't missed a thing. I sometimes read news online if something interests me.. that's it.
Especially news with someone else's opinion. Their opinions are usually geared to their political leanings. Just tell me the news, I'll form my own opinion. For good news there are some great websites for that
All the work necessary to maintain a house, especially the outside.
This is one of the reasons my mom sold her house to rent an apartment. She said the upkeep to make her house "presentable" was too much.
Presentable? Bah! I'm fighting to keep mine LIVABLE 😂
Load More Replies...I, on the other hand, at 73, am living my best life outside every day gardening! Just finishing a 5 year long project redoing my backyard. I did every last physical part of it, except the removal of 3 huge redwoods! Building a redwood greenhouse this winter. On the top of my retirement list: 1: music all day, 2: garden every day. Do whatever makes you feel alive! Do it!
And the expectation of having a magazine, American dream, home and lawn. So glad I live somewhere without an HOA banging down the door because I didn't mow the lawn this week.
For me, this is something I've grown to enjoy more as I've gotten older. It's a way to work with my hands and cultivate beauty.
Why I live in a townhouse. Yes, I have an HOA, but they are not all up in your face about stuff.
People driving like a maniac to show off… it terrified me then and scares me even more now.
I'm the old lady who flips off people flying down my street. There are too many kids around to be driving like that.
Do you also, like me, take extreme pleasure in seeing them pulled over and getting a ticket from the cop whose hiding place up ahead (that you already knew about), who snagged the hotdog driver that peeled out and passed you. I like to slow up as I pass them, so they can see me laughing my a*s off at them. And it isn’t like I’m a slow driver myself. But the light speeds these people whiz by me are just way out of my speeding comfort zone.
Load More Replies...Went to Canada to visit family from USA. It was amazing how safe I felt because I knew everyone around me wasn't carrying a gun.
Anyone driving slower than me is an idiot. Anyone driving faster than me is a maniac - George Carlin
internet bickering
Once you realize the people you're arguing with are possibly trolls just saying s**t to get a rise out of you, just move on with your life. You can't fix stupid.
I don't bicker. I say my peace and leave. Of course I get 900 replies from that one guy who can't handle someone disagreeing with them, but I don't even read it. Delete, leave, avoid circular arguments with homophobes.
I foolishly commented on Youtube about my favourite superhero team and this troll replied, really aggressively, to tell me I'm wrong. me: ...but...I'm not...I have all the graphic novels. Troll: NOPE you are not a really fan, that isn't the line up. I just went to myself, this guy is nuts, and went about doing something else
Exactly. It solves nothing and it's very rare someone else will change their mind. So shut up and color.
Partying
I was too old for this when I was of legal age to do this. Loud, dark, smelly, the music is weird, someone has to watch your things, drinks are expensive.
Only if you go out to party.... Home is prolly safe tho
Load More Replies...It's a lot of clean up, buying copious amounts of booze, cheap, filler snacks, shouting to have a conversation with people over loud, terrible music you wouldn't normally listen to, and being crammed in with a bunch of people you would normally have 0 interest in schmoozing with. Plus the safety factor is low.
Bye Bye Partying, mixing with more than 6-8 people has become chaos !
I got kicked out of line to get into a club when I was in my 20s because I was wearing sneakers. I was *so* grateful.
I guess it depends on the party but from my experience, any house party is always just people standing around talking. I have no idea what to talk to people about, feel odd having to interact with someone I've never met, and unless I get drunk, I can't enjoy it or am straight up bored out of my mind.
Ok this is really for old heads I love to party I JUST WANNA ROCK BODY BODY YAH
Social media. Rather meet face to face
No one even wants to go out for coffee or go do something, and actually make it to fruition. "Oh, I'll give you my facebook." What? Why? Then you go friend them and they friend you but never chat with you. What was the point?
Apparently everyone is so overworked they dont have the physical energy to move from the couch when they get home so they just hop on their phone til bedtime.
Load More Replies...I love the look on people's faces when they ask me to look them up on Facebook and I say I don't do Facebook.
It's beyond annoying when an organization, group, or school only communicates through Facebook. Didn't many of us dump it long ago? Don't feed the Beast
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New slang.
Upvote for The Shins song from 20+ years ago https://www.google.com/search?q=new+slang+song&oq=new+slang+song&aqs=chrome..69i57.5661j0j7&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8
I can't believe you just called out The Shins being from 20 years ago. I remember when they were my favorite new band.... sigh
Load More Replies...I rarely adopt the use of new slang, unless I'm being sarcastic. But I consult the Urban Dictionary fairly often, just so I can translate.
Why use new slang when you can use old slang and make younger people cringe? :D
I am like the only kid in my entire school who doesn’t use slang, and whenever I’ve tried, I’ve regretted it and vowed to never say it again
I never use slang, because whenever I try I mess it up.
Load More Replies...Family b******t
I don't care who did it what with who. There's a divide in my family right now, and it's all to do with the older generations. They've tried getting all the younger generations involved but we're not playing that game. To hell with all of them.
Nope. I will avoid most family at all costs in order to not deal with this. The ONLY drama or bs I will happily deal with is from my son and grandson. Anyone else can kma
Yup. I am no contact with both of my toxic AF sisters. My peace of mind is far more important to me than some fairytale notion of what "family" should be.
Just bull sh1t in general - no need to single out any specific people
I think family are the worst, becausecthey tend to think you owe them something
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Drama
Oh, so sorry, I have to take this call, see ya ! Blue tooth hearing aids connected with your phone, no one can hear it ring but you, a wonderful adaption of new technology !
Long conversations. Please wrap up whatever you need to say in 3 minutes or less. I zone out on each Teams meeting I have at work. I simply can’t stay engaged for longer than a few minutes (this might be a mental issue the more I think about it).
OMg yes! I have a couple of friends that take so many detours when telling a story, that I can't even remember what the original topic was, and neither can they! I have gotten to the point, where I say, stay on track, it doesn't matter if the person drank coffee or tea, and if they had sugar or splenda, get to the damn point!
Oh I can have LONG conversations. Its just according to a former roommate, I wont remember any of it past the 30 minute marker. My eyes dilate and everything after that is on autopilot with no recording going on. Its a real skill being able to daydream and talk to someone at the same time, still making sense but having no idea what is actually going on :)
Long emails...my brain cannot comprehend past the first paragraph..
Caring. Growing up I was a people pleaser due to the abuse my bio mom did to me. Now being older, I’ve come to realize that I give less and less effs about if I make someone like me or not.
No way bro said caring if your that bitter just end it all at that point 😂
This is so very sensible and I totally agree, but when I see that someone has upvoted something I wrote on BP, It pleases me everytime, until I remember how ridiculous it is to be pleased that a few thousand out of the earths almost 8 billion people agrees with me.
Know your limitations and enforce your boundaries. Don't set yourself on fire to keep warm someone who won't give you the time of day.
The dating scene.
Yeah - I can relate to this one. Recently single after 17 years of marriage. It's a mad house out there.
Recently single after 15yrs. I don't want to deal with dating. I'm just going to stay home with a good book and spoil my kitties.
Load More Replies...I gave up on dating, then met a guy who lived in my building; he'd also quit the dating scene. Something clicked, and we were together for three years until he died in January. When we were together, we both decided that this was going to be our last relationship, we'd both had too much c**p from anybody else. I miss him every day but I know that he was my unicorn and I had three blissful years with someone who was perfect for me.
Life is so good when you are single. Do try it out and get to know yourself.
Your self entitlement hasn't helped either.
Load More Replies...Kissing up and playing games in the work place.
No longer part of my life, didn't do well with it before retirement !
My husband and I just started a business. I run the office. I’m the only one there right now. Of the company gets big enough to need a two person office, I will retire and hire two people to run it. Even though the tables are turned in my case, I don’t want people trying to suck up to me, because I have seen it too f*****g many times before, know it right away when I see it, and refuse to respond to it, or even have anyone try it. Never could understand managers falling for the suckups’ b******t.
I agree with this one hundred percent. I was the WORST, BUTT KISSING "Yes girl," thinking that it would get me ahead. I was always answering emails and texts IMMEDIATELY I was taking on extra duties, "Sure I'll come in early," "Sure I'll stay late," "Sure I'll work on my day off," "Sure I can work a double," "Sure I'll come back early from surgery because you need me." Now I'm "I'll do my job to the BEST of my ability, while I'm here.......but don't ask me to do anything outside of my schedule and my job description.
This routine rarely ends well. The problem with kissing up to bosses is that sometimes bosses move on. The replacement is either someone who expects you to earn your paycheck like everyone else, or expect you go far above and beyond for very little, if any, compensation.
Grudges and impatients. It's just exhausting. I've become a much more forgiving and tolerant person with age. Learning how to set healthy boundaries has helped.
My memory is too c**p to hold a grudge. I'll probably forget I'm supposed to be mad at you.
OK, just checking to see if they censor the dice game ... Craps!
Load More Replies...It just wastes so damned much time that could be spent having a much more enjoyable life.
I'll set healthy boundaries, but I'm also a Scorpio. I'll hold a grudge until the day I die into infinity and beyond and I'm perfectly fine with that. Doesn't cost me a damn thing to NOT talk to or not be around someone.
Booze, hangovers are almost always near extinction events these days.
I have reached the point where any is too much. Time for a reality reset.
Just getting a buzz will make me feel like shite the next day. Like, tired and foggy.
Load More Replies...Hopefully bringing in the good new days??? I feel your pain though.
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I used to go to the bar on the weekends, play darts, listen to the band, etc. It was fun!
Now it's just crowded annoying people, loud music and overpriced beer with a cover charge.
I'll still make an appearance for some food or to watch a game, but more of a happy hour thing.
I hadn’t been to a proper bar in years and some friends and I decided to meet up for drinks before a concert… I was gobsmacked when I got the tab. $25 per drink 😳 we decided to pregame at home from now on since we Uber
Being treated like s**t
I know it's a movie but I do like the quote in The Princess Diaries "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
I actually told my son this the other day. It felt good to pass the wisdom on.
Load More Replies...Bad managers that don’t listen. I use malicious compliance, selective hearing, and miscommunication to work around them.
Other people's drama and nonsense.
Negativity.
Loving how every item in this list is a version of “negativity” and then we get negativity. Yup, too old for negativity
I’m getting too old for social media. I used to care 20 years ago with MySpace, and then Facebook. But in these last 5ish years I’ve just stopped caring. Instagram, Twitter, uhhh whatever is out there. Snapchat? TikTok? Fk it. It’s all stupid and there is so much out there. Now I’m reading threads… UHG. Social media used to be cool, now it’s a lame waste of time. I don’t want my private life public anymore and I only honestly talk to 5-10 people regularly out of the hundreds of friends I’ve made in my lifetime.
Not really an age thing, just whether you can give it the time it needs, or indeed whether you're interested. I was never able to cope with Facebook, realising that I really don't want to know every day what people are up to, and I certainly don't expect anyone to be interested in my day-to-day existence either.
That depends really a lot of what social medium we are speaking about, and what you use it for. Tik Tok is pure brainless s**t. Instagram and Facebook, depends... If you just watch what everybody is watching, the influencers and s**t like that, it's like getting a lobotomy. It rots your brain in a few hours. Same if you are obsessed with "uploading" everything you do. However, you can also find people who are doing extraordinary things, craftspeople, NGOs who are working for causes you defend. Last summer I managed to save some baby swifts because I could find a group of people in my area who rescue them. It would have been impossible without Instagram. There are also great groups of animal rescue, lost pets, and the like. And whatever your hobbies, you can find people all over the world who make beautiful things and share part of their wisdom.
Load More Replies...I just hate how it’s become SO important and not just a hobby. I work in film and when I interview for jobs, they ask how many followers I have, or even worse, for editorial shoots, they offer to compensate me by “giving me a shout out on their SM” 🤦🏻♀️ shout outs don’t pay my bills. Plus I’ve got a huge resume behind me after 30 years and they only care how many followers I have?
Social media was never cool, it has always been and will always the collected cesspool of human vanity and narcissism.
I always thought about it as a wast of time *lol* I only made a facebook account when I didn´t have a phone for a while so that people where able to contact me in SOME way. But now that I have one again Facebook is pretty much dead again for me.
I used to use FB for catching up with family after I moved several states away. Nowadays, it's just hyper-charged political ranting. I've been tempted to close my account for several years now. I may do so this year since next year is an election year....
Plastering your life across social media does not make you an interesting person. So what, your hubby made you breakfast this morning and your little darling Rhieliegh-Mkenzzie did something/anything and you had something for lunch. In the words of Kevin Bloody Wilson D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F
Camping on the ground.
Went camping a few times as an adult. Love sitting around a camp fire for a few hours. The rest is buggy and uncomfortable. Then you get in your sleeping bag and wait for Leatherface or Jason to come slash the tent and kill you,
I have osteoarthritis in my hips and knees, I would welcome Leatherface or Jason. No running from me! I am also fat, so good luck to them dragging me anywhere.
Load More Replies...I like the IDEA of camping but the setup and work that goes into it is exhausting. And that's if you don't choose a campground that requires hiking to get to it.
we bought ultra-light camp beds. Although they still weigh almost two kilos, they are relatively comfortable and you can stow your things underneath. I would prefer an air mattress (for space and weight reasons) but unfortunately the air goes out far too often on the go and the very expensive ones are just too expensive for me.
We have gone tent camping as a group of adults for 8 years now (I've can camping for 30 years) and have self- pump air mattresses, a tent that raises at the push of a button, and a screened in patio. It's great being in nature, hiking, swimming, etc. I love being in a tent where I can see the sky at night far more than an RV. Sitting around the fire and chatting, sipping drinks, and listening to the sound around us is a dream. Would be a nightmare without the mattress.
Staying out late, especially during the week.
Waiting in line.
If there's a long line, I'll just think of other options, try again later or leave all together. You'd think people in line are being patient. Yeah, right.
I don't get this. Choosing to opt out of queuing in a long line over something you've decided you didn't need thar much or actually barging in front of people?
Mainstream music I am old. I don't like auto-tune. I don't like people speaking lyrics. I'm tired of how music went from what seemed like 5 or 6 genres all feeding each other country, s**t rap, or annoying pop. I can still dig some Adele and T Swift though
No he's talking about hip-hop and modern pop. It's a pretty close minded comment but I don't think he meant T
Load More Replies...I don't think you know what you are talking about after that first paragraph, then saying you like Adele and TS? They are like 95% autotuned lol!
There are definitely some mainstream songs I love, no shame there, but I do listen to Spotify more often than not and let it find me random bands. So they're probably just mainstream in some other country and I think they're edgy here in the U.S. :)
Some of Gen-Z, I feel like. I just came across a video from someone who suffers from "time blindness," aka not being able to show up to work on time. That's a *you* problem, sweetie. Get your s**t together and f****n be a productive member of society. You think that the world's supposed to cater to you? Nah, f**k outta here with that! I absolutely *dread* going into work most days, but I'm getting paid good for a good job, I'm going to be able to pay off my college debt in a few years, I'm going to use some of my grandmother's inheritance to put a down payment on a house soon, and I'm planning on getting married to my girl and traveling the world. Not only that, but I have 3 square meals a day, a roof over my head, a car that works, and a job that although sometimes dreadful, I can still get up to work on time, because not everyone is a pussy who can't get to work because you think the world revolves around you. I'm sick of people in Gen-Z who think that the world is going to cater to them. Nope. Not happening. Suck it up, buttercup. Rant over. Have a lovely week, everyone!
I feel like this was a poorly articulated video. She stated that she was cut off from finishing her question and the interviewer jumped to a conclusion. I get this because this happens to me all the time and I'm left dumbfounded and unable to finish speaking. It's a mindfuck game. The interviewer could have asked for more clarification or some examples. Obviously, this girl made it to the interview. Didn't hear anything about her being late but the interview went ahead enough to get that far, so I'm assuming that aspect. I've never heard of time blindness, however I do know a symptom of Dyscalculia is a difficulty with time recognition and time lapses. Sure, there's been the odd time I've been late for work, missed the bus, as many people have. I make sure my alarm is set and trying to keep tabs on the clock frequently. It's not always easy but it's not something I expect my work to "accommodate" me for. It gives the impression it's a habitual problem when it's not.
I am 50/50 on this. If it was classed as a disability then I would qualify but I also believe in taking personal responsibility.
Sounds like you don't suffer from mental illness. When you haven't experienced it, It's hard to understand how difficult it can be to do basic tasks, like shower or eat lunch. Count your blessings; I have a good life, but what I wouldn't do to have all of my mental illnesses just disappear...
I've suffered from depression for many years and I know how difficult it can be to do the most basic activities, like just getting up from bed and have a shower. However, I can't expect society caters for my needs. If I'm supposed to go to work, it's my problem what it takes to be there on time, clean and ready. It would be wonderful if we could have a more tolerant and flexible environment for everyone, because every person deals with their own demons. The problem is people like the idiot in the video are not trying to make a better society; they are just trying to prove they are the centre of the universe. I'll do anything I can to help others, provided they don't think it's my obligation to put up with their s**t and do their job.
Load More Replies...When I was in the service I had temporary duty for a month to monitor a girl in the base jail at night. Her crime: late to work 3 times in one month. She was jailed for 28 days.
Seems she’d learn to set an alarm on that phone she doesn’t “forget” and takes with her everywhere 🙄
Load More Replies...That's a lot of words to just say, "I'm wrong."
Load More Replies...Trying to be hot.
Why would anyone do this anyway? It causes people to pay more attention to you
I'm always hot...thanks to mature lady puberty...I know that's not what is being referred to, but hey, life is short, have a laugh with me
Apparently Im getting too old to be self sufficient or physically active.
Driving all night. Did it one time at 65 never again.
I prefer driving at night unless it's cloudy during the day.. Sunshine hurts my eyes and is too hot.
Three day music festivals. I still try, it never ends successfully.
Listening to people who don't pay my bills or my way if living. If I have to pay my I wn way then ima listen ti myself
Eating fast food apparently! I used to be able to eat spicy, greasy food no problems. Now I just get heartburn and indigestion
I got heartburn from garlic bread the other day. Like WTF? Where did that come from?
I haven't had any medical problems with it, but agree entirely. Can't stand fast food. It's greasy, empty calories that don't even bother trying to taste good. No thanks.
Paying cover for bars/clubs. Why? I'll just go to the next one
It means you have to pay at the door just to get inside
Load More Replies...Just turned 40 and I can't get "lost" in a game anymore. Every time I try my brain is like "pssst you don't have your whole life ahead of you anymore..."
Hard labor.
I still do a lot of stuff - laying floors at the moment, new kitchen install i the next few weeks, but I have to budget on max four hours a day actual physical grind, and to avoid having any hard deadlines - rushing to finish a job will result in more errors, more stress.
Agreed. Some satisfaction in doing things myself. I'm 60 and I will clean my own gutters, mow my grass, weed eat, garden, just in my own time.
Load More Replies...Laboring for yourself brings self satisfaction, just take your time and spread the project out, no hurry now days !
Customers that don't know what they want. I work in a male dominated industry, when the 98% old man customer base is assisted by a female, they have no idea what it is they want. They will stutter and sputter but then catch a glimpse of a man in the background, they want the be served by a him. Dude, he doesn't know 1/2 as much as I do. They get schooled very quickly.
I have to agree to a certain point on this one. My husband used to wear suits 6/7 days. So he has 7 suits with a cycle to replace one every year or two, with the accessories. We went to his favorite store and this lady shows him tons of stuff that we really don't like (the cut, the colors, etc.). She is not listening and wants him to be "hype". After 1/2 hour of this, an older man comes over and offers to take over. We all agree because all three of us were really frustrated by that time. The guy starts and ends up selling us 2 full suits (w/accessories), shorts, summer shirts, shoes, and socks. And. It took less than 45 minutes.
I'm imagining like Home Depot or something, and as a woman I can tell you I only go in knowing what I need because I've had too many male employees talk down to me because I didn't know exactly what something was called or what I needed. Female employees at places like this are always more helpful and patient.
Guest rooms. I got hotel points.
All this s**t. Honestly, if there was an easy way, I'd nope the f**k out., I'm done
What has my country do with anything in this post? Real question.
Load More Replies...Stuffed animals. But they’re just so cute
I have a pile of stuffed animals in my room that I haven’t played with in like 4 years but I will never get rid of them and I will keep collecting them
I donated about 4 bags full of stuffed animals to the police station for kids being removed from their homes, so it was for a good cause, and I still cried letting them go. It's ok to love stuffies no matter your age.
Drinking 2 days in a row
Nah, drinking two drinks in a row. My poor bladder prefers a nice gap between.
Load More Replies...Niceties. Like in this economy??? Don’t ask me “how’s your day been” in the grocery line, just nod and we can move on. Lol
Classic rock. I had to listened to it when it was new. Enough already.
Yes! Especially because "Classic Rock" radio stations play the same 20 songs on repeat.
Keep listening to the new stuff.... Alice Cooper just dropped a few singles of his new album that's coming out next month.... White line Frankenstein
Can I just say tolerating the entire human race? Everyday I could face palm...
And not enough room in the trunk of my car for 8 billion people.
Load More Replies...As I get older, I find it worthwhile spending a bit more to buy quality shoes for their comfort & longevity
I'm in my twenties. But I've always known it's better to buy a few things that last than many things that don't. Unfortunately I can't afford some of the quality stuff now. Being young and poor is truly expensive.
Load More Replies...One very important thing missing: traveling crammed on an airplanes for less money? Oh, and you're not able to bring your carry on luggage. You have to pay for EVERYTHING and in the near future this will include even using the lavatories...and breathing!
Working in office. I'm not trying to climb any ladder. I've always been the hardest working one in the office. All I've gotten for it is more work piled on, small raises. I work from home, do my job, but I'm pretty burnt out at this point.
1. The constant competition for my time, money, & attention. It's like everybody & their narcissistic step-sibling, every institution & its algorithms, has an agenda that is not served by just letting me BE. 2. Willful denial of reality. From science to elections, so many people seem to think they Have The Right to believe whatever makes them feel validated. 3. Having to say everything at least twice because the first response is always, "what"? 4. My own hearing getting worse whenever I notice #3 above.
I don't know if this counts...the way things are 'improved' , everything from recipes to tech but end up being worse....as an example ,getting rid of Google Play Music and replacing it with YT. To this day it still annoys me as I found the voice command very sketchy and try and avoid it
Can I just say tolerating the entire human race? Everyday I could face palm...
And not enough room in the trunk of my car for 8 billion people.
Load More Replies...As I get older, I find it worthwhile spending a bit more to buy quality shoes for their comfort & longevity
I'm in my twenties. But I've always known it's better to buy a few things that last than many things that don't. Unfortunately I can't afford some of the quality stuff now. Being young and poor is truly expensive.
Load More Replies...One very important thing missing: traveling crammed on an airplanes for less money? Oh, and you're not able to bring your carry on luggage. You have to pay for EVERYTHING and in the near future this will include even using the lavatories...and breathing!
Working in office. I'm not trying to climb any ladder. I've always been the hardest working one in the office. All I've gotten for it is more work piled on, small raises. I work from home, do my job, but I'm pretty burnt out at this point.
1. The constant competition for my time, money, & attention. It's like everybody & their narcissistic step-sibling, every institution & its algorithms, has an agenda that is not served by just letting me BE. 2. Willful denial of reality. From science to elections, so many people seem to think they Have The Right to believe whatever makes them feel validated. 3. Having to say everything at least twice because the first response is always, "what"? 4. My own hearing getting worse whenever I notice #3 above.
I don't know if this counts...the way things are 'improved' , everything from recipes to tech but end up being worse....as an example ,getting rid of Google Play Music and replacing it with YT. To this day it still annoys me as I found the voice command very sketchy and try and avoid it
