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I'm a 36-year-old Italian who is fascinated by the past and by many things that are death-related. That is probably because I lost my parents at a young age and I was forced to deal with mortality, loss, and mourning.

I created an Instagram account to collect pictures of the photos on old tombstones, mostly found in Italian cemeteries. I love cemeteries, and the different conceptions people have about them around the world, and also the differences in the way they are (e.g. in Italy, all tombs have photographs while in other countries they are not used at all). I really like funerary art, cemeteries' artistic value, beautiful statues and also inscriptions on old tombstones, the type of language and symbolism, and also I am fascinated by post-mortem photographs.

I also love old photographs from the 1800s and early 1900s that depict the first attempts in portrait photography. They are historical and fascinating. Sometimes it's also possible to find post-mortem photos (photographs of the recently deceased) as it was an acceptable memorial practice in the 19th century. 

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MichaelMValle
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Nikki D
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, and I thought all old timey pictures looked bad!

Aga Agnieszka
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Piękna a za razem tajemnicza kobieta, oczarowała mnie...

Diver Driver
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, in fact most Italian women have very beautiful features.

While I was visiting cemeteries, other than taking pictures of the tombs and monuments (which a lot of people do), I started to look closer and focus on the faces that I found interesting. I opened an Instagram account mainly to not bother my friends following my personal profile with too much of this kind of content. I decided to make this account a repository of my collection. The name of the page (My forgotten faces) comes from the fact that a lot of times these kinds of photos I look for on tombs are so old that no one takes care of them anymore.

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She looks a bit like Polish great actress, Krystyna Feldman. The same spark of life in her eyes :)

    Jim Price
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like the Mona Lisa with just a bit more smile.

    kathryn stretton
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Proper character. More than lovely.wish I knew her.

    Amandine Vn
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like she's happy to have a child in her oven... sweet.

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    donghun's emo cactus
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This makes me wonder how she passed away.

    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most likely because of some disease. Early 1900 were times of many plagues (like epidemic of cholera or spanish flu) which today would not necessarily end with so many deaths but at these times people did not have so many effective meds...

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    I love to see the different fashions in clothes and hair, but also the facial expressions, pose, and if there is a little bit of information on the person. Another thing I love is the names. Here in Italy, I find a lot of old names that are not used anymore and are very interesting and sometimes even weird.

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    Rebekah
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He makes me smile. Dapper gent.

    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He looks like interesting man. I'd like to meet him.

    JessG
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like a young Einstein

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a elegant lady! Beautiful!

    Amy Smith
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She looks a little like Fiona Shaw

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    I don't know the stories of these people. I only look for what's on the tombstone inscriptions. I always try to be very discreet when taking pictures, cause I think a lot of people visiting cemeteries might find it offensive, even though I specifically look for very old tombs that most of the time are forgotten (hence the name of the account).

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me, there is something reassuring in long term marriages and old couples. It helps to believe we can truly be loved until the end of our days.

    Bexxxxx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s so sweet when you see couples who have made it work and stayed together :) a life partner relationship is a lot of work from both partners, it’s not just frivolous emotions at that point, so it’s so cool when you see couples absolutely in love and in sync decades later. Contrary to popular belief, we are not each entitled to a soul mate, and I think it’s kinda special and rare when you find the couple who perfectly compliment each other :)

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She has a look, as if she just saw the seventh circle of hell. Creepy.

    Daria B
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah. She just looks like she had eyesight problems.

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    Frankly Deir
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suspect this one might be post-mortem as well.

    Traumtanzer
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very creepy but stunning picture.

    By taking and sharing these photos, I give these people a chance to be seen again by someone, after so many years of being there, sometimes forgotten even by their own family. Not a lot of us deeply know about such old relatives (which I think is unfortunately natural and normal). Maybe their family line has ended years ago, and there is really no one here to remember them anyway.

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    Traumtanzer
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow she was truly beautiful!

    Troy Currie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty and sensible judging from her not so perfect hair. Probably a working woman or mother with more than a few kids as was the way back then.

    Tambot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her face looks so "modern day" something about it

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's heartbreaking, to look at someone so young and know they were at the war. It just is not right!

    Nikki D
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As if sending 18 year olds wasn't bad enough. Poor kid.

    Catie Marie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of soldiers in the American civil war were around 14. Im sure every one of them thought they'd be the one to come home.

    Charlie Taube
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He probably volunteered he probably got caught in ideological fervor and blind patriotism.

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    Agnes Jekyll
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very handsome man--he looks a bit like Matthew Broderick

    Alma Muminovic
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was gonna say Dean Winchester from Supernatural.

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    John Sampson
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    War should be outlawed. Can you imagine intentionally sending young men into a situation where lethal weapons will be pointed at them and fired? There is nothing civilized about war!

    DemPugs
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes war is the only option. It can't just be simply outlawed either.

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    Alessandro Stella
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it`s a picture of a musician, not a soldier ;)

    CandyCat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    looks like the police officer from Hugo.

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    ιξε τραωαντι
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is looped through her arm and I really like it.

    Troy Currie
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who's was in who's depended on who could walk better that particular day...

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    Karen Clark
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These two were happy people. Their faces and body language radiate a quiet contentment.

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    Traumtanzer
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sad when little ones die :(

    Troy Currie
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like the picture has been updated, maybe more than once. The stone is crumbling from age and is slightly ajar...or they couldn't afford a nice headstone to start with

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the rose on this photo. It is details such as this that create the atmosphere of the whole picture.

    Niito
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like her expression, she looks like a nice person

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    Shirin Kamer
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Together in life and in death

    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if they died at the same time or it is just that after the death of the second person the photo has been changed to one on which they are together.

    Wyndmere
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Due to same war as the boy's photo above, or sickness?

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    Agnes Jekyll
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like a scientist, or a composer

    Wyndmere
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably the local barber or butcher.

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    Vicki Meola
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This could be the same fella in different stages of his life. Its hard to pick just one.

    ispeak catanese
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Different hairlines and mouths make me think they're brothers

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    Karen Clark
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The guy on the left looks like the Italian actor Rossano Brazzi.

    Rachel Biel
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same guy at different ages....

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This woman has very interesting face. It is not typical beauty but it catches the eye. I like her eyes on this photo. They look both melancholic and wise at the same time.

    Rebekah
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This woman could be 12 or 40, it's hard to tell.

    Brivid
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He looks old enough to be her dad.

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    Agnes Jekyll
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does this mean she died young while he lived on without her? or is this a photo of her when she was young, or is this a daughter?

    Aunt Messy
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's probably the third or fourth wife.Women died in childbirth, and men would remarry multiple times.

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    Bluebell Rizzi
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She looks like Marty McFly's mother :D

    Agnes Jekyll
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she looks like she's on her way to a bohemian cafe in naples or maybe montmarytre

    gg Gc
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I could meet any of these people it would be her. Something in her eyes.

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    Jacob Nunez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “The eyes that has seen a thing or two can say a lot” - anonymous

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    Agnes Jekyll
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like that someone is still taking care of the grave

    Jim Price
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did Peter Lorre have a sister?

    Vicki Meola
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow...could this be Johnny Cash's Great-Grandmother? Sje looks like she could have been a tiny Italian lady like my sweet Grandma Meola...she was 4'11" of total sweetness! <3

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She has so delicate facial features and lovely eyes. Exceptional.

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    Chicago Kitty
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, this damage looks intentional.

    Troy Currie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Others in this gallery have been redone throughout the years...maybe one day so will this one.

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    Grace Robertson
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe or maybe not. I can see her as a caring grandmother.

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is he angry? Looks like he had rather unpleasant day. A very good-looking older man, by the way.

    Troy Currie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's thinking "Ain't Nobody Got Time For That!!"

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    Disturbingly Pragmatic
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, he'll be in my nightmares for life. Thanks!

    Aga Agnieszka
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    O kurwa ale złośliwy zgred pierdolony.

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    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He looks like he prefers to rather not to be on this photo.

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    Traumtanzer
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Post mortem I think, she seems to be lying down

    C
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd think it's Post Mortem.

    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Either way, unsettling. I'd rather not to look at this photo after sunset.

    R Tate Dancer
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No flash and old time, long exposure photo. No blinking!

    Kim Shannon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could be momento mori. Eyes look painted on

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    Weblin
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    Impossible to look at "them" without thinking ...

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    Ursula S.
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's something about her eyes and facial features that really capture your attention. Wonderful.

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    Tee Witt
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooooww, I hope she did not die at/soon after her wedding.

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    Christina Marie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a foreground, timelessly classic woman! I wonder what her story is 🧠 💭.

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    Christina Marie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That pose and hair 👏! I would love to re create this look in homage.

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    Ursula S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She reminds me of my friend's Italian grandmother when we were growing up: a bit scary, took no nonsence but actually very kind.

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    Ursula S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonder what she was looking at or thinking.

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    Marla Moops
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    long lost relative of Deniro I am most certain...

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    Ursula S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel she would invite you in for coffee and a warm chat full of good advice.

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    Danelys Fossler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow he looks just like Dan Levy from Schmitt’s Creek.

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    Ursula S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too bad about the crack. Looks like moisture will get in and damage it.

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    Ursula S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always nice to see couples. Hopefully they were older than what they look like in the photo when they passed.

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    Kimberly Kuhlman, M.Photog.Cr
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should really look at creating an NFT Collection with this work. I love it!

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    Tee Witt
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mother and daughter obviously

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