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You know, Pandas, it’s really way too easy to focus just on the negatives. In fact, we’re hard-wired for that. It’s called negativity bias and it means that we dwell on the awful things that have happened to us more than the awesome ones. So with all the news about just how bad things are looking recently, you’d be perfectly right to be anxious and upset. However, we shouldn’t forget that, at the same time, life’s full of beauty, wonder, and wholesomeness. Albus Dumbledore told us that happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, but we have to remember to turn on the light. Well, let’s turn that light on, shall we?

Today, we’re featuring the best posts from the r/gatesopencomeonin subreddit, a 356k-member-strong community that celebrates people acting excellent and being wholesome to each other. It’s the kind of stuff that really restores part of your hope in humanity. And it’s a reminder that we have to strive to be altruistic and kind, especially when things are looking tough.

Upvote your fave pics as you’re scrolling down, Pandas. And tell us all about the nicest thing you’ve done for someone recently, in the comments. Meanwhile, check out Bored Panda’s interview about how to live a happy and healthy life, as well as how to be nice to others when we don’t feel like it, with writer Ariane Sherine, the author of ‘How to Live to 100’ and ‘Talk Yourself Better.’

Oh, and if you’d like some more proof that people totally have the potential to be awesome, take a peek at our earlier articles about the ‘Gates Open, Come On In’ community here: Part 1 and Part 2.

#1

I Needed To Hear This. I'm So Tired

I Needed To Hear This. I'm So Tired

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    A Surprise Happy Ending?

    A Surprise Happy Ending?

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    Hawkmoon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice exchange between nice people that tries to understand each other. Should be more of these on the Internet.

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    The ‘Gates Open, Come On In’ subreddit has been delighting redditors (and more!) around the globe since early 2018. In the 4+ years since being founded, it’s carved out a niche of wholesomeness, hope, and good vibes by being the polar opposite of r/gatekeeping.

    They only have two rules: there’s no gatekeeping allowed and you have to be nice. That’s it. Really. It’s a pretty straightforward recommendation for living a good life, isn’t it? Besides, it’s refreshing when you focus on the positives for a change, isn’t it?

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    #4

    Better Late Than Never

    Better Late Than Never

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    Foxxy (The Original)
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last sentence explains it perfectly. Although there is an expiration date and that is death.

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    #5

    Remember, Everyone Has A Purpose

    Remember, Everyone Has A Purpose

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    Frances M
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who once worked in payroll, if you want to make money go into waste removal. If you want an interesting job go into any science or engineering field.

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    #6

    An Email From My Computer Science Teacher, Who I’m Not Even Taking A Class With This Semester. Genuinely Want To Cry Rn

    An Email From My Computer Science Teacher, Who I’m Not Even Taking A Class With This Semester. Genuinely Want To Cry Rn

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    Toolkit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So caring and understanding of them ♥

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    (Probably) everyone wants to live a happy, healthy, and fulfilling life. But it’s a hard thing to do in practice, especially when you’re bound by doubt, anxiety, and fear. Bored Panda reached out to author Ariane, who has written about health and happiness, to understand what contributes to our satisfaction with life the most. Really, it’s mostly about altruism and having a tight-knit social circle (among a few other things).

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    “Close, fulfilling relationships with others are one of the most important things when it comes to happiness, whether romantic or platonic. Studies show that the more close friendships and relationships you have, the longer you live,” Ariane shared with Bored Panda. “Volunteering and helping others are also likely to make you happy.”

    #7

    Be Free To Like Things

    Be Free To Like Things

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    Lady Goldberry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me: yeah, I'm really into real ales and metal music. Rando: oh really? What year was the first IPA sold internationally and what blood type is James Hatfield?

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    #8

    One Letter Makes All The Difference!

    One Letter Makes All The Difference!

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    #9

    This Made Me Really Happy

    This Made Me Really Happy

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    Flintlock
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Man Just this, that's what society is supposed to be

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    Other things that play an important role in our overall happiness include being fit, having a fulfilling career, and not focusing on the material side of things too much.

    “There are other things that contribute to happiness and well-being including taking regular exercise, eating healthily, having enough money to feel comfortable, having job security, and enjoying experiences rather than possessions,” the writer explained.

    #10

    True Spirit

    True Spirit

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    Eva the Egg
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this child is precious and we must protec

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    #11

    Making A Kid’s Day!

    Making A Kid’s Day!

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    #12

    Just Let Them Be They

    Just Let Them Be They

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    Toolkit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so beautiful and simply heart touching ♥ ✨

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    “Self-care and taking time for yourself are also very important. But I'd say close relationships are probably the most essential things to happiness,” she stressed what we should all be focusing on the most.

    It’s easy to be kind to someone when we’re feeling great, the sun’s shining, and it’s like we’re on top of the world. It’s far harder when we’re miserable, exhausted, and feeling down. Bored Panda wanted to get Ariane’s advice on how to be nice to someone when we’re down in the dumps and overwhelmed with problems.

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    #13

    Unexpected Coming Out Story

    Unexpected Coming Out Story

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    Eva the Egg
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    haha awwwwwww i cant express how wholesome i find that

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    #14

    Never Walk Without A Bro

    Never Walk Without A Bro

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    #15

    Grandmas Are Always A Bastion Of Wholesomeness

    Grandmas Are Always A Bastion Of Wholesomeness

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    “It's worth remembering that being kind to others can also lift you up too. In fact, the easiest way to take your mind off your own problems is to help someone else with theirs,” she said.

    “But if you're feeling really lethargic and low, the best thing is probably to sleep, or at least rest,” the author pointed out that there’s nothing wrong with getting some well-deserved rest. Getting some proper sleep is a piece of advice that really deserves more attention than it gets.

    #16

    Wear Whatever Makes You Happy!

    Wear Whatever Makes You Happy!

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    Dennis Knickrehm
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many schoolboys protesting their school's dresscode by wearing skirts (not allowed to wear shorts in the heat). Why not just keep the skirt? They are amazingly comfortable in the summer :)

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    #18

    I Love Sharing My Book Collection

    I Love Sharing My Book Collection

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    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn’t matter if you read classic literature, crime fiction, graphic novels or young adult stories…reading what you enjoy is the whole point.

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    We were also curious about how people can control their anxiety better, especially if they’re worried about the economy, the war, and the pandemic. Ariane shared some of her thoughts about becoming more resilient during tough times. The important thing here is to control what you can and to let go of what you can’t affect.

    “It's a matter of doing what you can to make your own situation better, and then accepting that you can't control everything,” she said. “You can never control everything, and trying will make you even more anxious. But you can control certain things to reduce your risk.”

    #19

    On A Cathedral Door

    On A Cathedral Door

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    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is how Christianity SHOULD be, everywhere.

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    #20

    Shared Spaces

    Shared Spaces

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    Katinka Min
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AMEN!!!! Just yesterday I was subjected to the evil looks of a guy who wanted to read a book while I wanted to talk with my friend. Dude, it's a CAFE! Not a librabry! It#s a place wher epeople meet to have coffe and cake and a chat. You want peace and quiet? go to a a library or a co-working space.

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    #21

    A Grown Man Indeed

    A Grown Man Indeed

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    Florida, but without the beach
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love this! I can’t imagine that’s not the response she usually gets

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    Ariane gave an example of how this works: “For instance, I wear an FFP2 mask on the train to work because I can control that, but no one else wears one these days. So it's possible that I'll still get Covid as no one else is masking up, but I just have to accept that, because my train journeys are essential.”

    #22

    Custom Veganism

    Custom Veganism

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    Diolla
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SO agree with this. Am trying to be vegan but I live in a cheese country.... love cheese TOO MUCH! I keep trying the vegan cheeses though. One day they will be good enough.

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    #23

    Dear Kids

    Dear Kids

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    #24

    My Music Taste

    My Music Taste

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    Jackie Dray
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so me. My playlist can go from Metallica to Backstreet Boys to Beethoven's 5th

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    During an earlier in-depth interview, Suzanne Degges-White, Licensed Counselor, Professor, and Chair at the Department of Counseling and Higher Education at Northern Illinois University, shared with Bored Panda how our family values, spiritual beliefs, and even our biology all play a crucial role in our altruistic actions.

    "Many of us are raised to believe it is the 'right thing to do.' Basically, all spiritual belief systems have a version of the 'Golden Rule, 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.’ "We also do good turns because we know that one day we may be in need of a little 'generosity from the universe,' so it's like putting 'money' into a karma account," she shared how people think.

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    #25

    Easy Come, Easy Go

    Easy Come, Easy Go

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    Robert T
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speak for yourself. I knew both songs well before either of those were released. But then I'm old, my bones creak, and half the time I can't even remember my own name!

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    #26

    This Dad Is A Legend

    This Dad Is A Legend

    CCtheTalkingGorilla Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He looks so happy and proud 🥹

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    #27

    Rob Zombie Taking On Anyone Who Wants To Gatekeep Metal

    Rob Zombie Taking On Anyone Who Wants To Gatekeep Metal

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    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well said Rob, couldn’t agree more

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    "Lastly, humans are wired so that when we do something kind for another, we feel good about ourselves and neurotransmitters like endorphins and oxytocin have been shown to get a boost when we do something good for another. It is through cooperation that society functions, so the survival of the human race depends on being willing to help others. Family values, spiritual beliefs, and biology all play a part in this motivation," the professor explained to us.

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    #28

    What A Great Sign

    What A Great Sign

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    #29

    Ok Zoomer

    Ok Zoomer

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    Toolkit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is gaining knowledge on electronics specifically cell phones etc seen as a bad thing?

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    "Many of us take pride in being of service to others as it is culturally valued and we want to hold significance in our worlds. So when we do good deeds, we show others our willingness to help those in distress/need; we live out faith-based encouragement to treat others the way we would like to be treated, we uphold family values, and our brains get a positive jolt of happiness when we help others.”

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    #31

    Tiredness

    Tiredness

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    #32

    Fixed A Stupid Meme

    Fixed A Stupid Meme

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    BoredBirb
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FINALLY! THANK YOU! That meme annoyed me forever until THIS BEAUTY!!! This meme was so stereotypical and p!ssed me RIGHT OFF! :D

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    #33

    Your Trauma Is Valid

    Your Trauma Is Valid

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    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s ok to feel whatever you feel - don’t let anyone tell you different

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    #34

    Everyone Gets To Complain About The Weather

    Everyone Gets To Complain About The Weather

    Laneyltre Report

    Lady Goldberry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, apparently some other countries have been mocking us in the UK for not being 'able to handle the heat'...WE'RE NOT CONDITIONED FOR IT! Most of us vary between glow-in-the-dark white and cooked lobster red! WE ARE GOOD AT RAIN!

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    #35

    Klingons Kinda Inclusive

    Klingons Kinda Inclusive

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    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its a very good analogy for trans people i suppose Klingons dont care what gender you are as long as you a warrior with honour

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    #36

    It's For All Of You

    It's For All Of You

    beerbellybegone Report

    LisaMarie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Don't freeze, don't stop, don't worry that it isn't good enough, or it isn't perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life. Whatever it is you're scared of doing, Do it. Make your mistakes, next year and forever." - Neil Gaiman. Love him 😊

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    #37

    Do What You Like

    Do What You Like

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    Karen Fernley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in that case, i will leave the note stickers on my piano keys, and continue to play with one hand, until i am ready to play with both hands 😁

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    #38

    *sigh* If Only

    *sigh* If Only

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    #39

    Reading Goals

    Reading Goals

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    Teresa Thomas
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I needed this. I only just completed my 3rd book for the year - its been difficult to find time to sit and read. I am trying to fill more time by reading rather than being online. I hope to have read at least 5 books by the end of the year

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    #40

    Melon Flavored Jellyfish's Mom Says The Gates Are Open

    Melon Flavored Jellyfish's Mom Says The Gates Are Open

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    #41

    Opening The Gates To Readers Of All Ages

    Opening The Gates To Readers Of All Ages

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    SealOfDisapproval
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree wholeheartedly with that sign. I've never quite understand the whole concept of "young adult books". Aren't you limiting the potential audience by stating the industry's target audience? Who even makes the decisions: "yeah, this is a young adult book".

    aj
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe it's partly due to the age of the characters in the book and their life situation. Often YA books are navigating "typical" teenager topics like first crushes, school/college, identity/sexuality issues, trying to navigate getting into the workforce and finding a job, relationships with friends and family etc. Of course those topics are not only interesting for younger people but like Konpat said I think they're really relevant for people in a similar situation which usually are young adults so it makes sense to directly label books as such.

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    Nick West
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love children and young adult books, they are often more imaginative and unpretentious.

    Aldhissla VargTimmen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this! in children's book stories can just be stories for the fun of it and it's sometimes so much better than adults books that always seem to have to carry depressing themes!

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    Francis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my mum always told me, i'm too old for young aduldt books (when i was around 20). But i think, young adults is just the starting age? like the books for 8y.o.+ are also for kids who are 10 years and older?

    Party Poison (They/Them)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I always saw it as just a recommendation. You can read children book at the age of 6, 12, 20, 35, 50 or 80. It doesn't matter!

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    Kirsten Kerkhof
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonderful! I haven't been in the YA age category for a long time, but I vastly prefer them to 90% of the adult fiction. YA books have similarly profound themes, but none of the boring pretentiousness - and stuff actually happens in them! There is adventure! Romance (and not just s*xual violence)! Fun! Let's not forget that YA actually has fun in it.

    Minath
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read quite a lot of YA books. I struggle with reading now due to some of the medication I am on and find that YA is a nice compromise as the language generally isn't quite as complicated as some of the other books I used to read. They are also printed in a slightly bigger font which helps me so much. My current favourites are The Chronicles of Ixia by Maria V Snyder.

    FriendlyNeighborhoodTerror
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a huge YA fan! It's not as heavy as a lot of adult fantasy but much more grown up than kids books

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every middle school teaches To Kill a Mockingbird. It’s one of my all-time favorite books that I reread every year. I first read Little Women when I was a young girl. It’s another book I reread often. It is amazing just how different the story is when you read it at a different age and with more life experience than the last time you read it. THAT’S the glory of reading well-written classic literature, written by authors who really understand human nature and human experience.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two of my favourite books :) One of the series I want to re-read for that reason is Tomorrow when the war began. I think the new world context will make it even more interesting.

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly 'young adult' has been invented since I was in my twenties. I understand why, I'm not criticising, but before them these books would have been just out on the shelves with all the others. Like 'teenager' and 'toddler' there's no scientific fact behind these divisions, it's literally just marketing.

    Jing Yi Xu
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm still mad that when I was 13 the librarian shooed me out of the children's section, as I was reading picture books...picture books are for all ages and at 24 I enjoy them still!

    three norns
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love YA because I don't have to deal with all the gratuitous sex that seems to be mandatory in adult fiction

    Rick Seiden
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read Harry Potter several times, and I was "too old" for it when it came out.

    Jenn C
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes adult books take themselves too seriously. Also with YA I don't have to worry about encountering excessive language, graphic violence or sex scenes.

    Kate
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I started reading Harry Potter when my grandma kept pestering me to!

    Amy-Lee Kempi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve worked in a library for 8 years and loved the young adults section and took the opportunity to read some childhood classics as well.

    Artchangel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    some of the best books I've read are young adult; check out Diana Wynne Jones and Robert Westall, and there are many more better even than Tolkien.

    rodger coghlan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my favorite children's books is Varjak Paw and its follow up book; one day I was in the children's section trying to find the 3rd book in the series (there isn't one, sigh) - someone approached me and asked me if I needed any help using 'that' tone of voice (loud, high-pitched, slow words) used to speak to young children (I am 73). It was an interesting interaction but got cleared up when I explained the situation. I suggest everyone read the Varjak Paw books

    ADJ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to listen in my car to adventure books I read in paper versions 30+ years ago, when I was a teenager :)

    Erica Cochrane
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i almost exclusively read kids books now. they are amazing. for years i read adult books, and i mostly didn't enjoy them. i do love me some fantasy though. but i just find myself so much more engaged by childrens books (usually those aimed at ages 8+), and excited when i find new ones to read :D

    Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i am sight impaired now that i am older, i cant read well at all. no fun. i rediscovered a bunch of the type of book i read as a tween, the print is much larger, i can read them!

    Jaelyn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i have a bunch of Beverly Clearys (RIP dear lady) books on my kindle and still read them. children's and ya both.

    April Pickett
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Young Adult books are great. They read well, and the stories are interesting. ( I mean they flow easily, there's a rhythm to the sentence structure that's easy to read.)

    Teresa Spanics
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have bought and read teen books and I am 30 with 25 extra years of experience.

    Fish Fingers
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a big, Mohawked 43yr old bus driver, and I always check out the YA section in the library because I have often found some great reads in there! A good story is a good story.

    Daycare Attendant Sun
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a 30 year old librarian. I'm also the one in charge of the YA section of our county library. Most of my check outs are YA. I find that the themes and ideas are better than a lot of the adult fiction we have, and we have manga/western comics, and more fanciful content than a lot of the standard fiction section.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still love many YA novels and reread them regularly, including the above shown book from Terri Windling's "shared universe" Bordertown series, which I'm rereading right now.

    Baths are people soup
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since I started reading ya with my kid, so we could discuss books, I've read more than I have since I was a teen. fiction is fun again! Keeper of the Lost cities, Magnus Chase, Shadowhunters... Can't wait to reread mists of Avalon now!

    Dorothy Reiser
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YA books are often the best!

    Nikole
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell yes! Christopher Pike for life!

    SheamusFan1987
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's put it this way, I'm hitting 40 soon and still read Goosebumps. It's supposed to be scary but sometimes come across as cheesy which I like. Gatekeepers are c**p so let no soul put a gate on books either.

    Melissa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I read so many YA series back when I was in my teens that are still continuing now that I'm in my 30s. Time for a Shadowhunters reread

    Phil Green
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think every adult should read China Mieville's "Un Lun Dun", an amazing book by an amazing author.

    Shoshana Sherrington
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And honestly it sometimes feels like in order to be adult fiction a book must be incredibly dark, graphic, and horny. And I'm just not so interested. I just want something well written that doesn't make me miserable

    Angela Jester
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've got so many YA novels in my collection. I love the stories and I live that I don't have to sit through chapters of nothing but fking (looking at you Laurrel K.) For my story.

    LeeAnne B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 50. I like YA books. Especially Laini Taylor. If the story is good and it's well written, who cares about genre.

    Aldhissla VargTimmen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read John Flanagan's Rangers apprentice series a couple of years ago in my thirties and those were amazing, I recommended them to my husband and he absolutely loved them too.

    Hobby Hopper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still love YA fiction, and I'm not [that] young. I still love The Chronic[What!c]les of Narnia, and I'm not a Christian. I still love Tolkien, and I'm not a Hobbit.

    Kay Phillips
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im 34 and I recently re-read The Neverending Story. And you know what? That book is better written and had better message than 90% of adult literature. F**k abstract limits. Books are great. And reading stuff you're not a target for can just broaden your horizons.

    Sylvia Schmitz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A good story is a good story, no matter what audience it is intended for!

    Sarah
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to sign in on my work PC to say, for anyone looking for a new reading binge, the book by Garth Nix, bottom left, is, I think, Lirael (Second in the old kingdom trilogy, third if you read them chronologically) but 100% worth a read. I got stupidly excited when I found the latest instalment available to buy, like, I, being a (at the time)27 year old, jumping up and down like it was the newest Harry Potter and I was a die hard fan.

    Karla Jasper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    👀 me trying to see the titles and authors so I can find a new series to start

    wowbagger
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At my public library, they keep the children's and young adults' fiction in a separate area, and if you're an adult without a child wandering around in there, they do question you. I realize they're just trying to protect the children, but it makes me sad. Sometimes I want to re-read my childhood favorites without being questioned.

    Judes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read lots of young adult (and even younger) books even though I'm many times the age of the 'intended' audience. I recently read the Wings of Fire series because my kids were really into them and I just wanted to find out why they liked them so much.

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    #42

    Ambisexual

    Ambisexual

    rEphAntE Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awwww…..bless his heart….lol

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    #45

    I'm Sure Many Of Us Needed To Hear This

    I'm Sure Many Of Us Needed To Hear This

    Ornery-Taro-1895 Report

    Hyde and Seek
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F*****g THIS! Everyone has something different that they can do . Sometimes it's petitions ,sometimes it's protests,sometimes it's writing letters ,sometimes it's survival,sometimes it's education. The only path that isn't ok is turning a blind eye to the problem.

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    #46

    Vegan BBQ

    Vegan BBQ

    hAnTATIO Report

    Lady Goldberry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bbq is the method of cooking, not the fooooooddd...

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    #47

    Slap Some Dang Rice

    Slap Some Dang Rice

    mayatalluluh Report

    Toolkit
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Live your life slap some rice! My new mantra

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    #48

    Nice Flex

    Nice Flex

    Professional-Ebb-261 Report

    Kerryming Sun
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We love a mob psycho 100 reference! A really great and wholesome manga/anime too

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    #49

    Metallica Welcomes Everyone

    Metallica Welcomes Everyone

    DoctorHoneyBadger Report

    Nathaniel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like what you like, stop gate keeping. Where does it matter where you first heard a song?

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    #50

    It's A Big Ask But I'm Behind It

    It's A Big Ask But I'm Behind It

    lubjatoasa Report

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    #51

    Making The Effort

    Making The Effort

    floatacious Report

    #52

    There Are No Rules - Do What You Can

    There Are No Rules - Do What You Can

    Gilan_ Report

    Toolkit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I needed to hear that. Thanks

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    #53

    Wish I Could Thank Whoever Made This Post

    Wish I Could Thank Whoever Made This Post

    wildcardcameron Report

    #54

    Not A Pro Gamer? Well Get Ready For A Reality Check

    Not A Pro Gamer? Well Get Ready For A Reality Check

    zisukwe9n Report

    Jackie Dray
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's exactly it. Some People play a game to enjoy the story and the experience. Not everyone likes a challenge

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    #55

    Not A Monolith

    Not A Monolith

    Ad8858 Report

    NsG
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a conversation with my dad about "women's football", and he self-corrected himself to "football played by women". It's not a different sport - the rules are the same, the equipment used is the same, and (slowly and finally) the pitches are the same. The difference is the gender of the players. That doesn't make it a different sport. The same thing applies here, and beyond sports. If everything about an interest is the same, with the one exception being the gender or race of the person enjoying it, that does not make it a different interest.

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    #56

    Joker Profile Picture Redemption Arc

    Joker Profile Picture Redemption Arc

    Accomplished_Oil5831 Report

    Llama_flower93
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually love that games are making hairstyles and other things for any gender character you want. And also not making you pick the gender but just the body type. I used to be so annoyed when I'd pick female characters and my brother or now my husband had these awesome short hairdos for their male characters and I couldn't use them if I wanted to be female. Such weird restrictions. Now we can make any character we want to!

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    #57

    Do The Thing! Or Don't! It's Okay Either Way

    Do The Thing! Or Don't! It's Okay Either Way

    witchofsmallthings Report

    #58

    Success Is For Everyone

    Success Is For Everyone

    CompetitiveEggc Report

    David Martin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody told me once to look at a clock when I feel like it's taking longer than it ought to to finish a task. The second, minute, and hour hands are all going a different speed, but they're all going to make it all the way around. Maybe you're not the second hand; You might not even be the minute hand. But even if you're the hour hand, everything you do is moving you forward, and you will make the journey

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    #59

    Bullseye For Genx But Maybe Universal?

    Bullseye For Genx But Maybe Universal?

    r_I_reddit Report

    #60

    Which One Is Better ?

    Which One Is Better ?

    sir_ramen Report

    #61

    Haven't Seen This Here Before

    Haven't Seen This Here Before

    Ilikefood7 Report

    #62

    Don't Be Embarrassed To Try New Things!

    Don't Be Embarrassed To Try New Things!

    nomaddd79 Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even the experts had to start somewhere

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    #64

    Wear What You Want, When You Want

    Wear What You Want, When You Want

    SpencerKayR Report

    NsG
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm hoping they are wearing enough sunscreen. Rainbows are only supposed to have one section of red.

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    #65

    Do You, No Matter What!

    Do You, No Matter What!

    MakedaBrightt Report

    Katie Lutesinger
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I loved Terry Pratchett's take, when he pointed out that when the gods play a cruel joke on a composer by striking him deaf it backfires "because it didn't prevent him from hearing the music - it prevented him from hearing the *distractions*."

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    #66

    Just Being Happy Without Comparisons

    Just Being Happy Without Comparisons

    MikaGamino Report

    cat?
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i love this! you don’t have to bring yourself or others down, it’s not a competition. two fantastic people can coexist and still both be fantastic :)

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    #67

    Sweaty Party

    Sweaty Party

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    LisaMarie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this far far too much and just need to stop overthinking everything in general. It can be exhausting 😕

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    #68

    Wholesome* 100

    Wholesome* 100

    Electronic-Base-8367 Report

    dumbass raccoon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you're hungry but your mother has guests over:

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    #69

    I Think This Belongs Here As Well

    I Think This Belongs Here As Well

    MadRice38 Report

    howdylee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just wish it wasn't SOOOO much more expensive! I'd buy precut produce, but it's usually 3+ times the cost. (I understand there is labor involved, doesn't make it hurt the wallet any less)

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    #70

    Find Out Who You Are Then Do It On Purpose

    Find Out Who You Are Then Do It On Purpose

    oiNsIDAL Report

    K Sarfo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is sad people need labels to be individuals, it used to be called growing up and trying out different things. But im very glad it gives more people an outlet and a wider colour-palett to experience life. And that is what is important here.

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    #71

    Every Fan Is Valid

    Every Fan Is Valid

    Ironlord456 Report

    Cerise Hood
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Legend says he is still trying to find home.

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    #72

    Not My Tweet But Wanted To Share This Bit Of Positivity. There Is No Wrong Way To Play

    Not My Tweet But Wanted To Share This Bit Of Positivity. There Is No Wrong Way To Play

    Minxy0707 Report

    Jayne Kyra
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mod the hell out of it till it starts crashing and you have to figure out which mod is causing it. Just have fun!

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    #73

    This Belongs Here, Yes?

    This Belongs Here, Yes?

    hi_im_a_coffeeholic Report

    #74

    Pineapple Goes Hand In Hand With Hot Weather

    Pineapple Goes Hand In Hand With Hot Weather

    Alternative-Phoenix Report

    Katie Lutesinger
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of the Hell Pizza franchise I discovered in New Zealand - where every pizza is named after one of the Seven Deadly Sins! Ah, that was a great slice of Gluttony.

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    #75

    Hooray For The Mafia

    Hooray For The Mafia

    DankMasterYank Report

    Katie Lutesinger
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At last! So many promising careers in racketeering, extortion, mob hits and police corruption never got off the ground because of those bigoted and horribly outdated rules. This is a big day for progress!

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    #76

    A Little Advice For The Ladies

    A Little Advice For The Ladies

    berpintufj Report

    Christie McDermid
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also remember to apply sunscreen. I can't imaging how sore a burnt butt would be

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    #77

    Ubuntu Showing That Open Source Love

    Ubuntu Showing That Open Source Love

    HealthyFront3032 Report

    #78

    Having Fun Is What Matters

    Having Fun Is What Matters

    teejaymeelar Report

    Awkward lady
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yes, this! All those Instagram worthy Animal Crossing islands; mine don't look like that, and I'm GLAD!

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    #79

    Welcome All

    Welcome All

    OliverElijaah Report

    Diolla
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With a sign that big half blocking the entrance it will be harder for some ppl to enter, like if u need to use both hand rails.....

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    #80

    Found This On Fb

    Found This On Fb

    sadearthchan Report

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I enjoy reading comments on YouTube videos of my favorite music. It's nice to see people who appreciate the music coming from the full spectrum of experience, from "I saw them live in 1986" to "I came here from Tik-Tok."

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    #81

    More Men's Restrooms Need This

    More Men's Restrooms Need This

    CinnabonCheesecake Report

    Sky Render
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trans guys still need that stuff, if nothing else!

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    #82

    Booty Hair For All

    Booty Hair For All

    SpiritualBox6741 Report

    SheamusFan1987
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Won't argue that booty hair is part of everyone's life and should be embraced, but just sayin' if it gets too long to a point of being uncomfortable, a little trim wouldn't hurt.

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    #83

    Everyone Loves A Good Lightsaber Duel

    Everyone Loves A Good Lightsaber Duel

    Buschinsk Report

    #84

    Beard On The Inside

    Beard On The Inside

    Any_Construction_501 Report

    Adam L
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife won't let me have facial hair.... 😢

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    #85

    They’re A Friendly Bunch Of Fellows

    They’re A Friendly Bunch Of Fellows

    AnAverageCactus Report

    Shelli Aderman
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically not their children, but their former selves, but still. Yes. 💕

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    #86

    Church Down The Street

    Church Down The Street

    roadtrip-ne Report

    Ash
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the names for God in Hebrew--Elohim--is literally plural! There are also names for God in Hebrew that are masculine nouns and names that are feminine nouns. God is definitely nonbinary lol

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    #87

    “You Call This Archeology?”

    “You Call This Archeology?”

    A_Green_Olive Report

    Foxxy (The Original)
    Community Member
    3 years ago

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    #88

    A Bit On The Nose, But I Like It

    A Bit On The Nose, But I Like It

    ChekovsCurlyHair Report

    #89

    No Need To Gatekeep Health

    No Need To Gatekeep Health

    soerenlundj Report

    #90

    Thanks Jesus

    Thanks Jesus

    jacw212 Report

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    #91

    Deadass They All Really Did

    Deadass They All Really Did

    melloefelloe Report

    #92

    Welcome To The Pit

    Welcome To The Pit

    aplagueuntothee Report

    Benita Valdez
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please just suggest albums or songs or tell me about other similar bands. My ex used to gatekeep. He would never introduce me to his music because I like [insert whatever non-metal band] so I won't like it. And then be sooo surprised I come across a song from a band he liked that I enjoyed. See you incel gatekeeping åss, we could've enjoyed things together if you had tried and not shot me down when I asked

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    #93

    Makes Anime More Accessible

    Makes Anime More Accessible

    Leslie_hf Report

    Benita Valdez
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. I'm not a "real" anime fan because I prefer dubs. I'm a slow reader to begin with and besides, i have manga if i want to read. I don't want to miss watching because I'm too focused on reading

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    #94

    I Was Told This Might Belong Here

    I Was Told This Might Belong Here

    Abrilii Report

    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in an ideal world this is how it would work and is how it should work unfortunately there are a few people out there who cant accept it i dont know why i mean if you want me to call you by a different name then i will call you by it once then forget because i have a bad memory and then just call you dude which is gender neutral term but seriously it doesn't affect me in any way dont know why people have such an issue with it

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    #95

    Saw This One On Instagram

    Saw This One On Instagram

    meriamimam Report

    Ansi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once was on a date when we met a friend (rather an accqua... but I can't spell that 😉) and after we said goodby my date went on and on and on about my friend having black nailpolish like above. There were definitly NOT a second date with that AH. 🤮

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    #96

    My Brother Says What He Likes

    My Brother Says What He Likes

    offtheli_Michael Report

    Ellie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, Fortnite is fun for those who enjoy it! (Me)

    #97

    Keep Being Happy With Each Other

    Keep Being Happy With Each Other

    this_knee Report

    Has sold soul for corn chip
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I personally get weirded out when i see people kiss. Its just a me thing tho, I love seeing happy couples

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    #98

    Wholesome Q&a

    Wholesome Q&a

    ThatOneMetalguy666 Report

    Chucky Cheezburger
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanna know where these battle jackets are being used at.

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    #99

    At A Folk Dance Festival In Sheffield Last Weekend

    At A Folk Dance Festival In Sheffield Last Weekend

    sfish27 Report

    Ash
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is really handy. When I did contradance in Ohio, it was really common for female dancers to dance the "male" part, so they had a bag of pre-tied neckties, and women dancing the "male" role for that dance would put one on so that people who encountered them in the dance would know how to dance with them (instead of thinking they'd made a mistake and ended up in the wrong place in the figure).

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    #100

    Cheer Up, Mad Socialists! You're In!

    Cheer Up, Mad Socialists! You're In!

    DramaGuy23 Report

    Ansi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So we are all bat s**t crazy? Okay, I'm fine with that. 😊

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    #101

    This One Has Been A Long Time Coming

    This One Has Been A Long Time Coming

    morbosaqm Report

    Cierra Nope
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're just upset because they said they were bringing it back after they canceled the show halfway through and they brought us a show for small children instead

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    #102

    Your Body Is Beautiful

    Your Body Is Beautiful

    Sir-Aurelius Report

    Ansi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So the second picture, what every guy seams to think girls like, is my least favorite. Just food for though, that the "mainstream" is a middle, not what most people think.

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    #103

    Very Wholesome Moment In The Fromsoft Game Community

    Very Wholesome Moment In The Fromsoft Game Community

    OkDotyui Report

    James016
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do I cheese someone? I may try it on myself first depending on the answers.

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    #104

    This Post Makes Me So Happy

    This Post Makes Me So Happy

    slangloisyh Report

    Llama_flower93
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The guy in the bottom graphic looks like Elliot Page.

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