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Not every relationship ends in a ‘happily ever after.’ And sometimes, your knight’s shining armor is just for show. So much so that these people end up being called out on the front page of the internet for how awfully they treat their partners. Lies, accusations, and manipulation... it's an emotional rollercoaster that's more powerful than a soap opera.

Bored Panda has collected some of Reddit's most infamous posts about toxic relationships where people clearly don’t respect their significant other. You’ll find the stories and screenshots as you scroll down.

When you’ve read through this list, you can look through our previous articles about 'nice guys' who only pretend to be kind right here and here.

#1

My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes

My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes

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Jessica Bertram
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ewwwww and good for her, shutting THAT sh!t down.

Peppy
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And you’re a spectacular creep

EP
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So gross. So common. So insane. I feel for her. It’s awful to be the receiver of this BS.

Jane Cortez
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sickening. He violated his partner’s trust, preyed on his partner’s niece! I hope that she forwards this text to the aunt and shares with family members. Hopefully they can comprehend why this is so disgusting!!!

Delilah Oster
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a dirtbag. Good job standing up for yourself

Fat Harry
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one is OLD. I remember seeing this exact screenshot several years ago. Still creepy though.

Rabbit Of ill Portent
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the better to kick your pathetic little a*s with, my dear!

Amy Burke
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Errr ... bet he's alot older too

Logan Smith
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first I just saw the text convo and I was like ew. But then I read the caption AND HE KNOWS SHES MARRIED. These kind of people are disgusting.

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    #2

    I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay

    I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay

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    Paulo Freitas
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know a guy like this, but in his defence, dude was a Sallesman ( image is very important ) and this was almost 30 years ago, plus everyone knew, even his wife, i assume they had an " understanding ", but he had 2 or 3 kids with her though.

    Appalachian Panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being in a non-monogamous relationship when all parties involved are on the same page is vastly different from lying and cheating.

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    Daffydillz~
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't insult pûssies with scum like him. He's just a punk âss bîtch if he chooses to cheat on her, risk giving her STI's, and it's not fair for his wife or his side piece to be used by him.

    Jessica butts
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is especially at risk for HIV since she isn't on prep most likely. Men who victimize women because they are afraid to come out disgust me. It's like an ultimate Form of mysogyny. I don't even love you nor am I attracted to you but I'm Gonna use you for housekeeping/ a baby oven.

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    Bill Allen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    40 years ago I was a bank where my SIL worked. She introduced me to her boss. His last name was Gay. Later, I told her that Gay wasn’t just his last name. He actually is Gay. I don’t think she believed me. Another time I was there his wife and kids happened to be there. Beautiful young family. I was thinking how hurt they will likely be at some point in the future. 30 years later my SIL was visiting and asked if I remembered her old boss at the bank. She said that he is now divorced from his wife, married a guy and took his husband’s last name. I tell that to people and use it as an example of why we should not stigmatize being gay. Too many people grow up, fake that they are straight, get married to a person of the opposite sex and people get hurt. If we let people be who they are, fewer instances like that will happen.

    Niki A
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a wonderful gay friend who told me I would not believe the number of married men who are gay but cannot/will not come out because of the stigma. I feel so sad about that. This guy? He's just an a*****e.

    Tunk
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is sad but that does not give them the right to knowingly decieve people who in good faith they are building lives with when it is all built on sand. Leave the marriage. We need to consider others needs too.

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    Littlemiss
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep know of a guy who came out after 30 years of marriage and 3 kids. Told his wife he had been cheating on her the entire marriage with another man. Then told her she had to stay because he didn't want the stigma of coming out. She wasn't to cheat though, just pretend.

    Tunk
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of a story about a politician in my area who after a long career was caught in a club and his entire history came out so to speak. There was so much 'understanding' for him at the time but my heart really went solely to his long standing wife, and by extension his two adult children. It is an absolute betrayal of loyalty and he did have a responsibility to not allow that to happen for so long without addressing it any way whatsoever. He essentially deprived another person of their way to live life. I can't imagine the hurt she endured at the time.

    EP
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Verbal and physical abuse is not ok!! Otherwise as a general rule I try not to get involved in other people’s relationship bc I don’t know what they want to put up with for what they gain etc. many people are happy living a lie and don’t want that shattered. Whereas another person wouldn’t be ok w the same situation that someone was ok w. I just stick to what I’m ok w. I do like to hear relationship stories and take it as face value as a story.

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    #3

    Please Show His Wife The Note And Money

    Please Show His Wife The Note And Money

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    Jessica Bertram
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh. wow. sis. throw the WHOLE MAN away. 🗑

    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Show her the damn note and take the 100 anyway because this dude right there had the audacity

    Julie
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok the husband might be hiding stuff, but it's his phone... My husband's phone is his, I'd never ask to see anything in it and it goes both ways... Privacy :D Or also, he is in a toxic/ abusive relationship. Consider the reverse: a female friend of mine had her boyfriend who wanted to check her history, one day she didn't pick up fast enough to his taste, he thought she was on a call and hiding it, he threatened to contact the phone company where he had a friend working to go through her whole call list. he would have given her hell just seeing the number of a male coworker on the call list. Might not be the case here, but the whole thing in this pic is cringe inducing. these two need to talk or split i guess :D

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would repair the phone and wipe everything. When they come to pick it up, say "I fixed it" but keep the 100 and watch him sweat as his wife looks through the call history and when they look confused say "Oh yeah, the memory was corrupt, so I had to wipe it"

    EP
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha oh that is one way to do it!

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    Ace
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We don't know what's in the call history, but TBH if she's checking up on him like this then it'd not be surprising if he was looking elsewhere.

    EP
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? If you feel you need to go through someone’s phone… that’s a problem then and there. And that problem lies with you (for wanting to breech someone’s privacy) and on the significant other for being non-trustworthy. The relationship is problematic.

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    Rob Steenvoorde
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is bullcr*p people. There is literally no room inside an iPhone to put this note and money in. Also, opening a iPhone is quite some work, why not destroy the SOC right away and make it unfixable? It's really easy to permanently break a smartphone when it's open. Check google images, there are a lot of versions of this story, all with different currency, but also exactly the same note. This is fake as Santa and debunked a couple of times already.

    Betty-Lou
    Community Member
    2 years ago

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    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His history must be worse than the Cleveland Brown’s.

    KimB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a life long Cleveland resident I don't know wether to laugh or cry at your comment : D

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    Nadine Bamberger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you're in a relationship where one partner feels the need to check your personal phone it's over anyway.

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't done it in a really long time, but aren't call records online in your account?

    EP
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn’t even know we could get iPhones open. As horrible as this is. Ignoring the intent, I’m impressed at the execution.

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    There is an online community called r/niceguys that features some of the worst cases of people pretending to be nice, only to put down others when they don’t get their own way. ‘Nice guys,’ no matter their gender, tend to be jealous, controlling, and spiteful.

    ‘Nice guys,’ like the ones portrayed on the r/niceguys subreddit, as well as other online communities, are all about creating the appearance of being kind, wholesome, and supportive. The reality, unfortunately, is often very different.

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    #4

    Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water

    Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water

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    Lil Potato
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like counseling would be good to try before immediately wanting divorce

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    Jessica Bertram
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. that title made zero sense. AWOL. absent without leave, ffs. 2. they both sound incredibly...childish. 3. this right here, men, is why we call it toxic masculinity. You think any attention from women means we want you. And this is why we can be dismissive or downright rude.

    InvincibleRodent
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me she doesn't sound childish, just confused- I too would be if my husband went off like this over me sharing an interaction that, by all accounts, should be kinda funny at best...

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    Meeliasi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the exact same situation but I had a friendship like that. It was like walking on eggshells. No matter what I said or did, she’d turn it into something bad that I did. It was borderline abusive. I remember her screaming at me one time because I texted another friend happy birthday, when me and her we just had had a fight. She went berzerk. In hindsight I think she just had real issues. I cut all ties shortly after.

    DrLivingstonipresume
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That husband is cheating. Pulling accusations out of thin air? Sorry, you gots a cheating spouse

    Afro Duckler
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In what universe is giving someone water flirting? So are just every waiter ever flirting with everyone?

    Rachel Cobb
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🚨🚨FRAGILE MASCULINITY ALERT🚨🚨

    Leoninus Fate
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think left person was suffering slow gas leak, since they slowly lost brain cells during this text

    Elizabeth Tayler
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought he was kidding around at first... Yikes

    Quitethedilemma
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, I've been in the position of the blue bubble similar to this and it's making my hairs stand on end. GET OUT save yourself....run far far away.

    Stephanie Cunningham
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too. I finally got out after 24 years and it was the best decision I ever made.

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    Nadine Bamberger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my experience a partner acting that irrationally jealous is cheating themselves.

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    #5

    Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone

    Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone

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    Meeliasi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a decent guy. I don’t know how I would have reacted.

    Sonja
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hes amazing. A really great human being. She definitely messed up a great chance here. He is a keeper.

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    T'Mar of Vulcan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Genetics is weird, though. Sometimes genes from generations back are expressed in a child. I'd get a DNA test before making any decisions.

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Skin and eye color are determined by melanin, and the amount or type of melanin is controlled by about a dozen different genes. It's entirely possible that each parent has mixed ancestry, and that ancestry was expressed in their child's skin color. There are documented cases of two dark-skinned parents having a lighter-skinned child, and of a dark-skinned parent and a light-skinned parent having twins where each child has a different skin tone. I do hope the man gets a paternity test, because it IS possible, but I imagine that his wife may have told him about her infidelity, which is why he seems very sure that he is not the baby's father. However, as you said, genetics are weird :)

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um, fact: pigmentation requires mature expression of melanin. It is very, very common for babies to not properly express melanin, so black babies can look several shades lighter (and potentially white) when born. Hope this idiot actually got a DNA test.

    Orangepanda39
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, as Lakota Wolf said, the wife may have told him of her infedelity and didn't have any need to take a DNA test. Although it is understandable that you think the baby may just look several shades lighter, you didn't have to call them an idiot.

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    Sh_alien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How are you guys making this about skin color. Everyone knows most babies with dark skin come out looking pretty light, at first. Seems this guy has been raising the kid for a while, and something came up. I don’t think anybody is as stupid as you people think they are. Seriously.

    Ryan cole
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Processing this s**t online in public view is so unhealthy.and that fake a*s humble game is embarrassing as hell

    Jerrica Coyle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. This probably should have been handled privately instead of on blast on social media.

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    Ben
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That kid could totally be the kids father. New born babies mostly look like an alien. I wouldn't be canceling the trust fund just yet. I have worked in labor and delivery in the past and seen these things happen a lot because nobody has any clue.

    Zachary Gillette
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "That kid could totally be the kids father." That made it sound like the baby is his own dad lol.

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    Biofish23
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has he actually taken a paternity test, or is this just based on thinking the baby doesn't look enough like him? (Too pale perhaps?) Because if it's the first, yes she's aweful and he is handling it really well. If it's the second he is the biggest jerk in the world.

    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Just wow. He’s a saint because I don’t forgive her and I’m not even involved!

    Cara G
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the fact that he says he was "...there since day 1..." indicates that he's been raising the baby for quite some time and that this post was not written on the actual day of the birth. It appears that this has nothing to do with the baby's skin color and that he found out later, through a DNA test or because the mother told him.

    Dulcie Tolcher
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hurt for him and for his family. They all love that baby. How cruel.

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    #6

    It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper

    It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HE HIT THE DOGS?????? ONLY BIG FAT IDIOT A******S WITH DAMN F*****G A*****E ATTITUDES AND AN EMPTY BRAIN CAPACITY HITS DOGS 😡 HE WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If anyone hit my puppy or my cats, they'd be FED to the pet they struck. Years ago my ex used to tell me that my older cat would "ruin my life" (wtf does that mean? she's going to steal my identity and spend all my savings on bitcoin?) He once forced me to board her at a cattery for two months to "get my life in order" (I was living with him at the time, so I felt obligated to). It traumatized my cat, even though it was a wonderful place that I'd boarded her at on vacations before, and I visited her every day. The experience changed my cat's personality permanently and I've never forgiven him for that.

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    Jessica Bertram
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it is crazy, the mindfůck that abusive partners can dish out...i stayed with an abusive partner wayyy too long, and only left when i felt my life was in danger. These make me sad..

    JustJackie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. If it makes you feel a little bit better, she left him. I'm always overjoyed and proud when someone leaves their abuser. I hope things are better, and you have support.

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    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another dog hitter, huh...? >:-( *Picks up sledgehammer* I'm on my way!!!

    Casey McAlister
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He hit the dogs and he's still alive? Unacceptable.

    lil bear bear
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone hit my dog. They would be dead meat.

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You touch my dog, be prepared for a long, painful death. I don't care who you are.

    The Veil of Fire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude even yells at my pets he is on the curb within seconds. He hits my pet....police will be called for if not he will be in the hospital.

    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If anyone attempts to hit my cats or dog… I will probably serve the rest of my life in prison, and not just because I attempted murder by swinging a baseball bat. My cats and dog will kill the person sooner than I would get to, because that’s what they’re good at…

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    They usually have confidence issues that run very deep. They tend to be extremely jealous, and attempt to control who their significant others spend time with.

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    Their personal insecurities lead to relationships that are very unhealthy because they’re built on a foundation of suspicion and paranoia.

    #7

    Trashy Husband

    Trashy Husband

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    Nadine Debard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like something the wife has written to shame him online

    Daffydillz~
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonder how long it will take him to find it 🤔

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    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like wifey edited his profile... good, but she could have gone nuclear if she thought about it

    Christopher Bowers
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get a tattoo on your forehead that says "cheating husband" as well as a tattoo on each cheek saying which side to slap and punch, that way we know its you and can fulfill your request, you piece of s*&!

    SPQRBob
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could also just be a false accusation/smear by someone other than his wife.

    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This gotta be a really cringey joke, right? Right???

    juice
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    likely the situation is real, but the wife wrote this

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    Zwiebel Suppe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't people talk about their ideas on monogamy and faithfulness before getting into a serious relationship with each other?

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    #8

    Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend

    Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who say they’re a ‘nice’ guy upon first encounter, often via internet, are 98% not.

    Miocha
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the response. "Doubtful".

    Max
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, their relationship is definitely having problems, and he's the cause of them.

    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If by nice he means big stupid cheater, then he is correct.

    Jami Stewart-Laycock
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It shows just how gross and trashy you are when you have to tell someone how good of a person you are. If you were it would be obvious...

    Michèle Schouten
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just wanna know what font this is and how to get it on my phone..

    #9

    I Can Hear The Wedding Bells

    I Can Hear The Wedding Bells

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    Jesse Setliffe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go to police. Give ex-wife everything she wants in the divorce settlement. Remain alone from now on; you deserve to be.

    Daffydillz~
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the risk you take when you play the game. You never know when someone's endgame is going to be some psychopath level shît until it's too late but all risk comes with its own rewards.

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    Hphizzle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

    SPQRBob
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe that is abbreviated as FAFO.

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    Follo00
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is hilarious. What a plot twist!

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BROTHERS?!? AGAIN?!? Dude needs to fake his own death and disappear.

    Afro Duckler
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So the coworker set you up? Idk who's a bigger POS

    Dirk Daring
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't poop where you eat. This rule becomes infinitely more important if you're married.

    Phoenix the Frog
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe the wife knew beforehand and her and the coworker planed this???

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll watch this movie! BTW, you deserve everything that's happening to you.

    Androgyny Lunacy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He kinda deserves it for what he carelessly did to his wife.

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    Anyone can tell you that if you take trust out of the equation, you’ve got a relationship that’s pretty much doomed to fail. It’s not really a relationship if you’re always accusing your partner of lying to you or being unfaithful.

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    #10

    Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth

    Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth

    "If my wife lets herself go after I have kids with her, I’m going to tell her once. If you don’t get your sh*t together, because I still want to be sexually attracted to my wife, my spouse, but if you can’t do that, I’m out’".

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    Sonja
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He should tell that louder and more often and put it on all his profiles everywhere so women know to avoid that shallow idiot who'll only date them for their bodies and ditch them as soon as things go tough or they might lose their looks for whatever reason. I mean, no one in their right minds would ever date this guy. What if she has an accident? What if she gets cancer? Or something else that'll disfigure her? Getting married is gor the good times AND the bad times. If your love for your spouse only goes skin deep, you're not relationship material. At best, you are a toy to have fun... if you're pretty enough. Or pay some coin. But otherwise, you're not worth the investment that having a relationship needs.

    The Veil of Fire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Males who have these misogynistic attitudes against women are 1- are not the real men they think they are. 2 - have no business having kids nor getting married. 3 - need to grow up and take some courses about women and how our bodies REALLY work. 4 - needs to have a reality check about real relationships.

    Alex S
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are also the men who are panicking that women are choosing to be single rather than get into relationships with their loser asses. You can see them ranting all over the internet about "cat ladies" and "you need to lower your standards" and women are just like "lol, no thanks".

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    SPQRBob
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I doubt any woman finds a man who makes comments such as this sexually attractive either, so it looks like the problem is potentially self-correcting. I love it when the trash takes itself out.

    Yer a witch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get yourself fixed then because no child in this world deserves such a disgusting human being as a father. Leave your wife as well, she deserves better.

    Bobert Robertson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my wife's body more now after child birth. She hasn't let herself go, she's put her body through torture to bring us our two kids. A little pouch her or a roll there, I'm all for it. Reminds me of what she went through for our family

    Jessica Bertram
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    morrre troglodytes. some days i feel like i got The Last Good Man™️

    The Other Other White Meat
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope the wife divorced him after this podcast 😣

    Megan O'Neill
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That could very easily backfire. She could stay the same or get better looking while he could change irreversibly (in some of the ways aging men often do...). So go ahead buddy. Tell her once. See how that works out for you.

    GamerChick5567
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its always the fat bald guys who say stuff like this lol

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    R Dennis
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yuck. Let's see this "bro" throw his entire system out of whack, have his body try to consume itself, then give birth and generate nutrition for this new life... he can f**k all the way off. The mother of my child is always beautiful... even when she pisses me off.

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    #11

    This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend

    This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend

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    Vasana Phong
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone can please forward this rant to her boyfriend, and save him $500 a month

    Nadine Debard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'I really feel like a loser'... Sure you are, but not for the reasons you think. Poor boyfriend. Poor, poor boyfriend.

    cadena kuhn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband makes more then both of them and if he bought me a 700 wallet I would kick his a$$. You know how much actual useful stuff I could buy for that

    Peppy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Must be hard, having such obstacles to overcome in life, poor dear😂

    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your boyfriend gives you a monthly stipend AND buys you food and expensive gifts on top of that? Are you a girlfriend or some sort of sugar baby?

    Historyharlot93
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    $5k a month is only $60k a year, which puts them in the middle class. Plus there’s about 22% taxes on that too. I’d like to know where on earth these people live if these boyfriends can just drop that much money on sugar babies. Doesn’t matter because it’s a troll.

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    guyx23
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Surely this is a troll... Or at least I very much hope so

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you're a Gold digger without saying you're a Gold digger.

    Vinita Talaulikar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Start working young lady and pay for your own luxuries, comforts and necessities..

    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what makes humans want to slap each other

    Tamra
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indeed. My slapping hand is itching right now.

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    DuchessDegu
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be beyond pissed if my bf gave me a $700 wallet! Give me a $10 wallet, and the rest in cash 😁 what a complete waste of money!

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    #12

    This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone

    This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone

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    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Childfree woman here. This guy was my worst nightmare when younger. I'd have gotten an abortion in a NY second rather than be baby-trapped and tied to such a manipulative jerk for life, with a baby I never wanted. So happy to be postmenopausal. That window is closed FOREVER, hooray!

    Nadine Bamberger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your wife doesn't love you again, she just can't afford to leave .

    ChestRockwell24
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    2 years ago

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    So she is lying about claiming to love him again so he sticks around? And he's the only a*****e here?

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    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sisters first serious relationship tried to do that to her. 18 and absolutely terrified. I convinced her to tell me his address, information I passed on to my husband and my dad. We never heard from him again, she got an abortion and a much needed sex education class, and whatever happened once my dad and my husband had that address, they've never said and I don't lose any sleep over protecting my little sister. I know they didn't kill him. To me, it had a happy ending. Try to destroy my sister, I'll come after you.

    Cara G
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was so satisfying to read. I'm glad your sister has such a wonderfully supportive family. I would have done the same for my own sister ❤

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    Megan O'Neill
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh she's in love again? wait until some of the "new baby" shine wears off and she remembers why she was going to leave

    ThisIsMe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "...when the time comes..." IDIOT! The time is here!

    Kajira4evr
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with the first comment. The 2nd one... the guy is deluded. Saying 'got her pregnant' makes me wonder if he messed with her birth control. Doing so should be a crime imo

    Niki A
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still would have left your sorry a*s.

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    #13

    My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done

    My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done

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    Jesse Setliffe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So is she in jail right now, or is she about to be?

    Historyharlot93
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The nails look pretty trashy to me.

    censorshipsucks
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that fingernail tells me everything.

    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not her boyfriend anymore I bet.

    Sandra Morison
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is it about some of these women EXPECTING boyfriends to pay!!!

    The Veil of Fire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never act out of anger or hate or frustration. People make the worse choices in life during those times. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. This type of revenge does not fit the 'crime' however his legal actions against her would be well founded.

    Christine Jemison
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a piece of sh$$t🐷🐷🐷🐷🐷

    Niki A
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just childish. Tacky. Low class. Amateur. Girl pay for your own damn nails.

    AG
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the quickest way to get crapped out of a gator. Feel like this is worse than cheating. It is just infuriating.

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    #14

    My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems

    My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems

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    Meeliasi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can’t even with people thinking they „deserve sex“. Do they forget there tends to be another person involved with needs and wants. Ew.

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are SO many perfectly good, well-made sex toys out there on the market, too! XD I'm not a dude, but I've heard from several that some of those things are great. OP's boyfriend could utilize one of those!

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    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is manipulation and coercion. Dump the whole whiny man-baby.

    Zobi123
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I've never asked for anything in this relationship?" They've been dating for a month!!

    TurquoiseTzarina
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One month. That's not long enough to know if they really like each other. Smh

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    Kat Lyle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Red flag should not be ignored. Sex is NOT owed for any favour.

    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t men realize that hounding and pestering just make them less and less attractive each time?

    Patricia Healton
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cut all contact with anyone who thinks they should have control of your body.

    Woundwort42
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember this scene from Grease 2 (Let's do it for Our Country)

    Asphalt Bubblegum
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about "never?" Is NEVER good for you? It's good for me!

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    #15

    Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her

    Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if some of these type of posts are done by 3rd party frienemies as revenge for perceived wrongs?

    Savannah Newman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? Who would post a pic of themselves with their child on a dating app looking for casual hookup hoping partner won't find out. That or its real and she is that stupid.

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    CP
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one ever puts their face, let alone their kids on these apps, when looking to cheat.

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But she put up a picture of her and her kid... why not just put out a billboard in her yard?

    Anne
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because it's probably not her who posted it.

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    Jesse Setliffe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any smart man should have nothing to do with any of this.

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was definitely done by someone looking for revenge about something. I don't think the wife actually did this, at the very minimum I expect someone to be smart enough to at least post a picture without the kid if they're just looking for a hookup. To whoever actually posted this, this is extremely dangerous and you just put two peoples lives at risk for what.

    Phoenix the Frog
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why does she have her kid in the picture

    Kajira4evr
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, she's not leading guy's on. OTH has she heard of toys? They're a much better option than cheating

    Minister, Nnam Gideon
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, her husband is a murderer, so, 2 horrible people

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    If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you, reach out to a counselor or an organization for advice specific to your situation. These professionals can support you as you consider what to do next. There is no excuse for abuse.

    #16

    Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months

    Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months

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    HardieBoysMama
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the type of person that finds a needy pregnant woman, tricks her into meeting up by offering baby clothes, then tries to cut the baby out of her body.

    Stacy Jones
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend who did something similar (to what was described in the story), and that was definitely a concern in the back of my mind. But there IS such a mental/physical condition as "hysterical pregnancy" in which a woman wants a baby so badly that she manifests pregnancy symptoms. It's not as common since pregnancy tests have been over the counter, but it turns out that was my friend's condition. She got her mind right, got her miracle, and she's OK now. Predictably devoted mom ❤

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    Leoninus Fate
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there was a chick that I ..... did, possibly the only one I ever had and would have sex with, now I am Sterile,no lil guys, and I'll never have my own bio kid, she came up to my friends telling them how I got her preg and called her stuff and told her to just basically die, come time for her to give birth, she was still telling people I was the dad, I had a DNA waited up in the hospital for when it was born and then we waited, well the baby is born and it is a Japanese baby! {im japanese} and she's all proud saying I TOLD YOU!...... DNA comes back and shows I'm not the dad, I just smile and hand the paper to her and leave with her screaming, so it turned out she did it with another Japanese dude to get me, cause I'm rich, but she's not bright

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just how was she going to play it off in a month when she didn't go into labor.? Or the next month or the next one?

    BetterBitterButter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you fake a pregnancy for eight months? Also how do you stoop so low?

    LilliVB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's awful, I agree, I wouldn't deny it, even if I can (but I can't). But I'm confused, I keep asking myself how the Poster got a hold about all those medical information. This shouldn't be allowed if I'm not wrong, you can't go to the hospital and asks if someone has ever seen a doctor there, and they can't absolutely give you all the information about ultrasound and so on ...very confused indeed.

    Zobi123
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like she went to the hospital with the girlfriend.

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    Aqualia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What intellectual level must you be at to think you could pull something like this off? Did she think no one would notice the baby she was supposed to have would just... cease to ever exist?

    juice
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i guess she would try to fake a miscarriage or stillborn at the very end?? and then claim sympathy and pity for something that never happened

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    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What was she going to do when she ended up, you know, NOT giving birth? What was she planning on telling everyone?

    Nitka Tsar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don‘t understand her thinking. What did she plan to do when the time for delivery came around? Pretend the child died? Steal a Baby? Maybe she did not plan anything? I don‘t get things like these. She must be mentally unstable.

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So at no point did your brother see her without a shirt on?

    Kajira4evr
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not every woman shows. My friend is 2wks from her due date and still wearing the same size jeans and bra as she did before she was pregnant

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    #17

    Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment

    Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The idiot dude at the top doesn’t deserve cute dogs

    Dodomaster
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Man really fücked up with that one

    AG
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly you be surprised how many people are addicted to the adventure a toxic life.

    #18

    Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids

    Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um… am I weird, or is that reaction from the dude totally messed-up?

    Rune Rosen (they/them)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To all of you thinking the dumpster dive is weird, it’s coupons. Bloody coupons, not food. If I had children, I would do the same for them. That money saved may very well be an emergency fund for her and the kids to get away, or for when ends aren’t meeting at all. He was in the wrong for his reaction, but not for his situation (as far as we know).

    cecilia kilian
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In some circles dumpster diving for food and other unsold products is a form of activism. There is so much food waste, and not all countries have laws that require supermarkets to donate unsold items to shelters and food banks. I can see a certain eeww factor for the food, but certainly not for the cupons.

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    Sonja
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't feed your family, your pride is not worth a thing. If you prioritise your pride over your family, you're definitely not a good human. Pride is overrated anyways. If you have the choice to dumpster dive or starve, you might decide to starve instead, it's your choice, but if the choice is to dumpster dive or your kids starve, you'll dumpster dive, there is no choice. Because you've made that choice already when you decided to have kids. Now you're responsible to feed them. Edit: and no, you keep your nest egg for the really hard times, you don't touch your nest egg when your future is not secure yet but you have still other options, because if you waste it yet, you WILL cry when you need it later and the dumpster is empty

    holly smethurst
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    2 years ago

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    She has mine she made the choice between embarrassing her husband in public or using her own money to feed her kids

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    Eastendbird
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she was saving the money up to get away from him?

    Pandapoo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she should find some coupons for a new husband.

    LeeAnne B
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That nest egg is her "f*ck-off-fund"

    Niki A
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe she lowered herself either. However, if she puts you back in the trash, she hasn't lost anything. Those coupons on the other hand, are valuable!

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never look down on someone trying to survive. If the only cost was his pride, pay that price all day.

    Karl Baxter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid, my old man would take me skip raiding (dumpster diving for US folks) for wood. No shame in recycling things at all.

    Nitka Tsar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents took us to get used furniture from the street other people through out.

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    Miocha
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He got a queen wife and still complaining. If I were a man and had a wife like her, I'd consider myself blessed and treat her respectfully.

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    Again, this isn’t gender-specific: anyone can be toxic, it’s not just guys who are jerks.

    #19

    Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital

    Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital

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    Afro Duckler
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate people who blame alcohol. Cheating is cheating @sshat

    Ambitious Potato
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hot mess inside of a dumpster fire inside of a train wreck

    Teresa Spanics
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I second that and I will remember your comment!

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    birdhouse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Careful...your true character is showing.

    Maltaros
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There must be something wrong with me. The first place my mind would have went if somebody didn't show up somewhere we agreed to meet would be the accident thing. I would have been calling the hospital before I ever thought of hooking up with somebody else.

    Moezzzz
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need to know why the first thing she does is cheat on her bf? Not call him? Or text him? We're missing some pieces here

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First little "slight" and you resorted to a drunk hookup. Good luck.

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    #20

    Wife's Time Of The Month

    Wife's Time Of The Month

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    Jessica Bertram
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHY SO YELLY? also, it IS that time of the month...that time where she educates this troglodyte about how easy it is to disappear a body.

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post made me think back to when I was a kid and my parents sent me to Astrocamp. I was probably 10 or 11. My dad wrote me "letters" every day I was at camp and faxed them to the camp (this was in the 90s, when one still faxed things). All of his letters were in allcaps. He even WROTE in allcaps. He was old-school, though, born in 1942, worked for IBM... so I never gave him c**p for it XD I don't think some of the older generations realize that everyone else considers allcaps "yelling".

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    Snazzy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe his time of the month with all those caps...?

    Megan O'Neill
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, someone should have given a detailed explanation of the menstrual cycle, with diagrams and everything.

    David Martin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "People need to know why she's so b----y; She's my wife and I love her"...sounds to me like this guy already has a toast written for that 50th anniversary, that's solid gold right there

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's b!tchy because she has to deal with you.

    Samyan Elrod
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm always really angry on my period - but if a bf/gf did this they'd be introduced to the hormonal rage of my fist.

    Niki A
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, another one to throw out. Honey, you need to lose some weight. In particular, the exact amount of that douche.

    AG
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Serious question here, if you notice a monthly pattern where the weather cold is it wrong to get a coat?

    Rougarou Cher
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That poor mother. Can't imagine what she's feeling like with this one.

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    #21

    Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid

    Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid

    3KidsInTheTrenchCoat Report

    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Am I the only one who is also concerned about the EYES of the human in the picture underneath that disgusting text?

    Doctor Strange
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously, you don't do things to 'buy' sex with your partner. You do things because you love them and want to express that love.

    Amy Burke
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do men do this?? Do they bit see that it puts a nasty vibe in the air? If you feel that's all they want then all of their nice actions become a waste of time because you know they are only treating you well FOR something - It's horrible

    Timbob
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t wonder about that. I wonder why she married you!

    Clown fish
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are down on the floor after you get your nads get kicked

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So apparently men only do nice things for sex. Good to know.

    Anne Jones
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! He’s a real catch! 🙄

    TMoxraaaar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It always amazes me how men treat sex as transactional and then in the next breath condemn sex workers. If you are only engaging with me to get sex then I'm out.

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    A while ago, Bored Panda touched on the topic of building a genuine sense of confidence. A fitness expert explained to us that it all comes down to proving that “you’re not a victim.” He suggested focusing on small tasks and small victories at first.

    According to the expert, helping others in need, taking care of your health, advancing in your career, and focusing on having a successful relationship are some of the things that will instill a sense of confidence. 

    #22

    Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions

    Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions

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    Appalachian Panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this is real, I hope to God he pressed charges.

    darqemm
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So that's illegal and she has a serious personality disorder...

    Ann-Marie Bentley
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YikesAaaa he needs to press charges!! He might have been sprayed with mall perfume you know how sometimes the sellers spray perfume on people (should be illegal to do that as people could have allergy )

    Maltaros
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to have a female boss who wore too much perfume. Just being in her office left the smell all over you. Once I gently explained to her she became aware and could laugh at it. But glad my wife is not so insane because I came home wreaking of perfume a few times.

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    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best advice: just leave, go no contact, return all his things. No letter, no text, no email. Just cut him out and get on with your life. And by the way, how about not doing anything criminal? Just saying.

    Maltaros
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She only suspected something. No proof other than a perfume that wasn't hers. And she straight up does a chemical attack on him. She is a psychotic person.

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    Lil Potato
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's extreme, then there's EXTREME

    Rob Williams
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm no expert but that looks like, what do they call it…evidence? A confession?

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    #23

    I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This

    I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This

    Strik3rd Report

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Proof that 2 out of 3 people can function without a brain.

    TurquoiseTzarina
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she is pregnant...have mercy on the child she won't be able to guide to maturity.

    nbfresh
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this made me physically ill

    Paulo Freitas
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh this reminds me of a story lol ( dunno if its true though ) One of my teachers was a former army seargent, and One of the soldiers got pregnant, they went after the father, did 3 DNA tests and none of the men where the father, One day he asked her, hwo the f**k was the kids father, She starts crying and says " i dunno i only know for sure that its someone from the infantry regiment... ( Again dunno if this story is actually true, the teacher in question always seemed to beba serious trustwordy man, and i heard this story 20 years ago )

    The Veil of Fire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone needs to have a long chat with that child because she's about to become a mother and she has a brain of a gnat.

    Debra Robinson
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are WAY overestimating her! Poor gnat!

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    Iwanna
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's Bridget Jones 3 story, c'mon....

    Crep 105
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cannot for the life of me understand why her bf should be okay with this??

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just the boyfriend who is causing problems? Run boyfriend, run.

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    #24

    My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together

    My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together

    ClickCluckClack Report

    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would do every single thing wrong out of spite. He’s using religion to justify being a controlling psychopath

    BlackestDawn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure about it being religion based but I'd agree with you overall. Heck we wouldn't even be friends after this.

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    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If you do this stuff during the time we aren't dating" WTF!?!

    Casey McAlister
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The legend has it he's still single. Nobody wants to touch this treasure with a 10 meter pole.

    Stephanie Cunningham
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hopefully they never got back together. The jealousy doesn't go away; it just gets worse.

    Lynne Hammar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is full of red flags! Isolating people from others is a red flag for a controlling and manipulative person.

    The Veil of Fire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Btw...he doesn't want a human gf he wants a Stepford Wife girlfriend.

    Asphalt Bubblegum
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was Jake at State Farm Insurance Co., talking to me about bundling our home and car insurance, but if you don't want to save money, I can't accept any of your conditions.

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    “When you’re successful in one area you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life,” he said, earlier.

    However, positive changes aren’t instant. They take time. The fitness expert noted that “your brain needs proof around your new identity."

    "Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he explained.

    #25

    Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband

    Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband

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    Brendan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they begin, "Nice guy," they're probably not.

    Rebelliousslug
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asks barista how their weekend was…wow, just unbelievable how nice this guy Is, really gives up 15 seconds of his life being polite, where do I find a catch like this?

    Lil Potato
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have to go "I help old people across the street, see I'm a nice guy" you're not a nice guy

    Maltaros
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People like this give actual nice people a bad name. I do the things he thinks makes him "nice" but I don't think that makes me special or deserving to cheat on my wife.

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm officially requesting people don't call me "nice" if I render you some help or do you a favour from now on. The word is officially an insult from my standpoint now. *Sorry if any Pandas disagree but seriously, I pretty much hate the word now...*

    Kitty1019
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's special because he asks a barista how the weekend was? Because....he's "above" the barista? Puleeze

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    #26

    More Fun Texts From The Darling Ex Husband!

    More Fun Texts From The Darling Ex Husband!

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited)

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Note: I never posted the comment I am now re-deleting. How it got on the Board, I don't know. And if you saw it, you only saw one part of longer and unfinished discussion which told the guy to go away and stop living in the past. Thanks, BP software!

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    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If these people don't have children, I'd highly suggest blocking him everywhere. Choose your own peace first. Choose not to have anything to do with such a heartless loser like him.

    Shark Lady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if they do have children it's questionable whether ex-husband should be in their lives. If he can tell someone to go back to being anorexic imagine how abusive he could be to the children.

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    Lil Potato
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is horrible omg run girl

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is absolutely the worst one!

    darqemm
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHAT!!! I'd really like to kick this guy. Just so hard.

    Lea S.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Block his number. Necessary communications can go through a professional advocate or mediator.

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How's about I roast you alive over hot coals very slowly and then give you to the bears to eat? You'll be helping them go through winter hibernation and be more useful than you ever were alive.

    Rostit .
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    must suck being such a pathetic person to act that way.

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    #27

    "I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night

    "I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night

    lilmxfi Report

    Elizabeth Tayler
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    Jay TheSaltLord
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, many people are just rubbish. Not everything is a disorder or mental illness.

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    JustJackie
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay wow. I checked this out, and oooooh this guy, is truly a pos. It brings me joy to tell you that she left him, and reddit told him he's delusional and exactly why he's a pos. Here's one of his replies ' I thought I was a good husband. Everyday I'm sad I wasn't better. Just didn't know what to do. I wish she'd tell you that I have some good traits. I never knew I was that bad.' His (ex)wife also made a few comments about how he told her she was lucky he didn't beat her. Such a nice guy. He said she never did any housework, he lied. He said Me Too has ruined lives. He also made other comments on other posts, that are troublesome. Something about how an 18 year old should be able to date a 14 year old. Calling women fat, and fat d*kes, such a charmer, right? I hope he never gets close to another woman.

    Maltaros
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks. I was wondering what the truth of the matter was given that this all sounded really one-sided. Sounds like he really is a problem person.

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    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we just get "nice guy" defined as a mental illness so guys might get the message they're full of shoot

    Ambitious Potato
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life tip: never try to be a Nice Guy TM

    Donna Clanclan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'sea of d cks' Heck ya I'm having fun. I'm surrounded by people who love to dance, are having a good time, aren't trying to demand sex from me because I'm moving my body to music therefore 'I'm asking for it.'

    Ashley Thompson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Liar. She should take a vacation from him and consider separating for a while.

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    Many men featured on the r/niceguys subreddit are prime examples of toxic masculinity: they have a misogynistic attitude that arises from distorted ideas of what they ‘should’ be like.

    A psychotherapist explained to us some time ago that people like that tend to think that men should “never be ‘weak’ or ‘soft’” or vulnerable. People who embody the traits of toxic masculinity feel that they always need to be winners and they tend to look down on women, as well as their rights.

    #28

    Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant

    Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant

    goodnoodle72 Report

    rspanther
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How are you not to blame also? You knew he was married and slept with him. Vile people.

    Rebelliousslug
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do they know he’s married? Kind of sounds like this post was made because they found out he was married.

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    Genericist
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You really wanna delete the personal info from that picture

    Lara Verne
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Oh yeah, that guy is my lover and he got me pregnant. I better shame him publicly for cheating on his wife! Me? What about me? I'm blameless, I'm f*****g saint!"

    You Should Do Nothing with the Fence
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry but I have to get this out...the ultra-sound reminds me of a close-up of a PANDA's eye. White fur, black circular ring around the eye? Sorry!

    Rune Rosen (they/them)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey y’all, just wanted to open up on something here. This post seems to be a mutual hate for this man. Most likely, he did not tell this person he was married OR he raped her (“such a wonderful officer protecting the streets of Clarksville by sleeping with me WHILE ON DUTY”). So, I don’t believe she is to blame. Either way, we don’t have enough information, so don’t assume.

    Doodles1983
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds consensual. And continuous. But sounds like she didn’t know about the wife.

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    Niki A
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, a revenge pregnancy.... so ..... yeah no.

    Isabela Cincu
    Community Member
    2 years ago

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    Ashley Thompson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did she know the entire time he was married or only after she told him she was pregnant with his child?

    Afro Duckler
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she knew the whole time that he was married then she's an AH and also to blame, but it sounds like she didn't and is doing this BECAUSE she found out so I don't think she's really to blame

    Hseed
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations, you're having a panda!

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    #29

    Nice Guy/BF/Husband??

    Nice Guy/BF/Husband??

    queennobody Report

    The Ghost of Glasgow
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been here. Don’t pity them. Don’t think "oh they've changed their ways" or "they didn't mean it." You leave their a*s. I didn't and ended up in a world of sh!t and difficulties mentally. That treatment is unacceptable and "ducking" manipulative.

    Scrapiechick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was coming to say exactly the same. Hope you're healing x

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    Dodomaster
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well that was a rollercoaster of situational escalation

    Clown fish
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again looks like my ex. I've got many of the same messages

    Not-a-Clue-What-to-Call-Myself
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A very strange usage of the word ' love' in that last message that I wasn't previously aware of.

    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All about power and control. He doesn't have any, so he's manipulating and trying to be coercive. Her best bet is to walk away, go no contact, and live her life happily and in peace without him. The BEST revenge. Always choose your own peace and happinest first over just having a man, any man. Especially this one. Throw him back.

    Wednesday
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ghost and block... please. For peace in earth.

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    #30

    Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed

    Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed

    reddit.com Report

    ChestRockwell24
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How come the posts with the cheating hoes have much less replies than the ones about men cheating?

    “A man with healthy masculinity is the opposite to these traits: someone who is self-reflective, embraces their emotions including sadness, anxiety and crying, a man who isn't afraid of their own femininity and believes that women are equal, and therefore are very clear about respecting boundaries and consent with women,” the psychotherapist told Bored Panda during an earlier interview.

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    #31

    When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband

    When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband

    Matthewangel96 Report

    Sonja
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a horrible person, but for cheating it needs two people. If the husband doesn't say no to her, he's no better.

    Adam Jeff
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Off topic but how do you get a smudge on a screenshot?

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think whomever edited the picture was trying to smudge out the peoples' faces, and accidentally clicked the mouse button on another part of the picture (the words) and didn't notice/realize. I've accidentally spazz-clicked my mouse while drawing/editing artwork myself XD

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    Lori Harper
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Off topic: WTH is that tattoo supposed to be?

    #32

    "Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."

    "Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."

    Derpherpderpdeederp Report

    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking as a widow, this s**t is all too common. Men don't take the time to grieve, to do the hard internal work, to re-create a new life without their spouse. Nope, he wants to replace one NPC with another NPC. He wants an intelligent pack mule who will cook, clean, have sex, etc. My insistence on living apart together, and keeping all finances separate works wonders to weed out all bums. Like me for me as a person, not for what I can do for you. And yes, was married twice, 25 years, happy the second time for 17 years. Just don't want to live with any man again. Love my space, peace, and quiet, would just like fun companionship. And I prefer a grown-a*s man who can take care of himself like a real adult.

    Anne
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    local PD better look into this guy's wife's death..

    Allen Packard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. This might be the grossest thing I've seen in a long time. Wow.

    Stephanie A Mutti
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm willing to bet this guy's page is under a fake name and he has a wife that is healthy, alive, and oblivious.

    Darlene Molina
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A week and a half? As a widow of 10.5 months myself, I find this particularly disgusting.

    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That afraid of being alone?

    #33

    My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair

    My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair

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    PunkRock*Bottom*
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    Premium
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happy spouse happy house

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Response: Yeah, good luck with your happy life then, ex-wifey. Because I am happy to see you in the rear end mirror of my newly happier life. Smh...

    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do NOT think so in any way whatsoever. He doesn't even see her as a whole separate person with HER OWN version of happiness, HER OWN wants and needs, HER OWN agenda for HER OWN life. To him, she appears to be a NPC who exists to support him. WELL DONE on her for leaving!

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's a married man who is rightfully asking for his wife to remain faithful to him. I don't know where you got the rest of this from but asking your spouse to be faithful isn't unreasonable!

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    #34

    Husband’s Gift To His Wife This Morning. Hopefully She Gives Him A Divorce

    Husband’s Gift To His Wife This Morning. Hopefully She Gives Him A Divorce

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    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uncooperative? The rest might have had at least some justification to it.

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    #35

    Lol Let Me Drug My Boyfriend So He’ll Always Want Me

    Lol Let Me Drug My Boyfriend So He’ll Always Want Me

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    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who thinks of these things?

    Daffydillz~
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's freaking disturbing and should spend some time in jail.

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope you got dumped and served for literally trying to f*ck with someone's life, sycophant... Smh...

    Dodomaster
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    2 years ago

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    #36

    Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site

    Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site

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    BlackestDawn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The husband is equally at fault here, possibly slightly more so.

    LilliVB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Slightly? The maid is not the one that has to be loyal to the wife here. I'm not saying she has the right to do what she did, but the only obligations she had towards the wife were the ones concerning being a decent human being that respects other people relationships and doesn't try to mess with them. The husband on the other hand is a cheating dishonest scumbag, a trust breaker that can't show any loyalty toward his wife and that's likely going to have lighter consequences because it's always the other woman's fault. So not slightly imo, but much more so at fault.

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    birdhouse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like a husband problem more than a maid problem.

    Clown fish
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ewwwwwww. I'll keep writing it as it's the only thing that fits

    #37

    This Is The 'Ex' Husband Of My Girlfriend's Best Friend. She's Been Trying To Get A Divorce From Him For Almost A Year, He Won't Sign The Papers But Will Message Her Friends And Coworkers, Constantly Lying About Her Cheating And Making Himself Out To Be The Victim

    This Is The 'Ex' Husband Of My Girlfriend's Best Friend. She's Been Trying To Get A Divorce From Him For Almost A Year, He Won't Sign The Papers But Will Message Her Friends And Coworkers, Constantly Lying About Her Cheating And Making Himself Out To Be The Victim

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    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't she divorce him without him signing?

    #38

    My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No

    My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No

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    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago

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    Just don't date people who've been to jail in the first place.

    Jazmyn Combrink
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On behalf of the jail community, we also would not want to date someone so judgmental, so no worries!

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    #39

    His Wife May Have Just Posted Her Husbands Last Facebook Update

    His Wife May Have Just Posted Her Husbands Last Facebook Update

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    #40

    What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door

    What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door

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    Unnamed Hooman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the neighbour was innocent, I would buy some new paint and help her. If she wasn’t? None of my business

    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And men are the logical, less emotional sex. SUUUURRREEE THEY ARE. Proof.

    Brendan
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? How is this proof? And neither sex is more illogical or emotional than the other.

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    #41

    Nice Guy Husband Turning Bitter Because Wife Had Male Friends Before Marriage

    Nice Guy Husband Turning Bitter Because Wife Had Male Friends Before Marriage

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ‘Plus I was nice guy’ huh, if you say you’re ‘nice’ on first encounters on the internet, there’s a high chance you’re not

    DC
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you need to point it out, you're either not smart, not nice, or none of it. BTW, I'm a member at mensa...

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    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had four boyfriends in my life. I'm tainted. RUINED. Absolutely roooo-ined!!

    DC
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had four girlfriends so far and am wondering how I'd have the time to even know people. One of my best friends, I haven't seen since 2019. Hm ... well ... still is.

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    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess women are supposed to be grown in pods and let out when they are chosen for marriage. Would spare a lot of guys anguish. (bùttholes!)

    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh ok, so you don't see women as sexual beings, just as intelligent pack mules meant to serve you and be whatever you want them to be. No real feelings, needs, wants of their own. Grow up, incel.

    #42

    My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day

    My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day

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    Ches Yamada
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Why don't you enjoy the fact that there's a guy out there that cares about you and ... loves you with his whole heart". Yeah, her DAD, f#ck off it's Father's Day.

    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Manipulative, controlling, blaming, isolating. Abuser. RUN.

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    #43

    Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend

    Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A towel? I threw a towel at my rude roommate who tried to feed chocolate to my dog :( and THEN I slapped her

    Bryan Dade
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once threw a scrabble game...could never find all the pieces

    RagDollLali
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On occasion I will throw a donut at my husband, does that count? He never seems to mind ☺️

    Dodomaster
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention laughing about it

    Hyrule26
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    2 years ago

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    #44

    Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband

    Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband

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    birdhouse
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How to make your husband's death about you.

    Daffydillz~
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just wondering if she has no one else 🤔 and is trying to share this to bring more support to herself or to gather a community of people of similar backgrounds to support each other. There's no kind of negative or fraudulent content in the video. It seems like someone who just wants to share their experience with others. I hope she finds what she needs.

    Althea Armwood
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't sound like she's trying to make her husband's death about her. It sounds like she went through something terrible and wants to help others by letting them know they are not alone.

    #45

    Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:

    Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:

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    Daffydillz~
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's disgusting. I wouldn't let alimony be a factor in whether I get married or not. If I were treating my fiance like that, I'd hope he'd have the good sense to move on.

    #46

    When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook

    When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook

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    Anne
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She kinda looks drugged.. But she may be into this.. I know girls that are.

    Daffydillz~
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought it was possible that she could be drugged as well. The photo looks a bit off to me because you can't see her hands and I think that my hand would probably be on his neck if I were awake. I hope that she's okay and they're both consenting to the photo being taken and posted.

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    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bet he never bothered to ask for her consent, either. Totally illegal, or should be.

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    #47

    A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry

    A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry

    SO has not once in 3 years stuck an an agreement. Every promise broken. Many times, he has lied to my face about it. Every time denies he was wrong or minimizes the issue. Then he attacks me (I am controlling, constantly berate him, I'm selfish, "on a high horse" etc). He didn't do anything wrong! This is my fault, my problem. He is the victim of my inflexibility!
     
    🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
     
    We have been to counseling specifically because he breaks agreements. We've also talked A LOT about how inappropriately he responds when confronted with a wrong doing and have been working on helping him learn alternative ways to react.
     
    This weekend was his second chance to actually stick to an agreement and apply everything we worked on (he blew the first chance, shockingly). But guess who didn't stick to the agreement?! I chewed him out and that's when the "forced apology" came. Not long after he stormed into the bedroom, took it back, and then DARVOed me.

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    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "DARVO (an acronym for "deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender") is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior."

    What_the_actual_sloth?
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its crazy how we actually NEED acronyms for this s.h.i.t. Like if there's an acronym for it, it's common.

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    Lynne Hammar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you still in this relationship?

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    #48

    My Ex Girlfriend. Self Explanatory To Get A Cheaper Cutting Board

    My Ex Girlfriend. Self Explanatory To Get A Cheaper Cutting Board

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    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah yes. "Kind of" dating. Every girl's dream, to be "kind of" dated.

    #49

    Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠

    Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠

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    Genericist
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ehh, this one's borderline without context. Why was she going through his phone anyway?

    Coolwhip
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She probably felt something was up between them anyway.

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    Anne
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I def have conversations like this with my male friends. They always feel like they need to prove they would have been better than whomever my boyfriend or date of the moment is.

    #50

    Husband Just Doing A Little Jail Time

    Husband Just Doing A Little Jail Time

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    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "hwp"? "d/d free"? I'm 40 and I grew up with the internet and this made me feel old and out of touch XD

    Rick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Hip With Puppies". "Dungeons & Dragons" free. Pretty sure that's right.

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    Jonn Thundergun
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a fake profile. Probably set up by scammers. The vernacular is too consistent with so many other fake profiles and the first couple of sentences are an allure to stupid guys with no morals. The idea is to lure in idiot guys then once you've got them going you can start asking to get a hotel, pay for uber etc. and they need to send money through Cashapp or Zelle to cover it but they WILL pay you back lol. Stupid as s**t but people fall for it.

    lil bear bear
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok totaly off topic but: THAT PUPPY IS SO STINKIN CUTE

    Anne Jones
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hwp means height weight proportionate.

    censorshipsucks
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why is she married at 23? you're still a kid and an idiot at that age.

    juice
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it says in the bio that she's 26. seems like she lied at the top about being younger to get more guys to look at her profile?

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    #51

    Wife Gets Stabbed By “Dope Pipe” By Husband. He Posts On Facebook. Tags Her Then The Comments Start

    Wife Gets Stabbed By “Dope Pipe” By Husband. He Posts On Facebook. Tags Her Then The Comments Start

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    Sonja
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem wit NiceGuys™ is not that they're insecure or whatever. The problem is that they don't see women as equals or even humans. It their minds 'females' are subhuman, less worthy than males. They truly believe, for what reason ever, that a woman is generally less intelligent, less able and their emotions less real than their own. That is why for them spending time with any woman is just a hassle they have to go through to get sex. So they think completely normal human interaction is already being nice when done to a woman. Because they don't believe that a woman deserves the same respect and consideration than a man. So if they behave normal and decent against a woman they only do so to get something. And that's also why they believe a woman just being nice is leading them on. Because that's what they do. Their whole existence is transactional. While normal people go on dates to have a good time and get to know each other they only go on dates to prepay for sex later.

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    #52

    She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose

    She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose

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    #53

    He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him

    He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him

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    Belynda Young
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm I am wondering if she had a paralyzed dream. I have had a few, I have dreamt that I was yelling at my husband to help me .This happened several times. The ptsd she has from the trauma may cause very realistic dreams.

    Anne Reid
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But he admitted touching her while she was sleeping.

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    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Justifying, rationalizing, minimizing, doing explicitly what she asked him not to do. This is TEXTBOOK ABUSER BEHAVIOR.

    Anne
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was like.. meh.. all bfs/husbands can be touchy.. but then I read the title.. SA history.. Hecking NOPE then.

    Katie Andrews
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why you don't tell men your trauma. They will then see you as a victim, and some particularly heartless ones will re-traumatize you. They don't see you as a person; they just see you as "someone who had things done to her, so now it's my turn". Divorce, break up, walk away, warn other women.