30 Screenshots Of Toxic People Treating Their Significant Others Like Trash
Not every relationship ends in a ‘happily ever after.’ And sometimes, your knight’s shining armor is just for show. So much so that these people end up being called out on the front page of the internet for how awfully they treat their partners. Lies, accusations, and manipulation... it's an emotional rollercoaster that's more powerful than a soap opera.
Bored Panda has collected some of Reddit's most infamous posts about toxic relationships where people clearly don’t respect their significant other. You’ll find the stories and screenshots as you scroll down.
When you’ve read through this list, you can look through our previous articles about 'nice guys' who only pretend to be kind right here and here.
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My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes
Sickening. He violated his partner’s trust, preyed on his partner’s niece! I hope that she forwards this text to the aunt and shares with family members. Hopefully they can comprehend why this is so disgusting!!!
All the better to kick your pathetic little a*s with, my dear!
At first I just saw the text convo and I was like ew. But then I read the caption AND HE KNOWS SHES MARRIED. These kind of people are disgusting.
I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay
I know a guy like this, but in his defence, dude was a Sallesman ( image is very important ) and this was almost 30 years ago, plus everyone knew, even his wife, i assume they had an " understanding ", but he had 2 or 3 kids with her though.
Being in a non-monogamous relationship when all parties involved are on the same page is vastly different from lying and cheating.
Load More Replies...Don't insult pûssies with scum like him. He's just a punk âss bîtch if he chooses to cheat on her, risk giving her STI's, and it's not fair for his wife or his side piece to be used by him.
She is especially at risk for HIV since she isn't on prep most likely. Men who victimize women because they are afraid to come out disgust me. It's like an ultimate Form of mysogyny. I don't even love you nor am I attracted to you but I'm Gonna use you for housekeeping/ a baby oven.
Load More Replies...40 years ago I was a bank where my SIL worked. She introduced me to her boss. His last name was Gay. Later, I told her that Gay wasn’t just his last name. He actually is Gay. I don’t think she believed me. Another time I was there his wife and kids happened to be there. Beautiful young family. I was thinking how hurt they will likely be at some point in the future. 30 years later my SIL was visiting and asked if I remembered her old boss at the bank. She said that he is now divorced from his wife, married a guy and took his husband’s last name. I tell that to people and use it as an example of why we should not stigmatize being gay. Too many people grow up, fake that they are straight, get married to a person of the opposite sex and people get hurt. If we let people be who they are, fewer instances like that will happen.
I have a wonderful gay friend who told me I would not believe the number of married men who are gay but cannot/will not come out because of the stigma. I feel so sad about that. This guy? He's just an a*****e.
It is sad but that does not give them the right to knowingly decieve people who in good faith they are building lives with when it is all built on sand. Leave the marriage. We need to consider others needs too.
Load More Replies...Yep know of a guy who came out after 30 years of marriage and 3 kids. Told his wife he had been cheating on her the entire marriage with another man. Then told her she had to stay because he didn't want the stigma of coming out. She wasn't to cheat though, just pretend.
This reminds me of a story about a politician in my area who after a long career was caught in a club and his entire history came out so to speak. There was so much 'understanding' for him at the time but my heart really went solely to his long standing wife, and by extension his two adult children. It is an absolute betrayal of loyalty and he did have a responsibility to not allow that to happen for so long without addressing it any way whatsoever. He essentially deprived another person of their way to live life. I can't imagine the hurt she endured at the time.
Verbal and physical abuse is not ok!! Otherwise as a general rule I try not to get involved in other people’s relationship bc I don’t know what they want to put up with for what they gain etc. many people are happy living a lie and don’t want that shattered. Whereas another person wouldn’t be ok w the same situation that someone was ok w. I just stick to what I’m ok w. I do like to hear relationship stories and take it as face value as a story.
Please Show His Wife The Note And Money
Show her the damn note and take the 100 anyway because this dude right there had the audacity
Ok the husband might be hiding stuff, but it's his phone... My husband's phone is his, I'd never ask to see anything in it and it goes both ways... Privacy :D Or also, he is in a toxic/ abusive relationship. Consider the reverse: a female friend of mine had her boyfriend who wanted to check her history, one day she didn't pick up fast enough to his taste, he thought she was on a call and hiding it, he threatened to contact the phone company where he had a friend working to go through her whole call list. he would have given her hell just seeing the number of a male coworker on the call list. Might not be the case here, but the whole thing in this pic is cringe inducing. these two need to talk or split i guess :D
I would repair the phone and wipe everything. When they come to pick it up, say "I fixed it" but keep the 100 and watch him sweat as his wife looks through the call history and when they look confused say "Oh yeah, the memory was corrupt, so I had to wipe it"
We don't know what's in the call history, but TBH if she's checking up on him like this then it'd not be surprising if he was looking elsewhere.
Right? If you feel you need to go through someone’s phone… that’s a problem then and there. And that problem lies with you (for wanting to breech someone’s privacy) and on the significant other for being non-trustworthy. The relationship is problematic.
Load More Replies...This is bullcr*p people. There is literally no room inside an iPhone to put this note and money in. Also, opening a iPhone is quite some work, why not destroy the SOC right away and make it unfixable? It's really easy to permanently break a smartphone when it's open. Check google images, there are a lot of versions of this story, all with different currency, but also exactly the same note. This is fake as Santa and debunked a couple of times already.
As a life long Cleveland resident I don't know wether to laugh or cry at your comment : D
Load More Replies...When you're in a relationship where one partner feels the need to check your personal phone it's over anyway.
There is an online community called r/niceguys that features some of the worst cases of people pretending to be nice, only to put down others when they don’t get their own way. ‘Nice guys,’ no matter their gender, tend to be jealous, controlling, and spiteful.
‘Nice guys,’ like the ones portrayed on the r/niceguys subreddit, as well as other online communities, are all about creating the appearance of being kind, wholesome, and supportive. The reality, unfortunately, is often very different.
Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water
I feel like counseling would be good to try before immediately wanting divorce
Load More Replies...1. that title made zero sense. AWOL. absent without leave, ffs. 2. they both sound incredibly...childish. 3. this right here, men, is why we call it toxic masculinity. You think any attention from women means we want you. And this is why we can be dismissive or downright rude.
To me she doesn't sound childish, just confused- I too would be if my husband went off like this over me sharing an interaction that, by all accounts, should be kinda funny at best...
Load More Replies...Not the exact same situation but I had a friendship like that. It was like walking on eggshells. No matter what I said or did, she’d turn it into something bad that I did. It was borderline abusive. I remember her screaming at me one time because I texted another friend happy birthday, when me and her we just had had a fight. She went berzerk. In hindsight I think she just had real issues. I cut all ties shortly after.
That husband is cheating. Pulling accusations out of thin air? Sorry, you gots a cheating spouse
In what universe is giving someone water flirting? So are just every waiter ever flirting with everyone?
I think left person was suffering slow gas leak, since they slowly lost brain cells during this text
Oh no, I've been in the position of the blue bubble similar to this and it's making my hairs stand on end. GET OUT save yourself....run far far away.
Me too. I finally got out after 24 years and it was the best decision I ever made.
Load More Replies...In my experience a partner acting that irrationally jealous is cheating themselves.
Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone
Hes amazing. A really great human being. She definitely messed up a great chance here. He is a keeper.
Load More Replies...Genetics is weird, though. Sometimes genes from generations back are expressed in a child. I'd get a DNA test before making any decisions.
Yep. Skin and eye color are determined by melanin, and the amount or type of melanin is controlled by about a dozen different genes. It's entirely possible that each parent has mixed ancestry, and that ancestry was expressed in their child's skin color. There are documented cases of two dark-skinned parents having a lighter-skinned child, and of a dark-skinned parent and a light-skinned parent having twins where each child has a different skin tone. I do hope the man gets a paternity test, because it IS possible, but I imagine that his wife may have told him about her infidelity, which is why he seems very sure that he is not the baby's father. However, as you said, genetics are weird :)
Load More Replies...Um, fact: pigmentation requires mature expression of melanin. It is very, very common for babies to not properly express melanin, so black babies can look several shades lighter (and potentially white) when born. Hope this idiot actually got a DNA test.
Well, as Lakota Wolf said, the wife may have told him of her infedelity and didn't have any need to take a DNA test. Although it is understandable that you think the baby may just look several shades lighter, you didn't have to call them an idiot.
Load More Replies...How are you guys making this about skin color. Everyone knows most babies with dark skin come out looking pretty light, at first. Seems this guy has been raising the kid for a while, and something came up. I don’t think anybody is as stupid as you people think they are. Seriously.
Processing this s**t online in public view is so unhealthy.and that fake a*s humble game is embarrassing as hell
I agree. This probably should have been handled privately instead of on blast on social media.
Load More Replies...That kid could totally be the kids father. New born babies mostly look like an alien. I wouldn't be canceling the trust fund just yet. I have worked in labor and delivery in the past and seen these things happen a lot because nobody has any clue.
"That kid could totally be the kids father." That made it sound like the baby is his own dad lol.
Load More Replies...Has he actually taken a paternity test, or is this just based on thinking the baby doesn't look enough like him? (Too pale perhaps?) Because if it's the first, yes she's aweful and he is handling it really well. If it's the second he is the biggest jerk in the world.
I think the fact that he says he was "...there since day 1..." indicates that he's been raising the baby for quite some time and that this post was not written on the actual day of the birth. It appears that this has nothing to do with the baby's skin color and that he found out later, through a DNA test or because the mother told him.
I hurt for him and for his family. They all love that baby. How cruel.
It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper
HE HIT THE DOGS?????? ONLY BIG FAT IDIOT A******S WITH DAMN F*****G A*****E ATTITUDES AND AN EMPTY BRAIN CAPACITY HITS DOGS 😡 HE WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY
If anyone hit my puppy or my cats, they'd be FED to the pet they struck. Years ago my ex used to tell me that my older cat would "ruin my life" (wtf does that mean? she's going to steal my identity and spend all my savings on bitcoin?) He once forced me to board her at a cattery for two months to "get my life in order" (I was living with him at the time, so I felt obligated to). It traumatized my cat, even though it was a wonderful place that I'd boarded her at on vacations before, and I visited her every day. The experience changed my cat's personality permanently and I've never forgiven him for that.
Load More Replies...it is crazy, the mindfůck that abusive partners can dish out...i stayed with an abusive partner wayyy too long, and only left when i felt my life was in danger. These make me sad..
Same. If it makes you feel a little bit better, she left him. I'm always overjoyed and proud when someone leaves their abuser. I hope things are better, and you have support.
Load More Replies...Another dog hitter, huh...? >:-( *Picks up sledgehammer* I'm on my way!!!
You touch my dog, be prepared for a long, painful death. I don't care who you are.
Dude even yells at my pets he is on the curb within seconds. He hits my pet....police will be called for if not he will be in the hospital.
If anyone attempts to hit my cats or dog… I will probably serve the rest of my life in prison, and not just because I attempted murder by swinging a baseball bat. My cats and dog will kill the person sooner than I would get to, because that’s what they’re good at…
Load More Replies...They usually have confidence issues that run very deep. They tend to be extremely jealous, and attempt to control who their significant others spend time with.
Their personal insecurities lead to relationships that are very unhealthy because they’re built on a foundation of suspicion and paranoia.
Trashy Husband
Sounds like wifey edited his profile... good, but she could have gone nuclear if she thought about it
Get a tattoo on your forehead that says "cheating husband" as well as a tattoo on each cheek saying which side to slap and punch, that way we know its you and can fulfill your request, you piece of s*&!
Why don't people talk about their ideas on monogamy and faithfulness before getting into a serious relationship with each other?
Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend
People who say they’re a ‘nice’ guy upon first encounter, often via internet, are 98% not.
It shows just how gross and trashy you are when you have to tell someone how good of a person you are. If you were it would be obvious...
I just wanna know what font this is and how to get it on my phone..
I Can Hear The Wedding Bells
Go to police. Give ex-wife everything she wants in the divorce settlement. Remain alone from now on; you deserve to be.
That's the risk you take when you play the game. You never know when someone's endgame is going to be some psychopath level shît until it's too late but all risk comes with its own rewards.
Load More Replies...BROTHERS?!? AGAIN?!? Dude needs to fake his own death and disappear.
Don't poop where you eat. This rule becomes infinitely more important if you're married.
Maybe the wife knew beforehand and her and the coworker planed this???
I'll watch this movie! BTW, you deserve everything that's happening to you.
Anyone can tell you that if you take trust out of the equation, you’ve got a relationship that’s pretty much doomed to fail. It’s not really a relationship if you’re always accusing your partner of lying to you or being unfaithful.
In some of the situations presented in this list, there are a few ways to tackle the problems at their source. The first is to have an open and honest conversation with your significant other about their behavior.
Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth
"If my wife lets herself go after I have kids with her, I’m going to tell her once. If you don’t get your sh*t together, because I still want to be sexually attracted to my wife, my spouse, but if you can’t do that, I’m out’".
He should tell that louder and more often and put it on all his profiles everywhere so women know to avoid that shallow idiot who'll only date them for their bodies and ditch them as soon as things go tough or they might lose their looks for whatever reason. I mean, no one in their right minds would ever date this guy. What if she has an accident? What if she gets cancer? Or something else that'll disfigure her? Getting married is gor the good times AND the bad times. If your love for your spouse only goes skin deep, you're not relationship material. At best, you are a toy to have fun... if you're pretty enough. Or pay some coin. But otherwise, you're not worth the investment that having a relationship needs.
Males who have these misogynistic attitudes against women are 1- are not the real men they think they are. 2 - have no business having kids nor getting married. 3 - need to grow up and take some courses about women and how our bodies REALLY work. 4 - needs to have a reality check about real relationships.
These are also the men who are panicking that women are choosing to be single rather than get into relationships with their loser asses. You can see them ranting all over the internet about "cat ladies" and "you need to lower your standards" and women are just like "lol, no thanks".
Load More Replies...Get yourself fixed then because no child in this world deserves such a disgusting human being as a father. Leave your wife as well, she deserves better.
I love my wife's body more now after child birth. She hasn't let herself go, she's put her body through torture to bring us our two kids. A little pouch her or a roll there, I'm all for it. Reminds me of what she went through for our family
morrre troglodytes. some days i feel like i got The Last Good Man™️
That could very easily backfire. She could stay the same or get better looking while he could change irreversibly (in some of the ways aging men often do...). So go ahead buddy. Tell her once. See how that works out for you.
Its always the fat bald guys who say stuff like this lol
Load More Replies...Yuck. Let's see this "bro" throw his entire system out of whack, have his body try to consume itself, then give birth and generate nutrition for this new life... he can f**k all the way off. The mother of my child is always beautiful... even when she pisses me off.
This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend
If someone can please forward this rant to her boyfriend, and save him $500 a month
'I really feel like a loser'... Sure you are, but not for the reasons you think. Poor boyfriend. Poor, poor boyfriend.
My husband makes more then both of them and if he bought me a 700 wallet I would kick his a$$. You know how much actual useful stuff I could buy for that
Your boyfriend gives you a monthly stipend AND buys you food and expensive gifts on top of that? Are you a girlfriend or some sort of sugar baby?
$5k a month is only $60k a year, which puts them in the middle class. Plus there’s about 22% taxes on that too. I’d like to know where on earth these people live if these boyfriends can just drop that much money on sugar babies. Doesn’t matter because it’s a troll.
Load More Replies...Start working young lady and pay for your own luxuries, comforts and necessities..
I'd be beyond pissed if my bf gave me a $700 wallet! Give me a $10 wallet, and the rest in cash 😁 what a complete waste of money!
This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone
Childfree woman here. This guy was my worst nightmare when younger. I'd have gotten an abortion in a NY second rather than be baby-trapped and tied to such a manipulative jerk for life, with a baby I never wanted. So happy to be postmenopausal. That window is closed FOREVER, hooray!
Your wife doesn't love you again, she just can't afford to leave .
My sisters first serious relationship tried to do that to her. 18 and absolutely terrified. I convinced her to tell me his address, information I passed on to my husband and my dad. We never heard from him again, she got an abortion and a much needed sex education class, and whatever happened once my dad and my husband had that address, they've never said and I don't lose any sleep over protecting my little sister. I know they didn't kill him. To me, it had a happy ending. Try to destroy my sister, I'll come after you.
This was so satisfying to read. I'm glad your sister has such a wonderfully supportive family. I would have done the same for my own sister ❤
Load More Replies...Oh she's in love again? wait until some of the "new baby" shine wears off and she remembers why she was going to leave
I agree with the first comment. The 2nd one... the guy is deluded. Saying 'got her pregnant' makes me wonder if he messed with her birth control. Doing so should be a crime imo
Explain your position. Tell them how you feel when they don’t trust you or talk down to you. Set some clear and healthy boundaries. Though, keep in mind, a single conversation won’t save your relationship—it’ll take time and effort for real change to happen.
If that doesn’t work, you may want to consider couples counseling. Having a neutral third party give you a helping hand can work wonders. However, not all relationships can—or should—be saved.
My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done
What is it about some of these women EXPECTING boyfriends to pay!!!
Never act out of anger or hate or frustration. People make the worse choices in life during those times. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. This type of revenge does not fit the 'crime' however his legal actions against her would be well founded.
My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems
I can’t even with people thinking they „deserve sex“. Do they forget there tends to be another person involved with needs and wants. Ew.
There are SO many perfectly good, well-made sex toys out there on the market, too! XD I'm not a dude, but I've heard from several that some of those things are great. OP's boyfriend could utilize one of those!
Load More Replies..."I've never asked for anything in this relationship?" They've been dating for a month!!
One month. That's not long enough to know if they really like each other. Smh
Load More Replies...Cut all contact with anyone who thinks they should have control of your body.
Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her
I wonder if some of these type of posts are done by 3rd party frienemies as revenge for perceived wrongs?
Right? Who would post a pic of themselves with their child on a dating app looking for casual hookup hoping partner won't find out. That or its real and she is that stupid.
Load More Replies...But she put up a picture of her and her kid... why not just put out a billboard in her yard?
This was definitely done by someone looking for revenge about something. I don't think the wife actually did this, at the very minimum I expect someone to be smart enough to at least post a picture without the kid if they're just looking for a hookup. To whoever actually posted this, this is extremely dangerous and you just put two peoples lives at risk for what.
Well, she's not leading guy's on. OTH has she heard of toys? They're a much better option than cheating
Well, her husband is a murderer, so, 2 horrible people
If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you, reach out to a counselor or an organization for advice specific to your situation. These professionals can support you as you consider what to do next. There is no excuse for abuse.
Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months
This is the type of person that finds a needy pregnant woman, tricks her into meeting up by offering baby clothes, then tries to cut the baby out of her body.
I had a friend who did something similar (to what was described in the story), and that was definitely a concern in the back of my mind. But there IS such a mental/physical condition as "hysterical pregnancy" in which a woman wants a baby so badly that she manifests pregnancy symptoms. It's not as common since pregnancy tests have been over the counter, but it turns out that was my friend's condition. She got her mind right, got her miracle, and she's OK now. Predictably devoted mom ❤
Load More Replies...there was a chick that I ..... did, possibly the only one I ever had and would have sex with, now I am Sterile,no lil guys, and I'll never have my own bio kid, she came up to my friends telling them how I got her preg and called her stuff and told her to just basically die, come time for her to give birth, she was still telling people I was the dad, I had a DNA waited up in the hospital for when it was born and then we waited, well the baby is born and it is a Japanese baby! {im japanese} and she's all proud saying I TOLD YOU!...... DNA comes back and shows I'm not the dad, I just smile and hand the paper to her and leave with her screaming, so it turned out she did it with another Japanese dude to get me, cause I'm rich, but she's not bright
Just how was she going to play it off in a month when she didn't go into labor.? Or the next month or the next one?
How do you fake a pregnancy for eight months? Also how do you stoop so low?
She's awful, I agree, I wouldn't deny it, even if I can (but I can't). But I'm confused, I keep asking myself how the Poster got a hold about all those medical information. This shouldn't be allowed if I'm not wrong, you can't go to the hospital and asks if someone has ever seen a doctor there, and they can't absolutely give you all the information about ultrasound and so on ...very confused indeed.
Sounds like she went to the hospital with the girlfriend.
Load More Replies...What intellectual level must you be at to think you could pull something like this off? Did she think no one would notice the baby she was supposed to have would just... cease to ever exist?
i guess she would try to fake a miscarriage or stillborn at the very end?? and then claim sympathy and pity for something that never happened
Load More Replies...What was she going to do when she ended up, you know, NOT giving birth? What was she planning on telling everyone?
I don‘t understand her thinking. What did she plan to do when the time for delivery came around? Pretend the child died? Steal a Baby? Maybe she did not plan anything? I don‘t get things like these. She must be mentally unstable.
Not every woman shows. My friend is 2wks from her due date and still wearing the same size jeans and bra as she did before she was pregnant
Load More Replies...Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment
Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids
Um… am I weird, or is that reaction from the dude totally messed-up?
To all of you thinking the dumpster dive is weird, it’s coupons. Bloody coupons, not food. If I had children, I would do the same for them. That money saved may very well be an emergency fund for her and the kids to get away, or for when ends aren’t meeting at all. He was in the wrong for his reaction, but not for his situation (as far as we know).
In some circles dumpster diving for food and other unsold products is a form of activism. There is so much food waste, and not all countries have laws that require supermarkets to donate unsold items to shelters and food banks. I can see a certain eeww factor for the food, but certainly not for the cupons.
Load More Replies...If you can't feed your family, your pride is not worth a thing. If you prioritise your pride over your family, you're definitely not a good human. Pride is overrated anyways. If you have the choice to dumpster dive or starve, you might decide to starve instead, it's your choice, but if the choice is to dumpster dive or your kids starve, you'll dumpster dive, there is no choice. Because you've made that choice already when you decided to have kids. Now you're responsible to feed them. Edit: and no, you keep your nest egg for the really hard times, you don't touch your nest egg when your future is not secure yet but you have still other options, because if you waste it yet, you WILL cry when you need it later and the dumpster is empty
When I was a kid, my old man would take me skip raiding (dumpster diving for US folks) for wood. No shame in recycling things at all.
My parents took us to get used furniture from the street other people through out.
Load More Replies...What separates ‘nice guys’ from everyone else is the lack of genuine confidence. These ‘nice guys’ have a victim mentality and lash out at the people around them when things don’t go their way.
Again, this isn’t gender-specific: anyone can be toxic, it’s not just guys who are jerks.
Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital
I second that and I will remember your comment!
Load More Replies...First little "slight" and you resorted to a drunk hookup. Good luck.
Wife's Time Of The Month
WHY SO YELLY? also, it IS that time of the month...that time where she educates this troglodyte about how easy it is to disappear a body.
This post made me think back to when I was a kid and my parents sent me to Astrocamp. I was probably 10 or 11. My dad wrote me "letters" every day I was at camp and faxed them to the camp (this was in the 90s, when one still faxed things). All of his letters were in allcaps. He even WROTE in allcaps. He was old-school, though, born in 1942, worked for IBM... so I never gave him c**p for it XD I don't think some of the older generations realize that everyone else considers allcaps "yelling".
Load More Replies...Lol, someone should have given a detailed explanation of the menstrual cycle, with diagrams and everything.
"People need to know why she's so b----y; She's my wife and I love her"...sounds to me like this guy already has a toast written for that 50th anniversary, that's solid gold right there
I'm always really angry on my period - but if a bf/gf did this they'd be introduced to the hormonal rage of my fist.
That poor mother. Can't imagine what she's feeling like with this one.
Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid
Am I the only one who is also concerned about the EYES of the human in the picture underneath that disgusting text?
Seriously, you don't do things to 'buy' sex with your partner. You do things because you love them and want to express that love.
It always amazes me how men treat sex as transactional and then in the next breath condemn sex workers. If you are only engaging with me to get sex then I'm out.
A while ago, Bored Panda touched on the topic of building a genuine sense of confidence. A fitness expert explained to us that it all comes down to proving that “you’re not a victim.” He suggested focusing on small tasks and small victories at first.
According to the expert, helping others in need, taking care of your health, advancing in your career, and focusing on having a successful relationship are some of the things that will instill a sense of confidence.
Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions
YikesAaaa he needs to press charges!! He might have been sprayed with mall perfume you know how sometimes the sellers spray perfume on people (should be illegal to do that as people could have allergy )
I used to have a female boss who wore too much perfume. Just being in her office left the smell all over you. Once I gently explained to her she became aware and could laugh at it. But glad my wife is not so insane because I came home wreaking of perfume a few times.
Load More Replies...Best advice: just leave, go no contact, return all his things. No letter, no text, no email. Just cut him out and get on with your life. And by the way, how about not doing anything criminal? Just saying.
She only suspected something. No proof other than a perfume that wasn't hers. And she straight up does a chemical attack on him. She is a psychotic person.
Load More Replies...I'm no expert but that looks like, what do they call it…evidence? A confession?
I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This
And she is pregnant...have mercy on the child she won't be able to guide to maturity.
Oh this reminds me of a story lol ( dunno if its true though ) One of my teachers was a former army seargent, and One of the soldiers got pregnant, they went after the father, did 3 DNA tests and none of the men where the father, One day he asked her, hwo the f**k was the kids father, She starts crying and says " i dunno i only know for sure that its someone from the infantry regiment... ( Again dunno if this story is actually true, the teacher in question always seemed to beba serious trustwordy man, and i heard this story 20 years ago )
Someone needs to have a long chat with that child because she's about to become a mother and she has a brain of a gnat.
You are WAY overestimating her! Poor gnat!
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I would do every single thing wrong out of spite. He’s using religion to justify being a controlling psychopath
Not sure about it being religion based but I'd agree with you overall. Heck we wouldn't even be friends after this.
Load More Replies...The legend has it he's still single. Nobody wants to touch this treasure with a 10 meter pole.
Hopefully they never got back together. The jealousy doesn't go away; it just gets worse.
This is full of red flags! Isolating people from others is a red flag for a controlling and manipulative person.
Btw...he doesn't want a human gf he wants a Stepford Wife girlfriend.
It was Jake at State Farm Insurance Co., talking to me about bundling our home and car insurance, but if you don't want to save money, I can't accept any of your conditions.
“When you’re successful in one area you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life,” he said, earlier.
However, positive changes aren’t instant. They take time. The fitness expert noted that “your brain needs proof around your new identity."
"Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he explained.
Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband
Asks barista how their weekend was…wow, just unbelievable how nice this guy Is, really gives up 15 seconds of his life being polite, where do I find a catch like this?
If you have to go "I help old people across the street, see I'm a nice guy" you're not a nice guy
I'm officially requesting people don't call me "nice" if I render you some help or do you a favour from now on. The word is officially an insult from my standpoint now. *Sorry if any Pandas disagree but seriously, I pretty much hate the word now...*
More Fun Texts From The Darling Ex Husband!
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Load More Replies...If these people don't have children, I'd highly suggest blocking him everywhere. Choose your own peace first. Choose not to have anything to do with such a heartless loser like him.
Even if they do have children it's questionable whether ex-husband should be in their lives. If he can tell someone to go back to being anorexic imagine how abusive he could be to the children.
Load More Replies...How's about I roast you alive over hot coals very slowly and then give you to the bears to eat? You'll be helping them go through winter hibernation and be more useful than you ever were alive.
"I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night
Nah, many people are just rubbish. Not everything is a disorder or mental illness.
Load More Replies...Okay wow. I checked this out, and oooooh this guy, is truly a pos. It brings me joy to tell you that she left him, and reddit told him he's delusional and exactly why he's a pos. Here's one of his replies ' I thought I was a good husband. Everyday I'm sad I wasn't better. Just didn't know what to do. I wish she'd tell you that I have some good traits. I never knew I was that bad.' His (ex)wife also made a few comments about how he told her she was lucky he didn't beat her. Such a nice guy. He said she never did any housework, he lied. He said Me Too has ruined lives. He also made other comments on other posts, that are troublesome. Something about how an 18 year old should be able to date a 14 year old. Calling women fat, and fat d*kes, such a charmer, right? I hope he never gets close to another woman.
Thanks. I was wondering what the truth of the matter was given that this all sounded really one-sided. Sounds like he really is a problem person.
Load More Replies...Can we just get "nice guy" defined as a mental illness so guys might get the message they're full of shoot
'sea of d cks' Heck ya I'm having fun. I'm surrounded by people who love to dance, are having a good time, aren't trying to demand sex from me because I'm moving my body to music therefore 'I'm asking for it.'
Liar. She should take a vacation from him and consider separating for a while.
"Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It’s all our perspective," he pointed out that we control how we respond to criticism and feedback. Some run away from uncomfortable truths. Others use them to grow and become better people, for the sake of their loved ones.
Many men featured on the r/niceguys subreddit are prime examples of toxic masculinity: they have a misogynistic attitude that arises from distorted ideas of what they ‘should’ be like.
A psychotherapist explained to us some time ago that people like that tend to think that men should “never be ‘weak’ or ‘soft’” or vulnerable. People who embody the traits of toxic masculinity feel that they always need to be winners and they tend to look down on women, as well as their rights.
Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant
How are you not to blame also? You knew he was married and slept with him. Vile people.
How do they know he’s married? Kind of sounds like this post was made because they found out he was married.
Load More Replies..."Oh yeah, that guy is my lover and he got me pregnant. I better shame him publicly for cheating on his wife! Me? What about me? I'm blameless, I'm f*****g saint!"
So sorry but I have to get this out...the ultra-sound reminds me of a close-up of a PANDA's eye. White fur, black circular ring around the eye? Sorry!
Hey y’all, just wanted to open up on something here. This post seems to be a mutual hate for this man. Most likely, he did not tell this person he was married OR he raped her (“such a wonderful officer protecting the streets of Clarksville by sleeping with me WHILE ON DUTY”). So, I don’t believe she is to blame. Either way, we don’t have enough information, so don’t assume.
Sounds consensual. And continuous. But sounds like she didn’t know about the wife.
Load More Replies...Did she know the entire time he was married or only after she told him she was pregnant with his child?
If she knew the whole time that he was married then she's an AH and also to blame, but it sounds like she didn't and is doing this BECAUSE she found out so I don't think she's really to blame
Nice Guy/BF/Husband??
I've been here. Don’t pity them. Don’t think "oh they've changed their ways" or "they didn't mean it." You leave their a*s. I didn't and ended up in a world of sh!t and difficulties mentally. That treatment is unacceptable and "ducking" manipulative.
Was coming to say exactly the same. Hope you're healing x
Load More Replies...A very strange usage of the word ' love' in that last message that I wasn't previously aware of.
All about power and control. He doesn't have any, so he's manipulating and trying to be coercive. Her best bet is to walk away, go no contact, and live her life happily and in peace without him. The BEST revenge. Always choose your own peace and happinest first over just having a man, any man. Especially this one. Throw him back.
Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed
How come the posts with the cheating hoes have much less replies than the ones about men cheating?
“A man with healthy masculinity is the opposite to these traits: someone who is self-reflective, embraces their emotions including sadness, anxiety and crying, a man who isn't afraid of their own femininity and believes that women are equal, and therefore are very clear about respecting boundaries and consent with women,” the psychotherapist told Bored Panda during an earlier interview.
He added that healthy masculinity allows men to feel comfortable with having their opinions challenged. They’re open-minded and willing to have debates because they’re not scared of being proven wrong.
When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband
I think whomever edited the picture was trying to smudge out the peoples' faces, and accidentally clicked the mouse button on another part of the picture (the words) and didn't notice/realize. I've accidentally spazz-clicked my mouse while drawing/editing artwork myself XD
Load More Replies..."Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."
Speaking as a widow, this s**t is all too common. Men don't take the time to grieve, to do the hard internal work, to re-create a new life without their spouse. Nope, he wants to replace one NPC with another NPC. He wants an intelligent pack mule who will cook, clean, have sex, etc. My insistence on living apart together, and keeping all finances separate works wonders to weed out all bums. Like me for me as a person, not for what I can do for you. And yes, was married twice, 25 years, happy the second time for 17 years. Just don't want to live with any man again. Love my space, peace, and quiet, would just like fun companionship. And I prefer a grown-a*s man who can take care of himself like a real adult.
This. This might be the grossest thing I've seen in a long time. Wow.
I'm willing to bet this guy's page is under a fake name and he has a wife that is healthy, alive, and oblivious.
A week and a half? As a widow of 10.5 months myself, I find this particularly disgusting.
My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair
Response: Yeah, good luck with your happy life then, ex-wifey. Because I am happy to see you in the rear end mirror of my newly happier life. Smh...
Do NOT think so in any way whatsoever. He doesn't even see her as a whole separate person with HER OWN version of happiness, HER OWN wants and needs, HER OWN agenda for HER OWN life. To him, she appears to be a NPC who exists to support him. WELL DONE on her for leaving!
He's a married man who is rightfully asking for his wife to remain faithful to him. I don't know where you got the rest of this from but asking your spouse to be faithful isn't unreasonable!
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Lol Let Me Drug My Boyfriend So He’ll Always Want Me
I hope you got dumped and served for literally trying to f*ck with someone's life, sycophant... Smh...
Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site
Slightly? The maid is not the one that has to be loyal to the wife here. I'm not saying she has the right to do what she did, but the only obligations she had towards the wife were the ones concerning being a decent human being that respects other people relationships and doesn't try to mess with them. The husband on the other hand is a cheating dishonest scumbag, a trust breaker that can't show any loyalty toward his wife and that's likely going to have lighter consequences because it's always the other woman's fault. So not slightly imo, but much more so at fault.
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My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No
On behalf of the jail community, we also would not want to date someone so judgmental, so no worries!
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What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door
If the neighbour was innocent, I would buy some new paint and help her. If she wasn’t? None of my business
And men are the logical, less emotional sex. SUUUURRREEE THEY ARE. Proof.
What? How is this proof? And neither sex is more illogical or emotional than the other.
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‘Plus I was nice guy’ huh, if you say you’re ‘nice’ on first encounters on the internet, there’s a high chance you’re not
If you need to point it out, you're either not smart, not nice, or none of it. BTW, I'm a member at mensa...
Load More Replies...I've had four boyfriends in my life. I'm tainted. RUINED. Absolutely roooo-ined!!
I've had four girlfriends so far and am wondering how I'd have the time to even know people. One of my best friends, I haven't seen since 2019. Hm ... well ... still is.
Load More Replies...I guess women are supposed to be grown in pods and let out when they are chosen for marriage. Would spare a lot of guys anguish. (bùttholes!)
Oh ok, so you don't see women as sexual beings, just as intelligent pack mules meant to serve you and be whatever you want them to be. No real feelings, needs, wants of their own. Grow up, incel.
My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day
"Why don't you enjoy the fact that there's a guy out there that cares about you and ... loves you with his whole heart". Yeah, her DAD, f#ck off it's Father's Day.
Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend
A towel? I threw a towel at my rude roommate who tried to feed chocolate to my dog :( and THEN I slapped her
On occasion I will throw a donut at my husband, does that count? He never seems to mind ☺️
Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband
I'm just wondering if she has no one else 🤔 and is trying to share this to bring more support to herself or to gather a community of people of similar backgrounds to support each other. There's no kind of negative or fraudulent content in the video. It seems like someone who just wants to share their experience with others. I hope she finds what she needs.
It doesn't sound like she's trying to make her husband's death about her. It sounds like she went through something terrible and wants to help others by letting them know they are not alone.
Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:
That's disgusting. I wouldn't let alimony be a factor in whether I get married or not. If I were treating my fiance like that, I'd hope he'd have the good sense to move on.
When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook
I thought it was possible that she could be drugged as well. The photo looks a bit off to me because you can't see her hands and I think that my hand would probably be on his neck if I were awake. I hope that she's okay and they're both consenting to the photo being taken and posted.
Load More Replies...Bet he never bothered to ask for her consent, either. Totally illegal, or should be.
A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry
SO has not once in 3 years stuck an an agreement. Every promise broken. Many times, he has lied to my face about it. Every time denies he was wrong or minimizes the issue. Then he attacks me (I am controlling, constantly berate him, I'm selfish, "on a high horse" etc). He didn't do anything wrong! This is my fault, my problem. He is the victim of my inflexibility!
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
We have been to counseling specifically because he breaks agreements. We've also talked A LOT about how inappropriately he responds when confronted with a wrong doing and have been working on helping him learn alternative ways to react.
This weekend was his second chance to actually stick to an agreement and apply everything we worked on (he blew the first chance, shockingly). But guess who didn't stick to the agreement?! I chewed him out and that's when the "forced apology" came. Not long after he stormed into the bedroom, took it back, and then DARVOed me.
"DARVO (an acronym for "deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender") is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior."
its crazy how we actually NEED acronyms for this s.h.i.t. Like if there's an acronym for it, it's common.
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Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠
Ehh, this one's borderline without context. Why was she going through his phone anyway?
She probably felt something was up between them anyway.
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"hwp"? "d/d free"? I'm 40 and I grew up with the internet and this made me feel old and out of touch XD
"Hip With Puppies". "Dungeons & Dragons" free. Pretty sure that's right.
Load More Replies...This is a fake profile. Probably set up by scammers. The vernacular is too consistent with so many other fake profiles and the first couple of sentences are an allure to stupid guys with no morals. The idea is to lure in idiot guys then once you've got them going you can start asking to get a hotel, pay for uber etc. and they need to send money through Cashapp or Zelle to cover it but they WILL pay you back lol. Stupid as s**t but people fall for it.
why is she married at 23? you're still a kid and an idiot at that age.
it says in the bio that she's 26. seems like she lied at the top about being younger to get more guys to look at her profile?
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The problem wit NiceGuys™ is not that they're insecure or whatever. The problem is that they don't see women as equals or even humans. It their minds 'females' are subhuman, less worthy than males. They truly believe, for what reason ever, that a woman is generally less intelligent, less able and their emotions less real than their own. That is why for them spending time with any woman is just a hassle they have to go through to get sex. So they think completely normal human interaction is already being nice when done to a woman. Because they don't believe that a woman deserves the same respect and consideration than a man. So if they behave normal and decent against a woman they only do so to get something. And that's also why they believe a woman just being nice is leading them on. Because that's what they do. Their whole existence is transactional. While normal people go on dates to have a good time and get to know each other they only go on dates to prepay for sex later.
She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose
He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him
Hmm I am wondering if she had a paralyzed dream. I have had a few, I have dreamt that I was yelling at my husband to help me .This happened several times. The ptsd she has from the trauma may cause very realistic dreams.
But he admitted touching her while she was sleeping.
Load More Replies...Justifying, rationalizing, minimizing, doing explicitly what she asked him not to do. This is TEXTBOOK ABUSER BEHAVIOR.
This is why you don't tell men your trauma. They will then see you as a victim, and some particularly heartless ones will re-traumatize you. They don't see you as a person; they just see you as "someone who had things done to her, so now it's my turn". Divorce, break up, walk away, warn other women.
i am sleepless in Denver and cannot for the LIFE of me believe this is what i wasted 15 minutes of my life on.
Another reminder to be thankful I dropped the gaslighter from my life. I used to be as good as on this list with him: my life is so much better now. I hope these ppls get away from their crazies
The use of the word female here, tells me everything I need to know about you. Very telling that you did manage to use the word men, to describe these s**t stains. Which one is you?
Load More Replies...i am sleepless in Denver and cannot for the LIFE of me believe this is what i wasted 15 minutes of my life on.
Another reminder to be thankful I dropped the gaslighter from my life. I used to be as good as on this list with him: my life is so much better now. I hope these ppls get away from their crazies
The use of the word female here, tells me everything I need to know about you. Very telling that you did manage to use the word men, to describe these s**t stains. Which one is you?
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