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According to the FBI, men commit 80% of violent crimes, 99% of sexual assaults, and the majority of property crimes. It’s no surprise that women are cautious in a world shaped by these statistics.

But that doesn’t mean questionable behavior from women should go unnoticed. In a popular thread, men shared things women do that would likely be seen as creepy if the roles were reversed. Here’s what they had to say.

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#1

Young woman with blonde hair wearing a black top, posing indoors with colorful lights in the background, depicting problematic behaviors. “If you don’t love me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best”

No lady, you’re just an a*****e.

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Jonathan Labelle
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is just a excuse to have a terrible personality

Liz Mary
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Except that's not what it means. The meaning has been twisted. It's more for someone who dumps yu when you're at a low point, like sick, of you are depressed, or lost a loved one, etc and the person left so they don't have to help you go through it. Once you're better they come back, except that they were not there for you at your worst so they don't deserve you at your best.

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StrangeOne
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What does that even mean, really? It's just those stupid, cringy posts "edgy" girls put on their facebook feeds to seem .... unhinged?

Royal Stray
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What it was originally supposed to mean was something like: Your partner is sick, depressed, or temporarily lost their job but you should love them through their struggles because you know how amazing they are. What it's currently used as is: You should put up with my awful behavior whenever I feel like it because otherwise it's your fault and not mine and you don't value me enough to be borderline ab*sed, which means you're not meant to be with me

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Royal Stray
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see this so much, and people actually believe it. The quote has been and is currently being massively misused. It has to do with if someone is going through a rough patch, and that you should still care even when they're sick or down on their luck for a while. I hate how people use it to excuse acting like b*tches and throw fits. The at your worst doesn't mean your worst behavior that happens frequently, it means relatively out of your control things that you can't help that happen occasionally

Jennifer Beard
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No no no. Those type of women don't apply to this. This means you should love me with no makeup and my hair a mess or if I have gained a few pounds after child birth or I'm having a bad day and I need emotional support. The "ladies" who use this quote as an excuse for despicable behavior are indeed @$$#0/3$.

Michael Largey
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7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Your worst has made me lose all interest in your best, and anything in between."

Beak Hookage
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well said. Now go find a partner who isn't a selfish little sociopath!

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meow meow
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My favorite is when a girl blames her zodiac sign for her personality flaws,

KatSaidWhat
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Taurus here to say that's a load of bull...

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Beak Hookage
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And no, Marilyn Monroe did NOT say that and I don't care what that "cute" meme you saw on Facebook told you.

Royal Stray
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was actually Anakin Skywalker, please

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Lowrider 56
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This!! When a woman, or a man too, says this, they are just trying to justify ignorant behavior.

Balázs Verő
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"deserve" included in any sentence

KatSaidWhat
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This originally meant something else before edgy PEOPLE (men also say this) decided to ruin it.

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    #2

    Young woman showing frustrated and emotional behavior indoors, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. Physical a***e. I am 6’3” 240, dating a girl who was half my size and would constantly strike me. Even my friends laughed about it. She ended up breaking my orbital bone and then no one found it funny.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. This isn't a pass. There have been women and girls horrifically a*****e, and they do it so calculating and planned to get at the guy when he's most vulnerable. Such as when he's sleeping or occupied with something.

    Lowrider 56
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Aunt used to physically shove her husband and even slapped him a couple times. To his credit, he never struck her back.

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    Emilu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And of course "men don't get @bused" so nobody takes it seriously until there's a serious injury.

    Royal Stray
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, being big and working out doesn't make you immune to a*s*ult. Being small doesn't mean you can't a*s*ult or beat someone up. It's awful no matter which way around it is

    Mary Obrien
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you keep dating her when she kept hitting you? Is anyone else wondering this too?

    Emilu
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Flip the genders. Would you ask a woman that?

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    Julianne Johnson
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't care what size a person is, no matter how small. Hitting is a no-go. If you don't want people hitting you, don't hit people. Especially nasty when it comes from someone who supposedly loves you.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of the Friends episode where Joey was dating a short girl who would punch him when she was making a point.

    Bored Trash Panda
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats.. not funny at all... abuse isn't gender specific.

    Lee Gilliland
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never give anyone a pass on hitting first.

    Silberwolf
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you hit me once, I'll probably do nothing. Hit me the second time, you'll get the hit back. But then don't complain.

    Bgray450
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked in the domestic violence field for a while, then moved in with my son and his family when I retired. In two weeks I went to my son and told him "You're in an a*****e marriage." The t*****e that woman put my boy through! He finally got away, still fighting for his kids. Yeah it runs both ways. Hard for men to admit it I believe.

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    #3

    Young man wearing sunglasses with rainbow face paint and beads, smiling outdoors, highlighting problematic behaviors women get a pass for. As a gay man, two things:

    1. Women wanting to be friends with us so that they can parade us around as their "gay best friend". Had a few "friends" pull this s**t on me, the moment that they start introducing me to their friends as "this is my gay friend that I was telling you about" I stopped talking to them.

    2. Try to "turn me straight" by doing things to attempt to seduce me. Like WTF? I'm not interested. Also, the number of women who ask me for intimate details on my s*x life and act like it's not awkward at all is insane...

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    Beak Hookage
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh, so gross and objectifying.

    Min
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @Crystalwitch60 - not all gay men have great fashion sense. That's as ridiculous as thinking all lesbians are good mechanics. Homosexual =/= homogeneous. We're as varied as any other cohort of people.

    Bret Sander
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a 60 year old gay man (not bi, not "pan") and I'm here to tell you, I've been fondled by more women at the gay bar than I ever was by men. We are not toys for your amusement.

    Michael Largey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a bi friend in college who presented himself as gay to encourage conversion attempts. He got converted more times than a Jehovah's Witness with amnesia.

    Ahnjunwan
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I allawys thought women like to have gay male friends is because they are no danger to them

    Becky Samuel
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish this were true, but in my experience gay men seem to think that they have free rein to grab at bóobies as much as they like. Of course, straight women grab on them too so it's not all one way.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last is only idiots. It's not a coice, it's inborn.

    wendy clarke
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have had some really odd female friends; maybe choose wiser people you allow in your social circles.

    Shelley Colleen
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty much all of my best friends are gay men and I am constantly offended by how younger women treat them. (I say "younger women" because my friends and I are first wave GenX and it's mostly Milennial and sometimes GenZ women who do this.)

    SadFatTortilla
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats such gross behaviour. I'm a cis het female. My gay male friends are just my friends...that happen to be gay. I dont announce it and I sure as hell wouldn't attempt to "turn" them or m****t them in any way. I KNOW how that sh*t feels

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, my brother started getting loads of faghags when he came out and dumped the majority of them. He didn't want to be defined by his sexuality to make other people look "cool".

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    #4

    Young woman in a pink shirt and black apron taking notes, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. I hate when waitresses touch me, whenever I post this too I get a torrent of replies saying that studies have proven that men are more likely to tip more if the waitress touches them. I don't care, I don't want to be touched by you.

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    Stephie
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, Gosh… sorry about that. I’m one of those touchy people 😞 My family & friends are all like that.

    Boo
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please think before you touch someone. Not everyone is touchy-feely.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't want to be touched, either. No touchy. It won't persuade me to tip more than I intend.

    Power puff scientist
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess some men take it as flirting and therefore feel more inclined to tip.

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    Sue Denham
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd like to think most women would have the decency to understand that If it would feel creepy if a man did it to you it's equally creepy if you do it to them.

    Lyone Fein
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally agree with this. But no one gets a pass. Just don’t touch others without permission.

    Tonyah Mcanelly
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a girl at work that hugs every one its really uncomfortable and awkward . I only hug people in my inner circle .

    Queenie B
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with you! If I don't know you, don't touch me. Also, I am not hun, honey, sweetie, sweetheart etc.

    JB
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about “duck”? I grew up in northern England and where I come from we all call each other “duck”. I have no idea where this came from. Like why would anyone choose to call another person a bird? But “eyup duck, ope tha’s doin fine”.

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    Wang Zhuang
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a man, I'm guilty of touching people, too. It's impulsive, and I'm trying to be more cognizant about it.

    quentariel
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a waitress, I'm really glad that in our introverted culture touching someone you don't know is really rare. I wouldn't be able to deal that with either as a waitress or as a customer. (If I'm visiting in some more touchy-feely culture, I can deal with it, but not in daily life.)

    K
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be livid if a waitress touched my husband. Don't like working for tips work somewhere else. Wana touch men for tips there's a strip joint for that behavior.

    Lyoness
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. Thankfully my guy has boundaries to the point that he'd tell them very politely to back TF off and keep their hands to themselves.

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    #5

    Woman with curly hair peeking from behind green shutters, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men In college, a girl stalked me and did things like go into the Men’s bathroom just to look at me while I showered.

    Even though there was LITERAL VIDEO FOOTAGE, the University did absolutely nothing.
    … And a lot of my male friends tell me that I’m “lucky.” 🙄.

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    MalayDragon
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your male friends were saying you were lucky, sorry those people are not your friends, They're the people who WILL side with her if she gets mad when you reject her advances, and claims you did something to her.

    Susie Elle
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More like 'you should always pounce on it if a girl wants you!'

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Universities are infamous at brushing off sexual harassment, for both sexes. Something to do with trying to keep their image as being a "safe" institute.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wtf now had that been a man doing that to a female all hell would have broken out that’s disgusting !! The world needs to remember MEN CAN BE VICTIMS OF ABUSE TO !!!!!! And hve this inhuman s**t thrown at them it’s not just us women , n that girl is dangerous ! God help any man she snares !! he will be controlled gas light and his like turn in to a living hell ! as a woman I’ve been there , so I know the terror but it happens to men to !!

    person (i think)
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wtf. This should have been escalated to the police!

    Royal Stray
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Say it with me again people "S*xual a*s*ult and s*xual h*rassment are just as bad no matter which gender it's done against." Does it happen more to women? Yes. Does that mean women have a monopoly on it? No. Does that mean it's less awful when it happens to men? No. Does that mean it should be taken less seriously when it happens to men? No. No matter who it is done to it should be takes seriously be it a priest or a str*pper

    SCP 4666
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do it like, who was it Leonardo DiCaprio?, who had this obsessed fan so he took her to dinner and complained all evening long about his problems and whatnot. Never heard from her again

    DeeDee M
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's so gross! Stalking is stalking, no matter the gender.

    Rosecat
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now imagine reverse genders.. gross.

    Julianne Johnson
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sexual harassment is sexual harassment. Doesn't matter what gender you are. Sorry you had to deal with that.

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    #6

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Any man who's worn a kilt in public can testify. Women will openly grope, lift, and look. A man doing the same would be lucky not to end up in jail.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never found this funny. It's so gross. Just For Laughs Gags would do pranks like this. I never found the humor. It would give me thoughts about wearing skirts and men trying to do such things. Then I would be clenching my teeth.

    Glix Drap
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't get this in Scotland (unsurprisingly), but elsewhere it happens quite a bit - especially when alcohol is involved. People who think they are being funny but are in fact just being rude. My stock reply is "There's nothing worn under my kilt, it's all in perfect working order".

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    Tonyah Mcanelly
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband had a guy do this at his brothers wedding . My husband punched him

    Emilu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously?? That’s gross!! Yeah, do that to a woman and see what happens. Why is it okay to do the same to a guy??

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not funny !! I’ve never seen the attraction of being like what do men wear under their kilt ! when a man asks a woman what they wearing under a dress or skirt a smack in the mouth is normally the reply !! We loath it it’s creepy so do not do it back women stop making us look bad

    Lene
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love men in kilts and skirts. But I will not be all touchy and groping. Touchy and groping is, imo, only for people you are already intimate with.

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I seem to recall a kilted person hitting someone who did that and when he was nearly arrested mentioned that he was SA'ed first and it was self defence.

    Strings
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can confirm: at least here in the US, women will lift a skirt without a thought. Anymore, I make sure to carry my cane if I'm wearing a kilt

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    UK on the other hand have a country full of kilts and we love them.

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    Niamh Gallagher Kerr
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband frequently wears a kilt. I will always remember years ago being at home in Ireland and I was holding his hand and someone lifted his kilt, grabbed him (with cold hands) and let out an audible gasp. I turned around asked her what was she expecting and how would she feel if he did the same to her. The bouncers had already given her a warning for something else so were more than happy to throw her out.

    Niamh Gallagher Kerr
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    However on a more amusing story, hubby was part of a group who went to a wedding in England and ended up in a nightclub after the wedding as the bar was closed about 10pm. A girl walked up to one of the guys and asked what are you wearing under the kilt so she was told to find out for herself. She did. He then asked her what she was wearing under her top to the same response. It's all about respect 🤣🤣

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    #7

    Young woman with long hair enjoying a cherry outdoors, representing problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. Hasn't happened to me, but I often see girls/women posting about how they flirt with someone that they have no interest in just because they are bored.

    I've seen huge pages on FB post something like:

    "Ugh I hate it when you flirt with a guy when you're bored and then they start to like you"

    Playing with people like that is messed up.

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    Lyoness
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How old are the women doing this? It doesn't exactly scream maturity.

    Beak Hookage
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've encountered FAR too many other women my age and older (and I am not young) who still act like they're thirteen. It's pathetic.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yech. If you're that bored find a hobby or go watch youtube shorts or something. Go on Bored Panda lol.

    Liz Mary
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're looking at the wrong social media pages then. Woman here and when I'm bored te last thing I think off is flirting with someone. Also, don't any other woman in my circle who does that.

    antoinette maldari
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe the guy THINKS she's flirting when, in reality, she just said "excuse me" while passing him so as not to bump him.

    T
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like your thinking but the OP is referring to the chicks who outright say this is what they do.

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    Julia French
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But men do it all the time & women are expected to cope

    SadFatTortilla
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm naturally very flirtatious with literally everyone. I dont think I've ever had anyone misread it tho. Also its not like over the top, just friendly, jokey. I definitely dont do it out of boredom or manipulation

    T
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even flirt normally, let alone when I just need something to do out of boredom.

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    #8

    Young woman wearing sunglasses outdoors, smiling and posing confidently, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for. My ex has the habit of talking like a baby and intentionally pronouncing words incorrectly like a child would.


    I can understand if a baby or a cute dog is in sight but if you're cold say that. Don't tell me your thold.


    Yes. Thold.

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    Tabitha
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m a woman, and hearing someone talk like this irritates me too. Same goes for women who give out that ear-splitting loud high pitched squeal when they see a friend out in public—-then continue to talk in similarly high pitched squealing voices. Loudly.

    roddy
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this too! So phony. The high-pitched fawning.

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    Sue Denham
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretend you don't understand what they're saying until they speak properly. (This worked with my toddler twins when they went through a grunt and point phase.)

    Feathered Dinosaur
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only acceptable if you're alone and tell a cute pupper/kitty what a good boy or girl they are

    Lyoness
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed except for the alone part. I will tell my floofers what a good girl she is no matter who's in the room.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't see a mature woman doing this.

    Silberwolf
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's cringey and would destroy any romantic atmosphere for me immediateley.

    Beak Hookage
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even talk like that to actual babies.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or me lol my dogs I do mind in my own house wouldn’t dream of doing it in public 😂

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    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah, that would also make an ex for me, tbf.

    SadFatTortilla
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats gross, all the time. Never do it with my pets and definitely not with my kids. How are kids supposed to learn how to talk if youre babbling like an idiot? Also I dont think its cute in a relationship either, big cringe

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    #9

    Man in a black t-shirt using a smartphone near a window, symbolizing discussion on problematic behaviors women get a pass for I was dating this girl who ended up faking that she would do a "surprise visit" to my house while i lived very far away. She'd text me that she'd be there in two minutes and was annoyed that i was annoyed that she'd show up unannounced while she wouldn't even know if I was home or not.After i broke it off she did it a couple times more.

    She convinced a friend of mine to "lure" me into a bar where she was so she could "win me back". I come in to the bar, my friend isn't there, but the girl i ended things with and eventually blocked when things went to far was there and she went as far as blocking my path to the exit, saying that if I left she would scream that i was threatening her.

    I'm not saying it's all women, but I've had a few experiences like this, although they didn't go THAT far.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that is psychotic. Definitely not normal.

    Silberwolf
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That girl needs professional help and you should avoid contact with her at all cost.

    Liz Mary
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you had a few, then you're dating the wrong women. Check your criteria.

    Lee Gilliland
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just plain rude done by anyone. Especially mothers.

    Shelley Colleen
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't stuff like this the reason we aren't supposed to jump into longterm relationships (or "the sack") with people we haven't gotten to know?

    Surfing Panda
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about a girl that intentionally forgets her pill to trap a guy...

    Min
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he's had a few experiences like this, maybe he's just attracted to crazy.

    Multa Nocte
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    So it happened with one woman?

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    #10

    Hand with long black and clear nails, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. Women: the number of you with long nails that are crusty underneath is alarmingly high. I even had a former coworker who regularly kept her nails at 3" length who once commented on me cleaning under my nails and remarked inquisitively as to why she always sees men cleaning.under them, and that it made no sense to her.

    I then glanced at hers and i can only describe what i saw as an accumulation of spebum, dead skin and potato chip crumbs.

    Please...please clean under your nails.

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    Shelley Keenan
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A NICU nurse years ago accidentally killed a few babies with the bacteria that grew under her nails.

    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nurses are supposed to have super short nails. Almost no white showing grow out. You would think that nurse would have been sent home immediately before she could start work.

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    Surfing Panda
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just do NOT make em that long. It's not pretty, it's creepy, unsanitary and unpractical.

    ROSESARERED
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I scrub my nails with some toothpaste on a nail brush...cleansing and whitens them, I they feel stronger too

    Dolevaal
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats a reason while I keep my nails short. I get the attraction about long nails and I personally love nail polish (not the same, I know) but they just seem super inpractical.

    InkyParchment
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do y'all with long nails not poke your hole, that is some class a precision

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 inch nails are gross anyway.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t they never looked lol , I wear fake nails at times when I can be bothered, n I’m always as fussy about my cleaning of them as I am without em , I’m a gardener so I gotta be but even before I can’t stand filth under em 🤢

    Borje Stromming
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *THEM!! You are not a lazy teenager write out the d**n words

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    FluffButt Central
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a woman with slightly long nails, I find it disgusting. Get a cheap toothbrush and scrub under those nails, dammit! So gross!

    Shelley Colleen
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember COVID? When it became necessary to remind people to wash their fŭkking hands? Some people are just vile.

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    #11

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Sabotage other women.

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    Beak Hookage
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's how patriarchy survives: when women are turned against each other we can't present a united front, and that includes attacking trans women. Don't fall for it.

    Emilu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many women do this though (obviously not saying it’s okay). As a woman you either get on with most women or you hate most women and they hate you. Guys, correct me if I’m wrong but I’ve not seen this with you.

    Tom De Paul
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked for a family run construction subcontractor where the owner's 3 ex girlfriends from LTRs AND his wife were all VPs - marketing, finance, purchasing, and sales. Somehow it worked. It was SF in the 80s but still. I remain astonished 40+ years later

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    Lowrider 56
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought that only went on in high school.

    GalPalAl
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Straight men don't seem to get this concept when I have brought it up before. They act like we are making it up.

    Annabelle
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe some, but too many of them USE IT, especially the ones who think it's funny to intentionally "make other women jealous" and then watch women fight over them.

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    #12

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Was at a PTA event at school like the opening week.

    So they did a powerpoint animated slideshow to introduce all the teachers.

    When the younger early 20’s male gym teacher was up on the screen there was like a little uproar from all the moms. Like about him being hot etc.

    Even weirder is he grew up on the next block and went to the same school when he was a kid and his mom is still my neighbor.


    If the guys did the same for a hot female teacher I’m sure they would have been run out of the room.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is not that uncommon. Women usually behave very rowdy towards hot guys and, for some reason, it is considered to be normal. Speaking of double standards...

    Neopet22
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This kind of reminds of the objectifying they do in Kdramas. Almost every romantic comedy that has a good looking male lead has women gawking and whispering about. They always shoot them in a different way and I always found it bizzare.

    Strings
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone remember "Twilight Moms"?

    Bgray450
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    Okay, but maybe, just maybe . . . is it the women's turn to objectify y'all for a lil while? Just so both sides can know what it's like?

    Bored Trash Panda
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, absolutely not. Two wrongs don't make a right. Gross either way.

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    #13

    Young woman leaning on a counter holding a coffee cup, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. The "figure me out" game. They intentionally communicate poorly because they want their partner to figure out what is going on.

    It's downright a*****e. I was that partner years ago and I'm still messed up because of it. If my fiancée is having a bad day and talking less than usual, I have to restrain myself from anxiously trying to figure out what I may have done to cause this.

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    PrettyJoyBird
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gross. Emotionally manipulative.

    Julianne Johnson
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't tell you how many women I've heard say "if they loved me they'd know ____." Hell no. Men, women, children, parents--no one is psychic. If you have needs that are not being met, you have to actually communicate them. Not being psychic does not mean someone doesn't love you. I don't know why smart, otherwise mature women do this. I think it might be cultural. We went through several generations where women were taught to downplay their needs and wants. Do me a favor, if you have a girl that is doing this, and otherwise she seems a normal human being, try to talk to her about it during a calm time (not while it's happening.) Explain her needs are important to you, but she needs to learn to communicate them because you are not psychic.

    Helena
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When i'm stressed or upset I retreat inward. Is that the figure me out thing? Because I'm not asking anyone to figure anything out. Just a bit of space until I have mentally framed it in a way I can talk about it now.

    winterwidow87
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's more like saying nothing is wrong when something is clearly wrong. If you need space it's better to say something like "I need space right now, we'll talk about it later", rather than claiming everything is fine because you want your partner to figure it out on their own, that's childish and manipulative. Not saying you do that, just clarifying what i think the post meant.

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    StrangeOne
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    Why is she wearing her strappy tank top with one strap? It's not supposed to be a one strap thing. Purposely giving the silent treatment is a b***h move. But sometimes we need a bit to figure it out in our heads and rationalize, and how to bring up an issue without it coming off the wrong way. Women have been notoriously been gaslit and told we're "too emotional", "too hormonal", "hysterical", "overreacting", "making mountains out of anthills", and that we need to "calm down, lady.". As if recent years, we're not being called "Karens" and "creating problems that are not there." We feel we need to be so careful with our words, tone, and reevaluating the situations all the time. We are scared to bring up even the most minor issues.

    Space Invader
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell them that's not ok behaviour, and if she persists, break up with her. Women are only "given a pass" for this behaviour (current list title) by men who allow it.

    SadFatTortilla
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women are super weird that way. I see it a lot as a woman. I'm neurodivergent so im hyper honest and ill tell you exactly what you did and why I feel the way I feel

    Robert Robi Z
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men are not mind readers, and making other people feel guilty for something they cannot possibly know was going on ('Oh, you know perfectly well what's wrong!') is a psychotic behaviour.

    Apatheist Account2
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always puts me in mind of the female astronaut..."Houston, we have a problem." "What is the nature of your problem?" "You know what the problem is!"

    Adam Benson
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of a line I heard from the Drew Carey show a long time ago when they were talking about women running the world: "Hello England, this is France. Why are you invading us?" "Oh, I think you know!"

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    Fellfromthemoon
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My go-to answer (when I am too mad to properly communicate:) don't ask me if you don't want to hear what someone else deserves, when I calm down a bit, I'll tell you everything. The best part? As I promise to explain myself later, my brain swithces from "angry" to "rationally describe" mode, and usually in 30 min to an hour I can fulfill my promise.

    Lyoness
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No downvote and honest question but I don't understand the "if you don't want to hear what what someone else deserves". Does that mean you'll tell them why you should be with someone else? Genuinely confused.

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    Royal Stray
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does the top in the picture stay on?

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    #14

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Two years ago I was on an archaeological dig where one of the other students was a woman about ten years older than me. On the first day in the field- before I even knew her name or said a word to her- she walked up to me and said "You have really big hamstrings". At the end of each day in the field she used to walk around with her shirt off while we were packing up. The worst thing she did though was one day while I was screening (using a screen to check sand we had removed from the ground for any small artifacts we might have missed), she came right up behind me, got really close, and said "Do you have tan lines from those shorts? I bet you could pull off something a lot shorter".

    Can you imagine if the roles there had been reversed? I'd be on probation if I said something like that to a woman.

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    Lyoness
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's simple harassment.

    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she was trying to flirt with him. Not in the most tactful way nor at the right time. I'm assuming these are University students. Although if she's an adult and this is a High School, that is downright wrong.

    Royal Stray
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably. I kinda like how he commented "can you imagine if it was reversed", like yeah that happens a lot too. Some people just feel a bit too comfortable using their seniority to get away with c**p like this.

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    Lowrider 56
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's interesting to find out that some women can be as creepy as some men.

    Shelley Colleen
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was she secretly making content for her OnlyFãns?

    Joëlle Merizen
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately things like that happen all the time with the roles reversed, and lots of men don't understand why it's not ok. You can probably understand it, and I do definitely understand you and disapprove this behavior, no matter if it's a man or a woman !

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% harassment ! no one likes its n us women defo don’t so please women do not do it back NO PASS ! Its wrong

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    #15

    Woman in a green dress sitting on a rustic swing outdoors, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for. Older women are insanely grabby and sexual-harrass-ey. I cannot count the number of times I'll go to take the order of a table of elder ladies and have one of them grab my wrist, hand, or put a hand on my hip. It's pretty gross.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen women do this to other women. It's not okay in the slightest. No touchy.

    PhaseWitFact
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not a woman only thing. Old men are like that too.

    Colin Matthews
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but the article is about things women do that get a free pass. This is one.

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    roddy
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this too. I have a friend and she will constantly grab at my arm while we are walking to make a point. She is very bony and it's like being attacked by a skeleton. It gives me the creeps, but I don't want to offend her by mentioning it.

    nicholas nolan
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happened to me when I was bussing tables in high school. Ma'am, I'm a 16 year old boy. You are a 60 year old woman. Please don't.

    Jude Laskowski
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad I'm not one of those older women. If I get great service, they get a better tip - $$

    SadFatTortilla
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm old AF and hell to the no! I AM affectionate but only if I know you well and its acceptable to you. I dont wanna be touched by people and I dont go around touching them

    Crystalwitch60
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    Eww old men are filthy old men some off em so I can imagine a woman do it to to is as bad as, plus u can bet of you did it back to em they would scream assult !! I’m 60 so not that age yet but trust me I never will be that person it’s vile n harassment !! shudders at thought

    Borje Stromming
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *them, *you, *and. Please for the love of god go a course in grammar, and every human on this earth have heard that you are 60 a million times now. Your age just makes it 10 times worse how you write and what you write. And from all the downvotes you get no matter what you write it seems there are plenty of people sick of it!

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    #16

    Woman in green dress holding a broken mirror reflecting her face, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for Damaging their exes property.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just vandalism. I don't think females should have a pass for that. I don't think they actually do in reality. Just in movies, shows and songs. That Carrie Underwood song aged like bananas.

    Julianne Johnson
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate that song. Teaching young women it's okay to break the law because someone cheated.

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    Wintermute
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Side point: I don't think that image is about property damage... XD

    SadFatTortilla
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I won't damage your stuff but I will throw it outside if I've finally had enough of your sh*t. If the weather is bad, o well. I would NEVER hurt an exes car. I dont understand women who do that. A: karma. I dont want that to happen to me. And B: i love cars. Id rather key a person than a car lol

    InkyParchment
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, I don't understand how why we have so much wiggle room, seeing it pointed out is even more disturbing. (But good to know)

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is gender neutral. Ask me how I know...

    K
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well im a woman and my ex who is a man did this. Everyone said he went "B*tch Mode" because it's a female typical thing. Well unlucky me i guess.

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    Nope no pass !!! revenge is a dish best served cold ! In my case as a white witch I left karma do it for me lol less chance of going to prison that way !!

    Borje Stromming
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot to mention that you are a 60 year old disabled white witch, very important info.

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    #17

    Young woman in a red plaid jacket using smartphone at a train station illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for Going through personal belongings. Like a phone or wallet that doesn't belong to them.

    Not all woman but I've seen it several times.

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    Breadcrumb.
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never okay, and I think it's a learned behavior from older moms who used to read diaries and think it was okay.

    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is narcissistic behaviour. RUN

    Dragons Exist
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% agree, way too many people think that violating privacy is ok

    Tonyah Mcanelly
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont know how anyone even women thinks this is ok. I am not even comfortable taking money out of my husbands wallet when he asks me to .

    Sue Denham
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. That's just wrong, (This behaviour isn't exclusive to women though.)

    Shelley Colleen
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This whole damɲed list is making me want to scream NOT ALL WOMEN...but I know it's enough women to make a list out of, so...

    SadFatTortilla
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. Thats creepy. I'm not saying I dont get the urge, im a very curious cat but I also respect privacy. To that end tho, for me you can look at whatever you want. My phone, my purse. IDGAF. I have literally nothing to hide, just ask.

    Lost Panda
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been openly told that "You don't need privacy if you're not doing anything." Just to have her complain about "I have no privacy" when me or the kids ask her something.

    roddy
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This kind of controlling behavior is not confined to one gender. Men do this just as often.

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    #18

    A woman smiling while talking to a man outdoors, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for. Hit on a man after learning he already has an SO. Super creepy and gross-feeling.

    I'd advise women not to do that, but then I'd be helping them to hide how creepy and s****y they are. Always knew to stay the F away from women who did that.

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    PrettyJoyBird
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The saying "lose them how you won them" comes to mind. Trying to get someone to cheat then being shocked when they have it done to them later by same person.

    Ian Shaw
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My then-new bride (20 years married now) had flown to see a friend in WV. I took the opportunity to join a friend to go see a mutual friend's classic rock cover band. There was another couple there, acquaintances of our friend in the band. The wife chatted me up, innocently enough at first. Told her I was newly married, missed my wife, etc. IN FRONT OF HER HUSBAND, with no objection from him, she started hanging all over me during the second set. Arms from behind, blatantly flirting. The friend I came with, bless him, alerted our buddy in the band, who ran interference so I could bolt. I apologized to him at work the next day. He said, given the situation, he didn't blame me one bit. So glad they did their Zeppelin set first! I have my faults, but a lack of integrity isn't one of them. This woman was married, this woman knew I was married, and in front of her husband she was seemingly trying to seduce me. Maybe it was some sort sexual power game but I'm nobody's p**n.

    Tiffany Hudey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ended a friendship because I got weird vibes about her around my husband. It wasn’t ok so now we aren’t friends. I was ok with her until I found out she cheated on her husband and they were getting divorced. If she can’t respect her relationship she sure won’t respect mine. I trust my husband but didn’t like that she would text him asking if he could bring her coffee at work. Umm no, get your own coffee and leave my husband alone. He never took her coffee and just ignored her texts but she still kept trying. That’s when we both went no contact with her.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never go after a cheat !!! cos even if you get him , he’s gonna do it to you as well !! leave them to their wives !

    Surfing Panda
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually I never understood that: when I was single (and older, like 40) and going out I rarely met someone, but when I was walking around with a partner I always got "looks". Someone told me that 40 (or older) and single looked creepy, but same age and in a relation is "a prey".

    Emilu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to admit I could maybe be guilty of this, as I’m ace and don’t realise if I’ve hit on someone and also don’t realise if they’ve hit on me. I’m also a bit socially awkward. But if someone says they have a partner I’ll be extra careful with what I do say, because I can’t say one of my life goals is to be a homewrecker.

    Space Invader
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't tell them something they do is wrong because it helps them "hide" how bad they are? That does not sound like particularly sane or healthy reasoning.

    #19

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 I once declined s*x from a girl I’d slept with before and as I was walking away caught a glass across the back of my head. People laughed. I laughed out of nervousness.

    Had that been the other way round….

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    PrettyJoyBird
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People laughed wow. That is assult. What if glass had pierced skull or worse. No!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wtf I hope you had her arrested !!! what a nasty s k a n k , that one was dangerously to that could have k I l ll e d you ffs

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In college I had a good (and much better looking) friend who started having a certain woman chasing him. Over time she and I spent a lot of time together and became good friends (after her making it clear from the beginning that was the only thing possible). After a while she told me that she had given up on him and would settle for me. Amazingly, she did not take my declination by shocked silence well and found every opportunity thereafter to find reasons to end our friendship. (Not knowing that she had ended it the moment she labeled me as a consolation prize.)

    Taro Obanagi
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you differentiated her? Good man (sorry couldn't stop it gotten too serious till here)

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    Lowrider 56
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As much as i hate to say it, there is definitely a double standard going on here.

    Rosecat
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should have sued her a*s

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel your frustration and pain but you won the lottery reasonably cheaply. She's someone else's problem now.

    #20

    Woman expressing frustration while man sitting with laptop, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for, according to men. When they do the same things they complain about men doing.

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    Papa
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An example or two would have been appropriate here.

    PawCamp
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's go with, when they don't give enough context and just expect you to understand exactly what they're saying.

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    #21

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 My now ex literally stalked me. I told my girl best friend about it and she’s like nah that’s not that weird. Imagine flipped roles….

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He needs a new best friend.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get new mates that’s plain wrong ! And illegal to well is in uk don’t matter if it’s male or female doing it , baby reindeer right there ILEGAL

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Weird how you said the same thing I did but you got downvoted. Not sure what's going on. Have an upvote. Blessed be.

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    Daniel Atkins
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like that Taylor Swift song You Belong With me .Change the singer’s gender and everyone would call it the incel anthem.

    Queenie B
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stalking is stalking and it is creepy no matter who is doing it!

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    #22

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Being just fine with manipulation as a form of social interaction.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Narcissistic behaviour. Call it out so we can stop this from continuing to be normalized.

    #23

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Tell a child he's cute and will be a little heartbreaker when grows up and then say, keep him for me when he's 18. A man cannot ever do or say that

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    Alex Kennedy
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it’s pretty creepy if a woman does that too, and I think most people I know would feel the same.

    Jcusack
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed, any sexualization of children is at the very top of the creepy list! I'm with Jason Vukovich on this one

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO. That's gross no matter what.

    T
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something I would also add is the threatening of young boys when they pick up a girl for a date. The whole dad cleaning his gun in the living room bit.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My father used to say 'whatever you do to her, I'm going to do to you". And yes, it was as embarrassing as it sounds.

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    Fluffy Cat Sleeps
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    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men have done this, to child me, multiple times. And my mother and grandmother encouraged it and thought it was a compliment. It was a long time ago and it made me super uncomfortable and I felt so unsafe. Point being, no one should do this.

    TK VB
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men do say this though. My friends dads/family members made inappropriate comments to me when I was 9, 10, 11... it's obviously not ok for women to make comments like this either.

    Simon L
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nah, only thing you can say to a child to get the fam running well is such a cute little one, be good with your parents when they grow old, they're trying their best now ...

    Evelien Stijger Martens
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its creepy when women do it. I exlerienced a man looming t my 9 year old daughter and making sounds and gestures, kike mmmm, wayt to say what she will be like when she is a bit older. From that moment on i was disgusted my this man, his wife thought it was oke, hes just a man and he can't help it. Oke??? Some women that just had her womb removed complaining he wanted to get on top of her the day afer that.

    InkyParchment
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last part seems very different from the first part.

    Neopet22
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ew why would anyone say that? Disgusting

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBF, I used to joke with my friend about her kid being my future toyboy. I stopped that once I realised I sounded like a paedo.

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    #24

    Woman in a pink blouse drinking wine, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. My older sisters friends would get drunk and come into my room and put on my underwear. Then bragged about it to her friends at school.

    Also when women call me gay for not hitting on them.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What kind of girls are at this school?

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Erm do you really need the answer to that one lol

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    Bret Sander
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell them you're not gay, you just have standards. 😆

    #25

    Man with beard wearing a rainbow-striped shirt, representing views on problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. If you don't reciprocate their feelings you definitely are gay.

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    Emilu
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women get this too, though. Especially lesbians/ace people. "You just haven't met the right man yet." Not that it makes okay for anyone, mind!

    Simon L
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or if you pay them no attention in a pub getting called p***y :D

    Surfing Panda
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh they usually do not take that well...Even if you're very polite about it. They'll try to make you "pay" one way or the other.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago

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    Erm nope we just got more sense lmao no pass women do better !!! like men we ain’t all gods gift to women ! N we loathe men like that so do not be that woman !

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    #26

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 This happened to a good buddy of mine. He was asked out by the girl in one of our classes who he barely knew, and had basically never talked to. He politely declined and moved on, didn’t think much about it. She continued to post on social media for months in a very explicit manner how he missed out on her, and how she’s too good for him and how he was ghosting her.

    I brought it up with him, and he said he didn’t really care, so he let it go. But I was super pissed with her. Romantically Accosting people on the internet is never cool.

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    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She sounds a little obsessed.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's cool - she outed herself as a complete creep herself.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes her sound pitiful, too.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago

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    Eugh n yet another reason I never have or never will use social media it’s full of toxic lunatics !

    Bored Trash Panda
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um........ you are aware that BP IS social media, right?

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    #27

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 So I've had very unique, long red curly hair all my life. Unfortunately for me this meant a lot of old ladies liked it. I cannot count the amount of times an old lady went up to me and said "ohh I can't help myself" (or something like that) and just rubbed their hands through my hair (without asking me) . This s**t happened since I barely walk. It even happened when as a toddler/kid I was extremely shy and would hide behind my mum.

    Granted, now that I'm 21 people don't do that any more but it still bugs me that it happened.

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    Lyoness
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next time it does take a step back and say, loudly, "Why are you touching me without my permission?"

    roddy
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or lunge at them and run your hands through their hair. If they balk, say "What's wrong? Don't you like this?"

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where do people get the audacity to put their hands on other people? Again, NO TOUCHY!

    Verfin22
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe not quite the same, but why always touching pregnant bellies?

    HardBoiledBlonde
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have dimples and I have had females and males grab my cheeks and exclaim about my dimples my entire life. Some also pet my long blonde hair.

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mr Auntriarch has dimples and I do occasionally grab his cheeks and squeal. Wouldn't do it anyone else though.

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    How about no
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same ladies touch every pregnant belly and little child. Hate that

    RomanceRadish
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    During my pregnancies I felt like community property, open to unwanted unsolicited comments about my appearance.

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    DeeDee M
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Touching someone without their permission is never OK. Beautiful people and/or people with unique features that stand out are not public property.

    Emilu
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eww that's weird. If you don't know if they'd be okay with it, no f*****g touchy.

    GalPalAl
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    cannot understand why people think their bad behaviors are okay no matter what gender they identify with. And stop touching people. You are not welcome to touch me or invade my space.

    Kristin
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Hispanic and native Hawaiian and thus I have extremely long thick black hair. Like past my butt, thr amount of people that come up to me, or behind me in line and grab my hair and say "omg your hair is gorgeous" really bothers me. Not the compliment but the touching. I'm not a touchy feely person at all. Even My husband knows this and respects it. Very long story of abuse. But I always say thank you and then politely ask for thrm not to touch me. I'm sorry but some random person touching anyone is not ok. There are some lines you dont cross.

    Adam Benson
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can relate a little. Here in China I have a son with light-coloured curly hair. I refuse to leave him alone for more than a few minutes at a time in case some creepy old man approaches him and starts playing with his hair (iand yes, it has happened. Twice)

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    #28

    Young woman wearing sunglasses, smiling and making peace signs, representing problematic behaviors women get a pass for Pretending to be dumb or an airhead. Creepy as f**k. WHY???

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    PhaseWitFact
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's tough to find dates when you're a smart woman.

    setsuriseikou
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't really disagree with that, but on the other hand, if a man is charmed with a silly little girl act, is he really worth dating?

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a learned behaviour passed down from our ancestors, from times when it was considered "unladylike" or "stepping out of your place as a lady" to be smarter and override men. Society is getting better, but some habits are so ingrained in us we're not always aware what we're doing.

    Strings
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a local DA (now judge) who is a VERY attractive blonde woman. Who, when she was in preliminary meetings would act the ditz, to throw the defense off. Was an extremely sharp woman

    Helena
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I tell a guy my idea or make a statement straight out, they don't hear it, or they mock it, or I in some way get railroaded. Tilt my head to the side and say " can I ask a stupid question? why don't we..." followed by whatever I was going to say/suggest, and suddenly they have to think it through while explaining my own idea to me, they now think it's their idea, and it actually gets done.

    T
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A friend of mine who is very smart and educated was told by a date, "Maybe you should dumb yourself down." Dude, how about you smart yourself up?

    K
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men are easily intimidated when their ego is challenged in ANY WAY

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because men are threatened by smart women, that's why. Not all of them, but a majority that I've met are.

    Orange_Blossom
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yk I've been called all these like why do u act dumb? And I'm not even trying to. Makes me not want to talk or be around people. Idk is it just me? ok I'm not the brightest doesn't mean I'm pretending to be that way.😭

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago

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    😂😂sure they pretending lol 🤔

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    #29

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Anyone seen Henry Cavill on daytime TV promoting a movie or something when there's one or more women on the show as well? I feel f*****g sorry for the dude, he looks so uncomfortable with the way they act.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't seen this show, but if it's anything like The View, I can understand.

    Joëlle Merizen
    Community Member
    6 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think famous men are the ones who can understand the best how it feels like to be a woman (objectified, s3xualised, not being able to walk in public places without people staring at them, talking to them etc)

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    #30

    Two women laughing and enjoying food at a table, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for in conversations. Obsessing over celebrities. If I talked about the girls from Blackpink the way girls talk about male pop stars I would be called a simp or an incel.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it would depend on how old you are. If were to be crushing on some young boy bands in my 40s, it wouldn't sound too good, too. lol But if I recall, I think I heard some of the boys in my class having crushes on some pop stars. One guy got a bit too excited seeing Jamie Lee Curtis during a movie day in class. I was a bit embarrassed to admit who I crushed on, too. Really depends on the person.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The number of older adult gay men that salivated over Christopher Atkins in the "Blue Lagoon in the early 80s. OMG!

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    Multa Nocte
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would you be called that by the men you know or the women you know?

    Major Harris
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is interesting. i was in the u.s. navy, 86-95. last 7 months, i was on the u.s.s. mt.hood, a mixed s*x crew. at the time, she was the largest ship in the navy commanded by a woman. i have NO problem working with them. how ever, one time eating, i over heard a table full of my female shipmates talking about hot male celebrities. one said, "i would f--ck jean claud van damme in a minute if i had the chance!" was not offended. i disapprove when men "catcall" women for the record. first time hearing a woman say some thing like that in person. YOU GO GIRL! LOL!

    Royal Stray
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idk people get called simp over everything at this point. There's nothing wrong with having a favorite band or an interest. Although some girls who are into a male idol group or specific idol have a tendency to go way, way past normal "OMG I'm obsessed" and actually become crazy level obsessed, and yeah that's weird.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago

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    Erm are we talking kids again lol cos any woman over 40 would never do this 🤷‍♀️I’m 60 n I have a few male stars I think cor to , but I also do on women to lol ( I’m bi lol ) but not obsessed with em just like em ie statham films lol love me his films , n supernatural with Sam n dean gotta have a weekly hit of that 😂 but not in the sexualized way just in a love the prog way lol

    #31

    Young woman smiling and talking indoors, illustrating common problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. Talk about men like they are objects. Most of the sexism s**t really goes both ways. Especially body shaming.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does end up going both ways in society. The cycle never seems to end.

    Multa Nocte
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess what it was like when I was a young girl/woman in the 60s/70s. Go on. Just guess.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with me born in 1965 lol n it still happened then ,

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    dammi andeloe
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It ain't right for both ways. But I get the uno reverse in this. But it should only be done to the one's that act like that. You treat how you want to be treated

    PhaseWitFact
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mmmm... Men don't like to be objectified? 🤷 Didn't see that coming. Try being a woman - or even a girl.

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    #32

    Woman in a winter coat and knit hat taking a photo with smartphone, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for. Girls filming stranger attractive guys in public. Clearly the stranger doesn't know that he's being filmed or that he looks like he knows and uncomfortable with it. It still get posted online and left up as if it's not an obvious invasion of privacy. If it was the opposite I'm sure it will be taken down.

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    Multa Nocte
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    " If it was the opposite I'm sure it will be taken down." Sorry, you're wrong.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I witnessed this about 10 or more years ago. This girl was at a fast food restaurant, ordering. She casually, without any hesitation, asks the boy cashier his full name and if he's on facebook, quickly looks him up and shows him the screen asking if that's him. He's obviously feeling uncomfortable, and sort of laughs. She says she "friended" him. He didn't seem all that excited about it, more creeped out. I thought maybe she knew him from school, so I asked him if she knew her. He didn't. We both agreed it was creepy. On the contrary, a guy went up to my daughter, saying she's pretty and asked for her socials. My daughter just sd she's not on any. Didn't introduce himself, or anything. Then walked off to his group. We're thinking he went up to her for malicious purposes or on a dare. Again, creepy and lacking social etiquette.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope nope nope !! if a man does it it’s classed as stalking n harassment!!!! so women do not do it either have respect !

    How about no
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You mean like all the pics of girls that are posted? In Japan it's not possible to mute the clicking sound of your camera because of all the males that shot pictures under women's skirt....

    Space Invader
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you seriously suggesting there are no unsolicited pictures of attractive women posted without their consent to be found online?

    Borje Stromming
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t think thats the point, more like women do it also. Not to the same extent but they do it also

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    #33

    Policing their spouse's activities and spending.

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    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is different in every situation. For example, my best friend’s husband just lost 200k by being scammed over the internet by a very attractive woman. Now she has access to all his emails and she’s in charge of all the money.

    Helena
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends, is he gambling away the rent money?

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    #34

    Pretend to be interested in a guy just for the attention. Act like they're interested to get a free meal.

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    PhaseWitFact
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kind of like men pretend they're interested in a woman when they really only want to sleep with her.

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And...? This one is about women. There is one about men like every other day. Give it a rest.

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    Tonyah Mcanelly
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why you go dutch on the first date

    RomanceRadish
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand wanting the free meal (unless of course a person is truly food-insecure). I wouldn't enjoy the meal in those situations.

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    #35

    Lying to you just to see what your reaction will be.

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    Lyoness
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where are they finding these women?

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A cattle market lmao called a dating site !! awful places them lol

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    #36

    Close-up of a woman in a green sweater talking on phone, representing problematic behaviors women get a pass for. Calling someone to harass them for breaking up with their friend.
    I once broke up with a girl and her friends called to harass me, but I was "such a nice guy that I just can't yell at you."
    When I saw who was calling I'd answer with "Hey you calling cause I broke up with Melinda? I understand, feel free to yell at me." No one yelled at me.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just wrong on so many levels. This is not a pass. Other females find this embarrassing, secondhand.

    Emilu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I... can't say I have had this happen to me, but my reaction would not be pretty or pleasant.

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    #37

    Man jogging in gray sweatpants holding a water bottle, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men Grey sweatpants season — our eyes are up here.

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    Multa Nocte
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to admit that in my long life I have never once checked out someone's package. Not even once.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope no pass ! We don’t like it when a man only looks n talks to our chests so do not do it back !!its wrong n gross lol

    Donna Porras
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you dont think that we hate it when men stare at our chest and a*s, make comments and nothing happens.

    Shane S
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you’re wearing them without supportive underwear, you know exactly what you’re doing.

    Arcady Royzen
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so do women wearing "sports bra" and semi transparent leggings... But then they complain if someone stare at that...goes both ways

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    #38

    Young woman smiling with long hair listening in a conversation about problematic behaviors women get a pass for Obsessing over their(or other women's) partners/exes. No I don't want to hear about your boyfriend.

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    OzzyTheMano (They/He)
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh your ex-boyfriend did it this way? then i'll follow in his steps and break this s**t off

    Michael Largey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends. I started a relationship with a woman whose only other sexual experience with a man was when she was molested as a young child. Yes, I needed to know that. And the word obsessing is meaningless in a situation like that.

    #39

    Men Are Venting About Women’s Creepy Behaviors And Point Out These 30 Pretending to be your friend in order to get information from you or for some other ulterior motive.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s not just to men ! I don’t do people n thankfully live in the sticks housebound so don’t have to put up with this c**p , hat said men do this to lol !

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    #40

    Touch my biceps at work when I was fit, pinch my [butt] at a funeral, and talk openly and excitedly about how much cuter I was as a kid.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ewww. I could never look at a man in that way if I had known him as a kid.

    #41

    Light brown Labrador Retriever lying on a carpet indoors, illustrating relaxed problematic behaviors women get a pass for. A creepy thing that everyone does... but I find women; particular those who can't have children, more often do.

    Keeping animals that... should be put down, alive. And I don't mean oh the animal is getting a bit old or aggressive. No I mean the animal is blind, deaf, crippled with no recovery, constant infections, and other problems. They keep this animal alive because it is "Their baby."

    I find the act incredibly creepy and in my personal opinion extremely a*****e toward the animal. As you are perpetuating it's life through a hellish experience... because you are not mature enough to let the animal go.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, but why put down a blind or deaf animal? I do agree that when your pets are suffering too much it's time to humanely put them down. My friend had to do that with her cat when she started getting seizures and eating less. It's super sad but it's for the best. The way my mom put it when she put her horse down "He's lived a really good life. He doesn't deserve a torturous end."

    Helena
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm hoping when I am too miserable and never have decent quality of life again someone will put me down.

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    StPaul9
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, but there is a lovely woman in Australia who runs a group of older dogs called Team Golden Oldies. About 11 golden retrievers, a greyhound and a blind beagle. The dogs are peaceful now, the greyhound no longer has to worry about running and the beagle may be blind but has overcome a testing lab. The dogs get gentle exercise and donations and she regularly talks about giving them a fresh start on life when too many people would just give on them.

    Paul Rabit
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is very nice, and I'm happy that this woman is doing such a service! However, I don't think that this is the type of person that OP is referring to. OP is referring to the animals that are clearly experiencing their end of life in pain, and the owners who refuse to acknowledge it.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m a 60 yr old woman and a mother lol kids 21-24 I had an old staffie who went blind like a happy long life healthy life till she was 15 , just blind or deaf is not a reason to put em down however crippled totally agree I’ve worked in rescue so I’m very hot on animal cruelty! no dogs of mine will ever suffer if they can’t be cured , our 13 yr old rottie x ddb (French mastiff aka turner n hooch dog ) had osteosarcoma diagnosis in her front leg , n it is a very fast growing cancer so we said our good byes over the next few days the Thursday thru to Sunday spoilt her rotten steak burgers n a bit of choc n the like then on the Monday the vet came to our house n she went to rainbow bridge at home with my n the kids there and our German rottie to s he got so say goodbye , it’s not ok to keep a dog suffering alive it’s cruel

    Bored Trash Panda
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why must you say your age and the fact that you are a mom in pretty much EVERY comment you make. We get it, you are a 60yr old white witch mom. It doesn't have anything to do with most of the posts you comment on.. and btw, about your comment on the post talking about "save him for me" a true white witch wouldn't condone harm towards another human, just sayin.

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    Mikaya
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am one of these people, who has pets as babies. Putting my sweet boy down was the hardest decision of my life, yet I would do it again, because it's the right thing to do. I'll rather suffer myself than, let them suffer. He is still alive and happy in my memories ❤️

    Emilu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blind or deaf in themselves are no reason to put down an animal (would you k**l your blind/deaf kid? Exactly). Euthanasia is for when their quality of life is such is that it would be better to put them down, eg: our family Labrador was put down because he went into a constant state of grand mal fitting and couldn't stop over 24 hours. I can still picture the... whatever the pet ambulance is called... carrying this formerly vigorous, playful dog, now rigid and lying flat except for the fitting, into the ambulance. Put them down when you need to. Blindness and deafness alone aren't legitimate reasons; you need to think about quality of life for the animal (and not just you as the owner).

    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if this is his opinion on how humans with disabilities or illnesses should also be treated?

    Happynyss
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with not forcing animals to suffer, when their quality of life is really bad and it is clearly their time, but there's no reason to put down a blind, deaf, or crippled dog or cat, as they can often still have very happy lives and adapt very well. As long as they have wheels or something to help them move around, paralyzed/crippled dogs can still be happy and healthy.

    Tonyah Mcanelly
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think its selfish its a difficult decision. You are saying good bye to something that brought you so much joy.

    CF
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see this happen pretty much the same across genders, at least in my area (northeast US). Am a veterinarian.

    GalPalAl
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this seems oddly specific. Didn't realize this was something people do on a regular basis

    Paul Rabit
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen it on more than one occasion - when someone loves another animal (or person) so much they can't bear to part with them - even with that animal (or person!) is ready to go.

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    #42

    I once had a female bartender I just met offer to share her ovulation Google calendar with me.

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    #43

    Telling mothers to "save him for me" about minor they find cute.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That isn't even funny as a joke. Just stop that.

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago

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    Unfortunately it’s no joke !! I’ve heard women say it one to my son who’s now 21 when he was like 12 erm being an older mum I’m 60 with very strong mama bear vibes u can guess how that ended !! Never p**s off a witch !! it never ends well

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    Alexia Howe
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that is just gross. No ... My son is NOT your future toy

    Bored Trash Panda
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yea, if someone I knew ever said that about my son... let's just say it wouldn't end well for them....

    Crystalwitch60
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    7 months ago

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    That’s pe do vibes right there , if a bloke did it he’d be put on a s e x offender reg !!

    Helena
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    7 months ago

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    Never once heard a woman say this. How alarming

    #44

    Young woman with long hair covering her mouth outdoors, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. Haven't experienced it myself, but many of my friends: Girls talking with their friends about happens in bed waaaaay too detailed. Some discretion would be nice.

    And some women also do that staring-thing they don't like when guys do it to them. C'mon just come over and talk instead of talking trying to get me to you with telepathy.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooh, I'm bad for the staring. When I see a guy who's scoping me out, it's like I'm a deer caught in headlights. I don't know how to act, how to stand, where to put my drink, if I should eat or not. The whole time I'm observing and trying to see if he's actually looking at me or someone behind me, or if he's looking at me because he's wondering why I'm there. I don't know if I should say something first, or what. Mind you, this is 20 years ago.

    DeoManus Argentem
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm surprised this isn't highest! I've overheard women sharing waay too much! I've never discussed anything with my friends about the bedroom beyond hearing, "she missed her period", or something positive about them trying to conceive.

    Tonyah Mcanelly
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex used to share our s*x life to his work buddies. it got awkward when they all hung out and i was around

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    #45

    A girl coworker took a picture of me once while I was working without my consent. It made me extremely uncomfortable.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That could be ground for termination.

    Dar Mal
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nope....unfortuantely getting this enforced is another issue!

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    #46

    Woman showing problematic behaviors while man in background appears frustrated during an outdoor conversation. Getting really annoyed if you don't have feelings for them.

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    Multa Nocte
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Annoyed is OK. Getting stalked, hounded, and love-bombed isn't.

    Michael Largey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Annoyed is when you don't accept it. Disappointed is when you do.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't a pass for anyone.

    #47

    Young woman with braided hair and sunglasses laughing while looking at her phone, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for. The manipulation of social media for their own interests. I’m not talking editing photos, I’m talking manipulating guys feelings by posting certain things to make them mad/jealous/etc. I’m talking about stalking guys on Snapchat maps and finding names of people their with by scouring Instagram “followers” lists. The big one that really just weirds me out is how a lot of girls on some level view their Instagram and Snapchat profiles as tools instead of a place to keep up to date with friends.

    I am also completely aware that 1) not all girls are like this, it may even be a minority of girls who are like this, but this is a view I got from my own experiences and people I grew up around. And 2) Guys do this s**t to and it creeps me out just as much, if not more due to the power dynamics and potential harm that an a*****e guy can do to a girl.

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    OzzyTheMano (They/He)
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is whyyyyyy i'm not on social mediaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    Jude Laskowski
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with you. My cell phone lives in my purse unless I have to call someone. Some of these people have too much time on their hands.

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    #48

    Four women having a candid conversation in a cozy cafe discussing problematic behaviors women get a pass for according to men. Commenting on young male popstars. The amount of middle aged women that would talk about 16 year old and sometimes younger guys was extremely creepy to me.

    Reading 50 shades of grey at work and to a lesser extent on the bus. Its soft p**n, take that s**t to your house.

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    Lyoness
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely agree about commenting on minors; that's just wrong, but I respectfully disagree about that particular reading material. The covers aren't offensive and unless you've read the books or heard about the contents you don't know what they're about, so people won't be offended at all. They aren't making you read them, so why do you care?

    Uncle Panda
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because of the difficulty in interpreting, "I'm all tied up this weekend."

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    XD I mentioned this somewhere in here. Yeah, pretty inappropriate.

    Tabitha
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m 64. The most I ever do is just wish I was X number of years younger and single. But I don’t say it out loud. Not every thought has to be spoken. Think first, turn the situation around onto yourself and figure out how it would make you feel, then just keep it to yourself.

    Jude Laskowski
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most people don't read books anymore.

    Andrew Arons
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least they're not listening to the audio book. https://youtu.be/XkLqAlIETkA

    Alexia Howe
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am 50 and I think it's disgusting to speak like that about anyone. It makes me angry that women do this and it's "ok" but not if it's a man doing the same. Ladies that do this are pedos just like the men. I am an attractive woman and I have been hit on by young men and all I can think of is " you are the same age as my son" !!!! Just EEEEWW

    #49

    Making veiled threats in the form of innocuous statements, oftentimes planting this seed of "I can accuse you of anything I want and no one will question it."

    I pick up on that from a chick and I make sure to avoid her at all costs. false accusations have become prolific in our society and it's long since turned into a legit danger for men.

    ladies: if you're not actually serious, just understand it's not funny. you can literally get us killed because you wanted to power trip for a second.

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    Orysha
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with Helena (not the second part of her reasoning though) , false accusations haven't become prolific, they are just getiing much more coverage than real accusations. In France we had the rapists of Gisle Pelicot tried a few months ago but how many rapes we know nothing about? Here's an article about Quèbec's situation (sorry it's in French) : https://www.lapresse.ca/dialogue/opinions/2024-07-18/et-surtout-n-en-parle-a-personne.php

    Helena
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US false accusations usually revolve around some kind of petty revenge either by a teen or someone who never matured past teen. And there is a high correlation between false accusations and teen pregnancy. Teach a girl her only value is between her legs and the only way her parents won't kick her out is if it a result of r**e, and voila, r**e accusation. Either way, it should be pounded home (age-appropriately) at why false accusations are bad. That it will be used against women as a whole. Because they'd rather believe we're all lying than believe the truth.

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    TK VB
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In real life false accusations are incredibly rare. On the other hand, 98% of actual male r*pits will never see the inside of a cell. Let's get some perspective.

    Helena
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    7 months ago

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    I reject the assertion that false accusations have become prolific. Though most grown women know not to make false accusations. If someone does, it is likely a teenager in a super fundamentalist home.

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    #50

    Not all women do it but the instant personality switch around certain ppl, etc. make me think twice about girls like that.

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    #51

    Just randomly starting conversations about who they want to f**k, idk if it's common outside schools but it still seems a bit weird. Not saying that guys don't do it but, in public, in front of everyone? That's a bit dodgy. Or talking about how fit they think some random person they saw was for the next 20 minutes.

    I was on an outdoor camping expedition thing and there were some guys riding dirt bikes along the trail we were walking on in the opposite direction and then one of the girls in our group starts saying how they bet they were going to be really fit men, then they rode past us and it turns out that they were 50-60 year old guys. Funny story but still a bit weird.

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    #52

    Woman using an eyelash curler in front of a mirror, illustrating problematic behaviors women get a pass for. That weird torture device looking thing y'all use on your eyelashes. I don't know why that thing freaks me out but all I can think of is clockwork orange when I see it.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just an eyelash curler. It's not supposed to hurt. Although, I've heard of horror stories that are not common accidents.

    Helena
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Accidentally ripped out all my corner lashes in high school. They never grew back out properly

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    #53

    Commenting on how guys smell. If someone smells good they don't shut up about it.

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    Helena
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That just may be surprise. Most guys smell like bo or a pine tree. Why do all men's colognes seem to smell like a pine tree?

    Andrew Arons
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife buys my cologne for me and her favorite is a knock-off cologne that seems like more of a floral scent rather than pine. And the cologne's in a bottle shaped like Squidward from Spongebob Squarepants. She likes the scent; I like the bottle.🤪

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    #54

    When she says she hates another woman…and then sets up lunch with that woman because she hates her that much.


    When she accuses you of only wanting to have s*x with her yet she finds nothing wrong with only wanting to talk with you.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Catching up with the enemy is just to dig up more dirt for gossip. People who do this need to get a better life. I'm not getting the last one, though. So, this guy sounds like he's all about s*x and is complaining his girlfriend enjoys talking with him? Sounds like my ex. Big red flag.

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    #55

    Unpopular opinion: when it comes to females Creepy is always sold as cute.

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    Annik Perrot
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Downvote for using the word "female". And creepy is creepy, wherever it comes from.

    #56

    Go into the men's room when the women's room has a line.

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    Annik Perrot
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guilty as charged, your honour. When you reach à certain age, or are pregnant, when you gotta go, you gotta go.

    *raspberry sound
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too! I installed the lock on the men's room door of my favorite haunt when I was in my 20's, brought it from home.

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    StrangeOne
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was one really long line up for the women's room and some women had to really, really go. We don't have the same ability to just hold it in, as our uterus and bladders tend to be so close. Like, one sneeze or cough and I'm trinkling. Actually, if I manage to keep holding it in as I sneeze, my sinuses will keep sneezing until I trinkle. Absolute curse of the post-pregnant body, even years later. Anyways, there was no line up for the men's room. The men were telling us to just use the men's room. It's not a common occurrence but some men do have some compassion. We were a bit hesitant because it was just a couple men made the okay, but we weren't sure if it would be a problem for another.

    Lyone Fein
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I don’t understand is why women’s rooms don’t have more stalls than men’s rooms. It’s a universal problem.

    Paul Rabit
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe by building code (at least in the US) there are a certain number of bathroom stalls/urinals based on intended occupancy. Under these guidelines, usually there ARE more stalls in a ladies' rooms than mens'.

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    roddy
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I give women a pass here. Women need cubicles. And they are usually the ones with kids needing to go as well. Men's rooms don't need to be the same size, as most of the traffic is at the urinals. But they make the two rooms equal size, despite the obvious fact that women should have more of the space. That's why there are lineups for the women but never for the men.

    DeoManus Argentem
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, not creepy - it's just that men don't care if a woman goes into a men's room, but the opposite would ignite a firestorm! Also, women take much longer and public women's restrooms are generally nasty compared to men's rooms.

    Space Invader
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once witnessed that during a break in a classical concert. You know who objected? Absolutely no one.

    TK VB
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like almost everything else in this patriarchal world, public restrooms were not designed with women's comfort in mind. So if the queue is long, best believe we'll utilise an empty cubicle elsewhere. Don't worry we won't pee everywhere like boys do. And we're no threat to your safety.

    wobbly jelly
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got given a ticket for Deep Purple a few years ago - audience was 90% males mostly 60+ drinking lots of beer - the women thought it was hilarious that here was no queues for the loos and a long queue of anxious looking men. It's when you need market research - the bootleg t-shirt sellers out side with S-M-L - needed to start at XL and go up from there.

    Daniel Atkins
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember going on a trip and the girls in the group just barged in front of the line of guys waiting. I understand using it if it was empty but it was like too bad deal with it.

    Helena
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Burst bladder, or uncomfortable men? uncomfortable men are cheaper. They always underestimate the stalls for women restrooms.

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    #57

    Gaslighting. They are the ninjas of gaslighting. I got gaslighted into thinking I was gaslighting.

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    #58

    Go to the bathroom together. Imagine asking your bro to join you while you sit on the toilet and he just stands next to you in there chatting it up.

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    Space Invader
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why does it bother you? They're not asking YOU to join them, do they?

    Helena
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is for safety reasons or because someone forgot to bring a tampon.

    OzzyTheMano (They/He)
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i've been harassed in bathrooms before so i'll always go with a friend

    How about no
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can assure you that a lot of men actually do that too.... And it's not about using the toilet but the chatting on the way there, in front of the mirror, checking in your make up and the way back. Just boring otherwise

    Andrew Arons
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe while washing my hands, but never talk to me while we're using adjacent urinals.

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