People Share What Things They Learned Embarrassingly Late In Life (30 Posts)

This! Especially when you are mentally not in the best place cleaning for example the whole house/flat can be an overwhelming task. It's better to start little and set (much) smaller goals and get the rewarding feeling that you have done something nonetheless.

I think we've all been there

I send hugs! I have alot of friends, but few very close ones. I am glad you cut the negative people out of your life!

Contrary to what you may hope, generally people don't change. So get out before the going gets really bad.

coworkers are NOT friends

Look after yourselves Pandas.

I can somewhat do it from the back, but I put it on front, then shift it around and put on the straps! Easy-Peasy!

Don't stress, just don't put the bra on at all! Bliss.

No matter how superior someone acts, we all put our bras on one boob at a time.

Same. And I’m 62.

YOU CAN CLASP IT FROM THE BACK?! tf

I always clasp it first then pull it over my head like a shirt

I can clasp bra behind my back, but I do twist thing. It's quicker.

wait its so hard to do it behind your back, how do you do that?

As long as you manage to get it on, you're just fine.

My mom does it like that. I tried once when I had dislocated a finger but decided to leave the bra off.

I also still do this!

I’ve always had the hardest damn time trying to take those stupid things off🤪

At the end of the day I'm so sore and stiff from work, screw straining my shoulders, arms and wrists. That bra is getting taken off from the front. Plus I've only just started to be able to somewhat get my hands around my back enough but not quite. Idgaf if I'm trying on new bras at a store. Either the fitter can be the one to fasten and unfasten it or it's going for a spin around my ribs.

It feels weird to me twisting around after doing it up. So much so, that when I broke my arm I moved over to the crop top type bralettes, rather than twisting it around.

Wear claspless "sports" stretch bras and its not an issue.

My ex did that, it looked complicated to me. I'm a back closer myself and that's easy for me... then I noticed that I can also scratch my back with my hands on my back from shoulders to but-t, so I guess I'm flexibel that way 😁

I don't know how they clasp it behind their back either. I don't even try. Clasp it in the front and just spin it around.

Why do people unclasp their bras at all? I just pull it on over my head like a shirt!

That's how I have learnt to wear my bra too,anytime I try another style I just can't do it

Who can clasp it on their back?! Not this girl

Clasp it around back but at waist level, then slide your arms in the straps and pull it up. Gets the ladies in better position for support that way, too, kind of scoops them up.

I just ignore the clasp and put it on over my head.

Now thankfully they have front clasps bras. Ah living in modern times 😅

I'm 35 and still do the front then turn method..

Most people do either.

I find it easier and quicker to clasp in front and then shuffle-shuffle-shuffle to back

Never learned to do it behind my back. I was taught (very young) by my gynecologist how to put on a bra properly and how to buy the right size.

I did for years….until I discovered front clasp bras.

But many women do twist. A common one I have seen is hook in front, rotate, stick arms through straps and pull it up. I think it depends a lot on a person's body build and flexibility and to a lesser degree the style of the bra. (I'm a guy, just saying what I have seen women do)

I just use ones that don't clip in the back, they're 1000x more comfortable than the ones that do

Or just don't wear a bra. Your breasts will be perkier in the long run, and you'll be more comfortable.

I don’t think it really matters. Whichever way works best for you.

I think this is probably why teenage girls are better at spatial relations than teenage boys. try putting on other items of clothing upside down, inside out and backwards and then shuffle them around until they end up in the right place

No one here seems to be on good terms with their bra. I've always done them up at the back, yes even the ones with five hooks. And far from stripping it off with relief when I get home, I actually put one on if I'm planning to spend the day on the sofa with either sickness or sloth. Is there anyone out there like me?

I can't do it from the back and I do the same thing

Ditto!

I'm 55 and still clasp it in front then slide it backwards.

You're telling me other women put it on front first? What wizardry is this?

I actually can't clasp it in the front. It takes me ages. It's just the wrong way round somehow. But, I learned to clasp in the back

Same here. I rarely wear a bra anymore but when I do it's just a sports bra.

I can do either way. Except for those bras with three hooks in a row. If you are in a hurry, they easily go wrong behind your back. Now the question is, how do you take off the bras? With the same technique as you put them? I usually open them from the back with one hand.

By the way: there are Bras that close at the front! ;)