People have different understandings of what constitutes a good life and build theirs around different ideas. But a recent Reddit thread has users sharing things they believe everyone should try at least once. The discussion offers an interesting glimpse into the human experience, from simple pleasures like watching a sunrise or trying an exotic food to more transformative moments like traveling alone or volunteering. Scroll down to check out the most popular suggestions, and who knows, maybe they will inspire you pursue that which you we're putting away for a bit too long.
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Working in the service industry. Maybe people would treat workers better, knowing they’re servers, not servants.
Even if people literally are servants they should still be treated with decency.
This isn't true. Sadly a lot of people who were (or even currently ARE) service workers treat workers horrifically. It's not about the experience it's about the person. A nasty selfish person will thrill in having "their chance" to be the master berating the servants. A empathic person will treat service workers like they want to be treated.
No, I know it would make me too anxious, I treat servers well without having ever been one.
This should be a requirement for college entry. To get into universities or community college, you can do customer service. Customer service is community service. 6 months in a restaurant or 6 months in retail. And yes, you have to survive off what they pay you. That way, you understand how it feels when you hustle your a*s off and get nothing for it.
Living alone.
Can confirm. Started it early in my life. Now I don't want anyone in my space for more than a few days.
Load More Replies...I enjoy the company of others in small doses. I cherish every moment I have with my wife but I have no problem with being by myself. I find alone time to be very therapeutic.
I'm 67 years old, and have never lived alone. The only way I figure I will is if my spouse dies first.
Yeah, I did that in college when my roommate moved out. I discovered that I need another person around as motivation to hold myself accountable for putting things away. Being able to pace around muttering like a crazy person all night was nice when I had to memorize a speech from Hamlet for class, though.
The worst part about living alone is you can so easily get used to it.
The love of a dog!
Other pets are ok but, the love of a dog is something else.
Load More Replies...My dad agreed to get a chow chow next year!!! So happy, its gonna be our first dog! (We have to let it stay outside tho. As a muslim, dogs are forbidden inside houses unless they were being rescued. Anyone know an air conditioned outdoor doghouse to recommend?)
Just build a room and air condition it. A chow is a big dog and will appreciate it. Just imagine being stuck in a mattress sized room as your home for the rest of your life, and you see what I mean about a standard dog house being too small.
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Moving to another city from the one they grew up in.
If they can’t move, atleast travelling to another country.
I have stage 4 cancer and I want to see Europe , particularly Italy before God calls me home.
I think CEOs or similar should sit in the lowest level positions and vise versa.
I think this was the idea behind Undercover Boss, but from what I saw they mostly just ended up spying on the employees.
It was one big commercial for the businesses. Was never some widget company from flyover state. Always a household name.
Load More Replies...I have been saying this forever. All those college graduates with no actual retail experience making decisions for the employees should be a no-go. To understand your company you need to have the employees experience of it.
I worked for a printing company that had any new managers, administration, client services/sales spend the first couple of weeks of orientation working every position in the production line. That gave them a better understanding of the process, work environment and got along better with the workers. The company at the time was employee owned, so they had a strong motivation to make sure the new people knew what they were doing and they were a good fit for the company. And then, they became a corporation and stopped doing that. They don't exist anymore.
I don't even know why, people don't count that there are many CEO who started from the bottom position and reached there, and many at the bottom position today will be the future CEO's, sitting in the lowest position is not always the answer.
Not im USA. The self made perdon is a myth snd upward mobiloty in USA hardly ever occurs. CEO go to private schools, expensive colleges and rarely start in lowly positions.
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Seeing the Milky Way with your own eyes.
During a power cut in Naini Tal, 5000' up in the Himalayas. The day I forget that, you can bury me
Haven't yet, because of so much light pollution where I live.Would love to !
I so want to do this. I want to go somewhere where there is no civilization per se and just look at the sky. My ideal location would be Montana or Idaho.
Northern Lights.
OK. Go ahead and rub it in for all the people who were working...😫
If you can? Do... Although as a kid thinking that they were the ghosties in the sky of anyone who had died and it wasn't nice to look at them... But I was a weird kid!
Working in customer service.
Or secondhand. I swear people thought it was like a yard sale. It's like, are you really trying to get us to give you a discount for damage in a thrift store that benefits Habitat For Humanity?
Load More Replies...Oh, definitely not, because I'll tarnish my name and get fired for fighting some àsshole customer. I respect customer service people a lot, because I'd never have this much patience with such people
Traveling to a new place where you can immerse yourself in a foreign culture, see unfamiliar nature and broaden your worldview. It is not only enriching internally, but also helps to better understand yourself and the world around you.
I'll add not to stay in a cruise or a hotel resort all the time while you're in a different country. You wouldn't go to Italy and only eat McDonalds
Sadly, Miranda some people do in fact go abroad (I'm talking USA here) and expect USA fast food. Kind of sad really.
Load More Replies...I agree. Traveling is amazing and you learn so much about other cultures and the people
For someone to be proud of you whatever it may be.
I am crazy a**l about telling my (now adult) children that I am proud of them, regardless of how they feel.
I hope my grandkids realize I'm so proud of all of them. They're great people, their parents raised them right, and of course, there's me, a grandparent. I hope their mothers realize I did my best for them.
Learn another language. One of the most profound experiences I've ever had is reading an idea/thought that just doesn’t exist in English. It'll help when you do all this traveling people are recommending. French or Spanish, depending on where you live. Or both. I really want to learn Arabic, too, but there are sooooo many dialects...
I think that's why "anglos" sometimes seem to be so closed minded. Many English, Americans, Australians, don't need to or choose to learn another language, and just can't see past one way of thinking. It's not universal, nor is it unique, but it's common.
All the schools I have been to/taught at teach languages, compulsory. They really start too late though for full benefit.
Load More Replies...My 3YO can already speak fluent English and German, and he knows a bit of Hebrew already. (My 7YO daughter's the same, but is already starting to read Hebrew.) We'll be on to French soon when we meet the French side of the family again next year!
Load More Replies...Egyptian here. Arabic is really hard. sure, I can speak, write, listen, and read fluently, but thats because its my mother tongue + I've been very careful with learning it better. Don't learn Arabic, or learn only the main dialect
It's difficult to learn another language when I'm literally surrounded by other English speakers. I can literally drive for a week and still be in my own country, surrounded by other people who also speak English. I think the only way I could learn another language is total immersion, but unless I move to a non-English speaking country (which just isn't an option), I'm probably not going to have much luck. And some languages aren't even used anymore, like Latin. My consolation prize is to try to learn my own language as best I can.
Being poor.
Swimming in warm ocean water.
No thanks! Too afraid of what's in warm ocean water. Give me the bracing Baltic or North Sea any day ;-)
Everyone must experience failure.
Parents need to be reminded of this. Some spend their child's whole life shielding them from failure, fixing everything for them, then wonder why they have no resilience.
Experience failure, and then try again. Or try something else. Failure teaches you more than perpetual success, if there is such a thing.
That's what hugs, kisses, and sympathy are for. No excuses though, they're going through enough.
There are times when you're going to win, there are times when you're gonna go splat! It's learning from the splat part that builds you 🙂
Love.
Reminder that love doesn't need to be romantic. Show all ur loved ones that u love em <3
Been there, done that. Not doing it again unless dueling pistols are involved.
Peace. Complete peace, even if just for a bit.
Go to a beach on a tropical island, with white sand, coconut trees swaying and an emerald sea.
Nah, almost die and spend a week in the hospital. Once you almost die, you stop caring what anyone else thinks.
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Financial security.
President Herbert Hoover promised a 'chicken in every pot' to voters in 1928 -1932 campaigns. Financial security should be on all of the candidates' agendas this go-round.
Financial security? Really? Must be nice, Elon. Go fvck yourself with a broken bottle.
Solo travelling.
The first time I walked through the airport without my family in tow and had earbuds in... it was magical!
So long as you know the protocols of the country, respect their beliefs etc? Plus let all close family at home know your itinerary, your passport number, plane tickets etc numbers. Check in via FB with them daily. You should be okay as a lone female. Just remember to not do anything that you, hopefully, would not do in your home country. Such as get excessively drunk, take any risks that could put you in danger. Solo travelling can be fun!
Travelled alone as a woman in 3 continents. Was fine. Just come well prepared and avoid the countries that are known for misogyny like Afghanistan.
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A total eclipse of the sun.
Holdup i thought the same thing can you mind read or smth?
Load More Replies...I did get that chance this past summer. I lived in the line of the total eclipse. It was pretty need.
We did too. It was beautiful. It would have been nicer if at the darkest point a group of grade schoolers gathered at a house across the street didn’t scream at the top of their lungs. I read a lot of neighborhoods had that going on because no one had school.
Load More Replies...Seen one full one and two partial eclipses... I'm pretty dayum lucky! 💜
I was able to see one probably 3 decades ago. I was working a third shift in a factory. It was summer time and worked across from a overhead door. The door was open. There was a so called problem with the press. So I would go outside and watch the lunar eclipse for a few minutes than go back in to see if the press was fixed. Did that for the duration of the lunar eclipse. So I was able to watch a full lunar eclipse. That was awesome.
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Appreciation or getting praise for their hardwork and success.
Everyone needs recognition and appreciation for the good they've done. Makes all the hard work worthwhile.
True companionship
Taking your underwired bra off at the end of a long day.
I've found the stretchy type of bra, no underwire needed. Don't have a specific name for them, sorry. They are similar in material and structure to sports bras, only tons more comfy. And I'm not "small", plus showing my age. So they work for all sizes and ages!
I REFUSE to wear underwire bras. Screw it! Ain't out to impress anyone.
I need my underwired bra to address some comments! Can't have my boulders all flip flapping around! I'd get arrested!!! 😁
Not being in debt.
Skinny dipping - such a free feeling!
Sunbathing nude. What I like the most is the feel of the breeze caressing me all over.
I do this regularly at my local beach which is very popular with naturists. Swimming and sunbathing naked is much nicer than when wearing a swimming costume.
Done that in a deserted beach, miles from nowhere. Incredible experience.
Do this every summer. No one bats an eyelid in Germany or Denmark. I absolutely love the feeling of seawater against my completely naked skin - complete contact with the element that bore our species.
Just make sure not to do so on a beach designated for military training that day. Did you know that they can drive those troop transports up on the beach itself? That was a surprise for me. You learn something new everyday.
Compassion.
I thought that compassion is part of a normal person's emotional skills, not something to be tried sometimes like some exotic dish.
Being stranded in the wilderness. That s**t is the quickest character builder ever. You realize how frail everything is and walk away a different person, thankful for every little thing in life.
Rather, you should learn how to survive if you get lost in nature. So you should have survival skills. Personally, I wouldn't want to test them except out of necessity.
Absolutely the f**k not. Been there, as I got lost in the woods for about ten hours in a hike with my then SO. This is not character building at all: it is absolutely terrifying, my SO had to deal with PTSD for several months. Many people do not survive...
Aboriginal Australians believe one must go on a Walkabout to become an adult.
Having grown up in the far north of Canada with bears and other wild animals, insects etc that could possibly kill you? Hard NOPE! We were taught from an early age to never ever go wandering out into the woods alone. It's too easy to get completely lost and then decades later have hunters find your skeletal remains if there are any....... My childhood bedtime stories sucked!!! Facetious 😄
I don't think you need to get lost in the wilderness to realize that. I believe a lot of people without privilege realize to be thankful for the little things every single day
For those in the US, I think everyone should serve on a jury at least once I know that a lot of people try to get out of it, but it's important to see how the justice system actually operates even for cases that don't seem all that impactful- Going to trial does impact people. And people need to see that most cases are not like an episode of Perry Mason. And they need to see how a disparate group has to work together to reach a consensus, if it comes down to that. (I served on 3 so far, once as an alternate, so I wasn't included in deliberations, and 2 struck deals before it got that far. But I learned a lot.
I learned more than I wanted to know about my fellow human beings by being on a jury.
Girl was being abused. The testimony from the girl was so bad, the prosecuters added charges during the hearing. Fellow jurors were convinced by a man that there werent enough bruises to convict, just "some redness" in the pictures the cop took. The cop who had visited several times.
Load More Replies...I registered to vote 45 years ago, yet I have never been called to serve. I obtained my property and casualty insurance license 38 years ago and my husband at the time was excused from a jury pool once he told them what I did. I know that they don't know I'm an insurance agent when they are mailing out jury notices so I wait and wait. I want to serve and I know I would make a good juror so I'm ready.
I wasn't called at all until I moved 10 years ago. Now I've been called 12 d*mn times, and every single time, it's either a domestic violence or d**g case, both of which I have to be recused from. I wish they could note in a file the types of cases a person can't serve for, and stop wasting my time.
Load More Replies..."Who's Perry Mason"??? Lol Actually served on a jury once. Picked "first" from "the pool", seated "first", & served as foreman. It was AWESOME!!
I've been called up for Jury Duty... Three times? First one I wasn't needed because the person changed their plea to Guilty. Second one I was excused as I had my own court cases against my ex happening and the third was when I was still in the physiotherapy hospital so obviously I couldn't attend. I think I've actually been completely excused from Jury Duty now due to my ex and all that legal palaver.
Serving on a jury just convinced me that the jury system is immensely flawed.
I don't ever wanna do jury duty, it sounds really long and boring and don't take this the wrong way but I have my own problems and don't wanna hear about yours, I don't wanna become part of your fate
Orgasm.
ace people can still enjoy sex and sexual pleasure, so this could still apply to some ace people
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Trying something completely out of your comfort zone, like skydiving or taking an improv class.
Not sure about this one. Yes, try out new things, but if something is really way out of your comfort zone, what is the benefit? Being able to live through the anxiety before you do it and then just being happy to have it over with? I might as well go to the dentist then.
Hard no. Doing something that makes me nervous, sure. Doing something that I don't want to do for the sake of stepping out of my comfort zone - no.
I sort of agree with you and sort of don't. Some things can be traumatising and we want to avoid those as much as possible, but how do we learn resilience without doing things that are difficult? We don't want to find ourselves in a difficult place without having learned how to endure difficult things. We can "learn" courage, determination, self reliance. But not if we never challenge ourselves.
Load More Replies...Leaving the house everyday is out of my comfort zone. Anxiety is overrated
Oh great. Now I'm hearing "I went skydiving, I went Rocky Mountain climbing, I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named Fu Manchu..." Thanks a lot.
I’ve read “sex” as an answer but I want to add, sex with someone who loves you (it’s way more intimate and fulfilling).
Exactly! Hello to my fellow asexual being (who also has no interest in sex i assume)
Load More Replies...I believe there are 3 types of sex: fringe, which can happen with anyone as long as it's consensual, simply for the release; having "sex", again could be with anyone (consensual), takes longer, takes partners needs/wishes into consideration; making love - only happens with a partner where both care deeply/love each other. Similar to having sex but the emotional connection makes it like nothing else! Just the way I look at it
Public speaking: delivering a speech to more than 100 people on a topic you love and have researched intensively. After giving the speech and answering every question excellently, the final applause is pure ecstasy. Some people might say sex or something else, but most of those things you'll likely try at least once anyway.
I don't wanna sing a two minute song in front of people who are listening what the hell are you doing to make you capable
I think trying psychedelics at least once, in a safe and supportive setting, can be a life-changing experience. It helped me see things from a completely new perspective, almost like hitting a reset button on my mind. It deepened my self-awareness and connection with the world around me.
I do not want my mind to be reset. You don't know what you're going to end up with on the other side. Too many people (yes, I know it's still very rare, but...) have been mind-changed in ways that have left them truly damaged.
There is indeed no way of knowing how an individual is going to react to any d**g or medication. Even with quality control and exacting standards of medication, there is going to be a portion of the population that will have a bad reaction. Illicit d***s are not regulated, studied, tested, or made to safe standards. That means there really is no way of knowing how one will react to the modern day version of 'bathtub gin'. But nothing in life is completely safe, and on a scale of 1: instant death and 10: life changing event, I would place this at a 6. For perspective, I would rate jumping out of a perfectly operational airplane at a 4. To each their own.
Load More Replies...This is very true, a good friend of mine and I are both combat veterans, we used to have all of the major issues that go along with that, irritability, short temper, insomnia ect. Once we were out of the military we decided to go to college together and live together, after a few months I made a friend who hooked us up with some mushrooms and we did them one Friday night. It was life changing my buddy and I laughed and cried and got a lot out of our system talked about things that we both experienced that we just couldn't talk about before, but getting it out and having that cathartic experience was so life changing. I tripped I think 4 times total in my life each time it helped me get back to a better normal and now I feel like a regular person like I have managed to therapeutically deal with a lot of my trauma and learn how to move past it. There is a reason they want to start using these d***s to help vets with PTSD, because they work, I will fully attest to that.
There are a lot of people who have an underlying predisposition to psychosis. I wouldn't recommend this w***y nilly.
Mocrodosing psychedelics like Psilocybin (mushrooms), Ketamine and DMT are showing excellent promise as treatments for intractable depression. As usual, the trick is in the dosage.
Yeah I would say not to do this. Someone I used to know did d***s, got an "eye opener" and decided the next day to abandon her kids, family and home to impulsively move to turkey (from Germany) to start a new life. We have never heard from her again.
I would TOTALLY do Peyote. I have no doubt that I would wake up the next day under a desert sun, stranded on the side of a New Mexico highway, completely naked and having no memory of how I got there. And I would probably still think, "Worth it!"
Ego Death.
Betrayal, and being told no. Build that thicc skin ppl s**t does wonders.
Been there, done that too. 0-5 stars, would not recommend. I would prefer that my character building take place in Tahiti.
A bunch of these are absolute nonsense. I certainly don't believe everyone should have had at least one near death experience for example, that shít is traumatizing
Can both agree and object. As someone who keeps almost dying, about five near death experiences (choked on sandwich, hit head on asphalt, almost drowned thrice) made me realize everything can kill you somehow and now I don't cry over the death of anything I didn't have a personal connection to (which might be bad actually but it helps with handling the kind of fiction I like) but I wouldn't want to go that close to dying again. That sh*t was the reason I didn't eat peanut putter sandwiches or run for a week
Load More Replies...I moved to London, from Shropshire when I was around 18 yrs old - I'd already had the interviews and my parents help arrange a studio flat for me (I worked in Central London) before I moved there. And whilst it was exciting, it was also very scary at first, after growing up in a small town, and homesickness was a thing, too. Ten years later, I moved back to Shropshire for a new job. I don't regret it, as it was mostly an enriching experience, and pretty secure, since my parents made sure I had a good place to live, and that is still with me.
I currently live in London, but have lived in the North West, Scotland, Kent, Ireland, Spain and West Yorkshire.
Load More Replies...Everyone should be freelance/self employed at least once for at least a year to appreciate being an employee with holidays, sick leave, training paid for etc. (UK)
Some things I think everyone should do at least once: *visit a butchering and meat packing facility, *live for 3+ months in a small town in a third world country, *volunteer at an animal shelter, *eat completely vegetarian for a month+, *learn to do one type of common repair (sewing, plumbing, car, home, etc.).
Every car driver should be forced to ride a bicycle for a year. On the roads where it's legal to ride and where car drivers intimidate, threaten and attack cyclists.
Maybe if more bike riders showed a little consideration and started obeying traffic laws car drivers wouldn't bother them.
Load More Replies...A bunch of these are absolute nonsense. I certainly don't believe everyone should have had at least one near death experience for example, that shít is traumatizing
Can both agree and object. As someone who keeps almost dying, about five near death experiences (choked on sandwich, hit head on asphalt, almost drowned thrice) made me realize everything can kill you somehow and now I don't cry over the death of anything I didn't have a personal connection to (which might be bad actually but it helps with handling the kind of fiction I like) but I wouldn't want to go that close to dying again. That sh*t was the reason I didn't eat peanut putter sandwiches or run for a week
Load More Replies...I moved to London, from Shropshire when I was around 18 yrs old - I'd already had the interviews and my parents help arrange a studio flat for me (I worked in Central London) before I moved there. And whilst it was exciting, it was also very scary at first, after growing up in a small town, and homesickness was a thing, too. Ten years later, I moved back to Shropshire for a new job. I don't regret it, as it was mostly an enriching experience, and pretty secure, since my parents made sure I had a good place to live, and that is still with me.
I currently live in London, but have lived in the North West, Scotland, Kent, Ireland, Spain and West Yorkshire.
Load More Replies...Everyone should be freelance/self employed at least once for at least a year to appreciate being an employee with holidays, sick leave, training paid for etc. (UK)
Some things I think everyone should do at least once: *visit a butchering and meat packing facility, *live for 3+ months in a small town in a third world country, *volunteer at an animal shelter, *eat completely vegetarian for a month+, *learn to do one type of common repair (sewing, plumbing, car, home, etc.).
Every car driver should be forced to ride a bicycle for a year. On the roads where it's legal to ride and where car drivers intimidate, threaten and attack cyclists.
Maybe if more bike riders showed a little consideration and started obeying traffic laws car drivers wouldn't bother them.
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