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It's a common trope among many guys to claim that they simply don't understand women - whether it is willful ignorance or not is another question, but there seems to be a fashionable yet lazy acceptance that women are a complete mystery so there is no point in trying.

Well, there's no excuse now fellas. Turns out, all we had to do was ask! Women on Twitter have decided to take matters into their own hands with the viral hashtag #WhatMenDontKnowAboutWomen.

While they clearly don't speak for all women, the discussion is incredibly insightful and educational, as posters take turns sharing their experiences and frustrations about the kinds of things that just seem to pass many men by. Have you got your notepad at the ready guys? There are some really important points here (and some funny ones too!).

Scroll down below to check them out for yourself, and let us know your thoughts in the comments.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would say that 90% of women want pockets in our clothes. And for some reason, nobody wants to give us pockets. Either top company execs want to sell handbags, or they just think they know what we want more than us... which would be typical.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is nagging after all? It's asking someone to do the same thing over and over and over again... The first time, it's just a request.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact that the term friend zone even exists just shows that some men think they're entitled sex if they show women basic human decency

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We do however need to acknowledge that men are not there to pay for our dinners, fix our broken s**t and treat us like princesses either. We all need to be equal.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is so important. The men who understand this one suffer from much less stress, once they know they don't really need to do anything, besides a hug and consolation.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The struggle is real. Because just bleeding and cramping weren't bad enough.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... and that doesn't mean "I was nice to you all week. You OWE me." - that does not make us feel secure, respected or loved. We don't OWE you for temporary niceness.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The women who don't dare go out without a ton if makeup on? They don't do it for themselves. They do it because they've been made insecure about how they look.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she's not obligated to go out with you just because you asked.

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    4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, lucky for anyone who only has periods for 3 days, I can only dream lol.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never understood the logic behind this mentality - instead of being glad to having encountered a fellow geek, you blame her (or him) of fakery? Was this ever supposed to be a competition? See, this is why you have no friends.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh, my hubby and I use the same shampoo, conditioner and body wash so this doesn’t bother me at all.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you honestly believe men fail to grasp this? A small minority of men do, butthe vast majority are well aware of this (I'm not wrong here)!

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being reliable and noticing/doing the mundane things, waaaay more sexy than ignoring it all and throwing in the occasional grand gesture.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    However, this can be abusive too. Men, you don't have to let a woman you're dating to invade your privacy and show her your texts etc! You're entitled to not show them. And if she looks at your phone without your consent, then it's a big red flag.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not falling for that one again! Now I've learned to say "Sorry honey, you know I don't know a thing about style, I think you look cute in anything, here, let me text a picture of it to your best friend, she'll let you know how it really looks".

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah yes... please... just... listen. That means literally *listen*... then... *comprehend*. Not "I hear words, and I am going to make some assumptions and fill in blanks to what *I* think the problem is and try to solve THAT. 'cuz That's me being awesome" - no... we literally mean "Listen to what *I* am saying. Do not interpret it yourself, then try to fix something that wasn't being said, then get mad because you think we weren't being straight with you... you actually... were not... listening and you don't want to admit it now.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this a dangerous thing to say. Some people choose clothes for themselves and not because they want sex. You will only truly know if someone wants sex by asking them. Clue, if they say yes, you're in

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men say the same thing..so please let us have me time to just veg

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah guys should just say if they want just sex instead of stringing a woman along and lying to them. The same goes both ways!

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know my hubby has my back and I have his too. That’s one thing that is involved in a partnership.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't watch porn. It bores me because of the bad acting and same old story line. I have my porn in my head 😎

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sounds more like a criticism of women than men. If you know something, don't pretend you don't, that's manipulative.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think this one is necessary. Just stick with size doesn’t matter. How would some women feel if a man said the breasts are a nice size but the sagginess is no good.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never understood this one. I detest myself but I absolutely love my hubby, kids, family and friends etc. So I do not agree.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh great. So 'no' is the opposite of no? STOP SAYING THINGS YOU DON'T MEAN! That is what confuses other people and keeps perpetuating the stereotype of women saying no when they mean yes. What a rotten advice this is.

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