Americans Recommend Foreign Visitors Avoid These 45 Things When They’re Traveling The Country
The United States is full of diverse cultures, histories, and landscapes, creating a rich and complex national tapestry that takes time to truly understand.
So when foreigners come to this unique place of the world, they want to take in as much as possible. However, in their quest for authentic experiences, travelers may end up in awkward and uncomfortable situations.
Interested in how they can protect themselves from this, Reddit user AlainasBoyfriend posted a question on the platform, asking the locals, "What should a foreigner avoid while visiting the United States?" Here are the most popular answers they have received.

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Leave all your stereotypes about America home, it's a hugely diverse country and your experience in one part of the US will be very different to your experience in another. Keep an open mind and have fun.
This is actually a genuine concern, not so much even that the officer might be “trigger happy“, but certain things are done differently in the states. In many countries, if you are stopped in question by a police officer, the correct thing to do is to reach for your ID and show them. This is absolutely not the correct thing to do in the states. You must keep your hands visible; if you reach for something they will assume you’re reaching for a weapon.
Load More Replies...Read the whole list and I'm surprised no one said to make sure you have good walking shoes. Something comfortable and already broke in. Save the beautiful shoes for the special occasion and dining. You definitely want a good pair of comfortable walking shoes if you're going to museums, historical tours and especially places like Disneyland. Whether you go on a light hike or to an amusement park or any tourist trap. You will want good countable shoes.
I lived in Oregon for a year and made friends with all kinds of people from very poor families to really rich ones. The vast majority are just regular citizens trying to do their best, considering the context they're in, the upbringing they had.
Why is this being down voted? As an Oregonian, I am happy you be had a great experience. Oregon is a great state that can be underrated.
Load More Replies...And even within each state there are huge differences. I love an hour away from a major city and 30 minutes from Amish country.
Load More Replies...The US is as large as Europe. Many states are larger than European countries.
There is a small percentage of law enforcement officers that shouldn't be, but with the vast majority of them, as long as you're polite and respectful you don't have anything to worry about.
Don’t be bullheaded when it comes to the weather. If the locals are worried, you should be worried.
Love the accompanying photo. America does have much more violent weather than Europe: the majority of all tornadoes in the world, plus huge numbers of hurricanes (which are completely unrelated things), hailstorms, and radical shifts of temperature like you can't believe: I remember reading about the difficulty in creating a memorial for the Alfred E Murrah bombing victims in Oklahoma, because several proposed media couldn't take the sudden drop of about more than forty degrees that can happen when ice falls from the sky in the middle of a 40-degree Celsius heat wave.
Well the hurricane thing is because we only call large cyclonic storms in the Atlantic ocean hurricanes. If they happen in the Pacific they're Typhoons and Cyclones. East Asia gets hammered every year.
Load More Replies...If SOME of the locals are worried, you should be very worried. If ALL the locals are worried go to high ground/shelter immediately.
If it's hot and you don't see a local outside, you need to get into a cool location immediately. My area sees so many tourists hospitalized or worse because they think the heat here is like the heat they get back home.
Load More Replies...If the sky turns the color of the sea...find shelter. Green sky bad.
D@mn right the green color is the baseball sized hail from a severe thunderstorm that's about to turn you into human cube steak if you don't get something solid between you and the sky
Load More Replies...If you go to the American Southwest, all those big open spaces make things look closer than they really are, so don't be misled! We always get domestic and foreign tourists who think those pretty mountains are closer than they are and don't bring enough water and sometimes people die. Even if it's cooler, this is the desert! Bring water and be safe!
Yes. Every section of the US has it's "common natural disaster" that we're used to and won't freak out about. So if even we're really concerned? You should be too. Ppl in tornado alley will sit there and watch tornados, ppl along the Atlantic (esp. Floridians) will stay home through a hurricane. Big windstorm/rainstorm? PNW ppl aren't flinching. So if we freak out, it's serious.
Not EVERY section. Can't think of any natural disaster West Virginians need to worry about. I mean, it's not like meth is a natural disaster.
Load More Replies...I remember glancing at one of those dream home shows set in the US, and they built a comfortable if small, basement-lacking wooden house. An American lady watching over my shoulder recognised the area and said 'That's tornado alley. Why would you build a wooden house without a basement there?'
I was driving on the Oklahoma Turnpike about two years ago and rain was coming down is sheets. The cars were crawling along and weather reports indicated baseball size hail and a dozen funnel clouds in the OKC area. There were two or three cars with OK plates parked under an overpass. I'm glad there was room for one more.
Do not ever park under an overpass. The reduced visibility could lead to you being plowed under by an 80000# semi-tractor. I've seen as many as a dozen cars underneath an overpass, and most didn't even have their lights on. Slow down, make sure lights are on (double check to make sure the icon on your dash is illuminated), flashers if you must, and pull over to the shoulder if you're not comfortable with driving through the downpour. Flashers ALWAYS on while on the shoulder. If there are strong indications that a tornado is headed in your direction, exit your vehicle and get to the berm on the side of the roadway, as low as possible. More info is probably available from the federal Weather Service. Or the Internet in general.
Load More Replies...Actually, be slightly more worried than locals. We know how to cope with our weather. Be it our blizzards, our tornadoes, our hurricanes, or the flash floods, the temp changes from "heat wave" to "killer cold" in an hour or less, the rainstorms that can dump 15 cm of rain in an hour in locations that aren't tropical....
You should avoid any sweeping generalizations about the USA. The US is effectively 50 separate countries. It’s an absolutely massive landmass with pretty much every type of terrain, climate and a huge variety of cultures. Anyone that tells you otherwise probably barely travels.
Honestly true. I live in the northeast where I can drive an hour to a beach, to a major city, to ski, to hike... etc. And we have few major natural disasters, have four seasons, and though it varies slightly, it is pretty evenly divided in the year. It really is a great place to live and I take for granted how much we actually have here.
northwest here: we have beaches, mountains, cold weather, warm weather, in eastern washington it’s hot and dry, we have ski resorts in some places, lots of huge cities etc. there’s a lot of diversity spread along these places and i love traveling around when i can and seeing all the different cultures and people and stories
Load More Replies...So very true. Especially with each state having its own laws. What might be legal in one state could land you in jail in another. Learn the laws of each state you plan to visit.
Agreed, very important especially if you plan on travelling from one state to another during your visit. For example, you cannot bring apples, apricots, citrus and certain nuts into California.
Load More Replies...I'd say 10 regions, b/c I've been to every one of 'em. Once you read up on the history, you realize why it's so varied ------ migration patterns from various European nations is one major effect that jumps at me right away (and the US Southwest being, effectively, just anglicized Mexico, no matter what the gringos say). There's also the effects on a region due to its climate. New England is not the Southwest is not the MidAtlantic is not the Deep South, any more than the Loire Valley is all of France or Barcelona is all of Spain.
We have tropics, deserts, and frozen winterlands great for ice skating or skiing. And yeah, every state is its own little country. For example, Utah is beautiful, like stunningly beautiful, but the state is one big cult and it would make me very uncomfortable to be there. It's the people who ruin a place. Or in this case, the cult ruins it. I really wish they'd abolish religion altogether and make people own their awful behavior.
Also driving for several hours to go somewhere is normal. If someone tells you x attraction isn't far, ask how long to get there.
Father in law wanted to go to yellowstone "for the day". Its an 8 hour drive. But its in the same state.
Load More Replies...I wouldn't say 50 different countries. It's all America but very diverse and even within states very diverse. The north west of NY bears little resemblance to NYC or Long Island. Texas has 6 totally diverse regions. The US is an amazingly diverse country but often the diversity is WITHIN individual states.
No just every state, but in some cases different parts of the state are so diverse they might as well be different countries. In Washington state the cascade mountain range is the divider between the the progressive, liberal, democrat, high-tech west with Boeing, Microsoft, Amazon, Starbucks, etc. and the benighted, conservative, agricultural east where Sheriffs and the local law refuse to enforce laws passed by democrats in the state capitol.
I've lived in the US my entire life, and have been to more than half of our states; you can stay within a single city and encounter many different kinds of cultures, let alone a single state or the country as a whole. BP loves to stereotype Americans but it seems like few of them actually understand how incredibly diverse the country is.
If it says no trespassing don't trespass.
So true. If you have hesitation, remember that statistic about how many guns there are compared to people here...
europeans in many places would be shocked...there are right-of-way paths through private land for walkers, hikers, etc in many european areas. but not, definitely NOT the US. private means private, even in national forest land.
Load More Replies...Also don't flip off other drivers, however tempted you may be. You never know who might have a gun.
I don't know why your getting down voted, this is kinda true.
Load More Replies...For God's sake don't trespass. It might be the last thing you ever do.
Even without the issue of guns, some "No Trespassing" signs are very, very good advice.
Yep. You never know when it is no trespassing due to a natural hazard or to protect a threatened species/habitat.
Load More Replies...An unfortunate number of Americans need to understand this also, and I'm not talking about the possibility you'll get shot. Too many people have no respect for other people's property.
Yup! If there's a posted sign, and you ignore it, you can legally be shot or otherwise maimed, rack up a massive hospital bill and then be thrown in jail.
There are no right to roam laws in the US. People shoot people for stepping on their lawn.
I really wish I lived somewhere with right-to-roam laws... sounds amazing.
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If you are visiting a more rural area, like Montana where I live, don't underestimate the rural-ness. You might not be able to get a hotel in a small town and there are plenty ty of places where there aren't any hotels or accommodations. You can take highway and run out of gas because there aren't any gas stations for 70 miles. Also, if it is a dirt road, and there are a lot of them in the rural U.S., don't ever assume that you will have cell/GPS reception or that the dirt road goes anywhere besides 50 miles into the mountains where you can get stuck or break down. It's hard to conceptualize for people who live in more populated areas. Your best bet is to plan ahead and read reviews. It is absolutely worth it to visit areas where there is wilderness. That is why I live here. That being said, it's dangerous in a different way than visiting a city.
Canada is pretty much the same, too, in the rural areas. I do want to add, even in the USA, in the northern states, the winters can be just as brutal. If you're travelling during winter make sure you have an emergency kit in your car with water, cans of food with can opener, flashlight, flares, reflective pylons, reflective vest, warm blankets and pillow, first aid supplies, a swiss army knife, spare tire, some basic car tools, jumper cables, fire extinguisher, cellphone charger, a shovel, and for the love of all that's good and prosperous, DO NOT DRIVE OVER THE SPEED LIMIT DURING WINTER, ESPECIALLY. There is such thing as black ice. The reason it's called black ice is because you won't see it. You'll see the road surface through the ice, as there's no impurities. But it's there and it's more slippery than regular ice. Do not drive out in a blizzard, either.
Don’t forget the EMERGENCY CHOCOLATE BARS for winter driving. Though strangely they need to be restocked very often. (Inside joke amongst my gfs, we bought big Cadbury bars on sale at K-mart the first winter we were driving w/o parents, “for emergencies”. Gobbled up. We still joke about it 50 years later. Old friends, the best.)
Load More Replies...Because we have signs like this IMG_1039-6...ba784e.jpg
And can close a gate to keep you off the highway IMG_1038-6...052882.jpg
I live in Montana and forget how sparse cell phone service can be outside of cities. Sometimes people don't believe me when I tell them I couldn't make a call because I was camping or even just driving between cities. I do love being on a highway and barely seeing any other vehicles for miles. Especially since traffic sucks where I live.
GPS should always work since it's satellite based, not dependent on cell towers. But yes, one should always be prepare for cross country trips
If your national parks are like our Aussie ones though, you can still get lost, because the 'roads' get closed/changed often and the GPS doesn't update them.
Load More Replies...Heck, where I live, and it’s not as ‘rural’ as other parts of the country… even a paved road is no guarantee of your cellphone having service.
The same thing goes for hiking. Just because there is a trail doesn't mean it goes somewhere. In the Black Forest in Germany, for example, you can just follow a trail, and sooner or later you'll be on a road or in a town. In the US, the distances are so great that you might hike for days or even weeks without finding your way out of the forest/prairie/national park.
You can't run out of GPS reception unless you're in an enclosed space. GPS is a signal from satellites interpreted by software and it doesn't rely on GSM signal. If your gps application requires internet to work and want to be sure have it, change the app that enables to download map offline. Google Maps does allow that.
I got caught on too little of a tank leaving Utah up into Colorado on the I-70. 107 mile stretch with no gas stations. Luckily I had four gallons of fuel in cans in the back that got me far enough to refuel.
I live in Oregon. In 2012, my oldest nephew, who was staying with me, decided to move back to Montana, to stay with his brother while finding work there. (He lived in Pablo, which is on the Flathead-Salish reservation.) It took about 10 hours to get there, with meal breaks. After dropping off my nephew, I wanted to find a place to stay overnight. We had planned to take in a movie the next day before I headed back. (Batman -- yeah, this was the same day as the shooting in Aurora, Colorado) I was in Polson. It was ... the third day of not just the annual Pow-wow (Salish and Kootenai annual get-together, with lots of cultural exchange etc.) but also the peak of summer. NOBODY had rooms. I drove the entire distance from Polson to Missoula before I found a place that had an open room. Note also, in Montana, driving 60 miles for a meal or to shop or to see a first run movie? Not A Big Deal.
If you get pulled over DO NOT GET OUT OF THE CAR. Do not take your seatbelt off, keep your hands visible, move slowly, be polite. Especially if you're darker skinned in any way.
Apparently there's a highway going from Ontario to Florida. Along a stretch in North Carolina there are US police pulling over Canadians and giving them excessively high tickets for bogus reasons and make the driver go to court to dispute but end up paying in the end. There's a theory that the police are scamming foreign travellers to get more money.
And traffic court here in NC is scary. The police have to show up at court in case the offender disputes the charge. The police all are skin heads and it looks like a Gestapo inquisition.
Load More Replies...If at night and you’re pulled over by a vehicle with flashing lights, put on the hazard blinkers, pull over to the right side of the road and into the nearest gas station with bright lights. NEVER trust that a car you can’t see because of darkness is a police vehicle just because it has flashing lights.
Yeah definitely don’t get out of the car. Got pulled over once and the cop was taking a long time ( like a half hour) to do anything, so I got out and walked towards the cop car. He jumps off of the police car, points his gun at me and screams for me to get back in my car. I understand they get attacked a lot but that was overkill.
They didn't know what you were doing or what you had on you. Officer safety is drilled into them super hard.
Load More Replies...Also: do NOT offer any information that is not specifically asked. Answer yes or no. Period.
When we lived in the USA as expats, I was pulled over because I didn't completely stop before turning right on a deserted priority road. When the officer saw my Dutch drivers license, he shaked his head and said 'Oh no. That's way to much work!' 😁
I am suprised they accepted it. They wouldnt accept my exs French license because it didnt have a picture.
Load More Replies...If the police want you to get out of your car, they will tell you that clearly and unmistakably.
Basically treat the cops like a t-rex has locked on to you. No sudden movements and do whatever it says. They will end you for the lolz.
Not for the lol. They really only end it if they feel threatened, and they always try to keep civilians safe first, and try to keep it nonlethal. That is why they have tasers, pepper spray, tear gas, batons, 40mm (big ouchie round), rubber rounds, beanbag rounds, and flashbangs.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately, this is too common and horrible. That I live in “the land of the free” *only if you’re white. It’s disgusting!
Putting race aside for a moment why do Americans of any race put up with this sort thing? I've travelled a bit in my life and the police are mostly not like this in developed countries. I was surprised that the Black Lives Matter moment did not morph into a more general moment for better policing, a legitimate "All Lives Matter" if you will.
Could have. But “all lives matter” was basically the MAGA response to “Black Lives Matter” because many non-blacks were sad the issue wasn’t about them. So “All lives matter” basically means “Black lives don’t matter” and the racists are in full swing saying anyone dark skinned who gets attacked deserved it because 13% commit like 90% of crimes or some similar BS. Welcome to freedomland
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If you go to the national parks, don’t attempt to take selfies with the wildlife. A full grown bison will throw you through the air like a crumpled piece of paper.
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I want to really emphasize this. There are US Park Rangers who are full-time employees of the National Park Service. Their job is to protect the park, the wildlife, and visitors. Take the posted signs seriously and listen and do what rangers advise.
Yearly, a dozen or so people die in the Grand Canyon National Park, often tourists who go hiking without enough water or food and are not aware of how treacherous the terrain and weather can be. Same for Big Bend NP in Texas.
Warning appreciated, but not necessary. I'm from Australia. We have birds that can kick you to death.
Do take selfies with wildlife in Australia. All wildlife from bin chickens to quokkas. Some Australian wildlife will get miffed if you don't take a selfie with it. Not the same as America. American wildlife really will turn on you and attack you. Warning really is necessary.
Load More Replies...I thought not messing with any wildlife was common sense, but then again...
Parks are not petting zoos. They are not safaris. They are just protected nature grounds so wildlife can live and prosper without risk of losing their homes and lives to man. The wildlife have more of a right and freedom to live there than we do to visit. We are the guests in their homes. Get it? Got it? Good!
Arizona here, it’s a desert. Don’t go hiking in the beautiful mountains here in the summer. You will die.
And to add, just please please believe us that there's no gold in the Superstition Mountains. Honestly !
Load More Replies...I genuinely believed that tourist walking up to wildlife at Yellowstone was far and few between and only something you read about online.... Until I watched a woman walking up to a bison. Yep it really happens. Even though there are signs everywhere saying don't do this.
In the Tetons I watched a busload of Asian tourists unload and they all ran up to a moose cow with twin calves. Luckily no one was hurt and I can laugh about it now because the chaos was glorious to behold.
It doesn't even have to be a national park, just anywhere where there's dangerous wildlife. I live in bear country in NJ and had a hiker come up by us who thought it would be a good idea to take a selfie with one. Last pic he ever took was of the bear charging him. Respect wildlife no matter where you are.
This also applies to Canada. Assume the wildlife is all dangerous. Bears, moose, elk, bison - all of them can kill you. Even deer are dangerous if it’s a mother with fawns. And for the love of everything, do not stop open the middle of the highway in the mountain parks. Those roads are windy with limited visibility. Someone will hit you.
Don't go to the big chain type places. Go to the mom and pop little restaurants and coffee shops and specialty shops. You will usually find new cool things you enjoy.
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To add to this: FOOD TRUCKS!!!
Why shouldn´t I visit the chains? Taco Bell, Panda Express, Chick-fil-a, Wendys, Chipotle, Wafflehouse, Cheesecake factory, none of these exist in my country, so of course I will visit them if I ever get a chance to visit the US.
To each there own. I have eaten at all of the ones you listed, Rene. Mediocre to good food usually. The best meals are to be had a small, local mom-and-pop restaurants though. Food trucks have really gotten better too!
Load More Replies...When I went to visit a friend of mine in New Orleans, I was told "We're going for breakfast at 6am" and I'm like "WHUT??" They took me to a little diner in New Orleans (Mother's? I think? Was a good 30 years ago) and told me to have the "Blackened Ham". So I did. Oh. My. God. Apparently if you arrived after 6:30 there wasn't any left. We went back there again for lunch and I had the best fried chicken I've ever tasted. As we sat there (sawdust on the floor and whatnot) my friend went "Watch" when some tourists arrived at the door, took one look inside, and left. "We call that the tourist two-step" he said. "One step in, then one step back out." Boy, did they miss some awesome food!
I disagree about food trucks. For those not familiar, a food truck is a truck with a window on the side and a kitchen inside that acts like a mobile restaurant. Like all restaurants, they vary in how good they are. I'm my area (South Florida) they are more expensive than sit down restaurants of higher quality, and you don't get a table, chair, air conditioning, etc. I don't get why people like them. The city will arrange food truck nights at parks, but I could get a better meal for less elsewhere. And they are so bad for the environment, most of them run propane grills and a generator for power, and you have to drive them there, and there's a lot of maintenance.
It really depends on where in the country you are Los Angeles has some amazing taco trucks that are reasonably priced and then they have some insane trucks that have stupid things like cupcakes for nine dollars
Load More Replies...Pretty sure the quality of the food is not Ruth’s point here. IYKYK
Kind of disagree. Most foreigners don't have these chains in their countries, and if they do, theirs is usually quite different or inferior from the original. I've personally known foreign visitors who have been blown away by their trip to chains here. Lastly, let's be much more honest about mom and pop restaurants in the U.S.: maybe 25% of them at most are worth it, 25% have terrible low-quality food worse than you could make yourself, 25% are extremely overpriced, and 25% are dirty and disgusting. Edit: And to add, if it's a non-chain restaurant in a touristy area in the U.S., those restaurants don't expect you to make a second visit anyway.
uhhhh thats everyones own choice isnt it. You cant blame foreigners being interested in things called International House Of Pancakes :-D
You don't understand, NOT like Australia. In Australia the chain restaurants are OK, not great but OK. I made the mistake of visiting an American chain restaurant in New York. Never again, the food was really vile. And just around the corner a mom and pop place had delicious food at about the same price. For an Australian visiting a New York chain restaurant, imagine the food like this: limp salad starting a bacterial infection, meat with a flavour somewhere between sawdust and cardboard. It's not the restaurant's fault so much as the zero funds they're required to make food with.
Load More Replies...This isn't true where I used to live. The neighborhood little restaurants were rat infested and dirty. You couldn't have paid me to eat in them. I had a little coffee shop next door to my house and we pointed out a dairy item that had expired about a month before. She thanked us and put it back where it was. Just really gross.
ohhhh, yes to this. go to an equal measure of greasy spoons, holes-in-walls ethnic restaurants, and foodie-culture millennial haunts...you will be rewarded with an excellent cross-section of our culture.
What do you mean by "ethnic" restaurants? No, don't tell me. Anything not western european based?
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Avoid a hospital visit. Whatever you think it costs, it’s more.
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Medical travel insurance that goes into the 7 digits. Someone from my country had the misfortune of having a stroke in the USA. 150k+ in expenses. When I went there it was my number 1 concern: getting insurance.
I was in USA on work trip when I found out I was pregnant. Didn't even think about going to hospital there, just waited 2 more weeks to go back home.
Good call. Delivering your baby in the USA would have cost you between $10-30k. Part of that is an insulting "skin-to-skin" fee that they charge you to hold your baby after they're born; I'm not joking.
Load More Replies...How can a first world country allow someone to go into bankruptcy cos they commit the sin of getting cancer. Or having a bad car accident? Here in Oz, my biggest concern would be getting better without scaring the c**p out of my loved ones. Not losing my house.
People in the USA are good at voting against their interests. You know Obamacare? While it falls short in many ways, at least it was an attempt to improve the healthcare system and it benefited me because I was able to stay on my mom's insurance for longer (age 26) and then buy insurance from the marketplace until I got work insurance. It's not that great, but it was better than nothing. Unfortunately, people believed that Obamacare was communism and Republicans created and promoted the myth that the effort to bring healthcare to more people would result in the creation of "death panels" that would execute old people and disabled people. Sarah Palin (2008 Republican candidate for Vice President) has a son with Down Syndrome, and you better believe that she exploited that to scream about death panels wanting to kill her son. Keep in mind that improving the healthcare system was on the McCain/Palin campaign agenda too.
Load More Replies...This is why I would die there, I'm poor and I have chronic health problems
No matter where you're going, travelling without insurance is never a good idea!
That 150k was probably just the first bill. The hospital, doctors, radiology, etc all charge at a different rate and time
This one should be pinned at the top. Do NOT seek medical care if you can avoid it. They'll take everything you own and bankrupt you into oblivion. I escaped a house fire one time and was dazed and soot covered after jumping out a 2nd story window and badly spraining my ankle. When I came to, they had me on a stretcher about to load me in an ambulance. I flipped out and limp/hopped off and away from it. That ride and visit would have cost me about 30k, at least. Worst night of my life and I gotta worry about that sh*t. It's ridiculous.
This is a sad indicator that your health system is fatally flawed. Why should mega-companies be making a profit out of other people's misfortune, illness or accident. It has to be state-subsidised to be a fair system. You want to see a better system, look here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uB29PPTxV6Y
Load More Replies...This MUST depend on insurance right? My husbands work colleague worked for a company in US (but owned by people from our country) and his wife got a c-section at nearly no cost. 🤔
It is. I’ve had multiple major surgeries and birthed 2 kids. Only cost was a deductible of a couple hundred.
Load More Replies...I guess that's a downside to socialized medicine? There's no out of country coverage? I never really thought about it, but it makes some sense.
considering i am in canada 99.5% of the time "yah know eh". at least people don't go bankrupt.
Load More Replies...Anyone wearing a MAGA hat.
Another good sign is an over abundant display of the American flag (in one or all of the currently cool "patriotic" graphic/color schemes) or displaying the confederate flag.
Load More Replies...the propaganda and political delivery of "MAGA" is almost identical to national socialist workers party of 1930's Germany.... seriously,watch and history docs of the rise of Herr Adolf and it's like watching history repeating itself
Oh hell yes. I lived in Seattle, Washington State for 30 years, moved 3 hours away toward the coast (Aberdeen) and the MAGA s**t is real here. As is the ignorance/gun culture/racism. So please be aware that different areas of a State in the U.S. can be so very opposite.
I find it rather amusing that racist, xenophobic, misogynists are so proud to identify their shortcomings with a stupid hat. There's a reason we call them MAGAts.
dont go walking around late at night by yourself ESPECIALLY if youre a woman. I have friends from korea which is a country where its safe to go walk around at 1 am. When they visit here i always have to tell them that its not like that here and a big risk to be out alone especially in cities like LA.
Very true. In my experience, if a neighborhood is safe from people and crime, it is usually extremely un-safe due to wildlife.
Load More Replies...Welcome to the United States, here is your complimentary taser and pepper spray.
If you have to please bring something to protect yourself. I know a lot of people have mixed feelings about that. But chances are if your alone walking there gonna be someone that has something and will use something to hurt you. And you are worth trying to stay alive. You are not a bad person if your trying to protect your self against someone that is trying to hurt or injure or even kill you. American is full of lot of different people but also full of a lot of bad people to.
I've not been to South Korea, but I watched a news report that said the exact opposite of this. Apparently a lot of women get sexual assaulted, while people just look the other way, the attitude seems to be that if she's drunk then that's her fault.
Yeah, I was going to comment on this. I thought the #metoo movement was huge there just for this reason
Load More Replies...Just don't go to cities. You can certainly go out after dark where I am at.
I was in South Korea for 3 years and this comment gets my so frustrated. Absolutely not are you safe to walk out at night in South Korea! If you are a woman there is a very dark subculture there where Sexual Assaults do not get reported and when they do the police and media find ways to brand it as the woman's fault. Now let's talk about the police, if you are out at night they will just randomly stop you, interrogate you, and harass you for being out. Imagine wanting to just take a walk late at night bc you can't sleep, you aren't messing with anyone and there is no no one the street and boom cops stop and just start barking at you to show some identification. I watched this happen to citizens and not foreigners from my balcony a couple nights so I asked my coworkers and they said that is very typical.
Depends on where you live. Places with low population and rural, such as small towns, are often safer to be. Usually.
Always ask the locals where they like to eat. They know better than any travel blog.
Yes and no. When I moved to a coastal area surrounded by rural small farm towns, I asked my SIL, who was born and raised here, what the best seafood restaurant is. She said there’s a Red Lobster in town that’s good. Cripes. So be cautious when asking locals where to eat. Some of them have no taste.
Load More Replies...Unless they tell you like Applebee's or Chili's (chain restaurants) then don't listen to them
I spent 23 years in the Air Force, mostly overseas in other countries, and always looked where the locals were eating to find good food, and avoided the tourist spots. I do the same here in America.
When we moved to Oregon I asked the Hispanic clerk at the grocery store where to get the best tacos. She recommended a hole in the wall within walking distance of our new house. Best. Tacos. Ever.
I don't know. If you ask the locals that, they're likely to say Olive Garden or Red Lobster
As a local who despises mcdonalds. no. please. no... if u asked my brother tho he'd give u a different answer
Load More Replies...I feel like this answer changes depending on where you are coming from. Certain parts of the country REALLY dislike certain nationalities. There's no way coming here as a german/swede or European is the same experience as middle eastern/African/Asian.
It's not weird. This is true of everywhere. Doesn't matter where in europe you are, they all loathe gypsies, and it's not because of the ethnicity, but because of how they behave and who they are as people. The Japanese's, look down on absolutely everyone who isn't japenese, and for that matter, asian have a hierarchy of other asians. Stop pretending that the US is the only place on the planet in which the people are distrustful of other nationalities. It's the rule, not the exception.
Load More Replies..." There's no way coming here as a german/swede or European" ? So germans and swedes are NOT EUROPEANS ?? emoji-6519...fb77f6.png
Oh don't split hairs! The commenter was just citing an example. I think you overreacted.
Load More Replies...And there are many places where it is dangerous to go if you are visibly white. It actually goes both ways.
The opposite can be true, too -- I (Aussie) have an uncle who moved to Texas and apparently people are forever fussing over his accent and how "cute" it is
Luckily, I'm not planning to leave the European landmass for the west anyway. I get a visit from a couple of Swedish lesbians with whom I am very close friends with and therefore I will be strongly involved in some things in my very near future...🤭
When visiting the U.S., it's best to avoid discussing sensitive topics like politics and religion with strangers, even if they bring it up. Also, be mindful of local customs and etiquette, as they can vary widely. And of course, don't forget to tip in restaurants—it's a common practice here. Enjoy your time in the States!
True. I think it's important to stress that it's not really seen as optional here
Load More Replies...Conversely, when I visited London, various people, from cabbies to hotel clerks, asked me my views on the upcoming US election and discussed them with interest. They were also more knowledgeable about US politics than most Americans. It was a nice experience.
I met an Icelandic teacher in Iceland on tinder and we mostly talked about how bad Trump is.
Load More Replies...TBH, there are three topics of conversation that are always best to avoid, anytime, anywhere: religion, sex, and politics. I (born 1960) learned that 50 years ago from my mother (born 1920), who learned it from her own mother (born 1888).
Perhaps not discussing these topics is why there is so much ignorance and hatred around them.
Load More Replies...I'm a boomer and proud to have lasted this long. I was taught it's impolite to casually discuss politics and religion with anyone. None of your business really. Downvote me all you wish
Politics and religion (and sports teams) are always dangerous topics no matter where you go in the world.
Was chased through the back streets of Madrid for innocuously wearing a shirt too close to rival soccer team colors...
Load More Replies...Yes best thing is not not speak or just nod. Because people get into so many arguments about this stuff people here sometimes take it away to personal.
That's the reason I won't go in the us until this issue is fixed. I don't won't to be an accomplice to this.
I don't think it'll be "fixed" for generations
Load More Replies...Except the advice about tipping, I think the rest is just common sense. Do not discuss sensitive topics, mainly because you are a foreigner and probably don't know the whole story. Of course, respect local customs and etiquette. Do people really need to be told this? (It's a rethorical question. People do need to be told the obvious)
I was in a bar in Russia once and the bartender told me he wanted to visit the US and to go to Alabama because of the song sweet home Alabama. Literally the only time anyone has said they want to go to Alabama to me, don't go to Alabama foreigner.
Alabama has some gorgeous underrated beaches actually. It's a pretty state with a decent cost of living compared to many other states.
Who downvoted this? Alabama does have a strip of beaches in the gulf
Load More Replies...Alabama is where the Top Gear crew almost got killed. They painted slogans like "Hillary for president" and "Man love rules" on each others cars and didn't realize that the locals would take them seriously.
These comments are a little general; I really like Huntsville. Much of the state still is very rural though
I had a good time in Huntsville, and met some cool people.
Load More Replies...why not?...there are nice beaches....they have some beautiful parks...i am guessing OP has never been to alabama
There's plenty of better states to go to with parks and beaches
Load More Replies...I have relatives I’ve never met in Alabama, so would love to visit them.
Honestly I'm in AL and I don't think necessarily skip but I would say just go to Georgia. They have the coke museum and the aquarium, I've been to both 10/10
Go to Georgia, stay in Atlanta. It's nice there.
Load More Replies...It’s not uncommon for perfect strangers to greet you, unlike most of the world where people tend to keep to themselves. If someone says “How are you doing?” it’s not really a question, just a greeting.
In the south, you might be called 'Darlin,' "Babe,' or any number of other terms of endearment, and almost nobody's trying to sex you up that way. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, you still get these terms said to you. They see it as just being kind in the moment. It doesn't mean they want to be BFFs or romantic with you.
You are right about the terms of endearment. One of my favorite customers calls me "sweetheart or sweetie".
Load More Replies..."Hey, how are you?" and "have a good one". That's hello and good-bye.
I'm from the South - Louisiana, to be exact. We are very friendly. I can't tell you how many times I've met a stranger in the line at the grocery store who, 2 months later, turned into my best friend. We are very friendly in the south, and someone's race doesn't change that. I enjoy being kind to all people, even those I do not know.
Perfectly normal in Northern England. In fact it would be weird to ignore people here.
I work in Walmart and that's just part of my greeting the customer. If I get a vibe that they don't want to talk, I will shut up. Most people will say something back though.
This took me a while to get used to! I used to think I had forgotten people, since they would say it in such a familiar tone.
Yes, you may be friendly in a superficial way. It's considered polite pretty much everywhere... maybe not so much in NYC so I've heard
Taking weed across state lines. It’s not legal everywhere.
Here's one for US tourists: don't try to take a gun to Canada. Second Amendment stops at the border.
I recall seeing one of those International Border Security shows and this American guy was trying to argue with them (never a good idea) saying he was en route to Alaska so he had the RIGHT to take his guns across Canada.
Load More Replies...Marijuana is still illegal federally. America is in a weird place with federal vs. state marijuana laws right now.
Load More Replies...Steven Wright: I was stopped at the border and the guard said "Do you have any knives or guns?" I said "What do you need?"
On interstate highways the state patrol might also be deputized a federal officer. If so, you've now committed a federal offense by having marijuana. That's federal prison time, folks. Americans be aware!!
You will be stopped at the border in Texas and a drug dog will sniff your car/you. Texas would like to go back to the 50s (1850s) and they try to act like it.
Technically, It's illegal EVERYWHERE. It's just that so many states have passed laws "decriminalizing" it that the federal government also declines to prosecute.
Wrong on decriminalization. Its fully legal in some states. You don't allow stores for decriminalization. That means its still illegal but only with a fine, they can't put you in jail. This only applies to a few places.
Load More Replies...Honestly, most of the bad areas will be intuitively bad to any human being with basic decency and common sense. That said, I would avoid Texas.
I lived in West Texas for five years on the border of Mexico and New Mexico. Best Mexican food and BBQ and scenery. Everyone knows that Texas is huge. It's a six hour drive to Dallas and a whole different world. Same for Huston. When people say an area is too far to go to to shop, they ain't been to Texas. It's current governor is not suitable to lead.
That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard! Texas is named after Tajas the caddo Spanish word for friend or ally. They are literally very friendly people. That post is literally spreading bigotry they claim to oppose
I live in Texas and love the people, not the guv’ment.
Load More Replies...Was gonna say, if you do go to Texas, visit Austin! Oasis of sane/hip/fun.
Load More Replies...It was once written - Texas, the lone star state, which is its yelp review.
I have, for years, been calling it One Star, to my friends still in California. I think I heard it from an old, low budget black and white film from the early 70's.
Load More Replies...I dunno I moved to Texas a few years ago for work. I've lived all over the US. I'm brown if it matters and have truly never met a larger concentration of really kind and helpful people. I was truly worried about moving here because of the stereotypes but people are much, much nicer here and a lot more welcoming than a lot of the states I've lived in. Just my opinion
*don't forget to add rural Florida and North Florida to that list. Trust me on this one.
My first down vote. Generalizing like this foments strife. I've heard great things about Texas. Vastly out weighing the negatives.
America is HUGE and things are a lot further apart than Europeans realize.
UnspecificGravity:
The flight from London to New York is only about an hour longer than the flight from New York to Seattle.
Geographically, the US and Canada are alike in one way. In both countries the majority of the population lives further south than Seattle.
Load More Replies...The way my UK pals tell it is you can always spot the American exchange students because they don't think anything of a two hour+ road trip for an outing and wonder why the locals complain about how far it is
It still boggles my mind that we have MULTIPLE. ENTIRE. STATES. in the USA that are bigger than the entire country of England. Absolutely mindblowing.
It takes 6 hours to drive from south California to Central California (LA to SF)
It takes 6 hours to drive from the tip of Northern IL to the southern tip. I know the coast drive of CA is a lot longer, I was just using an example closer to me
It takes about 13 hours to drive from Key West, FL to Pensacola, FL.
Load More Replies...It's about 2700 miles from Naples, Italy to Skårsvag, Norway. 48h nonstop drive. Same for Lisboa, Portugal to Athens, Greece.
Gustav Gallifrey is correct. In terms of distance, the word is farther.
Depending on how many hours a day you drive, it takes approximately 4 to 8 days to drive from Southern California to mid East Coas (North Carolina) That's only if you do not stop to visit any places in between for longer than an hour or two.
True thing that needs repeating--- Americans think 100 years is a long time, Europeans think 100 miles is a LONG way.
Don't smoke in public buildings, this is illegal. Don't smoke in someone's house, apartment, or condo without asking for permission. This isn't illegal, but it's still extremely rude.
Really BP censors. That's actually someones shortname. Regards, William
Load More Replies...same in UK...as for people's homes... even in a smokers home still ask (but only needs to be asked once,as permission is presumed on subsequent visits, especially a friend's home.....just don't ask at all in a non smokers home, though they may be ok with it outside)....if a non smoker enters a smokers home then unlucky non smoker,my home my rules,if you don't like it you know where the door is.....and never smoke around babies and young children,just don't even ask ... that's my social etiquette for what it's worth
That's sad you got downvoted, i upvoted because i agree i dont need second hand from some inconsiderate person. Go ahead and downvote me for this but its the Truth
Load More Replies...Most apartments and condos have no smoking policies because the smoke will disturb the other residents. Or at least they do in Arizona. I went to Wyoming for the solar eclipse, and I was surprised to discover that smoking hotel rooms still existed. (But I had to book it because it was the only room left. The owner was nice and aired out the room as much as possible and gave me air freshener and some to-go muffins and OJ since I had to leave early.) Some apartments don't allow smoking anywhere at all on their property.
Also, don't just light up and stand in the doorway. You should be 30 feet from the doorway.
"Don't smoke in public buildings, this is illegal. Don't smoke in someone's house, apartment, or condo without asking for permission. " Well, that is not specifically an american thing. It is just a thing....
Ordering a large at a restaurant, or *especially* a movie theater. I don't care how hungry you think you are, you will not eat/drink it all in one sitting.
Also, if you can't eat everything in a restaurant, go ahead and ask for a box and take it back to your hotel to eat later. This is considered perfectly normal and is expected in the US.
And try not to forget your to-go box on the table. I do that ALL THE TIME!
Load More Replies...You could half the portions and put the proceeds into the waiting staffs wages and no longer need to tip. Happier workforce, healthier population.
Some restaurants I hear charge you double for sharing one plate with someone.
There may be an added fee, but it's not double. It's usually just in the fancy restaurants that may charge for splitting.
Load More Replies...I love to go for breakfast or lunch the next day or late night snack when hungry at hotel
Heavily depends on where you are going....but don't assume the price you see is the price you pay. Sales tax isn't included on most price listings and Tip is expected for food service.
Yup. So Dane county, WI where I live is 5.5% sales tax. Cook County in IL (where Chicago is) has a 12.5% tax
Yeah - and if you're purchasing something in bottles or cans (beer, soda, etc.) there's an EXTRA tax to encourage recycling. In San Diego you pay $4.99 for a 12 pack of Diet Coke. Then there's the sales tax 8.9% and THEN there's the CRV (recycling) tax of .05 per can. So - that $4.99 12 pack actually costs $6.03
Not everywhere. My home state, Wisconsin, doesn't have the extra tax but we can hop over to Iowa or Michigan to still get money from them.
Load More Replies...There's a city named Bristol that's famous for being the "birthplace of Country music." One side of main street is in Tennessee, and the other side is in Virginia. So one side of the street has 9.5% sales tax, and the other side has 3%.
When I lived in IL, they didn't charge tax on food from the grocery (only already prepared/restaurant food). I live in AZ now & they do. 50 states all with their own laws does not a consistent country make.
Even in my city, taxes vary widely depending on the area. In one area there's a 3% tax. In another its 7.5%. In another 9.5%. And it changes every year.
Not displaying the full price is the most (well, top five) r******d thing in the US.
DO NOT TRY TO BRIBE COPS. As f****d up as American cops are bribery does not fly. Unless you're wealthy or powerful.
Do not bribe them with money. Flash them some skin, a smile, religion, beg for pity, stroke the ego, all of it will get you further than cash. Think power tripping ego manics that if they want cash they will just take it. There few good cops will understand.
Lets all remember that the idiots are the ones who make the news... come to a small(er) town with a tighter community, but big enough that not everyone knows everyone, and you'll find the best cops you can imagine.
Media have perpetuated the stereotype that small-town cops will suggest a "contribution". Don't expect it, and don't ask about it. If you're in the now-rare circumstance that such would be appropriate, the cop will not be subtle about it.
I was the driver in a car with my best friend, both of us are women. I may or may not have been speeding, but I most definitely did not have a seatbelt on. Bad me, seriously. I had just been told this trick to do. I was talking to the officer about why I wasn’t wearing the seatbelt. ‘Officer, it cuts into my bosom! ( I have large breasts) I’ve ordered a belt length but it hasn’t arrived yet. Please don’t ticket me? ‘’. I got off no ticket. He was nice. Same deal the next weekend happened to my bestie. She’s known for being a bit dippy. She’s already going through the spiel, “ officer I’m so sorry. The belt, my bosoms, yardage yadda yadda.’’ And she looks up to see it’s a lady officer. My friend continues, ‘’’ and of course you don’t care a bit for that, it me, I didn’t have a chance no excuse, I’m wearing it now, so sorry ma’am.’’she got a $250.00 fine.
American cops are good. Far better than most of the police I've enountered around the world. It is by and large a generational bigotry, this hatred of cops. Our young people, most especially those in university are very poorly educated, provincial, and awash in loathing for their nation. Generally, avoid them. They inhabit a self-hatred, especially the white ones
Cops are sight predators, and a hundred dollar bill looks like blood to them.
And people who choose to visit the USA are known for practicing bribery?
I find a lot of foreigners have about 2 1/2 inches of a personal space bubble, while us Americans value our space. Keep at least a 2-3 feet distance when conversing with strangers. I've had an Italian guy come so close I thought he was going to kiss me. Very uncomfortable for someone who isn't used to a lack of personal space.
Heh, I was just going to comment that 2-3 feet sounds awful close and personal to a Finn! :D
Load More Replies...2 to 3 feet, that's within punching distance, 6 to 8 feet is much more acceptable.
About 0.0056 to 0.0083 of an American football field. I don't know about washing machines. I hope this helps.
Load More Replies...People in US are fine with 3 feet personal space? What are they - sardines?
No, we're not. I prefer to be in another room.
Load More Replies...You know what's funny? This just happened to me for the first time about 30 minutes ago. I met a guy from Holland and he was so close and there was an acre; I didn't realize it was a cultural thing. Interesting timing!
Im from Holland (also from the Netherlands) and this is NOT typical Dutch.
Load More Replies...Yep, a lot of cultures have different ideas about the minimum space between people speaking to each other.
I'm from Boston - a very prim and proper society even in today's world. I was totally shocked during a visit to Peru with my husband to meet his family - all the hugging and kissing upon meeting someone for the first time was just something I couldn't deal with. OMG! Total culture clash and extremely uncomfortable.
Driving from New York to LA.
MedicinalTequila:
We had an exchange student from France staying with us (NY). one day, we saw her with a map of the US, said she was going to take a bus to California because she had heard so much about it on television.
We had to sit down and explain it was going to take a week, each way.
MarbleousMel:
"Lol I have some German friends who flew into Texas and wanted to make a day trip to Los Angeles during the week they were in the US. After that first trip, they planned much better and now visit the country by regions and give themselves more time."
Texas is 800 miles north to south at the furthest point, and 773 east to west at the widest point. Which is about a 12 hour drive, and i know because i've done it. Cleveland to Manhattan is about 450mile , a drive my family and i would make several times a year when i was young, and it took between 5 and 6 hours depending on whether or not there was snow on the ground. But you can actually plug in driving directions on this here interwebs machine to see how long things actually take. Manhattan to San Francisco? 2900 miles, 42 hours driving time.
Load More Replies...On the other hand, if a Road Trip is your goal, then it can be great. I did the Route 66 more than once. Including the extra way from/to NY. Took my time (about four weeks). A great adventure. Saw amazing and so diverse landscapes, had great culinary experiences and met the most wonderful people along the way. A great thing to do if you like driving and got some time on your hands. Loved it (except for one pretty scary night at a Motel 6 somewhere in Michigan).
I'd love to do that! Minus the scary motel : )
Load More Replies...There is NOTHING fun about taking a bus cross country. Especially if you go through Texas or California length wise.Its actually kinda gross. Oh the things you'll see on a Greyhound bus and im not talking about the scenery either.
ive done a few Greyhound bustrips. They were similar to my European bustrips. But yeah you need a certain type of mindset for it.
Load More Replies...And yet... I've had Americans ask if they could get from Vancouver to Toronto in a day...
When I was younger, I hitchhiked from Seattle to San Francisco in about a week. Do not try that these days. Things were different two decades ago.
My dad would always tell the story about the time he was in the army after coming home from Vietnam he hitched from Shreveport to Memphis to Minneapolis
Load More Replies...And when driving, you miss a lot of scenery because you are focusing on the traffic. If you want to see America, take a bus or train trip across it.
i dont think taking a bus coast to coast will be more fun than driving :-D
Load More Replies...If you are driving yourself keep in mind traffic laws change in every state (little things like right turn yield on red)and both the police and other drivers act very differently. Don't assume because you were able to merge in CA that you can merge in TX without being driven off the road.
A friend from Los Angeles was driving to Georgetown, Texas for University. Got to El Paso and stopped for dinner. She and her Mom were talking about how they were almost there and they could make it that night. The waitress and manager thankfully explained to them that they had an 8-hour drive ahead and a good deal of through a sparsely populated section of the state with little traffic, especially at night. (This was in the 80s so no Google Maps to give you time). In the 1990s I was living in San Angelo, Texas. My boss was new to the area and decided to explore. He looked at a map and decided to drive to Eden. He figured it was a 15-minute drive. He said he felt like he was in a Twilight Zone episode driving through the same landscape on repeat. The town is 45 minutes away. Still when we went as a group to Abilene to visit another museum, he and his admin were very confused when all the Texans packed coolers with food and water. It was August in West Texas
It takes just over 2 days to drive from San Diego, CA to Portage Lake, ME (nearly the most north east part of the country).
Don't interact with police unless you absolutely need to.
Even without racism American cops are the worst. My godmother's son had to travel a lot in the US for business. He got pulled over in the small hours of the morning in the middle of nowhere for running a stop sign. Even though he cooperated fully with the small-town cop, he found that every time he had a flight into or out of a US airport he was given the full TSA strip-search experience. This went on for years until a TSA officer told him that his name had been put on a high-risk list and told him what resources he had to get it removed. One petty small-town cop with a grudge left him getting groped and humiliated every time he travelled for years. Nothing to do with racism, just poorly-trained, petty, unpleasant little men throwing their tiny fragment of power around inappropriately.
Load More Replies...This is broadly alarmist, and despite having no particular love for cops, i'm more pissed off by the bigoted statements. Cops in most of the country, are decent people. People fail to consider the fact that the guns they constantly b***h about, can hurt cops too, and much like everyone else, they have an innate sense of self preservation, so when a cop tells you to do something...do it, don't pretend like they should just know you're a good person because you know you're a good person....
Cops in the USA get less training than in pretty much any developed country. They're turned out on patrol in a matter of weeks. Surely if the US is so dangerous, then they should be giving their cops *more* training than in other countries, not less.
Load More Replies...Then be polite. "Yes sur" "No sir". Usually, they just want to ask a question or give you a warning. I know- not always. As with all jobs there are good workers and the others.
I've visited many times, and didn't have a problem with the cops. Frankly, I'd rather ask a cop for directions than a random stranger. I did once ask a cop where to get the best coffee though, and he looked very offended. I explained that I'm sure they know where to go what with spending so many hours out doing their jobs, that's why I asked them. He did point me to a great little diner with really nice coffee -- and told me to try the donuts lol.
You were lucky then. I’ve never had a remotely kind interaction with a cop. I would rather wander for hours than ask them for directions.
Load More Replies...Cops aren't friend and they aren't there to help you. They are there to opress and collect money.
I would never interact with a cop unless I had to. I've had bad experiences with police in my own country, and this is somewhere where police don't carry guns and do have proper de-escalation training.
it is disappointing how many racist Pandas are coming out of the woodwork to defend an inherently racist system. for the record, all you ppl who are yelling that this one didn't mention racism...have you ever used inferential skills?
This times 1000. I don’t call them Police. M.O.F.S. (Military Occupying Forces) is a better title. They have Tanks/Armored Personnel Carriers. Military Gear. I remember the Riots in Minneapolis after George Floyd was “un-alived” with prejudice. So many videos of the MN National Guard following the order of Gov. Walz that people were not to be on public property during the unrest. Man National Guard marched and rolled down the street. Didn’t bat an eye to citizens on their porches, yards (aka Private Property) watching and recording (Citizens keeping their Government Accountable). But then Minneapolis M.O.F.S. followed behind. Yelling at and shooting so called “Less Than Lethal Rounds” (Pepper Ball Round and Bean Bag Rounds) at people on their private property that Gov. Walz’s directive had nothing to do with. And unlike the National Guard the M.O.F.S. are not accountable. As a citizen of this state and country. PLEASE Be careful with law enforcement.
Well, when I was in NY and Atlantic City I've interacted with any Cop i see, and almost all of them was very kind. Especialy mounted ones (Im mounted policeman too - maybe its the reason) Only thoose with long guns in gound zero ordered me to step away.
If there is garbage on the street or on the floor of the establishment, there are other regulations being ignored. If the floor isn’t clean, the rest of the place isn’t clean either. I know that sounds very snobbish and privileged, but coming from absolute poverty and climbing my way out, it’s absolutely correct.
Also if a restaurant smells off, walk away. The health department only makes sure you won't die eating there, they do not make sure it is clean. (Can vary by state) This includes expensive restaurants. Strip mall places are usually safest.
Anthony Bourdain said that if the bathroom isn't clean, the kitchen isn't either.
If a restaurant bathroom is uninviting, then the restaurant won’t be any better.
Also you should avoid returning food. That's an invitation for an overworked, underpaid staffer to spit in your replacement
That's not snobbish to think a restaurant needs to be clean! I expect this in some foreign countries and even Mexico but here in the US - hell, call the health department!
If you're visiting a well-known and large city (New York, Boston, Seattle, Las Vegas, Houston, etc.) Avoid contact with people passing out CDs or offering to give you free things because they will try to charge you for it once they reel you in.
I have heard of this happen in New York where people on costumes will hand you something and then make you pay for it or that will get in your picture and make you pay for it
In NYC had a fake monk trying to give me a bracelet. I eventually took it so he’d leave me alone alone. When he demanded a donation, I just laughed and handed it back.
Load More Replies...So true. Once I was in Washington DC with my family and I was like 9 and some lady tried to give us bracelets and she literally put them on me and my sister and then started asking my parents for payment although she had presented it as a gift. Good strategy to give it to the kids who will throw tantrums because they want said jewelry. Kinda messed up tho
As a seattlite, I've never seen this. I will say that pike place market is a beautiful scam, don't buy anything there it's all insanely overpriced. I go sometimes just to chill cause it's a nice place, but all I ever get is food at some of the small restaurants nearby
I got this same advice when traveling to Italy. Lol. Still good advice to share because it's something a lot of people don't know about
you have those in Europe too. I assume in every big town in Asia and Africa maybe too.
Peddlers peddling in the US. I wonder if that happens anywhere else on the globe…..
If you’re visiting Alaska, DO NOT visit rural or remote areas alone, especially if you’re inexperienced. Alaska has the highest missing persons rate (about 168 missing people per 100k of the population, and we have 730,916 residents as of 2023), and the VAST majority of the state is unpopulated, unexplored and untamed wilderness. There’s even the Alaskan Triangle, a huge expanse of land between Anchorage, Juneau, and Utqiagvik (formerly known as Barrow) where more people go missing, along with disappearing aircraft, alleged paranormal and extraterrestrial sightings, and much more. My advice, if you’re a first-timer to Alaska, is to stick to Southcentral Alaska. You’ve got Anchorage and the Mat-Su Valley, where there’s plenty of tourist attractions. If you’re feeling more adventurous, there’s whale-watching and glacier tours in places like Seward and Homer. If you want somewhere further in the interior, there’s a two-hour drive to Talkeetna, or a another 6 hours to Fairbanks!
Just because you can see Denali on the horizon, you can't get there from here (unless it fills the horizon)
I only know Denali as Gumby’s pet mammoth 😂
Load More Replies...A comment written by someone who has never been south of Skagway. There’s a. Lot to see and do in SE Alaska
I recall watching a survival movie long ago, in the mid 90s. It was called Snowbound: The Jim and Jennifer Stolpa Story. A couple was driving in the mountains of Alaska, they got caught in a blizzard and got lost with their infant son. Actually, I think she was pregnant and had her baby in an abandoned cabin while her husband was on a 50 mile trek to find help. True Story.
Nice to see someone else mention the Alaska Triangle. Travel Channel had a show about that. Some of that advice applies to other National Parks as well. Lots of people go missing in National Parks
National parks can be as big as some states, or bigger.
Load More Replies...And there's also the fact that much of Alaska is wilderness and the state's highway system serves about one-fifth of the state. Also, it's a little over twice the size of Texas.
Avoid looking lost and unorganized in areas of big cities with high crime rates. Dress functionally, always keep the illusion of knowing where you are and where you're going, pay attention to your surroundings. Bad people will target folks who look lost and unorganized more often than people who appear oriented.
Also (and I know this isn't just a US thing), don't carry your purse the way the person in this photo is carrying their bag! It could get snatched very easily. Put the strap over your shoulder, tuck the bag under your elbow.
About 20 years ago, I’d been issued a new laptop for work. I was carrying it like this picture on the tube in London. Someone ran past, grabbing the short handle as he went. Unfortunately for him, I’m over 100kg, and relatively strong. He only got about 0.5 metres.
Load More Replies...Walk like you own the place. If you need help, go to a less busy store and ask a clerk. If you are getting really bad vibes, it doesn't hurt to act like a crazy person. (Just start talking to yourself loudly and to your imaginary friend. Most people won't f*ck with crazy.)
"Walk like you own the place." -- sound advice!
Load More Replies...Yeah, I was gonna say the same. That’s true anywhere you go in cities.
Load More Replies...If you need help, ask a shopkeeper or someone in a restaurant. Service workers do not get paid to work, they get paid to deal with entitled American A*****es (about 1 in four of us) and are usually very glad to help someone who treats them as a human.
As it is in every big city all over the world. I wonder where in the States is a DM pharmacy :-D
My purse was grabbed off my shoulder one sunny day in CA in a nice but fairly deserted semi-urban area. My glasses were in it and I had flat shoes on. The robber had just pulled it off n ran. I chased him, swearing a giant blue streak and yelling “get him, get him!” To basically no one. After a bit he stopped, turned to face me, threw the purse down, and ran off. At that point was when I suddenly got shaky and scared. A bystander came out from somewhere and checked on me. I was fine and walked back to work where I called the police. They were glad it ended well but warned me about confronting a thief “next time”. Did not even take a report.
Also, don't dress in your finest clothes and jewelry or watches. Leave that stuff at home. In Summer, T-shirts, shoes/flip flops, and shorts are all you need...and wear a baseball cap if you need a hat. In Winter, jeans, T-shirt, and heavy coat/hat. If you're going to the mountains or really cold windy areas, then think more like a ski parka, gloves, and woven hat.
But don't look TOO worried, either. It will make it look like you are heavy on cash. Present yourself as decided.
Make yourself look like a more difficult target than the average person. (“Out run your companion, you can’t put run the bear.”) I have a “city face” that I try to wear when appropriate. Basically, observant but vaguely disapproving. Turns into a “don’t f with me” sneer if I sense danger. I used to talk quietly but angrily to myself on public trans in the Bay Area if it was off hours. I guess it helps that I have thinly covered, seething anger at life that can be used to my benefit at times. At least I’ve got that going for me.
Load More Replies...Don't look like a tourist! Don't carry guidebooks or maps. Don't be taking pictures every five feet.
Don't expect the US to be pedestrian-friendly. Some of our larger cities are, but even they pale in comparison to EU cities. You need to drive here. NYC is basically our only major city that's not true of, but even there, public transport is not as good as that found in a lot of European and east Asian nations. You should expect to have to rent a car as part of your vacation expenditure if you don't have other accommodations.
Be careful what cities you bike in. Many people die trying to bike in new cities, assuming drivers are polite everywhere.
Portlander here. Top of the list for bikeable cities but always assume the cars are trying to kill you. The locals are usually OK with bikes on the street but it's the tourists you need to watch out for. Almost got backed over by someone from Texas (of course) yesterday.
Load More Replies...Boston's pretty good, too, for pedestrians. Just throwing that out there.
I did my pilot's license in Florida and biked to the airport every day. (I didn't have a driving license!) The amount of people who honked at me... I couldn't figure it out lol. Also, I walked into the post office in shorts one morning (November), and the post guy looked at me and went "You're a tourist" I went "Huh", "It's COLD and you're wearing shorts." (It was 25c/77F)
They embrace a "blood-thinning" philosophy of life...
Load More Replies...I would not recommend renting a car in NYC anyway. I’ve been driving for nearly 30 years and the way that drive there was nerve wracking. They seem to have traffic suggestions versus traffic laws.
chicago and boston have a lot fo public transport...other cities too, but if the city really "took off" after ww2 (LA, houston, dallas), it will be nothing but cars, cars, cars
"NYC is basically our only major city that's not true of" This is not true. You literally do not need a car in San Francisco (as well as a few others). There are hop on-hop off tour buses, you can literally get anywhere with public trans and walking, and you can always use a rideshare, which is relatively cheap because the city is only 7 miles x 7 miles. It's a 1.5 mile walk from Union Square to Pier 39, passing through Chinatown and Little Italy. And depending on the route you take you can also get some insane views of the bay, the bridge, Alcatraz, etc.
Unless you are visiting New York or Chicago, you will need a car or need to Uber/taxi. Houston is the 4th largest city in the country and there’s no way you can visit without a vehicle. Public transport is nonexistent here. We invented the automobile and we intend to use it.
Actually, the first car capable of transporting humans was invented by a Frenchman in 1769 (the "Fardier à vapeur"). But a vast majority of the U.S. was purposefully built with the car in mind so navigating it requires a car, to our future degradation.
Load More Replies...Gary Indiana!! Do not, under any circumstances, go to Gary, Indiana. Ever
Gary, Indiana, Gary, Indiana Gary, Indiana, let me say it once again Gary, Indiana, Gary, Indiana Gary, Indiana, that's the town that knew me when
Load More Replies...This has been good advice even for Americans for the last 50 years...
I used to travel for work a lot. Gary, Indiana and Fresno, CA are two places no one should go. Nothing good happens in either one. Its disease, pollution, crime, anger, poverty, unemployment, gangs, and misery. We have other cities that have issues but those two have every issue. Gary was/is a steel town with a history of organized crime and murder. Most of the steel mills have shut down leaving poverty and abandoned homes but the ones left still fill the air, water, and ground with pollution.
Load More Replies...I'm under the impression that urban decay of Gary makes St. Louis look good.
The heat. If you're going to hike in the desert, bring plenty of water.
Tell friends and family where you are going, and when you expect to be back!
And if you're lost and your phone rings, answer it even if you don't recognize the number! https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/oct/26/hiker-lost-on-us-mountain-ignored-calls-from-rescuers-because-he-didnt-recognise-the-number
Load More Replies...The staff and the Grand Canyon will tell you that the majority of rescues are of young men who underestimate how brutal hiking can be there.
American Southeast and central south. New Orleans has it's own kind of heat, lived in Fla 2 years...NOLA was worse. Humidity was insane.
Bring more water than you think need, wear a hat, wear sunscreen, wear sturdy shoes. Deserts are no joke.
Tell someone you are going and where. It will give the search and rescue team a place to start.
And even the places known for being cold get hot in the summer. Essentially make sure you're prepared for the various weather the country has if you're visiting multiple states in different parts
Generally, you should tip at sit-down restaurants with full service (ie waiter comes and takes your order, brings food, refills drinks and clears your dishes). At these places, traditionally the minimum is 15%, but most people I know tip closer to 20% standard.
Yes. I know it's stupid but servers rely on that. And before anyone says "pay them a living wage". Yes. But that is not the reality right now. So if you are coming, this is the expectation
I tip, but I also keep doing whatever I can to support eliminating 'tipped worker' laws that let them pay less than a living wage. EVERYONE deserves a living wage. If you work a full time job, you deserve enough to live on, to afford all necessities and even have enough left over for some luxuries or to save up.
Load More Replies...And not tipping will only hurt the wait staff, it won't change anything and make you look like a d**k.
Why call it a tip. Why not 20% service fee? Seem more accurate since it not optional.
Its technically optional, but you are still a d**k if you don't.
Load More Replies...Most states have a standard minimum wage and then a separate minimum server wage that can apply to bartenders too. It can be under $3 an hour in some places.
Tipping exists because there is no living wage in America. Minimum wage should be around $23 an hour, but is less than a third of that in most of the country. So, yeah, tipping - though labeled as such - isn't optional, sadly. Conversely, it's just as hard when visiting Europe and the UK to remember NOT to tip. I probably embarrassed and/or confused a couple of my servers by leaving a tip on the table before leaving. 😄
I don't believe your servers were embarrassed or confused but simply pleased, since in Denmark lots of people like to tip if they recieved good service.
Load More Replies...20% should be a minimum if you get good service. Better service should get better tips.
It's a truly messed up system that serving staff can make less than minimum wage, even as sad as our minimum wage is. That being said, the broken system is not the fault of your hardworking server. When you look at menu prices just assume you're spending 20% more than that to pay for the service, and be kind to the service folks stuck in the system.
Utter ridiculous. When I first started visiting the US in the early eighties the standard tip was 10%. Why should it be ANY more now, especially since prices have risen astronomically since then? A $40 meal then left a a $4 tip. Now a $200 meal expects a $40 tip? Ridiculous!
Hollywood Boulevard.
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My cousins came from Oklahoma with preteens/teens and I tried to warn them that it wasn't really a good place and especially not for kids. They didn't listen. When I saw them that night, their mom said "I should have listened to you. It was horrible"
Prostitution, drugs, clubs with some of the weirdest people you will ever see in your life, scary stores. If you're an atheist it will make you want to pray and if you're religious it will make you question the existence of God because old testament God wouldnt suffer this place to exist. I haven't been in a long time but it is likely overrun by homeless like most of Los Angeles. Stick to the tourist area near the Chinese theater and the El Capitan if you want to see Hollywood. Take a studio tour and see how movies and shows are made.
Load More Replies...I've seen tourist families get out of the subway at Hollywood and Vine and want to yell no. Nothing there but grime, wig stores, hookers, and wig stores for hookers for a mile. Get out at Hollywood and Highland a mile on for Graumanns and the El Capitan and Ghirardelli. And it's mighty gritty there. Don't pose with people in dirty costumes or take a CD from a wannabe rapper, you'll be pressured for money. Get your photos and get out. Oh, and spit on Trump's star on the walk of fame near the subway entrance on your way out.
I mean, the only reason I - as a Brazilian - know Hollywood Boulevard exists is that it features prominently in the classic Pretty Woman, and it is shown as a dirty, dangerous and sleazy place even there, a Romantic Comedy, so I'll assume it is probably worse irl.
Been to LA a few times and Hollywood is easily the most disgusting dangerous place in that city. I've spent time in Compton and East LA and they felt way more normal and safe to me than Hollywood did. I always end up with people who want to go see Hollywood and I hate it every time.
Most large cities have become the homeless problem. Tourist visiting in warm weathers are subject to smells and sounds they may not be prepared for. I'm waiting for the mental deficits in our governments to build affordable housing.
Being from Oklahoma I was in shock when we went there. It is filled with homeless, drug addicts, prostitutes, and solicitors. You will not see any "stars" they got the hell out a long time ago. The Walk of Fame stars are usually covered in feces or vomit. We were shocked. Wouldn't go back to that Sh**hole if they paid me.
Hollywood is an industrial town. Movies are an industry. It is as grimy and slimy as any other industrial town. I lived two blocks south of Paramount Studios and the nicest thing I can say about the area is I finally got to move away from it.
It was a cesspool when I grew up there 50 years ago. I doubt it has improved since. One reason was that the scum looking to take advantage of people knew vulnerable tourists flocked there.
Definitely should visit, it’s cool, fun, interesting…historic. I live 55 miles away and going there is a treat.
Don’t do the kiss on the cheek greeting. Well, as someone already mentioned, the US is 50 separate places with different customs, but the peck on the cheek, if that’s common where you’re visiting from, isn’t so popular here. It was something I had a hard time getting used to when visiting friends in Colombia.
Yep, different countries, different cultures. Reminds me of friends of my mother who emigrated to Australia, and got weird vibes from their neighbours. Turned out, they are Dutch and are used to greet visitirs with coffee. In Australia serving coffee to guests is a politie way of asking someone to leave 😂
Cheek kiss greetings are in most cases reserved for known individuals, not strangers. If you know the person, go ahead and kiss away. I find it refreshing when my friends from kissing countries visit and greet me with kisses.
Yup! I went through the same thing in Peru. I felt like I was being violated every time another stranger decided to hug and kiss me upon meeting for the first time. It was horrendous!
Most people do not do that greeting in the US and might think that you like them romantically and be into it or think that you like them romantically but be creeped out because you randomly kissed them!
They might feel uncomfortable, which is never a nice feeling to evoke, but a lot of Americans DO know that is something people consider normal in other countries, especially Latin American cultures. If someone claims they "misread" a quick peck on the cheek mid phrase as romantic, they either live under a rock or are likely being slimy.
Load More Replies...Don't lock anything valuable in your car. This includes the trunk.
In general keeping it in your trunk is the best place if you have to bring something. I always keep my bag and laptop in my trunk when I park in Chicago.
Car thieves know this and typically if they can't see anything easy access, they break windows in the rear to drop the rear seats to look in the trunk. If anything valuable has to stay in the car, under the front seats might be better.
Load More Replies...They police will not do anything until after a crime has been committed and even then they usually have to be pretty bored to respond to a car break in.
This too is global. Know the area. Or, if it looks sketchy, don’t leave valuables in your car.
If it looks sketchy, leave. Park somewhere more safe and take a taxi back to where you're going. Don't say it. Most people can afford $20 on their credit card.
Load More Replies...If you feel you must keep it in the car make sure it's not somewhere visible. The trunk or fully under the seat. Avoid tempting crooks avoid break-ins.
Least likely to be stolen: A car with manual transmission.
Load More Replies...Look up the crime rates of any city before you go there so you know which areas to avoid.
Never once done that when travelling all over Europe and never had a problem so to say its mandatory is rubbish
Load More Replies...You can also ask locals, too. Sometimes crime stats can be misleading and not be currently accurate. But locals know where all the smaller bad areas are, the bad stretches of streets, that one intersection with the sketchy panhandlers, and that one hotel that everyone avoids no matter how broke you are.
The typical touristy places. This is a massive country with so much more to offer than Disney, Las Vegas, Hollywood, etc.
Been to Disney CA, and it was not much fun even the first time.
Load More Replies...There are amazing places to visit in Las Vegas that are NOT the Vegas strip.
I don't know why you were down voted. I'm an old guy and I love Cedar Point. It's pricey to be sure, but if you have patience for the lines you'll have a great time.
Load More Replies...As an example, Universal Studios is almost always a better experience than Disney World...
Load More Replies...serious? People come over for these things. If they wanna see it, why not? Its not for me but i totally understand that people wanna see that.
If you like touristy, go for it, but bring your wallet. And a side not; Vegas isn’t glamorous. It’s got a drug & homeless problem combined with a spectacularly ugly landscape that gets so hot you’ll never set foot outside. It’s dirty, hot, & not worth the airfare. Skip it & go to a National park instead.
I’ve never been to Disney and I’ve always wanted to go. Now as a middle aged adult just the thought of it fills me with dread. Too much walking. Too much waiting in line. Too much money. Too many entitled parents and young adults. Too many instagramers and tiktokers…
Nothing wrong with visiting those places but, yeah, there's so much more we have to offer.
Being from the UK and having visited Disney World ten plus times, I wish it didn’t have a hold but it does,there is nothing like it in the UK. I do much prefer Universal but after spending so much money to get to Orlando you kinda fell inclined to go to Disney ☹️
For the most part, the US is reasonably safe as long as you're not looking for the dangerous parts. For example, don't visit the ghetto – the worst parts of the US are arguably more dangerous than the poorer parts of some other developed countries. Hollywood is a tourist trap. Honestly, the entirety of LA is just a difficult place to visit and it's not set up well for tourism. New York can be a bit dirty as a city, mostly due to high density. It's a great city to visit with a lot to do, but it can be overwhelming if you're alone since it's so big. Chicago is actually a pretty nice city to visit, the reputation is mostly due to the bad areas, but if you're visiting, you're probably going to be in the city where it's reasonably safe.
I will comment on the Chicago one. If you stay up north in the gold coast area, grant Park, south loop you will be fine. The farther south and west you get, usually the worse
Southside of Chicago is the baddest part of town. If you go down there, you better just beware of a man named Leroy Brown.
Load More Replies...If you are visiting New York City, consider the New York Pass. For a set price $149 for one day, $204 for two days, and the per day price drops the more days you choose). You get on/off privileges on one of the double deck buses, which are narrated. You also get admission to a huge numbers of attractions and museums. I have lived almost all my life around NYC, but when we took some visitors on the bus tour, I saw so many things I had missed. Two thumbs up!
If you think the US ghettos are worse than the Brazilian favelas, think again. Having said that, I don't go to the "worst parts" of European cities either. They're not safe for natives, so I know theyre not okay for me!
I know some tourists want to visit Elvis Presley’s home ‘Graceland’ in Memphis, but definitely be wary of where else you go there. Crime rates have gotten really bad there and one wrong turn can get you in trouble.
Just need to get this out there, so pardon my French. LA HAS MORE S**T THAN JUST HOLLYWOOD. Thank you for listening to my TED talk.
I would not visit any city alone. Someone to watch my back is always better.
Chicago was fab when I visited. (90's) Don't know about now, but I swear I was walking around being amazed by a lot of the architecture.
Those parts of Chicago are fine. Its huge, some areas on the outskirts you would never go are dangerous, like most cities. There are small towns with higher murder rates than Chicago.
Load More Replies...In Washington DC, avoid taking pictures in front of DC District court thinking it is the Supreme Court. The Supreme Court is 6 blocks away Also, the White House is MUCH smaller than you think it is.
Also, i live super near DC, wait till your a little out of the big attraction areas to get souvenirs. its crazy expensive. a single ice cream cone is also 10 bucks, so go to a more local area.
Absolutely DO go to the Smithsonian museums! They're all free to the public and there's a ton of them; I used to live relatively nearby and visited many times, still feels like I barely scratched the surface.
It's a lot bigger than it looks. You just can't see all of the underground bits.
People dont realize that from the capital to the Lincoln Memoral is about 2 miles.
Load More Replies...As an American, I’d definitely recommend a trip to D.C. - what American culture that’s been started is on display there -
Fun fact: Today's Washington, D.C. owes much of its unique design to Pierre Charles L'Enfant, who came to America from France to fight in the Revolutionary War and rose from obscurity to become a trusted city planner for George Washington. Smithsonian Magazine
Why would I want to take pictures of either building? Are they soooo nice looking?
Tourists often take pictures of the places they visit.
Load More Replies...I say this as a Mississippian, Jackson, Mississippi.
It's a majority black city in probably the most racist state in the country. The water is unsafe to drink, the state has set up a separate courts system for the city which isn't bound by the same rules as regular courts (so not as fair), all infrastructure is inadequately funded, there are outbreaks of diseases which are unknown in other parts of the country because they would be eradicated by relatively cheap and basic measures like adequate sewage treatment and the like. My opinion: The people in state government in Mississippi should be in prison over what is done to the residents of Jackson.
Load More Replies...However, but, the Natchez Trace Parkway from Natchez, on the Mississississippi (can never remember where to stop when typing that) all the way up to Nashville, Tennessee is an amazing and relaxing drive. More than a day, so, coming from the north, pay extra for a better hotel in Ridgeland, north of Jackson, or going north, try Tupelo. Over 400 miles of peaceful, truck- and traffic-free driving. But don't speed. Enjoy. And know that it's the National Park Police who will pull you over, and it's a federal ticket.
I'm Aussie and even i know how to spell : Em - Eye -double Ess - Eye - double Ess - Eye - double Pee - Eye.
Load More Replies...Admittedly Jackson is better than it used to be, but it is still a dirty, mean, nasty place. The people there are homophobic, xenophobic, racist, etc. Infrastructure is some of the worst you'll ever see, government is corrupt, law enforcement heavy handed, etc. I used to live just outside of Jackson, and I am so happy I managed to hlget away from that place. Nowadays if I HAVE to go through, I fill my gas tank up at the state line, and don't stop until I get where I'm going.
i've had some good times going to festivals in jackson...butm yeah, you probably don't want to shop at the jitney jungle on medgar evers boulevard
The one thing you should probably avoid above all else is being a bad guest. If you have someone buy you a treat, eat it and thank them for it. If they suggest X attraction, at least consider it. A lot of them will love being hosts or at least guides and if you spurn that they'll be hurt.
99% of this applies to all countries one visits as a foreigner, even if you are an American tourist visiting Europe, Asia, Africa and Australia. It is called "travel preparation" and "common sense". If that American girl wailing on tikkitokki the other day, about her chaotic and disappointing European holiday, had done half of it, nothing strange would have had happened.
If somebody buys you a treat, say thanks but no thanks if you don´t want to eat it. Nobody can force you to eat if you don't want to.
ooohhh didnt we just discuss on BP that being forced to eat food out of politeness is bad??
People should realise that a tourist pays a lot of money to visit the US and should visit whatever they want without having to worry about hurting someone's feelings. Why would a host make plans without asking first what the guest would like to visit? It's their vacation. I had family from abroad visiting us here in Tuscany. They were free to visit whatever they wanted, with or without us, or even stay at home and relax.
Don't wear New York Yankees gear in Greater Boston. And never call it Beantown!
Eat what you want to eat and not out of obligation and keep in mind that a lot of people are roofied out here taking drinks to be polite so if you’re planning on enjoying your vacation, don’t feel obligated to eat or drink what you don’t want to or go to a place where you don’t want to it is your vacation if somebody gets all bent out of shape because you’re not spending your time the way they want you to then that’s on them.
Be careful where you stay in bigger cities. I've seen people Airbnb places in bad neighborhoods in NYC and suffer for it.
Avoid AirBnB altogether. After all the extra fees are added on to AirBnB, hotels or motels are usually cheaper.
AirBnb are stupid places to stay. The added fees tacked on are ridiculous. Stay in a hotel, even a chain. Much better, in and out. No added extras for spatulas, not taking out trash, etc.
And they make you do work. I'm on vacation, I'm not cleaning toilets.
Load More Replies...From what I've seen about AirBnB in the US, it's terrible. In Europe it's a lot different. But bear in mind that the Airbnb hosts in Europe often have to pay steep local taxes which are incorporated in the prices.
I've had good experiences staying at AirBnB places, but I carefully vetted them first. There is a great one in Asheville, but they hopped on the AirBnB bandwagon early and they aren't dícks.
North Philly. Maybe just avoid Philly all together.
Don't avoid Philly. I love that city. Tons of historical things to visit. Cool museums. Reading Market is actually pretty cool.
I thought it was west Philadelphia we had to avoid. I'm sure I heard something about someone who got into a fight and then had to move to Bellaire!
Even seeing it on youtube is overwhelmingly sad
Load More Replies...Stick to Old City & you'll be fine. That's where all the tourist traps are anyway.
i've been to 47 states, 48 if you count a day in seattle...and i have never been to any city where the racial tension is as palpable as philly...i have been there many times, and it just blows me away...and, i lived in the deep south for several years...
Don't avoid Philly. Cradle of the Nation. And the Art Museum is top notch.
Thanks everyone. More than half of these are the exact opposite of advice for Australia. Which makes the advice even more valuable. Advice for Australia: do trust the police, they are there to help you, do take selfies with wildlife, if stopped get out of the car unless on a tollway, there are no bad neighbourhoods in Australia (mostly), there's very little variety from place to place, don't worry about skin colour, no specific people to avoid, unlikely to run out of gas because the cars aren't gas guzzlers, food from chain restaurants is edible, if you get sick or have an accident then go to hospital emergency immediately, sit in the front seat in taxis and Ubers. Airbnb isn't bad. Don't tip. Exact opposite of much of the good advice here for America.
The more I read this post, the more I realised how lucky I am to live in Australia
Load More Replies...I think there's a Troll active. Damn near every comment, regardless how innocuous is getting downvoted...
Avoid the big-name American lagers, and try the local microbrewery instead.
Shout it from the mountaintop! Every US city has some great microbreweries. Look them up.
Load More Replies...Remember 99% of America is owned by corporations. 2 or 3 groups own Vegas. 3 or 4 groups own everything in the grocery store. 2 or 3 groups own all the amusement parks. If you want something unique or good be prepared to go out of your way. (Farmers markets, roadside stands, food trucks, swap meets, little towns no one has heard of...). Also, if something good and unique becomes popular, it will be owned by a corporation in a year, so don't get attached to anything.
Avoid BP articles on visiting the US. Come visit the US with an open mind, healthy curiosity, common sense, and a yen for something new and you will find an incredibly diverse country full of wonderful people, stunning national parks and natural sites, and amazing cuisine.
As an American, this was a fun read. America seems really hard to travel to.
As a foreigner who has traveled to US before : no, it's not really) The biggest issue for a tourist in my opinion is the lack of public transport, but even that is not completely true. There are usually at least some buses running between major cities and within them there's always uber or even a bus, sure, they might be infrequent, but they are there, you just need to plan accordingly. Or rent a car, and solve that issue completely. Other than that, US is great for traveling, food is varied and can be found cheap, due to the fact that you guys travel a lot domestically there are a lot of hotels for any budget, most attractions, I'd say, are quite reasonably priced and there's usually a lot of information available online so you can plan in advance. Also, Americans are generally very talkative, friendly and ready to help if you are having troubles)
Load More Replies...Thanks everyone. More than half of these are the exact opposite of advice for Australia. Which makes the advice even more valuable. Advice for Australia: do trust the police, they are there to help you, do take selfies with wildlife, if stopped get out of the car unless on a tollway, there are no bad neighbourhoods in Australia (mostly), there's very little variety from place to place, don't worry about skin colour, no specific people to avoid, unlikely to run out of gas because the cars aren't gas guzzlers, food from chain restaurants is edible, if you get sick or have an accident then go to hospital emergency immediately, sit in the front seat in taxis and Ubers. Airbnb isn't bad. Don't tip. Exact opposite of much of the good advice here for America.
The more I read this post, the more I realised how lucky I am to live in Australia
Load More Replies...I think there's a Troll active. Damn near every comment, regardless how innocuous is getting downvoted...
Avoid the big-name American lagers, and try the local microbrewery instead.
Shout it from the mountaintop! Every US city has some great microbreweries. Look them up.
Load More Replies...Remember 99% of America is owned by corporations. 2 or 3 groups own Vegas. 3 or 4 groups own everything in the grocery store. 2 or 3 groups own all the amusement parks. If you want something unique or good be prepared to go out of your way. (Farmers markets, roadside stands, food trucks, swap meets, little towns no one has heard of...). Also, if something good and unique becomes popular, it will be owned by a corporation in a year, so don't get attached to anything.
Avoid BP articles on visiting the US. Come visit the US with an open mind, healthy curiosity, common sense, and a yen for something new and you will find an incredibly diverse country full of wonderful people, stunning national parks and natural sites, and amazing cuisine.
As an American, this was a fun read. America seems really hard to travel to.
As a foreigner who has traveled to US before : no, it's not really) The biggest issue for a tourist in my opinion is the lack of public transport, but even that is not completely true. There are usually at least some buses running between major cities and within them there's always uber or even a bus, sure, they might be infrequent, but they are there, you just need to plan accordingly. Or rent a car, and solve that issue completely. Other than that, US is great for traveling, food is varied and can be found cheap, due to the fact that you guys travel a lot domestically there are a lot of hotels for any budget, most attractions, I'd say, are quite reasonably priced and there's usually a lot of information available online so you can plan in advance. Also, Americans are generally very talkative, friendly and ready to help if you are having troubles)
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