“People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong” And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community

Religion and politics are two topics I don’t want to ever discuss with other people. Bc more often than not, those that don’t agree with you on either topics will either try to change your mind and join them or get nasty and rude just bc you don’t agree with them.

This is how I feel about the republican party. If you don't believe in abortion or LBGTQ then refrain. But why do you feel compelled to try and pass laws to FORCE people to believe like you? I will never understand that.

Agree.... set boundaries with religious mates - make it clear you're not interested.... but for relationships - its just a no-go zone.... living together and potentially bringing up kids when you have fundamentally incompatible life outlooks and moral values just doesn't work.

For a relationship? If you're christian, you have to find someone from church. Not go to an atheist and try to convert him. Lol I once went to a dating site. It was paid, but you could get 2 weeks for free and it was especially for christians too, they said, cause they could match ppl very well. Okay. Lets try. I'm a christian. Looking for a christian. Has to love kids. Blablabla. LOL got one message back. Hi I'm an atheist and I have a dog. That was funny.

Believe what ever works or makes sense for you. However when some people start lecturing AT you their big egos are doing the talking and their minds are as waterproof as a frogs butt. People like that learn nothing new because they decided long ago that it's their way or the highway.

The best way to spread your religion is to practice it.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. However, they should keep them to themselves.

"Religion is man telling you what God wants you to do."

I don't tell people my religious views unless asked. Not my place to comment on your relationship with diety

I’m atheist too. If you also have an annoying little sibling, we can be best friends...

Religions, all religions, are scams and con jobs

Find out where a promising SO stands on this stuff. This is a must for comparability.

That hurts. I am the atheist who save religious people from other atheists. You are just simply rude.

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Religion is toxic and used as an excuse to control and persecute people.

I'm selfish and rude, but I love animals. I've been working on the selfish thing for years and don't generally act on it. But my rudeness is still used on people that are rude to me first, it pretty swift and cutting and used in a way to make them reflect on their own rudeness.

Have a sign in my home: all visitors must be approved by the cat(s).

A lot of dingbats come to mind: flat earthers, anti-vaxxers, COVID deniers, tRump chumps--

Yes! Thank you. sometimes I really need to get the what ifs or confusions out and it comes across as arguing. sigh. Sometimes I do get out of hand though in trying to make my point

Even Atheist? :(

The worst is when someone says, "I'm sorry if you feel....." If you said or did something wrong, apologize for your own actions. Don't apologize for how I feel.

aweome we'd be great cause I never lie (I can't find that pinnocio emoji . . .)

Amen. Unless you have a compromised immune system. That I can understand.

THISSSS!!! I can't tell you how many times I hear people blame their shitty adult behavior on their childhoods. Mine was no picnic and I had to grow up and stop using that as an excuse to make poor decisions as an adult.

We just need some little kid to go up and be like, "Oh Putin, you're so amazing, I look up to you!" Then take out a knife and slit his throat. He chokes and dies, falling down, and the little kid says, "And now I look down on you. Like I always have." At this point, I'm not even above blackmail, Putin needs to die.

why a tarot card deck as the image?

Without double standards, some people would have no standards at all

Absolutely. I love remaining calm when people are turning red with frustration/rage.

If you are constantly late, I don't want an apology. You obviously know that you take longer, so start sooner. Making me wait around for you will only make me feel like I'm not a priority, and I don't want to waste my time with that.

Fr tho my brother thought it would be ok to dehumanize me for having autism he pisses me off

I totally agree, especially if you are older. I'm 40 and so at this point, I've just gotten used to my own company and if I have someone else it's because I want to, not because I'm desperate or need them. And while I could make room for someone else and compromise with certain things, I would want my own bedroom and my own space. I like being able to have time at the end of the night to myself. I like stretching out in bed. He can go play video games in his room or do what he wants to do. I can read and do my hobbies, watch what I want on tv, etc. Sex isn't the issue- there would be plenty and we could have a nice nap together and cuddle here and there but I would just want to have space of my own to decompress at the end of the night. I don't know why people have to sleep in the same bed. Most couples I know hate it especially as they get older. They take it personally when it's just about comfort.

Came here with the same thoughts, thank you for saying this

Depends on the law. Arbitrary laws that exist for no reason other than to give someone power other someone else NEED to be broken. The law here states that you cannot carry 'ANY article which has a blade OR is sharply pointed'. In other words, it is technically illegal to carry a pencil.

Always remember, if he/she will cheat with you, he/she will cheat on you

This is a big one. It's why my first longterm broke up. They were just unreliable.

*Tips your fedora*

Why are they famous?

Oh you have social anxiety? Let’s force you to socialize under stress to “train” you!

My bellwether for new people is how they treat the people they don’t have to be nice to.

Several years ago I heard from a man who was hiring an administrative assistant. Candidate A was better qualified than Candidate B, but Candidate A chewed gum "like a deranged cow" and loudly smacked and snapped it all through the interview. Candidate B got the job.

Lying gets vilyfied a lot, but honesty really is not always the best solution. Very often being polite/friendly is far more important than telling the truth, especially if an honest input can't change a situation anyway. On the long run/important issues honesty is the way. On Christmas when mom just spent six hours working her butt off in the kitchen for the family and asks "how do you like the roastbeef" it's NOT the time to be honest and tell her you've had better.

Unfortunately, can be found a bit too much on BP

While I don't have emotional issues with cigarette smoking (although I would prefer not being with someone who does), I'm at a point I wouldn't want to be with someone who smokes pot all the time. Occasionally is fine but I feel like everybody smokes so much pot these days. I'm so tired of having to deal with potheads. It's literally everyone I know. Can you not go one day without being high? Can I go a week without my clothes smelling like skunk? Can we have a conversation without you being stoned? And can you not complain to me about being broke or how you can't afford rent when you spend 50 bucks a week or more on pot? It's just frustrating. You aren't cool because you collect bongs or know literally everything chemically about pot but can't hold down a job for more than a year. Because keeping a well paying job isn't worth quitting smoking to you. I'm just tired of the whole pot culture thing.

I have to disagree with you. Some people are awful and I don't accept them for that.

Yes. Love animals.

Lack of curiosity is 100% at the top of my list!

Not necessary true. I don't have a lot of friends (introvert) but it's totally fine by me if my partner (extrovert) wants to hang out with friends as long as we divide time for kids and housework equally (if you have children that is). I like to go to the gym so that's my "me-time" and he hangs out with his friends. No issue with that at all.

Well that's about every republican in america

Totally agree. Besides, a real introvert doesn't make those to begin with.