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Article created by: Saulė Tolstych

It's no secret that sometimes we find someone very annoying because of weird or disgusting things that they do. Reddit user @u/amethyst015 decided to focus on women only and ask them online what are some of the things that other females do that they find so irritating that they want them to stop doing it. The question that received almost 12k answers had both some very relatable and unexpected responses. 

Some of the things mentioned included some practical topics such as leaving a mess in a public toilet. A lot of things noticed were focused on behavioral issues: being rude to your daughter-in-law, faking friendliness, and creating gossip about other women. This thread also showed that some problems have been rooted in our society for quite some time, because some women still mentioned that the thing they wish other women would finally ditch is dieting and creating unrealistic beauty standards. 

What were some of the more concerning answers? Users online revealed that they still see other females joining MLM scams and trying to get others involved. But one of the answers that started a whole discussion was about some women who dare to send admiration and even love letters to convicted felons, thinking that they are innocent. 

Which one of these things scares you the most? Or maybe you haven’t found the worthy answer to the question “What is something you wish other women would stop doing?” Then don’t forget to leave your answer in the comments down below! 

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#1

Close-up of a woman showing subtle emotion, illustrating women’s behaviors that females of this online group want to stop. Photoshoping their photos to the oblivion thus reinforcing the unrealistic beauty standards. You know skin texture exists, why do you pretend it doesn't??

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    #2

    Woman teaching child to wash dishes at sink, illustrating common women’s behaviors that online group members want to stop This is going to get lost in the shuffle but moms who ask their daughters to do more than their fair share of the household chores while the boys skate because they’re “immature.” **STOP IT** This is particularly bad among immigrant communities that hail from countries with more…traditional gender roles (basically the Far East, the Mid East, Eastern Europe, Africa and South America) but I know it happens in American households too. The daughters are fed this garbage about being more mature/responsible so they have to help pick up the slack while the sons are frequently coddled and babied. It’s infuriating and it’s almost never talked about.

    Brewnonono , cottonbro Report

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    #3

    Positive pregnancy test with two lines on a white surface symbolizing women’s behaviors that females can’t stand. "oh you want kids but your man's not ready yet? Just secretly come off the pill and say it was an accident. It's your body, I did it with my kids". I can't count how many times I've heard this and it's disgusting behaviour

    Medium_Temperature_4 , Johannes Jander Report

    #4

    Child running barefoot on the beach at sunset, symbolizing carefree women’s behaviors that females of this online group can’t stand. Telling other women that they should have kids, to have a fulfilled life.

    EvilAlicia , Dominika Roseclay Report

    #5

    Two people holding hands while walking, illustrating common women’s behaviors that females of this online group dislike. Blaming other women for their cheating boyfriend/husband's behavior.

    1ofthefates , Robert Pittman Report

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    #6

    Woman walking in a black blazer and white pants, illustrating women’s behaviors that females of this online group dislike. Just because you had a hard time climbing up the corporate ladder or getting into a good position, you do not need to make other women suffer the same. I cannot emphasize it enough: hold the door open for the next one. Coach young female leaders. Help each other out

    Morningssucks , SuckTheButton Report

    #7

    Close-up of two hands holding each other, featuring wedding and engagement rings with focus on women’s behaviors. Teaching their daughters that it's okay to be with an abusive man

    detective_kiara , Melike Benli Report

    #8

    Young woman walking a small dog on a wooden bridge, representing common women’s behaviors that annoy online groups. Everything for their sons. Teach them how to do their own laundry. Teach them to cook, give them a night they make dinner for the family. Have them do chores. Make them understand that doing anything less than their share is not enough. Model partnership, not servitude. This simple thing could change the world.

    Tammalamma , Sam Lion Report

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    #9

    Child in a woven hat and striped pants walking through tall grass in a natural outdoor setting with wildflowers. Stop dating idiot guys when you have kids. Stop putting your love lives before your kids. Put your kids first.

    IamHOTUrNot , Saliha Report

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    #10

    Close-up of two hands with wedding rings resting on a cotton and eucalyptus bouquet symbolizing women’s behaviors. Asking if/when a woman is getting engaged / getting married / having a baby / having another baby / getting back to work after having a baby. Especially from older female relatives. It just doesn't end.

    jmacer5 , Irina Iriser Report

    #11

    Green Herbalife stress ball on a reflective surface near office equipment symbolizing women’s behaviors in online groups. Trying to get me to join their MLM

    Straasil1549 , Eduardo Francisco Vazquez Murillo Report

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    #12

    Hands holding an envelope and pulling out a handwritten letter about women’s behaviors that females in an online group dislike. Writing love letters to [criminals].

    JaguarZealousideal55 , Ron Lach Report

    #13

    Group of people working on computers in a room filled with maps, illustrating women’s behaviors that females in the online group dislike. Being mean to other women in the workplace. Even if we dislike someone, no excuse to go out of your way to be rude and nasty to someone. “Someone else’s shine does not dim yours”

    Deez_Nueces_ , MapHobbit Report

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    #14

    Colorful tampons with female gender symbols on pink background representing women’s behaviors topic. Flushing tampons and other period products

    Maleficent-Coconut51 , Anna Shvets Report

    #15

    A white baby crib with soft toys and a colorful mobile in a minimalist bedroom setting focused on women's behaviors. Acting like fellow mothers are the only people who could possibly understand unconditional love, selflessness or sacrifice, work/life balance challenges, the list goes on…

    HumbleConclusion , Polina Tankilevitch Report

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    #16

    Woman with curly hair sitting by water, reflecting on women’s behaviors that females in online groups dislike. Using their own issues to invalidate other’s issues.

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    #17

    Woman hiking in a forest with a large backpack representing women’s behaviors that females in the online group can’t stand. Stop with the "I'm not like other girls"

    Raven_395 , Dmitriy Ganin Report

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    #18

    Young woman in red top and denim skirt writing on a colorful chalkboard wall about behaviors women can’t stand online group Taking the criticism of one person as license to stop doing what they love. "My teacher said my painting was awful, so I swore then and there never to paint again." "My mom said I was fat, so I have never worn a bikini." "My boyfriend said my story was stupid, so I quit writing." You're only hurting yourself. Twirl on the haters.

    Botryoid2000 , Amaury Laporte Report

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    #19

    Orange cat on toilet seat in bathroom with towel and framed beach painting, illustrating women’s behaviors online group dislikes. Peeing on public toilet seats. Put some TP on the seat if you’re that worried about germs.

    bowlbettertalk , digitonin Report

    #20

    Home office setup with computer, laptop, printer, and blue lamp illustrating women’s behaviors in online group discussion. Thinking it’s cute & quirky to label themselves as a married man’s “work wife.” My fiancé has been put in several uncomfy situations where he doesn’t want to be mean or deal with an HR blowup, but also doesn’t want to be flirted with in his place of employment. We don’t want men to do it to us, so let’s not do it to uninterested men.

    dogmom1993 , Christopher Schmidt Report

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    #21

    Two women interacting outdoors, illustrating women’s behaviors that females in online groups find annoying and want to stop Speaking on behalf of all women. It’s absurd and wildly egotistical.

    trishsf , x1klima Report

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    #22

    Mature woman in business attire working on laptop, reflecting on women’s behaviors that females in online groups dislike. Workplace toxicity. I have had two women, separate occasions, try to get me fired. The lies and gossip they spread and the accusations were insane. Empathy should be easy for us to have toward one another and I don’t know how a person can do those things to another person, let alone women to women.

    One-Impact4781 , Timur Weber Report

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    #23

    Man in stylish suit posing confidently on stage with red background, representing women’s behaviors online group discussion. Sleeping with Nick Cannon

    shinyprettythings , nickcannon Report

    #24

    Couple sharing a close moment surrounded by confetti, illustrating women’s behaviors that females of this online group can’t stand. Targeting married men exclusively. And this is just a small percentage of women but I mean why? Cheating husbands are trash no exceptions but for some women to not take no as an answer from a happily married man is just sickening.

    nadeenmattar , Lucxama Sylvain Report

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