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Someone’s personality is formed by a lot of different things: their behavior, social attitudes, what they believe in and other things. It is influenced by our environment and how we react to it. Most often a personality is constant and we can even predict what a person would like or how they would react to an unknown thing because they follow a specific pattern.

Personality is a complex concept, however, some people tend to simplify it and choose one thing to base it on. It may become annoying, at least according to the experience of redditors who responded to Kandiblu’s question “What’s something that people turn into their whole personality?”

The thread became quite popular with over 58k people upvoting it and almost 44k of them joining in. These are some of the annoying personalities based on one thing that most people found very annoying. Do you agree with them? Which ones that you find unbearable weren’t in this list? Let us know in the comments!

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35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group OCD.i dont know why many people in my lives believe they have OCD and they are proud about it. There is a difference between keeping everything organized and OCD.

tiredmomneedsabreak , I am R. Report

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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. I don't have OCD, but I like everything being organized, but at a certain point I just don't care...

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While most people found these things they mentioned annoying and in some cases they even expressed fear seeing someone so obsessed about just one thing, the people who always bring up the same topic in every conversation might not be doing it on purpose. 

Bored Panda reached out to Denise Marigold, an Associate Professor and Chair of Social Development Studies at the Renison University College in Waterloo, Canada to learn more about this.

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    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group I’m Norwegian. When I say that, a shocking amount of people assume that I’m American with Norwegian heritage. There are so many americans making their «viking heritage» their whole personality, butchering the norse faith and fighting with actual Norwegians over the correct way to make a traditional dish and the spelling and usage of «skål» (cheers). It’s so f**king horrible to watch. It’s like being mocked.

    FragranceCandle , Mark Healey Report

    RoseTheMad
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm half Irish, and there's people I've spoke to that are in the US and found out they are maybe like.. one tenth Irish, but they make jokes like "haha us ginger leprechauns" .. I don't really mind, but please. You're American, not Irish. Same way that I wouldn't say I'm fully Irish or fully Romanian, I'm half and half, yes, but I'm British. Edit: I don't wanna say don't be proud of your heritages, I certainly am, I've been learning Romanian and Irish, make Irish and Romanian foods, etc. But I would never say I'm FROM those countries, just that my ancestors are.

    Bexx 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! My great grandparents came from Ukraine, but when I visited Ukraine and was asked if I was Ukrainian (“you look Ukrainian!”) I said “no I’m Canadian but my family came from Ukraine.” Big difference between that and actually being Ukrainian. (Слава Украины)

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    E B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother was an English immigrant, so there's actual stuff my family does, or says in a certain way, that I later found out isn't a usual American thing. So for me, it's more like discovering there's hidden English culture stuff that I didn't know about. Kind of like Easter eggs in the game of Life. But I'd never tell an actual person from England or anywhere else how their culture works, that's just rude.

    elemental
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well, try being of Chinese descent and having people vacillate between wanting to rant angrily about the "China flu" or how evil the communist party is, or just randomly yelling NI HAO at you. or bowing to you! i can't tell you how many times people have bowed at me for absolutely no reason! b***h, I'm an American just like you and i double majored in English literature at Berkeley, so my English is just fine tyvm. i keep meaning to counter by ranting about how much i hate British imperialism or German Naziism, randomly yelling BONJOUR or ELLO GUV'NOR, and maybe bursting into Irish jigs for no good reason. but every time this bs happens to be I'm too taken aback to react in time 😖

    Marnie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honest to god, it's hard to believe, but I DO believe it! I'm 53, and I was shocked to learn people acted similarly in the decades before me. I NEVER thought people would be still acting that way by now, except maybe like 4 crazy people across the whole state. How naive I was. Setting aside how awful it is, I just can't even understand their logic. Are they mentally challenged? I have no other explanation.

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    Melanie Hornak
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alot of Americans and Canadians do this. I don't think its done maliciously but because the countries are so young there's not much heritage.

    grey galah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i've long held the suspicion people from the US have an identity crisis. I was asked there where i was from. My answer (Australia) wasn't enough and the follow up question was "But where do you come from?" As if outlining my genetic DNA would give more relevant information. huh? "well, homo sapien, neanderthal and denisovian."

    Crispy Toast
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also woeful ignorance of geography. They probably thought it was a city or something, not a continent.

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    SusanS
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ANY group making their heritage their personalities. It is so damned annoying. Yes, I guess be proud and keep the history alive in your home, but stop with the full on embrace.

    not your average weirdo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!! It's seriously just mocking actual Scandinavia people!

    Jessica Wood
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Weren't vikings just raiders? So only a small amount of Norse were actually vikings?

    VikingAbroad
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some reason 'viking' has become a noun, when it started out as a verb. To go into viking - drage i viking - was to travel, and mayby plunder and rape and pillage a bit, you know, just in good sports, though, but the rest of the year they could be peaceful farmers of some degree at home. Women in this age had a great degree of freedom unknown to many women of the same time. They had to be able to run the home/house/farm both economically, and agriculturally and still be able to defend it. They could also choose to divorce their husband.

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    Kira Okah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The picture here is a bunch of British reenactors, which seems like the wrong picture to put with the quote.

    Mary Sutherland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The give away is the sign on the building. Flats to Let.

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    Did you hear that?
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being from a specific country used to also mean you looked the part, ate the food etcetera. So it was a big deal. Anymore the world and countries are very diversified so it's hard for people to find a common ground. Just let them have their fun.

    Frankenfrog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I refuse to be put in the same box as some overweight kkklan member who've kidnapped the Nordic Mythology to support their white pride agenda

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    Seany
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of that Vikings show was made here in Ireland so now we have a load of eegits walking around thinking they're vikings. It's almost as annoying as Americans claiming to be Irish.

    sofacushionfort
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I was descended from Vikings, I’d go everywhere apologizing for every season past four when Ragnar was killed

    The lesbian knitting panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Dane, sometimes people will try tell me how to pronounce my own language, like b***h please you can't speak my language and frankly their pronunciation is often awful.

    Helmut Kok
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had someone (American) explain how to pronounce "æbleskive" - yes not right

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    Billy Allen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe don't hang out in Facebook groups? Honestly that's the only place I see any of this happening and it's why I left them. I don't see it anywhere else including the local Irish pubs in my city here in the US.

    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go to Dublin, you'll bump into the large, loud, brash US citizens telling everyone how Irish they are, at the same time being more "american" than ever.

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    Nojman
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    North Carolina has a huge scot-irish ethnix makeup. The Lake Norman (Loch Norman) highland games just occurred. I'm telling you if there is one group of people that actually to stick as close to accuracy as possible its the Scottish Carolinians.

    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The point s that there is no "accuracy". Every town, village, family has different ideas of what is "authentic". And it tends to be whatever version of the dish or activity that their grandparents did. And they probably did it differently to their grand parents. All the games/sports had different rules and traditions in different places. Often only when they were codified as national sports did there come a unity, usually in the 19th century, sometimes, ironically, by the English.

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    Elisha Wright
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an American who has lived all over the country I am suprised I have never ever not once met an American saying they were a viking. How moronic and false all for click bait

    Frankenfrog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a non-American having traveled all over the country, I've met plenty of wannabes claiming Viking heritage because they suffer from low self worth, even though they can't even name ONE relative of even remotely European descent

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    Kaz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am half Welsh and half German. I was born and live in Wales but spent most of my childhood in Germany (forces family) I speak English and German fluently and consider myself legitimately of blended heritage. My passport says British but I feel equally German. My great great grandparents were English but I do not consider myself English at all. I did live in England for a few years. When I speak German I actually speak in the accent of my Mums area.

    Noir
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is getting to be a weekly post and it's so annoying. We get it. Americans bad. They're trying to steal everyone else's heritage because they hate themselves and are so desperate for culture. And because of a handful of anecdotes and groups that go to these extremes, every American that brings up their heritage must be doing it maliciously because they're not saying it the exact RIGHT WAY. Christ. We've had this discussion ad nauseam. I thought it was decided a LONG time ago the majority of the 329.5 million people in the US are not, in fact, trying to say they're ACTUALLY Irish. Or a Viking. You guys throw how "proud" Americans are of "'murica" in our face constantly and then suddenly we're all ashamed too? Make this make sense.

    Kayla Falgoust
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. We get it. Americans suck or whatever. (But apparently live rent free in the world's collective mind...) Insert tired stereotype here so we all can go on about the day.

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    Marnie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't condone this, but I understand it to some extent. (No, I don't partake in any of those shenanigans.) in many places in the US, we're 3-5 generations removed from all the immigrants who stole and colonized the land. We don't really feel like we have our own culture yet. My grandparents were either born in Norway and came here as toddlers or were born shortly after their parents arrived. (I don't for sure which.) They did not speak English until they went to school. There is a Norwegian museum close by. We used to have colleges where the primary language was Norwegian. We definitely have a different culture than other areas such as the coasts due to the people who immigrated here. (I'm in Minnesota.) But if people are going to pick up the culture of their ancestors, it's disrespectful to attempt to do so without actually researching. I'd be annoyed as well if I were you.

    Hugh Cookson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like mostly fat, delusional, white 'Murican men to me in this pic .....

    Mary Sutherland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think so. There is a sign on the building saying "flats to let", so they are probably English. But I hope it felt good to type your hateful comment.

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    P.A.B.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s just arrogance and ignorance 🙄

    Alexandra Henderson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is due to most white Americans not having their heritage actually based down so they are trying to return to the closest they can grab at.

    Cheryl Stauffer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a medieval reenactment group called SCA. cool your offended jets. (For half a second, I thought I saw my BIL, who’s super active in it)

    SunshineBurrito
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m half Norwegian, and this sucks

    Got Myself 4 Pandas
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most Americans I've met always love to tell me about their granny's pet dogs Scottish cousin. Cool story. I don't really care - and then they try to our Scottish you on whatever clan they claim to have descended from and what their tartan is blah blah. Again, cool story. But I'm still Scottish and you aren't. I was born here, to Scottish parents and Scottish grandparents, great grandparents etc etc - it's all very good you wanting to know your heritage and make that part of your identity, after all my house is older than the US - but stop trying to outdo those people who are actually citizens at nation and earned their Scottish badge by falling out the garage on sauchiehall street a dozen nights in a row straight into the noodle bar (gone but not forgotten) and lived to tell the tale.

    Pauly Donahue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Their bodies say 'Merica! But, the houses say " I don't have to declare bankruptcy because I went to the hospital".

    Julian McCallum
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can you blame em, I mean, how cool would it be to know you are descended from vikings?

    Jessica Wood
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I'm British so probably descended from vikings but not in a good way...

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    PADNA
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see them as conserved. I'll give an example of my own, Lithuanian heritage. Usually people from the US calling themselves of Lithuanian heritage, speak in old timey vocabulary, preserved traditions from 100 years ago while we, locals, changed them to a some point. Some words got outdated, some traditions changed, even our world view has changed since, you know, 50 years of rape so to speak.

    LSR
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was not aware vikings were stinky fat lard filled f*****s....oh, sorry, that is just their u.s. "descendants".

    EJN
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    blood and culture do not necessarily go hand-in-hand.

    Jules
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same could be said for American Italian/Irish/Scottish/Spanish etc etc. They don't have much history so cling desperately to some connection with a country that has. Shame they couldn't respect and embrace the one history they did have.

    Jenni McAleavey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have spoken to countless Americans (I'm Scottish) who all seem to be related to William Wallace! Maybe they are of Scottish decent but there were other Scottish families at this time Sorry but it's actually quite annoying 😅 I can't help it but I have told them Haggis is little ceeatures running around in circles as one leg is smaller than the rest, so their easier to catch 🙈🤣

    April West
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OK this comment is ridiculous. 1st off I'm from America and I have never seen Viking die hards. Sure there's people out there that like to do the role play like I'm in the Civil War area so you see them do that sometimes, But die hard really? Also who's to say they don't know more about the Viking heritage just because you grew up in Ireland doesn't mean you know any more than that person does. It's not like The Vikings are here to tell us anything. We are all just studying it and learning it. So whether Americans are learning through books or classes or you're learning it through it be in pass down through your generations egenerations either way I guarantee you it would've got messed up somewhere in those generations if he came all the way from The Vikings just like it would get messed up by us reading it in the books. So again no 2 was dumb.

    Madeleine Alexis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same goes for Irish and Italian. WE GET IT.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask any American what their nationality is and you'll get the wrong answer 100% of the time. For a country that's rapidly going nationalistic, you'd think they'd know the correct answer. Even the US Census doesn't actually understand the term nationality.

    Augusta Wood
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a multi-part problem type looking at. This happens because a surprising number of Americans are living Dunning-Kruger graphs. Another part of this comes from Americans living in a country where people are encouraged to be incredibly milquetoast. Middle Americans, specifically the people in the center of this country, don't always have complex personalities. They get made to feel like having special interests makes them weird and unpalatable. These people will find that 1 thing that seems somewhat acceptable in America's land of bland, and they go all out to such a degree that they become irritating to the rest of humanity.

    isa alves
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have indigenous heritage (kaingang, from brazil) from my mom's side (since my grandparents were 2nd cousins, they have the same ancestors, basically indigenous woman raped by white guy, then the mixed child married another mixed child, who had mixed children, that married other mixed children and then their mixed daughter married my dad who is first generation german-brazilian), however I don't go around saying I'm indigenous, I'm not, I'm not recognized as indigenous by the kaingang, I have little connection to their culture, however I admire it, I try to learn about the culture as much as I can, I will try to learn their language and I like to buy from them and help them fighting with them for their rights and spreading their voices, this is how I admire my heritage, I never say I am fully kaingang, I am brazilian, 2nd generation brazilian, german traditions are very strong in my family, and I have indigenous heritage but that doesnt make me indigenous, that's it

    Mim Sörensson
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. As a swede, I feel you. Except I don’t feel mocked as much as I feel pity. After a certain point it’s just so very sad. And why would one be desperate to have viking ancestry anyway? We could be right assholes at times.

    Faded Gabe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can anyone take pride in something they had nothing to do with? You didn't come from there, you didn't do anything. A certain combination of people had sex and you were born. Big deal. Do something of your own to be proud of.

    Helmut Kok
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Dane I crince when I hear these things.

    Cheryl Stauffer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a medieval reenactment group called SCA…

    Amanda Moberg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in a town that gets tourists because of Amish. We are so homogeneous that we did a class project I Spanish class to find our heritage. Every one except the exchange student from Guatemala had German, English, Dutch heritage. I don’t remember a single McGuire or 0’ anything. The tourism slowed down the past decade or so. Suddenly we have a St. Patrick’s day 10k run and festival. It kills me.

    Keyrara Sanchez Michael
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or ..or when some people are around 1 or more persons of color and they decide its best to speak "Urban" because ya know..why not.

    Wilf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's really scary is when Americans adopt the "Viking" thing as an identity in such a way that it becomes a pathway into far-right white-supremacist stuff. So many neo-nazi organizations in the USA use Norse imagery and mythology to justify themselves.

    Eric r
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never once have I heard of this

    Frankenfrog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First of all "Vikings" weren't a nationality, but more an occupation. It's insane appropriation to act like you were a first descendant of anything Viking related, when you aren't even FROM any of those countries. Not even the people from those country run around every day acting like Vikings, so give it a rest. And secondly, Americans' obsession with heritage is creepy and cringe.

    Frankenfrog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excuse the typos and bad grammar, phone is acting up

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    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex is 1/4 Irish and you'd think he was alive during the potato famine! He has to listen to the music, drink the Guinness, travel there every couple of years and make sure he keeps up with his 'friends across the pond'. Yet this is a guy who has the audacity to call anyone who wears green on St Patrick's Day, ' a plastic Paddy' because he says "they're only Irish one day a year". ONE reason he's an ex.

    Crispy Toast
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They look like reenactment people. Some groups are better about being more historically accurate than others. Most of the people I knew had no intention of making fun, but so many Americans have terrible manners.

    Mickipickie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, like just how many generations ago, right?

    MJ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My great-great-grabdmother was Native American, possibly Cherokee - the records from that far back get kinda fuzzy heritage-wise. I love knowing that those proud, incredible people are part of my ancestry, and I’ve made it a personal goal to learn as much as i can about Native American tribes and their history, and their struggles, but in my opinion it would just be ignorant for me to claim to be Native American, or even attempt to argue with a direct-line Native American about ANY part of their culture.

    Susie Kamper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mostly because the real vikings were Danish 😄

    Helmut Kok
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They keep forgetting that Norway was not an inderpendant nation until 1905. Okay Norweigians does that to

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    Thomas Sweda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I couldn’t agree more, now if it were polish heritage……!

    Paul Z.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No history of their own, so steal from another...

    Mary Sutherland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, they have no personal genealogical history. They hatched from eggs from outer space. /s

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    Heather Atwood
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one is 100% of any nationality unless they are inbred.

    Celtgrl5
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me dad's a muggle. Mam's a witch

    Phil Green
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is strange, particularly in the US, where, rather than just say "I'm an American", they have to be "Irish-American" or "African-American". I don't mind it so much, but there are "English-Americans" or "French-Americans", it's very strange. In the UK most people are just British, English, you do get Afro-Caribbeans and Indians, but the vast majority are English or British etc...

    LeilaOdinis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've run into those in my travels as a Canadian. I am Scandinavian descent, and I have joined a few clubs here in my city. Some of them go waaaaay overboard.

    Chloe *Leah* Pheonix
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Korean but I dont think it makes up my personality. It's weird to think that your 1% like, Estonian or something and suddenly you're 100%

    Bacony Cakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're not even Viking heritage. All the Vikings did was fart around in Canada, then go back home.

    Nikole
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never heard of this

    Maurettis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Americans puzzle me. It's like they're not proud of what they are. Why the constant need to remind some remote ancestor came from Europe or some other part of the world?

    Mary Sutherland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Canadian, I would say it is because the Indigenous people of Canada frequently point out that we are evil white settlers and they want to decolonize us.

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    Gavin Johnson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Italian American, Irish American, Spanish American, Mexican American and so on and so forth. Really? Stop it now, you are American. Your ancestry is to be left to family trees and you really aren’t better at making pizzas because your great, great, great, great uncle was from Napoli ok?

    Signe Manat Hansen
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate silicone scandis so much

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    Imitation is a form of flattery.

    Horatio Jay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps, but appropriating somebody else's living culture, misinterpreting it, then flaming the people that actually represent that culture, isn't flattering.

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    B S
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    well what do you expect? everyone shits on americans and whitey. so you have whole slices of demographic here in the states desperate to be proud of themselves for SOMETHING but are locked out of nationality and race by default of being born white in the USA. so of course some poor f*****s will latch onto their ancestry. would you rather they latch onto nationalism ect or be proud of their nordic, gaelic, european or mediterranean forebears despite how fractional/tenuous that connection might be? my mother and distaff grandparents were scots but i was born in the US, so i shouldn't embrace my heritage cause i wasn't born there?

    Aliquid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Embracing your heritage is pointless as far as I'm concerned. Where your ancestors lived has zero impact on who you are now, other than benefits gained by generational wealth. Beyond grandparents, who can influence your life... everything else is just a curiosity and history. You can't take credit for who they were, and you can't take blame for who they were.

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    #3

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Work. Some people just make it their whole life and I don't get it. Work to live, don't live to work. My workplace's normal business hours are 8:30 - 5:00, but I'm constantly hearing people say s**t like "when I was working on it this weekend" or talk about how they work so late, it makes me cringe.

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes me wonder if they're avoiding something else in their life. Like being at the office is better than being at home.

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    She explained to us that it’s not unusual for people to focus their attention on one thing, like a goal or interest. The professor explains why it happens, “When you get absorbed in a goal, it can be like a flow state, where everything else can disappear while one becomes pleasantly engrossed in what they are doing.”

    When you get into something with high concentration, “Other thoughts and feelings that are irrelevant to the topic get automatically inhibited. This can be adaptive because it facilitates goal progress and freedom from distractions and conflicts. When people do this well, they get a lot of enjoyment out of it.”

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    #4

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Influencer

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    Lunar
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The word "influencer" itself is so cringey and annoying

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    #5

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Astrology. The only full moon presiding over me is my own bare a**.

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it fun but that's about it. Every personality can be associated to anyone born at any time of the year.

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    #6

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Brands. People think chosing a brand of clothing speaks lota about them.

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    Is Be
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially brands that have their labels visible, I refuse to pay for something and then have to advertise it. I am not a billboard.

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    Depending on the level of absorption, this kind of state may be either beneficial to a person or interfere with their normal life. Dr. Denise Marigold reveals what positive and negative results it can bring, “Absorption in a goal or interest may also serve as a way to get relief from unwanted thoughts and feelings. If people are doing this to block out awareness of unwanted thoughts and feelings, they also tend to lack awareness of the effects their behavior has on others around them (e.g., how boring and lonely it can be for others to be around them when they have gone to their obsessive ‘happy place’).“

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    #7

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Some fans are kinda scary. Their whole life becomes dedication to a celebrity’s. And it’s not just their personality, they make everything around them about that person. Posters, music, merchandise, weird things bought on the internet—supposedly with relation to the subject of their obsession—and so on. I can’t imagine being close to somebody before and after their transition into that life. It seems like it’d be scary…

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    NsG
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the title should really say "obsessive fans". You can be a fan of a celebrity without being frightening. I am a fan of David Tennant. I've never met the man, but I do enjoy whatever I see him in, and it will influence whether or not I watch something if he is one of the stars.

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    #8

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Being sick/ sickly. I've always had very poor health, and in high school and early college, as my conditions worsened, I didn't like that I couldn't live a "normal" life, so I kind of leaned into it. Always joked about how sickly I was while secretly hating myself for not being able to "keep up" with my peers. Some maturing and some guidance from my mother has helped me to learn that, yes, poor health sucks, and yes, I can't always do the things that healthy people can, but that doesn't have to control my identity. Doing far better now, learning what my true limits are and how to work with them!

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it is your identity. Being chronically ill changes who you are. The person i was before being ill, her hobbies, her hopes and dreams, her aproach to life is dead. If you are 24/7 ill, feeling your pain and weakness it becomes part of you.

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    #9

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Disney

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    Tempest
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disney has become a religion. The songs are hymns. Theaters are temples. Toys are icons. Characters are priests and you make pilgrimage to the parks for milestone celebrations or as a final quest for the dying.

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    Some people might get annoyed that there is nothing else to talk about with that person because they will force the same topic on you. You will have to deal with that by assessing the situation and your relationship with that person.

    Dr. Denise Marigold suggests that “In some relationships you might feel comfortable being completely honest and direct and saying something like ‘It’s nice that you are enthusiastic about that! Unfortunately it’s not something I can really get into. Because it’s hard for me to engage in that topic and feel connected with you, I find myself losing interest quickly.’ If you feel the need to be less direct, you can still aim to validate their interest while steering the conversation towards other topics you can both engage in.”

    #10

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Being a badass in school. Like giving teachers a day of hell just cuz they’re “real” and say what they think without filtering it

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL This is such a phase. I was like this for a year in a Bart Simpson sort of way.

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    #11

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Conspiracy theories.

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    So if someone is really focused on a particular interest, it’s just their happy place and they feel comfortable and passionate talking about it. Also, if you get bored of talking about it or listening to it, there are nice ways to try and explain to the person without making them feel like they are a boring interlocutor.

    #12

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group HERBALIFE. having to literally explain to people that it’s an MLM is so frustrating. They prey on small towns, create “nutrition shops” that sell $9 shakes when it’s literally just Herbalife and is helping the owner barely break even. Happened in my small town, then out of nowhere 3 other “branches” popped up in the revolving small towns. (Which basically means the owner conned 3 more into joining so that they can get their profit). There’s a documentary out there called like One in a Million or something that breaks down the pyramid and how little people at the bottom are actually making. They also show that the shakes are nothing more than liquid laxative, so of COURSE you’re losing weight. Also, keto.

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    SuperChicken
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Herbalife is "nothing more than liquid laxative"? Which means, one is only losing water. That's not healthy - and, people still buy them.🙈

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    #13

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Dance moms Sports parent

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    #14

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Political party

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imo out of all of them these are the worst no matter what side they're on.

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    #15

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group My Texas high school had a British club. I'm actually a British citizen, so I tried to join. Those people were nuts. They made Doctor Who and Sherlock their whole personalities.

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    RoseTheMad
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget Harry Potter! I'm a fan of Dr Who, Sherlock and HP, but goddamn I don't make it my personality...

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    #16

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Drinking

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    Alison Kennedy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate that people expect me to explain why I don't drink, like there is something fundamentally wrong with me!

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    #17

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Disliking something. Met someone the other day who hates avocados so damn much every conversation they’d have would come back to how different they were from most people cuz they hated avocados

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    " If you like/don't like what I like/don't like we can't be friends". This gets old real quick.

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    #18

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group The generation they're born in

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel closer to the mindset of gen X than millennials but I'm classified as millennial by when I was born. It's a novelty just like astrology.

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    #19

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Being in the army, military. Also gym

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    I like donuts
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It might be a way of coping with the emotional pain though... (For army/military)

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    #20

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Their music taste. I am very much guilty of this.

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    Geeki Nikki
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am exhausted by the thousands of different music genres now. People ask what kind of music I like.... the good kind.

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    #21

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Disliking something mainstream/popular/common

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't stand this. Wonder how many people are out there missing out on things they might love because they feel like they need to keep up an image they fabricated of being too "edgy' "unique" "original" to like anything mainstream and popular.

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    #22

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group The Office. /* Stares into the invisible camera *

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    RoseTheMad
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or even worse... Friends. ITS NOT EVEN THAT FUNNY.

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    #23

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Owning a tesla

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    *Displayname*=idk
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    DON'T NEED A TESLA TO IMPRESS HER, MY GIRL IS HAPPY ROLLIN ON A VESPA!

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    #24

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Living in NYC

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    Is Be
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no I am not from NYC I am from Manhattan. Hear that one a lot.

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    #25

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Vaping

    I_Smell_A_Lockdown , Mike Mozart Report

    *Displayname*=idk
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vaping is very bad for your lungs. And the rest of your body.

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    #26

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Their boyfriends/girlfriends.

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    KitFrey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If both of their personalities are eachother, what personality do they have?

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    #27

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Their vehicle

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    Bi-Polar Express
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my mini. I don't really talk to others about it, though. It's private.

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    #28

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Coffee

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    RoseTheMad
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I might be guilty of this one. I love a good coffee or tea far too much...

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    #29

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group anime protagonists

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    *Displayname*=idk
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well. This one is funny, but also annoying. Like I have a friend who was OBSESSED with My hero acadamia, s/he would try to be as close as she could to be like the protagonist.. eventually she quit, but some of it still was habit.

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    #30

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Stocks/Trading/Investments This isn’t Boiler Room or Wolf of Wall Street. You don’t need to convince me to get into trading as we talk over a food service counter.

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    UpQuarkDownQuark
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can’t help but think of people who move money to make money as parasites. I have more respect for any janitor or food service worker than I do an investor. No one mows a lawn or bandages a wound is going to ruin the whole economy.

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    #31

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group I wanna say "memes" but that just makes me sad about myself

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? People make these their personality?

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    #32

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Horses

    PhDPepper5 , Aaron Hall Report

    KitFrey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, I like horses but I wouldn't make them my whole personality!

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    #33

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Rick and Morty.

    Nidisu_Dr , Paul Sableman Report

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    #34

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Redditors who act out their usernames.

    MagicMushroomFungi , Jeff Keacher Report

    LagoonaBlueColleen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think their usernames are more of a reflection of their personalities.

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    #35

    35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It, As Shared In This Online Group Travel

    speech_speech_speech , Rosanetur Report

    LagoonaBlueColleen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind these types of people. They're living a life of adventure and exploration. I wish I could have that lifestyle.

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