“How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times
Money makes life easier, but even folks who don’t have it find ways to make do. That is even more true for people who grew up without money. As people often do, they take a bad situation and make the most of it.
Someone asked “People who grew up poor, what's a skill you developed that rich people don't have?” and netizens shared their examples. From all the experience any handyman could ever want to wholehearted respect towards service workers, get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below.
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I'm nice to service industry workers.
Same, I was a cashier and a server in my younger days so I know what it’s like, I’m always kind and patient with them.
Load More Replies...I agree. Hear me out. How about being nice in general ? Being nice may help you through a though time... being friendly in general helps you through life...
Load More Replies...I was a nursing assistant. Minimum wage job, worked all overnight shifts and weekends to get the little bit of extra pay. I LOVED that job. Wiping butt's while maintaining a patient's dignity...I was good at it, appreciated the elderly I worked with, did not get paid enough to sustain life. 😔 Left that job to make more money. Now that I am nearing retirement (2 yrs 1 month, 25 days) I am looking to renew my connection with the old folks. I will be one of them someday and I hope to pay it forward now. The character of a person is determined by how they treat those who can do nothing for them. Quote from Malcolm Forbes. And so very true.
Apparently a lot of famous people have this quote, lol, Nelson Mandela is another...regardless, the sentiment remains true.
Load More Replies...Many rich people have the "skill" of being polite. Also plenty of poor people don't. Being kind to people is not determined by wealth. I had relatives who lived on Orcas Island. A fair number of rich (and some famous) people live there. A recently deceased astronaut, some movie stars, some tech money and so on. My relative worked in the local grocery store and saw many of them (not a lot of shopping choices there) and got on fine with them. The people who act normal and kind are the ones you don't know are rich unless you know them because they don't want to draw attention to themselves. Not every rich person acts like a Kardashian on a reality show.
Courtesy is never based on one's income and you either care about others or you don't.
Load More Replies...Not indicative of growing up poor. I've worked the food service jobs, experienced horrible people poor and rich.
that isn't a poor vs rich thing. that is just an a*****e vs not a*****e. a lot of rich people are nice to service industry people, and a lot of poor people are a******s to service industry people.
There are many rich people that *do* have this skill and practice it so well that you don't even know they are rich. One of the richest people I know (in the $1B net worth range) is also one of the nicest, down to earth people I know. He still drives his old jeep and lives in the same house he's lived in for 20 years (before he became so wealthy) because he didn't want his kids to have to move to a new school. If you didn't know who he was, you wouldn't know he was rich by his appearance or actions. he and his wife set up a charitable foundation and they give a *lot* of money to charity, mostly anonymously.
I treat my stuff with care and it stays in good shape long after I purchase it. I also perform maintenance. I take the extra few seconds to prevent damage rather than dealing with the aftermath.
People always treat me like I'm a woodland sorceress when I tell them I sew up holes in my clothes
I just learned at 40 how to mend denim by hand that will hold. They should teach these things in school!
Load More Replies...Also, I donate stuff that I no longer use or wear. I make sure all items are in good condition, cleaned, sanitized, or fixed as needed. I donated hundreds of clothes, footwear, books, bags, jewelry, home decor and appliances. Feels good to know other people will be happy to use them :)
I make every thing last as long as possible and repair rather than renew. I hate to see perfectly good, perfectly usable items being thrown away just because whoever owned them got a bored with them. One of my biggest pet hates is our wasteful throwaway society.
Same here. Some of my kitchen pans are 25 years old and still in like-new condition!
I love to cook and many of my quality pans were purchased at thrift shops. I once found a Henkle knife!
Load More Replies...Rich people are actually better at this IMO. Not the coke fueled rock stars making news by smashing up a hotel room. I mean the average well off person. Many people are rich in part because they care about money and their stuff. I don't mean bill gates / elon rich. I guess at that level you do what you want. But 'average rich" take care of their things and lower income folks are more likely to treat stuff like it's dollar store throw away. This is based on my personal observation of various income / wealth levels over the years. People differ so YMMV.
The average well off person, again well off being a distinction here, also knows they can easily replace or have someone else come fix/repair/replace the vast majority of their stuff. While they may care a lot about some of their things, overall much of what they have is easily replaceable. Lower income are not more likely to treat things like they are dollar store (and by that I gather you mean cheap) except the fact that a lot of what they have may literally come from dollar (and such) stores. Lower income people know they can't easily replace, they may even know they can't easily repair (but they're more likely to try self-repair than to call someone). Of course everyone's experience will differ, but I am willing to bet that a great deal of information out there will refute your anecdotal experience. That's not to say you're wrong, it's been your experience. I just think you're being a bit myopic in that observation.
Load More Replies...I'm still wearing 10-15 yr old t-shirts (& other clothes). Repair, not replace!
Gratefulness. Learn how to be grateful for everything because there are people in situations that are worse than your own.
This is why I am so thankful for the childhood I had. It was JUST bad enough to make me realize it wasn't that bad. Yes there was abuse, some foster homes in there. But at the end of it all I turned 18 in a loving home (my uncle). And I can look back and be grateful for what I did have, and take what I didn't as a lesson.
Beautiful outlook, Red Panda. You are inspiring. Thank you.
Load More Replies...And on the flip-side, feeling so painfully sorry for people not doing well, when you have somehow dug yourself out of the unimaginable poverty you came from. I still drive an old car, do my own hair, don't go out much, but my partner and I have a nice home, and are "doing well". This after I grew up in a rodent-infested moldy trailer with a leaky roof, that frequently didn't have power or running water. We used to bike as a family to the grocery store 4 miles away and back, buying food on government assistance. And right now I sit on a couch, next to my partner in front of a large TV while he gets back into Elden Ring, in front of an air-conditioner... I could go on, but I think the term I'm looking for here is "Survivor's Guilt"... 😞 **Edited to add ~and imposter syndrome! I feel it every day 😞
Or you could choose to be proud of your life choices, and hope that others eventually find their own ways. Don't beat yourself up for improving your life.
Load More Replies...The news the US Supreme Court decided cities can fine homeless people for sleeping outside 😔 I am thankful I have a roof over my head
That’s just pure evil. How on earth can people get out of poverty this way. Or are they planning to give every homeless person a roof over their head.
Load More Replies...Someone downvoted this but the answer is that yes, you can train your heart to feel gratitude. One of the best ways is to help someone else to improve their circumstances.
Load More Replies...Here again my experience is the complete opposite. Poor people tend to mock those in worse situations than their own.
Lots of rich people are grateful and express gratitude for their wealth. In my experience they do it so that they can feel better about holding onto their wealth and they often directly refer to "people in situations that are worse" than them when they express gratitude.
Determining wants from needs.
My husband has this semi joking "neeeeeed? Or waaaaaant?" Thing when i start talking about how i need something. It's funny, but it reminds me of the real difference between necessity and nice. We both grew up poor
And even what needs are more important than other needs, I find keeping a list helps. I then prioritize everything and once I have money for the next thing on the list I get it. I also have a wants priority list. If all my needs are meet and I've saved up the money for it then I'm not going to deprive myself of the nice things.
Any time I see something I’d like to buy and I don’t quite have the cash, I think of my Nan telling me “Do you want it or do you need it?” And most of the time I won’t buy it unless I really do need it :)
I was taught from a very early age the thing of - "I want! vs I need". Bills, food etc first... That DVD or whatever will still be there later but how are you going to watch it if you've no electricity?
So many people seem unable to differentiate luxuries from necessities. I once knew a couple with two kids who claimed they couldn't afford to eat every day. I felt sorry for them until I discovered that somehow they could afford to run a car, had a state of the art tv, had a state of the art stereo system (this was the 1990s), the latest video games console and they could both find the money to smoke 20 cigarettes a day each.
I (wife) fixed our broken dishwasher today ( took me a couple of hours) I didn't even see a dishwasher in real life until I got married. My husband and I are from verrryy different backgrounds I'm from the depth of Russia and he is from Manhattan. He was very impressed and surprised 😊😊😊.
I'm very proud of you.😁Always keep your washer, dryer, dishwasher and air conditioner clean. It'll save you A LOT of money in the long run.
Hang on... Well done for you, but wow I can't afford those luxuries...but your right did I could I would too...lol
Load More Replies...I wouldn't have had any idea how to fix a dishwasher.
When I was 10 our vacuum cleaner died. My Mom literally cried as she was a single parent to 4 children. My attitude was "Hey, if it's already broke I can't hurt it". I dismantled the engine & found there was a pebble in the fan motor, which made the machine turn off as soon as it overheated. I cleaned & oiled everything. That vacuum worked for another five years. I replaced the drum belt on the dryer, too. I can only thank my Grandpa - I loved hanging out in the workshop with him. I knew how to change a flat tire by the time I was 8.
I hadn't seen or used a dishwasher until after we moved into base housing. (ex was a Marine)
Nice! Was scratching my head how to afford replace the 'broken' washing maching. Turns out it was a cheap 10$ part. Youtube tutorial help was great and wa fixed in 39 mins. Saved me 300$
I've stripped a washing machine (without Youtube videos) and removed a disintegrated rug from the drum. Paying for a repair wasn't an option. You need a bit of fearlessness for taking apart white goods, guard your removed screws from pets and kids (magnets help),it was quite easy except for removing the breeze block (stability during spins).
I've a dishwasher 5 years now and I've never used it, not once. Firstly i don't know how and if i did use it where would all the stuff i store in it go.?
I hope you enjoy doing it. Go buy a good tool set. You may be in for the long run! 34 years here. Saved lots of money but I want to toss every tool I've got!!
Coming up with meals with whatever is leftover in the pantry and fridge.
I am a jazz pianist. I wished I had the improvisational skills with food, herbs and spices like I have at the keyboard.
Jazz pianist?? That's so cool! (I've actually named my two cats after two great jazz pianists, "Jelly Roll Meowton" and "Thelonious Chonk" 😹
Load More Replies...Whilst I'd agree that this is an excellent trait to have (for anyone) I would also add that you need to have actual *food* in the fridge, rather than the junk pictured.
My motto is "work with what you have".It works with food and a lot of other things in life.
Try to plan meals with leftovers. Pot roast - at least two and sometimes 3 meals. Don't stick your nose up at making soup the last meal.
That is a real art. I always laugh when I watch cooking competitions on TV, and they are using such expensive ingredients that I could never try their dishes. I have longed for a cooking show where the combatants has to use only what is usually in the fridge just before payday.
Not being picky with food. I can eat the same food forever and never get sick of it.
Same. Have eaten the same breakfast for about 20 years, and I still wake up almost as happy as my cat, just thinking about it.
I mean your cat probably eats the same breakfast every day and I’m sure they’re happy with it too 😊
Load More Replies...I used to eat everything, but I had a lot of stress in life and now my stomach cannot hold many things. I usually politely say "I would really love to taste, but my stomach has some problems, I won't be able to have a full portion. Can I have just a little bit to try and just a plain side dish and veggies?"
Unfortunately if you've a severe allergy? You need to be picky with food... Years ago I had to use food donation services but I was given packets of dried food that contained peppers aka Capsicum. I obviously couldn't have them because I'm highly allergic to Capsicum and when I asked if I could swap them possibly? The woman said, "Take what you're given and be grateful!"... I went to someone else who thankfully understood.
I'm on the spectrum, so taste, texture, and appearance are all huge factors for a "new" food. I'd rather eat something familiar that I don't like than try something new, unless it just jumps out at me. Being poor helped somewhat, as did prison. I was in my late 40's before I ever tasted potato salad, pasta salad, or coleslaw. I quite like potato salad and coleslaw, and can eat them now. I do get sick of foods if I eat too much of them. Ramen noodles were the go-to at commissary, and I ate them every day for years. I haven't had them once since my release, but I'm close to ready again.
Maybe go to a 'from scratch' Japanese ramen restaurant?
Load More Replies...Ditto. I lived on on hot dogs, potatoes, and canned corn during my 20's when times were lean.
Instant ramen and eggs for me. Boil water, throw in noodles with seasoning packet and crack an egg into it. I’m not broke anymore but I still eat it for lunch pretty often lol
Load More Replies...I have been having for lunch the same menu: fruit (6 ) and yogurt. I don't get tired of the same.
Same with me but I am picky because of food anxiety so I’d actually rather eat the same thing over and over
Strong work ethic, when my coworkers gripe and complain over minor stuff, flashbacks of praying for a job like this comes to mind.
In my personal experience, work ethic is instilled, I've known rich and poor with both solid and lacking work ethic.
My colleague used to rant and complain about everything. One day I got so fed up I told her no one is forcing her to work. If she has so many issues, she can resign and maybe someone in dire need will get the job. Although she didn't stop completely but the complaints got a lot lesser
It's normal to have some gripes and want to let off steam, but I do agree that hearing people complaining about the job, the coworkers and company all the time is terrible for the workplace vibe. Used to work at a place that had a few people like that. For years this one lady kept saying she was going to quit. She finally did when the pandemic hit.
Load More Replies...My fear is not being able to do well and getting fired. Then my anxiety comes out. Then I have to regulate myself back down so I don't get in trouble for being erratic. Some of my coworkers say I care too much about the job and not to worry. I can't help it. I don't care how menial it is to the greater world, it's a job I took on and I do it with pride.
I do exactly this and burn myself out try to excel at my job because of the fear of losing my job.
Load More Replies...I have a great work ethic too, but I also have self esteem, so I won’t put up with being mistreated for the sake of a paycheck. So I might share the gripes, but at least I try to get the treatment improved. If I can’t, then it’s time to quietly and discreetly find another job—-lots of low key lunch hour interviews where no one knows where I’m going, you know. Those are easy if you don’t get too chummy with coworkers—-which I learned the hard way after being stabbed in the back by people I thought were my good friends. I now look for friendships anywhere but at work or work-related stuff.
I got my work ethic from my grandparents. When to work hard, when to take a break and how to appreciate a good beer at the end of a long day :)
I don't think that work ethic is a special kind of ethic, but simply the way you honor your commitments at work, in friendships and marriages
I've always had a strong work ethic. Once when I had the best job I'd ever had, the company decided to 'rightsize' the company and make some people redundant. My job was under threat and I was devastated. I had colleagues in other departments whose jobs weren't under threat but they did nothing but moan and whinge about their jobs. During one of my consultation sessions I was asked if I had any ideas to prevent my redundancy, I replied, "I love it here and I really don't want to lose my job. Perhaps some of the people who are always moaning about their jobs might like to be made redundant instead of me."
I automatically add groceries up in my head as I shop so I am not embarrassed by having to put things back. I do it automatically now, even if I can afford the food.
I do this at any store. I am in the process of paying off my debt and avoid using credit cards.
I don't know how or why, but I'm able to remember all the prices of groceries I purchase. I round the prices off to include tax.
I still find it strange that the tax is not included in the USA. But really impressive that you can remember all those prices.
Load More Replies...I used to do this. Then I made a written list and logged prices next to the items, and added them up before checking out, to see if I had to put anything back. Now I use a grocery shopping app that lets me log and save prices, so after enough trips I now have so many prices saved (I update them when they go up) that I have a pretty good ballpark figure for my total before I go to the store. I shop the lower shelves and compare prices and ingredients between name brands and generics. I also clip a load of coupons, but still compare the name brand coupon price to the price of the generics—-sometimes even the coupon can’t bring the brand name prices down to the generics’ prices. I also haunt the clearance aisle, and shop sales, like when there’s a special for meats. I hate to pay full price for anything, because I have never been rich. I was downright poor when I was young. I’m not poor anymore, not rich but comfortable. However, I can’t forget the struggling to get by, and the habits ingrained in me back then.
And read small part. Cost per oz. Or lb. I will be doing some math skills!
Load More Replies...I can't do this well. I have to use a calculator. Then I round out the price a bit to make room for tax.
I round UP to the nearest dollar when I add items to my cart, thru out my shopping and right before I reach the register. Usually, surprised that the actual total is way below what I totalled.
In Oklahoma we pay sales tax on everything including groceries and that percentage varies from city to city.
I look up prices online first, then add it up and also try to find the best deals. But in person is different. But the having to put things back? Omg, it's highly embarrassing. My bank card failed to go through with one big shop because of apparently reported fraud on it... I know who it was now, as do the police and my bank. The walk of shame though...
My mom would brown ground beef and then she would make a batch of bisquick dough (she used bisquick almost every day). She would roll the dough out and sprinkle it with the ground beef and then roll it up lengthwise and slide it like cinnamon rolls (but with ground beef inside). She’d bake them and then pour cream of mushroom soup gravy on top. She could feed six of us on less than a pound of ground beef that way lol.
...and sounds pretty good as well, similar to biscuits and gravy (an all-time favorite of mine).
Load More Replies...I think everyone should have some cheap easy go to meals they know how to make and like. You can save so much $ by not eating out. Pasta, rice and beans, eggs.
I like shakshuka - eggs poached in seasoned tomato sauce :) scoop it all up with some bread and it’s delicious. Bonus points for garlic and veggies like onions or peppers, and a dash of olive oil and feta cheese if you’re lucky enough!
Load More Replies...Small sausage links rolled up in canned biscuit or crescent roll dough. Sausage roll ups. Serve with macaroni and cheese and frozen peas. If you go with Walmart store brand, you can feed a family of five for about $9. That was in heavy rotation at our house when I was a kid.
I've always said you could judge our week based on what was in our gravy with toast. A lean week was dried beef (chipped beef, which I still love) Homemade sausage (ground pork seasoned) or a good week we would have hamburger meat. We always used bread or Mom would make homemade biscuits if she had the time. But one loaf of bread, flour, water, a little bit of milk, ground black pepper and whatever type of dried beef/sausage/ground beef to throw in the gravy could feed multiple kids. That's still a go to meal for me and one of my comfort foods.
My mom did a similar thing, rolling beef or cheese in pastry made with water and flour. In Dominican Republic it's called "pastelitos". In harder times it was just the pastry
My mam would a dish similar yo irish stew with a lb of ground beef. Still make it sometimes as a comfort food. Was cheap but filling.
I've had this -- delicious. And goes even farther if served with mashed potatoes.
The ability to respect everyone's dignity equally and never consider anyone as my servant, domestic, or slave.
I've seen rich people being street smart, eating the same low quality food all day, having excellent DIY skills... But I've yet to meet someone rich and able to realize homeless people, maids, or cashiers have the exact same amont of human dignity as they do.
I disagree. Some who are rich have been homeless at one point in their lives.
I disagree with the OP on this one. Luckily I have met many rich people who treated everyone equally.
OP might be talking about billionaire rich, not wealthy-doctor-down-the-street rich
Load More Replies...You must not have met very many rich people then obviously. To make such a sweeping generalization you’re a total a*s.
There's even at least one study that found a correlation between wealth and a lack of empathy. Even showing that empathy can devolve as one grows and stays rich, iirc.
If you've never been in the position of having to claim benefits or have had to use a food bank? Been homeless? Then okay, your view could be very different... But please don't negate anything that the homeless have to go through. Homelessness isn't always a choice.
I met my husband online 17 years ago. BUT, my first 2 dates were non-starters. Guy #1 was so condescending & patronizing to our server that I was appalled. He kept looking at me with a smirk, like "Aren't you impressed with my Master of the Universe attitude". No, I was not. I literally grabbed my purse and just walked out. I left a very real "review" on his profile page and then blocked him. Guy #2 wasn't quite so bad, but close enough. Same story. Thank God my husband was date #6.
I’ve seen so many rich people that treat everyone else like c**p that I can totally understand this statement. Like everything, there’s always exceptions to the rule, but that doesn’t mean OP isn’t pointing out an important general point. Folks who were born and raised privileged often don’t have the capacity to understand what life is like for the rest of us and it can cause a lot of judgment and rudeness.
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To not confuse status with real happiness.
I have a very broke 38M friend. His goal is to own an F-350 Platinum (fanciest giant Ford truck, $150,000~) by the end of the decade. Not his own home, not any personal development goals, a big expensive truck. He doesn’t need a truck at all, he would treat it like a car. He lives in his grandma’s basement because his parents finally kicked him out for refusing to pay rent or help with the house. His only goal is this expensive truck so he can look cool to his friends. It’s more important to him than being a cool or good person or having new life experiences or enjoying friendships. I’m so glad my ego isn’t like that lmfao.
Yeah, there are a lot of emotionally immature people like that, whose major goals are so shallow, they’ll never get anywhere in life. I bet that guy is either unemployed or works at a low-paying job, because he never sought to learn the skill necessary to make a good living.
Load More Replies...At one point my family made a little more money. We had a nicer car and more toys. I went around feeling smug and looking down on others who had less. Then my mom lost her job. We became poor. Sold the car. Where would I get my self-esteem from now? I realized we were still the same people and I'd been an idiot. It serves me well as an adult. I don't have to have the fanciest clothes, biggest house, or nicest car to feel good about myself. Nice not to be in that trap.
To some people, status is the only thing that matters when it comes to being happy; they’re happy they aren’t lower status. These are sad, miserable people who want nothing more than to drag us all down to their level.
There are some really nice wealthy people out there. I'm just reacting to some comments. Rich or poor? Either way? You could be an a-hole. Not all rich people are nasty and not all poor people are belligerent towards those who have more money than them. If you're going to be nasty towards others? At least have a valid reason for it. Money basically means we can live, eat and survive.
How to use and repair everything and run it into the ground.
At 69 years old I am daily thankful my father taught me to use tools. When I meet snobbish people who have to hire someone for even the simplest of repairs, I feel sorry they never experienced the satisfaction of repairing or building something themselves.
YouTube learned me how to fix my parents dishwasher. I was so happy when I successfully finished the project. So I can imagine how you feel.
Load More Replies...The US Navy has a saying: “Use it up, wear it out; make it do or do without.” Most of us could stand to follow that advice.
DIY options are declining as more basic household items are "smart," having electronic or technical features added e.g. computerized refrigerators. Same for cars now too; if it's programmable, it's not a simple repair. And of course there's planned obsolescence which guarantees the item will fail, forcing the user to replace it.
This! I've learned how to change parts in my dryer, lighting ballasts, electrical outlets, done drywall repair (not just patching, cutting out the area and replacing)... It's amazing what we are capable of when we have no other choie!
I wish this was easier and cheaper in some ways. I have to fight with insurance every year to keep my vehicles insured, only because they are 17 and 18 years old. Their both running perfectly fine and I have maintained them and replaced parts that need it when it's needed and required for it to run. I only keep the minimum coverage required on them because I would never be paid enough to get another vehicle. And any time I think about replacing my dodge caravan I get sad because I got it when I was struggling and she got me though getting to work, having a place to sleep. And I can't part with that yet. I think that's also part of the reason I have never put money aside for a another vehicle, once the money is there then she will be gone. The other vehicle is a campervan, I upgraded my sleeping arrangements for 5 years.
Sadly, repair skills are going the way of the dinosaurs. At least the EU has made it legal for those of who want to repair stuff.
Could you explain what you mean by the EU has made it legal? I'm honestly asking, because it almost sounds like you're saying it was somehow illegal to repair your own stuff before now and that just seems ridiculous to me.
Load More Replies...I'm a General Handyman (self employed) and have earned a reasonable living the past 2 decades from doing household tasks that others can't/won't do. Their loss is my gain.
Resilience.
How to be more resourceful on my own since we couldn't pay people to do stuff.
How to be happy without the need for a lot of material possessions. So, even now, I still don't have a lot but it's by choice.
Finally, generosity. When you live in a hood where everyone is poor too, you learn to share what you have when you have it and vice versa,.
Yeah, resilience 100%....... I was living on my own by the time I was 16.... you learn to look after yourself pretty quick when you have no one to turn to....
You sure do. I was in foster care and you really learn quickly. You're out, on your own and it's up to you.
Load More Replies...When something happens and other people are panicking or crying or freaking out or giving up, I’m over here immediately thinking of possible solutions for fixing it or cleaning it up. The reason is that I was 100% on my own, with no money, no family nearby, no “safety net”, and no one else I could turn to for help—-except for myself. So if something happened, it was always up to me alone to dig myself out. There are no knights in shining armor, there’s no cavalry, no hero to come along and save you. Even the people who always told me to call them if I needed help would suddenly disappear off the face of the earth when I picked up the phone and dialed their numbers. The only person you can 100% rely on to help you when you need it is yourself. But, if I promised someone I’d help them if they needed it, I would be there when they called, because I know what it’s like to ask for help and have no one answer. I rarely got paid back for giving my help, but it didn’t matter. I did the right thing, so I’m satisfied.
Did this living in shelters as a teenager. We all shared what we had even tho we didn't have to.
His picture sucks. Could be a nice photo of two people being cute, sharing a "something." Instead, they look like they are trying to share the last ration before starving themselves z
BP has a very limited selection of free stock photos to choose from.
Load More Replies...I agree with this, but unfortunately some people don't. I had a pool for 20 years and kids came every day to swim with no food or a towel. but I got no help with anything. I also fed said kids. Sometimes you have to cut people out. I closed my pool and am in the process of removing it. Some people are rude and teach others to be rude. Kudos to you tho.
You didnt have to allow any of that to happen though…..resilience is something you have to learn when you have no choice. Generosity with your resources when you’re dead broke but so is everyone else is incredibly kind and beautiful. Allowing the neighbour kids to play in your fancy backyard pool and giving them snacks and then complaining about it later is not really comparable…
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I can grow food from seed to harvest. Take that, you rich bastards!
We planted 140 tomato plants amd now they are all bearing fruit. Canning tomorrow and I'm already tired!
I assume that you have green tomatoes left over at the end of the season. Do you make green tomato relish since you know how to do canning? I've got a great recipe, it's so easy and absolutely everybody loves it....
Load More Replies...Saving seeds from heirloom plants as well so you do not need to purchase them yearly
Beware Monsanto has heirloom seeds and if they hear about you growing plants and fruits and veggies they're going to come check your plants and fruits and veggies to make sure it's from their heirloom seeds and if not then they can sue you ask any farmer who grows their own crops which is pretty much all the farmers for real this is a real thing they can actually sue you for not using their heirloom seeds and they expect the farmers to pay them $30,000 for the Right to Grow these heirloom seeds as well as pay for the cost of just three little crates full of seeds, enough for 1000 acres. no joke personally I think that's criminal that's no different than the bully bullying you out of your milk money and then turning around and making you buy their milk or whatever it's no different than the mafia you know for a little extra security you pay us and we'll make sure everything's cool yeah right
We always had tons of different tomatoes and pepper plants for years until Mom and I both got sick. I still remember we would pick some tomatoes early and make fried green tomatoes and damn they were good. I really miss those days.
I appreciate your skills, but you know they'll just hire someone to do it.
Based on your comment and name, you are still a child I presume?
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Making food last and turning left overs into other meals. My partner tried to just eat the breast off a whole roast chicken and throw the rest away… absolutely not.
Whatever your meat preferences, one of the main attractions about getting a chicken to roast is the additional meals you'll make with the leftovers.
Load More Replies...WHAT?? The rest of the chicken is best part. Especially the skin and bones.
Eat the larger pieces of meat shred the rest off of the bones to make chicken salad or soup, save the bones to make stock when you have enough, or to make the broth for the shredded chicken soup out of.
Man save the rest for soups or make chicken pot pie. Blows my mind how wasteful some people are.
I won't say I grew up rich, but well enough that I developed a taste for not having to pick meat of the bones of chicken etc. My gf on the other hand grew up making the most out of every scrap. Consequently she gives me the breast meat and she eats the rest and makes soup with the bones!
My mum used to make a small roast chicken last three or four days( for 3 of us). We would have it with roast potatoes and veggies on the Sunday, Monday we would have the rest of the meat with mash and a tin of peas. Then she would make stew using the bones and any left over meat and lots of veggies that where all chopped roughly . She used manly carrot , onion, and potatoes, but if she could afford them she would add turnip and parsnips,add water and a stock cubes, and some gravy powder to thicken it a little at the end and we would have a really nice filling stew( I anyway looked forward to that day). Depends on how much veg she used sometimes there was enough for a extra day. Just the thing on cold days, lovely.
That's just pure madness! I'd be throwing the partner away. There are so many meals in a whole chicken and that's not including the bones.
And in comes "cheater's burgoo"!! We take all the leftovers (that would potentially work together of course), and make burgoo with the leftovers. It normally lasts a couple nights, but the leftovers are gone, it didn't taste the same, and we've saved more money instead of throwing it out!
Keeping myself entertained without spending much money when I have long periods of time off.
People who fuss about being alone surprise me. I'd do great on a solo long voyage or some such.
Load More Replies...A lot of local museums and parks are free. The library is free, and has more than books to borrow. There are lovely old neighborhoods with Victorian houses you can take a stroll by. Lots of stuff is free, if you take the time to look for it. I learned this when I was young and poor.
This is why I play video games. If I have some time off I’ll just open up an old video game and replay it. Free, nostalgic, fun. Unless you’re playing a new ea game.
The ability to walk for miles.
I used to walk 2 hours every day to work because work started at 6am and there was no public transport. Most I did was 8 hours walking 24 miles overnight to do a 12 hour day. On several occasions. Looking back I don't kjow how I did it but know if i had to id probably do it again.
Don't skimp, if possible, on good quality shoes! You only have one pair of feet!
Load More Replies...Some rich put in their miles through hiking and jogging. The difference is walking those miles because you have no choice.
My family always had a car, but I walked for miles since I was 1 yo. I don't drive and I know I can walk home even when I am sick, injured or unbelievably tired. I just know my way home and I walked it many times, looking like a pale zombie, in rain, snowstorm, night... I don't think anyone would do this having any other options...
I became disabled in November 2023. One of my favourite things was to get on my treadmill and walk or run for an hour or two everyday. I miss it so much i could cry. Health is so important people.
Ability to walk doesn't always correlate with money. If your family has no car, you need to walk/cycle no matter what. It also depends on how well public transportation works in your city.
I used to walk miles. I love walking on the beach,or in the countryside but an injury stopped all of that in 2016. The thing I most miss is definitely walking in the beach,listening to the ocean
Being comfortable in an ugly space. Although, I notice this more with my middle class peers. Walls the wrong color, flooring is off, layout of a space not ideal? It's fine. I've definitely seen worse. As long as it has four walls, a roof, the toilet works, flooring isn't there, and I can afford heat and AC, I'm really happy.
I moved out of a gorgeous basement suite because my bf at the time thought I could do better. It was $675 a month (when everything else was about $1000 a month) and had a huge bedroom with wall-in closet and screen door to the backyard, lighting was perfect, I was so happy. I was 22 at the time and it’s one of my biggest regrets lol, I shouldn’t have listened to him
THIS and several others. Recently a woman and i had been vibing at work. All was well until I invited her to my house (rented condo, 2 bed 1 bath). I cooked an amazing roast dinner, homemade brownies (from scratch) and a whole pan of homemade mac and cheese (her fav of mine). Movie night. That was the plan. She comes in, and I saw her look around and her face said it all. My walls need paint, and some stuff could use some attention. Its no showcase. Fine enought evening. Rumors at work start. Little did she know Ive been homeless, slept in my car, in abandoned houses. I dont have much but Im grateful for everything I have. It may not all match but its mine and Ive worked hard to rebuild my life for the umpteenth time. Judge my character, not my house.
Bravo for you! 💖 and if she started whispering about your home at your shared work, she is no friend of yours.
Load More Replies...But learn some basic painting skills and a dump can be transformed. Paint till it aint!
Being able to determine the difference between quality and marketing.
Unfortunately, a lot of poor people can't. That's why you got people buying mattresses on monthly payment plans, why Coach, Louis Vitton and others make record profits off people who make less than $50K, why terrible things like Robux exist, etc.
You can get designer stuff at thrift stores if you go right when they open and beat the regular resellers. The Salvation Army sells brand new mattresses for a couple hundred bucks. Still a bit steep for me right now. Last time I bought one was about 13 years ago. I need to replace it soon, but it's lasted many years. It's one of those things that don't last forever.
Same with consignment websites. You have to be careful, enlarge pictures to see flaws, and ask for measurements to be sure of the fit, but you can quite often come out with a real bargain, especially if you like to negotiate like I do to get a good price. But you have to be smart about it, and not insult a seller by lowballing them too much. Have a fair price in mind, start out enough below it that you’re not lowballing, only come up gradually each turn, even at some point asking to split the difference if you’re close to your preferred price, and eventually you’ll either reach a stalemate and lose the sale, or you’ll get a fair price for the item.
Load More Replies...I have to disagree with the payment plan thing. My fridge freezer (from 1969) died back in 2003, and I didn't have money for a new one. My credit had been ruined by my ex-husband. My only option was a payment plan for a new fridge freezer. So yeah, I ended up paying about 2 grand for a fridge freezer that would have cost $800 new. It's not that I was stupid, it's that the first thing that gets taken away from you when you are poor is choice. Money gives you choices.
Life is a lot more expensive when you're poor. I'm sorry you had to do that.
Load More Replies...Designer anything is not a panacea for low self esteem, and going into debt to obtain these things only adds to poor self esteem.
This is so true. I'm constantly trying to educate my son on not being taken in by labels. Look at what the thing is, and what it does, and how it's made, what you need, how long it will last. Not the sticker. Not the newest necessarily.
Louis Vuitton items are so ugly! My former sibling was so proud of her LV purse/tote and wallet that she paid almost $10K for but they were so ugly!
Coach and Louis Vuitton in the same category… OP is absolutely not « able to determine the difference between quality and marketing »
You just have to look at the fine print. I replaced my laptop last year after my nearly 10 year old one was on its last leg. I could have outright paid for it but chose the 12 interest free payment option. Why? Because I wanted to keep my money longer. I realize not everybody has that option and there were times mom had to do the payment thing growing up as it was the only way to get something we really, really needed. It was a necessary evil at times. It sucked being broke. I can still remember what it felt like when I was in my mid 30s realizing I didn't have to ask myself if I could afford to buy a hot breakfast in the cafeteria at work instead of having cold cereal for the millionth time in a row.
I’m not afraid of poverty, I know how to navigate it. In the same token because I came from poverty, I’ve set myself up to not experience it again.
So true! My job is stable, I'm going no where, and thankfully, they agree. My budget is already made out a year in advance so I know where every penny is going and what is potentially expendable if needed (or selfishly wanted come my birthday and mothers day).
Oh, yes. Absolutely. I'm actually getting ready to buy my first new car ever. I'm 62. I did that by myself.
Resourcefulness! We're basically the MacGyvers of everyday life.
I still have a set, but dials are the way to go. More accuracy? C mikes.
Load More Replies...This was how my dad was. He could "mac" all kinds of things. They weren't always pretty, but they worked for what he needed.
Not having an emotional connection to pretty much anything, because I know it could go anyday. I could lose it all, everything, and just start again.
This has been my biggest lesson, too. Once I was left by an abuser when I ran out of psychological/emotional elements for him to break. Realized he has isolated me so much I had no bridges left, no job, no drivers license (he convinced me not to renew cuz he liked driving me around yuck), not a dime to my name, etc....i had to just let the eviction happen and took a sack of clothes and my dog and started all over. Years later I ended up in a roommate situation where they lied about paying the rent and had found a way to cash my rent checks. They hid all eviction notices (I worked nights) so I had no idea until I came home one day and every single thing I owned was gone (I always had my dog with me even at work). Being broke kept landing me in bad situations and although I broke that cycle, I still exist with the possibility at the back of my mind. And it comes in handy from time to time when things break or something. "Ah well, it's just stuff."
This can go both ways. Sometimes when poverty hits you hard you inste hoard your possessions for fear of losing anything again
I remember reading that Joan Rivers was so insecure about whether the work would dry up some day, that when she saw a dress she liked, she'd buy 2 of it, so that if hard times came, she'd still have new clothes.
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Empathy!
He's a sociopath and a sadist, that's why he enjoys screwing over people and just being a consummate a$$hole.
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Entering a grocery store with a handful of coins and leaving with a combination of products that maximizes total calories and filling effect, and costs exactly what I have, without anyone noticing that's what I'm doing.
Buying dried beans after you get your paycheque, just to be sure you have something to eat when you run out of money.
Even easier are dried lentils. They don't need the soaking overnight.
Load More Replies...Pay all the bills and have just enough left over to buy a big jar of peanut butter and a loaf of bread to feed yourself until the next payday.
Did the ramen thing for awhile. You could by a case of it for like 3 bucks back then and you got 15 or 20 packages per case. Still keep a few on hand for emergency food as they last forever.
Yeah really skimping and scraping there..............
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I would say caution out in public. i grew up poor. My wife grew up rich. I stay with and blend with crowds. She counts her money at ATMs.
My wife leaves her purse, backpack, phone, and when she has not bag, even her wallet visible in the car (which she even used to leave running) when she goes into a store. She also would pull out a wad of cash and count it out at a register showing the world exactly how much cash she has on her. I was shocked. How in the world had she gone this long without being robbed, is beyond me. She wasn't rich, but she married her controlling ex at 17 and never was responsible for those types of things (he controlled and did all the driving, paying etc. after their divorce she ended up on a "friends" couch who weaseled his way into a similar position, counting on the traumatic and learned behaviors. She was in bed with him not long after crashing there and not for any reason other than he made her feel like she owed him/ couldn't do anything without him. Longer story short, we eventually did get robbed when she went out. She's a frikin badass now.
Not "leaves", like as in currently, used to leave as in not anymore. My bad.
Load More Replies...This has nothing to do with growing up poor / growing up rich, this has everything to do with growing up in a safe place/city/country or not. Rich people in bad countries are absolutely paranoid and obsessed with safety and are used to blend in.. On the contrary there are many countries where you’d never ever be mugged at an atm, even at night, even while counting your money. The world is not everywhere the unsafe shithole some people live in, assuming it’s the norm.
My thoughts exactly. We were taught to count money at ATMs just to check if you got correct amount of money. While of course robbing at ATMs happens, it is uncommon.
Load More Replies...My husband grew up in a small town in the woods and doesn’t understand not to leave the car windows open.
Anyone that clueless or naive is asking to be a victim if not a dead victim. Many crimes against females by males including but not limited to rape/sexual assault are oftentimes crimes of convenience BECAUSE THE VICTIM WAS PREOCCUPIED AND NOT PAYING ATTENTION!
Ability to stay hungry for a long time.
I'm pretty sure that comes naturally to everybody if they don't get enough to eat.
You learn to fix everything. Everything can be fixed, buying a new item only happens when I consider fixing it to be more of a hassle than making whatever cash the item costs new is, which isn’t often. New items just eventually wear and turn used within a week or so.
My Toyota Camry is 23 years old. I just keep replacing the add-ons because the engine and transmission just keeps going.
This was my father's mantra too - earned a DC lawyer's salary but fixed everything
Unfortunately, way too many items manufactured today have no user serviceable parts and it certain areas it is not even possible to go to an independent repair shop to have them do the work.
We have a nice Kitchenaid mixer I bought at a yard sale for $5 because it was broken. I brought it home and disassembled it and found a broken gear so I headed to a local appliance parts store and they had a new gear in stock for $10. Now we have a $320+ mixer for $15 and an hour and a half of my time.
I know what “enough” is.
Resilience/problem solving. I can find my way out of any situation,.
I wonder if Donald Trump ever learned how to fix any of life's problems. I would assume he always paid someone to fix them or make them go away.
Got him on your mind all the time, huh? Even here? Why bring the election into a perfectly nice list?
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Getting out of bad situations by myself and my own wits.
I can create a delicious meal from whatever; my wife is stil bamboozled by how tasty my random meals are, even after 10 years pf being together.
There is nothig too terrible that cannot be fixed by a sincere excuse. Lies will only get you intoo deeper s**t.
I can repair at home any elwctrical appliances or gadgets.
I am grateful for anything that happens. Even if I find 50% discound maturated ribs. Or a parking spot in the shade.
Karma is real.
Yesterday I woke up hot as heck and wondered why my air conditioner hadn't cut on. I looked at the thermostat and it was blank. I finally decided to pull the cover off before waking up my husband. The batteries were dead. A small feat, but I'm proud of myself. 😁
Sometimes issues that you think will be expensive can be solved by something as inexpensive as replacing batteries. On the other hand, some issues that seem like they’d be cheap to fix turn out to be damned expensive.
Load More Replies...Being able to see trouble brewing while it's still miles away. I believe this is called being hyper-vigilent, as if it were a negative thing. And being like Felix the Cat when confronted with an obstacle, able to pivot on a dime when thwarted, then come at the problem with different tools and a different strategy.
Anyone who can survive being poor, or worse, turns out to be a very resourceful person who doesn’t waste time feeling sorry for themself or freaking out or giving up or panicking, but gets right to work getting themself through it and out the other end. There’s time to cry or freak out when they’re finished and in better shape and safe—-and believe me, that delayed reaction does come. They also learn to read the signs and can “smell” trouble, as well as prepare for it, before anyone else even knows it’s coming.
When you've been a target of violence,no matter how long ago, the hyper vigilance becomes exhausting.
Knowing hunger. I don't think you can truly know yourself when there's a part of you that will kill for food or die. It is strangely empowering. Not facing serious adversity is a gift and a curse.
The people who don't know discomfort or hunger are the same as the person who's never been punched in the face getting into their first fight, they about to learn on the fly, and the stakes are high.
I was homeless at 15 due to extreme abuse at home for being "perverted" because I "acted like a boy" turns out I'm transgender and of course, in a fundamentalist evangelical home, it was decided I was "welcoming demons"blah blah blah. The fridge group (cult, really) my parents had us in meant no friends out of the church, no tv, no hair cutting etc. and we lived where out secular neighborhoods were more than 3 miles away. I had exactly zero social skills when I ran for my life. Eventually I was starving, which was worse than scrambling for shelter in my opinion. Extreme fatigue and pain. One day a gutter punk (look it up? :) saw me looking in the trash outside a restaurant. He scare me, but he taught me that this trash wasn't going to work, and from there I learned to dumpster, turn on electricity and heat in abandoned houses, ride trains, etc. I know now, that so long as capitalism is a thing, corporations and the rich will waste EVERY kind of thing and you can find it. I can survive
Very valuable survival skills learned through adversity and necessity. You are one of the few who would survive an apocalypse. I admire you.
Load More Replies...Being so hungry that I became too weak to even walk to a free meal at a church comes to memory. It's just wonderful too, when people who have never been hungry spout off "there's plenty of available resources for people". Oh, ok.
Not panicking when broke.
"Being broke is not a disgrace. It is merely a catastrophe." - Nero Wolfe
I hate it when my mom tries to make me worry when I'm broke or running low-ish on money. "What will you do if there's an emergency?" What kind of emergency? We live in Canada. We have public health insurance. I don't drive, don't own a vehicle. Bills and rent are paid. We have some food. She never really goes into specifics about type of emergency. I'm more worried about how long the food will last and getting myself to work.
The ability to DIY a lot of things, even computer software or hardware problems. Saved me a lot of money in my teens. This only compounded into my 30s.
My peers think I'm a genius just because I know how to make a slow or sluggish computer fast or because of the way I can use duct tape.
Heck, I even saved my folks money when I fixed their water heater, the "fix" was to use a coin to press this black button that tripped.
That's not a fix. The tripped black button is a sign that it needs repair, possibly scale built up inside.
Not always. Could also be caused by a power surge. Only if it repeats and especially if it starts to happen more frequently should you get it looked at.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately, if you’re used to being poor you tend to fix things “good enough” rather than paying to have them repaired properly.
Not telling everyone what i have in my pockets.
How to sharpen pencils with knives, attached papers together using rice or some special folding techniques, cut papers by folding, and tearing it carefully.
I can sharpen pencils with knives, but frequently lose part of the innards in the process. I can cut papers by folding and tearing (Hint: use your nails to make a super sharp fold.) I also once met a Romanian who could open a tin can with only a knife don't know how to do the others, does anyone know how to attatch papers together with rics or folding?
There are a few methods, look up "bind paper without stapler" :) as for rice, the first thing that comes to my mind is that rice can be sticky, maybe they used it to make their own glue?
Load More Replies...My grandpa showed me how to sharpen a pencil with a knife, though sometimes when he was working on something and didn’t have a knife handy he’d use a chisel 😁
Knowing how to open a bottle of wine w/o a corkscrew - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QjTGz8flFkM
They use corks in wine bottles now? Whatever happened to screw caps?
Load More Replies...Hah I would always take my pain or pencil and about little better than a quarter inch from the corner of the papers and then it used some hair or a piece of string to connect your papers
How to take a punch.
100% this. Once you realize it doesn't hurt all that bad, and is more rattling than painful, you can stay calm and take care of s***. It's always surprising to me when I meet people who don't know this yet.
what's that got to do with being poor? I've never had to hit anyone because I lack money.
And how to fall you roll into it or roll out of it either way when you're falling down learn how to fall by rolling into the fall or rolling out of the Fall depends on the fall
I have a level of charm to get what I want that no amount of money could ever teach you.
I know that you can fill up the bathtub with water stolen from the next door neighbor’s garden hose and use a bucket to fill the toilet tank so you can flush when the water gets shut off due to nonpayment.
Or maybe they ask first. If my neighbors had their water cut off and needed to fill a few gallon buckets to get by, I would let them. My city charged by the 1,000 gallons, I highly doubt their 5 gallons would put me into the next 1,000 gallon tier.
Load More Replies...They have purchased the political influence to make their crimes legal.
Load More Replies...Water is considered a basic human right and cannot be shut off due to non-payment in many countries, including the UK. The can still chase you for payment, but they can't cut it off.
In the US utilities have payment assistance- In the Tacoma Washington are this is real, I donate when I can.
Load More Replies...Your water gets turned off due to no payment...... Ye pay for water ?
We were taught to rinse out and refill every milk jug 2 l bottle juice bottles etc and we would refill them with water and then when the utilities were cut off we had water already there also helps when there's a power outage
$224 is a lot of money! You think everyone can just cough that up?
Load More Replies...Agreed. For example, being nice to service workers isn't unique to the non-rich. Maybe rich people are also nice to service workers.
Load More Replies...Being content with less. I'm happy with my crocheting and public tv. I can eat the same cheap meal for days on end. I can live in a house that's not the prettiest on the block. I don't mind driving around in my 20 year old truck. That's what I grew up with when we were dirt poor and even though I have a good paying job now, I don't see any reason to pay extra money just because something is "nicer". eta: I just realized how "rich" I had it growing up. We had an actual house and a tv. As someone in my thirties, I have a house. I am rich. I guess I just don't see the need to make it "fancy" because I can. Maybe I should just delete this comment.
There's a reason I love RPGs. For dollar value they give you a lot of hours of entertainment. Same for games that have crafting systems and a focus on player creativity. I could drop $70 a pop on action titles that would keep me occupied for 10 hours tops, or I could invest $20 in a mid-budget indie game with crafting that I'll play for 100+ hours. Easy choice.
Load More Replies...I find most of this silly. I have seen rich and poor treat service employees properly, and I've seen both treat them poorly. There clearly is a category of those raised in wealth who fail in ways described here. The topic is setup poorly. Growing up poor and currently being rich and not mutually exclusive.
Some of these don't make sense. Like walking for miles? Some Rich people go on hikes that take weeks. Being able to take a punch? What if that rich person grew up in martial arts? Or doing any kind of physical activity that makes them healthy and strong? Or this being aware of brewing situations? So if you're rich does that mean you're always unaware? They are silly really, have nothing to do with having money or not. How about maybe learning how to cook with everything and anything you find in your pantry or fridge? That makes more sense to me. Idk just my opinion.
I didn't see on this list knowing how to sew. Perhaps more of a generational thing than a rich vs poor, sewing is a handy skill that allows you to preserve and maintain your wardrobe. When was the last time you sewed a hole in a sock or a button on a shirt instead of just throwing away the garment?
Yesterday! I do it all the time and have altered a lot of my wardrobe in the last few months, instead of replacing items that no longer fit, as well as doing many repairs and alterations for my husband and for household items.
Load More Replies...I know how to squeeze the last drops out of any soap, shampoo, lotion, toothpaste, etc.
Do you cut open the tube of toothpaste and scarping out the last of the last bit?
Load More Replies...I use my phone until its at the end of life, including laptops, tvs, etc... I don't like wasting anything. I have even used my last phone with a cracked screen and put tape over it. Not because I can't afford a new one I just don't want to get rid of it when it still works in every way apart from a silly crack! Iv had my laptop for 8 years too and it's still going so why should I replace it just because "it's not aesthetic" and in style.
Being able to walk, cook food, be bored, repair stuff, spend less than you earn etc are now deemed skills? We're doomed...
Agreed. For example, being nice to service workers isn't unique to the non-rich. Maybe rich people are also nice to service workers.
Load More Replies...Being content with less. I'm happy with my crocheting and public tv. I can eat the same cheap meal for days on end. I can live in a house that's not the prettiest on the block. I don't mind driving around in my 20 year old truck. That's what I grew up with when we were dirt poor and even though I have a good paying job now, I don't see any reason to pay extra money just because something is "nicer". eta: I just realized how "rich" I had it growing up. We had an actual house and a tv. As someone in my thirties, I have a house. I am rich. I guess I just don't see the need to make it "fancy" because I can. Maybe I should just delete this comment.
There's a reason I love RPGs. For dollar value they give you a lot of hours of entertainment. Same for games that have crafting systems and a focus on player creativity. I could drop $70 a pop on action titles that would keep me occupied for 10 hours tops, or I could invest $20 in a mid-budget indie game with crafting that I'll play for 100+ hours. Easy choice.
Load More Replies...I find most of this silly. I have seen rich and poor treat service employees properly, and I've seen both treat them poorly. There clearly is a category of those raised in wealth who fail in ways described here. The topic is setup poorly. Growing up poor and currently being rich and not mutually exclusive.
Some of these don't make sense. Like walking for miles? Some Rich people go on hikes that take weeks. Being able to take a punch? What if that rich person grew up in martial arts? Or doing any kind of physical activity that makes them healthy and strong? Or this being aware of brewing situations? So if you're rich does that mean you're always unaware? They are silly really, have nothing to do with having money or not. How about maybe learning how to cook with everything and anything you find in your pantry or fridge? That makes more sense to me. Idk just my opinion.
I didn't see on this list knowing how to sew. Perhaps more of a generational thing than a rich vs poor, sewing is a handy skill that allows you to preserve and maintain your wardrobe. When was the last time you sewed a hole in a sock or a button on a shirt instead of just throwing away the garment?
Yesterday! I do it all the time and have altered a lot of my wardrobe in the last few months, instead of replacing items that no longer fit, as well as doing many repairs and alterations for my husband and for household items.
Load More Replies...I know how to squeeze the last drops out of any soap, shampoo, lotion, toothpaste, etc.
Do you cut open the tube of toothpaste and scarping out the last of the last bit?
Load More Replies...I use my phone until its at the end of life, including laptops, tvs, etc... I don't like wasting anything. I have even used my last phone with a cracked screen and put tape over it. Not because I can't afford a new one I just don't want to get rid of it when it still works in every way apart from a silly crack! Iv had my laptop for 8 years too and it's still going so why should I replace it just because "it's not aesthetic" and in style.
Being able to walk, cook food, be bored, repair stuff, spend less than you earn etc are now deemed skills? We're doomed...
