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Money makes life easier, but even folks who don’t have it find ways to make do. That is even more true for people who grew up without money. As people often do, they take a bad situation and make the most of it.
Someone asked “People who grew up poor, what's a skill you developed that rich people don't have?” and netizens shared their examples. From all the experience any handyman could ever want to wholehearted respect towards service workers, get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below.

#1

“How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I'm nice to service industry workers.

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keyboardtek
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. I was a janitor for my first jobs. It keeps one humble.

Bexxxx
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same, I was a cashier and a server in my younger days so I know what it’s like, I’m always kind and patient with them.

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Adrian
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not poor but that should be a given...

Kobe (she)
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. Hear me out. How about being nice in general ? Being nice may help you through a though time... being friendly in general helps you through life...

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lovemy suffolk
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1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was a nursing assistant. Minimum wage job, worked all overnight shifts and weekends to get the little bit of extra pay. I LOVED that job. Wiping butt's while maintaining a patient's dignity...I was good at it, appreciated the elderly I worked with, did not get paid enough to sustain life. 😔 Left that job to make more money. Now that I am nearing retirement (2 yrs 1 month, 25 days) I am looking to renew my connection with the old folks. I will be one of them someday and I hope to pay it forward now. The character of a person is determined by how they treat those who can do nothing for them. Quote from Malcolm Forbes. And so very true.

lovemy suffolk
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Apparently a lot of famous people have this quote, lol, Nelson Mandela is another...regardless, the sentiment remains true.

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David
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many rich people have the "skill" of being polite. Also plenty of poor people don't. Being kind to people is not determined by wealth. I had relatives who lived on Orcas Island. A fair number of rich (and some famous) people live there. A recently deceased astronaut, some movie stars, some tech money and so on. My relative worked in the local grocery store and saw many of them (not a lot of shopping choices there) and got on fine with them. The people who act normal and kind are the ones you don't know are rich unless you know them because they don't want to draw attention to themselves. Not every rich person acts like a Kardashian on a reality show.

Stephanie Did It
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Courtesy is never based on one's income and you either care about others or you don't.

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DB
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disagree. 35 years in retail and the poor people are definitely the nastiest.

StrangeOne
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't take money to be kind.

Robert T
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm generally nice to everybody, unless you're an arsehole, and then I can be an arsehole back.

SlightlyTarnished
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not indicative of growing up poor. I've worked the food service jobs, experienced horrible people poor and rich.

Robbie Irvine
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that isn't a poor vs rich thing. that is just an a*****e vs not a*****e. a lot of rich people are nice to service industry people, and a lot of poor people are a******s to service industry people.

Johnny
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1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are many rich people that *do* have this skill and practice it so well that you don't even know they are rich. One of the richest people I know (in the $1B net worth range) is also one of the nicest, down to earth people I know. He still drives his old jeep and lives in the same house he's lived in for 20 years (before he became so wealthy) because he didn't want his kids to have to move to a new school. If you didn't know who he was, you wouldn't know he was rich by his appearance or actions. he and his wife set up a charitable foundation and they give a *lot* of money to charity, mostly anonymously.

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    #2

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I treat my stuff with care and it stays in good shape long after I purchase it. I also perform maintenance. I take the extra few seconds to prevent damage rather than dealing with the aftermath.

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just learned at 40 how to mend denim by hand that will hold. They should teach these things in school!

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    B
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I possess something called "mechanical sympathy". This applies to anything with a mechanism, but particularly to cars. The reason I can drive a 25 and a 65 year old car is because I look after them and don't treat the accelerator like an on/off switch!

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, I donate stuff that I no longer use or wear. I make sure all items are in good condition, cleaned, sanitized, or fixed as needed. I donated hundreds of clothes, footwear, books, bags, jewelry, home decor and appliances. Feels good to know other people will be happy to use them :)

    Liz The Biz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I make every thing last as long as possible and repair rather than renew. I hate to see perfectly good, perfectly usable items being thrown away just because whoever owned them got a bored with them. One of my biggest pet hates is our wasteful throwaway society.

    Gande Harg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. Some of my kitchen pans are 25 years old and still in like-new condition!

    ILoveMySon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love to cook and many of my quality pans were purchased at thrift shops. I once found a Henkle knife!

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    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rich people are actually better at this IMO. Not the coke fueled rock stars making news by smashing up a hotel room. I mean the average well off person. Many people are rich in part because they care about money and their stuff. I don't mean bill gates / elon rich. I guess at that level you do what you want. But 'average rich" take care of their things and lower income folks are more likely to treat stuff like it's dollar store throw away. This is based on my personal observation of various income / wealth levels over the years. People differ so YMMV.

    AnkleByter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The average well off person, again well off being a distinction here, also knows they can easily replace or have someone else come fix/repair/replace the vast majority of their stuff. While they may care a lot about some of their things, overall much of what they have is easily replaceable. Lower income are not more likely to treat things like they are dollar store (and by that I gather you mean cheap) except the fact that a lot of what they have may literally come from dollar (and such) stores. Lower income people know they can't easily replace, they may even know they can't easily repair (but they're more likely to try self-repair than to call someone). Of course everyone's experience will differ, but I am willing to bet that a great deal of information out there will refute your anecdotal experience. That's not to say you're wrong, it's been your experience. I just think you're being a bit myopic in that observation.

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    Gracie Mae
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm still wearing 10-15 yr old t-shirts (& other clothes). Repair, not replace!

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    #3

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Gratefulness. Learn how to be grateful for everything because there are people in situations that are worse than your own.

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    Red_panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I am so thankful for the childhood I had. It was JUST bad enough to make me realize it wasn't that bad. Yes there was abuse, some foster homes in there. But at the end of it all I turned 18 in a loving home (my uncle). And I can look back and be grateful for what I did have, and take what I didn't as a lesson.

    Mojavedog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful outlook, Red Panda. You are inspiring. Thank you.

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    Sara Frazer
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And on the flip-side, feeling so painfully sorry for people not doing well, when you have somehow dug yourself out of the unimaginable poverty you came from. I still drive an old car, do my own hair, don't go out much, but my partner and I have a nice home, and are "doing well". This after I grew up in a rodent-infested moldy trailer with a leaky roof, that frequently didn't have power or running water. We used to bike as a family to the grocery store 4 miles away and back, buying food on government assistance. And right now I sit on a couch, next to my partner in front of a large TV while he gets back into Elden Ring, in front of an air-conditioner... I could go on, but I think the term I'm looking for here is "Survivor's Guilt"... 😞 **Edited to add ~and imposter syndrome! I feel it every day 😞

    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or you could choose to be proud of your life choices, and hope that others eventually find their own ways. Don't beat yourself up for improving your life.

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    Bec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The news the US Supreme Court decided cities can fine homeless people for sleeping outside 😔 I am thankful I have a roof over my head

    Annabelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s just pure evil. How on earth can people get out of poverty this way. Or are they planning to give every homeless person a roof over their head.

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    Piglet
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is being grateful a skill?

    Stephanie Did It
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone downvoted this but the answer is that yes, you can train your heart to feel gratitude. One of the best ways is to help someone else to improve their circumstances.

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    Trophy Husband
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or pretend you are grateful so they feel wanted.

    DB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here again my experience is the complete opposite. Poor people tend to mock those in worse situations than their own.

    Britches are for everyone
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lots of rich people are grateful and express gratitude for their wealth. In my experience they do it so that they can feel better about holding onto their wealth and they often directly refer to "people in situations that are worse" than them when they express gratitude.

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    #4

    Determining wants from needs.

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    AKA AKA
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this should be at the top

    Jessica Bertram
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband has this semi joking "neeeeeed? Or waaaaaant?" Thing when i start talking about how i need something. It's funny, but it reminds me of the real difference between necessity and nice. We both grew up poor

    Charlene Woelk
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And even what needs are more important than other needs, I find keeping a list helps. I then prioritize everything and once I have money for the next thing on the list I get it. I also have a wants priority list. If all my needs are meet and I've saved up the money for it then I'm not going to deprive myself of the nice things.

    Kombatbunni
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any time I see something I’d like to buy and I don’t quite have the cash, I think of my Nan telling me “Do you want it or do you need it?” And most of the time I won’t buy it unless I really do need it :)

    SkippityBoppityBoo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was taught from a very early age the thing of - "I want! vs I need". Bills, food etc first... That DVD or whatever will still be there later but how are you going to watch it if you've no electricity?

    Jessi Thompson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If youre reallllllly poor, determining needs from needs 😬 👀

    Liz The Biz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many people seem unable to differentiate luxuries from necessities. I once knew a couple with two kids who claimed they couldn't afford to eat every day. I felt sorry for them until I discovered that somehow they could afford to run a car, had a state of the art tv, had a state of the art stereo system (this was the 1990s), the latest video games console and they could both find the money to smoke 20 cigarettes a day each.

    #5

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I (wife) fixed our broken dishwasher today ( took me a couple of hours) I didn't even see a dishwasher in real life until I got married. My husband and I are from verrryy different backgrounds I'm from the depth of Russia and he is from Manhattan. He was very impressed and surprised 😊😊😊.

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    poison Ivy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm very proud of you.😁Always keep your washer, dryer, dishwasher and air conditioner clean. It'll save you A LOT of money in the long run.

    Avoidance_Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hang on... Well done for you, but wow I can't afford those luxuries...but your right did I could I would too...lol

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    DramaDoc
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents were all set to buy a new dryer. I suggested they check the vent hose before going to the store. They did. And now the dryer 'works' again. They have money. I don't.

    Andy Cran
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    basic skills are being lost such as : sewing a button,changing a lightbulb,fixing an electrical plug,repairing a bicycle puncture etc . I'm seeing the loss almost everyday around me

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was 10 our vacuum cleaner died. My Mom literally cried as she was a single parent to 4 children. My attitude was "Hey, if it's already broke I can't hurt it". I dismantled the engine & found there was a pebble in the fan motor, which made the machine turn off as soon as it overheated. I cleaned & oiled everything. That vacuum worked for another five years. I replaced the drum belt on the dryer, too. I can only thank my Grandpa - I loved hanging out in the workshop with him. I knew how to change a flat tire by the time I was 8.

    Catherine Spencer-Mills
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hadn't seen or used a dishwasher until after we moved into base housing. (ex was a Marine)

    Stan Chung
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice! Was scratching my head how to afford replace the 'broken' washing maching. Turns out it was a cheap 10$ part. Youtube tutorial help was great and wa fixed in 39 mins. Saved me 300$

    WubiDubi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've stripped a washing machine (without Youtube videos) and removed a disintegrated rug from the drum. Paying for a repair wasn't an option. You need a bit of fearlessness for taking apart white goods, guard your removed screws from pets and kids (magnets help),it was quite easy except for removing the breeze block (stability during spins).

    EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've a dishwasher 5 years now and I've never used it, not once. Firstly i don't know how and if i did use it where would all the stuff i store in it go.?

    Lesley Shore
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope you enjoy doing it. Go buy a good tool set. You may be in for the long run! 34 years here. Saved lots of money but I want to toss every tool I've got!!

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    #6

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Coming up with meals with whatever is leftover in the pantry and fridge.

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    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a jazz pianist. I wished I had the improvisational skills with food, herbs and spices like I have at the keyboard.

    Sara Frazer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jazz pianist?? That's so cool! (I've actually named my two cats after two great jazz pianists, "Jelly Roll Meowton" and "Thelonious Chonk" 😹

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    Debby Keir
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whilst I'd agree that this is an excellent trait to have (for anyone) I would also add that you need to have actual *food* in the fridge, rather than the junk pictured.

    Fancy Nancy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My motto is "work with what you have".It works with food and a lot of other things in life.

    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cheez Whiz is actually expensive.

    Catherine Spencer-Mills
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try to plan meals with leftovers. Pot roast - at least two and sometimes 3 meals. Don't stick your nose up at making soup the last meal.

    Danish Susanne
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a real art. I always laugh when I watch cooking competitions on TV, and they are using such expensive ingredients that I could never try their dishes. I have longed for a cooking show where the combatants has to use only what is usually in the fridge just before payday.

    Lauren Wilder
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are so many orange items in that fridge.

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    #7

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Not being picky with food. I can eat the same food forever and never get sick of it.

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    Thee8thsense
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. Have eaten the same breakfast for about 20 years, and I still wake up almost as happy as my cat, just thinking about it.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean your cat probably eats the same breakfast every day and I’m sure they’re happy with it too 😊

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    Sharkie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to eat everything, but I had a lot of stress in life and now my stomach cannot hold many things. I usually politely say "I would really love to taste, but my stomach has some problems, I won't be able to have a full portion. Can I have just a little bit to try and just a plain side dish and veggies?"

    Sharkie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No fun to need mostly only the diet options...

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    SkippityBoppityBoo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately if you've a severe allergy? You need to be picky with food... Years ago I had to use food donation services but I was given packets of dried food that contained peppers aka Capsicum. I obviously couldn't have them because I'm highly allergic to Capsicum and when I asked if I could swap them possibly? The woman said, "Take what you're given and be grateful!"... I went to someone else who thankfully understood.

    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm on the spectrum, so taste, texture, and appearance are all huge factors for a "new" food. I'd rather eat something familiar that I don't like than try something new, unless it just jumps out at me. Being poor helped somewhat, as did prison. I was in my late 40's before I ever tasted potato salad, pasta salad, or coleslaw. I quite like potato salad and coleslaw, and can eat them now. I do get sick of foods if I eat too much of them. Ramen noodles were the go-to at commissary, and I ate them every day for years. I haven't had them once since my release, but I'm close to ready again.

    Mimi M
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe go to a 'from scratch' Japanese ramen restaurant?

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can eat the same food forever AND am extremely picky. There's like one acceptably crunchy brand of apples, can't really eat the others.

    SlightlyTarnished
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ditto. I lived on on hot dogs, potatoes, and canned corn during my 20's when times were lean.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Instant ramen and eggs for me. Boil water, throw in noodles with seasoning packet and crack an egg into it. I’m not broke anymore but I still eat it for lunch pretty often lol

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    Sonia J-Coffee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been having for lunch the same menu: fruit (6 ) and yogurt. I don't get tired of the same.

    Gay feminist
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with me but I am picky because of food anxiety so I’d actually rather eat the same thing over and over

    Andy Cran
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    raised as an opportunivore, except bananas I cannot stand bananas they're Lucifer's bum grapes

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    #8

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Strong work ethic, when my coworkers gripe and complain over minor stuff, flashbacks of praying for a job like this comes to mind.

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    SlightlyTarnished
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my personal experience, work ethic is instilled, I've known rich and poor with both solid and lacking work ethic.

    Howl's sleeping castle
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My colleague used to rant and complain about everything. One day I got so fed up I told her no one is forcing her to work. If she has so many issues, she can resign and maybe someone in dire need will get the job. Although she didn't stop completely but the complaints got a lot lesser

    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's normal to have some gripes and want to let off steam, but I do agree that hearing people complaining about the job, the coworkers and company all the time is terrible for the workplace vibe. Used to work at a place that had a few people like that. For years this one lady kept saying she was going to quit. She finally did when the pandemic hit.

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    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My fear is not being able to do well and getting fired. Then my anxiety comes out. Then I have to regulate myself back down so I don't get in trouble for being erratic. Some of my coworkers say I care too much about the job and not to worry. I can't help it. I don't care how menial it is to the greater world, it's a job I took on and I do it with pride.

    Amy S
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do exactly this and burn myself out try to excel at my job because of the fear of losing my job.

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    Tabitha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a great work ethic too, but I also have self esteem, so I won’t put up with being mistreated for the sake of a paycheck. So I might share the gripes, but at least I try to get the treatment improved. If I can’t, then it’s time to quietly and discreetly find another job—-lots of low key lunch hour interviews where no one knows where I’m going, you know. Those are easy if you don’t get too chummy with coworkers—-which I learned the hard way after being stabbed in the back by people I thought were my good friends. I now look for friendships anywhere but at work or work-related stuff.

    Kombatbunni
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got my work ethic from my grandparents. When to work hard, when to take a break and how to appreciate a good beer at the end of a long day :)

    Terran
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a strong work ethic, but I also love to complain about stuff lol

    Danish Susanne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think that work ethic is a special kind of ethic, but simply the way you honor your commitments at work, in friendships and marriages

    Liz The Biz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to appreciate your job, imagine yourself without one.

    Liz The Biz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always had a strong work ethic. Once when I had the best job I'd ever had, the company decided to 'rightsize' the company and make some people redundant. My job was under threat and I was devastated. I had colleagues in other departments whose jobs weren't under threat but they did nothing but moan and whinge about their jobs. During one of my consultation sessions I was asked if I had any ideas to prevent my redundancy, I replied, "I love it here and I really don't want to lose my job. Perhaps some of the people who are always moaning about their jobs might like to be made redundant instead of me."

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    #9

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I automatically add groceries up in my head as I shop so I am not embarrassed by having to put things back. I do it automatically now, even if I can afford the food.

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    ninjaTrashPandaBoom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this at any store. I am in the process of paying off my debt and avoid using credit cards.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you! Hope it goes well for you :)

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    poison Ivy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how or why, but I'm able to remember all the prices of groceries I purchase. I round the prices off to include tax.

    Annabelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still find it strange that the tax is not included in the USA. But really impressive that you can remember all those prices.

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    Tabitha
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to do this. Then I made a written list and logged prices next to the items, and added them up before checking out, to see if I had to put anything back. Now I use a grocery shopping app that lets me log and save prices, so after enough trips I now have so many prices saved (I update them when they go up) that I have a pretty good ballpark figure for my total before I go to the store. I shop the lower shelves and compare prices and ingredients between name brands and generics. I also clip a load of coupons, but still compare the name brand coupon price to the price of the generics—-sometimes even the coupon can’t bring the brand name prices down to the generics’ prices. I also haunt the clearance aisle, and shop sales, like when there’s a special for meats. I hate to pay full price for anything, because I have never been rich. I was downright poor when I was young. I’m not poor anymore, not rich but comfortable. However, I can’t forget the struggling to get by, and the habits ingrained in me back then.

    karen Young
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And read small part. Cost per oz. Or lb. I will be doing some math skills!

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    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't do this well. I have to use a calculator. Then I round out the price a bit to make room for tax.

    Robert T
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only do this when I am trying to spend enough to get an offer of bonus points or money off, and as these are usually for more than I normally spend, I try to make sure I spend no more than the minimum required. I'll even add it up on a calculator on my way round! LOL

    Blyss Blyssylb
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I round UP to the nearest dollar when I add items to my cart, thru out my shopping and right before I reach the register. Usually, surprised that the actual total is way below what I totalled.

    Nikki Gross
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Oklahoma we pay sales tax on everything including groceries and that percentage varies from city to city.

    Miki
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if it's connected to usa prices without a tax.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I look up prices online first, then add it up and also try to find the best deals. But in person is different. But the having to put things back? Omg, it's highly embarrassing. My bank card failed to go through with one big shop because of apparently reported fraud on it... I know who it was now, as do the police and my bank. The walk of shame though...

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    #10

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times My mom would brown ground beef and then she would make a batch of bisquick dough (she used bisquick almost every day). She would roll the dough out and sprinkle it with the ground beef and then roll it up lengthwise and slide it like cinnamon rolls (but with ground beef inside). She’d bake them and then pour cream of mushroom soup gravy on top. She could feed six of us on less than a pound of ground beef that way lol.

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    GlassHalfWay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's pretty creative actually.

    ninjaTrashPandaBoom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...and sounds pretty good as well, similar to biscuits and gravy (an all-time favorite of mine).

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    Bec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think everyone should have some cheap easy go to meals they know how to make and like. You can save so much $ by not eating out. Pasta, rice and beans, eggs.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like shakshuka - eggs poached in seasoned tomato sauce :) scoop it all up with some bread and it’s delicious. Bonus points for garlic and veggies like onions or peppers, and a dash of olive oil and feta cheese if you’re lucky enough!

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    Alex Martin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Small sausage links rolled up in canned biscuit or crescent roll dough. Sausage roll ups. Serve with macaroni and cheese and frozen peas. If you go with Walmart store brand, you can feed a family of five for about $9. That was in heavy rotation at our house when I was a kid.

    Owen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm totally stealing this recipe. 😋

    Nikki Gross
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always said you could judge our week based on what was in our gravy with toast. A lean week was dried beef (chipped beef, which I still love) Homemade sausage (ground pork seasoned) or a good week we would have hamburger meat. We always used bread or Mom would make homemade biscuits if she had the time. But one loaf of bread, flour, water, a little bit of milk, ground black pepper and whatever type of dried beef/sausage/ground beef to throw in the gravy could feed multiple kids. That's still a go to meal for me and one of my comfort foods.

    Jessi Thompson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom did a similar thing, rolling beef or cheese in pastry made with water and flour. In Dominican Republic it's called "pastelitos". In harder times it was just the pastry

    I_imagine_even_worse_w***s
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mam would a dish similar yo irish stew with a lb of ground beef. Still make it sometimes as a comfort food. Was cheap but filling.

    Shan Cruz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can do that with tuna or chicken as well

    Cindy Brick
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had this -- delicious. And goes even farther if served with mashed potatoes.

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    #11

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times The ability to respect everyone's dignity equally and never consider anyone as my servant, domestic, or slave. I've seen rich people being street smart, eating the same low quality food all day, having excellent DIY skills... But I've yet to meet someone rich and able to realize homeless people, maids, or cashiers have the exact same amont of human dignity as they do.

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    Thee8thsense
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. Some who are rich have been homeless at one point in their lives.

    Annabelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with the OP on this one. Luckily I have met many rich people who treated everyone equally.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP might be talking about billionaire rich, not wealthy-doctor-down-the-street rich

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    Vanessa Panerosa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must not have met very many rich people then obviously. To make such a sweeping generalization you’re a total a*s.

    GettingCereal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's even at least one study that found a correlation between wealth and a lack of empathy. Even showing that empathy can devolve as one grows and stays rich, iirc.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you've never been in the position of having to claim benefits or have had to use a food bank? Been homeless? Then okay, your view could be very different... But please don't negate anything that the homeless have to go through. Homelessness isn't always a choice.

    DramaDoc
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Warren Buffett is like this. When he isn't being the Oracle of Omaha, he can be seen about town in sweats interacting with people like he's 'normal' instead of a billionaire.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I met my husband online 17 years ago. BUT, my first 2 dates were non-starters. Guy #1 was so condescending & patronizing to our server that I was appalled. He kept looking at me with a smirk, like "Aren't you impressed with my Master of the Universe attitude". No, I was not. I literally grabbed my purse and just walked out. I left a very real "review" on his profile page and then blocked him. Guy #2 wasn't quite so bad, but close enough. Same story. Thank God my husband was date #6.

    axle f
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...your experience is valid, but I've known rich folks with a different point of view...

    SlightlyTarnished
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally disagree with this statement.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve seen so many rich people that treat everyone else like c**p that I can totally understand this statement. Like everything, there’s always exceptions to the rule, but that doesn’t mean OP isn’t pointing out an important general point. Folks who were born and raised privileged often don’t have the capacity to understand what life is like for the rest of us and it can cause a lot of judgment and rudeness.

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    #12

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times To not confuse status with real happiness.

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    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a very broke 38M friend. His goal is to own an F-350 Platinum (fanciest giant Ford truck, $150,000~) by the end of the decade. Not his own home, not any personal development goals, a big expensive truck. He doesn’t need a truck at all, he would treat it like a car. He lives in his grandma’s basement because his parents finally kicked him out for refusing to pay rent or help with the house. His only goal is this expensive truck so he can look cool to his friends. It’s more important to him than being a cool or good person or having new life experiences or enjoying friendships. I’m so glad my ego isn’t like that lmfao.

    Tabitha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, there are a lot of emotionally immature people like that, whose major goals are so shallow, they’ll never get anywhere in life. I bet that guy is either unemployed or works at a low-paying job, because he never sought to learn the skill necessary to make a good living.

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    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This whole thread seems to be just "F the rich". There are plenty of rich people who don't confuse status with happiness. (and some poor ones who do.)

    KimTx ‍️
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life gets sooo much better when you figure this out!

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At one point my family made a little more money. We had a nicer car and more toys. I went around feeling smug and looking down on others who had less. Then my mom lost her job. We became poor. Sold the car. Where would I get my self-esteem from now? I realized we were still the same people and I'd been an idiot. It serves me well as an adult. I don't have to have the fanciest clothes, biggest house, or nicest car to feel good about myself. Nice not to be in that trap.

    pebs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In reality I believe that many poor people, precisely because they have never had access to a higher status from a financial point of view, believe that wealth inevitably leads to happiness.

    The Darkest Timeline
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To some people, status is the only thing that matters when it comes to being happy; they’re happy they aren’t lower status. These are sad, miserable people who want nothing more than to drag us all down to their level.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some really nice wealthy people out there. I'm just reacting to some comments. Rich or poor? Either way? You could be an a-hole. Not all rich people are nasty and not all poor people are belligerent towards those who have more money than them. If you're going to be nasty towards others? At least have a valid reason for it. Money basically means we can live, eat and survive.

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    #13

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times How to use and repair everything and run it into the ground.

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    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At 69 years old I am daily thankful my father taught me to use tools. When I meet snobbish people who have to hire someone for even the simplest of repairs, I feel sorry they never experienced the satisfaction of repairing or building something themselves.

    Annabelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YouTube learned me how to fix my parents dishwasher. I was so happy when I successfully finished the project. So I can imagine how you feel.

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    The Darkest Timeline
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The US Navy has a saying: “Use it up, wear it out; make it do or do without.” Most of us could stand to follow that advice.

    Stephanie Did It
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    DIY options are declining as more basic household items are "smart," having electronic or technical features added e.g. computerized refrigerators. Same for cars now too; if it's programmable, it's not a simple repair. And of course there's planned obsolescence which guarantees the item will fail, forcing the user to replace it.

    WubiDubi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let your kids watch you fix things. They may learn something, or not, but the normalising it is the golden bit.

    Jenn Olges
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I've learned how to change parts in my dryer, lighting ballasts, electrical outlets, done drywall repair (not just patching, cutting out the area and replacing)... It's amazing what we are capable of when we have no other choie!

    Charlene Woelk
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish this was easier and cheaper in some ways. I have to fight with insurance every year to keep my vehicles insured, only because they are 17 and 18 years old. Their both running perfectly fine and I have maintained them and replaced parts that need it when it's needed and required for it to run. I only keep the minimum coverage required on them because I would never be paid enough to get another vehicle. And any time I think about replacing my dodge caravan I get sad because I got it when I was struggling and she got me though getting to work, having a place to sleep. And I can't part with that yet. I think that's also part of the reason I have never put money aside for a another vehicle, once the money is there then she will be gone. The other vehicle is a campervan, I upgraded my sleeping arrangements for 5 years.

    Glenn M
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lol, I have the exact same screw and anchor kit that is pictured here...

    Adrian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, repair skills are going the way of the dinosaurs. At least the EU has made it legal for those of who want to repair stuff.

    AnkleByter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could you explain what you mean by the EU has made it legal? I'm honestly asking, because it almost sounds like you're saying it was somehow illegal to repair your own stuff before now and that just seems ridiculous to me.

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    Michael P (Perthaussieguy)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a General Handyman (self employed) and have earned a reasonable living the past 2 decades from doing household tasks that others can't/won't do. Their loss is my gain.

    nottheactualphoto
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Use it up, wear it out. Make it do or do without."

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    #14

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Resilience. How to be more resourceful on my own since we couldn't pay people to do stuff. How to be happy without the need for a lot of material possessions. So, even now, I still don't have a lot but it's by choice. Finally, generosity. When you live in a hood where everyone is poor too, you learn to share what you have when you have it and vice versa,.

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    K- THULU
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, resilience 100%....... I was living on my own by the time I was 16.... you learn to look after yourself pretty quick when you have no one to turn to....

    EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You sure do. I was in foster care and you really learn quickly. You're out, on your own and it's up to you.

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    Tabitha
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When something happens and other people are panicking or crying or freaking out or giving up, I’m over here immediately thinking of possible solutions for fixing it or cleaning it up. The reason is that I was 100% on my own, with no money, no family nearby, no “safety net”, and no one else I could turn to for help—-except for myself. So if something happened, it was always up to me alone to dig myself out. There are no knights in shining armor, there’s no cavalry, no hero to come along and save you. Even the people who always told me to call them if I needed help would suddenly disappear off the face of the earth when I picked up the phone and dialed their numbers. The only person you can 100% rely on to help you when you need it is yourself. But, if I promised someone I’d help them if they needed it, I would be there when they called, because I know what it’s like to ask for help and have no one answer. I rarely got paid back for giving my help, but it didn’t matter. I did the right thing, so I’m satisfied.

    Iseabail Munro
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this living in shelters as a teenager. We all shared what we had even tho we didn't have to.

    Tabitha K
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His picture sucks. Could be a nice photo of two people being cute, sharing a "something." Instead, they look like they are trying to share the last ration before starving themselves z

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BP has a very limited selection of free stock photos to choose from.

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    poison Ivy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with this, but unfortunately some people don't. I had a pool for 20 years and kids came every day to swim with no food or a towel. but I got no help with anything. I also fed said kids. Sometimes you have to cut people out. I closed my pool and am in the process of removing it. Some people are rude and teach others to be rude. Kudos to you tho.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You didnt have to allow any of that to happen though…..resilience is something you have to learn when you have no choice. Generosity with your resources when you’re dead broke but so is everyone else is incredibly kind and beautiful. Allowing the neighbour kids to play in your fancy backyard pool and giving them snacks and then complaining about it later is not really comparable…

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    Sue Mcquay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is richest who is content with the least.

    #15

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I can grow food from seed to harvest. Take that, you rich bastards!

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    poison Ivy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We planted 140 tomato plants amd now they are all bearing fruit. Canning tomorrow and I'm already tired!

    Traveling Lady Railfan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I assume that you have green tomatoes left over at the end of the season. Do you make green tomato relish since you know how to do canning? I've got a great recipe, it's so easy and absolutely everybody loves it....

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    ninjaTrashPandaBoom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Saving seeds from heirloom plants as well so you do not need to purchase them yearly

    TooTrue
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't that what people have been doing since we stopped being nomadic and settled down and grew our crops a few millenia ago?

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "140"! Where do you live? (and good 4 U!)

    Blyss Blyssylb
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beware Monsanto has heirloom seeds and if they hear about you growing plants and fruits and veggies they're going to come check your plants and fruits and veggies to make sure it's from their heirloom seeds and if not then they can sue you ask any farmer who grows their own crops which is pretty much all the farmers for real this is a real thing they can actually sue you for not using their heirloom seeds and they expect the farmers to pay them $30,000 for the Right to Grow these heirloom seeds as well as pay for the cost of just three little crates full of seeds, enough for 1000 acres. no joke personally I think that's criminal that's no different than the bully bullying you out of your milk money and then turning around and making you buy their milk or whatever it's no different than the mafia you know for a little extra security you pay us and we'll make sure everything's cool yeah right

    Nikki Gross
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We always had tons of different tomatoes and pepper plants for years until Mom and I both got sick. I still remember we would pick some tomatoes early and make fried green tomatoes and damn they were good. I really miss those days.

    Andy Cran
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try I really do I seem to have a "brown thumb"

    tuzdayschild
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I appreciate your skills, but you know they'll just hire someone to do it.

    Annabelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Based on your comment and name, you are still a child I presume?

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    #16

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Making food last and turning left overs into other meals. My partner tried to just eat the breast off a whole roast chicken and throw the rest away… absolutely not.

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    Bored something
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wth? Who does that? The thigh tastes better anyway.

    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whatever your meat preferences, one of the main attractions about getting a chicken to roast is the additional meals you'll make with the leftovers.

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    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    their partner isn't rich, their partner is stupid.

    Sparky
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the bones are for soup!

    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHAT?? The rest of the chicken is best part. Especially the skin and bones.

    Robert Sissco
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eat the larger pieces of meat shred the rest off of the bones to make chicken salad or soup, save the bones to make stock when you have enough, or to make the broth for the shredded chicken soup out of.

    Daniel Atkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Man save the rest for soups or make chicken pot pie. Blows my mind how wasteful some people are.

    Robert T
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I won't say I grew up rich, but well enough that I developed a taste for not having to pick meat of the bones of chicken etc. My gf on the other hand grew up making the most out of every scrap. Consequently she gives me the breast meat and she eats the rest and makes soup with the bones!

    Lorraine Woollands
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mum used to make a small roast chicken last three or four days( for 3 of us). We would have it with roast potatoes and veggies on the Sunday, Monday we would have the rest of the meat with mash and a tin of peas. Then she would make stew using the bones and any left over meat and lots of veggies that where all chopped roughly . She used manly carrot , onion, and potatoes, but if she could afford them she would add turnip and parsnips,add water and a stock cubes, and some gravy powder to thicken it a little at the end and we would have a really nice filling stew( I anyway looked forward to that day). Depends on how much veg she used sometimes there was enough for a extra day. Just the thing on cold days, lovely.

    EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just pure madness! I'd be throwing the partner away. There are so many meals in a whole chicken and that's not including the bones.

    Jenn Olges
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And in comes "cheater's burgoo"!! We take all the leftovers (that would potentially work together of course), and make burgoo with the leftovers. It normally lasts a couple nights, but the leftovers are gone, it didn't taste the same, and we've saved more money instead of throwing it out!

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    #17

    Keeping myself entertained without spending much money when I have long periods of time off.

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    Thee8thsense
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, the art of being self entertained and self contained.

    Thomas Ewing
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who fuss about being alone surprise me. I'd do great on a solo long voyage or some such.

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    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The library has movies and video games and books and puzzles and all sorts of fun things you can rent :) this spring my local library was offering seeds and tiny pots with a little soil to get them started. They also have little “art kits” and pots and pans you can borrow.

    Tabitha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of local museums and parks are free. The library is free, and has more than books to borrow. There are lovely old neighborhoods with Victorian houses you can take a stroll by. Lots of stuff is free, if you take the time to look for it. I learned this when I was young and poor.

    Debs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The library.....my favorite place!

    SAF saf
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the same gift, I also tend to have a bunch of hobbies. I'm shocked how many adults have zero hobbies besides TV and drinking.

    Alexander Brooks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I play video games. If I have some time off I’ll just open up an old video game and replay it. Free, nostalgic, fun. Unless you’re playing a new ea game.

    #18

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times The ability to walk for miles.

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    Jessi Thompson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to walk 2 hours every day to work because work started at 6am and there was no public transport. Most I did was 8 hours walking 24 miles overnight to do a 12 hour day. On several occasions. Looking back I don't kjow how I did it but know if i had to id probably do it again.

    Sue Mcquay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't skimp, if possible, on good quality shoes! You only have one pair of feet!

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some rich put in their miles through hiking and jogging. The difference is walking those miles because you have no choice.

    Andy Cran
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yep until my lower back gave up the game a few years ago 😞😞😞

    Sharkie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My family always had a car, but I walked for miles since I was 1 yo. I don't drive and I know I can walk home even when I am sick, injured or unbelievably tired. I just know my way home and I walked it many times, looking like a pale zombie, in rain, snowstorm, night... I don't think anyone would do this having any other options...

    EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I became disabled in November 2023. One of my favourite things was to get on my treadmill and walk or run for an hour or two everyday. I miss it so much i could cry. Health is so important people.

    quentariel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ability to walk doesn't always correlate with money. If your family has no car, you need to walk/cycle no matter what. It also depends on how well public transportation works in your city.

    M Kovacs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not a skill of the poor, we are poor in this house and can no longer walk further than the letterbox.

    AnnaRachelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to walk miles. I love walking on the beach,or in the countryside but an injury stopped all of that in 2016. The thing I most miss is definitely walking in the beach,listening to the ocean

    Curbz81
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people find me hard to travel with because I can walk all day. Day after day, while keeping a quick pace.

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    #19

    Being comfortable in an ugly space. Although, I notice this more with my middle class peers. Walls the wrong color, flooring is off, layout of a space not ideal? It's fine. I've definitely seen worse. As long as it has four walls, a roof, the toilet works, flooring isn't there, and I can afford heat and AC, I'm really happy.

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    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I moved out of a gorgeous basement suite because my bf at the time thought I could do better. It was $675 a month (when everything else was about $1000 a month) and had a huge bedroom with wall-in closet and screen door to the backyard, lighting was perfect, I was so happy. I was 22 at the time and it’s one of my biggest regrets lol, I shouldn’t have listened to him

    AndThenICommented
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Conversely, making an ugly space look nice with free items.

    Detroit Citizen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS and several others. Recently a woman and i had been vibing at work. All was well until I invited her to my house (rented condo, 2 bed 1 bath). I cooked an amazing roast dinner, homemade brownies (from scratch) and a whole pan of homemade mac and cheese (her fav of mine). Movie night. That was the plan. She comes in, and I saw her look around and her face said it all. My walls need paint, and some stuff could use some attention. Its no showcase. Fine enought evening. Rumors at work start. Little did she know Ive been homeless, slept in my car, in abandoned houses. I dont have much but Im grateful for everything I have. It may not all match but its mine and Ive worked hard to rebuild my life for the umpteenth time. Judge my character, not my house.

    Jessica Bertram
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bravo for you! 💖 and if she started whispering about your home at your shared work, she is no friend of yours.

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    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL. I read the first sentence as, "Being comfortable in an ugly face" Second paragraph made me go reread the first part.

    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But learn some basic painting skills and a dump can be transformed. Paint till it aint!

    Annabelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learn how to keep your house as cool as possible without an AC.

    My O My
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Toilet, shower, bed and a roof to cover all if it

    #20

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Being able to determine the difference between quality and marketing. Unfortunately, a lot of poor people can't. That's why you got people buying mattresses on monthly payment plans, why Coach, Louis Vitton and others make record profits off people who make less than $50K, why terrible things like Robux exist, etc.

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    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can get designer stuff at thrift stores if you go right when they open and beat the regular resellers. The Salvation Army sells brand new mattresses for a couple hundred bucks. Still a bit steep for me right now. Last time I bought one was about 13 years ago. I need to replace it soon, but it's lasted many years. It's one of those things that don't last forever.

    Tabitha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with consignment websites. You have to be careful, enlarge pictures to see flaws, and ask for measurements to be sure of the fit, but you can quite often come out with a real bargain, especially if you like to negotiate like I do to get a good price. But you have to be smart about it, and not insult a seller by lowballing them too much. Have a fair price in mind, start out enough below it that you’re not lowballing, only come up gradually each turn, even at some point asking to split the difference if you’re close to your preferred price, and eventually you’ll either reach a stalemate and lose the sale, or you’ll get a fair price for the item.

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    Awesome At Being Autistic
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to disagree with the payment plan thing. My fridge freezer (from 1969) died back in 2003, and I didn't have money for a new one. My credit had been ruined by my ex-husband. My only option was a payment plan for a new fridge freezer. So yeah, I ended up paying about 2 grand for a fridge freezer that would have cost $800 new. It's not that I was stupid, it's that the first thing that gets taken away from you when you are poor is choice. Money gives you choices.

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is a lot more expensive when you're poor. I'm sorry you had to do that.

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    Thee8thsense
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Designer anything is not a panacea for low self esteem, and going into debt to obtain these things only adds to poor self esteem.

    WubiDubi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Quality is dropping fast, a lot of previously great brands are severely reducing costs and they want you to have to re-buy products sooner. I'm using older products for salvage to fix the newer ones. This applies to everything from TVs to shoes.

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so true. I'm constantly trying to educate my son on not being taken in by labels. Look at what the thing is, and what it does, and how it's made, what you need, how long it will last. Not the sticker. Not the newest necessarily.

    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So glad I don’t have an ego that requires a $600 watch I can’t afford to make me feel valued and good about myself.

    Cathy Jo Baker
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Louis Vuitton items are so ugly! My former sibling was so proud of her LV purse/tote and wallet that she paid almost $10K for but they were so ugly!

    Donkeywheel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coach and Louis Vuitton in the same category… OP is absolutely not « able to determine the difference between quality and marketing »

    LtKernelPanic
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You just have to look at the fine print. I replaced my laptop last year after my nearly 10 year old one was on its last leg. I could have outright paid for it but chose the 12 interest free payment option. Why? Because I wanted to keep my money longer. I realize not everybody has that option and there were times mom had to do the payment thing growing up as it was the only way to get something we really, really needed. It was a necessary evil at times. It sucked being broke. I can still remember what it felt like when I was in my mid 30s realizing I didn't have to ask myself if I could afford to buy a hot breakfast in the cafeteria at work instead of having cold cereal for the millionth time in a row.

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    #21

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I’m not afraid of poverty, I know how to navigate it. In the same token because I came from poverty, I’ve set myself up to not experience it again.

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    Jenn Olges
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true! My job is stable, I'm going no where, and thankfully, they agree. My budget is already made out a year in advance so I know where every penny is going and what is potentially expendable if needed (or selfishly wanted come my birthday and mothers day).

    Satya Bain
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, yes. Absolutely. I'm actually getting ready to buy my first new car ever. I'm 62. I did that by myself.

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    #22

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Resourcefulness! We're basically the MacGyvers of everyday life.

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    nottheactualphoto
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, not many people know how to use a vernier caliper!

    Scott Rackley
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still have a set, but dials are the way to go. More accuracy? C mikes.

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    Thomas Ewing
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't fix your own car, you shouldn't be driving!

    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was how my dad was. He could "mac" all kinds of things. They weren't always pretty, but they worked for what he needed.

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do ... I have several ...shop, garage, desk, etc., not "dial", either.

    #23

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Not having an emotional connection to pretty much anything, because I know it could go anyday. I could lose it all, everything, and just start again.

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    Arkham Wohlfert
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has been my biggest lesson, too. Once I was left by an abuser when I ran out of psychological/emotional elements for him to break. Realized he has isolated me so much I had no bridges left, no job, no drivers license (he convinced me not to renew cuz he liked driving me around yuck), not a dime to my name, etc....i had to just let the eviction happen and took a sack of clothes and my dog and started all over. Years later I ended up in a roommate situation where they lied about paying the rent and had found a way to cash my rent checks. They hid all eviction notices (I worked nights) so I had no idea until I came home one day and every single thing I owned was gone (I always had my dog with me even at work). Being broke kept landing me in bad situations and although I broke that cycle, I still exist with the possibility at the back of my mind. And it comes in handy from time to time when things break or something. "Ah well, it's just stuff."

    Anonymous
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good on you, for rising up in face of adversity 💯💯

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    Jessi Thompson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This can go both ways. Sometimes when poverty hits you hard you inste hoard your possessions for fear of losing anything again

    Irishwoman abroad
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember reading that Joan Rivers was so insecure about whether the work would dry up some day, that when she saw a dress she liked, she'd buy 2 of it, so that if hard times came, she'd still have new clothes.

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    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Non attachment. The Buddha would be proud of you!

    Uncle Schmickle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the main principles of Buddhism is to avoid " attachment ".

    Sue Mcquay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope you're not including people? Humans need relationships.

    #24

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Empathy!

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    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, probably a quality Donald Trump never acquired.

    lwolf1952
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's a sociopath and a sadist, that's why he enjoys screwing over people and just being a consummate a$$hole.

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    Elchinero
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    1 year ago

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    Oh, stop it! Mocking the cripple was the "BEST"!

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    #25

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Entering a grocery store with a handful of coins and leaving with a combination of products that maximizes total calories and filling effect, and costs exactly what I have, without anyone noticing that's what I'm doing.

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    Annabelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buying dried beans after you get your paycheque, just to be sure you have something to eat when you run out of money.

    LilliVB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even easier are dried lentils. They don't need the soaking overnight.

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    Alexia
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I discovered frozen veggies. Cheap and nutritious, they kept me well-fed for years

    Igor914624
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pay all the bills and have just enough left over to buy a big jar of peanut butter and a loaf of bread to feed yourself until the next payday.

    LtKernelPanic
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did the ramen thing for awhile. You could by a case of it for like 3 bucks back then and you got 15 or 20 packages per case. Still keep a few on hand for emergency food as they last forever.

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    #26

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I would say caution out in public. i grew up poor. My wife grew up rich. I stay with and blend with crowds. She counts her money at ATMs.

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    PattyK
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your wife is setting herself up to be mugged.

    Arkham Wohlfert
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife leaves her purse, backpack, phone, and when she has not bag, even her wallet visible in the car (which she even used to leave running) when she goes into a store. She also would pull out a wad of cash and count it out at a register showing the world exactly how much cash she has on her. I was shocked. How in the world had she gone this long without being robbed, is beyond me. She wasn't rich, but she married her controlling ex at 17 and never was responsible for those types of things (he controlled and did all the driving, paying etc. after their divorce she ended up on a "friends" couch who weaseled his way into a similar position, counting on the traumatic and learned behaviors. She was in bed with him not long after crashing there and not for any reason other than he made her feel like she owed him/ couldn't do anything without him. Longer story short, we eventually did get robbed when she went out. She's a frikin badass now.

    Arkham Wohlfert
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not "leaves", like as in currently, used to leave as in not anymore. My bad.

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    Donkeywheel
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with growing up poor / growing up rich, this has everything to do with growing up in a safe place/city/country or not. Rich people in bad countries are absolutely paranoid and obsessed with safety and are used to blend in.. On the contrary there are many countries where you’d never ever be mugged at an atm, even at night, even while counting your money. The world is not everywhere the unsafe shithole some people live in, assuming it’s the norm.

    ADJ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My thoughts exactly. We were taught to count money at ATMs just to check if you got correct amount of money. While of course robbing at ATMs happens, it is uncommon.

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    kath morgan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband grew up in a small town in the woods and doesn’t understand not to leave the car windows open.

    Kay Christensen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone that clueless or naive is asking to be a victim if not a dead victim. Many crimes against females by males including but not limited to rape/sexual assault are oftentimes crimes of convenience BECAUSE THE VICTIM WAS PREOCCUPIED AND NOT PAYING ATTENTION!

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does she need bills for?

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    #27

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Ability to stay hungry for a long time.

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    Bob Brooce
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty sure that comes naturally to everybody if they don't get enough to eat.

    #28

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times You learn to fix everything. Everything can be fixed, buying a new item only happens when I consider fixing it to be more of a hassle than making whatever cash the item costs new is, which isn’t often. New items just eventually wear and turn used within a week or so.

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    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Toyota Camry is 23 years old. I just keep replacing the add-ons because the engine and transmission just keeps going.

    Pandemonium
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was my father's mantra too - earned a DC lawyer's salary but fixed everything

    Science Nerd
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, way too many items manufactured today have no user serviceable parts and it certain areas it is not even possible to go to an independent repair shop to have them do the work.

    CorgiGirl
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I own a 2004 Mini Cooper. Only 110k kilometers on it. I'm not giving it up until it dies. Or I die . Whichever comes first

    Javelina Poppers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have a nice Kitchenaid mixer I bought at a yard sale for $5 because it was broken. I brought it home and disassembled it and found a broken gear so I headed to a local appliance parts store and they had a new gear in stock for $10. Now we have a $320+ mixer for $15 and an hour and a half of my time.

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    #29

    I know what “enough” is.

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    Cristopher Minjarez
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can’t lose anything when you already have what you need

    #30

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Resilience/problem solving. I can find my way out of any situation,.

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    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if Donald Trump ever learned how to fix any of life's problems. I would assume he always paid someone to fix them or make them go away.

    Wheeskers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got him on your mind all the time, huh? Even here? Why bring the election into a perfectly nice list?

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    Satya Bain
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, not everything but I can hold my own.

    #31

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Getting out of bad situations by myself and my own wits. I can create a delicious meal from whatever; my wife is stil bamboozled by how tasty my random meals are, even after 10 years pf being together. There is nothig too terrible that cannot be fixed by a sincere excuse. Lies will only get you intoo deeper s**t. I can repair at home any elwctrical appliances or gadgets. I am grateful for anything that happens. Even if I find 50% discound maturated ribs. Or a parking spot in the shade. Karma is real.

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    poison Ivy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yesterday I woke up hot as heck and wondered why my air conditioner hadn't cut on. I looked at the thermostat and it was blank. I finally decided to pull the cover off before waking up my husband. The batteries were dead. A small feat, but I'm proud of myself. 😁

    Tabitha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes issues that you think will be expensive can be solved by something as inexpensive as replacing batteries. On the other hand, some issues that seem like they’d be cheap to fix turn out to be damned expensive.

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    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "but I'm proud of myself". simple fax but worth a pat on the back!

    Renee H.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karma is not real. But reaping what you sow.

    Mary Reeves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karma is real, just wish I didn't have to wait so long

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    #32

    Being able to see trouble brewing while it's still miles away. I believe this is called being hyper-vigilent, as if it were a negative thing. And being like Felix the Cat when confronted with an obstacle, able to pivot on a dime when thwarted, then come at the problem with different tools and a different strategy.

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    Tabitha
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who can survive being poor, or worse, turns out to be a very resourceful person who doesn’t waste time feeling sorry for themself or freaking out or giving up or panicking, but gets right to work getting themself through it and out the other end. There’s time to cry or freak out when they’re finished and in better shape and safe—-and believe me, that delayed reaction does come. They also learn to read the signs and can “smell” trouble, as well as prepare for it, before anyone else even knows it’s coming.

    nottheactualphoto
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whenever he gets in a fix, he reaches into his bag of tricks.

    Bret Sander
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you've been a target of violence,no matter how long ago, the hyper vigilance becomes exhausting.

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can smell coffee brewing a room away ...

    #33

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times Knowing hunger. I don't think you can truly know yourself when there's a part of you that will kill for food or die. It is strangely empowering. Not facing serious adversity is a gift and a curse. The people who don't know discomfort or hunger are the same as the person who's never been punched in the face getting into their first fight, they about to learn on the fly, and the stakes are high.

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    Arkham Wohlfert
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was homeless at 15 due to extreme abuse at home for being "perverted" because I "acted like a boy" turns out I'm transgender and of course, in a fundamentalist evangelical home, it was decided I was "welcoming demons"blah blah blah. The fridge group (cult, really) my parents had us in meant no friends out of the church, no tv, no hair cutting etc. and we lived where out secular neighborhoods were more than 3 miles away. I had exactly zero social skills when I ran for my life. Eventually I was starving, which was worse than scrambling for shelter in my opinion. Extreme fatigue and pain. One day a gutter punk (look it up? :) saw me looking in the trash outside a restaurant. He scare me, but he taught me that this trash wasn't going to work, and from there I learned to dumpster, turn on electricity and heat in abandoned houses, ride trains, etc. I know now, that so long as capitalism is a thing, corporations and the rich will waste EVERY kind of thing and you can find it. I can survive

    Tabitha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very valuable survival skills learned through adversity and necessity. You are one of the few who would survive an apocalypse. I admire you.

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    Thee8thsense
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being so hungry that I became too weak to even walk to a free meal at a church comes to memory. It's just wonderful too, when people who have never been hungry spout off "there's plenty of available resources for people". Oh, ok.

    #34

    Not panicking when broke.

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    Bexxxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was barely scraping by for over 10 years and have bad anxiety so I definitely did panic, all day every day for years 😅

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Being broke is not a disgrace. It is merely a catastrophe." - Nero Wolfe

    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when my mom tries to make me worry when I'm broke or running low-ish on money. "What will you do if there's an emergency?" What kind of emergency? We live in Canada. We have public health insurance. I don't drive, don't own a vehicle. Bills and rent are paid. We have some food. She never really goes into specifics about type of emergency. I'm more worried about how long the food will last and getting myself to work.

    Deb M.F.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been broke and poor most of my adult life and still to this day, I live life like that. Bills and rent come 1st then I do the best I can with what I have left over

    #35

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times The ability to DIY a lot of things, even computer software or hardware problems. Saved me a lot of money in my teens. This only compounded into my 30s. My peers think I'm a genius just because I know how to make a slow or sluggish computer fast or because of the way I can use duct tape. Heck, I even saved my folks money when I fixed their water heater, the "fix" was to use a coin to press this black button that tripped.

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    ChugChug
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not a fix. The tripped black button is a sign that it needs repair, possibly scale built up inside.

    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not always. Could also be caused by a power surge. Only if it repeats and especially if it starts to happen more frequently should you get it looked at.

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    Anywhere but Here
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, if you’re used to being poor you tend to fix things “good enough” rather than paying to have them repaired properly.

    linda harbin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Duct tape: the handyman’s secret weapon.

    Shan Cruz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And tankless water heaters are very affordable

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "or because of the way I can use WD-40."

    #36

    Not telling everyone what i have in my pockets.

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    Tabitha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Discretion. I learned the hard way long ago to just keep certain things extremely low key and close to myself. Too much talk and transparency can get you into trouble. Sometimes it’s best to just STFU.

    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pocketses.

    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soooooooo.... OP believes rich people DO tell everyone what they have in their pockets? I'm confused. This seems dumb.

    #37

    How to sharpen pencils with knives, attached papers together using rice or some special folding techniques, cut papers by folding, and tearing it carefully.

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    LandAhoy (they/them)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can sharpen pencils with knives, but frequently lose part of the innards in the process. I can cut papers by folding and tearing (Hint: use your nails to make a super sharp fold.) I also once met a Romanian who could open a tin can with only a knife don't know how to do the others, does anyone know how to attatch papers together with rics or folding?

    Dreaming Spirit
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are a few methods, look up "bind paper without stapler" :) as for rice, the first thing that comes to my mind is that rice can be sticky, maybe they used it to make their own glue?

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    Kombatbunni
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandpa showed me how to sharpen a pencil with a knife, though sometimes when he was working on something and didn’t have a knife handy he’d use a chisel 😁

    Zaach
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Knowing how to open a bottle of wine w/o a corkscrew - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QjTGz8flFkM

    Jay Cee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They use corks in wine bottles now? Whatever happened to screw caps?

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    Blyss Blyssylb
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hah I would always take my pain or pencil and about little better than a quarter inch from the corner of the papers and then it used some hair or a piece of string to connect your papers

    #38

    How to take a punch.

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    Thee8thsense
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Conversely, how to throw one.

    Arkham Wohlfert
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% this. Once you realize it doesn't hurt all that bad, and is more rattling than painful, you can stay calm and take care of s***. It's always surprising to me when I meet people who don't know this yet.

    Sheena Leversedge Wood
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what's that got to do with being poor? I've never had to hit anyone because I lack money.

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how to make cranberry punch ...

    Blyss Blyssylb
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And how to fall you roll into it or roll out of it either way when you're falling down learn how to fall by rolling into the fall or rolling out of the Fall depends on the fall

    #39

    I have a level of charm to get what I want that no amount of money could ever teach you.

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    Anne Nielsen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or you read people well enough to pick the easy targets.

    AnnaRachelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure if this is something to be proud of

    linda harbin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Deception will come back to bite you….

    Linda Lee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That charm is called being a con man or a grifter.

    NoName
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds a bit sociopathic 😳

    NoName
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd bet cash money that RevolutionarySet3032 works in a corporate setting... lots of this type in the corporate hellscape.

    #40

    “How To Use And Repair Everything”: 40 Skills That Help People Thrive In Tough Times I know that you can fill up the bathtub with water stolen from the next door neighbor’s garden hose and use a bucket to fill the toilet tank so you can flush when the water gets shut off due to nonpayment.

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    Robert Sissco
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or maybe they ask first. If my neighbors had their water cut off and needed to fill a few gallon buckets to get by, I would let them. My city charged by the 1,000 gallons, I highly doubt their 5 gallons would put me into the next 1,000 gallon tier.

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    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this post just imply rich people don't know how to steal? LOL

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They have purchased the political influence to make their crimes legal.

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    Robert T
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Water is considered a basic human right and cannot be shut off due to non-payment in many countries, including the UK. The can still chase you for payment, but they can't cut it off.

    3 Otters 🦦
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US utilities have payment assistance- In the Tacoma Washington are this is real, I donate when I can.

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    linda harbin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karma’s a b***h. Keep looking over your shoulder.

    Privateer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad I live in a country where it's illegal to shut off someone's water because of non-payment. Water is a human right. (I do pay my water bill of course.)

    Be_ Heard
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned you can flush the toilet with a bucket of water because we had well water growing up and it would run out all the time. It was so awful and rusty. I am so weird about water now. And only drink bottled water

    Jonathan English
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your water gets turned off due to no payment...... Ye pay for water ?

    Blyss Blyssylb
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We were taught to rinse out and refill every milk jug 2 l bottle juice bottles etc and we would refill them with water and then when the utilities were cut off we had water already there also helps when there's a power outage

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    1 year ago

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    Michael P (Perthaussieguy)
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    My Water bill recently came to AUD$224.55 for 57 days. The bulk of that was service charge and sewerage charge. Actual water charge was $1.95 per kilo litre (1,000 litres = 264 gallons). Things must be pretty bad to go to all that trouble to save a few cents or a dollar

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    $224 is a lot of money! You think everyone can just cough that up?

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