Someone Wondered “What’s A Sign That Someone Grew Up Poor?” And 30 Folks Online Delivered
According to the World bank, the number of people living below the poverty line in the world is gradually decreasing, but this is still far from enough to say there's been a serious improvement in the situation. On the other hand, several decades ago, everything was much, much worse.
Yes, if today in the world less than 10% of the population live below $2.15 a day, then forty years ago there were more than 40% of such people. In other words, almost half of the modern population of the globe grew in poverty. And, according to people in this recent viral thread, there are special behavioral patterns and signs by which such a person can be recognized.
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In USMC recruit training we had a dude in our platoon who was homeless for an extended period of time before enlisting.
Every morning at zero dark thirty the DIs would come in turn the light on, screaming, total chaos to wake us all up…. Every single morning for the first thirty days or so of basic this dude slept right through it 😂. Kid said he was so comfortable in his little rack and hadn’t slept so good in a long long time. He was always exclaiming how good the food was at the chow hall. It put a lot of things in perspective for me.
For me, I have what I call "poverty mentality", while I can afford new shoes and clothes, they have to be falling apart for me to replace.
I didn’t grow up super poor, but I still do this. My favorite pair of vans, had em for three years. Super glued the sole together , hand sewed the crease together a few times. Finnaly bought a new pair of shoes lmao. Idk why I do this but it saved me money for three years. EDIT:Wow, I’m honored, Finnaly been on BP long enough to get a spam bot reply lmao
Never buying clothing at full price. It just feels illegal.
They are normally more generous than people who grew up in rich families.
This is absolutely true, as pizza delivery drivers have many stories about poor people who tip (when they can) and rich people who tip a little or nothing at all. A good example is NY Yankees pitcher Andy Pettitte, who lives in a big-a*s mansion in Texas. He and his wife both reportedly tip $1
The mental struggle to buy anything and not feel guilty.
Oof. I have a $50 bill in my wallet from Christmas. I am 39 and still in the process of convincing myself to buy the stupid video game I want. Cleary it is a gift so it's ok but man have I been resistant to buying anything with it
Will eat all of the food on their plate, even after feeling full because they can't waste food.
Flip side - I used to leave some of my meal even if I was still hungry so that I could have the rest the day after, otherwise there might not be anything to eat the next day.
I see that as the same thing. The point is not letting food go to waste.
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My wife won't eat leftovers. That's a whole different thing... I eat leftovers for every meal until they are gone. The idea of wasting food is unfathomable. Sometimes it will be a week before I have a meal that isn't leftovers because I have to eat the older food first, even when meals are made every day.
My mom had it instilled into her that everyday she had to cook something, and so the leftovers from previous day would go to waste. Now in my household we throw almost no food away. As means to achieve this, I sometimes even eat stir fry for breakfast. 😅 leftover food makes a nice snack.
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More accurately... you NEVER say "Yeah, just take it away" or throw it out. if you can't eat it, you pack it. You. Don't. Waste.
At any buffet or free food event, eating only high value foods like meat, cheese, shrimp,etc. I'm not eating free potatoes or noodles
Exactly ! I’m sorry but I’m eating stuff that I can’t afford myself !
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I have a fierce protection against others eating from my food. I get angry, and at that quickly. I also eat very fast, and look like I shovel it in. Growing up we were si poor, I was having a eating competition with my sister every day to even have some. Our mother had to start giving us portions. We were skeleton thin, all three of us.
Wasting food isn't normal. No matter rich or poor. Just take as much as you can eat. It's not that difficult.
Also free/unlimited food - I can't help myself. I feel like I have to take full advantage and eat as much as I can
I did this a lot. And then stuffing ketchup, jelly and any other condiment packets in my purse.
My family would cook dinner & what leftovers we had we keep eating the next day until it’s gone. My wife would cook & still have leftovers which she believes should be trashed & I was like what? Hell no! She was raised spoiled while most of my childhood was poor with a single mom & us 3 boys. I honestly do not understand that mentality that once cooked it all belongs in the trash “we do NOT keep leftovers”. I’m the only in my family still to this day continue to keep eating our leftovers. Leftovers usually runs out within 1-2 days growing up.
I've definitely noticed over the past year, just how far I will go to not waste food and how guilty I feel when I'm unable to use everything up. I know it's definitely not healthy given how extensive it is and I'm hoping once I'm back in therapy, I can somehow get it toned down.
If i can't finish, Not to proud to ask for container to take it home, Waste Not -Want Not!
Or carefully saving exactly half of it to make a second portion for the next day
I always take the leftovers with me whether from my moms or from a restaurant and have it for my lunch at work. Just mad dinner and I don’t think I even ate half. It will be my meal for work tomorrow
If you have leftovers, save the leftovers for the next day. Always.
I used to pretty much live off of little Caesars $5 pizza *CRUSTS*, I would give my kids my share of the actual pizza and since they didn't really eat the crusts off of their pizza, I had my crusts and theirs. So I wasn't starving, but I wasn't full either. Now that they're adults, and are all doing fairly well financially, btw, they will tell me how they remember me doing that for them and it showed how much I was willing to do for my kids. They'll say "mom, u starved so we didn't have to" 😭❤️🥲 that's the ultimate validation right there.
Was raised by war children. Absolutely NOTHING goes to waste in my house . . .
No. That's why God made to-go boxes. Well... that... and Southern cook's are simply f**king great!!!!
So much food goes to waste that could have fed the less fortunate because those who have plenty can't be bothered to not let excess food go to waste. I hate it so much.
We’re teaching our son about not wasting food but also not eating past full…so if there are leftovers that’s the start of the next meal!
Bro my homie actually finds pride in WASTING food refuses to ever eat leftovers etc, he said it's bc trauma from not having enough so he finds putting too much food on his plate and throwing the rest away a mental victory.
I just hate having leftovers. They take up space in the fridge and I never want to go back and eat them because they're never good microwaved.
having a vast skill set! trust me, when you cant afford a repair man/hairdresser/seamstress/builder/roofer/welder/mechanic etc, you learn yourself.
I'm really surprised I haven't seen "condiment drawer" here. When eating out, you save all of the unused condiments in a drawer. It took me until I was about 40 to finally recognize and stop hoarding ketchup and sauce packets.
I don't like chili sauce so when I eat two minute noodles, I just cut around that packet and store it in the pantry. For no good reason
A personal anecdote:
For backstory, I'm the primary financial provider for my wife and I, but I really don't care what she does with our money. If our bills are paid and we have food to eat, I'm fine.
I grew up fairly poor, so I never really bought anything for myself, or asked for anything to be bought for me. A few months ago a video game I had wanted to play was on sale for like.... $2.50, and I said to my wife "hey, can I buy this?"
Not really because I wanted "permission" but because I hadn't logged in to check our financial state and didn't know if the money was already set aside for bills. But she looked at me and said "did you just ask permission to buy a $2.50 game with your own money?...."
So I'd say the hesitance to buy anything for yourself, regardless of how stupidly cheap it was.
My late husband did this, always asked if he could buy something (he was also the mayonnaise jar hoarder)
I grew up poor and my husband grew up middle class. Whenever we have guests, I am constantly asking people if they got ENOUGH food. "Is anyone still hungry? I can make something else!"
My husband will inquire about the quality of the food and if it is to everyone's liking.
I think when you grow up poor, food is very much quantity over quality.
I went without food sometimes when I was growing up. It took a long time before I stopped hoarding food once I could afford it. My husband always commented on how long it would take me to go through the chocolate he would bring back from his international trips. I was always afraid it would be the last time we could get it and would make it last as long as humanly possible. I am quick to shut down spending and I am much better at saving money than my husband. I also keep our heat set at 63 for the day and I am usually the last in the neighborhood to turn on our air conditioning. I still shop sales and I don’t understand things like renovating a perfectly fine kitchen just because you don’t like the color of the countertop or cabinets.
One of my nephews was adopted into our family when he was three. My SIL said it took him a long time to stop hoarding food and realize he would get fed at the next meal.
Lack of exposure to cultural events. missing out on experiences that others may take for granted, such as attending concerts, traveling, or participating in extracurricular activities.
I tried out to be a cheerleader and made the squad. I was shocked and had to back out. I lied, saying that i'd hurt myself and my doctor has told me not to join, but the truth was that my parents could barely afford a pizza now and then, much less several hundred dollars worth the cheerleading gear. I never told them.
When I was in elementary school a girl asked me why all my shirts were just solid color and not brand name logo shirts. Made me feel insecure. So im going to go with an obvious answer here, clothing and style. I still wear my clothes until they have holes and stains. I have the money to buy new brand name clothes, but why. I'm not trying to impress anyone.
Odd hoarding behaviours of things you probably should have gotten rid of out of fear you won’t be able to replace them easily. I keep a stack of boxes broken down because there’s still this fear in the back of my mind that I’ll have to move again at a moment’s notice. I make a decent salary now and have lived where I am for nearly 7 years, but I still can’t part with those boxes despite the space they take up. Under the bed, behind the chest of drawers… Yeah. I still have ‘em.
Mayonnaise jars, or any jar that has a good lid. Have to go on a jar purge every 6 months or so.
Enjoying cinnamon, sugar, and butter on a slice of bread because we couldn't afford sweet treats 🥲 it low-key slapped though
I'm a foster kid. I was always poor and pretty much had nothing. These are habits I have.
I hoard food. They're still edible if they're past their expiration date as long as it's not mouldy or something. My basement is stocked for a zombie apocalypse.
I never throw out old containers unless they're mouldy or something, clean that s**t out, good as new.
I also always have leftovers. I never waste food and eat everything on my plate.
I feel guilty when I buy something I don't necessarily need.
I add water to "empty" soap containers so they're full.
I cut "empty" toothpaste tubes so I get every last drop.
I reuse a lot of stuff. The "disposable" stuff don't need to be disposed most of the time. You can reuse them.
You should get one of those paint rollers. You stick the end of toothpaste or pain tube and it rolls it up all tight so you get every last drop. Saves me a lot of time and is so much more convenient than cutting them open.
Scanning the menu for the cheapest options possible when at a restaurant. “It’s ok the soup is really enough for me”
- Being hypersensitive to any light left on, door left open, opening the fridge too much, running water too long, etc, because you’re trained to minimize utilities.
- Never pouring more than 1/2 a glass of any drink when at someone else’s house (except water) because you don’t want to be seen as wasteful/gluttonous.
- Making weird snacks out of food that isn’t supposed to be a snack - ex. Eating dry ramen noodles like chips, koolaid with sugar and your finger to make your own fun dip, eating Kraft cheese slices/cold hotdogs/other things that are normally just a part of a meal.
"Eating dry ramen noodles like chips, koolaid with sugar" are some of my favorite things but I didn't grow up poor.
In the US I’d say poor dental history or teeth - dental work is a luxury
Overall, I’d say many hoarders grew up poor because they are so afraid of not having something if they’ll need it so they keep everything
My dad was like that. Grew up in the Depression, the son of a widow. Never threw out any scrap piece of metal or wood. I've inherited that trait too.
Sentimentality. Not that wealthier people can't be sentimental.
But my dad, whose parents grew up in the rural South during the great depression, wants to keep every little thing of my mom's. Everything.
He would prefer to keep her bedroom as is.
I always wondered why he wanted to keep it like that. But then I realized, the only thing we have left is my mom's ashes in an urn.
There was no funeral, no memorial, (she didn't want any and there was no one to come anyways) no tombstone. Nothing that feels tangible, personal, etc.
We don't have the luxury of beautiful personal mausoleums, or headstones, or anything else in the Western death culture.
My mom's bedroom, and all her stuff is the closest we will ever have to a memorial for my mom. It's a tomb, without a body in it.
I was told recently I was crazy for using bread instead of hot dog buns. That's just something I always did as it's what we had. Burgers, hotdogs all bread fellas.
There's quite a bit, I didn't see them in myself until I was an adult and went to therapy.
1. Lack of basic wellness, e.g. no primary care doctor or dentist. Rationalizing this because there's a "financial cost" to it.
2. Serious guilt from buying anything you don't absolutely need. It's a feeling of "you don't deserve this" or "you're being stupid to ever want something".
3. Working yourself to death because of a serious insecurity about "returning to poverty"; my therapist called this the "never again" work ethic, it's toxic.
4. Eating your food so fast like you will never have another meal again. It's a sign of food insecurity growing up. My fiance pointed this out to me that I did this, and it clicked when I talked with my therapist about it. It's very common
5. General anti establishment beliefs. The system failed you, so it's hard to trust something that put you through abuse. This can manifest in bad financial literacy, or lack of belief in banks/stock market, etc.
I have ”poverty toes”. We didn’t have a lot of money growing up so shoes were worn until they died, regardless of fit. My toes are curled and with prominent knuckles from being scrunched into too-small shoes.
Only shopping in the clearance sections even after I grew up and started making good money.
Having duplicates of essentials. You develop a prepper mentality for every “just in case” situation.
Someone asked me if my kid was going to do dance or gymnastics. I was confused as to why. Their response was didn’t you do it as a kid. No I that cost money. I was lucky to play with a knockoff Barbie.
Realizing I wanted to have the house that all my kids friends came over to hang out at because that wasn't really an option for big chunks of my childhood.
I felt that. I still kinda want to be able to have friends at my house. ... But that's just me.
Still being marveled by an ice maker and side by side doors
I hate side by side doors unless they both go to the refrigerator portion, and the freezer is a separate portion. The more cubic a compartment is, the more volume. Side by side freezer/fridge always feels like there isn't enough room in either.
Even when they have money to burn, they’ll still be frugal as f**k.
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Mom worked for New York Telephone in the '70s, but we lived in a town with an independent phone company, which meant she would have had to pay for phone service, so instead we had a cheap Radio Shack intercom and if somebody wanted to talk to us, they'd call the neighbors and the neighbors would call us on the intercom. We also didn't have a color TV till about 1978, but even that was an improvement from around 1970 when we had a little TV with picture but no sound sitting on top of a big TV with sound but no picture and we had to turn both on to watch and listen to a show
Wow. LOL... I look at most of these and think "Uhh.. I thought that was just growing up Asian". Seriously - my whole group of friends/acquaintances growing up (all a bunch of East Asian kids, most of them Chinese) we did SO much of this stuff just as part of daily life (Don't waste food, make sure your guests have MORE than enough to eat, if it ain't broke you don't need a new one, etc) - and I wouldn't really call any of us as having grown up 'poor'... and some of them were downright stupid wealthy.
I wonder if that had anything to do with how prevalent Confucian thinking is in China and East Asia in general. It developed during the chaotic Warring States Period in China, and so is focused on order and tradition to maintain harmony (kinda like an inherent "never again" mindset).
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My mother has always scraped out eggs with her finger when she cracks them open. She said years ago an acquaintance saw her do that and asked her if she grew up poor.
An older woman told me once that prospective MIL's would watch their potential DIL's to see if they did that because it was a sign that they would be a good homemaker - scraping out that bit of egg. I do it, b/c not doing it is wasteful.
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One thing I haven’t seen in the list is the near pathological fear of being robbed / burgled because there’s just no possible way of replacing anything.
We were never worried about being robbed because we had nothing anyone would want. Until a neighbor girl's druggie bf found out my mom had cancer therefore probably had pain pills. Besides the meds though, nothing worth a damn to resell
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Couldn't read this, too many familiar things. Only thing I don't do on this list is control spending. Once I got a decent salary I was like WOOOOOHOOOOOOO. But still hoard condiments from takeout and still re-use their containers as tupperware and still only chuck clothes once they get lots of holes (one hole is easy to fix).
It's hard to give up favorite shirts even with holes in them and a quite few. I got a Tshirt on my 30th birthday that said 30th on it. I was in my 40s before giving it up
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I disagree that things are "much much better today". Inflation is up by 189% from 40 years ago.648 million people are living in EXTREME poverty (less than $2.15 in today's money) ( Please remember down vote spam not what you disagree with. People get kicked off bored panda for to many down votes)
Worldwide extreme poverty has considerably been reduced in the last 30 years. Mostly because of China and India, but still.
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Couple things: we weren't poor growing up but my folks did know the value of hand me downs. I usually inherited my older sisters clothes when she outgrew them. Then I went to live with an aunt who got rid of everything every year and bought new. Heaven forbid you wear something a little too big. It had to fit, never mind if you only get to wear it once because you had a growth spurt. I didn't understand for a long while; my only explanation is that my older cousin hid the fact she was pregnant under clothes that were too big. My other comment is about presents. We did the standard Christmas/birthday stuff. Otherwise if you wanted it you saved up your allowance. As an adult I still save up for things; I get uncomfortable when people buy me things, especially if it's expensive. I've learned not to mention certain things that are cool around friends because one of them will get a wild hair and buy it.
We weren't poor poor but we did Christmas on small scales. Decorations made by hand. But saving for something special I still do. To make extra money at home we'd get a penny a piece to pull stickers out of the carpet. Lived in the country lots of stickers and shag carpet I still pick up pennies. Despite people they're not worth anything. My answer 5 pennies make a nickel a hundred pennies make a dollar. I always have a change jar to put change in for anything I might need but don't have the money, count my change.
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Seriously America - healthcare *should* be a basic human right in any civilised country. Not going to the doctor or dentist because you can't afford it in the richest country in the world is seriously, seriously wrong.
Agreed 100%. But a lot of boomers sneer at that because of the bootstraps mentality. Even as they collect their paychecks from the very same social programs they hate so much.
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Not seeking medical care until death is an actual strong possibility. Checking bank balance before every single purchase all the time. Knee jerk reaction to possible stolen wallet, "what they gone do? Fix my credit? Get my account outta overdraft? Good luck being me my dude, but it doesn't pay." Still having anxiety and staring at register at check out until it says "approved" even after checking bank balance, and always knowing what card to try next if that first one doesn't work...even when you know you got money now. Always have a few side hustles and a back up plan. And finally, my personal fave, the go bag. For years everything I owned fit in my backpack. I carried a backpack with my essentials all through my twenties, even after I was financially secure. Even to work, the grocery store, on a date. Slept with it literally in my bed. I just never broke the habit or thought about why. Still keep all essentials for starting over in my car.
Buying name brands. I still refuse to buy name brand cereal. It's usually packaged at the same place anyway
My grandmother at Christmases. While us kids were tearing open the wrapping like savages, my grandmother would carefully take off the bow and put it in a bag with a bunch of other bows. Then she would very carefully slice the tape of the wrapping paper and carefully fold it up. One year, I finally asked her why she did it. Long story short: being poor during The Depression and paper rationing in WWII. Still stays with me.
My great aunt did this too and she too grew up during the depression and wwii
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My grandma used to save tinfoil. She'd rinse it off and use it again. She'd save slivers of soap bars. Just about anything that could possibly be reused was reused.
Funny both my hysband and I grew up very poor,but whereas I save and pinch pennies and dont waste or have many vices,he is the exact opposite like money grows on trees and want to "spoil" himself as much as he can.
This is either a great match or very a frustrating match
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what's with the near-daily grew-up-poor or poor-vs-rich posts on Bored Panda? they've become more common than bridezillas, AITAs, malicious compliance, historic photos, and the other overused themes on this site
I have thick, curly, hair, but I keep my head shaved because hair products are a luxury and there are more important things to spend money on.
This was kind of mentioned, but the amount of electricity, water, gas someone wastes in a home. Not just true of poor, but can be a sign.
When I moved out on my own I couldn't afford movies or any type of extra entertainment except a TV. I had to retire at 53 and considered low income but I found a way to enjoy Ren faires or steampunk faires, I volunteer and I get in for free. I costumes I put together from what I have or I play games on my cell and get Amazon cards that I use to get things I don't have.
As a kid, I always thought that a sign of being rich was owning two cars. I remember my parents selling candy to kids in the neighborhood out of our apartment to save enough money to buy their first car, and that took about 2 years. Now that I'm in my 30s and married, I still feel the same way. I would love for my husband and I to have our own cars, but it's just too expensive since we only have one income. Most of my friends have two-car households, and I marvel at how they pull that off.
You know those suburbs where all the houses look the same? Those are like my dream homes.
I think not caring so much about money. I know that seems counterintuitive, but it isn't. Growing up poor and having to start helping pay bills at 10-11, I just never had much money. Being used to having nothing, when I started having money I had fun and had some nice things. When I started having more money than I could easily spend, it was nice but I didn't fear not having it. When my wife and I got together, we instantly became a family of 5 and money was tight again. So we basically started back at poor. Eventually we got back to a position where we have good money. I had a manager job where my boss hated that he couldn't dangle money in front of me to get me to do really hard jobs that no one wanted - I told him money wasn't a motivator for me... when you grow up broke and get some money, people can't manipulate you as easily.
Growing up poor also might mean that when you start working you might need to help family members financially. I had to and have to and I don't find this fair. Also you are on your own, family cannot support you, it could be other way around. It ads a lot of stress to life. I was noticing a friend has a sure inheritance when her grandparents pass away so she finds studio to rent instead of sharing house with people and renting just a room like me so I can try to save money. She goes for massages while I am hesitant to spend money on it even when I need it too.
I grew up poor. However, the way it showed up is that I gained a lot of unhealthy weight when I got to money. Also overworked myself and didn't leave toxic working environment. Also closing doors, turning off lights, using minimum tap water. Looking for cheap rent accommodation. Using phones, laptops until they break. Being careful when spending money but sometimes not. On the other hand, there are things where it wouldn't be guessable. I like better quality groceries, freshest possible even if it will cost me more money. I might sometimes throw away food which is past due date because I am afraid to eat it - maybe some aversion against it but I had this from childhood. My aunt was very annoyed each time I asked if it is not passed due date and I was just a little child. Also since seeing my family of hoarders and how awful it makes their life, I am trying to practice minimalism.
I asked what the price limit was whenever we went out to eat, but when I did that at events, I got looked at weird. Surprisingly it made selecting a meal more stressful without a budget, even though I wasn't buying
Not one mention of not trusting wealthy people. Is it just me and my family? We were suspicious of wealthy people and treated them like they lived on another planet. I still shake my head when I see yachts, mansions, expensive cars, and clothes that are so ugly or impractical that they must be fashionable.
Oh, there's a lot of that. Most people just don't want to start fights over it because rich folks WILL get offended.
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Anybody else used to save unpopped popcorn kernels? After a few bags of popcorn, it's like you have a free bag of popcorn
Mom worked for New York Telephone in the '70s, but we lived in a town with an independent phone company, which meant she would have had to pay for phone service, so instead we had a cheap Radio Shack intercom and if somebody wanted to talk to us, they'd call the neighbors and the neighbors would call us on the intercom. We also didn't have a color TV till about 1978, but even that was an improvement from around 1970 when we had a little TV with picture but no sound sitting on top of a big TV with sound but no picture and we had to turn both on to watch and listen to a show
Wow. LOL... I look at most of these and think "Uhh.. I thought that was just growing up Asian". Seriously - my whole group of friends/acquaintances growing up (all a bunch of East Asian kids, most of them Chinese) we did SO much of this stuff just as part of daily life (Don't waste food, make sure your guests have MORE than enough to eat, if it ain't broke you don't need a new one, etc) - and I wouldn't really call any of us as having grown up 'poor'... and some of them were downright stupid wealthy.
I wonder if that had anything to do with how prevalent Confucian thinking is in China and East Asia in general. It developed during the chaotic Warring States Period in China, and so is focused on order and tradition to maintain harmony (kinda like an inherent "never again" mindset).
Load More Replies... My mother has always scraped out eggs with her finger when she cracks them open. She said years ago an acquaintance saw her do that and asked her if she grew up poor.
An older woman told me once that prospective MIL's would watch their potential DIL's to see if they did that because it was a sign that they would be a good homemaker - scraping out that bit of egg. I do it, b/c not doing it is wasteful.
Load More Replies... One thing I haven’t seen in the list is the near pathological fear of being robbed / burgled because there’s just no possible way of replacing anything.
We were never worried about being robbed because we had nothing anyone would want. Until a neighbor girl's druggie bf found out my mom had cancer therefore probably had pain pills. Besides the meds though, nothing worth a damn to resell
Load More Replies... Couldn't read this, too many familiar things. Only thing I don't do on this list is control spending. Once I got a decent salary I was like WOOOOOHOOOOOOO. But still hoard condiments from takeout and still re-use their containers as tupperware and still only chuck clothes once they get lots of holes (one hole is easy to fix).
It's hard to give up favorite shirts even with holes in them and a quite few. I got a Tshirt on my 30th birthday that said 30th on it. I was in my 40s before giving it up
Load More Replies... I disagree that things are "much much better today". Inflation is up by 189% from 40 years ago.648 million people are living in EXTREME poverty (less than $2.15 in today's money) ( Please remember down vote spam not what you disagree with. People get kicked off bored panda for to many down votes)
Worldwide extreme poverty has considerably been reduced in the last 30 years. Mostly because of China and India, but still.
Load More Replies... Couple things: we weren't poor growing up but my folks did know the value of hand me downs. I usually inherited my older sisters clothes when she outgrew them. Then I went to live with an aunt who got rid of everything every year and bought new. Heaven forbid you wear something a little too big. It had to fit, never mind if you only get to wear it once because you had a growth spurt. I didn't understand for a long while; my only explanation is that my older cousin hid the fact she was pregnant under clothes that were too big. My other comment is about presents. We did the standard Christmas/birthday stuff. Otherwise if you wanted it you saved up your allowance. As an adult I still save up for things; I get uncomfortable when people buy me things, especially if it's expensive. I've learned not to mention certain things that are cool around friends because one of them will get a wild hair and buy it.
We weren't poor poor but we did Christmas on small scales. Decorations made by hand. But saving for something special I still do. To make extra money at home we'd get a penny a piece to pull stickers out of the carpet. Lived in the country lots of stickers and shag carpet I still pick up pennies. Despite people they're not worth anything. My answer 5 pennies make a nickel a hundred pennies make a dollar. I always have a change jar to put change in for anything I might need but don't have the money, count my change.
Load More Replies... Seriously America - healthcare *should* be a basic human right in any civilised country. Not going to the doctor or dentist because you can't afford it in the richest country in the world is seriously, seriously wrong.
Agreed 100%. But a lot of boomers sneer at that because of the bootstraps mentality. Even as they collect their paychecks from the very same social programs they hate so much.
Load More Replies... Not seeking medical care until death is an actual strong possibility. Checking bank balance before every single purchase all the time. Knee jerk reaction to possible stolen wallet, "what they gone do? Fix my credit? Get my account outta overdraft? Good luck being me my dude, but it doesn't pay." Still having anxiety and staring at register at check out until it says "approved" even after checking bank balance, and always knowing what card to try next if that first one doesn't work...even when you know you got money now. Always have a few side hustles and a back up plan. And finally, my personal fave, the go bag. For years everything I owned fit in my backpack. I carried a backpack with my essentials all through my twenties, even after I was financially secure. Even to work, the grocery store, on a date. Slept with it literally in my bed. I just never broke the habit or thought about why. Still keep all essentials for starting over in my car.
Buying name brands. I still refuse to buy name brand cereal. It's usually packaged at the same place anyway
My grandmother at Christmases. While us kids were tearing open the wrapping like savages, my grandmother would carefully take off the bow and put it in a bag with a bunch of other bows. Then she would very carefully slice the tape of the wrapping paper and carefully fold it up. One year, I finally asked her why she did it. Long story short: being poor during The Depression and paper rationing in WWII. Still stays with me.
My great aunt did this too and she too grew up during the depression and wwii
Load More Replies... My grandma used to save tinfoil. She'd rinse it off and use it again. She'd save slivers of soap bars. Just about anything that could possibly be reused was reused.
Funny both my hysband and I grew up very poor,but whereas I save and pinch pennies and dont waste or have many vices,he is the exact opposite like money grows on trees and want to "spoil" himself as much as he can.
This is either a great match or very a frustrating match
Load More Replies... what's with the near-daily grew-up-poor or poor-vs-rich posts on Bored Panda? they've become more common than bridezillas, AITAs, malicious compliance, historic photos, and the other overused themes on this site
I have thick, curly, hair, but I keep my head shaved because hair products are a luxury and there are more important things to spend money on.
This was kind of mentioned, but the amount of electricity, water, gas someone wastes in a home. Not just true of poor, but can be a sign.
When I moved out on my own I couldn't afford movies or any type of extra entertainment except a TV. I had to retire at 53 and considered low income but I found a way to enjoy Ren faires or steampunk faires, I volunteer and I get in for free. I costumes I put together from what I have or I play games on my cell and get Amazon cards that I use to get things I don't have.
As a kid, I always thought that a sign of being rich was owning two cars. I remember my parents selling candy to kids in the neighborhood out of our apartment to save enough money to buy their first car, and that took about 2 years. Now that I'm in my 30s and married, I still feel the same way. I would love for my husband and I to have our own cars, but it's just too expensive since we only have one income. Most of my friends have two-car households, and I marvel at how they pull that off.
You know those suburbs where all the houses look the same? Those are like my dream homes.
I think not caring so much about money. I know that seems counterintuitive, but it isn't. Growing up poor and having to start helping pay bills at 10-11, I just never had much money. Being used to having nothing, when I started having money I had fun and had some nice things. When I started having more money than I could easily spend, it was nice but I didn't fear not having it. When my wife and I got together, we instantly became a family of 5 and money was tight again. So we basically started back at poor. Eventually we got back to a position where we have good money. I had a manager job where my boss hated that he couldn't dangle money in front of me to get me to do really hard jobs that no one wanted - I told him money wasn't a motivator for me... when you grow up broke and get some money, people can't manipulate you as easily.
Growing up poor also might mean that when you start working you might need to help family members financially. I had to and have to and I don't find this fair. Also you are on your own, family cannot support you, it could be other way around. It ads a lot of stress to life. I was noticing a friend has a sure inheritance when her grandparents pass away so she finds studio to rent instead of sharing house with people and renting just a room like me so I can try to save money. She goes for massages while I am hesitant to spend money on it even when I need it too.
I grew up poor. However, the way it showed up is that I gained a lot of unhealthy weight when I got to money. Also overworked myself and didn't leave toxic working environment. Also closing doors, turning off lights, using minimum tap water. Looking for cheap rent accommodation. Using phones, laptops until they break. Being careful when spending money but sometimes not. On the other hand, there are things where it wouldn't be guessable. I like better quality groceries, freshest possible even if it will cost me more money. I might sometimes throw away food which is past due date because I am afraid to eat it - maybe some aversion against it but I had this from childhood. My aunt was very annoyed each time I asked if it is not passed due date and I was just a little child. Also since seeing my family of hoarders and how awful it makes their life, I am trying to practice minimalism.
I asked what the price limit was whenever we went out to eat, but when I did that at events, I got looked at weird. Surprisingly it made selecting a meal more stressful without a budget, even though I wasn't buying
Not one mention of not trusting wealthy people. Is it just me and my family? We were suspicious of wealthy people and treated them like they lived on another planet. I still shake my head when I see yachts, mansions, expensive cars, and clothes that are so ugly or impractical that they must be fashionable.
Oh, there's a lot of that. Most people just don't want to start fights over it because rich folks WILL get offended.
Load More Replies... Anybody else used to save unpopped popcorn kernels? After a few bags of popcorn, it's like you have a free bag of popcorn
