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Internet detectives are never asleep and will continue to expose people sharing what they thought applied to others, yet in reality, unknowingly described themselves. Whether the subject matter touches on politics, human rights, or any topic in between, these posts haven’t gone unnoticed and were shared on the subreddit r/SelfAwarewolves.

Today, we have collected examples of people confidently sharing their thoughts, only to be humbled by the users in this online community. Or worse, stay ignorant of their mistakes. Either way, let us know your opinions on these claims and which ones made your eyes roll the most.

To learn more about self-awareness, Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Kinga Mnich, a social psychologist, who kindly answered our questions. Read the full interview below.

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So, So Close

So, So Close

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Bernd Herbert
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would you need to fly out to another country for medical treatment when you already live in the greatest country in the world?

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You Had The Chance Dumba*s

You Had The Chance Dumba*s

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think, in every country, taking care of war veterans and their families when they need help should be considered a given. If we’re sending people to the hell that is war, it’s our damn responsibility to take care of the human consequences of that war. I think helping vets should be considered a part of the cost waging war. Shame on politicians -in any country- who use the soldiers when it suits them, and then kick vets to the curb when they’re not ‘useful’ anymore.

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Nowadays, there are more self-aware people than ever before, making it easier to spot those who are clueless. Dr. Kinga Mnich has shared her thoughts on the significance of self-awareness.

“Self-awareness is a central concept in social psychology, referring to the ability to recognize and understand one's thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Self-awareness involves reflecting on one's motivations, beliefs, and values, and being mindful of how one's actions may affect oneself and others. This is especially important in the context of online interactions, where the dynamics of virtual communication are quite different from face-to-face conversations. The lack of self-awareness in online interactions often enables people to bluntly attack others without being aware of the consequences. Sometimes content can be internalized as one's own belief system due to exposure without reflection.”

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Gee, Why Hasn’t Anyone Ever Thought Of This?

Gee, Why Hasn’t Anyone Ever Thought Of This?

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Snazzy Smurf
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If independent research had been done on Planned Parenthood, I don't think all of those people would have been so eager to try and get it shut down. Texas was hit hard and not surprisingly, STI rates are up, teen pregnancies are up, kinda like everything went haywire because a safety net was taken away.

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like how did this person think up to this point? "Why do you choose not to do things with me when I ask you to? Must be a woman thing."

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Why Are Only Pastors Being Arrested, And Not Drag Queens? The Op Nearly Got It

Why Are Only Pastors Being Arrested, And Not Drag Queens? The Op Nearly Got It

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Now, knowing that we cannot evolve further as people in life without at least a bit of self-awareness, we asked how people can develop and maintain mindfulness. Dr. Kinga Mnich replied: “Self-awareness is about understanding oneself, one’s strengths, weaknesses, and motivations. It involves looking inward to understand better how you can improve yourself and your relationships with others. The easiest way to start becoming self-aware is by taking more breaks before responding to something and asking yourself questions such as: Why am I thinking this? Am I really feeling this? What am I feeling? How is this connected to my values and beliefs?”

Also, to learn more about the differences between self-awareness and narcissism, feel free to read Dr. Kinga Mnich’s blog post.

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Huh, That’s An Odd Coincidence

Huh, That’s An Odd Coincidence

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Bernd Herbert
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sigh....antivaxxers. If there were Aliens observing us, they surely would have taken some of them for studies about stupidity.

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It can be funny, sad, or even infuriating to see people so unaware of their actions that they manage to project on other people. Dr. Kinga Mnich sheds light on the causes behind such behavior.

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“There are several psychological mechanisms and biases that cause people to unconsciously project their own traits or behaviors onto others while remaining unaware of their own actions. One such mechanism is projection bias, where individuals attribute their own thoughts, feelings, or motives to others without realizing it. This happens because people tend to assume that others think and feel the same way they do. Unfortunately, this bias can also lead to intolerance and discrimination because personal thoughts and beliefs are being understood as the only reality and truth.

Another contributing factor is cognitive dissonance, which occurs when individuals feel uneasy due to holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes. To reduce this discomfort, they may project their own undesirable traits onto others to maintain a sense of consistency in their self-image.”

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Almost Like Your Political Side Is Against This Very Idea

Almost Like Your Political Side Is Against This Very Idea

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not all starving kids starve because their parents are jerks, many starve because so do the parents!

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So Close

So Close

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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But, in many Red states you can have a kid as young as 10 regardless of the circumstances. Also, if it is after 6 weeks or 1864 when you find out, you are really S.O.L. ( I was referencing the 10 y/o little girl who had to travel out of state for treatment. Then, they want to prosecute the doctor for trying to bring some kindness to that child's life.)

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And lastly, Dr. Kinga Mnich shared how the phenomenon of being "called out" or "exposed" for lacking self-awareness influences people's behavior or attitudes toward self-reflection: “It can go either way. It can lead to a moment of awakening and desire to learn more about themselves. Or it can increase the subsequent behavior because someone feels shamed and pressured.”

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#13

Dad Who Fought To Have Lgbtq Books Removed From School Arrested For Child Molestation

Dad Who Fought To Have Lgbtq Books Removed From School Arrested For Child Molestation

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not uncommon at all, that the self proclaimed morality police turn out to be the creeps.. 🤢

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#14

Inject It Straight Into My F**king Veins

Inject It Straight Into My F**king Veins

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Politicians making decisions about increased aviation safety didn’t receive massive donations/bribes from the airlines, while politicians opposing common sense gun reform (which the majority of Americans support) have received massive donations from the weapons industry, the NRA, Putin’s Russia et c. Like somebody put it, dead kids don’t pay. Priorities, people. 🤢

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A Curriculum Only A Mother Could Love

A Curriculum Only A Mother Could Love

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Homeschooling is such an alien concept. Can ANYONE teach their kids? Does ANYONE control what they're teaching?

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#19

Now You're Getting It

Now You're Getting It

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Luis Hernandez Dauajare
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who would have thought that the Federal Bureau of Investigation of the United States could have federal power to investigate anyone in the United States?

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#20

I Wonder Why

I Wonder Why

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Bernd Herbert
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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because they do not act for the good of the people but in their own interest. Monetary that is

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Twitter User Complains About Wife’s Green Card Marriage. Meanwhile At The Border

Twitter User Complains About Wife’s Green Card Marriage. Meanwhile At The Border

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Christian Homophobe Complaining About "Lgbt Propaganda" Asks How We'd Feel About Christians Pushing Their Religion On Others Unasked

Christian Homophobe Complaining About "Lgbt Propaganda" Asks How We'd Feel About Christians Pushing Their Religion On Others Unasked

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never had any LGBT propoganda shoved in my face. Religious propaganda, yes.

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#24

“Race Is Not Skin Deep.”

“Race Is Not Skin Deep.”

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People getting worked up over the look of Fantasy characters is something I will never understand

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#27

I Don't Even Have Words For This Level Of Stupid

I Don't Even Have Words For This Level Of Stupid

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Conservatives React To "Lightyear" Being Banned In Saudi Arabia

Conservatives React To "Lightyear" Being Banned In Saudi Arabia

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#31

Why Are People So Mean?

Why Are People So Mean?

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The first time I saw 'cis gendered' and that I am one, I just thought "Huh, what's that? Let's Google it". And after finding out what it meant (feeling like the gender you were assigned at birth), my next thought was "Yep, that's me". Why do people feel the need to be offended over this? It's just a description, exactly like transgender, and it's correct. It's not a slur, it's not a swear word, it's not derogative, it's not wrong. It's just an easy way of saying you're 'in the correct body', so to speak.

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Anti-Trans Campaigner Is Made To Feel Unwelcomed By Symbols Of Inclusivity

Anti-Trans Campaigner Is Made To Feel Unwelcomed By Symbols Of Inclusivity

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wtf is a sex realist? Someone who really doesn't have sex?

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Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a sex realist. If both my kids are sleeping at Grandma's house, I think my wife and I are having sex, but realistically we're cleaning the house.

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Anna Ekberg
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Unwelcomed, second class citizen, uncomfortable and on edge". Jeeez, I wonder how trans people must have felt during all these years? 🙄

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Rayne OfSalt
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tbh, I've never felt more accepted than in recent years. That said, the vehemence with which the reich-wing are attacking us is certainly depressing. It's a very weird time.

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Aerial (Any pronouns/Canadian/Jewish)
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that pride flags make some people avoid places that have them is actually great, it means they're not at places I'm likely to go! (Joking but also not)

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Alewa
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It seems like we've created a narrative in recent years where being "for" something means I am automatically against the opposite. It's a cognitive shortcut. This has been perfected in the US with its two party system where one side is consistently painting the other as the villain to creat division, but I see it happening elsewhere, too. Of course there are instances where it's clear cut, but very often, not. I can be for abortion in some circumstances, but against it in others. People may vote locally from age 16 and nationwide from age 18. And so on.

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being a bigot should make you feel uncomfortable and on edge, yes.

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Bernd Herbert
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Amazing how people can twist a sign of inclusion into the opposite.

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Astrius
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sign: asks for people to not be treated as second class citizens. The people the sign is addressed to: I AM A SECOND CLASS CITIZEN FOR WANTING TO OPPRESS THESE PEOPLE

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flower petals
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Sex realist”..? Sounds like someone not into role play, or somebody who doesn’t do online dating.. or some kind of bizarre name. “My name is Realist, Sex Realist, and I’m the spy trying to sh*g you.. Now let’s get horizontal and fight the evil they/thems”! Geez, these people.. 😆😂

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Cassie
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Him and her are literally included in the list. They're literally including you, you utter dunce. You are the only one in this scenario being exclusionary.

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laura lee
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sex doesn't have anything to do with gender. Some one missed their biology classes. Phenotype vs genotype...

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Ael
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP is such a professional victim, I bet they bring their own chalk

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axle f
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...closed minded must be what sex realist means. I wish these idiots weren't afraid to tell the truth about themselves ..

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Diana Lucas
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4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This woman is clearly a snowflake. It's always projection with these people.

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Heather Talma
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean that IS the secondary message I'd intend by putting these in MY shop window.

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“Everyone Else’s Money Made My Life Possible. I, Of Course, Oppose This For Everyone Else”

“Everyone Else’s Money Made My Life Possible. I, Of Course, Oppose This For Everyone Else”

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The "Facts Don't Care About Your Feelings" Crowd Being On Brand Af

The "Facts Don't Care About Your Feelings" Crowd Being On Brand Af

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Why Aren’t The Gop Leftist?

Why Aren’t The Gop Leftist?

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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about start voting in your interest and not against it? How about voting for actual politics and not politicians?

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