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39 Wholesome Messages You Need To See, From The Streets Of London Directly To People’s Hearts
In this world we live in, equally cruel and beautiful, sometimes we want simple human warmth literally out of the blue, when we least expect it. It's a feeling that seems almost forgotten these days. That is why, when we encounter something like this, we are invariably surprised.
For example, a few years ago, on the streets of London, one could see manifestations of a wonderful initiative - some uplifting messages addressed to anyone, including you and me. Small, large and simply huge - they could be found almost everywhere, and then their photos could be seen on this dedicated Instagram page called 'Seconds apart.'
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Bob Brooce 1 year ago
This one would be absolutely right is the first part said "Being loved didn't hurt you" because being loved properly doesn't hurt. Loving somebody, OTOH, has plenty of potential for hurt.
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MaryHadaLittleLamb 1 year ago
That's what I have with my husband, even after 23 years, and I'm so grateful for him! ❤️
This story began in the second half of 2021, when the world was gradually recovering from the pandemic, and a difficult year and a half had left its mark on the lives and moods of many people around the globe. To bring a little unexpected kindness and warmth into people's lives - what could be simpler, nobler and more beautiful? And so, the creators of 'Seconds Apart' started making this little magic...
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lovemy suffolk 1 year ago
And if you're a giver, learn about yourself to understand why you are giving and what you want to get from it. If it's internal satisfaction, go for it! If its for external thanks , validation, and recognition, don't be surprised if you find yourself feeling used, bitter, and spent.
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Bob Brooce 1 year ago
And sometimes you don't get what you want because you don't deserve it. And occasionally you get what you want even though you don't deserve it. Are there any possibilities we haven't listed yet?
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CC McSniggles 1 year ago
Life isn't about getting the things you want, but rather wanting the things you got (who sung this verse?)
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CC McSniggles 1 year ago
This is totally a mom thing to say to an upset kid who didn't get picked to play on a team in gym again. Thanks mom!
Ben Aziza 1 year ago
I really hope from the bottom of my f*****g heart that no person has ever to deal with this b******t. I know a person in this position with their family yet i dont know how to help them. This is something I really struggle to empathize with or understand why some ppl accept it for so long, not for lack of trying, mind you. I simply cannot understand it. Every time someone tried to tie my self-worth to the validation they give me, I just rage against that very concept. To me, it is such an obvious response to controlling behaviour that it is like drinking water or 1+1=2. So that is why I struggle to put myself in the position of someone who is ok with it even for 1 second. If someone can explain it to me, I would be appreciative. It could help me understand how to help people in this position.Think of it like someone who is so naturally talented at an activity that they can't teach it to others. I mean it not trying to be a d**k. Some ppl misunderstood before. Thought I was bragging.
The quotes that appeared over several months in different places in London were both classic household wisdom and paradoxical, biting phrases: both the profound words of the greats and simple, naive, but no less wise encouraging remarks.
These could be billboards and posters, colossal murals on the walls of houses everywhere and small A4 sheets of paper wrapped in a plastic cover and attached with tape to a wall or bus stop. The main thing that united them was the signature 'Seconds Apart' at the bottom, and the general message - life, no matter how bad it may seem, is actually a damn great thing.
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Russ Kincade 1 year ago
Reminds me of the woman who said: I still miss my ex-husband, but my aim is improving!
Child of the Stars 1 year ago
Yup. A part of me will always love him, but he came with flaws that I can't afford to risk having in my life.
The only Plueschopossum 1 year ago
This! Couldn't have said it better. I tried it for 8 years but enough is enough.
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digitalin 1 year ago
But what if I'm not good enough for me? Do I step up my game or lower my standards?
And really - just imagine that you are walking down the street, angry, sad and sleep-deprived. You have a whole load of things to do behind you, done and unfinished, and ahead of you - a crowd of folks who are also tired of the daily routine. And suddenly, when you seem to have realized that nothing good is destined for you in this life - these unexpected words of encouragement and support give you strength out of the blue.
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LakotaWolf (she/her) 1 year ago
I feel this way about those who I've lost. My dear friend Rachel Gidluck, who died at only 24 years old. My dad, who died in 2021 after being catastrophically brain-damaged and disabled from an accident in 2000. I may not be able to say this to them directly, but my heart says it to them.
Eugenia 1 year ago
You told your family history in many posts, but I still feel sad for you each single time. Hope it helps knowing that someone half planet away knows your struggle and remembers you
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But in reality - does each of us need so much... no, not for happiness, but just to smile, take a deep breath, and feel how the burden of problems and fatigue that each of us carries on our shoulders suddenly becomes somehow lighter? Perhaps it was just one such quote, seen at the right time and in the right place.
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Bob Brooce 1 year ago
Absolutely. Now that it's been about 50 years after it happened I can actually tolerate a fair amount of disco.
Child of the Stars 1 year ago
Omg, yes. It's good to remember good times, but it's not healthy to believe the "good ol' days" were nothing but good.
CC McSniggles 1 year ago
Pretty sure without nostalgia, we wouldn't have history books or entertainment set back in the days of yore. JS
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CC McSniggles 1 year ago
Pretty sure not talking about your problems is a good reason why addicts don't get clean.
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CC McSniggles 1 year ago
Only thing I miss is the opportunity to have kicked them in the (not so happy place)
The last entry on the 'Seconds Apart' Instagram account is dated the end of 2021, but people continue to comment and thank the creators of the page even now. So we at Bored Panda now invite you to take a look at a selection of the most interesting and uplifting publications by 'Seconds Apart' - and if at least one person smiles and sighs with relief after reading it, then it all was definitely not in vain.
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CC McSniggles 1 year ago
(First date) Gal: So, are you the type to make a girl think love is hard? Guy: Uh, I don't know...you're pretty...(awkward smile)
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LB 1 year ago (edited)
Me and my partner are from neighboring countries but we already spoke each other's languages because of previous partners, housemates, and/or studies. This comes in super handy, especially when visiting family... But mostly we speak English with each other, because we're both near native.
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Pani Trakovická 1 year ago
I waited for 7 years with the wrong kind of love, knowing deep down, that I was missing something. I found out, that I was right, when I met HIM, who showed me, how to love correctly and healhy.
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ZuriLovesYou 1 year ago
It might not heal my pain, but it sure as heII will make me feel better!
CC McSniggles 1 year ago
I concur. I'll be your alibi, it you'll be mine?
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Brian Droste 1 year ago (edited)
But abusers don't want to let you go. That want to keep you around to keep abusing you.
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Timothy Patel 1 year ago
I’ve NEVER understood the reason to re-visit someone that treated you shabbily.
lovemy suffolk 1 year ago
Because they arent 'over it'. They still want acknowledgement of the pain and an honest "I'm sorry ". They 99.9% of the time won't get it, but our inner psyche has a HARD time letting go of someone or something we cared about truly and genuinely admitting "i overestimated this person and I fell for an absolute- a**hole" . It's hard to admit we made a mistake, genuinely feel our own value, and to truly just let go of the past because you REALLY don't care anymore about that person or situation anymore l. Don't care to the point where you don't have to 'check in' to see if they've had a change if heart or if they are suffering the way you secretly hope they are. When you're really over it, you will not feel the need to re engage...at all. That person just won't matter enough anymore at all. It's a good feeling.
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Brian Droste 1 year ago (edited)
So if you are sitting home waiting for love come knocking at your door, do you think it is going to happened?
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Surly Scot 1 year ago
They really were, feel like I just got all my positive affirmations for the day. Good job on the folks doing this, a simple sign could change someone's whole world.
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Floeckchen 1 year ago (edited)
The big ones are photoshopped, the small ones barely taped on something to only snap a picture and be taken away again.
Lucy Dahlia 1 year ago
This whole post was depressing to me. I’m feeling raw after the person I thought was my person decided I wasn’t enough. I’m in my 50s, there’s not that much time left I fear.
Cronecast AtTheRisingMoon 1 year ago
Those were really helpful, and healthy. Solidly good advice. 🌸
Surly Scot 1 year ago
They really were, feel like I just got all my positive affirmations for the day. Good job on the folks doing this, a simple sign could change someone's whole world.
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The big ones are photoshopped, the small ones barely taped on something to only snap a picture and be taken away again.
Lucy Dahlia 1 year ago
This whole post was depressing to me. I’m feeling raw after the person I thought was my person decided I wasn’t enough. I’m in my 50s, there’s not that much time left I fear.
Cronecast AtTheRisingMoon 1 year ago
Those were really helpful, and healthy. Solidly good advice. 🌸
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