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30 Bone-Chilling Messages From Stalkers Who Refused To Take ‘No’ As An Answer
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While we tend to think of stalkers as cloaked men, following from the shadows, in the age of the internet, they tend to prefer to remain anonymous and at a greater distance, which is still cold comfort for the people who receive their thoughts, threats and “jokes” through text and email.
Netizens share all the weird and creepy texts that stalkers have sent them. Scroll through and comment your thoughts below. We also got in touch with KikiMay, a feminist content creator and communications specialist to learn more.
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#1
Found On A Video Of A Stalker Who K**led A Woman That Rejected Him
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#2
Persistent Online Stalkers
#3
"It Was 15 Times At Once Gosh. I'm Not A Stalker. You Guys Are Idiots"
#4
My Neck Bone Fetish Stalker Came Back Guys... Its Been Three Months Since He First Contacted Me
#5
For A Minute I Thought This Was My Stalker Ex Boyfriend. Not Sure If I Should Feel Relief Or Not
#6
Sent Flowers To My GF, Stalker Gets Upset And Calls Florist Who Then Gave Them My Name
Mila Preradović 3 years ago
Plot twist: HE is the stalker (hence not signing) and the "stalker" is actual boyfriend🤔
#7
Wtf... Sure She Could Be Telling The Truth, Other Than That This Could Be A Stalker Ass Creep
#8
My Stalker Has "Endless Numbers"
So I'm quick to block anything I don't recognize but will occasionally check my blacked messages folder to make sure I didn't block anyone other than him. I'm mostly just posting here just incase I disappear. I'm sure the local police are fatigued by him by now.
#9
I Am Not A Stalker!
#10
Ngvc: "I'm Not Gonna Do Anything To You, I Just Think You're Really Pretty"
Shark Lady 3 years ago
I recommend occasionally Googling your name and any usernames you use, also click on the images tab. I don't have much of an online presence now and don't use my real name, but when I was on social media, by checking my name on Google I discovered a gap in my security settings. My daughter thinks I'm nuts, so I check her name every now and then!
#11
I’m Actually A Nice Stalker!
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 3 years ago
It puts the lotion on its skin, else it gets the hose again.
#12
College Guys... I Mean This Is Stalker Level
#13
Recently Gave A Dude Directions On A Street, Gave Him Fake # But He Caught On
I live and work downtown and am easy to find unfortunately. Guess I have a stage 5 clinger, even after rejection.
#14
"I'm A Creepy Stalker, But You're A S**t Person If You Don't Want To Stay With Me!
#15
Comment On A News Article. Teenage Girl Abducted By Her Stalker
#16
My Husband’s Obsessive Stalker Is Back, I Hope He Doesn’t Threaten Our Neighbors And Their Children Again. I Don’t Want Go Through That Again Especially At 22 Weeks Pregnant
#17
Nice Guy Decides To Stalk Girl He Meets On Train. Then Gets Mad That She Doesn't Like Stalkers
#18
Crazy Stalker Get Jealous When Seen With My Boyfriend
#19
3 Years After I Blocked Him For Stalking Me
We went on one date. He made 7 fake profiles, stalked me at work, and home. Also faked his own death to get me to talk to his “friend” (aka another fake profile)
#20
Clearing Out Old Paperwork And Came Across Harassment Records And Police Reports From My *mildly* Psychotic Stalker. Good Times
#21
Asked A Stalker Type Guy To Leave Me Alone Because I Have A Boyfriend And This Was The Response I Got, Lmao
#22
Stalker To The Max!
#23
My Boyfriend’s Crazy Stalker
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 3 years ago
If at first you don't succeed, stalk, stalk again.
#24
My Sisters Stalker Of 3 Years With A New Number After Being Blocked Everywhere Else
#25
My (Male) Friend's Stalker (Female) Is Nothing But Persistent And Straight To The Point
#26
Ngvc: “It’s Unfair That All Women Only Go For Toxic Mascular Guys But Going For Famous ‘Feminime’ Guys Is Unfair Too”
hwatinternation 3 years ago
"I swear I don't hate Asians, I actually like Asians, I just hate women!" Nutjob.
#27
Went To A Game Store For A Figure, Came Out With A Stalker
#28
Stalker And Person Who Sa'ed Me Forgave Me
#29
My Friend Sent Me These Messages From Her Stalker
#30
I Know You Found My Reddit Too You Fkn Stalker. Leave Me Alone. Texts From January And Instagram Messages From Last Week
hwatinternation 3 years ago
Look, I don't like Dr Phil much but one thing he said (don't remember if he took from somewhere else or not, not really the point) always stuck with me was that when someone says but, what comes after that is what they *really* mean. This guy knows what he's doing is creepy and wrong. (of course, there are situations where that won't be the case but through my personal experience it's largely been true)
#31
She Wanted A Latte, But Instead Got A Stalker
#32
Catfish Dating App Guy P2 (He’s Getting Close To Stalker Mode, Third Number He’s Contacted Me With Since First Blocked)
#33
I Have No Idea How He Knows The Name Of My School.. I Think I Have A Stalker
#34
This Girl Stole My Phone Number Out Of My Friends Phone, My Friend Then Told Me She Had 'Stalker Type' Qualities And To Stay Away.. She Still Sends Messages To This Day
#35
I Guess This Nice Guy Is Also A Stalker…
ConstantlyJon 3 years ago
Clearly he's not supposed to know where she lives. Creepy af. It just went from annoying guy texting you that you can just leave on read to "oh s**t, he knows where I live."
#36
My Friend's Creepy Co-Working Stalker
#37
My Elementary School Stalker Finds Me On Instagram
After never talking/seeing each other for 15 years (this screenshot is the most tame part of this entire interaction).
#38
Apparently I Had A Secret Stalker Back When I Lived In The Dorms
#39
I'm Not A Creepy Stalker Or Anything
#40
I'm Just A Stalker!
#41
So My Stalker Found My Business
#42
This Guy’s Comment On Lady’s Post About Dealing With A Potential Stalker While Living Off Grid. He’s Definitely An Incel
#43
More Stalker Fan Mail
#44
My Stalker Posted This On Instagram
ConstantlyJon 3 years ago
all true statements. Unlikely that any of them are true about this particular person though.
#45
I’m Not A Stalker, Damn It, I’m Nice!
Shark Lady 3 years ago
I wonder how many times he has told someone he is happy being single, because he clearly isn't. Then again maybe he's trying to convince himself.
#46
Crazy Stalker Ex-Boyfriend Won't Let Go
Shark Lady 3 years ago
Yeah sure he won't message again, if he really meant it he wouldn't beg her not to block him.
#47
My Creepy Niceguy Stalker Is Back. This Time He Attacks My Child That Doesnt Exist And Is Still Salty About My Lack Of Nonexistent Feet Pics
#48
I Think This Redditor Might Be A Stalker
#49
This Guy Is Our Stalker. My So And I Have Been Getting Messages Like These Regularly For The Past Year And A Half
#50
From Stalker To 'Nice Guy' - Or How Not To Win Friends And Influence People
#52
I Have A Stalker And He Left Me This Book. I’m Creeped Out Right Now
Upstaged75 3 years ago
In this book the main character kills himself after the woman he's in love with marries someone else. I'd be very concerned if a stalker gave me that!
#53
Once A Friend Turned Sexual Harasser/Stalker Thinks He Is Still A Nice Guy And That Me Telling His Dad What He Did Was Worse Than What He Did To Me
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What do you think ?
Aiw Aiwou 3 years ago
Some of those were female stalkers, so I'd say Its a scary world out there...
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Diolla 3 years ago
What gets me most in this thread is the entitlement a lot of men seem to feel. As if a woman should ALWAYS be interested in a guy as long as he makes a move, or as long as he makes the right moves. She just needs to accept him and if she doesn't she's confused or a s**t, she shuold not make decisions like that. "Hey I WANT you so I should HAVE you" as if a woman is a car or somethng.
Rick Seiden 3 years ago
That's the incel way. They think they deserve a woman, as in, "I have a right to one to a girlfriend," way. Like it's some basic human right that they are being denied.
Load More Replies... Carney 3 years ago
Okay...don't hate me for saying this, but WTF is wrong with men?! Yes, I know, women can be stalkers. But when was the last time you heard of a woman going into a crowd and shooting men just because of their gender? When was the last time you heard of a woman attacking a guy in an alley because he "dressed sexy?" Yes, men can be victims. But while somewhere around 80-90% of stalkers are male. Around 97% of females over the age of 20 report being victims of unwanted sexual advances. That leaves just 7% of males. The question is...what is wrong with men? Why do so many men feel they have the right to demand attention from a woman? Why can't these creeps not understand the word NO? Why aren't more "good men" standing up for women?
shinymudflaps 3 years ago
"Why aren't more 'good men' standing up for women?" Because challenging the status quo and dismantling the patriarchy also means they will no longer benefit from said patriarchy.
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Aiw Aiwou 3 years ago
Some of those were female stalkers, so I'd say Its a scary world out there...
Load More Replies... Diolla 3 years ago
What gets me most in this thread is the entitlement a lot of men seem to feel. As if a woman should ALWAYS be interested in a guy as long as he makes a move, or as long as he makes the right moves. She just needs to accept him and if she doesn't she's confused or a s**t, she shuold not make decisions like that. "Hey I WANT you so I should HAVE you" as if a woman is a car or somethng.
Rick Seiden 3 years ago
That's the incel way. They think they deserve a woman, as in, "I have a right to one to a girlfriend," way. Like it's some basic human right that they are being denied.
Load More Replies... Carney 3 years ago
Okay...don't hate me for saying this, but WTF is wrong with men?! Yes, I know, women can be stalkers. But when was the last time you heard of a woman going into a crowd and shooting men just because of their gender? When was the last time you heard of a woman attacking a guy in an alley because he "dressed sexy?" Yes, men can be victims. But while somewhere around 80-90% of stalkers are male. Around 97% of females over the age of 20 report being victims of unwanted sexual advances. That leaves just 7% of males. The question is...what is wrong with men? Why do so many men feel they have the right to demand attention from a woman? Why can't these creeps not understand the word NO? Why aren't more "good men" standing up for women?
shinymudflaps 3 years ago
"Why aren't more 'good men' standing up for women?" Because challenging the status quo and dismantling the patriarchy also means they will no longer benefit from said patriarchy.
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